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ABC_NO/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 04:19 PM
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ABC_NO/r/askMRP28/01/18 10:43 AM
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ABC_NO/r/askMRP15/02/18 07:49 PM
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ABC_NO/r/askMRP24/12/17 11:33 PM
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ABC_NO/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:18 PM
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Look at it this way. She want to see the results, not how it’s made. If you make the changes in the book and she sees it as coming from the book, it’s instant shit. You followed a script and she will probably call you on it. But if she never sees the books and she likes the changes, you can act like that’s all you.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:39 PM
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Agree, wife shit tested me relentlessly after she even saw the book and used it as a manipulative weapon against me. I would keep it to yourself.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:36 PM
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I started NoFap when I found MRP someone suggested this as a means of increasing your motivation to get laid by not fapping. It worked for the most part. I can concur. I hit a similar circumstance at 32, not master-bating has helped.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 04:11 PM
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Go see a lawyer. Alimony states, IDK. But, In Texas inheritance is “Separate property” and protected as long as it is kept separate and not co-mingled with joint assets. If I were in your shoes, I would buy a brokerage account with that money only. It looks like your being responsible and investing in the future, but in Texas, when it goes to court, it will be separate property because it came from an inheritance. Pay off the house. Let’s say you pay off 80% of the principal. The house is 80% se…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 03:47 PM
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This advice comes from MRPrs that come from a dead bedroom, so I hear. The advice given to me was turn down starfish sex and act like you don’t give a fuck.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 06:29 PM
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Negative inquiry would punch holes on her logic. “I don’t understand, So, because I enjoy doing X, and it upsets you, I am doing X to upset you?” Broken record until she responds. Negative inquiry works great for me. My wife hones in on fogging and forges a new battleground, but buys into neg. Inq. Without question.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 10:59 AM
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Like the post, it has some good stuff, but it was a little long and there is a lot to digest. I’ll have to go back and read the last half when I have time. Thanks for the contribution.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 01:31 AM
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The only time I say “I love you” is after she says it to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 11:16 AM
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I remember you noting this to me before and it still pops into my head. I have two shitty people in my life. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 11:36 AM
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/s Wow.. so surprised... woman wants the comfort and security of beta bux with some younger alpha fucks. So shocking! I swear TRP has made me calloused...
/r/askMRP14/04/18 04:44 PM
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Free Willy!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 10:49 PM
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I thought that is what you meant, but I wanted to be sure. That is definitely something to consider. Get out before the hammer falls!
/r/askMRP24/03/18 04:03 PM
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First I would suggest doing some research on Opsec. Found a good post/response by one of the vets basically saying don't shit where you eat, turn off all notifications on your phone, if you use a dating app, keep your location out of your town, etc. Basically, don't get caught, don't fuck with crazy bitches that want commitment in one week (that's a red flag), Married affair partners are good due to mutually assured destruction (they won't show up at your home trying to destroy your home life). …
/r/askMRP24/03/18 03:58 PM
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Clarification request: 79% chance if she is cheating?
/r/askMRP24/03/18 03:44 PM
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I did a really shitty job of it. I will add it to my reading list. On 4/17, I'l be back to reading.
/r/askMRP24/03/18 03:37 PM
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What the fuck! hahahaha! Fatfingerfuckerbot is here to save the day.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:58 PM
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OP is more about OPP. lmao.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:53 PM
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Has your wife cheated on you? No, she has not. Have you read "The 48 Laws of Power?" No You make some good points. As I have said in other places in this post, I would walk out if she did. I would maintain that boundary. The next time I do a hypothetical post I am going to stay away from "cheating wife" and personal opinions about comfort. My hypothetical post was poorly thought out and written. I think if more people decided to do this option, not in response to anything the wife does mind you,…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:51 PM
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OYS Week 12: ... Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 161 lbs., ~10% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. Holding maintenance calories. I am eating 2100 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 37.5% protein, 32.5% carbs, 30% fat. My maintenance is around 2100 calories. Still going strong with Strong-lifts 5x5. Working weights are SQT: 190 lbs.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/18 03:19 PM
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The wheel never stops turning Steve. What does marriage keep me from doing that being single would allow? I could spin plates either way. My marriage does not confine me. The plate deal could either save my marriage, or wreck it, but that doesn't matter. What would matter is what I want.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:06 PM
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OP, what the hell kind of a post is this? Your kids are watching you. Brother, you are their example of what a man should be, for better or for worse. If you have no respect for yourself, at least behave in a respectable manner for your children. It would save you from their contempt in the future. Bro. Devils advocate. Is there another option? Some have said yes, and some have said no. Others have rightfully pointed out errors in my thought process. Frame, boundaires, etc.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:01 PM
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It is good to hear this has been considered before and maybe it should be considered more often. It's odd... a persons choice to care is only embedded in personal preferences. Change the preference (Belief) and it doesn't matter anymore.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:27 PM
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I am doing more hypothetical thinking here. Your right, "if x, then Y" is often in her frame and reactive. Personally, I wouldn't stay if my wife cheated. She knows it. That's important. In truth and in real life, I have told my wife the same and maintain these boundaries. But, I could see how all this could be abstract and personal opinion and like Stacysmomlovesme, I could easily go that route to by just choosing to change the way I interpret the world.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:21 PM
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And I think the mentality you hold was ultimately what I was trying to explore with Option #2. The increase of options decreases the effect your spouse holds and this may be accomplished by spinning plates and truly not giving a fuck. This all goes back to the Book of Pook.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:15 PM
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I don't think good is the proper question. Comfort is dangerous to it's own degree. It makes people fat and lazy. It's like a double edged sword. It's nice and enjoyable, but too much is dangerous.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:10 PM
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Doesn't it depend on how you carry it out? If your Spite-full, then yes. If your indifferent and enjoying your life? In turn these are the steps that make you more valuable and OI. The creation of options on the guys end.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:07 PM
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Noted, blame would always be on the man, but if the man is maximizing his sexual strategy by brocading his pool of women, would it be worth it? Either way a guy gets blamed and a woman is vindicated.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 02:04 PM
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Valid point Bobby.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:38 PM
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I agree with this. As I mentioned to STSK below, this is the flaw in my thought. Failure to maintain a boundary.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:31 PM
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Yup.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:21 PM
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I guess this is an issue with my concept.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:19 PM
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Your right, my thoughts were disorganized, but mixing in dread level 12 like I had it backwards? Ok.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:16 PM
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Did your wife cheat on you? No. If you want to let your wife break your boundaries go for it. If you don't want to have boundaries, that's cool too. By my definition that makes you a faggot. LMFAO! Let me DEER a bit for you because you called me a faggot...
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:12 PM
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The idea is you take control any way you want. Happy with a cluster B chick ? Fine. This is the shitty part of my life, I admit. Everything else is... workable.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:08 PM
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Uh... I just re-read this... are you about to go down the cuck path? Are you about to suggest you should (1) let your "broken" wife cheat on you and (2) not divorce her? For the kids? For the money? For anything? Nope. Dread level 12 is not the result of your wife cheating on you dude. You have something backwards. Bro, I mean the guy cheating. Your focused on the wife cheating. I think cuckolds actually dig it when their wives fuck other men, especially black men, so you're good. But to what le…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:55 PM
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Pfft... an extra 5%. It's not like they can exceed 40/60 and I will still see my kids. And in any case, or in my case, I would leave anyway. No change. Give up an extra 5% to go spin plates and enjoy life. Meh. Edit: Minor edits.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:45 PM
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It's funny though. I have the life I wanted for the most part. The house, the kids, the wife that cooks and cleans (but is a cluster B personality and has a shit ton of baggage). I want me to be a better person. And what would I be doing if I were single? Building a harem or women to fuck and going to work. For me, the vengeful wife comes with little effort. So no change there for me personally. I guess my context is the people posting on here that don't consider there situation and this second …
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:43 PM
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Dumpster fire!
/r/askMRP21/03/18 02:27 PM
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Go lift some weights... stop seeking validation through her vag. Note: on the biological side, her testosterone, the hormone that influences sex drive, drops after ovulation. Initiate as always, but go do something else. It’s normal.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 01:40 PM
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You’ll get some leg tonight for sure! Ok.. Van Halen...
/r/askMRP21/03/18 01:36 PM
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Yes I am. Working on it killing it.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:47 PM
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OYS Week 11: Foggy Mc Foggerson Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 161 lbs., ~12.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. Holding maintenance calories. I am eating 2100 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 37.5% protein, 32.5% carbs, 30% fat. My maintenance is around 2100 calories. Still going strong with Strong-lifts 5x5. Working weights …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 01:33 PM
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I choose to. Why ask a retarded question with an obvious answer?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 01:16 PM
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Good reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 01:11 PM
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I have had certain instances that make me question it's accuracy and I started testing it sporadically. A few times it would be off when it measured individual items, not the totals for the day. It would be off up to 5-10 cals per item due to its propensity to round up or down. What convinced me ultimately was I took a spreadsheet and did a comparison. MyfitnessPal appeared to be off from 50-100 cals depending on the number of items entered. Think of it like Office Space. Even with the small amo…
/r/askMRP13/03/18 03:31 PM
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Dude... I was there, eating 1500 cal a day gung-ho as shit for the first month. I’m 5’8” started 174 lbs, 17% BF. What I found was my body went into starvation mode and my weight loss flattened out. I was eating 1500 cal a day and I was hovering around 164 lbs. my TDEE was 2000. So I thought “what the fuck? Why am I plateauing?” Did some cardio, still at 164. My first drop was 10 lbs. Then someone suggested on a OYS post to eat maintenance till I max out on squats and DL and I pulled back, start…
/r/askMRP13/03/18 01:59 PM
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Sounds like a normal shit test... my wife IS the emotional type that does this ALL the time. She is also a cluster B personality... My wife does it to feel the feelz and to gain Control. Guess what? You gave her control and rewarded a manipulative tactic... don’t do that...
/r/askMRP13/03/18 12:29 PM
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Even after realizing this is truth, it still makes me sick to my stomach. BUT... if I flip this and put myself in shoes that are single, I wouldn’t care too much. It’s only my current station and position that give me such a reaction. My internal reflection is what is interesting. The story is on par. All I know is, I don’t want to be that husband... no one want to be the cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 02:23 PM
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My only issue with this post is that you're taking her words seriously. This is what came to mind. She is saving her ego and OPs. If she said she was still fucking both of them, she would have to admit how much of a whore she is internally and face someone else’s judgement. Sounds like some form of ASD.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:46 PM
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OYS Week 10: Hernias and Other Setbacks Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 164 lbs., ~12.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. Holding maintenance calories. I am eating 1800~2000 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 40% protein, 40% carbs, 20% fat. My maintenance is around 2000 calories. Still going strong with Strong-lifts 5x5. Working…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/18 03:29 PM
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This is a good post. I personally hate the idea of constant verification and watching. She will do what she does. Came to the conclusion a long time ago trust is given not earned, but the weapon part is great. I ran into my wife validation seeking yesterday ironically. Wife went up to a surveyor walking around the house (on ovulation day) and struck up a conversation. Called me and said, “The surveyor was hitting on me and now I feel cute. I told him I am too old for him.” And “I just started ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 03:29 PM
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Can’t believe that dude deleted his post... no balls.
/r/askMRP03/03/18 10:52 PM
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Shit... no balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/18 10:51 PM
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This is part of what I am missing. Complements and affirmation.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 02:55 PM
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Your mother in law lives with you? No. I kicked her ass out, see my last OYS post. The problem is that your wife has two bosses now. She should have just one (hint, it starts with the letter 'y' and rhymes with 'you'). She does have two bosses. She is too close to her mother and mother doesn't want to seceded her position in her daughters life. I am straitening out the boundaries to correct this. MIL will deal with me, not her daughter. Sex provides her with a great deal of comfort. It validates…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 02:52 PM
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Thank you. I have read the subtle art of not giving a fuck. I will read practical female psychology.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 04:42 PM
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Good quote. They are not special little snowflakes and are replaceable, but what of the concept of comfort towards a LTR? I see it in posts where people try to go too alpha too quick and forget comfort replacement and they create more problems than they solve posting on askMRP seeking help. When I get to a comp I’ll post a link on what I am referring to for better reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 11:47 AM
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Any woman is like a barrel and there are multiple barrels out there to put stuff into. As for me, I still am dealing with codependency issues with the wife and struggle with Onitis, this is true. I guess reading around in MRP I noticed comfort being a requirement in LTRs and it came together that I was lacking this aspect.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 11:36 AM
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NMMNG, WISNIFG, 10 commandments of poon, book of pook, the rational male first year.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 11:25 AM
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Yes it is... Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 09:42 PM
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That was definitely a lingering thought while pontificating this post. But on the flip side of this, if frame were the all, then why game? Something has to be fed to her for her to be in your frame. Hence you stating "frame and quality". Quality is key. So I wanted to avoid the thought that frame fixes all. Someone who has frame without quality couldn't necessarily pull a woman into his frame. A woman will not submit to you on sight, you have to put something into her. The other part is, women m…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 06:52 PM
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Yup... Pools are some work. Fun in thought and sometimes in fact, but work. My whole premise was that unless you keep the tingles coming while maintaining comfort it may not matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 06:40 PM
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Yes! lmao.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 06:26 PM
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Good context. If the main event works properly, you also need a purification filter to keep it clean. Eventually, the filter will break and the water will need to be cleaned... even after the main event. Edit: A bad Example was posted. I Removed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 05:14 PM
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Good analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 04:53 PM
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This has merit when you have frame and can bring them into your frame. When you developing frame, this applies. This is where I am at in my realization.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 04:49 PM
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OYS Week 9: Starting Over Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 164 lbs., ~12.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. Holding maintenance. I am eating 1800~1900 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 40% protein, 40% carbs, 20% fat. My maintenance is around 2000 calories. Still going strong with Strong-lifts 5x5. Working weights are SQT: 190 l…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 03:39 PM
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Yup... sounds about right... it’s a fight for frame and my frames shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/18 02:30 PM
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Damn... Sounds similar to my wife. When you replied to my post, you were really there to some degree with your wife weren't you? For me SO melts down every 25-27 days, blows snot bubble, throws out nuclear shit tests (telling me to leave and never come back, threatening to leave or find someone else, threatens divorce, anything she can do to break me down, etc.), and gets pissed at my indifference. I wouldn't call them main events, they are just her empty threats to try to get me back in line. L…
/r/askMRP23/02/18 03:23 PM
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OYS Week 8: Anger Phase Returns With Avengance Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 (Downgraded to one again) Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 164 lbs. (Back up 4 lbs), ~12.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. Holding maintenance for a while longer. I am eating 1800~1900 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 40% protein, 40% carbs, 20% fat. My maintenance is around 2000 …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 02:41 PM
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Good read and good point.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 06:49 AM
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Can you simply ban alcohol and drunkenness in your home? Probably not practical. Wife drinks a bottle a night. Before you declare your boundaries to your MIL, make a realistic plan beforehand exactly how you will enforce them. Ah this is my conundrum. Still beta in fact, barely moving on from DL1. Getting more attractive, have set some hard boundaries with power struggles. What can I enforce realistically since my wife doesn’t value me as MRP envisions? I have little bargaining power. Any move I…
/r/askMRP16/02/18 01:41 AM
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I will tell her to go home, thanks for the correction.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 09:24 PM
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Thanks for being real, I wish I wasn't having to deal with my MIL in this capacity. I understand where your coming from and I agree. This is not sexual strategy or red pill at all. This is just manning the fuck up. The Red Pill makes the man better, not the marriage. I don't like posting on AskMRP for the troll bate it is and I wouldn't post here unless I was at my wits end. Maybe I see my MIL through a BP lens, IDFK, but I have some good input. You Red, I can't thank you enough. Edit: Thanks, B…
/r/askMRP15/02/18 09:15 PM
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You think this way because, clearly, you're too afraid to do it yourself. But as /u/red-sfpplus stated, that's exactly what you need to be doing here. I can see why you think I would be afraid to address it. I am not home to address it when it happens, but clearly having the SO handle it is not an option. Because I think that, for you, the imaginary magical realm of "what if I had a fairy-tale castle moat" is about as achievable in your own mind as "what if I just said NO when I wanted to say NO…
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:59 PM
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I can understand why you think I am a piece of shit. Thanks. Edit: Red, WTF dude? You would do that shit to your MIL? Be real. If I file a restraining order, my SO would go TO her without me. You even admitted that she is in an abusive relationship. I respect your input and the harsh language.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:40 PM
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No. You stand up to MIL for her. By your own admission SO and MiL have an abusive relationship. Abused rarely stand up to the abuser. Normally the SO is responsible for the actions of their family, but when abuse is involved you have to step in and run offense for SO I needed to hear something like this. I had the view that SO should address her family issues, which I have jumped into before when MIL did that shit to my son in the past. Wife gave me a bunch of shit for crossing that line that da…
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:36 PM
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I need a moat around my house....
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:27 PM
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SO lets MIL into her life. MIL doesn't have a key. When I found out about it last night it was way after the fact and SO made some lame excuse about how she tried to change the topic unsuccessfully instead of telling MIL off. I agree I need to set a boundary. I need to do something. I am not around during the day this time of year, hence the list of demands. Asking her to leave is the key and hopefully she is not through a double bottle by the time I get home.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:19 PM
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Well, if your not going to take one for the team and hate fuck the MIL to put her in her place then... haha, shit. The next thing is to drop some balls and tell her to GTFO out of your home. Change the lock. Get the key back. Be a fucking man. She doesnt wanna leave? Call the cops. That's the next step. I would slap a ho that talked bad to my kids. WTF is wrong with you. No excuses. It's time to do something.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:13 PM
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No, I don't have to. I figure out she is staying at 8 pm when she is still there and through a double bottle. Same is true with the SO, she doesn't know either until that point. Tried telling her she wasn't welcome in the past. It's a hard battle.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:09 PM
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Good points. MIL would probably pout off and leave drunk. Only problem is Her overriding happens when I am not there. SO reports these things to me. I would need SO to somehow stand up to her mother. I have been considering having SO read WISNIFG, but it would then be a tool against me, lol.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 08:03 PM
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Thanks. MIL....you realize she's toxic but are not doing anything about it. I'm afraid to do something and seeking my wife's permission to do something. I fell flat on my face. I tell my wife "What I am going to do" instead of doing it. MIL doesn't respect any boundaries in my house and when I stand up for any boundaries she plays victim and sulks off (leaves the house) trying to make me out to be a bad guy to SO. I am caring too much what SO and MIL think and letting my wife dictate the terms o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 03:03 PM
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Cheap carnations and a symphony bar... spent 8 big ones. Wife is in early stages of MIL mutiny and decided it would be cute to physically obstruct me from making dinner then shit test/ guilt trip me for not acting how she wanted me to act. Failed the shit test, took care of my stuff and went to bed. I hate my MIL...
/r/askMRP15/02/18 12:33 PM
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metoo lmao
/r/askMRP15/02/18 12:26 PM
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OYS Week 7: Hypermainia Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 2 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 159 lbs., ~12.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. My belts don’t fit anymore... I am eating 1800~1900 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 40% protein, 40% carbs, 20% fat. My maintenance is around 2000 calories. I have lost 4 lbs on this course and I was afraid of gaining back…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 03:40 PM
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Lmao, thanks. I needed that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/18 04:40 PM
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I feel the compulsion to buy something.... 10 years of BP Oneitis has trained me well. I used to get elaborate and spend 100+ on her with a well thought out homemade card and like your wife, she would make me a card from white paper and maybe some candy, and I would feel like shit. No sex for my time or money, no reciprocation of awesome gifts. Covet contracts.... I would steam over it for weeks like a needy little bitch. That’s the past... This year my wife wants a ring and has explicitly expre…
/r/askMRP10/02/18 04:35 PM
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OYS Week 6: Self Validation Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: 35 y/o, Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 166 lbs., ~15.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. I am eating 1800~1900 calories a day and adjusting as I go. Eating macros of: 40% protein, 40% carbs, 20% fat. My maintenance is around 2000 calories. I have gained two pounds while leveling off, but my body fat has stayed the same. I assume …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:42 PM
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Lol, your right. More of there struggles are popping up, but they are smaller and the shit tests have increased since then. Working on attractiveness.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:29 PM
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Get her a ring pop and get yourself a stripper. At least have someone pretend to be interested in you. Lmao
/r/askMRP01/02/18 11:59 AM
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Eat at maintenance for a bit. Keep going on your linear progression program. Re-evaluate when you approach a plateau in squat and/or deadlift. I think I’ll do this, it sounds like a good plan. Or maybe you are. Have you had your sperm count checked? I could be. Over the past year she has tested positive for being pregnant a few times, but it doesn’t stick. At all? Or just with her? If not at all, then consider vasectomy. If just with her, then make sure birth control is in order. Just not with h…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 03:19 AM
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I never thought of it in this way. Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 08:15 PM
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OYS Week 5: The topper of Solomon Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Dread Level: 1 Physical: Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 164 lbs., ~15.7% BF (calipers). Goal weight is 150 to 155 @ less than 10% BF. I have plateaued on weight loss. I don't eat back my calories I burn, and I am less than 500 kcal a day compared to my TDEE. I weigh everything like an obsessive-compulsive maniac on a food scale, but I am still stuck at 164. I have been here f…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 03:38 PM
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This shouldn't be a dramatic event - it's a mattress topper, not a child that you're going to saw in half. After going through it I feel like I was pepper sprayed and trying to run through an obstacle course. I’m glad I did it just to show I could, but it was foolhardy. Hopefully in time I can lead my family away from this kind of interaction by not engaging in it or only when necessary. As for /u/weakandsensitive's comment, have you considered that your history of butthurt acquiescence is the r…
/r/askMRP30/01/18 03:25 AM
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Lol.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 03:03 AM
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You two don't need MRP, you need to learn how to adult. Yes, crimson, you’re right. My wife doesn’t need MRP. She would probably raise her nose at it and call it chauvinistic. Man if only I could get a spreadsheet and reprogram the wife to adult... wouldn’t that be great! But, I can’t fucking control my wife. I was afraid to post on here, but I’m glad I did. After reading through the comments I realize that I care too fucking much about my wife’s actions and comments. LOL
/r/askMRP29/01/18 02:08 PM
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Yes, I can see why you would think that.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 01:55 PM
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Screech, that’s a harsh truth, but truth none the less. This is the shit I want to break free of.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 12:28 PM
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Read, lift, STFU? Get leverage? Weakandsensitive, I should call you Socrates.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 12:14 PM
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I am pretty low in her eyes, I can see it. I told wife I would cut it, unless she had a better suggestion. All she could say was “Don’t cut my things.” She gave no suggestions, so I started cutting. I made it a third of the way through and a suggestion was offered. Topper is no longer on my side. It took me cutting the fucker for her to see I’m not going back in my box and I will stand up for myself.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 11:09 PM
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She was right there in bed laying on the topper. I didn’t say a word, just showed up with the scissors and started deconstructing the cover on the foam topper. Why? What the hell's this going to do? It's DEERing. Just go get scissors, cut it in half, done. Yup. I am still DEERing...
/r/askMRP28/01/18 06:02 PM
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Good point. It was bad timing.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:56 PM
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Noted, thank you for correcting me. Most often the pattern in my relationship is, wife has complaint, I address complaint, wife is not satisfied with DEERing response and I assume she wants emotion from me, threatens divorce, I get frustrated and loose my head, start yelling, etc. Wife comes back and wants pornstar sex. Sex is good, but I hate the process and the kids get exposed to the fighting. Edit: “I assume she” and “the fighting”
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:54 PM
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Not a bad idea, but not a fan of going behind her back.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:48 PM
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Point taken, thanks. Edit: Then again, cat pees on topper, topper will go away! (sarcasm)
/r/askMRP28/01/18 01:05 PM
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Good insight, it’s not about the foam. Number one was my first choice and I like the idea of saying I will do this before doing it. It’s less cowardly. FYI, it’s a queen bed.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 12:34 PM
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Boondocks Saints
/r/askMRP28/01/18 12:26 PM
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It's always worth a shot, the worst she can say is "no". Edit: That would save me some time.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 08:11 PM
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Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 08:06 PM
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Yup... I think this will hold true for all question-based shit tests in my relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:21 PM
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Also, NEVER argue with a woman’s hamster - it eats logic and shits more hamsters. My favorite comment yet. Laughing my ass off...
/r/askMRP24/01/18 03:18 AM
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Man... I wish I would have thought of this... That’s funny shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:04 AM
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I have two choices as I see it. Say no and deal with a nuclear shit test or keep going along with it. Initially I thought the right thing was to own it, but it seems this is response to my dread she is using Jedi mind tricks. I am not sure how to handle it. Option three before reading the post above would be to do just enough to make sure the kids are taken care of, but that could be pulled into her use as well. Edit: “Option three” is middle ground and it still upsets her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:03 AM
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Read his posts and it was a good place to start. I am fearful not to play her game if I am honest and I’m not sure how not to play the game.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 02:54 AM
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OYS Week 4: Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Beta Type: Career beta Physical: Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 164 lbs., ~20% BF (Navy Method, ordered calipers.). I have dropped my caloric intake to ~1480 kcals a day to adjust for my recent drop in weight which is below my base metabolism of ~1600. I am drinking 3000 ML of water and adjusting my macro nutrients to allow 172 g of protein per day. I am focusing more on fat intake over carbs for weight loss. Still goin…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 05:42 PM
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Good luck and Godspeed.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 01:46 AM
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Wow... Edit: Just wow...
/r/askMRP21/01/18 03:18 AM
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That is not what I have seen empirically. Not getting married would just cause problems because any self respecting woman who's living with the man she has kids with will want to get married and it would drive her away if not. The very statement is false by the use of the word “any”. Many self respecting women I have met would cohabitate with a man they have kids with without marriage, but will push for marriage. They would do this if they value and trust the man or if this is there best option.…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 05:34 PM
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Why marriage? Why this single minded route? I don't fucking get it!! You can have offspring without marriage. Depending on where you live, you will 99% of the time will have rights to that kid unless your a throughout fuck up.. Your 20, open your fucking mind! Cohabitation, marriage, Civil Union, Legal agreements in place of marriage, etc. Google "alternatives to marriage" and do some fucking research on what works best for you. The Millennials have started to avoid and put off marriage, because…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 02:20 PM
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Bam! Right there. Her: ‘Do you plan on going?’ OP: “Yes” (nothing more need to be said) OP should do what he wants to fucking do and stop being a bitch. OP... read or reread NMMNG. Stop DEERing! “I was planning to, but I can do something else if you don’t want me there.” What the fuck. He’s drowning in insecurities like a faggot.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 03:35 PM
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Week 4: Weak Week I have copied the previous post and modified, short on time at work Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Physical: Started at 172 lbs. currently 5' 8", 168 lbs., ~20% BF. I hit a plateau on my weight loss and have been stuck at 168 lbs. To rectify this, I ordered a food scale to track my calories better. My theory is I have been underestimating caloric intakes. I have also dropped my caloric intake to ~1550 kcals a day to adjust for my recent drop in weigh…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 03:47 PM
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Wife accused me of "Stonewalling" when I first found MRP/TRP a month ago and started implementing Rambo style. She even sent me a nice email explaining what stonewalling is. I wouldn't walk away until she was yelling and loosing control in front of the kids. At the time STFU to me was, 'I'll sit and listen to what your saying about your feelings, but I am not engaging in a discussing on your feelz'... pointless to do so... Its the cheapest tactic a woman does is use feelings as facts instead of …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 02:58 PM
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Awesome!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/18 02:17 PM
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That was my theory regarding threesomes. You can drop a plate, can’t drop the wife easily.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 11:36 AM
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Enforce the consequences of breaking said boundary whatever that may be.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 12:31 AM
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Brilliant
/r/askMRP10/01/18 12:29 AM
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Because blowjobs are awesome. If you don’t care why should we?
/r/askMRP09/01/18 08:35 PM
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Preach it brother!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 08:10 PM
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This should be on askMRP... Victum puke much? How much have your read on the sidebar? Do you lift? Grab your fucking balls back and fix yourself, then try to fix your situation. BTW, she sounds like a typical female. I never thought I would be saying this shit, but... Fuck it... Fucking read and lift you petty bitch! You work on you. You can't change her. Stop trying to change her... She may be a fat PoS, but, you married her. Once you change she may change, but prob. not. Good luck...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 08:08 PM
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I agree, but this could be a good case study for us all. Can it be done? Rule Zero... Edit: link also, when I say "see this through", I mean until the final outcome. Either, Divorce, or swinging wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 03:01 PM
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Week 3: Building a better personal foundation Captain: Captain with the constantly complaining passenger Physical: 5' 8", 168 lbs., ~20% BF. I am still following the nutrition from last week’s post with success. I have dropped 6 pounds from 174 lbs. in 5-7 days eating 1668 kcals a day, drinking 3000 ML of water and adjusting my macro nutrients to allow 172 g of protein per day. I cut back on Carbs and fat to accommodate. Still going strong with Strong-lifts 5x5 three times a week. Still building…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 02:39 PM
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General consensus has been not to confront. Set boundaries, drive on.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 01:24 AM
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I want to see how this plays out. OPs got enough frame to be un-phased by the warnings and I believe he may have enough to see this through.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:19 AM
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Nice update! Already said my peace so I won’t bore you. Keep frame and enjoy! Edit: Keep us posted bud.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:15 AM
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Tyrent v Benevolant King Tyrant Definition Leadership Styles Ill think on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 10:15 PM
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I doubt your making shit up. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 09:55 PM
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Home gym would be my preference.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 09:45 PM
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Shit... it’s Hiroshima in here. Steve just let off a RP bomb and blew the fuck out of askMRP. Sticky this shit for anyone about to ask a question!
/r/askMRP08/01/18 05:02 PM
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At the end of the day it's your life, your choices, and your marriage. It's admirable that you have the balls to move forward and maintain your position despite all the negativity. Let us know how it goes. God speed.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 04:34 PM
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Best wishes to you. Good post.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 02:01 AM
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Dude... my wife before she was my wife abided by my rules for three months then essentially said, ‘Fuck you. I’m an adult and you can’t control me!’ AWALT... I second this.
/r/askMRP07/01/18 02:05 AM
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“What?? I was just thinking of the last time you...” (fill in with something sexual she did in detail and be descriptive. Borderline pornographic.) Own it.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 10:52 PM
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Pull her aside, don’t talk about your feelings, focus on facts, say, once and only once, “Do not say you hate me in front of our daughter.” Then STFU. No DEERing. Nothing. Don’t loose your shit. You made it clear where you stand and anything else is butthurt bullshit. IF she persists, give her a look. If she still persists., do the look but understand... There is nothing you can do, but, read, STFU, lift. Move on. I know that shit sucks but that’s all you can do IMO. If you go further, you risk …
/r/askMRP06/01/18 10:10 PM
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Dude you sound like an abusive fucktard. Part of the goal of STFU is to not be a negative prick, but to maintain a positive frame. AA AM is playful like your a kid again or you know the score before it’s said. Your a rock... nothing gets to you... except a weak ass comment from your SO... get the fuck out of here. What you are missing is a healthy dose of reality. And that reality is (drumroll please): You can’t fucking control her! Any effort to shut her down for perceived disrespect is mentall…
/r/askMRP06/01/18 09:49 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/18 02:33 PM
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Ditto, thanks for following up.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 07:25 PM
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2006 We got married. Everything was fine for the first couple of years. That's were you fucked up... But all jokes aside... Your here now. I'm 45 years old. My wife is 40 this year. I met her when I was 30 and we've been together since then. We got married 10 years ago and have two wonderful kids aged 3 and 6. When we met, things were great. I was cocky, confident & fun. We partied a lot, I played in a rock band, always had lots of women floating around me, played around with a few of them (befo…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 07:21 PM
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Indignation
/r/askMRP05/01/18 06:55 PM
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Smart ass answer: Very little.. Tyranny is another form of leadership that hinges on fear and control. More positive leadership attributes that stray away from Tyranny are respect, integrity (lead by example) and patience. People want to follow a leader, but people follow a tyrant out of fear. Is this what you are getting at?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 06:48 PM
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The sentence you wrote is confusing. Did you offer to buy her shit, then refuse out of self respect? Or did you bribe and DEER? I said I knew I embarrassed her and felt badly about it and I'd be happy to buy her something to show her I was sorry, but that I liked myself otherwise and wouldn't subject myself to that. Dude.... WTF? Look at what you typed.... Lets break this down... First the definition of DEER - Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Second (explaining and defending): but that I li…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 06:39 PM
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I would think you would do threesomes with plates, but the wife? IDK...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 06:20 PM
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Long story short, after discovering yesterday that I slept with a close friend of ours and that all our other friends knew about it already (that was the kicker--we agreed I could do what I want and she wouldn't pry or bother me about it but the deal was that I do my best never to embarrass her--this was a major fuck up on my part) Way to be discrete... Her response surprised me: "Well would it be the worst thing in the world if I could be involved in your escapades? Could I not come with you so…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 06:08 PM
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My thoughts exactly... Guess what OP just did.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 05:59 PM
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That's really optimistic.... I could limp for a mile with my foot caught in a bear trap, but I digress...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 05:58 PM
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Here read this and this 2-3x's, STFU and watch for the shit tests and comfort tests and recognize them mentally, but really just STFU. Once you recognize what they are, with little thought, do something with it. Edit: Oh and BTW, Plates you can fail comfort tests, LTR and wifes you need to pass them. This seems to be the difference in TRP and MRP.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 05:31 PM
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Compliance test (passed): GF tries some power play by telling me to come down out and get my son from the car while she goes to park the car. Good, you said no. You showed your not a total pussy. Comfort Test #1 (failed): She tries to be a bit flirty by shaking her ass in front of me. As im sitting in the couch helping my son with homework, she asks me if im mad at her. To which i ignore. She then jumps on me and asks if i think she is disrespectful. This isn't a carrot on a stick you ass... Kin…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 05:19 PM
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Faggot! Congrats you passed a shitty ass compliance test and her constant shit tests, failed one comfort test and almost failed another comfort test. WTF dude?! She jumps into bed rips off your boxers and starts blowing you and you reject that shit! If she wants to be fucked, don't turn her down. If you start and it sucks, go do something else. Keep Frame. Her ASD is kicking in the day after, ignore it. Why the fuck are you entering her frame by saying, "And of course i responded with, last nigh…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 04:57 PM
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Bro, I am going to go out on a limb here and maybe go against the grain a bit, so check it out... First, we understand the pussy pass, that's not new. ,and Second, women are as equally or more aggressive and have fewer social restraints. No argument on this concept. I have observed first hand and there is a lot of anecdotal stories out there and some evidence that abuse against men is just not reported by men. They will laugh at your ass, make jokes, or stare in disbelief... seen it first hand. …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:19 PM
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There is also the fluctuation of a woman's T levels through her cycles. During ovulation her T-levels jump up and then drop back down after OV. Testosterone is what make mammals horny fucking dirty animals. Filthy animals.... Men still have something like 16x's the amount as women suppository. SO, 10x v 16xs? IDK.. Maybe wife lost chad for the week.... This whole ejaculation theory could be moot or minuscule. I wonder if OP considered his wife's cycle in conjunction with the increased Testostero…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:35 PM
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Ok I get the Rambo aspect. Don’t do shit word for word from this site and don’t seek approval from MRPrs (which I did above). So, what do you differentiate between 'leading and taking charge' v. 'Asking for permission' v. 'dictating'? I seem to have missed this nuance. In my example above, I didn’t ask for permission, I just did. So could you expand on what you thought was dictating? Edit: I think I just need to keep it status quo for now. Reread this regarding new guys and I guess I am not read…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 01:50 PM
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I have read it and will reread it again, thanks. I am and have been having trouble with this part of leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 01:18 PM
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Victum puke... And I was right. Wife called me at work to try to start a fight about recent purchases mentioned above and my STFU attitude. Her opener was "concern" about me reading NMMNG. "Why won't you talk to me about my feelings." and "I am not happy with our relationship." & "I can't live like this." & "Are you ok loosing your family over this." but life's still good. I STFU and listened to what she had to say. 2:1 she hides NMMNG.... Lesson... don't read in front of the wife.... edit gramm…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 08:47 PM
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He needs to be careful not to make this a regular occurrence. She will come to expect it and do less, I guarantee it. Pick something random, do it and do it sporadically. Don't let this become the "normal". OP's woman won't walk a mile if she can ride on his back and he's looking like a good mule right now.... FYI, I did this in the past and I am having to redraw boundaries all over again. Just a thought, but doesn't the captain also set standards and boundaries? The Captains not going to swab t…
/r/askMRP03/01/18 05:04 PM
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For fucks sake! It's not about her. You cannot change her. You cannot MAKE her happy. You need to focus on you. Don't forget this basic ideology. You have two choices, Leave or Stay! And to expand on these two choices you have: 1) Stay and be sexless slave, 2) Stay and spin plates, or 3) fucking leave. Also, Unicorns don't fucking exist! Take your head out of her ass.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 04:50 PM
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This was a red flag for me. LDR LTR? WTF? Rollo hit on this fucking topic in his blog To the OP, here you go in case you forgot: "At 47 I can see the machinations behind it – “Hey Beta chump, I like your dedication to the Disneyland narrative, and you’ll make for a dutiful and lucrative supporter once I’m 30 and done with the Alphas I really want to fuck while I’m in my prime, so how about you and I get married once I’m ready to finally ‘get it right with the right guy who was there all along’ o…
/r/askMRP03/01/18 04:24 PM
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Week 2: Life is great for now Read: Book of Pook, Sidebar, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Year one, Commandments of Poon. Rereading sidebar and NMMNG Lifting: Doing the 5x5 Strong-lifts program, started at bare minimum (45 lbs.) and working my way up 5 lbs a week. Still 5' 8", 172 LBs, 21% body fat, and 26.01 BMI. Lifting with a purpose is great and I am just enjoying improving myself. Squat 65lbs, Bench 55lbs, Row 75lbs, OH press 55 lbs, Deadlift 110 lbs. Note: These are not my maximums, this is jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 03:22 PM
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Before I found TRP or MRP, I openly questioned the benefits of marriage to my wife.... you should have seen her face and the disgust, for my free thought. She couldn’t imagine any other possibility and in some way she acknowledged how vital it was to her benefit. Don’t do this with a SO... it’s still a weapon she throws at me from time to time.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 03:18 PM
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14% is from a grocery store machine where you put your palm up to the metal bars. I did another quick calc and it says 21%. Thank you for the encouragement, and happy New Year. Edit: Grammer
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/17 05:19 PM
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I think there is a struggle for me. Part of me wants to hide it for fear of her backlash, and part of me wants to not be a pussy and just read it openly. NMMNG suggests reading it together, but reading WISNIFG and other books suggested. IDK... My fist goal is: Don't be a dishonest pussy, but don't destroy everything in the process.
/r/askMRP29/12/17 02:48 PM
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Week 1 - Shit Tests Galore Reading: Book of Pook, Sidebar, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Year one, Commandments of Poon. Lifting: Doing the 5x5 Strong-lifts program, started at bare minimum (45 lbs) and working my way up 5 lbs a week. Started 5' 8", 172 LBs, 14% body fat, and 26.01 BMI... Skinny Fat. Lessons Learned: Married 9 years. The past three weeks have been a shit storm of emotional backlash (shit tests) and it's my fault. This all ended in me loosing my frame and my head last night. I starte…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/17 02:33 PM
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Nope lol you got me. Fuck!
/r/askMRP25/12/17 03:12 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:47 PM
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Lol shit..
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:46 PM
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It sounds like you lost frame... you know what happened without even asking. Your choice seems to be stay and be a cuck, get some strange and move on, or leave her ass. Don’t let oneitis set in.... you have options right? You don’t need her and you don’t give a fuck right?? Stop being her bitch!
/r/askMRP25/12/17 02:43 PM
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Good point. Be nonchalant... set a routine, read it same time every night. Don’t DEER and STFU if she says anything about it.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 01:39 AM
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Lift, read it openly, and deal with the shit tests that come with reading the book by STFU... Haha, in hindsight that would have been great.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 12:25 AM
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Lmfao. Thanks! Edit: Marry Christmas to you, too.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 12:17 AM
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