TL;DR: Calm down, this shit takes time - keep running that marathon and be proactive.

25M, 6’1, from an asian country in SEA.

I’ve been a long time lurker in ALL of the redpill subs, asktrp, trp.red, even purplepill, etc., and I think it’s the right time to post my field report now since the results that I have had for the past 4-6 years were immense. Thank God I also found this sub earlier.

I was also a blue-pilled fuck back then but toughened up and ate my veggies. I remember why I came to these manospheres - since I wanted to get chicks in college but didn’t have the guts to fix my life first. I mean it worked the first time by getting a taste of what could happen since I applied redpill principles to chicks I dated but it didn’t feel natural up until now. I actually worked for my job, physique, looks, etc. I also remember binge reading every article I could find or watch AMS or stephiscold - those times really take me back. I was very cookie-cutter and had band-aid fixes rather than going head first and experiencing it as it is. Still funny though if one of the pro-tips I still have in my back-pocket work.

Here are a few of my wins:

  • I went from asking asktrp on how to get girls, how to get my BPD ex back, or even “iS sHe gIvInG cHoOsInG sIgNals?!” to saying no to pussy since it won’t fit my schedule even if the chicks would “beg” or “cry”

  • I tried being a full-on asshole to just being balanced with it cuz shit’s 80/20 - you can’t be 100% all the time and this applies to everything else.

  • Also dropped the tough-guy or cool-guy persona and started being a more confident true-to-me persona and it works way fucking better.

  • I went from 165 lbs toned and athletic to a 220 lb piece of meat that chicks would stare at even if they’re with their boyfriends - fuck it’s a good feeling.

  • I remember having only 20 matches on bumble and tinder but now I get 1000+ combined in my city alone (small ass city).

The best thing that I got from this journey is the fact that now, I barely have to work for anything that I want since everyone makes it easy for me. Maybe it’s my demeanor or vibe in real life? Idk.

One key takeaway from ALL of the stuff that I have learned here, which I will just repeat, is that for the newbies, this and all the other manospheres are TOOLS - use them based on your situation not as something to be followed as dogma or to the tee. Fucking experiment.

Just wanna thank the vets such as uncle vaz, gaylubeoil, and the rest - you guys helped me a lot.

Funny how my problems used to be girls, but now it’s how to multiply my money even more and be financially free - probably move countries and pursue my passion.

Had some time to write this down since I’m currently sick and I’m taking a slower pace in life. Also wanted to check on how to get dimes consistently x)

Cheers!

ABGsGoneWild