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I think the Red Pill used to dispel much of the nonsense out there are address the realities of dating and attraction. It did, it wasn't perfect but it was a lot more moderate and nuanced. There also used to be awareness that the generalizations were just that--All Women Are Like That (but to different degrees). Anger Phase was just Phase 1, you were always meant to get over it. Don't hate the player, hate the game--no use being mad at women for how it is. No Covert Contracts, don't be a "Nice G…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:08 PM
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Ehhhh idk, I get a lot of looks from younger women. It's definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:41 PM
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Okay but as a male you can't make a virus that targets the X chromosome. You'd have to be so stupid you'd never even understand the virology necessary in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:40 PM
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Is swiping really that strenuous? Nah let's be real they're just salty about the height thing and think it's unfair they don't get to be mean in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:28 PM
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Holy shit a socially adept answer on this sub, now I have seen it all...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:26 AM
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since women certainly wont make a move. lmao Women express IOI's all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:02 AM
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If you had been on TRP before you'd realize it's the same; the failures there always blamed women and society compulsively, and that was a big part of why they were failures in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:01 AM
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I don't like simplifying those rules because all the dopes confuse it to mean "Well I'm not attractive so I might as well give up".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:54 AM
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But the bigger factor here, as with incels, is that they choose defiance to good advice and blaming anything but them for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:52 AM
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So because you're highly functional, fuck everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:51 AM
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Do you think it’s okay to be offensive? I do in this case, because it's not reasonably offensive. It's only offensive to a highly niche group with a mental disability focusing on social skills, which also greatly improves the odds you're misinterpreting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:48 AM
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women might not want to breed with them and make more autistics. is that wrong? It doesn't even get to that point. They creep the women out way before they get a chance to find out they're autistic because they fuck up the social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:47 AM
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You are way off base. They're berating OP for blaming their social problems on women and society rather than the obvious that it's their own lack of social skills, probably from said autism. And either way their lack of dating success is not "because society teaches people to hate the autistic".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:46 AM
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As they should. People staring at you like a serial killer are creepy as fuck, I wouldn't want that in my club either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:43 AM
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Same amount as there was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:39 AM
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And everyone is forgetting what a shit test is, which is what most of the things on OP's list are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:33 AM
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I disagree, I think of anything that helped me turn the corner and start succeeding, "Think of women as just people" was by far the most helpful. Note that I'm not saying it's easy, just that it's straightforward: -This helps avoid the madonna/whore complex fallacy -You will internalize that like all people, there are shitty ones and good ones and smart ones and foolish ones, and most are just average. -You will realize that like you they do want to have sex, some won't want to with you, even fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:30 AM
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tbf the current discourse is far from even late stage RP and well into advanced incel theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:07 AM
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Women always these baseless type of assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:04 AM
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Seems like dudes who tend to be creepy trying to rope in the rest of all men so it seems like we're all on the same team being attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:59 AM
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I'd definitely accept "some of them" as there will always be toxic bitches out there. But I strongly doubt it's most of them as there's no way you could know that reliably, and so many guys are acting as if in severe paranoia here. It's like when you see a boomer coworker complain that he's scared to even talk to a female coworker these days because of the "risks". Anyone even remotely socially adept knows that's not even remotely risky, and it turns out he has zero idea of what's appropriate to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:59 AM
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Really? I don't. Can't think of any guy I know who has told me a story like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:43 AM
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Which is fine because unlike some here like to say, nobody was being lied to; people really just think that's how it works so they try to explain it that way. But to be fair we are far from real TRP content anymore, it's basically neoreactionary incel mold at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:01 AM
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Oh shit was it one of those where they said if a girl has even one drink and you have sex with her it's rape? Those things are like DARE for sex, it's more bullshit than not. Although I agree talking about consent is important, it just doesn't matter if you're going to spread disinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:53 AM
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So just out of curiosity what would an "ideal" space look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:45 AM
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Way more than you'd think. And you can almost always improve your looks through fitness, hygiene, and how you dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:09 AM
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says people who don't have or understand charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:54 AM
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Nah, bullshit. Unless you live in a very dangerous neighborhood there are places you can go. Otherwise you're just making femcel excuses. Oh no loitering? What is a drip coffee cost, $1.50? I think you can handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:23 AM
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First of all, thank you for the measured response and I agree that there are several pitfalls to alcohol. But low amounts will not appreciably harm you, and there are many social advantages to participating in drinking. The social lubricant effect may be partially placebo, but the placebo is real. And you don't have to get shitfaced just because you're not avoiding booze altogether. If you're only looking at health effects you're probably right, but there's a lot more to life than that. I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:39 PM
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sorry, "j cels"? I'd say to that though, that there are a lot of places where you can get a drink or two, even if it only looks like it might be alcoholic, without getting shitfaced. Happy Hour, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:30 PM
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And conversely good charisma makes up for a ton in the looks department.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:27 PM
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needing to be more "wholesome" spaces for meeting people. I assumed they meant churches because we're being engulfed by religious fruitcakes trying to convert everyone lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:26 PM
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They will always complain. If you started a new New Deal and nationally created tons of these spaces, they would just not go and make up something else to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:22 PM
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There are plenty of spaces for women for free but nine for men. and seven for the dwarf lords, in their halls of stone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:20 PM
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How's life on the compound these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:19 PM
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Nah dude, the patients have taken over the asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:18 PM
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We've been fucking swarmed with tradcon religious nuts or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:16 PM
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is a huge sign that you are bordering on addiction if not straight up dependent on alcohol to socialize. Forgive me if I don't listen to the zealous teetotaling misanthrope for advice on alcohol use. Very mentally healthy and socially normal. that’s a maladaptive social behavior. That's not what maladaptive means. Drinking, although potentially harmful in itself, is way more in harmony with society than being a bitter prohibitionist. YOUR behavior is maladaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:15 PM
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Pretty sure libraries and coffee shops have ramps last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:06 PM
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tbf those people will whinge no matter what you do to enable social spaces. Let's not waste our time and effort taking their bad faith argument at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:05 PM
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That's an attack against me, not my argument. ...and attacks are illegal!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:03 PM
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I might be out of the loop but is there more context to what you're talking about? Who are these teetotalers? Like from alcohol? Sex? I probably missed it, I try not to be on here all the time for my own mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:58 PM
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lmao "i know you are but what am i" you literally couldn't resist, you're telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:07 PM
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is not all sex essentially controlled by women I mean...but putting it that way is sorta weird, as if women are holding some kind of leash but meanwhile they're voluntarily having sex all the time. I guess they control it a bit because they don't have to say yes, but that's just consent, men can do that too. Women just tend to get chased more. And they're not a monolith, it's not all women simultaneously deciding with a hivemind, it would simply not be possible to coordinate a universal strike o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:44 AM
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So horrible that people think the pain and blood are the point, rather than the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:50 AM
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Well that I know, but for some women it's almost completely closed up, and even if it's somewhat stretched, even sopping wet, and even going slow it can split a little. Even if not, you still might have the anxiety of worrying about it which can suppress the mood a bit. I'd honestly do it myself if I were a woman so that it's out of the way for the first time. But it does happen, it's not a factor of just people doing it wrong, although I'm sure that would mitigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:28 AM
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And yet very common. And does not the stretching kinda sting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:14 AM
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What age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:04 AM
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Does it really sound easier to get all men to stop pursing women, than getting all women to reject all casual sex? I honestly don't even know how to answer that because neither would be even remotely plausible, nor even desirable for anyone I think. I mean there are people getting laid everywhere, do we really think only a small percentage of people are having sex? Even casual sex is still a fairly common thing, and all things equal it should be getting more common, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:44 AM
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True and I'm guessing he's not inspirational himself, only caring about getting the points for it, so he's not exactly bringing out their best either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:25 AM
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But on the other hand I've visited probably 15, but now that I have I'm a huge homebody and don't feel like traveling anymore. To your first point though, that's an interesting thought because a buddy of mine seems like he's trying for a high score but now that you mention it, each one is most likely a sad little starfish one night stand, and while I've always assumed he must be some sort of fuckgod by now if you include LTRs I've probably lapped him several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:15 AM
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Big "I'm not gay, you're the one sucking my dick" vibes. If you're participating, you're partly responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:03 AM
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Yeah you're probably right. But medium-high doubles would be doable i think. I only go for LTRs and I'm at around 14 now. Yet another reason I take this whole n-count thing with a grain of salt. You can get a ton of experience in serial LTRs but your body count will be deceptively low and falsely imply you're inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:49 AM
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It’s different, though, for example, when one woman hangs out with a group of 6 guy friends and ends up sleeping with them all, all their body counts go up one, and hers goes up six. Okay but that only kinda highlights the absurdity of this numbers system. You could swap male/female there and be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:47 AM
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Would they though, if they had the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:46 AM
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These are lifetime cumulative numbers though, including those who get divorced after marrying in vegas over the weekend, and those who get divorced after 30 years after they find their spouse with their best friend. For how many people rush into marriage because they think they're supposed to, 50% really isn't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:45 AM
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This is only on average. It doesn't guarantee anything for individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:43 AM
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Every time? I've only asked once, and only because she was so fucking good at it I had to risk asking if she had been a stripper or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:42 AM
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How do you know you don't know any though? I have no idea about most people I know's body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:42 AM
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You'd have to at least admit it was possible though. If you're sane and you had no problem with it, there has to be at least a few women who just have a similar mindset to you, although not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:41 AM
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I’ve yet to meet a sane man with 30+ bodies Can you elaborate on this one? I'm not 100% sure I'm crazy but I'd like to think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:40 AM
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idk I could easily see slipping into at least high double digits just from success. I figured things out late and I still ended up in mids, and I wasn't paying attention to the scoreboard or anything, it's just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:39 AM
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Nah man. You'd think so, but a lot of these guys never grow up emotionally, they just stay like that. Like the guy that peaked in high school. It's horrifying but that's what a lot of adults are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:37 AM
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A disgusting display of insecurity imo, like having a massive lifted truck. I actually know a guy I'm pretty sure is gay but sleeps with as many women as he can because of the accomplishment and validation. But also, dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin are a hell of a drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:36 AM
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Not all men are so depraved that they want sex without committed That's not depraved, you're projecting specific moralities there or want to cheat on their wife with beautiful young women. And that wasn't even mentioned, you included that where it wasn't originally included. You seem to have a specific idea bias with regards to sex. Either that or beautiful women. Weird associations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:35 AM
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I mean I would, but not every guy would. Just look at the endless examples here on PPD whining about how they just want a loving relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:32 AM
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casual sex is worse for women than it is for men This is going to be real hard to debate regardless because women are committed long term by reproduction and it is inherently risky to their life. Way less risky for men even before we get into the sociology of it. Furthermore, it's confounded by casual sex being worse for them anyway because a guy can just bang one and done, and longer term connections are better for the more cerebral factor for women. Lastly, we haven't even really defined what …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:31 AM
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For these purposes I think "inexperienced" will be good enough even if they aren't strictly a virgin. Like I only had sex with my first gf twice and both times wasn't very good so whoever hooked up with her after that I'm sure it was basically like starting from scratch...without having to worry about torn hymen pain even!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:24 AM
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Well sure, and there are a lot of shitty women out there too who are only shitty because of trauma. Still, nobody should have to put up with their shittiness, as women don't have to put up with shitty men just because the source is trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:22 AM
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I clearly don't think degrees and academic pursuits are pointless, as I say I have a degree, if I'd thought that was a stupid idea I wouldn't have kept chasing it to fix my shit. Good, me neither. So stop telling the guys here who don't know any better that it's okay to be complacent. It's not, it cost you a lot, you had to dig your way out of the hole like I did. Would be way easier to stay out of the hole in the first place. What is this? It sounds like some kind of "permanent record" type thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:27 AM
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You still need luck even if you've got a degree. Sweet. You need way more luck if you don't. And you still need more if you do but you barely passed. This is the black and white thinking that incels think, by the way. "Why bother trying? Dressing better and working out won't help, I'll still get shot down..." But those things buy you options. Your odds all things considered are way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:23 AM
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Luck is not a plan. We should not be advising the clueless to rely on luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:32 AM
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Okay well, I recovered socially but the grades were always permanent in transcripts. And I reject the idea you have to sacrifice one for the other...at all. Maybe I'd agree with "dont focus solely on academics" but to say they don't matter? Absurd loser speak, unless you got insanely lucky. Most guys who fail out never recover, shit advice to say it doesn't matter and I'm standing by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:21 AM
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ope well I'm sorry in advance. this is about to be very frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:22 PM
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Yes, thank you. I'm very pro-social skills but you can do that on the side. To say that academics just doesn't matter is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:09 PM
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Ok but you can't trust this crowd to see nuance, you gotta specify. You shouldn't focus solely on grades but they do matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:04 PM
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Ok but just to clarify you can't just stop caring about schoolwork and efficient study habits. I hate that i have to say that here but it's necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah I'm not disputing that part, what I'm calling cap on is the claim that its universally known that you have to be aggressive about it. Also there's a massive difference between "interacting" like you said and "aggressively hitting on" like the person I replied to said. Hopefully we dont consider those interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:13 PM
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Exactly, endless excuses. Ruined TRP too, the inmates took over the asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:37 PM
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The sweet fucking irony of that is it's basically the secret to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:34 PM
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there is an understanding Is there? I dont think I've ever heard of that, where are you getting that assumption from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:21 PM
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You sure about all that? Those are very creative scenarios to be so sure thats what would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:13 AM
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What men are constantly doing is trying to rationalize a certain lack of self control and project that outwards. I want to highlight this because it is usually the main problem and counter to both red and blue pill best practices. And yet supposedly "red pill" guys hide behind red pill dogma to justify it when it says exactly the opposite. -Take responsibility for what you can change and improve yourself to improve your chances -What you cant change, dont worry about and mind your fucking busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:21 PM
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Also get a lot fewer rape threats from the psychos out there, I'll bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:32 AM
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What what? I mean it’s not a conspiracy theory, just the normalization and individual control of camgirling, like Uber was for taxis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:09 AM
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After getting a taste of the chad/tyrone side there’s no way I could go back to just settling for busting nuts over myself at night while there’s dudes out there still managing to overcome the odds and get with these women for free. Same. After seeing what that feels like your self confidence never goes below a certain level ever again with regards to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:05 PM
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Yeah I was gonna say, that would be the dream. And it would be the most butthurt guys too, which would mostly eliminate the pestilence of thirsty guys messaging girls on online dating all the time and making them defensive. That would be a golden age for socially well-adjusted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:03 PM
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How is onlyfans destroying "traditional views on sex"? What even are traditional views on sex? Having butt sex with your apprentice boy so your girl doesn't get pregnant like in ancient greece?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:02 PM
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Yeah that's what incels say too. By the way, hookers don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:10 PM
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Know how I know you're an incel? Because incels get all this advice and disregard it as "that wouldn't work" or "nobody gives us good advice" even though it would objectively raise their odds of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:45 PM
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That's exactly my point. Many incels who post their pics are attractive enough to get laid, they aren't hideously grotesque. If they're unattractive it's because of their attitude or the things they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:52 PM
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"Aren't bad" means workable. Meaning you can have sex with a little game. Meaning there's no fucking excuse for the constant bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:49 PM
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What we want is for the ugly, low value men to sit quietly in the corner, repress their pesky sexual impulses (that's for hot people), and contribute to the grunt work in society. Honestly though if they’re not gonna take good advice the least they can do is shut the fuck up and get out of the way of those that will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:14 PM
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Tbh even if they did look like Bradley cooper they’d find a way to ruin it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:13 PM
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Nah I’ve seen some that post pics too that aren’t that bad at all. More than enough looks to work with to do basic game, but their shit personality on the other hand sleeps through their writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:11 PM
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I mean a big part of it is definitely their personality, you can watch it dry up vaginas in real time just by the way they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:09 PM
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Yeah it is because that’s the most glaring, obvious things they’re neglecting. And they keep getting told because they never listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:02 PM
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That has not been my experience. Not more than about a cup of coffee, anyway. If you’re spending a lot, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:51 PM
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Also not very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:40 PM
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No one is prevented from mutually having sex and relationships. But no one is entitled to take sex or relationships or have society force anyone to have sex with anyone. And only incels should get prostitutes? What like a disability? Fuck that. What if the prostitutes don't like their shitty attitude and refuse? What are you going to do, put a gun to their head. Finally, I think in your head you imagine a scenario where this is enough for the incel. Listen closely: it will never be enough in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:35 AM
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Well...I'll say this: Technically you're right, but if you have no "bedside manner" and are borderline autistic with your bluntness, you will piss women off. And that's not optimal. You need to be smoother than that or you can expect some unhappy customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:54 AM
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Porn has never been easier to get, more diverse, more high def, or free. Fleshlights are sold on amazon zero-questions-asked. No need to go to a porn store or sign up for endless spam from adamandeve.com. I have zero sympathy. All of human history there was a large demographic of men who never got laid their entire lives. Now that media sells sex all day there are salty guys who think it's a human right, over the right to bodily autonomy of women? I'm fairly red but this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:07 PM
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See, there you go. I wish I had huge hands but I'm cursed with normal, average ones only marginally suited to choking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:33 PM
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Lanky guys usually have big hands, and I think some women like the idea that you could wrap your hand all the way around their neck. Makes sense. Either that or the penis barbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:25 PM
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Hey, I paid a lot for that mask... ​ But seriously it's really tricky because it's high risk, you can't just spring that on someone in this day and age, there's a good chance you'd go to jail if you guessed wrong. It has to be clearly talked about in advance. Or carefully explored into, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:23 PM
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Is everyone nude? Because that’s a nudist resort, that’s different. Pretty creepy IMO. One time this married lady approached me and a friend in a bar and said she would pay us 400 [currency] to bang her. At the time I laughed in her face because I thought she was joking but she definitely wasn’t...the problem is, you just know the husband with the cuck fetish was going to be hiding in the closet filming, and before you know it you feel gimps hands on both your shoulders while you’re going at it.…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:09 PM
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Very interesting. Obviously hold the line keeping things casual with the girl, if she’s not cool with that you’ve already opened up to her so you might as well friend zone her. The bigger issue is you inadvertently touched on a major trigger point for you emotionally, you need to dig at that and figure out why you had such a strong physiological reaction to whatever you were associating with at the time. Chicks come and go, but opportunities for growth are rare. Focus on that for now.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:05 PM
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No lol they can still have jobs or maybe businesses, they just supposedly don’t build a huge social circle and play that game. But like I said, I don’t really buy into any of it so I don’t know.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:47 PM
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Sigmas are supposed to be confident lone wolves but honestly the whole model is about as useful as a horoscope or a MBTI type, don’t sweat it too much.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:37 PM
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Last I saw it was a bunch of failed TRP rejects and incels spiraling the drain, bad bad news. They collectively believed anger phase was the desired end state.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:07 AM
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At least you have a good Halloween costume as Harvey dent every year if you want.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:58 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy, false ownership complex, pedestalization/virginity complex, and oneitis. That part of your life is over, you don’t own her so it doesn’t matter, you’re putting too much value on virginity or “purity”, and oneitis speaks for itself, look it up.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:21 AM
0

You’re spot on, although I strongly doubt he even goes out to bars.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:21 PM
0

And besides, regardless of what he looks like his attitude screams incel. Plenty of incels aren’t even that bad looking, we don’t need to know what he looks like for it to be obvious.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:44 PM
1

This is like watching an alcoholic yelling on a street corner about how nobody should drink at all, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:16 PM
2

I think that most people are boring and empty, its just more obvious in the opposite sex when you're on dates with them and ask every single date what their interests are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:21 PM
2

Whoops, my bad, you're right. OC edited.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:51 PM
2

Im basically that dude who identifies as shy, insecure, can't talk to girls... Ok first of all, you no longer "identify" with this bullshit. When you identify as antisocial you will continue to be antisocial because you consider it part of who you are. These are temporary behaviors you do, not who you are. One thing I've always hated is how fucking validated girls are in society, especially at my age. You jealous of girls getting attention from men? There's no point in being upset at how things …
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:35 PM
3

Boom, gottem.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:28 PM
1

I'm not a psychologist but that sounds more like depression than BPD bipolar. You might be going through a rut, but if it's debilitating go see a pro.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:26 PM
1

I would argue that it's even riskier to spin plates than do STRs or LTRs, especially in the extreme pump-and-dump scenario; you're more likely to catch a psycho or seriously piss off an unstable chick and cause the self-fulfilling prophecy of rape accusation or knocking some chick up. There's a reason I'm not an endorsed contributor there and part of it is I kept insisting on at least some degree of aftercare. I mean, reasons other than that the sub got so bad they were quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:53 PM
1

I would say it's a MGTOW factory because nobody acknowledges nuance. There's a point where after you learn the basics you NEED to learn the exceptions to the rules, and they refuse to even admit those exist. Like "NEVER APOLOGIZE". When pressed about it, they usually lash out and say that the guys new to TRP are learning and don't understand, but they'll never understand, because it's never addressed. So guys progress to the anger phase and get stuck there with the other bitter, angry old divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:45 PM
2

aka 'Celfare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:18 PM
2

If sex were a biological need masturbation would solve it too. Incels that eventually go to prostitutes almost always say they don't feel better and many say they feel like pieces of shit afterwards, if they could even perform at all. It's entirely about validation, but that doesn't stop some from advocating for what amounts to sex slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:30 PM
1

How would you even begin to "value" someone based on a two sentence blurb in their Tinder profile? There's not enough info there, any claim that someone values you based on your tinder profile is clearly bullshit. It's just a mating dance where you shake your feathers around and pretend to be creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:26 PM
1

Bingo, it’s turning shame into resentment and projecting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:48 AM
1

Don’t bother man they’ll just say that’s somehow not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:47 AM
2

So nerds can’t bang girls? All nerds are incels by default now? Holy fucking Christ, leave it to a nerd to ruin a sweet deal when society makes it ok for nerds to do physical activity and get laid and you try to ruin it for all of them. Crabs in a bucket, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:45 AM
1

Right, so it's really a mostly moot point how attractive you think you are, it doesn't change the strategy much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:45 PM
1

Yes. Firstly because it gives the impression that you don't think she's cute, even though that's not exactly what you said. Second, because it's just not necessary to explain. The correct way to do this would be to just skip to "Hey, you look really familiar, where do I know you from?" That adequately explains why you were staring without sounding apologetic for staring. Third, saying this implies that you have the attitude that looking at a girl because she's cute is immoral or wrong, and that …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:50 PM
1

Just because they're slightly more attractive than they think doesn't mean their advice is disqualified. The same tactics, techniques, and procedures are probably just as valid. By that line of thinking there's no advice in the world that can be trusted, and that's exactly how incels think. If you wanna be one, fine, but I sure fucking don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:47 PM
2

“Thinking about sex so much makes me hungry” Done.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:11 PM
2

Either she’s pregnant or she’s not but there’s no point worrying about a future that hasn’t happened. Watch her do the pregnancy test, plan b is a massive rush of hormones so it can throw her body out of whack anyway. Don’t even stress until you have a confirmed test from a doctor. And even if she was, you’d figure that shit out. Millions of people in India get arranged marriages to strangers and it works out, and you don’t even have to do that.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:14 AM
3

I told her that I've been staring at her not because she's cute Whoops
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:11 AM
2

Well you’re not a narcissist, a narcissist would never admit they have a fragile ego. Sounds like you need some outcome independence my dude.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:28 AM
7

They're not mutually exclusive. You keep working on yourself and keep gaming in the mean time. Gaming is practice for better gaming, so gaming is also self improvement.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:02 PM
1

Men definitely suffer and are entitled to their feelings, but the fact that you look around and only see women gargling "criminals and druggies" balls means you're looking at the world through some pretty dark lenses. The world is definitely not fair and the trauma is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to heal yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:28 PM
1

Yeah, true, but I don't see a lot of guys out of anger phase trying to correct or teach the anger phase guys on why it's not useful to be so bitter. I see a lot of encouragement of the anger and that's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:25 PM
3

It's an unrealistic fantasy but it's understandable. I would also want an incredibly charismatic, attractive, social master for a mate that effortlessly pulls us both up to the top while I sit around smoking weed and playing video games. Its a childish fantasy though and fairly disappointing that women would fall for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:27 PM
8

Which is the most common diagnosis by far. "Why can't I find a hot, blond supermodel," he whined. "It's not my fault, I just have standards."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:38 PM
2

Ok I was thinking IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:38 PM
5

Ok but why would you ever talk about that with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:35 PM
10

They're not lying though, this is how they really perceive how things are. It's just bad advice from the male perspective, which makes sense because they can't understand how it works from the other side. I haven't seen any woman get angry when I was more confident and assertive...not sure what you're talking about when you say they get angry when you ignore that advice. Unless you think being a total asshole is the remedy, and I can tell you it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:16 PM
13

Ok but are you fit and attractive yourself? If not, how can you justify narrowing down your dating pool to women who are out of your league? Especially if you're going to then go complain online that it's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:57 PM
1

Cut her loose for both your sakes. This is just going to end badly.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:22 AM
3

What kind of LMR was it?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:21 AM
3

In my experience, not even worth spending the energy to analyze. The outcome doesn’t matter, she’s a plate, and you did the right thing regardless of what it was.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:20 AM
1

Virginity doesn’t change anything. You should have had a big eureka moment when you “lost” yours that you were the same exact person you were before. You’re putting too much importance into something trivial. There are some guys here with mental issues that are obsessed with it, but don’t listen to that shit. She’s fine, and you’re fine.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:19 AM
1

Irrelevant, always escalate. It will just work better the fitter you are.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:07 PM
1

First of all, always wear protection. If you do, you’ll have nothing to worry about. But these days, you can go the extra mile and make double sure if it’s really bothering you; get vaccinated for hepatitis and hpv, don’t fuck girls who also fuck bi guys or IV drug users, or girls who are IV drug users. The odds of getting HIV is very low for the man during vaginal intercourse, and for the majority of HIV positive users who take their meds it’s almost a non issue. Everything else is curable with…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:03 PM
1

I can only say that on asktrp, many of the stories the guys post about have unreliable narrators at best. You have to take everything with a lot of grains of salt, often what they say is heavily, heavily biased towards how they perceived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:48 PM
1

FWIW otters are a type of gay dude like twinks or bears. Do you...tell guys this at the gym?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:04 PM
2

They gonna sail a destroyer into Detroit? Nah didn’t think so. And if you think the military is gonna violate posse comitatus and attack civilians on home soil, you don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 09:56 PM
2

Not in this country where there are several guns per person and everyone loves taking initiative. A lot of militias are waiting for it specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 09:50 PM
1

If that were to happen they’d probably be going to the guillotine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 09:47 PM
4

Conversely why should society reward men who refuse to comply and follow the rules? Are you seriously suggesting we let incels hold society hostage? 90% of their problems are THEIR fault. Socialize like a normal fucking human being. Shower. Get a fucking haircut. Watch your weight and get some exercise once in awhile. Do these things and you will almost certainly be able to get laid. My problem with this "sexual welfare" argument is that these losers want pussy for putting in ZERO effort. Not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:09 PM
1

Third-world is not the bottom for first-world countries. Third world countries have the backstop of having infrastructure to operate at the third world level. They know how to plow fields by hand, have and use oxcarts, etc. Maybe bad examples but you get it. First world countries have no backstops to gracefully fail back to third world, everything working depends on first-world structures. If it fails, it's going all the way down to fourth-world pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:01 PM
1

seems like what women really want is for all men below an 8/10 to just off themselves so they no longer have to look at them.. Ehhhhh not sure what incel blog you’ve been getting your info from but this definitely isn’t true. I’ve been a 6, maybe a 7/10 on my best of days, on average my entire life and I’ve done pretty well. There’s definitely some shit to figure out about how it all works but it’s far from impossible. Society is indeed shit and very shallow but there’s a big push these days to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:15 PM
1

But I mean...women aside, shouldn't you follow the basic rules of society, and have your life together enough to get an income stream? That's not just how women judge potential partners, that's how everyone judges everyone. As for being family oriented, I don't even know what that means these days or why it's important to be that. We have plenty of people, and it's not like you need 10 kids to work as farmhands anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:02 PM
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I think that's the joke here tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:36 PM
1

There was a really interesting section of Freakonomics on this. Low and mid-level drug dealers actually make very little money. Neighborhood boss makes a bit, I think they said like $60k on average, and only the guys at the top really make bank. I used to know a guy who dealed (dealt?), and he made it by, but he lived in a fairly basic apartment and didn't have a ton of excess to spend on bling or anything really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:30 PM
2

Yeah I'm with you on that one, brother. But I think that society in general has a hard on for workaholism and that needs to stop. i.e. in Italy they work like 36 hours a week max, with built-in nap time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:55 PM
2

Usually, in order to get women, you have to sell out to what society wants of you. Like what? I don't remember ever having to hold doors or buy flowers or drinks or dinners. Not a significant amount anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:44 PM
7

They do have a bizarrely consistent obsession with chad...and are always making excuses why they can't date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:41 PM
3

I'd totally have sympathy, and have in the past, except they refuse to improve themselves and their chances. They'd much rather enjoy commiserating about being victims and telling those trying to help to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:35 PM
3

Here's a pencil, draw yourself a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:08 PM
9

Well, to be fair, abortion is a huge invasive medical procedure and abandoning a kid would only require you to do nothing...sooooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:50 PM
9

The...red pill sidebar? Seriously?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:51 PM
4

Don't worry about race. They're all pink on the inside.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:56 PM
4

Nahhhh. You know the right answer here, dawg. Don't look back.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:31 PM
1

The second you say "I AM ___pill", all you did was pick a team, the ideology doesn't matter to you. Always question whether what you're hearing makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:34 PM
3

Okay, but that only works if you have the chops to hang and amog the guy, which I strongly suspect this guy doesn’t. He’d just end up looking like a clown and slinking off in shame. Besides, I see no evidence from the post or otherwise that this chick was even on a date with this guy. We assume that, because he says she disrespected him, but we already know he has a respect complex and I think it’s equally likely she was just some girl he knew from class.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:38 PM
1

You are wayyyy too young to be hanging out with MGTOW losers. You barely had a chance to try out different strategies, how can you give up so easy? Dr. Jordan Peterson really saved me. Yuck. Well, if that’s the only guy you’ll listen to, I guess it’s better than nothing.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:30 PM
2

Sometime chicks just aren’t good at it, especially younger ones. Then again, could be that you don’t sexually connect with bj’s yet, I know I didn’t. It’s a weird situation if you think about it (but don’t think about it)
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:27 PM
6

Your obsession with not being disrespected is rooted in insecurity in your own worth. You should have left with the other chick because you wanted to, not for revenge.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:24 PM
1

Nothing you can do about that tbh. You fucked a girl at your coaches house, if you didn’t want to deal with potential consequences the time to stop yourself would have been before you did it.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:24 PM
1

So it doesn’t matter if she tells people as long as she doesn’t mention the part about it being at your coaches house?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:59 PM
2

Why the fuck would your coach care? Is she 12? Is it her daughter? Would your coach be jealous because he wants to bang you instead? So much of this makes no sense.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:41 PM
2

First of all, ALL plates are FWB’s, not sure where you got the idea you can “upgrade” one. Second, the real question is why did you feel shitty when you perceived she was dating something else. She’s not your girlfriend. You have three other plates, too. This reeks of some NiceGuy covert contract shit.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:38 PM
3

She doesn’t like being told what to do. I know you read in the sidebar to “take charge and lead” but I think TRP fails to qualify that that doesn’t work so well with some chicks. Guess you learned some nuance today lol
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:34 PM
1

I wanted a girlfriend really badly probably to fill some void which was a huge mistake. The beginning of self awareness. Developing this is really the secret to success. real and that ALL WOMEN ARE REALLY LIKE THAT. I mean yeah, and normally I’d congratulate you for realizing this but what do you even mean here? All women are “like” what? I’m not sure you even understand why she broke up with you so this is kind of just an empty way of comforting yourself. Keep reading the sidebar, don’t make an…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:28 PM
7

I think your dick is trying to tel you that subconsciously you really aren’t attracted to this dumpster fire.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:17 PM
1

I mean...there’s a humane way to go about this. From her point of view you’re her friend and she enjoys talking to you. So she’s not wrong, you did agree to be just friends; the problem is that thats really not what you want. So this is technically a covert contract and that’s your fault. To the extent that you’re not ok listening to her yap, pretend to get busier and hit the brakes so that you only talk as much as you can handle. You have to be gentle but firm here, but remember, this is the de…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:13 PM
8

And that’s how they lure people in. They use the mystique of secrets and power to get people to want to join up. After that, they own you.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:07 PM
2

BDSM is a huge universe my dude. You should fish around a little and try to find out more specifically what she’s talking about.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:05 AM
1

Some guys are just outliers, although I suppose it could also be testicular cancer or pituitary adenoma, but that’s unlikely. Really you should be asking your doctor this stuff.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:03 AM
1

Ah, haven’t seen a 30-something Indian FOMO troll in a minute. Short answer, it’s not that important so why worry? Read Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:00 AM
3

Getting shit tested means you are on the edge of two tiers. They are testing you because they’re not sure if you’re a higher level chump or a lower level next-tier guy. “Losers” don’t get shit tested because they’re obviously losers. Hot, charismatic guys don’t get shit tested because they’re obviously dead ringers. They’re testing you to see if you actually walk the walk (which you don’t), but that’s ok because there’s loads of advice on shit testing response in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:58 AM
5

She’s the work mom, she’ll keep the younger honeys in line. She’s actually doing you a favor and it’s good advice. Read the stickied Corporateland post about different types of women in the office, it’s a not-terrible rule of thumb.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:47 AM
2

In a lot of ways that’s very true. The ignorant angry newbies at the time learned to mimic the lingo and dogma and the ones who got really good at it became community leaders and mods. Over the last few years they’ve been downvoting or shouting down good actual advice, not knowing the difference or understanding nuance, and the new newbies have been eating it up as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:21 AM
2

That’s refreshing. There used to be a lot more honest failures and lessons learned like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:34 AM
2

Bingo. I miss the old reports, they were a lot more grounded. Most of it these days is Tucker Max fanfics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:00 AM
1

“What are some good redpill movies I can watch to drool over fictional alphas?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:53 AM
1

Because your behavior looks extremely familiar to the bipolar people I know. Manic charge into the project, neglecting reality to the point where you thought your partners were following along, followed by a depressive crash with no apparent trigger where you pretty much withdraw and isolate. I suppose other things are possible too, it’s just looks like a fairly textbook example of a manic/depressive bender.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:40 AM
1

What opportunity? How the hell is money and sex mutually exclusive?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:46 PM
1

Does it matter why? Why don’t you play the game and find out?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:41 PM
2

You won’t feel like a different person, for one. For two it isn’t dirty or shameful.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:10 PM
2

lmao, google it kid
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:02 PM
2

It means you don’t understand sex and think it’s dirty and are scared as a result. Not sure what else to tell you, friendo.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:41 PM
2

I say that because you mentioned you felt like you would be “ruined”, which is a clear mark of religious influence.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:04 PM
3

Actually the standard number for mastery is 10,000 hours of mindful practice, it’s obviously just a rule of thumb though.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:02 PM
2

Sounds like you have a purity complex. Do you come from a religious background?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:00 PM
6

Race play cuck fetish couple. $100 says the dude is in on it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:58 PM
2

Sidebar. But if I had to distill it down to one word, relax.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:54 PM
5

Welcome to project work... but it sounds like you went full bipolar on them. Do you really expect others to have the same enthusiasm and drive as you?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:51 PM
1

Any woman no, preggo and any kids or elderly yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 11:06 PM
7

I honestly felt like shit when she told me this. This reaction right here is how you know you have oneitis. The day after, I told her I don’t agree with the fact that she only wants me to be her friend without any benefits BRUH what are you doinggg? This is denial talking, this one isn’t up to you. After that you got butthurt and nexted her. It’s probably for the best because you can’t handle your shit around her, but you could have kept her as a friend and backup if you just hadn’t lashed out a…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:04 PM
15

She’s a promoter. She knows the main promoter guy and after we left she had to get her purse from his car. Oof.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:48 PM
3

Disrespected? You missed the window dude, she wasn’t dissing you. And then you got all butthurt and lashed out at her and ruined the good deal for yourself. You need to think about how you let your ego fuck you up sometimes.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:42 PM
38

Get to the point faster but don’t be too graphic.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:38 PM
2

You’re taking this “cucked” thing too personally. Over tens of thousands of years how many times you think people have cheated on each other? Once you’re dead do you think history will remember that you got cheated on? I mean shit, we used to live in tribes and everyone fucked everyone and nobody really knew whose dad was whose. That other guy will get cheated on or already has, and so will the girl. The only one you’re hurting by holding on to your anger is yourself. You are not in danger, let …
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:34 PM
1

Pretty much nothing. Remember they have to hide this from their bf, what’s happening is he’ll make conflicting plans with her and it’s just too risky to tell her bf she already has plans on a Friday night, or call to cancel if he’s around. Or sometimes they’re just rude. Either way, next.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:58 PM
16

To be fair, she has been gently trying to clue you in for awhile now, you just haven’t been picking it up. Actually it’s nothing to get mad about, you weren’t wronged here. I’d say downgrade to wingman unless you can’t handle your oneitis in which case grow up or admit defeat and check into a rehab for recovering niceguys.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:39 PM
3

Most men these days aren’t even willing or wanting their gf/wife to be SAHM for a number of reasons. Not least of all that life is really expensive, most people are underemployed, and you need that second source of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:04 PM
0

What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:03 PM
11

You ever stay at home with the kids all day? It's not chill, you're running all over the place and cooking and cleaning and engaging with them. It may not be harder than working in a coal mine but it's at least as hard as an office job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:03 PM
11

Dating or marrying crazy chicks. No, being hot is not an excuse, and not worth ruining your fucking life over.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:18 AM
8

Over time that’s really not enough sleep.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:16 AM
3

Takes a couple weeks to wear off. I had a college gf who was in a similar situation.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:55 AM
4

So take a break, nobody said you have to approach all the time. Take passive offers from women if they come to you, otherwise don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:14 AM
9

Everything these guys said, plus antidepressants can seriously seriously fuck with your sex drive.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:11 AM
0

You say you refuse to change your behavior and wonder why you can’t rebrand yourself? Wow.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:24 PM
2

There’s truth to astrology signs, you believe that shit too?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:10 PM
1

Hooooly shit, you sound really wound up. It’s not that complicated. Just make a move...any move. Talk to a girl easy and fun to get to know her and then ask her if she wants to hang out. It literally couldn’t be more straightforward. Guy who got the drink in his face probably skipped straight to asking if he could eat her ass. Your friends don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about, they sound like huge NiceGuys with Madonna/whore complexes. If they’re fucking things up for you don’t approac…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:03 PM
3

Why...are you so invested in this guy?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:08 PM
2

Which reminds me, almost everyone here should get the gardasil vaccine if you haven’t already.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:00 PM
3

Hey, I mean getting laid is great, but you shouldn’t be ashamed of doing what you really want to do, even if that’s not (gasp) getting laid every single time and seeing a great movie instead.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:52 PM
1

Which seems like a good place to point out that there is a vaccine for the worst types of HPV, and everyone under 45 years old here can and should get it.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:27 PM
1

Just wear a condom, you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:07 PM
2

Not at all, that was kind of fearmongering. As long as you don’t marry her or move in you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:06 PM
5

Perfect.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:04 PM
1

Ok bud, good luck arguing that in court LMAO “But your honor I had the moral right to do it!”
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:57 PM
1

I don’t see how him ending up in federal prison helps “own the feminists.”
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:54 PM
1

By your own definition it is literally not within your rights to go outside the law, besides being a profoundly foolish strategy.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:52 PM
1

That is literally not what rights are.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:43 PM
1

And bending over and taking it in the ass is exactly what he’ll be doing in prison after he gets arrested for child kidnapping, for following this insanely bad advice.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:36 PM
12

She's talking about herself. Act skeptical and dare her to do her worst.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:23 PM
9

You're not even supposed to talk at clubs, that's why "game" doesn't work. It's 90% being attractive or dressed well and body language...took me a lot of failures to realize that. In a club, you should barely have to talk, eye contact and limited talking should do it. But honestly if you're getting it done with day game and house parties, why worry about clubs?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:22 PM
12

Girls don’t often approach per se like guys do. They just...sort of...get your attention and make themselves available so that you can do it. I wish I knew what to look for when I was younger, missed so many open invitations.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:03 AM
1

I feel where you’re coming from man, but not every guy falls in love with plates. Only as an example, I’m multiple times over eskimo brothers with a couple friends. Of course I checked with them to make sure it was cool, but other than that it was totally fine. Some were their plates first, some were mine, and some switched back. It doesn’t have to be a territory thing if you’re not going to wife them up anyway.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:59 AM
0

Ok, but she’s not his girlfriend. I’d still ask to make sure he wouldn’t freak, but you shouldn’t expect to have exclusivity with a plate.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:36 AM
1

Ehhhhhh is it really his plate though?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:32 AM
4

That is biologically inaccurate.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:04 PM
2

Fuck mystery method, unless you want to dress and act like a fucking clown. It was retarded before, and now girls are onto it too. There’s a lot of books you could read but honestly it doesn’t matter here, what you really need is to practice banter with real people in real time. Doesn’t count if it’s in a book and you have five minutes to think of something to say. Real conversations aren’t like that. Chat up the old lady in line next you at Starbucks. Someone for whom it doesn’t matter if you c…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:01 PM
2

I think there must be a widely distributed perception that trp is anti LQBT. There are a lot of far right conservatives mixed in, but generally that isn’t true.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:56 PM
1

Free trip to jail, and the guy might even like it. Smart move is to get him to swing first.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:24 AM
1

You are right, and I know this but I just dont know what to do about it. You say get real, what do you mean? I mean un-delude yourself of the fantasy that special knowledge or experience will give you a magic edge, or make you more deserving. You are struggling against a barrier, but it is the wrong barrier. What you don’t realize is there is no spoon; there is no reason to panic. You will feel no different of a person after sex as before. It doesn’t matter if you fuck it up or not. By the point…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:40 AM
2

How come girls are getting banged by guys and here I am? If you’re really sick of not getting any guys, all you need is Grindr and you’ll be in a hurricane of dicks. Are you seriously jealous of girls? It’s a different category, man. People say "oh just wait it out, you're young and eventually..." This though, this is wrong. As your friends said, you seem outwardly like you could be banging all the time, which basically means you could. I SEE GUYS WHO LOOK LIKE PURE SHIT, WHO KNOW 1% OF WHAT I K…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:35 PM
5

Amused mastery. Remember that he’s 60 and a dishwasher, meaning he’s either got antisocial disorder, he’s retarded, or he’s got priors. My moneys on sex offfender. Warn him once and if he touches you again spray him with the dish sprayer.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:44 PM
4

Right.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:04 PM
5

High five her.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:03 PM
1

At worst I’ve always split evenly or took turns buying rounds.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:02 PM
7

How about you stop fantasizing about other dudes banging with their warrior cocks, or at least admit that you’re bi. Nobody really cares but this ultra-denial is a bad look for you.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:01 PM
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Honestly marriage is more like a business partnership than being in love long term, the goal of which is your kids and the life you built, including your properties. There are a lot of possible fixes for this before you blow up both your lives, and really if you haven’t fantasized about an ex by now...anyway, it’s not that weird. Personally, while this isn’t great per se, it’s not something to beat yourself up about.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:57 PM
3

Oh and Greek life. Got it.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:20 AM
0

Sorry, what are all these acronyms? Are they from some other community?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:03 AM
5

Once the lady is walking by she looks to the right and makes it seem as if I was just about to ask for her number. Without a doubt I’d nail her for 7days straight she’s so fire So she was right, she saw your thirstiness all the way down the hall and made the correct choice. I don’t see why that makes her full of herself.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:46 PM
1

Then dress well and get good at eye contact.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:50 PM
1

Dress better. Also, you fat?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:09 PM
1

You’re missing the point, you should never be so hung up with oneitis that never fucking one particular girl is a problem.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:07 PM
1

What you’re doing is not “giving a shit”, it’s being butthurt. It’s not massive disrespect for her, it has to be intentionally hurtful; she’s just doing what she wants to do. Let it go.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:05 PM
3

lol just imagining what your boring titles are like, not the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 04:16 PM
9

but my titles are boring, they're nothing like those porn titles from the 90s bored_mediocre_handjob.mp4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 04:08 PM
1

Not all hairstyles, certainly even you can see that. Some are bound to be better for whatever shape your head is. The fact that you've given up on all possibilities is telling.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:30 AM
2

Keep it up with this skull-shape bullshit, see how far you get.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:53 PM
2

Yea but bad attitudes are a worse look.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:55 PM
1

Well, not just, but a good haircut can really help. IMO it honestly doesn't look too bad, although I think you can do better.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:12 PM
14

You don't have to be huge and ripped...but you can't be skinny and weak. Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:01 PM
2

Wasn't replying to you, but okay.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:00 PM
6

It sounds like you know the answer is to stop making excuses and actually work out. You've already got them beat in other categories, and you don't need to work out to be the most ripped guy in the group...but you can't be several leagues weaker than them. Just work out enough to be roughly the same fitness level. This can be done with a set of weights at home in your spare time, assuming it's true that you have no time to actually go to the gym which would be obviously better.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:37 PM
1

A lot of schools have free clinics, check into it. You’re probably covered as a student.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:50 AM
1

They think capes are a good fashion choice, that’s all you need to know about them.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:19 AM
1

Yeah, I see a lot of that on here, especially with the incels. They have a really hard time understanding what human dynamics are like, or even other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:50 PM
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Ok but what kind of sperg thinks porn is real? You think back in the day people dressed up as pizza guys and showed up at girls houses with their dick through the box? No fucking way. You think they see fit dudes with big dicks get girls with relatively little effort and think they can get away with that too? These self inflicted doses of self cucking are detrimental to mental health and well being. It's not self cucking because the girl isn't yours. Incels, if you're saying incels think like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:48 AM
2

TRP has conditioned me into thinking that giving validation for nothing is bad Oh bullshit. Think for yourself. I think the easiest way to set the frame of man to woman is to give a complement. I think it might be okay for me Okay, why is it okay for you but no one else? I think being too attractive makes girls timid Are you sooo attractive you make girls timid? Didn’t think so. Anyways I just feel that when I've opened a set and nothing is coming to mind it's the most readily available thing I …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:42 PM
5

Yeah, totally. While there must be at least a couple people like this (like incels), this isn't nearly typical of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 06:54 PM
6

What feminists are saying we need to correct preferences for physical attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 06:35 PM
1

All answers/theories are wrong anyway. Then why are you even making this post? Why a CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:21 PM
2

What's wrong with it? Well first of all it's a useless lashing out of emotions that won't help and can only hurt your odds, so there's that. It also demonstrates a lack of understanding of how the whole system works so it's a symptom that there are other underlying problems with the guy's strategy, and finally, if the girl has friends then he just ruined his chances with them as well. Are there any upsides to it? Because there are fairly significant downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:50 PM
2

Nah; and here's why: So I agree these types of guys need to be more extroverted and confident, assertive maybe...but when they try to be "aggressive", they just go wayyyyyy overboard and scare the shit out of people. That's why you have all these NiceGuys calling girls ugly sluts when they get rejected, that's their idea of aggressive. They're just assholes. So while the general idea is ok, the method just doesn't work in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:33 PM
1

Guarantee you're overthinking it. If you have to think about when to pause and what order to go in, it's too late. Just flip the argument around. Remember, you're the one with money and your own place and own car and flatscreen and a lot more experience with sex, so you really have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:39 PM
1

Both. Just fun teasing.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:04 PM
1

So you just stood there and took it. Sounds like you had some money in the bank but didn't do anything to keep it. Gotta defend your rep.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:00 PM
14

You gotta flip it. Wait, how old are you? Ugh, just a baby. You sure you can stay out past your curfew?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:57 PM
1

Fair enough. So it sounds like you're thinking of hitting on other girls right in front of the one you're physically hanging out with, I would take it easy on that or you'll piss her off. But flirting in general with different girls is just spinning plates. In person, you can still get away with flirting a little without crossing the line.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:53 PM
1

None of the above?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:50 PM
1

cause they aren't and they know it. Solid reasoning, can't argue with that. Why can't I imagine it's me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:05 PM
1

No fucking way. There were a few girls along the way that expected to be paid for, but almost all of them we either split the bill or took turns paying. Furthermore, I had way more success asking a girl to buy me a drink when going out than the other way around. As for...gas, or something? A lot of them just drove over to my place most of the time. Plus, you don't count the shit that you'd be spending on yourself anyway. Doing otherwise is just looking for an excuse to hate on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:27 PM
4

What are we talking about? For sex? For dating? For marriage? Just for checking someone out? I think we all have different sets of standards for all those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:22 PM
1

Holidays are super depressing, you're not imagining it. Not least because everyone is supposed to be so damn happy about it. Don't get me wrong, I like christmas, but the "Have yourself a merry little Christmas" song playing in the mall makes me want to put a gun in my mouth. I mean not really, but that's the general feeling I get. But you're not alone, especially with the young professional generation, a lot of people like going out to chill bars and hanging out together drinking and commiserat…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:38 PM
1

It's not just cheating, human animals rationalize all sorts of shitty behavior. Just look at history. Obviously this applies to the smaller shitty things too. That's all it is.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:34 PM
2

Your situation reminds me of back when I used to drink a lot as a crutch. At least when I went out. See, I noticed that I got a lot more positive response when I had been drinking, and got laid a lot more. So I tried to do that every time. Eventually though, I took an honest look at myself and didn't see a real correlation. I did shitty when I was drunk sometimes just like when I wasn't. So I thought about what I was like when I was drinking and it worked, and remembered that confident, positive…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:30 PM
2

Also, what did she "do to you" that made you so angry?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:19 PM
2

The best revenge is a life well-lived. Also, sooner or later you need to realize that a lot of people are just mean and shitty and torturing yourself over it on top of all that is not properly taking care of yourself. "To forgive is to set a prisoner free, and then to realize that that prisoner was yourself."
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:18 PM
2

I think you'll eventually realize, same with getting drunk, that the confidence you get from it was just a side effect. You can do all this without getting hammered or doing nofap, which in my mind is pretty stupid unless you have an addiction to masturbating.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:12 PM
1

It's really not a big deal. Don't hide what you did, play it off and don't feel bad about it. Nobody will care or even really remember this a year from now, and when you get good at this you'll laugh at yourself for how seriously you took everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:15 PM
0

I kind of figured that was covered in "all the effort he put in", but there was really too much to address individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:30 PM
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I'll just do a run-down of all the incorrect behaviors. Bloops, feel free to veto if I'm off-base. In fact this girl is my crush. So you're putting this girl on a pedestal, and as soon as you do that, you're not chasing the girl as a person, but rather the idea of her that you have built up in your head. Before I could ask her out, I found out she got a bf. Shit happens. Just because a girl is nice to you doesn't mean she wants to date you. But the bigger problem is this: I was really pissed as …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:49 PM
2

Ethical, I don't think so. But you can choose to, both because it's a decent thing to do, and selfishly because eventually if it keeps going like that it's going to self destruct in a very messy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:48 PM
4

Okay, but even as a red, the alpha/beta wolf study was debunked, the original guy that studied it doesn't even believe it anymore. The 80/20 Pareto's principle isn't a hard rule of 80==0, 20==100, it's a distribution and a rule of thumb. This USED to get clarified, constantly on TRP, but seems like it went way off into the weeds at some point. I agree that we should be cool to each other, but people don't dislike incels because they're incels, they dislike incels because there are tons of insuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:11 PM
2

Well obviously don't become a feminist. I'm not anti-feminist, but it won't help you at all. I would argue though, that you don't need empathy, you need coaching. And you (as a group) need to be open to coaching, preferably not by chads but those who have struggled but have figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:02 PM
2

I just pee my pants, while maintaining aggressive eye contact with anyone nearby. Bathrooms are a femoid conspiracy to neuter the alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:53 PM
0

So everyone in the bible who they don't explicitly say had kids was celibate? lol are you fucking kidding me? Also, to answer your question, he always hung out with mary magdeline?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:20 PM
1

Where does it say he was celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:13 PM
1

TIL I'm a chad. So long, virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:49 PM
1

But not being fat does make you more attractive...okay, got it. Wait, so they think literally everyone is doomed but refuse to acknowledge it? Like, "I only have lots of sex to cope with the fact that I'll never be able to have sex"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:11 PM
1

Project much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:53 PM
1

Oh yeah what's this whole "cope" thing? I'm out of the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:50 PM
1

Okay man, you win. I've never actually offered advice to incels, and when I did they were so gracious and definitely improved themselves and left the incel community forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:49 PM
1

Doesn't matter, whatever I said you were just going to claim was invalid. I'm just saving more time this way. lol nobody asked me to get involved? On an open debate thread? I can tell why you're so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:32 PM
1

I didn't make the retarded question, retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:30 PM
2

Then how about shut the fuck up and stop annoying people with your whiny cunt gibberish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:27 PM
2

lol see? Anything I say, you will say won't work or isn't relevant. I was hoping you'd prove my point, good job sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:26 PM
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I'm not spending time going through my post history, but probably ways to practice improving socially, dress, etc. Every time they post pics of how ugly they are and someone mentions they're not actually that ugly, they don't believe it. Gymcels with perfectly fuckable bodies don't want to believe that it's gotta be their behavior. Fat incels don't care that however bad they are, their odds would improve if they weren't fat. Honestly they're just more comfortable feeling sorry for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:16 PM
1

Lots of times. Every single time got some whiny excuse why that wouldn't work for them, ad nauseum. Not even things that would objectively improve their chances, like getting in shape. Then, amazingly, critique whoever's helping them rather than trying it out, like you're doing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:02 PM
1

Bullshit. I've seen tons of ugly guys with decent bodies get laid. If you still can't get laid with a fit body I guarantee you're one of those socially retarded guys who leads off with a rape joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:17 PM
2

It's entirely self-induced. You ever tried helping incels? They don't want to be helped. They'll bite you for trying. Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:15 PM
4

That's because Hugo Boss designed their uniforms. Their whole marketing package was carefully designed to be impressive to the masses. Who wouldn't want to be a part of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:08 PM
1

The opposite. I get far better results given more time to build emotional attraction. Over even longer time periods though, attraction must be refreshed and maintained. You let yourself get fat and complacent, attraction will wane. Same if you stagnate in your life and get boring. Really it's the same way you would feel about the girl, let's not pretend this is only a "crime" that women commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:06 PM
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It was already overrun by incels and neoreactionaries. They had a few reasonable contributors left last I heard, but they had been pushing out moderates over the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:47 PM
6

TRP doesn't claim to want this, but lots of guys on here who claim to be TRP do. Maybe we should be making a more clear distinction between actual doctrine and anger phase myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 03:49 PM
2

There are like two kinds of posts on this sub, "TRP only goes for 10/10 sluts, not all women are like that" and the opposite TRP strawman for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:48 PM
1

Ok, so in addition to a tinder account, guys should get a pinterest and an etsy account to find girls like you. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:46 PM
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"Why can't I find any super hot 21 year old sluts who are also virgins and also the perfect obedient girlfriend?" Part of it is unrealistic or contradictory standards, or those guys who get halfway fit and complain all there is left is 35 year old burned out wrecks who are only after beta bucks. It's a false dichotomy, but also an indicator that guys who complain about that didn't actually work on themselves...otherwise they'd be getting laid and they'd see things are actually a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:44 PM
1

As it's supposed to be a success strategy, I'm skeptical that they have many winning strategy tips. However, that doesn't mean that their experience can't be useful; troubleshooting, what NOT to do, and ruling out unsuccessful strategies might be good places to start. I mean of course older virgin men, not 16 year olds. Odds are they'll fall backwards into having sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 07:54 PM
2

It did not sound like that's what he was doing though. Not well, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:38 PM
3

Well, I don't think she understands he wasn't asking consent for everything because he was super respectful, he was asking because he's super paranoid about being accused of rape and/or thinks this happens all the time. In my experience guys who don't even have the social intelligence to tell that the risk isn't that great are ironically terrible about understanding consent, so it's probably better (for her) that he ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:37 PM
7

She’s still just a human being, not a goddess.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:50 AM
0

The reason the SMP is lopsided is because every chick flick is a 6/10 heroine whose biggest problem, despite having to fight demons or criminals or her career, is having to decide which of three 10/10 guys she should choose as a love interest, because they're all somehow after her. I mean, good for her, what a great problem to have, but it's neither realistic nor healthy as a model for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 03:05 PM
1

"I always worry that my dick is too big. Like, I'm in the locker room at the gym and I'm scared the guys are gonna see and all laugh and yell, 'Hey, look at that guy with the huge dick! Everybody laugh at him!' Yeah, that's really my biggest fear." So at this point they should be laughing.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 06:43 PM
1

Ok, and?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:10 AM
2

Play crazy games, win crazy prizes.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:46 PM
2

Well, it depends on context, but in the example you have you should have given a small smile and said “Okay, you’re right, I wouldn’t want to make you feel guilty,” and stand up to leave. After all, you wouldn’t want to make things seem inappropriate right? In effect, calling her bluff.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 10:11 PM
2

Helps to understand why at least. So what your friend is doing is basically slut-shaming his sister for snapping you. The reason you shouldn’t like him doing that is 1. It cockblocks you and 2. As a defensive mechanism to avoid looking like she wasn’t into it (and therefore a slut) she’s claiming she wasn’t into it. First off, tell your buddy to lay off his sister because it’s causing you problems. Second, if anyone mentions it absolutely admit you were snapping her but that she seemed into it a…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:58 PM
2

Shit test. This is risky for her so she’s saying she needs assurances you won’t fall in love and become a problem by ruining her marriage.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:52 PM
3

being fit “I spend a lot of time on the business I’m starting” “Can’t wait to graduate law/medical school next year” “This is my hot friend Stacy” Etc
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:50 PM
1

Now now, nobody’s ever had sex before, let alone wrote a guide to sex and put it on the internet...how is he supposed to know?!
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:48 PM
0

Omg. Either parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:32 PM
1

I mean, you can try...of course you can. But the way you said it, you wouldn't "let her" do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 02:51 PM
2

I was just scrolling by, but now you have me curious. What do you think he can do about it? And why does it make her a whore? Am I a whore if I wanted to bang...I dunno, let's say Famke Jannsen or someone analogous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 02:10 PM
1

This is AskTRP and you can’t trust people here to know that you’re being sarcastic, let alone over text and one character. Not everyone is autistic who doesn’t get your bad communication, no need to lash out.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 11:49 AM
1

Not literally. But I do imagine I’ve known her for years when it comes to approaching, makes for zero pressure.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:40 AM
0

Yeah, no shit, reminds me of a lot of people at work. But I’m a professional, so we make it work.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:31 AM
19

AWALT, but not always to the same degree. There are high quality and low quality out there. Don’t judge the population based only on reports from here. Most guys here are damaged and trying to improve. I was banging a coworker at one point in my life (I know I know) and she had this guy that she let buy her all sorts of gifts, obviously with the intent of some kind of fucked up courtship ritual. I told her it’s creepy and she shouldn’t lead him on like that, but she didn’t understand why you sho…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:05 AM
1

Stoic does not mean unempathetic. Marcus Aurelius wrote some great material on what the difference means.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:58 PM
1

You’ll eventually find it’s not about the booze. It’s about mindless banter and flirting. You can practice by talking to the old lady in line next to you at Starbucks, it doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:40 PM
1

You run out, ask more questions. But you should be easing into kino or NLP or something while you do all that. Of course you saw her walking with a different guy, you lost her. You could have known that after 10 minutes. Did you actually want to sleep with her?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:20 PM
2

Since then, I have lost 70 pounds and developed good social skills. Fuck. Yes. Good work dude, most people never recover from that. No idea what your problem is, because you never explained what you’re saying in the first 5-10 minutes. “I don’t know what’s happening” is a poor diagnosis tool. How are you going about it? What are you saying a minute or two before they lose interest? Do their facial expressions ice over when you talk about certain things? Do you run out of things to say and stand …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:03 PM
1

I personally don’t believe in that rule. It’s just a heuristic for guys who fuck away their chances by being bad at texting. Obviously, ignoring her texts for weeks will get her to go get plowed by some other guy. Obviously. But keep it to a minimum or redirect into a personal visit.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:29 PM
1

Yeah, like how he would be fired if he actually said that.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:02 PM
1

Okay, well given the amount of whiny victims I see on here complaining how unfair the sexual marketplace is to them, I think it's more likely that the claim "the large majority of single men can't get casual sex" is more whining or perception bias, which is both contrary to my experience and which he didn't bother backing up with evidence. And I say this from a TRP point of view, so don't bother trying to argue that this is bluepill sour grapes or some narrative I'm trying to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:43 PM
9

Okay but why does that make the statistics flawed? You sure that's just something different that you don't like? And that you made up the bit about the large majority of single men who can't get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 05:19 PM
1

I really don’t read it as hate. Ridicule, criticism maybe. I just don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 05:50 AM
1

Yep. Still don’t feel victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:48 AM
12

I don't see a whole lot of hate. Some criticism, which is completely understandable. Any RP who doesn't see how the verbage could be interpreted as misogynist is completely delusional or deliberately obtuse. Luckily, most of it has a moderate interpretation, although I can't speak for the right-wing political takeover in the last year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 03:30 PM
2

I’ll give you a hint, the wife is in on it. Do not go into business with this man.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:48 AM
15

You shouldn’t be providing for any plate let alone a single mom...have you not been paying any fucking attention?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:49 PM
3

This is a classic con you idiot, you’re getting scammed...
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:43 PM
2

Also consider that the majority of prude shaming is not prudes but women who just don’t want to have sex with the guy. They’re usually and ironically called bitches and sluts for their trouble. So, while prude shaming may indeed exist, it doesn’t matter because the waters are so muddied by butthurt guys prude shaming non prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:38 PM
6

If you EVER find yourself justifying by saying “...but she’s HOT!” you’re a fucking idiot and will end up ruining your life by making bad choices with a crazy bitch. Get out of that bad habit right now. A girl being hot by itself is never a good enough reason.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:56 PM
3

Obviously. The standard answer of deleting your lawyer and facebooking up comes off as super butthurt. The correct response is the one that gets optimal results. They don’t know better because they’re at the level of reciting doctrine, not thinking for themselves.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:26 PM
3

It was kind of her actions that did that. You can explain though that she’s free to do what she wants, but you’re allowed to have your opinions of her actions too. There’s no arguing against that, so if she’s mad she’s just mad at herself for fucking up your respect for her.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:24 PM
2

Sounds like you were genuinely disgusted, that’s your valid feeling. She’s not your girlfriend so she can do what she wants, but it also sounds like she’s feeling pretty guilty about it and lashing out at you for it. If there was ever a time to lay your cards on the table and tell her how you feel about it and what you think is really happening, it’s now...it’s not beta to take charge and clear the air.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:03 PM
1

“Normies?” Fuck you, we don’t identify with being social outcasts.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:25 PM
4

I also thought I wasn’t good enough to make moves. Later, long after it was too late, I remembered that a lot of girls had been hitting on me and I passed because I thought surely that couldn’t be true. Don’t be that guy. It’s better to take a chance and be wrong.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:55 PM
5

They never want to see you again? That’s a bluff. A cruel one, too. They’ll get over it. Besides, if they never want to see you again there’s nothing keeping you at home.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:51 PM
2

Sounds like being odd is in how you act. I’m sure there’s some law of power that says this, but although you can think how you want, you should act like others. You might have an unusual sense of humor but that can’t be your bread and butter, most of the socializing you do needs to be the same type as how other people talk. Trust me, I used to be odd and thought it was cool and unique but I missed out on a lot by making it my main schtick.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:13 PM
1

Ok so it seems like this was a big detail you left out. You made it sound like garden variety social anxiety. What drugs?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:01 PM
3

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:12 PM
0

Tell her you’re just not a talkative person like she is. You like hearing from her, you’re just not chatty like she is and it probably comes off as too quiet to someone like her. Whether that’s true or not doesn’t matter. It’s true enough.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:55 PM
1

Yes. You practice when it doesn’t matter. Chat up old ladies in the line at Starbucks, it’s the same skill set.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:50 AM
1

Too few students, too much to lose, too creepy, too unnatural. Too many excuses. cold approach is a bad, bad idea in college. No it isn’t. I’ve been there. It’s fine. Wish I did it more often in hindsight, there was nothing to be scared of.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:45 AM
-1

Don’t let this fucker scare you. Lots of 38 year olds are looking for NSA lays. Besides, at 38 her fertility isn’t what it used to be so unless she gets you to jizz in a specimen cup for IVF, I doubt she’s going to get knocked up if you use protection.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:38 AM
3

Sounds like you have every right to stand up for yourself but just don’t.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:02 AM
2

Totally. That feeling like you want to retract and protect those vital organs. Tiredness that doesn’t go away with good sleep. Not wanting to change out of your bathrobe for weeks. For now, I recommend rolling with it and maximizing your rest. This is a chronic stress injury, a kind of low intensity ptsd that builds up over long time periods. But as soon as you feel slightly up for it, you need to get out of the house and make yourself remember why you used to like going out and seeing friends.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:00 AM
1

Have you considered the possibility that you just fucking stop it?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:51 AM
6

Because when you try to flirt, you are overthinking it. Your brain processing is tied up with trying to analyze and remember what your favorite pickup blog said you should do in that situation. It doesn’t work. When you accidentally do it, you are relaxed and tapping into the part of your lizard brain that was born knowing how to flirt. Why do you think that jock from school who was dumb as a brick knew how to flirt? Well, he wasn’t overthinking it anyway.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 07:02 PM
1

Let me shortcut you. Your neediness makes you tend towards appeasement of other people, that is, you want to make them happy by giving them all the information you have, as a gift. This is like those cringey dogs that whine and cuddle up even to strangers. Don’t be like that. These people have not earned your personal information. If you have to, redirect with a shorter answer and then ask them a question. “No, I just like eating once a day. I still get all the calories I need. Why do you ask, a…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:54 PM
4

If I’ve learned anything, it’s that most problems come from overthinking. If you ever have to ask yourself a technical theory question, you are overthinking it. You should never have to “check your notes.”
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:28 PM
2

You literally have no choice but to put in the work. You're going to be stuck here forever if you don't. And even if you don't score 10's when you're super ripped, it will 100% improve your situation from where you are now. So I don't see the problem, it sounds like you're just being lazy.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:21 PM
2

You don't have to avoid flirting with women just because you're improving. Don't even try to get laid, think of it as free practice bantering.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:11 PM
3

But it's not an insult. They're just not attracted to your fat body and whiny victim mentality. You can't blame them for that, I wouldn't be either. You should be mad that you let yourself down and try to do better.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:10 PM
1

Depends if he's still emotional about it. I've had friends insist I can't touch a girl they're only also friends with, and one friend who I'm multiple eskimo brothers with because we just didn't mind hooking up with the same girls and introducing each other to them.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:08 PM
4

Well first of all stop being such a fucking whiner. Even if you were a hot guy that shit would make you unattractive. Also: I'm fat short ugly and broke. Get to the fucking gym. Get better hygiene and style. Get a fucking job. Funny how you seem to be blaming the women when you apparently won't lift a finger to be worthy of anything better than making your life not-shit. Oh, and no abundance mentality either. You're still butthurt about getting friendzoned and getting rejected. Also really unatt…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:49 PM
1

Best plate I ever had banged so good it brought tears to my eyes. I definitely almost fell it love. It happens. Best thing is to admit it to yourself, there's no shame in it and it's the first step in fixing the problem.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:39 PM
1

So for me, it was learning the emotional maturity to ask myself why I was reacting the way I was reacting, and making a conscious effort to recognize the situations that, in the past, would have had me reacting improperly. I would then make the snap choice to make the right decision then. Over time, it became easier and more of a habit.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:25 PM
1

I am trying to be better than these guys, And yet, it sounds more like you’re frustrated because you try really hard to be interesting and unique and they make it look easy and don’t even try.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:56 PM
1

Too true. I have to wonder if OP has a different problem.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:13 PM
3

They can smell the neediness. Work on your abundance mentality, you should be prepared to leave or send them home if they dont want to bang. Just dont make it weird.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:11 PM
1

These people weren't married, dope.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:47 PM
3

No, they're just indicators, not guarantees. If the sky is cloudy, it might rain. But that doesn't mean you call the sky a bitch slut for leading you on if it doesn't rain, and then whine about how the sky probably rains for asshole cities that pollute the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 06:09 PM
2

Okay, fair enough. But I’m sure there’s already a shitload of material already out there on what men are like...what I meant was, what is your objective with men? Or are you just being rhetorical?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:04 PM
1

There must be generalities. Why do you care though?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:50 PM
1

Did she also teach you to never say no or stand up for yourself? No. You learned it wrong. You need to embrace reasonable conflict in defense of yourself and others. Shoot for assertive, not aggressive.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:30 PM
2

Doesn’t matter how hot and awesome she is. Soft next.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:19 PM
3

Life is...messy. Most of the time shooting from the hip with a good plan is better than waiting until you have a great plan but it’s too late. If you expect perfection, you’ll always be disappointed, especially by yourself.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:19 PM
1

Not everyone is going to like you in life...but if everyone “blackballs you to the point that no one wants to interact with you”, then you have other problems. Why no friends at the very least?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:09 AM
7

Surely partying isn’t your only factor in choosing schools. Lots of schools have good partying, but that ends after a few years and then you have the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:05 AM
8

9/10 guys here have no initiative. They’ll never improve and are doomed to be losers pretty much forever. Very few actually read and implement the material.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:26 PM
1

Are you retarded
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:25 PM
3

Honestly at some point books become just another way to avoid real social interaction. But I’d probably start with NMMNG, Models by Mark Manson, and maybe book of pook if you don’t have much experience escalating.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:02 PM
7

Nah. It’s good, but nothing you can’t figure out on your own.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:33 PM
3

Every time.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:32 PM
10

Lol you’re moving countries and literally don’t care which city except for pussy? What’s your fucking deal, man?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:28 PM
1

You literally can’t memorize them. You’ll be standing there trying to analyze which one is best and end up looking autistic. You need to practice small talk and banter.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:26 PM
3

“Good call, me neither” You do the same thing you do for every other shit test.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:59 PM
4

A huge part of school is learning how to learn. It’s seriously the most important thing. Organize how you learn, it makes everything much easier.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:57 PM
3

Well presumably the new girl is stable. She should be able to tell crazy liars if she halfway knows you at all. PS, don't bullshit us, we all know you're worried about the crazy chick sabotaging things with the new one. You've already said as much.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:20 PM
1

she broke my heart, fucking bitch. To forgive is to set a prisoner free, and then to realize that that prisoner is yourself. Let it go.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:43 PM
2

Turnabout is fair play. Also, the fuck you care what "we" think?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:39 PM
2

Okay, so first of all, if it's an open relationship she's not your LTR. If you really are "spinning other plates" you shouldn't worry about it because you have abundance mentality, right?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:38 PM
3

Remain courteous, hold your frame. All of this is inconsequential.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:38 AM
1

Like supes said, it’s pretty unlikely...but I think it might be worth examining why this is a big fear of yours? It sounds like you have some sensitivities surrounding “your” girl getting raped. Is it power? Possessive issues? Possessive insecurities? How do you feel about the whole cuck fetish idea?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:21 AM
1

Not sure I’d recommend manhattan then...$60k is jack shit in Manhattan...But maybe you can find a tiny place.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:15 PM
0

Get help or take your meds.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:05 PM
1

Fucking weebs.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:04 PM
2

You don’t love her, you just live how she made you feel. Realize in your head that the two are different.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:03 PM
3

Tell us about the job, ballpark salary, hours, all of that will affect where you can live. If the job’s at Pearson-Specter you can probably afford to (and need to) live closer, if it’s screen printing ironic shit on T-shirts you’ll probably need to be homeless in Brooklyn for awhile.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:00 PM
4

“Honesty.” “I don’t think honesty is a weakness...” “I don’t give a shit what you think!”
/r/askTRP26/03/18 12:53 AM
2

The trick is you need to actually work together with strategy. Bad wingmen outshine the wing lead or make him look bad. It’s not time to show off your accomplishments unless it’s just a bit less than your buddy. On the other hand, it’s useless to be a wingman ignore your buddy refuses to even try. I’ve seen wing leads just sit there and not talk... you can only do so much.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:51 PM
3

This is why you get fit and dress well. It changes “foreigner” to “exotic”.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:33 PM
2

Easy then: “Don’t worry about it.”
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:58 PM
2

It’s not going to improve your self esteem, which is really what you’re using it for. You’re going to know that you cheated.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:54 PM
5

What is this, brunch with your mom? Who are these people that ask shit like this?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:52 PM
8

No, because validation would be the reason you’d be doing it. I personally wouldn’t want to serve in super fucking dangerous situations like that with a guy who’s only there to prove to everyone how badass he is. That will get people killed.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:51 AM
2

I love my dad but he’s a fucking idiot. He bragged about how much he lost in his last divorce as though it’s a badge of honor. If he’s not woke by now, he’ll never be. I wouldn’t recommend trying. Not everyone can be unplugged.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:59 PM
2

Can’t find any fault with that, those are all good reasons.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:59 AM
3

Do it. If it’s really something you want, you’ll regret not trying. Is SUPPO the best route though?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:09 AM
3

Look, normally shitting where you eat is bad...but this is pizza delivery, not a career in finance. Just go for it, the downsides are limited.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:20 PM
4

It’s basic tribalism. People will believe almost anything in order to belong. Having said that, I’m glad it exists to control those who believe it. I don’t know how many religious people have asked what keeps me from raping and murdering if not religion...so I guess I’m glad they have religion.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:15 PM
5

It’s very common in business. For example, 20% of your customers will probably make you 80% of your revenue. If you deal with them personally, you should probably end relationships with the 20% that cause 80% of your problems. Pareto’s Principle can be applied to almost anything.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:23 PM
1

You’re not traumatized dickweed, you just had some negative experiences. You can’t afford to consider yourself traumatized over something like that, it kills your confidence. Being rejected, cruelly rejected, is part of the growth process. I wouldn’t say I was traumatized because I had to eat broccoli, would I?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:05 PM
3

You’re not teasing enough, I guarantee it. I’m not saying be an asshole, but a little light teasing in the context of playing around goes a long way.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:59 PM
2

Yeah dude. It reminds me of a similar situation I was in once, a chick I was seeing came over with her coworker, buddy didn’t want to fuck the coworker so she was trying to get with me, I thought I had a chance but in hindsight they weren’t super close friends and there was no way that was happening. Three ways are ultra challenging, they make regular pickup seem easy. It’s not on you.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:56 PM
2

Lol fair enough. “Dennis are we going to hurt these women...?” I think you probably just failed to build the critical mass of attraction. Not a big deal, it’s super tricky with two. They second guess each other, mutual social pressure, potential slut shaming...a lot of it depends on their relationship with each other.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:33 PM
1

Haha, okay...so first off, never ask girls if they want to come over and see your basement, that’s creepy as fuck. I guess they could also have been turned off by the pretentuousness if bragging about a wine cellar, but either way... if you’re going for two girls you need to bring someone else or be a real rockstar to keep them occupied.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 04:33 PM
6

Girls are good, but you’re doing it for the wrong reasons. You should start with self improvement. How good is good enough? Just better than you used to be. Forgive girls for being flawed, and forgive yourself too. Read and think about the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:21 AM
2

It’s like the gym. No one really cares if you’re weak, you’re clearly out there trying. They might roll their eyes if you do something really stupid, but they mostly just don’t care.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:57 AM
4

Look kid, the main thing you learn when you finally bang is you feel no different. You’re still the same guy you were before...so there’s really no point in stressing about it because nothing important is really at stake.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:16 AM
3

The secret is that literally every other guy has been in the same position. If you say something especially lame and crash hard, guys who saw it might cringe but that’s it. Super low stakes.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:06 AM
-1

It’s better, because if you’re doing it right you’re getting laid and not paying anyway, which you shouldn’t be.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 11:58 PM
5

But you’re not buying sex. She still has no obligation to fuck you.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:56 PM
1

Ok, so you just get lost in your own head. Based on your thoughts, you probably have some big hang ups about sex, definitely bring that up with the therapist. In short, you’re seeing all these flaws, but these are the same girls they were when you were talking to them earlier. They’re just normal people, who look stupid when they fuck (just like you do buddy) and you can probably forgive them and get on with it.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:32 PM
8

Develop a workout habit. Don’t be scared of talking to girls casually, they’re just people with insecurities too.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 02:22 AM
11

...by recently unplugged losers, that is. Until they get it, there’s a lot of hate being spouted. Don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 02:50 PM
8

She’s not the girl you think she is. You don’t love her, you love the idea of her. Let it go.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:04 PM
3

(so I will never get the chance to show all those girls how cool I actually was). But you weren’t that cool. You know that now. I will never be a very important person, I will never gather all that attention I need. You need to fix this about yourself anyway. You shouldn’t be a person who needs the attention. And studies have shown that past a certain point, more money doesn’t bring more happiness. I could have had real fun If i wasn't that shy and introverted, if I wasn't such a pussy. You can …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:11 AM
6

Who says betas don’t get LTRs? You’re thinking of omegas. Not that it’s a perfect model.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:42 PM
2

At least you’re not female with hair loss. People expect it from men, it looks fine. On women it’s really bad.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:39 PM
6

Don’t forget, you may have a high IQ but these women are way smarter socially and emotionally. I wouldn’t be too condescending if I were you.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:34 PM
15

There’s no official moral answer allowed here. But I can tell you, if you tend to do this, you’re eventually going to piss off the wrong girl, and this is how rape accusations and all the other bad shit you hear about happens. Best to be honest and upfront.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:19 AM
1

I'm a pretty ugly guy about a 3/10 in the face and the only reason I get any pussy is because I've been smashing the gym for 3 years now and have quite an impressive physique. Hear that, “hopelessly ugly” dudes on here who always whine that you’ll never get any? And ignore advice to lift? You should be so lucky to have the first world problems OP has.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:15 AM
1

...no? I think you need to read the sidebar or No More Mr Nice Guy to figure out what covert contracts are. You’re not entitled to get mad when you offer free weed and she takes you up on it.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 05:00 PM
3

You freely offered weed. There was no agreement that you get anything except her company. Sounds like you made a covert contract and got pissed she broke it.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:56 PM
2

How aggressive we talking here? You’re doing right by going to the gym either way.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:46 PM
10

Ive had friends do this. If you try to intervene, it won’t go well for you, he will defend her and it might cost you the friendship. Best you can do is let it play out.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:43 PM
1

Your problem is lack of outcome independence. Search the sub for it.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:47 AM
0

Girl I've been dating/fluttering with braking up etc told me last night over dinner: No she wasn’t. You misunderstood the relationship, unless it’s not like you told us.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 01:14 AM
1

She’s not your girlfriend, it’s not your job to care.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 01:10 AM
2

Nope. If we were reading the Gervais Principle we would call this a Loser move. Your family is well off as you said, you can afford to finish school first. You can always do rotc or join afterwards.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:07 AM
3

If you want to have sex with a girl but don’t because you’re worried about your average score, you’re either gay or have issues. Don’t let incels and poser alphas on here tell you otherwise.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:04 AM
4

Same reason I don’t go out and buy makeup even though I see ads for it everywhere. It’s not for me, and no amount of advertising is going to change that.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:48 PM
1

No. You shouldn’t feel the need to apologize for being away, shouldn’t make up for apologies with gifts, and shouldn’t think it will change her feelings anyway if you did.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:44 PM
3

When you start shitloads of drama where you work, this is what happens. Buy the ticket, take the ride.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 05:51 PM
6

I will qualify this by saying you still probably shouldn’t give gifts as a means of buying affection. If you’re going to give one, do it for your own happiness and without expectation of getting quid pro quo.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 05:47 PM
8

They’re putting no effort to advance the conversation. Yeah but really neither are you. “Hey what’s up” is a lame non-starter barely worth acknowledging, it’s completely meaningless fluff small talk. Kick it off with something more interesting.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:32 AM
3

Is it still a drought if you’re a virgin?
/r/askTRP25/12/17 12:39 AM
5

You were the chad, you stupid faggot. She was your fwb. Man in my day trolls had high standards for shitposting.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:58 PM
7

It sounds like you’re still at that stage where you think approaching is a separate, alien part of your life. Standing in line at starbucks, at the bookstore, whatever. You can talk to girls whenever.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:41 AM
9

That’s pretty sad. He sounds pathetic, you did the right thing by showing him back to his friends.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:20 AM
7

The truth is, booze is a placebo after a couple drinks. You only feel confident because you think you drank a magic potion. You need to engage emotionally with how you feel when you have “drunk charisma”, it’s no different than the mild relaxation after only one drink.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:18 AM
26

Yep. You held your frame and he looked like a clown, and you avoided criminal charges for being involved. Losers don’t care about staying out of trouble with the cops, they have very little to lose anyway. That said, you sure he was starting a fight? I’ve said some dumb shit when I used to get wasted, probably sounded like I was starting shit.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:07 AM
1

Ok fair enough, happy reading.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:24 AM
1

No dummy, my point was that if you’re so deep into TRP that you have to have a debate about how much is too much, you’ve had too much...
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:32 PM
1

If you have to ask, log out.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:04 PM
1

A good reply at the time is infinitely better than a perfect reply after the moment has passed. Don’t overthink it.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:01 AM
1

Did you ever consider taking her at her word? And not that it was pretext to fuck?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:08 AM
8

Nah. I don’t waste that much time pretending to be somebody I’m not or something I don’t believe in, just for mayyybe pussy. If you were already going to church anyway, maybe.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:07 AM
3

She needed a place to stay, I guarantee it.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:58 AM
1

I roll over it like a speed bump. I refuse to let it prevent me from doing things that scare me. I acknowledge to myself that I have anxiety but I will jump in and do it anyway. Sometimes that means I have to just act before I think about it too much. Afterwords, I get the dopamine rush of having done something I was afraid of. I also get the validation of the thing being not so scary as I had hyped it up to be. Finally, I reinforce the behavioral pattern of not caving into anxieties.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:41 AM
1

Don’t know; don’t read Rollo. Sounds good though.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 01:44 AM
3

So much is missing from talking online, it’s really not good practice. Furthermore it encourages you to be lazy in real life because you become satisfied with fake online relationships.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:29 PM
3

She lives in the Philippines, who cares?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:17 PM
6

Holy shit, lets see... eat better and start lifting, care about your appearance, it’s not shallow Girls are horny too but they have to play it subtle because having a reputation for being a “slut” makes their life super shitty ...so stop being afraid to take chances because the stakes are way lower than you think.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:01 PM
1

And furthermore people who quote this bullshit neglect to mention that the variance of the averages is much bigger than the difference between them. It’s a statistically disingenuous statement because of how misleading it is.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:49 PM
1

Why, you wanna make out or something?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:36 PM
4

Tricky. Do something where you need to use your ID and say you like the picture, set it up so you are comparing ID pictures and scope her age while you’re doing it?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:31 PM
1

I hope he doesn’t mean r9k. That place is a toxic losers cantina.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:28 PM
13

I’m not really sure, 18 year olds are annoying. You could try taking them to an 18+ Club night and see if they actually make it in?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:25 PM
2

When you care what people think of you, you become their prisoner...choose your wardens carefully.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:20 PM
2

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free, and then to realize that prisoner was yourself.”
/r/askTRP14/11/17 04:30 AM
2

She’s not yours, she was never yours; it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:16 PM
2

“XD”
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:04 PM
3

Yeah you’re a fucking orbiter...do you fuck her? No...if this was pillow talk after fucking her it would be one thing, but you just follow her around and listen to her emotional problems like her gay best friend? And you think she’s worth a LTR too? Because she tolerates you? Incredible. Get some self respect.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:48 AM
6

Yes. Your testosterone profile is different. I’m sure there’s also some placebo effect.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:49 PM
5

This might be an unpopular opinion but fuck those blogs, you need to be out practicing being social, not on a computer screen reading the opinion of a blogger.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:34 PM
2

Get back in the gym. Seriously, your system was used to it, and you quit cold turkey. And you’re going to need to force yourself to go, because depression saps your motivation. Just make yourself go and start again with the bare minimum.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:14 PM
2

I’ll take your word for it, I don’t read him. And I’m not really sure why you feel that way; for one, it’s just the reverse of your previous situation, and two, it’s not that they love to be abused or anything, it’s that you’re no longer disgustingly thirsty.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:07 AM
3

Always sucks to have a late start, but you’ll appreciate what you’ve earned a lot more since you know what it feels like to fail. All that stuff before, that was just a pretty illusion.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:23 PM
48

Crabs in a bucket mentality, but you're right in a way. You shouldn't want strong competition. But this doesn't matter, because: There's already more than enough competition out there that this won't make a difference, and Look around, 9/10 guys here never make it past the sidebar. They just don't have the drive. To imagine this place is creating an army of unstoppable alpha supermen is laughable.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:18 AM
1

Fishing. She's prompting you to disagree and tell her she's not a bad person.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:09 AM
2

Reminds me of this video. Might help.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:38 AM
2

I have zero expectations when first meeting a girl. They can be awesome or completely terrible. Besides, setting arbitrary ultimatums makes it hard to walk away when you should.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:23 PM
1

Seriously consider why you actually feel bad. Do you even have a real reason? As soon as you realize you don't, you'll feel better.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:14 PM
3

I mean, even bad sex is still not a bad experience. If she's that fun, it's probably worth still hanging out and trying different positions. Or maybe she's good at finishing with blowjobs, who knows? Final call is up to you, obviously.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 05:47 PM
1

He means being "totally hideous" like incels are always bitching about. In other words, a shitty personality quirk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:01 AM
1

Yeah they wrote it because they had to compensate.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 05:37 PM
1

99% of the time, the biggest problem with incels by far is a shitty victim attitude and no social skills. I'd start there.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:47 PM
3

You can't be cucked by a plate, back to the sidebar with you.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:44 PM
2

Yeah but you won't actually get excommunicated. Seriously how could you get caught? /exmormon has a lot of good material on this.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:52 PM
2

Are you Indian by chance?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:47 PM
5

Insecurity talking. It goes away with experience.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:45 PM
9

You're leaking too much lingo, or you're doing a bad job not filtering your personal views based on talking points here.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:43 PM
5

*gauche
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:40 PM
1

What do you mean? Eight year olds, dude. Eight year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 02:15 AM
1

Good attitude. Remember, it's all just a game.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:18 AM
1

It's not about pushing the brakes as hard as you can, it's about letting off the gas.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:41 PM
1

Only smile if it's genuine.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:37 PM
1

So you graduated. Presumably you're out in the real world like everyone else..? So how is that worse than being in a male dominated STEM program, or are you using that as an excuse to be a bitch?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:36 PM
4

You can't talk because you don't listen. You hear, but you don't listen. Instead of listening you're inside your own head trying to analyze and formulate responses. But conversation happens too fast to analyze in real time. You need to think less with your logical brain and start using your intuition to make comments. Pay attention to how people react and think about it later, add it to your vocabulary if it was a good turn of phrase.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:33 AM
1

You can survive anything for a year. Why worry about advancement if you're getting out anyway? Most relevant LoP here is "Think what you like, but behave like everyone else."
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:25 AM
0

Plus ik already over it. You guys dont have to assume so much lol what about this post?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:16 PM
1

So?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:12 PM
1

That'll pass, they're completely different.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:05 PM
1

Learn both. They're not hard. Salsa is more of a social dance while bachata is closer and more sexual.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:15 PM
1

The act that you're still thinking about this is telling. Chances are that some of that leaked into your interactions.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:13 PM
1

Yeah that might be your preference, but in reality as an adult it makes you a loser. You'll want to adapt to the herd.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 10:02 PM
3

But she does want to fuck him. Because he's Alec Baldwin. You think celebrities just give stacks of cash to these women to be temporary whores? That otherwise they wouldn't want to fuck them...?
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:08 PM
3

Doesn't matter as much if you're rich and famous. Not really sure what you're trying to say. Why would they spend hours in the gym when they can bang supermodels anyway?
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:57 PM
10

Which they do. Jack Nicholson can bang women you'd have no chance with in a million years, and he can do it old and fat. I'm betting they just don't give a fuck. And why should they?
/r/askTRP20/05/17 12:34 PM
2

You haven't told us anything that would give any clues...and that indicates to me you don't even know what to look for. What are your average interactions like?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:46 AM
3

nearly watered up at the end of 'The Untouchables', that moving is fucking awesome. Terminator 2, for me.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:44 AM
1

Amateur-level mind games is all it is. She sounds fun, and you've played it perfectly so far, but if she keeps being ridiculous it might be worth it to indefinitely soft next.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:32 PM
1

You're using reason to argue against the unreasonable and indoctrinated? I mean, nobody's stopping you if you want to go Don Quixote all over this sub, I just don't think it's worth it.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:59 AM
3

One of these things by itself is just a red flag. All together, it's cause to break up with her. This relationship has run its course.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:02 PM
6

Maybe they're sensing his obvious ploy to use any "friendship" as a bang strategy. He's thirsty as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:00 PM
1

I agree with you. Why shouldn't they be friends, if they can handle it like adults? What I don't agree with is your rhetorical tack.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:58 PM
1

What worked for me was just making small talk with people for whom the outcome didn't matter. Charming the lady at the DMV, old lady in line at Starbucks, being friendly with the guy cashing me out of the store, doesn't matter. Gaming girls is almost exactly the same thing, you realize. For most guys their biggest problem is not knowing what to say. This solves that problem.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:25 AM
1

Because it's an indicator of genetic unfitness or disease. You can probably at least improve on it by seeing a dermatologist though.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:24 AM
3

What worked for me was just making small talk with people for whom the outcome didn't matter. Charming the lady at the DMV, old lady in line at Starbucks, being friendly with the guy cashing me out of the store, doesn't matter. Gaming girls is almost exactly the same thing, you realize. For most guys their biggest problem is not knowing what to say. This solves that problem.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:23 AM
3

It's been a minute since I was in college but six classes a semester sounds like a fucking lot. Maybe slow it down a bit?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:20 AM
3

I think you're actually doing great. Don't let too much TRP ruin a good thing. You don't have to never talk to her. In fact you need to maintain the sexual tension you built already. If you see her at the gym at least give a little wave and a knowing friendly smile. Some guys here act like you should pretend not to know girls and never talk to them. Let me tell you from experience buddy, that doesn't work.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 02:40 AM
2

It was in side bar, and sorry pal, what I've been doing hasnt worked, which is playing the hard-to-get, admire me game, I realize there is alot of that in there, but that is ALL I have been doing So basically you've been using the sidebar as an excuse to do jack shit. Okay. Well you failed to build attraction either way and she s not interested. The worst thing you can do is continue bothering her or look like it bothers you. Just live your life. Don't turn this into oneitis.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:18 PM
1

I just read in, "love for men" that we are supposed to be the romantics, NO. Get that fairy tale bullshit out of your head right now. She's not a princess, she's a human being. And I'm pretty sure that book isn't in the sidebar reading. She told you point blank she doesn't like you. Stop making excuses to be needy and let it go. If she really did mean the exact opposite she'll let you know.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:11 PM
1

Like raking her claws down his back, but emotionally instead of physically. Some chicks are sure this gets guys hot. And some times they're right, but not with most guys, and not with your friend. One time we were out at the bar and this chick our friend was dating was mad at him because he wouldn't commit or something. So she rubbed her foot in my crotch and whispered in my ear the she wanted me to fuck her and choke her and etc. It's not that I wouldn't have, she was smoking hot, but I know sh…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:43 AM
1

People here have helped you plenty, and you aren't taking advice. Read the sidebar for once in your life as well as the top posts and start applying.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 06:27 PM
9

I'm not even gonna fight this, you're absolutely right. There are a huge subset of RP guys who fit that description perfectly. It's my hope, through mentoring and experience, that they learn to chill the fuck out and see some of the nuances. Some guys improve, most never learn. And it's not helping that extremists have taken over the joint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:55 AM
1

Sounds like you're just bad at reading the situation. Really only practice socializing will fix that. For example, you almost never explicitly sexual, but implicit.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 06:04 AM
2

Yes it does. But I mean...by definition, you should always say at least as much is as necessary...just not too much. I never liked the wording of that rule, but some people like to ramble.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:48 AM
1

You'll get there. I used to be in your position, it's all about practice and experience.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:43 PM
1

You shouldn't want to do it for validation, we try really hard to train that out of guys here. But I still think you're only saying that to rationalize not trying. Getting laid feels amazing, it's transcendent. It's an ancient and animalistic relic of biology, it's great. Money isn't great by itself, it's the options it gives you to live life as you want.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 04:28 AM
0

Headphones and sunglasses and a book are usually a pretty good indicator that a woman wants to be left alone. I'm sure there are exceptions but don't be surprised at all if she gets annoyed and rejects you. I guess you could go anywhere, but you have to know how to read people. It's not a "wasteland."
/r/askTRP22/04/17 08:50 PM
2

Maybe think about how insecure it makes you look.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 03:57 PM
1

"the best moments of my life that I never want to have again." Accurate.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:14 PM
3

Have fun, network, don't chase pussy the whole time, and don't ever get sloppy drunk.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:12 PM
1

Not sure what else to tell ya. I know it works from experience, and I've seen a lot of guys choke because they're bad at faking it. You probably look like you're obviously trying, just saying.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:50 PM
1

Ask him. You're already willing to burn a friendship for pussy, worst he can do is say no.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:47 PM
1

Lol no you don't, or you would see a definite improvement on average. Don't get me wrong, I have no doubt that's what you think you're doing.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:44 PM
13

Sure, poor frame control.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:24 AM
6

Some advice from Uncle Marcus: You are going to fucking die. And your rotting corpse and all your PhDs and awesomeness will not mean jack shit. You will be worth the same as the rotting corpse of the former HB9 high school dropout you're buried next to. So give them a break, they're still human beings. Just because you have all these supposed accomplishments and they like to have sex (how dare they!) doesn't mean you should think of them as pieces of shit. You are over your desperation phase. Yo…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:23 AM
1

Abundance mentality is. It's clear you don't know what that is or you'd know what I'm talking about, and it's clear you've skipped on reading the sidebar or you'd know what that is.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:45 PM
2

This is going to ruin your fucking life. If you don't care enough to work hard to prevent that, you don't deserve to be there.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:41 PM
3

Obviously? Have you ever done mdma, or are you just going by frat rumors?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:35 PM
1

It's pretty clear you need to get back into the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:22 PM
1

Oh yeah, that sounds like it will make you feel better. /s What's wrong with starting out with a gf?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:08 AM
1

Bottom line, if a girl like that exists it's gonna have to be a girl you can feel comfortable with, and some club slut is not going to be that girl.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:57 AM
1

Your body language, your eye contact, your tone of voice. Do you...know what abundance mentality is? It bleeds into your every reaction.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:32 AM
1

You ever been snappy and tense after you just got laid? No way, you're relaxed and confident. You walk like your dick just got stretched out. Also, in a lot of cases you probably even smell like pussy. You don't beg, and you negotiate from a position of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:09 AM
2

Keep an open mind. Being away from home, being forced to meet all new people, that's good for you. It's exciting. You'll learn a lot about yourself, for example, what kind of person you are when your parents aren't constantly messing with your head. You'll find another group of friends that have the same interests as your old ones. But more importantly, try to find some friends who aren't like your old ones. Network, meet lots of new types of people. Lots of guys are shy. Literally everyone is i…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:49 AM
11

They only think they're entitled to it if you let them get away with it. This is on you; not her.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:39 AM
12

Why you keep paying for girls shit is the real question here.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:37 AM
7

Those are rookie numbers. You gotta bump those numbers up.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:34 AM
2

Is English your first language? Anyway why didnt you just say "No..." and ask why she asked?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:31 AM
1

I don't mean to seem cold. It's just that he obviously already knows what he should do...and so often on this sub guys want to "talk it out" instead of taking action.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:51 PM
-1

You reallly can't think of anything to do with yourself? Bruh. I think you just wanted sympathy.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:28 AM
2

It might be a little unpleasant. Is it worse than ruining your fucking life? I thought not. Not being able to keep your dick in your pants when you have to is the number one way guys fuck up their lives.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:20 AM
1

19/20 guys here are hopeless losers who will never improve. The only reason I still try are the few that truly listen and try.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:16 AM
1

Doing favors doesn't mean do their menial bitch work. Next time they ask for a water, unless you're standing right by the fridge, tell them to get it themself.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:33 AM
1

This isn't the end of the world. Being on the spectrum you'll have to work at social skills and controlling your emotions. But the fact that you've already been successful as a freshman means you can't be that bad off. Keep working at it.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:03 AM
1

Just say "that's perfectly fine, I had a great time with you, good luck in the future!" which will simultaneously pass a shit test or next her no matter which one it was. This worked for me once and she eventually came back and we banged like crazy for months. I suspect that's the case here since she liked you at least enough for three dates.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:28 PM
6

Never 👏 Stick 👏 Your 👏 Dick 👏 In👏Crazy
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:16 PM
1

A former plate was like that. Unbelievably nice body, extremely skilled in bed. I wondered many times if she had been a former stripper or hooked on the side, but never found any evidence of it. It may or may not have been true, the only thing I know for sure is she either had a good teacher at some point or was a natural. She did a great job keeping her distance too, but eventually wanted to lock it down so we more or less amicably parted ways. Just don't get her pregnant and enjoy the ride whi…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:07 PM
4

Dude we're not your doctor, we have no idea what's up with your joints or which sports would be okay for you.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:55 PM
7

They definitely do, I was just trying to be positive. Point is, if swimmings the only thing he can do, he better fucking swim, not be asking why bother.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:37 PM
5

Competitive swimmers look pretty fit, don't they?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:26 PM
2

Kind of. You can move out when you're old enough and disengage. You can then enforce boundaries. If it's applicable, /raisedbynarcissists is a good sub.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:25 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/3j1mF6v.jpg
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:05 PM
2

ButtfuckAntifascists or something like that lol, good call.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:02 PM
4

The hang up is, he doesn't actually give a shit about this question. He's insecure about his ex and wants to know if there's a way to tell if she's been taking huge dicks. There isn't, so he's stuck in the perpetual hell of obsessing. I recommend disengaging.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:58 PM
1

Fuck this shit. Don't shoot for constant happiness. No one is constantly happy. Aim for contentment.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:43 AM
3

But then, they let me know they already have boyfriends. Kind of a bummer. Wow, I can just see your face visibly drooping into a frown as your frame shatters. Amused mastery is the correct behavior. I'm also thinking being a boyfriend gots to be exhausting at times. You wouldn't know? Might be a good research project for starting out. But shieeeeet, within the context of our educational institution, I may pass as an 8 or so, due to some prestige and position (social proof?) there. I've "consulte…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:42 AM
29

Aha. Here's a good one. So here's what you do: Go to the gym, do the hardest workout you've done in your life. And thennnn...do that the next day and every day after that. Once you get strong and ripped, pull your car over in a mall parking lot, or outside a whole foods, or really anywhere, pop your hood, take your shirt off and open the radiator cap, and then just kind of stand there in the steam looking at your engine as if it's broken down. Actually, you don't need the car to do this. Once yo…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:35 AM
2

Goes through phases of changing accounts. Posts for a few weeks until people catch on, then completely disappears for a few months. At this point I'm just interested out of curiosity. Like y tho? Edit: accounts already deleted because they got called out. They'll be back.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:55 PM
2

"What kind of girl?" "A slut" "People still think that way in this day and age? It's not the fifties."
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:20 AM
4

Well no, I mean, there's also the 30 year old balding Indians who just want to know how they can go to frat parties and bang 10/10 blondes.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:13 AM
4

How would you act if you were pretending to hold your frame?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:07 AM
1

Steinbeck--East of Eden, Danielewski--House of Leaves, Wallace--Infinite Jest, if you can stomach it.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:06 AM
1

I'll give you a hint: "how do I get her back" is the wrong fucking question. Back to the sidebar with you, if you've read it at all .
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:59 AM
3

This person has been trolling here for years, keeps switching accounts. It's either a bluepill social experiment, a white supremacist campaign to somehow prove black women are inferior, or the girl herself and an extreme narcissist. Those are my theories so far.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:50 AM
1

Wow. I literally just replied to a similar question from a nihilist sounding username. And you both somehow are asking what to do with your life. You seriously don't know?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:45 AM
1

You know u/possiblynihiistic this sounds like a good question for your bro Nietzsche. I'd think you would already have a handle on the question "what do I do if I could do anything?"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:42 AM
2

She felt she was above picking up shit and was called out on it No, her junkie boyfriend was, who was just trying to keep the peace. That's the point.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/17 04:09 AM
7

Uh, yes? Isn't that pussypassdenied in a nutshell?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/17 01:45 AM
2

It's mostly DGAF, which is why it works drunk but not sober. As your emotional intelligence improves, you'll realize in what ways it wasn't the booze that made you DGAF, but the placebo effect. Eventually you will be able to be your "drunk self" without being drunk. You're on the right track though, and consistently working out has been helping.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 12:39 AM
1

Why don't you focus on why you can't talk to women rather than shutting out loneliness?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 12:27 AM
1

Yeah...with a situation like that, I'd probably say something like "Hey no offense but I don't date girls boyfriends". And probably something to the effect that she wouldn't want to date a guy who would tolerate that, and if it gets to that point he can always meet you later (or not).
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:36 PM
1

Do you mean an actual cuck couple or just a married woman? The former I declined once because I didn't want a weird dude behind me filming and/or trying to direct or participate. The latter, yes, but not for long as her husband wasn't too happy and I didn't want to be a home wrecker.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:12 AM
11

It does. I was with this girl for awhile and he used to buy her all this stuff, clothes, ice skates, you name it. I was skeptical and asked her if she knew he expected a return on all this stuff, she didn't care. I didn't care either, I just didn't want her to get murdered when he snapped.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 04:34 AM
2

Victims of their own inadequacies and incompetence.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/17 02:58 AM
3

They're also victims themselves. The vast majority of men on asktrp are losers. Not that they couldn't improve (and most of them don't) but the worst of the worst end up there.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/17 06:19 PM
6

Every male sees sex as a rewards plain and simple ? No. Not all men put women on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:24 AM
17

Every male sees sex as a rewards plain and simple ...wrong. Newsflash hot shot, but women like sex too. It's a win win, it doesn't need to be a "reward".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:38 PM
6

Well "chad" sure isn't buying her things for sex. Only losers do that. And usually they wouldn't fuck a loser anyway. So who's actually doing it? Like, who does this actually work for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:37 PM
4

Well basically, if you act like the bigger man sooner or later people are going to form the impression that he's just an asshole. You're right that making it a Jewish/Palestinian thing would only make it worse. Just forget he's Jewish at all and if anyone asks, you have no idea what he has against you. Instead of this: "Hey why don't you take a step back and literally fuck your own face, Greg!" Try this: "Thanks for your input, Greg."
/r/askTRP15/03/17 11:02 PM
1

Do you know the definition of courage? It's not the lack of fear. It's being afraid but doing it anyway. You'll never be 100% sure you'll succeed, and it shouldn't matter. Approach anyway.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:51 PM
2

If you are indeed hot shit like you claim, rock the project and prove you deserve the responsibility.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:43 PM
2

Being too soft is also a problem. People need boundaries and a leader is not your friend. It's honestly for their own good. Also: Be consistent in your rewards and punishments. Be clear with your expectations of them. Take the time to learn who your subordinates are and what they value. Know when something's wrong, know their mindset when they do their best work and try to foster that. Praise in public, critique in private, unless you're making an example out of them. Keep a running log of their…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:41 PM
4

My ego used to get in the way of my learning. Thought I was too good to have the material taught to me like the professor wanted, thought I should be able to ask questions and interrupt so they would teach it they way I wanted. See, that's what office hours are for. During lectures just write down the shit, take the initiative to try to figure it out, and if you still don't get it go in to ask questions. Everything I say has to be pried out and when it does, comes out feeling forced. Also, this …
/r/becomeaman21/02/17 08:10 AM
1

If you have to ask, it's not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 09:19 PM
1

Yes, all of the above. But I am notoriously unpicky. I also think most guys exaggerate their standards to sound cool to their bros. Except real bros, who understand that sometimes you can get sexual tension with almost any girl of any attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:14 AM
1

I think we're getting warmer. What shortcomings and issues with your coworkers did you have?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:20 AM
10

No it isn't. His friends gave him a bit of shit for being a virgin at 40, and then they started helping him date. By far the the only person who really cared was him, that was the whole point of the movie, not "everyone hates a virgin"...did you even see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:21 PM
6

That's all you need to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 06:36 AM
10

...don't listen to virgins or incels for sex advice. They're not bad people, they just have no perspective. Remember though, everyone who has sex has, at one time, been a virgin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 06:02 AM
1

What ACA coverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 06:00 AM
33

Priests do it, for the most part. The only people who think society cruelly persecutes virgins are virgins. Nobody else gives a shit. Really. This is how I know you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 05:54 AM
2

Read /u/VasiliyZaitzev 's post. Since you asked, some metrics of success: Financial, either career or business Health, nutrition and fitness Hobbies and skills, play jazz piano or guitar or woodworking Social skills, at work and at social events Some degree of sophistication, ie prioritizing quality over quantity.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:21 AM
1

Boom. Good initiative for thinking it through yourself. More guys could take a lesson from you.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:14 AM
-1

Not being an autist and properly preparing her is exactly what I'm talking about. Properly prepare her -> build sexual chemistry
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:40 PM
-1

Bullshit yourself. If she's not ready prepared to get fucked hard, she's either going to push you off or cry rape later. But maybe at this point we're arguing the same thing.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:16 PM
-1

You need to build sexual chemistry before that works. If you read the book, I'm pretty sure that's specified in it. If she's not sure about you yet, suddenly turning into a rough dom will get you sent to jail for rape. Come to think of it, SGM is pretty explicit on what you should do. I frankly don't think you paid attention very closely.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:40 PM
3

Not per se, but I've been successful enough for long enough that my tolerance for bullshit is much lower. For example, I won't wait in line to go to loud nightclubs just because I'm desperate to get some strange. I don't jump through hoops to get sex because I know it isn't necessary. Once you have satisfied the urge to self-validate through sexual partners, your priorities shift towards chilling out and self improvement.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:32 PM
3

Like he said, it greatly depends on the girl.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:55 AM
4

Art of Charm, Tim Ferriss, Dan Carlin, War on the Rocks. Dan Carlin is my favorite, although his forums are a cesspool of tinfoil hat types.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:54 AM
2

I periodically clean out my friends list and we weren't talking that much.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:50 AM
1

Two free pieces of advice: Nobody can tell you what you should do with your life. Their experience is not your experience, and they can never possibly know what to say without knowing you like you know yourself. It's just not a fair question. From somebody who used to excel without trying... Nobody, and I mean nobody, excels without trying. Not at anything that matters, anyway. Once you get to the big leagues that will make more sense.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 12:21 PM
3

Same guy from Georgia, I guarantee it. The one thing they love is posting the exact same question over and over, and then making new accounts when people get sick of it.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 06:21 AM
3

That's exactly why TRP is better than PUA recipes. Abundance mentality and outcome independence not scripted lines.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:51 AM
2

What possible repercussions to your reputation are you afraid of?
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:23 AM
1

If they give you trouble after that, here's something more aggressive: I've dated girls like that and I think it's funny that they won't hesitate to have casual relationships without telling their friends, but suddenly their friend does and then it's not okay? I mean, what makes them so awesome that they get to control your life? And then offer to play along if she wants to stop telling her friends that she's seeing you, you wouldn't blame her. How judgmental.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:46 PM
1

Say don't even worry about it, I know how friends are, they get defensive and they don't know me like you know me.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:39 PM
1

Ha! Don't worry, he'll learn.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 06:02 AM
2

Every cringe is a lesson.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 06:01 AM
2

Yep, that's why they call it spinning plates. I got up to five once; at first it was an ego trip, then it was fucking tiring. Everybody has their limit of what they're willing to put up with, looks like you found yours. Now you know when to dial it back. And hey, you can say you were banging three girls at the same time. Not many guys can say that, good job.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:57 AM
1

Especially since it mostly hurts random customers and not the company.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:17 AM
2

Two things are happening. One, her friends are shit testing you. Two, her friends are slut shaming her.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:03 AM
3

I guarantee it's just a pinched nerve. You cycle at all? That'll do it too.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:01 AM
1

Maybe, but everything about him sounds shady as fuck. It might not be worth any future "connections" that he may (or may not, after five years) set you up with.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:06 AM
1

Well this is starting to sound gay. How do you know he'll be rich in 4-5 years? Did he tell you so? Also, aren't you 16? Kind of a weird age to be living with some dude.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:20 AM
1

Depends. What kind of situation are we talking about here?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:23 AM
6

An old college trick: take some icy-hot and rub it all over your balls. Trust me, you won't think of anything else for quite awhile.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:09 AM
1

They only get away with what you let them. You could play the same games if you wanted. They're not masters of 7-D chess texting.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:06 AM
3

So you're one of those postgrad guys with the fear of missing out, who comes on here to keep asking where the party is. I would suggest you get over your obsession with college girls. But yes, NYC and D.C. are good.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 05:40 AM
1

Almost nothing. Paying for a nice dinner date is fucking weird these days. Buying drinks is suspicious too unless she gets the next round. If you're spending anywhere close to a lot of money, you have a beta mindset towards dating.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:15 AM
1

Being automatically stronger as a baseline, having a penis, not bleeding out of it once a month and feeling like shit, not having to give birth, is that enough?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:14 AM
2

Every woman I have dated has liked sex differently. Sure, a lot of them liked being dominated, but don't plan on bringing the same recipe to every cook off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:26 AM
6

Then my answer is the same.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:53 AM
14

Who gives a shit? Why are you whining about it here instead of moving on to the next girl?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:29 AM
1

Because this is his main one and shitposts on several other alts. Edit: aaaand another account deleted. See you next time.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:09 AM
3

Our lifestyle? No, your lifestyle. I can do well in any city, ask yourself why you're thinking of derailing your life just for pussy.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:51 AM
5

Because you're fucking 16 and you're drunk on emotions. Seriously, let it go.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:45 AM
2

Wasn't books at all, it was real practice. Books will only give you the basic idea, in real life you have to think on your feet and use intuition. Books can't teach you that.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:36 AM
2

This is what growth feels like. You're starting to be aware of why you have the emotions you do. The good news is, this means you'll get over this soon. You're like, one epiphany away.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:06 AM
12

Are you kidding me? You know how many men's lives here free abortions have saved? Doesn't matter if you're conservative, you should be enthusiastically be marching in favor of that shit. Ok maybe not marching, but at least realize what the good parts are.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:14 AM
2

I want to share something a roommate shared with me a long time ago that would have saved a lot of time if I had actually listened: It's okay to be hungry. It sucks at first and then it fades. You need to learn to be okay with being hungry. People have been hungry for most of their lives for most of history. Maybe try fasting, it will give you some perspective.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:10 AM
2

As a consequence I will often blurt out things that I know will make them uncomfortable, or even offend them. I think subconsciously I am doing this so they will feel awkward too and I won't be "alone" in the feeling. No, you do it to sabotage yourself because you consider yourself a piece of shit. The blaming and slut hating is just projecting. You haven't internalized the material because if you did, you'd realize that all women are a little slutty, all sluts are still human beings, and to be …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:46 AM
0

An escort would just prove to yourself that you're a piece of shit who can't lose his virginity on his own. No matter how many bitches you bang after that, you'll always wonder if it's true.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:42 AM
1

It's a start, but if you don't build attraction you're just a clown.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:40 AM
7

Get a job as a bartender. Can't show up to a major city with no skills or education and expect to get a great job. Why did you even move there without a plan? I hope not just for the women.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:39 AM
1

I don't care if he likes to choke himself with their hijabs, he still has to learn to get his foot in the door first.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:10 AM
2

You have to get them alone. You can't show off that you're banging them, always give them an innocent reason to be hanging out with you. Remember, their culture ruins their life if they get caught, kills them in some places, so this is important.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 09:01 PM
3

Just eat at a reasonable calorie deficit, say -200/day. Add HIIT to the mix, that will help.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:59 PM
1

Advertising your own pathetic need for validation isn't incentive enough?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:36 AM
2

Nope. You say you're going to do something, you do it. Guard your reputation with your life.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:08 AM
1

Like he said, you're not there to love it. You're there to finish it and improve your life. OP, If you can't understand that then you won't bother with the gym and you won't get any good jobs because that's what it is.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 04:14 AM
1

By being scared of something but doing it fucking anyway. What did you think "man up" means?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:53 AM
1

She snapchats me and I largely ignore her and do my own thing. I'm excited and come back home. So far so good. She even goes in for a kiss and I awkwardly rebuff it then kiss her and apologize. Ugh, why? You should have escalated on the last date, and set up excitement for the lay, if not a time and place too. We hang out at midnight, smoke, which makes me anxious, paranoid and insecure. We don't talk much and it was kind of awkward. Not only not escalating but actively making it worse, despite …
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:41 PM
2

Plus, judging from a lot of comments here, it's the only thing keeping some people from rape and murder sprees. If it works and they leave the rest of us alone, I say let them have it.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:27 PM
3

You better learn to game without it if you're joining the military. That should be enough reason right there.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:19 PM
2

First off, it's their choice whether they can handle no commitment. If they can't, you drop them, end of story. At some point they will inevitably try to define the relationship. That is the time to let them know you're not looking for anything serious.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:51 PM
2

Post-coital dysphoria.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:23 PM
1

No one read it because it got removed, because you posted it with a brand new account.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:16 PM
1

You never internalized the material. Get back into it.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:42 PM
1

Here's a line that works for talks like that: "Hey, I might not be looking for anything serious, but it doesn't mean I don't like you." No commitment, technically true, and defuses her comfort test.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:40 PM
3

If you have to ask, you have not read the sidebar. Yes, it was a shit test, and instead of a judo throw, you dropped a nuclear bomb. That's why she's upset.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:34 PM
1

It's very basic, same rules apply. This is the most common shit test you see from plates so you should get plenty of practice.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:19 PM
2

It's just a pretty boy culture. Not sure how these things develop historically, maybe the tradition of plastic surgery and the proximity of Hollywood.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:18 PM
2

LA culture is one of those places where a guy could get away with that, just curious.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:29 AM
1

Search this sub for "bald" and "Indian" and you'll get plenty of hits for this exact scenario.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:50 AM
3

Do you happen to live in LA?
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:45 AM
8

You posted this literally yesterday.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:53 PM
3

As the saying goes, it's not awkward if you don't make it awkward.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:23 PM
3

Agreed, lets create a learning opportunity and break it down. So the basic problem is lack of emotional perception. The guy can't tell when he's overstepping his boundaries. Escalating is fine and all, but it's useless without knowing when to escalate, how much to escalate, and most importantly when not to escalate. Second major problem, NEVER argue with a girl once she's shut you down. The only thing you can do is make her even more defensive. Disengage and go think about why you didn't have ab…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:52 PM
2

Soft next. Even though you haven't talked about commitment, she's already at the point where she needs it. Time to cool things off.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:46 PM
2

It's a good feeling to succeed where you previously failed, but don't get high on the feeling. There's always more work to do.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:42 PM
5

Fell for her bait. Now you're just another pervert creeping on her snapchat. Doesn't sound too serious though. Escalate per the usual procedures.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 10:04 PM
5

Commanding doesn't guarantee compliance. If they still don't want to go out with you, they'll just agree to the date and flake later. Being commanding isn't so simple as telling girls what to do and they do it. That doesn't get covered enough here, but you should probably know that from your leadership experience. You also have to generate interest.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 09:47 PM
2

Abundance mentality, don't even worry about it.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 08:53 PM
3

Shit, I hope not.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 08:36 PM
2

You should be doing it anyway. Don't do it for validation, get off your ass and do it because you're supposed to be.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:49 AM
0

Get a date. They'll stop forever.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:17 PM
1

The fact that you even think this is possible with a FWB or plate means you need to read the fucking sidebar more. These two can't cheat on you, they made no commitments. I was going to address the LTR scenario, but it's not even worth thinking about before you understand why she's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:16 PM
1

It's possible, but only if the guy doesn't know how to deal with the very simple "you're only using me for sex" shit test. Otherwise, billy beta gets crushed. Hard. I've seen it many times.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:13 PM
1

If you think of yourself as damaged you'll never recover. Stop thinking of it as a "scar". PTSD from combat is a scar, having your dick laughed at is not. Would be better for your confidence to laugh along, than play the victim like this.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:00 PM
8

You almost got pussy brainwashed. See what you did? You had the right answer all figured out. You knew she was just doing it for attention and for a beta arm candy. But then you thought, Thing is, this girl is easily a 8/10, and I really want to fuck her "But she's HOT, bro!" I have some friends that are total morons and will ignore any red flag for a hot piece of ass. Recognize when you're thinking this way, it wasn't serious this time but it could safe your LIFE if you avoid thinking this way …
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:57 PM
3

To what end? "Reveal" like how? A tearful confession of your past shame? How do you think that'll end? Just don't bring it up.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:53 PM
3

HIIT.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:19 AM
1

Mark Manson's "Models" is good material for approaching without being a creep, I suggest you start there. There are pdfs of it around if you look.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 05:48 AM
2

Just remember, "not my circus, not my monkeys". A lot of guys just aren't cut out for it. I only do it for the 10% who have the drive and initiative, and those men will have no problem being successful with a little coaching.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 05:25 AM
1

Ignore. Really weak shit test that only works on the most pathetic guys.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 05:44 PM
7

It's honestly for the best, like breaking up with your bf/gf before you leave for college. She knew she wasn't going to be able to deal with being a LDR after you joined the military, so she started to withdraw emotionally to prepare for the break up. It's pretty common before deployments as well. Don't worry though, it's a new chapter in your life and it's probably better that you aren't tied down.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 09:05 PM
1

You know for a supposedly super conservative guy you're awfully concerned about fucking hot sluts. Why don't you look for a nice religious girl to wife up? Also, women have been chasing the best men for thousands of years, regardless of feminism. It's bad form to play poker and blame the hand you were dealt, just play it the best way you can.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 02:50 PM
1

You're absolutely right, some guys next only because they're scared or don't know what to do. As you get more experience it is easier to tell whether you really need to next or if it's just as simple as defeating a shit test.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 02:44 PM
1

This. People don't realize how long it really takes for real improvement, or how much work. The plus side OP, is that you'll be very proud of how far you've come and appreciate it more in others.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 02:38 PM
7

In my mind, substances are a crutch. You can do kipping pull ups too, but it won't help you get any stronger. Don't get me wrong, I still drink caffeine and booze sometimes, but try not to weave in any substances as part of your routine. In the big picture you're not doing yourself any favors.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:21 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/2ukXxS5.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:37 PM
1

I have never needed to pay for a single drink or date. I have before rarely, but there's been zero correlation between paying and getting laid, and it was always the exception. If you're paying for dates...why? In this day and age I bet women even think it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:34 PM
1

Now technically, divorce law itself is supposed to reach a fair agreement for both parties. They shouldn't be making rulings that absolutely crush either party. If that's not the case, the problem is with judges screwing people, and for that I don't have a good solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:22 PM
1

For me, I sucked it up and watched some with girls. It's not completely miserable because it gives good insight into the ideas women are getting in their heads. Except Love Actually, I liked that one, no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 01:32 AM
1

Frankly, have a drink. You don't need to avoid all drinking in order to stay sober. You also don't need to act sober if you're sober. If they still tease you after all that, just say you're trying not to get hammered.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:24 PM
2

trying ever to make him feel inferior to me (maybe to much) from some days he started to be (indirectly) mean to me. Like making me notice I don't know some things. Etc. Yeah. Weird. No idea why someone would act like this to a new guy trying to make them feel inferior to him.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:21 PM
1

Two reasons. First, it's no fun being on a different wavelength than your company, it ruins the buzz because it's harder to let yourself be uninhibited if the other person isn't. Second, it makes them feel more defensive. Girls are taught that it's a bad idea to be way more drunk than their date, and I have to say I agree it's a bad idea.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:08 PM
1

It's all part of the process. Dunning-Kruger gives way to Impostor Syndrome gives way to real skill, someday.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:05 PM
2

I have a friend like this. It really pissed me off that he only wanted girls if he could have the satisfaction of taking them from me as well. Realized he's not a very good friend, but also I'm responsible for my own emotions and I could choose not to let it bother me. It's his insecurity, not mine. I also started fucking with him back, mentioning I was interested in a new girl who I knew but didn't care about. Took the bait like a champ.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 10:39 PM
2

will I get judged by people in the gym, who see me, a scrawny white kid, lifting probably only 1% of what they can do? No. Everyone starts somewhere. None of the jacked guys in the gym were jacked before they started lifting a long time ago. They were skinny or fat or skinnyfat. Anyone who makes fun of you is an asshole, and they're not common. Besides, what are you going to say to a skinny guy? Go to the gym? You're already there.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:59 PM
2

and asked her how she's finding pof. "Great, how's the weather?" Boring. I feel you're not telling me everything with such a vague answer as that. Why? Why do you feel the need to ask this? You're really pinning her down over a small talk question? By this point she's uncomfortable. Have you met up with anyone on here then? How'd it go? You keep digging. Plus this question is like asking about someone's sex life right off the bat. None of your fucking business, she's thinking. You're hard to tal…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:54 PM
1

You're not entitled to be the center of attention, you have to earn it. Doesn't matter that he's physically weak, do you stand around flexing for attention? Exactly. That's an odd attitude to have.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:48 PM
1

You failed to build attraction, thus coming off as needy when you tried for all those kisses.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:46 PM
1

Wow, I guess OP was dead set on an easy facebook plan to success.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:44 PM
2

Oh, okay. So surprisingly this is a healthy thing. It's good to break codependence.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:25 PM
26

lol they used to have herpes medicine ads on tv where it showed the actors mountain climbing or kayaking and saying stuff like "I can finally go outside again!" It gave you a weird idea of what herpes must be like.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:34 AM
1

It has to be appropriate for the social setting. Beach, boating, etc. Anything else is douchbaggery. And trust me bro, if you do have a really nice body, people will notice even if you're wearing a shirt.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:14 AM
1

Well, because you're a greedy little fuck and wanted them both, you lost them both. They're best friends, not sure how you expected that one to turn out.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:05 AM
3

Do whatever you want but realize actions have consequences. Think about that next time before you jack off.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:01 AM
2

Are you on some kind of program to get rejected? Because it sounds like you're deliberately sabotaging yourself. Just asking.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:00 AM
25

Always wear protection, take your medication, and some day you too may go white water rafting or mountain climb again. Hey, at least it's not HIV.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 06:55 AM
1

You're right, come to think of it I've never actually seen a girl outside of a bar or a campus. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 05:24 AM
5

You don't love them, you love how they make you feel in your imagination. You're still chasing the love you feel you didn't get as a child. Having a crush is normal, but it's just an emotional illusion.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 05:07 AM
1

I'm not going to address fixing this, I'll leave it to someone else. What I will address is not letting it happen again, and that means only watching movies you've seen before or are reasonably sure won't affect you. In my opinion there's no shame in this, it's not about being macho as you truly have seen some horrors. Funny story to lighten the mood: chick invited me over to watch a Redbox and Chill, the movie I picked was supposed to be good and had a couple actors I liked, so I thought I was …
/r/askTRP19/11/16 05:02 AM
1

The frustration? Yes. It helped motivate me to figure it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 08:25 PM
1

I went through a NiceGuy phase when I was younger. It wasn't that I had nothing to offer, I had several positive qualities. The problem was that I thought because I was nice, I was top-tier and therefore should have been a priority catch. Obviously this isn't how it works, it led to some confusing interactions which were frustrating. Not that some NiceGuys aren't total pieces of shit, but I wasn't. Not totally anyway. I don't think most are, they're just confused. And I eventually sorted myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 07:34 PM
1

You didn't even realize there wasn't a dude in the pic you posted. Lack of basic self awareness, which is usually a deal breaker with girls.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:18 AM
2

Everyone's a puppet in some way or another. Maybe this way he'd be able to see the sunset in Dubai from the roof of a skyscraper?
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:02 AM
1

does it matter? You asked if you could fuck the chick, I assume you want to know. Based on not being able to keep your story straight, I doubt it.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:54 AM
2

I'm actually a virgin (hahaha) Don't get it, why is that funny?
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:50 AM
1

i look like the guy in the picture. i have similar clothes. There is no guy in that picture.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:49 AM
1

TBH would it change anything if I told you your odds? You're going to do what you do regardless. No offense, but I fucking hate "what are my chances" question. You shouldn't be the type of person that cares what your chances are.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:47 AM
1

Jesus Christ. Don't short the dollar, buy the dollar. It's already fallen ffs.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:27 AM
69

Because you don't fuck who you feel bad for. You fuck who you're attracted to, no matter what you whine about in public. That should be known by now if you've been paying attention here.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:14 AM
3

Now you are a fucking man, and it is time to be your own coach. ^ Stop asking questions that are clearly in the sidebar. Stop posting pity parties about how you went back to your ex, with no lessons learned. This isn't a support group to facilitate your feelings, it's about taking the initiative and improving. In other words, shut the fuck up and get that message to Garcia.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:44 PM
1

That's why they call it spinning plates. It gets extremely difficult to manage them all as you get more. What a problem to have though right? It's your time, use it how you think best.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:56 AM
4

This is just male hamstering trying to justify doing something you know you shouldn't do.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:53 AM
1

Whatever you do, just don't lose frame.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:51 AM
3

I suppose the most relevant thing is, there is no such thing as a goddess. That's 100%, and it's one of the basic core values here. Internalizing this will help you a lot.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:49 AM
2

They consider themselves pieces of shit and lose respect for a woman who would sleep with a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 06:09 AM
1

Yeah, really. They think different than we do. For example, maybe she saw you on tinder the other day or something, daydreamed about how you almost hooked up, remembered you pissed her off, and then carried that feeling into the meeting. Or maybe she met another guy and is trying to convince herself you weren't that great. Or who knows what else.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:14 AM
1

Agreed. It's good to see someone getting it.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:02 PM
1

She's probably pissed you rejected her. It's usually that simple.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:59 PM
1

What's so bad about being rejected? Do you really have anything truly important at stake?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:47 PM
1

Aha, see right there you're assuming you're about to have sex at all. That does nothing to address ASD, because it's only a statement about what you want, not what they want. Of course you want casual sex, they already know that part. The implied question is whether you're going to make them regret doing it, since socially it's not in their best interest. Therefore, your response needs to do something to address that concern.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:41 PM
1

What exactly are you saying when you're honest? I suspect a lot is in your delivery.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:19 PM
1

They're not. Well I mean, they are, if you're fucking up your approaches. That's what we're seeing a lot of, here.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:17 PM
2

I get flaked on every now and then, but nowhere near the amount you'd think from reading TRP. Most of the guys that always get flaked on have problems with basic game.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:25 AM
2

Let you buy them drinks? As if they owe you for a gift you freely gave them? That's a covert contract, buddy. Read No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:05 AM
1

Yeah, ok. So that sounds like the right thing to do then. Girls who are that clingy are usually a hard next situation.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:05 PM
1

Why are you being "firm"? Did she display behavior that needed to be checked? Did you even have a reason for harshing her? Sounds like she was eating out of the palm of your hand and you overreacted.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:26 PM
2

Find other "games". By games, I mean life projects. Lifting is a game in a lot of ways. So is starting a business. In fact it can be way more exciting because it has real life risks and rewards.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:14 AM
1

I almost said day game, but then I realized night game is almost as easy. Just remember loud clubs don't work so well because you can't hear shit. Other than that it's all In your head. I still slightly prefer day game because you have the plausible deniability of going about your business.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:59 AM
1

It depends. In some cases these sayings are a green light.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:53 AM
1

History tells you the opposite. It tells you people will be stupid, desperate, and cruel. Civility is a relatively recent development in human history. Even in nature, trickery, murder and rape are the norm. Just try to realize how good you have it these days. If the AWALT concept is the worst thing you get, you are lucky. And AWALT doesn't mean all women will cheat or manipulate you. It means all women have the capacity, like all humans do.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:51 AM
2

Btw I still haven't lost my v card. Yeah, no shit. Look kid, if you have to ask...enjoy seminary school.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:03 AM
5

Models, in my experience. But it really does depend on what style you intend to use.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:01 AM
2

This is going to sound extreme but you need to break up with this chick for your own good. It's not her fault, it's so that you don't implode. Trust me, it's a lot easier to get kicked out of school than it is to get back in. It's gonna be a longgggg road to recovery, best to prevent it.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:37 PM
1

Seriously, seriously, high-intensity exercise. Lift or run until your heart explodes. It seriously balances your mood for at least a few days.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:06 PM
2

Yeah I think EQ training should be mandatory if you're on the spectrum. Huge quality of life improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 12:46 AM
4

if I'm physically a 6.5/10, how much does the Aspergers lower me? None, unless you say something stupid. You realize the pedophile thing was arbitrary, right? Like you don't need to justify that you're not a pedophile. Being a creep however, maybe. Being a creep is a function of social mistakes. You can improve; read The Charisma Myth and Emotional Intelligence 2.0 and apply the lessons and that should help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 11:58 PM
3

The social construct is to only attempt relationships with those in the ballpark of your own SMV. Nobody blinks an eye when an omega has a low SMV girlfriend. But when they hit on a chick that even a very handsome guy would think twice about, it becomes an actual social faux pas. Then, not only have they apparently never noticed this their whole life, they get angry with whoever tries to point this out, however gently, and makes it hard for people to want to help them at all. Then again, this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 11:13 PM
2

She's the one that set the boundaries. She just broke up with you, and then told you it's up to you to accept not having sex or anything else that defines a relationship or else do the breaking up. So, unless you have unhealthy boundaries, she already made your decision. Bye bye.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 10:49 PM
-1

Where do you Indians keep hearing this bullshit? Is it asianmasculinity?
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:16 PM
1

Thats not exactly what AWALT means, but I hear what you're saying. By porn star I don't mean crazy fucking I mean the technical positions they invent as an expedient to filming. For example, during doggy style you may have noticed the guy standing basically sideways. This is where it helps to have an absurdly giant dick because it's the only way the shot would work. Also some of the plots. If you didn't know how sex or approaching worked it would give you some bad ideas. YMMV.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:10 PM
1

That sounds fine then. I'm going to remind you though that the zero porn tolerance is a recent thing brought int TRP by the more extreme and alt-right members. In moderation, it's fine. It's more about the new guys who have unrealistic expectations about sex and assume they're supposed to act like a porn star in bed.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:43 PM
1

Yeah, that's because it's more about validation to you than sex. Average girls are perfectly good for fucking, so if you can't even get excited for sex unless she's really pretty you have some psychological issues...I'm guessing because you watch a lot of porn and your sexual triggers got switched from real women to porn stars.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:15 PM
2

Making a David walliams joke instead of saying something butthurt sounding, also skipping most of those lines, the Rita Ora line was good though. Instead of saying "meet me Thursday" which fails 99% if they're actually busy, say "meet me next week for a drink, Thursday work?" That's a little divergent from what's commonly recommended here, but for only a little deviance you achieve much better outcome resilience.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 04:16 AM
1

Disagree all you want, but you could have had her way before if you hadn't gronked out. You even said it yourself, you thought she was smug and the smiley face pissed you off. Those are not things that happen when you're being playful.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:55 AM
1

Don't socially isolate yourself. You're going to need connections if you want good jobs after school. And you do, because your general career track follows your first job.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:37 PM
1

You did sound like a sperg. Way too serious and literal when she was trying to be playful.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:35 PM
1

The Prince and 48 Laws are good books, but the material you need first is No More Mr Nice Guy, Models, and The Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:27 PM
1

Seconded. My experience was a chick trying to come over for years. At some point her husband started chasing my best friends girl so I stopped saying no and let her come out to "visit". I was fully prepared to not fuck her but her husband was so beta he gave her permission; probably to legitimize fucking my friends girlfriend. Problem was, she never actually let him fuck her, but I did fuck his wife...so he had a meltdown and it almost broke their family apart. It was ugly, and they have kids so…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:01 PM
1

Sorry but you're a little full of shit right now, no offense. Last night my not-tall Korean friend was getting hit on by a fairly decent chick and he ignored her all night, it's not that he was Asian and under six feet. Once you do get your number up you'll realize it's no big deal, but until then relax, it's not worth hating yourself over.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:34 PM
1

Gen Y is simply the demographic product of the system they grew up in, raised by baby boomers in a lush economic environment to believe they could have anything they want, which was more or less true for the baby boomers. They're also adapting quickly to a harsh job market and will probably end up being one of the more hard working generations by the time they mature.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:14 PM
3

If the guy thinks of the girl and all he imagines are dozens of dicks, he might have other "issues".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 05:48 AM
21

Well tell your apartment to lift and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 04:28 AM
2

Nope. Might as well give up.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:26 AM
1

Impostor syndrome is common. First thing that happens is you're overconfident because you're a dumbass. Then, as you start learning, you realize how little you know, and assume everyone else must already be masters at it. This is where the anger and despair phases come in. After a long time, you get enough experience to know when you're actually good.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 12:50 AM
4

In general, agree with what she says, keep the peace, don't stir the waters unless you absolutely have to enforce your boundaries. This is just temporary until you can move out and start being able to think without her trying to get in your head.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:34 PM
1

So do you guys, like all have contracting jobs where you move around all the time? How come the "where are the blondes" and "how do I party after 30" crowd always ask about geography like they're moving all over the place?
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:33 PM
1

Ok so that brings up a good point. Your "group" of guys seem to have been here long enough to know so much about /u/VasiliyZaitzev, and yet you don't have the answers to the questions that you must have seen 10,000 times on askTRP by now?
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:25 PM
1

It's probably that you're hyping it up in your head, but also convenient how you glossed right over the porn part. How much are we talkin here?
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:55 AM
1

Five bucks says it's the same guy on rotating accounts.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:35 AM
0

Here goes another one.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:28 AM
2

do you drop them when they are hamstering/Promiscuous? You'd never have female friends. AWALT, at least a little bit. Internalize that, and relax so you can give them credit when they display actual good qualities. You can have female friends, sometimes they're cool to hang out with, can be good wingmen for preselection. And you never know if they'll hit you up for a free bang out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:26 AM
4

You should always be changing yourself, for the better. You should constantly be expanding your mind, your body, and your style. Change isn't necessarily bad. Absorb the parts of TRP that are useful to you, and reject the rest.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:30 PM
1

My BMI is 30.2 Ken Bone? Might as well own it.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:15 PM
1

Every once in awhile I'll still find myself being absolutely charmed by some girl. She's just so cool. Then I'll remember all the times I had oneitis and how perfect I thought they were at the time, and how imperfect they turned out to be. It's all just an emotional illusion. Besides, you're not in love with her; you're in love with how she makes you feel.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:14 PM
1

When I was young and spry I once fucked for 4.5 hours, because I stupidly thought it was all about fucking alllllllll night. It's not. It's better to fuck them well for 20 mins than mediocre all night. You can tease them in a lot of different ways though, I believe the specifics are covered in the Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:07 PM
6

The Gervais Principle, the Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:57 PM
2

Sounds like your emotional intelligence is low. Don't worry, there are quite a few tools out there to help you improve. There are books, but practice and mindful analysis are probably the best way.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:56 PM
1

Not at all. It's fun to have crazy caveman sex. Only problem I can think of is if it's out of control for access to get it out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 05:11 AM
7

That's not what AWALT means. It's clear you still have a long way to go reading and internalizing the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:09 AM
2

You adapt to the market, the market does not adapt to you. We dont squash the automobile industry to save the jobs of buggy drivers, and we don't force women to bang incels because they can't get laid. Porn doesn't affect the SMP, if you think that's you watch too much of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 05:07 AM
1

Well at least you know your outlook is sometimes shitty. The first step in solving a problem is recognizing it. I also had to reprogram myself. It took awhile and was painful at times because I was feeling my way through the dark. The key is relaxing your insecurities, forgiving yourself for your past, and recognizing yourself for your actual accomplishments without letting them go to your head. Also, accepting women (and all humans) are flawed but you can still have compassion without trying to…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:25 PM
1

But the bar is pretty low, so you don't have to be a superstar to look better than them. In fact, since all they do is shower her with attention, all it takes is mild push-pull.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:49 PM
2

If it ain't broken, don't fix it. Sounds good so far. You can always deal with problems as they come up.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:31 PM
1

I'd recommend practical experience over books any day.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:28 PM
1

Ok so having read this, it might be your game, but I'll bet it's more about your attitude and outlook. You sound like you're still struggling with some childhood insecurities stemming from the need to gain approval from your parents. You can always improve your game, but it will only be small improvements until you fix this underlying problem. You need to become emotionally independent from your parents. Also, I'd like to point out that there's nothing wrong with fucking 5's and above. There are…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:27 PM
2

This is ok, but you're doing it for the wrong reasons...you're doing it to punish her for revenge. Soft next, if she wants to fuck later (and you want to fuck her) then do it. If not, let her go off with the other guy. Either way it shouldn't make you butthurt if you've been cultivating an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:15 PM
1

If he did he'd have broken up with her by now.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:13 PM
1

Stahhhhp
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:16 AM
2

Genetics, fitness, success, money, social standing, pre-selection.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:28 AM
1

You're not too young to read No More Mr Nice Guy. Your "girls only date assholes" language leads me to believe that's the best place for you to start.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 01:09 AM
1

Just sack the fuck up and do it. It's not complicated, it just takes a little balls.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:35 AM
1

17/20, but some of those I might disagree with. Once I figured out I was looking for someone acting the emotion instead of feeling it, I started to do better.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:34 PM
1

You don't own her...it's just your turn. I don't know how many times I need to repeat this. You're not being cucked, because as a plate she doesn't owe you loyalty. She doesn't owe you information either. You're not being disrespected, except in your own imagination.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:04 PM
12

So here's a thing about life coming from a more experienced guy. You'll go through times where life will just kick you in the balls, it sucks. You never see that part on your friends instagram, but it happens to everyone. Take a knee for a minute, and as soon as you can just get back on the horse. Study hard for the next exam, go see your dad. Nothing is fucked, dude.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:28 PM
1

You don't have to stop caring because you're not in a LTR anymore. Just remember there's a good reason why you're not dating her anymore.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 05:59 AM
2

Sorry but how are they "punishing and cruel"? I call bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:50 PM
2

Even if you did, it's still beta as fuck for all the same good reasons you have in the first paragraph. She sent you those nudes in good faith, what did she do to you that you think you need to fuck up her life over?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:33 PM
-1

You're still thinking about it like a beta would. It might be needy betrayal under those conditions but it doesn't always have to be. You get close to girls when your buddy dates them sometimes, and vice versa. Sometimes she just went out with the wrong one of you and you switch it up. Edit: wow, the moralizing is real.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:18 PM
2

I want to bang a lot of my friends girlfriends. Never would though, because they're my friends. Friends ex though? Maybe, depends.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:20 AM
3

Best summary I've ever hear of it. Also, it has one or two crackheads wandering around out front scaring people.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:14 PM
1

You're welcome to read the material and ask questions. PurplePillDebate might be a better sub for you though eventually.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:09 PM
2

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/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:14 PM
10

Dude. Don't be that Indian guy. Stop giving fucks about Dan Bilzerian.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:11 PM
2

You can definitely rebuild your boundaries and recalibrate your self respect, but given you were raised that way it won't happen until you move out.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 07:14 AM
1

I think if you really were well-built and top of your game getting 8's and 9's wouldn't even be a problem.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 07:12 AM
1

I have no problem with it, just trying to speculate like everyone else why a guy wouldn't be taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:36 AM
2

How do you get to Carnegie Hall?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:36 AM
0

Yeah that's a fucking lie. Women masturbate all the time.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:35 AM
1

Maybe i'm a weak little sissy boy and that's all people will ever see, but all this shit has made me want to do is completely give up, not man up. Yeah, that kinda sounds like a sissyboy attitude to be honest. And it doesn't totally sound like you want to succeed either. Like if someone gave you a free bang pass would you even use it?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:07 AM
1

The world is how it is, how it always was. Any anger is in your head. I guess you can be mad that you weren't raised to see the world how it really is, but since it was from naive ignorance you probably should have forgiven them by your age. You also failed to figure it out for yourself despite being given ample time and opportunity. You consider it a waste of time, but really what would you have been doing instead? Making a billion dollar business? Nope. The world's got plenty of things to hate…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:52 PM
1

yeah great sex is nice, but it's not the driving factor in my life. Ok don't take this the wrong way, but how the fuck would you know? You literally have no point of reference. Try to avoid making both positive or negative judgments until you have a few data points. This has let me to be a very lonely, angry 30 year old virgin. This is concerning. Not sure what reason you have to be angry, your lack of social skills is not the worlds, or women's fault. No More Mr. Nice Guy seems to be the right …
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:00 PM
1

Didn't see anything in there that would indicate she did. But why are you focusing on her and not all the girls in the club?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 10:53 PM
2

The fact that you now recognize the things you did as shitty is proof that you are a better person. You didn't know any better at the time, now you do. Use that as motivation to never stop improving yourself, because you never know what things you do today you'll regret when you know better.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 10:52 PM
2

It was a compliment, she was being supportive of your improvement. I doubt she literally meant you could pull anyone in the club without fail, but it was a nice thing to say nonetheless.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 10:50 PM
2

lol, okay dude whatever you say. I'm not the one having a public meltdown.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:37 PM
6

So? Who cares? Homeboy acts like it's wounding him. Are we all about being "offended" now like feminists are?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:22 PM
1

Good, except for the credit bit. DO use lines of credit, but DON'T carry a running balance. It will build you a good credit score.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:13 PM
8

Men don't walk around rock hard in societies where women walking around topless isn't taboo. I think you're full of shit. Furthermore, I don't understand what possible problem you would have with seeing more titties. And what about breastfeeding? Not sexual.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:04 PM
2

Uh, yeah? So? People are different. That's like saying certain cars are harder to drive than others. Yep. And?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:08 PM
2

I don't get it. Why is this so game changing? People are different, that's nothing new.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:46 PM
3

I hear a lot of passive voice in your writing. "This made me be X, That made me be Y", all that is a cop out for not taking responsibility. You can't improve if you're not responsible for anything that happens to you. Don't be a captain save-a-ho. Most of them won't change, but sometimes all they want is to vent. It's very human. Also, I just have a hunch that No More Mr Nice Guy could help you with a few things.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:43 PM
1

Uh yeah, figure out the root of why you won't seal the deal. You reallly have no idea why?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:41 AM
2

Are you sure it's some Christian thing then? Sure it's just not garden variety pussing out?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:30 AM
1

If you're not going to make moves then why bother? Just stay home and get out of the rest of us' way.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:22 AM
3

If you're literally a prince, maybe. Funny thing is this faggot is probably just some neckbeard.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:19 AM
1

Usually when I don't have time for eggs I make a quick protein shake. Has all the right macros and calories plus vitamins, and is easy to grab on the way out. Overnight oats is also a good option, I'm a fan of an Almond Joy variant with coconut flakes, a couple dark chocolate chips, and a few almonds. Sweetened with stevia if you want.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:16 AM
1

Well it sounds like you should have read more about AWALT, which doesn't stand for All Women Are Whores but All Women Are like That...at least a little. This link might help. Also I don't mean to sound condescending but in all that time have you actually got in shape? If you had you should have been getting laid and therefore learned that women are complicated, it's not as simple as being all whores.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:58 AM
1

It's okay to care. It takes a lot of strength to be nice to those who nip at you, if it's only because they don't know any better.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:28 AM
6

Get off your high horse. Like you said you're not perfect yourself and were beta until recently. It's just benign ignorance, have compassion for them. Mix in encouragement, don't be purely negative.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:20 AM
1

He didn't give her a chance lol, he dumped her that same day. Society and the media have told you and your friend that it is risky. And that's exactly my point. Until you have the experience to know better, you wouldn't know better. That's one of the reasons the Book of Pook is supposed to be so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 02:53 AM
1

No that's fine, just making sure you weren't doing it for a weird reason. It pays to ask on this sub.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:32 AM
1

By the time you are at that level Yeah, I get what you're saying. I think for the guys in question, they're just not to that level yet (I assume). If they're supposed to be I bet it's because they don't have the experience to be comfortable with it yet. I had a friend back in the day that broke up with his girl, he asked me to meet to talk, anxiously said she asked him to do something psycho in bed. He didn't even want to tell me what it was, turns out it was just chiming choking her. Oh well. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 02:31 AM
2

Why? Do you feel like you're somehow comrades in arms against...who? Girls? Sounds pretty gay if you ask me.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 10:08 PM
4

Dumps you? Did you just assume a relationship status?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 10:04 PM
10

Plus it's ultra risky to assume that's the case, guys probably think it's safer to err on the side of less aggressive. Some girls do a bad job communicating they want to go hard, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 09:40 PM
1

His problem was he was a loser who did not take responsibility for his failures. There comes a point though, where after you've had too many negative outcomes, it becomes very demoralizing, and you start to resent people. Why? It's not their their fault you suck. You just didn't know how good you were supposed to be. The good news is once you get over that plateau, it does seem a lot easier.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:45 PM
1

If you want free time to pursue your interests then I'd strongly recommend against the military. Then again, depends what your interests are.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:36 PM
2

You're in high school, aren't you. That's the only way this stupid shit would sound important. Also who the fuck brings chicken wings into the bathroom? Anyway, man up and apologize to your friend for snitching.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:35 PM
1

It's mental or emotional. There's no way at that age your testosterone dropped off that fast. You're just going through a phase. Do women disgust you, I'm guessing? Or you "just don't respect them"? Sound familiar?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:21 PM
1

Well I mean, I can only assume they know we can be charming because our charming selves are around. I've never seen someone here say ALL TRPs are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 03:45 PM
12

Overthinking it, IMO. I'd say "Sure." and just smile.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:20 AM
3

I've been helping on asktrp for a long time. Most of them are awkward betas trying to imitate natural alphas. With some experienced guys thrown in trying to educate. If that's why people think it's creepy, they have good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 05:10 AM
2

Uhhhh...PA's are legit. They're not secretaries, they're somewhere between a nurse and a doctor and they're pretty well educated, and Duke is a pretty decent residency so I doubt she's a slouch at it. It's your body and you can do what you want, but in this case it looks like you made a huge fool out of yourself.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:02 AM
3

They want men who they would want to grab them, to grab them. Not the creepy, socially awkward guy who just fucked up the approach. Context matters.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:47 AM
2

If you happened to be talking and get her number, sure. Just don't fuck up the gym by trying to make it your hunting ground, it's bad gym etiquette.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:00 AM
3

It's early in the school year, plenty of time. You guys can go to parties or clubs. Halloween stuff is still coming up too. Get involved. Also, But I'm forced to hang on because he has so many resources that i can use. Cut that shit out right now. You're not forced to do anything. This is toxic beta thinking, to have the attitude that shit "just happens to you" and you can't control it. It leads to victim mentality. Overcome your introversion and get out there.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:56 PM
2

You did fine, sometimes dates just suck. Laugh it off, you're laughing with all guys who date. And you learned a lesson. Next time a girl says she has to be up early, ask her right away if you should drop her off. After all, why party if you care about being tired in the morning?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:08 AM
5

I used to do that all the time. Couple tips: Obviously, stop thinking so much. "Hey you wanna dance?" takes zero brain cells. How do you think dumb chads do it? Besides, you're not even thinking, you're worrying. You only think as an excuse to procrastinate the approach. "I need time to think this through...". No you fucking don't. Just do it, be afraid later. Practice negative visualization, this is the key. Imagine the worst case scenario, and then realize that it wouldn't be so bad. Worst cas…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:57 AM
0

Is that a joke...? I hope it is, but around here mofos say shit like that dead serious.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:21 AM
3

Well you better figure out why you do it if you want to fix it...
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:22 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/57c1qk/indian_guys/d8qpv8c
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:56 PM
1

Lose the will? Why? You mean you chicken out?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:55 PM
1

send the message that we should keep everything work-related Okay, so at this point have you escalated at all? If she says it out of nowhere it means she's been at least worried things might get "unprofessional". ( Yes i know that this was my cue to go in for the kiss) However i did not. Good call actually. Better safe than sorry with work girls. Good practice for after you graduate. Sunday rolls by and i see her with this guy. Im boiling inside, but i keep it cool and try to keep things strictl…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:54 PM
2

The thing with them is their culture will super duper hate on them for any appearance of impropriety. Think about it - in their culture women can be murdered for sluttiness. That would make me think twice if it were me. So you need to really go out of your way to help her with plausible deniability. 100x more than normal girls. Like she can't even let herself be seen going into a room alone with you, by her family anyway. They're still human though, they're still sexual. If you can help them get…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:39 PM
1

This happens sometimes with virgins. They don't know what the fuck they're doing. They don't even know what they're feeling. Their emotions are all over the place. Therefore they send a lot of mixed messages. You can't treat them the same as girls who have experience. They're not very good at communicating their intentions, like consent (or lack of consent, careful!) so you have to basically hold their figurative hand and take extra care to communicate. Also be careful because she sounds obsesse…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:28 PM
1

What you're doing to yourself is telling negative lies about the future. The truth is, you really have no idea how it's going to go. You don't know how she will react to your dick, which will probably be just fine. It's fine to be uncertain how it's going to go. It's not okay to negatively psyche yourself out, that's how guys get premature ejaculation and ED.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:23 PM
1

Why can't you approach? Seriously, answer the question.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:17 PM
50

And you make your fellow indian dudes look bad who actually put in effort and do get laid. To answer a few other indian dude FAQ's from asktrp: If you are a fat, bald Indian dude in your 30's you aren't going to pull blonde bombshells or party like college, no matter where in the U.S. you go...and it's not because you're Indian. Your posts are getting downvoted and removed because: -You post the same question 3 times a day for weeks -You delete your account and come back with a new one with the …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 07:58 PM
1

Wow, here we go again I guess.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:04 AM
1

Please take heed of the advice you have been given already
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:41 AM
2

Yeah you can practice forcing yourself to be in the moment, listening to what people are trying to communicate. The Charisma Myth is a good place to start.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:22 AM
2

Practice charisma and being a good listener.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:11 AM
1

I fucking guarantee it does. If this is even a real "sporting event".
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:33 AM
2

You've been whining on here for weeks now. You were given lots of good advice, time to shut up and start following it.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:28 AM
5

That's super inappropriate, there's no possible way that could be construed as innocent. They usually have rules against this on actual sports trips. I don't usually say this by default so keep that in mind when I say dump her immediately. If she's already this far there's a good chance she's already fucking him. Even if she isn't, she's about to, no matter how much he she swears different.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:24 AM
1

If they're making comments, it's probably that you shouldn't do it. Corporate culture works by indirect suggestion until you earn your stripes.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:23 AM
1

I honestly don't think about it, and neither should you. Live your life to where the best opportunities are, and the rest will follow. If you put a gun to my head I would say D.C.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:38 AM
3

You are an intern, meaning right now you ain't shit. Doesn't matter if you consider your self smarter, they could fire you tomorrow if they wanted. What they are signaling to you is the corporate culture. Don't wear pink polo shirts, take notes in meetings even if you have a good memory. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:32 AM
4

Yeah, humblebragging is fairly normal around here I guess.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:53 AM
7

Mate guarding, and a plate no less. You don't own her, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:17 PM
-2

Why don't you stop wondering about it and find out for yourself?
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:15 PM
1

I too have a friend like this. He wonders why all his girls turn psycho on him but won't date a girl unless she's "fun" (psycho). I've tried to warn him but he just says "But dude, she's hot!" Whatever, you were warned.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:05 PM
1

Since putting feelers out everyone I have met except for two girls has been a dud. Perfectly fine women, wife material for sure. But boring. This part stood out to me. Have you ever considered the reason for this is you're conditioned to see crazy chicks as "exciting" while well adjusted ones are boring to you?
/r/askTRP10/10/16 03:09 AM
1

Being alpha is relative and depends on the social values of the group. The super jacked guy might not be the alpha in a group like that.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:08 PM
11

If you got somewhere to be, you got somewhere to be. Segue into a next meetup.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:53 PM
1

See, but when it's the exact same question asked by the same guy over and over, who hasn't even bothered to read the sidebar or the thousands of posts on the exact same topics, it pisses people off. This fucker doesn't care about working hard I improve or even taking the initiative to learn. He doesn't deserve our sympathy.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:17 PM
1

There was no moral statement, just fact. If you don't understand what a plate is you need to go back to the sidebar and read.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:24 PM
3

And then he downvotes whoever asks this. I got you though.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:59 AM
1

Jesus. I'm sorry but if you're 20 you need to at least be able to stand up to a 12 year old.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:56 AM
2

They say civilizations are judged on how they treated their poorest, I tend to agree with that. Especially these days.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:09 PM
1

Some do. But in general they don't like drugs because they don't have as much testosterone, so they're less likely to engage in risk-seeking behavior like drugs.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:47 PM
0

Wave and smile. Common courtesy unless she hates you. What else would you do? Look away awkwardly like a beta? Also, there's no such thing as a "potential plate". They're just called women. And you don't get to call her a broken plate if you were never spinning her.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:46 PM
1

Baller attitude. That's at least half of it.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 01:51 AM
6

That's not a helpful advice. To be fair, you would know what he was talking about if you actually read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:27 AM
34

They're indicating they have a rule about not dating short guys but are willing to make an exception. Take it as a compliment, because it is.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:39 PM
3

"That Guy" who approaches a lot and gets rejected? You really think people put that much thought into you, or approaching?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:34 PM
2

I have decent game, nothing special but a hell lot more than my friends around me who get laid a lot more than me Reread all that bullshit you wrote. If you really are attractive and really are getting actual IOI's initially, then your problem is exactly game. I'm gonna hazard a guess by the way you talk about your friends like they're pieces of shit; you need an ego check. They get laid, you don't.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:00 AM
2

Only thing I can think of why she did that is she is treating me like an emotional tampon. a potential suitor. You sure sound like a tampon. A gentleman tampon from 1890. Maybe your game needs work. Have you read NMMNG?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:42 PM
3

All jealously stems from insecurity but honestly have you listened to yourself? You're jealous of how many dudes she's slept with? How many dudes do you wish you could sleep with? PS How do you even know her exact n count?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:34 AM
1

Sure, maybe she will recognize that this is her fault for cheating, and she'd be willing to make whatever reasonable reparations necessary. There are literally no business reparations necessary for her cheating. It sucks for him but fucking someone other than your business partner does not entitle you to extra percents of the business. You're assuming she's suddenly going hostile, then maybe.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:14 PM
7

Hold up...everybody remember that this is his girlfriend, not his wife. She's not entitled to his shit if they break up. The business continues as normal. Proof of cheating aint shit for breaking up a business, once again this is not a divorce.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:20 PM
1

If you're going to cheat, just cheat. Don't ask us to help you rationalize it.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:02 AM
2

No, I wouldn't say that's safe to assume.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:50 PM
1

Maybe her attitude was unattractive.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:49 PM
1

It's super fulfilling. It's awesome. I'd do it almost all the time if able. But you have to do other things too. We just can't answer that for you. It's your life, you can't just copy/paste it from someone else.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:58 AM
1

How about we shake things up this time and maybe you can finally explain your angle here? Like, are you the black chick looking to prove a point? Are you a dude? If so why do you care?
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:57 PM
1

I used to answer, apparently it wasn't the answer you were looking for.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 09:10 PM
1

Hey hey, welcome back with the same question you always ask.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 09:03 PM
2

Agreed, like fuzzy handcuffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 08:33 PM
2

I can't actually think of one instance where I've seen it done well in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 08:28 PM
6

Q: How can you tell if someone is an incel? A: Don't worry, they'll tell you all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 09:56 PM
2

Stoicism is good. Also, listen to your own inner voices and pay attention so you can call bullshit on yourself.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:44 PM
2

She doesn't sound angry. Those were comfort tests.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:44 PM
1

Did you read the part where I say I'm legitimately interested in getting to know them? Yeah, that's why I suggested befriending. Yes, I will try to get to know them purely as friends, first. Since befriend a strange woman is different than picking her up, can you give some advice on how to approach(specifically what you'd say), and then on what to talk about? Good attitude. Okay, so what worked for me was I stopped trying to directly approach women and started "approaching" everyone. By approach…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:36 PM
2

yet I get treated like I was comitting some sort of social faux pas when really I'm just trying to improve my dating life. You are committing a social faux pas. The fact that the reason you do it is to improve your dating life is irrelevant to the girls. You get judged by your actions, not your intentions. Bad cold approaches are worse than not approaching. You aren't getting meaningful practice because you'll always get negative feedback. Start with just trying to befriend them; like you'd talk…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:11 PM
1

Never ignore red flags. Never. Not even if you're desperate. Especially if you're desperate. Ignoring red flags will get you a terrible STD, an unwanted kid, or a rape accusation. Never ignore red flags.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:23 PM
0

No. I don't think that's it. Lol with all due respect, how would you know? How can you claim you know social issues better when you don't even have the basic social skills required to get laid? By anyone? Something's not coming to the surface here. Your rag is got up and you're not being honest about why. Okay, I'll bite. :) What possible reason would we have to hate on incels, other than being really annoying, which we have already covered? Your persecution complex is staggering. Nobody cares e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 08:17 PM
7

Dude, don't even joke. They don't understand sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 08:05 PM
11

What's entitled is assuming you have claim to other people's pity. Especially when you're in their face with it all the time. Just like panhandlers, don't be surprised when the cops come along to clear you out. You're not here in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 08:04 PM
0

And if I ran a clown fetish subreddit I would expect to be laughed at. And then that would turn me on. Incels don't get that you don't have the right to be socially accepted if you don't have socially acceptable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 08:00 PM
2

They'll go wherever people are willing to listen to their plight. At least until those people get sick of the same tired stories over and over with no intent to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 07:57 PM
1

Censorship? Normal subreddits control the content with upvotes. Sorry dude, but this is bullshit and I'm pretty sure you know it. We have rules on TRP to avoid text walls, concern trolls, indian race trolls, etc. We have rules is the point. It's not censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 07:56 PM
1

That's true, but over there we stomp on their pity parties. If they show themselves like they do here, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 07:50 PM
1

My theory is they look bluepill on TRP and redpill on TBP. They get run out of town in both places. Here it's ambiguous so it's harder to notice. I suspect they blend in better at TRP, which is why I sometimes catch guys making theory posts but it comes out they don't actually get laid or have mastery of concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 07:46 PM
2

So you're getting all your information from a biased source who are obsessed with both cuckholding and race play? And you think this applies to the rest of the world?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 11:56 PM
2

Let me see if I can stereotype you solely based on your post and all the other posts like this I've seen: You're around 30, you're Indian, you're probably balding, you have feelings of missing out on some kind of crazy college phase where you should have been banging hot, specifically blonde chicks left and right. You probably also assume there are certain parts of the country that are better for this, and want to know where they are. How am I doing so far? Edit: I'll take the downvotes to mean …
/r/askTRP28/09/16 11:12 PM
2

Okay, so if this were true, is there a valuable lesson in it? Let's do some induction. Men don't fail with women because they treat women like "pieces of meat". Okay, let's assume this is true for now. Women love being treated like meat by attractive men. Let's assume this is true too, even though your example clearly said not only attractive but "isn't just hot but super hardcore can't breathe hot"...she actually makes the distinction. First, are you attractive at all? Did you treat a woman lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:02 PM
0

Having a mom and dad is best for raising kids. If you do want to have kids, do a really good job of picking a mom. I recommend getting a lot of experience with women first so you know what to look for.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:49 AM
1

"With all due respect, my peers are being paid at $XYZ for similar or even fewer responsibilities. Do you have a specific rationale for the reduction in pay?" Forces them to come up with a reason or raise the pay being offered. Also, start getting your resume together in case they say no. If they make you take the lower pay...still put together your resume, you shouldn't be working there.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:47 AM
1

College and high school students would. Adults don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:13 AM
8

Depends. I feel like it's a red flag for critical thinking but a green flag for loyalty, I guess? Then again I've known religious girls who are super prude and ones who are super sluts.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:03 AM
3

1-800-273-8255
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:22 AM
1

Oh sorry, I meant solutions offered by us to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:51 AM
5

Getting a good body didn't work? Better grooming and clothes and getting better at socializing didn't improve their odds? Bullshit, I would be surprised if most of these guys spent more than one month at the gym before they gave up and came back to complain that people were giving them bad advice. I have no sympathy for quitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:47 AM
2

Classic incel persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 09:52 PM
2

I don't know, they never seem to be discussed in good faith. Any solutions offered get shot down with a sneer. I'm sick of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 09:48 PM
4

Men hurt people too. Women just hurt people differently. Doesn't do you any good to whine about it.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:21 AM
4

These are not alpha males. Alpha males are secure enough to not care if their casual relationships have other casual relationships come up.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 07:44 PM
2

So what? It just clearly won't work. If they can't figure out nuance and would rather listen to something they read on the internet, fuck 'em. The rest of us can keep having fun.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 06:57 PM
2

No we can't, because a risk factor isn't a certainty. Hell, that's something even an autist could understand. Edit: Furthermore, if your goal is to try to help them, you better not go around saying it because they will accept it as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:54 PM
1

Not my intention, but if you want to, I can show it to you. I never thought the world needs to change to accommodate my wants and feefees. Therefore, I am superior to you, because you did. Wow, wonder why you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:51 PM
2

Social skills can be learned. I learned 'em. It worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:50 PM
6

Cocaine, unless the whole thread has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:49 PM
1

"The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers." -Socrates Make no mistake, it's always been like this. Don't blame it on a "shitty generation". Young …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 11:05 PM
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No, it isn't. Territorialism usually only extends to other males. Men don't consider women competitors for other women. If they did your point would hold, but it's not the same thing in practice so it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 04:32 AM
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If a guy is seriously bothered by another man having heterosexual sex with the same woman, that's probably because of homophobia (although it could be other issues) Why can't it be plain old territorialism? I know you said it could be other issues, but why do you assume that's probably homophobia rather than the more simple explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:22 PM
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Needs to be on a sticky in asktrp. Lost count of how many guys come in and ask for a detailed recipe of the exact steps to take to get the girl they want. It doesn't work like that, bro. And don't get pissy when we tell you a recipe is not what you need.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 05:36 AM
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Text her, set up a meet. Plenty of guides out there on how to escalate. No set of instructions we could give you will work because each situation is different. Go in with the assumption that it will lead to sex unless she indicates otherwise. Just relax. Worst thing that could happen is you don't get laid, and you're already used to that.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:01 PM
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It's not your dick, it's your brain. I guarantee it's psychological. Not sure exactly what, but given your history of being a virgin and being with prostitutes, it might be shame-based. I don't usually recommend therapists but it might be worth a try. Sounds like you have some psychological hang ups concerning sex.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:12 PM
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Oh shit it's you again. What do you get out of coming here?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:26 AM
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Yeah. For you, not for the girl. Guys will ignore all sorts of red flags if a girl is that hot.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:57 AM
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FWIW Fight Club was also fairly homoerotic.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:26 AM
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I actually liked DC. Outnumbered by single women, good jobs, intelligent, friendly, easy to talk to.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:22 AM
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This isn't google, bro. Did you have a question?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:20 AM
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A very hot girl honestly a 9/10 imo Auto red flag. Be careful not to get dazzled by hotness, it leads to poor decisions. She told me she had depression and I suspected she was bulimic too as she was underweight. She also had some cuts on her arms. But I worked with her and we got on real well so no big deal I thought. Legit red flags. And now you're starting to make excuses to justify not paying attention to them. Then starts crying, like WTF. Then she tells me "I've hurt so many people I don't …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:17 AM
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It can be done, if you're not too attached and you can handle just being friends. I really have feelings for this girl. Oh. Then no, you should let her go and try not to hang out as just friends. You can't just be friends, and if you hang out with her you're establishing a Covert Contract as described in No More Mr. Nice Guy. The online blogs I read tell me I need her to start missing me for her to start to build attraction, so that means give it some space. Space for her to fuck as many other g…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:11 AM
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Well at the risk of no true scotsman, I think those people are taking liberties with what TRP means. I can't think of a single place in the sidebar where it says that. Maybe posts on the main sub, but those are like Op-Eds and should be treated so. "Either you get your goals or she gets hers" depends on so many critical assumptions that it's worthless as a heuristic. I've been in plenty of short term relationships where we both had fun while it lasted. Furthermore, what's not talked about is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 06:12 PM
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What? So you're saying if I benefit I have to be causing harm to the girl. No. We can obviously both have fun and it's in my best interest to make sure that happens. Was this supposed to be some kind of rhetorical point, or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 05:33 PM
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Freudian slip. Spoiler alert, he's still angry and he has active bitchface.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:21 PM
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A big problem though is that it's really hard for the new guys to tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:16 PM
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+1 Self awareness
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:49 PM
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You're just like the hot girl that gets bitchy because you dared to talk to her. Try not to be a sore winner. I can understand why you're not interested, but why are you wasting energy being offended?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:01 PM
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You're only talking about liberal sjw types. There are plenty of conservative groups that also prioritize feels over reals.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 10:45 PM
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In the end, any group that prioritizes feels over facts will lead to this nightmare if allowed to get into power. Fortunately so many of them keep each other in check with their squabbling, I see it as a net positive. It's annoying to witness, but at least they don't combine forces and make 1984 a reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 07:34 PM
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I never assumed it was only one person's fault. Makes sense to me it would be a shitty relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:20 PM
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Just out of curiosity, do you have a similar ballpark libido? If not, do you get to have a side piece or do you just sacrifice for the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:11 PM
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You've been abstaining from sex so you don't step on other guy's toes? That's believable. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:01 PM
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Okay, I'm calling bullshit on this. It's been disproven in TRP that you need to be perfect at all times. It's not "you fuck up just once and you're done".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:59 PM
1

Do you think all the guys in /deadbedrooms are stupid or violent or broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:58 PM
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So are you really asking if pussies go after dominant girls? Because that would make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:25 PM
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In my opinion it's not a fair trade. Men have to hunt for their dinner, with women all they have to do is stop saying no. Then again, I could imagine being pretty successful anyway, but I think it would only work if you had totally lost attraction for each other.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:22 PM
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Fair enough. I have a buddy though, always seemed alpha, very fit, and all the chicks he liked looked like dudes to me. I also had some nerd roommates in college that dated very feminine girls. So I doubt being a pussy means you lean towards being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:20 PM
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Yeah, so can I. So can everyone. I wasn't asking about your first amendment rights. I was asking why you even care what other people are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:10 PM
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Why do you have to care? Can't you mind your own business about what people like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:08 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/lIjGL0P.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:06 PM
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It's just the structure of married life these days. If they have kids, that's a huge drain on their life. They're fucking exhausting, even if they're good kids. Also he probably has to deal with shit he doesn't care about like getting asked what decorations they should use for each holiday, as if he fucking cares. You pay a price for stability. Then again, maybe he just had a bad week at work.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:59 PM
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This made me laugh real hard. That's an awkward way to find out. For me, two of my plates met each other when one was doing the other's hair and they were gossiping about their sex lives. Eventually they did the math and realized they were sleeping with the same guy and they were pissed. I told them they knew we weren't in an exclusive relationship and I regret that they found out that way. They each basically said they weren't okay with continuing the relationship and I said I respect their pos…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:58 PM
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At that level, I don't think it matters. Their relationship is so alien compared to most peoples. It's more like a close business partnership. In general, if you want to let your wife sleep around, go for it. I don't think it's a good idea, but it's your life. Some other guy will thank you.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:54 PM
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While I do small talk with A, I notice that B is making some movements with her hands, like shaking off water by picking her costume with her fingers and staring at me; when I briefly switch eye contact to her, she stares away. She's waiting for you to bring her into the small talk. Her friend should have, but failing that it was your job, especially if you're interested. After some time i get up to fix my towel and I look back at them, I don't actually know if B was staring, but I felt as she j…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:50 PM
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You're actually in a much better position than you feel like you are. Being 16, it's normal to get really emotional and have extreme ups and downs. I remember what it was like. You're basically drunk on hormones all the time, keep in mind this will balance out and get much milder as you get older. You're also young enough that you will be exposed to many new sets of social circles in the next few years. So if you don't know anyone right now, don't worry about it. You'll have plenty of chances to…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:46 PM
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