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wHY are you smiling in the first place
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:02 PM
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I am not into being dominated myself. some plates really loved being tied up and a few were curious if id like it to. I let them give it a shot but the attitude was totally different. They were focused on pleasing me. Sounds to me like she is focused on pleasing herself. Rethink this LTR
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:34 AM
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TRP teaches you to give up ont he idea of getting the ONE girl. Focus on getting all the girls. Best way to get over yoru oneitis is to fuck 10 women that are better. Good luck. If you want to LTR an 8, get used to plating 9s. It's easy to feel insecure if yoru girls the best you can do, but if you can regularly meet date and fuck women that are in the same ballpark you might have a shot at an LTR
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:21 AM
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SHE WANTS TO FUCK DUDE. Keep the tension high, escalate smoothly. Don't scare the cat. Look up Vin Di Carlo's escalation ladder. Thank me later
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:34 PM
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Ask around see what you get. Here's true red TRP guidelines: Spin at least 2 plates at any given time Plates generally last 1-3 months Spin plates for at least 2 years before starting an LTR Lets do the math -> at least 24 girls just as plates Then you have to keep dating till one is suitable for an LTR. When the first attempt goes sour you have to go fuck ten other women to get your mjobo back 34 girls
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:34 AM
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Reading critically and thinking for yourself. THINK
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:13 PM
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Your job is to filter out bad women. You need to fix your process for dating. Don't give girls commitment until they earn it Replace, dont fix bad relationships What is a bad relationship? One where the girl doesn't make you feel right. Women that want to keep you in a relationship dont flirt with other guys or screw with your head.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:08 PM
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The average guy on TRP filters through 30-100 women before picking one for an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:06 PM
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If you dont want to put in the work get ready to accept the consequences. "I let myself go and ym girlfriend left me for a guy at work" Who's fault?!
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:05 PM
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Stop blaming yourself. Its not right
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:04 PM
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You were needy yes. But she's two timing you. She should have begged you to come back. Did she?
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:03 PM
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To be frank you have no business being monogomous in an LTR. You should try spinning plates for 2 years, then try an LTR if a girl seems right. Flirting with lots of other guys/texting other guys is a red flag and means plate only. I had lots of fuckbuddies that also had fuckbuddies. I had a few plates that were very loyal and caring and gave me one way exclusivity. Many, many, many "good girls"™ pretended to be exclusive and constantly shit tested me over sleeping around. Guess who the biggest …
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:02 PM
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To each his own. When you have lots of options you can afford to be a coward.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:40 PM
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3 weeks is the wrong timescale. THink 3 years+ out. If you're not gaining weight track how many calories you eat. Add 300 cals/day until your weight moves. And don't skip days track Mon-Fri Sat-Sun.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:38 PM
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What a shit bag. If it comes up again: "Excuse me? I think it's getting late I'm headed home" and LEAVE
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:45 PM
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Weigh out the situation. If it's a thundercunt sure - or a random hb8 at a party testing you from 3 o clock hold strong. When you're in the red zone grabbing an uber together after closing time play nice "i want to make women happy is fine"
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:42 PM
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1) Focus on your health get to 10% bf or less with decent amoutn fo muscle for frame. Ie 10% bf 200 lbs 6' tall. 190 for 5'11 180 for 5'10 if you're 6'1 220 2) make you rmission more important. Be too busy with your hobbies and career to give a shit about who'se got status
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:13 AM
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I've never encountered one girl ever to be especially disrespectful on period. Ovulating on the other hand lotsa shitesta
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:11 AM
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agree and amplify stick your face in it and use it as face paint
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:11 AM
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Here's the thing about shit tests vs comfort tests. You often can't tell the difference without context. The best thing for me is to guess which it is, act accordingly and see the response. Shit/Comfort Test??? Agree & Amplify Things get worse (ie more lashing out, disrespect moodiness) It was a comfort test Shit/Comfort Test??? Provide comfort Girl holds me tight. Great sex It was a comfort test I dated my LTR nonexclusively for over a year. During the first year of our LTR guess which I receiv…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:20 AM
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It's an interesting perspective. I will argue ALL of these are shit tests.Always good to get new perspectives. Always remember. ignore what they say watch what they do and hold that frame. The harder they test your frame the sooner they fuck you
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:11 AM
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Dread game . I cant tell you how far it goes. I was in a situation where everything i thoguht was a shit test was actually a comfort test for a good year because of all the girls that would try to poach me while iw as out with the ltr.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:54 AM
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Whatever's going on rest easy knowing that your plan of action is 80% the same no matter what happens with her. 1) Lift 2) Get your career in order 3) Work on your social skills If she wants to leave you'll have options. If she doesn't leave, you'll have options. Get it? The worst thing you can do is lose sleep miss workouts and get depressed and eat fast food and treat yourself like shit.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:31 AM
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remember plausible deniability. keep texts short. keep your intentions unclear over text, and in person escalate
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:12 PM
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The only way to get that high T and grow your penis is to eat all meals off of plates. Thats why we spin plates, so we can get big penis.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:48 PM
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Amen brother. Keep lifting.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:30 AM
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If this is your regular thing and a cheating ex is slipping in get her out of it. Talk to your buddy call in a favor.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:05 AM
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I would say next those women. You aren't hot enough to date them, you are their entertainment.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:25 PM
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Look man if you're using porn regularly it may have simply caught up to you. Try going porn free and see how that goes. I don't think you can blame your LTR for a soft dick if you're using porn every 2 days or more.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:25 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Actions are the key, not words. If you want "intimacy" own it and go for the LTR. Otherwise you're just leading someone on, which is unfair - which you might decide is okay for you.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:27 PM
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right on good to see someone reads
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:25 PM
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How do I tack on mass without spending a lot of money No but the guy is low on cash. Those will take him far
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:05 PM
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Hey A_Bridgeburner, My advice is be more congruen with your actions. Figure out if you want an LTR, a plate, an MLTR, or what and then be very clear. If a girl is just a plate the general rule is: Does not meet friends. Never sleeps over. Only see once a week or 2x every 10 days. *** Hand holding and other bf/gf activities are frowned upon. If you hang out there is always sex. *** spending a whole weekend together is a major violation. If you treat her like a gf, expect the talk. DUH
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:04 PM
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People need to read this and reflect on it. Why is a plate sleeping over?!
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:02 PM
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Socialize more and more and more. Keep talking to people. Listen. Watch. Don't ask.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:28 PM
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In early days I've had similar problems. I say give up on it. Stop pushing for it. Accept that it's not gonna happen. Build the friendship- but see her less and less. Realize she needs dick, so let her find it with ehr free time. Build up your social groups, and bring her around- who knows maybe you can pair her up with on of your friends.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:26 PM
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It's a no. On to the next
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:24 PM
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Peanut butter potatoes milk
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:24 PM
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On the one hand, the man gets betafied and a little lazy when it comes to game and looks because they already have a girl ready to go all the time. On the other hand its easier to focus on work and other life goals if you're not spending 3-4 nights a week on dates/partying/gaming. It all comes down to frame.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:22 PM
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I want you to imagine the fat thats pulled out during lyposuction. Maybe about 120 lbs of it stuffed into the frame of a 5'7 woman. What if she told you she had the tightest pussy in the world. You'd hit that right? RIGHT?!
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:14 PM
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Best path for you is to keep dating till you hit a notch count of 30. I know people here say GFTOW but I suggest 30. That will put you on bar with the notch count of many women and you will have the same emotional response to them that they have to you. "Oooh taco bell. I could go for some taco bell"
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:12 PM
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Stop thinking of population dynamis as cultivating a garden or breeding racehorses. Think more of fruit flies in your kitchen. The more aggressive, sneaky, lucky fruit flies will proliferate fastest. Some kitchens require lean resilient flies. Others require fast sneaky flies. People reproduce and you get a bunch of genetic diversity. That sickly looking skinny guy might develop a tool that pulls is tribe through the war.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:10 PM
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This is not a question worth asking right now. Don't read the answers here, don't ponder this further. Go live your life. Go try being good looking. Go work on your game. Experience feeling nervous, feel embarrassed on a date. Get rejected hard. Get disrespected by people. DOn't groom, dress poorly, take it in. Dress well, see the reaction. Try nice clothes no grooming - well groomed nice clothes, covered in dirt groomed. Try it all. See what it's like. Get fat. Get a six pack. Feel the people a…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:07 PM
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If you don't tell them how can they know? DOn't stew on it. Bring it up ASAP
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:03 PM
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What are your goals? Does any of this erode or hinder your ability to reach your near and long term goals? RSDTyler gives off a gay partyboy vibe that does well. In HS and college pretty sure my gay bros got way more poon than the rest of us. Your options are to A) Own it B) Change the signals that you give out The eyebrow trimming might be the only thing to really drop. If you are feeling insecure about being called gay then maybe change. If you are worried that you're giving a feminien vibe an…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:02 PM
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Only for close friends. I have kept my distance and my mouth shut otherwise. It's a shame but it's just not your place if you aren't close.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:27 PM
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Dont act so shocked. This sub was subverted long ago and now works against men
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:54 PM
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Hang in there bud.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:04 PM
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For these 3. If its 3/100...
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:00 PM
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Women will fill the container theyre in. Be like a male porn director and shell be a porn star
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:59 PM
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That girl is a saint for tolerating your bullshit. Id recommend double teaming her to kill the oneitis. You do you man. Youre an alcoholic whose still drinking. Dont drive
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:57 PM
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I would next her. Why? Im too lazy and too easily annoyed to deal with stupid shit
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:54 PM
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0/9 wow maybe nexting 30 girls to end up with a reasonable ltr was a good idea!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 02:01 PM
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I've got news for you. You're barely top 20% of men at best. Barely fuckable. "Very muscular Broad back big muscles" is a dime a dozen. Count calories if youre serious about becoming fuckable.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:53 PM
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For more see sidebar
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:54 PM
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I hide income career and intelligence. Anything that might signal BB is off limits before a girl gets upgraded from plate. Douchebag/fun is the vibe I give. Get a repitation for being a meathead and pussy fills your parties
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:53 PM
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Never say it again. If she brings it up again hold her in your arms pick her up carry her to the bedroom and show her. Pound her silly. Look at her pet her face and whisper "Olive juice"
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:43 PM
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Honestly if its an ldr id assume its been at least 2 years of being together. In that context more likely to be comfort than shit test. Just flirt back. "Wouldnt u like to know"
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:40 PM
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How fit? Six pack? Remember young guys are equivalent to postwall women in terma of smv and young girls are maxed out
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:38 PM
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My experience in the UK is that its tough to game locals on cold approach. Slowly make friends. Get to know the cute girl behind the counter of every store. Do sports activities like running clubs. Also get a part time job just for the social aspect
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:35 PM
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Hey whats done is done. If its a high quality girl get your head out of your ass and open up about your life so she doesnt assume you sell pot. What to say w next hotter younger girl I work at a small business with friends doing ecommerce. I live very frugally and I am saving lots of money. My finances are private. No debts some money saved up. I like to keep my finances private because I dont like dick measuring comments. Ok now can you ve my suggar momma. I want to save up for a private jet bu…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 05:46 PM
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It's the same as always - work on yourself. plates are a crutch until you fall in love w yourself. no homo.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 03:07 PM
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For the same reason PUA is unpopular. Ive been losing a bit of my fondness because of all of the political crap thats bled onto the site. Lets just get jacked fuck some hot women and have fun in the process. Yes society is part of the problem we face but fuck politics and fuck hijacking a sexual drive for political gain. Goes to either side.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:40 PM
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Its really up to you my friend. Pie in the sky, no limit. What makes you feel good.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 06:16 PM
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The real problem is you need to learn to get laid. if you want to forget about it for a bit take a vacation and maybe get some ex sex go for it. you do you. Its not about growth. Its about having fun and sex. Embrace it. When you get back time to work and learn to meet women.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 06:14 PM
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What helps is to feel that pressure to be the best. Get rejected hard, work hard to prove them wrong. Set very tight deadlines at work and meet them.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:19 AM
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NEXT!!!! Seriously she's texting the photos to another guy. That's bad enough already. THink of the photos she send sot chads you dont see. CCome on.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:42 AM
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It's a delicate balance. You need to escalate at least to the point of being a sexual option but not far enough to hit ASD or LMR. If you are very muscular shes already aroused and if you are escalating quickly it will overwhelm her and part of her will go woah is this hapoening right now? She loses plausible deniability. Going from 180 to 200 lbs I learned that it was best for me to handle logistics go easy on the touching (doesnt mean none) and its pretty mich downhill from there.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 10:47 PM
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Great stuff. Jus tlike to add muscle mass automatically makes you sexual so the scrawnier you are the more tension you need to add. Usually skinny guys can do tons of touching without overdoing it. If you're a big guy easy on the touch but stay close.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:49 PM
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Who's to blame the most here? As in biggest factors and mistakes to avoid in the future. You are. Youre not ltr material. Go spin plates get yout shit together. Also awalt
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:04 PM
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Sorry man. If it makes you feel all women do this eventually unless you are god-level good at holding frame, staying disciplined, and are an adonis. Even then it's a 50/50 chance at best
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:14 PM
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No at worst they wont put out because you are provider material. Youre gonna get the no sex before gf status ploy.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:21 PM
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Downvote if youd like. Ive got a phd in the machine learning field and the income to go with it and i keep that shit to myself. Its a liability in the sexual marketplace and if you disagree may i ask why? Providers are losers today. Alpha Bucks is a myth, and BB is a fate we all avois.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:20 PM
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No excuses it wont get better man. Plates do those things for you too
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:53 PM
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Way lowers your smv. If you want to buy women show them what you drive amd how much you make. Lube required since BB dont moisten panties
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:51 PM
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High quality women dont go on dates when not single. Arent you just rhe perfect orbiter gentleman? All girls start as plates. No dinner before fucking. Basics man. Puzzle? AWALT. Appeal to their limbic hindbrain. Be loud powerful charismatic preselected.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:50 PM
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This is a shit post. Keep it up. Aim for 1000 days.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:55 AM
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Offer her a Lyft
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:09 PM
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Offer her an uber. Its a sexy status symbol that will roll of the tongue at brunch w the girlfrands. Take advantage of corporate marketing
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:02 PM
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eanwhile while hes lost his social life, gotten boring, and gotten fat, his little sweetheart just wants to get away from him and go out with her girls to a party and get railed by a jacked frat guy. (And ALL of her girls are telling her on a daily basis that she needs to live her life and shit) This never stops and that's why we never marry boys.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:03 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:22 PM
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Youre gonna hear lots of things on the topic. Some girls love swallowing some dont. To some degree your attractiveness will modulate her response. If youre grossed out by the smell of yourself then maybe there is an issue to get sorted out.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:50 PM
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"Talking in the theater nice one."
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:47 PM
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Daygame/Bars/Online
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:42 PM
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Can men maintain plates into their 30s and 40s? Yes sir. Met many girls who get used by older men. In my late 20s slept with a fair amount of 18-20yo girls
/r/askTRP18/03/17 12:11 AM
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Caution plates are supposed to be 1x a week. 2x a week maybe. 3x and she will get attached. Food doesnt matter. Just keep it 1:1. Lots of girls brought me food and cooked for me to woo me. LTR does it regularly! Insists on paying for me very often. I reciprocate but somehow she pays more
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:22 AM
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They do bro
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:57 PM
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So you dated her in a healthy way? Comeon man. Shes only upset because youre a lowly bb in her eyes. If it was Chad youdbhave nudes inbyour inbox.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:03 PM
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Its good that you kept your cool and that emotionally you're rock solid. You set your boundaries not us so if something makes sense to you, do it. Ive been guilty of worrying too much about someone elses behavior when I should have been using that energy to lifting or gaming. Good luck
/r/askTRP13/03/17 06:56 PM
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To me this looks like a plate dropping. If you're gonna go the non-monogamous route you have to be prepared for the girl having side action too. Blackdragon has a great blog on that type of relationship style. The general takeawy I have is that MLTR dating is very different. You have to manage their investment - if you let them get too deep they'll struggle and have a hard time. You have to set limits on how often they see you, how much intimacy there is, and only let them push those limits slow…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:18 PM
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Looks good to me. Keep lifting. Focus on yourself first. IE if she's giving you shit and you want to be a stronger leader int he relationship don't put energy into combatting her shit tests, put energy into making yourself more attractive.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:09 PM
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he called me freaking out wanting to make sure we weren't dating and I reaffirmed that she could relax, that it was nothing serious and that we are just having fun. If a girl doesn't want the upgrade do not upgrade. Protip: If she's the only one she's not a plate, she's your LTR. If you're not spinning bust your ass cuz she is.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:08 PM
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Sounds like shes an uberbitch or its less than 1 year in and shes still feeling you out.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 09:34 PM
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then it's best for us to stay monogamous" Then it's best for you to think we're monogamous
/r/askTRP10/03/17 08:51 PM
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I can speak from Alex's perspective. A year ago was in Alexs situation. Tdlr; You are actually gay and don't know yet. Have a fantastic friend who was my best friend for many years. We were wingmen of the highest order competing to see who could get the other layed more. We took trips around the country shared women shared beds etc. Lifted cooked together. Then the guy started to lose interest in picking up girls. I focus on my main 3 plates, slowed down on girls and focused on career. After 6 m…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:18 PM
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I started cold approaching with major anxiety. Baby steps. I used to do this: Thursday make eye contact w all strangers sometimes say hi. Friday say hi to all, small talk all cashiers doormen etc. Approach one girl walking home from work. Friday night cold approach. Saturday day and night cold approach if I see girls out while im running errands or meeting up with friends. Monday morning id go back into my shell.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 12:52 AM
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I just go by the boner test. Its a plate
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:37 PM
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Can confirm
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:23 PM
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Dont forget the three Ds of falling in love. Doing - women talk to women all the time. Talk is feminine. Action is masculine and will melt a womans loins. Demanding - get the girls to invest in you. Little favors turn into big ones. Dicking. Hard and deep. Theres a pleasure button. Only problem ia you have to hit it better than the last few guys and if you do shes in love
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:20 PM
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Talk to your coaches see what they recommend. It's okay to say to yourself "I'm focused on MMA for now, bodybuilding isn't my main priority." I would add at least 2 lifting days and just do compounds (squat, bench, dips A day) (deadlift, barbell row, chinups, shoulder press B day) Protip: look up TDEE calculators
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:09 AM
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That's your choice. I regretted waiting for an HB8. Had all kinds of weird expectations and conditions that prevented me from progressing into adulthood.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:06 AM
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Then no worries. You're already not husband material ;)
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:45 PM
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Track your calories your weight and your bodyfat (using calipers.) After 2 weeks adjust your intake to move towards your goal. If you don't track you can't learn or control it. Start with 600/day surplus, watch the weight go on aiming for gaining 1-2lb/ week. You will gain fat and muscle at the same time. That's okay. How much is 500 calories? Probably an extra PB&J on top of what you already eat. That's not a-lot. Weigh your food, don't eyeball it. Also you could try myfitnesspal. When your bod…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:44 PM
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Welcome to life. Feeling unhappy is okay. I'm making rapid progress in my career. Still hungry. Still ruminating. Still fighting. ** Edit: I feel great after long workouts and a daylong sexathon.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:06 PM
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I'm 6ft0 but I'm a bit on the lean low BF side right now at 148lb. Since you do MMA this might be strategic. At some point you'll want to come off as an AF. If you're done competing take your weight up to ~ 190 lbs lean. At 148 lbs you're auto- BB.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:05 PM
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Don't ever tell them what you do. I keep my mouth shut with plates. If they get upgrade to MLTR or LTR then they learn more. If they see you have a hospital badge in the future "I'm a male nurse"
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:04 PM
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Yes its a shit test. Women are trying to reframe players because they cant resist their urges. Id say play it cool "Nope im gay" Break rapport right back
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:06 PM
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No no no. Thats movies and tv. Its a handicap in real life. You wanna stand out? Have high smv. Muscles low bodyfat skincare style loud confident voice. Enhance masculinity
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:00 PM
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Year 2 was the end of of the relationship
/r/askTRP03/03/17 12:46 PM
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Lawyer up
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:31 PM
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You are a grown man with heavy late stage oneitis. All members here please pay attention. Look at how dangerous oneitis is. It is very fucked up to do what you did. You are pairbonding in an unhealthy way with a woman youve never even fucked. Dont shit where you eat. Ever. Dont talk feelings before fucking. If youre getting feelings before 6 mo of fucking shes gaming you hard. Sorry you married.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:14 PM
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Fucking overly sensitive women! I hate babysitting adult women. Visited a $500m startup last month. HR had a corner on the top floor decorated with dolls mylittlepony and teddy bears. Big red flag
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:11 PM
1

So by the time you are showered after crossffit thats 4 hours and then work. 1/4 of your day dude. (Assuming 8hr sleep) My goto is wakeup at 6 gym have a shake, gym by 620, 730 showering, breakfast and coffee and im working by 830
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:36 PM
1

I bought an LTR a vibrator years ago. Not a big deal. Go for an over the clit one like the wand and not one that slides inside unless it goes im her ass. If it goes on top you can both enjoy it.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:27 PM
2

Go find a girl who loves sucking but doesn't like getting eaten out
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:38 PM
2

God damn it I didn't want you to know how much competition I had to turn away when I chose you. Oh come on don't tell me you're getting jealous on me. You know I care about you. Now go make me a sandwich If she's not insecure then you could try something a little edgy but be careful because it might be the nuclear option depending on who you're talking to. Oh man now I can't believe you found these. There were definitely some fun things about being single.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:09 PM
3

Drakes hitting the wall
/r/askTRP25/02/17 01:52 PM
1

Whats your partner count and how many in last 12 months?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:02 AM
1

On a scale from one to curry, how hairy is your brown behind? Take it from calcutta to jacked and cut and sorority blonde poon is yours.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:52 AM
2

Dont teach her how to lie
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:49 AM
1

There are two male mating patterns: Genetic deposit only (Impregnate but dont invest resources) Raise the offspring 1 is for the low value women
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:47 AM
2

Youre not even wrong. The point is to get the tools to do whatever you choose. Offspring with low smv women means low quality children. Id prefer 2 kids with high quality women vs 10 low quality
/r/askTRP24/02/17 05:13 PM
4

Be patient with yourself. First 4 months of trp I did not get laid. Struck out hard. I eventually got to a point where I could add 2 plates per month and after a few years of practice felt confident enough to try an LTR after thorough vetting. Take a short break from approaches (1 week or so) and just go have fun. Forget about girls for a bit and try again with a fresh attitude. If you are not getting matched on tinder it tells me that your bodyfat is too high. Your lifts are pretty decent conai…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 04:19 PM
0

Its called being beta fucks
/r/askTRP23/02/17 08:31 PM
2

It means she met a guy who makes her tingle more than you do. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:35 AM
2

This is true. Women respond to frame far more than looks. The denial on this page is due to a lack of positive role models irl to demonstrate frame and masculinity.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:56 PM
2

Shes just flirting. Smash
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:53 PM
1

Next sorrt dude. Early on in the ltr state your boundaries. If she crosses them next or jarshly punish with action (dont talk about itbever). Of shes hanging out w guys you start going on dates. Set them up in front of her. Fire w fire. Repeat until you are spinning plates
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:52 PM
2

Youre probably low social status in your classes. Focus on clubs where you are the leader or you excel. You need to lift more to make up for your shortness. Aim for 150lbs lean.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:40 PM
3

I chose aesthetics over powerlifting. I do a big compound movement 4/5 times a week heavy weight on the 5-3-1 periodization scheme and then 4 sets of 10-15 light weights for muscle size. Also cardio. Girls only care how the muscles look. Powerlifting is slow due to looong rests and overtrains legs. Want to see the biggest white knights at my gym? Its the powerlifters. Kudos to Joe though he cut from 280 down to 190 and looks great.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:37 PM
9

Forget loyalty. Without common hardship (war) and with no common goal (bp vs rp) there will only be superficial bonds. I treat my friendship like an exclusive club. If you don't follow the rules or deliver value back you're out. If I invite a friend to a party or activity, I wait for them to invite me to something before I invite them again. If they fill my party with hot women or great food, they get invited more often. If they introduce me to new hobbies I return the favor. If they get too wei…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:32 PM
1

Always best to assume plate and upgrade very slowly for good behavior
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:38 PM
1

Little nymphos do on occasion turn coffee into a quickie. If you get the look go for it.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:21 PM
1

Call him a gypsy
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:16 PM
2

When I know the girl is sleeping around its very easy for me to not catch feelings. You know why? I treat plates like plates... No sleepovers. No handholding. 2/3 time we meet up its only sex. I dont fuck the same plate twice in a row. I see plates only once a week. I dont talk about my feelings or my life w plates.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:08 PM
6

Two ideas based on sex god method. Use your judgement on this one. Go the ultra dominant route where you pick her up put her on her knees and go to completion. Let yourself build up the week before. Focus only on your pleasure. BJ ONLY. Many girls like being taken, and this may really turn her on. Return the favor
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:11 PM
1

Hes right. Read up on stoicism. You are too reactive to your emotions. Learn to experience them without immediately acting impulsively, and the first step is to stop thinking impulsively. I think the best way to do that is regular lifting, and at least 2 long cardio sessions 30m or so. Add in regular socializing (2x a week for two hours) w regular friends. Also make sure you eat right.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:01 AM
3

I wanna challenge your read. They ghostbbecause they slot you as beta and are seeking af. I could be wrong but maybe not.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:36 PM
1

Its all shit tests for a first date bruh. If you are dominant enough shell fuck. Only reason she withholds sex is to see how beta you are. I understand your frustration and see that youre playing it right. Go hard cocky funny next time rather than the guessing game. "Do you fuck them all on the first date?" "Im heading back to my place why dont you join me and then you can judge for yourself" and actually start walking. Being pumped and dumped is not their fear. Its their desire. Its their fanta…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:34 PM
1

You lead by example. All it will do is show her that she can see guys one kn one
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:20 PM
1

She's insecure it's shit tests and comfort tests. Just hold her hug her and say don't worry you're still my little slut/or whatever you like to call her. Do not argue the point, and STFU from now on. Lift more too.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:20 PM
3

Call me old-fashioned but if a girl turns me off I don't plate her. I like the momentum system. If I have zero plates I plate anything that keeps me hard. Then when I've got a rotation going, replace the girl I like the least with a hotter girl. Repeat until I find all plates very attractive. Slowly the quality of the girls improves.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:15 PM
1

Please fuck her lose your virginity
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:10 PM
1

He gave you an impossible condition
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:52 PM
1

Every plate i dropped dated down to heal her wounds. AF soft cushy BB
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:02 PM
1

Your recruiter didnt want you. Healthy weight loss is 1lb/week. Track calories. Myfitnesspal. Lift
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:58 PM
5

Dont do it. Lost a friend that way.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:56 PM
1

You are 17 give it lots of time. If your bodyfat is high cut to get to 15%. At your age don't go too far below 10%, now or very soon your testosterone level is gonna be great. Keep lifting, eat a ton and you will grow. Keep on the 5x5 it's a great beginners program. After a year of consisten lifting trying 5 3 1
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:30 PM
2

Think of the pain men experience when they unplug. Your LTR is not unplugged. If you communicate TRP principles out loud she will immediately be in denial, think of you as a pyscho, and then become anxious and likely angry. If you communicate overtly you will drive her hamster nuts. She's bluepill. You don't argue with bluepill. Communicating covertly is the best way forward. Don't argue, just STFU and act. If she hangs out with guys one on one, you immediately setup a "date" with a "friend" whe…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 06:23 PM
0

Beta fuckz.. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:50 PM
1

She got some alpha cock during those 3 days. She thought she was higher value than you, and when you ghosted instead of chased it put her hamster in a tailspin. She will fuck you to measure her own self worth. Keep her guessing to keep her spinning. Never LTR. High interest girls dont pull this shit. I dont think shes crazy. Shes just following her gina tingles. Play the game if its fun for you.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:10 AM
2

Amen
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:18 PM
10

Problem is if you work in industry you realize trumps economic policies have zero bearing on reality. The world has evolved and moved on. The rhetoric you're hearing appeals only to the uninformed. Behind the scenes hes working trade deals for oil oligarchs in russia, and figuring out how to channel chinese building materials to his companies. Hes not your friend.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:02 PM
1

Two things Okay, I admit I may jerk off too much. Well there's your problem. Give it MONTHS or YEARS to get back to heterosexual vs asexual. No I am not gay One of my collegebuddies would pick up girls with me every weekend. He'd mostly do a ONS and get bored. Few years down the line guess who's dating men?!
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:08 PM
3

Definitely do not explain. How are things with you and your housemate? Does he feel dominant to you?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:35 PM
1

Excellent. The way I see it is: Girl is playing games, getting off on her own perceived value, how much you want her, etc. In OP's case she's really pushing it, witholding sex, and then pretending it's a favor she gives out. You have great sex with her, but then you deny her what she really wants: Your desire towards her. You are warm and give her affection but ultimately display that your sexual interest is low compared to hers. She will fuck you until she gets over the insecurity you create (i…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:33 PM
1

YOu've got a wallhugger. Careful! If she treats you well and green flags you can consider upgrading after 6 months as a plate (minimum). Plate at will, no problems there. I didn't expect women to switch into BB mode till they got to 28-30 but I found many girls in the 23-25 range are BB hunting.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:29 PM
2

All the responses here are great. Best thing you can do is keep socializing. 30% cold approach 30% dates 30% friends
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:45 AM
2

She's a woman. AWALT
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:59 PM
2

Thank you. Great link. Highly vouch for blackdragon
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:39 PM
1

An apt analogy is poker; you play to win, but you don't let your emotions overwhelm you or give away your hand.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:56 PM
15

Obviously I will mix in some more beta traits from now on because her comfort levels are way too low. But should I still 'apologize' to her? You are already mixing in beta traits. Too many beta traits, and that's why she's fighting. To first order you are playing the redpill game, but already 5 months in your LTR is losing her shit. Why? Because you are using overt communication rather than covert communication. You might as well tell her that you're the alpha in the relationship out loud. Her h…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 03:35 PM
5

Keep lying she is hahahahaha
/r/askTRP29/01/17 03:32 PM
3

Some like it hawt
/r/askTRP29/01/17 02:07 AM
1

Fair. If you are at risk of being autistic notbworth the risk. My approaches are very indirect
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:06 PM
2

Dont leak move on. Never burn bridges. You never know when they might work w you or you might need them.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:15 PM
9

Which one is the girl? Srsly. Setup a meet. "My place aat 8pm"
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:13 PM
3

Its a shame. Women are unhappy and feminism is a big big part of it.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:00 PM
1

Go hit on women might as well. She was being disrespectful and you fell for it. Fight fire w fire Next tim hold frame.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:11 PM
1

Its fine the longer you dont contact her the better. Let her wonder let her rage. Let her lust
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:28 PM
2

Fuck no! Once a week or twice every 10 days. Its the best way to maintain a pkate without feelings.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:47 PM
2

Just like men fuck up dating so do women. Had that happen many times. Was less of a problem when i was flappy. Just tell her woah thosbisbway too fast im not in a place for an ltr. I loke what we have.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:45 PM
2

Dont buy into the tantrum one bit. "Oops looks like you didnt raise a mamas boy. How are the ladies at bingo are gonna make fun of you now?" if she persists just get busy and wait a few days to talkbagain.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:29 PM
1

Buy lots of lube
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:26 PM
5

"You can make it up to me next time" then let her ask about when and where
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:03 PM
2

Except lots of those roughnecks cant think for themselves. My dad works with those guys. They generally wife up a slut who spends her and him into mountains of debt. They work hard. They earn every cent and work their asses off often destroying their bodies or risking their lives.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:53 PM
5

Its not natural. Men must leave the nest. Have her live in the same neighborhood as you and visit often. Far better and healthier for both of you
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:50 PM
28

Its ok for you to feel this way. If 5 is too many for you dont ltr. You should always multiply by 3 and 15 is typical for most 25 year old women. Its ok not to ltr.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:48 PM
1

Cold approach walking on campus i would number close 4/5 often getting numbers for pairs of girls. Some girls love love love older men and they will make itbvery easy for you. Others will freak out. Take it in stride. Dont say the same thing to ten girls in a row and mix up your spots. From the number maybe 2/5 is a meetup and then 50/50 getting laid. So 8% sex out of approaches. Talk to 100 women get 8 plates
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:45 PM
1

I did well with a mix of tinder night game and daygame. Daygame does not require social proof. My protip is focus on the arts. Go to music shows plays ballets. Hang out half an hour before the show and chat w girls waiting for friends. Know the program for the whe season and if the vibe is good invite the girl to go w you. Go indirect every time. Open w a comment about the show or the venue.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:41 PM
1

Right on man. Undergrads or bust. Single women past 23 are always broken
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:38 PM
2

The man approaches.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:37 PM
2

Beta is good for provisioning. Money, responsibility, dad qualities. Its not gonna drive their sexual desire one iota but women sure as hell do chase beta traits, especially money. See doctors lawyers wall street. Many of the men here including myself have traits and behaviors that are something worse than beta. Pussy on a pedastal, supplicating, oneitis, pornnandbvideo game addiction, neediness; those are never attractive. We throw around the term beta loosely. I throw in a little beta here and…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:33 PM
2

Ive given plates away when they start flirting w friends. The look on their face when they try to swing back is hilarious. Carful about who gets the plate. They always assume superiority. Are they right?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:46 PM
1

Share food boos etc. Dont share sex
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:44 PM
2

Best advice is realize shes one of many many more to come. Take off that heavy makeup and see whats left. Read chatsau heartistes commandments of poon, especially the part on ignoring beauty
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:37 PM
0

Tease the shit out of her. Come on
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:09 PM
1

For training and fighting I get it. Its a great target. Guys lean as fuck. Just be aware that his natural weoght may be 160 and thats what he cuts down to same as macgregor. http://ep.imgci.com/PICTURES/CMS/26400/26495.2.jpg Hes very lean. Heres a 15 yo https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Jrrn_aCjQCY/hqdefault.jpg When you retire and want aesthetics same leaness at 165 or more gives you rewards.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:53 PM
3

I have muscles
/r/askTRP26/01/17 09:37 PM
1

Great to hearvthat youre training. 5'9" 140 lbs is havingbthe bodymass of. 15 year old. Maybe youbwant to spar in a certain weightclass but youre gonna look great at 165
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:56 PM
1

Get away from trash
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:52 PM
0

Fuck off with yourvfeelings and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:52 PM
1

Yeah. Depression plus a BPD woman
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:51 PM
1

Yes go friendly open mind. If the three of you are alone at their place, definitely make sure tehre's a bottle of wine. You're gonna have to initiate on both if the vibe is good. Fore example they kiss each other while sitting very close to you and give you a look. Or they look confused as what to do next while sitting near you. All you have to do is lean over and kiss one and the rest is auto. Bring condoms
/r/askTRP26/01/17 12:12 AM
2

Learn to be free of validation. Problem is all you. You still want approval. All you need is your own.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:35 PM
2

Patrice o neal did it. Just go for it. Try it amd decide. Cheaper not to but no shaming from me.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:31 PM
1

These guys are preaching state your boundaries. Well guess what you showed her your boundaries when you already met up with the guy twice. You are better off inviting your ltr to have lunch w you and single girls until she gets sick of it. Push for the threesome if you can.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:18 PM
2

Simple elegant and precise
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:27 PM
2

Lol girls are way easier to fool than you'd think. Ive done itbyouve done it, many men lesser than either of us has done it. They use proxies for determining chad status. Learn the proxies and play the game.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:26 PM
5

Lol all the downsides of being married with 0 pussy
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:13 PM
5

There's a very high chance given your age that your SMV is far lower than you think it is. You are probably experiencing beta shaming. They perceive your behavior as tryhard and incongruent with your status and personal appearance. If thats the case the way to get a lay is to ghost gain 20lbs of muscle a six pack, accomplish something great and come back in a year.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:24 PM
1

Also adjust your expectations. Only top 10% of guys get approached and only on the right emvironments. As a man its your duty to initiate. Doubly so for dominant men.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:30 PM
5

Lol never tell a girl your RP thoughts out loud. Makes you look like a retard or a psycho. Best to not pick up orbsay "ive moved on. Its been fun all the best"
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:23 PM
1

She wants more attention is all. Id go with fun/upbeat next time. "So busy. Always too much to do" is better than "i have nothing to say" and if she keeps pushing "g2g see ya"
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:21 PM
2

At 5'8 your target weight should be about 155 lbs at 6 percent bodyfat. You also need to do ab workouts regularly to maje them pop. Your problem is probably a lack of muscle sorry bro. Lean bulk if you can. Aim for the following stats Bench 1.5x bodyweight (2x if you can) Squat 2x Deadlift 2.5x
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:01 PM
10

Dont mate guard. Chase other girls in front ofnher instead and stfu. Keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:49 PM
3

You fuck up every time you talk. Fight fire w fire. Every time shes texting guys you go get numbers at the club, starr having lunch w exes and prospects again. Dont rub it in but dontbhide it either. Straight up call your ex in front of her when she comolains about random texts from a guy
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:47 PM
1

If they slay
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:13 PM
2

You are confusing this for XXchromosomes. What yoy are experiencing is denial and its perfectly normal. Where is your sympathy for the men who are being used or betrayed? Where is your curiosity about the young men who are struggling and are in great pain regarding their sexual lives. The men who are virgins at 25 or 30? They are here to learn. The crude examples and weak game you come here to mock are steps in the right direction. Show us your tits or march outta here.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:12 PM
0

Play sports. Develop morer masculinity. Get your lifts up and body mass up. At 5 10 12% bf weigh 180 to 190 or so
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:42 PM
3

They key to enjoying a ONS is saving it for really hot girls and do it when youre both mostly sober. 18-21 year old hb8 is ideal.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:53 PM
2

Block number. Oneitis kills men
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:45 PM
3

Here is OP's mental framework. "According to trp there are alphas and betas. Alphas get to fuck for free and they are dominant. Wow this girl defied me. I aint no fucking beta how dare she. She didnt immediately start sucking me off in the bathroom so Ibhave to hard next. Fuck shes texting me. How do I tell her I am alpha so she knows we can fuck?"
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:44 PM
2

If she says to soon say ok we can stop by the grocery store first
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:40 PM
9

Dont be a kuncklehead. Text something like: "Thurs 7pm my place bring wine" stfu about sex. Girl wants to be discreet. Trust me shes not looking to lock you down or she wouldve latched onto you and made a big show of it st thr party. Assume attraction. She wants the D. Dont get butthurt
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:39 PM
2

There is no revenge. "Ive had a really great time. Ive enjoyed our 4 years together, but it's time for me to move on. All the best" Forget about putting her in her place or telling her what she did. She knows what she did.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:22 PM
3

Your account has 0 other posts
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:15 AM
5

"Yes we really should sleep" and then skip to where the talking stopped. Just agree and carry on.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 02:52 AM
1

Youbguys dont do this by default!?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 01:52 AM
1

Virus of the mind is not new. Look at religion
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 01:39 AM
2

Success is 1) surviving and 2) revenue growth. Think big. What trends do you see in the world? Can you get paid to help those trends take off? Dont start a business wothout customers in mind unless youve done it before and know how to win. Expect 1-2 years at 4 or 5 people, and then double every year. If youre revenue isnt growing at that pace sell and try again.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 01:20 AM
1

Shes grossed out bcuz ur a mamas boy
/r/askTRP23/01/17 01:11 AM
1

2 hrs together per plate once a week tops. In ltr now so I save time together for when im done being productivre. Huge time suck on weekends but lots of fun. Usually just spend nights and mornings together
/r/askTRP23/01/17 01:09 AM
1

With 5 youd have to tell them to blend in and make them a friend. Phone camera even. Regarding 4 google "style consulting nyc" if youre in nyc for example.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:44 AM
2

Hire a personal trainer that makes you lift like a moviestar. 5 days a week min Supplement with testosterone if its worth the risks. Hire a personal chef. Maybe split with friends if it makes sense. They should weigh out your macros and provide all meals. Style coach as well for clothes. Professional photographer for parties facebook instagram and linkedin. Edit: Also pay for tutoring in hard classes. Hire a personal assistant. Think like a CEO. Anything under 50/hour you outsource. Laundry, gro…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:33 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:25 AM
3

Typically when a woman gets a better man she despises and isbdisgusted at her ex. Instead your gf has tingles. Go with her or hard next
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:22 AM
1

Next time keep your mouth shut. Get ripped. Groom. Shave bodyhair ifbyou have to. Get your shit together. Never talk about wanting sex like this again.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:51 PM
1

You bet and itbworks
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:41 PM
1

Excep when its comvenient, drugs are involved, and youll never find out.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:43 PM
4

Mostly right! Issuing commands is good. Complaining, whining, and talking about things is still a big NO. 95% of men on here are far better off keeping their mouth shut.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:41 PM
1

we assure that we can keep the girls we want to LTR This is why unplugging is so hard. The seemingly obvious ways of thinking about things lead to a lifetime of misery and suffering. The key is not to worry about keeping the girls, but maintaining and improving one's ability to replace them. Keeping them is a side-effect. How do you LTR an HB8? Get used to plating HB8-9 on a regular basis. Eventually one will prove herself. As far as recognizing and dealing with comfort tests it's very tricky. A…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:04 AM
2

Thanks I'll check out WISNIFG
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:41 PM
4

What is fogging?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:37 PM
1

In short, when a girl comfort tests shes insecure about her value. When you make a girl earn an ltr you value your commitment. Youre making her earn it. Very different. Girls arent betas, they play the game better than thebbest of us.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:34 PM
3

Thats not plate theory. Thats not what comfort test means, and thats not what beta means.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 10:44 PM
6

Focus on school for now
/r/askTRP20/01/17 10:28 PM
2

In my experience didnt go well when I was in your shoes. Neediness is a relationship killer. SMV is all.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:53 PM
3

Best thingbyou can do is get bigger problems. Get hobbies outside of school like training for a sport or coding.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:46 PM
1

Ltr with her will not go well. Focus on yourself and treat her like any plate . only ltr hb8s when you can easily replace them.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:44 PM
1

That was a comfort test. If you do soft next careful how you do it.a
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:57 PM
7

In my experience girls overcome with tingles cant resist texting. Isually when she wants a date shell text you something random. "Puppiea are cute" just respond w a bit of bantwr then transition to a date. "Yeah they are. Dogs are great. Doggystyle is great too. Thurs 7pm my place"
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:52 PM
1

Par for the course keep going well handled. Sometimes you take the L
/r/askTRP20/01/17 12:05 AM
2

Are you trying to get yourdelf murdered !? EJECT
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:33 PM
1

Just go hot cold. Flip a coin every date. Nice or aloof and distant
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:11 PM
2

It's totally the right frame dude. He's interacting with indecisive intoxicated women. I wouldn't recommend that approach in a small town but if traveling or in a big city it makes sense. Hail mary every time.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:33 PM
1

Block or dont block its your choice. Its pretty commom these days to get one flake at the get go. These arent ltrs theyre fuckbuddies. You dont care. However ifbyou want to fuck fewer women and be more selective no flakes is a perfectly good rule. Just make sure its not because you need their validation because thats the shortcut to oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:32 PM
3

Dude youre fucking winning and you are throwing a fit. Check out book of pook. Success is avoiding unintersted women. Every woman that says no saves you a shit load of precious time. 4 flakes in a row means you are hitting up appropriately hot girls. 1/10 from cold approach is okay. If you wait for IOIs maybe you can nudge to 1/3. Keep going. Approaching is winning. Escalating is winning. Getting turned down is part of the game. Adjust your expectations and move on.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:28 PM
2

Work hard over time to gradually text less. Good on you for getting lunch with your friend sally. Keep adding female friends to your life to fight oneitis. I'm dealing with decline also. My mantras are. I have oneitis. Whats the next step to fix it? Do not discuss, do not explain. Careful, make sure theres enough comfort (more common issue than you'd expect) Prioritize my own activities first. Ie if i dont get my projects done or finish at the gym the gf has to wait
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:22 PM
4

His game is simple. Be tall, be aloof, be dominant. His execution is mastery. He pushes the boundaries of dominant and wins. He fucked up by exposing too much. He also misunderstood cultural norms in Japan (or didnt care).
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:17 PM
3

Sooner or later they all want commitment. Even that nasty slippery ketchup bottle sally who complains about men wanting to tie her down while getting passed around the table expects a diamond ring at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:15 PM
2

I know what you mean. The main reason I get the feelingbthat I should stop is because of the siren's song. You want to be lazy. It is possible to read way too far into things. Whenever you have that urge call it by its name: ONEITIS. Use proper medication to treat the disease. Adding women to your life (im notbsaying fuck them) Lift harder, eat better. Get your career to the next level
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:06 PM
3

Biggest fuckups were always explaining to a girl in great detail, with logical explanations, how she was making mistakes on her end of things. Forget it! Talking will never encourage course corrections. Fight fire with fire, soft next, or hard next.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:55 PM
1

The long story: I've been battling depression for the past 10 years. It's mostly under control, but, at the moment, it's keeping me from getting a stable job. (More on that later.) Hey man good luck. I hope you're getting all the help you need. Be careful with dating and sex while dealing with depression. First of all, women are highly volatile and the roller coaster can be harmful to your mood. Secondly, if you meet a BPD or Lucifer's daugther it could end your life. My cousin who was dealing w…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:34 PM
3

Obviously dont accept.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:29 PM
2

Foam rolling the IT band helped me out big time. Leg machines in addition to squats also helped to stabilize my knee. If you can afford it go to a professional. See a physical therapist.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:29 PM
7

Yeah it's very messed up. It's a huge fraud. Here's how things work: You get a clear idea in your head of where you want to go, and what you want to do. You plan out a path of actions to get you to the end point. Often you can only see the final destination and 1-2 steps forward. Sometimes you can plan every step to the end. You physically execute each action as best as you can. Visualization is for planning purposes, it helps you focus so that you don't get distracted. Sometimes this will resul…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:52 PM
2

Focus on actions and not words. Any words you use will A) Show her that you've thought it through. Implications are that you're calculating, B) Deeply anger or even hurt her. With no plausible deniability her hamster will suffer. The difference between her wanting to fight for you and her feeling betrayed by you is the words you use. Don't use any.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:37 PM
2

Women do not operate like men. I've learned the hard way. Direct confrontation == failure.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 09:00 PM
1

Toss them
/r/askTRP11/01/17 03:12 PM
2

Send a picture
/r/askTRP11/01/17 03:11 PM
1

There are no u icorns.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 03:07 PM
3

Ignore.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 02:25 PM
12

Low smv women pair with low smv men. Next question
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:06 AM
1

Honesty most gifriends would laugh it off and move on. I would not give the topic anymore attention
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:43 PM
1

Walgreens/CVS/Grocery Store/ https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Health-Personal-Care-Zinc-Mineral-Supplements/zgbs/hpc/3774511
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:50 PM
1

Did NOFAP while seeing girls. After 1-2 weeks I flatlined (no erections at all/anytime) and then I slowly healed. Took Vitamin A/D/Fish Oil Zinc. Found that Zinc made me super sensitive down there, stopped taking it when I wanted to last longer.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:47 PM
1

If I were you I wouldn't worry too much about giving oral sex. I would just relax work on your frame, focus on lifting and your game. I generally say something like "it takes me a while to get used to someone new" and it's fine. I think maybe 1/5 girls will be displeased, the others don't care. Most girls work extra hard to get you to full mast. Dependign on where you are on your recovery you judge how to navigate the waters.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:18 AM
3

Plate anyway. I was fighting PIED when I started off, and having girls around helped. Eventually I was living the life I used to fantasize too. :D
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:53 AM
2

Secure storage is key. I would take photos, place them in a password protected folder on a hidden flash drive and burn the notes.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 11:24 PM
5

18-19 year olds god damn
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:27 PM
1

It's because you haven't bothered to read the sidebar, and go through the top 100 main posts on TRP. These exact situations have been described over and over in field reports you haven't read. Or if you have read, ought to re-read. /u/vandaalen answers basic TRP concepts. He emphasizes that you're being a shit head because it's true. Look up: HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches Some examples of intentional offenses are: Consciously flirting with another guy, trying to arouse jealous…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:59 PM
1

How'd that shit show of a situation turn out, did plate drop? I think personally if the guy is a loser I have no interest in becoming friends with a loser, and if the girl is a plate, I'm not in the business of entertaining her for a whole weekend. It's a really weird situation because it doesn't fit the nature of the relationship. If the girl is a plate, you only occasionally and very briefly meet her friends (only after knowing her for 3 months). You avoid meeting friends to avoid letting her …
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:26 PM
2

Good luck man. It's not uncommon to feel a little sting when you have to hard next, or get nexted by the girl. Part of the process. Just know that as you grow and learn and improve, the quality of the people in your life will also grow.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:05 PM
1

I agree its nice to have people you can talk to. I chose people who were in the same place in life, learning how to date. There were 4 people I talked to pretty regularly, and 1 of them decided to swallow the blue pill, he cut contact with me. The other guys all took the redpill and make good progress. The 3 guys that made it were all non-local. I wouldn't necessarily trust a girl, because she does not have the same frame of reference. Beyond her best intentions, she's hardwired to undermine you…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:04 PM
1

Testosterone is a chemical that leads to masculinity. Women like masculinity so it should help
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:48 PM
1

Sounds like hes giving you a heads up and mentoring you.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:46 PM
1

Bingo. Bring her along to your regular cool fun activitiesbthat you already do.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:37 PM
1

The relationship sounds negative. Dont discuss dating w her ever again
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:35 PM
2

Right on man. Way to stay open minded. A few weeks is not long. Try a few years. Keep your mouth shut about dating. Much better to be seen with lots of girls around town. My female friends who found out I was a player started buying me drinks and gifts for attention.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:34 PM
1

That's where game comes in. Much of game can be compared to persuasion. At first the game is a routine it's an act. Eventually your game becomes part of who you are. Some girls are DTF right away, easy mode. Some girls are never gonna be DTF, figure this out early and move on. Some girls haven't decided yet- that's where your game can help.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:07 PM
4

These are both sluts. Bring alcohol go for the threesome. They arent gentle fragile creatures. They are both DTF wild and need it hard.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:26 PM
1

Hire a hooker
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:13 PM
2

Lowered expectations. Focus on tangibles. Muscle mass and practice gaming women can take you up twonpoints
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:35 PM
1

Why are you fighting us on this? Do you not want to learn to get laid?
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:14 PM
1

You are a mid 30s man that texts like a 16 year old PUA wanna-be. That's why I will say it again. You text like a faggot. From now on you're old enough to spell out the words. me(12:20pm): lana banana, how r u? enjoying the rain? Did you vomit just a little bit when you re-read your own text? lana(12:24pm): Hey yea a lot😂 Not a fan of the rain🙈 How are you? me(12:45): meeting clients, making it rain while being hit by rain. Here you waited 1 minute to her 4. Try to wait at least 2x as long as he…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:00 PM
4

I would say "You're welcome, it's been fun. All the best!" and then hard next no contact.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:37 PM
1

I think its something like 1/3 college students. I still next
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:49 AM
2

Yes big boy. Give it to me just like you give to her. Make me scream
/r/askTRP04/01/17 12:42 AM
2

We went out, I did something I never did before and held out on sex out of respect for her until we had a commitment. This whole post reads like feminist porn. If in the 1/20 chance OP is not a troll, he should fix his inner frame. Sounds like his actions are congruent with a well adjusted male but his mind is poisoned with the blue pill. Fix your mindset OP.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 12:02 AM
2

Don't use words. Use touch.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:03 PM
1

It sounds to me like you did things right. If you are actually treating plates like plates 4 weeks is about right. There will be girls out there who prefer the arrangement, or they like you a whole lot that will stick around for much longer but that's the exception, and not the rule. I think the best balance between not leading them on, but keeping things fun and pleasant is the following: Don't meet each others friends or family See each other only once a week or 2x every 10 days Avoid too many…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:02 PM
1

It won't heal you but it will teach your physical body that all is well and life goes on. Do it to get your brain chemistry in check. Right now your brain is addicted to the image of your ex-girlfriend. Your body thinks that woman is carrying your children, and produces the corresponding hormones and chemicals for pairbonding. It's confused. Set it straight by sleeping with other women. THen you'll get the AF chemicals going and your body will realize that it's not pair-bonded to anyone, and you…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 08:53 PM
1

There is no perfect life mission. Pick something and try it. The key is becoming very good at what you choose. Work harder and smarter than everyone else and be the best. Ideally you choose something that other people care about enough so they give you money to do it, and aligns with your natural disposition and talents. Are you a people person? Are you into math? "I love video games, eating food, and watching movies" doesn't easily translate into a life mission. If those are the things you're i…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 08:50 PM
1

Ignore and move on
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:54 PM
13

Easiest would be to learn how to use your hands and mouth. The harder, but more effective method is to become extremely attractive and dominant, and then many girls will orgasm on their own while you do your own thing.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:03 AM
1

Oh man. I was about to answer the post.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 02:59 AM
2

The more I win, the more I want to keep winning. Pick something hard, that you think you can master, but few others can. Then strive to be the best. Generally you won't care until you become a contender. Near the top you will want to keep improving to get to the best you can be, and then to keep pushing. As far as killer instinct regarding girls- can you tell when they want to be fucked and do you go for it?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 02:41 AM
1

Immediate idea is at the next stop "Hey let's get off here" and see if she follows or not. Easier to pull the girl than deal with 12 men.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 02:26 AM
8

Hard drugs are a hard next, every time (unless for some reason you're doing them too in which case not sure what to tell you) Do not invest in plates. Spending major holidays together, seeing each other more than once a week, and sleeping over will all make you invest. Just don't do this with plates! The feelings you feel are temporary. Hard next and move on now. Yea she fucked, and she's got other guys too.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:17 PM
0

Fair. How about "youll learn"
/r/askTRP02/01/17 04:09 AM
-1

Its okay Im an excellent teacher and you will learn
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:30 AM
1

You could have banged her. Dodge the punch butter her up and slay away next time.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:29 AM
2

I am over with girls about this. I say straight up if we are not having sex there is no relationship. I get tested on it, I enforce the boundary, and sometimes that means the plate drops.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:27 AM
1

Solid arguments lots of RP harsh truths. I would add that dumping her could have the advantage of freeing up time and mental resources.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:26 AM
8

Lol you got me
/r/askTRP01/01/17 08:01 PM
2

There is no better way to get over one woman than 10 other women. The other thing that helps s to make women less important by making the rest of your life awesome.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:15 PM
0

Watch some rsd on youtube.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:08 PM
2

Ex girlfriend. You will never know what actually happened but thats a very serious boundary she crossed. LTR material should know shes not supposed to spend time alone w another man. Spend time thinking about how to filter out women better and how to make thea boundary clearer. Do not spend time trying to figure out if she did cheat or not.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:07 PM
1

I got lots of makeouts at a club on nye 2 years ago including a 3 way kiss but failed to close so take my advice w a grain of salt. I did about 5 or 6 direct approaches w a wingman and failed. Then I switched to dancing by myself farther from the DJ. Girls would slowly wander nearby and i would do an indirect open or they would start dancing with me. Dancing often got physical fast and makeouts happened easily. Far from home poor logistics
/r/askTRP31/12/16 10:45 PM
1

It sounds to me like the problem is your oneitis. Its generally neediness of the male that causes relationship problems. Make her no more thsn 25to 30 percent of your life. Spend more time on your fitness career friends and hobbies. If you find yourself wondering why she didnt call immediately make plans w friends. Do not depend solely on your girlfriend for validation and social support. Generally girlfriends are fornsex and fun only with occasional support in the form of cooking cleaning gifts…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 10:41 PM
2

The solution is almost always more muscle
/r/askTRP31/12/16 10:37 PM
2

Its poor form. Dont bring her and enjoy your time with your friends. Do follow up on a wild party looking for a 3some.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:51 AM
2

actually believe that most, if not all, of us failed that test brutaly, since this is why we all came here. Amen. Even post trp failed the test 3 or 4 times and will likely fail again! I caught oneitis for a slut, and 2 or 3 decent girls. My failure was in the beta snaps that followed from getting to invested. My advice to others would be to study stoicism, and before acting on your feelings ask "How would a well adjusted human being act in this situation?" I tended to get too butthurt and act o…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:48 AM
1

I know a guy like that. A gronk. Focus on your own goals, mosy likely him having the attention is not at all a hinderance to you. Keep raisikg your SMV. Make sure to chsllenge him if he challenges you. Usually those guys are surrounded by betas so they crumble if you pressure flip
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:39 PM
1

Is Desmond fair to you? If so dont try to AMOG. Ive always pulled the hottest girls in situations where im in the number two slot with high tier alpha that draws in very hot girls
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:38 PM
1

Many male actors have the same issue. Noones perfect. Work with what youve got. Make sure you get thebright haircut and try facial hair to enhance the jawline. See jake jillenhal
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:05 PM
1

Ah okay missed it. Other advice is good. Invite her one more time then move on.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:10 PM
8

I went to an ivy league school and mix with those crowds very often. Awalt applies. Hypergamy on overdrive. They are generally hunting for big time game and fantastic beta bucks. If you become their escape- mr right her right now _ keep it fun light and unassuming its easy to slide in. Smart girls can read people well so have a strong frame. Own your strengths and your weaknesses. Don't overcompensate. As far as smart ltrs go if you cant easily replace a smart girl then you have no business in a…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:07 PM
3

Let me translate: Did you miss me? (Shit test) translation: Are you a beta? Are you invested in me/ do you want me more than i want you? Alot! (Massive fail) translation: Yes Ma'am youre the best I can do. Please let me spend time with you I love you. Better answers are: I miss the way your tits bounce/ you wish/ bertha? Is that you?/ you know youre the only woman for me cherry (use wrong name) / yeah its been terrible noone made me a sandwhich i think therea a role for you here. You get the ide…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:57 AM
1

I hear you. I am a 2nd/3rd date kinda guy. Know that you broadcast beta bucks when you act like an autist. Dont be surprised when they disrespect you like with the ex cheat on you or dump you when an alpha shows up
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:43 PM
9

Even drunk the girl could tell you were having a bad time. It doesnt matter though. What matters is that you're dating like a chump with a few exceptions. Good: she buys you drinks. She blows up your phone. Bad: youve been texting for weeks and havent fucked. Youve made out but havent fucked. Youve met her friends but havent fucked. Youve met her ex but havent fucked. Youve talked about rough sex but havent fucked. You traveled to see her when you wanted to rest instead. You have drama with her …
/r/askTRP27/12/16 12:07 PM
1

Ukelele
/r/askTRP27/12/16 11:46 AM
1

Guy needs a reality check for sure. If he lets go of his ego he can wake up and realize he was about to pork a fatty
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:41 AM
5

Youd be surprised. Rich hot girls are bored out of their minds.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:35 AM
3

Girls could see right through your fake alpha. Of youre an incel the badboy look wont fit. Baby steps. As you become more masculine internally push the edginess
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:33 AM
3

Eating well and lifting feel better than the alternative. Once you escape the cycle of porn video games and junk food your brajn chemistry cleans up and you begin to think clearly. It feels great to be healthy. If that hard work feels bad then you might be depressed. Figure out what hurts. What pain are you avoiding that leads you to escape/self medicate? Take actions towards solving the problems and stop avoiding them. As far as game and dating I get a big positive benefit to my mood from posit…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 09:59 AM
5

Here are metrics: 12-15% bf. Caution most peoplw at 20 think theyre 15. If you dont see any abs guess what youre probably fat. Total weight at 6' should be 190 at low bodyfat. If youre 5'7 aim for 160. For dates every week approach every day. 10 approaches for 1 solid lay is achievable. Dress well groom and practice socialzing. Cutting videogames and dostractiona is key. Focus on your wellbeing above all else.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:49 AM
2

In western europe you play 70-80 alpha/ 20-30 beta. In the US you go 90/10 or 100/0
/r/askTRP26/12/16 11:04 PM
0

Read people better. You know how some cats hate being picked up? Peiple have tells too
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:49 PM
2

You are still purple
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:47 PM
1

Agree with you on the evangelicals
/r/askTRP24/12/16 03:00 AM
1

Let me tell you how it is with my ltr. A month after we started fucking she said would you still see me if I got fat? I said no I dont sleep w fat girls. She laughed and was taken aback. When she gained 5 lbs I grabbed her love handles and said "time to work out". Two months later back down to her usual weight. Eventually she went from plate to ltr andbi taught her how to squat. She is very eager to learn more about lifting and nutrition and gladly follows my lead. Lifts on her own, counts calor…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:34 PM
2

Let me tell you how it is with my ltr. A month after we started fucking she said would you still see me if I got fat? I said no I dont sleep w fat girls. She laughed and was taken aback. When she gained 5 lbs I grabbed her love handles and said "time to work out". Two months later back down to her usual weight. Eventually she went from plate to ltr andbi taught her how to squat. She is very eager to learn more about lifting and nutrition and gladly follows my lead. Lifts on her own, counts calor…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:34 PM
3

Get a six pack, dress well, and im the process learn to nake people feel good when you talk to them. Validation and sttention is a valuable comodity and doubly so from physically attractive people. This means less time watching sex in the city. Ideally dont tell anyone you have ever seen it or theyll assume youre also bleeding from your vagina.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:17 PM
2

Hey man you're too young for a girlfriend. if a girl has red flags (cheated) never LTR her! If you can't trust her it's not fair to either of you to date her. So end it or try to downgrade to plate.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 03:39 AM
1

Same as before. Words are cheap
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:47 AM
2

http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2014/05/which-states-are-givers-and-which-are-takers/361668/ Can you debunk it? Link please
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:45 AM
1

The man should lead. The girls who initiate are not the kind you want to fill your life wirh (masculine women)
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:45 PM
1

I grew up poor so i lean blue. If you assume that the pareto principle applies 80% gets done by 20% pf people. The question is: should the wealth earned be shared with the 80%? Spending money for public education basic infrastructure and emergency services should help everyone. The unfortunate reality is that its a huge clusterfuck. In every town I have lived in the firefighters and policemen get brand new cars every year, and spend aboutb5 to 10 million on their firehouse complete with hot tub …
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:24 PM
4

Check out altrp for homosexual redpill. Good luck bro. Odds are gay men have a slightly better shot at an enduring relationship since men are able to offer commitment.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 06:02 PM
2

Thats a great point about BJs. The girls who gave me bjs and refused sex never turned into regular sex partners and my time was better spent with the more interested girls.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:58 PM
1

Well the easy path is hard next to get rid ofnthe oneitis. The hard path is plate her but do sex only. She cant be your "best friend" if shes a plate. You have too much oneitis to handle an open relationship
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:53 PM
1

Don't aim low. Don't aim to orbit. Aim to win. For hotbgirls you need to be quite forward. Approach escalate and go for sex night one.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:57 PM
11

You have read zero redpill. Now is a good time to start. Next time dont wait a month to get physical. 3 dates max
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:52 PM
2

Try an 18 or 19 year old.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:53 PM
7

You are way way out of line calling her disgusting. If you play the nonexclusive game dont be surprised when the girl is nonexclusive. The only problem is your oneitis. Shes a typical girl dude, she sleeps around and is easy
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:52 PM
1

I can barely build muscle because of my poor genetics (Have been lifting consistently for 2 months). Gee. Guess 2 months of lifting proves you're a weakling. OR maybe you're a lazy piece of shit. Try 5-10 YEARS of lifting and eating right. My asian/indian/black/philipino,mexcian whatever friends with sixpacks and muscle get laid. You have to train harder than you can imagine right now.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:20 AM
2

Has it been < 6 weeks? Shit test joke around. Has it been > 3 months? be honest
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:50 AM
1

Nothing works better for me than getting busy. Sign up for a part time job ifbyou have to. Work on making work more fulfilling along the way. When everything in your life is better than pron you wont need it anymore.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:37 PM
1

I would hard next. Sounds harsh but if i gave her commitment and she didnt respect it shes not entitled to plate either
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:16 AM
1

Some good stuff in the post but if youre a noob thd anger phase is okay and necessary Be angry. Act until you no longer need the anger and thdn move on.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:05 AM
1

Great reference. Highly endorse your post. Actions over words always
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:59 AM
1

There a rightbway and a wrong way. If you lose frame andbget whiny or emotional its bad
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:11 PM
3

Hey man I have a lot of sympathy for the brown guys. Had many great indian and arab friends. Some of them turned out fly as hell over the years. Main advice is that skincare, grooming hair, and big arms will take you very far. Big arms on a brown dude does more than big arms on a white dude. Your height is good your weight is low.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:56 PM
2

If you call yourself an alpha you probably aren't one.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:47 PM
1

Who cares whatbthey say. Anyone who wants to help women for free take heed.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:07 PM
5

People rarely move up you have to go diagonal these days. Somehow raising salaries is a loss but hiring overpriced outsiders is a win. Also watch what you say. Look up ribbonfarm gervais principle. Promotions are not about competence, its about value (your work is 30% or less in corporationland.)
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:05 PM
1

Go to a bigger pond and swim with bigger fish. (Nyc/chicago/LA). Much higher to climb pedro
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:01 PM
25

You give them a good dicking. Pound them hard and fast as deep as you can. Hurt them with your dick, serious. There's a love button back there. Getting them addicted to your cock is surest way. Get very rough Also care less. I recommend fucking 10 other women before you ask this question again.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:58 PM
11

It's very possible. It's also possible to revert.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 12:38 PM
2

Its a waitress. They always say yes andbusually flake. Hitting on paid staff is a big show of desperation. They are paid to talk to you.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:28 AM
3

Neutral advice is you're dumb for using your place. When spinning plates a collection of hairties panties lost jewlery and stray hairs is bomb. A girl showing up unannounced is juicy vagina sploosh that could lead to a threesome, but if youve done the dirty and sold your balls to the highest bidder all of the above will lead to scratches on your car, spilled drinks, and a salty disposition in the frail armed soft eyed lil gal you call girlfriend.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:24 AM
1

I take pleasure in playing the game with class. Not just how do I deliver and get the result, but how do I turn it into a good story. How do I make this interesting for me and those involved. Not win or lose, but push away the monotony. Out on a date? Snag another number while shes in the loom. Presentatiom for the boss? Breathtaking photos. Dressing to impress? Fishing? Go where noone else can
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:19 AM
1

Logical approach wouldnbe a grand gesture. What she needs is tingles. Go for a six pack a leather jacket and a motorbike. A smile will be enough
/r/askTRP15/12/16 07:44 PM
1

Dont say im sorry. Just make her feel special. Being high value is thebgreatest gift for her
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:37 PM
2

Often girls who used to be ugly or fat are funnier than most men.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 03:30 PM
1

I'm not great to ask on this. I'll tell you that I assumed I didnt need to hold frame with buddies and didnt see the damage it caused until a year down the line. Took many months, actuallybclose to 2 years to undo the damage. It helps to have many different kinds of friends. There are some chill guys who dont shit test. Most will
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:24 AM
5

She cheated on you. Her asshole was full of semen. Many many times. Asking to open the relatinship was retroactive.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:09 AM
3

Dont forget the loud gronks overcompensating
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:06 AM
3

A woman cant serve that purpose. They resent the burden.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:09 PM
2

Why marry or cohabitate? Its a con
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:30 PM
4

You have every right not to want to marry and its okay. Good luck with depression. Proessional help is good.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:12 PM
22

Move out.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:13 PM
4

Tldr; Sometimes i want to play the game on hard mode so i work my way into the friendzone first. The other times i escalate and lead.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:04 PM
5

You shut the fuck up and fix the problem. Stop sleepovers during the week
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:59 PM
10

When youre balls deep remember to ask us if she wants sex.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:07 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP14/12/16 03:13 AM
1

Then you can learn. If you think you would enjoy dancing learn to do so. If not game at places with no dancing. If being sexual is an issue try no masturbatjon for a while. Your body will force you to be sexual hahahaha.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:25 PM
2

If these women are under 25 ghost. If over 30 ghost.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:08 PM
1

No for fucks sake dont do it.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:07 PM
1

Youre being played.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:06 PM
1

Honestly i know that feeling. You are realizing that your smv needs work. Look up to your friend ask him for diet workout game fashion advice and work on yourself. Try to emulate him. When i first started approaching sometimes girls would prefer my wing and id get shut out. But as I learened and improved it became a nonissue
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:04 PM
1

You should work on yourself until you know that you can find anotjer girl to fuck in roughly 2 weeks. If you want to LTR an 8 spin 8s. If you cant find a replacement youre batting out of your league and should lift and practice game.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:01 PM
5

If it takes you 3 months to find someone to fuck you have no business being in an LTR in the first place. A month at most. Need to get your smv up.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:00 PM
2

Every time you snoop her value goes up in your mind. She becomes the prize. Use caution or your oenitis will own you
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:57 PM
2

If you can easily afford it go ahead. Condoms please. AIDS is no joke.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:53 PM
10

"I love you" is a weapon. Its a collar and a leash. It's not a kind gesture, but a tool of war on freedom. The actions are what count. The ideas and feelings are illusions. So its cute that she wants to ensnare you. Dont let her confusion get to you, but also dont let her sind herself up too hard over this. "Why dont you love me" "I love the way your tits bounced last night/ youre cute when youre angry/ olive juice" Treat like a shit test. Give her a warm smile and a peck. Loving action combined…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:48 PM
1

Honestly her going home is a goosnthing. Keeps your brain and her brain clear. Bedroom time is sex not sleep. If youre in bed together theres sex. Thats a plus
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:42 PM
2

Check out blackdragon. What you describe is a MLTR. Dont be confused by oneitis is the only advice i have. When one is more vakuable than the others its time to hunt for a backup.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:38 PM
2

Lol long way to go bud bad glad youre enjoying it so far.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:35 PM
2

Every man has to decide for himself. LTR should not be attempted before the man is ready. I highly reccomend at minimum 24 months of spinning plates. You need to fully embrace abundance and get experience with shit tests. If you are not ready you will be a shitty boyfriend because your frame is weak. Dont drag yourself through the mud because you arent ready.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:34 PM
9

Very very true. In my experience when you double down, especially if youre in the wrong you win.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:26 PM
6

About 3 years ago I had to put a roommate in his place. It's a very shitty situation, but you also have to set boundaries with your LTR somehow because she's giving encouraging the attention. Recognize that you have oneitis. This is the biggest reason you're angry. You're hooked on the girl. If you go out with the guys and do some cold approaches this will help. I'm not saying take girls home, just be a good wingman for some of your friends.. You need to talk to your roomate one-on-one. You need…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 10:25 PM
3

You are being played fool. You are her plate
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:20 PM
2

It's a joke. I'm guessing eastern europe or Africa
/r/askTRP12/12/16 06:06 AM
1

Effort to 0 is right choice. Dont take it personally. Tjey could be suffering from a case of chronic masturbation.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:26 PM
5

No jobs to steal
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:24 PM
19

Ex girlfriend. Hard next. File assault charges. My cousin dates a girl like this. When she dumped him he killed himself. Truth is he was already dead.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 03:34 AM
2

Remove the ! marks next time. Her - "KK where did you grow up? What are you wearing? Here s probably where you messed up. You'll see vs grew up in an old cave with a pack of wolves. I wear a bear pelt to throw off the feds. Kind of light hearted banter may help. reponse should be haha no srs how can i pick you out of the crowd Then send pic of face
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:05 PM
1

Switched over when I realized I was talking to a woman. Now show me your tits.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:35 PM
1

Hi WhiteKnight! My pussy is moist for you. Take me big boy
/r/askTRP09/12/16 04:43 PM
3

There are many paths to alpha. I dont know the social norms in Turkey but if daygame is an option pursue it. Otherwise get in the habit of building a big social network. Have parties and talk to everyone. Make them amazing so that you get invited to other parties. Get yourself to look like you lift too. Watch thr bodyfat.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:24 PM
3

This must be a troll. Obviously let her go and move on. Thwn read the sidebar. You have no idea what alpha and beta are if you believe alpha means book smart, melancholy, and watching dark tv shows.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 01:37 PM
1

Yeah thats why im telling him to only do ONS. Enjoy the chase them next
/r/askTRP09/12/16 01:34 PM
0

Just do ONS for a while
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:58 AM
2

Cool story.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:57 AM
2

Dude. Totally own know who she is in this scenario. She's keen. Move fast though. Window's closing.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:30 PM
2

Correct. One of my buddies in the collegetown I'm in regularly meets 20/21 year old college girls who are saving it for marriage. Turns out marriage means a British accent, nice eyes, and being built like a ruby player.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:05 PM
1

There are no women on the internet. There used to be a rule here to enforce no women on the redpill. Women infiltrated seddit and it went to shit. They're infiltrating trp too. It slowly makes the pill turn blue.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:42 PM
1

Its a powerplay. She wants to win which means she cares. Throw a wrench in. Dont initiate for 10 days. Submissive girls require you to take the lead though
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:35 PM
1

Spin. My text fame is sit
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:32 PM
2

Well if after some time it doesn't move towards an LTR the girl will sometimes give up and look for another man. Telling her to invest in those words will be really strange. Remember that women communicate implicitly, not explicitly. As a sidenote it's perfectly okay to be demanding "make me coffee," "bring some food when you come over", "help me fold this laundry." A good way to get compliance is to be a leader and act for the good of the team. Here's an example: "I'll pick up vegetables, chick…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:00 AM
1

Dude hard next. A viscious slut. Come on. Standard protocol is soin for 6 to 12 months and only uograde once shes voluntarily cooking cleaning for you and giving you gifts.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:22 AM
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You're damaged goods. Once a cheater always a cheater there's no getting around what you've unleashed in yourseld. Your vagina will never settle. Just enjoy cock. More fun that way. Lets see those nice tits or gtfo.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:19 AM
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Considering where you started youre on track to make progress. Your best bet is to go talk to other girls. Remember the man leads and the woman follows (or not). Read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:15 AM
3

From a practical perspective plates are for sex nothing else. If you seek validation seek it elsewhere. Obviously this girl is plate only. LTR material means cleaning and cooking for you (unasked) as well as gifts and overall patterns of high investment.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:10 AM
1

She cant blockbher uncle it would be rude
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:07 AM
1

Someone gets it
/r/askTRP07/12/16 10:16 PM
8

two female friends of mine drunkenly let it slip that I was previously married. These women have put pressure on me, in front of the plate, to start a relationship with her. Colossal thundercunts. Give all three girls some hamster bait to chew on. Alluding to failed marriage and a few tugs on the ole emotional heartstrings should do it. "Look I went through a failed marriage. I can't bear to go through another." Pause look into the distance, take a sip of your whiskey as the sun sets, and then "…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:48 PM
2

Yup. Was beta as fuck those days. Girl came a lot. Didnt make me an alpha. That day game years later when i swallowed the redpill and I became jealous of dildos. (Was seriosuly beta though)
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:00 PM
5

I once bought an old gf a vibrator for her birthdayr, took her to the store and let her choose, she chose this huge spinning one. Took her a few months but she figured out how to orgasm on her own amd before I knew it she was having multiple orgasms.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 01:07 PM
5

Be caught cheating or else. As non-intuitive as it sounds right now you're a submissive beta male. Only 2 ways out hard next, or get caught cheating. Have your ex come over when you know you'll get caught. She's gonna throw a fit. She's gonna scream at you. Just say you can't help it if you have needs you enjoy her but sex is a part of who you are and you've enjoyed your time together but she's free to go. She won't go.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:55 PM
2

Start with making her lick your asshole. Thats submissive as hell and she will do whatever you want from there.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:53 PM
1

Hey AskTRP. Im totally over my ex. Heres an essay about her to prove it. No there's no question I have nothing to learn from this.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:52 PM
2

Dont shit where you eat. Dont ever run into a girl say nothing and then text her. Talk in person. Your text was butthurt and needy. Wait a week before inititing and hopefully shell forget.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 06:46 PM
1

Whenever a girl is ready to be fucked and you dont get past her LMR her hamster goes crazy. Doubly so when there are social repercussions (failed to poach taken man in social circle). Her mind has to reconcile two contradictory ideas. Shes a good girl. She just spent the night fondling Beckys Boyfriends Balls. An impossible feat. The best way to get past the cognitive dissonance is a cocktail of hormones and dopamine which can easily be delivered through a hard dicking. "It was meant to be. Its …
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:34 PM
3

One of my buddies grew up in Qatar. His father waited till he was 14 to tell him that he was an atheist in secret. Both of them lived a double life on the outside deeply religious and involved in the community. In private secretly eating ham and bacon. There are serious problems with how Islam is practiced in some parts of the world. Its so incredibly strict and it cannot be altered or modified to change with the times. 99.999+% of muslims in the US are reasonable and assimilated but in the midd…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:28 PM
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Well what you need to understand is that while you havent had sex for a month she sure did. If you dont start seeing a second girl I cant see how thisbsituatio is sustainable. Also understand tht shes not your gf so you have no grounds to complain. Furthermore she moved on probably 6 weeks ago. Ghost at will
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:22 PM
5

Lol this is almost exactly how I responded to a girl last fall. I sent 👻 👻👻 in response to "wow ive never been ghosted before"
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:18 PM
17

There is no revenge. Silence is stilk the winning move
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:16 PM
7

Context? If you're a woman tits or gtfo. Btw your commitment is not what men are after honey hahahaha
/r/askTRP05/12/16 04:59 PM
1

I get like that when i dont spend enough time in good comoany. Spend time w friends especially male friends.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 04:28 PM
2

Women should never be more than 50 percent of your life and one woman should get a third at most. Focus on your mission your fitness your male friends. Make your life bigger than oneitis
/r/askTRP05/12/16 04:24 PM
1

I think this is an accurate read on the situation but id say even if its ego motovated his neckbeard friends arent doing him any favors. Always fun to make new friends. He can rejoin the fold later if needed.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:44 PM
1

Aim for 200lbs
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:36 PM
1

Is she clear on ground rules for an LTR? Is everything else going well? Probably ignore is best option. Trust but verify is a manra here. If there was anything going on i seriously doubt shed show yo his face on snapchat. Your girlfriend is trying to see if you get jealous. Options are 1) dont react 2) immediately punish with plausible deniability. Hang out w other girls or withdraw but be careful. Your LTR can easily see through tactics.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 01:14 AM
1

If my LTR sent that snap i would find out who that guy is and then evaluate. Shes not hanging out w the guy one on one which is good. You probably have nothing to worry.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 01:02 AM
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I took a look at the photos. You def have game and definitely have the right amount of scumbag to be the AF. I would say avg upper body for some who lifts so props to your game man! Cant believe the girl added you on fb if shes got a bf. Crazy shit
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 12:42 AM
1

If you become the man you want to be your current girl will be far below your future standards. If youre not top 20% dont even think about LTRs yet. Game muscles status
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:36 AM
2

Very possible that shes trying to avoid talking to you. Could be your smv isnt up to her standards could be that you talk to hb9 blondes like theyre dudes
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:31 AM
1

Obviously dont ask about the guy. This is a plate right?
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:29 AM
1

Try a gradual shift. Being busy a lot is good already. With sleepovers you can say "hey i realized we dont get a lot of sleep gonna head to my place want me to tuck you in?" kiss. Slap her ass spin her around give her a few giggles and peace.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:27 AM
1

Talkin == sleeping. Plate only if you can share
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:25 AM
1

Well if this was an LTR it would be okay to "talk about things" because LTRs require a mix of beta. For girls you havent even slept with you STFU and communicate implicitly with plausible deniability. Basically you scored as a beta in this girls evaluation of you. last time I fingered her to orgasm, but she wouldn't even blow me. Never do this again! You can tease. She should work to please you first and foremost. Girls will get on their knees and crawl to a man theyre attracted to kiss his feet…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:23 AM
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She is very far from dropping. Warning: you're treating her like a gf when you do sleepovers and she will push for commitment sooner than needed. Here are plate guidelines: Plates typically last 1 to 3 months. Accept it. No sleepovers or gf/bf gestures. No meeting friends. Every 3rd hangout includes an activity outside of bedroom. See her no more than 1x a week or 2x per 10 days. If shes the only one shes an ltr. Always keep 2. Sex every time you meet up. BJ is a fine substitute. Shes a plate no…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:13 AM
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The key is not being too nice to them when its unearranted. You can certainly care and be kind to others. The real problem is when a man is a male slut that trades his attention time and energy for free to any woman within range. She won't see your commitment as valuable (because its not) and she won't want to sleep with you.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:05 AM
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Any kind of fb stalkimg shows you as low value. Tingle killer.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 09:20 PM
2

I think youre not ready for an LTR. You want to add 15 to 20 notches ans then ideally find a girl 20 to 24 yr old to have babies with. Assuming 1 to 2 years of vetting she should be plenty of fertile for at least 2 kids.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:26 PM
1

My system was 1. Feeler date for 30m involving coffee or if its very warm skip to 2. 1 hr for drinks near my place where i invite them over after. 3. If didnt close on 2 invite straight to house for activity on date 3 You can tip the bartender well 20m early and explain that youre cutting down on drinking but want to make it seem like youre having mixed drinks. Spent only 1-2 hours feeling out a new girl each week and 1-2 hours upkeep on current girls. Every 3rd date with lates is outside bedroo…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:21 PM
1

Look youre doctor is assuming weight gain is fat. Unless your doctor is a fitness buff hes another crab kn the bucket. 150 would be awesome if you were st 6% bodyfat, thst means abs pop out hard. Youre probably at 20 percent. Id get tob170 or 175 at 12 to 15% bf if I were you.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:09 PM
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Welcome. A few thoughts: Dont make a deal with trp, make a deal with yourself. Stop asking for our validation, read the sidebar, and work on yourself. Give up on the perfect 10. If shes a 4 or a 10 youll end up in another shitty LTR with that disney mindset.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:01 PM
1

After she ended her LTR of 10 years she became DTF (down to fuck, not sure if this is common knowledge)and they have fucked.Now it is my turn Shes got cocklust. No way shes looking for just 1 cock. This party is to see how many former current and future fuckbuddies will chase and validate. If you want to come out like a champ initiate a train on her. You should be on red alert here. Maximum chaos. That vag runs Deep enough for many many cocks.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:36 AM
1

Dont makr her an ltr
/r/askTRP04/12/16 01:31 AM
2

Best is to leave physically and wait for her to initiate. Escalate immediatelynwhen you meet up and ifbshe says no repeat
/r/askTRP03/12/16 11:46 PM
4

What hapoens after she says no? Do you leave or stick around? I set the pace early on w all girls. They know if theres no sex im out of there in 5 to 20 minutes
/r/askTRP03/12/16 11:22 PM
1

Highly variable. Sure theres stretching out but more sex usually strengthens and enlarges the muscles so it gets tighter. On the other hand lack of arousal makes it tight as well.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 08:56 PM
3

Your girlfriend touched another mans penis. Probsbly sucked his cock. Hard next!
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:46 PM
4

Honestly not gf material. Drinking to puking on its own is game over. Ask for the 3some tho
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:43 PM
1

Pay attention to the above read the sidebar and look up cheateau heartiste. You broke pretty much every 1st date guideline big time. How NOT to be a beta on the first date. Don't PAY for dinner, dont even have dinner together. Dinner is for post sex ladies only. Dont get giddy and excited talking about sex with HEr. If shes sure you want to fuck her she gets all the validation she needs. Use a little push pull to leave her asking "am i hot enough for him am I good enough?" Shell want to prove to…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 03:24 AM
1

Half cold approach half extended social circles. Mostly parties. Never shit in your close social circles. Sometimes bars but rarely thats mostly singles.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 09:58 PM
1

You dont believe cheating is real? A cheating exgf lead to this place and while learning to spin plates learned more than a few girls wernet actually single. Go hit on taken girls see what happens
/r/askTRP01/12/16 06:37 PM
1

Youre her BBC fantasy! At lesst you're her type. Now you know which buttons to push.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:49 PM
5

Women will test you brutally when they want to sleep with you Bingo! I'd like to add some key points based on reading and experience 9s. You covered most of the points quite well. A) While in public and at bars direct and forward is a major demonstration of value, at small parties I've always done well playing coy. I focus on the high status males (because they're great company) Sooner or later the HB8s and HB9s will begin compliance testing "hey get me a drink", "tell me your name", "how do you…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 03:28 AM
9

No you gave them to her move on
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:51 AM
2

It means being fully engaged. If you notice one eye is dilated far morenthan the other may be sign of a neurological emergency. Consult a medical professional.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:28 AM
1

If youre in college go out on your own an make friends. Youll run into people from campus
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:26 AM
2

Does your butthole tingle when you see someone swuat 365 lbs?
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:23 AM
4

Youre not attractive enough to deseve better. Also are you still fat? You should eat sleep and breath calorie couuntin son
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:18 AM
8

You have my permission you flaming sissy. Fuck away to your hearts content. Check out alttrp
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:14 AM
2

A) you pursue your own value. Its horrendously low right now. Work out more. Get better at your career. Get good at your hobbies. Start a company. Far more masculine than petty social games. B) read. Thats how you imorove. Read classics. Read self help books like dale carnegies how to win friends. Read fiction biographies. Form an interesting mind by reading. C) What you say is 10 percent. Take voice lessons on youtube. Use appropriate body language. You can get away with social catastrophe if y…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:06 AM
2

I demoted my best mate last spring over this behavior. Dont let people like that stay in your life. 6 months later hes found his manners. Ive let him be a friend but hes out of the inner circle.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:50 PM
2

My nerdy engineer friend complained about having to say hes an engineer while out hitting on girls. I tell him to lie. What does he say? Doctor. Girl grabs him by the hand and walks him out in 25m. Gold diggers
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:33 PM
2

1 game 2 face 3 height
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:29 PM
1

Hey guy slow down. Dont worry about status right now. Get yourself as fit as possible ace your classes and get an internship lined up. Dress well. Like a rich kid. With your shit in order you have your own value secure. Before you worry about status think about delivering value to others. If you are high value this is done by giving your attention to them. That doesnt mean you talking it means you listening after initiating a conversation. Status will come when everyone acknowledges your value. …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:44 PM
2

You COULD still pull at 150 but most likely you want to get up to 190.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:14 PM
2

Be loud, warm, attractive. HB9 girls are like cats. Stare too hard they run away, play a little coy. The more you ignore, the more they chase. I don't mean hide in the corner- I mean address the group and deny them attention. Talk to their friends.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:14 PM
3

Right now she feels like she doesnt swallow, when shes with you.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:28 PM
9

PUA has blown up typical social interaction into myths procedures and techniques.How did people fuck each other in bars or on vacation before PUA gurus??? Ask your grandpa or dad to find out
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 02:03 PM
1

I want you to dream big. Engineering girls are fine, certainly pleasant conversation. Sorority girls for the best blowjobs (also most stds careful). If you are ripped gyms for best bodies. I am in a collegetown. I beg you dont waste your life.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 11:48 PM
2

Tough love
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:01 PM
1

Find out for yourself
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:10 PM
1

Shes gotta slip away from the husband. Ease up on the ultimatums
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:09 PM
5

Wtf weaksauce
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:46 PM
2

Women are women. Dont force them to be your best friend. Get a puppy, raise a pokemon, get a teddy bear but dont burden women with a smothering friendship. Sometimed you do spend lots of time with an LTR but the more you do the less she wants to have sex with yo
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:43 PM
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Girls with a bad attitude crave being put in their place. I directly insulted a girl like this for about 25 minutes gave her shit for going to community college and reminded her of how much of a failure she was in life. She couldnt get enough dick. Odds are your woman wants to be talked down to and degraded emotionally. She craves being dominated harshly. Shes acting up hoping to be made submissive. Id dare to go as far as saying she wants you to hit her and in my book thats the kind of girl I a…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:34 PM
1

Exactly or something quick outdoors
/r/askTRP28/11/16 07:44 PM
1

Im also 2.5 dates but id put it at 3 to 5 hours. I believe in 30 m first dates and 1 hr dates when Im not going for the close. 1/4 of online dates were 1 hr hang then bang though
/r/askTRP28/11/16 07:31 PM
5

I'd rather be in a dryspell than deal with an awful woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:39 PM
2

Hey you don't get to tell me what kind of slut I get to be. I'll out flank most sorority girls in N-count.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:35 PM
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LOL. Great job now you don't have to cold approach anymore. I learned cold approach by watching my father (post-divorce). He starts chit-chat with everyone - even saw him grab a few numbers at the grocery store. "COLD APPROACH" is engaging with others in a public setting. It's not fiction, it's not rocket science, and it sure as hell ain't unnatural. Emotionally mature adults do it all the time, NO problem. Internet keyboard jockeys with social anxiety have a hard time. Swallow the redpill. You'…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:33 PM
3

Don't forget to take care of yourself too. The emotional bond you have will get stronger through this experience, and the pain may magnify as well. Keep that daring machismo that lead you to this girl in the first place. Embrace the sorrow as you do the joy and carry on young soldier.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 04:26 PM
4

Those people piss me off too. Distance is the solution.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:02 AM
22

Remember the following from the Taos of Stoicism: Everything you perceive is LOCAL, TEMPORARY, and INTERNAL. LOCAL: Get in your car and drive a few miles. Most problems you can get away from in that fashion - even if it's likely you have to return to sort it out, there's always an escape for many things. TEMPORARY: Most problems don't last forever. You either get used to them, or they end. SOmeone laughing at you is as temporary as it gets. INTERNAL Your perception of the laughter around you is …
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:19 PM
1

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/king-sims-murdered-white-men-calif-hate-crime-article-1.2887236 Here you go fuckhead.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 10:04 PM
2

Tag team degrade and hard next
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:27 PM
3

Girl 1 is just a friend. Noone will be upset. Focus on sexuality with girl 2. Usually you have a 2 to 5 day window to be a sexual option. Digging through the past fails because youre so far outside the window
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:57 PM
1

That's very interesting about the kissing. My guess is that there isn't a one size fits all game - everyone has their own style. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3fnvy0/the_rp_guide_to_defeating_the_enemy_attraction/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/356j96/dopamine/
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:22 PM
1

It's possible to kill attraction with too much comfort. Sexual tension is built up and then you can dissipate it through touch - I usually don't kiss until sex for this reason. I want the tension to be high. Your brain responds to novelty, so does her's. The more familiar you are, the less dopamine, and the lower the attraction spike. The more exposure, the less dopamine. However zero familiarity can be off-putting - although I've done ONS I'd rather get to know someone a little bit before sex a…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:05 PM
1

Cuddling sends out boyfriend vibes. It says to them we are more than sex partners. We have an emotional bond.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:54 PM
3

I was not sure if that was a good move, but coming from you, feel pretty good about it now! ;) It never works as well as I expect it to! If you want to end things smoothly with minimal fall-out be the AF. The hamster will do all the smooth talking for you. Don't give boyfriend signals. I run into old plates that I never went out on any dates with - they still smile and get bubbly. The girls who tried to lock me down, they are still bitter. Less comfort more attraction. I really struggle with thi…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:51 PM
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A few weeks later I'll cut them off rather harshly but I'd rather not get there in the first place. One month is pretty standard for plates. Like a fag, I often leave them when I have some moral high ground. Hey that's my move! she's trying to manipulate me with silk cords but she has enough plausible deniability to where this would not be an argument that I'd enter. Great read on the situation What do y'all think I think you could reuse some re-calibration on your harem management. You are prob…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:10 PM
1

http://usuncut.com/news/white-supremacist-trump-supporter-stabs-interracial-couple-threatens-kill-black-lives-matter-protesters/
/r/askTRP23/11/16 01:48 AM
1

Trump supporters fully supports racial discrimination. I'm not saying all of them - but enough so that minorities got kicked out of rallies Muslim woman getting kicked out of rally for being muslim, crowd spews hate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0YBt_6HfbM Trump calls for violence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1fyFN-rXoU Every time trump supporters are shoving protestors, or spitting on them that's assault. That's a crime. Wake up
/r/askTRP23/11/16 12:50 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYALNs1c0Xk Here you go a trump supporter beating up a muslim. Are you happy? Hate crimes are very very serious. The swastikas, the lynching of black dummies: http://occupydemocrats.com/2016/10/29/trump-fan-just-hung-two-black-dummies-tree-front-yard/ It's the boiling before attempted ethnic cleansing by the alt-right neo nazis.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 12:41 AM
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Ah a skeptic very good. If only you could apply critical reason to evaluating trump as well. Hered a video of two white kids drawing a swastika in blood. http://www.ktvu.com/web/ktvu/news/211694583-video
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:51 PM
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You want video proof? https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2016/11/richard-spencer-speech-npi/508379/ They cheered heil trump heil victory and then advocated for peaceful ethnic cleansing. The alt right is alive and invigorated. Neonazis are real.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:33 PM
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http://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/rise-in-hate-crimes-following-donald-trump-election-win/ http://time.com/4569129/racist-anti-semitic-incidents-donald-trump/
/r/askTRP22/11/16 03:22 PM
1

Yes we do. Show us your tits or gtfo
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:14 PM
1

From a practical standpoint you have a ticking time bomb of a wife and you just lit a very short fuse. The safe route wouldve been divorce first.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:50 PM
3

She fucked someone. She did it before she left. She fucked someone else after she deployed toi
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:46 PM
2

I would hard next. That's blatant disrespect. Nonexclusivity is one thing lying and waving it in your face is another
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:04 PM
1

Greetings from TRP. Congrats on your journey. Any career gains? As a single guy I was lucky to be able to hatefuck anything that moved out of the anger
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 06:46 PM
9

Wow maybe we should do business meetings with our dicks on the table
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:24 PM
2

Sweet Christmas. If you think the bluepill is good for young men and women throw up the redpill
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:21 PM
6

I genuinely think girls are literally wired differently than us (Different neural pathways with the corpus collosum. Literally wired differently) and hormonal differences also have a huge effect, but they're still human. Very important to understand
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:20 PM
3

You're 36! Thought you were 16. Oneitis is a hell of a disease. Go fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:52 PM
2

Speak for yourself. Once the partner count gets high enough magic happens. I Do agree that once an LTR cheats end it. And once an LTR ends throw away the trash. Reason is in the 3years she's aged and there are new younger models out there.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:48 PM
1

Read sex God method. The first time can be very very good. Fresh pussy can feel amazing. Build the tension. At the same time don't lose your masculine polarity. If you try too hard to please your dominance will suffer. You're better off giving them instructions on how to please you.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:45 PM
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She's a plate and she's playing "beat around the bush" to see if you're open for mongamy and if she has the upper hand. Don't give a fuck. Accept she's seeing other guys and don't do any more beta slips. Op meet western women. They sleep around are you ok with that? Great. Dont be surprised by it. Do fight against being locked up in a cage by a typical woman.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:40 PM
1

Where are you in your fitness?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:26 PM
2

No more hours on the phone online checkers etc. Hang out in person and then be mysterious
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:22 PM
3

I avoid
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:18 AM
3

Breast pocket of the jacket is a good spot. I once walked into a club where they were checking our pockets. Got the dirtiest look from a female bouncer LOL.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:33 PM
5

Some girls HATE period sex and give GREAT blowjobs :) Others enjoy bloody sex. Prepare for a mess
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:21 PM
2

Yeah especially if you're at a place where a year of cruising is ok.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:37 PM
2

Ice cold, good! W great power comes great responsibility
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:48 AM
1

here's what happens when you don't mate guard https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/5dc10x/50_bucks_and_a_pack_of_cigarettes/
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:25 AM
1

From what I can tell the guys in my network diverged and some pulled it off andndont have kids and the others leaned towards family oriented girls and do have kids.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:59 PM
1

How much do you weigh? Look up a TDEE calc 2 large eggs and toast is roughly 300 to 400 calories. Most lunches and dinners are 1000. Your proposed breakfast is probably 600 o 750. Swap water and milk. Milk calories add up fast
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:55 PM
1

To some extent all women miss their fathers. The girls I've dated from very nice homes have loved being treated like a little girl. If you want the quality of your dating pool to go up first approach more and second raise your own social status
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:52 PM
1

Everyone is different. There are guys who will get to extreme levels of huge on high rep low weight, and there are guys who get there low reps heavy weight. You have to experiment. For me I do the bodybuilding variant of 5/3/1. Few heavy reps on the compound lifts and then 4-5 sets of 10-15 on the rest (including arms/shrugs/abs etc) Scroll down: http://blackironbeast.com/5/3/1/calculator
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:06 AM
2

Honestly I numb myself with entertainment. I also find 30 to 60 minutes of cardio is soothing. Getting laid helps too. I try not to go too relaxed or too tense. Also addessing your title there's social capital gains from delivering services and resources to others take care of Your own needs get paid fairly and then work hard. Everyone is your child or sick parent so provide for them on the clock.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:07 PM
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Guys were under attack. Were bombarded by pseudoscience vullshit that we have to sift through. We are here to learn and people keep making up nonsense. It's infuriating because it's wasteful of our time. Its preventing us from unplugging or costing us mental effort that could be Bette spent on grocery shopping. Neoreaction absolutely should be policed out of here by the readers not the moderators. Call him on his bullshit and laugh at him. Tease him mercilessly and get through his LMR to sanity.…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:36 PM
2

You have no fucking idea. Go travel the world. I spent half my life on a farm and the other half in the city. The rural America is a recent fiction dreamed up to sell Budweiser and jon Deere hats. It's as artificial as modern cities if not more so because most cities were designed before modern marketing. The American way is pragmatic and pioneering. Sticking to "safe" rural areas is antiethcal. The good old days are a rumor. Men need to explore to grow and with the exception of the ones running…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:25 PM
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Looks personality intelligence pick 2.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:08 PM
3

There are two separate and parallel tracks to pursue. 1) get good at game and get yourbjotchbcount up and 2) get your shit together. Make your life whole and engaging to such a degree that women can never take up more than 30 percent of your mental effort. That's your oneitis vaccine. Too busy crushing life to get wrapped up chsing vagina highs. There's definitely a confidence that exudes from it but if your goal is to get laid focus on 1 before 2.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:22 PM
2

Don't force her to be your mother knucklehead. Spend more time at your own place. Don't cohabitate unless you're getting married. Oh wait yourennever getting married right?
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:19 PM
3

I go spend time with another plate.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:16 PM
0

Yes. Lady this is the advice you want. Or how is your tits
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:11 PM
1

A cuckold Is a man who unknowingly raises another man's child believing it is his own. Get over yourself. Not all women will want to bang you and that's okay. Go have sex with other women until paltry shit tests don't even register.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:41 PM
1

I was very surprised! He inched in, still not a steamroll. I'm looking forward to the increased masculinity and toning down of the SJWs but I hope the hate crimes stop ASAP. Also I predict a recession/market crash starting in 2 years from now
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:38 PM
5

She's sexually repulsed by you. Here is no other reason.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:00 PM
0

Let me tell you, no one knows what it's like to be a poor white man getting shafted by the elite conspiracy than elite white male billionaires.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 05:07 PM
2

Is this your opener? The obvious answer is both spin plates
/r/askTRP08/11/16 04:04 PM
1

These are very very helpful reminders. The problem OP has is about his perceived "losses" in social exchange. In practical terms maybe that means that he is not left with enough time to take care of himself but as you point out the root problem is actually ego driven. He's hurting and frustrated because he feels entitled to something back. If he develops outcome independence the pain goes away, but most likely his time management and resource problem also goes away.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:58 PM
3

How the fuck can I stop this? Is it my personality? Anyone change this in themselves? This is what's killing me. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. It will answer your questions in all the depth you require. I read it, went through an asshole phase and eventually came out the other side. Don't be afraid to be called a jerk, an asshole, or a douchebag. Those are just shaming tactics others use when you don't comply with their wishes. For at least one month say NO to others and Yes to yourself. Off the to…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:53 PM
1

Exclusive == LTR. Don't promise exclusivity if it's not an LTR.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:48 PM
1

told her I'm only fucking you but I'm not getting serious. So she's your LTR or what? Why would you promise this?! NEVER be afraid to walk away. Single and horny is better, far far better than a terrible LTR.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:09 PM
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Dude lighten up and learn to joke around.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:39 AM
6

90 percent of guys are thirsty
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:08 AM
1

hard next
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:00 AM
6

It's rare for a girl to straight up reject you or end things. You're better off ignoring her reasoning. "I want to take a break/see you less/stop having sex" because of "wanting to work on myself/feeling scared/afraid of commitment/too much work to do/ dealing with some stuff/ " always translates to "I am not attracted to you anymore sorry bud" If a girl says she wants to pull back say "Okay no problem I hope things go well for you and I'm happy you've figured out what you want. Best of luck. Th…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:18 PM
3

she's not sure she's ready for a committed relationship because her priority is school Her priority is other cock, or at least the ability to enjoy it guilt-free. Telling her I'm indifferent, but need to know and tell her she has a week or two to figure out what she wants. She already told you what she wants, gently. She wants NSA casual sex. Can you handle sharing her? Somehow bring up being in an open relationship since then I wouldnt even care about what she wants as I wouldnt be missing out …
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:00 PM
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If it makes you feel better, >>90% of girls go bareback. That's the state of the women out there today. Your girl isn't particularly trashy, dirty, inexperienced, or unfamiliar with casual sex. On the contrary, she's a run of the mill sausage muncher, world class adventurer, just like all the other girls. There are girls who insist on condoms, but they are often the exception. Girls follow. If the guy leads in a direction that's risky she will follow if she's attracted. It's fully your responsib…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:19 PM
3

That's disrespect from a woman towards her man. Plate LTR whatever. If you're not exclusive you don't rub it in each other's faces. Punish accordingly. Long soft next or hard next.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:47 PM
3

Leave it for good. Read your long post. I rarely had great success pushing through LMR. Some guys like to do that I prefer the boot. When she doesn't want to have sex I stop. I turn on The lights stop the music have a light hearted conversation. I go buddy buddy and then I offer her an uber home or go on my merry way. Maintain rapport but break all sexual contact. Girls get off on teasing as much as you get off on sex. Don't be a sucker. Dont be too much of an ass. Only accept mutually rewarding…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:17 PM
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She just broke up with you gently. Hard next no contact ever again. Sorry dude
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:34 PM
1

I set the expectation on partying pretty clearly. When she started to go out too often I let her know that ifbshes interested in that life I'm happy for her but we if she continued we'll eventually go our seperate ways. There was no arguing and she toned it down. Still awalt.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:31 AM
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I'm gonna be very cynical of your view - take from it what you will. mpetitive nature of our world. Dog eats dog. Hammers and nails. It's important to keep strong boundaries to make sure that your transactions are fair. A good example is time at work for the right amount of pay. No free overtime. However there's definitely something to be said of investing in others and working hard for your customers, going above and beyond. The reputation you build will take you farther than you can go alone. …
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:01 PM
3

Let's assume you don't live in a shithole - in some places everyone is disrespected. If strangers are disrespecting you, there is something about your body language (poor eye contact? slouching?) that encourages disrespect. When I wear a tucked in button up and dressier pants I am greeted with a hello sir, excuse me sir, etc. and I'm known for having a babyface. As far as muscle goes if you're 6'0 aim for 190-200 lbs. For every inch above add 15 lbs, for every inch below subtract 10 lbs. So at 5…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 01:43 PM
1

Amazing what the power to walk away can do eh? To many more hot girls here here
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:55 AM
1

Don't! Do something academic instead. Try an analysis of the Iran deal.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:54 AM
1

normally I'm the one fucking her, going down on her while she just lays there looking bored This is enough reason to end thigns
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:12 AM
1

i don't know what to tell you in this situation. Girls date up nto down so if you're fawning this hard odds are your SMV isn't where it needs to be. Please check out the 16 commandments of poon. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ You are in direct violation of rule 10. X. Ignore her beauty The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His appre…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:56 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:58 PM
1

Well the first few weeks I read a bit, didn't quite sink in. Once I figured out how to use the sidebar and read the top 20 posts of all time it was like getting knocked against the pavement. It was 3 months of hell and lashing out. I was very angry and depressed, carried around a permanent frown, and still very very needy. After about 3 months of sucking at game, started spinning plates and took things took off like wildfire. I made tons of mistakes, battled oneitis often, and made many of the b…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:18 AM
2

Ignore words watch actions. No time for women who act unintersted
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:49 PM
3

Get them at your house or theirs and follow the vin dicarlo escalation ladder. If they aren't interested in sex no big deal wind things down and call it a night. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:03 PM
1

If you're handlign your shit I'd carry on. It's good to be a complex character with flaws. Perfect is boring. Ideally the flaws are mundane, uninhibiting in reality but in her mind they seem important.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:39 PM
1

Look at all the downvotes. This is not a safe place to discuss sexual consent. Where are we supposed to get help? The last thing men here want is to have sex with an uninterested woman. We're here to learn how to date and have more fulfilling sexual interactions. Yet any time we discuss touchy subjects- the scariness of rape culture and both sides of it we get downvoted into oblivion. Silenced.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:31 PM
1

Submission OR they want you to stop talking
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:27 PM
0

Really depends. Options are: Submission. They want you to stop talking. Eye contact isn't natural for them. You'll find that lots of eye contact is intimate and in many professional and social situations fleeting eye contact is more appropriate. You're not trying to seduce these fellas now are ya
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:58 PM
1

Yes handled just fine. Wouldn't you like to know is a fun one
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:15 PM
1

It's called fight or flight. Very well known very well documented. Skydiving/break in while I was home, walking by car accidents, and volunteering in an ambulance. Absolutely nothing to do with asktrp
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:35 PM
2

Off topic.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:12 PM
1

A big problem here is your oneitis/neediness. I know because I've been there too. You believe you're not invested but you're worked up/unhappy because she's not meeting your vision of an LTR. Focus on yourself and reducing your own neediness.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:08 PM
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Is it even worth getting your dick wet anymore? Why would you risk your entire future fucking some slag that can accuse you of rape the next morning? Honestly sex is not worth that risk. Its a terrible time to be a white male in college. I've seen the same trend in my college town and it's only going to get worse. Rape is an incredibly terrible crime noone should ever deal with. Alcohol consumption leads to Brown outs "where was I last night?" scenarios and young women and universities collectiv…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:02 PM
2

It's pretty easy to catch up bro.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:31 PM
4

Rejection is hard. It hurts. Its our job
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:18 PM
1

Rejection is hard. It hurts. Its our job
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:11 PM
4

no IOIs are attemtps to get your sperm. Hold frame and don't give in. Never Sex AGAIN.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:50 PM
5

That's because you are a chump. It's okay. Don't fight it. Embrace it and approach like a chump so that one day you can do ita s a champ.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:49 PM
3

If a woman is sending IOIs, and you don't approach her, does she see you as unattractive, solid frame (has urges under control) or just uninterested? She sees you as a "nice guy" who's shy. AKA not masculine. Holding frame =/= approach anxiety. Holding frame means maintaining and imposing your perspective onto the situation.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:48 PM
1

I don't have great ones. Check out the master: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/my-personal-pickup-openers/
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:21 PM
1

Off topic
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:18 PM
3

Best indirect openers are situational. Something relevant to the environment
/r/askTRP21/10/16 03:40 PM
2

Very good point. He's go ta whole lot of stuff on penile enhancement LOL
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:24 PM
0

Girls can be afraid to ask, and want you to take the lead, but you really ought to feel it out and use your best judgement. If you're wrong you make a huge mistake. If she's cooking for you, making you gifts, going way out of her way to please you consistently you're likely to be able to upgrade safely.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:14 PM
2

Good Looking Loser has spelled this out better than you. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/retention-fuck-buddies
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 04:45 PM
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Loss of attraction is a very common theme in LTRs. People say that cheating, branch-swinging, and hypergamy are the big reason to avoid LTRs. While those things are certainly possible,** a significant reason not to have an LTR is the high likelihood for a significant decrease in the quality and quantity of sexual activity in your life.** The questions you have to ask are 1. Is less sex and bad sex okay with you? 2. What does this girl bring to the table that outweighs the costs of maintaining/re…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:32 PM
0

It's a real issue - people love to prove their side is right rather than pursuing truth and rational choices. No politician is gonna be squeaky clean.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 04:14 AM
1

This is the truth. Go and read the leaks. I read them. Find a leak that is ACTUALLY incriminating and post it here. I dare you. Anyone.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 09:27 PM
3

Latino guys do better
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:22 PM
11

Your job is not to fix your girlfriend. Your job is to be a rock. You let her walk and cry and scream and you carry on with your usual chipper demeanor. Treat her like an equal human and let her take care of herself.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:58 PM
8

Use redpillwomen instead. This place is about sexual strategy for men. Respect their space. Read if interested. Pretend to be a man and post of you must. Don't say things like "from a woman's perspective or as a woman". Instead go out fuck some women and share your findings
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:11 PM
1

Don't apologize. Carry on. Setup next date as usual. Girls through out these types of scenarios to feel you out- see what they can get away with and see your boundaries. If you blow up- react emotionally, or become "controlling" it will show you're over-invested. If instead you withdraw play aloof and play it cool she'll work hard to earn your commitment.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:22 PM
1

They are shit tests
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:11 PM
2

The most commonly missed point is restructuring your priorities. Women should be around 30 percent of your mental energy and time at most. Focus on your mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 02:32 PM
2

Girl usually lashes out and tries to play the jealousy card. She usually does this by first flirting, and then sleeping with a friend/roommate. Had it happen twice. Good thing I don't emotionally invest in plates! Protip: Be a bud and pretend to be a little jealous once in a while to keep her spinning for your buds. Only do this for true mates who get you laid often. No freeloaders Edit: This is after hard nexts.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:58 AM
1

Maybe it's just about broadcasting status
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:52 PM
3

I disagree about food lust being solely the domain of women. There are plenty of men who are obsessed with food. Food is a basic human need - of course it's going to come up often. Are there more men than women that cook well in the US? Probably. Going out to eat and getting Sunday brunch at 1pm are the two basic bitch hobbies you can publicly see girls engaging in. The other hobby, of course, is Netflix. However it wouldn't be fair to say that there aren't guys who do the exact same thing. Plen…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:50 PM
3

WAtch her actions and ignore her words. Of she was truly excited by you she wouldn't of disappeared for a few weeks or made excuses to avoid sex. Sorority girls ride lot's of cock and have many options. If they go for more than a week without sex it's a major issue for them.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:40 PM
1

Solid advice. Followed all of these found them very helpful
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:01 AM
2

Could there be something about me that drives women away or is this common ? Leaving for another guy is the default modus operandai. Many women abhor being single. They would much rather maintain a continuous stream of attention and validation than face the prospects of loneliness, rejection, and god forbid a lack of sexual options on speed-dial. Would you rather have your girl secretly get side action or dump you? Dumping is much better. Could there be something about me that drives women away?…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:27 PM
2

Ever hear people on the redpill say women are the most responsible teenager in the house? Ever here us say, take the lead and let her follow? If you dont' want to lead don't have an LTR.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:29 PM
1

Its your on fault. Don't buy dinner before sex moron.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 06:59 PM
1

Get focused on your mission and make little achievable goals. That'll keep your mind off of validation from others
/r/askTRP13/10/16 01:57 PM
1

Don't assume that the new hire will be controllabke
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:59 AM
1

You should be able to start but you're missing a squat rack. I think that's the main issue. Otherwise you have most of everything and can do all the other exercises. I don't have any good advice on alternates to squats. I am telling you to skip body weight fitness because 1) it's very hard for beginners and 2) you get more for your time lifting weights. 3) If you try to do 2 programs at once it's much harder. Just stick to basics you're just getting started. Do you have any recommended reading f…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:14 PM
1

I think you should do starting strength, and add extra arm and upper chest work. So on A day (Squat/bench/back) also do a tricep exercise. Dips are a great choice once you are strong. Also add incline bench on this day (3x6-12 instead of 5x5). Then on B day do some chinups or alternative exercise. Do bicep curls too. Skip the bodyweightfitness for now. Do cardio on off days. I think for you the main goal should be to 1st cut down to sub 15% bodyfat. You're probably sitting near 25-30%. That mean…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:57 PM
3

Once the relationship is undone it's over. Sure she may trust you now - but what twill happen in the future? She will likely sleep around any time she's feeling insecure. Don't make her your LTR Either move on or explain how her sleeping with another guy shows you that it would be fun for both of you to stay casual. What I seek is advice from others that may have been in a similar situation/anyone that may be able to read my story from an outsider's perspective and add their 2 cents to help clea…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 06:23 PM
3

Once you've spun plates for a few years you realize how little fuxks women give because you experience wild abundance first hand and stop giving a fuck
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:32 PM
1

Keep it to yourself. Its over no contact
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:47 PM
-1

You're gonna have to decide on your own. I'm be clean for a looong time. I think I'd first hire a trainer and a chef to get my macros and training to 100%. Them in would make sure I could afford all the extra drugs and monitoring. The thing is that on steroids a beginner gains about 8lbs of muscle in 3 months with 0 lifting. Without steroids youbgain 0 lbs with 0 lifting. With training it becomes 12/4
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:58 PM
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10% BF and 200k/year. Don't waste your effort that's a solid place to be. Statistically you'll do well in the sexual marketplace but you need to guard against poor investments. So spin plates and read up on redpill some more.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:45 PM
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Now, a year later, after much self-improvement and deep introspection, I meet HB8. She’s fun, she’s beautiful and she’s sweet. She also has multiple red flags. Awesome dude sounds like great PLATE material. Don't emotionally invest, otherwise her red flags will make you go wonkers. when they first met (also about a year ago) she had hooked up with him and they slept together. LOL those crazy plates and their wild antics. This is pretty much when you have a good laugh at her expense with her coll…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:50 PM
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Well consider yourself single. Just because a girlfriend says a guy is gay doesn't mean he is. It's a great way to hide a fuckbuddy.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:19 PM
7

Let him know.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:00 PM
1

Hey man you're actually in a good spot. I'm jealous that you have 2 hours free to walk on the beach every day. Try making that 1 hour of walking and 1 hour of cold approaches if you really want pussym. I came here because sex and women are important to me. I've done well with trp in my life because I learned very early on about oneitis and the seriousness of the disease. Everything goes back to oneitis. If you spend more than 50 percent of your mental energy thinking about one girl you are or wi…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:04 PM
1

18% odds of winning is hardly steamrolling dude. http://projects.fivethirtyeight.com/2016-election-forecast/
/r/askTRP10/10/16 01:27 AM
0

SJW and PC has spun far out of control. You'd be a fool not to wear sheep's clothing
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:50 PM
0

It's a very interesting climate the days. If you're gonna run for a big public office you've got to protect your image at all costs- and it's got to fit with the primary imperative. There's a big difference between someone like Gene Simmons living it up with girls and blow and someone running for president.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:53 PM
1

The key to the whole thing is to enforce boundaries but let go of your ego to prevent resentment from building up. If she's majorly acting up withdraw and refocus your energy on yourself and enjoying life in your own. When you reinitiate put the past behind you. If there's an offense that you can't let go of them you should hard next. Decide what the hard next criteria are. If she hits them end it but if she doesn't then you have to actually move on and forgive her once you've reinforced your bo…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:47 PM
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Askwomen are you fucking serious? Use the sidebar. Asktrp is a pace you can get advice for your one off situation but the redpill can teach you far more. Put in some time and get something out of this place
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:44 PM
15

What are women for dude? If you want sparring and 10d social chess find it in the business place or on the sports field.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:34 PM
4

Let's translate: right now I feel like I wish you needed me more when I'm with you. She just wants more power. A genuine interest in lending support would come in the form of a question: "Hey how is work/how is your family/are you stressed about the deadlines coming up?" Or an offer :"I know you've got a lot of work this week I can make dinner for you every night"
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:26 PM
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This is a great point about mass. Here's the hierarchy: According to vaginas: Tall and Jacked > Tall and Fat > Tall and Skinny > Short and Jacked > Short and skinny ~ Short and fat According to fitness community we always tell you that skinny is better than fat. Being tall and fat is in many ways better than short and jacked. However the testosterone, confidence, and photogenic attributes you acquire form a healthy gym habit is always well worth it. If you are lean and muscular, you have to be c…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:48 PM
3

Did she invest in you to earn the LTR? Significant cleaning, cooking, improving your life outside of sex?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:44 PM
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She was into me the most but ended up hooking up with a fuck buddy instead You might want to look up the definition of "into me" again. There's a difference between a girl enjoying your attention and craving your semen inside her. tldr; girl shit tested me in a unique way It's very common. When a girl has a bitch shield like that you can always go with something along the lines of "you don't get out much do you", "i bet you are very popular", or "you must have lots of friends" You take the attit…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:16 PM
2

It probably has more to do with you than them. You're very attracted to the dark girls, they sense it and it turns them on. I'm very turned on by blonde and asian girls, and they are very sexually aggressive towards me. Redheads and blondes pursue me for sex more than I pursue them.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:23 PM
1

Amen. That's where the road leaves. Its important to embrace your sexual side and sow your wild oats and on the other side is abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 02:52 PM
1

does the bartender thing get you laid?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:31 AM
1

Try one date per week. Once per month is not enough to develop your game
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:02 PM
2

You have to wonder WHY he's still pursuing. I guarantee she enjoys the attention. Don't fuel her fire. If you want to shut this down fast you fight fire with fire. Introduce another girl to the friend group and give her lots of attention.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:01 PM
0

There are two of my fb friends who went on and on about transhumanism circa 2008-2010. I kid you not they are now both transgender. Let us know when you switch. Segway: are you into lesbian open? Turns out overconsumption teaches you to project yourself into the body of a woman during sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:21 PM
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Very well played well done. Never stop lifting learning and improving. A house built upon fickle cards is not strong in the storm. However a man is only as good as his options so keep it up. I was grilling her with questions but she really wasn't putting any effort. This is the right strategy after a lukewarm response. If you use a descending pitch from high to low on the questions and avoid validating her responses it comes off as you evaluating her. She will feel pressure to impress you.don't …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:17 PM
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You dumb slut. You dumb fucking slut." And she just got more and more into it and so would I. This has been my experience with most girls. Its the truth. Women are ashamed of themselves for the same reason there's anger on the redpill. Its cathartic and spiritual to be treated with honesty. Sweet tender love makes them guilty and then resentful. Rouugh degrading sex leaves them purged and thankful
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:11 PM
2

An anti trp woman is a feminist. Trp is counter feminist.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:04 PM
0

Never. The world is moving west. Prepare
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:03 PM
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The higher value men have house parties biweekly. They ocasionally go out to bars and clubs too. Meet them playing sports
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:57 PM
2

Don't shame him man.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:32 PM
2

Agree and amplify. I'm 14 can you buy me alcohol. I'm actually a fetus can i crawl inside you it's cold out here. Focus on the 18 year old girls for now
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:30 PM
2

The Chinese dating market is brutal for Chinese men. Gender ratios are poor and Chinese women are feisty. 50 is a tough age. Social circle game is probably the only real option for something long term My impression is that you go to Thailand for prostitutes not to find girlfriends. Check out Vietnam as well.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:28 PM
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Really feel it out. Slept with 30+ girls without problems by taking my time going w the flow and pulling back at any signs of hesitation or lack of enthusiasm. I also meet girls during the day and prefer 2nd or 3rd date lays. Whenever there's a ONS I always get the confirmation text. Vary it from "Had fun let's hang out soon" to something very sexual depending on the situation. You can get past lmr by going caveman but I'd much rather lose the girl than lose my life.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:22 PM
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Plan B throws of period schedule for some girls. Had an exgf long ago take it after a condom broke and she was irregular for 4 to 6 months. Don't know about depo shot
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:19 PM
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Jack does get it. The truth is that a man needs to develop his social skills and ability to deal with shit tests. Spinning plates does prepare a man for an ltr
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:10 PM
1

For girls I got along with pretty well I usually chat them up warmly. Its enjoyable and helps w dread. For the girls where things never clicked I mostly ignore.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:35 AM
1

When first getting to know a girl, is the relationship usually doomed if she takes forever to respond to texts or just doesn't seem that interested? Have you ever turned a lukewarm girl into a loyal girlfriend? What kinda delay we talking here? 1 hr? or 1 day? If it's 1 day forget it. Stick to the 2/3 rule also
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:53 AM
1

I once responded with "meh" to a plate's nudes while she was out of town. Did not go over well. If this is a new plate feel free to tease hard but if it's one that's already caught heavy feelings tread carefully unless you want her to drop.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:53 AM
3

Is your "phenotype" skinny fat ? Hint that's not genetic as much as it is not lifting and eating right
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:44 AM
1

Treat everything as a shit test for first 3 months
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:09 PM
2

Programming is a shitty ROI. Better than other things. Could build software for sale on the side. Once it makes money hire reliable code monkeys. Anyway that's off topic. My career is also very technical and involves long hours. At 25 I said fuck it cut down to 12 percent body fat, became more regular in my lifting schedule, tanned dressed like a wealthier man than I actually am and went on an online dating binge supplemented by approaching Friday nights at bars and a handful of weekly daytime a…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:50 PM
2

The source is their videos. Crawl through rsd Todd stuff to find it.by pua style I mean Going in direct with canned openers and routines. And also doing 10 approaches in a row in the same spot. They were approaching the same girl multiple times. You want to be sly about it. If you're smart and subtle about it there shouldn't be an issue
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:36 PM
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Cold approaching pua style is a poor choice. Rsdtyler and rsd Todd both had to transfer schools because of it. What you want to do is get to know everyone. Say hi to everyone in passing but rarely make a move. Get involved in clubs and social activities and approach at parties
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:22 PM
2

Well good for you on ending things. Cut contact and move on. Delete photos number social media etc.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:38 PM
1

Game trumps all. I'm just speaking from experience here. I've had plenty of taller plates. It's just very easy if you're tall
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:47 PM
3

Height. Game. Status. Looks. Money.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:31 PM
1

If you were in an LTR it's pretty clear. Your job is to be a rock. Rocks don't cheer you up. They go on rolling, silently, stoically unmoved by emotional outbursts. Your LTR has had a shit day she can hug you your emotions stay steady. If shes mourning, she'll talk her head off for a bit you will listen for a bit, and then you'll carry on as usual. She'll thank you for getting her out of her funk later. If it's a plate you skip the listening part. Maybe a few minutes tops and a generic statement…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:28 AM
2

Women will mistrat any man given the chance. Don't take it personally stay strong.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:45 PM
3

She wasn't ready to be exclusive. On to the next ☝
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:27 PM
9

which ex? That means she's meeting up with multiple exes. Sorry bro. This life ain't easy. These ho's aint loyal. And those weights won't lift themselves.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:53 AM
1

Horrible time
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:37 PM
1

My ltr is 4 years younger. Date 18-22 your whole life man.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:40 PM
1

Good luck man. Ignore short term pain and focus on the long term
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:38 PM
5

This is what it's like to have your life in the hands of a teenager. Cover your ass and abort. To her friends she says it was rape. She forgot who she was with
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:14 PM
1

WTF get over yourself.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:52 PM
0

Here's the fucked up thing - women imagine men have special privileges and then make every effort to obtain them for themselves. For example if you call in sick at work, you can bet at least one of the ladies at work will call in sick within the week if they are all salaried. If you go in early all week to take 3 hours early on Friday afternoon the ladies will also leave early on Friday. She learned I'm going next year for a bachelor party and now she says she rather it just be her and her frien…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:46 PM
2

Nothing wrong with spinning plates.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:31 PM
1

Sounds like you're mental energy is 80% girls. Read the side-bar and take women off the pedastal. They can be nice but it doesn't merit 80%. Get a little angry at how men fool themselves and get cheated on divorce-raped, etc. Get a little angry at how women get special priveleges because of what they're born with. Once women are a little lower on your totem pole, start spinning plates. If you're a virgin it's okay to be thinking about women too much. Try online and try cold approach. Make friend…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:33 PM
9

Wear a condom, use your judgement. 7s 8s 9s and 10s have plenty of STDs too. At this point focus on 1 or 0. Does she get you hard. If you've never been with a woman don't freak out if your penis isn't performing. Be patient take your time enjoy it.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:01 AM
5

Don't shit where you eat. >"Why not, it would be fun" WEAK. This is called failing the shit test. Odds are she didn't mind sharing if you play it right. Proper response is always "ok have a good night" and then you hit up the next plate. Make her compete for you.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:13 AM
7

Finding a replacement may never happen. Accept it, and get on with life anyway. The truth about oneitis is that it's a disease and every man gets it sooner or later. The key is to structure your inner world so that no woman is ever a significant fraction. In short fill your life with fullfilment outside of women. A decent balance is 40% career 20% fitness health nutrition 10% hobbies 15% friends 15 % women. Then only 15 % of your life can suck if you don't find a replacement.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:02 AM
2

First of all it's a business dude take it with a grain of salt. It's marketing hired models. And no there are a thousand amateur fitness models and 10k+ musicians on IG too
/r/askTRP01/10/16 04:11 PM
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Don't get mad. Always plan and do things in a way where you're fine on your own. After 10 min don't wait around go to your next thing. Text them say hey headed out catch ya later. Yea eventually cut those people out. Very few people will meet your standards and that's ok. Edit. Don't scold them about it. Not worth effort
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:24 PM
9

Been talking to this girl for 1/2 a year, met her three times, had sex once. We talked on the phone almost daily during the summer. You are a male slut. That's sexually abhorrent to women. You give away your time for free, why would she sleep to you. If a woman gives sex freely we don't make her our gf. Same for girls and commitment. If you give away your time freely she doesn't make you her sexual partner. Hard next move on.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 01:33 PM
3

Be heartless and kick her out. Invite your brother to live with you if he's 18
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:52 PM
1

When I had 5 plates my dick was numb. Let it rest
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:42 PM
2

Yeah you should've. Every girl leads to more girls. I can think of two female friends I made that indirectly lead to about 8 other girls I slept with
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:41 PM
2

Tell here you were in Delta Theta Phi. Down to phuck
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:39 PM
1

Yes get tested. As a warning girls will lie about their test results by default. If a girl insists on a specific test she has the std. Wrap it up always. Relying on their bc is begging for an accident.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:13 PM
3

Troll
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:05 PM
1

Get back in your little turtle shell manlet. Don't you dare grab life the balls and get a 3.33% raise. Who do you fucking think you are.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:31 PM
1

I can't speak to killing but I can speak to experiencing deafh. From my experience with death in my community and family seeing loved ones and neighbors get sick and die, hit by cars, or shot to death I generally find myself increasingly calm. The pressure and danger focuses the mind.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:34 PM
1

-Do I drug him and take photos of him with a ribber dick in his mouth and tell him that if he doesn't sell his house and leave that I will release the photos to your wife and she will believe you have been cheating on her with men. -Do I seduce his wife and mother then rub it in his face that I have been with his wife, sister and mother. You are crazy.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:28 PM
1

How about you grow a pair spend the cash on stylish clothes and approach
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:24 PM
1

If it becomes unpleasant leave. Seriosuly. Don't suffer through more than a weak of bad behavior and no second chance
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:20 PM
2

Prepare for the worst and enjoy it while she treats you well. Write down what your boundaries are and if she crosses them you can end the relationship. Withholding sex and not offering at least a bj is a good one. The truth is that you're not ready for an ltr. Go spin plates for 2 years and get some abundance and learn to handle shit tests
/r/askTRP29/09/16 01:58 PM
2

Right now it feels like, this is the best sex I've ever had ,when I'm with you. Learn to translate
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:59 PM
5

So girl cheats on her ex w you and you try to lock her down. Next at will
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:41 PM
3

Invite her over more often. If she says no over a few weeks then you start seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:45 PM
1

Sometimes girls play games with you. Those girls are not ltr material
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:03 PM
3

That's where you fucked up
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:19 PM
2

LTR turning down sex is a big problem if you make it a big problem. Stop doing sleep overs. Kick her out. "You're right I do need some sleep. Guess you'd better head home" Don't be afraid to go caveman. Make it very rough. Make her crave it.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:06 PM
1

You leave that's pretty much it. Drunk aggro girls can get physical which you want to avoid at all costs. I've had girls reach over put their hands on my face grab my head and try to force a kiss (comical given size difference) and grab me and refuse to let go. Just leave calmly.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:23 PM
1

Your job is to escalate to a sex. Her job is to escalate to a relationship. Here are signs that something is wrong with your gameplan. You're pushing for a relationship You're not following the 2/3 rule. Don't give back more than 2/3 You see her as a good girl or different
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:39 PM
2

I just noticed that I mirrored him in my responses. Thought you were referring to my capitalization. He's been brainwashed by the feminine imperative to be like a woman and once he unplugs reason will be used.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:06 PM
1

LDRs dont work.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:23 PM
4

This is called feminine living. Your JOB is to find out if she's attracted. The only way to know is if YOU approach. You then give her a series of tests Test 1: Hey how's it going (gauge response) Test 2: What's your number (gauge response) Test 3: Let's grab a drink (gauge response) Test 4: Come back to my place (gauge response) Test 5: Take off your panties (gauge response) If she gives you a no along the way then you know she isn't physically attracted and you go find another girl. Girls that…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:59 PM
6

No wonder you feel depressed - you are trying to live like a woman in a man's body. You make yourself pretty and wait for women to approach you! LOL It's the otehr way around. Men approach women. Congrats on being a good looking guy. Now that you're older you're gonna have to grow a pair and approach. Check out the sidebar, book of pook, and look up the anti-dump manual. Read BANG and Day BANG by ROOSH. Don't worry about women approaching you. You have to do it.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:00 PM
1

Being assertive commanding respect and being stoic are aspects of TRP that will serve you well at work. Being sexual cocky and flirty is not yet you benefit if you charm others. Having options is very important- keep an eye out for other internal teams and other companies to join to keep your bargaining power high.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:47 AM
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I'm that case practice with other social groups. Find others who are more like minded. Work on yourself continuously but don't work on changing others
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:12 PM
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I know a fitness model who's 5 9" 165 lbs 6 to 8 percent bf. Its a great place to be natural. Stand proud.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 08:57 PM
1

Yeah dude stand by your choice. Avoid uninterested women is a big mantra here for a reason. You can and should pass on sex often especially if the girl isn't giving you a fair price for your investment or you want someone more devoted. If you are turning down 99 percent of women don't complain about getting laid but the odd early next for your own interests is very important.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 08:55 PM
1

Do what I did. Show up well dressed muscles out loud and fun. Pop in tease around leave. Charm guys too
/r/askTRP25/09/16 08:41 PM
1

Depending on your brand the friend is trying to coco block you.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 05:46 PM
1

You were there - guess you know how shit went down. If you want to learn more here are my thoughts. There are some more problems with your recent reply that show me you don't understand the sidebar. You state If anything man, it had the effect on her that I would have wanted. and then you go on to say: I didn't fail shit, because I didn't have intentions. Wanting to have an effect on her IS having an intention. Though you're in denial you want this girl to want you. When we don't use nuclear opt…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 09:42 PM
1

Kiddo is another version and you failed it.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 06:35 PM
1

Betas hate this one weird trick to really see what women think of you. Read the "Bitch Test" to REALLY understand what's going on with your sex life: https://archive.is/DQlRD
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:47 PM
1

So let me get this straight you are scraping the bottom of the barrel. If my nephew wanted to fuck my girlfriends daughter hed be lowered on the totem pole. Let's say I need to drop my gf well now my nephews involved. Complicates shit. If my nephew wanted to fuck my plates daughter idgaf
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:10 PM
1

girls are BORED. BINGO. THere is no room for BB. There is no room for AB. There is only AF
/r/AlreadyRed23/09/16 03:51 PM
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Many prefer dating one girl at a time. Do it out of preference not out of "guilt." Most girls are not LTR material - it's because they can't be faithful, weaponize sex, and rapidly lose desire. Spinning plates mitigates these risks - if you're horny there's always girl 2/3/4 on speed-dial if girl 1 is busy/bitchy/dumped you. You can go on without missing a beat.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:22 PM
2

Don't let it be a rejection buffer. Approaching girls as a friend to avoid rejection. You also have to go for it to really grow. Dealing with rejection productively is key to building confidence. Avoiding rejection is key to stagnating.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:12 PM
2

If you practice being a friend you won't learn to be a lover. Practice how you play. Go approach more.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:24 PM
6

Lol. The only really serious error here is cutting off your workout early. To get ice cream. Priorities man. If you want to be a sperg on women do it without missing workouts. You can maximize your ineffectiveness by telling them you're ok w them seeing other guys and then losing your shit when they do. Frustration tears are your friend but keep them subtle.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:03 PM
2

If it makes you feel any better all women are like that. Ltr is hardcore no doubt about it
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:08 PM
6

It varies. For the most part visual attraction and hormonal attraction don't overlap but goddamn when it does it's better. I think the key is to date younger. Was never disappointed with 18 and 19 year olds - always hot sweaty and dirty. Their sweat smells so good. And to chime in worst sex was with tall blonde model material. Looked amazing in photos - nexted at first sign of clinginess.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:09 AM
1

If the change is real internally all else will follow. Find your inner masculine voice. Boost testosterone if you can (get low bf eat less sugar lift heavy take creatine zinc supplements vitamin a and d). I've been an ltr since may after playing the girl for a year. Betafication is real. Went out to wing for a friend and had a blast and remembered what I was like last fall. Ddoesnt hurt to have women swooning on you once in a while.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:55 AM
1

New grunts usually carry an extra load its standard
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:23 AM
1

Logistics plus frequent approaches is 60% of the game. If you meet minimal physical standards its 80 %
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:19 AM
3

It's because you're flirting with a girl who's not interested
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:16 AM
1

She absolutely is banging other guys. Take it from a guy who's been playing college girls for the last 3 years. August and September are prime hunting season. Most players spin up 4 to 6 plates for the winter and recycle when the snow recedes in March.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:35 AM
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She doesn't miss you at all. She doesn't give a fuck about you. You're a used salami in the trash to her. Don't look at this creature with warmth. What she needs to know is if you care because she needs to know her own value for future transactions with other customers. If you don't give a fuck about her then her own self image will plummet. Any response from you now will convince her that her pussy is worth its weight in gold. Block number no contact.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:34 PM
2

Taking creatine has helped me. It's a hormonal issue your body needs to change along with your mind.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:26 PM
7

Dude delete the disclaimer.it has the opposite effect shitlord
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 01:27 PM
9

Great question. The truth is TRP is for recovering betas. Broken men who lash out and hate their lives. Men who deeply hate women for not treating them how they're ego desires. I TRP gives you a chance to fix yourself but there's no guarantee. The anger phase is brutal.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 11:05 AM
1

Be 35. Act 19. Over think things
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:08 PM
4

you're gonna need to leave town and go fuck other women. no way around it
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:54 AM
1

Only thing to do is bulk while maintainingi low bodyfat. What's going on w your face? Cancer?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:36 AM
1

ONS only mate
/r/askTRP20/09/16 05:43 PM
2

That's an extremely uncommon experience. The biggest guys in my gym are the warmest. Joined their social media club and they are always encouraging each other and newcomers.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:12 PM
2

Go out and practice. Get used to it. Worth the effort. Its a three some. Where are you good at picking up girls? Use that medium. Parties? Daygame?
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:55 PM
1

Beta bucks is a provider. Sometimes it's money but it's primarily emotional support.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 06:10 PM
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The girl is spouting lies. Not on purpose. Its just what it feels good to say when you're a woman. Not enough introspection or experience to give advice. The truth is the girl isn't getting turned on. She soesnt know why and comes up with a reason. She thinks its because she's not comfortable but the truth is that she's not attracted. The reality is that comfort building behaviors are the opposite of attraction building behavjors.to be attractive be less invested than her be cocky funny frustrat…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 03:28 PM
2

Lol. Like you've actually fucked girls and know how to game. Its not all about you. People are different from you. Get over your own dry cunt
/r/askTRP17/09/16 03:24 PM
1

I wish I was here to read TRP when I was 20. I lost my virginity at 21 and am very pleased about how it went. So my plan to loose my virginity is to "date down" and try and find a girl who is more simple, but I am not sure if I should loose my virginity to some club whore either. Perfect. The first time should NOT be with an extremely attractive girl that you can barely get. You can become very strongly attached if you're not careful. Here's how it went for me: Sophomore year girl messages me on…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:22 PM
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We get back, I don't really make a move as I'm enjoying my time. Face the truth man. A good time can be had after you go balls deep. This was hesitation and fear not having a good time
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:06 PM
1

Me: I'm watching the BEST show EVER right now... We should watch it together sometime. I thought SHE said this
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:01 PM
2

Love has nothing to do with it. Snipers miss often.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:58 PM
1

To put things in perspective most girls that do a ONS don't spend the following day feeling ashamed. They spend it bragging to their girlfriends waiting for the thirsty texts to flow in. Then they read them out loud and make fun of the guys. The more you care the harder they laugh. Options are 1. Play it super cool and wait for her to reach out. 2. Minimal text. Few words as possible "drinks sat 9pm Bauhaus"
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:29 PM
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Talk to the police and file assault charges at this point. We don't live in a world of honor and fighting back only a world where you can get in serious legal trouble. The people you were with are now your acquaintances not your friends, they didn't have your back. You should learn to fight in self-defense.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:13 PM
52

Whenever I see an incentive for sperm jacking I don't leave any soldiers behind. Carry in carry out.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:06 PM
2

Plenty of plates will be exclusive. Keep searching and enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 01:57 PM
1

Also listen to your body. maybe your body doesnt like this girl for whatever reason.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 10:45 PM
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You're at a bar hitting on a girl. She says no she has a boyfriend. 5 minutes later your wingman goes for it and he gets the girl. Week later same scenario differnt girl, you win wingman loses. Who's better, you or your wingman? Neither women ain't shit. As seen from the above example you can lie to them to get laid and it'll work. A guy could lie to her, bang her, and cost you the lay. It's a game. Don't take it personally bruhder.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 10:25 PM
1

Man to woman interaction should be a continuous stream of evaluations from you to her. You give approval or disapproval. She entertains.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 06:28 PM
0

This is a great point. Look at New money vs old money. Big tech powerhouses upended the world over and over again. Industrial age long ago brought about Carnegie Rockefellers etc. Today zuckerberg gates ...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:13 PM
1

Solitary confinement is a form of torture. You don't "need" a best friend but some form of light hearted easy going social interaction is great for mental health
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:58 PM
2

Make a habit of going to parties and hosting them for acquaintances. Talk to strangers often. Go out solo. Put in 2/3 the effort They put in at most. If they give you 3 cupcakes you give them 2 bagels. If they give you three compliments they get two.They probably won't redeem themselves and that's okay.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:52 PM
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If you're being used be absent. I have regularly dropped friends that are leeches and used the free time to make more friends. Some of the leeches began contributing and worked their way back in. Others disappeared. Problem solved. If you have friends that don't invite you to things you dont invite them to things either. If someone flakes they don't get a second chance. Must be enforced. Always give 2/3. Very few can be trusted to reciprocate 1:1. While you do this do it warmly with a smile and …
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:18 PM
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Women are so susceptible to illusion and perception it's really a shame to see a man use women to measure their own self worth or take it personally when a woman chooses another man.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:52 PM
1

Nevada: Las vegas prostitutes
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:45 PM
4

Be uninvested and indifferent.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:23 PM
2

Good luck man. Lack of comfort is a far better place to be than lack of atraction. Just remember that funny vs offended is your frame vs her's.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:55 PM
11

Girls love strange. American in western Europe is good. Australian in US is golden...
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:28 PM
3

Play a little more aloof on the next one.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:27 PM
1

I let her talk and vent. I stayed stoic. I told her I am the same person I always was. Yes, I can be a dick sometimes. Yes, I can be cocky. And maybe I was rude to her brother but not intentionally. I told her that she has been extremely disrespectful as of late and it wasn't like her and I was not going to put up with it. She said the above were the reasons why. You are using logic and reason to deal with an emotional creature. Tread carefully. The typical gut-instict is to talk it out and reas…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:10 PM
1

Lol. Come back when you've fucked 100 girls. Despite the odds I was pulling on tinder and okc consistently. I'm not thunder chad. If you learn to play and win a few times you'll realize that online dating is ultimately for finding low quality women. In makeup they're alright but they'll be lacking in more than a few departments. Also low quality men. It's okay to start there and practice. Its okay to start with low smv. As you improve the tables turn and you'll see that soon none of the girls on…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:04 PM
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If it's a shit test here are some one liners: "While you're at it get your nose done too" "Might take more than just one boob, try both." "Good idea! They won't notice anything missing." Hell even if it's not a shit test have some fun with this. If she wants to swing, let her swing away! You can have a good laugh at her expense. "I wasn't going to be the one to bring it up, glad you did" "Get the kind that dispenses ice cold lagers, not the exploding tit sharks" "Ass and titties ass an titties h…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:53 AM
2

She was testing your investment relative to yours your neediness wit emotional stability and masculinity in one hit. Learn to ignore their beauty. See 16 commandments of poon
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:04 AM
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You used a beta line. she shit tested you. the end.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:26 PM
7

Lol
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:21 PM
1

Way too obvious here.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:45 PM
1

Early in the relationship when attempting actual sex, wound found it was almost impossible due to her experiencing pain. We figured it was vaginismus after researching online. She essentially refused to try and fix it. She had an "oh well" attitude; telling me she would talk to her gyno about it, but never has and refuses to go to specialists to get a professional opinion. I even got her kits to help with it 2 years ago, but she never took it seriously. She said she never wanted to talk about th…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:36 PM
1

Why not go light? Can get pretty far with light pranks. Its a very masculine to feminine interaction to be the one doing the teasing. Its basic flirting. You tease she giggles. If she tease you it should only be some of the time not 1 to 1. She's your woman not your pal. Hold frame and amusednmastery
/r/askTRP13/09/16 11:12 PM
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3 days is not a long time since she was yelling and arguing. Maintain the NC until she apologizes. Ignore a text if you have to. Realize you have some pretty heavy oneitis and are relying on her to feel good. Whether it's this girl or the next it's you that needs to be fixed and nexted - the you that still treats women the wrong way. How is the sex-life? Is she still getting wet? She is not your friend. She's your woman. Don't treat her like a friend, don't burden her with your need for attentio…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:28 PM
1

Number of times girls have told me they were just looking for friends on tinder in 2014: 8 Number I hooked up with: 1 In 2015: 5 Number I hooked up with: 5
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:37 PM
1

The number one factor for getting laid is how often you approach. It's how you will get game, and abundance mentality, and the right attitude.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:57 AM
1

Work on your amused mastery. slightly louder than me Be louder He proceeded to basically socially dominate me by hijacking conversations, Very common. Work on this. Keep speaking and speak loudly and slowly until you finish your setence. Constantly say things like woah woah a lil eager there buddy or hold your horses or whats the matter can't hold back your profound thoughts challenging me physically (constantly asking if I wanted to "race" him in a foot race) Start feeling him up a bit. Put you…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:41 PM
1

Go out and flirt with a dozen girls or so
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:51 PM
2

Sometimes things don't work out and it's time to move on. What is the length of the silent treatment? I'm assuming it's more than 8 hours. You wouldn't be worked up over a three hour delay would you?
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:51 PM
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You need to tell your dad you need help getting her out of your life. You are only 17 this is a pretty serious issue to deal with, I don't recommend you do this on your own.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:47 PM
1

What should I do to find a girl who will be patient with my sexual struggles who won't go around telling all her friends about my limp dick? Hey I went too long and too hard and broke my penis. Were gonna have to do other things until I heal. Don't keep your laptop in your bedroom anymore to prevent lmo
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:30 AM
2

Some of the girls are really on the same page and are looking for the adventure. Generally girls on vacation who are plate material fit the bill. You can feel it out case by case. Out of maybe 8 or 9 ONS felt pretty great about half of them. Only felt bad about two. If there's genuine attraction and it's a logistics thing im all for it. I'm more likely to avoid a ons of the girl is less attractive or likely to have a high count.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:30 PM
0

"That's fine I'll just make you want to"
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:10 PM
1

Monk mode is cutting vices. Cut drugs porn games cut excessive dating and eating out and drinking. Do socialize and make friends. Do get to know everyone. The occasional ons is fine. 16 hr dates no. Its not called hermit mode.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:03 PM
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Ask her if she knows how to cook clean change diapers and can offer a virgin pussy etc. Black knight with the full misogyny hammer.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:01 PM
2

Top 1 percent wouldnt be blueballed like you. Get over yourself embrace failure and learn
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:59 PM
1

One date is just warm-up. Get more. Crash and burn on dates till you get it
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:06 PM
2

Cut body fat lifted changed clothes
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:05 PM
3

Every girl will do a ons with the right guy.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:01 PM
3

Their methods totally work for sure
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:54 PM
5

well done. get busy, spend time with friends. learn to enjoy your own company. and then gftow
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:23 PM
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When getting started I watched a few hours of rsd. Two years later it's like looking at clowns. Yeah you can see they've got game and have fun but their value hasnt changed a whole lot.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 01:16 PM
3

Escalate gay shit at him. He's probably just horny
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:38 PM
13

It's because women are wired differently. Once you get a better understanding of their mechanisms you see it's been the other way all around. Even pre-trp I had a pretty big realization that took me from virgin to a strong of short term relationships. Old model: friend -> boyfriend -> sex New model: sex -> friend -> boyfriend. I had been going about it all backwards.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 10:49 PM
1

A big hug a pat on the butt and a few light hearted jokes will go far. Don't open up the beta will scare them off that early.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:31 PM
1

Don't take it personally. Detach yourself from female approval as best as you can and oneitis will rarely appear. Think of yourself as a lemonade salesman. If a customer doesn't buy it could be because they're not thirsty in a rush on their period allergic to citrus having bad diarreah out of money lacking time or didn't like the color of your shoes. Maybe she's not in the mood that day. If no customers are buying then consider mixing it up. Don't say "damm she rejected me" Say "ooh looks like s…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:28 PM
1

I used to worry that I want gonna make enough money or be good looking enough to find a high quality woman and start a family. I felt like a loser often. Realizing the nature of women and embracing the redpill showed me it was much easier to get sex than I thought. I didn't have to be rich. I didn't even have to be that good looking. If I lifted and cut my body fat and practiced talking to women it would be plenty. It was far easier than trying to become perfect and the pool flowed in. I had 2-5…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:23 PM
1

You punish bad behavior: senseless drama by withdrawing. If she wants to spend tjme with you she'll learn to stop creating drama.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:59 PM
2

Don't argue. Listen to her talk for 60 seconds. Repeat back how she's feeling and leave the room. If she does it again leave for the gym. Rinse and repeat until she stops.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:51 PM
3

To clarify its an offensive strategy employed by cheaters. They accuse you first and create mountains of drama that acts like a smokescreen to prevent you from noticing any changes in their behavior.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:12 PM
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I think the real lesson here is that women do indeed have strong feelings for beta bucks. This is important you do not want to confuse strong feelings of jealousy possesiveness or investment with genuine sexual desire. A girl can cry for days over you not really want to fuck you and simultaneously receive sperm injections from alpha fuxks. Because girls will imitate genuine sexual desire to fool you be careful.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:52 PM
3

Be selfish. You're a corporate executive on business travel and you've decided to make regular accomodations at hotel pussy. Early on the hotel was refrshingly quaint clean and unoccupied. The staff spared no expense in pampering you wining and dining you and attending to your every whim. Then suddenly the hotel started looking at your calendar and noticed you weren't coming in as regularly as they desired. So they start accusing you of staying in other hotels. The manager on duty calls you a pi…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:47 PM
11

When she's not ready in five you say looks like this is a bad time. I'm heading out see ya. Then you leave and delete her number.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:17 PM
1

Mystery is good.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:26 AM
20

Her words are senseless from here on out.watch the actions
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:59 AM
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No no absolutely no. Talk to a lawyer pronto. If she's already suggesting this she's already ready to divorce. What she's done is a huge ducking slap in the face. Get angry. Then act rationally protect your assets and divorce.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:58 AM
3

You just posted this a week ago.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:28 PM
9

I've been designing tattoos and inking for about 23 years. This one's on me: http://imgur.com/a/y4HNh
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:22 PM
1

in MRP they turn it around because they ahve to. Here you can easily walk away. If you want sex >5 x per week it's way way easier if there's more than one girl.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 11:45 AM
1

If something's already scheduled it's a bit awkward to book something before then unless -- it's a show -- it's an activity that only happens on saturdays -- you have a raging hard on and are out of options
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:42 AM
2

Either way not LTR material and you know that so carry on
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:08 AM
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Big picture looks like things are on track - this is just a minor beta blimp so don't sweat it. Don't sweat the girl, don't sweat the shit-tests, don't replay it in your head. There's a kink in your process, and you'll iron it out for next time. Cruising from 10,000 ft first thing that jumps out is that she's still too old. For 2+ kids aim for 21-25. Younger the better for fertility and health of the baby. That way she has 6-12 months to earn LTR status from you, and another 1-2 years minimum to…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:03 PM
4

If a girl is trying to lock down a man, we tell him it's okay to say no. It's also okay for her to not want an LTR. If you want an LTR, you're gonna have to start seeing other girls - no way around it. Your FWB has been nice to have around, but she doesn't see you as an LTR candidate- so accept it. You're just a FWB to her. You may be tempted to tell her "hey i'm looking for something more serious, i'll be dating other girls" but it's probably not necessary. Switch your current FWB to once a wee…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:41 PM
12

Great opportunity. Work out hard. Get used to saying yes. If you're tired and want to sleep and these guys invite you out, go anyway. Cut waste from your life and focus on working hard, learning, and having fun away from the internet.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:59 PM
6

Ever since about a year ago my libido has gone to shit,I went from almost nonstop fapping and jizzing literally 7-9 times a day to basically sex almost never being on my mind, i'd be lucky to fap and ejaculate more than twice a week now It takes many months (3-9+) to recover from issues with porn. Without sexual contact with women, it's even harder. Porn is just kinda boring now, the only thing that really works is weed but I don't want to depend on it, I can get my dick up, but anything sexual …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:59 PM
1

If you are just doing a cold approach - no IOIs - 25% number close isn't too terrible. Have you read Day bang by Roosh? Go in subtle - try a bit of indirect game. If you lift and you're built there will be plenty of sexual tension from the get-go. I follow the outline from roosh - make a bunch of innocent chit chat - flirt back if they do first, and find some plausible excuse to hang out again. I often do not push for the number. So if you're getting number 1/4 time - let's say number gets you a…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:55 AM
1

I found daygame on campus to be very fruitful. Haven't done nearly as many daygame approaches as you - it's a small environment so I would basically approach randomly out of the blue once in a while. Never same spot two days, not even two weeks in a row. No pattern. Would often be out with a good looking buddy approaching with me. Social proof - at least one person thinks you're not a weirdo. Usually it would be part of a walk somewhere I was headed anyway I only approached ~10-15 girls/month vi…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:41 AM
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I always respond with "don't worry about it," or "why would you need to know that?" because honestly, what is knowing that going to do for her. So basically failing the shit test. Keep your frame tight with a witty retort. The classics are: "More than jesus would prefer" "Ooooh didn't take you for the jealous type" Count on your fingers, then her fingers, then look flustered start over and tell her you just can't keep track If you want to fail the shit test again, take it seriously. There is NO …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:15 AM
1

the world is always changing. keep adapting.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:09 AM
1

Check out book of pook what every skinny guy should know. The game changes when you change.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:33 AM
1

Once you're not following other people's plans for you they'll try to diverts your course. Don't fret. Its not personal.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:09 PM
1

This is good. If skinny escalatr hard to be sexual. If jacked back off because theyre already wet.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:04 PM
6

You were too pushy/needy. Folloe the 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 05:07 AM
2

No. Wait for her to NOT text you. Here's how it went down You: Hi i'm /u/HackerLife, saw you on instagram Her: oh hi! (In her mind: ooooh im almost famous!) You: Check out how great I am in these 5-7 texts I really like you do you like me? (Translation: I'm a regular average orbiter) Her: hahah we have so much in common (In her mind: sweet another backup option! Now when I get sent home after a good railing I have someone else to text) You: I want to take you out this weekend so we can get to kn…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:25 PM
1

Be 3x as loud and use more emotional energy and say exactly the same things at half the rate.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:17 PM
2

Started doing this recently. Very very helpful
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:16 PM
1

Indirect game has a place. You want to use it when you're already high value, regularly get laid, and find yourself in a room full of girls with miniskirts and tons of make-up. Use it to play them off-each other where they compete for your attention. You're at the stage where you barely get laid. It's not the time for indirect game. It's time to learn to be a man.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:11 PM
1

The two most specific characterizations that I found I share with INTJs are possessing a sense of "idealistic-cynicism" and a lack of success with relationships. While it's undiagnosed, I also speculate that I'm on the high-functioning end of the autistic spectrum (Asperger's), which if true, would also offer a great deal of insight as to why I've had such a difficult time with girls. From one INTJ to another (though i'm E/I) lack of success with relationships has very little to do with being an…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:06 PM
5

Girls love irrational exuberant self love. Theyre in awe. It's unfathomable strength versus their constant mood swings irrational insecurities and the ebb and flow of thr need for validation. Your ability to generate validation is a precious resource. Dont let anyone hijack it.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:32 PM
7

I had a wonderful plate for about 10 months. Had some pretty great boners for her from the get-go. 2 months in she says shes gonna cut her hair would i dump her? I said no and she cut it. Then every few months she kept trimming it shorter and shorter until it was a boycut. She cleaved her attractiveness in half. Just be honest with her about it - don't pretend you're okay with it. she wouldn't be okay with you shaping your head into that of a turd. you put in effort each and every day - dress we…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 12:05 PM
2

It's an area worth investigating. Is giving good dick necessary? Lot's of advice includes making her cum hard and often to keep the girl, and lots of advice recommends focusing on your own pleasure. When it comes to sex many women enjoy being treated like objects. Sounds like it works for you with this girl. My question is do girls actually stick around for personality/alpha qualities ? Until they hit the wall they won't give up chasing alpha. Even then it's more like a 3-7 year hiatus until the…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 10:31 AM
1

Get a part time job to limit yourbwanking
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:02 AM
1

Hey got laid at least good job. Are you following vin DeCarlos escalation guide? Hows your fitness and style? Six pack? Big arms and legs small waste? Well groomed face? Are you fun?
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:24 AM
2

If you could fuck girls like her 30 lbs ago, imagine what kind of nice pussy you'll find today. She's not up to your standards. Ignore
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:58 PM
1

You have to be very high energy and fun with it.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:49 PM
3

/u/Samarui that sucks must've felt pretty horrible. I've had girls say things about my height, my hair, my clothes, the pores on my face, etc and yet I could still somehow sense they wanted to have sex. They just were insecure- what would her friends think if she was hooking up with a chill guy instead of some 10/10 instagram famous local model. I generally agree and amplify the best I can and if they see that I'm okay with whatever they're unsure about - they're ok with it too. "You need a nose…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:48 PM
2

Remember to be covert. Wanna maintain plausible deniability. If you make other plans don't say "rather just you and I" leave her wondering. Did a hotter girl show up? Is he not into me? What's going on? if you let her know OVERTLY that her actions displeased you it gives her ammunition.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:11 AM
1

Don't forget to
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:09 PM
1

"Would you still date me if I got fat?" No. 2 years later still not fat. Hmmm
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:02 PM
1

You have zero abundance
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:37 PM
1

Getting in jail isnt
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:36 PM
1

You're delusional if you think violence is ok
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:36 PM
2

Odds are shes not telling the wholr story. Shes a chubby manipulative person looking for validation
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:33 PM
1

Bingo. The truth is not what she says. The truuth is the woman has lost all her feminine qualities. Look at her chubby arms. Id be surprised if he wasn't getting some side action. Girl is here for more validation because nothing will fill the infinte abyss that is her cunt.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:32 PM
-8

Surprise surprise you're slutty and chubby as hell. Might as well show your tits at this point
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:22 PM
1

Go low effort. Is this your first rodeo? Wow didn't realize you were in middle school
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:18 AM
6

How dare you!? Most women are sluts! Ask around campus to get a feel for which house is the sluttiest - they have reputations for a reason. Then make sure you follow general guidelines: 1.) LTR for reasons other than sex 2.) Make sure she earns it through nonsexual investment and effort 3.) Screen for red flags 4.) You're on the young end for an LTR. DOn't let it interfere with career building and having fun. If it gets stressful drop it! If you have feelings and they are boo boos on your soul e…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:14 AM
1

Tell her you lost your job, found out your sperm don't swim right / have a genetic disease, baby talk on the phone with your Mom etc
/r/askTRP31/08/16 01:34 AM
2

2 years of plates only. You're broken and need to fix yourself. 2 years got me far but im still not fully there and in an LTR. Would do 3 years a second timr around.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:29 PM
-2

Not how this works. Keep lurking till you can post
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:08 PM
3

Hey man Id completely chill for a bit. Go have fun away from girls for a few days. Take a week of no contact w women outside work. The problem is you care way too much. I say it because I've been in similar mental states. Taking a break and enjoying myself has been key.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:45 PM
3

Already happens mate. Get to that top 10%
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:46 PM
2

Then she texts me again at 5:00, telling me she was naughty. Apparently she got really drunk, got on okc, quickmatched some random dude and had a ONS with him. How is your dick not repulsed?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:45 PM
3

I think the problem isn't her N-count it's that you're not getting the kind of sexual interest form her that you'd like. I don't know what the right thing to do is - sometimes it's better to take the L and walk away, and rarely you could turn things around but odds are it's unlikely.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:41 PM
2

Trp is diluted by the masses. A lot of the posts are made by purple men still unplugging. Its not a conspiracy. . Look at all the posts about honor and being a gentleman LOL.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:23 PM
1

Be yourself. Hmm where have I heard that before.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 01:08 PM
1

What r u at
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:20 AM
1

If you read comments below you'll see i took into account the 25lb limit. He won't hit that if he doesnt overeat so fat will come w the muscle. My 1repmax are squat 2xbw bench 1. 7xbw, dl 2.5bw and im at 11-12% bf. Im about 10lbs in bw shy of roid free genetic potential based on height and frame. Any tips on getting to 6-8%bf?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:48 AM
3

Now imagine a world where people no longer promise monogamy to each other - or at the very least the government has no say in how your property gets distributed.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:13 AM
7

Let's not make thr mistake of believing we should act as gentlemen. We should behave in our best interests. If shielding your dick from STDs or a used up pussy makes you look like a gentleman so be it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:37 PM
1

Hes so far underweight that it will be easy. 20 lbs muscle 20 lbs fat
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:26 PM
2

I've seen the same thing you've seen. I think the way to enjoy it is to just be silly with them. Keep yourself from getting attached - have sex have a bit of a chat enjoy a beer or two and go your separate ways early and often. If a girl is misbehaving I tease her about it and will even playfully spank her from time to time. Don't underestimate how much they crave authority - be that for them.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:00 PM
23

I'm sorry man that really sucks. Sounds like a godawful crowd to hang out with. It really doesn't matter because in 18 months from now you'll be surrounded by much higher quality folks. At your height your genetic potential at 10-12% bodyfat is about 220 lbs. In a year you can easily get to 170 lbs which will look much better. Weigh out your food, count calories and lift - do 5x5 to get started. Please get your weight up. It's easiest if you cut contact with these people. Delete gf from fb, bloc…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:43 PM
1

Would you ever let a prostitute kiss your children on the mouth? No. If you could find another girl just like her - except that she wouldn't be a prostitute would you? You'll fall in love again man - drop her. Edit: Don't talk to her about it. Don't tell her why. Just go no contact.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:39 PM
2

Anything edgy will go a long way - you want to get out of the boyfriend zone. Those ear stretchers are boyfriend disqualifiers but they also signal openness to casual sex. From the girls perspective the guy with the ear stretcher will almost definitely not turn down casual sex - and since he's never gonna be a boyfriend it doesn't matter if she puts out right away or not. Be the fuck-around-with guy. Don't be the potential boyfriend.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:35 PM
13

To give you a little more background this kink is deeply embedded into the psyche of many women. Growing up men and women separate from their parents after a certain stage. Most sons around the ages of 8-12 naturally distance themselves from their mothers. They no longer want to be hugged or coddled and ask for more space and refuse kisses on the cheek. "Stop embarassing me mom" is a pretty typical line. The son leads the distancing when he's ready most of the time. For girls it's different. At …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:31 PM
9

Drop them. It's weird how men get when you become a threat to them. I had to drop two guys over the past year. Just gradually hung out less and less. Lots of fun people out there so don't leave time in your schedule for annoying insecure men.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:23 PM
2

Yes it works. You can learn to be attractive and how to talk to girls. Dont pay for it because you don't need to.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:44 PM
2

They get a physical repulsion where they feel the need to throw up. It's not like a handshake. Beta sperm makes them disgusted.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:44 PM
17

> The danger is allowing her behavior to cause you to waste time. If you react to her in any way, make it an effort to improve yourself, not control her and stay your same old paranoid self. This is the key. The women come and go.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:05 PM
9

They are so used to getting rejected by hot guys their egobhas built a defense mdchanism for it. That's what you're experiencing.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:27 PM
3

Ignore and move on. Shes not sexually attracted to you so whats the point
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:13 PM
1

Her response seems weird. Your response seems normal.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:58 PM
1

Maybe we should travel the world and spread the alpha seed far and wide. Very very wide.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:28 PM
2

The question is what is different between her and all other woman on the world. The difference is how you price yourself and your commitment. Marriage is your ultimate prize and she shit on it. The rest of the world takes this to mean your commitment has no value. If you keep seeing her it's true and high valur women will avoid you. Casual sex with someone else raises your value. Now noone has your commitment. From the outside world you're unattainable and must be special. Your ex wife really mi…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:19 PM
5

He said you need to upgrade your women. You've downgraded by sleeping with her. What you've done is settled for less. Your actions show yourself you deserve a scumbag woman. Change that.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:52 PM
2

Please explain how being exclusive is not equivalent to bf/gf?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:41 PM
1

This "friend" of yours does he realize he's fucked whether or not he gets married? He needs to get his shit together and lead his career and his relationship
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:22 PM
4

9/10 maybe even a solid 10. A used up stretched out single mother thats 27 and is near or post wall is not even an 8. 7 at best. Cmon dude. Get yourself some real plates some hot tight 18/19/20 year olds.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:17 PM
1

Being short is a disadvantage. Being bald compounds the issue and it sure sucks. Im not much taller than you and I've gotten morr tail than most of my acquaintances will ever get in their whole lives. Its because they live in fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of working out and counting calories. Fear of success.its easier for them to cuddle up their smarphones on the couch and watch anime.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:28 PM
2

Yell
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:24 PM
1

Imagine hiring this guy and then telling him no at work. It would threaten your livelihood and maybe prevent advancing. Hes gonna be a bitch about it. Not worthy of your help.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:24 PM
1

Honest assessment: how often do you sleep with girls as hot as either? I hit on the hotter friend got rejected hard then went for her more attainable friend got the number and closed later. A few girls have introduced me to their friends too.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:20 PM
1

I got the how tall are you shit test loads. Passing it got me laid half the timr. Then I put on 20 lbs of muscle slept with 20 more girls and the height issue becamr inconsequential.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:17 PM
3

It's a game. Theres a mechanism to her charisma. You can break it down and analyze it- it's a tool or weapon tuned and honed via practice on hundreds of men. Underneath the facade you have the same shallow drives all people have. It's skin deep.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:13 PM
1

50/50
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:07 PM
3

Lol IOIs are involuntary too. Learn to read girls
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:36 PM
1

I once had three girls go after me at a party I hosted. I slept with 2/3 over a few weeks and one found the others hair on my jacket. The third I rejected because I wasnt attracted to her enough and wanted her on my social circle. Before the party thr girls i slept w were lukewarm but the competition got them horny. Girls that dont respond to texts hit me up when they see me on dates w others Ive even made out and gotten numbers of new girls while out w hot girls. I do it on the sly on thr dance…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:35 AM
0

New job
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:21 PM
3

Honestly don't stop it. Let them flood the software world with women. Many or most of the first programmers were women because it was a natural progression from typing up notes on the typewriter. Grace Hopper made the first compiler. Plenty of women can be good coders.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:15 PM
2

If she offers blowjobs or equivalent she cares. If she refuses those you will know for sure shes no longer attracted to you. You may have to end it. Her being snappy is not because of work. Its because shes irritated that she's not single for the other men shes encountering. AF dont get treated badly when their women are tired.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:08 PM
1

Sounds like its fine. A good approach is to lead. Not im free wed and fri but "drinks wed 7pm Bentleys"
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:20 PM
1

Sidebaf women and make money
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:19 PM
4

You did fuck her right? Its her job to form a relationship your jobs already done. You'll stand out by ignoring her beauty and caring 2/3 as much as she does
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:05 PM
0

You haven't broken her in yet. Improve your appearance fitness and general awesomeness. Take your social media to the next level. If you change your profile pic it should get at least one hundred likes. Change her world. As ive been clawing my way up submissiveness has continuosly improved.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:58 PM
1

Keep pushing
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:47 PM
5

Be antisupplicating by default. Turn up the warmth as a reward and at parties
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:12 PM
1

I think daygame is a goos choice. No alcohol involved and your brain stays sharp. If you can handle women you can handle customers.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:58 AM
6

I disagree. She bought into the narrative that men are disgusting lowly creatures who dont have rights and are useless and women are perfect angels who can do no wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:16 PM
2

Had a similar experience in a collegetown
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:13 PM
1

However props to you on getting your website and photos taken care of. That's where the real MVP moments come from.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:16 PM
2

So now its two points for team go girl
/r/askTRP23/08/16 02:41 PM
2

Its spilt. Some prefer victim status
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 08:54 AM
0

I've dealt with a man like this. He is poison. There's no fixing him. The only solution is to get in his face and yell at him. The guy I confronted cried to my face. He's no longer getting my help. He's still part of some social circles and is tolerated - and while he's laying low for now I expect him to act up when he gets a chance.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 01:13 AM
1

What's the risk of getting charged for assault in this case?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 01:09 AM
1

She didn't slap him? Thats sexual assault
/r/askTRP22/08/16 10:45 PM
3

They've both shown you that you're not a priority. Make them a lower priority in yours.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 10:08 PM
2

I had one particularly feisty plate. Always shit-testing. First time we're alone she calls me a player and I flip it on her. She admits to seeing other guys, I wink at her tell her I'm just having fun, she's just having fun and we can keep it to ourselves and have a good time. Later on we're walking home from a party and she says to me "You're not the oldest guy I'm seeing you know" I just laughed and said "You're not he youngest girl I'm seeing" and slap her ass. I didn't feel hurt or disrespec…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:56 PM
1

comments about them fucking other guys, how irresistible xyz dude is because of his ripped abs, how guy abc gives the best oral she's ever had, etc. Odds are the girl is purely shit testing you. 9/10 times the guy doesnt exist or pumped and dumped her long ago. Shes only saying it to break your frame and get you to commit or at least show jealousy. If a girl rubs other guys in my face like that she gets one warninf and then I usually soft next or hard next.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:37 PM
2

Is this business as usual for non-exclusive relationships? Yes. You have to admire the low-drama that can evolve from this type of relationship when it's handled responsibly. (Don't treat a fuckbuddy like more than a fuckbuddy). If you can be a cool guy and care little about what she does when you're not around, abundance and joy will be your way of life. Or should I work on my value more so that I am more and more frequently the most desirable option available to the plates I have spinning? If …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:42 PM
2

What helped was having a set of guiding experiences. In college ehenever i tried relationship then sex it always fell apart before sex. When I switched to sex first then relationship the relationship lasted for a while. As far as multiple partners nonexclusivity made a whole lot of sense because I didn't want to be cheated on again.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:21 PM
5

Why is it that moms so often want to be best friends with their children. Unless of course women are also children its pretty strange.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:12 PM
1

It takes energy to listen. Be loud put tons of energy into being loud and clear ti the point it costs energy to not listen to you speak.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 01:54 PM
6

For raising kids the traditional roles were better. My grandparents already experienced the negative effects of modernisation im the 50s and 60s. My great grandparents were the last generation with traditional values. Family fell apart once the men lost the incentive to perform well or were divorced out
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:22 AM
1

The difference is the BB had given up commitment. The hard next penalty is warranted
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:14 PM
1

If your goal is to get regular sex from a rotation of hot girls you shouldn't care too much. If you have a large abundance of women, then there's no need to recycle because your schedule is already filled with new girls. If there's room in your schedule the old girls should fit in easily. If your goal is to get some kind of validation, or if the way you want to live doesn't agree with girls returning next them.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:19 PM
16

It's plenty. A good rule of thumb is every third meetup is an activity - a hike, cooking something, maybe seeing a show. The time is not too important - it's mostly how they feel. If you give them a solid hour of undivided attention (phone off/out of your head) that's enough for a whole week.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:31 PM
2

Yeah man I feel you. TRP and the suggested readings taught me the buttons to push. Sometimes I feel a sense of emptiness like it's not a person but just an animal where you push the right buttons and it acts a certain way. I've molded myself to be the person that pushes the buttons and get a good amount of pleasure enjoying even the shallowness of it all. For example while out if a girl is flirting with me the LTR will fuck my brains out. Yeah I wish it was "just me" that drove her to do that, b…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 03:39 PM
1

No just push pull. Grab them pull them in and say get off me that type of thing
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 03:27 PM
1

I'm touchy feely too as a caution I still follow the 2/3 rule. You cam get them to initiate the touching if you play it right.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 11:44 AM
1

Your wife will take half of your net worth. Hookers take just what you arrange ti pay.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 11:38 AM
1

Why didn't you invite her to your place? C'mon bro
/r/askTRP21/08/16 12:40 AM
1

I pussied out in the very end when I had to go , we were in a public train station and I wanted to kiss her but I pussied out. How do I just go with the kiss? Like I see the train coming, I have to say bye, and then what do I just look her in the eyes, pull her in, and kiss? How do I do that ? First aim higher. As things are winding down invite her back to your place or offer to join her at hers. Then when you're in private go for it within the first 2 minutes. Start with a peck on the lips if y…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:38 PM
2

Shes getting AF elsewhere and wants you as a backup. Act accordingly
/r/askTRP20/08/16 11:23 PM
2

You can filter out crazies by meeting in public first. Shouldn't be a problem. Try their place as default.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:20 PM
14

She's not your gf. He's not your friend.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:36 PM
1

Workout before class knucklehead
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:56 PM
6

Funny how we're taught to not flirt or be with other girls yet there is no exhibit of submission lust and need more lush and passionate than that of a woman who feels and sees the competition
/r/askTRP20/08/16 06:18 AM
1

Men dont get pregnant and in those days no child support meant no penalty tobthe wife. Also women used to be property
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:00 PM
1

Ltr was resistant until i cut my bodyfat and i sent her one in good faith while out of town
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:54 PM
15

Treat all women as plates becausr 90% are plates only. If a girl is LTR worthy she'll prpve it to you over and over and ask for your commitment eventually. Women know a high value guy will ghost if they demand commitment too soon. You should also know that LTR worthy women won't put out on date 1 but they also won't make you wait until date 9. Therd are no virgins past 21 barring women who are likely unstable.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:40 PM
1

Target the disease not the symptom... Overuse of media is a pain avoidance strategy. Fight yourself and figure out why uoure hurting and then fix it. Change your self image first then solve the problem.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 08:19 PM
3

Just know that when you get over the hill cravings will be gone
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:43 PM
7

God forbid we accept not being special snowflakes. To shield our ego we'll buy into conspiracy theories to pray away our mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 05:39 PM
1

The only thing tjat matters is that the relationship did not make you happy. Whether she cheated or not it was not good for you so you ended it. Move on cut all contact.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:44 PM
2

Fuckin A good respose is how much do you weigh
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:29 PM
1

Thats awesome. What was it likenwhen you were young
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:21 AM
10

Hard nezt the bitch idiot
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:56 PM
3

Lol yeah right. Girls dont get intimidated by a guys count
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:54 PM
11

Two options: STFU Get it up to 7
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:53 PM
1

Yup totally getting off on riling you up. Open wide im almost ready
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:45 PM
1

Dude she's a slut. Not worthy of exclusivity but very worthy of cock
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:44 PM
-1

Hey you brought up the employee analogy mr boss man
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:39 PM
0

You tell employees where they fucked up. It's not about forgiveness.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:31 PM
14

Seeing behind the mask is the greatest gift
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 04:29 PM
4

Does she even knowbshe flaked? At the 30 min mark i let them know im headed out/leaving they apologize and then i soft next and resume like nothing happened. If I were you id let her know and then become busy very busy too busy to see her for a week
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:13 PM
12

Its a common shit test.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:07 PM
1

What was the crime.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:06 PM
1

This is mostly due to poor form. Its not you its your dates! Check out book of pook to see why you need action dates. Minigolf hiking skating pool come on bro. The dates were all dinner dates, as that's pretty much all I can do on a weeknight. (Just getting drinks doesn't work for me being sober.) Its straight from the BB handbook. Dinner is given to girls well after sex and not beforenunless necessary. Youre not getting laod because you're giving too much beta without enough alpha. Free commitm…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:31 PM
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Embrace these moments. This is not about winning flawlessly. Its about facing failure and defeat and realoty. The man who knows reality and bends it is far more dangerous than the man who lives in delusion amd changes nothing. Get rejected. Feel it in your bones. Relish the sting and fuel your growth. Believe in your potential.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:07 PM
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Hello and welcome to indirect approaches. From the outside its pretty fucking subtle. Over the shoulder opener. Plausible excuse. Sitting near them at the bar. If you get blown out noone knows.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:44 PM
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Thank you OP and all the rest. Don't forget tjat here at trp we're not trying to please women. We apprpach if We want to. Dont be a sperg and make sure to read their body language. Nothing wrong with saying well id better get going nice chatting if a girls frigid.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:38 PM
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I wouldn't recommend trying to ltr her. She thinks she can do better.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:17 PM
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If you dare find the studies disproving it and tear them down. Absorb the knowledge you believe in. If you're smart cherry pick papers that align with your professors views.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:29 PM
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Art evokes emotions. Emotions lead to tingles. Besides if you have a rugged look large muscles and a player vibe a lil poetry can be used as honey to draw them in. They'll be unable to peg you into a box and youll be a mystery.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:57 PM
1

This will limit opportunities for lays, opportunities to practice reading people, and opportunities to make friends. If you approach first then gauge interest you have better odds of succeeding socially and sexually. If a girl is instantly cold eject. If she gives you doe eyes you escalate. Don't wait for an invitation.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:49 PM
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Blasphemy. Don't wait for the IOI
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:44 PM
1

I for one embrace rejection and apprpach when I'm interested. No IOI no problem.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:43 PM
1

Who?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:41 PM
1

Id make a clean break but its your call
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:32 PM
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Maybe I've been on here for too long. I almost don't believe this post is real. So many red flags its part of Russia. Please please tell me you're a troll. Any time a girl says she needs space or is thinking of ending things it means shes moved on. Its over.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:30 PM
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She's married bro. Should've never upgraded to ltr and kept her as a plate. You need younger women for a family aim for 20-25
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:18 PM
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I don't understand the dowm votes. Its almost like guys on trp are afraid to approach so whenever someone suggests they should actually spend time talking to women dating and escalating they defensively fight you to avoid their mortal fear.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:05 PM
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I worked 35 hour weeks for about a year to date more. Was worth it. Got it out of my system developed social skills and time is spent on maintaining my chops.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:01 PM
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I've experienced the same drift towards shit testing in my LTR however I am rather strict with boundaries. I punish disrespect with withdrawal and don't argue. If she keeps bringing up a certain topic and gets her ego invested i feed her hamster bait to work her way out of it. Say very little and leave the rest to their imagination. Dont mention redpill or books youve read. Help them rationalize out of feminism which has given most women a very broken mental framework. Always be pushing her sexu…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:51 PM
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Just focus on yourself. Cultivate female friends and keep lifting and raising your status. If you get a bad gut feeling when she butt dials you at 3am you know what to do
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:27 PM
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I think there's a mountain of information for how to figure out a guy's SMV. Start with Chateau: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/ Be over 6' tall, make more than 6 figures, 6 pack, and > 6" penis puts you at pretty close to 10. If on rateme you're rated 8/9 then you're pretty much a 10. It's on you to dress well. But don't forget women get caught up in emotions and preselection. You can be a 4/5 and pull 8s with good game.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:15 PM
1

Use precise language - throw out garbage, and try to see reality. I'll evaluate some of your ideas. When I say law of attraction I mean it in a general vibratory sense. Excuse me, I'm falling into metaphysics here, probably mumbo jumbo to many. Vibratory sense Mumbo jumbo indeed. I think you're trying to say that people are antennas. Abstractly a thought would be a vibration (or an aggregation that ends up with a couple clusters or brain cells at certain frequencies) Let's not make up abstract t…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:56 PM
1

Simply explain that used ones are gross and you cant bear to touch them
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:59 PM
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Once picked up two girls at a bar and hopped to the next one. I focusrd on one she was resistant on kino. Chatted up a dude by the urinal. He followed me to my seat and hit on me hard. The girl started rubbing my cock. Holy shit lol. Preselection at work. Eas downhill from there
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:36 PM
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Hey man ive been there. First off this is pretty good news. Youre hot. Now some guys do get attention from girls however proper masculime form would have you approaching. Forget about IOIs just go for it and strike out ifbyou have to. Bet it will go well. To get gay guys off add more muscle mass and dress less preppy.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:33 PM
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Rsd is good watch 5 hrs per month tops. Remember college is a closed small environment. Dont use canned openers. Dont approach in thr same place every day. Takr advantage of bars as a place to practice.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:25 AM
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Add cold approaching to the mix. I approached 3-15 girls a week went on 1-3 dates with New Girls every week for 2 years.im in an LTR and still approach a few girls every week. I work the room st every party. A married woman asked me for my number on the plane last night. At college reuniom girls were asking me to toich their butts. Month 3 of this routine people asked if i was a psycho. Girls found me strange. Month 9 i was still a little weird but many of them werr into that. By the end of it g…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:59 PM
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You're a nonsexual bb orbiter.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:52 PM
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The mechanism is not a secret. Thoughts become words. Words become actions. Actions become habits. Habits become you. Forget about the law of attraction. Its bs. Focus on your mental image of yourself and repairing it to enable you to grasp reality and success.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:54 PM
1

Fuck their minds. Its always been about the mind fuck
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:33 PM
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Just the married ones. The single guys in town get laid maybe oncr a year or every other year. There are cadres of capable men pulling all the tail.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:32 PM
1

It adds up in my town. Lots of dead bedrooms
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:18 PM
0

Franks gay.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:03 PM
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For 40 thats awfully childish
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 06:13 PM
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The key is to be secure and confident in your own value to the point where a cheating girlfriend has the emotional register of a stolen laptop. Goddamn that stupid fucker but there are millions of newer faster laptops put there. Yeah your gf might get gamed amd cheat. But you know how to get more. Peace comes from accepting pain and preparing for it. Cant fight nature but you cam have a mental action plan ready to go
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:26 PM
1

Its par for the course. No big deal. Reduce investment and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:15 PM
1

Don't pressure her or cancel. Feel itnout in person. Theres always her other talents. If she doesn't offer a bj or equivalent soft next.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:14 PM
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Dont argue over it. Use a soft next. It shouldn't come up again. If she does listen tonher for 60s say youre not looking for something exclusive and then say youre headed to the gym and go no contact.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:07 PM
2

Less is more with kino
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:43 PM
3

If it makes you feel any better 80% of men also aren't getting laid
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:57 PM
2

That's tricky one to interpret. It becomes more obvious if you break it down. It looks like a comfort test, but I bet it's a shit test. She's breaking rapport, attacking you with drama. Some guys think that a girl's jealousy should be assuaged with comfort immediately. For plates, especially in the first month everything should be treated as a shit test. If you break away from the AF persona you present too early the relationship will crash and burn in a few months.This is because appeasing them…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:34 PM
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Mayve you're just into sluts. Not a bad way to go
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:45 AM
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Tits or gtfo
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:31 AM
1

Maybe 10mo is enough for your dick tobget bored. Mix it up. Could be her hygiene or breath smelling bad. Keep her away from garlic etc
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:27 AM
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Did you xome here to be a dildo or to ask ifbits a red flag? No its not a red flag
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:01 AM
1

Heres my deal. I dont rub it im their face i drop a big hint on date 1 and drop small hints so they know im not their boyfriend. My favorite hint is leaving an unlocked phone out so they can see a busy schedule. Some have freaked out but thats less than 5%.i usually shame them for violating my privacy.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:47 PM
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Welcome to trickle truth. Another four months and youll learn about the other time she cheated. Drop her ass.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:41 PM
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Good women are made not born
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 06:10 PM
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Why do you want to give her comfort? Looks to me like everything is going fine. Only reward her with your time and more aloof AF. Give her comfort when she needs it
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:42 PM
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Thats a nuclear level shit test. Its a hop and a skip away from open cuckholding. Punish harshly. Probably downgrade.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:41 PM
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Its most likely just a shit test. Girls play little games sometimes because it shifts thebpower in the relationship. Bust through it and you come out a champ. Its not personal but standard fare par for the course.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:39 PM
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Then get the fuck out of here
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 03:38 AM
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How did you find out? I dont blame you. Big social repercussions if people find out your ltr is a cam girl.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:50 PM
1

Ive felt that way in the thros of porn addiction. Personally ive found sex with women more pleasurable overall. Id say hey get good at game get really good at fucking and then decide.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:29 PM
1

I grew up with good parents and they still drive me nuts. My expectation of them to keep their houses clean and get their shit together are totally too high.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:22 PM
1

Show me your tits you lovely human being you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:19 PM
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My longer term plates and past 2 LTRs were all close with their dads. Its a green flag but doesnt guarantee unicorns. The college environment will corrupt any girl
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:36 PM
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There is no shame in spinning plates, and seeing multiple women. If that's what you want to do stand up for it. Also keep your mouth shut about it. Thanks to TRP I developed a more realistic and healthy world view on dating - and once I learned to keep my mouth shut just about 0 crabs lashing out. Occasionally I've had old friends and acquaintances who got to know a bit more about my views come up to me and thanks for sharing my experiences but those people are few and far between. Captain-First…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:51 PM
1

Anxiety not a huge issue. Thrillseeking is a far bigger red flag
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:47 PM
1

Look he doesn't approach. Why don't you hang out with him for kicks and go out to approach on your own to meet chicks.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 03:56 PM
1

How do I respond to her text in a manner that provides me with dignity, respect, and shows her exactly who I am and what I want? I want to lay down the law in the best way possible. I want to show her that I'm not the beta bux who will bore himself to death in some stupid girls night out. In other words you want her validation and hate that she friendzoned you instead of offering to suck your dick 24/7. Forget about it! Just move on.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 01:52 PM
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apply dread by letting her know I'm seeing some other women. This angers her. I stand my ground; I'm seeing her tomorrow. Dread is NEVER overt. It's always subtle and done with plausible deniability. If you play hardball someone's gonna get burned. if you make the relationship into a rollercoaster it won't be stable. You went nuclear. Get your ass to the sidebar and start reading again.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:28 AM
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