Hi guys, this is my first FR on TRP properly and I've took away a very valuable lesson from not taking advantage. I'm 19, lifting 4ish times a week and on top of my studies. So, on my University campus we have weekly boozers that happen in the pubs, I'd went out with the intention of not drinking very much at all (I think over the course of that night, I'd drunk two actual drinks; a JD and Coke, and a Budweiser, with one Jägerbomb.) Firstly, I'd recommend this to anyone so you aren't that jacked beta who needs liquid confidence to approach women.

So, I went to pre-drinks with a friend who was going to a group I'd never actually socialized with, introduced myself and made some good conversation, entered strongly, maintained good frame and eye contact, also using good body language (Reading Joe Navarro's "What EVERY BODY is saying) has helped me develop and pick up some good body language assets. Noticing what makes people comfortable and uncomfortable is a very quick and easy way to maintain verbal game. So there were no potential plates here.

We go to the after party and I essentially know a few of people there, enough so that I wouldn't have to stick with one group, that I could actually move to and from different people without getting attached. Great.

What I'd take away is that I didn't actually approach any women, though I definitely should've. I spoke and flirted with women from the groups that I wasn't integrated into. One particular girl - taller than me (I'm 5"4- short.) was complaining out loud that nobody was dancing with her. I didn't know her, and said "Okay, let's go dance." and she looked at me like I grew another head, she didn't even look impressed when she responded with - "But you're short. Too short for me." I laughed in her face responding with amused mastery - "Yeah. I'm fucking miniscule, what's the problem?" Agree and amplify following a pressure flip, I'm assuming I didn't pass all too well because she didn't really respond.

Had a wingman interject defending me, basically insinuating that I was jacked muscular and in the sheets too, I just grinned it out and excused myself to go talk to others. Later a classmate comes over drunk as fuck which I'm more than willing to bet really wasn't- literally hanging all over me as a support and whispering in my ear, all kinds of IOI's; but for the sake of self preservation and all these rape accusations you have some girls capable of pulling off I didn't think I was 'drunk' enough to take advantage of this. She actually kept on talking about people buying drinks for her, whilst I was at the bar getting my second drink, handed me her Jägerbomb saying she was too drunk and someone bought it for her. I drunk it but she looked gobsmacked that I had, like I shouldn't have. Anyways, tried to get me to buy her a drink and I told her to piss off, again maintaining amused mastery.

I could've fully taken this- she was completely DTF and mine, saying that I had 'promised' to take her home. I didn't in the end, she had dissappeared and I didn't care enough, though I think I should've? Later found out from wingman friend that she mentioned to him that she had a "Friends With Benefits" and to keep it quiet.

Met up with Wingman and shit-testing girl again, hugged girl goodbye and snuggled into her boobs telling her this is what I love about being short, and she pointed a finger at me saying "oi, watch it" but quite jokingly, I just shit-grinned her and left; again, told by wingman that she ended up making out with the camera man. Fuck.

So to take it away from this I've learned a valuable lesson. The IS/WILL be rule. If you aren't fucking that pussy, someone is or will be. If you aren't lifting or gaming or improving yourself, someone is or will be. If you aren't fucking managing your finances to invest and make some major cash later on in life, someone is or will be. You're left to rot in the dust and nobody will fucking care about you.

TL;DR

Went to club, gamed as best I could, maintained amused mastery, lifted, agree and amplify, dealt with a shit-tester who called me out on being short, was in a position for a DTF classmate who later ended up with a friends with benefits because I didn't take the plunge. If you aren't fucking that; someone is or will be. Sorry for the big read guys. :)