Did I pass this shit-test?

lietruth · 2016-12-09T21:47:55+00:00

Sounds like she's kind of sketched out to meet you. You need to make her feel safe. Like she's not going to meet a rando and get raped.

There's a difference between being flexible in a woman's comfort level and passing shit tests. Not everything is a shit test. This wasn't a shit test.

Normally, if you knew this chick, it'd be a fine way to text. Not on the first meet. No one gains here from acting butt hurt & pissy about it, which is what you did.

In the future, just call her. Why go through 20 texts when you can call and figure that shit out.

63formernba · 2016-12-09T21:52:21+00:00

Not a shit test

FrameWalker · 2016-12-09T23:05:15+00:00

Remove the ! marks next time.

Her - "KK where did you grow up? What are you wearing?

Here s probably where you messed up. You'll see vs grew up in an old cave with a pack of wolves. I wear a bear pelt to throw off the feds. Kind of light hearted banter may help. reponse should be haha no srs how can i pick you out of the crowd

Then send pic of face

oldredder · 2016-12-10T18:52:26+00:00

Looks like a flake, not a shit-test. Possibly she had 3 guys lined up and decided to move you to another spot because otherwise you'd be around her with choice 2 or 1. Happens to me all the time.

Title	Did I pass this shit-test?
Author	noldi123
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	December 9, 2016 9:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5hggaw/did_i_pass_this_shittest/
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