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u/MattyAnon, this is the limit for me actually. In the past months all good content gets banned ('How to get laid on Hinge (guide)' on 6th of May and 'insights_after_10_years_of_picking_up_women' on 17th of May), probably for not being 'red pill theory', while this ItsDantesWorld guy is allowed to give advice like 'sling your dick out' and paint minifigures or something Over the past 2.5 years I fucked 65 women, without a single rape accusation, or screaming girl in a coffeeshop, because I act l…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:12 PM
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If you're ignoring her request to discuss it there's two ways how it can go: 1) She just leaves it, this is the best outcome of course, let's say 90% chance this happens 2) She goes to the police or anything, maybe not now, maybe months from now, who knows. This will be a shitstorm you are not prepared for. OP will have forgotten by the time it hits him again. He looks really shady because he blocked her after this request of her, this will all be used against him. Only a small chance this happe…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:33 PM
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80% of the comments here is totally insane. Guys that tell you to contact a lawyer don't have any idea how the world works, and no, it doesn't matter in which country you are, it's just insane. She wants to discuss this with you, so in my opinion you don't have other options than meeting up with her and having this talk. Meet up in public, at a bar or a restaurant for example, but make sure you have a spot with enough privacy to talk about the topic. If you take her request seriously and arrange…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 11:54 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 Why would you spend one second of your time with her in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 03:39 PM
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Damn, this writing was pretty chaotic
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:57 PM
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You have a long way to go if you care about the upvotes you missed because you got banned on a (relationship advice) subreddit. People are not going to welcome you for saying 'red pilled' things (or what you think are red pilled things, you sound like you're really new here), and if you don't want to ruin your relationships with friends and family in your real life: stfu about what you're reading on the internet. Grind in silence, let success be your noise, don't talk about fight club, all this …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 10:32 PM
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Well, I would start approaching on day 0, and start working on yourself on day 0. This way you'll really see your results improving
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 10:24 PM
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> When we're laying on my bed, I take off my shirt first. I take off my pants first Totally disagree with this. Quite often I do a lot of the foreplay on her while still wearing my jeans, sometimes while I'm still fully clothed, and I'm always the last one to go fully naked. Especially if you say you like the dominant/submissive stuff she will like feeling exposed/vulnerable, but whatever works for you
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 10:24 AM
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I rarely have a sexual dry spell for longer than 10 days(humble brag), which is where it starts getting tough for me. But tips in general: don't look at sexual content, porn, the sexy subreddits, instagram girls, stuff like that. And in case you're in real sexual situation but you don't orgasm (had a couple of those situations like that in the last couple of months), I go for aiming the showerhead at the bottom of the ballsack and letting the cold water do its magic
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:25 PM
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That is amazing, how did you do it? If you want to know you can check my post history on NoFap. I wrote updates on day 3, 37, 93, 302, 814 and 1000 What country do you live in? I live in the Netherlands. We've had an 'intelligent lockdown' most of the pandemic, but it was still very possible to go on an evening walk and then invite the girl over to your place for a drink, which would lead to sex like 8 out of 10 times. But during these 3 months of curfew (everyone has to be inside by 9 o'clock) …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:18 PM
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I agree with most of your post. I masturbated for the last time more than 1000 days ago, made fucking lots of pretty girls my goal and had a really good 2019 and 2020 (despite covid). Now that the curfew in my country has seriously impacted my sexlife in the last 3 months, I've come to the conclusion that my life is really empty and I need to find another, more serious, goal for the near future
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 03:23 PM
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'Months went on, and she joked with other people telling me I was her boyfriend. But I was so beta that I couldn't lead and take her as my official gf. I was shy as fuck.' <- I mean here
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 08:25 AM
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She had a higher smv than you in 1996, you have a higher smv in this version of 2021 (I mean in this timeline, the timeline you went through), I agree with you on this. But the fact that her smv in this version of 2021 is low does not (in hindsight) make you a good decisionmaker in 1996. There was time before this Tyrone appeared and you didn't make your move then. If you would have made your move, and it worked, it would have influenced both your lives, also changing both your smv's in 2021. In…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 08:11 AM
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Not taking action is also an action (like passing your turn in a game, checking in poker). You wanted the girl, you didn't go for it, you feel bad about it. It is what it is, that's how life goes. You can try to improve yourself so next time you can behave differently or you search for ways to explain to yourself why you actually made the right choice (check 'the Fox and the Grapes'). You're looking at the woman now and saying you dodged a bullet by not making a move on her then while actually t…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 07:18 AM
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So, you're trying to feel better about how you handled this situation 25 years ago because you found out the girl is fat and ugly now, and actually using this as an example why oneitis is bad? This is the biggest bullshit I've ever read on this subreddit
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 07:02 AM
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I would advice making your intent clear (by kissing her for example) before bringing the girl up there in the first place. Bringing a girl in with an excuse (like getting your coat, well, in this FR it was actually true apparently) and then moving in for the first kiss might not feel right for her. Some girls are extremely naive (the younger, the more naive) about what's going to happen when a guy brings her into his place, so it's your responsibility to be open and honest and clear about what y…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 04:31 PM
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In my experience (n=76) there's something to say for both her and your place for a first time. Her place will feel more comfortable to her BUT it's always a huge black box for you (maybe she said 'we can't do this' because there's someone else there for example). I've been cockblocked quite some times by random shit happening totally out of my control because I was at her place. Your place is way more relaxed for you, you can tidy it up to come across like a normal person, have your wine, your m…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 10:32 PM
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And focus on interpunction
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 09:12 AM
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How girls in 2021 determine whethercot not you're 'alpha' is exactly the same as how they did it in 10.000 BC, doesn't have anything to do with 'concentration span'
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 11:20 AM
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Well, exchanging insta would only work if your profile on there is at least decent. Maybe yours is already (then you can ask yourself the question why you have this and put effort in it, but that's another discussion), mine certainly is not (I have 0 friends, 0 pics, I literally only follow one friend because I'm interested in his art and his puts it on instagram), so me giving my insta would raise more questions than me saying I don't have it, what's your number?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 09:48 AM
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I've had multiple girls literally tell me: 'Thank you for just asking for my number, most guys nowadays don't dare to and just ask for my instagram'. In my opinion instagram and snapchats are just extra defense layers to keep you from getting closer to them (you could call it a shit test if you will). I'm 30 and dating mainly with girls in the 18-25 range, and they don't find it weird that I don't have social media. I could imagine it being different if you're younger yourself (like a 23 yo guy)…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 02:59 PM
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Don't use instagram or these other social media things. If she asks for you instagram, just say you don't do instagram, but you can exchange phonenumbers. If she doesn't want to give her number you know she's not interested. If she gives it, you can send her a message and see if your 'I want you to fuck me' eyes detection algorithm is working correctly
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 02:18 PM
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I can see that you like gaylubeoil. Reading your post leaves me in the same confused state.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 11:08 AM
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I thought they were there but apparently not. Fixed it. I'd recommend it if you can give your opinion on it. I see the post has been removed my mods though, not sure why
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:09 PM
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I've been using Tinder as my main way of meeting girls for the past 2.5 years. I rate myself as a 7 maybe, but I haven't got any good pictures (never made the effort to do a 'photoshoot' like thing with a friend). I don't have any social media so all my pictures are pictures my friends or dad randomly took, something they almost never do. I don't swipe a lot, but I use my 'daily free superlike' almost every day (in a way I think is smart, like on a nice 7), and I get 1 match per day on average. …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 11:20 AM
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Communicate the showing up early though. I'd text her something like: 'Hi [name], I propose ... ' Well, I don't understand it, and I'm fine with being banned for being called moralizing :p This 'women are amoral too' is quite a bad argument imo, that's often used by 'rp' guys that are still in their anger phase. I've been in situations like this where I feel I'm improving, feel more women want me, and it turned me into an absolute dick. I've hurt women with it, alienated people around me, and ma…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 01:06 PM
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One tip from a 29 year old with quite a bit more experience (I feel a ban incoming again for moralizing) but don't be a dick at her birthday party. My gameplan would be to meet up with her a couple of hours before the party. Escalate when you're alone with her, go for bj or sex. Then at the party don't go walk around like the silverback, just be a normal and confident guy, the girl will broadcast in some way that you're fucking her. If you want to smash other hot girls beside her, find them outs…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 09:30 AM
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This happens at every gym. I even had a guy I'm semi-friendly with try to shove me off the bench when I denied him joining me. I stood up and pushed him away after which he said things like 'relax bro, I was just joking'. Maybe he was, but he was also probing to see how far he could push me. Well played in the above story OP
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 12:36 PM
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Since 1-1-2020 women from 17 and older are also drafted in the Netherlands in case of a war/disaster :)
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:31 PM
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Just to nuance your post a bit, storytime. I was 'friends' with a girl from my 18th until my 27th I think, we saw each other 3 or 4 times a year, mostly to cook dinner together and watch a movie. I always wanted to have sex with her, but I also really liked her as a person, so I was hanging out with her for two reasons. She was always in a relationship. When she wasn't anymore I told her I wanted to have sex with her. She said she thought that would ruin our friendship, I said I didn't care. Con…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 05:04 PM
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Your condoms are prob too tight because they're not the right size. The size is the width in mm, it's written somewhere on the package. The 'normal/average size' differs a lot per brand and probably per country. A condom that's 2 mm wider makes a lot of difference in my experience so compare the width of the normal sized ones of different brands online or in a store, or consider trying L, XL. Durex also sells boxes where they have like 3 normal ones, 3 XL ones, 3 thin ones, so you can experiment…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 04:02 PM
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Please change your mindset for yourself and everyone you have sex with now and in the future. After having sex with a condom you can cum in her mouth to feel like a healthy winner :)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 03:56 PM
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If your condoms are too tight you're prob not using the right size/using a brand with a small default size. The size is the width mm, it's written somewhere on the package. The 'normal/average size' differs a lot per brand and probably per country and yes 1 or 2 mm makes a lot of difference in my experience
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 03:47 PM
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It is, for a while (1 or 2 years), imo. Only way to find out is to go for it. Or you can not go for it, your competition won't mind, and the girls won't either.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 03:40 PM
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IMO a guys looks only determine 30-40% of his SMV, where with a girl that's 80%+, so for a guy the 'luck in the genetics' part is way less important. Sure, lift, find a healthy diet and invest in good style (clothes, haircut) but remember: there's other areas to improve your smv. Areas that would make your sister only more attractive in a masculine way, which wouldn't matter to me if I'd meet her. So, to return to the topic: yes, women are more visually attractive, but it's their main (only?) se…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 01:25 PM
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Based on this post you don't find yourself physically attractive (enough). Question 1: have you ever followed a 5 month diet like your sister did? I also completely disagree with your analysis on the difference in effort to look good between genders. The attractive girls I know spent way more effort on gym + diet + clothes + beauty products + hair + nails than me (in non-covid times I workout 3 times a week). So I think you either haven't based your theory on really attractive girls (or standard…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 11:53 AM
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Read the sidebar and read 'The best of rational male - year one' on his site is step 1 IMO. Lifting is good as well but make sure you don't put all your effort in the looks department. There's a break even point somewhere. Putting in extra hours/week on gym/diet is not going to be worth the extra appearance points, other things (reading, approaching, socialising in general etc) will be more useful to spent those hours on.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 09:21 PM
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If you're actually seeing the way you interact with women like 'put in friendly conversation/time/attention until a price is met and she gives you sex' I totally disagree, but it's an interesting topic to have a discussion about. IMO SMV is (put very simplistically): (Looks + 'Money' + Status + some smaller things) * 'Game' (how do you pitch your value. Think for this as a number between 0 (sitting in a basement alone) and a number higher than 1 (you're actually overselling yourself with 'tricks…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 01:38 PM
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Sounds like you know what to do to 'delete this girl from your memory'. Stop looking at pics and chats cold turkey by hard deleting everything and move on
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:03 PM
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I feel your pain, I've had the same thing maybe 7 years ago. Time will help you, and I think doing fun stuff, chasing your goals, meeting/banging other girls helps as well. What does not help: staying in touch with her, looking at pictures you have of her, rereading chat history you have with her. If you know you're not going to get her back (that's your call, can't decide that for you) I think it's best to delete everything: pictures, chats, her number
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:28 AM
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/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:46 AM
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Thank you for your reply! Hm, a lot of you guys are saying I shouldn't send that text. I agree that maybe it would come across as 'good luck AND don't forget you promised to text me after', which is definitely not how I want to come across. It could also come across as 'you said I didn't text enough so here's a nice text', after the feedback there's basically no way I can come across as genuinely interested anymore, maybe waiting for her to call me would be better..
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:22 AM
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OP here. Thank you for your reply! Question: She has this exam next week. Do you think, given the feedback she has given, it would be wise to send her the 'good luck tomorrow' text, the night before? IMO this is not too bluepilled/too beta but 'playing her game once in a while', and I think it's going to improve my chances with this girl
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:16 AM
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Thank your for your reply! She sent me that text, I called her and in this call she suggested she'd call me after the exam, so the ball is basically in her court. I feel you when you're saying the good luck text night before exam would be beta. Question: when in this setting up LTR vibe, don't you think 10% beta is a good thing to have? IMO, texting a date about something unrelated to logistiscs is beta, and the fact I didn't text her gave her a 'fuckboy' vibe, a vibe I always have around me, bu…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:02 AM
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Thank you for your reply! I think there's a huge difference between our intentions. Don't get me wrong, I love(d) spinning plates and I recognise the weird things a girl that you see as a plate can send you. During the cooking, this girl and I stated to each other we're looking for something serious. I know a lot of guys on here wouldn't believe her anymore after we had sex on date 2, but I still believe her, and I'm still interested in exploring whether it can work. So yes, a part of me is expe…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:53 PM
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Thank you for your reply! If you read my post you'd know I'm interested in a LTR, and I'm interested in exploring whether this specific girl is a good fit for that. My 'plate game' has been fine for the last 1.5 years, and it's fine now. I'm always interested in adding interesting plates to my roster, it's just not my main concern now, or the focus of my post
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:41 PM
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Thank you for your reply! So you're basically saying a girl that has sex with a guy before they are in a LTR doesn't have the qualities to be a LTR? Does this also mean you would agree on a girl being your 'High Value' LTR before you fucked her? Speaking for myself I can say: if I'm in a dating situation with a girl I find attractive, I escalate (regardless whether my intention is ONS/plate/LTR). I fully agree that it's a good thing to screen on stuff like 'how easy is she?', 'what do I think he…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:38 PM
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Thank you for your reply! Well, I didn't, that's what (she said) she didn't like.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:30 PM
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Thank you for your reply! I actually thought long and hard about whether or not I'm going to send the 'good luck tomorrow' text, and I think I'm going to do it. I think you and I agree on the fact that it will have an effect.I'm assuming you think it will make me look nice, and I think that's the effect I want. I think sending the text will increase the chance of us seeing each other again, and that's what I want. I'm curious why you think it would be better not to send that text (remember: I ac…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:23 PM
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Thanks for your reply! I don't think I want to let this one go actually. I totally agree with you on the fact that I'm in her frame if she says yes but I don't think the terms 'waiting' and 'wasting time' apply as I'm seeing other girls in the meantime. I also agree on the fact that I should have casually texted at least once in the last three days. I'll let you know how tit goes
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:11 PM
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I read the first book in about 2 weeks, then read the second book in about 4 weeks, but only because of the momentum I carried with me from book 1. I'm halfway book 3 but I have been halfway for about a year. IMO Book 1 is great, there's no need to read 2 and 3
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 03:53 PM
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Although I don't think I'm as successful as OP yet, I feel the same about how I'm being perceived by my surroundings. In my case this also has to do with me tooting my own horn too much (career/dating), which I know is a bad habit. One of my new year's resolutions will be: work hard in silence, let succes make the noise.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 09:57 AM
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