After playing the field for the past year, I decided to start an LTR with a girl who fits all my ideal criteria for a girlfriend, is easily a 9 in my opinion, and who is clearly very in love with me. She treats me very well, cooks me meals whenever I want, gives unlimited blowjobs, etc.

Over the past 6 months, we've both become very comfortable in the relationship. We alternate sleeping over at one another's apartments. We spend time together every day, and we text intermittently throughout the day when we're apart. I figure I haven't seen any signs of the amount of time we spend together taking any toll on the relationship. She is just as compliant now as ever and almost as eager for sex.

She never gives me bad behavior and always defers to me, so I figure since she treats me really well, I would like to do the same for her. So I take her out to dinner, give her massages, perform oral sex on her, etc. because I like to reward her and make her feel as good as she makes me feel. Everything is great, and I feel like we're morphing into one unit.

That said, she recently started saying, "You're so nice," and, "You treat me so well." Normally, I would think this means that everything is good. But now that I've taken the red pill, I can't help but wonder if my treating her so well, never initiating conflict, seeing her everyday, and quickly replying to texts may be boring her, even though this is how I want to treat her and even though she treats me like king. Also, she told me recently that her ex always made her feel as though he was superior to her (and she was very in love with him). So, these "You're so nice" and "I don't deserve you" type comments strike me as kind of a red flag, like she is trying to tell me something. I've come to associate being nice with being boring an unattractive, and I wanted to the opinion of the community.

Would you more experienced guys recommend that I change my behavior for the sake of the future relationship, even though it is healthy now? Would it be good for our relationship for me to try to spend more time apart from and find more hobbies that she can't participate in even though we both are enjoying the relationship as it is?