So I'm sure this has been asked before but wanted a new angle. So I'm using tinder and get lots of matches. I go straight for the phone number and get it 90% of the time. The problem is I know they are attracted to me and they obviously want to talk more if I get there number but everytime I set up a date they say they have plans and when I ask when they are free they say they are always busy. We text just fine but when it comes to meeting it never goes anywhere. I try interesting date ideas like top golf or Dave and busters and I try just dinner or dog park but nothing works. I know the "go to" answer is next them but I've been doing that and I feel it's not helping because they are fine not talking to a guy that doesn't talk to them. Is it just the woman's fear of meeting a guy they met online?