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Same here, Vermillion. Still think about that mistake to this day..
/r/TheRedPill25/03/24 09:45 PM
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Fair play. But learning from the mistakes of others, witnessed a guy "vanish" from my gym. He was part of a circle in my gym which had a handful of women who had amazing physiques. However, when I started noticing that he wasn't going to the same gym anymore and the fact that I over heard gossip regarding him, it gave me a clear sign that the gym is me-time. He also didn't look bad at all - he had a great physique and looked subjectively good. I don't disagree with you but I don't support it - n…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 04:56 PM
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Spot on! Girls will literally tell you that “you are their best fuck” or “i can’t live without your dick.” You can also tell the first time you touch her, she’s already wet af meaning you did a good job fucking her mentally. Be the best fucker she has. I’ve had girls tell me that they’ve had “chads” who couldn’t make them wet even if they tried - a guy even used SOAP to try and make her wet 💀 Fucking laughable.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 10:35 PM
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This. I deleted social media and came back only now after years of grinding - saw successful men pull girls from instagram EASILY and I really don’t have the time now to meet new girls naturally. What’s there to showcase if you got no value? Basically giving people free attention
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 10:12 PM
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Sidebar and experiment
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 08:11 PM
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Gonna do this starting tomorrow. I'm at that point wherein I think I have my shit straight, the things that I can control are 80% in order, and I think that I can add more people into my life again - it's just that the time I spent fixing my own shit made me lose my ability to meet new people and I'm only now addressing that I'm an insecure and egotistic bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/23 11:36 AM
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This. I always had a feeling that I was somewhat attractive but never really came into a conclusion as to believing that I was since I am autistic. Even girls would walk up to me and ask for a picture with them which was the final nail into my monkey mind - I couldn’t really hold eye contact despite blatant stares from girls or escalate physically since it creeped me tf out. Just work on your SMV and game people. Even the attractive dudes don’t know what they’re doing sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 06:30 AM
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Another great post, Uncle Vaz. Been reading and applying your stuff since my Day 1 here in the sphere - especially CorporateLand since I'm a fresh grad and just landed a decent corporate job. Just wanna say thank you for the wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 02:38 AM
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Note that options does not necessarily mean women, it could be stuff you're better off doing instead of interacting with a chick. I see some people assume having "options" always means women. Remember fellas, she's just the cherry on top - not even the damn icing.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 09:45 AM
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B: She was pulling back due to her anti-slut defense since her friend is around - bitches kiss and tell until the whole neighborhood knows. Isolate her then find out what she really thinks. A: You did the right thing by not pursuing the girl of your mate since taking the bait will only lead to the same result which is losing your friend and possibly the entire friend group. Keep standing your ground and I'd avoid this bitch since it's a disaster waiting to happen.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:55 PM
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This shit saved my day from being a shitty one to a slightly shitty one - saved. Looking forward to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 09:56 PM
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At a birthday party, I was feeling myself and thinking I was the shit and then this girl who I definitely wanted to bang handed herself to me on a silver platter. However, I was still blue pilled af back then and I didn’t know what to do yet even though I’ve had a number of success with women already. All I had to do was close and bring her home or whatever (but being blue pilled I didn’t consider this as an option unless SHE offers her place) since we were quite buzzed, having a good time, and …
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:58 PM
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Never confess - you're basically saying you have the power in our relationship. Asking her out already shows her that you're interested. Just ask her out for a couple of drinks, escalate physically, then close. She should be the one confessing and opening up to you - not the other way around. glhf.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:21 PM
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I see. Thanks for the notice.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:07 PM
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The first rule of fight club is there and heavily preached here for a reason. You don't owe her an explanation just back tf off. If he actually tries to do shit that may hurt you or keeps on harassing you, change numbers, call the cops, etc otherwise ignore his fucking ass. Why is there a fucking surge of beta billys sending links and preaching red pill ideologies?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:57 PM
10

Don’t smoke that damn ciggy.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:26 AM
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“The more women you bang, the more control you’ll have over your wang.” ABGsGoneWild Also, if you watch porn, just don’t.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:59 AM
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You’re right, sorry to those who drive right-hand vehicles - the statement I said above can’t be applied to you. /s
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:47 AM
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Second this. As bryson tiller once said, “Left hand is steering the other is gripping her thigh.” Just go and playfully touch her during a date. An example would be while playing pool and she’s tryna concentrate, you can hold her waist or ass and whisper to her that she’s gonna fuck up. Or if she says she has been working out, let her come over to you and hold her waist and feel her ass while telling her “yeah you have been working out.” It ain’t rocket science, fellas.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:50 AM
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Based.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:42 AM
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Second this. Practice your game on her and be outcome independent - you'll be hitting two birds with one stone by improving your game and nurturing that IDGAF mentality. I remember some encounters where in I would say shit that would come into my mind and some girls from my uni would actually reply that skyrockets their interest even though it was really just playful teasing and a half-assed sarcastic comment that I just blurted out - they were cute and datable but I did it for practice only. I …
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:55 PM
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A favorite comment answered this concern before: “Imma strap on a dildo and ask her if she ready for this work.”
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:17 PM
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No, I’m even thankful that I get wet dreams cuz it shows that I’m on the right path. It’s better than not being well rested due to fapping. I used to feel sleepy even after having 8 hours of sleep and have daytime headaches out of nowhere. Tldr; just frame it in better light and avoid framing it negatively.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:14 PM
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I second this.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:19 PM
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Dude, if you think that when it comes to sex that only the insertion matters, which is why you brought up dick > looks, then you already lost the fucking battle. What you should put instead of dick > looks is foreplay > dick - this also includes how you portray yourself. Stop rationalizing everything, bro - keep it stupid simple. You think that chick has a nice ass and gives you IOIs? Then grab your balls and approach.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:20 PM
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Exactly, dude. What's a fucking solution if you don't even try to apply it or even try to solve the problem? It's cuz you're scared that it might not work, I get that most of us have been there. But we all have to start from somewhere, g. GLHF.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:00 PM
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You don't become a MASTER by being stagnant - there are no shortcuts. Ok, you may argue small term faking and getting ass as a success, which has happened to me, but that shit won't fucking last - take it as a teaser to the real thing and let that shit motivate you. Then after realizing that there's more to life than just fucking pussy, now we're on the same wavelength. If there was a shortcut and if it was easy, EVERYONE WOULD BE FUCKING DOING IT. Fucking play the cards dealt to you to the best…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:47 AM
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You have the wrong idea about "monk mode" and you are obviously doing it wrong - yes you spend time with your self but it's for SELF-IMPROVEMENT and getting to know yourself better. Don't rationalize not taking action and just sitting in your room mentally masturbating and say you're on "monk mode." The perfect time to act is NOW - not when you feel like it, not when your mom tells you, not when your friends tell you. Like the other poster's problem here, you are too outcome dependent and you ha…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:31 AM
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From my experience: After 2 weeks of nofap/semen retention, I was always fucking horny and couldn't stop thinking about sex and women - even got to a point where I could approach a girl and not think about whether she has a nice ass or perky tits, just instinctual and in a split second I already recognize that she's decent. I used that horniness energy in the gym (lifting) and/or playing ball and /or approaching women/having fun with women. Moral of the story, if you don't use that energy that c…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:19 AM
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Bruh my mans got banned already and he still out here with this shit. Somebody claim his/her lost son on aisle 3 Jesus..
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:12 PM
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The answer to your question is simple - go out and meet strangers, practice on school mates/classmates. It doesn’t matter if you fuck up. You still care too much about fucking it up - play the numbers game. I don’t care if your opener is “Dick and balls. Hi my name is ___.” Just go and approach. I also don’t care if you like tibetan throat music. Fucking own it if they ask you what genre of music do you like - don’t cave in. Also read No More Mr. Nice Guy and How to Not Give a Fuck on the sideba…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:08 PM
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“She recently took me back” This has to be satire, right?
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:54 PM
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“How can I gain the experience without having the experience?” I don’t know maybe bluetooth it from anotha dude’s head. God help this sub.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:51 PM
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You gotta start somewhere but this shit is too much no cap. They don’t even read the sidebar anymore.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:13 AM
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The world does not revolve around you, OP - you're not the savior because if you are we'd all be fucked but that's fine. People think about their own interests and their selves more rather than you. Only consider them into you once you actually bang them regularly and have decent interactions with them. You're hamstering hard. I suggest you read One Key Step to Not Giving A Fuck and try not to be so outcome dependent.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:03 AM
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This. People fail to indulge in the moment being with the person they're with - all the people who post in this sub now only think about sex but that's only one part of it. Don't get me wrong though, I was one of them - we all had to start from somewhere. But once you see that not everything is bad and you can cherish memories of past relationships still and be thankful that it happened, then you've grown.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 12:56 AM
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Always this. Fuck what you, yourself, think, just listen to what they have to say really - THIS IS THE "SECRET FORMULA".
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 01:12 PM
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I would say my relationship with her is a blessing and a curse - she's my safety net. I'd gladly leave the house to nurture my independence but until then, I tell her that the shit that concerns me (my laundry, my food, women I'm with, etc.), I will do it so she does not have to do it/have concerns about it. Sometimes yes she insists but I try not to give in since I know it's for my own good. In terms of emotionally, I love my mother and respect her a lot despite the absence of a proper father f…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:07 PM
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“Stop digging through trash.”
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:32 PM
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OP clearly hasn’t read how to not give a fuck lmao.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:22 PM
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Don’t OD on the pill, buddy. Believe me I’ve been there and it wasn’t pretty.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:26 AM
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Do both - meditate for 5-30 mins., read for x amount depending on your schedule.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:10 AM
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I am 21
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:21 AM
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Never did, just learned how to play the game. But if that were the case, probably anger phase.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:19 AM
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If it's a plate/main plate, I could care less. If it's a LTR and you invested emotionally, I'd re-evaluate my life and how I managed to make that chick a LTR - I'd also hard next to lessen anymore investment. Opt out while you still can if that were the case.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:13 AM
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Respect or jealousy in some cases. Have had dudes who looked jealous af and it was damn obvious. But both are good signs knowing the fact that you’re on the right path if you do have something to back up your confidence.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:03 AM
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Always this.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:54 AM
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bruh, honestly what you wrote on your TLDR is the correct way to go about your situation and abstain from social media for a while which I believe is the root cause of your problem (which is comparing yourself to other people). To be real, finding one's purpose IS a struggle and there is no easy way out of it - sometimes you just happen to try something then it just clicks. Just keep on trying out new stuff. If you feel like going out for a vacation then do so but during quarantine, I don't thin…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:58 PM
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She saw u as a cuck at the beginning and it looks like you’ve been overbearing from the start yet you got to be her bf. Hard next.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:18 AM
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Tf did I just read
/r/askTRP23/09/20 09:32 PM
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/thread I fucking died laughing.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 08:51 PM
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Damn so that’s why when they try to pee, they say nothing happens.. thought it was just some random bs. Noted.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:54 PM
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Fr fr
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:51 PM
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Tf did i just read.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:49 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:47 PM
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Damn I’m a software engineer too but still in college though. Hope I get the same salary as you in the future. Good shit, OP.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:46 PM
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Tier list what to prioritize: You Family Friends You again Women Start with 1 and work your way down. If you think you’re done with 1-4 then yes OP, you have my permission. Joking aside, plates are only a once a week thing for me - I get bored of them instantly.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:37 PM
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You’re LTR’ing a chick after 2 dates and not one single fuck? You must be new here. Never contact her again until you calm down, fuck other girls, and have a clearer head - like what others said, ball is in her court. But I still would like to advice you to never dig through trash, it’s not worth it - people rarely change most especially women nowadays. Stick with the hard next.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:31 PM
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If they reply again, just go straight to the point or don’t even bother anymore. They’ll be back if they’re attracted enough.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:21 PM
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You have self-doubt about your image if you are up to their standards - fuck what they think. Keep on approaching and don’t be outcome dependent - you haven’t even tried yet you think you already failed. After maybe a thousand tries, you’ll be good to go and it will become second nature to you.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:55 PM
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We’ve all been there. Embrace it and grow to like it - I swear it just pushes you even further knowing that the fuckers who weren’t batting an eye at you before are now feeling intimidated by you.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:52 PM
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She’s already annoying to you and you’re still tolerating it - next.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:39 PM
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This is why I’d rather have enemies who show that they’re against me rather than “friends” Sounds like you have to burn the bridge and prepare yourself if shit hits the fan, especially if he’s a close mate. This can also have a domino effect and affect your relationship with your girl. Trust your gut and move accordingly - been there and that shit ain’t pretty.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:24 PM
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She’s either a fuck yes or a next. In this case, you know the answer.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:02 PM
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This is why you only text for logistics. Yes sexting may initiate in texting if she initiates but you have to escalate physically by meeting - if you don’t want to then back off let her hamster wheel spin.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:56 AM
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Act like nothing happened and she’ll ignore it as well. If brought up, be playful about it and tease.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:49 AM
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I think getting your heartbroken by a “good woman” is the right-of-passage as mentioned by previous posts before at the main sub - being blue pilled back then and all, it was necessary. Only then when you experience this will you fully internalize that broads ain’t shit and every cell of your body that was in denial will realize it sooner or later. That’s why my fantasies only ever stay in the media I watch since that’s where I can satisfy that desire and I’ve accepted that those fantasies of “l…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:36 AM
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Woah calm down there sour puss sally.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:29 PM
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Made my day.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:27 PM
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Same.. I think my ex is trying to hack my facebook since I’ve received a lot of fucking reset codes for my password. Stay safe out there fellas.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:57 PM
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This. She’ll literally fuck you anywhere from my experience if she’s attached and attracted to you af.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:47 PM
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Cut your losses while you still can.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:40 PM
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To add to the comments that explained it marvelously: Obvious unreasonable favors are major shit tests - had to learn the hard way since back then I was oblivious and was mr nice guy fucking disgusting now that I think about it. I think you have the right judgment of what’s unfair to you and just plain stupid and what will spark a gain from a favor that’s reasonable. Fuck those “im an alpha so no favors even the tiniest ones” and reply as dry as their sex life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:36 PM
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You don’t flirt, but also you can never truly not validate a woman completely. Just get to know her, ask her about shit, and keep it 20-80. Be mysterious. Fuck this is sidebar material go back and read. Edit: also, tease but balance it. Always balance.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:17 PM
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I felt this.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:07 PM
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Caught my ex faking/doing that before (pretending to have read a book I’ve read and other shit). Soft nexted instantly.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:06 PM
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This.. War flashbacks - I remember it like it was yesterday. Once she pulls this shit, fucking run. Get all of the evidence you can to prove of your innocence IF she decides to do something stupid.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:03 PM
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Because in the end, you’ll laugh it off and learn from it.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:16 AM
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Nothing gold can stay.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:56 PM
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Asktrp at its finest. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:24 AM
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This made me laugh more than it should.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:23 AM
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I’ve cut off an ex-LTR, closest circle of friends, and a side of the family in a month. It hurt like a bitch but after seeing the truth and my own assessment, it had to be done - the hand that I was dealt was clearly a fold. I think you’re scared of losing friends but once you’ve overcome that some of them ain’t shit, you’re good - life goes on. Learn to accept the highs and most especially the lows - it was fun while it lasted. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:18 AM
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Going through the exact same thing and I’m also 21. Short term loss for long term gain.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 07:40 AM
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I’ve done that in uni - practicing on some classmates and groupmates. Totally normal. Just don’t get carried away - don’t eat where you shit.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:21 AM
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One-night thing ONLY. I’ve been there - LTRing the same girl you’re describing (fuck me, right?). The sex was great but it was never worth for OBVIOUS reasons. Use a condom then don’t contact again.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 12:10 AM
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If you trust your gut and you really think something’s wrong, just demote her and keep distance - she’s gonna spill eventually if you do. Girls like ratting them selves out it’s actually hilarious.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:49 PM
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It’s the same as guys telling a girl she’s hot - it doesn’t fucking matter they already know YOU already know that. She’s either a fuck yes if you ask her out or she’s just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:33 AM
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Happened to me before, i was “waiting for the perfect time” - just bounce already..
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:28 AM
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Honestly, if your gut is telling you that much and you’re also thinking about it way too much - that’s a good sign. Grab your balls and leave while you can.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:26 AM
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I agree, also tell her how much you love her everyday and remind her constantly on how you will never leave her because she is the only one for you. /s
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:23 AM
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Next.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:31 PM
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Not enough context to prove that she has daddy issues. She has two jobs and takes care of you so that’s no issue. You know her better than we do so use your own discretion and trust your gut.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:30 PM
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Why did you argue with a woman?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:19 PM
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It killed my romanticized view that the mainstream media has portrayed it to be yes but not my love for women. You’ll get used to it most especially if you’re exposed to the nature of women 24/7 and realizing that some of the things you read here are indeed true. Give it time.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:17 PM
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Just practice observing more while keeping a conversation afloat if it has good flow. When on a date or in the room watching a movie, don’t be scared of the sudden silence just escalate physically. Once you get used to this your golden. A lot of people try to break the silence like it’s some awful thing but in reality you’re giving into their frame - let them know that you don’t feel awkward by it and let the noise of silence play in your favor.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:14 PM
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I don’t like making out in the club, personally - I’d isolate first. Yeah they get bored or pissed if you don’t escalate or you are oblivious about it.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:22 AM
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You’re hamstering hard and you’ve overly invested. You know what to do, you’re just in denial.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:00 AM
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She’ll usually give you signs of wanting to escalate things or get out - I was so oblivious to this and have wasted countless of easy lays even if it was already being spoon fed to me. If she said “i cant leave my friends” then she doesn’t see you good enough to fuck - the medium is the message. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:55 AM
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You are not the top priority and she won’t do any exceptions for you YET. I’d just reply with “Ok, keep in touch” then next.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:47 AM
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Shit happens all the time - the clubs/bars are contaminated with a lot of white knights/thirsty orbiters. Just remember, she’s not worth the argument or fight - just walk away it’s not worth the extra effort most especially since it’s easy to pick up girls. If it escalates though, I’d just bounce and gtfo - I agree that fighting against 5 people as 1 dude no matter how trained you are in self-defense is still against you. Lastly, even if you win in a fight, it’s still a hassle if security and th…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:48 AM
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Reply with a "Maybe?" If she still persists, then next. I've had girls who rescheduled and some who still didn't - it's a 50/50. I've had some who came back and even said sorry for being distant and shit which I still find weird to this day. I agree that you have nothing to lose so just try and experiment - bitches are a dime a dozen.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:32 AM
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Asians are the best 👀
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:17 AM
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A refresher. Still have that “i should be polite and wait” and “what will others think of me?” attitude sometimes which ruined a lot of chances. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 12:41 AM
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Never argue with a woman cuz there’s no point. Laugh it off or just ignore her ass when she’s running her mouth.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:08 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:38 PM
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Up to you, dude. If it works for you then great. I just don’t advice it due to personal experience.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:30 PM
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SHE’S 20 AND SHE HAS A HUSBAND?! Blow that bitch’s back. You have our permission.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:28 PM
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I don’t advice this to you most especially since you’ve bonded with this chick and she’s affecting you emotionally - it’s not gonna be healthy and you’ll hamster a lot. I suggest hard nexting then plating other women. In the future, then you can probably plate her but why dig through trash?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:05 PM
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“It’s not healthy” That’s your reason to gtfo. It doesn’t get any better, OP. Toss her to the side of the road already.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:49 PM
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Yeah, you’re in that transition phase. I was in the same boat as you. I know it’s gonna be hard at first but trust me, it’ll all be smooth sailing after a few months. I suggest letting go of anything that will remind you of her - you don’t have to give it back just throw it away or feed em to the sharks. Write a letter filled with all the shit you wanna say to her but keep it to yourself. You have to ghost her. Lastly, give yourself some time to grieve - do an “ending of a relationship ceremony”…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:35 PM
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God you sound like the old me - being new to the RP and wanting to be “alpha” instantly. I think you already know the answer, you’re just in denial. Shut your hamster up.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:11 PM
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Agreed. Instant gratification and impatience will kill you.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:00 PM
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My bad, coach.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:00 AM
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Bulk up, strength training (nSuns programs or others), body-weight workouts, and limit cardio.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:17 AM
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Guess who’s getting demoted? TIP: it’s an abbreviation that starts with the letter L.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:12 AM
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Her: “My stalker still talks to me.” Me: “Maybe you should block him if he’s stalking you.” Also her: Does not block the “stalker” and says she “has it all under control.” Do I look like I was born yesterday?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:36 AM
20

Trust your gut. IMO though, she’s bluffing. My ex pulled the same thing, playing the victim -getting kidnapped and having a stalker but not blocking him in social media and texts AND also getting ‘pregnant’. After a while, realized she was fucking mental which made sense. She’s playing with your head, dude.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:19 AM
9

The message being confusing is the message. You’re orbiting.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:48 AM
14

She doesn’t respect your time and she’s basically running the relationship. I’d check her and soft next.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:58 PM
1

Excitement Treat her like a slut, play with her emotions, and apply dread - she’s craving for some turmoil.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:57 PM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:05 PM
1

My experience with BPD women: Check my post history (I only have one lol).
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:58 PM
6

Put her in the back burner and spin other plates then. If she doesn’t wanna do anything that includes you then so be it, if she reaches out then you check her. Her behavior ain’t your problem.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:50 PM
11

Could be a plethora of different reasons but again the medium is the message. She’s ejecting cuz of who knows what, new dick? Who knows. You do nothing it’s just drama don’t mind it. Don’t chase and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:36 PM
4

Don’t mind them or fuck with them as well. It just creeps me out if they stare for a long time though including HB 8s and 9s..
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:02 PM
5

Imo, telling your parents your accomplishments is fine but maybe because I’m close to both my parents? It lets you air-out that neediness that you seek from others. For your friends, I suggest asking them questions rather than you giving statements and “I” phrases. Don’t be self-centered when around your close buds. I would also journalize my thoughts, accomplishments, and my gratitude towards myself and others.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:34 AM
1

Fuck this happened to me before. Tread carefully. Watch out for any inconsistencies in her behavior for sure. I was in a party with my social circle then my ex-LTR started kissing my neck and chest while I was talking to a mutual friend of ours. (Which she rarely does.) While doing the deed, she was tipsy but she blurted out the mutual friend’s name and started talking bout him. When I addressed it, she was gas lighting me and saying that she was “sleep talking” or “sleep apnea” but sleep apnea …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:30 AM
1

Go nuke and see where it goes if you don’t mind walking. If she submits then you know what to do. But again like what I’ve read from other posts here, your boundaries are already there from the get-go, and she ain’t stupid, so re-stating them is obnoxious. I’d walk, she got no respect.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:11 AM
2

Yeah she’s testing you for sure cuz she prolly has a dick rn. I agree with not breaking frame if you really wanna try banging the chick again cuz if she dtf then she should be the one initiating to meet-up lmao. Hamsters man. 🧢🧢🧢
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:04 AM
1

For the first part, yeah I do that too to weed out possible whack jobs (but some are really good at acting) and to see the amount of emotional investment to push things to the kinkier side. As for your second point, being late is like a pullback imo (makes the hamster go). Again to test her investment and her reaction. The ex LTR scenario is a shit test and you failed.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:14 PM
0

Austin is the emergency dick if you fuck up and you were insecure af and stepped into her frame which sealed the deal. Remember: She was never yours, it was just your turn and she WILL cheat you just don’t know when. Let this be a turning point in your life since you’re still new to the red pill philosophy and prolly only used trp for short-term gains - you play stupid games, you get stupid prizes (as said by one of the users here who also schooled me before).
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:39 AM
1

Had the same problems back in my shitty days. I had 3 girls who were attached to my arm in uni when we would walk around BUT we were just friends nothing else cuz I wasn’t really interested. They would talk about other guys but it was all noise to me. BUT after improving myself, they were acting different and one of them actually touched my abs (a 6), the other distanced herself (she was a 4), and the other was showing a lot of interest ( a 5). I am gaming HB 7s and up now, the rest are just for…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 12:24 AM
1

You can’t, I’ve tried and it turned into a long argument. Never brought it up in a group of close friends again unless asked for help by a close bud in a 1-on-1 conversation (which is still a 50/50).
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:06 AM
2

This is a gem for sure.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:50 AM
1

Work out when you’re panicking. I agree with doing some pushups or even lifting weights. The place of iron is where you can calm your mind and collect yourself - it’s where I usually take the time to also reflect. But some things still grinds our mental, but it will be a lesson learned for sure after overcoming it.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:52 AM
1

Simple yet on point. It ain’t rocket science, just you overthinking OP. I think you’re still scared of rejection based off of your post.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:18 AM
1

LOL dead
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:07 AM
7

Yeah she's borderline based off of my experience with her, she does need some help BUT not from me - we don't do captain save a hoe in these parts.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:07 AM
4

I'm 22.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:05 AM
3

Agreed - I'm still a bit ignorant about what the real mistake is. But I've learned from it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:05 AM
5

Not gonna lie crazy is where the good sex is at, my mistake for prolonging the relationship though.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:19 AM
7

You’re overthinking this OP. You’re 16. Live your fucking life. And read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:27 AM
1

I fucking died
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:07 AM
13

I’ll do this if by chance we see each other since we go to the same uni, I’ll start recording ASAP. Thank you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:46 AM
8

Thanks for the advice. She is trying to play the victim.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:45 AM
3

Agreed. Some women go as far as using the nuclear option just so they could see you react to it and to lock you down. Beware.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:06 AM
4

Sounded like my ex lmao. She tried her damned hardest to play the victim and act like she was the one who pulled the plug so she could tell her friends that she was the one who broke up with me. AWALT.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:02 AM
7

SHE BELONG TO THE SKREEEETS
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:30 PM
1

Agreed. If you’re not dating them I don’t see any harm in treating them the same cuz in the end they’ll still be looking out for themselves no matter how you treat them.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:33 PM
1

I’ve had some recoveries before by not acting like anything happened and maintaining frame again BUT she needs to initiate first after showing weakness (best believe it’s gonna be either she’ll ghost you or use you for free validation and attention and a shit ton of shit tests will appear especially after confessing lmao so why not just move on while you still can ). Best case scenario for you is to mind your own business, cut your losses, and keep moving but if she hits you up again resume the …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:07 PM
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