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| 1 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?I don’t know how common this is, but it wasn’t on this list: if I was a woman I wouldn’t have been drafted, I wouldn’t have back pain, and wouldn’t have to worry about protecting my loved ones. With power comes responsibility, but damn I want to be taken care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 10:16 AM |
| 5 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?Got to be a yoga pro, and then they come to you. Casuals not welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenYou guys need better relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 10:01 AM |
| 5 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlThis is garbage. I train BJJ, my girlfriend watches. Sometimes I win, sometimes I lose. Makes not difference. So much pseudo analysis going on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/24 10:01 AM |
| 1 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleAccept that the world is hard? Yes indeed. The real issue is that we’ve forgotten this in our age of abundance. This is true well outside this realm of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleThis is true and the reality is that if you don’t know, you’re simply not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?My friends who actually dislike women only do so because women have given them good reason to. Obviously it’s wrong to generalize from a small sample, but when every single girl you’ve ever dated has cheated on/abused you, it’s difficult to draw hard lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.What do you think the median is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:49 PM |
| 5 | In response to the "why are promiscuous women undesirable but doesn't necessarily apply to promiscuous men"I bet they have great longevity. They have shared values, and real chads who are actually high value are sex positive. The guys I know who fuck the most don't want virgins because they aren't insecure. They're most happy with girls who have the experience to provide them with a great time. Both accept each other's past as humans who learn from their experiences, and can do so without insecurity because they both have abundant social proof that they are hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Would you hate even more the french dating scene ?Is monogamy the norm in France? I have heard otherwise... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsMost important, I think, is a distinction between responsibility and blame. It's a piece of wisdom that isn't fully saturated into society and would great help people if it could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsVictimhoos is absolutely an attitude. We ascribe the quality of victim, and one can ascribe that quality to themselves. There is no objective "essence of victim" in the world that we can sample to determine who is or isn't a victim. The question is whether these attitudes serve you. If you've been raped, and you don't see yourself as a victim, it can be a problem, because you can confuse between responsibility and blame, and taking blame for your own rape can be massive psychologically damaging.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsBy victimizing yourself you essentially relinquish control. The point of not being a victim is to work to not do that. You don’t always succeed, but they’re two different attitudes to life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 4 | What's the point?Comparison is the thief of joy. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/24 02:58 PM |
| 5 | What's the point?Go to college, don't tell people you're rich. Meet young people starting their lives and get to know them for them. Join clubs and get hobbies. Make real friends and real connections. Leave the red pill shit behind, it doesn't sound like it's serving you any more. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/24 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?I think the average woman is much worse to the average man than the reverse, but the worst men are so much worse than the worst women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | (22M) What would an accurate rating of my SMV be, given my below mentioned comprehensive and detailed self-assessment?You need the blue pill... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/24 11:40 AM |
| 2 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?PS. If you do all this women will come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?Read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:11 PM |
| 5 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Wrong. Go to an acro-yoga class. Or a rave in the forrest. Or an actually good quality underground club. Go LARPing. Go backpacking. Get an actual hobby that demands engagement. And don't be weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy?Because it's a disastrous for society, and a catalyst to societal collapse. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:51 PM |
| -3 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?In my experience girls are always understanding and kind in moments of vulnerability. They tend to be more capable of providing the necessary emotional support in the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 10:43 AM |
| 3 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?I have a friend who is staying with somebody because he's worried he can't do better. They're happy now but she's been bad to him in the past. It's sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 02:02 PM |
| 2 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itDoes this not go both ways though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itThere are actual moral and ethical arguments to be made against hookup culture. Please make them I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 10:49 AM |
| – | What are the essential tenets of the red and blue pills in the modern day?Can you evidence your claim further? People are disagreeing with you, can you prove them wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Have you read it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Read Models by Mark Manson and it will change your mind. True strength is the ability to be vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyWhy does it affect their long term chances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyHow do you feel about men having a hoe phase? Why are women less desireable after said phase? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:13 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceLots of women really do hate men and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:58 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceWhy are you arguing on a gender relations subreddit without any interest in gender relations? I’m seriously asking not as an attack - if you’re not into men more power to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:57 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceSorry for getting involved I didn’t realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:56 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceWhat is this horribly bitter take damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:42 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical advicer/ForeverAloneWomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?I'm not red pilled at all but I'm curious, because you have a blue pill flair, how you feel about the red pill claim of women "riding the cock carousel with the alpha fucks till 30 and then settling for the beta buxx". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?Complaining about not being able to find a good man while also not agreeing that any men are good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI dont see anyone telling men to lower their standards. It happens lots I'm just chiming in to confirm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | About to be a 24 year old virgin in JanuaryThe best place to start, in my humble opinion, is to find friends, and be active in engaging in friendship. Don’t worry about being needy, but be honest and open. | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Is cynical + sarcastic at all attractive?That’s kinda not the point of this sub no? | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Besides bars and clubs, where are some solid places to meet women?I’m not arguing about metaphors. You’re pulling examples imaginary scenarios. If you don’t think environment is important you’ve never been in basic training or medical school or jail. Sometimes the change you need to make is realizing that your surroundings are what holding you back and decide if you’re willing to change them. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Besides bars and clubs, where are some solid places to meet women?Have you ever seen a Lion in the zoo? The environment is a huge factor. Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/Wellthatsucks/comments/gvy0d2/an_unfortunate_mistep/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf :) | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?I was at absolute zero at like age 16. Cut my hair (had a sort of weird layered puffy half long thing) started working out. Turns out I have a good set of social skills and can be pretty social and funny. Girlfriend within six months, lost my virginity within a year. Now I’m ok, still insecure but less bothered by it. I understand that the reality doesn’t reflect how I feel about myself and my success. I also find that I’m only actually successful when I manage to be present and forget my insecu… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 10:44 AM |
| 7 | Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married?Is 7-10 considered high for you? Does that mean they can never fall in love in accordance with your theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?Am I the alpha widow? Because that’s cool as fuck, but probably not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?I totally disagree, if my current partner is worse, and I’m no longer in a relationship with the old partner, I can’t see why I would stay with the new one? If anything I’ve found girls to be far more forgiving of me in comparison to their previous partners - this to the point where I actually think I might have to lower my standards because I’m not finding girls who match or beat the girls I’ve been with in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?You say this like that’s a bad thing? I compare my current partners to previous women? That’s just normal behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?Can you provide a source for this? Pretty much zips up the issue if it’s the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?There are less female to male trans people than male to female? Could you post a source for that? Any explanation why that might be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?So the system favors women, where men are diagnosed with issues and women are considered normal with the same symptoms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?The lack of this is the cause of higher rates of autism in men? Women continue with their traditional ways of living? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?No to what? That the lack of diagnoses for women is unconnected to gender inequality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?I read this before posting, it doesn’t really lean either way. At one point it says a little about the medical system catering to men and another it says. That women are given a pass for odd behavior that men wouldn’t get. Do you have an opinion, or is this a non issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?I guess they could be. We do love in a society after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?I didn’t know women were blamed for bringing up autistic kids that’s awful. I’ve actually heard lately an opposite trend saying that men aren’t showing their kids how to be manly men but I feel like it’s a theory that was probably far less harmful considering the context. Can you provide a source for the thing about ages eggs and sperm? That sounds fascinating. How would you justify the trend in higher diagnosis rates in men? Is it a result of the societal stigma? If so to the detriment of which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?Can you bring a source for the aggression thing? Sounds interesting and important to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?Can you explain what you mean about the conservative country? And I’m not seeing the connection between your answer to the question, could you clarify? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?Is this sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Is the higher autism (or at least diagnosis) rate in men rather than woman a result of gender inequality?Is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 17 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?It’s funny how this thread is exposing the ridiculous and unfounded ways conservatives view liberals. There are no facts here, just people trying to force their political ideologies on personalities of the people who disagree with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A Russian, a Yoga Girl, and a Brit. My first 3 Tinder dates (and all in one week)!I'd say good luck but it doesn't sound like you need it! | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 06:11 PM |
| 1 | It's my final semester of college and I'm a virgin. How do I get laid?I'd try five times a week in the gym to see serious gains. Other than that just go out a ton and go to a ton of parties and talk to and flirt with every girl you like and just work your way through till you find one down to go. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] She didn't flakeWhat are these boots and what is the reflection in the eye trick? | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I figured it outThe second two points I get and I appreciate the way you've articulated them, but the first one I'm still not seeing fully. I'm thinking of the last time I was in a situation where I was having a serious conversation with a girl I found gorgeous, and my hands started shaking, my knee bumping and my voice wobbling. I feel like if I were to just go with it I'd probably throw up or start crying on the spot, and I feel like that's not the type of vulnerability you're talking about. My only other opt… | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 12:14 PM |
| 3 | 29 y/o male struggling to get laid60-90 hour week explains it. You're investing into one thing and then wondering why you're not making returns in something else. You've got to accept that each aspects of your life requires constant effort and aren't going to stay covered for you to focus on something else unless you lock them in place (girlfriend, not trying for a promotion etc.) If you want to get back into the game you need to set aside some time to play. | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 10:55 AM |
| 1 | I figured it outThis guy is basically saying you need to know if you're in or not, not wait in the centre to avoid rejection. If you've hooked up its a good sign you should just go for it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 10:11 AM |
| 1 | I figured it outYes, say something like "I'm done packing and I've got nothing to do for a few hours, come hang out?" | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 10:09 AM |
| 2 | I figured it outWhen I try this I start physically shaking and talking too fast and stuttering. Any advice? I normally calm myself down and get rid of the energy instead of trying to channel it but I'd like to try your way if you can help me. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I figured it outI went from no kissing to approximately 20 girls in two years and I still can't work this one out. In all my time I've only pulled one, at a stretch two (she was into me before I liked her) girls that I actually liked and tried for, rather than having them come to me. My only suggestion would be not to think about them any differently, although I know how hard that is, and to not worry about being super special or funny in the moment because the chances are that you will be without focusing on i… | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I just meet a girl :) XELPBe yourself and do what you enjoy, but understand that you also need to show your best self and find things that she can enjoy as well. You may love football, league of legends, and game of thrones but one of those things should stand out to you as being obvious to avoid, even if you like it as much as the other things. That's more or less it, if you can enjoy yourself and also be relatable and "normal" then you're good. And don't think about it just flow. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 09:43 PM |
| 2 | HighschoolJust start saying whatever you want as you think it. No more filter. If you're really attractive you shouldn't have to worry about girls getting offended because they'll be likely to forgive any slips you make. Don't worry about whether or not what is coming out of your mouth is any "good." Just make sure you're talking and responding and not going around in a shitty circle of question and answer. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 10:38 AM |
| 2 | 23 year old Male, never had a girlfriend, never kissed or held hands. Everytime I have a crush on a girl, i go through a cycle that just leaves me feeling heart broken and shitty in the end. How do I break this cycle?I'm starting to realise that most of pulling is nothing to do with what you actually do. Make sure you're fit and dressed like a normal person, but not dressed up like a lot of guides will tell you to. Just dress normally, in clothes that you think good on you. If you're unsure about this just look at what other people who pull are wearing. After this just talk to them and make your intentions clear from the start with every girl you meet. Don't express your feelings for them so late. They shoul… | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 10:34 AM |
| 2 | I fucked upRecently I went the other way. I asked a girl if she was going somewhere and when she replied no and asked if I was going I replied with "nah if you're not going to be there I'm not." Made my look needy as fuck and pretty obsessive but I've come to realise that I'm going to make small mistakes along the way and they're not worth beating myself up about, especially over one girl. Also, I believe that the real mistake you made was with the response about keeping you in the loop. That puts it on he… | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always have negative reactions the day after hooking up?As in you're considered to not be in with the cool crowed or weird aside from your looks, and so you're their guilty pleasure fuck when they want somebody hot but then afterwards don't want to be associated with you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always have negative reactions the day after hooking up?Are you bad at sex/hot but socially a pariah? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always have negative reactions the day after hooking up?Fuck me this explains it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand this girl!Try and get with her at a party, it should solve the problem as to whether or not she's into you fast. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 01:31 PM |
| 0 | How do you lot fall in love?I disagree. While I think that going to the gym is not everything, it can change your personality. Like /u/xAFC said, it can teach determination and other things, while for some allowing you the channel the negative out, and away from becoming a part of your personality. In addition, it can effect your self esteem, in the same way that becoming good at a sport can, and all together these things can change a person's personality. Some of it may be "lifting up heavy objects" but I think that this … | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you lot fall in love?As a person who gets fucked over every time I invest into a girl, I try not to invest into girls at all, until I am dating them seriously. This way, I can have fun with any girl I like without emotional attachment, and if I'm dating a girl who breaks up with me quickly I won't have had time to get attached. P.S. In my opinion, love is in the head of the guy, and once it is established there it takes hold very strongly. Don't make her more than she is in your head, and don't put her on an imagina… | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 10:46 AM |
| 1 | So I've read the Game, the guides on Seddit and started to practice - what study material is next?Ahh this makes sense, even though it does warn against putting girls on a pedestal. Thanks for clarifying, although I think it's still worth a read as it's a fun book and pretty motivational in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.I completely agree, especially with the last sentence and not all analogies work for everybody. Good luck avoiding the one-itis trap! | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 06:09 AM |
| 2 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.You created an account just to post this. I'm not sure if I should be flattered or offended... | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 06:07 AM |
| 1 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.Not at all (a problem, I misread the question), and when trying to get over a girl it sometimes helps to make a list of their faults, yet the problem with this for me is that it ends up making all girls unattractive, and you run the risk of raising your standards above what might be possible. I like to try and give their faults equal weight to their positive qualities, but once I begin to nitpick, I find every girl becomes unattractive. But do whatever best for you, and good luck :) | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.I like this, especially as it's like being given a wrong answer to a math equation, and then spending time and effort reviewing your steps when the equations doesn't work out, but never questioning the validity of the number you have been giving. My main point here was that large parts of how people fall in love is in their heads, and if you work up a girl in your head, by assigning her higher value, it makes everything harder. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 06:02 AM |
| 3 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.Analogies help some people to see things clearer, me included. I'm sorry if you disagree with that. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 02:39 PM |
| 2 | An analogy I created for why guys develop one-itis.Each to their own I guess. I thought it might help some people realise that the girl they are chasing isn't as great as they thought, but maybe you could tell me where I went wrong? | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 02:36 PM |
| 1 | So I've read the Game, the guides on Seddit and started to practice - what study material is next?How is the game more likely to make you worse with women? At the very worst you will get nothing out of it, but it's still a fun read. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 08:49 AM |
| 1 | So I've read the Game, the guides on Seddit and started to practice - what study material is next?So instead of asking, "What is your favourite food? Oh, that's cool. What is your favourite colour? Very nice, mine too, and where do you live?" Thats interrogation. Instead you have two options. The first is to ask large questions that require longer answers, such as, "If you could do anything with your life, regardless of money what would you be?" or "If you could be anywhere else but here, where would you be?" And then ask why, etc. And you could even slip something cocky into that specific o… | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 08:46 AM |
| 1 | So I have read about DHV's and the five question game and I have some questions.I don't force lines at all, and I like to slip them in between conversation, which is why I would like single lines that improve my value, not long stories or big setups. Another problem I find, is that if guys improve their value infront of guys, other guys, no matter who they are, will feel a bit threatened. And the 5's question was just because I found something that I thought would work, and then was warned against it. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 01:07 AM |
| 5 | So I've read the Game, the guides on Seddit and started to practice - what study material is next?Read "The rules of the game". For the problem with the conversation, work on socializing more than running material. Become witty, get a sense of humor, and become interesting so that you are somebody they want to continue talking to. Work on keeping conversation flowing with everybody, males and females, and always remember to ask about the person and get them talking about themselves. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsBut the idea is to imagine yourself driving the F1 car. Then jump in the go cart and crash a bit. Work your way up, to the F1 car, and by the time you get there, your driving ability will be what it needs to be to get started. If the F1 is the women, you can build confidence driving it, or in front of them. This is just my theory. I understand your point, but I think it would work for more people than you think, as long as they give it a try and build up. | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 11:56 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsUnfounded opinions have no weight. EVIDENCE IS NEEDED! | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:16 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsYou fake it, till it becomes natural, and then becomes real. Then you approach the girls. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:01 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsGood for you man! | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:01 AM |
| 4 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsAt least you gave a reason for disliking it. Upvote for that :) | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Reading the Book of Pook, and The Game, by Niel Straus. Good reads on this subject and worth a look.AND it is a fun read, IMO. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 06:59 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsI find that /r/hownottogiveafuck helps me, but that is a personal preference. In the end, if you don't know what you want, it is much harder to obtain. See what confidence really means to you and try to embody that, even if you are faking it in the beginning. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 06:57 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsSee! This guy actually gets it! Everybody else can go home. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 06:56 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsThis isn't about faking confidence in front of women, it's about acting confidant in all situations. In the beginning you will be faking confidence, walking down the street in a stupid hat. It is about internalising the process until you actually become confidant your self. How else would you build confidence. I have said it before :) Fake it till you make it. Then test it in front of girls. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 05:51 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsNot only does it build acting skills, it can be fun! Convincing people of strange things that is, not outright lying about important things. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsActually, you can. Fake it till you make it is the best way to build confidence. It has worked for me, and from what I have seen, others pretty well. Disney lied to you. Being true to yourself is only the first step, to understand what you want. After that, if you are true to your unconfident, weak inner self, how are you going to improve? The secret, is consistency. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 05:42 AM |
| 4 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsConfidence? Fake it till you make it. Thought I would just put this out there. If you aren't a good actor, get better. Lie to people. The longer you last without being called out, the better. Also, once you have your acting down, do some improv. Get quick with it, then do something that scares you and act confident. You have to lie to yourself till it becomes true. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 02:42 PM |
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