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I believe the citation, if you care to follow it. So everything I said is true, regardless of what you might think. And where in the sidebar does it parrot your view in this context?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:30 AM
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As I mention, it is more of an archtype: the drug dealers, the Hell's Angels and such. After I left the army I did the whole shaved head and goatee thing (back when it was not popular and annoyingly ubiquitous) with a leather jacket. Women are weird women: I got hit on a lot and they basically expected me to smack them around and act like an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:26 AM
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I did mention the part about drawing others into your frame. Drawing women in generally gets you laid. Drawing other men in generally makes you a leader. Not drawing anyone in - at least not actively - makes you a MGTOW. There is some discussion of whether and maybe to what extent MGTOW is red pill or alpha behavior at all. Alpha males may or may not adopt their society's code as their own. Thus we have the rebels and the bad boys who archtypically have status within their own circle of men and …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:08 AM
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I've only been with one red head and she tastes like strawberries: sample size of one, infinite deviation.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:50 AM
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You might be right but that would mean that the GOP is damn sneaky and a hundred million Americans don't have the insight that you do. In 2012, Romney had majority support of those with family incomes of $50k or more and not just with those bringing in a quarter million a year or more (although that support was a few points higher). His supporters considered taxes the biggest economic problem and were three times as likes to think that the government is trying to do too many things, three times …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:22 AM
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A bit of reading should make it obvious that alpha males as discussed in RPT are not the same as those discussed in zoology. You can define alphas in terms of status or SMV or the objective behaviours of fucking lots of women. My notion is that being alpha is about frame: creating your own reality, living within it, and drawing others in. Dale Carnegie was not talking about fucking women, but How to Win Friends and Influence People is top 10 red pill reading. A beta accepts the frame they are gi…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:01 AM
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Thankfully, there is no one named Chad in Shandong Province, China, lol
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:57 PM
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The whole AWALT/NAWALT thing is complicated because RPT must - so as to conform to observations - express only tendencies and potentials. Even in America, only half of women will divorce you and only one-in-seven or so will commit adultery (although 2-in-3 would if they could get away with it).
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:53 PM
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Get a copy of Brainwash. It is from Norway but it demonstrates many times that males and females are innately different. However, social scientists simply assume - as a matter of ideology - that any differences are due to social programming. It takes them a while but they finally admit that they ignore the evidence and research and proceed on the basis that their ideology is fact, and that drives all of their other theories.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:35 PM
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I don't get you. You can't have property rights without a state to enforce them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:24 PM
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Some students - medical students actually - but I have only talk to those two people so I really have no idea.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:23 PM
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If you mean "control the American economy" as being "the same thing" then you might have a point. Obviously they don't want to go about it in the same way. I don't want them to care about me, I want them to leave me the fuck alone and the GOP would be more inclined to do that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:34 PM
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Necessary cause, sufficient cause, proximate cause: I'm too tired to debate this.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:30 PM
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I am in Jinan, Shandong and there are enough brown skinned people here that I noticed it. However, I have never seen one partnered with a local girl.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:28 PM
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I was not impressed with Hong Kong girls. If a 5 foot tall one hundred pound almond eyed westernized entitled bitch does it for you, then ok. At least go to Shanghai or if you want a challenge, some of the second tier cities. Shenzhen is close to Hong Kong but it isn't Hong Kong. I have heard there is a good club scene and lots of nubile women there. But stay away from Hong Kong unless you want to spend lots of money.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:26 PM
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Not completely uncommon but most speak their local dialect, Mandarin, and passable English and that it is. Some will speak random languages including German, Russian or Japanese. At the clubs, lots of beauties but I didn't see any Russians in Shanghai. The Singapore girls are another story.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:22 PM
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Everyone in China if from somewhere else, just to make some coin and then get back to where the air is breathable. A Chinese-Australian woman I met told me she was heading back to Aussie-land because there were no go men in China. She was 35 and said that all the Chinese guys in her age bracket wanted a 23 year old virgin while all the western guys just wanted to score as much Chinese poon as possible. I never actually lived in Shanghai but I was in Changzhou for a year and basically spent every…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:19 PM
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Going against a lot of the opinions I have seen here, I agree. I have had ONS, LTR, FWB, and just about everything in between but marriage is the biggest challenge.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:00 PM
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Ramsey is a sadistic fuck while Drogo had a code. Ramsey got his position by birth while Drogo claimed his position as the biggest bad ass on the plains. Reverse them and - in the end - it does not matter about your looks (although, looks and muscles and the beard of awesome obviously help.)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:56 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. As a lawyer I went through about 50 divorces so one more won't kill me if it comes to that. If it does then I will buy you a drink in Cebu and we can go fuck LBFMs together.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:21 PM
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I suppose I have been to the sausage factory and actually know how it works. A non-contested divorce costs about $600 in legal fees and another $600 in court and other government filing fees. On good terms, a separation agreement that will be attached to the divorce will be about $1500. And I only billed $150, 2/3rds of which went to overhead and half of the rest was either never billed or never collected. So I was making about 25 bucks an hour. It would have been ok work to do uncontested divor…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:17 PM
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Most guys will forfeit quality time with their kids while they are married and that carries over in the divorce. The bias against men and fathers exacerbates that. In most of the cases I handled, the guy could get shared custody if he really wanted it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:02 PM
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Science has proven that a proton has the capacity to spontaneously disintegrate. Great science but useless for practical purposes. I know the risks, I have managed them, and I accept them. If this was a business plan, no financial advisor could fault me on it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:59 PM
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Given a western divorce rate of 50% means that AWALT doesn't hold at least 50% of the time. Studies indicate that the Chinese divorce rate is far lower than that. This isn't my singular life experience (which I WILL roll the dice on) but it is some sociological facts from about 2 billion people.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:47 PM
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You are right: you should never have something to prove. You also agree with me in risk management. As I pointed out, if you have the indicators then you can cut your chance of divorce 4 fold. But my additional point is that "divorce rape" is not the norm.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:42 PM
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Ok, so you don't want to learn anything and don't have the motivation to find the information yourself. Got it! You are going completely off the rails in trying to working in probabilities with causality. Logic doesn't really work that way. I get the impression that you are just an MTV baby who needs his blowjob now, but seriously, my internet connection here in China is shitty and sites come and go for no apparent reason. I can back up what I say given time. Otherwise, I use to teach logic and …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:39 PM
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I don't expect you to be "running all over the internet" but it would make for a more effective engagement if you were not a lazy fuck. My internet is screwed today and maybe if the Commies let me I can point the way. The fact is that you are in a better position to educate yourself than I am to take you on as a student. If there is correlation then you have a limited number of explanations: causality runs one way or the other or there is a third, independent variable. Maybe fit males get marrie…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:48 PM
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Sad but true. I went into a contested divorce and did a bit of research on the lawyer representing my opposing mom. One lawyer said about the other: "She is a complete cunt, her clients love her." That's what passes for justice these days.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:38 PM
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That is infuriating. If a guy cheats on his woman he is an asshole; if a woman cheats on his man, he was an asshole. If a husband murders his wife, he is an asshole; if a woman murders her husband, he was an asshole. That is the narrative, always.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:09 PM
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In Canada it is the feminist lobby that wants it legal. Western culture means being a whore on your own terms. Canadian law has never criminalized the exchange of sex for money but pimp, brothel and streetwalking laws meant that you could not really do it as a "profession" or commercial activity. That all changed when the bonehead Supreme Cunts - -I means Supreme Court ruled that anything that is not banned should be wide open legal. Without a constitutional amendment the ostensibly Conservative…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:05 PM
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My colleague had a divorce client, a woman. Hubby came to the house, knifed her to death, set fire to the place and then hanged himself. Our firm had to fight the insurance company to pay out the kids half on the value of the home. That shit is not red pill; nobody who calls themselves "a man" would ever do that shit and nobody should defend it. Explain it, perhaps, but don't defend it or advocate for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:56 PM
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If you want a fuck toy then get a prostitute or keep the bitch at arms length. If you are up-and-coming and she cooks and cleans for you when she is not sucking your cock or perhaps doing your shopping or laundry or whatever, then suck it up: if it doesn't work out then she deserves half and that is all on you.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:50 PM
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Too many women want that: all your money, assets and income in perpetuity without you in their lives or even in the lives of the children. It's not realistic and courts are coming around to call bullshit on this. When I was a lawyer I spent a lot of time in court and such but I spent far too much time educating my clients on the economic and social implications of what they were feeling. I spent far to much time managing "feelings" rather than any substantive legal question at hand. I got out of…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:48 PM
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Too many women want that: all your money, assets and income in perpetuity without you in their lives or even in the lives of the children. It's not realistic and courts are coming around to call bullshit on this. When I was a lawyer I spent a lot of time in court and such but I spent far too much time educating my clients on the economic and social implications of what they were feeling. I spent far to much time managing "feelings" rather than any substantive legal question at hand. I got out of…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:47 PM
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Ask me in 20 years as I am engaged to a Chinese woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:37 PM
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Yes, you can get a feel for the environment here, but if you are going to take the plunge then get your own attorney to advise you. I was a divorce attorney and my ultimate advice is still "consult with your own lawyer".
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:35 PM
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It is not quite that bad. Pay $1000 for ILA (Independent Legal Advice) with an attorney of her choice and your ass is basically covered. Do that and your only hurdle is to "stick to the plan". That is, a pre-nup assumes particular future outcomes and if those hold, then the pre-nup holds; if those change, the pre-nup gets tossed out and you are back in court. Update your prenup every few years.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:31 PM
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I am a Canadian ex-pat living in China looking at making $100k or so the next few years. I really don't give a rat's ass about the GOP but socialist policies will keep guys like me out of the tax-hands of the leftists who want to control the American economy. They can't fund their socialist paradise if the productive people vacate en masse.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:20 PM
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The information is out there but my Chinese internet connection is being difficult today. If the causal connection runs the other way that it means that more fit males get married while lesser creatures who are destined to die younger fuck bitches and then croak at a young age. "Married vs partnered": are you talking so called common law relationships?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:15 PM
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I am of two minds: if your wife wanders then you fucked up somehow, you did not manage the relationship correctly even in these marriage 2.0 times; if some other guy fucks your wife, then that is still on him, he can't proclaim to be alpha or whatever and yet be a cork on the water.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:10 PM
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Yep, but women were in the background minding the homefront rather than fucking with the whole system that eventually gave them a higher life expectancy.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:49 PM
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Well, other stats suggest that women control 80% of consumer spending. haha Married men make more money to pay for their wife and kids.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:46 PM
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The general rule from history is that people, left to their own devices, will produce more than they need. Asia has some messed up politics. I share your concern about "owning" food, but as long as patent law is kept in check, then it is not much more than return on investment for a good product that benefits lots of people.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:44 PM
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I took the Sherlock Holmes reasoning to heart: eliminate the impossible and what remains must be the truth. I saw so many bad marriages. My marriage won't be like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:40 PM
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Marry a cunt and take the fraud. I am just saying that 99% of intelligent men can avoid this and still enjoy the benefits of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:36 PM
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Maybe we are miscommunicating here. Button-down collars are casual wear. The shirt itself must button up as opposed to a zipper or pull-over.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:34 PM
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Last I heard the number was 43% but it sounds reasonable that first time losers would become second and third time losers such that they skew the statistics.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:32 PM
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The deck has been stacked against men, but not to the extent some might think.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:30 PM
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I can conjour them up of my bitchy Chinese internet decides to work, but these are not state secrets; you can look them up yourself in the meantime.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:26 PM
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Choose your own path. . My experience as a divorce lawyer taught me Sherlock Holmes logic: given whatever is untrue then what remains is true (or at least can be true). I looked at dozens if not hundreds of marriages that did not make it. I chose my bride because I saw nothing of that, so maybe she will be true.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:25 AM
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No rational man would not look at the statistics I present. Maybe it's not for you, but don't go into or opt out of marriage without full information.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:20 AM
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Because you have "French cuffs", which are classy but button down collars are not so much so: they are "classy" when they are slumming it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:18 AM
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Not everyone is a "party boy" who can get with "party girls". I guess that was the only thing I missed in college. I opted out in undergrad and made plays for an MD with who tried to cure kids of young arthritis once I got to grad school. I was a 30 year old grad student dating 18 year old freshmen and it was ultimately unfulfiling.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:12 AM
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I vote you up and say that you are not totally wrong, but you miss the nuance, as well as a basic understanding of red pill theory. . You are correct; context matters. Being surrounded by early-20-something fuck babes is just fish in a barrel. . You will never have access to so much pussy as when you are in in college. . After college you need a new network and you need game. Build those and it becomes easier from ages 22 to 32. Savvy, LIFT-BODY and material wealth will bag you more and more as …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:06 AM
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TRP #1: you are #1 If you are in college then you have a purpose and you can't let a female mess that up. A 4.0 GPA is worth $100k+ so don't let them fuck that up. You will find better pussy later.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:57 AM
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You read too much. "Alpha" is a circular definition, which is one of the problems.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:50 AM
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LOL: In college, run "stubble game".
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:45 AM
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A shitty beard is worse than no beard. Keep clean shaven. Bright blonde and red beards have problems being taken seriously. . If you cannot pull it off, then you need to take the time until you can, or give up on the idea. . A full red or blonde beard carries weigh IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:44 AM
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My experience is that a full beard makes me feel more manly but I don't get the love from the women that I think I deserve. A goatee makes them want to be spanked. A moustache sends them screaming unless they are teenagers with daddy issues, which creates many new issues.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:36 AM
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I used to get lots of shit from my buddies about my "uniform": black jeans, black tee shirt, black blazer and a leather belt with metal studs. My body was marginally buff with a shaved head and goatee. Apparently, it worked as I got laid and can't complain. Now that I am older I prefer collared shirts if I want to be older and non-collared jackets if I want to be younger. Jeans are universal unless you are going on a fru-fru date. Yes, you are not a woman but you should own: a pair of Converse, …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:29 AM
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How old are you? I carry myself as a 48 year old who knows what he is doing, but it is relative. If you are 20 and I tried to emulate you when you were in your most pussy-slaying mode I would get laughed out that venue. If you tried to emulate me at my best then you would be laughed at as trying too hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:15 AM
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I was severely near sighted but I think you are wrong on this point. The side effect of my PRK (a more extreme form of Lasik) is my degraded night vision and being a bit far-sighted. I really should carry a flashlight and reading glasses for when I have to read the "fine print".
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:08 AM
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French cuffs, gold cufflinks, nothing button down. Add jeans and sneakers, some sort of casual jacket and an IDGAF attitude and you can pull off classy but relaxed and. . . .IDGAF.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:58 AM
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Some standards have changed in the last 30 years but I unplugged when I was 18. I joined the army reserve, got a new wave haircut, bought some trendy clothes, traded in glasses for contact lenses, buffed up, took lead vocals in a local band and simply decided I had enough of everyone's shit. That counts as 4/5 of the OP's post. Good advice, but you have to be trendy. Shaggy hair from back in the 80's is all hipster now, and there are so many annoying fucks who wear glasses without lenses because…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:55 AM
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Maybe by clubbing them in their Harvard-educated head and warning them that if he keeps up this shit, then everything will get torn down. Not that I would recommend this.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:44 AM
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Red Pill is largely libertarian which pisses off the So-Cons for fucking their wives and deflowering their teenage daughters while it pisses off the left by not conceding one cent to their bullshit Cuntocracy state, without protest and perhaps with active rebellion. I suppose you could have a socialist player who gets a Party expense account and fucks little farm girls in his hotel suite. You can have a "struggling musician" who gets a sugar mama through his game. Maybe the stereotype but not wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:37 AM
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The average was shit but the point was that progress was incredible.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:24 AM
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Property rights have a socio-political component unto themselves. You can't have capitalism without property rights but the type of capitalism you have will be limited by if not dictated by your notion of property rights.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:23 AM
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If nobody ever voted GOP from this point on then nobody except SJW elites and Democrat government functionaries. . .or their cronies, would ever make more than a quarter million a year. In other words, no one would ever be compensated for merit or productivity or their contribution to society.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:20 AM
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I will play Devil's advocate here. Little Asian people eat meager portions of shit rice and go blind and end up skinny and 5'4" and stuff. A company invests millions of dollars to create a form of rice that will grow in abundance and provide for vitamin deficiencies to stop blindness. What is that worth? The whole thing about wayward seeds or IP thieving farmers just comes down to evidence, even if the fairness of the laws are solid. As a former attorney, I have an opinion regarding who can must…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:17 AM
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You get interns to work for free or import brown people to work for shit like Disney did.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:09 AM
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Minimum wage is sort of bullshit. The money does not just appear out of nowhere. Somebody else loses their job, some products don't get made, some product get priced out of the market. (PS: I upvoted you just to say how wrong you are.)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:08 AM
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I hate the bitches (male and female) in the public sector who complain about their salaries, air-tight job security, and silver-plated pensions. The only canard that their unions can raise is that every worker in North America deserves the same and it is just greedy corporations who won't give the people that. The farce is: who owns those "greedy corporations"? The fucking public service unions through their tax-payer funded pensions plans! At one point we had teachers in Ontario owning the most…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:05 AM
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Thomas Sowell is probably the leading conservative intellectual on the planet today. Barack Obama is a disgrace as "America's First Black President". If the shitheads in Washington would listen to Sowell, the country would not be so completely fucked. (And in Canada, even with a "Conservative" government, it is not much better.)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:56 AM
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The trick isn't "don't get married", the trick is "don't get divorced". It's pretty easy to find two researched and established truths: married men are happier and live longer than single men, and (no-fault) divorce is the single largest suicide risk factor among men in the western world. I spent 4 years as a divorce lawyer and had to deal with women pulling all kinds of shit. Then again, when I was representing women it was not uncommon for the guys to do all sorts of bone-headed things. On the…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:19 AM
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A lot of the young people are getting politically indoctrinated and so there just isn't the push for a western-style democracy anymore out side of Hong Kong. Traffic chaos is annoying, and that includes cars, trucks, bicycles, scooters and pedestrians. People are pushy, they que-jump, cut you off, don't really look where they are going, don't obey traffic signs or light, don't signal before turning, drive on the wrong side of the road, walk on the bike lanes, park or the sidewalk, etc etc. Most …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:18 AM
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I haven't personally been to Viet Nam but I have had Vietnamese students, talked to other people and seen pictures from their travels, seen various media portrayals and looked at various social science data. If oriental facial features don't do it for you, then I guess that is that. Vietnamese girls tend to be shorter and skinnier than Chinese girls due to a combination of economics-related nutrition, geography and perhaps climate. Northern Chinese girls are taller than those in the south; where…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:01 AM
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I live in Jinan. I could make twice the salary in Shanghai. Previously I was living in Changzhou and could travel to Shanghai on the weekends. The girls I was dating were successful business types, sometimes racking in $100k or more. They were. . .tedious. My fiancé makes less than $10k a year. She is manageable. We are very happy. I was thinking about going back to Shanghai for the salary. As a twist I have some IP royalties that can make me $100k+ a year regardless of where I live. Yesterday s…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 12:20 PM
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It's a misconception that all Asian girls are little 8s and 9s just waiting for western cock. Most Chinese girls are rather plain looking although they are not fat like American bitches. Most of the young ones will qualify as 6s or 7s but they slide when getting late into their twenties. The good news is that if she is a 7 when she is 25 she can hold that for another 15 years or so. tldr: Asian girls have nice bodies but YMMV about their face.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:38 AM
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Even if you intend on a career as a fucking accountant, do 4 years in the military and one 6 month tour. Your alpha status will always be one or two points higher for the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:30 AM
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I spent a decade with the military engineers - finished as a sergeant but warrant office qualified. So I am curious about your skill set that can net six figures. Funny thing is that I now have 7 years of university but it was basic training that taught me how to write a combat board game that will soon be released on iPad and give me six figures of royalties.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:26 AM
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I am wondering about the tight pussy thing. I fucked Chinese girls in Canada and I could plow them hard without a whimper. However, here in China I have to go easy. Apparently I am Chad Thunder Canuck Cock. So it isn't a racial thing. A Chinese Canadian can take it all and wants more. A Chinese Chinese spends a lot of time telling me how huge I am (which is silly, I am barely above average). Word of advice: if you travel to China and intend on getting laid then buy condoms in North America. Chin…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:19 AM
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I don't know where you are getting you information from, but as I have been on the ground here for a few years I can say that you have it all wrong. The Chinese GOVERNMENT is complete shit. It's not even about women but males or females alike are great people here if they are not Party members. Having said that, they have some fucked up ways of dealing with their kids. They let them piss and shit in the middle of the street. On the other hand, they are not spoiled little snowflakes. The kids go …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 09:10 AM
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I have been living in China for a few years now and am engaged to be married. Chinese women are not gold diggers they just want a reasonable provider. The divorce rates in Shanghai and Beijing are almost as bad as in America because they are too Westernized. Otherwise, the chance of her pulling the pin on you is one quarter or one tenth or even less. Maintain Frame. Your role is to put a roof over her head, put food on the table, and have the occasional vacation. In return she will clean your di…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:50 AM
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"Rape Culture" is just another feminist invention. It is just regret that has been criminalized. Men still have an instinctive notion of chivalry about them. We completely abhor actual rape. Seriously, if you saw another guy trying to rape a woman in a dark alley, what would you do? I have two sisters, two nieces, a mother and a girlfriend. If anyone messed with them then they are DEAD. Black knight, White knight, Grey knight? Call it whatever you like, they will be just as dead when I am finish…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:40 AM
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Facts, evidence and logical analysis simply don't matter to feminists. That was your first mistake. Your second mistake - more importantly - is to shit where you eat: you don't fuck bitches at work and you don't argue with the unfuckable feminists either.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:27 AM
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If you do stuff that gives them tingles, like lifting, singing in a rock band, writing poetry and shit, then they accept that. Otherwise, I would say you are right. If you aren't boosting your income or social status then they will nag your ass into the ground.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:15 AM
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I have a $200k payday in the works but the money itself has meant zilch. What has been more of a hook is the fact that I can make any money whatsoever out of designing games and writing science fiction. It makes for some conversation and somehow gives me an excuse to hit on women 15, 20 and even 30 years younger.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:13 AM
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I guess there are two ways to look at that. There is so much fiction of guys who take a 6 a make a 9: Pygmalion, Taming of the Shrew, My Fair Lady (although in the last case we are talking about Audrey Fucking Hepburn). The other way is to look at a former 9 and how she descended to being a 6.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:03 AM
0

If you are looking for an LTR then at a minimum you want a graceful slide when she hits the wall. In general, women age like milk but they can stay trim and fit if you are on their ass about it all the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 12:21 AM
1

Largely but not completely true. When I was in law school I got a fair deal of action based on the premise that I would be a lawyer and could pay for all her stupid Gucci hand bags after graduation. Otherwise, spot on. However, it is a trick to score the 6 who can be a 9 if you re-invent them. Not for the feint of heart. On the up side, she will always be a 6 in her mind so you get a 9 without the attitude.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 12:18 AM
1

College is like fish in a barrel. If you want pussy it is there for the taking and it will never be easier. After graduation is a dark spot because you lose that network of hot girls, unless you happen to get a job in fashion or media or something. From age 22 to age 32 or so, if you are doing things right, game becomes objectively EASIER. You build a career, you build assets, you build confidence, you build a social network and if you consistently lift then you build muscle mass. I would say 32…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 08:00 AM
2

I am a Canadian ex-pat living in China. Why the hell would I ever go home for pussy?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 06:54 AM
1

While it has been a decade and a half since I was at university, I went back as a 30 year old and after dating a few co-eds said "fuck this". Thereafter I hooked up with women who were not connected to the school.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 07:14 PM
1

Here is the pay scales. http://www.forces.gc.ca/en/caf-community-pay/pay-rates.page A full time gig gives you $50k a year or more.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:57 AM
3

Join the reserves or National Guard to be a weekend warrior. Get buff, enjoy man-time but keep yourself rooted in the civilian world. Make a move there to a job that you actually enjoy and excel at. (I used my job in the reserves to pay my rent while I launched my own game design business.) Aim for 100 sit ups, 100 push ups and 15 chins. Anywhere close to that (I got to 80/100/13 myself) and your confidence in your physical prowess tops out. Join Toastmasters to get on with the gift of the gab. …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:58 AM
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Even if you have it on camera with audio you are still fucked because "yes means yes" is a completely unattainable standard. In 30 years of fucking 30 women not once have I asked for nor received affirmative consent at every stage of our intimacy. It can be novel but it is tedious at every step and will piss off most women. Too many women don't want "consent", they want to be taken, by the right man at the right time under the right circumstances and the present legal landscape makes you a rapis…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:45 AM
1

Not exactly: they are self validating. The ones who respond to that think 1) "I am pretty" and 2) "He thinks I am pretty". The ones who don't either give no import to your opinion or - less likely - figure they are not pretty enough to respond.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:36 AM
1

Blonde hair or big tits do nothing for me. Otherwise, I free range. Look into Latinos or get to some Eastern European enclaves where tall blondes are women as opposed to over entitled cunts.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:53 PM
1

AWALT applies loosely across the Pacific. An AFC - properly schooled - can pull 7's until he dies.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:48 PM
2

I like the serial killer angle but my response is self reinforcing. If they say no then they must accept that they are not pretty. More likely the assume that they are pretty so they accept that the line should work on them and act appropriately interested.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:42 PM
1

I think "buxom" might be the term. If a chick can keep the 0.7 WHR as she packs on the pounds and a set of tits that defies her being categorized as "pear shaped" then I am totally on board for that. Several years ago I hooked up with a girl who was fat. She was sporting G-cups; when she rode me cowgirl I commented that it was like "watching the Macy's Parade". Tits have never been my thing but she was into some serious BDSM and liked to toss my salad so she was a lot of fun to have around. Fat …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:36 PM
3

Unlike places like Viet Nam where nutrition has vastly improved over the last 50 years leading to an increase in average height, Americans are largely stuck with women at 5'4" and men at 5'10". Being 5'4" and 166 pounds is hideous. That is why on the SMV scale the average woman in America is not a 5, she is a 4 or a 3. While 2/3 of American women are overweight it increases to 3/4 for black chicks which is part of the reason they lose a point of SMV overall. On the other hand, Chinese women (and…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:20 PM
3

I'm skeptical about that on POF. Online in general, there are a good number of 8's who aren't satisfied with garden variety douchebag alphas or beta orbiters. Some are genuinely looking for an LTR but others are "sex camels" who don't want to drink from the local trough while their whole social network is watching: greatest ONS you can never have again. Keep in mind that a 10 is just a 9 who gets upgraded subjectively. And the 9's on the internet are getting 5-figure fees to fly to Saudia Arabia…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:02 PM
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Low quality site, bad graphic presentation, shitty (and opaque) matching algorithm, less structured, no "tests" and other bonuses. I only recall meeting one decent prospect off of POF. Meanwhile, I have met lots of women off of OKC. I've been living in China for a few years now and obviously the dynamic is different here, but OKC worked for me in Toronto and Vancouver but POF is just unstructured nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:34 PM
4

On the old Newlywed Game one of the question was "Where is the strangest place you have made whoopie?" One bride, not completely understanding, responded: "In the bum." ..... Q:"Does that line really work?" A:"Only on the pretty girls."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:07 PM
1

I have two herniated cervical discs, one of which is compressing my C5/C6 nerve. It causes pain in my neck, upper back and shoulder on the right side, plus weakness is the whole arm and pins&needles in the thumb. The pain is mostly constant regardless of what I am doing, even if doing nothing, which is the worst part: it is completely messing up my sleeping cycle. It's been about three weeks and now it is starting to subside; it will probably be another two or three weeks before I can get back t…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 12:57 PM
1

When I was in high school I was less than invisible to girls. Then in my last year I changed my look completely, joined the army reserves, and started singing in a rock band. All of a sudden the girls wanted to get to know me. At that point, I wasn't particularly interested in getting to know them.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:02 AM
3

http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:51 AM
0

Words are a man's realm. Women don't care about words. It is all about actions and emotions.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:15 PM
2

There is an internal and external frame. The former is your presence of mind and the ability to be unflappable regardless of circumstances or stimuli. The latter is the psycho-social environment you create. Women are all about context, so you have to give them a context in which they can make their choices. From what I have read, I don't think anyone has made that distinction.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:12 PM
1

I will waste the bandwith: Long Term Relationship
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:15 AM
1

I am not sure what you disagree with because you post is not clear.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:12 AM
1

Q: What do you call a lawyer with an IQ of 80? A: "Your Honor"
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:08 AM
1

A (not very funny) comedian insulted a lesbian heckler and she got a 5-figure judgment against him in BC, Canada.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:07 AM
1

I moved on to a woman who wants "hybrid" babies.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:04 AM
1

Maybe blue pill in the making but I would not put up with that.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:04 AM
3

It's beta if it is an act of supplication with the hope that you will get better sex in return at a later time, and in particular if that does not materialize in the form of morning sex. It's alpha if it is 1) an act of dominance whereby she has an orgasm because you gave one to her 2) an act of control where she accepts that she must reciprocate several times over 3) an act of self-indulgence because you like to eat pussy or 4) an act of magnanimity where her orgasm is a gift that you choose to…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 06:32 AM
0

I have been propositioned by some women and specifically turned them down because they were a 4 or less. In other cases I have slept with a 7 or so for the first time and actually slept because IDGAF (literally and figuratively) but in virtually all those cases the fix was in for the next date. I'm in an LTR now which basically means weekend sex unless she is on the rag, then it is hit or miss as to whether I can get blown or just settle for a hand job. About 3 weeks ago I injured myself and her…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 06:20 AM
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Yep, but if you want to run game or want to manage an LTR then it is on the man to understand and use covert communication. Women who are always straight shooters tend to be spectacularly unfeminine. If your LTR is getting more and more explicit in her communication with you then you are in the first stages of role-reversal.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:45 AM
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I was helping a girlfriend fill out a government form and one of the questions was whether they had any criminal convictions. So I ask her. She gets all upset saying "Don't insult me!" and "What do you think?" "I don't think you do but this is your form and you have to sign it as a legal document that is true so I can't fill in what I think but rather what you tell me." That calmed her down only enough that we didn't break into a fight for another hour or so.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:38 AM
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Good article. A woman does what she means and means what she does; what she says is just window dressing to keep up appearances, in many cases to maintain plausible deniability (like with LMR and ASDs generally). The funny thing about gaslighting is that when a chick tries to pull it on you and you resist or counter, she will spin it that you were doing it to her creating a classic he-said-she-said. My last girlfriend was young and beautiful (26 compared to my 48 years). After a few dates we end…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:29 AM
5

Women will read too much into just about everything once they are emotionally attached to you. The BPD types are the worst for that.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:42 AM
3

Plus, in the USA you have stronger free speech protections, plus constitutional protections for property and gun ownership compared to Canada, where I am from.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:45 PM
2

Wouldn't it be a pack of 4s and 5s, a clowder of 6s and 7s, and then maybe a herd of 1 to 3s unless they had really been hitting the Taco Bell in which case they would form a pod?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 11:36 PM
2

Chinese appreciate deadpan humour. If you have a wingman you could try crosstalk, but it is particularly hard to make it look unscripted, plus you have to draw straws to figure out who will play it straight.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:49 PM
0

I've had more than one girl tell me that she liked to suck dick because she felt she was in control. Paradoxically, I am the king being worshipped at the throne, and life is good. However, in her mind she is making you cum. You can blunt that notion if you can do the Ron Jeremy Countdown to give her a facial like a wolf marking its territory. Some view it as a kind of challenge, to see how much they can take.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:42 PM
1

Or at least someone who doesn't know anatomy or any of the studies on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:34 PM
1

In high school it is being seen to be seen. Be a jock, play in a rock band, get on the student council and self-promote. Looks and money (or at least fashion sense) go a long way but they may not be enough. The above suggestions are not ways to become popular, but good ways to remain so.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:32 PM
1

They are deadpan, or dry wits. Being able to say funny shit and keep a straight face while everyone else is laughing is a skill unto its own. The OP might have been confusing stoic with laconic which (coming from Sparta) tends to be deadpan, IDGAF, and efficient in that it uses few words, especially as a comeback to an insult, threat or shit test. "Then we shall fight in the shade."
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:27 PM
0

I like giving my girls insane, screaming orgasms. On the other hand, I don't like picking fur out of my teeth after having sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:59 PM
4

Libertarians are generally considered right wing by the left and crypto-leftists by the social conservatives on the right.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:41 PM
2

There is no "red pill diet". Some food might be classified as being antithetical to being red pill because it is so unhealthy. There are almost endless varieties of diets and theories that wax and wane in popularity - both among the general public and those who are supposed to be experts - that you sort of have to find what works for you. The Canada Food Guide completely disagrees with the OP. Grains - especially whole grains - have a lot of nutritional value other than simply calories. It recom…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:27 PM
4

If you don't accept the left wing narrative then the left will label you as being right wing, or even "far" right wing. In the West, the right-left thing is useful shorthand for where someone stands on particular issues but trying to peg people on a one dimensional scale isn't useful for most of the population. Two-axis scales like at OKC or politicalcompass are easy to visualize but still have their limitations including their own built-in bias. You really need somewhere from 3 to 6 parameters …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:45 PM
5

It's the 3M's that create a conservative: a marriage, a mortgage and a mugging.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:26 PM
3

It should be obvious that those in the 4-6 range are more numerous and easier to seduce than a 7-9. If you want to get laid more and with more variety then the simple solution is to lower your standards. I did that for a few years then realized that I preferred quality over quantity. Sure, banging a few 4s can be a confidence builder. I think the OP means positive "responses" rather than "references" unless he is using the latter term in some unconventional way. If you have decent looks, nice bo…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:21 PM
4

Whenever I dated two or more girls in a row who had vaguely similar features then a meme would start about the "type" of girl I as "in to". Friends would do it, and even my mother. It started with short girls with big boobs, then it went to tall blondes, then petite ones, then young ones (in my early 30s I was banging a few teenagers), and now it's Asian chicks - Chinese girls in particular. Never mind the fact that in the first 20 years of dating I had exactly one Chinese girlfriend. And maybe …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:39 PM
1

The proof is in the pudding. Just ask a girl "what's wrong?" and almost universally she will say "nothing". Then you are expected read her mind and know if that is what she really meant. The most direct a woman tends to get is when you ask what is wrong and she will say "if you don't know then I'm not going to tell you!"
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:17 PM
3

Sexual Market Value is meaningless if you don't market it. Being the better mousetrap does not mean that hot women will beat a path to your door. Having decent looks, good musculature, some intelligence, a six-figure salary and something resembling a personality (ie. a good SMV) won't get you far without one or both of the following: a good network, salesmanship (ie. game). In college you have an instant network of hot, young girls. It is almost like shooting fish in a barrel. After college, you…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:58 AM
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One theory is that women want a nice guy about 80% of the time but not someone who they can walk all over. The other 20% the guy has to assert themselves and their own interests, and put the girl in her place even if that means being a jerk. There are numerous stories about how a girl will leave a guy because "he is too nice". Jerks will attract women if they otherwise have alpha qualities. Magnanimity is not necessarily a beta characteristic; it depends on your frame. If a guy is being generous…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:37 AM
1

Maybe borderline. Not the same experience I had with an ex who I am pretty sure is borderline, nor the same experience with a cutter who was not.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:55 PM
7

Off the top of my head, something like 70% of divorces are filed by the wife but another 20% are filed by the husband at the wife's insistence. My experience with a cutter says that you have to keep them on a short leash. They can go to work and have successful careers but that is only 8 hours a day. The other 16 hours you have to be on top of them, either figuratively or literally. On the upside, they are god's gift in bed. On the downside, when I was in the process of breaking up with her, she…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:52 PM
0

In my last year at high school I got buff but not big. After I got an honorable mention for scoring in the top 5% of a provincial exam somebody commented "Hey, I didn't know you were smart". Of course, they didn't know me at all when I was not buff and totally beta. My high school was rather insular. I like girls, always have. I like all kinds of girls but aside from one Indian chick, at the height of my popularity the Pujabis, the Flips, the Jamaicans and such would not have anything to do with…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:42 PM
4

Asians totally clean up in the "good education", "good income" and "staying out of jail" thing, in terms of social outcomes. That is why no SJW includes Asians in their statistics to show how badly whites oppress minorities.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:34 PM
2

Straight white men make up less than a third of the population. In Canada, section 15(2) of the Charter of Rights constitutionalizes affirmative action, which basically means the right to discriminate against (healthy) straight white (Christian) men.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:31 PM
1

All it proves is that guys will hamster and not be objective. A subjective scale is useless. If you have any concept of language theory then you know that you can't have words that mean different things to different people and still be able to communicate information. When I was in the army we had the beer rating, which was how many beers you needed before you would fuck them. It worked in the inverse so a zero was the best. In theory, the scale was open-ended but the practical limit was 15 or s…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:24 PM
1

I tossed her out before and some punter rated her as a 6!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:15 PM
1

Take 100 guys and 100 obese women and see how the former rate the latter. An YES, my numbers match the bell curve normal distribution.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:10 PM
1

So facts are lies in your world? Sure, there has been 15% inflation here and there, but I am talking over the long term. Do you understand math? An inflation rate of 15% over just 30 years would mean an increase in prices by 66 times. That would mean a $40k bungalow bought in 1970 would have sold for $2.65 million in 2000. Maybe, just maybe, there are a few isolated markets where that happened, but it certainly is not the general trend. Evidently, you have never been schooled by anyone because y…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:07 PM
2

Ever notice that the liberals who are in favour of depopulation have 5 kids themselves?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:58 PM
1

I've been living in China for the last few years and decided to wife-up. It does depend on your age, income and wealth, and where you look for women. In Shanghai, you can get laid but if you aren't making six figures (American) then there is nothing long term. In more provincial centres a decent 5 figures salary will do the trick. They want you to own real estate which is complete shit here. I would not trust them as far as I can throw them. If you are - say - 25 and working in a business field …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:57 PM
1

Causality. Unfortunately, women - and feminists in particular - can't see more than 2 moves ahead (how many female chess champions are there?)
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:45 PM
1

Look at the exit polls. About 95%+ of blacks voted for Obama, which is higher than the 90%+ standard for most Democrat candidates. Guys like Herman Cain, Clarence Thomas and Thomas Sowell are routinely vilified as "Uncle Toms" and such. The only thing worse than"driving while black" in America is being "conservative while black".
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:42 PM
1

Something like 56% of white women voted for Romney. It was all the blacks, latinos and lesbians that gave Obama the majority of the female vote. Meanwhile, it was minorities, high school drop outs and grad students that gave Obama enough of the male vote.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:36 PM
1

Cripes. If Hillary followed Obama then the entire USA is more insane than Ontario with Wynne following McGuinty.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:28 PM
1

I am sort of a free spirit now but I would never enter the world of big business. I can still make six figures (maybe seven figures some day) in small business and I don't need a board of directors to do that. Admittedly, most of the people I would contract with would be guys but I have met a number of competent women that would be great to have on my team.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:26 PM
1

The point is to be objective about it. Your personal rating will probably not be the same as if you evaluate a woman's looks based on how most guys and their ratings would cluster. To make the rating meaningful you have to be self-aware enough to account for your own biases. Otherwise, there is no point to talk about a 7 or an 8 or a 9 if the other guy you are talking too can't read your mind. For anyone who is being honest and as unbiased as possible, your rating will never vary by more than on…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:28 AM
2

Not sure where you got your numbers from. If every point on the scale is half a standard deviation then you get: *HB5 38.29% *HB6 14.99% *HB7 9.18% *HB8 4.41% *HB9 1.65% *10? 0.62% or else 9 would be 2.27% If the HB scale was analogized to IQ scores and descriptors, it would look something like this" *HB5 - Average - 90-109 IQ - 47.71% *HB6 - High Average - 110-119 IQ - 15.97% (1 in 4) *HB7 - Superior - 120-129 IQ - 6.9% (1 in 11) *HB8 - Gifted - 130-144 IQ - 2.14% (1 in 44) *HB9 - Very Gifted -…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:12 AM
57

Why no quotas in military conscription? Discrimination laws and quotas have one of two effects. First is that many of the women who take advantage of them are of middling competence which is vastly exceeded by their ambition, egos and sense of self worth. If you have a 40% quota then about half of those are women who could not make it on their own merits: there are men who are more capable that would have taken those spots. So you get a decline in the quality of people but an inflation in their …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:15 AM
4

Being alpha does not always mean being a jerk, and not being a jerk is not automatically a beta quality. Magnanimity and empathy don't make you someone's bitch. Being alpha is about doing things on your own terms for your own purposes. It is about balancing IDGAF against what you do consider important in life.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:57 AM
1

Several years ago I adopted a policy that my next girlfriend would be my last girlfriend. Of course, it didn't work out that way. I was still dating, getting laid and breaking up but perhaps not as often as I could. However, the quality of the women improved in terms of SMV and RMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:16 AM
1

Internet dating (not Tinder) lets you pre-screen women based on how they write. Plus you usually get a picture, information on their career field, and associated likes a dislikes. For me it has been a mixed bag but I have hooked up with more than my fair share of pretty, smart, confident professionals.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:10 AM
7

I think OKCupid did a study that said that if you have a six-pack, then flaunt it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:40 PM
2

The most common tests can't deal well with IQs much over 145 or so. I generally clock in at about 138 and I push the envelope on tests of general application. If you are really over 150 then you would have to have a specialist test you. A 154 would put you in the top 0.015% of the population. Realistically, anything over 130 is gravy. All of the greatest political, business and military leaders in history were all 130-ish. Anything higher works for STEM but doesn't help with the practical applic…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:39 PM
1

Almost any standardized test is basically an IQ test: SAT, LSAT, GRE and Canadian public service exams are examples. I think there are laws in place to ban the use of IQ tests for employment hiring despite their efficacy. The issue is totally racial.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:27 PM
1

I think there is good evidence that the more intelligent you are, the fewer sex partners you will have. It becomes a quality vs quantity issue. But all things being equal, being smart can only improve your odds of getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:22 PM
1

I started internet dating in 1999. I started phone dating around 1992, so 23 years ago. At the time, my buddies thought I was nuts and that only ugly fat women would use phone dating. Then I scored my first notch on the system and made off with a copy of her head shot: she was a fashion model, HB9, tall, slim, brunette. By the end of the day all of them had signed up. My best friend met a personal trainer - 5'10" black amazon - and was with her for the next 12 years. But actually going back 30 y…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:19 PM
13

Unless you can take her in the back so she can blow you and lick your asshole, why give her a discount?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:56 PM
1

It certainly helps with internet game, if you have the right attitude. Posting dick pics and saying "wassup?" won't get you too far unless you are a 9 on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:53 PM
-3

You have two questions. Where to go? I would say China and/or Hungary. What would I do different? Not travel until I found my base. I went to Australia after two years of college and that eye-opening experience left me so wanting that I dropped out and it took 6 years of the army and an entrepreneurship to get me back on track. On a more personal level, I probably should have gone for the fish that got away. I spent 3-1/2 years with her but I was young and would not commit. She dumped me and mar…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:48 PM
0

The term "alpha male" used to have a concrete meaning until TRP got ahold of it. Prince is freakishly talented: he is self-taught on multiple instruments and he has authored some of the catchiest tunes ever. As a straight white male, perhaps I am not qualified to comment but Prince is not a particularly good looking guy although he has style. Similarly, Brock Lesnar has his own talents but he is not every woman's cup of tea. Being in a rock band is an automatic +1 SMV. Same with getting your bod…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:37 PM
-7

You flatter me. I am well into the top 20% in terms of intelligence but SMV? Internet dating (and its precursor phone dating) have mostly been my thing for the last 2 or 3 decades. It has worked for me far better than trying to chat up a skank at a bar or night club.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:07 PM
2

Doctors and lawyers tend to be smart cookies, but journalists less so. Most teachers are as sharp as a bowling ball. . .and I say this as a teacher. From what I have seen, ECE types tend to be the least opinionated but it gets progressively worse depending on how old their students are. At election time they run "student elections", which don't count because they are legally too young to vote. Invariably the results of these student elections are far to the left, as are the sensibilities of thei…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:55 PM
2

Well then I am having a reverse Sheldon Cooper moment. Oral and then facials; anal and then ATM are more about possession and domination than the act themselves or how it feels. Cum on her face and you are a wolf marking his territory. Take her "other virginity" and you own that.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:45 PM
2

That was sort of a throw away line. I am living in China, near the East coast. The two girls from Inner Mongolia that I have come across were damn fine. Then again, they were comparatively wealthy. Thirty years of hard living will wear on a girl, even an Asian.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:39 PM
1

I am not a car guy, but I can appreciate the aesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:35 PM
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You are not paying me either, bro, but I just schooled you. You are a lazy fuck, aren't you. I don't expect you to invest 5 hours, but 5 minutes for even one link that supports your bullshit would be a start.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:44 AM
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The years of suckage are from 22 to 25. You are out of college. You have an entry-level job that you probably hate. You don't have access to all that sorority pussy any more. You have no game because you never had to develop it: college chicks were like fish in a barrel for college guys. You fucked carousel riding bitches rather than locking down a keeper and now you are alone. From here, it only gets better.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:38 AM
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I was in a restaurant in China with a buddy, waiting for some take out when I heard the +ka-chick+ of a cell phone camera. There was a group of young girls also waiting and one decided to take my picture because, as a white guy, I was a bit of a novelty. I thought, ok, and I went over, took her phone and gave it to her friend and then posed for some pictures. Then I gave her my email address and told her to message me. As I sat back down my buddy - a Chinese guy - pointed out "She is a middle sc…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:55 AM
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All the young red-pillers have to get jobs in government, media, education and academia. If not, FUCK-IT, get out of America and find a proper woman in Mongolia or where ever. Then stay there. In the former case, America might be salvageable. In the latter case, over-entitled blondes' marriage option might only consist of being part or a harem to some guy names Omar.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:40 AM
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Haha. Ok, the sarcasm oozes from that response but I think you get my point. If you aren't getting nasty with them, someone else will.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:29 AM
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You haven't shown me any facts or dates or anything, just a bunch of numbers that are obviously silly as I have pointed out. The math doesn't work. I didn't slide around I simply gave a number of points of reference: 1900, 1970 and 2000 compared to today. I tossed in the example of my dad's house to illustrate. I will concede that the "real" inflation rate is higher than the official one, but not on the scale that you are asserting, blindly and baldly.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:23 AM
1

Hooters is just an example of front-line/low cognitive load workers.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:18 AM
2

From the studies I have seen, men get more angst from their woman having sex with another man while women get more angst from the idea of their man being emotionally attached to another woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:18 AM
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If you aren't ass fucking her and treating her like a slut, odds are someone else is while you buy her teddy bears and dinners at the Olive Garden.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:13 AM
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Part of what is "best" will be the dynamic they set with customers (if they deal with them) and the other employees. Hooters will not be hiring ugly chicks any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:10 AM
5

For any frontline personnel who don't endure a high cognitive load, always hire the hot chick. If they have to think about what they are doing or have any decision-making authority, hire an alpha male. In the back office, its all ugly chicks and betas.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:09 AM
1

Hipergamy as in hipster relationship style?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:03 AM
1

Or maybe both he and the alpha girl figure there is no reasonable prospect that either could trade up. House of Cards has its third season out. While they might fuck around, does anyone think Frank or his wife could find someone better suited to them?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:02 AM
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I prefer a cat: it prepares me for relationships with women.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:58 AM
2

A red pill moment - well before there was such a thing - was when I reinvented myself about 20 years ago. I shed the nice guy image in favour of something more dark triad and bingo - there was no end of women who expected me to rough them up. I still am a "nice guy" and that can go a long way, but the danger attracts them and they will shit test you until you take them in hand.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:56 AM
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Too tired from making money, lifting and fucking bitches.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:47 AM
3

Ontario had Elizabeth Witmer. If ever there was a glass ceiling. . . However, she eventually sold out.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:42 AM
1

It's just you: your pussy smells.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:54 AM
1

In my experience, blondes tend to either be bitchy or have unrealistic standards. I have dated a lot of ethnic girls who really don't count as "brunette". Totally different dynamic. Had ONS with a buxom red head who qualifies as part of my top ten best sex ever. What do you call a blonde who dyes their hair brown? Artificial intelligence. Classic James Bond line: "Well, as long as the collars and cuffs match."
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:47 AM
1

Great! More skinny bitches for me!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:39 AM
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Single moms are good fucks but not LTR material. There is a "fat horizon" where a chick goes from buxom or pleasantly plump into being. . . .fat. Don't go there. Been there, done that. Fat chicks suck cock like demons but all other sex is dreadful and they have no social value. I like Gavin McInnes. While people label him as a comedian I think of him more as a sometimes humorous social commentator. That comment is way off base. For me it was 7s, 8s and 9s that would go ATM, call me "Master", be …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:35 AM
1

When I was 18 I contemplated suicide, and said NO. Best decision of my life. Get some professional help or at least some St. John's Wort (works for me and I have had low-grade depression for the last 30 years).
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:23 AM
1

Take one year and forget about bitches or your boring STEM job. Travel, write a book, design a board game, shoot a movie, cut a record, do something creative that is all your own. Find yourself. You can't make others happy when you are not happy with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:20 AM
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Very true: do not speak, do. The only exception that I have experienced in when I was in law school. I was not a lawyer but the expectation got me all sorts of tail and attention in general.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:12 AM
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I dated a doctor and have friends-of-friends who are doctors. They really are not worth the trouble because they think they fucking know it all. Lawyers, teachers and journalists also fall into that category in my experience. The real hate is how liberal women feel about conservative women. A conservative woman who is successful in politics, business or the media is an instant target for SJW hate. Margaret Thatcher? HATE! Ann Coulter? HATE! Rona Ambrose? HATE! Sarah Palin? HATE! Connie Rice? Dem…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:11 AM
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Decided to wife up with a Chinese woman 14 years younger than me. She immediately gains weight and cuts her hair. Got a herniated cervical disk (C6) that has totally fucked up my right back, shoulder and arm. Must fix so I can lift again. My video game comes out in July. Six-figure royalties are expected. Planning on opening a restaurant next year. Low work load gives me time to study history, philosophy, the life of Tesla, and design more games.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:58 PM
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Being "cute" means you have one foot in the friendzone and you have to GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:53 PM
1

I attended law school when I was 30. I had part time jobs teaching business communications and researching public policy papers but sometimes I came up short and ended up doing all sorts of strange work. One summer it was retail security for a discount clothing retailer. At any given time there was me and a half dozen (gorgeous) teenage girls working the floor. During the slow periods I would chat them up but nothing really came of it. There was one little Asian girl who I became friendly with. …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:47 PM
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The problem is that a sign of a true professional is that they want to work themselves out of a job. When people can learn on their own, we need no teachers. When people no longer get sick, we need no doctors. If people could work out their own problems, we would not need lawyers. These are no longer professions, these are jobs that benefit from inventing new problems that only they can deal with.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:26 PM
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A good car is a good ride that won't "take you for a ride". It's sad that a Trans Am, a Lab Retriever, an X-Box and the occasional hooker are a much happier substitute than having an LTR GF
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:18 PM
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I am a former divorce lawyer who has been out of the game for 6 year. I am not up on all the latest travesties but funding another person's law suit could be illegal as per champerty or maintenance. These are old common law traditions that have been eroded by public advocacy groups messing in personal affairs.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:53 PM
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A lot of RPT could be summarized as: 1) Make money 2) Lift weights 3) Fuck bitches. If you are under 30, then go for it. If you are under 40 then strive for it. Once you have crested 40 then maybe your thinking will shift.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:43 PM
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Roughly speaking, 15% inflation compounded over 115 years (1900-2015) is a factor of 10,000,000. That is just the mathematics. You have no observable facts to back up that assertion. A $50million mansion today did not go for $5 at the turn of the century. In the context of this discussion, if - by age 45 - you can be slightly ahead of the other white males with college degrees, you are not doing that bad. While the overall median in Canada is about $50k a year, being male, white, middle aged, an…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:32 PM
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Audio might be the way to go but as I mentioned above about "yes means yes", it would get awfully tedious to be verbalizing everything you did and asking permission at every juncture. It would take a whole new type of game: normal, stable women would get frustrated by a guy who is constantly asking permission.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 03:47 AM
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Unfortunately, "yes means yes" laws make it a practical impossibility to get legal consent. You have to get affirmative consent every time you escalate and every time you do something new or different in that make-out session (previous consent is irrelevant). That's the way the law is designed. Heck, by that standard I raped my fiancée about 15 times in the last 24 hours.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 03:45 AM
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I suppose nobody has ever hear of the civil courts. Rape and such are civil wrongs and you can go after the perpetrator and the standard of proof is on the balance of probabilities. The thing is, the accuser actually has to put their money where their mouth is and fund the litigation, and there are consequences if they lose. Everyone is entitled to a lawyer but they have to pay for their own lawyer; the loser will have to kick in for a portion of the other person's legal costs (at least, that is…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 03:14 AM
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GIGO. There is something wrong with your numbers. My dad bought his house in 1972 for about $40k and it sold 40 years later for maybe $800k. That's less than 8% per year when the CPI for the same period was about 4%. The other numbers I checked against were the price of ground beef and bread and milk. None of those rose consistently at a 7% compounded rate. Working backwards, if real estate was really rising at 15% compounded for over a century, a $10 million mansion today would have sold for ju…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 01:56 AM
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Get hold of the video "Brainwashed" It is subtitled but it goes through the host's honest confrontation with this bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:14 AM
1

If you make $92k then you pay about 25% in income taxes leaving you with $69k. You lose about a grand to EI contributions and another $2500 to CPP for a disposable income of just over $65.5k. While HST is not on everything, assuming 13% means that you could only really buy about $58k of "stuff". If you spent a third of that on a 25 year mortgage at 5%, that would be $275k of financing so you are looking at $300k to $350k as your budget for a house, depending on the size of your down payment. If …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:00 PM
1

I didn't end up joining. I just scoped them out and attended the parties. I was at the University of British Columbia, generally regarded as the second best law school in the country, but I don't think there were any "elite" frats on campus. I dabbled in Phi Delta Phi or something like that (a legal fraternity) but never pursued it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:40 PM
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I've told this story elsewhere but. . . I was in a mixed crowd at the university pub and a discussion about dating came up. I commented that I tended to for girls who were 'cute' rather than 'hot'. One girl, who was downright hot - tall, slim, nice face, good knockers, big hair (it was the 80s) - said: "What's wrong, you don't think you could get a hot girlfriend?" So now here I am, centre stage, looking her in the eye and I replied, such that everyone could here: "No, it's not that I couldn't g…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:31 PM
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The basic mechanism is that they don't want you to have a higher SMV than them because then dread game will follow, either consciously or just as a matter of course. They want to have more options than you, don't want you to leverage your increased status against them, and don't want to hear "why would you leave a hot guy like that?" if they ever reach for another branch. In a completely different context, I had a girlfriend who agreed to a FFM 3-some so we started looking for other women that w…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:17 PM
1

I never got laid a lot in university because mostly I was just having fun with the rest of my life. For most of my 20s I did the serial monogamy thing (3 girls over 7 years plus some one night stands and a few short term - a month or so here and there) so it wasn't like I was going without sex. When I hit 30 I went to law school. Law students generally make horrible girlfriends. I looked into joining a frat, which I never did during undergrad. During rush/frosh week I attended lots of frat parti…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:57 AM
2

What gets harder is that your environment will not have as many young, probably gorgeous, women around who you have a ready excuse to interact with. If you leave college at 22 and get nestled into your first job it will likely suck. It takes a lot of effort to try and run with the same college crowd. If you were in a frat you always have the possibility keeping in touch with the guys who are 1 to 3 years younger and party with the college girls. Otherwise it will suck for a few years. The other …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:38 AM
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The fact that she already had her rule of three planned out is a bit disturbing. Something you always should consider is why you want to spend time with a woman in the first place. If sex is only the really interesting thing about her then avoid dropping money on "dates", escalate, negotiate shit tests and LMR/ASD, and don't think about how "lucky" you are. If by the third date you are still haven't taken her to bed - never mind not even getting a kiss - then next. If you are getting something o…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:08 AM
1

Averages are funny because they toss together a whole bunch of unrelated people and give you a single number that usually doesn't represent any of them. The median income of a middle-aged white guy with a college education in Canada is over $90k a year. That's not doing too bad.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:36 AM
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The CPI in the USA has increased by an (geometric, ie compounded) average of 3% per year since 1900. However, it averaged 4% since 1970 after the oil shock, but just over 2% since 2000. What gets misleading about this is that real estate prices rise at about double the official rate, and staples such as meat and bread rise at about time-and-a-half the official rate. What keeps the rate down is that technology has made most other things, but especially electronics, fall in price relative to every…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:33 AM
1

Actually, the statistic refers to any kind of sexual contact: oral, vaginal or anal. However, it doesn't include gay sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:09 AM
1

They don't have the stats for IQ, and I don't have my copy of The Bell Curve handy, but they do break it down by education level which is a proxy for intelligence. Women with a bachelors degree are 5 times as likely to be virgins as a high school drop out. High school drop outs and college grads have about the same chance of having 4+ partners in a year, but high school graduates and those with only some college at more than twice as likely. College grads have a median number of lifetime partner…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:02 AM
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The sample of married people was about 27,000 for each gender so you are looking at maybe 180 women and maybe 400 men who were not getting any. The numbers were reported as 0.7(0.3) and 1.5(0.5) with the bracketed number the margin of error.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:58 AM
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I dated Chinese girls in Canada and Chinese girls in China. The latter have n-counts of 3 or less; the former, who is to say? There is a definite pussy difference with the only variable being a culture of sluttiness.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:48 AM
1

Did your spouse suck or did she blow? Or did she do neither which was the real tragedy in your sex life? :-)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:42 AM
1

It's a rule of thumb and the built in assumption is an average musculature and bone structure. For an average 5'10" guy a 30 BMI would mean weighing 210. Not everyone who lifts is 210, never mind the 280 it would take to be "morbidly obese". In competition, Arnold Schwarzenegger was just over 30 and Ronnie Coleman was just over 40. Other than serious bodybuilders and power lifters, most guys will stay well under 200 as they shed fat and pack on the muscle. On the other hand, most will qualify as…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:56 PM
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It's only 0.7% of women and 1.5% of men who were currently married but didn't have sex in the last. Small numbers but the fact that double the number of men reported that status it seems to say that 0.8% of married women were cuckolding the husband: no sex for him but they got some on the side. However, married men were more likely than married women to have had 2 or more partners. The part that I found interesting is that divorcees are the group most likely to not be getting any and the most li…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:21 PM
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Virgins have no frame of reference. The more men that a woman has had sex/relationships with, the more the tendency for her to look for a fantasy man with all the best traits and none of the faults of all her exes combined. Even if her n-count is just one, if that one was Chad Thundercock who completely rocked her world it doesn't matter if you are a saint and he was a complete douchebag, she will be looking for Saint Thundercock and is no longer marriage material (been there, done that).
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:05 PM
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The actual statistic was that 30% of 18 and 19 year old respondents claimed to have never had sexual contact with a member of the opposite sex. It dropped to about 1-in-8 for the 20-24 year old cohort. . The percentages vary slightly by race, and probably by IQ (they break it down by education - the better educated, the more likely they are virgins - but most people don't complete a university degree until age 22). It probably also varies by region, religion, family status (single parent vs inta…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:56 AM
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John Snobelen was Minister of Education under Mike Harris and a high school drop out. That one never gets old.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:21 AM
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Obese is a BMI of 30+. Morbid obesity is BMI 40+ or BMI 35+ combined with weight-related health or living issues, or otherwise 100 pounds overweight. Any criticism of a (leftist) woman is spun as being sexism. Similar shit if you try to criticize Obama then it must be motivated by racism.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:15 AM
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That website thebolde.com is full of hamster poop. There is a similar article: http://thebolde.com/ladies-dont-blame-single-5-reasons-fault/ Some of the common themes are "you are so awesome, guys should worship you", "never compromise", "set high standards", "don't tolerate nonsense", "men just want to hook up", "most men are not worth your time", etc Some or all of these crop up in pretty much every article, at least the hand full that I scanned through.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:53 AM
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It is just head-shaking. Men pay for everything that can be paid for with money. Emotional labour? Are you kidding? What men have to put up with? Intellectual labour? To figure out how to spend my money? Sexual labour? So you are a whore who doesn't actually enjoy it? Physical labour? Compared to men? Are you on drugs?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:44 PM
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I occasionally chat with a few near misses, but anything that I have stuck my dick in that don't wanna be stuck no more is deleted from my life. "Let's be friends" is bullshit once you have crossed the orgasm event horizon together.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:26 AM
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It gets worse once the political element rears its ugly head. Some organizations will only hire white knight betas just to have someone around to lift more than 50 pounds and kill spiders in the office and such. I have had some pretty weird jobs to get me though university and sometimes it works in your favour. A clothing retailer set up a clearance centre and I got hired on for the summer to do retail security. At any given time, it was me and a dozen or more gorgeous teenage girls working the …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:48 PM
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I think it has already been mentioned: date younger women. As long as you have aged well, very few people will give you heartache for going after a 20-something. You will get more flak for bagging teenagers but let the haters hate. Hell, I am pushing 50 and my most recent ex was 26. The only problem is that most 20-somethings behave like 12 year olds so it is hard to have a serious relationship with them.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:39 PM
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The usual number that is bandied about is that 80% of consumer spending is controlled by women. In the Western World, men already give their money to women. I was at a pharmacy to buy some medicine that my girlfriend helped direct me to. I paid the cashier and then the cashier (a woman) hands the change to my girlfriend!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:33 PM
1

I used to teach grade 12 economics and there was always a chapter on "wage determinants". I trotted out the 77 cents on the dollar statistic (which is correct on its own grounds) and asked the students if they thought it was "fair". Of course they said no. Then I walked them through every one of the wage determinant and they had to agree that, in almost every case, men did more to boost their wages than women did. The only area where it gets murky is with the level of education. The problem is t…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:27 PM
1

Please bring us back Bill Bixby and Lou Ferrigno.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:56 PM
1

Is there some larger function of life under RPT other than: lift-weights, fuck bitches, make money?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:45 PM
2

Maybe this is economics 201: price discrimination. In a free market economy, you set your price and people will pay it or they won't. That price reflects your costs and a profit. Price discrimination tries to get people to pay what it is worth to them. If you are a customer where the retailer can't price discriminate but you are willing to pay what it is worth to you - through a tip or bonus or keep-the-change - then you have just made yourself a connection. You have made an impression. You are …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:37 PM
1

All science is imperfect, until we actually develop "Heisenberg compensators" ST:TNG. The level of error in anything we do is dictated by Planck's Constant. Planck Space, Planck Time, Planck's Wall and any other factors have held fast as the limits (Heisenberg figured out the minimum level of indeterminancy is Planck's Constant). . Adapting to the system rather than changing it has a long, 20th century history if you look at economics and political economy, not to mention the failures of Communi…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:22 PM
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Realistically, the people who it didn't work for are people you will not really hear from. People who don't need it might have found their own truths which are completely at odds with RPT, and you won't hear from them either. It may not be as insidious as Scientology where the cult takes the credit for the successes and the individuals are blamed for the failures, but if you have ever had a sleepless night and watched the infomercials at 3am you will notice that everyone talks about how the get-…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:41 PM
1

The point is, there is a statistical distribution. Psychometrics, demographics, some brands of economics and such can give you some large scale numbers to work with while not providing any insight on the behaviours of individuals. Something as simple as an element's half-life can do the same. . Still, NAWALT is not something I would bet on any more than proton decay.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:25 PM
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I dunno man. Lots of women would do Mick Jagger and he has never been a looker (one music wag early on said something like "they have some talent but we need to get rid of the singer with the big lips"). Given the state of American women today, what are the odds that Warren would be rebuffed (pun intended)? . At the other end, we are talking about SMV, not relationship or marriage value. Guys with 8 or higher based on looks or personality can always find tail, albeit not long-lasting in most cas…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:20 AM
1

But we have no idea of the numbers involved. There is a reporting bias - perhaps enforced here - that emphasizes successes over failures.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:12 AM
1

That's not completely true as there is almost always statistical variation, especially with anything at the quantum level. RPT is more collective wisdom than science or whatever. If someone could run a reliable and valid experiment about RPT, that should carry more weight than any individual anecdote. With a large enough sample size, that should displace certain aspects and reinforce others.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:10 AM
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TRP is generally in line with evolutionary psychology. You can go here to read up on it. \ . Off the top of my head, I don't know of any "conventional" psychology that touches on RPT regarding gender relations. I think a lot of those studies are in sociology and anthropology which barely qualify as "science" in their methods.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:03 AM
2

I get 67/100. I find the post interesting, but if I reinvented the wheel I guess I would do things a bit differently (I am a game designer so stuff like this fascinates me). I would not use a multiplier but rather adding or subtracting points to keep it more-or-less on the 0-100 scale. A rich celebrity who might score 20 - a 2 SMV? - would not be a 4 but maybe an 8. Similarly, a 90 point guy who lived in this parents basement would still rate an 8 for SMV just based on looks and personality. I g…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:55 AM
1

For me, online dating is the only way to go. It is not about choice but about selection.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:08 AM
1

From my days as a marketing student: "choice creates empowerment; too much choice creates confusion."
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:06 AM
2

My father was an angry workaholic. After amassing several million dollars in assets, he retired and then was struck down by brain cancer a few months later. His last words to me were "I worked too hard". . http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/thestar/obituary.aspx?pid=131691749 . He taught me what a man should be and what a man should not be. It is a pity that he won't see his daughter in law or his grandchildren.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:00 AM
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If you have the financial backing to go beyond a bachelors degree then it doesn't matter what you study. Do what you love and get a 3.8 GPA then master the LSAT or GMAT to go on to a law degree or MBA. Unless you are willing to stick it out for another 2 or 5 or 10 years you will never get a job "in your field".
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 02:51 AM
2

Sort of defeats the purpose of talking in private. The whole point is that the students didn't want the everyone else to know her shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:34 AM
2

Tempting in some cases but too many questions would be asked. :-p
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:32 AM
1

The law varies from state to state, or province to province so you have to lay out a few thousand bucks for a licensed attorney to give you any details that you will ultimately act upon. However, as a some general points: If you want an EE trophy wife to be a stay-at-home mother the starting point will be that, in the event of divorce, she will have custody of the kids and you will be paying child support and alimony. The further you try to deviate from that in the prenup, the more likely it is …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:52 AM
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My students were mostly 17 to 20 year olds. If I had to meet with them "in private" it was in one of the offices with big bay windows out into the foyer: door closed, blinds up, curtains open.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:05 AM
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It's that subconscious female desire to create "damned-if-you-do/damned-if-you-don't" structures to give them the power, on a whim, to save their own hide or punish men for any perceived wrongdoing. . Personally, I like an office with a big bay window or else the walls entirely made out of glass.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:00 AM
1

When I was 29 I decided to move across the country and attend law school. This didn't sit well with my BPD girlfriend and she broke up with me, but still had lucid moments to climb back into bed on occasion. I had a succession of new girlfriends and racked up a notch count of 6 for the year. That might not sound like much to professed PUAs or the people that actually listen to them, but it put me in the top 5% for that year. You have to get to the point where IDGAF. Take some ME time. Do weights…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:26 PM
1

I read one wag comment that 20% to 40% of girls actually prefer older men. Personally, when I was in my 30s, I was all over the place in terms of ages from 18 to a few years older than me, but a decade would be a typical gap. Those were all white (Canadian) girls. I live in China now and I am in my 40s. The girls I was dating were about 15 years younger with one that was 22 years younger. My male Chinese friends tell me that sort of age gap is very unusual. IMHO, here in China if you are a guy i…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:09 PM
3

The conviction rate has to been understood in light of the bullshit rate of accusations. It's not even that women lie about rape (which does happen) but that they are socially conditioned to invent a lack of consent after the fact. I had to defend a guy in court who sold another guy a boat that turned out to be a lemon. We got into all sorts of nuances about patent and latent defects and contract law and such. I won the case and the plaintiff was stuck with the lemon.. In a rape case little thin…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:55 PM
1

In my first year at law school I asked my lesbian feminist criminal law professor if a successful constitutional challenge on an otherwise slam dunk, fact based conviction was what laymen called "getting off on a technicality". She said something like "well if any aspect of the law reduces or eliminates a sentence, then perhaps that is correct". Flash forward to second year advanced criminal procedure where the prof is a male crown attorney (ie prosecutor). Posed the same question his answer was…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:46 PM
1

The data I have is from a few years ago (2008) but it indicated that the number of partners had dropped from 2002. Additionally, the percentage of guys who reported the highest tier of partners (4+ in one year or 15+ overall) had declined.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 08:33 PM
1

Only 5% to 10% of guys reported having 4 or more partners in one year.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 08:21 PM
1

Top 20% overall is 15+ but it depends on your age. The median for teenagers is less than 2 while the over 30 crowd the median is about 6 or so. By the time you hit 40, having 15+ partners only puts you in the top 30% Having one new partner each year probably puts you in the top 20% Having 2 partners in any given year definitely puts you up there.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 08:12 PM
1

Her measurements are 90-60-88 (metric). Given how skinny she is, her boobs are actually rather stupendous. She isn't a hard body, that is for sure, and maybe she isn't your cup of tea, but seriously, a 6?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:18 PM
3

It's an alpha/beta thing. The ideal man will have both. A woman will spread her legs for a provider and want to settle down. But don't delude yourself into thinking that she does not crave an epic fuck. Forget that for a moment and the next thing you know your wife is cheating on you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:01 AM
1

You have to go with your instincts. I live in China and I can tell you from experience that Chinese vaginas are tighter than anything you will find in America. It isn't even a racial thing. I had Chinese girlfriends in Canada and they were just a stretched out as the white chicks. If you are a white guy travelling to China , buy some condoms at home because the ones here will be one size too small. Some of the girls are Buddhists, and some are Commies but you can help them find religion: "Oh my …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:53 AM
2

I am not much more than a 7. I get by on being clever. I need to get back in the gym and lift to make me an 8. Once my income gets into 6 figures, then that might push me to a 9. Meanwhile, I have to be all over my fiancé to get her 6 to be an 8. We will make a cute couple.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:32 AM
1

Rule 38, if I recall correctly.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:32 AM
0

I would have to comb the internet again but one interesting study I recall was that they took a bunch of guys and had them dress in sweats or a jumpsuit or something and have girls rate them. Then they let the guys doll themselves up like if they were going on a date. They did psych tests on them and what they found was that Dark Triad guys clean up better. Their SMV jumps by 2 points simply by the way they dress and groom themselves.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:30 AM
1

First answer is that women crave drama. It is completely stupid but sometimes you have to create drama. You have to act like a dick so that you have something to argue about and they can get that out of their system. You reconcile and have awesome make-up sex and then plan for later that year when you will have to do it all again. Second, most women want to be victims. I don't make the rules I just call it like I see it. Take the most powerful, independent woman you can find and she will go limp…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:26 AM
1

I am 48 and my Chinese fiancé is 34. If this does not work out then all bets are off and I will hang with 18 year old LBFMs until I have a stroke.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:05 AM
1

I clock in as INTP so I don't really get lonely. Well, not much anyways. I see my fiancé once a week. I visit my family once a year. I go to work but mostly I live inside myself. Some of this pays off as I expect to get a passive income stream this year from the IP a developed a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:03 AM
1

Biologically and scientifically speaking, women end at 35 because the complications surrounding having a baby become exponentially higher. For guys it is not quite so harsh but if you are 40-ish or 50-ish your sperm is not the same. The chances for birth defects are still quite small at the cusp but they are 2, 5, 10 times more than if you are a 30 year old guy porking a 20 year old girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:55 AM
1

It's good to read about an RP guy who can make a marriage work. I am now venturing into that territory. It will be like cat wrangling but the last thing I need is a bunch of self-proclaimed alphas telling me what a moron I am for tying the knot.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:50 AM
1

I am 48 and my finace is 34. Previously I dated a bunch of young girls but also some quality women who were in their late 30s or more. That included a statuesque blonde of 38 and a 40 year old Chinese woman who had the body of a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:45 AM
1

"whether you believe you can or can't, you're right." There are other ways to say it, but that is right on. I am no player but I have had the pleasure of the company of several shockingly gorgeous women. How? Because I went for it. The worst that can happen is that they say no. After I turned 30 I never really felt comfortable with a woman my own age. I travel half way around the world and design games for a living. I am 48 but generally get pegged as being mid-30s (although that computer progra…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:39 AM
1

The "male wall" sets in at about 50. At that point you will have difficulty cruising college girls. I am 48 and decided to wife-up with someone 14 years younger than me. I spent 4 years as a divorce attorney so I know what I am in for. I think I have chosen well but if it all goes to hell in a hand basket then plan B will be to move the Philippines or Thailand and drown my sorrows in a sea of LBFMs.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:25 AM
1

I'm 48 and was dating a 26 year old (HB8). I had to dump her because she behaved like a child. We had a great dating relationship but when I wanted to get more serious she would avoid me. We spent 4 days jumping all over each other for Chinese New Year but didn't do the deed. Then she disappears for a month. Then she reappears and wants to sleep with me, but insists that we are not serious. Then she says that she wants to get a visa and come with me to Canada to meet my family. I say 'great' and…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:15 AM
1

In the movie Secretary, the female protagonist was a cutter who was committed to the cracker factory for a while before getting into an S&M relationship with her boss. In my own experiences I dated one cutter. She took me home and I noticed a chin up bar in the doorway to her kitchen. She wasn't the athletic type so I asked her what it was for and she said "To tie me up to, silly". That pretty much set the stage. I only found the cut marks on her ankles after a bout of the most awesome sex ever …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:00 AM
7

Sex on the Beach is a cocktail with vodka, peach schnapps, orange juice and cranberry juice. Thumbs up that he can score a hot Latina half his age. I have to wonder about the jury decision and their assessment of mens rea. Did they have the knowledge and intent to be getting it on in front of a kid? I suspect not. A 15 year sentence would be completely stupid. Registering as sex offenders is retarded considering the only people they are in danger of molesting is each other. They crossed a line b…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:50 AM
1

One can always massage the facts to glean some sort of 80/20 anecdote. The typical RP formulation is that the top 20% of men have sex with 80% of the women, which is nonsense. The top 20% of men tend to do the rounds with the sluttiest 20% of women and both get ridiculously high notch counts in the process. I live in China which gives me a different perspective on things but if you presented me with 10 American women chosen at random, odds are there would only be two that I would seriously consi…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:40 AM
0

If anyone else has a grounding in statistics I would be interested to read their take on mean, median, mode and standard deviation regarding the HB10 system. Ethnicity goes into play. I live in China where the average female BMI is 4 points lower than America. Maybe you don't like almond eyes and dark, straight hair but generally, a China 5 is a 7 in Detroit. Then there are girls like this. Maybe we can do a straw poll here, but is she an 8 or a 9?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:22 AM
2

A corollary is that if you get into an LTR you have to constantly be on her ass to be the best that she can be so as to be worthy of you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:07 AM
1

As a public service, will someone post this on youku.com or else upload it as a torrent in Kickass? I am not a PUA or MRA or M-O-U-S-E or whatever, but I have been a public speaking instructor, varsity debater, and a lawyer at the provincial court level. . I agree with some, but not all, of what Roosh says. However, I would really like to see how he was raked over the coals on this one before I can offer any practical advice.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 01:04 AM
1

No dice but thanks for the attempt.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 12:53 AM
2

I get an "Invalid Source" message. Fucking commies.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:47 PM
3

I was dating a Chinese model in Shanghai. She was always bugging me to "do business" which seemed to mean getting into East-West/import-export, not something I have the interest or expertise for. Her father is some sort of businessman with an income around $100k and the sticking point was that I didn't make as much as he did. Obviously she was complicit but she told me that if she didn't marry up she was on her own (with the counter-intuitive corollary being that if she did find a rich guy, he w…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:37 PM
1

That can come off two ways. One is that being in a relationship involves certain mutual self-sacrificing behavior whether it is driving the distance or swallowing dick. The other is the implied threat of never seeing her again unless she gets with the program. My gf is pretty conservative. Left to her own devices it would be 5 minutes of missionary once a month. She gave me head once and then outright refused saying she didn't like it. She pulled other crap until I dumped her just before Christm…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:34 PM
3

I'm in China and youtube and the Dr. Oz vid won't load properly so I haven't seen the footage. The impression I got from what I have read is that he was walking a fine line between trying to make his points, getting interrupted, and if he became assertive there would never be an end to the accusations of how angry, aggressive, hateful and violent he is.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:11 PM
1

Now THAT would be beta. I choose the restaurant, I set the frame, I prescreen so that I know I can kick back and enjoy myself. Being a cheap SOB who won't lay out what amounts to pocket change for any man of quality and trying to dress that up as being alpha or red pill or whatever doesn't wash.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:02 PM
1

Maybe. I have been in China for the last few years.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:09 PM
1

I'm no chump and have not been played. It is a bit of peacocking and it works, largely.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:24 AM
1

I never said that was the only thing, but it stands out. My father taught me to always be smarter than the next guy. Work hard, enjoy life, and be generous with your bounty. Appreciate quality. Never lose your sense of the ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:19 AM
1

I was in Australia about the same time. Never had that discussion. Every Aussie bloke I have talked to recently has said the country has gone to hell as far as the women are concerned.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:58 AM
2

The standard statistic that is bandied about is that women control 80% of consumer spending.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:55 AM
0

I like to have some significant communications first - telephone, email, texting, whatever - but a dinner date is a good way to see how she behaves in public. Mind you, the most I have ever dropped on a (first) dinner date was 500RMB (about $100 Canadian). Spending 350 pounds is roughly 7 times that amount.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:51 AM
1

One of the first laws of TRP is that what women say and what women do have no necessary connection to each other.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:46 AM
-1

If you want to take IDGAF seriously you have to apply that to money. I have had some girls insist on going Dutch and I tell them "you can pay next time". Their response to that is always telling. We aren't talking about buying a house or a car, it is a fucking meal, albeit a rather pricey one. Suck it up. Laying out a couple hundred bucks here or there is not being beta, it is being classy. Don't worry, be happy. Compared to my last couple of GFs, my income is 3 or 4 times what theirs is, so I p…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:39 AM
1

At this point the game is to know what SJWs THINK is rape and avoiding that. Any correspondence to reality that definitions have is meaningless when you deal with these people. Go back 25 years or so to when I was young and stupid and a couple of times I did things that could put me at risk. On the other hand there was one girl who I said no to, but then we went out, got drunk, and I plowed her field in the front seat of her car. Who was raping who? Nobody! I am a lot more savvy now. I never dri…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:27 AM
1

There is always the McNaughton rules about legal insanity. Being bat shit crazy doesn't absolve you. A pedophile or a rapist knows what they are doing is wrong. Unless you are right out in la la land you can still get convicted.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:12 AM
1

As a general rule, have a fucking shower first. You don't go from anal to vaginal because that is just asking to get some sort of infection. Out of the dozens of women I have slept with, maybe 20% liked anal but only 1 went ATM and one other tossed my salad. All the porn crap you might see involves whores who have multiple enemas before they take it up the hoop on camera. If you can train your bitch to be that obedient then go for it. It becomes less about the sex and more about the assertion of…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:56 AM
1

My mom has a certain wisdom about her but she is not academic. When I was really young, like 4 or something, I went crying to her saying "that kid pushed me down and took my toy!" Her response? "Push him down and take your toy back!" She has done some silly things which is why she is on her third marriage. My dad was basically the same age as her. Her second husband was 12 years younger. Her present husband is 16 years younger. In between I encountered a number of boyfriends who were not much ol…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:25 AM
5

My basic training was completely male. However, when I did my junior leadership course (to qualify as a mastercorporal) we had a section of women in the platoon. It was all fucked up because political correctness was rolling in during the early 90s. Being on the JLC meant that you had a few years in so we were not dealing with teenagers. At first the powers that be insisted that we set up screens each night, and then took them down in the morning, so that the men could not look at the women. Aft…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:16 AM
3

I ended up passing on an 8 to have a 6 who doesn't give me heartache and, frankly, is easier to "train". Me? A 7 I suppose but I am pushing 50 and can't be chasing tail for the next 10 or 20 years and such.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:01 AM
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I read about this elsewhere. Good on them. The CEO of the company has the look of an alpha who doesn't give a shit. Now I have to get my LTR into the gym so she is beach body ready for August.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:53 AM
1

Not so much the cookies but she admitted to me that one time when she was in an argument with her ex she punched herself in the face until he backed off. Then for the next week she was walking around with a black eye that everyone assumed he gave her.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:35 AM
4

For me it was, literally, an oral tradition passed down by the older guys. It is easy enough to google "speak from the diaphragm" and you will get a number of hits. Probably the best is Toastmasters. . http://messagemasters.squarespace.com/articles/speak-from-the-diaphragm.html
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:26 AM
1

It depends on the girl and her background. An HK girl that I met in Shanghai put out on the first night. A fashion model in Shanghai who was from a smaller city took 3 dates spread over more than a year before she jumped me. Another shockingly gorgeous one from here in Jinan took two months just to get to third base but then we called it off when she declared that she would not give it up unless I got her a visa to Canada. My current LTR took a few dates to get in the sack, and things are going …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:20 AM
1

I am in a suburb of Jinan called Changqing. I live next to DaXueLu (University Road) and a couple of blocks away is DaXueChang (University Square). There are half a dozen or more universities in walking distance and on any given day University Square is overrun with more tail than you can shake a stick at. However, most don't speak English. . I might have to go to Shenzhen on business in the next month or so, and I can let you know.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:12 AM
1

You are correct. What I call "The Big Three" (Shanghai, Beijing, HK) are much more Western and have a bigger party culture.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:06 AM
1

I can only speak as a Canadian, but if you are 17+ and your life seems all fucked up, then join the Canadian Forces Reserves. Choose the military engineers if you want to learn some man-skills and like to blow shit up, or else a Highland infantry regiment because kilts are the greatest chick magnets I have ever seen. Two summers at the RCR Battle School beats the hell out of flipping burgers. The pay is pretty good now. Your body will be what it should be. You will fear nothing and life's little…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 04:33 AM
1

High school academics matter if you want to go university and in many cases if you want a job. In the latter case - unless you are applying for a dead end job - your potential boss will want something that show you are not a complete muppet. On the former point, I basically unplugged in my last year of highschool. With all the energy I spent on various red pill stuff, my GPA dropped from an A- to a B+ and that cost me the opportunity to attend the top school in country (University of Toronto). I…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 04:02 AM
2

It's on a spectrum, but the guy will take the lead. I can only think of one girl who was the aggressive one, and I turned those tables rather quickly when things got going.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:34 AM
10

I live in China and you would have to look high and low to find a girl with an n-count of more than 4, regardless of age. If you catch them in their youth (18 to 24) then you are looking at a zero or maybe a one.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:27 AM
13

I was a drill sergeant and what you have to do is speak from the diaphragm and not from your vocal chords. If you can do this you will never need a microphone to carry a room.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:21 AM
2

I studied business management at Ryerson and that was relatively cool. Then I went to law school at the University of British Columbia and that was fucking insane. The only place that would have been more insane would be the University of Victoria. Just to set the stage for everyone, this is a university that is so far to the left they couldn't put it on the left coast: they had to put it on an island a hundred miles left of the left coast.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:16 PM
4

In high school, which was about 30 years ago, I unplugged. There was no RPT then and The Matrix was still 15 years away. I was a geek. I clock in at about 138 IQ and got by on that plus being a "nice guy". It really went nowhere. When I unplugged I spent all my money on: 1) contact lenses, 2) a great haircut from the trendiest salon 3) new clothes from a mid-level shop. Then I joined the army reserves and spent a summer training with the airborne and when I got back I fronted a rock band. Within…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 01:31 PM
1

I am Canadian, so I cant speak for that third world country to the south. My best guess is that she an "old soul and a young soul". It remains to be seen how that will play out for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:22 AM
1

I am not one to judge other than saying I was not a fan. I suppose the Canadian version would be called 6-Pack-24.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:13 AM
1

WeChat is fuzzy as I am still trying to get the WiFi working properly in my apartment.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:09 AM
1

You always have to be her best option. You have to have the brains, the cash and they savvy such that any other guy - ANY OTHER GUY - looks like a chimpanzee by comparison. You need to keep it up basically 24/7. Need a shoulder to cry on? That is what your mother is for. Have a problem? That is what your bros are for.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 06:13 AM
3

Maybe it is genetic. I am 48 and my girlfriend is 26. My mother divorced my father when I was about 8 years old. Her next husband was 12 years younger. After they split, it got increasingly creepy as her boyfriends were closer and closer to my age. The "you go girl" moment was when I met her new dance partner: a male stripper. Nice guy, about 3 years older than me, and rather quiet considering. Damn, I wish I had a body like his! She finally settled into her third marriage (which the family gene…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 06:07 AM
1

The mean/σ argument is something I have been floating for years but have not had any science to back me up. It explains a lot of things like the male dominance in STEM fields as well as homeless rates. You can make good money with a 95 IQ and a bit of drive. Work in the Alberta oil patch for 5 years and you are almost ready to retire. I was in the military engineers for a decade. Many of these guys are like a bag a hammers but they are clever and they learn highly sophisticated tasks by rote. Ge…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:57 AM
1

I might have to drop in on you later this year: it is only an hour and a half by bullet train. Here in Jinan there just aren't enough girls who speak decent English to run game.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:41 AM
2

I think you have a point. I have dated women over 35 and up to 40 who had a great attitude (and could pass for a dozen years younger). For me, I am looking at the end game and that includes having a couple of kids. It is just too messed up to try that with any woman over the age of 35.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:36 AM
1

Use it, and here is the addendum: I was a geek in high school and I could not pay a girl to piss on me if I wanted to. Then I unplugged: got a haircut, better clothes, contact lenses, joined the army and formed a rock band. That transition showed me just how vacuous society - and women in particular - can be. Blue pill says "be yourself"; Red pill says "be the person you are meant to be".
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:29 AM
1

I spent a lot of time in Shanghai but only played tourist in Beijing. How are the living conditions there? (Work, infrastructure, women, etc)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:16 AM
1

Next year I will launch a restaurant. I am also considering fashion design or furniture. Nobody in TO would pay attention to me if I did that, but here I can be a rock star. If you have internet skills then look at Shanghai. I briefly dated a girl (Hong Kong born, raised in Vancouver) that hooked up with an internet marketing firm and she basically ran the online campaign for Coke. We never discussed it but my guess is that she was making close to six-figures (in CDN$). The internet generally su…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:12 AM
1

Nietzsche had a messed up narrative style so I can't really hold Rand's novelization against her. It is the substance that really lets her go. An IQ over about 130 has no immediate practical effect. Above that, you get exquisite math or impenetrable philosophical tracts, and that is about it. Marilyn Vos Savant became a writer which - in my Red Pill way - I would say is a fucking waste.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:03 AM
2

Technically it becomes a "postnup" and you go back to your lawyer. The fuck of it is that you need your wife to agree to the new terms every time. It is like a self-fulfilling prophecy because these sorts of negotiations put a strain on the marriage and lay bare the fault lines.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:52 AM
2

At one point I stumbled into a hen fest where a bunch of my female friends were lamenting about how many men they had slept with. They all thought their numbers were too high. I told them "but if you didn't enjoy it, then it doesn't count!" All of their faces lit up with that bit of insight.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:37 PM
1

I think part of it is the notch count. CBC (Canadian Born Chinese) are just as slutty as the white girls. Here in China the girls I've been with didn't have a notch count more than 3 or 4.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:32 PM
1

I have not found a correlation for women (I have no interest in dicks so I have not investigated that particular question). I've been with girls from 4'11" up to 5'10". I had a date with one who was 6'3" but that didn't go anywhere (although that would have been interesting).
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:26 PM
1

My rating system sort of sounds like buying timber. A 2 by 6 anyone? I live in China now and I can tell you flat out: all vaginas are not the same size. It's not even a racial thing. When I lived in Canada I had a number of Chinese girlfriends. Maybe it's something in the water. More likely it is the basic absence of the carousel here.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:17 PM
1

In my 20s I had three serious girlfriends: one Black, one White and one Asian. They were basically back-to-back and occupied me for about 7 years. Before that I did the whole six-foot blonde thing (ok, they were actually 5'10"). In my 30s I went for another White chick but she was a teenager, so that was a bit different. I never got any heartache about my racial preferences but my father gave me quite the razzing about shacking up with an 18 year old.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:07 PM
1

I don't know about "fat" but curvy or even buxom is ok. A former girlfriend of mine was only 5'2" but weighed about 130 pounds or so. That put her BMI on the cusp of being overweight. However, she carried her weight well and had nice T&A and a WHR that was probably close to 0.7 I don't think that if she packed on 20 more pounds she would still look good, WHR or not.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:49 PM
1

I've been there and done that but never again. In my case she was a solid 9 but she was running up against the Wall. It didn't help that she was BPD bat guano crazy.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:09 PM
1

I won't compromise my standards. Why? Because bitches won't compromise theirs! I was a geeky teenager who was all but invisible to women until I unplugged myself: new clothes, new haircut, contact lenses. I joined the army reserve and after a summer of being trained by the airborne I fronted a rock band. All of a sudden I was the most popular kid in school. That experience showed me just how shallow women are. It only lasted a year and then I was off to university, but it was eye-opening. Buxom,…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:59 PM
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"contemplative nature" = hamster. I think what she is on about is the tendency guys have to go through a mid-life crisis. Personally, I had mine when I was 25-30 so my mind is fairly clear now.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:30 PM
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When I was 32 I was chatting online with a 19 year old. I asked her to come over to my place for lunch and she refused at first. I asked her why not and she was frank with me. Her: "I think you want to have sex with me." Me: "Why do you think that?" Her: "What else would a man your age want with a girl my age?" Me: "Are you saying you have nothing to offer a man my age other than sex?" Her: "No, I have a lot to offer!" Me: "Well then, I guess you just answered your own question." Pause Her: "Ok,…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:24 PM
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Did she pour it all over her tits in slow motion?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:13 PM
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I find the same thing. I will have to see how my present GF plays out but as a matter of policy I have set a hard limit of 35 years old. That is more than a dozen years my junior but I have no mutual interest in women my own age.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:11 PM
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This post is hilarious. I've only had one girl willing to toss my salad and one other who would ATM (and I do not mean the bank machine). There was another one who was rather "international": Greek, French and English. As old age sets in, I am a bit more sane. Your point is well taken: you can't be logical with a woman. That is like trying to grapple Jello. Any logical argument you present will be met with a flurry of hamstering. You have to beat them at their own game and go right for the emoti…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:03 PM
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I am born and raised in Toronto. I lived in Vancouver for 7 years. Now I live in Jinan, Shandong province, China. I have way more opportunities here than in Canada.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:50 PM
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I am thinking of getting all entrepreneurial. Maybe this will be my next trick.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:47 PM
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I have no clue about NC law but I was a divorce attorney in Vancouver for 4 years. Prenups have their limitations. They have to be "reasonable" and you have to update them every few years. I am now 48 and people figure I am about 15 years younger. I am considering taking the plunge but my eyes are wide open. My girlfriend is 26. Funny story is looking up a guacamole recipe in French and then translating it. It will tell you to take 4 lawyers and put them in a blender. PS: Jasmine? How stripperif…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:40 PM
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I had a bizarre incident almost 20 years ago when my 5'2" girlfriend went ballistic on me. At first, I grabbed a pillow and bitch-slapped her with it. Plan B was to take a broom and hold her at bay until she calmed down. It was completely weird.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:12 PM
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I'm 48 and my girlfriend is 26. I am actually a year older than her father, which is a bit strange. But no problem: don't worry about age gaps. As a side note, I do the cooking and she does the cleaning. I don't do pork lo mein but I make a mean kung pao chicken.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:02 PM
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Personally, I don't dig anorexic chicks. My current girlfriend is 5'9" and maybe a buck thirty, so she borders on being underweight but still has a BMI within the normal range. Several years ago I had a GF who developed a thyroid condition. She was 5'2" but transformed from being a hundred pounds to packing on about 30 more. However, she carried it well and went from being a skinny thing to being rather buxom: 0.7 WHR, great T&A. It's an interesting concept to think of what the fashion industry …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:57 PM
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What is weird is that every few years my family will come up with a new stereotype of what type of girl I have a "thing" for. Way back in the day it was "short with big tits". Then it was 6 foot blondes. Then it was 5-foot, hundred pounders. Then it was teenagers. Now it is Chinese girls (actually, a reasonable assumption as I am living in China). The fact is, I really like women. I've been kind of lucky that way.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:40 PM
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I am in China and the government blocks facebook. Is there another link? I am curious about her offending clothing. . I have been a teacher for several years: shorts are unprofessional, and so are t-shirts. It isn't about slut shaming or whatever, it is about being a professional. Dress the part, bitch.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:22 PM
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If we presume that men and women are equal, on average, the troubling aspect is that men's "standard deviation" is a heck of a lot higher. That means that men will always dominate the top of the field while also being the dregs. I think it was the Harvard president (or some other Ivy League school) who mused about this and he was absolutely savaged in the media.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:02 PM
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Ayn Rand, I suppose, but she is a lightweight. However, the highest IQ on record is a woman, although Guinness has retired that category.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:00 PM
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I know of at least one study where women consider themselves to be a 7, on average, when by all statistical measures the average should be 5. In fact third party evaluators rated the average as a 4. I am too lazy to find the specific study but it is here somewhere: http://www.homepage.psy.utexas.edu/HomePage/Group/BussLAB/publications.htm
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:56 PM
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There is a very dark zone that you will walk into if your NGAF attitude goes beyond Zen. You need to let your hands let go of the wheel, but without being nihilistic or solipsistic.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:54 PM
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Look at evolutionary psychology and in particular the work of Professor David Buss. His work largely supports TRP theory. Not completely, mind you, but largely. . Guys like Roosh and Rollo are pseudo-science punters who are not credentialed. Not that they are wrong, they just don't have the background to prove their pet theories.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:44 PM
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First off Rorschach says "fuck you". Secondly, I have had the absurd experience of cowering in a corner with a broom to defend myself from a 5'2" girl on the rampage. I ditched her immediately. I don't hit women unless they pose a real threat.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:23 AM
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You need to approach any relationship from a position of strength. Your role is not to please them but to help them, on terms that you choose. However, choose very carefully those you want to have sex with. Furthermore, don't choose those who want to advance some social nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:25 PM
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Sadly, we are going there. MGTOW is the result.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:02 PM
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And such hidden cameras and such are illegal if she does not cry rape: damned if you do or don't
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:44 AM
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I my humble experience, the most skillful seductions end when the man asks "What do you want?" And the woman responds "You!" At that point, yes I have pushed it, only when I knew I could get away with it. Men are blunt instruments while women are more subtle. My suggestion is not to say "prove it" but to say "show me". These are not $5 words but a thousand in the issuing.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:42 AM
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Yes: wall of text. I will just address some of the philosophical problems before getting into the narrative. Ok, so you are sexless for the first time in several years: don't freak out. Four months is nothing while you set things straight for the next 40+ years. You are a sociology major? And you are here? Switch majors or take as many credits as you can outside of sociology like economic sociology or evolutionary psychology* or consumer psychology. They are brainwashing you, and unless you are …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:35 AM
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There is mixed messages about the adage of "be yourself". I think that is because it is completely misunderstood and taken out of context. You absolutely should be yourself: be the person you are meant to be. This should not downplay the need for self-improvement and developing the most basic skills of interaction but while that is being accomplished, hone your own skills and interests so that you can lead with your best card at all times. You must also develop a base level of ruthlessness so th…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 10:59 AM
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I am working as fast as I can. I just have to convince my girlfriend's family. (I am a year older than her father)
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:18 AM
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I am a son and a former divorce attorney. edit: I am 48 and might get into the fatherhood game next year.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:38 AM
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Up yours, hater. Better a real father than a mangina.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:13 AM
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Jesus never sold me on his line. I don't think I am being unreasonable to pick and choose amongst RPT.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:59 PM
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I am new here so I only speak from personal experience. My experience was that I ended the relationship, and all for the better.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:51 PM
1

Most time is quiet time and the best quality in a partner is to be alone when they are with you. That has a pretentious eastern mysticism to "being alone while with someone". However, that is special.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:45 PM
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There is absolutely no reason why you should not have a philosophical conversation pre or post coitus with the woman of your dreams. In Part I, the jist is that it is not necessary. Part II, to follow will suggest that it is not your best option.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:31 PM
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For a woman, this is the nuclear option.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 10:07 AM
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But what if your mind was blue pilled too?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:28 AM
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I can appreciate your individual experience. My experience leads me to different conclusions. I think that RP Theory would lead me to different conclusions but I will not go there just yet. The sine qua non of marriage is sex (and children). For the longest time, failing to put out was actionable for divorce. Even today, adultery is a grounds for divorce while having your "match" outside of marriage is not. Look at gay marriage: they don't call them homo-matches. I have these things called frien…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:19 AM
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If you have a 9-5/M-F job then the basic options are online dating and day/night game. Other activities tend to have the problem that you are put into a fixed group and then ride out the next while with that group. That is, if you take a night course then BOOM, you meet a bunch of people and only get one real shot at dating one of them (unless they simply don't talk to one another and exchange notes). A team or club is ongoing but generally has a slow turnover and you will probably find yourself…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 08:20 AM
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The list of damning numbers goes on: even at the same bodyweight women have high fat count; even at the same lean mass they have less strength. Even in other things where strength doesn't matter: air weapons control officer, drone operator. There is a reason why you don't see many open E-sports championships taken by women.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:22 AM
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Put a whole squad of them: navy muff divers.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:18 AM
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I might as well given that feminism is so tainted at this point. The term would be gender equalitarian I suppose, but it would be a subset just like there are gender feminists and such.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 11:41 AM
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It's pretty simple, actually: keep them out of the infantry and submarine duty, and hold them to the same physical and mental standards as the men. Apparently the average American woman is 5'4" and 155 lbs: I worked with guys in the military who were smaller than that and they could pull their weight.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 01:14 AM
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The problem is that by engaging in this sort of semantic debate it allows all the "fake" feminists to go about their way. Look at the word itself: feminism. Humanism is about humans, communism is about communes, and feminism is about females. It will always be about advancing female power (largely at the expense of males). It's like trying to say there is fake (ie. bad) and real (ie. good) racism. How many self-proclaimed racists are claiming to advance equality and then defending themselves wit…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:37 AM
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So it's the wife making a false rape claim against the cuckold husband to shut him up?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:23 AM
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Charged with rape? For threatening loverboy?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 12:46 PM
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Scott Adams's view is that credible studies that take into account various factor eliminate most of the wage gap but still leave 5% to 10% which, in his opinion, is not something that the market could readily discern nor act on, especially if that bias was unconscious.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:39 AM
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Women in their 40s who are never married and never had children earn more than similarly situated men. I don't have the link handy but it was either Thomas Sowell or Warren Farrell. If I recall it was about 10% in favour of women.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 11:10 PM
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I sort of joke that there are two types of prostitutes: those you pay to get into bed and those you pay to go away after. Whenever you read a celebrity scandal about some rich guy caught with a hooker, it will be the second type. I think a number of contributors have commented here about always be doing things as part of the attraction and maintenance of a woman. And others will say that your woman will try to take control of thing and if you let them, that is a role reversal that spells death. …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:18 PM
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I teach but I have some other business opportunities coming down the pipe that I hope will let me retire early.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:04 PM
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I had an experience as a divorce law in Vancouver: I found 12 or 13 women's shelters but I think there was only one for men. I can't recall if they took in men with children. I have heard of cases where women's shelters would take woman and daughter but would not allow a son to stay.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:00 PM
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Ya it goes 19/18/19/18/19/18 across the country.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:55 PM
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That is the canard of almost every form of leftist thinking to ever be sold to the west. It is called a motte & bailey argument and works like this: So the motte-and-bailey doctrine is when you make a bold, controversial statement. Then when somebody challenges you, you claim you were just making an obvious, uncontroversial statement, so you are clearly right and they are silly for challenging you. Then when the argument is over you go back to making the bold, controversial statement. The femini…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:53 PM
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It only matters to the extent that there are a lot of guys on the "outside" being fed all the feminist nonsense and then a bunch of abusive vitriol on top of that to inoculate them from coming down the rabbit hole and deciding for themselves what the real deal is.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:19 PM
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The ratings at OKC are basically anonymous. It is just a timewaster to sit and rate people with mouse clicks. OKC also looked at the messaging behavior. What they found is that for initial messages, the women don't go far ahead of their rating curve but for men, the ones rated 4 or better got the lion's share of initial messages. What they leave out is that men send vastly more initial messages. In responding to messages, the women tend to be a lot pickier, perhaps because they get so many more …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:46 PM
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Which of these true Scotsman "real feminists" are you talking about? The ones who slashed funding to prostate cancer research while keeping breast cancer research, despite the former causing more deaths? The ones who have overseen the institution of no fault divorce, vociferously oppose shared parenting, and then tax child support in the hands of the man before it is given to the woman to spend? The ones who have pushed for common law marriage reform such that the guy ends up married by stealth …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:35 PM
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So why did the prof not cite any of this disruptive behavior in the reasons given when he gave True the boot? He didn't put it in the email; he didn't respond to any of the original articles. It was only after the story got traction that this comes out in the Reason piece.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:00 PM
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Because when she is bouncing up and down on him, HE is the one assaulting her?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:34 PM
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Appreciated. Of course the irony is that I spent a decade preparing to fight the commies, and now I sort of is one! Chimo
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:18 PM
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Schools like that only teach critical theory not critical thinking which, despite the common term have nothing in common.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:50 PM
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I'm not anti-women, I am anti-feminist. The problem is that feminists can't tell the difference and refuse to acknowledge that not all feminists are women and not all women are feminists. Perhaps I am just anti-stupid, which is what really pisses off feminists when they are still on about earning 78 cents on the dollar or whatever mendacious/ignorant number it is they are throwing out this time around. I've never had any particular problem meeting women, having sex partners or - hey - even falli…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:43 PM
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It is subjective, but then its the same for men. The difference is that women have unrealistic standards of how good looking a guy should be for them. The alternative theory is that people on OKCupid tend to be ugly; women will say so; guys will flatter the ugly chicks in some vague hope of getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:11 AM
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You need to have mutual mental health inspections, a counseling certificate, and then a notarized affidavit of consent combined with video evidence that she didn't change her mind at some point. Otherwise: I think the general answer is that each case of rape is very individual and it comes in many different forms. So it might be rape (and that quote is allegedly from a guy!) No, dumbass, it is not individual it has to be objectively proved to a standard beyond a reasonable doubt. The individual …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:32 AM
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If the guy was her teacher and she was 15 then it can't be consensual because she is underage. If she was 18 then it wouldn't have been rape although it might be professional misconduct. It's pretty disgusting to quote Whoopi Goldberg but It wasn't rape-rape." It was wrong and the guy will pay the price, but it is a completely different dynamic. Maybe this hamster had it dawned on her that she was the victim of statutory rape and simply lacks the communication skills to make it obvious in her po…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:27 AM
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There was the OKCupid study that showed when men rate women they create a bell curve with the peak at the centre of their 5 point scale. That is, guys as a group will rate an average girl as being average, about a 2.5/5. OTOH, women rate 80% of men as being below average with the typical (modal) guy being more like a 1.5/5. There could be a lot the researchers could be doing to botch these results. Giving specific salaries would cue the women to include it in their "fitness" assessment rather th…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:32 AM
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First rule of TRP is don't talk about TRP. It does no good to try to unplug a bunch of lemmings when the head lemming is your academic advisor. Second is that there is a difference between making students "upset" or "uncomfortable" (WTF kind of babies are these anyways?) and being actively hostile or disruptive. It's hard to call this one without knowing even more about went on in the discussions. Even if he was a "douchbag" spouting unpopular opinions he shouldn't tossed out unless the way he i…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:21 AM
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Because 8000 years ago there was no welfare for single moms so they had to attach themselves to a man who could provide for her and her children. Second part of that is that income/wealth disparities were probably a lot more severe then than now, but most importantly those men at the low end could barely - if at all - sustain themselves never mind a woman and child. Only the wealthiest and most powerful men - the alphas - were in a position to sustain these women and their (eventual) children. M…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:00 AM
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You kinda hada be there. As our little group broke up, I got at least one compliment from another guy at the table, which is why the story sticks in my mind as a win.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:43 AM
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This has to be the most fucked up thread I have read yet, starting out with some almond-eyed hamster comments and descending into a cesspool of thoughts in serious need of a dose of Phillip Rushton, Herrnstein and Murray and dare I say Thomas Sowell.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:11 PM
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When I was 28 I dated 29 year olds. Now I am 48 and dating a 26 year old. Jitters and satisfaction abound!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:12 PM
1

I think it was coined by a PUA several years ago and originally meant "hunny bunny".
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:25 AM
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Not in the least. She was being a bitch and needed to be taken down a notch.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:45 AM
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I have had a few hot blondes in Canada and Australia. I live in China now: not too many blondes here. When I was in university there was this one afternoon that I was in the pub chit-chatting with a mixed crowd. I mentioned that I preferred "cute" to "hot". A girl at my table called me out on this: Why? Because you can't get hot girls? Let me set the stage: she was about 20, a solid 8.5, maybe 9 with a great face, a rocking physique and gravity-defying tits. I looked her straight in the eye and …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:56 AM
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Business majors tend to be more classy. The SW/ECE types are virtually all SJWs and not worth the effort. Obviously, kinesiology majors have the best bodies. Lit majors are more slutty. The STEM girls have some gems amongst them, but it is such a sausage fest that it is difficult to get near them. Girls tend to mistake me for being dark triad which has two basic benefits: 1) they hop into bed with me and 2) camping ground rule.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:48 AM
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I had a nice piece of arm candy who I would take out. I never made a move on her because I knew that she wanted a sugar daddy with a six-figure income. Then she tosses me on the bed and fucks my brains out, completely out of the blue. Haven't seen her since. Moral of the story: nothing is out of the realm of possibility.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:38 AM
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Men are the gatekeeper of relationships. If she closes the gate on sex, you end the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:24 AM
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Back in the day when I was practicing law one of my best friends was a female attorney who did child protection work. She is awesome as a friend but too ugly to fuck, and even if she became a supermodel tomorrow I still would not touch her because she is that sort of "strong, intelligent, independent" woman. That is a complete buzzkill.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:20 AM
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The article makes a few good points but it is rather amusing. It takes something more than a 15 year old to tell a woman straight out "I am going to make you my bitch" and have her swoon over that sort of talk.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:14 AM
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That's because their men don't understand the concepts of oral and mechanical aids.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:11 AM
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Good 李少 龙 quote. You need the emotional connection and pay attention to what drives her crazy.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:56 AM
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Women want a certain level of wealth like a six-figure income, which is completely unrealistic as only 5% or 10% of guys pull in that sort of cash. If you fuck the shit out of them that can only be a good thing. Frame is more important IMHO. I put my ex to the curb before Christmas because she was not giving me what I wanted. Now she is crawling back and I intend to go all Christian Grey on her ass this weekend. I don't think she would do this if I did not give her vagina and clitoris the proper…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:49 AM
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There was a graphic novel series by Frank Miller (of Watchmen fame) called Ronin. The tag line was "If you intend to die you can do anything". You must be willing to say "fuck it". I only found TRP a few months ago but I unplugged all on my own about a half dozen years before. I can't tell you what your 3 priorities should be. What I can say is that - now having swallowed TRP - you have to unhitch yourself from all of your preconceived notions. Let go. "Free your mind". I have certain. . .advant…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:23 AM
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I spent 4 years as a divorce attorney. Woman, generally, make better divorce lawyers because they can switch from being all maternal to being complete cunts when necessary. I could never be that mercenary.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:06 AM
1

I am 48. I have two GFs: 26 and 34, plus a teenager who won't leave me the fuck alone. . However, my purpose is to encourage the young lads.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:44 AM
1

The sad truth is that you heartbroken teenagers can't compete with a guy like me. I am ex-military, a former army sergeant. I also have a law degree. I am a practiced wordsmith. . The good news is that you have no fucking limits on what you want to accomplish. If you want a girl then go get her. If you want advice, I am here for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:54 AM
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A lot of the FRs are just "we had dinner and watched a movie and the she let me fuck her". I don't have a lot of photographic evidence if I am digging back into the archives. I suppose the most recent would be this.It took me three years but the results were well worth it. . Meanwhile I am trying to get into her pants but it is an uphill battle given that she is just a teenager. . She has a body similar to a supermodel but she is all dramatic with me. . And she wants to have my baby. . Obviously…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:50 PM
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48 I have been semi-unplugged for almost 20 years but only stumbled on TRP a few months ago. I have crazy stories.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 05:23 PM
3

Accept that you are a good man and deserve a good woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:17 PM
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I am living in China. The rest of you stupid fucks can shut the hell up. If you honestly want the real deal, I can explain.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:38 AM
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My GF is 26 and my cock is maybe the second or third to violate her. She is messed up in her own way but she did not ride a CC. . I even had a party girl and it took 3 fucking years before she put out. . I am here, on the ground actually living in China. I say AWALT-lite. These are quality ladies: Here . Here . Here , I am fed up with trying to love/fuck some corn fed blond bitch.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:10 AM
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The best before date for Chinese girls is 27 but they don't "hit the wall" by Western standards until many years later.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:06 AM
2

I would have to hunt it down but I recall seeing a study that correlated wedding price with wedding success. That is, the more a couple spent on their wedding the lower the chance that the marriage ended in divorce.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 06:21 PM
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I spent 4 years as a divorce attorney and people automatically think that I am anti-marriage, which is incorrect. I just know the score going in.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 06:15 PM
1

look and money I will give you my synopsis. If you like it, I will post something more detailed. Look: Physique + style + genetics (less age) Lift for physique; use some cash and research for style; use work-arounds or surgical surgery to get over any genetic disadvantages. Money: Many irons in the fire; dark triad connections; pimped out resumes, leverage your other qualities. Persistence.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:26 AM
1

Assuming the concept of divorce rape is only a one way street.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:53 PM
1

Virginity loss in high school is no biggie when you consider that is 4 years out of the next 35+ sexual life. Land a good marriage partner before you are 30 and you are immediately ahead of half the guys sexually in terms of quantity and quality, if not in variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 05:43 PM
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In those cases, status is simply related to fitness as I described. In the animal kingdom, fitness/status is based on being able to kick ass. Jocks, and their associated physiques (looks) demonstrate that fitness and are therefore given status. Nerds have no fitness indicators until they are on their way to turning their brains into cash. I can't really comment on frat boys but like tends to attract like. People with looks, money and/or charisma tend to coalesce. Others can ride their coat tails…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:20 PM
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It is somewhat blunted but women will still tend to marry up, even within their own class or profession. As an example, my friend's sister is a doctor and she married a doctor. Assortative mating at its finest? Not really: he is an orthopedic surgeon while she opened a family practice and an aesthetics clinic. He makes about twice what she does. One of the other threads cites a study from Sweden where only 7% of marriages have the woman earning more than 60% of the household income but 45% earni…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:57 PM
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If women marry a man of equal wealth and then after having children have an egalitarian household where incomes and childcare duties are equal, she has no incentive to pursue divorce. That assumes that the father has an equal chance of having custody of the children, or that shared custody will be the result, and that the husband is as willing to pursue and as likely to get alimony as a similarly situated woman. If a woman can divorce a man who makes half of what she does, take the kids and forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:35 PM
2

Same planet as Hugh Jackman I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:19 PM
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Hypergamy has pretty strong credentials compared to purely assortive mating, and it is predominantly - but not always - the women who are marrying up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:19 PM
2

I never heard of the "Cathedral" before, but I am quite familiar with left wing institutional bias. Academics, teachers, bureaucrats, journalists, Hollywood, and the judiciary are, to one extent or another, disproportionately left leaning. The media more generally with the exception of the internet, AM talk radio and perhaps some specialty cable, are as well. While Obama might have to pose as being more Christian than he actually is, he wants to move ahead with something as discredited as the Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:11 PM
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Feminism is whatever is rhetorically convenient, a classic motte and bailey style of argumentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:53 PM
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If you call a redpiller sexist, why would they embrace it? Agree and amplify; amused mastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:44 PM
2

As if the OP isn't doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:39 PM
2

See my edit. No words changed or added, just bold for emphasis for anyone who missed the caveats.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:51 PM
2

I was thinking the same thing except for the hot teenager and the homicidal gay guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:42 PM
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It was more my experience at a left coast law school, plus other things. I didn't actually stumble on to "the manosphere" until a few weeks ago. Somebody mentioned Return of Kings on a conservative political blog and I followed links to here and other places. I've been reading authors like Christina Hoff Sommers and Warren Farrell for over 20 years, even before I got to law school. Being able to roll off those sorts of facts, figures, philosophies and arguments made me rather unpopular when I go…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:40 PM
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If he was facing bankruptcy rather than being a millionaire, could he get her to chip in for his credit card bills?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:24 PM
4

Child support is a bit of a red herring: if it is for the child, then the child should get it, not her. Good god, you can hire a full time nanny to take care of 3 kids for a thousand quid a month; even over 20 years that is less than a quarter million.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:22 PM
12

I spin a few yarns, if you look back though my posts, when they seem to be relevant to the topic at hand.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:11 PM
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The only saving grace is that the Supreme Court tossed it back into family court. She isn't guaranteed any sort of award yet but the judges seemed to imply that she will get a few hundred thousand pounds to buy a little house.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:48 PM
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He would have been paying whatever child support was required based on his earnings while the child was a minor. The kid would be about 30 by now and might have a claim to his estate, but why should she get anything more? It's not clear who broke up with whom, but she divorced him in '92.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:46 PM
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Rollo has a post on generalizations. The other thing is that women are not all that self aware. A girl commented to me about not being attracted to dark triad traits, and actually being somewhat aghast. What I told her is that if she met an actual dark triad guy, she would never realize it until it was too late. And if a woman is "on to you" that can mean death (of attraction). Perception is reality and if someone else starts to define you - thereby giving you the image of a player - you have to…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:32 AM
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I spent 4 years as a divorce attorney and couldn't stand it, especially the way people who claimed to love each other would then treat each other - and the fucking kids - when the relationship seemed to have run its course.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:07 AM
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Never mind if he is "not in the mood" to go to his crappy job 50 hours a week to pay her bills.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:05 AM
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Absolutely. In a monogamous LTR without running dread game the best you can do is make yourself her best option. Nothing wrong with that if you are being a great option for your own self satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:03 AM
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You can take it all the way back to Uri and Fischer's Getting to Yes, published in 1981. Among other things, they talk about BATNA: Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. It is very RP. The point is that you must have options, and the better your options are, the better deal you can get for yourself because you are always willing to walk away from any situation that will not improve on what you already have waiting in the wings. If you go into a job interview, your sparkling resume is less …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:23 AM
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One string of 2nd Wave feminist dogma is "The Personal is Political". I haven't seen any specific RP discussion on this but you have to turn it on it's head: the political is not personal. When my bisexual girlfriend joined her college Rainbow club or whatever to fight for LBGT m-o-u-s-e rights and such, I really didn't give a shit. I was not going to bring my public policy critiques of gay marriage, hate speech laws, and AIDS prevention strategies into our bedroom, and if she did I would have r…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:15 AM
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It can take a bit of doing to climb Schroedinger's Ladder, if you know what I mean. I seemed to have pulled it off with my present GF. I always paid for dinner and bought her small gifts. I had her over to learn salsa dancing together and I insisted on sleeping in the spare room. Then she started prepaying for movie tickets and buying me gifts. It climaxed (so to speak) with spending 4 straight days in bed together over Chinese New Year. It remains to be seen how it will play out.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:56 AM
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It brings to mind that graphic novel by Frank Miller - Ronin - and it's tag line: if you intend to die, you can do anything. If you give up on her and your relationship, there is nothing she can hold over you or threaten you with.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:30 AM
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They are mid-30s and he is a year younger. If they split he is still in his prime, and although having a lot of resources tied up taking care of the kids for the next 12 to 16 years, he can go back out and tag 20 somethings. Meanwhile, she has to peddle her twice-stretched snatch and sagging body to guys who are even older and likely even better established.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:25 AM
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The higher her income goes the less she stands to gain from divorcing him as long as they are sharing child care and household duties. If their income and time with the children are the same then there is a good case for shared custody and zero child support or alimony. Unless they have some goofy arrangement it just means that everyone's standard of living - including the kids' - will fall if they separate.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:21 AM
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Hypergamy is "marrying up" but RedPillers seem to use it as a term of art to encompass branch swinging, and the AF/BB dual sexual strategies of women.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:15 AM
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He has to get his ducks in a row and insulate himself from losing child custody or getting hit with a big child support or alimony claim. Once he does that he can leverage it to really get her to smarten the fuck up. If she doesn't find a plate. Once you are divorce-rape proof, her pulling the pin will only mess up the kids.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:10 AM
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He seems to be taking the right steps but didn't use prophylactics, in two different senses. First, the opening post says that he and his wife have been together for 10 years and married for 6, and that they have a 6 year old and 1.5 year old kid. Difficult to say if the marriage was driven by the first kid or the kid was driven by the marriage, although I suspect the former. The second point is that he should have been doing many of these things from about 10 seconds after she got pregnant, and…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:59 AM
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Status and power are secondary traits. Women seek fitness in the form of providers and protectors using three indicia: looks, money and how you carry yourself (frame). Status tend to be defined circularly, without any substance. Power can flow from money or how you carry yourself, it doesn't just happen. Even then, acquiring money is about how you carry yourself. Not everyone can simply inherit wealth, they have to go out and take it. Looks will fade and money can be lost or stolen, but your fra…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:15 AM
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I generally agree with the exceptions of 6 and 8. The point to take away is to never invest in the girl but there is no problem with being completely altruistic, just because. Never do anything for a woman and expect something in return: most women can smell that as beta behavior. If it makes you happy to give gifts or do favours, by all means do it. If you hold frame, women will reciprocate and buy you gifts, cook you meals and do other favours without necessarily putting you in the friend zone…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:48 AM
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If you work in or have connections in the arts - tv, film, music, dance, theatre, fashion, etc. - there are lots of hot women and gay guys, and you can not piss off the latter if you want to score with the former.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:36 AM
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I think so, which is why I want to hold onto her. Of course, she has issues which may be why some Chinese guy didn't snap her up in college or thereafter. Then again, part of that might be because she is 5'9" (I'm 5'10") putting her in the top 1% of Chinese girls and taller than about 3/4s of Chinese guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:20 AM
1

The Wikipedia entry has two citations - 8 and 10 - stating: When standardized IQ tests were first developed in the early 20th century, girls typically scored higher than boys until age 14, at which time the curve for girls dropped below that for boys. I can't remember my original source. It might have been in the book The Bell Curve. My point is not, as many punters might, to say that one gender is more intelligent than the other. However, we do know two things: 1) males and females have statist…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:02 AM
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They are engaging in a bunch of speculative mind reading. You can't really tell if someone who is hostile or friendly is that way innately and with both genders or is sexist without reading their minds.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:34 AM
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For simple, physical potential, your body will peak in your 20s. You gain muscle and burn fat faster. Your cardio will innately be superior. You may still have a full head of hair. You might as well start then to get in shape because it only gets harder as you age. Pro athletes tend to peak in their early to mid-twenties. The only other advantage that you have in your youth is that your mind is as quick as it will be. Math and philosophy prodigies peak in their early 20s in terms of raw, mental …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:26 AM
1

So did you go to the guy and flip for her: head or tail?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:44 AM
1

I've read 48 Laws and have AoS sitting there waiting. My impression is that the former is more applicable to business and political dynamics than sexual relationships, although there are some good nuggets in there. It's a great read although it is not systematic, and if you break it down and try to systematize it you find all sorts of inconsistencies and contradictions. If you can swallow it whole in a zen-like manner then more power to you, but trying to be "scientific" about the application of…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:39 AM
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I am in an odd situation as I live in China. The best before date on women here is 27. My colleagues know I am never married and without kids and they set me up with friends of friends, generally women between 28 and 33. One younger friend - 23 - said she would introduce me to her single friends if the river runs dry. I am getting back into shape and paying more attention to my looks so I can usually pass for 10 or so years younger. Meanwhile, although their best before date is 27, by Western st…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:53 AM
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And the, of course: manscaping!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:37 PM
2

WSIB actually functions as insurance so it isn't as egregious. And 10% sounds really high unless you are doing construction work or something dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:27 PM
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I'm 48, never married with no kids. My one sister is divorced, the other is on her third marriage, my mother is on her third marriage and my brother is tying the not in a few months. My present girlfriend is 26, a college graduate, Chinese, good family, low notch count: that's about as low risk as it gets if this moves forward like I want it to.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:38 AM
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If you are in Ontario and make $50k then income taxes will be about 17% but CPP is about 5% and EI is another 2%. The thing is, your employer kicks in the same again and then some so arguably, your take home pay is less than 70% of what your boss is paying for you to do the job. Then there is a 13% consumption tax (HST) plus property taxes, gas taxes, sin taxes, and such. One way or another the government is sucking up half your earnings.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:20 AM
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That was the impression I got from reading your citation.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:49 AM
2

I guess that I and all the women I have met there are the exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:48 AM
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All burden of proof should be placed on the accuser. So we should dismantle criminal courts?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:24 AM
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The feminists seem to think the agenda was to dodge jail while putting the cost of prosecuting the case on the alleged victim. The idea that you could get a divorce based on your wife not putting out and then being able to dodge a property and alimony settlement has a certain justice to it but as a practical matter the evidentiary issues are a jumble. I agree that birth control and women in the workplace changed things, but we could still have functional marriages despite those if fault based di…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:48 AM
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The comment about domestic violence being removed from criminal court seems a bit out of place. The document quoted seems to tout it as a bad thing. If you go back far enough cops didn't investigate domestic violence because it was a "private matter". Same with the attitude towards the possibility of a husband raping his wife. Criminal and civil justice are separate. The same thing that played out with OJ could play out in a case of domestic violence (reasonable doubt about the crime but enough …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:58 AM
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I am responding to female OP. From the guy's point of view, the same basic rule applies: if she is not willing to be the best option, then dump her and get a new GF. She should be working on her feminine traits to be the best possible as well.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:32 AM
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I had a client with 3 kids, a nice house and a live-in nanny. He got suspicious and followed his wife and found that she was cheating. When he walked out on her she immediately changed the locks and started trying to build grounds to get a restraining order against him. At that point, he was sunk and it was basically impossible to get her out of the house and him back in without a huge war chest. They both had careers (hence the live-in nanny) but she had been promoted while his went down a side…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:17 AM
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I don't know of any study but Canadian jurisprudence, specifically at the Supreme Court level, tightened up the rules about when a prenup could be thrown out. While that may have reversed itself in the last few years the big problems are when the terms are "unreasonable" or "unfair", or circumstances have changed since the prenup was signed. Unlike a commercial contract, no family law agreement will be "bullet proof" but a competent attorney can look at your situation and tell you accurately wha…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:52 AM
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The safe assumption (as in, the worst possible case scenario) is that everything you own will be viewed as being in common. However, jurisdictions have some exceptions such as inheritances that were held as separate investments. Personal effects like clothing are almost always considered separately. Some jurisdictions consider family property to be whatever you accumulated during the marriage, so you subtract whatever you came in with and then divide the excess. In the normal course of things, k…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:37 AM
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If I recall, the original would take a guy with demonstrated alpha qualities. And having checked, yes the first Bachelor was valedictorian, homecoming king, captain of the swim team, Harvard graduate, Stanford MBA, diplomat and television producer before the age of 30. The second was an athlete, MBA, pilot and banking scion. Later came Joe Millionaire. Sure, the guy was 6'5" and a rugged construction worker, but also a military academy washout with no exceptional amount of money, intelligence or…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:11 AM
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Assuming RP theory is correct, your guy should pursue physical, emotional and financial improvement to always be your best option. Hypergamy is irrelevant if there is never a better branch to swing to. You should encourage and support him in this respect and look at the long term regarding where both of you can end up together and just how badly you could ball it up by giving in to some passing fancy.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:58 AM
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So the difference is that MRAs want to change the rules of the game, MGTOW give up on playing, PUAs play the dating game by their own rules, and RPs play the game of life by their own rules while working around the legalities that feminists have put into place.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:51 AM
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On it's face, the organization she is writing for is traditional and counter-feminism. She puts the blame on feminism and in a very RP manner notes that men are the relationship gatekeepers. However, it comes across as a dig to mention "perpetual adolescence". The "normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood" is more of an objective observation. However, she doesn't go into any analysis like in, say, Men On S…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:42 AM
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As with harassment and any number of things, it is sexual whenever a female - in her own subjective judgment - feels like it is sexual. In my above example, I have no idea whether the woman thought it was sexual, simply a good excuse to put the screws to her bf, or if she withdrew or didn't make a complaint in the first place but was dragged along with the zero tolerance / must prosecute policy. Boobs, porn, and discussion of the feminine form get so whacky that feminists will side with social c…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:59 AM
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Somebody in the bar called the cops. Hands+boobies+non-consensual=sexual assault. The last point is a bit odd when you consider that feminists speak out of the other side of their mouths to say that boobs are not sexual and that they should be able to walk around topless without being harassed or fined or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:34 AM
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The disparity in the number of unsolicited messages men and women send is probably a factor. You would have to make some assumptions about how many messages in total either sex sends. Since women rarely send the first message, they have more time for responses. Go further down the article and you can see that women rated less than a 2 are actually hesitant to respond to the top two tiers of men, looks wise. The same effect applies to men, but not as much. The other thing is that responses to hot…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:28 AM
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Only if they have a witness. In many jurisdictions there is a no-discretion policy regarding sexual assaults: must investigate, must prosecute, must try to convict. A friend of mine worked briefly with the Crown Attorney's office in Alberta. A couple got into drunken words at a bar: she pushed him and he pushed her back. Somebody called the police. When the police investigated they found that the guy had touched her boobies when he pushed back. At that point they had to complete the investigatio…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:31 AM
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In Canada there has been a movement to standardize spousal support awards (we don't use the term alimony anymore). The guideline, if I recall, is 1% to 2% of the income differential for every year of the marriage, for a term of one half to one times the length of the relationship. There are a whole bunch of ifs, ands, and buts about qualifying for support in the first place, the interaction with child support, and messing about with property division. Additionally, there is the general expectati…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:20 AM
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Consult with your lawyer every few years or whenever either of your lives go off in another direction. Canadian courts have thrown out prenups when the underlying assumptions of the agreement change and certain outcomes were not foreseeable. Changes regarding kids, health, career and such can lead you down a path to a point where the agreement no longer seems "reasonable" in the eyes of some (feminist) judge.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:11 AM
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A problem that you would have to look into is that in some jurisdictions if you sign a cohabitation agreement there can be additional legal assumptions, implicit terms, and laws that are only applicable in that situation. You may, in fact, be shooting yourself in the foot by agreeing to things that are not in the document itself because they are hidden in the statute that governs such agreements.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:06 AM
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I am a former family law attorney who worked in Ontario briefly and then in British Columbia for four years. The specifics of the laws vary from province to province but the basic structure is the same. My understanding is that there is a big difference from American law regarding common law relationships, alimony, and child support calculation/enforcement.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:01 AM
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A guy who has led a charmed life probably would not find his way here. Guys who struggle with various issues might. You get a variety of people including teenagers who have no fucking idea how to deal with things, young to middle aged men who invested heavily in the beta fallacy and got burned, men in transition, and those who have successfully transitioned. Many of the latter will want to give back, pay it forward. Maybe it is totally narcissistic: "Hey look at how awesome I have become and thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:57 PM
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This is the backup argument when the "women only make 72 cents for every dollar a man makes" argument goes out the window. It's been proven time and again that men and women doing the same job in the same way make the same money. Women, as a group, do not prioritize high earnings the way men do, and so they choose employment that pays less but is safer (both physically and financially), cleaner, more flexible, more socially and intellectually stimulating, less competitive, and more self-fulfilli…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:42 PM
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The first graphs show initial messages. Further down you can see the response rates and women are less likely to respond than men at every given level of attractiveness, overall. A guy is 50% likely to respond to an "average" woman (rated 2.5) but a guy would have to be rated 4+ to have a 50% response rate. Meanwhile, a 2.5 has about a 37% response rate and the typical guy, as rated by women, has about a 25% response rate.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:02 PM
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As a straight guy I would agree to the extent that guys are generally ugly: I can't understand why women want to have sex with ugly creatures like us. There is getting buff and then there is how you dress and groom yourself. Most guys don't really focus on the latter unless they are a) gay b) dark triad or c) emulating a or b. I'm not sure how that plays out with online dating profile pictures. One would think that guys would put their best face forward. Some won't and many female profile pics o…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:46 PM
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I've cited that page so many times, I just got fatigued from doing it again. There are at least two possible explanations. First is that online daters are in fact hideous and women are not shy to say so, while the ugly betas and omegas are being completely irrational and rate this sty of porcine vaginas as being "average". Second is that men are being reasonable in their assessment while women are not. (A third possibility is that the people are ugly but women rate the men against the general po…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:29 AM
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We need a safety net, not a hammock.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:21 AM
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There was the study on OKCupid where they found that men would rate the attractiveness of women on something resembling a bell curve but women would rate 80% of men as being below average.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:27 AM
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I have no idea if they have rebalanced the gender scores, but they have to keep updating the tests due to the Flynn Effect every few years.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:54 AM
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Keep in mind that when they were developing the first IQ tests they specifically had to change the weighting to give more heft to what women scored higher on and less to what men scored higher on. They forced the test to give the same average score to both men and women. What might be happening here is that the tests themselves are biased and test those cognitive functions that girls do better at innately.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 03:16 AM
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Hambeast This is sort of old news. The lesbian PM has been out of office for two years and I can't find any articles about an online porn ban after June of 2014. Did they actually follow through with its? http://www.hawaii.edu/PCSS/biblio/articles/2005to2009/2009-pornography-acceptance-crime.html It has been found everywhere scientifically investigated that as pornography has increased in availability, sex crimes have either decreased or not increased.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:55 PM
9

Living in the north is depressing in the winter. You go to work in the morning and it is dark; you finish work and it is dark. You never see sunlight for several months.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:33 PM
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I suppose that China would be an exception but I have been doing all right with online dating using OKCupid. https://a.disquscdn.com/uploads/mediaembed/images/1809/8653/original.jpg?w=600&h https://a.disquscdn.com/uploads/mediaembed/images/1809/8652/original.jpg?w=600&h https://a.disquscdn.com/uploads/mediaembed/images/1809/8651/original.jpg?w=600&h https://a.disquscdn.com/uploads/mediaembed/images/1809/8650/original.jpg?w=600&h
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:28 PM
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The Greeks had such a low opinion of women that they preferred to diddle younger men, but realized that the species would die out if they did that exclusively.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:18 PM
1

I haven't spend a lot of time in Beijing and never tried dating there. When I went to Tiananmen Square some family latched onto me and the guy wanted a picture of me with his wife. In another city I had teenage girls sneaking picture in a restaurant. So I hammed it up her friends took a picture of me with my arm around her. The guys love NBA. I tease my students because I make full size chalk outline of one on the black board (6'8" maybe more) and then get on of the 5 nothing female students to …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:36 PM
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It's a good indication of what NOT to do and how NOT to handle it when it blows up in your face.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:58 PM
1

I'm from Canada where liquor gets taxed to death so a bottle of Bacardi is the same price or lower by a bit. If you don't mind Polish vodka, you can get 700ml for about $6USD. The women are fine but the prostitutes are not so visible outside of Shanghai. Even then, you get business cards for "massage" slipped under your hotel room door, and maybe the occasional streetwalker but that is not so common either. As for weather, it depends on where you are. Hainan (literally, South Sea) is tropical. X…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:56 PM
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The Ontario PCs are in disarray. Tim Hudak seemed intelligent, honest and a "nice guy" and got creamed. People want to be lied to. Hudak was so uncharismatic that his nick name was "Who Dat?" I live overseas now so I have not been following it as closely as usual, but there is no white knight (if you will excuse the term) ready to ride in and save the province. Even if there was they will have to wait until 2018 barring some internal revolt among the Liberal caucus members.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:43 PM
1

I largely DKDC because I live in China and I don't think they have Tinder here, but what you are saying seems reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:44 AM
5

Twentieth century thinkers took the core of Marxist analysis - the class struggle, dialectic materialism, yadda yadda - and applied that analysis to feminism. Others apply it to racial issues. It is a widely accepted practice, although nobody bothered to ask Marx how he felt about it. Keep in mind that Marxist feminism is only one type of feminism. There are also liberal, gender, radical and eco-feminists, among others.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:42 AM
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I have been living in China for a few years now. Before I came here I had vague fantasies of finding a woman online and travelling here to sweep her off her feet and such. Wake the fuck up! If you want to travel to China, great! It's an amazing experience. Hit Beijing, Shanghai and Hong Kong (The Big Three; TB3) and you can employ game because there are bars, clubs, enough women who speak English, and enough women who are Westernized to the extent that you might be able to bed them as a ONS. If …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:35 AM
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I post there as 66Scorpio. I am an online dating apologist.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:58 AM
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My understanding is that Tinder has a different dynamic than typical online dating sites.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:56 AM
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Marxism feminism: the way this brand of feminism deals with the gender wars, as a class struggle.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:51 AM
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I was involved with a legal case where a guy owned a house and a woman rented his basement. They hung out and had sex. He died unexpectedly and without a will, then she tried to claim common law status to inherit his house. The guy's mother thought differently. Of course, he was dead and could not testify about the nature of the relationship. In the end, the court found that there was no common law relationship but the curious way that estate (inheritance) cases work meant that both sets of lawy…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:22 AM
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So, is there a CC and branch swinging in China? I teach high school and then all of my friends and colleagues are university graduates but I have no idea of the dynamics of college students. I see many of the kids paired up going into university and then they virtually all have LTRs coming out of university.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 09:16 AM
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The 剩女 sheng nu either need to get over themselves or else up their own game. If they are 32 years old and making a million RMB a year they have to give up the idea of finding a guy who makes two million a year, AND is her age, AND is handsome AND AND AND. If they missed the marriage boat or are divorced then they have to be realistic about who they are going to attract and what they must put on the table to make a man happy. It isn't all that common -maybe 1 in 15 depending on the studies you l…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 09:13 AM
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"Good, I was concerned you had nothing better to do than texting guys." "Good: probably more productive than texting." "Ya, I have something more productive to do than texting, so let's call it a day and get together soon."
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 07:03 AM
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Asia is a pretty big place and Asian culture is not homogeneous. I live in China and as well as personal experience, I read up on things here and there. What I call The Big Three (TB3 - Beijiing, Shanghai and Hongkong) are very westernized whereas the rest of the country is more traditional/conservatives. I don't know if you would say hypergamy is "out of control" but the women always want to marry up such that the A men marry the B women, the B women marry the C women, and that just leaves the …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:58 AM
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Don't forget: emulate dark triad traits. Successful entrepreneurs are disproportionately dark triad types.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:38 AM
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It generally involves religious indoctrination from birth threatening girls with the eternal fires of hell if they don't become obedient members of a harem. Meanwhile, the older guys actively encourage the younger men to leave the isolated communities so there is no competition. These "alphas" would not survive very long in an open and pluralistic society, even without feminism.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:36 AM
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You obviously miss the larger point, which is why you would think it is "stupid" that a Buddhist will call themselves a Buddhist rather than agreeing that they are an atheist on your terms. The hamster is in overdrive to make the term "atheist" meaningful as a real-world descriptor and not merely as a theoretical construct. (And why would you throw in deist? A deist is just a theist by this analysis.) Modern atheism, as expressed by those who claim to be atheists, involves the adoption of philos…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:42 AM
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It's odd how half the blowhards say they are MENSA material with mid-six-figure incomes.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:15 AM
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The beginning of my unindoctrination began here because there were so many girls paying attention to me all of a sudden due to mostly cosmetic changes. I clued into the confidence factor/cycle a bit later.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:13 AM
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Stop feeling and think. All things being equal, if you know what each other like sexually and do it enthusiastically because you enjoy pleasing the other person, then the sex will generally be better at any outward level of SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:08 AM
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Just being roommates doesn't qualify. However, if you are living in the same place, sleeping in the same bed, and having regular sex (particularly if it is exclusive) then those objective facts are usually enough to establish a common law relationship, but not always - at least in theory; I don't know of any specific cases where that didn't happen. So the problem is that if you have been playing house with a woman for two years, the only way to really call it into question is to tell other peopl…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 01:59 AM
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Oh, I have always been the cook in the relationship. However, traditionally that was the wife cooking for the husband.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:44 AM
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When did I ever view myself or others as a passive object? You don't really seem to understand the consequences of trying to just walk away.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:41 AM
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My goals are in that direction, I just know what I am getting into. I was a divorce attorney for 4 years. You can't just walk away in most cases and especially if you have children.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:15 AM
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Where does serial monogamy fit in?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:46 AM
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If you walk away she takes half your shit, and the kids, and then support until they are 18 and for her who knows how long. You always have the choice to walk away. Hell you always have the choice to stick your dick in a bear trap, but I would not recommend it. AND I AM A FUCKING OPTIMIST.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:44 AM
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I'd have to track down the actual study or article (I think it was in the Washington Post) but the inference is that it is domestic chores like laundry, dishes, vacuuming, cooking. . . . Maybe not. If you live in an actual house rather than an apartment then there is snow shoveling, leaf raking, taking out the garbage, various repairs around the place that the superintendent doesn't take care of for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:12 AM
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This study suggests that splitting the housework will get you an extra fuck each month. Note however, it really sucks if the guy does the majority of housework.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 03:21 AM
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A slut is a woman who will sleep with anyone. A bitch is a woman who will sleep with anyone EXCEPT YOU!
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:36 AM
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Belonging can be in a social group without having women involved. Be part of something. Join a club, a sports team or the National Guard. Join Toastmasters if you want to build confidence, or the university debating team if you are still in school. Take up a political or social cause with like-minded people. Just do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:28 AM
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As an economics major, it should have been a slam dunk to put the gender-wage gap to rest. Statistics Canada has at least one study - conducted by a woman - that narrows the discrepancy to less than 10%. Economist Thomas Sowell has savaged it with statistics numerous times. Warren Farrell, who is not an economist but was on the NOW executive before he went off reservation has more than one book on the subject. The problem is that feminist theories are doctrinaire, ideological and unfalsifiable. …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:11 AM
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I had the same problem in law school. Too many of the courses had a feminist, queer or leftist perspective to them. The "bird" courses where you write an essay an the class sizes are small so the prof can ignore the bell curve are usually an easy A- but I would get hammered down to a B- or less. After a while it seemed that I got a reputation among the faculty as not being with the program, and got lower marks whenever I had to put my name on assignments rather than hiding behind a student numbe…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:59 AM
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The "Like That" in AWALT comes into particular focus when you are dealing with personal relationships, especially where sex is involved. I agree that you should be able to talk about some things. I was, in fact, being somewhat facetious (and yet the pyromaniac comment got 21 up votes, so far putting it 7th out of 126 posts: do they get the joke?).
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:02 PM
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Right, and you aren't trying to get laid. They have a job to do and don't need to get the hamster going. Meanwhile I was not discussing my love life or political views or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:33 PM
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They were professionals. You can talk to you friends, father, brother whomever, but not your sister, mother, GF, plates, FWB, and maybe not even your wife.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:28 PM
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Talking to a woman about mental health issues is like. . . I dunno, talking to a pyromaniac about fire prevention? On the other hand, I went through some issues a half dozen years back. The shrink and counselor I talked to were women and they were excellent professionals.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:49 PM
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All the topics covered from the Red Pill can be derived from one simple philosophy, "I come first" . . . For a variety of legal, personal, and sexual dynamic reasons, I say no. I think you are missing the points that: 1) Subverting yourself to another's will/life leaves you vulnerable to being exploited, abused and left alone with nothing to show for your efforts 2) Focusing on yourself puts you in a position of strength and provides you with options regarding how to best care for others.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:13 AM
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The problem is that you have to stay in their POS country. Eddie Murphy dealt with the problem of bringing them back to America: Eddie! What have you done for me lately! Eddie! I WANT HALF!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:01 AM
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In terms of attracting women, the point is to maneuver around their irrational, hind brain impulses. What you do once you get there is your business. No one dictates that you must fuck them, but if they are too busy riding cowgirl on Chad McThundercock to have an intellectual and emotionally satisfying conversation, whose fault is that? In terms of material success, financial success, career success, politics, business, what have you, training to emulate those qualities allow you to compete effe…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:58 AM
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I would guess that economics is up there too. Philosophy and economics grads usually top out the graduate entrance examines such as GRE, LSAT and perhaps even GMAT because they rely heavily on logical thinking.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:55 AM
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The proper logical construct is the contrapositive which negates both term and reverses their order: If you are a feminist, you believe in "equal rights". If you don't believe in "equal rights", you are not a feminist. The problem is that their definition of "equal rights" changes as a matter of rhetorical convenience. In other cases, I call it Penguin Logic: all penguins are birds but not all birds are penguins. Most people with power are men but most men do not have power. (aka the apex fallac…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:44 AM
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Muse means to think about. Amuse means (literally) to cause somebody else to think about. Its present meaning is more to keep one's attention. Bemuse means to cause someone to think about but with a negative connotation, like bewitched or benighted. The "a" in this case means to cause rather than to stop or be the opposite of, and is related to words like abash or abate, abet, abide, awake or even adultery
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:34 AM
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What they do is argue that society needs to be reinvented. Concepts such as "merit" should include gender variable factors in a manner that leads to equal outcomes. Society is fundamentally flawed and needs to be fixed. Changing society at its core directly may not be possible but normalizing the idea of equal outcomes will move core values such that equality will come about organically such that affirmative action policies are no longer necessary. Or some bullshit along those lines. Meanwhile t…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:08 AM
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There are usually two definitions of feminism: one that invokes equality of women's right and one that invokes advancement of women's rights. Those are not the same thing. The religious analogy has nothing to do with the OP, although atheists will try to corral a lot of people into their midst who specifically deny being atheists. Do you believe there is a God? No. So you're an atheist! No, I'm a Buddhist. Or, Do you believe there is a God? No. So you are and atheist! No, I am agnostic. Well tha…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:01 AM
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But they want to preserve and expand the patriarchy. They are a reactionary movement trying to undo the advances in equality that women have fought so hard for over the last century. :-/
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:50 AM
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Unless you carefully select the metric by which to measure parity, you can never compare men and women in terms of physical abilities . For instance, at the same weight, men will have more muscle mass and generally be stronger and faster.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:47 AM
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The classic example is when you are deciding what to do with your date. If you actually ask what she wants to do, at least 75% of the time she will say "I dunno, what do you want to do?" In many cases she will put it on you to make the decision. Engaging in any back and forth goes nowhere. You have to decide and then take her. The downside is that many times this is a shit test. You are expected to be a mind reader. She won't tell you what she wants but wants you to instinctively know. If you ch…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:42 AM
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I am a philosopher I am lightly read in philosophy ??????? My personal experiences fails to match such assertions. . . If you are going to rely on anecdotal evidence, then at least consider the myriad of experiences that guys posting here have had. And I don’t see any sources to back up these claims. There is a problem in academia in that the vast majority of social science researchers are left leaning and only investigate questions of interest to feminists and specifically those they expect to …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:28 AM
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It depends on which foreign country your are talking about, I suppose. In any event, mail order brides are just asking for trouble because they are specifically looking for their green card. In situ, if the girls are easy, you will probably encounter all the same problems you have with the local chicks. I am agnostic about Ukranian women but if you can find a single, FOB Chinese girl - especially one who is NOT from Beijing, Shanghai, Hong Kong or Taiwan - go for it. Odds are she is either a vir…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:31 AM
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The suburbian girls who I encountered in my early years of university came from not rich but fairly well-to-do families. They really didn't care about their B.Comm, they wanted their MRS. I never found a way around that. In a moment of weakness I mentioned that I did not intend on getting married, I found myself dumped.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:22 AM
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The Red Pill sub officially does not support the appropriation of artistic texts to demonstrate the value of the philosophy. Not sure what you are on about. It is unjust to assume that if two people engage in sexual intercourse after becoming intoxicated, one is guilty of rape because of their sex; usually always the male. There, fixed that for you. The Red Pill philosophy is that you must accept that your wife will not love you forever even if you match a woman's ideal of a husband. It might be…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:13 AM
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Even without TRP, it was completely obvious to me that "nice guys" get abused and/or dumped by their girlfriends. What women appeared to want was a guy who would do just about anything they wanted, but would put them in their place every now and then. So they land a nice guy, walk all over him, put him to the curb, then hook up with a series of guys who treat them well for about ten seconds or as long as it takes to fuck them sill, then they get treated like shit until they leave or get tossed i…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:03 AM
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In one case, yes a bit of crazy but not psycho. She was bi and always talked about having a three-some. However, she always suggested girls with lower SMV and would veto any with higher SMV. The problem was that her SMV was in free fall because she was packing on weight (we started dating when she was a relatively slim but curvy 18 year old). She ended up going out and doing lesbian porn. There were a bunch of other issues but suffice to say, we broke up shortly after she strap-on fucked another…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:51 AM
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As a former lawyer, I was wondering about the legal basis of her claim. edit: As the interview linked by XXXmormon above reveals, she is crying racism. While describing herself as an African-American, the pictures reveal that the Italian restauranteur is about as dark-skinned as she is. As an aside, "Kathleen Hampton" is not an uncommon name and there is at least one more living in Portland. A case of mistaken identity would really suck.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:40 AM
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What was it Rod Stewart said? I don't want to get married again. I think I will simply find a woman that I don't really like, and then give her my house.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:09 AM
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The legal test involves a "marriage like relationship" that has all sorts of factors a judge is supposed to consider. As a practical matter, cohabitation and sharing the same bed are probably the two biggest factors. There is also how you present yourself as a couple to the outside world. That is usually ambiguous because cohabitating people rarely refer to each other as temporary fuck buddies in public, and people living apart rarely refer to each other as husband and wife.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:43 PM
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Having someone to come home to has its own benefits. Being able to do nothing, together, is a quality that you can find in an LTR but not with plates.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:20 PM
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I recall an episode of Big Bang Theory where Sheldon uses behavioural conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:56 PM
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It's must worse than you describe. With feminism and many sectors on the left there is a sort of bait and switch semantic ploy. Are you in favour of human rights? Are you in favour of equality? The problem is, if you agree to that on its face, they redefine it until the terms are almost unrecognizable. Then they impose their new definition. The other version is where rape becomes sexual assault, sexual assault includes a pat on the bum, then a pat on the bum becomes a form of rape.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:53 PM
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I transitioned from the military into law school. Plus I was a business grad and a healthy, straight male WASP, and this was a left coast law school: I was Satan in their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:45 PM
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Basically, the scandal plagued Liberal (Democrat?) government gets re-elected with a lesbian at the helm. Hilarity ensues. Conservative identity politics? Do you mean the fracture between the Republican establishment and the Tea Party movement, etc? In any case, what backlash? Obama's supporters are still ready to roll out the race card against anyone critical of "America's first black president".
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:54 PM
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Americans will have ridden the identity politics wagon for 8 years of Obama; hopefully they are not as stupid as the voters in Ontario.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:49 PM
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Never reveal or advocate for your RP truths: you will be ostracized. Almost 20 years ago I attended a left coast law school and I was inundated by politically correct, blue pill nonsense. The Matrix was released about 2 months before I graduated. But as a ex-military, business grad, healthy, straight, male, WASP I was fucking Satan as far as the faculty and other students were concerned. I made the mistake of challenging their bullshit, PC, feminist crap at every turn. And that was that. I only …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:35 AM
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Sex: The BDSM community makes a hobby, if not a lifestyle of kinky sex. Several years back, for a change of pace, I stopped regular dating and specifically went after kinky chicks who were into that. Results were mixed. The sex was usually excellent and the fetish parties and dungeon nights were a new kind of fun.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:22 AM
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There are the good ones that went bad and then you moved on.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:09 AM
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I have had a number of ONS that were awesome, but my LTRs generally meant awesome sex almost every night. Sure they ended, but if you compute the area under the curve, LTRs mean more and more awesome sex, unless you are doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:08 AM
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There is a fundamental problem with the whole SMV idea. Having an 8, 9, or 10 or multiples over time is good for impressing other guys at times. However, a conventional 7 can be a 9 in the sack after building up a rapport with you over 6 months. And that is just the sex. Unless you are a fucking robot, emotional connections matter regardless of how "red pill" and logical one might set the idea as being. Now, being in a shitty LTR is, well, SHITTY! GTFO! Go find someone better. As far as kids: yo…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:03 AM
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Bad luck, but if you were not in an LTR do you think your plates would stick around and help?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:47 AM
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I do genuinely intend to keep it PG, but history shows that this is never the case. It is a bit of mental gymnastics to maintain zen sex mode (getting laid by not trying to get laid) while at the same time maneuvering the girl into a private space where something is likely to happen.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:45 AM
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If you have, in fact, done all of that you need to hold something back: maintain the mystery or hit her with something extra on the second date. I have a sufficiently complicated history that I can't drone on about it without sounding a bit pretentious. Speak naturally as the conversation flows.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:39 AM
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If you are on any prescription drugs, particularly for depression, you should definitely consult a professional before taking StJW. My understanding from the literature - and admittedly it has been a while since I read it - is that it is actually safer than SSRIs but can still have some side effects.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:25 AM
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Might not be fatal if you alpha-up enough to give her the tingles. My first serious GF was a friend of my sister, and the two of us friend-zoned each other for year. Then I went away with the army reserve for a summer to be trained by the airborne and came back buff. Meanwhile she had cleaned herself up. When I returned in the fall I went to visit my mom and sister and the girl was there. Within a week we were all over each other and that played out for a 3-1/2 year relationship that almost ende…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:43 AM
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An exception seems to be (from my own experience, anyways) that if you display an objective and dispassionate awareness, knowledge and control of your feelings and emotions. More so if it is in reference to something in the past that you were able to learn from and improve upon.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:36 AM
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I'm not really familiar with Tinder nor have I looked closely at OKC's A-List, but I used to be on Lavalife which (at the time, it has been a while since I have been there either) you purchased credits and then used credits to send the first message with all future messages being free. The point here is that such a policy is age and gender neutral but it's the guys with more money that will initiate more of the messaging. It has different dynamics than a monthly subscription based service. Still…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:22 AM
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True. I also dealt with a lot of child custody/access/support issues between non-married couples. Not sure if I have personally met a woman with that mindset, but I have heard enough first and second hand accounts to know that they exist.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:13 AM
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That's not unreasonable if they have kids. I knew one female lawyer who had kids and scaled back her practice so she could work out of her home office. I'm not exactly sure of who she got to cover off, but conferences and court appearances were done outside the home; they were not really that much of her work week.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:06 AM
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Soybean lecithin contains a compound shown to increase mental acuity. Take 1000mg 3 times daily for 3 months and see what you think (literally). St. John's Wort has been proven useful in treating anxiety, depression, sleep disorders and alcoholism. Take 300mg 3 times daily. They are natural, relatively inexpensive, and available over the counter. edit: And don't forget the Omega-3, especially if you do not eat much fish.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:50 AM
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Simply having accessible, quality women around can cure oneitis. If you are always approaching then you are meeting new women. Spinning plates or having various FWBs gives you options; it insulates you from hamstering the bullshit-for-sex exchanges involved in many relationships. You won't justify her being a bitch just because she is a demon in the sack. Even if you aren't fucking them, meeting and keeping in touch in a friendly manner sets them up as an optional replacement for your "one". The…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:38 AM
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What about "promoting" her to FWB or GF status? You could say "let's spend more time together and see how that goes." Otherwise, "commitment" has two aspects to it: the long term view and exclusivity. Why would you contemplate either - but especially the latter - if she has not demonstrated her worthiness to receive and hold those promotions?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:15 AM
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It's a combination of frame, money and looks. A woman wants at least one of these, "status" typically requires two. A typical gamer nerd has no frame, little money, and is not particularly good looking. Fictional character like Christian Grey or Jamie Lannister have all three. A good looking guy typically gets a pass on behavior that typical guys don't get. A talented rapper usually has good frame. Stereotypical hip hop videos display frame and bling. Someone like Will Smith has all three can ma…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:02 AM
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It's economic theory based on "elasticity of demand" and market segmentation. Basically, if they can double their price and lose less than half of their customers, then they make more money. Different market segments have different elasticities. The ultimate is if you could target every potential customer and get the highest price out of each one. In a conventional market, supply and demand curves intersect at an equilibrium price and quantity. The total revenue equals an area - a rectangle - de…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:56 PM
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I don't think that is a very significant segment. Speaking anecdotally as a former divorce attorney, that never seemed to be the motivation, but the way child support rules work sure as hell pisses off the soon-to-be-ex-husband/bf because - at the higher end - it can significantly boost the woman's standard of living.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:24 PM
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Sort of. Technology and culture evolve a lot faster than biology but a lot of red pill theory - such as AWALT in this case - is rooted in biological evolutionary traits and strategies developed over hundreds of thousands, if not millions of years. Those truths don't change, they can merely be covered up or blunted by hamstering and cultural conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:51 PM
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Children are merely a means to and end of securing said resources With one line you get evolution backwards. Doesn't do much for the credibility of the rest of the post.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 02:30 PM
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Staying single is for alpha wannabes that can't keep their woman in their frame so they move on to the next one choosing quantity over quality.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 02:24 PM
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Or Scientologists or some other cult preachers: "We have the Truth, the whole Truth, and only our Truth will give you deliverance!"
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:49 AM
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Female doctors are more likely to go into general practice while female lawyers are more likely to go in house counsel, government or not for profit, or simply working part time.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:04 AM
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The minimum age for a lawyer is generally about 26 and about 28 for a doctor. Then they need a few years of experience under their belt but can make the transition to lesser hours to take care of the kid. I'm a former lawyer and I know and have dated doctors: not good choices. They think they fucking know it all.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:03 AM
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Hamstering: I'm a great catch who gives amazing sex but he was too stupid to appreciate me and I was going to dump him anyways. Lookee lookee, I can attract a new guy each week/month like that.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:32 AM
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In China, Communism tempered the traditional society from the previous 5000 years. Still, it is very "red pill" in that women are encouraged to marry young and have children (their best before date is 27 years old). They will have their own careers but it is assumed that they will take care of the kids (if the grandparents are not) and do most of the cooking and housekeeping. The divorce rate in China is maybe 10% compared to 50% in America but the rate of adultery is higher. Still, that is only…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:18 AM
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The DT involves personality traits that can be considered "disorders". Most guys are not narcissists but TRP emphasizes building confidence. Most guys are not Machiavellian but TRP teaches game. Most guys are not psychopaths but TRP emphasizes a "me first" or "I don't give a fuck" attitude. Why? Because it all helps in becoming successful physically, financially, sexually, whatever. TL;DR - Naturally INTP but did things ESFJ to be more rounded. Personality is a function of genetics and inclinati…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:46 AM
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Red pill is just understanding how things work. Learning alpha traits and game is a technique. Knowledge and technique are amoral. As with, say, owning a gun, what you do with it is a moral question. Doing the right thing will rarely be in your immediate, narrow self interest.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:24 AM
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Warren Farrell obliterates it in his books The Myth of Male Power and Why Men Earn More. Online, there are more references to economist Thomas Sowell's work. You can google "Thomas Sowell gender wage gap" but here are a few links: http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/the-77-percent-statistical-fraud-on-gender-pay-gap-issue/article/2547241 http://www.quora.com/What-will-it-take-to-close-the-gender-wage-gap http://austrianaddict.com/tag/gender-pay-gap/ http://www.columbian.com/news/2014/apr/15/gap-in…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:21 AM
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I am no scientist but from what I have read the most reasonable hypothesis is that in utero hormone imbalances affect brain development that can lead to homosexuality. The takeaway is two fold: 1) Homosexuals are "hard wired"; it is in their nature; they are born that way and 2) there is no "gay gene".
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:09 AM
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Depending on the girl, LTRs can carry more baggage than simply riding the CC. Having a notch count of 30 by age 22 probably indicates some personality issues, but one who had 3 or 5 LTRs brings more history to the table if you want to be the next LTR.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:03 AM
1

Only the top 20% of girls average more than about 2 per year, but that includes those who are in a LTR. It depends on the circles you are travelling in.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:58 PM
1

At one point I made a satirical profile that went something like this: "Former model and Nobel laureate seeks pleasant woman to enjoy his lottery winnings with. -Rodrigo" Most responses got the joke but a disturbing number seemed to think it was real. :-/
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:47 PM
1

I didn't say your response had to be verbal or that you "dignify" it, but disengaging won't help the situation.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:32 PM
1

I spent my 20s with the Canadian Militia, trained by the airborne, got into great shape. Started losing it after I made sergeant because I wasn't in the field as much, building bridges and such. Had a slow decline once I left and went to law school. I started to turn it around a few years ago. I am getting back now. Ultimately I am doing it for me, but having a young, slim gf and seeing the competition in the form of guys closer to her age gives one a bit of motivation.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:26 PM
2

Holy shit, I really hit a nerve. I'll admit, it is mostly a personal thing. Good discussion.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:51 PM
1

You would have to give an example. It strikes me that ignoring what she says to you gives her a pretty good excuse to ignore whatever you are saying.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:50 PM
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The women fawn over them too much and they get in the way.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:46 PM
17

I don't care how hot she is, if a girl has a dog she will never be promoted beyond the station of plate.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:29 AM
11

(Compulsory classes on consent? What delicious, Orwellian irony.) I made this same comment in discussing the new sex ed program that the Liberal government in Ontario is ramming through (pun intended).
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:21 AM
3

As far as I can tell, only a small minority are proud. It's impossible to say; sort of like if a tree falls in the forest and no men are around, does she brag to the other chicks about how much wood she has taken? Otherwise, the only evidence is hearsay from other women. Reliable?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:09 AM
1

The female counterpart is "one with the ring before in with the thing". Not too common, however. Baggage from her previous relationships will haunt you because she will hold you to a higher standard than all of her exs combined. Plus, she may even have lingering subconscious anger with them that she will take out on you. Having 3 FWBs is not the same as being in 3 consecutive one year relationships with a set of rat bastards where each one is worse than the next. Similarly, a divorcee will have …
/r/askTRP02/03/15 09:05 AM
1

It depends on the type of kink and what your definition of "rough" is. However, I'm not really sure what you mean by multitasking or what sort of kinky shit could occupy too much of your concentration to create trouble fucking. There is lots of kink advice out there about specifics, but if you are going to have a "scene" (as the lingo goes), plan it out in your mind ahead of time what you intend to do and what you want her to do. Be one step ahead such that when sex is imminent but not verbally …
/r/askTRP02/03/15 08:44 AM
1

In the far past, polygyny was common place as the most powerful men would control a vastly disproportionate amount of resources, and women would flock to them for support and protection of themselves and their children. But not only was the imbalance vast, those at the low end did not even have enough resources to support a wife and children. Two changes happened. First was that technological advances increased output such that even guys on the low end of the socio-economic spectrum could suppor…
/r/TRPOffTopic02/03/15 08:18 AM
0

Pre-coital shit tests are different than ones you get in a (prospective) LTR. With the former you can agree and amplify because that is part of clown game. Play cocky, confident and funny, and you can talk your way into their pants. When things get more serious, you have to hold your ground and put them in their place. The two are mutually exclusive. Holding your ground and putting a girl in her place within 5 minutes of meeting her will keep your ego in tact and your penis rather lonely. Clowni…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:40 AM
1

What is "home rule"? Otherwise, don't put yourself out. If and when I get back into the legal racket it won't be in New York and it won't be in frickin' family law.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:27 AM
3

Lawson McThunderc. . . oh, never mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:23 AM
19

One time I stumbled on a hen session that went totally silent when I entered. It took a moment to coax it out that they were discussing their notch counts; they were all rather upset at themselves. I deadpanned: "But if it wasn't good, then it doesn't count." Pure hamster bait. It took about 1.5 seconds for all of them to do a silent recount, and then break out in laughter. For the rest of the day I was their favourite person.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:12 AM
6

I was a nerdy kid in high school until my last year when I reinvented myself into someone rather good looking. Nobody, especially the girls, remembered the old me. I also wrote the Sir Isaac Newton Physics Contest on a recommendation from one of my teachers. It was provincial-wide and I scored in the top 5% or something. Three true nerds formed the school team, all with scores in the top 1%, but at the school assembly I was called down and given an honourable mention. When I sat down the first c…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:03 AM
6

I satisfy my intellectual interests with my male friends. Looking for my intellectual equal in a woman would disqualify 98% of them. Then trying to find one who isn't an arrogant know it all would eliminate three quarters of the rest or more. That's a pretty small dating pool to start with before accounting for looks, sexual compatibility and simply getting along while playing house.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:49 AM
12

If she seriously wants to have kids, then you seriously have to think about whether or not you want kids.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:35 AM
0

Just to throw it out there: betas are Newtonian, alphas are QP. Betas: predictable Alphas: impulsive, keep 'em guessing
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:04 AM
2

Number 6? The Prisoner! Some research suggests that by age 25 the notch count for half might be <6 and about 1 in 4 have 15+. Less than 1 in 10, but probably closer to 1 in 20, will reach 25 as a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:01 AM
6

Oh geez, I know it was a thought experiment but: box = vagina pussy relates to cat you never know if she is a virgin until you check the hymen - in her "box" - yourself (and even then, it may have been surgically replaced) Perhaps there is another polyamoury related joke about passing through two slits at the same time and getting interference.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:45 AM
3

Summary of below if TL;DR 1)TRP is an amoral system; moral choices are different than strategic choices for alphas and betas 2) Altruism for its own sake can reinforce alpha status 3) The nice-jerk dichotomy is a false dichotomy The OP is completely misinterpreting Rollo. He is using a bunch of terms in 'quotes' to set up a tautology to lead to some of the following conclusions: The focus is on US getting the results WE want. THAT IS ALL. Nice guys and jerks. There's a clear dichotomy. TRYING TO…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:39 AM
12

There is a whole article about this on Wikipedia. The crowd at OKCupid looked at men's online dating profile and the youngest women they were interested in (as stated). The limit was something like 0.56x+5.12 where x is the man's age. Their actual messaging patterns indicated that men will tend to hit on even younger girls, however. I don't think the rule is about being socially acceptable circa 2015. The most reasonable explanation seems to only apply that to first marriages of young men, under…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:49 PM
11

There is a joke in here about her simultaneously being a virgin and not a virgin until you open her box and look at the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:11 PM
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And they basically admitted that they are ideologues who believe that as a matter of faith, go forth with their research on that basis, and dismiss any counter evidence as bad science. The opposite crowd in the UK and US think there is some sort of split between nature and nurture and that neither should be ignored, a much more reasonable position in my mind.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:07 PM
2

Lupus is nasty. Here I am dating a hot 18 year old and the next thing I know it is like caring for my grandmother.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:01 PM
1

True. I wish I had TRP 30 years ago when I started college.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:55 PM
1

I didn't say anything about you personally. I was agreeing with and expanding on your generalization that : above 40 it's much harder to change from incel to getting some. The guys who can't get any are dead set in the nice guy rut, won't change if they could I'm 48 and I am dating a 20 something so we are in the same boat.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:52 PM
6

Obviously the gods are growers, not showers.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:00 PM
3

There was that old J. Giles song, Love Stinks He loves her, and she loves him, and he loves somebody else; you just can't win. And so it goes until you die. "Indifference mentality": that has a much more pleasant tone than "not giving a shit". I refer to it as "Zen Sex": if you are living in the moment, enjoying yourself, enjoying other people's company and not worrying about getting laid. . .you will get laid.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:51 PM
3

For any given level of outward SMV, the crazy ones tend to be better in bed. In one of the other subreddits, a study showed that 60% of faculty and students in the philosophy department have psychological disorders.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 05:33 AM
1

You can be put in jail for any civil suit if you could pay up but don't. The burden of proof always starts on the plaintiff but there are many tricks that shift it to defendant rather easily. In a civil suit the standard is something similar to "more likely than not" rather than "beyond a reasonable doubt". All it takes is the woman's word and unless she is completely nuts and you have an amazing lawyer, cross examination won't be enough to stop her from clearing that bar.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 05:20 AM
6

I am writing as a former Canadian divorce attorney. Even there, there are differences from province to province. Not just any relationship will do, it has to be "marriage like" and there are a whole series of factors that judges will look at as they parse through the evidence where one or both people are lying through their teeth because some significant money is on the line. "Playing house" is a big indicator. Two years tends to be the hurdle but you can get nailed for child support (for kids f…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 05:11 AM
2

He was only on the hook for a couple of years of child support, and his whole life would have taken a different turn if he was in the loop from the beginning. From his point of view, it could have been far worse. From the kid's point of view - growing up without a father - I don't know what the upside to that is.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 05:00 AM
1

Even if all the 40+ MGTOW and incel took TRP and started to game, most would still not even attempt going after early 20's college girls. Nor should they. There is still plenty of tail in their 30s and such. Sure, not quite the eye candy of years gone by, but they have their advantages and are better than nothing if that is what one is lamenting about.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:19 AM
7

It's like pre-nups: you get shamed and shit blasted for even suggesting it. I was helping a girlfriend fill out a visa application and asked her if she had ever been convicted of a crime. She got all upset saying "What do you think? How can you ask me that?" I don't think that and I wasn't asking, the fucking government want to know and you have to answer it not me, silly bitch. Asking for paternity tests or pre-nups shatters the "trust" in the relationship. They are the ultimate male version of…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:07 AM
3

A relative of mine had a teenager arrive on his doorstep and say "Hi Dad". Apparently his ONS from 16 years previous got pregnant, never told him, and raised the kid until she ran out of money. I'm not sure if she went for social assistance first, but the government will give it to her and then chase after the guy. He didn't get a paternity test because the kid looked almost exactly like he did at the same age.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:57 AM
1

If LTR/marriage is the direction you are moving in, get her to show you family pictures of her mother and grandmother. Odds are, that's what she's going to look like in 20 years, maybe less.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:50 AM
13

Blue Pills always turn it around and say: "Why is it so feast or famine? Nothing for months and then BOOM, I get a girlfriend and all sorts of women start hitting on me out of nowhere!"
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:47 AM
7

This is based on the distribution of OKC users and not the population in general. The men's stated lowest acceptable age is about 0.56x+5.12 which is rather similar to the rule of thumb of half-plus-7. They have a chart labeled "desirability" but it actually shows mere acceptability at the high end and a "realistically, who will fuck me?" cut off at the low end. Women peak between 21 and 24 as TRP theory would predict, but you seriously can't say that an 18 year old is just as desirable as a 28 …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:08 AM
7

Clown or door mat seem to be the only choices in this paradigm. Mutually fulfilling partners doesn't seem to factor in.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:54 AM
1

Laid easily/MGTOW/Incel is pretty much the breakdown across the spectrum except for Unhappily married.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:49 AM
1

I have yet to buy into everything on offer at TRP but most of it seems universally applicable. Some posts and threads about the particular challenges of picking up someone half your age, or dealing with women over 35 would be useful. Most of the discussion here seems to be about how to be the alpha pony of the college cock carousel.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:46 AM
1

Well, hehe, it would have been a slap on the ass, but good find!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:34 AM
7

The historical examples show reasonably slim women with small breasts and a slight roll on the belly. If you go way back, various fertility symbols looked like fat women with bit tits. You can chalk that up to survival instincts because naturally skinny chicks 10,000 years ago probably died off in hard times. The hourglass figure was more popular back in the 50s and 60s: 36"24"36". But even when the "ideal" became skinnier, the waist-hip ratio remained fairly constant at just under 0.7 (the clas…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:08 AM
1

Every piece of literature, book and webpage that I have read warns against low sperm count, infertility, shrunken testicles, and problems with erections. Are we talking about the same "steroids" here?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:11 PM
2

I get where you are coming from, it just calls into question whether being an alpha in this context is something one should strive to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:54 AM
1

Well, you mentioned "closer to the sun" and "alpha widowed". And some people seem to measure based solely on how many (stupid) chicks they can fuck. But I agree with your basic point.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:19 AM
2

I am still trying to wrap my head around this "thugs are alpha" notion. All women like bad boys to one extent or another, I get that. But just because some girls are stupid doesn't make drug dealers alpha males.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:45 AM
22

He (ex-boyfriend) took all of my virginities Should have saved the one that matters, princess.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:32 AM
3

I suppose. One less annoying guy hitting on the women.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 07:55 AM
3

Less likely to trade up later.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 07:47 AM
7

I'm new here but isn't AWALT more about genetic disposition towards hypergamy, emotional thinking, and hamstering out justifications for the other two? I live in China and it seems that a lot of things guys will write off as AWALT don't necessarily apply because of cultural conditioning and social structure. Here's a suggestion, and everyone can let me know what they think. Many places will have two sets of doors: shopping malls, subway stops, etc (I am from Toronto where it goes from -30C in th…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:28 AM
3

A neckbeard is basically an indication of giving up all hope. It's like the fat, ugly chicks who refuse to shave their legs, walk around in jam shorts, and then complain about how facile men are. It takes maybe 3 months of exercise to get noticeable improvements in your physique; it takes 5 minutes to shave your fucking neck.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:11 AM
14

Except that the divorce rate is about 10%. And if you thought the pre/post wall American girls are picky and difficult, these A women are almost frickin impossible at times, especially leading up to the Great Wall (Chinese girls hit the wall later, but harder in many cases).
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:58 AM
11

Ha ha. Well, it certainly gives them access to all sorts of feminist nonsense written in English, but it's not the whole story. If they are "well travelled" then they probably went to Europe or America and are tainted. My Chinese is only survival level so I can't hold a conservation in Chinese, but several of the Chinese girls I met who have good English still have a sizeable 仓鼠 cangshu (Chinese hamster) running around in their head.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:53 AM
1

I was at a "munch" with some friends (a neutral get together with a bunch of BDSM people in a public place like a restaurant, diner or café) and one of the guys was fairly short, perhaps 5'6". In walks this strapping girl, about 5'11", maybe even 6-foot, and the room goes bananas. Buddy tells me he is going for her. I ask: "Isn't she too tall?" He says: "No way! I'll put her in 4" stilettos AND THEN MAKE HER KNEEL BEFORE ME!" He takes off like a shot and comes back a few minutes later, her phone…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:49 AM
0

Over 30 years ago I was a skinny nerd with glasses, long hair, frumpy wardrobe and an SMV lower than the Dead Sea. I had been picked on by bullies for years prior to that. When I turned 18 I said "fuck this!" Got a hair cut, contact lenses, new clothes, joined the army (reserves), sang in a rock band, studied martial arts. In the wake of that, the women were all over me. Since then I have never had to defend myself physically. It was a whole Karate Kid thing: you learn to fight so you don't have…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:35 AM
0

The OKCupid people have looked at this, regarding the dynamics of their site: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/ http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/how-races-and-religions-match-in-online-dating/
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:13 AM
13

I spent my youth travelling, joining the military, starting a business and generally enjoying myself. It was only the last few years that I turned towards career and finances and now at 48 I might take a stab at settling down. Guess what? My bride to be will be at least 15 years younger, if not 20+ years younger (my current girlfriend is 26) because I actually want to have children, and a "mature" woman can't do that without all sorts of possible complications. Having my own "midlife crisis" thr…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:59 AM
1

The male version of that is "there are so few women out there more interesting than your left hand".
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:40 AM
5

The term "strong, independent" is a euphemism for abrasive, pig-headed and lonely. Toss in "intelligent" and you have an annoying know-it-all who deflates hard-ons even faster than egos. And then they wonder why guys are not interested.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:36 AM
5

Any IQ of over about 130 or so creates problems because one will be better with manipulating abstract concepts rather than dealing with reality, which is irrational in many respects.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:29 AM
1

The sine qua non of confidence is what you think of yourself, and everybody - especially women - give a shit. But you have to show them not tell them.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:23 AM
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I'm a 48 year old Canadian living in China, and the OP speaks truth. You get the successful career women who end up as sheng nu and a magazine article quoted one as rationalizing it thus: Women marry up so the A men get the B women and the B men get the C women, and all that is left are the A women and D men. There is a bit of hamstering going on there, but it is largely true for women in her position. Others are just quirky and don't settle down until their ovaries are screaming at them as they…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:13 AM
6

When I was very young (I only know this story because my mother told me) some kid pushed me down and took my toy. I went crying to my mother. Her advice? "Go push him down and take back your toy!"
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:42 AM
3

Where can I find Rollo's graph? I am new here.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:36 AM
1

The lawyer (cpa type) is also into guns. I stumbled on a pic of him - dressed in shirt and tie - with a carbine or something.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:34 AM
1

Unfortunately, I am in China and don't have a VPN, so I can't get youtube. However, I figure that any woman who proclaims to be a unicorn immediately fails the crazy test. It's sort of like that trope where the men in white are dragging her away in a straight jacket as she screams: "I'm not crazy! I'm not crazy!"
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:31 AM
7

One auxiliary explanation is baggage. You will be held to account for every failed relationship the woman has had, every indignity she has suffered at the hands of previous lovers, every ounce of effort she spent on other guys who did not reciprocate. On the other hand, you will be expected to match or exceed their best qualities. It takes a while for this to settle into their psyche, generally by age 25. As far as OKC is concerned, there is a strategic choice regarding how must online interacti…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:26 AM
-1

Because you want to fuck her: (certainly) no more, no less.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:03 AM
1

I suppose the options are: 1) Leave 2) Keep quiet 3) Find someone else to talk to 4) Join the conversation with her
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:01 AM
-1

I agree that the movie is shit. It is terrible as a movie on many points. The only reason I watched it was to follow the narrative and tease out the ideas. I can put up with a few hours of nonsense but I am not going to slog through a thousand pages of text in search for some fleeting kernel of insight. I would rather just read secondary sources to find out what she was on about.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:23 AM
1

Probably the most naturally alpha guy I know lifts just to keep in shape so he is happy with himself. He's a reasonably big guy - 6'1" and 220 - broad shoulders etc, but not a body builder physique. He just doesn't want to balloon out to 260 or whatever. I am no alpha, natural or otherwise, but I have enough skillz to land a tall, slim, beautiful girl 22 years my junior. I just recently turned around my diet and exercise for my own reasons. She takes a piss out of me every now and then about my …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:17 AM
6

For anyone who has studied business or law you should be familiar with BATNA: Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. That's what gives you the power to walk away. If you go into a job interview you can have the shiniest resume imaginable but the best thing to have is another job offer in your back pocket. You don't even have to tell them it's there and let them know that you are in demand. That will give you the confidence to push for more and get a better deal. If they are not willing to w…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:56 AM
2

One can't "snap out of" depression anymore than they could snap out of a congenital illness or a broken leg. However, that doesn't mean that you cannot accept your burden, strive for self-improvement and be the best person you can be.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:28 AM
2

Get on the St. John's Wort. It's proven to help with depression, anxiety, sleeplessness and. . . .alcoholism. Avoid SSRIs if at all possible unless you consider ejaculation an optional bonus to getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:22 AM
1

Well, I'm going to return to Canada in a few years and will probably want to reactivate my ticket, even if I don't practice.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:01 AM
2

If you are going to come to China and are looking for the hookup/dating/plate scene, stick to Hong Kong, Shanghai, or Beijing TB3 - The Big Three). You can try Xiamen or Hainan which are tourist destinations that I didn't spend a lot of time in. Everywhere else you have two things working against you: 1) the language barrier and 2) the traditional culture that encourages early commitments, low notch counts and living with their parents until married. Even in TB3 it is AWALT-Lite due to culture a…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:56 AM
3

Lots of sexual opportunities is a by-product of success, happiness and confidence. It creates a positive feedback loop. Turning down sex with a nutter or a bitch is no biggie.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:50 AM
7

Some chick at the HuffPo wrote it up in an article titled "Everything You Need To Know About Women, According To A Man Who Knows Nothing". He goes on to explain that women have a simpler, 3 sector matrix based on "cute" and "money". They have a huge no go zone if either your cute or money ratings are too low. The fun zone is for cute guys without money. The husband zone is on the high end of the money scale, regardless of how cute you are. The crazy scale reminds me a bit of something a friend o…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:36 AM
2

I think you are underselling yourself as being "average" and overestimating the number of CMTs running about.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:24 PM
2

In this case, I did not mean "settling" as in "settling down" (LTR/marriage) but rather they claimed they disappointedly fucked a 7 because the 8 wasn't available. In terms of SMV, for all the girls who are not a 5, will half of them be a 6+ and half be a 4- ?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:47 PM
2

So you fucked 50 chicks in college?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:36 PM
1

As illwill points out, they aren't free; they are being worked on.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:22 PM
2

I've come across the Facebook pages of some of my exs and they will have a pic with them and their new SO, and I look at the guy and think to myself: "Oh man, if you only knew!"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:17 PM
3

I think the point is that once the 5 gets fucked by a 9 guy and then dumped, the hamster wants her to find another 9 who "treats her better" while ignoring any lesser mortals until she hits the wall.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:10 PM
2

When I say randomly, I mean looking at all ages. It would be about one in a dozen 20-somethings but more like 1 in 30 for a younger teenager or 40-something. Again, that would exclude those who are shacked up and monogamous (not really a concern for 20-somethings). So on a university lecture hall with 100 students, there would be 4 uber-players getting one or two or perhaps more new girls a month, every month, all year.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:50 PM
2

If you eliminate those who are married or cohabitating with 1 lover or no sex, then the top 19% are the men with 3 or more partners in the year. For them to represent 79.5% of the match ups, the men with 4+ would have to AVERAGE 19 partners. Do you really think that 1 in 20 guys (all single guys of all ages, 15-44, picked at random) is getting a new girl every 3 weeks or less?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:48 PM
2

You had me up to the examples in Rule 3. I would seriously question the reported SMV (not to mention the sanity) of a chick who would respond positively to "I can make you cum, who's interested?" as a cold approach to a group. Having said that, one possibility is to systematically proposition every woman in a bar for a ONS. The law of large numbers dictates that you will score if you ask enough of them (I don't recommend this, but I have heard enough anecdotal evidence to believe it can work). 4…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:38 PM
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As with many things, it is probably a combination of nature and nurture, and alpha/beta tendencies exist on a spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:37 PM
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I agree, except for the steroids, which mess with your pecker and cause a lot of other problems.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:33 PM
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I was a divorce attorney for 4 years and I had to give it up. I only stumbled on TRP recently but I have been semi-unplugged for years (which is why I got so much shit from profs and other students at the left coast law school I attended). Now I am 48, I live in China and have a 26 year old girlfriend. Fuck the anglosphere/eurosphere feminist matrix. I'm not allowed to give legal advice but practical advice is another thing. Feel free to PM me.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:13 PM
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When you put it that way, it reminds me of Philip Rushton's studies that drove all the SJWs crazy. It is what's called r/K selection strategy where r means lots of offspring with little parental investment and K is a limited number of offspring with high parental investment. The thing is, with reliable contraception, the focus turns to the women rather than children. Women always have a K strategy to a certain extent because of the limits on how many kids she can birth and raise. Getting back to…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:02 PM
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It's already happening, largely on a subconscious level. Some guys are happy now with a modest job to pay for a small apartment, a nice car, and a wicked home entertainment system and not actively pursue pair-bonding or marriage. Japan is being devastated by a number of factors, the latest of which I have heard about is the "grass eating boys" or "herbivores".
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:50 PM
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Yes, I have seen that before. I think there is some sort of hamster factor at work where men will naturally create something close to a normal distribution while women rate 80% of men as being below average. I was thinking more of the 10 point scale: How many girls rate a 10? 1/100? 1/1000? 1/10,000? What is the average girl? (mean, median, mode) 5 or 6? (a lot of guys here seem to think there is something icky about a 5 and few will admit to sleeping with a 6; most talk about "settling" for 7s)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:53 AM
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I live in China and if you are trying to come here and date them, then virtually all of this article is nonsense. I've dated several Chinese in Canada before I left (and no, I don't have "yellow fever") plus I knew lots of other Chinese girls and none of the advice computes. . That being said, I can't comment on the rest of it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:18 AM
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It is a generalization of multiple phenomena - like the golden ratio - but it is not borne out by the evidence in this case.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:00 AM
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And the numbers were self reported by the guys who have more motivation to boost the numbers.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 10:56 AM
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I don't know where you learned to read, my friend. Probably from an Ontario school, ha ha.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:00 AM
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Even by conventional standards, a 29 year old man would be hooking up with a woman between, say, 25 and 28. . Except for the most exclusive services or ad-supported services, all dating business models revolve around women signing up for free (or a pittance) and then men shelling out the money that drives their profits. . The next time a woman moans about "where have all the good men gone?" then ask them how much money would they be willing to put on the table to try and find one? The answer wou…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:59 AM
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One ex had two kids with her ex husband. She ballooned when she got pregnant but then went back to a size zero by the time I met her, when she was 30 years old. She had an amazing body but her breasts were terrible, little things to behold. She eventually got implants. On the other hand, the following girlfriend was about 5'2" and less than a hundred pounds as a teenager. She developed a thyroid condition and weighed in at about 130 when I got my hands on her 30 year old body (a BMI of 24, with …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:50 AM
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The words were "not conventional" and "qualitatively different". You interpreted that as "not conventional" and "not qualitatively different".
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:36 AM
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Once they hit the wall and drop their SMV expectations to a reasonable level, they hold their new beta boy to a much higher standard of behavior.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:34 AM
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I agree that these days it is difficult to find a good looking, curvy girl like a 60s centerfold or whatever. It takes a lot more genetics to pack on weight "in all the right place" as opposed to hitting the gym and getting rid of that weight. . There is the horrible "fat ratchet": When women gain weight, it goes on their hips but when they lose weight it comes off their tits.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:29 AM
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Not conventional but is qualitatively different. You distributed my "not" ;-)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:25 AM
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I'm living in China and the magic number for women is 50kg (110 pounds; they are metric). That being said, my girlfriend is 5'9" and about a buck thirty and she tells me that she wants to GAIN weight because she thinks her tits are too small (they are B cups) and her ass is too flat! I almost slapped her and now I am getting her to do some exercises to shape her pecs and glutes.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:45 PM
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At one point, both my sisters and both their husbands (as well as one sister's ex) worked for the same company. Not in the same office or even on the same floor, but still. Didn't end well. I was teaching at a private college, a middle aged guy surrounded by 18 year olds. I know of at least one student-teacher combo: she graduated and he got a gig at a public college and they ended up dating. Last point is about being self employed. The temptation is to hire your girlfriend or wife or get involv…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:24 PM
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I'm living in China. It's a totally different dynamic but here the best before date is about 27 or 28. By that age they are expected to be married or in an LTR leading to marriage. But what's spooky about Chinese girls is they tend to look the same from when they are about 16 until sometime in their 40s. Some will get crows feet, some don't. You really have to look closely. At the other end, some look young but you can't tell just how young. You need to look at their clothes and accessories for …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:11 PM
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A few years ago I stumbled on the Facebook page of my first serious girlfriend (3-1/2 years) from back in my early 20s, over 20 years ago. She was married with kids but damn, if she didn't look pretty much the same in her 40s. Then again, she had all her clothes on in the newer pictures, lol. Who knows what lurks beneath?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:55 PM
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I wonder about the control groups. That is, do people generally get happier as they age or not? The other thing is that married men tend to live longer and have higher incomes than bachelors. There is a question of causation there just as there is with divorce. Are happily married people happy because they are married or married because they are happy?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:25 PM
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If they have the 0.7 waist-to-hips ratio, appropriately-sized knockers, and a pleasant face, I am ok with "curvy".
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:14 PM
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It appears to be a bad generalization, that's all. I think it follows a power law curve rather than a bell curve. The SMP is very bell curve-ish but in theory would have to extend below 0 and above 10. A mean of 5 and a standard deviation of 1.5 would be intuitive if you accept that half of all women are in fact less than a 5 and that a 10 is about one in 2000. However, I don't really think that is how guys rate either women or themselves.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:45 PM
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I didn't make any claim of superiority, that's an incorrect inference on your part. I simply prefer film to print for my fiction. I understand the differences in the media, but the basic narrative is there. I'm a Canadian, not an American. Nobody really studies Rand in schools. I'm not a theist either.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:23 PM
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I get your point, but the vehicle you start with to make it - the 80/20 rule - is probably a myth.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:14 PM
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The flip side is that guys tend to pad their numbers, and sideways from both of those is that the numbers end at age 44. I'm 48 and my partners in the last year have been 15 or 20 years younger. Still, has anyone offered to clarify what they mean by "80% of the women"?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:11 PM
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My unit didn't ritualize it and generally called it a pig fuck, although we had the code word "tatanka". I dunno: been there, done that. Sure, she had a pretty face but I would never do a fat chick again. I read somewhere recently that the average American woman is 5'3" and 143 lbs. Maybe that is why I live in China now.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:02 PM
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Well yes, but the notion of techies and business people practicing scorched earth, going on "strike" and then retreating to some Shangri la is not even on the level of speculative fiction. It is very comic bookish which I guess is why many people don't take it seriously. I actually agree with her on some points but she strikes me as the type of person who would not take yes for an answer.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:44 PM
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The 80/20 Rule is probably nonsense. In a CDC study conducted between 2006 and 2008 the findings were that 17.1% of females between the ages of 15 and 44 did not get laid in the previous 12 months and 69% had one lover. That only leaves 13.9% with multiple lovers. So what does "sleeping with 80% of the women" mean? Well, it can't mean 80% of all women. It can't mean 80% of the women who had sex - about 55% of the total. About the only reasonable interpretation is if you total the number of sex p…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:36 PM
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It's circular: sarcasm has to come from an alpha to be entertaining; alphas are entertaining because of their sarcasm. If you are too beta and too sarcastic (especially if you target your target) the girl will think you are a jerk.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:59 PM
1

But the whole premise and arc of the story is fantastical. Mind you, I have to base my comments off the movie because I don't read fiction.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:50 PM
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She was mostly a small government, libertarian, atheist, capitalist. She was neither a religious (social) conservative nor an establishment conservative (Republican/Tory). How much of that is misunderstood?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:47 PM
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Girls with fetishes have issues, that is more so that every other female. I had one who was BPD, another who was a cutter and at one point suicidal, another was a rape victim with health problems, etc. They are great in the sack, fun on dates, but an LTR can go from merely complicated to downright hellish. If she is hunting specifically for a sugar daddy, I find that problematic, fetish or not. You also have to consider the distance. My limit has been a couple hours drive, but I might be tempted…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:37 PM
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While it would colour the conversation, the specific nature of the fetish is hardly critical to the basic narrative. And it's pretty obvious that if he is a med student at 30 that he took some time off from school. Hell, I didn't get to law school until I was 29 because I took six years off to travel, join the military and start my own business.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:25 PM
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There is a joke: Why did God invent BDSM? So fat chicks could get laid too. But yes, it is true that if they are "into it" then they are hotter in the bedroom than would otherwise be apparent in public. A freaky 6 is much better than a fashion model who likes missionary with the lights out and nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:17 PM
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Without going into the merits of the Hershey Highway, I think it's safe to say that it is not conventional, qualitatively different than coitus, and rather traumatic by comparison. I don't think it's appropriate to go into it in any particular detail. Realistically, out of a class of two dozen 12 year olds, how many would be seriously considering giving or receiving? Of the rest, how many would have anything more than a puerile, prurient curiosity?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:48 AM
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In game theory (the academic discipline, not PUA theory) it is called a "dominant strategy". Your outcome will always be as good or better than the alternative. Regardless of whether she is oblivious or merely playing dumb having you know that she knows what you want will move you faster into bed or into nexting her. Either way, you are out of the friendzone.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:55 AM
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I dunno, the bisexuals I dated put out on the first date. Unless she has long term potential, time to move on. After 4 cracks at it, jerk you off , jerk you around, whatever: you still aren't getting laid
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:10 PM
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If you enjoy her company for its own sake then have fun, don't worry about getting laid and - in zen fashion - you may very well end up getting laid anyways. The same applies to helping out or giving gifts. Doing favours, buying presents and such with some expectation of reciprocation in the form of sex is daft. Do it unconditionally or not at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:33 PM
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Ya, I have a buddy who is always chatting up the waitresses and then ends up dating them. They aren't off limits but there will be a lot of competition and ulterior motives for friendly banter.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:21 PM
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Desire without expectation and you will not be disappointed. Take joy in your actions; act and you will be happy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:03 PM
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Perfection is a direction, not a destination.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:53 PM
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