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You approached her as a friend when she expected you to approach her as a potential lay. I'm not going to bs you and flat out say you did miss your chance, let this be a lesson, and use that lesson in your bext approaches.
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:10 AM
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She's probably seeking validation. If I understood you correctly.
/r/seduction18/08/16 12:20 PM
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Your response is fine. She was probably checking if you trusted her.
/r/seduction18/08/16 12:19 PM
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All you did on this thread was tell us that you lied to the girl. The whole point of seduction is becoming the most attractive you that you can be. And why didn't you want to show your intentions anyway? You have to be confident if you do something.
/r/seduction02/08/16 05:01 PM
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"Not yet, girl, I don't know you well enough yet, maybe later!". This suggests that she's the one who asked for sex and you are the one denying here. Makes her validate hrrself to you.
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:48 PM
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Eye-contact, good posture, tonality,... I could go on for days. It's not what you do, it's how comfortable you feel doing it.
/r/seduction30/05/16 11:07 AM
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If that's the case, it's a good challenge, I misunderstood your intentions. My bad.
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:02 AM
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Not really, you're just aiming for the girls that you know will not reject you. You're not challenging yourself. To actually improve you should actually challenge yourself with girls that you think are out of your league. Look at it like this, will you improve faster at basketball training vs little kids or against professional basketball players?
/r/seduction24/05/16 02:15 PM
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I view seduction not as just seducing women, but actually improving myself to become my best self so to speak. When I was in my teens I had a lot of social anxiety, I couldn't for the life of me talk to girls and I wasn't social in the slightest. At recess, I was usually by myself just reading. Then, right before I entered university, I came across the book The Game and it intrigued me. That's where my journey into seduction started. Now, a few years later, I am much more confident and social, a…
/r/seduction16/04/16 06:02 PM
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I don't know about books, but you should try just talking to girls for the heck of it, going in with no expectations; if you have no expectations you don't get a sense of rejection. You can go from say asking for directions to asking girls on dates after a while. Just start slow and build up. As you get more comfortable just talking, you progress. Like I said books aren't going to help you much at this point, since I assume you have probably read a tonne of stuff. You probably hit your ceiling i…
/r/seduction13/04/16 08:02 PM
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I'm sorry to say this but you're kinda misogynistic. You see women as just sexual objects and that's why you aren't having success with women. Also, who says you have to spend money to have a good time with a woman you like? You should just have fun and not see it as a chore but as getting to learn a fellow human being and becoming intimate. I'm sorry to say this but if your mindset is like this, there's no hope for you.
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:25 PM
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Don't waste time reading books and watching videos, from what I read you're replacing the going out part with reading about seduction. The only way you can actually improve is by actually taking action. Would you be able to swim if you only read how to in books? Same with approaching. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:12 PM
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Imagine this: there's a girl and you're talking to her but sometimes she averts her attention and talks to some other guy, will you want her more or lose attraction? It's simple psychology, we want something we can't get; same for girls. If a girl gets turned off b such a thing it means she's probably insecure.
/r/seduction12/04/16 09:21 PM
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The key is simple: women are also human; like men they have their own flaws and insecurities, if you get past that you will stop putting them on pedestals. Nice post, dude.
/r/seduction12/04/16 09:16 PM
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Girls like that get complimented all the time. You can throw in a compliment here and there but don't overdo it because you'll be just like all the other guys who talk to her. You need to differentiate yourself from them and show her your value. Her psychology is this: " I know I'm hot, will he care? ", if you don't there's this sort of 'craving'.
/r/seduction03/04/16 09:53 AM
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You didn't calibrate enough, you also pushed it too far. If you've gone too far, just backtrack. You should also not put on a persona, people see right through it. You should be confident, but not an asshole if you're not one.
/r/seduction03/04/16 09:49 AM
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I don't know why, but I laughed out loud at that haha
/r/seduction03/04/16 09:44 AM
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You're relying too much on her to say the exact things you planned. I think you should calibrate more.
/r/seduction02/04/16 02:05 PM
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As teakwood said, you need to keep trying to attract women. Don't settle on one girl if it's not exclusive yet. If you keep gaming you'll be less needy and in return also more desirable to the women around you because women know they're not your only option.
/r/seduction29/03/16 05:50 PM
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You need to understand that looks are not as big of a factor for women as they are for men, women are attracted more by the way you make her feel. You should also remind yourself that you are good enough, nothing is as unattractive to women as an insecure man. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction29/03/16 05:47 PM
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They mostly branched out from their Youtube channel to their own site and brand. They gained popularity through YT and transitioned to their own brand after that, which is quite good if executed well. As for content, they mostly only talk about anxiety, as in they have the notion of if you get rid of your fears, you'll score the women, and that's it. No talking about techniques like push/pull, body language, etc... I don't like them that much for their "how-to seduce" but for the entertainment.
/r/seduction29/03/16 05:41 PM
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Firstly, you have to know whether the girl is into girls, because you'll always be "friendzoned" if they're not into girls. You can also check "Kezia Noble", she's a female PUA, but I don't know if she talks about picking up girls herself.
/r/seduction27/03/16 06:54 PM
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You're creating fake confidence. How will you fare if she's not around? You shouldn't rely on others to make you look better. I recommend you work on your inner self.
/r/seduction27/03/16 03:31 PM
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You're attracted to that type, so you see them as your personal 10s. I personally find girls with green eyes and blonde hair my perfect type.
/r/seduction27/03/16 01:49 PM
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The problem is you put hotter girls on a pedestal. I'm not going to tell you that you should treat them the same as "normal" looking girls, because it's different, but they're still no harder to approach or pull than the "normal" looking girl, some might even argue that they're easier. I recommend you just use the 3-second rule and just approach as soon as you feel anxiety and interpret that anxiety as adrenaline.
/r/seduction26/03/16 11:03 PM
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So, basically peacocking
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:58 PM
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Women usually go to the bathroom together, why do you think she went alone? haha
/r/seduction24/03/16 04:53 PM
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On point 2: Sit next to her, not opposite her, that should help.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:55 PM
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I recommend you read "the art of war" if you haven't already. It also helped me become the man I am today. I am also a fan of the selfish gene because it just shows you why people react the way they do from an evolutionary standpoint.
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:15 PM
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IMHO I think the latter isn't that good of an opener, just because you've established a frame of "I'm just a guy asking for directions" but then you suddenly transition to "The guy who thinks she's cute". Show intent early on to set the frame for the rest of the conversation.
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:07 PM
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You shouldn't do the watch thing, some might see through it and you'll come off as a show-off. Let her guess you're 'rich' or 'smart' by how you behave or talk. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:05 PM
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You don't really have to say that haha. Just a little compliment to show your intent is enough. If it's not your style you don't have to say it, develop your own style that matches your personality and you're good to go. I personally don't ever give such specific compliments.
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:30 PM
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A compliment can be as simple as:" I love the way you dress". You don't have to go into specifics. And it's not serial-killer-like to say she has pretty eyes, everyone says it.
/r/seduction23/03/16 06:10 AM
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She knows you're talking to her because you want to pick her up. If you beat around the bush, you come off as unconfident. Be clear in your intent.
/r/seduction22/03/16 06:45 AM
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You should go by the "3 chances rule" give her 3 chances and after that cut her off. Maybe she's genuinely busy but after 3 shots she might be playing you.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:06 PM
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Malls, Plenty of girls just relaxing and wandering around.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:03 PM
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"Always assume attraction", if she's talking to you she likes you.
/r/seduction21/03/16 08:59 PM
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Just act as if you get complimented all the time, just play it cool. You can just smile and say thanks or just give a little compliment back.
/r/seduction18/03/16 04:41 PM
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You should realize that women aren't stupid. They know what you're trying to do when you go to yours. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's not "let's go to my place and fuck". She doesn't want to feel like a slut, that's why you need an 'excuse' to go to your place. You could literally say "want to see my rock collection"? You need to accept that fact and it'll become much easier.
/r/seduction02/03/16 09:58 AM
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Yes, a second language can help you, but not in a major way, I can speak 5 languages fluently (french,english,dutch,german and russian) and thr only languages I use are Dutch and English, it's about what you make of the situation.
/r/seduction05/08/15 08:11 AM
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Thinking you're hot is a psychological thing. If you feel hot you will also act "hot", and it will shiw in your personality. The things the guy said may have just been because he was angry. You're probably not less "hot" than you were before, it's just that your self-esteem dropped significantly. Once you get over that hurdle, you'll be able to approach like before.
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:49 PM
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It's the ASD, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch once she gets to your house and try to kino escalate without making her uncomfortable. If she really wants to visit you while living 3 hours away, there's a part of her that also wants to have sex.
/r/seduction31/07/15 11:13 AM
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You should try to make yourself the prize, keep push/pulling, make her validate yourself to you, this will make her think she's interested in you.
/r/seduction26/07/15 06:03 PM
0

how to win friends and inflience people- dale carnegie. you also need to get out of your comfort-zone and just be your "real" self with new people you meet.
/r/seduction26/07/15 06:01 PM
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step 2 is kino, step 3 is profit, haha
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:01 AM
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golddigger.
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:25 PM
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ofcourse the conversations are boring if you don't make them interesting, you can't expect to walk up to a girl, go into interview-mode and eventually she'll become this funny chick. If you don't build comfort by being finny in the first place the conversations will be stale.
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:15 PM
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if tinder is nothing for you, just approach on the streets. It's odd, but I've noticed girls are looser with travellers because they know they're never going to see them again which is like a safety-net for their "anti-slut defense".
/r/seduction25/07/15 12:04 PM
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step 1:"hi, wanna meet up for coffee some time?" step 2: kino step 3:profit
/r/seduction25/07/15 12:02 PM
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Just about everything works if you say it with confidence and maintain your frame. Openers can range from "hi, I thought you looked cute" to the cheesiest pickup line you can think of such as " can I take your picture to prove to my friends that angels do exist?". Just have fun with it, usually your mood conveys onto them.
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:32 PM
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Seems like it's all in your head, haha, she's probably just shy.
/r/seduction24/07/15 10:38 AM
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What freddy8 said + join activities such as dancing, etc. to boost your confidence. You should also try to read No more mr.nice guy, because your problem is that you let people walk all over you, you shouldn't let people take advantage of you because you're a friendly person.
/r/seduction24/07/15 08:36 AM
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Can you give an example.of what she does that makes you cringe?
/r/seduction24/07/15 08:27 AM
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Use conversationthreading
/r/seduction19/07/15 06:46 AM
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