So, about 2 weeks ago started chatting to a girl on Tinder whilst working away from home.

Messages are free flowing, felt like we've known each other since forever. Manage to play it cool enough so she asks me out for a drink.

Stupidly end up having too much sex talk before the date via texts, so on the date itself it feels like we've went too far too soon.

Also, she's not sure if the physical chemistry is there. Pics I had up are recent, but like most I've made sure there of me at my best so think she felt a little let down.

Also, on the 1st date itself, went in for the kiss way too early and whilst she responded I could tell she wasn't into it at the time.

After the date, manage to talk her into second date. Goes fine, meal, couple of drinks, but again at end of date I ask has it gone well enough for a third. Stupid move I know.

Still constantly texting but messages are cooling off a bit, I know she's still on Tinder so is possibly messaging other guys. Not a problem with that as that's the game.

Managed a third date set up for this week at neutral location for us both (we live 70 miles apart) and whilst I'm sure nothing will happen mainly due to how far we'll be from each others homes, I'm looking to find away where I can turn the tables as it were and get her to chasing me again.

Advice appreciated.