Hello RPW, I have been digesting the RP for close to a year now. I've made tremendous progress with hoping to make the final stretch before I turn 25 later this year. While I can get the male perspective of TRP at the main sub and r/asktrp, I have a couple of questions that I feel the RPW community can answer better. I'll just get right to it.

  1. Where can I meet RPW? Lately, I've only been getting women that want a ONS. While there is nothing wrong with that, my goal is an LTR. I think the problem is I'm looking in the wrong places.

  2. What are you looking for when you ask somebody what they do for a living? Of course you want the truth. What I mean is, I am an EE. I make a really good living. However, my job isn't particularly interesting and fun. Outside of it I do fun things. I guess the better question is, what would turn you off about an answer to the "what do you do?" question.

  3. Recently I met a girl through a friend group. She's the roommate of a good friend of mine. No IOIs the first time we met, but on the second time, I noticed IOIs. We hung out again (in a group) and it was pretty obvious she was into me. I didn't get the # because I wanted to make sure that she wasn't my buddies oneitis. (that friendship is valuable to me). He is cool with it. However, he suggested I get to know her more since all of her boyfriends have been her friends first. Obviously, this contradicts TRP. Do you date friends? If you are a 'serial friend dater', would a more direct approach scare you off?

  4. Because why the hell not. What's the first thing you notice about a guy that makes you flick your hair and seek his eyes out?