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I feel it would help some of the people who think TRP is too extreme to think twice after we acknowledge that RPillers CAN go too far. I'm sure that it would, but that's not something that we want. TRP, as a reactionary movement, must be extreme. Our members must be allowed to go too far, because there's nowhere else they can do so. Even just saying something as simple as "hey guys, take it easy" could be counterproductive to that goal. Much better, I think, to pass that message "in the trenches…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:34 PM
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I was so well known in the sub. Only to me.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:26 PM
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Outstanding post. This, in particular Bear in mind that there is a difference between morally judging a rape victim and being ready to deal with that. Not being ready to play therapist in an LTR does not mean you are blaming her. Hadn't been said yet. Glad you swung by.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:47 AM
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I'm hesitant to categorize it as part of a "phase," because there are some fairly senior posters who still feel this way (completely swear off marriage, don't trust women, etc.), and to suggest that I'm just "at the next level" wouldn't be fair to them. I'm not any wiser than /u/MattyAnon, we just feel a little differently about this. Call it a personality difference, maybe. That said, I have noticed that new people who are just learning how to take women off of the pedestal usually swing too fa…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:46 AM
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If she's legal in your state, who cares? I do want to point out that if you've been thinking about some chick you made out with at a high school dance, like, two years ago, that's a very bad sign.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:38 AM
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I think it's the latter, but I'll have to see. The fact that it caught me so much by surprise suggests it's the latter. Based on what you've written, I would tend to agree. Like anything, keep a wary eye, but go with your gut. If things just aren't adding up, pay attention to that.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:31 AM
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If I recall correctly you're very young. You also make a lot of black and white statements which betray your lack of experience. When you're older, I suspect that you'll realize that women are people just like you. Some of them are bad people, but some of them are good, loyal, honest. As such, it's good to be wary, but it's counterproductive to launch witch hunts, assuming that every woman is just waiting for the right moment to fuck you over.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:29 AM
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It's not an official TRP term. In this case, it constitutes arguing with OP about why (not if, but why) his girlfriend is going to fuck him over and delving into issues which OP hasn't asked about. Caution is a very good attribute to have, particularly when it comes to vetting a woman for a relationship, but at a certain point it's just witch-hunting, looking for flaws which one is sure must be there.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:27 AM
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Deep down they get off on abuse, and rape I could really care less about. Easy there, tiger.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:20 AM
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I do want a bigger car, bigger house etc. Not sure. The problem is that materially-oriented goals are a) a moving target (there's always something bigger, nicer, more expensive) and b) not truly fulfilling. 2,000 years ago the Stoics were writing about how man shouldn't chase material possessions. In the present day, we call it the hedonic treadmill. You need a mission, not just to keep accumulating stuff. There are many different paths you can take, depending on your personality. Family. Starti…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:42 AM
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Caution is good, but be wary of crossing the line into witch-hunting.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:22 AM
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You seem pretty grounded. She had taken molly Red flag, of course. You've got to trust your gut. Yours is telling you that she's trustworthy, so go with it. The biggest thing I would look for, with regard to the rape, is whether she regards it as "who I am" or "something that happened to me." The latter is much healthier.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:21 AM
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Great answer.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:47 PM
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You are not turning her on / she's not sexually attracted to you. This is a problem. Read the sidebar on the main sub.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:41 PM
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All I can suggest is speaking to her again but it can be a tricky subject to approach someone with. This is bad advice and will only exacerbate the issue.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:40 PM
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If there was something wrong, it mysteriously cleared up just long enough for this girl to get OP back into a relationship with her. How curious. It's coming across to me that you're only really bothered about the sex. Are you a woman? I'm assuming that a man would understand why OP is "only" bothered about the sex.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:34 PM
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so isn't it sales when you make the customer buy a 100$ wine instead of a 40$ wine with their food? Not really. That won't get you anywhere in a real sales job. There is one sales job I know of that pays 11$/hr + commission at a shoe store Getting into B2B (business to business) sales would be much, much better. There's far more room for advancement and a much more upwardly mobile career ladder. If you want to do B2C (consumer), sell cars or houses, not shoes.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:00 PM
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What the fuck kind of post is this? Would you tell somebody trying to decide whether to be a cop or a firefighter "Both. Abundance."? You're an older dude and you have a lot of life experience. I have seen a lot of great advice come from you. Use that to help these young guys, not just post TRP memes like "abundance mentality."
/r/askTRP03/05/16 04:57 PM
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Yes, she almost certainly would.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 04:54 PM
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Hardcore history by Dan Carlin is great.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:05 PM
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Paragon is the word you're looking for.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 06:04 PM
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Here's a battery of questions. Please answer all of them so that I can help you out. What's your current resting heart rate? What has it been historically? What is your current mood? What was it historically before you started hitting this wall? How much are you looking forward to exercise? How much do you normally look forward to exercise? Do you have trouble falling asleep? Do you feel like the sleep you're getting is restless or uneasy? Do you feel like you need more sleep than normal? Less t…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:59 PM
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What was the measurement that was out of normal?
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:55 PM
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i guess what i'm asking is it normal to feel more fear or less fear on certain days? Yes, of course. You're doing just fine. Keep in mind that this is a new lifestyle, not a phase or a program. You can fall off of a diet, break a resolution, etc. A lifestyle change, however, is permanent, even if you make mistakes or temporarily lose your way.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:52 PM
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] [I'm looking at starting a bullet journal, think that would be nice if I can turn that into a habbit.] I have one and enjoy it. The key is to use it only according to need -- if you have something you need to write down, write it down. If not, don't sweat it and don't force anything.
/r/RedPillWives02/05/16 04:45 PM
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While your advice is correct, there's not a realistic expectation of punishment here. Saying "It's going to cost you. Meet me Sunday, same time." in the context that OP did is pretty standard banter. If he were to actually levy some kind of punishment, it would be fucking weird. If he really feels the need to bring it up again, much better to tell her that she has to buy the first round of drinks now, or something.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 09:32 PM
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Outstanding advice.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 09:30 PM
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If I were to answer this question, would it change anything?
/r/askTRP29/04/16 09:25 PM
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My husband either regards the posts I show him as hilarious ramblings from losers or common sense advice. Most men know this stuff to varying degrees and have never descended into rage over it. Makes sense. In many (most?) cases, men reading TRP have either just hit rock bottom or never left it. If you do well with women, you aren't going to be on reddit searching for tips on how to talk to girls, you know? This isn't to say that men on TRP should be scorned, of course.
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 09:20 PM
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Okay.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 09:07 PM
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All of this is incorrect. You're conflating your personal morality and/or things you like with "alpha" and everything else with "beta."
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:48 PM
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I would even go as far as to consider it a beta behaviour since you cannot be honest about what you want in life and you have to lie to get your way. Hear me now. Alpha is not the same thing as good and beta is not the same thing as bad. Moral judgements have zero bearing on whether a behavior is alpha or beta. You are confusing "good man" (moral judgment) and "good at being a man" (alpha/beta).
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:47 PM
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Ok, lads, queue the downvotes. Just let your posts stand. This meta-Reddit stuff is annoying.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 12:43 PM
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Recommend you check out "the way of men" by Jack Donovan. It's a long look at who we are and what we do.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:16 AM
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You talking classes or just hitting the heavy bag?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 01:33 PM
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Coffee and a banana. Alternately, protein shake. There are lots of ways to get a bit of food in you without having to eat a whole meal.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:21 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting children, as long as you go into it with both eyes open. I myself fully intend to have children, which means that I also intend to get married. Again, there's nothing inherently wrong about this as long as one recognizes that it is risky.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:52 AM
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Perhaps a man's dominance threshold is best viewed as his desire for the woman's dominance towards everybody else? I think it's pretty universal that men want women to be less dominant than they themselves are within the confines of the relationship, but different men will have different thresholds for how dominant they want their partner to behave towards others.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 07:29 PM
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There's a lotta anger out there and a lot of kids trying to be too edgy.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 07:12 PM
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Be polite but distant.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 11:57 PM
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Still not sure what to do about the 19 year old (Case 2) though, since she is much less experienced than the other 2 girls, my expectations from her are a lot lower. It's unreasonable to expect a college student to pay, so have her contribute in other ways -- making dinner for you would be a great way to let her take care of you.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 11:52 PM
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Do nothing unless you actually get in trouble. Then come back here when you actually have a problem.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:42 AM
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No prob.
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 10:09 PM
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if she doesnt respond that means she isnt interested, its not your text game that is gonna make a difference. you could say the dumbest shit in the world as you ask for a drink, but she wont care if she likes you While your second statement is more or less true, this is the "if you're attractive enough, you don't need good game" argument. This is a bad argument because game always matters, whether it's because you want to maintain attraction over the long term or because you're hitting on a girl…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:08 PM
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I read a thread on here earlier today that was advocating text game and I was like okay i got this Text game is fine, but it's really tricky, which is why it's not normally advocated. The biggest takeaway is this: be interesting. This chick does not want to have yet another conversation about how her car broke down; she's probably been talking about it all day. In general, "how is your week going?" is kind of lame filler conversation, you know? It's not exciting in the slightest. Also, minor twe…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:04 PM
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The quality of the advice is irrelevant. Stop getting dating advice from your girlfriend's mom.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:59 PM
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Save texting primarily for logistics (when to meet up, where to go, etc.)
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:57 PM
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A tip you might be interested in is to add something containing sodium citrate as an emulsifying agent to your cheese sauce. Cheddar cheese tends to melt weirdly because the proteins break apart and recombine and the fat separates out and does its own thing. An emulsifier will give your cheese sauce a smoother/less "grainy" texture -- incorporating one was a game-changer for my own mac and cheese. You can buy powdered sodium citrate, but a much easier method is to add a chopped slice or two of r…
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 07:10 PM
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So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them when in reality, they are amazing. Perhaps the apples at the top would do well to think critically about their value, rather than patting each other on the back about how if they wait long enough, happiness will "just happen."
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 12:36 PM
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"You go girl! Fuck men!" advice like this is not only not helpful, but actually counterproductive.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 12:33 PM
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How can I find out if she actually believed she was pregnant or not? Can't teach emotional intelligence through a message board, unfortunately. Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:13 PM
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So you believe there are women that are loyal, or that wont branchswing Obviously.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:10 PM
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Not all of the advice on this site will agree. Evaluate everything you read, decide what makes the most sense, and move out. Some men claim that establishing boundaries is "mate guarding." I disagree.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:08 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:06 PM
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No woman is exclusive tho Bullshit.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:05 PM
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You will need to determine where your boundaries lie. Establish and enforce those boundaries.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:00 PM
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In this case, I recommend straight talking. Pregnancy is such a serious issue that you can't afford to mess around with manipulation to find out what you need to know. Just ask her. H: "I think I might be pregnant" Y: "Is it mine?" Anything less than an "of course it is!" means she hasn't been exclusive. Speaking in broader terms, your first priority is to establish whether or not she's actually pregnant. If she is, you need to start putting together a plan. (Is she planning to keep it? Paternit…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:57 PM
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Its plausible deniability whilst actively mate hunting. As usual. You think every girl who owns a dog got it to provide cover while they look for dudes? There's the anger phase, and then there's irrational paranoia. This is the latter.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:42 PM
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This one can be tough. Long-term relationships are like RP on hard mode. A successful LTR requires a balance of alpha (sexually attractive) and beta (good provider) behaviors. On the whole, taking care of your girlfriend and doing nice things for her are very good things, and necessary for most relationships to function. However, you don't want to cross the line into boring doormat territory. A few things to evaluate and keep in mind to ensure you remain attractive: Do not sacrifice your hobbies…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:19 AM
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Great answer.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:09 AM
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Remember, when a woman says "I'm not having sex with you tonight", she's thinking about having sex with you. Drop a funny line ("thank god, I'm actually waiting until marriage"), proceed as normal, and all will be well.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:08 AM
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Is she sleeping with other people or just you? Do you use birth control? What kind?
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:05 AM
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Go on the street and look around. To be in the top 10% means that you have to be better than 9 out of those 10 dudes, but not as good as one of them. Does 6'2, movie star looks, and a $100M bank account seem necessary to fulfill that standard?
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:04 AM
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Imagine if the situation was reversed In general, this is a very bad thought exercise when it comes to relationships and male/female dynamics. Men and women are not the same.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:02 AM
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Reminder to people downvoting this guy: you can disagree, but don't downvote solely because you don't agree with his viewpoint. TRP is amoral.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:01 AM
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but if it's most every night and youre bumming around there quite a bit, I think it's fair to contribute to the cost. There's a huge difference between "is there any chance you can help me pay rent, since you spend so much time here?" and "I want you to pay half the rent." Both are bad, but the latter is far worse.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:58 AM
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Men value loyalty in members of their "team" -- friends, family, committed partners. Women that they only have sex with are not members of that team, so the men don't particularly care. Make sense?
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 07:11 PM
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It can, yeah. Being in a long-term relationship is like hard mode. That said, some people -- myself included -- find a lot of meaning in committed relationships, and find them worthwhile.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 05:02 PM
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Again, appreciate your answer. There will be a huge change in my behaviour around plates from now on. At the moment, your technique feels like exploiting these women and I have my problems with that. Well, we'll see how things turn out and if this challenges me to rebuild my whole frame which was based on honesty. i see it coming. You shouldn't feel the need to sacrifice your principles to get what you want. Instead, try rephrasing -- instead of saying "there will be no relationship here, I will…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 05:00 PM
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What are your goals? What specific problem(s) are you trying to fix?
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:55 PM
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I want to be treated like a man. Okay, fine, but what have you done to earn it?
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:55 PM
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I'm in the top 2-3% of guys We know, dude, we know. Using your status/experience as an example to help younger guys is good. Don't let it turn into bragging in every single post.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:50 PM
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a double standard It's not a double-standard -- this is exactly right. It's a great analogy. It's not this girl's fault that she isn't attracted to her loser pansy of a boyfriend, just like it's not a guy's fault for being attracted to biological markers like waist/hip ratio and large breasts.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 04:00 PM
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No, of course not. That bit of my post was lead-up to the salient passage: If this is your criteria, what kind of man do you think you will find?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 05:24 PM
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As long as you can get (and keep) your pan hot, a cast iron is not necessary. Cooking is all about heat transfer. A cast iron pan, (aka a big hunk of metal) acts as a really good heat repository, meaning that once it gets hot, it stays hot, which is an advantage for cooking something like a steak which will cool the pan as heat is transferred from the hot pan to the room-temp meat. However, cast iron will take a very long time to heat up compared to a copper or anodized aluminum pan.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 05:20 PM
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I'm going to ask you a question that might hurt your feelings a bit, but is something you should consider. If you've already slept with another man (men?), what is fair about expecting a new guy to wait until marriage? Why should that new guy have to marry you to get what you've given to other men for free? If this is your criteria, what kind of man do you think you will find?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 05:07 PM
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I think it's more like AHALT... All humans are like that. Women have their own nature, but it's not a handful of terrible qualities that men are exempt from. "AWALT" is not, in and of itself, a bad thing. Just like "beta" is not, in and of itself, a bad thing. AWALT describes a set of biologically-based imperatives which drive all women, for better or for worse. Example: Hypergamy is a biological urge which exists in all women, just like polygamy is a biological urge which exists in all men. To …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 04:28 PM
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Just wondering where to go to meet a man who would wait to have sex with me. The wording on this is tripping flags for me. Why is this the only thing you're seeing fit to look for? Is this what "high-value man" means to do? Did your ex refuse to wait to have sex with you? Is there some third factor going on here? It's bizarre for your only criterion to be "someone who will wait to have sex with me."
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 04:22 PM
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Okay, 1) you fucked that up by being funny and then backing down right away 2) never, ever, ever have a serious/emotional discussion over SMS. If you feel the need to explain yourself for some reason, call.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:42 PM
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You know, I see this advice thrown around a lot, and I have to imagine it's perpetuated by guys who don't actually get laid all that often. I don't know about you, but when I go out looking to bring a girl home, I don't stick a bottle of tabasco in my pocket. Listen, no chick is going to go dumpster diving so that she can find your used condom.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 02:41 PM
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Flush them down Super bad for the plumbing. Just toss it in a dumpster outside.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:52 PM
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If you told her the same thing, Men and women are not the same. This is not a good litmus test.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:09 AM
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You're hearing only what you want to hear. This is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 10:41 PM
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If you choose to stop seeing the therapist, feel free to send me a private message. I will give you some of my time each week to skype or send messages back and forth.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:50 PM
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Basically, he's talking about biology. The most successful sexual strategy for a man would be to have many different children with many different women, avoiding commitment with any of them, because: he is not responsible for bearing children he can father many children at one time, whereas a woman spends 9 months being pregnant before she can conceive again He does not have to expend resources on childcare (children are physically dependent on the mother, not so for the father) The most success…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:45 PM
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Which is foolish. We cannot give you the kind of advice you need. You're asking fishermen how to be a good fish. Paging /u/phantomdream09
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:48 AM
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Read the book "the way of men" by Jack Donovan.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:46 AM
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So "the Jews" are promoting a mass influx of predominantly Muslim refugees? What would they get out of that?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 01:29 PM
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ask him why he wants to be his son's first bully. Are you kidding me?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:47 PM
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6 months into the long distance relationship ... she gets fat and less sex happens. This is probably a bigger issue than her past. Why are you staying with this chick?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:13 PM
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I am currently editing a part 2 Good to hear. Not to lay the praise on too thick, but I was impressed by the insight in part 1. Hoping for the same in part 2.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 03:30 AM
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Camille's post was excellent. Unfortunately, everybody who read it seemed to immediately declare that their relationship was HLH (not talking about you here). The connotations of "alpha good, beta bad" just will not die.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 12:51 AM
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Men are telling their readers... while the women bloggers are saying... Hopefully it's not too surprising that men and women are saying different things. Your concern is one raised frequently in this subreddit; the answer is that male 'redpill' posters and female RPW posters are writing for different audiences with different objectives. Male writers are trying to teach their readership how not to get "burned" by golddiggers, and frequently those readers are trying to go from doormat to regular p…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 09:15 PM
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We're on the same page. If one is trying to communicate the concept of "don't be a codependent partner," there is a negative way and a positive way to express that concept. "Have a life outside your marriage" would be the negative way to express that concept, for the reasons you mentioned (to wit, it fundamentally requires people to think of relationships/marriages as limiting and constraining). "Take responsibility for your own happiness" would be, in my opinion, a more constructive way to expr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 04:31 PM
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"have a life outside your relationship/marriage" I think a more constructive way of expressing this sentiment would be "take responsibility for your own happiness" or "don't be codependent."
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 03:57 PM
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Because you didn't have sex.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:27 PM
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wearing maybe an UnderArmour shirt and tight Wrangler jeans? How would this upset the apple cart? Everybody would spend quite a bit of time talking about how hilariously bad that outfit was, that's for sure. You're fighting against a strawman you've set up. Look at any tabloid magazine - people absolutely care how fit male celebrities are.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:26 PM
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I boink my LTR 1 every week maybe even per month - just because I don't want to, need to beat her off with a stick. You're begging to get cheated on.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:22 PM
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The idea of using really flat soles is that raised heels would shift your weight from the glutes to the knees, and also decrease your stability. Not quite. Has more to do with ankle mobility and joint angles. Check out the shoes Olympic weightlifters wear.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:25 PM
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I shouldnt even have to explain this to someone so low vibration as you This is fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:18 PM
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EDIT: actually with regards to "Team Women" mentality, if it is biological, i find it hard to believe it is a negative evolutionary trait. Surely if women evolved to have "Team Women" mindset, (if indeed it is evolved) then there must be a good reason for it, for example better odds for survival A trait adaptive for reproductive success on the savannah can be "bad" in civilized society.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 06:12 PM
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If its evolutionary, why is it wrong/bad? Its clearly there because mankind needs it to survive. You're thinking in terms that are far too black and white, as well as making the mistake of believing that evolution only produces "good" things.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 05:11 PM
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i'll still RP my way ...... *tips hat slightly * lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 05:00 PM
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Rule of thumb I live by, if you can't lift as heavy your next workout, then you did too much. This is a good rule for beginners, but the best way to define an intermediate trainee is "needs more than one workout to recover." In more technical terms, an intermediate trainee is somebody who periodizes his program weekly, rather than daily. Example intermediate programs would be The Texas Method, 5/3/1, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 12:07 AM
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Did you sleep with this girl or no? Post is unclear.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:39 PM
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Men respect 4 things: strength courage mastery honor Develop and display those, and you will get respect.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 04:20 AM
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Something about this story doesn't smell right.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 11:38 PM
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Great advice which is applicable to other fields as well.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 11:35 PM
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There are so many misconceptions about what is characteristic of "alpha" behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/16 05:14 PM
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I am very hard to get to know because I put no effort into building friendships; the other party has to do all the work Curious to hear your justification for this one.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:23 PM
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Smile and say "yeah, that was pretty dumb, wasn't it?" Life will be much, much easier if you learn to let things slide off your back. And by the way, there's no "rp" way to disburse a student loan check.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:14 PM
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Completely disagree.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:12 PM
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Start at the bottom, work your way up. I started at an entry-level B2B inside sales job.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:19 AM
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You are 100% missing the forest for the trees here. If your game is on point, you won't have to ask about every single eventuality.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:17 AM
7

You need to read up on the main sub, brother. I physically winced at this part: A few weeks later I wrote her an apology note.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:15 AM
6

I think "The Way of Men" by Jack Donovan would be an awesome read. The target audience is men, not women, but it'd provide a lot of discussion material. Certainly a must-read for anybody raising boys.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 04:45 PM
2

Masculinity is embodied by and defined by: strength courage mastery honor It's certainly nice "to do something your SO wants, just because it would make them happy," but by no means is it masculine. In contrast, "stubbornly refus[ing] to celebrate Valentine's day on some principle" is a masculine characteristic. "Alpha" is a bit more contentious -- typically the definition of an "alpha" male incorporates certain elements of masculinity paired with reproductive success (i.e. a man who is "good at…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 02:30 PM
3

You're not really using any of these terms correctly.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 01:14 PM
29

He is reacting to your RV. Let that sink in for a moment. The fact that you weren't good enough for a relationship with this Chad.... Maybe, maybe not. Two points: "Chad" is a pejorative term invented by sexually frustrated men -- particularly Nice Guys. I hope that "Chad" doesn't become a common point of discussion here, as this sub has always been more about the reality of things, rather than perceptions. Your post is assuming that girls get "pumped and dumped" because their value isn't high e…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 06:06 PM
5

Go read the main sub.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:27 PM
10

I can't just walk away because his parents are supporting me a lot and it would be so inconsiderate to leave him when they accepted me into their house as family. I can't speak to the rest of your post, though I hope other posters will be able to. I will say this, though: You're dating your SO, not his parents. What I quoted above is an absolutely shit reason to stay with somebody.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 03:50 PM
16

"You're cute" would have skipped all the nonsense. He would appreciate the obvious ioi. Would be far too forward. Demure is the name of the game.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 03:09 AM
10

A woman that observes her man actively pursuing other women doesn't feel dread because he isn't displaying value --he's just displaying 'thirst.' Want to highlight this distinction, in particular.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 07:11 PM
2

Also; I am not going to do any hypertrophy till I gain some base of strength. With joint issues, this is backwards. Increase everything to the 10-15 rep range. Hypertrophy helps connective tissues grow, too.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 07:06 PM
16

You're looking at this in a completely backwards way. You're essentially complaining that your girlfriend isn't a man. Instead, take pleasure in her nature, emotional and always in the moment, and all the ways it is different from your own. You mention that you feel like you're talking to a child -- in many ways, "childlike" is a good quality for women, because it means that they still retain the sense of wonder and enjoyment at the world that we all had as kids. One of the best parts of dating …
/r/askTRP21/01/16 07:02 PM
1

Now this is a great post. /u/AviatorDetroid, read this.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:55 PM
2

An ultimatum is an admission that the only way you can attempt to control a situation is via a threat. It's an admission of weakness. It tells her that she has all of the power in this situation, and your only option is to threaten to leave. I don't fully agree. In this case, it could also be viewed as OP establishing hard limits for acceptable behavior.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:53 PM
2

Completely disagree, this is finding excuses for being passive.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:52 PM
2

False dichotomy. Both factors play a role.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:51 PM
2

Depends. "Sales" is almost too broad to even be considered a job field. I know guys who bust their ass selling cars for 12 hours a day and I know guys who manage B2B relationships from home and actually do maybe 2-3 hours of work in a given day. The latter get paid more, too.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:46 AM
2

Agreed, and well-put. I'd also add that I doubt many endorsed contributors are living in Los Angeles doing coke and banging supermodels. The best picture would be a guy who is above-average in most dimensions, with perhaps one or two exceptional characteristics, who has always been fairly successful with women but does even better now.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 05:35 PM
1

Jesus, dude. You've been dating for four months and you've felt the need to make multiple posts about this chick and all the crap she's giving you. Read the writing on the wall. You have absolutely zero abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 02:40 AM
9

At the core, this is because the dude on the bus is harmless, while thugs who actually oppress women pose a real threat. For all their talk about how women are just as strong or capable as men are, unbridled, destructive masculinity terrifies feminists. Not saying they shouldn't be afraid; much to the contrary, being scared of a real patriarchy is the smartest thing feminists do.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 11:01 PM
1

Outstanding post, Camille.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 10:45 PM
4

4 months is still within the window of when everything in a relationship should be smooth sailing. She should be acting like an angel to try and keep you, right now. Why on earth would you stay with a girl with whom the sex sucks and you constantly fight?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:48 PM
6

First, understand that telling you about life problems is typically because the girl is seeking comfort from you. Comfort is a "beta" (note that this is not automatically a bad thing) behavior, a key component of long-term relationships. Now that we understand that this is a girl seeking comfort, you have a couple of options, and what you choose will depend on what this girl is to you. N.B. I'm assuming this is happening in person, because if you're letting girls spill their life stories to you …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 03:17 AM
1

Do you need us to tie your shoes for you, too?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:34 PM
2

So, in her eyes he lost frame? He whispered to her to be calm when he should've looked at the bad guy with predator eyes, thinking of ways of taking him down and making moves to do it? He didn't necessarily have to go after the guy himself, but a better reaction would have been "I've got your back," rather than "be cool."
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:50 AM
7

You might be surprised just how far telling him "thank you for everything you're doing. I appreciate you." will go.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 03:22 AM
12

Yes! Because she was taking action and you were about three steps behind. Look, it was a life-or-death situation and she handled it better than you did. I don't say that to hurt your feelings, but because a relationship cannot survive that, and you deserve to be aware.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:10 PM
3

motivation Your problem is that you're looking for motivation, when you should be striving for dedication. Motivation only carries you as long as you want to do something. Dedication carries you even when you don't want to do something.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:03 PM
5

I'm not sure why you think she doesn't trust me anymore? It's not that she doesn't trust you. It's that she doesn't trust you to lead her, because when she was taking care of business, you were getting in the way: I'm whispering for her to just be cool and she's whispering back she's okay. Unfortunately, I concur with /u/redpillshadow. Based on what I see here, this relationship will not survive.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:48 PM
14

>Thread about Islamic immigrants >Still manages to blame "the Jews"
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:33 PM
3

I'm 30, leading the typical hedonistic millennial lifestyle of socializing and consuming media, but it's 2016 and I need to get my shit self-actualized, what can I do with my hands and feet to help my fellow Americans? Big Brothers program.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 09:51 PM
2

Do whatever. If you want to quit women forever because you have a statistically average (not really small) dick size, go for it. Personally, I think that is a pussy way out. Well put.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 05:32 PM
3

You're still doing all of the shit you do for other people. When it comes down to it you don't really give a fuck what you look like or what kind of job you have, if you truly have internal self worth. You have it all backwards. Intrinsic motivation means that you care what kind of job you have for you, not that you don't care at all.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:41 PM
3

What is Beta about making your desires known? It's complicated, because he's basically been in a covert contract, which is extremely "beta." If he had made his desires known from the beginning, that would be different.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:05 PM
7

Playing video games is not a hindrance to your value. Identifying oneself as a "gamer" absolutely is, even to girls who enjoy video games.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:30 PM
5

That's a lie But I agree it's better Okay, here's the difference between the two: "I just want to cuddle" You're saying this because you're afraid of being too sexual. She challenges you with "I'm not having sex" and you back down when you say "oh me neither I just wanted to cuddle." "Good, I'm waiting until marriage" [then immediately escalate physically.] Here the words are untrue, but your actions are telling a different story. Look, when a girl says "I'm not going to have sex with you," she'…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:52 PM
1

Carnegie has a book titled How to win friends and influence people which I haven't read, but is typically highly recommended. Unfortunately, that skill comes fairly naturally to me, which means that I'm a terrible teacher. I will recommend practice, however. Talk to everybody: waiters, cashiers, taxi drivers. If the conversation gets awkward, who cares? You're just another face in a long day of faces. Once you can consistently get these people engaged and make them laugh/smile, you're in a good …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:29 PM
3

Good meta discussion, even if I happen to disagree. Irritating that people downvoted it. If EVERYONE followed TRP, the human race would cease to exist. I disagree, and here's why: the "no marriage" thing is reactionary. If a sufficient mass of men begin to rail against today's inequalities in sexual dynamics and marriage, the system will change. If the system changes, the "no marriage" ideology will go away.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:22 PM
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I responded with "I just want to cuddle" That's a lie. You knew it and she knew it. Better: "Good, I'm waiting until marriage" [then immediately escalate physically.] I'm considering sending a "concerned" text NO If I had to guess, your problem is that you're coming across as not confident and needy and these girls can tell.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:12 PM
1

people i had nothing in common with You have something in common with everybody -- even if it's just the weather. Learn to build rapport with people, no matter their background; it's an incredibly valuable skill.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:59 PM
6

Don't feel bad about winning a mortal kombat tournament or whatever, just understand that at best, most girls will consider it a neutral, with many thinking it's kind of weird. Physical hobbies are good (and as you become more fit you'll find yourself increasingly interested in them) but not mandatory.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:00 PM
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You can enjoy nerdy things, but nerdy things can't be all that you enjoy, and they cannot form the core of your personality -- which it sounds like they currently do. Yes, if the majority of your interests are stereotypically uncool, you should take up hobbies that are "cooler." Think of it this way: rock climbing is an activity which gives you experiences in life, accomplishments ("I climbed that 5.9 today"). What experience do you gain from binge-watching a whole season of anime on Netflix? Wh…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:34 PM
2

all she really wants is that emotional exclusivity she doesn't need the physical exclusivity. Seems like most women are like this. Yep, this is pretty common.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:04 AM
8

Clearly, I appreciate maturity. Your post would have been fine without this; would you have said it to a poster you knew was male? Don't lose your mind because you're talking to a chick. Particularly on this subreddit, of all places.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:00 AM
3

Life is not conducted on a Hollywood set. One punch can leave serious, permanent damage. I enjoy boxing as a hobby, and getting hit with a mouthguard in and hands up is one thing. Letting somebody beat on you is beyond stupid.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:06 PM
3

This is only sort of true. She found an "alpha" male, and look where it got her? Men will sleep with women that they wouldn't dream of dating. This is why it's so important for a woman pursuing commitment to not sleep with men outside of relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 04:38 AM
1

No. Say "okay" or "k", then reach out again on a later date.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 12:41 PM
1

There are exceptions to every rule, of course, but yes.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 12:40 PM
2

They use terms like Alpha, Beta, number close, approach etc in everyday conversation. That is very annoying.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:46 AM
1

This isn't terrible, but typically you want to be a little more indirect than this -- even in jokes.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:44 AM
1

This isn't necessarily true. Most women are so afraid of rejection that they won't even go that far to initiate something.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:39 AM
1

Part of why OP is getting shit on is because he's being a pussy about this ("accidentally"). Most men who post about cheating do take some flak, but it's not normally this bad, if they're honest about it. In my opinion morals are ultimately useless and just a hindrance to your own progress. I'd probably agree with the notion that one can get farther in life without morals. That doesn't, however, mean that I think that we should all live without morals. Humans are social creatures. We have evolve…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:36 AM
1

What do you want to accomplish?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:38 PM
1

Focus on the message, not on the exact wording. You're not seeing the forest because you're worried about individual trees.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:21 PM
4

Excellent post. I think it would help OP if you answered this part of her question as well: So, what should I do? Just ignore it? I really want to talk to him about it and at least let him know I know what he said.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 08:57 PM
2

In many cases, my first impression of a girl will be "damn, she's really cute." then she starts to like me and I start to doubt how attractive she is. Is this a case of deep seeded [sic] insecurity that I couldn't pull this chick This would be my guess. My assumption is that deep down, you don't believe a really attractive girl would be interested in you. Once a girl shows interest, you assume that she, therefore, must not be attractive. Keep working on yourself, and remind yourself that you are…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 09:55 PM
4

met this girl 2 weeks ago over text Jesus christ, dude. Pull yourself together. That said, I doubt that you can come back from this. You need to withdraw for a while, at the very least. Next time you're in this situation, understand: the difference between a crush and love why this was a huge strategic error
/r/askTRP11/12/15 09:52 PM
7

I disagree. I think he think's he's not good enough to land a hot chick, so if he's with this girl, she must not be hot.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 09:48 PM
1

Applying logic to a girl's adoration is possibly the single worst thing you could do.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:01 AM
4

Well, he's certainly blunt, and gives the appearance of being honest about his opinions. I'm not convinced that he believes anything he's saying. He just understands what his main audience wants to hear. Trump's favorite book is the bible? Yeah, right.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:43 PM
1

I wrote a post about taking notes from Donald Trump despite the fact that I find his "policies" and populism abhorrent.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:38 PM
4

Other ideas I love
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 05:02 PM
14

If respect has an antithesis, it's embarrassment. You cannot ignore this.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 04:58 PM
3

The better lesson to take is "constantly and consistently vet the girls you spend your time with." This isn't the first time this guy's girlfriend has been disrespectful or unappreciative; his mistake wasn't in proposing, but in not dropping this chick when she started to give off signs that she sucks. This vetting process is the core of what people on here call "an abundance mentality." Being willing to constantly vet your woman -- and to drop her if you discover she sucks -- is a reflection of…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 04:35 PM
5

I have okay social skills and I look and dress pretty normal Are you suggesting that these things aren't the case for your SO? he has some quirks that I find hard to ignore. I find myself cringing a lot when we hang out with other people. Might help if you expounded -- in a way that doesn't turn into ranting or speaking poorly of him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 02:51 PM
5

Why on earth would you "not bother?" Do you hate money?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:02 PM
7

Check out the concept of intermittent fasting if you're interested in learning more.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 06:51 PM
1

A few sources for you to check out: http://www.npr.org/2013/01/03/168508910/what-is-a-good-unemployment-number-really http://www.bloomberg.com/bw/articles/2013-05-02/why-not-target-a-3-percent-unemployment-rate https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Full_employment
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:37 PM
5

I can imagine why somebody "wants" to work over 50 hours, e.g. because they are supporting unemployed wife and kids, but is it beneficial for the employer? Yes, of course it's beneficial. Even paying somebody overtime is still cheaper than having to fund a 401k, health insurance, and so on for another head. why we don't see populists to set limits to lets say 50 hours a week to decrease unemployment? Why would we want to decrease unemployment? It's right around 5.5%, which is just about perfect.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:22 PM
3

It's not a matter of discussion because unfortunately, unless you're willing to reinvent yourself as a complete counter to said stereotype, it's an unavoidable obstacle, synonymous with height. Bingo. Anybody with half a brain can acknowledge that being colored in some way, shape, or form is typically disadvantageous in America. So is being short. These "I'm [short/not white] and I can't get girls" posts are annoying for two reasons: They devolve into hyperbolic arguments in which posters start …
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:51 PM
37

If both partners frame the conflict as "us versus the problem," instead of "you versus me," you can avoid resentment and, really, most conflict. The tricky bit is finding the root problem. Money issues aren't about money, for example, but rather a feeling, such as "I want to make sure the family is provided for."
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 04:31 PM
2

No prob.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 03:50 PM
3

He'd mentioned liking Shinola watches when I was flipping through a catalogue, but those are a little more than I wanted to spend. Check out Hamilton watches, especially the Khaki Field line. A handful are more expensive than Shinola, but the other half are a few hundred dollars less. If Hamilton is still over budget, check out some Seiko 5, which can almost always be found for ~$100. Both of the lines I mentioned have the same American railroad / military styling that's featured prominently in …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 02:59 PM
5

Would you marry a woman who deflected and joked around and agreed-and-amplified to avoid letting you know her N count? False equivalence, Kelly. Men and women aren't the same.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 02:44 PM
1

For fuck's sake, dude, don't come here asking for help and then throw it back in her face.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:54 AM
1

Solid post.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:51 AM
2

Or being honest about being stumped and possibly posting a link to this thread in a meta-game move....? Because nothing turns girls on like showing them internet threads you made obsessing over a comment they typed on Facebook. I have no idea what she meant. Facebook is not the place to flirt with girls.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:50 AM
2

Have you read the sidebar? Because honestly, this is such a simple question that I find it hard to believe you've done even a modicum of research.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:48 AM
5

I would go as far as to say that picking the right man is the single most important bit of RPW philosophy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 10:37 PM
11

A) That's being an asshole, but you do you, B) I don't believe you.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:56 PM
10

Highly, highly recommend it. Don't be like the 99.9% of people who would rather whine about a society raised by single mothers than actually do something about it. Most of us are not policymakers and cannot make sweeping changes. What we can do is make our community a better place by our actions.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:54 PM
1

Probably less disruptive, but still not ideal.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:31 PM
1

lie on the bed during free time with my laptop on my lap. That's a really good way to fuck up your sleep cycles.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:55 PM
13

I'm very happy with my life and don't need sex to feel happy. If this is true, why did you post a few hundred words asking if it's okay that you aren't having a lot of sex? Why did you provide detailed statistics about who you've slept with, how you accomplished that, and how you relate to the average?
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:52 PM
1

I also get a bit of the impression that you might be more serious about him than he is about you. I think if you made yourself a little less available to him it would help with this. Typically, this is not a winning strategy for women. When men pull away, women chase; when women pull away, men withdraw.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 11:25 PM
5

It never fails to amuse me that throngs of men are desperately trying anything and everything to add just a little bit of muscle... and women are often so terrified that they're going to get huge by accident.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 07:19 PM
4

Well put. Overdoing "stoic" can turn into "boring."
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:20 PM
1

Well after spinning plates for a time you do get bored with just getting pussy. After you've marked all the boxes on your personal pervert to-do list it just isn't that exciting anymore. Amen. Eventually, you're just masturbating with somebody else's body.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:13 AM
1

Absolutes are always wrong.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:36 AM
3

I used to workout in my free time but it was taking up all my time having a full time job + working out + making my meals and draining my happiness in the process. You will never again have as much free time as you do now. People get more busy as they age, not less. Learn how to prioritize now, or suffer the consequences.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:28 AM
4

Agreed. Among men, respect is earned, not freely given. Respect, at the core, is shown to men who demonstrate the masculine qualities of mastery, honor, strength, courage. Holding women to the same terms isn't misogynistic, it's equality.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 03:40 PM
5

Only works if it's obviously a joke. E.g. "By the way, we can't have sex tonight... I'm on my period."
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:00 PM
4

You're reading this the wrong way. There's too much dread right now.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:56 AM
9

You're reading the situation incorrectly. The girl wants to be reassured that OP cares about her. This comment would do the opposite.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:54 AM
9

In a nutshell, the same qualities that women are attracted to (aloofness, confidence, drive, the interest of other women) will also drive women off the fucking rails if left completely unchecked. She'll get into her own head too much. In a long term relationship, it's necessary to occasionally demonstrate commitment, caring, and/or "comfort" to the girl.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 11:53 AM
1

Use a lambskin condom.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:33 AM
2

Relatively minor issue; friction points like this one will be common as you continue to reorient the way you live (I see you're trying to be more independent.) If she brings it up, explain that you'd been waiting too long and needed to eat. Don't get mad, there's no reason to be.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:03 AM
7

I've found, as a guy, about half the time chicks don't care, as a reason for statistic. Great, but OP is a girl and this isn't relevant to her.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 03:27 PM
5

Jack Donovan (who is gay himself) has written about this. He believes it's not homosexuality that bothers most men, but the attendant effeminacy. The deliberate rejection of masculinity.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:58 PM
4

Agreed. I also don't think it would be that valuable of an addition. Do you really need to have a woman confirm this stuff before it rings true?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 03:11 PM
3

Good in theory, but most male/female dynamics don't work like that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 03:59 AM
21

I can't tell you how he might react. As another poster said, he will certainly think of you differently -- nobody can predict how, though. I can say, however, that if there are other people who know about this, then he should know as well. It would not be fair to him for your friends to be aware of this, but for him not to be.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 04:05 AM
3

Should I [have] fought him? Nope, something like that most likely isn't worth it -- especially if he had a friend there. However... Is learning how to fight important as an alpha a man? Yes. You're not ashamed because you didn't fight. You're ashamed because you were afraid to. Understand the distinction? If you'd had the ability to win the fight and had chosen not to engage, you wouldn't feel the shame that you do now. But because you are unable, the decision was taken out of your hands. You mu…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:10 PM
6

Congratulations, you're an asshole. If this social experiment has taught me anything it's that most people are intimidated by authoritative figures and will do almost anything to avoid confrontation No fucking shit, sherlock. How about you stop preying on them and start watching over them.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:00 PM
4

get plenty of sex in the week either just before or just after her period. Just checking to make sure that you're aware that the week before menstruation is ovulation / "fertility." Are you sure there's a problem here? I also think that you may be reading too much into this. I said something like “I don’t even get a kiss now do I?” Knock off the neediness. I particularly hope you're not doing that in front of your children.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:45 PM
-13

This subreddit just jumped the shark.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:44 PM
1

But I'm single. And when I meet a guy, travel gets brought up sometimes, as a lot of people my age are traveling. And whether the guy is ultra religious, or beta, or alpha, not one man has ever seemed off-put, or sneered, or rejected me right then and there when I say that I have traveled. Lots of people are impressed, or they think it's great I had the "guts" to press pause on my life here and go explore. Many people wish they had done the same thing as me. Nobody's going to be a dick to your f…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 03:23 AM
1

You're spending too much time on here. The "man" archetype and "woman" archetype on this website may be predictable. Real people are not.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:22 PM
1

I probably have some sociopathic tendencies as well because... You sound incredibly young when you say stuff like this.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:19 PM
4

It is natural to oscillate a bit when changing one's personality - to ramp up confidence, but take it too far. A little bit cocky is good, arrogant is bad. Note the feedback, evaluate your own behavior, adjust accordingly if needed.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:13 PM
5

Typically speaking, "too submissive" is code for "annoyingly passive."
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:04 AM
2

I'm seriously thinking of going MGTOW or stick to prostitutes because of that. Come on, dude. You don't need to be huge to get laid. Your IBS has nothing to do with your inability to get women.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 07:05 PM
3

Do not start texting more, because you should not yield to her clumsy power play ("my ex boyfriend...") Do recognize the underlying issue and start providing more emotional support
/r/askTRP05/10/15 06:58 PM
1

Confidence comes from failure. I have to disagree. At best, a lack of giving a shit comes from failure, but if you look at the psychology, confidence comes from success.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:05 PM
1

Why are you trying to logic this woman into having sex with you?
/r/askTRP02/10/15 03:35 AM
2

If you say 'Whoa, he looks good' instead of 'He looks hot,' that shouldn't not come off as disrespectful to him. Why say either? Trying to find the least offensive way to compliment another man in front of your husband seems more than a little silly.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 03:25 PM
7

no lube was used and she said it was uncomfortable, so I fucked up there. Gee, I wonder why she doesn't want to do it again.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:38 PM
8

Bottom line: Is he somebody that you can admire?
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 04:15 PM
2

Because hey, if you want - then why not? :) Because it's not an optimal strategy. Brazenness in a woman is not attractive; the way women "approach" is by being inviting, not by initiating. You say "well don't approach beta guys," but it's not that simple. Traditionally minded men ("captain material") are going to be very wary of a woman who asks men out. Almost by definition, then, you have to ask out "beta" dudes, because they're the only ones who will be receptive to it. Men who say things lik…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 01:38 AM
2

No. This fucking chad thing is getting out of hand.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:36 PM
1

I have been in this exact situation. It almost always ends poorly. You're a man, and need to make your own path, but be advised that fucking the ex-girlfriend when you: Broke up on fine terms (because college) Still have feelings for each other is bad, bad news. I don't often share my failings, but it took me about a year and a half before I finally cut all ties with my high school girlfriend, after a lot of drama and emotion (on both sides)*. It was a mess, and I advise against it. *and we stil…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:48 PM
7

You guys are over-analyzing the shit out of this.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:01 PM
0

Agreed, but regardless of whether the cause was legitimate, the stigma now exists. It is foolish to base one's actions on how things should be. Act based on how things are.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:39 PM
3

I think you should make it clear to him that you are In a LTR and not interested in staying in contact with him whatesoever What is your reasoning for responding + blocking instead of just blocking? If she is "not interested in staying in contact with him whatsoever," why contact him?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:43 PM
0

I feel like it can only happen once I am 10% or less. There will always, always be another qualifier. Once you're at 10% body fat, you'll think "five more pounds of muscle, then I can get laid." You need a change of mindset.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:39 PM
1

Why would you?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:25 AM
9

Honestly, dude, that joke was so blatant that it definitely didn't need a "sarcasm" tag.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:18 AM
27

I feel like I'm seeing a version of my bf as if he were on the market? Does that make sense? It doesn't send me into a panic but it does bring up discomfort. Not because I think him working out will make him leave but it's just this strange feeling of seeing him in an almost "single" light and not feeling that security. Probably the best description on reddit of what dread game feels like for the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 11:07 AM
10

how did we get so sad? Because we no longer need to struggle.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 02:04 AM
3

Dudes who have been hurt before are going to comment on this saying she cheated on you. Dudes who are in love right now are going to comment saying that because she told you, she's trustworthy. In my opinion we have too little information to contribute anything meaningful. Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:30 PM
5

By the way, if girl carries condoms with her, would you consider that a red flag for an LTR? She does. I think it is a red flag. For a girl that wants you to be exclusive before sleeping with you? Yes, absolutely. I mean, think about that for a few minutes.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:02 PM
2

When a chick says that, she genuinely means it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:06 PM
1

I agree. Occam's razor, if nothing else, would suggest that she just needed a ride.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:04 PM
12

Well, as a counterpoint from my military experience (which I think reflects the captain/first mate thing pretty well): I expect my subordinate leaders to take charge, give orders, and get things done. I expect them to be dominant.. Just not over me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/15 02:19 PM
2

we go alpha Found your problem.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:50 AM
1

No clue, it has to be something you pick based on what you want from your life. As an example, there are three things that were important to me: I want to do something "cool" I want to be of service to my community I want a family When choosing my mission in life, I kept those three things in mind. I suggest that you sit down and figure out your priorities, then work towards a life that lets you fulfill them.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:36 PM
1

Bad.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:00 PM
1

"Unfortunately it tends to even out because I'm caught up in thinking about Mars, Bertrand Russell, or how air conditioning works and miss out on simpler, more essential aspects of human interaction" That is insufferable.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:54 PM
1

You need a mission.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:52 PM
2

Rippetoe sucks at teaching the clean. Starting from the deadlift position is wrong. A barbell row (sometimes called the Pendlay row) FYI these are two different exercises.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:50 PM
1

How about just a small red pill? Tell bitches you really liked the matrix Well that's a lose-lose if I've ever heard one.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:46 PM
2

Here she tries to reschedule, I decline because my time is important and I don't make plans with woman on their terms. I understand that you're still grappling with how to apply frame and dominance, but this is a silly game that a self-actualized man does not play. You suggested a time, she couldn't make it but proposed an alternative. That is how people make plans. Her proposing an alternate time is actually a very good thing, because it means that she wants to see you. When a woman reaches out…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:43 PM
3

I don't get the same treatment. Why do you think that is?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:38 PM
17

It's not a change, and it is you. I'm sorry. This is going to be hard for you to hear, but if she were to come across a man that she was very attracted to, you can bet that she would get freaky again. She doesn't do that with you because she doesn't want to. I think that you know this, deep down, else you wouldn't be so hurt.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:50 PM
7

TRP is about sexual strategy. Agreed, 100%. If, however, we permit questions about careers, college, what to do about male friends, and so on, I think it is also fair to permit a question from a young man trying to understand spirituality.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 01:06 PM
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Reminder to all: You may not believe in religion, but this is a legitimate question. Do not downvote this topic based solely on your disbelief in a higher power.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:02 AM
1

5 combat deployments MARSOC/Raiders?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 01:52 AM
24

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. - Robert Heinlein For the most part, gender roles aren't about what you do. They're about how you do …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 05:36 PM
5

I do know how busy he is and I care too much to let him go home to a house that's filthy because he has no time to do it himself. EPC, you are smarter than this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 03:34 PM
2

when I bring up the topic that, hey, maybe not all christian women are the unicorns you dream of, look at those sloots, ... I.. guess I just felt really bad after getting yelled at, and felt really wronged You brought this upon yourself.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 05:54 PM
10

There are many ways to be a leader of men. Only some of them require you to be uncaring.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:39 PM
8

Because this: "funny like how? Am I a fucking clown to you?" Hurt, and angry sounding. Doesn't work in real life. Acting hurt because of something a girl says to you is possibly the least attractive thing you could do.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:24 PM
1

No, dude, you need to be reading the research (from pubmed), reading articles, checking out the steroids subreddit. Listening to some dude's stories won't cut it.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:53 AM
2

guy that had used them for years guiding me. That is not fucking good enough. Hormones are powerful shit and are not to be fucked with. You need to understand the science.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:48 AM
1

This is a very solid comment.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:45 AM
2

Would you recommend /r/nofap[1] ? It seems pretty controversial on /r/theredpill[2] . In your case, it's absolutely necessary. Google search for Vegan bodybuilding
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:40 PM
2

Hah, I like that.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:56 PM
7

I could have said some shit like hey, if you use UBer a lot, feel free to call me when you need a ride so you don't need to wait. If you're going to ask a girl out, do it. Don't pretend there's some other motive.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:55 PM
3

Your response kinda smells of fake machismo. Like a thin "I'm swole" veneer of masculinity. I mean... your handle is /u/bicepblastingstud[1] . Are you serious? That's literally the same shit as "I'm swole! Monster Energy! Extreme!" Way to package yourself perfectly into a overly simplified stereotype. I don't like to talk shit on the internet, but you shoulda stepped back with that "ostensibly a man" bullshit. I intentionally used a harsh tone to provoke an emotional reaction, my friend. Now, si…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:45 PM
5

The women I want to have sex with are the chubby, thick ones. This is not true. You don't believe you have a chance with hot girls, so as a defense mechanism you've convinced yourself that you prefer unattractive women: It's really automatic
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:40 PM
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I'd catch so much fucking shit when I got home if I went radio silent for 6 hours. You even type like you're whipped. Is this girl your girlfriend or your babysitter? Dude, you're (ostensibly) a man and your girlfriend can't lose track of you for six hours? I once heard that right after moving in together, a man should say "I'm going to go get some milk" and then disappear for a couple of hours without explanation, just to set the standard of not being accountable to anybody else. How would I do…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:35 PM
4

the hell people call the real world.... you only get the first 21 years to enjoy all of the sex, partying, social opportunities, and fun that life throws your way until you turn into an adult and it's time for the government to tax the life out of you. Oh please.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:43 PM
16

I gave her an STI during our relationship... now she only wants unprotected sex Jesus H Christ, guy, how does this not throw up red flags?
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:39 PM
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First, her using sex as a bargaining chip is completely unacceptable and I would end the relationship over that alone. Second, you bluffed and she called you on it. Did you really say "are you threatening to cheat on me?" immediately after you had just threatened to cheat on her? Third, use actions, not words. You don't say "I'm going to sleep with somebody else!", you just give the impression that that's an option. What you should have done after she pulled the "I won't fuck you until you apolo…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:24 PM
16

Jesus, no.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:18 PM
2

"It's your ship" by CAPT Mike Abrashoff is a great leadership resource.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 12:13 PM
10

Fuck women. Fuck the bunch of assholes that sold me that lie. Fuck my slutty ass mother who I idolized. Fuck her for stealing my love away from my father. Fuck my wife for threatening me. Fuck her for taking my children to a country I can't get them back from. Fuck her for making a business, bankrupting, and leaving me crippled in debt. Fuck the owner of the business I work at for wanting to can me after years of late nights. Fuck friends who I've been there for who aren't there. Fuck other "fri…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:57 AM
3

Never say that anything has been taken from me; only that I have given it back. -Epicurus
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:46 AM
3

respect him as a man and want to help him. If you respected him, you would not be helping him. The distinction between help and support is critical.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 03:31 PM
1

Eat a high-carbohydrate snack.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:30 PM
8

That wasn't a shit test, it was just a dumb text joke. 1) text less 2) text in a more masculine fashion. Fewer emojis, less "ahaha" and "lol".
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:29 PM
2

Malört poison
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:09 AM
21

The short answer is that committing to an opinion puts you at risk of being opposed to the group. Easy example: if you say "I am conservative," you're at risk that the group you're in might be mostly liberal. Women evolved such that social standing in a group is everything. This is why women powertalk and why they tend to avoid taking fixed positions on things, particularly things which don't have an obvious answer.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:37 PM
11

I'm not trying to change him how do I get my man to start.... .
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 05:17 PM
2

If you didn't want to offer advice, why did you type a bunch of advice. 99% of the time you are going to be bored as fuck, miserable as fuck, tired as fuck, and felt taken advantage as fuck.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:14 PM
3

♂
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:12 PM
1

Sort of. The word you were looking for was "No."
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:03 PM
2

99% of the time you are going to be bored as fuck, miserable as fuck, tired as fuck, and felt taken advantage as fuck. Servicemembers bitch, my friend. A lot. If all you have to go on is stories, I'm not surprised to hear you think that it's a bad idea. Your posts in this thread are exactly why one shouldn't comment if one only has second-hand experience - especially when current/former military personnel aren't exactly hard to come by.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:01 PM
2

Its unclear why she would allow you that freedom without allowing herself the same, It's not unclear. Men and women have different motivations. Women fear emotional cheating, men fear physical cheating. In addition, men are typically the ones with a polygamous drive, whereas women just want the best man they can find.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:14 PM
3

You'll be fine, guy. There's a lot of bullshit in the military but the benefits are good and the opportunities are once-in-a-lifetime. Who else is going to pay you to jump out of planes? If you end up hating it, start saving your money and when you get out you'll get paid to go to college. A close friend of mine got out after 6 years with close to six figures in the bank and then went to college on the GI bill. The army is not an awful life decision. You'll be 23 or 24 when you get out, your who…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:05 PM
2

Read the Economist.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:26 PM
17

The fact that people judge you based on what you do and who you are -- rather than accept you and like you "just because" -- is a godsend, because it means that each of us has the power to determine what people think of us. Now I barely speak anymore and avoid social contact. This is on you. A website should not be able to ruin your life.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:22 PM
2

Key information is missing.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 07:14 PM
2

Posters who say "TRP isn't about sex, it's about [x]" are -- intentionally or unintentionally -- trying to justify the existence of the subreddit, implicitly conceding that it would be a bad thing if TRP was about sex. When we respond to allegations of sexism by saying "well, no, it's about self-improvement," or when we respond to claims of misogyny by saying "oh, but those comments are coming from guys in the anger phase," we have just unintentionally established that there are some criteria th…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:56 PM
2

WELCOME TO THE RED PILL The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:10 PM
3

I'm just afraid I'll move from sharing my life with my parents (finances, etc) to with an SO without ever seeing what just living is like. Yes, that may very well happen. For 99% of humanity's history, that's exactly how it went. A girl only left her parents' protection to move in with her new husband. You can't have everything (career + "finding yourself" + love) in life, and the sooner you stop trying, the better. America is full to the brim of women in their late twenties who are just now rea…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 01:49 PM
2

It's right in the sidebar, my friend.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:39 PM
3

Haha. I don't blame people for thinking that, though. Many, many posters around here have a "MGTOW" bent and many more are still ashamed of being a man and desiring sex. When TRP is accused of being misogynistic, the wrong response is to say "but it's not about sex or girls, it's about becoming a better man!" Not only is that untrue, but when you respond to an emotional argument you've already reduced yourself to that level. The proper response is to say "I will not limit my speech because you d…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:36 PM
4

TRP is, quite explicitly, about sex. That is not a bad thing.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:19 PM
3

Believe me when I say that none of those three presidents would have given up their platform to somebody else. I rather doubt that Lincoln would have paused in the middle of the emancipation proclamation to let somebody else speak. However, giving up the microphone doesn't bother me nearly as much as leaving his own event. Frankly, I would hope that he'd be smart enough to predict what would happen if he let a few protesters without a plan speak, but I digress. Slinking off like a kicked dog was…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:02 AM
8

but the policies are much, much more important than any of that machismo drama. I actually disagree. Like a CEO, the influence of a president is primarily in the hiring decisions he makes and in the way he runs his cabinet, joint chiefs, etc. Not in the individual policies he supports. Take any wildly successful president - Lincoln, FDR, Washington often occupy the "top 3" billet. Would any of them be revered the way they are if the policies were the same, but the leadership wasn't present?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:48 AM
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When the video of Bernie yielding the microphone was first posted on reddit, one of the top commenters was talking about how this was a "huge plus" for Sanders' presidential run, that by giving over the mic [Sanders] looked respectful. He looked, I dare say, presidential. Presidential. Pah. He looked like a coward.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:28 PM
5

You can move in together or she can move in with you, but you can never move in with her.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:36 PM
3

I laughed.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:42 PM
2

Google mr money mustache.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 01:28 PM
1

What would I do? Evaluate the context* and give the response that benefited me the most, of course. *(who was asking, straight/powertalk)
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:02 PM
2

It didn't come off that way to me, actually.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:09 PM
1

Do you really need a JD to know that prostitution is illegal in most states?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:53 PM
4

Napoleon was 5'6", very average for the time.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:52 PM
12

eating disorder Nope. The way he talks to her is not a way to build up someone's esteem... I think she's absolutely beautiful and has no reason to have such low self esteem. By all means, be more of a white knight.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:49 PM
2

Agreed. Besides, it might be fun. There's no rule saying you can't do date-like activities with a girl you're seeing casually.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:38 AM
4

Go to lunch, sleep with her immediately afterwards. This isn't that hard, man.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:58 AM
4

No, guy, it's not fucking okay. Now. Why is your wife dissatisfied with you?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:55 AM
7

Other posters will address the rest of this, but there's a point I want to touch on. . I sort of have this desire to be loved for who I am, not what I bring to the table Guess what? You are what you bring to the table. A man is the sum of his actions. "Who you are on the inside" is trite bullshit that doesn't matter. You can be a hero on the inside all you want, but it won't stop you from getting your ass kicked. You can be a rich man on the inside, but that won't keep you off the street.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:53 AM
8

Jesus. Dude loses his fucking father and then gets chastised by his girlfriend for spending the inheritance recklessly. Frankly, OP is very lucky that the dude just went to bed instead of getting violent.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/15 01:45 AM
7

I don't think this is necessarily fair. You could ask that question of essentially every post that offers advice, ever.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 07:48 PM
6

Sure, you can keep him happy for about 15 years if you act perfectly, keep a BMI of 20 and use makeup religiously. But you won’t keep this type of guy from straying when you turn 55. Date losers, because dating men with high expectations is too much work.TM ;)
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 07:46 PM
4

Those dudes were too busy striving for success to whine about being brown on the internet.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 07:43 PM
3

I didnt comply to any of these request at first but after having sex with her i started to. I stopped hanging out with my friends as much and made time for her. Now i feel the roles have reversed and now i lost framed and started begging for her time. "I did x and got a bad result" Solution? Stop doing x.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:20 PM
1

You cuddled with a girl who has a bf. So what. The dude was a friend of his.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:32 PM
0

Why on earth would I want a woman who isn't attracted to status or wealth?
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:29 PM
1

I agree. This is an insightful post and hopefully it gives OP some things to think about.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:29 PM
1

However, if you ever do try another LTR after TRP, you'll find it's actually hard to stay 100% alpha all the time. You're going to have your beta days... aka, your 'off' days. You're making the same mistake that I alluded to in my first post. Beta is not necessarily bad. Alpha is not necessarily good. They are different types of traits. Alpha : cad :: beta : dad Alpha : protector :: beta : provider Alpha : disregard/dread :: beta : comfort and so on. Every person is a mix of these types of trait…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:22 PM
1

I have this insecurity that people don't want to talk to me and ignore my calls. Listen, this is on you. A very good friend of mine is terrible at responding to my text messages. It'll often be two or three texts before I get a response from him. However, that doesn't bother me, because I am confident enough in myself that I don't start worrying "maybe he doesn't actually like me? Maybe he doesn't really want to be friends?" and so on. As you become more confident in yourself, you will start to …
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:31 AM
8

Yes, beta traits are necessary for a successful long-term relationship. Many of the posters have set up a dichotomy where "alpha" necessarily equals "good" and "beta" necessarily equals "bad." This is inaccurate.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:27 AM
1

If there's a man in the room (father, etc) do this motion toward him in an "amiright?" way. Unfortunately, the fact that OP has need to post here means that this probably wouldn't go over well with his father.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:25 AM
2

hypergamic process: party years with alpha fuks, followed by epiphany/the wall/settle down with a beta bucks The "hypergamic process" is not a thing. Go read the sidebar until you understand what hypergamy is. Once you do, you'll understand how "settling" doesn't apply in any way, shape, or form to hypergamy. To answer your original question: Males are not hypergamous. They are polygamous.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:46 PM
0

For many men, it will be a dealbreaker. You will have to decide whether or not that is worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 02:54 PM
5

As a nurse, I think he's absolutely right to be giving you a hard time about the way you're treating your body. Not the weight loss - I have no context to know whether you're being healthy about that or not - but buying drugs online from overseas without a prescription is a terrible idea, not to mention illegal. If you think you may have PCOS, go see a doctor. I'm sorry to tell you, but undergrad biochem does not give you magical diagnostic powers. Self-diagnosing yourself with a serious illness…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 02:50 PM
3

I might be 17 but none of the things your husband said made any sense to me Hah, I remember when I was a teenager and thought I understood the world.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 02:48 PM
2

Classic rock types are particularly egregious because they lack the DIY work ethic that sometimes exists in scenes like punk/hardcore/death metal. This is such an unbelievably specific and prejudiced non-sequitur. "Oh, he plays in a classic rock band? Obviously he doesn't have a work ethic."
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 02:46 PM
12

TRP has absolutely nothing to do with the sexual situations you end up in or whether they are sexually satisfying (or not) and/or kinky in bed ...... TRP is not into"specifics" about how to fuck, I disagree. Most women do not want to be sexually dominant.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 01:13 PM
1

am I a condescending prick? From Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: “When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: the people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can't tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own - not of the same blood and birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And …
/r/askTRP31/07/15 05:05 PM
2

The context makes it eminently clear that when I typed "provider" I was expressing the concept "traits typically ascribed to the provider archetype." But hey, you're losing the argument and now you have to fall back onto arguing about semantics and syntax. That's cool, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/15 04:55 PM
2

Sounds like you can do much better than him, and he's duffed his chance with you. YOU should be giving HIM the "K" treatment at this point. Bad advice to a woman.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 03:18 PM
4

It's not against the rules, but you're going to get shit advice. Look at the comments in this thread; more people are ragging on the dude than actually trying to give you advice. Regardless, you're trying to ask fishermen how to be a good fish. You need a woman's perspective. Go. to. RPW.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 03:15 PM
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alpha = cad beta = dad alpha = protector beta = provider etc. People usually equate "alpha" to "good" and "beta" to "bad," but that's not accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/15 03:08 PM
1

can I ask how's this "n"count of one that you say you have is the case? were you an in LTR for years? How on earth does it matter?
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:43 PM
1

If you are known in the business community, Rotary is often pretty good.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:42 PM
16

"Hey did your daughter really get raped last week?" You don't see how this could go poorly?
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:45 PM
2

I have no clue what you're asking.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:05 PM
5

Do you believe her? (not implying that you shouldn't, just asking.)
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:02 PM
1

Like I am glad I have more matches but it kinda sucks to see women being so shallow "It makes me sad that women are judging me based on my pictures on an app which literally only has pictures"
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:06 PM
2

You're thinking of _whisper, who is an EC.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:37 PM
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The greatest difficulty I have with TRP is I simply do not believe you can put all women into a category or all men into a category and than say they will "all do this or that" What you need to understand is that it's generally understood "all women are like that" doesn't mean "literally every woman is like that." Typing out "and of course there are exceptions and this is a generalization to teach about behavior but neurotypical women will all have the same biological predispositions towards hyp…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:29 AM
2

Ultimately, physical safety. It is the root of respect, which is in turn the source of women's love for men. A man who provides physical safety is a man who can handle himself in a crisis. I take the following passage from Jack Donovan's excellent book "The Way of Men." He asks the reader to imagine that "...You are part of a small group fighting to stay alive. The reason why doesn't matter." Other men will need to know that they can depend on you, because everything matters, and your weakness, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:16 AM
1

I... [expect] him to comply with my way of thinking This says it all. But the best thing for men to find is a nurturing woman who has her own emotions in check and can provide a calm, non-judgmental space for him Holy shit, I hope you don't think about your boyfriend that way.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:31 PM
2

Full disclosure time, Dalls18 was my last SO (not the same woman I talked about in my previous post), and if you take a look at her post history, you'll see she's been a lot more active in the last week (after our breakup) and showing real initiative to work on herself, which is very nice to see. Definitely a refresher compared to what I was used to during the time we were dating, where I was the driving force of her growth as long as I could. In fact this whole post is news to me, because I nev…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:15 PM
5

its best to assume AWALT until proven otherwise For somebody with the "RP Man" flair, you have a very poor grasp of what AWALT means. I'm not even going to touch on the "unicorn" stuff. I also find it extraordinarily high-school for you and some chick who's apparently your ex-girlfriend to be posting on the same comment thread.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:14 PM
2

We all experience hate outside of this sub, why must there always be hate inside this sub too? Ladies I expected more from you. You could have simply explained why it wouldn't work, instead of assuming things about me. I will just go back to lurking from now on. You got what, two negative comments? And both were criticizing the idea instead of you personally.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:07 PM
2

be cute and caring AKA girl game.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:03 PM
3

I would not tolerate this kind of crap. Life is too short. But again - live life according to your standards. Ultimately a man answers only to himself and his gods.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:46 PM
5

Dude, live your life by your standards. For one, I think you're fine and I set similar boundaries. But that's irrelevant, because regardless of what the boundary was your girlfriend completely disregarded it. And that's the real problem here.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:40 PM
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Stop being so spineless. I told her off the bat that if she did that with me I would lose interest Apparently you lied. She did it once when she was drunk and I called her out on it, told her it was disrespectful, and that I won't give her my attention if she needs other male attention. Lied again.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:25 PM
1

"Not smart" is a bit of an understatement. I hope you're planning to knock it off. And for future reference don't ever apologize for making a move.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:09 PM
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When I started dating my ex wife Ange she had a child, Lucy from a previous relationship.... After some years we got married When you married this single mother, you were promising to raise her daughter as your own. a child I have nothing to do with Bullshit. You raised that child for years. I am actually with your ex-wife. Both kids or neither.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:40 PM
1

I just can't help it, but take a step back and think if she really means it, or if it's just how she feels at the moment It is how she feels at the moment, but that's actually how you know she does really mean it. Make sense? "AWALT" doesn't mean that you need to assume every girl will cheat on you. It means that you need to keep in mind that women are all, generally speaking, attracted to some traits and repulsed by others, and follow the same pattern of sexual strategy (hypergamous strategy vs…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:34 PM
1

I mean the change. She used to ask you to do it, now she's repulsed by it.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:22 PM
1

She asked me to do it probably once a week for a month or so. Bonus for me, I wasn't even trying and I snagged one that liked it! One night, she gets real weird about it and gets super upset. She said "I don't need to do this, I hate this." Well, we do it a couple of more times over the next few months, and then it became a no fly zone and has been ever since. Did this not trigger any red flags for you?
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:47 AM
2

bit of chat over work email and generally just being chilled and acting non-thirsty, and slowly over time it's been building to the point where there have been emails where short of being explicit, have gotten to the level of "lets go fuck in the bathroom right now" type shit. I don't give a shit about your age. Where is your sense of decorum?
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:44 AM
4

Enough is enough. Do not make another thread asking about how an Indian guy can get with [x] type of women.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:38 AM
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But even now, knowing more of the true nature of society and women, even knowing the Laws of Power, I'm still going to wave my ideology like a banner. Why? Because I derive pleasure in expressing my unauthorized opinions. You and every other guy who's gotten ripped to shreds in the court of public opinion for being a "creep."
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:36 AM
2

This is a nice-sounding platitude, and I admit that for the most part my thinking goes along the same lines... But try to have a little compassion.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:34 AM
1

God damn it, didn't get mentioned.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 11:06 AM
2

Wait until you're at least 25 and have a decent lifting history behind you.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:43 AM
2

Genders reversed version
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/15 09:56 PM
1

You are getting bad advice in this thread and you need to go to /r/redpillwomen.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 08:33 PM
5

I'll still go with an open mind and hope that I get some truth Come on, dude. You can't be that dense. What happened to this? I finally just said to her, you haven't so much as held my hand in the past half year yet you can go fuck some guy you met at work while I sit like a jackass waiting for my junior high like date.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:39 PM
1

Boxing, volleyball, skydiving, scuba, shooting, backpacking/hiking.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:25 AM
1

We need to start deleting posts bitching about race.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:52 PM
2

despite fucking multiple girls I don't believe you.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:52 PM
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This happened in January. Jesus, dude, it's been half a year. Now this kid thinks he's tough shit on me, If -- and only if -- he's actually still bringing this up, he's not just messing with you (which he probably is), it's not all in your head, and you're willing to risk the friendship with him and with the rest of your friend group: Say "you were drunk and I wanted to be the bigger man. If you like, we can get some gloves and settle this." Have gloves and mouthguards ready.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:45 PM
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Most of the other commentators are glossing over this, but I think it's important: In grad school one guy I would actually call a friend cut me off one time after I said something probably dickish "Dude, what's that about? You remind me of my uncle who isn't smart or funny and has nothing to say so they just insult people". Socially I would guess most people think of me as somewhere between a non-presence and kind-of-a-dick. I realize this, but don't know how to be even tolerantly amiable. My wa…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:44 PM
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By attitude I'm a stubborn, egoist, less feminine girl who likes having things her way. I like leading and winning. The problem is he is that way too. No, the problem is that you're that way. I have underlying issues with my dad Too bad. He's not your dad. Do you trust this man? Because right now, your actions are saying no.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 03:13 PM
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He is very confident in his own sexuality and worth as a man so does not feel like he is competing with guys from my past. Just wanted to point out that you're claiming that men who care about numbers must be insecure. That's not a fair characterization.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 02:54 PM
22

Let's not get retarded about this.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:18 PM
1

I get charges of "cock measuring" often enough. I'd agree with that.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:20 PM
1

You need to provide more info -- what's the timeframe -- Will you need this money? If so, when? What does "high yield" mean to you? How is your risk tolerance? Etc.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:15 PM
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There are lots of different ways to approach a sales call. I, personally, don't like the "open with a question" approach, because they don't have any reason to care about giving you an answer. In addition, your next statement doesn't tie into that question at all, so there's not much point in asking it in the first place. In the first few sentences of a cold call, you need to grab their attention and demonstrate why they should listen to you. Consider something along the lines of "Hi, I was look…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:01 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. Just gotta pick up the phone.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 02:27 PM
3

So my question is, how do I move us to the bedroom without asking to have sex Pick her up and move her to the bedroom. Don't say a word. Read the sex god method, if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:40 PM
1

Not sure if it matters but I do have 2 plates right now It does matter.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:39 PM
3

Discipline, not motivation.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:33 PM
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If you can see this coming in the first place: "Wait, you're not sleeping in the bed with me, are you?" If you've already picked a side and she doesn't like your choice: "sucks for you" // "too bad" // "no" It's not that hard.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:32 PM
1

I ... expected us to see each other first as friends and then we would escalate our way up
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:27 PM
2

Is it wrong to expect to see your friends? Has social media culture gone too far? If you're going to respond with ridiculous platitudes instead of discussing the points I'm trying to make, I'm not going to bother wasting my time.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:14 PM
2

she isn't the best lay I've ever had. Your job to make her into one.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:02 PM
2

You described a nice guy behavior. I read that book and I don't identify myself with it. That's because, as you've consistently demonstrated in your posts in this thread, you don't have good self-awareness. Everything you wrote above indicates that you feel scorned because you're doing things for her and she's not reciprocating. I express myself without expecting anything in return. This isn't true. See? ...after all these months of friendship and talking she basically gave the middle-finger to …
/r/askTRP20/07/15 04:56 PM
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Let's not get stupid about this.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:52 PM
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Because there's nothing in here about the girl acting sketchy.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:37 PM
11

I like Jack Donovan's concept of "tactical virtues" -- strength, courage, mastery, honor.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:27 PM
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From the link you posted: Something that people don’t know, is that ‘a feminist’ means someone who wants equal rights,” he says matter-of-factly. “I think you would have hard time finding anyone who doesn’t believe in equality. And I’m apt to believe him. We left at an impasse and I had no wherewithal to argue with the likeable Ohanian, especially on a Friday night in my growing tequila haze. He made a smart social play, disarmed the girl who brought it up, and carried on with his night. Just so…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:22 PM
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No. Calling them old is firing back too hard; you're in high school, and you're there to help them. You're in a subordinate position, and nothing you do can change that. Better: "Great! So I'll pick up my first paycheck on Friday, yeah?" Now my plan of action is to make them earn my help. I'll make them earn it by telling them if they can make me laugh, I'll help them. Now the negatives to this is if they actually bitch and moan to the boss that I'm not helping them, in my defense I'll just tell…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:22 PM
3

Your love will NEVER be the pure nonshallow thing you're making it out to be. Lots of guys don't get this. I often see "I want be loved for who I am, not for what I do!" Dude, what you do is who you are.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:14 PM
2

I doubt she plans to do branch swing because she would tell me it's over if she was going to do that. No, she'll tell you it's over once she's already done it.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:12 PM
1

If you're out of puberty, nothing can make you taller. Wear boots.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:39 PM
3

Some good books about masculinity: The Way of Men by Jack Donovan Gates of Fire: An Epic Novel of the Battle of Thermopylae by Steven Pressfield Iron John: A Book About Men by Robert Bly The Odyssey by Homer (and probably the Iliad, but I haven't read that one yet.)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:37 PM
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If Whisper didn't care about helping these guys, he wouldn't have written anything at all.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:33 PM
1

I understood what you meant, I just disagree with the premise. More women than men are enrolling from and graduating from college. Schools don't need to encourage women to get an education, especially not with ads like "the future is too important to leave to the men."
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 01:13 PM
1

Strong post.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 09:27 PM
1

He just got his levels checked. He knows how much testosterone he has.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:16 PM
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Honestly though if they made it so companies had to pay women 20% more... Companies would just hire men. What frightens me is that the natural next step is to mandate a certain percentage of women in the workforce, à la Norway.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 05:03 PM
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it's nice to see they're pushing for women to get an education for once. Among OECD countries (which includes Sweden), women’s college completion rate is on average 10 percentage points higher than men’s. In the largest OECD country, the United States, women are almost 60 percent of the annual university graduates, more than 70 percent of 2012 high school valedictorians, and account for 60 percent of master's degrees and 52 percent of doctorates being awarded. source
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 05:01 PM
1

It's a process that takes years. Basically you need to become self-reliant, so that your opinion of yourself depends much less on what other people think of you. I am not sure how that's accomplished, exactly.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:45 AM
1

The purpose of TRP is sexuality, but that doesn't mean we can answer this question.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:22 AM
3

To a great degree, respect among men boils down to "can I trust this guy in a crisis?" If you find that you're lacking respect, consider that first.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:20 AM
1

I don't get people complaining about censorship because at the end of the day it's their space to do as they see fit, just like the red pill network is. I agree. And I've noticed that, overwhelmingly, the people who get banned are those who: 1) Use jargon like "alpha," "beta," "cock carousel" (if the poster in question is particularly socially stunted) 2) Spew boilerplate that makes people suspicious and/or mention a TRP-network subreddit by name
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 08:18 PM
3

If it had actually occurred only in the past? Yes. In this situation, where she's looking up dudes on facebook? ....Haha.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:14 PM
1

Like most things: if you need to say it, it's not true.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:44 PM
3

I have seriously been thinking about just spinning plates without telling her, because this way her emotions aren't disrupted and I still get to be with other girls. Don't be a fucking pussy. If you're going to cheat (you mentioned this is a LTR, so that'd be cheating), own up to it instead of acting like it's for her own good.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:41 PM
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You will be the bad guy in every breakup, even if she broke up with you. That's just how it works. Also, I laughed at "if it wasn't for [everything about her], I would probably like her."
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:48 PM
2

Her asking you to repeat yourself was probably a shit test. No it wasn't. Nothing about that interaction says "shit test."
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:21 PM
5

What's your endgame? You're just going to stay with this girl until the end of time because you don't want her to be sad for a little bit?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:18 PM
2

You're thanking this sub for... Existing?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 12:12 PM
1

The goal is happy but not content. This, as you may recognize, is the inverse of the common man's anesthetized life of video games, junk food, and pornography. Happiness will come. Keep setting and achieving attainable goals, and you will develop optimism and happiness.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:07 AM
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You're worried about your success making other people feel badly about their own lives. This is admirable as a general idea, but not when it prevents you from even giving your job title. False modesty does nobody any good, my friend. You're allowed to be successful.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:52 AM
1

Yeah, I know. That makes it all the more imperative that you refuse. Listen to me. You are a man, not a puppy. She does not need to keep track of you, she does not need to make sure you're safe. Never tell a girl that you made it home okay.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:45 PM
4

Stop sharing contrarian advice in a group channel where multiple people can see it.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 06:14 PM
2

Stop using smileys so often. Don't EVER tell a girl that you got home safely and/or are going to bed If she blows off your text, stop sending her another one; at one point I saw 4 texts in a row from you. Your game was bad -- "do you hate me forever" should have been answered with something funny, not "no I'm just disappointed blah blah blah." You should not have bought her flowers, she is not interested enough for that. Your texts at the end got so bad that I actually winced. And dude, looks li…
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:34 PM
3

I'm a bit confused as to how you can be upset that your friend slept with a girl who you've ignored for 11 months, stating "I can't get it up for her, maybe I'm just not attracted to her." You don't just get to "claim" girls and have every other guy respect your wishes. If you want this girl, you should have slept with her. Re: your erectile dysfunction: Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:30 PM
2

Mm. I disagree with his decision, but I agree that it's critical for you to stand by him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 06:23 PM
1

if we have to walk away from a conversation. For god's sake, it's not like she ran over your dog. You and your SO can handle being polite in conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 05:24 PM
3

> Terrified of the dark > Hearing voices > Seeing shapes following you > Anxiety so debilitating that you can't go out at night, have to sleep with lights on I do not have a serious mental illness Sure, dude.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:39 PM
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"see a therapist". According to you, you're hearing voices and experiencing visual hallucinations. How is "seek professional help" bad advice?
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:45 PM
2

How old is he?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 11:45 PM
1

That is the way to retain the benefits. As long as you say it professionally -- and without a single hint of rancor -- he should be fine with it.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:15 PM
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frankly his further expectations are that of a salaried employee. "Hey man, frankly, any further work would be better left to a salaried employee. I was happy to help with the first half and hope it turned out well, but I won't be able to work on this any further."
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:48 PM
3

If she's coming to do your hobby, it's generally a good bet that she's interested.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:48 PM
3

No, seriously, OP. It's worrisome that you aren't grasping this most basic of social plays.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:42 PM
1

What kind of stuff do you want to learn about? "Books that improve your critical thinking" is a category almost as large as "books."
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:22 PM
2

That may be the case, but you must get over this.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 03:03 AM
3

Women are fucking terrible judges of height. Stand with good posture and she'll overestimate by 4".
/r/askTRP07/07/15 02:59 AM
7

One of my good friends I recently find out has been trying to fuck my ex-girlfriend, according to her. according to her
/r/askTRP06/07/15 08:49 PM
4

♂ Does this thing still work?
/r/askTRP06/07/15 08:48 PM
6

to be continued . . . You already wrote 1,467 words. I'm not sure going any further is strictly necessary.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 02:01 PM
12

You heard it here first, folks -- if you don't like a dude at a party, whip out the taser that you apparently carry around all the time and zap him. Then zip tie him and put him in your basement. So fucking alpha.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 06:40 PM
1

Well, you've identified what the problem is, right? So start taking steps to remedy it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/15 04:24 PM
3

Edit: I ignored. Just now. "I feel like a bitch. I hope you'll give me another chance." -- wow. Yep. The power of silence is incredible. Now would be the moment to be magnanimous. "I'll let you make it up to me. Drinks at [x], 9pm tomorrow."
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:56 PM
0

This kind of self-defeatist thinking is why so many people make nothing out of their lives.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:08 PM
1

I believe that no more mr nice guy has exercises in the book. Have you done those? In addition, I recommend you start to get to know yourself. Start with "what do I want?" and keep asking "but why do I want that?" until you've identified the core values you hold.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 09:59 PM
1

It's your life. Don't ask us what to do, ask us how to do it.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:31 PM
5

Being a leader doesn't mean doing everything yourself. It means providing: Clear direction on what task you want done. The purpose you want that task to fulfill. An end state: what you want things to look like when the task is done. And then trusting your subordinates to figure out the best way to make that happen while giving them further guidance if needed. An example: Y: Sweetheart, how much are we putting into savings each month? H: $X Y: Okay. I want to remodel the kitchen, which means that…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:24 PM
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By the way OP, tell your BF to get on reddit and message me. I'd like to introduce him to TRP and teach him dread game, the importance of lifting, and how to defuse shit tests. I want to help him out. I feel for these guys too, but I don't see this going well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 01:02 AM
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I am looking forward to your thoughts since I get the impression he thinks I'm making excuses when I think that those are reasons. I don't get it. Potato, potato. I do still complain because I'm so weak and it's a pain to get back into shape. This is an excuse. YOU control your attitude. Disease or no. I don't want to pile on, but there's a photo on the Internet of a Navy man who lost all 4 of his limbs in an IED explosion. In every photograph, he's beaming. You might feel badly, but part of bei…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 12:38 AM
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Not bad at all. What she said doesn't need a response, and she'll most likely text you again. Also, don't ask a chick to come over the day after you were just with her. It screams "I have nothing else going on."
/r/askTRP02/07/15 07:50 PM
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d I whatsapped her earlier, apologizing about my accusations and asking her to let me know if she wants to continue with the relationship. Come on, man. First, the relationship should be on your terms. Don't ask her if you're allowed to keep dating her. Second, you communicated this over whatsapp? That's just depressing -- get over your fear of confrontation. If she wasn't cheating on you before, she'll probably start. You're already accusing her of doing it, so she might as well, right? I doubt…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 12:48 PM
1

Hope it helps. Best of luck in the future.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:37 PM
2

You didn't make a move. There's not much that women dislike more.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:32 PM
3

Whenever you hear "I'm not interested in a relationship," mentally append "with you." This may come as a shock, but typically women don't want to be with boys who drunkenly ramble about their "theories of the universe" instead of making a move. Drop all contact with her until you see her again, in person. At that time, get her alone and kiss her.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 11:09 AM
6

As long as you express genuine gratitude, most men will not have a problem with paying.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 10:06 PM
1

Hah, I like this guy. A question for you though, OP. Your post boils down to "you're fucked, don't try." Is that what you intended or do you have a better solution?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 04:44 PM
5

Rarely, but when you do: be honest. compliment her on an action, not an attribute. compliment freely, without any expectation of reciprocation or some kind of beneficial outcome.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 09:56 PM
1

Very, very good advice. Well said, V.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:29 PM
2

>very religious >kids out of wedlock Haha. Anyway, to answer your question, there's one circumstance in which I would consider it: If I, myself, were incapable of having children.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:33 PM
2

Swab Vial with alcohol Change needles Swab ass DO NOT FORGET THESE STEPS.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:19 PM
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what some clever ways of shutting down their drivel are, what some of the responses are, and some good ways of maintaining frame in response. If you have to ask how to do it, you're going to fuck it up.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 09:10 PM
1

I'm wanting to ask to see her phone for Facebook messages to see if there's anything up. Why do you think this is your best option?
/r/askTRP25/06/15 09:08 PM
2

Depends on who you ask. I believe that it's predominantly biological. However, nothing is entirely nature or entirely nurture. Genetics matter, but your environment affects which genes are expressed. And so on.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:43 PM
2

There are many ways to phrase the concept, but the idea that people are trying to communicate is roughly that men love women primarily for the qualities they have (innocence, beauty, femininity) and women love men primarily for what they do (provide, protect, lead). None of that means that a man's love or a woman's love is somehow less legitimate, just that they are different.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:18 PM
7

This is not RP-relevant advice... and it's also stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 05:04 PM
7

Are we saying women don't have self control or morals? Nope, definitely not. AWALT = all women (and recognize that there are outliers, but nobody's going to caveat the phrase every time they use it) have the same biological urges and hypergamous tendencies. Men are polygamous -- want to be with many women -- while women are hypergamous -- want to be with the best man possible. A smart woman will deal with this by limiting her involvement with males other than the SO, by consciously appreciating …
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:52 PM
5

So he's been sleeping with a new woman every 4 days since the age of 14?
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:31 PM
6

Just keep in mind that most of what you've listed is what I would term superficial stuff. After your looks, your biggest asset in finding a good partner will be your personality.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 01:23 PM
1

This is terrible. Imply, don't just state things.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:21 PM
3

(Studied physics in undergrad)
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:14 PM
4

It's like I've just met you and already find you insufferable.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:11 PM
2

You've clearly never met a high school-aged girl.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:03 PM
8

You may wish to reconsider giving advice here.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:21 PM
16

I have no advice to offer, but wanted to make sure you understand: he is going to take your reluctance to get pregnant as you not wanting to have children with him. Is he right?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 05:31 PM
4

Salary negotiations don't have to be adversarial. 1) come with examples of how much money you're making the company. 2) know what local salaries look like for your job description (not necessarily job title.)
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:17 PM
1

I'm sure this post will be deleted soon, but for your edification: I have a couple of questions that I feel the RPW community can answer better. You thought wrong. How many times have you been told to pay attention to women's actions (vice words) and to ask the fisherman, not the fish?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 03:14 PM
3

Have you ever read the book Ender's Game? The main character goes through the same thing.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 11:28 PM
34

Guys, for fucks sake, can we stop defining actions as "alpha" or "beta"? Context is key. When we say shit like "fighting is alpha" "no, fighting is beta" we all sound retarded.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:12 PM
3

k
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:11 PM
3

Apologize No.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:03 PM
26

In general, I agree -- you shouldn't be the first one to start the fight, when you can help it. In this situation, I disagree. My girlfriend's male friend shoved me Based solely on what OP has told us, it sounds like the other guy made it physical. At that point, one doesn't have a ton of options left.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 03:00 PM
13

If he doesn't know if there is enough money share the information with him, and let him see the books, but don't make the decision for him. Good answer all around, but I particularly like this bit. In the military -- as in business -- the decision-maker is rarely the person who knows the most about a particular subject. The one with the authority to make a hard decision usually has many hard decisions to make, and doesn't have time for expertise in all of the fields. Instead, the leader relies o…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 07:13 PM
2

Initial discussions (1 month ago) resulted in HR telling me that I must prove that I'm working at the same level with the rest, have the same responsibility as the rest and do just as well as them and in this case they will "adjust me to the next payment bracket". Did you get this in writing?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:54 PM
10

I don't think you're being objective here. Frankly, if she were attractive she wouldn't be having these issues.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 01:58 PM
5

Fibber Showing your age here, my friend. ;)
/r/askTRP03/06/15 08:15 PM
2

I'm going to skip all the stuff about being in a committed relationship with a girl you haven't slept with yet. 3 weeks is nothing. You don't know her well enough to offer emotional support yet. Back off, let her grieve, and see if she contacts you again in a few weeks.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:10 PM
7

Lots of misinformation in here. I'm going to clear some of it up. However: frankly, OP, if you're coming in here saying "I've heard that..." and ending it with a question mark, then you are not ready to juice. You're going to do something retarded and fuck yourself up. Consider yourself warned. What you put on unnaturally will not stay with you naturally. Not true. You'll lose some of what you've gained (and the more you gained, the more you will lose) but not all of it. In addition, some new re…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:03 PM
1

Don't spread your whininess and bad attitude to this guy.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:01 PM
0

No, they aren't. Nor are they "alpha."
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:23 AM
1

I also like "prove it."
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:20 AM
3

You handled it fine until: Me: I didn't think you'd take a playful tease so seriously, I apologize. If you want to continue to be upset and not speak to me, then don't. But realize I wasn't trying to hurt you lol That was absolutely awful. She's a big girl and she'll be fine. I was thinking of something like "I know it's not a big deal" For the love of god, drop it.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:54 PM
3

Women are so insecure about their bodies that you should tread carefully. Every time you neg, you run this risk. Women are wise to negging now, so I just wouldnt do it. When I was a kid, we called it "teasing" and understood that it would never get old.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:52 PM
1

Why are you asking this question?
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:37 PM
0

weary Leery. I don't often correct word choice, but this one is a pet peeve.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:34 PM
2

/u/fnordsnord.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:33 PM
2

Generally it's head back, eyes down.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:31 PM
1

I'm not questioning the veracity, just the pertinence.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 10:12 PM
7

my father is a Catholic priest ....
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:48 PM
3

I think that taking time out of your day to nitpick about whether or not what someone else is saying is relevant to someone else's question is...irrelevant. The reason I point it out here is because this sub has a policy on statements that include "I'm a man." This sub has an issue with dudes (usually popping over from /r/asktrp, where I spend most of my time) self-aggrandizing and talking about how desirable they are.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 03:26 PM
2

dairy free spreads/margarine It won't work nearly as well. You need the butter solids to get the maillard reaction working properly.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 01:41 PM
4

I'm a man, I became very rich in my mid 20's, I was lifting and fit, good looking, good social skills. I could afford to be very picky in selecting my wife, and I did so through exclusive dating services (there was a vetting process for entry). This is all irrelevant to the rest of your post.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 01:38 PM
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she seems rather interested in me but won't move forward I read the whole thing, but didn't really need to go farther than this. If she were interested, she would have slept with you. You are her friend.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:47 AM
1

Well done.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 09:37 PM
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How many times do we have to say "don't talk about TRP" before it finally sinks in? And yeah, your post was spiteful as hell. I'm not sure what reaction you were expecting.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:50 PM
5

Ditch toxic environments. If you're on shit like 4chan, leave. You have nothing more to gain from talking to those types of groups, and psychologically it will be easier for you to change if you change your environment (even the online environment.)
/r/askTRP29/05/15 09:52 PM
2

How old are you, and is this your first relationship?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 09:07 PM
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what I can do NOW (next few days) going forward Frankly, you have a choice to make: your job or your relationship. Your actions if you choose "job" should be obvious. If you choose the relationship, then you should be making arrangements NOW (next few days) to quit your job and move in with your boyfriend. Don't wait until you have another job lined up, just go. Talk to the boyfriend first, since you may already have lost him. If he's not immediately happy about the prospect of you moving back, …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 03:31 PM
6

GIFT ? Do you have a way I could improve Honestly, dude, your post is confusing as hell. OP is like "hey my husband doesn't like lingerie" and you started waxing poetic: You're so rare y'know. The total beauty that isn't trying to manipulate us in some way. Such "unicorns" ought not exist in our own heads. Yet ya do, and it drives us mad with desire to be with one! We've been told by TRP threads that y'all be Gold Diggers and the like. None of this is relevant to the thread, it's just bizarre pe…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:59 PM
2

I laughed. Touché.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:51 PM
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Well, you're more or less correct, but here's the rub. She can't control his behavior, she can only control her own. As such, it will be more valuable for OP to be introspective and consider what choices she's made that laid the groundwork for this situation -- namely the that of a career instead of a relationship. As /u/TempestTcup said: You chose a career, chose to be a continent apart, yet you still want him on a string.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:09 PM
2

we've talked about this stuff before). This is a problem, and you should expand on this more in your original post.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:05 PM
2

Prove those PUA's wrong, show us that we can really understand each other. Tis all we seek... It's what we really want out of you beautiful women... Brother, your posts on this sub started out fine, but they've been getting worse and worse. This one was particularly terrible. I don't know what's going on with you, but you need to get a fucking grip.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 02:03 PM
8

Game isn't a science. It's an art. Try it and see what happens.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:12 AM
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1) Have a conversation one way dictation tonight explaining to her how unacceptable her behavior is (calmly). Come down on her in strict rational terms, but throughout sprinkle in emotional nuggets letting her know you care about her, but you won't tolerate this. I disagree with this advice. She's inviting a dude she used to fuck over to her apartment. Way too far gone.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:09 AM
2

Well put, KS.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:06 AM
3

Laying it on too think, Arch.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:05 AM
2

Hope it helps. Believe it or not, I really do want you to succeed. But seriously, man, step one is to get back to work. Like, start applying today. Once you have some work history, some experience, and some money saved up, you can consider looking for a job that has more meaning to you.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:22 PM
2

i doubt that walking, cycling and swimming would help better any of my problems. Well hey, fuck the notion of building self-discipline and making exercise -- real exercise, not commuting -- a habit. Fuck the idea of doing cardiovascular exercise so that your work capacity is larger for when you get over the sniffles and start lifting again. Because hey, why work hard when you can just become a stoner? Maybe Meditation and weed would help?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:08 PM
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Ive been wanting to quit my job for years but I have always just kept it as a conversation. I can see why: I dont like heights so ironworkers is out, and i dont want to be bbqd to death so electricians is out. I wouldnt want to [b]e an equipment operator either due to being immoble for hours on end.. I do not have any interest in the military i dont want to drive a truck, i dont want to work in an office Would you reccomend any trades to get into? Seven years. Seven years, and all you have is a …
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:01 PM
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there's not much I can do, when I´m on a string of bad luck with injuries/sicknesses. If you can't lift, run. If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, swim. I don't want to hear another excuse.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:57 PM
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I want what I do to have purpose, to align my life with my job. You haven't even had the discipline to have a job for five fucking years. I do have the necessary skill to make money as a plasterer (construction) but that job bored me to death Cry me a river. I cannot understand how you have so little self-respect that you would rather be a leech living off your mother at 27 than work a job that's "boring." ... Hopefully I've shocked some sense into you. Now, I'm not saying that you can never hav…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:55 PM
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Probably because you have a whiny, defeatist attitude. I wouldn't want to fuck you either.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:16 AM
3

Isn't it a kind of beta covert contract: "I'm inviting you to my place for drinks/to watch a film/eat something, but my real hidden intent is to fuck you." ? Nope, this is communicating with nuanced language in order to provide her plausible deniability. It's a category of powertalk.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:14 AM
4

K
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:38 PM
5

She was wearing the same t-shirt which I had once complimented her on, most likely expecting me to initiate a conversation. The teacher (female) was a bit avoidant of me at first (she had witnessed the drama), but gradually she let in, and started giving me more attention than any other man in the class. You're delusional.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:34 PM
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That will also backfire. A couple of things to consider: How does the average person react to TRP? How well do most men take advice on self-improvement? How well do you think the average man will handle being shown TRP and implicitly told "you should be more like this?" I'm sure you've seen people on TRP talking about how it's a bad idea to show other people this material. Well, that goes a hundredfold for women showing men the material.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 01:26 PM
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How do you think her boyfriend will react if she says "you shouldn't be sharing this with me, it makes you look weak?" This advice would be fine if it was directed at a man, but it's garbage directed at a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 11:13 AM
3

Calories in (food) < calories out (exercise, normal expenditure)
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:15 AM
3

It doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:14 AM
1

Context, op. Context. I.e. did she say it in a challenging manner or was she sad?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:11 AM
1

If all she wanted was to bitch, she would have done that over the phone. She invited him over for a drink. Come on, guy.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:09 AM
3

For whatever reason, she is losing her attraction to you. Are you acting like a bitch about the less sex thing? Be honest with yourself -- it can only help you.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:07 AM
4

stick with her for the kid or not? That is a question that none of us can answer for you. I, personally, would never abandon a child by choice. Your morals may be different. I wanted to break up, so we did. Weeks later, we discover that she is pregnant. Is the time frame suspicious? Do you know the kid is yours? I pay for almost everything, she contributes groceries here and there, but she demands to go out to eat often as she doesnt know how to cook You need to get this situation in line, now. …
/r/askTRP26/05/15 06:06 PM
3

Appreciate the mention. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:39 PM
21

This is how many men interact. It's called ball-busting. Don't take it personally. Instead, fire back a small joke with a smile.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 01:50 PM
5

1) snooping on his computer is a big deal and you should reconsider being so nonchalant about it. 2) Many men in this era have grown up being told that their sexual desires wrong and shameful, and that pornography is bad. As such, being asked "do you watch porn?" feels like an attack or accusation. Bottom line: don't necessarily believe that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 03:47 AM
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The reason I think that it has to do with Asperger's is that I don't feel any emotional hurt or jealousy about it. A word of caution. Many, many people on the spectrum believe that they don't feel emotion, or that the emotional response is somehow blunted. In reality, the opposite is true -- one of the symptoms characteristic of autism is being overwhelmed by emotion. You may have rationalized this so that you don't feel any hurt over the idea of it, but be careful what you wish for.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 06:34 PM
4

Truth is, I am struggling, though, which is why I am venting here verse to him directly. I'm not saying to go whine, but don't be afraid to lean on him. That's what he's there for. Many men would be upset to hear that their significant others were struggling (actually struggling) but didn't say anything to them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 06:15 PM
2

This video is not available Do a youtube search for "vicky christina barcelona oviedo," should be able to find another clip. I don't know man, it's just one drink. How do you go about it? Say we both ordered a drink and then they bring one bill, pass it to her? I don't know, in my country this may seem like you're a cheap fuck. Maybe I'm wrong though. Like all absolute statements, the one I made is occasionally wrong. It's not the end of the world if you buy her a drink. The key is: General rule…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:33 PM
5

Never ever buy a drink for a hot girl. General rule: The more attractive the chick, the more aloof you should be. She is used to dudes fawning all over her. Be different. "I believe people should become good friends first and then maybe move on to some sort of romantic relationships". ... Now I'm thinking I should've said "friendship with girls doesn't usually work for me" or something That would have been okay, but it was a great opportunity to act surprised and make her qualify herself. In res…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:25 PM
2

oh thaank you... for listening to me Ouch.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:14 PM
2

I tried my best to do as she wanted me to. Well, that would certainly suffice to push her away.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:13 PM
1

This will probably come off as too try-hard. This is just a twist on the well known push-pull thing, but generally speaking, you should move between vague/playful ("counting the girls in my basement?") and brutally blunt (Look her in the eye, say "yes." and wait for her response) Rarely do you want to end up in the middle by saying something like "many."
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:11 PM
1

The first definition is the formal / universal / correct definition. :)
/r/askTRP19/05/15 04:12 PM
5

Act like nothing happened. If she brings it up, play it off, ideally in a way that gets her intrigued. But seriously, dude, you're in your thirties -- that text reads like it's from a 16 year old. Pull yourself together.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:58 PM
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Her: Mhmm I'm not planning to cheat Clearly she's thought about cheating with you.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:55 PM
2

What do you want to achieve?
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:53 PM
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I do expect my post to be downvoted to oblivion This is annoying, and you're weakening your own arguments. The first half of your post had some potential. The second was just whining.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:35 PM
2

Nonplussed means 1. (of a person) surprised and confused so much that they are unsure how to react.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 11:56 AM
3

The only way you're going to hit high 6 / low 7 is to: Own your own business(es) Be an executive at a large company
/r/askTRP18/05/15 03:56 PM
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Nothing good will come of that.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:55 PM
1

Only sort of. You can be as nonchalant about it as you want, but playing dungeons and dragons is never going to boost your status.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:25 PM
2

Really? That's what you're taking out of this?
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:19 PM
3

Nice, good to have you back.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 09:55 PM
2

What's up, brother?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 09:18 PM
7

The next day she texts me: "I tried to not msg you. Does that make me weak? :)" Dude, she put the ball on the tee for you. Just tell her to come get a drink with you. Jesus, man.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:49 PM
5

Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:46 PM
3

Fuck yourself, asshole Hah, I like this guy. He's right, though, OP -- brevity is a virtue. Learn to communicate your message clearly and succinctly.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:45 PM
2

Not saying she doesn't like you, you know?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:43 AM
8

Dude, you can tell me that you're "alpha" and that "I just use her for sex" until you're blue in the face. The reality is that your girlfriend: Doesn't desire sex with you, and Doesn't get turned on when she does have sex with you Your words are not congruent with the actual fucking situation. In the military we call that ground truth. I am not trying to be a big ol' meanie, I am trying to break through your defensiveness, because if you want this problem solved, you need to admit that it exists…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 05:14 PM
4

He didn't say he didn't want sex. He said he wanted more foreplay. More than likely what happened is you made him feel like sex was a chore. Perceptive.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 02:35 PM
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I simply remind myself that... my husband is better than that other person because he has committed to me. No. I commend you for trying to fix the problem, but if you want to start appreciating your husband, you need to consciously be thankful for who he is and what he does, not for the fact that he's the one who committed to you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 02:34 PM
8

she does many non-sexual favors for me.... So I know that she is attracted to me on some level, just not at the moment I saw in another post you mentioned you're in med school. Are you familiar with the term "beta provider?" Do you believe that it's normal for women to repeatedly reject men that they are attracted to? Do you think that she would be "not in the mood", "too tired", or "don't feel like it" For a man that she genuinely wanted to please? Listen, man. No matter how you spin this, it i…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 02:07 PM
13

The bottom line is that she's not attracted to you. If she were, none of these other problems would be present. She's not getting turned on? She doesn't initiate? She frequently tells you she's too tired? Read the signs. having been rejected multiple times, I would be lying if I said I didn't feel discouraged, and if this rejection lasts any longer I will leave her. I don't believe you. If you were going to leave you would have done it already. You clearly have no other options; if you did not o…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:17 PM
3

"Don't shit where you eat" doesn't apply to classes. Class is a great place to meet girls. If shit goes wrong, just change seats and wait for the end of the semester.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 11:57 PM
9

Multi-factorial. The bottom line is that there are social, governmental, and economic pressures feminizing men, and it's a positive feedback loop: with fewer real men around, boys don't have good role models, so they themselves never develop. Along those lines, I'd like to do a quick public service announcement: if you are an actualized, masculine guy and you want to give back to the community, don't be a retard and post about "the manosphere" on your Facebook. Join an organization like Big Brot…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 10:53 PM
3

If you absolutely must, make sure you include what you did to resolve the issue and why you're not upset about it anymore.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:15 PM
1

Good points.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:15 PM
2

Doesn't matter. I'd argue it's actually more powerful if you go and start cooking in her kitchen or watching her TV or whatever.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:14 PM
1

Fair enough. Well-reasoned.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:13 PM
5

She stayed and waited for you to return... She's already shown her submission to you, That's not what that was.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 04:56 PM
11

I'm impressed that she reached out. It's a credit to the moderating team that this subreddit is well-regarded enough for Ms Doyle to proactively want to come here. Well done.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 02:16 PM
3

When you argue semantics, you're saying "I can't dispute anything about your point except the language you used to convey it." I don't know if you're actually a pedantic ass or just play one on the internet, but either way, this is a waste of time for everybody involved.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:23 PM
1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperbole
/r/askTRP11/05/15 05:30 PM
6

Water intox /hyponatremia is very unlikely if you're eating a normal diet and not deliberately drinking a large quantity of water (read: multiple liters/gallons) in one sitting. Drinking according to your thirst is fine, but 3L of water per day won't hurt you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/15 11:59 PM
2

Irrelevant who brought it up. You should have turned it into a joke, not said or implied "I'm interested in staying out of the friendzone with you."
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:42 AM
3

Around that time, I mentioned I wasn't interested in the friendzone with her. Regardless of how you phrased this, it's bad, but tell me you didn't use the words "the friendzone."
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:47 PM
2

I have a master-post I'd like to make Then make it. The comment you left here isn't relevant to OP's post.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:37 PM
3

Right, but on a muscular guy it becomes a quirk rather than a defining facet of who they are. The fact that you immediately associated hypothetical Cutler in anime with "immature" (trait) -- vice "what a nerd" (personality archetype) -- is a great example of this. (N.B. I do not wear anime shit nor particularly enjoy anime. This is a note I've made about others, not a defense of my own choices.)
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:30 PM
2

Get some lube if you're having that issue.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 01:33 PM
17

Large/muscular men have much more leeway in wearing nerdy stuff without being judged for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:20 PM
4

Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:32 PM
4

Brother, you wrote like 9 paragraphs and your question amounts to "hey I don't like this chick, what do I do."
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:31 PM
5

[I]f I cancel the holiday shall I give her money back because we split it 50/50 or just break up and keep the money and tell her to fuck off You are the only one who has to answer to your conscience -- but if one of my friends pulled shit like that, it would severely strain the friendship.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:23 PM
3

it would only take a slip up for me to next her (getting super drunk at a bar, giving her number away, getting gangbanged, etc) One of these things is not like the others... Anyway, do you actually want to dump her?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:42 PM
2

improving eye contact and never breaking it You need to read the room. Never breaking eye contact is bizarre, and it's not surprising you're having some issues.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:41 PM
2

OP's trying to avoid a fight, not provoke one.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:40 PM
1

We don't need a special in-group word for everything. Just call her some chick or whatever.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:25 PM
1

This professor is a real bitch. She sent out an email stating that she doesn't care what our reasons were for missing a final. Well, why should she? You fucked up. Mixing up the date on something as important as a final exam should not have happened. Would it be nice of her to let you reschedule? Yeah, but she's under no obligation to, and not doing so doesn't make her a bitch.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:17 PM
1

Guy's a douchebag God forbid he knows what he wants and sets hard limits.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 12:31 AM
10

There are rare instances in which it's helpful to announce gender. Generally, these occasions occur when someone is trying to explain how they personally would feel about something. However, mostly it happens with posters who insist on talking about how "alpha"/successful/desirable they are. These posts are garbage. An example: I'm in the mindset of this guy, also traveling a lot, plenty of options. I can definitely be won over if the woman is kind but with some personality to her but you'd have…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:46 PM
17

"Oh, it's alpha when I do it."
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:39 PM
5

Most men will see being handed a "how to have sex" .pdf as extremely emasculating.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 01:39 PM
10

You said "yes, I agree" but then continued along the exact lines of thought that Phantom was trying to warn you off of. I feel like underneath it all she is frustrated with herself and maybe slightly depressed. She is so insanely smart and used to be ambitious too, perusing a difficult chemistry degree. But since barely passing college and having to go back and retake some courses because of her anxiety, her self esteem took a blow because she was always "the smart one." That's nice, but do you …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 12:33 PM
5

Yes. OP is trying to make the husband lead by taking charge herself. It's no surprise that's not been effective.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 12:27 PM
5

I don't know why but long legs are my thing, anyway I'm 6'3 so you aren't too tall for me. That's great, but this isn't helpful information.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 10:22 PM
1

Get your picture off of the subreddit. Now.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 10:51 PM
2

Brother, $1B is not going to be eaten by trading fees.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:07 PM
1

Does getting knocked out make me look bad? The reason is immaterial; the answer is yes.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 07:14 PM
2

I don't actually want a GF/relationship, I just want to prove to myself that I can get one, then I'll be ready to go full MGTOW. If you actually weren't interested in women, you wouldn't be worried about proving to yourself that you can get one. I'm not interested in basketball; I have no desire to prove that I can learn how to play it. The first step to self-improvement is self-awareness.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:55 PM
9

I don't really understand the question. This might be easier: why do you feel guilty when someone has less than you?
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:10 PM
7

Having compassion for the weak or unfortunate doesn't mean that you should feel guilty for being strong or privileged. There was once a time when a man took pride in what he had achieved. It saddens me that our culture has become so self-effacing that fulfilling the American dream is now apparently something to be ashamed of. If you feel compassion for the meek, by all means lend a hand. Donate some money, volunteer your time. But by god, man, stop feeling bad for doing what you evolved to do: w…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:46 PM
-1

A little dread game from the girls end can work here. Dread game is almost never the right choice for a woman. OP will look like a gold-digger, and if this man has any conviction in his beliefs, trying to apply dread here will probably result in him leaving her.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 12:23 PM
2

This is one of the few situations where I'm not sure agree and amplify would work. "I don't want your DNA" is, in some way, the single most disrespectful thing to say to a man. Life evolved with one purpose, and when she said "you are not good enough to contribute to the gene pool," she is effectively saying "your life is a failure in the worst way." It's a grave insult, and I don't think laughing it off is the right solution.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:05 PM
3

Well, yes and no. For the most part I agree wholeheartedly. If you want to be respected, you need to be somebody worthy of that respect. Nobody is going to give it to you for free. However, his wife putting her dissatisfaction with him baldly out into the open like that was an exceptionally shitty thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:01 PM
6

E.E. Cummings. hey girl (I want to) go you out see naked ...;; us: together
/r/askTRP24/04/15 07:49 PM
2

Wrong. If you're having a conversation face to face with somebody, you can't just not respond. The proper answer is to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:13 AM
1

If you're only there for your parents that's not a good sign. What do you want to do?
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:09 AM
3

That depends. Why are you going? What do you hope to gain?
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:59 PM
1

Can't speak to the Navy, but if OP wants a guaranteed slot as a door-kicker he should look into the Option 40 program in the Army. If you make it, you're in the Ranger regiment. If not, you're still infantry, at least, and not on a boat somewhere. shy of SEALs but good enough to be special forces in any other branch Haha, okay. Just because the SEALs write the most books doesn't mean that some BUD/S washout is good enough to make it through the pipeline in one of the other branches.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:54 PM
9

People will try to talk about the testosterone-boosting effects, which are bunk. From a stoicism/mental toughness perspective, though, there are probably some benefits. And it's better for your skin.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:53 PM
5

"I can't be alpha because I do well in school. I can't be alpha because I'm not a freshman. I can't be alpha because my friends aren't cool. I can't be alpha because of my major. I can't be alpha because I need to study. I can't be alpha because I don't party enough." You don't need a lifestyle change, you need a mindset change. Stop looking for reasons why you can't be confident, popular, and well-liked. And stop dating girls who cheat.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 12:10 PM
3

I found the art of war pretty "meh." I think if it's one of the first strategy books you read, it blows your mind, but if -- like me -- you read it later in life after reading many other strategy books, it doesn't have much new.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 11:48 AM
4

I tell her that I need her respect, flat out, plain and simple. I need her to respect my position as captain of the boat. You cannot negotiate respect. You cannot demand respect. You have to earn it. When the rough seas come, she'll be her own navigator. Empty threat. She doesn't trust you to lead anyway, so why should it bother her if you're not there? Also, cool it with the nautical metaphors. You sound like that boat dude from the TV show how I met your mother.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:12 PM
2

This is my mentality: I'm either your girlfriend or I'm not. I'm either attracted to you or I'm not (1 vs 0). There's no in between in any of that. And as a RPW, this is right and good. A high-value man, however -- one with options -- does not think like this. He's likely been involved with many women, and he will have several women he can pursue at any given time. He will be attracted to all of them. If you want him to give that up, you will need to earn your place as a girlfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 12:38 AM
3

ahahah ahahaha As other posters have said, too much talking. Check it out: I: My sweatshirt is dirty... And it's your fault H: No way! How? Notice something missing? The "ahaha," the filler/boredom word. The one time she didn't type "ahahaha" -- i.e. the one time you had her attention -- was when you started with a gentle tease. You had her, and then you lost her by boring her.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:08 PM
2

/r/personalfinance
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:25 PM
1

However what I recommend is to put that money into commodities, primarily precious metals. People have never stopped saying "stocks are bust, buy gold!", and the Dow has never stopped going up.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 06:24 PM
1

People will always believe the girl more easily than you, so you're already at a disadvantage. If people find out (or believe) that you've lied, it makes you look not only dishonest, but ashamed of your behavior. It's so much easier to own what you did with a laugh and a joke. What do you gain by lying?
/r/askTRP16/04/15 03:32 PM
2

She asks me if she can orgasm every time we have sex She is most likely trying to signal you to be more dominant. She will never come out and say it in those words, as that would preclude you from being dominant, if that makes sense. Whatever you're doing right now, step it up. Occasionally deny her orgasm. Punish her if she does anyway. Etc. With a girl like this, you will probably find it difficult to be too dominant.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:29 PM
2

woman of any scrutiny Just FYI, the word you were looking for is probably "scruples." Good post though.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:24 PM
1

Lying about it is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:23 PM
1

Most men wear jeans that are way too baggy. Unless you literally can't get them on, I doubt that your jeans are too tight.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 03:18 AM
1

Are you posting here because you genuinely care about the outcome? If so, your not outcome independent I would argue that "outcome independence" doesn't mean "don't give a fuck about anything."
/r/askTRP15/04/15 03:33 PM
3

Check your fructose privilege.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:43 PM
1

Do not do this. If you really want to do an extreme diet, pick up Lyle McDonald's ultimate diet 2.0 ebook. It's similar to what the other guy suggested, but 100% less retarded.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:42 PM
1

Eat one gram per pound of body weight in the leanest protein you can possibly get, half a cup of vegetables, a multivitamin, and nothing else. It's like you've heard of a PSMF, but instead of actually reading the books and figuring out how to do it, you just said "fuck it" and decided to eat nothing but chicken breasts. OP, you need to eat fat.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:41 PM
0

It reduces your fat, not your muscle mass. It will reduce both. Hopefully it reduces body fat more. Lifting burns fat. Rarely. The predominant energy source for weightlifting is carbohydrate. Cut back on your carbs to really liquefy your fat stores and get a toned look. Can have a small effect, but for the most part it's calories in vs. calories out. Keep your protein intake high. This, at least, is a good idea. Especially while cutting.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:38 PM
2

I would suggest that rather than say "hey, we should go out sometime" (or whatever it is you're doing that's prompting this question), you should lead with an activity -- e.g. "Let's go rock climbing at the new bouldering gym. How does 6 on Sunday catch you?"
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:34 PM
1

Solid post. I agreed with some criticism of the last one (to wit, that an interesting life means nothing if your communication skills suck) but this follow-up tied things together nicely. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:15 PM
3

I don't think partner count causes relationship instability. I think that, like many things, it can be a factor, but isn't always a factor. It's something to be aware of and keep an eye on, but it's hardly the automatic dealbreaker that many on here find it to be.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 02:02 PM
0

She wanted commitment, you didn't provide it. It's what will inevitably happen with any plate. Sometimes sooner, sometimes later. Not sure this is the case here -- She seems interested at first, then OP becomes super boring (way too emotionally invested, outright bad sex) She's seriously stressed out of her mind so I get her to relax and talk about it... Sex is quite poor this time because I'm just not feeling it and we can't stay up all night anyway because of work the next day... ...and bam, s…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:59 PM
3

Think as if you were a (good) father. You don't get all pissy at your daughter, you get disappointed. That's the frame you're going for.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 04:58 PM
12

Yes, with your actions. Not by texting them "I'm interested."
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:56 AM
13

When a girl is really interested, she does things for you, instead of tries to get things from you.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 01:05 PM
12

one of the girls I've been flirting with has asked me for help in preparing for our math test. Too late.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 12:20 PM
1

I have a very hard time not calling out people when they're being stupid. You need a paradigm shift. Rationality and stoicism are admirable attributes for men, not women. She's not being stupid, she's being a woman -- and that can be a really cool thing. Listen, I can't enjoy haunted houses because I can't "let" myself get scared. The fun is in abandoning yourself to your emotions, right? I cannot do that. Another example: if I start feeling upset at the end of a sad movie, my first reaction is …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:50 PM
2

Lots of good advice in this thread and you should listen to it. I also wanted to throw this out there: Picking up a girl in the line of a club is very different than, say, talking to a girl sitting at a table in a coffeeshop. Girls waiting in line for a club don't want to talk about where they're from or anything else boring like that. You have about 3 seconds to catch their interest.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:34 PM
1

Carry on the same as before.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:32 PM
12

What bugs me is why he didnt demand the wedding ring back. The fuck is he going to do with a used wedding ring that's nothing but a reminder of the woman who cheated on him? The heartache from trying to sell it won't be worth the 5% a pawn shop will give him for it. Much better to just cut ties in one blow.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:11 PM
2

But you had to game the girl in the first place, right? And occasionally she texts you to see how you're doing? Even with the least-committed woman, there's still a certain amount of effort that goes into maintaining the relationship, yes? All of that takes time and effort. I get what you're saying about not "earning it" when you pay for sex. At a certain point, though, these guys have nothing left to prove and just want to get laid.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:27 PM
3

surely there's a way to personally distance yourself from TRP (i.e. admit that you're turned off by the blatant misogyny but that it does indeed truthfully reveal a lot of brutal honest facts about women & relationships) There are conversational dodges you can use, yes. You have to keep in mind, though, that some people view this community as sexist/hateful/manipulative/whatever, akin to stormfront and other hate groups. So step into those shoes and imagine that a friend of yours has just said t…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:13 PM
3

I had a similar experience when I was younger, but it ended up tracing something like a bell curve. Stage one: non-confrontational (rationalized as being even-tempered, but actually because fear of confrontation/violence) Stage two: confrontational (confidence, looking for a fight because expecting to win, "making up for lost time." Proving self and trying to find a set point for temper) Stage three: non-confrontational (Nothing left to prove, real self-confidence. Amusingly, fights significantl…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:02 PM
5

"Yeah my fleshlight ran out of batteries." Great response. "Just wondering when I can practice being a cis white shitlord." This is more likely to prompt a "....what?" than a laugh.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:56 PM
3

This is one of the better posts I've seen on the sub. Very well said.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 01:39 PM
3

I don't think you need any game at this point. Just play the role of the good, slightly irritated, but forgiving beta and she will put herself in your bed. Make it seem that she is the one that has to make it up to you. This is bad advice. She doesn't want to sleep with OP, she wants his attention.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 01:38 PM
10

Shit like that only works if one or two people break the rules. If everybody said "fuck the line," it would be a brawl. If everybody cheats the system, the system dies. Not passing judgement (I've done that too), just making an observation.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:30 PM
24

Completely agreed. Check out this comic -- the last panel is a punchline, obviously, but there's a lot of truth in it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:16 PM
1

Don't expect results. This is the epitome of outcome independence, since you won't be making any kind of perceivable gains even 3 months into the language. You'll learn the first couple of sentences in a conversation and 90% of the time, whatever the person responds with will sound like gibberish to you. If you're outcome dependent, you'll get demotivated real fast Completely agreed. Learn the language because you want to learn the language -- if you have some kind of external motivation ("oh ma…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:06 PM
1

her group is too cool and all i do now is fantasize about impressing her and her group which i know deep inside i don't give a SHIT about. all i did was approach her once and i blew up (intentionally because i didn't care) Step one: recognize who you are, the good and the bad. Until you know who you are, how can you hope to improve? Obviously you do give a shit -- if not, you wouldn't be spending all this time longing for the acceptance of her group. Obviously you did care, else you would never …
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:01 PM
2

Typically I don't respond to these types of "I just swallowed" posts, but I'm going to clarify point number 4 for you, because I think other people might have the opportunity to learn from it. AWALT is something I have difficulty with. It seems to me that all people are like that - even men look for the best available women. I understand that it is a tool used to help people get over putting women on a pedestal, but I feel like it is sometimes taken to a vitriolic extent on TRP, which is probabl…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:43 PM
4

All of that is more than enough to be exciting. Passion is a mindset, not a specific activity. If you're boring, it's not because you aren't in enough clubs.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 06:33 PM
1

I can say that I probably have consumed more pornagraphy than any of you and have no problem with ED. That's great, but anecdotes aren't science.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:53 PM
8

Everyday I hope that she suddenly tells me she's cheated on me Be a man and own your fucking actions. If you want to break up with her, do her a favor and do it.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:41 PM
1

If this happens now too...i can't. I can't handle it. Quit your whining.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:38 PM
7

I seem to have withdrawn into a shell and idgaf about much of anything, I'm just generally apathetic towards it all. You've had two weeks to grieve. That's an entire pay period -- it's time to start moving on. she's not into anyone else at all (I know this as a fact 100%) I rolled my eyes. Also, this is completely irrelevant. She is dead to you now. Gives me 4-5 single years(23 now). You're a dude. You never stop being fertile. Get married at 50 if you want.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:27 PM
2

In my experience, socially awkward types get 100x more unbearable to be around after they start drinking.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:51 PM
8

That study only examined men not seeking treatment for ED.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:46 PM
4

Evidence to support this theory? I'm pretty sure my body can tell the difference between my hand and a tight moist pussy What, you think the nerves on your dick have some kind of feedback loop? What could possibly be the evolutionary mechanism? What would the pathway be? As an analogy, you're claiming that eating broccoli when it's cold outside is worse for you than if the weather is warm.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:43 PM
1

Dude, hormonal changes do not occur and then have a physical effect in the span of 15 minutes, and hormones act in synchrony. Prolactin in a female has different effects than prolactin in a male because the overall hormonal environment is different.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:40 PM
1

If you have an account which works, use that one. If you'd prefer to use your new account, you can wait.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:22 PM
3

Not a psychiatrist. This is called anhedonia, and it's a typical symptom of depression. I agree with fnord. Get yourself to a doctor.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:19 AM
2

After sex I'd rather be told how good it was, Then get better at sex. What is the rp policy on your gf talking about other guys? A dude she knows: make a mental note, this is bad. A famous dude: literally does not matter. Agree with her -- like some other commenter said, "yeah, I'd fuck him."
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:15 AM
5

It's not cowardice. Women want to be chased, want to be led.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:12 AM
1

Nothing useful, no.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 08:59 PM
1

No prob. Not all of it will be relevant, of course, but the foundations are good. And, unfortunately, there aren't a lot of leadership references outside of the military. For further reading, you could check out "It's your ship" by Michael Abrashoff.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:09 PM
3

You are too concerned about the actual $ amount. You've missed my point -- I just threw a number out there. The dollar amount is not important; I was trying to demonstrate that unless she lied about her remaining balance, calling her "untrustworthy" is ridiculous. Careless? Sure. I take it you're still working on your leadership skills then. I see no advice above telling him how to follow your advice. An oversight. Here you go.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:41 PM
2

The only thing more childish would be to put your fingers in your ears and go "nah nah, I can't hear you."
/r/askTRP31/03/15 05:51 PM
19

You owe me $10. This is not to happen again, if we agree on something keep your end of the bargain, I don't date people that are untrustworthy. You've got to be fucking kidding me. Unless she was like "yes I checked and I have $37.46 remaining on my card," you are blowing this way out of proportion. Like holy crap, dude. Being a leader doesn't mean you jump down somebody's throat at the first opportunity, it means you inspire them to be better. The ideal outcome here would be for her to feel bad…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 05:49 PM
11

What's her weakness? Chocolate? Ice cream? Whatever it is, keep it in the house. Oh man, you are going to get railed in the subs which call us out... this is hilarious.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:38 PM
3

I really don't have anything to say to her, Edit: [6 paragraphs of text that you sent to her] ...
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:34 PM
3

You can troll better than this. I laughed though. 6/10.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:29 PM
0

There is so much anger seething under the surface of the modern American man.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 03:02 PM
17

for goats (I want to own goats when I grow up) I don't know why, but I found this hilarious. +1 for homesteading fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:18 PM
1

Why is it that these guys have some trp opinions? In general most betas would never say a woman's place is in the kitchen or w/e other such meme but those who are really fucking low do. It's difficult to understand just how much some social outcast types hate women... And perhaps harder to understand the depths of their longing for women. Just look at Elliot Rogers.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:53 AM
1

It will provide you a good opportunity to show magnanimity toward your co-workers. Could help build rapport. Multiple dudes banging the same chick at work never -- NEVER -- ends well.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:43 AM
1

A little extreme, but generally this is the right idea, OP.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:41 AM
3

Completely agreed. What's the point of having women in your life if you can't go out and enjoy some food occasionally?
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:32 AM
11

What the fuck?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 06:02 PM
1

You can't learn how to network from the internet. Watch the successful promoters and observe what they do. Are you the dude on the street trying to flag people down, or are you the dude who handles calls/emails trying to get on the list? What's your role, is what I'm asking. I know many of you will say quit, but I am not going to quit. Why on earth would we tell you to quit?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 06:00 PM
3

Yep. Just shut up. If she asks: Things are going well, thanks for asking. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 05:56 PM
6

You know what I meant. Stop being a pedantic ass.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:47 PM
8

When she says to do something stupid, do it so it fucks up. It's not your fault, your supervisor called the shot. This can (and usually does) backfire catastrophically.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:12 PM
4

Okay. If everything went well, if you could do whatever you wanted, where do you see yourself on April 1, 2016? Identify where you want to be, then create a plan for how you're going to get there. I am willing to help you do this, but I'm not going to tell you "keep doing what you're doing, everything's going to be okay."
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:10 PM
3

She's not as attracted to you. Do you have other shit going on in your life, or do you spend all your time with her? Are other girls interested in you? Do you have a handful of good male friends that you spend time with without your girlfriend? It's in your best interest to answer as honestly as possible.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:27 PM
6

im more of the mysterious stoic I doubt it. Are you doing something else when other people are dancing, or are you just sitting at a table?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:25 PM
3

I just don't know what to do. I'm technically an adult, at 19, but I feel like I don't have any life experience and everyone is acting like I'm just supposed to move out and start supporting myself all of a sudden. People are rude to me everywhere I go. I honestly just want to kill myself. Killing yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Do you still live with your parents/stepparents?
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:23 PM
2

The current headline is "germanwings crash: don't believe everything the media is trying to tell you." I'll pass.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:00 PM
1

this, are there any situations where you think it is advisable to call women out on RP truths? Absolutely not. Can you think of any times where it's actually good to pretend to agree honestly, IE play beta? Of course. What do you hope to gain by throwing somebody's words back in their face? When you call a woman out by saying "oh you really want bad boys," not only does that display a complete lack of social skills, but it also shows that you don't understand women.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 04:53 PM
3

A lot of things that were said on campus (anonymously) were ripped apart for being misogynistic or sexist when it definitely wasn't. And what exactly do you think will happen to the dumbass (you) who says the same thing, but without the protection of anonymity?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 08:01 PM
3

I know I am more intelligent than most people in my social circle. And if I would only apply my knowledge I would be so much stronger / more successful than them. Somehow something is holding me back and I don't know what it is. HUGE red flag, right here. You feel superior, but you aren't. "Oh, if I would only apply my knowledge I would be so much more successful than them..." Well, guess what, buddy -- you aren't applying your knowledge and you aren't more successful than them. If you think "in…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:47 PM
1

You cannot be serious with this question.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:45 PM
1

So you want us to advise you on how to coach a third party through a situation that nobody in this conversation was privy to?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:17 PM
6

So then I reply only if I had fat sausage fingers like yours then the whole table goes quiet and awkwardness ensues. You're not injecting enough lightness into this. You should be teasing, not actually trying to fuck with people. If you had said "only if I had fat sausage fingers like yours" with a laugh and a [friendly] smile, it wouldn't have become awkward. If I retort back I'll look like I have a chip on my shoulder That's because you do have a chip on your shoulder.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:14 PM
11

This is a very good answer. Most of the time, confrontation is the wrong choice. And if you're going to confront somebody, just do it -- none of this "texting the guy to tell him to back off."
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:15 PM
8

she is an adult and made her own adult decisions
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:05 PM
1

An extremely powerful phrase in sales as well. People are so used to being promised the moon that a realistic assessment blows their minds.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 11:38 AM
15

I'm mostly insecure because I wonder if I married him for the wrong reasons, if I just settled because I was so happy to be getting married. Then I try to knock myself out of it because he is amazing and so many girls would want to be in my shoes. He has a good career, is decent looking, and loves me to the moon and back. His only flaw is some trouble in the bedroom. Your problem is that although you may love this man, you're not attracted to him. Everything you wrote reflects that... He doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 03:25 AM
2

Don't let my brusqueness blind you to what I'm saying. You're posturing to us ("I don't take that kind of shit"), but after some chick threw something at you all it took was a pouty face to get you to stay. Reevaluate yourself: not knowing yourself, the good and the bad, is the single most dangerous mistake one can make. Fucking a subordinate is enough to get you blackballed in the business world (unless you're at the top, of course). I know these aren't the questions you asked, but they're the …
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:01 PM
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sidenote: I also manager her You fucking moron. ( I don't take that kinda shit )..... I told her I was leaving and she asked (got real sad in the face too) me to stay so I obliged Apparently you do take that kind of shit.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 09:39 PM
2

The question i am about to ask below is symbolic for something else Goddamn, dude. Just ask.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:16 PM
3

Right before she steps out of the car You literally should have said nothing and just started kissing her. Or, if you like: Her: "I was hoping for a different (or more - can't remember exact words) response from you" You: "How's this for a response." [lean in and kiss].
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:08 PM
9

Your infant is less than 6 weeks old at this point?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 12:32 PM
3

I agree. In a stupid impasse like this one, OP should have seized the initiative with action -- not with inaction (refusing to say please).
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:30 PM
1

The reason this is so wrong, guy, is because at the slightest hint of challenge -- "oh, really?" -- you're recoiling and going on the offensive, which makes you seem thin-skinned and bereft of confidence.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:27 PM
2

♂ Hopefully TRPBot is back to working.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:08 PM
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I would come over only if I feel like it and if I need it. But I feel none of this now. Even if you have nothing better to do than respond to boring texts, at least act like you've got something going on. You never should have responded to this except with something like "k catch ya later." -What would you do if I came? Yawn. If you ever catch yourself banging out a garbage response just to keep the conversation going, immediately stop talking. I would present you one of my roomates :P Why not y…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:39 PM
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And along those lines, OP, you might want to get yourself tested.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:17 PM
2

she also texted me something shortly after about taking a break, So she's asking you for a break now? That's pretty relevant, dude.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:12 PM
4

Not all women are looking for a relationship. Don't ruin a good thing with this girl by overthinking it and trying to make it something it's not.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:11 PM
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Nice.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:26 PM
3

Well, evolutionarily, yeah. A population can survive losing 50% of its males, but not 50% of the females.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:34 PM
4

Stop spending so much time with her. Get distant. Don't engage with her childish antics. Just make it clear that type of bullshit is driving you away and if she keeps it up the relationship will not last long. You've confused a shit test with a comfort test, and this is the opposite of what OP needs to do. EDIT: Well, probably. I'm finding it hard to see this: (she threw a literal temper tantrum pounding hands and feet on the floor) as a comfort test.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:29 PM
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For something like this, which is so specifically unacceptable (toddler tantrums), I prefer to state my thoughts unabashed. I agree. Generally you can (and should) lead by example, but something like this needs to be addressed directly.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:28 PM
2

"Are you cheating on me?" "Huh? Oh yeah I've been seeing other girls, haven't you been seeing other guys? If you're going to cheat -- which I don't recommend -- at least be smart and lie about it. Do not cheat just to "make a point" or whatever. Alternatively you can make her a plate and start seeing other girls. Don't tell her until she asks. This is even worse than cheating, in my opinion. If you're going to redefine the relationship, you should tell her. How furious would you be if your girlf…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:24 PM
4

Your scale -- with each "point" being equal to 1 sigma -- would mean that an 8 is in the top 0.03% of women. Obviously, that's not the case.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:18 PM
1

If you want to make friends, do rugby. If you want to learn to fight, do MMA.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:32 AM
1

This used to be referred to as a "Gatsby" Nice, I love this. I'm going to borrow it.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:30 AM
2

And i already look ripped as fuck all lean 7% bf you can see my every muscle and its all proportional and perfect its just little. I dont know how to explain it. It can get bigger is the point You're 6'2 and weigh just over 150 lbs. To pass along wisdom that I once received, "kid, abs on a skinny guy are like big tits on a fat girl: doesn't count."
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:41 AM
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Not very. Girls aren't retarded, they know when you're trying to get with them. Now, people say to make your intentions clear. How do you do that? You can be indirect: "come over and help me bake this lasagna, I have a bottle of wine open", but you can't pussyfoot around: "so, do you want to do something sometime?" Occasionally you can literally be as bold as to look a girl in the eyes and tell her you're going to fuck her later, but that's extremely situational. Read the room.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:38 AM
1

You performed a small social nicety -- I hesitate to even call it a favor -- and got mad because you didn't feel appreciated. That is completely different than people getting in your way at the supermarket. Regardless, if somebody's in your way, just say "excuse me."
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:36 PM
1

Even though you can't, ask if you can come along. At this stage in their interaction, that would come across as incredibly needy. The best way to preclude cheating is for a girl to be so infatuated with you that she doesn't even notice other guys.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:51 PM
2

Depending on your personality, you can send anything from "cool, let me know" to just "k".
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:48 PM
2

Hold the door because it's the right thing to do, not because you need some reward for doing it. This, right here, is a great example of the "nice guy" syndrome. I'm a courteous person ... Now my first thought was to loudly say "you are welcome by the way" and proceed to call her a rude bitch if she answered back with anything but a sincere apology. Yeah, you sound great.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:33 PM
2

♂ Bingo.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:31 PM
2

Are these coming from one person? Multiple? Girls? Guys? Your girlfriend? Some dude you just met at a party? What's the context, here?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:20 PM
1

Much better.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:18 PM
1

Ignoring is the wrong response, 90+% of the time.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:16 PM
2

And you're getting that out of "Psshh. I've had years of practice"?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:49 PM
1

Sure, why not.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:12 PM
2

"Her: Psshh. I've had years of practice" Definately not alone ?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:11 PM
2

Problem is, my money is placed in special placements. I don't know how it is called in english but I previously agreed to let the money there for X years so that if I take it out I will be charged and it will create complications that I may not be aware of. Looks like you're going to be hit with some fees, then. This is pathetic. You're 23 years old and you live by yourself. Take responsibility of your life, go to the bank, and start doing what needs to be done. Ask if you can get the fees waive…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 02:42 PM
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My wife seems to get turned on whenever I'm out in the garage wrenching on cars for a couple of hours. Working on a personal hobby that you enjoy is close to the antithesis of doing a load of laundry because you're hoping to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:36 PM
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That requires a shit ton of lying. Not blatant lying so much as powertalk and doublethink.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:35 PM
1

My full time job is programming which I always dread bringing up when women ask because it's basically repellent No, it absolutely isn't. If you really feel like it's limiting you, just make something up.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:53 PM
1

Normally your advice is good, but this is one of the dumber things I've seen posted on here. Would you tell a scholarship baseball player to "switch to football?"
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:51 PM
1

Maybe have a talk (not while we kiss, but like when we hangout) about the general idea of kissing and what I like about it. You don't teach by "hav[ing] a talk." Teach her by assuming the lead with your actions and demonstrating what you would like.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:47 PM
1

Trying too hard. Like fnordsnord said: In casual social networks, active rather than posed shots are best.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:52 PM
2

Simply spread the word of his fuck up and people will remember it. "Dude I got a fucked up haircut at [x]" "....okay?" Don't be ridiculous.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:05 PM
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You're arguing logically, and she's arguing emotionally. Guess which one wins? Just for fun, We can state the root cause of the... dynamic as follows: the depth of any transaction is limited by the depth of the shallower party. A trivial example: if you speak English and French, and your friend only speaks English, you will be forced to converse in English. Psychological development is more complex and continuous than the acquisition of multiple discrete languages, but the same principle applies…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:53 PM
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Now that he's employed dread game his wife won't just be coming on to him because she's consciously trying to save the marriage. She'll most likely be truly more physically attracted to him. ♂ This is a key point, and something that a lot of the commentators on the original threads have missed. I saw a lot of posts like "oh well she's just coming on to you to try to save the marriage, you need to watch out!" Example: this sounds to me more like she realized she couldn't treat OP like a slave and…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:45 PM
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Because TRP's main focus isn't about getting women Yes, it is. The self-improvement message dovetails nicely, but make no mistake: This is a subreddit about the relationship between sexes. From the sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:48 PM
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Also, if women advocated with honesty what actually attracts them, half the issues would be gone, period. Nah. Masculinity today isn't in crisis because "girls don't tell the truth about what they like :(" but because of a whole slew of more insidious factors -- single motherhood, the welfare state / unfair divorce arbitration, cultural change, and so on.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:44 PM
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This is the world that men live in, for better or for worse. “Violence, naked force, has settled more issues in history than has any other factor, and the contrary opinion is wishful thinking at its worst. Breeds that forget this basic truth have always paid for it with their lives and their freedoms” How do you not be afraid? You will always be afraid. Courage is dealing with fear, not the absence of fear. Understand that the adrenaline rush you feel -- that panicky, shaky, feeling -- is not so…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 06:06 PM
2

It would be bad. Very bad. You've been dating for 4 months.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:58 PM
7

Don't be intentionally obtuse. OP backed down, and recognizes that this is unattractive. Good on him.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:33 PM
7

It should also be worth noting that I do not want a job with my major as I'm joining the service as an officer. Not at the rate you're going, you're not. If you think we want officers who have failed 4 college classes by sophomore year, think again. If you think we want officers who can't apply themselves to things that are "boring," think again.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:30 PM
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I've actually been able to convince a few women So, you've either been engaged several times or you like to walk around convincing women not to go for diamond engagement rings. Which is it?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:09 PM
1

You are guaranteed your MOS, assuming you don't fail out -- and if you fail a course in the military, you've got bigger problems.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:01 AM
4

Don't pedestalize the posters here. They're just people, like everybody else.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 04:29 PM
2

Throughout most of human history, it was common for men to leave for months or years at a time, communicating only with letters (or not at all). Also, what's your take on cheating and getting a plate in the meantime given the current situation? This is an amoral sub, so you should be able to do as you like without being jumped on by posters here. I, personally, feel that this would be shitty of you. I'm assuming you promised to be exclusive; for me, my word is bond. What can I do to keep things …
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:27 PM
2

You can't measure these things with discrete scales. Yes, height is attractive.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:32 AM
2

Google "bold and determined dating a shy girl."
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:30 AM
1

This action is having an effect the opposite of what I want, but I keep doing it. What should I do?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 09:54 PM
1

People judge your activities based on their impression of you and your status -- not the other way around. Let's say Brad Pitt takes up knitting. People will assume that he's "secure in his masculinity." Let's say a loser takes up knitting. People are going to make fun of him.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 05:47 PM
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Stop thinking of it as your money and think of it as "our" money. You live together -- act like a household. Just as if he were the breadwinner, create a joint account that you both have access to, and then let him do as he will with the money. If you continue along the road of approving every purchase he makes and acting as though he's spending "your money," it will kill your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 01:22 PM
2

Ultimatum? No.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:49 PM
1

This is the best option. Lots of ways it can go wrong, but at least there's a chance of success.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 01:58 AM
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You're missing the forest for the trees. If you're dithering about whether you should bring your friends or not, just don't bother -- you won't do this anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:33 PM
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"that was so adorable!!! :)..." If you guys are having sex, this means that she cares about you and she's trying to compliment you. Probably. Overall context matters.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:28 PM
7

Is she just trying to force the conversation to me acknowledging him? Bingo. Imagine a poker game where your opponent says "yeah, pocket aces!" and, after everybody else at the table ignores him and keeps studying their cards, goes "I said, pocket aces."
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:23 PM
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Every man should be able to be self-sufficient -- to cook a meal, do laundry, etc. That doesn't mean that every man has to be self-sufficient. Do you see the distinction? Let her take care of you, and in return provide for her.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:20 PM
8

I can't have a completely "don't give a fuck about anything" attitude because my career choice, which takes up 80% of my life, is inherently about caring for people. There are a lot of ways to play "a Man." You're talking about the cad / asshole trope. Your best bet is to go with the stern patriarch trope. Think military officer or clan chief. You are unquestionably in charge, but you care about the people under you.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:14 PM
8

I continued asking about the dog and then she responded with: XYZ stopped by before his trip to mexico tomorrow, he wanted to get some travel tips. Haha. Your instincts are right on -- she's trying to make you jealous, but she's bumbling around. When you ignore the dude in the pictures, she gets nervous and doubles down by starting to talk about him.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:09 PM
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From Heinlein's Starship Troopers: “Mr. Salomon, can you give me a reason—not historical nor theoretical but practical—why the franchise is today limited to discharged veterans?” [the instructor asked.] “Uh, because they are picked men, sir. Smarter.” “Preposterous! […] Service men are not brighter than civilians. In many cases civilians are much more intelligent. […] Under our system every voter and officeholder is a man who has demonstrated through voluntary and difficult service that he place…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:11 PM
1

I'm pretty sure a guy who stutters can't try to fake a stutter -- they just start stuttering.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 11:31 PM
1

If you happen to get a third date, it's going to take place in a hotel bar.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:24 PM
1

Would it be that bad Yes. This chick is from Tinder. She doesn't want to date you, she wants to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 07:23 PM
2

This is the best response. You can't take yourself too seriously. If somebody makes a funny joke at your expense, there's nothing wrong with laughing at it.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:44 PM
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Why the fuck are you arguing? You did x and the girl left. Obviously x was the wrong choice. Stop fucking debating about whether you actually did y, it doesn't matter, it was still the wrong action.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:42 PM
5

"My words are so important that I say them three times" This is really, really good.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:39 PM
3

I'm angry, negative, and bitter as fuck Why on earth would anybody want to spend time around you?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:38 PM
1

Different guy making a joke.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:36 PM
3

So........ what's the end-game, then.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:35 PM
3

tinder I like to eat at up-scale restaurants that charge $10-$25...the atmosphere is beatiful. NO.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:34 PM
1

Why is it that half the guys who come here for advice have hooked up with "multiple nines and tens"? Do you know what that suggests to me, OP? That your SMV is so low that you aren't even noticing the real 9s/10s.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 01:19 PM
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First, this: because I'd like to save some other fellow the hassle is bullshit and you know it. You want her to feel remorse for blowing you off, for her to realize that was a shitty action. I would highly recommend that you get to know yourself -- really know yourself -- for better or for worse. What you just said was classic hamstring. "Oh, she didn't hurt my feelings, I just want to save the next dude some trouble." Now, you can't call her out. There is literally no way to do that by using wo…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 01:08 PM
6

"Look, you shouldn't make commitments that you can't keep. If you don't confirm being here at 1 then I'm leaving. I was hoping to see you but quite frankly this is unacceptable." You're 100% in the right -- but that doesn't matter. You got emotional, which means that you lose.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:20 AM
10

You know I'm not the one deleting the jokes, right?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:30 PM
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voracity Veracity? Anyway, reddit is obnoxiously tolerant of deviant behavior. Not everybody, of course, but you can often see people leaping to the defense of incest, pedophilia, bestiality, et al. I heard a saying once -- can't remember where -- that I really like: "Don't be so open minded that your brain falls out."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:21 PM
8

It's tagged [serious], so jokes are deleted.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:19 PM
1

you and her are both wrong. k
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:14 PM
2

You don't still love her. You're infatuated with the idea of her you've built up in your head. i'm thinking about breaking up with my current gf now because she deserves better. This is just pathetic. If she deserves better, be better.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:20 PM
1

Well, I hope you don't find that necessary, but you have two choices: You can choose to sink, or you can choose to try to swim.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 05:26 PM
6

I fit the sigma definition. Everybody fits the bloody definition. "Sigma" is like a horoscope. It's generalized so everybody can feel special. In this post alone, three men have replied saying that they are sigma males.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 03:34 PM
5

I know for a fact that my current SO would far outstrip the other two in a pros and cons list. That doesn't matter. You can't reduce people to lists -- this is the rationalization that women go through to try and be content with men they aren't attracted to. It would be a disservice to this man to marry him while still longing for these former lovers. So, you have two options: Try to find somebody who you are attracted to. Try to learn to love this man -- to really love him, to find him the most…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 03:31 PM
1

You've been dating this girl for 3 years and you've been trying to change things for three weeks.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:14 PM
2

I want them to see past my lack of social status and acknowledge me for who I am. This is a classic mental trap. Read the following article (from Cracked.com, of all places): http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ To wit: How many of you are walking around right now saying, "She/he would love me if she/he only knew what an interesting person I am!" Really? How do all of your interesting thoughts and ideas manifest themselves in the world? What do they cause …
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:09 PM
5

You dense motherfucker. Now her last bf was abusive and she was/is dealing with some legal/medical issues as a result of it. If this isn't a dealbreaker for you, start making your move. She's obviously interested.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:06 PM
2

You think that your interviewer is going to bring up rape statistics?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:16 PM
14

Your list of wants is bad. Music preference is going to determine the girl you marry? Focus on key character attributes, not surface stuff. Is she loyal? Are you attracted to her? Does she support you? How does she feel about being a homemaker? How does she handle money/debt? Etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:11 AM
1

Have you consulted /r/redpillwomen?
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:43 PM
6

She doesn't want to be logic'd.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:39 PM
5

subtext This is not subtext. This is actually pretty blatant.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:26 PM
6

That is giving her validity.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:25 PM
2

If you're going to enable this girl's cheating, just do it. No need for this weird "meet the boyfriend" thing.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 01:19 PM
1

There are no unicorns. If you expect anybody to have your best interest in mind, you're in for a bad time. If I had decided that I wanted to accept the risks and marry some girl, and she said no "because marriage isn't fair to you," I would be extremely offended and that would probably be the end of the relationship. I will decide what's "fair" for me.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 01:16 PM
1

SO, My Question: Doesn't the idea of not waiting and dropping girls that would make you wait run against you in the long run if you are one of those guys open to LTR's? Is there a balance somewhere in the middle? Yes, of course. Focus on the spirit of the rule, not the letter.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 01:12 PM
2

You're missing the forest for the trees. It doesn't matter what the plan is, just give them a plan.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:10 AM
2

"Ok" means "yes I am fine with that." You aren't fine with that.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 10:29 PM
1

My best guess: you're not making them attracted to you. Your text game is pretty weak and your pictures aren't hot enough to make up for it.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:07 AM
2

No, I mean tell her the plan: "we're going to get drinks at [x]."
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:04 AM
3

Yes, they are. Which is why I am clarifying.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 04:03 AM
3

Re. the bonus question: have a plan in the first place. Re: the other question: it depends. Is she flirting or is she looking for plausible deniability? And so on.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 07:07 PM
10

After you have established you both want a relationship or once you're in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 06:59 PM
1

You're going to have to feel it out. This isn't a situation with a black and white answer.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:57 PM
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She's allowed to fuck other people She's not fucking you a relationship Haha okay.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:49 PM
1

I had little chance to show her the kind of guy I am. For a man, these words are the biggest red flag there is. How does one ever be serious bf or husband material if you don't make much money and never probably will. Give me a break. Money is not your problem. You're not a leader, and that is why girls don't want to get serious with you.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:52 PM
1

Her: But hanging out with me is priceless. Me: Ah, but thats where you're wrong. Priceless is subjective. Somthing is only worth what someone is willing to pay for it. So you will have to be vetted by me for me to see if you're priceless. You should have pressure-flipped here (make a joke at her expense; subvert her "I'm priceless" comment). Instead of whatever it is that you did.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:30 PM
1

How long do you talk before you suggest meeting up? How attractive are your pictures?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:27 PM
1

To immediately deal with the fallout in front of the group, yes. But something like this is massive disrespect and cannot be tolerated.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:23 PM
1

The closest buzzword you're going to find is "holding frame."
/r/askTRP17/02/15 03:05 AM
1

manage to play it cool enough so she asks me out for a drink This sentence says it all. I can read how low your self-esteem is. If you want her to chase you, you first need to believe (and act like) you are worthy of being chased.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 03:03 AM
2

This was an open invitation to put her in her place. Without being there, it's hard to tell. Either she didn't realize what would happen and was just playing around, or she was deliberately acting out in an attempt to get OP to discipline her. You can tell by her reaction. Was she meek and remorseful (she was just trying to play) or did she seem somewhat annoyed (she wanted you to dominate her and she's vexed that you didn't)? On the plus side, if OP was angry and hasn't spoken to her since, he …
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:04 PM
5

If you didn't want to be viewed as a friend, you shouldn't have bought flowers for a girl you weren't dating and you shouldn't have asked for her number via Facebook, of all things.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 02:55 AM
2

♂ It doesn't help to obsess over where it went wrong. Do your best to improve, but let it go. You can't let... rejection destroy your self worth. This is golden. For all things in life, OP, this will hold true.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 09:42 PM
8

I'm a demisexual which means I pretty much don't become sexually aroused by woman until I'm emotionally invested. Aren't you a special snowflake. So I'm curious how would you guys do it? How would we do what? Land a high quality girl? You seem to be under the impression that you're somehow different or that you need to do things differently because you prefer to like a chick before you become involved with her. You do not need to do anything differently.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 09:37 PM
2

I've pretty much got my shit together and have been a lot more alpha then I ever have, and this other guy is not. His life is in more disrepair than mine and he's been sort of a jerk to her but she still chooses to spend al to of time with him. Come on, guy. You clearly didn't understand a single thing you read, so let me use this example from your own life to illustrate for you. You were a spineless "nice" loser, so your girlfriend dumped you. Now, she's hanging out with some guy who is "sort o…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:38 PM
2

If I'm reading this correctly, you don't have any indication she's pregnant. Correct?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 12:08 PM
2

How attractive are you?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:47 AM
7

What does your gut tell you?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 02:11 AM
1

This is not the place for snarky "haha literally?" comments. You're a man. This is a sub for the girls. If this is the type of content you're going to contribute, feel free to kindly fuck off.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 10:15 PM
11

Irrelevant. I'm talking about the "Lol"
/r/askTRP12/02/15 10:05 PM
1

I can't turn her down when she's the one contacting me wanting to get together. lol k
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:45 PM
1

So she says she's pissed and hangs up. I text her and say... This was the beginning of the end for you.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:43 PM
1

Do you have student loans?
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:40 PM
0

Since she likes to read, I was thinking about a book where she could maybe learn something. What kind of something? Like, learn math?
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:39 PM
19

...or busy as in I could come if I wanted to? Lol Good god, dude. Some people do this weird fake chuckle thing when they're out of their comfort zone. Congratulations, you just typed out a nervous laugh. Read the sidebar and do not text this girl until she texts you.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:37 PM
6

♂ Nailed it. When a girl from Tinder agrees to go out with you, you are 95% of the way there. The "date" is a formality, it's a meeting in public to make sure you didn't lie too much about your height and aren't a serial killer. She doesn't want to hear about your fucking family.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:32 PM
0

Does it really matter, even if I gave her several orgasms? Please, be as honest and direct as possible. Of course it matters. Anybody who says differently is lying. Don't let that dissuade you, though. You can't change it, so that gives you two choices: 1) Let it destroy you. 2) Thrive in spite of it.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:31 PM
2

/thread
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:53 PM
71

This is a letter from a dude who is fucking with you. Period. I am stunned -- stunned -- that other posters would take this otherwise.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:44 PM
3

The cute girls I go out with Too try-hard. If you change it to "girls love these bitches" it would be a lot better, but still not great. You're being far too explicit. Understatement -- not overstatement -- is the way to get people interested. E.g.: Wow, you must have a ton of girls chasing after you... Bad: "Fuck yeah I do." Good: "One or two." ;)
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:40 PM
1

Don't be ridiculous. If you do it right, the health risks are almost negligible. However, there are right reasons and wrong reasons to take gear.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:28 AM
1

Being tactful is not sacrificing your frame. The last few sentences of your post are the way to go.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:25 AM
7

Said it better than I could have. Well put.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 06:35 PM
2

Assume the sale.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:17 PM
4

I have an extremely strong protector/provider instinct, so for me: Yes. They are, in fact, the only thing that is "worth it." (Don't be an asshole and take that the wrong way.)
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:16 PM
3

If you want to make assumptions, there are literally an infinite number of ways to go. Yep, I agree. Just trying to bring a perspective to the discussion other than "You did nothing wrong, she was just being a typical women [sic]."
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:33 PM
8

We only have OP's side of the story. He interacts with a woman and she gets so annoyed that she's shooting him dirty glances later, and your first thought is "it's because she used to be pretty and she's annoyed that he didn't cave for her?" That might be an explanation, yes, but are you familiar with Occam's razor? Far more likely that OP was a dick in some way than that he was perfectly reasonable and nice and she got mad "just because."
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:10 PM
1

You didn't assault this girl, yet you still got completely fucked over by disregarding social norms. According to his side of the story, yes. I am not a sexual assault apologist, just urging you to consider the source in every story, even those which fit the narrative of this sub.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 04:26 PM
2

Boring.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 04:24 PM
2

Foundation, bedrock.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 10:16 PM
2

She would rather make money than be with you. Pay attention to her actions. They're very clear.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 07:03 PM
0

You can't condense a person into a list of pros and cons. Do you want to be with this girl or not?
/r/askTRP09/02/15 04:28 PM
2

Glad I could help.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:20 PM
3

Well today I was telling my girlfriend she did something wrong in her business, and instead of telling me I was right.. Fuck's sake. Show, don't tell. And stop being a cock who expects people to say "yeah, you're right" after you tell them that they're doing things "wrong." Well, I don't always look at the negative side and after I tried to clarify this wasn't the case Obviously. You lost the moment you started trying to out-logic her. "FUCK YOU B, FUCK YOU AND YOUR DISRESPECTFULNESS, FUCK YOU."…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:20 PM
3

You wrote 695 words about a chair. Understand that this is not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. The girls sound friendly, so if you want to talk, go sit with them. If you'd rather read 4000-page books about Mongolian history, just go sit somewhere else.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:15 PM
3

Repeatedly, people seem to not like you and your first thought is that somebody must be trying to "sabotage [your] reputation"? If you run into an asshole today, it's just some asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:09 PM
0

Haha. I get that you're joking, but I want to reiterate: then put on a backpack and walk for 10 hours. Ride your bike 60 miles. The actual act doesn't matter. What matters is that you need to prove to yourself that you can be better. Everybody says "be confident in yourself" like it's a choice, like you can just decide to be proud of nothing. There are aspects of choosing your mindset, yes, but how can you be confident in yourself if you don't know who you are? Test your limits. Succeed at this …
/r/askTRP02/02/15 06:30 PM
0

I could be wrong, but the "elite" vs. "non-elite" is kind of set in stone as far as they see it. You're projecting. Nobody has any idea what kind of man you are until you show them. "Elite or non-elite" is set in stone as you see it, because you can't see yourself as one of the best. Your homework: read the book "Mindset" by Carol Dweck. Other people won't believe in you until you believe in yourself. And you won't believe in yourself until you've discovered your grit and character. Your homewor…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 04:38 PM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2tqbf8/the_number_one_mistake_of_married_women_marrying/
/r/askTRP02/02/15 04:36 PM
30

You're in the anger phase, and that's fine. However, I would urge you to remember that people, on the whole, are decent. Women are not consciously manipulating you. Women are not consciously trying to screw you over. All they're doing is trying to have the best life they can.... just like you and I do. Feminism -- leading to unchecked hypergamy -- hurts women more than it hurts us. If you think that a woman can never be happy with a man, I suggest you spend some time reading (and not posting) ov…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 02:52 PM
2

You don't have to justify yourself to me. You asked, and I answered. No judgement here, just take the information and learn from it.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 04:54 PM
28

...if she wants a real man she can come to me. This chick cold approached you, sent you naked pictures of herself, and yet it took you two dates to even kiss her. When girls go for older dudes, they are looking for men. You didn't show her that you are one.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 03:12 PM
3

If you're with a good woman, and you're not a shitbag, she's not just going to abandon you for a higher-SMV dude in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:24 PM
4

I'm failing to see the "ulterior motives" here.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:23 PM
2

Unless you're a grad student or in another insular area, it doesn't count in college.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 07:56 PM
1

Agreed. And the "adult" method works better, too. Yeah, you can make fun of some sorority chick until she has to sleep with you to repair her self-esteem... but that would never work on a well-adjusted, mature woman. The guy who is fun to be around, brings value to the group, and is playful without being an asshole -- that's the guy who high-value women want to be with.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 07:52 PM
1

She just wanted to vent. She was always going to go.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:22 PM
2

"Why don't you respect women, you must be broken inside, you hate women blah blah blah". If somebody is saying this to you, you're being far too assholish to women. Tease them and treat them like people, don't openly be a dick.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:17 PM
2

Bird in the hand = two in the bush.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 11:27 PM
1

How can I leverage this position to get somewhere with them better? You can't. If you want to help for the sake of helping, fine. If you want to help to try and fuck them, that's a no-go.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 11:26 PM
2

Is that an invalid TRP goal? No, absolutely not. But you need to create a new paradigm. You're not trying to "LTR asap," you're testing a series of women to see if they're good enough to potentially be the mother of your children. And if none of them are, you will continue to do your own thing. Do you understand the difference?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:26 PM
2

Guessing you're reeking of desperation when you're talking to chicks. You don't want friends, you don't want to have fun with girls, you want to get in a LTR as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:50 PM
1

You must know yourself above all else. Figure out who you are by meditating, exercising, introspecting, whatever -- but you need to know who you are, good and bad. Once you understand that, you'll know what you want out of life.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:27 PM
1

This attitude will condemn you to a lonely life.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:00 PM
2

So, where I work, there is a couple of girls I'm interested in. I'm going to stop you right there. These are both from today. http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2tya7o/coworker_telling_everyone_at_work_i_got_her/ http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2tyrx5/too_cowardly_to_next_a_plate_thats_increasingly/
/r/askTRP28/01/15 05:57 PM
7

Irrelevant, has nothing to do with her issues, and OP even said flat-out that she doesn't (and hasn't) believed in feminism. I see that you're a dude. This is a space for the ladies; unless you feel that your perspective is desperately needed, stay out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 10:24 PM
-2

tall and thin guy trying to make GAINS Switch to a hypertrophy program.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 02:29 PM
1

You don't understand AWALT. AWALT does not mean that all women are promiscuous or slutty.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:28 PM
13

Just to clarify though, feel free to read r/redpillwomen, but do not contribute unless you feel your opinion is absolutely necessary. It's a space for the girls.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:41 PM
3

Nah, it depends on whether her father figure had a good mix of provider traits or was all hard-ass authoritarian, all the time. This isn't scientific, but I've found that girls who have purely authoritarian fathers (with few loving/provider traits) tend to have zero tolerance for bullshit, but also leave a huge string of discarded sexual partners in their wake.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:38 PM
1

Y'all agree on every point, but are arguing about what the specific ratio is. It's a little ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 03:27 AM
13

If you read that and took "lower your standards" from it, missing the more important message, then I'm not going to have this discussion with you. "Be realistic" and "find a guy you're sexually attracted to" are by no means mutually exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 03:24 AM
12

Literally never?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 02:23 AM
9

Hell, you can have emotional intimacy with anybody. Even other men. But the only person you’re allowed to have sex with is your wife. Sex is the thing that separates your marriage from any other relationship. Not staying up watching TV. This is an extremely powerful line. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:09 PM
2

I guess I'm just cursed to be unlucky and alone forever and I'll have to get used to that fact. There's no other solution. I just can't figure out why nobody is interested in you. You sound like so much fun to be around.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:08 PM
2

If you treat this post as a metaphor, it works stunningly well.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:03 PM
1

It's just when given the choice between today's women and gaming they choose gaming. Not cause gaming is that spectacular, but cause women have nothing to offer in a world where women want to be (second grade) men. Because the average gamer is just swimming in women and chooses to say no, right?
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:18 PM
-2

By making this post instead of getting out and doing, you've already condemned yourself to not improving.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:03 PM
2

NPD is reddit's darling diagnosis, but you are not a psychiatrist and she does not show the "symptoms" regardless.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:58 PM
4

What are you doing? What are you after?
/r/askTRP25/01/15 04:35 PM
2

You're misunderstanding what Rao meant when he said "losers."
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:47 PM
1

Not on asktrp.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:41 AM
3

Hold ALT, then hit 11 on the num pad.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 10:20 PM
5

You're only 22, man. We have posters around here who are in their prime at 40.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 10:18 PM
2

I respect your advice quite a bit. You've earned it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 01:35 AM
1

I am not planning on having kids for a while; when I do, my answer will be contingent on societal expectations. Currently, it is my belief that family stability is best served by traditional marriage. When my children are of marrying age, that may well not be the case.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 01:34 AM
2

No, of course I've seen it. I just disagree. Lots and lots of anger in the main sub -- which is fine -- but that hasn't been my experience. I have, throughout my life, had pleasant, successful interactions with women. As have, I suspect, most of the posters who really "get it." Not that I would presume to include myself in that group, because my views don't always agree with the TRP hardline. Anyway, the point is: strong, patriarchal, "RP" men are not necessarily opposed to marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 12:34 AM
2

Do you blame me though? Yes. More experienced posters like /u/phantomdream09 can weigh in here, but multiple chats about whether or not your partner is cheating is a big deal. It's pretty clear that you don't trust him, and I'm sure he can tell. That may be weighing more heavily on his libido than you realize.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:45 PM
7

Being chinless is a fate worse than death? Oh grow up.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 10:08 PM
0

red pill man who won't marry her The two are far from mutually exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:06 PM
1

so when I feel any anxieties about us So, again, the important part: You've had a lot of casual chats about whether he's cheated on you?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:05 PM
3

Everything seemed..alright for a while, but have recently devolved This is the biggest red flag to me that there's more going on. Like Arch said, your parents tried to like this guy, but didn't. Now, what does that say to you?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 08:51 PM
2

Ditch the Star Trek references. Lose the programming jokes. As a more serious answer (but really, follow the steps above), you have two choices. Learn how to be cool or become so wealthy/famous/powerful that it no longer matters.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:49 PM
2

my girlfriend seems completely unaffected and in all honesty seems happier than ever, which is troubling. She is almost certainly cheating on you. And who could blame her: One aside that might be good to note is that she used to be really horny all the time and was the sole initiator (not just for sex, but essentially everything else) I mean, what did you expect? You were incredibly passive, didn't make her feel desired, and now she's completely given up on you. You cannot salvage this relations…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 02:30 PM
3

I really coudn't care less Bullshit. Do you think we're going to judge you for it? Be a man and admit to yourself what you want. It's not wrong for you to want to sleep with somebody.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 02:27 PM
2

You've had "a lot of casual chats" about whether he's cheated on you? And are you implying that you asked to read his texts/Facebook?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 01:13 PM
4

Agreed. This is one of the better indicators of a physical (rather than mental/emotional) problem.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 01:12 PM
3

Just read carnegie's book instead.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:45 AM
1

Should I just move on from this beautiful girl, and work with what I have in India? We can't run your life for you. Weigh the pros and cons, make your decision, face the consequences.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 06:17 PM
1

True.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:55 PM
1

She ends up resting her head on my chest and she seemed pretty interested. It was quite late by this point and when I left the room for a bit she ended up leaving. You pussied out and she's gone. Let it go.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:23 PM
2

If he's looking for an LTR, this is probably bad advice.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:21 PM
3

I dissect her argument and cut it apart. There is nothing wrong except i missed a few caveats because I didn't expect the 'peer-reviewed" flip. You're trying to argue back logically. Don't. By getting drawn into an argument in the first place, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 09:18 PM
1

He looked directly at me and simply said "I need to figure out what I can, stay here and sit on the ground." Good choice in your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/15 02:40 PM
5

Maybe gently remind her how she did not like your plates hovering around. Generally speaking, I favor moderate actions, but this is far too soft. No socially aware woman thinks that going to brunch with a recent flame is harmless. This is completely unacceptable for her to try and pull. The entire relationship may or may not be ruined, here, but either way OP needs to make it quite clear that this behavior is unacceptable. Put the pressure on.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:40 PM
1

His gall bladder chi is doing just fine, thank you.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 12:11 AM
0

The elites want to stay on top. They must make sure that the middle class gets poor and that the poor stay poor. They do this to control the masses. They control the masses through 2 ways. I'm not sure this is the case. I might accept the argument that, by dint of being wealthy, the rich tend to pursue actions which have the net effect of reinforcing the wage gap. However, to state that the rich are actively trying to "control the masses" borders on paranoia, in my opinion.
/r/AlreadyRed13/01/15 04:51 PM
7

Guess I'd prolly say something like: "Why are you telling me this?" No, no, no -- this is the bitchiest response. Just blow it off.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 02:39 PM
1

76.253%..... did you even read the sidebar? It's on there.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:25 PM
2

Has this autism been diagnosed or are you just saying you have autistic characteristics?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:09 PM
1

When in doubt, no text.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 07:00 PM
1

When in doubt, don't text.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 06:25 PM
2

'Cuz you would know, right?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:15 PM
1

I've lost count of how many guys who aren't afraid to risk their lives but are scared to death by women I run into. It's almost comical, isn't it? Watched a lot of great people get completely fucked up in the head, where you enlist plays a huge role. Joining the military to become "alpha" is the worst possible decision anybody can make. Join for the benefits, to be a warrior, to prove something to yourself... but for the love of god, don't join so that you stop being scared to talk to women. Bec…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:12 PM
4

It makes you alpha No, it doesn't. This is something that you need to do. No organization -- not even the military -- will do it for you. Source: In the military.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:19 PM
1

"hey dude, nice shirt. I used to have one just like it in high school. I bet you get all the chicks with that shirt, huh?" Oh boy. If the dude is even a little bit intelligent, you just put the ball on a tee for him to knock it out of the park.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:18 PM
3

Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:08 AM
6

Live your life in accordance with your morality and build a social network that is the same. There's nothing else to do.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:39 PM
2

How I have behaved already (maybe you can see I have already messed up) You're mostly fine. Jerk/asshole game is not the right choice for shy or virginal girls. Confidence is key, but that doesn't mean you can't be understanding. This is okay: When we discovered the problem, I have told her that it's okay and we'll find a way to fix this Being nice to a shy girl is good. When she started feeling pain several minutes after we got out of bed, and she asked if I have painkillers, I apologized that …
/r/askTRP11/01/15 10:15 PM
1

Silence is very rarely the correct answer. Take the opportunity to be cocky/funny.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 10:10 PM
2

Is it wise to to take adivice/follow the commands from women doctors Let me ask you a question: Are you fucking retarded? That was harsh, so let me explain a little more. Do not let this subreddit poison your mind. Do not read shit about hamstering and then assume that you can't take advice from any woman ever. Do not assume that every woman in the world is out to fuck you over, or out to divorce you and take your shit. Women are people, too.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 10:04 PM
3

Needed the point across. There. Well now you've removed so many words that you're barely speaking English. Dude, just relax. Think before you speak (type), and then just communicate. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 10:01 PM
2

is there some way that a man could introduce a woman to RP ideas, before she makes too many mistakes and ends up as an Alpha Widow? I mean, other than simply being a unicorn high SMV "perfect man". [emphasis added] even if I get this girl... I just think it would be a huge win for me if I can make it work I'm trying to figure out how to break through her hamster and plate her. So, you don't want her to stop sleeping with high-status males for her own good, you want her to stop sleeping with thos…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 06:26 PM
1

So your question is actually: "How do I get with this chick." Like any other woman.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 06:23 PM
1

You told her dad? What are you, a child? Is there anything that I can do right NOW to feel better? I hate losing and knowing that she got rewarded for such bad behavior really drives me crazy. No. The only way onward is forward. Put this in the past, become the type of person who doesn't get cheated on. And guess what: life isn't fair. If you let yourself dwell on her "reward for bad behavior," you'll be miserable forever.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 06:17 PM
8

Oh, the irony....
/r/askTRP11/01/15 05:24 PM
1

Context becomes far more important. Is she just a drunk girl tying to get your attention, or have you two been in a fight and you've actually been ignoring her? Are you trying to flirt or just get her to go away? If you're trying to flirt with her, "sorry, who are you again?" with a cocky smile. If you're trying to get away, "I've been busy. I have some stuff to do right now, actually." And leave.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 04:12 AM
1

ignore it or not respond at all No, no, no. This girl is flirting with you. Take the opportunity to flirt back.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:50 AM
5

she has been responding to my text late and the last text I sent her she completely ignored and it was a question. Disregarding this whole mess... How to respond to the "why are you ignoring me" shit test? "Busy. Talk later."
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:17 PM
3

Boldanddetermined.com has a good article on shy girls. So I don't know if I can kiss. Go for it and find out.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:16 PM
1

You mention you've read enough to have a business degree. That drive is good -- stick with it. It will get you far in life. However, college is not about learning. It's about making connections.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:52 AM
5

So what if she just started? OP's values include no drug use. She used drugs. He's not all pissy about it, but actions have consequences. In this case, the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:48 AM
2

Not everybody needs to be lifting for self-improvement only. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:45 AM
1

I'm not sure. None of us are married, and I am not always accurate in predicting my emotional reaction to something.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:42 AM
1

It's a strange duality, yes. I can tell you right now that out of the several men who comprise my closest friend group, two (that I know of) have cheated on their girlfriends. You ask how I can still be assured of their loyalty, which is a good question. What it eventually comes down to is that the man-man relationship is different (and, in some ways, more sacred) than the man-woman relationship. It's just a gut feeling.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:18 AM
2

Again, you have that backwards, and it stuns me how cavalier you are regarding drugs which change brain chemistry. Mild to moderate depression can often be treated with diet, exercise, sunlight, and cognitive-behavioral therapy. Occasionally a drug is used to "kick-start" the process, and allow enough motivation to do the other things. Severe depression is usually nonresponsive to therapy/lighter methods, and is when drugs must become involved.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:44 PM
4

For guys, this is decent advice. For OP, a female, it's bad. Yes, people will judge her by the company she keeps. If she is looking to find a high-value man, she will not want to be associated with a floozy.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 10:40 PM
3

I suggest you post this to /r/redpillwomen, because you've gotten shit advice so far. The people who told you to keep the friend are thinking about it from a male perspective, where you don't bail on a friend who is loyal to you, regardless of their behavior. However, you're a girl. People will judge you based on the company you keep -- around here, you will see people evaluating girls for relationship potential based on what their friend group is like. If you don't want people to assume you're …
/r/askTRP07/01/15 10:39 PM
2

You have that absolutely backwards.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:31 PM
1

What's the question?
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:53 PM
1

Does that line communicate maturity and emotional stability? (Hint: No.)
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:46 PM
5

We've no idea of the context, though. "Hey man, would you hook up with Jackie?" "Ugh, probably, but I'd have to drug her to keep her from babbling first" Bam. 'They want to drug people!!!'
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:42 PM
2

Haha, you can hear the cameraman laughing in the background at points. Right around 2:28.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:23 PM
3

If we were talking about strongman competitors or powerlifters or something, I might buy it. Patrice o'neal is a fat slob.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:08 PM
2

As a start, yes.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:18 AM
2

Why have you been texting some chick for a year? Why, when she started brushing you off, did you continue chasing after her?
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:58 AM
0

Don't feel too bad, man. You basically were thrown into the middle of one of the hardest situations to deal with. Were it to happen again, respond just like you would to a dude busting your balls. Your responses don't have to be perfect! All you need to do is demonstrate that you're secure in yourself and can give shit back. "Are you sure you're not gay?" "Well... I didn't use to be, but I got drunk, fucked your mom, and to be honest that experience kind of turned me off of women. I'm willing to…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:55 AM
1

Haha. Well... Yeah. But that's not the point.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:45 AM
1

Yes, I do. This isn't some kind of celebration of masculinity. It's poking fun at women. We, as a gender, should be able to raise ourselves up -- and be proud of who we are -- by reveling in our strengths, not by laughing at women's weaknesses. And it's the tone that makes all the difference. And shaming, V, seems like a bit much. However, I will consider what you said. Sometimes I forget that many (most) of our posters are still trying to figure the being a man thing out.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:35 AM
8

You don't win emotional fights by getting madder than the other person. You win emotional fights by letting them get mad, and then being smug about it. Think about how a bully would act.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:24 PM
3

But she cheated on him anyways Well, that answers your question, then. /thread
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:20 PM
2

So... Is there a reason that this isn't showing date/timestamps like a normal iPhone screenshot? And that the fonts are weird? And that the text bubbles are all exactly the same size? I'm assuming this is fake. Why, I have no idea.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:17 PM
3

Oftentimes when a young girl (especially teenaged) goes in for an older guy, it's because she's looking for maturity and emotional stability. She's looking for a man. Does Me: I just thought there's a reason you disregarded your promise and didn't find even a minute yesterday to write me about your decision (and today as well) [clusterfuck ensues] Sound like maturity and emotional stability to you, OP? Google "the 16 commandments of poon" if you haven't read it already. A lot of the language is …
/r/askTRP05/01/15 10:49 PM
9

Reddit cannot make the decisions for everything in your life This should be on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:19 PM
4

You've been nursing this grudge for 5 years?
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:00 PM
1

I think what's confusing people is that on one hand you say We feel like we've found the person we want to spend our life with in each other, but then you follow up with [Moving in together ] is a huge decision that I'd rather not make lightly Do you see the disparity here? You want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, but you think moving in together is a step too far.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 06:24 PM
54

I'm not lambasting you specifically, OP, but I'd like to point something out. Recently there's been a surge of TRP people crowing about male "superiority," and holding up things like the motocross exhibition, chess championships, etc. as proof. Yes, congratulations: Males, who evolved specifically to defeat rivals in battles of strength and intellect, happen to be better at competition than females. So fucking what? What is the purpose of collating these anthologies of all the ways in which men …
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:36 PM
3

Sure thing. Check it out: “To be honest, I think you’ll find that the woman who is saying that [the roles have dried up] is the woman who at 40, 45, 48, still wants to play the ingenue, and can’t understand why she’s not being cast as the 21-year-old,” said Crowe. “Meryl Streep will give you 10,000 examples and arguments as to why that’s bullshit, so will Helen Mirren, or whoever it happens to be. If you are willing to live in your own skin, you can work as an actor. If you are trying to pretend…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:27 PM
18

go radio silent for at least a week. This is a bit extreme for a committed, exclusive LTR.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:13 PM
20

He's just saying, "We don't like old girls. Accept it." ...Did you even read the article? That's the opposite of what he said.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:28 PM
2

Pedantry is obnoxious and solves little. Stop debating, then, stop "discussing." You're clearly having issues. Yet when people here give you advice, you fight it like crazy. You rationalize, you say it's stupid that it works like that. Well, what you're doing ain't working, so how about you take their suggestions on faith?
/r/askTRP03/01/15 04:10 AM
1

Ha, nice.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:21 PM
2

?
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:19 PM
2

Stop arguing with the people who give you advice.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:16 PM
1

The interaction seems to go in such a way that they feel the need to either ignore me outright to even bizarre levels like not looking into my eyes when I'm directly and clearly talking to them or refusing to answer even the most basic questions. Sometimes, the only participation they'll have is to say something snarky or mean about me or to me. First thought: You're coming off as threatening.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 10:54 PM
1

Defendant for what, exactly? Do you think a court would excuse him from child support because he didn't want to have a kid?
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:37 PM
0

so called "social skills" are immaterial to getting hot women Funniest thing I've ever seen posted on this sub.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:35 PM
11

You need to keep context in mind. If the dude just goes up to people and drops the A blood type line, you're right, it probably wouldn't be very funny. When that line comes immediately after somebody's giving him shit for his race, it shows he doesn't care and that he can laugh it off. It becomes much more clever.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:42 PM
1

Generally speaking, ignoring her is the wrong response. It can work if she just did or said something exceptionally childish and you want to draw attention to that.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:57 PM
2

It doesn't matter what we think of the dude. It's quite clear that OP doesn't respect the guy. Just look at her comment in reply to yours.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:05 PM
11

1) /r/redpillwomen 2) If you're nervous about letting him lead, you don't trust him, nor respect him. Period.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 08:26 PM
1

There are three billion women in this world. Do you honestly believe that this is the only one with whom you can be "100% happy?"
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:59 PM
3

Swallowing your pride -- especially in the face of an asshole like me -- is not easy. I respect that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 07:47 PM
14

any particular pockets where your kind exist... Fucking really, guy? She's posting for advice about her husband's infidelity, and you're trying to see if she has friends you can hit on? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 03:28 PM
0

500 is right in the middle. I don't disagree that this might be a medical issue, but I'd be pretty shocked if testosterone alone was the culprit, if he's at 500-550.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 02:27 AM
1

It all depends. Are we talking initial attraction or committed relationship? What type of emotion does this girl respond to? Etc.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 05:03 AM
3

As you become more comfortable with yourself and with your masculinity, you won't be so afraid of "becoming feminine" by being a little empathetic or understanding.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 04:46 AM
1

There's no balance sheet. You need to decide based on what your gut is telling you -- we can't reduce this chick down to a list of pros and cons and make a logical decision. For example, the rape thing is a massive red flag -- but some girls do get over it, so who knows? You've got to pick based on how you feel.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:47 AM
20

Agreed. If there were an equal number of experienced posters as new people, self-moderated discussion would work. As it is, the people who don't understand vastly outnumber the veterans. We desperately need a heavy hand of moderation to keep the sub in balance.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:29 PM
3

Haha, for the love of God, no.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:20 PM
5

There's no emotion better correlated with divorce than contempt. I can see it in spades. You're a disgusting person. There are so many good men unlike you. You're thinking very great about yourself. Realize how disgusting you are. Many things can be overcome with hard work and communication. I don't think this can. Have you looked into divorce?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 04:00 PM
9

Jesus christ dude, learn to take a joke. Do you really want to be dating a girl who's so scared of offending you that she doesn't even tease you a bit?
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:57 PM
0

Basically it depends on the morals and balance of value of the two parties.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:48 PM
3

To be fair, a truly exceptional male will be able to get sex without commitment from nearly any woman, even the high-value ones. That doesn't apply to OP, but I figured I'd mention it.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 02:41 PM
2

I started lifting 2 months ago but I quit because I got bored.... Whenever I tell myself to go out and socialize I just find myself playing video games. Nobody here can force you to give a shit about your own life. Have fun dying alone.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 02:30 PM
1

When you call something "absurdly self-evident" and then follow with "the Nazis and Henry Ford made it required reading," the context is clear enough.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 05:51 PM
2

Haha, what the fuck? One of the things /asktrp is really bad about is the obsession with taking a brief description of a complex interaction and extrapolating wildly.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 04:27 PM
0

There's money in every field. Do something you're interested in.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 01:06 AM
1

I'm going to go against the rest of the advice here and advise you not to apologize, for one simple reason: I'm still struggling with a lot of beta tendencies, am still learning how to be RP.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 01:01 AM
-3

The Nazis made it a required reading in classrooms. Are you seriously listing this as a positive? How divorced from reality are you?
/r/askTRP21/12/14 12:58 AM
3

So.... do you want to break up with her or not?
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:18 PM
2

I wasn't responding to you.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 05:42 PM
1

I guess I wasn't clear enough. Women should not be blamed for the behavior I mentioned above. Just like men are biologically attracted to physical markers like breasts and hips, women are biologically attracted to things like confidence and power. A good, quality woman will choose not to go get drunk by herself where there are lots of guys on the prowl. She will choose not to put herself in those situations. That is the difference between a girl who is LTR-worthy and a girl who is not. Both of t…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 05:20 PM
1

she said... something like there are other fit men hitting on her and she can go to any one of them, but there's something about me. However, she is not sure, whether that something about me will last and she said, if only you not "this fucking overweight". You're lucky. Women will very rarely give you such a clear-cut signal that they want to be attracted to you, but they're losing that attraction. Understand, though, that this is your final warning from her. It may already be too late.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 04:42 PM
1

Most of the more experienced people in this sub have either fucked or had the opportunity to fuck girls who say they have great relationships, and who love their boyfriends. Most of those girls are even telling the truth. Right place, right time. All1 women are susceptible to hypergamous urges. If an attractive enough guy makes advances on your girlfriend under the right circumstances, she will sleep with him. Let me tell you a joke. Tucker “Well, let’s try a little test. Now, you know everyone …
/r/askTRP19/12/14 04:30 PM
5

You recognize that if you have kids with a woman, you're going to be tied to her for life through child support, alimony, etc. regardless, correct? I also find the idea that you could find a woman worthy of raising your children, but not trustworthy enough to marry, absolutely ludicrous.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 04:18 PM
3

What is your objective, here?
/r/askTRP19/12/14 01:34 AM
4

These are commitment tests, not shit tests. She's trying to establish how much you care about her.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:49 PM
1

Careful you don't cut yourself on that edge, son.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:11 PM
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