ADW83 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Q4RP: What is asshole behavior and how does one treat women badly? No. That's what it takes to be an asshole. Halo effect makes the girls blame themselves, or each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/17 09:08 PM
5	Q4RP: What is asshole behavior and how does one treat women badly? Sleeping with other women while you're dating, talking thrash to her face, humiliating her in public, still sleeping with other women once you're a couple, dumping her because she's insecure about how you feel, and for trying to stop you from sleeping with other women through being protective. ^ Alpha that I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/17 05:26 PM
1	Any other MGTOWs by lifestyle who don't like the rampant misogyny in the community? Men liking sex =/= woman wanting to have sex with them. At all times, each woman in the mood to fuck has four men willing to fuck her. Be short, bald, fat, geeky or introverted, and you're fourth in line. Be a combination of two, and you're eight in line. Be three, and only the gods may have mercy on your soul, by letting you have a fat cousin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/17 04:01 PM
1	Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas? Shy girls are hard to get, seems disinterested, but are not a turnoff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/17 08:35 AM
2	At this point, The Red Pill is a cult. This sounds like a debate that should be held on TRP, actually. I'm probably the most left wing person on here. (But I don't believe my ideals are the best for humanity, at this stage, so I vote for what I think humanity needs, instead of voting for what I want. Sometimes, children need Santa.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/17 02:41 PM
3	CMV: Women are not significantly more narcissistic than men. In fact, it's quite the opposite. AVERAGE self-confidence is on the narcissistic side of the truth. Women with low or realistic self confidence still get men. Men with low or realistic self confidence have problems dating. ... Women pick narcissistic and psychopathic men for mating, over more rational men. Guess where the future is headed. ... However, in dating, women have a seriously bloated sense of their own social value. I would blame lack of rational thought, hypergami in a society where women have started to hold higher a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/17 08:48 AM
1	We have sex with humans, not objects. This is an interesting point. I'm certain that when we do not view our coworkers as sexual beings, we are perceiving them as less human: It's the roleplaying that is career life that objective people: They are assets, not people, when we don't think about their emotions. How is viewing people as emotional beings rather than assets more objectifying than ignoring people's emotions? If anyone treats people as objects, it's the asexual psychopath. And who's the one who treats people the least like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/17 02:54 PM
3	Which beauty or character flaws don't you find off-putting? Haha. Sounds like my crush. Sigh	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/17 03:38 PM
2	Q4ALL: Which of your male friends has the highest n-count? What are they like? As a man, the guy I know is on higher education and has slept with every single attractive girl on his workplace, over 5, two of them cheating on their boyfriends for him. Girls know it, but they don't care. And they probably all just ignore the fact,and probably wouldn't have mentioned him in this thread if they were here, because he's such a charming man. He's Chad. And you know it, because the girls don't think he's Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/17 04:55 PM
1	Higher levels of dread are inherently immoral. The proper way to go about making changes in your relationship is to act like an adult and tell her outright what you want, and if you can't get enough of it to be satisfied, she must not be for you. Make things clear from the beginning, rather than employing coersion and fear tactics. I dread game my girlfriend pretty badly. I tell her I think about leaving her. She sleeps with me to make me reconsider. But... I genuinely want to leave. But then she offers me the choice of: Possibly being witho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/17 01:15 AM
1	[Q4men] How forward can I be with men? I'm genuinely sure you're an awesome person, I just managed to escape reality, for a couple of minutes reading this topic, until I got reminded of the harsh reality I must face in dating, because unicorns like the OP are so rare. I mean: I'm just as turned off by regular women as they are by men who don't play the game, I just saw a unicorn, and the difference between unicorns and plain women is breathtakingly beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/17 12:30 AM
1	[Q4men] How forward can I be with men? And this is the reason I don't like this sub too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/17 11:36 PM
2	Q4Men: If you had a near endless supply of hot chicks to fuck as many times as you wanted, wouldn't eventually start to judge them by factors other than physical appearance? This happens whenever options are >1. Problem is, I've only ever encountered such a situation once. And I didn't KNOW if girl #2 was interested or not, and not in a position to find out without running the risk of losing girl #1.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/17 08:29 AM
1	CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size. I like big breasts. But, after having a girlfriend with absolutely massive tits, and problems with her back, I realized that great tits really aren't that great. Medium sized, or even small, for as long as they're not saggy, are perfect. Too big tits are in the way when you're trying to make out. The only 17/10 girl I've ever seen -- so pretty that she breaks the 1-10 scale wide open and makes you contemplate the possiblities of alternate realities and rebirth just because you have to believe th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/16 08:11 AM
1	Why should an incel be "fixed"? I talk to them. I talk to men who appear to be depressed, telling them about my condition. I talk to them about their ambitions, and one on one, try my best to help them solve their problems, before moving on. Some need inspiration. Some need a friend. Some needs a kick in the ass. Some need to know that there is someone they can talk to anytime, about anything. ...if just one tenth of guys took responsibility for those that struggle... If only one tenth of men actually took a step back, at the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/16 01:08 AM
32	Q4RP: Why is Angelina Jolie insane for getting her breasts removed? This right here. Angelina's mother died of breast AND oviarian cancer -- as did her grandmother on her mother's side. And Angelina Jolie carried the gene that caused both to die from cancer. Would you play russian roulette with 3 bullets in the revolver -- or remove your tits?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/16 02:34 PM
1	Why should an incel be "fixed"? I've tried for YEARS to figure out WHY men take their lives. I only know from my own experience why I was suicidal. And like everything else related to male mental health, nobody cares. I've searched for years, and all I've found is conjecture. Conjecture does, however, suggest that failure to fit in, not having a job or an education, social anxiety and subsequent depression are the causes for most male suicides. The fact that sexuality isn't even mentioned anywhere is probably caused by nobody …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/16 08:53 AM
1	Why should an incel be "fixed"? Both. From my experience, social isolation was caused by having so different interests than most people my age that my very culture became different from that of the general population of people my age, which lead to involuntary celibacy and isolation, which led to depression -- and the circle was complete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 04:04 PM
2	Why should an incel be "fixed"? Social isolation, anxiety and depression definitely is one of the biggest drivers -- and causes inceldom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 01:49 PM
4	Why should an incel be "fixed"? Women, and society in general, only being interested in people who conform is not a natural and intuitive idea for everyone. For the longest time, I believed that I could dedicate all my time to computers and programming, what I believed to be the future, AND find a girlfriend and have many friends. But this was the 90s. ... Being heavily interested in computers literally meant you were unfuckable and had few friends, unless you divided your attention and learned other skills and had other hobbi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 08:43 AM
6	Why should an incel be "fixed"? When I was an incel, my mother told me to not blame anyone. Which annoyed me, because I wasn't. And I didn't consider myself a victim. I was just so far behind people on my same age, in terms of social and sexual experience, as well as knowledge of contemporary social trends, that catching up seemed impossible. So... While I can understand being jaded, I'll never understand the victim mentality of some incels -- Only the crushing realization that it literally takes years and years if self improv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 08:06 AM
7	Why should an incel be "fixed"? The value of 50 years of work and maintenance adds up; It's the net contribution/profit expected from an individual if that person didn't end his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 05:12 AM
1	Why should an incel be "fixed"? Everyone loves tits, not just men. Sigh The standard reply will be that men don't take the help offered. When told to climb 30 feet of rope without training or practice, they just fumble with the bottom of the rope, jump up and grab hold, before sliding down or letting go. Then -- the guys, or girls, who told them to just climb to the top don't understand why they couldn't do it, when literally everyone else can. They simply do not understand WHERE the average incel's actual problems START -- an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 03:08 AM
2	Why should an incel be "fixed"? Because they have tits? Even if the tits are small or uneven, there is a man who would want them. Women don't have to suffer. ...some men have to suffer for women's hypergami.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 02:52 AM
9	Why should an incel be "fixed"? The male suicide rate is AWFULLY high? Suicide costs society over $44.6 billion a year in combined medical and work loss costs. The average suicide costs $1,164,499. http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/suicide/consequences.html ... I'm sure it'd be cheaper to help men who struggle, rather than just letting them suffer and some of them take their lives, when each suicide costs society over a million dollars. But then again, who cares? Nobody. And society as a whole would rather waste 1 000 000 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 02:44 AM
1	Can Bluepill explain these rising issues? I THINK that Chad and the top 20% of men are MORE happy, actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 02:22 AM
1	Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die alone The Red Pill isn't about never getting into serious relationships -- it's about learning what women want, improving yourself, and accepting the fucked up social aspect of the world for what it is -- and getting what you want. Getting what YOU WANT is the point of the Red Pill. Wheter it's a long term relationship, random one night stands or having multiple friends with benefits. You should actually READ the top post of Ask the Red Pill sometime. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskTRP	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 02:20 AM
1	Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle? And still, 80% of guys are less attractive than him. AND THAT is the entire point. Women don't put male attractiveness on a bell curve, like men do women: Men accurately evaluates women's actual beauty, and a 1000 men can accurately place a population of women in a perfect 1-10 bell curve -- where the majority of women are average. Slice the chart on the center, and 500 +/- 5 women would be above average, and 500 +/-5 would be below average. Women, however, consider 80% of men to be BELOW averag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 01:45 AM
1	Why are you making a big deal out of women dating around in their 20s and settling down in their 30s when men do the exact same thing? Inequal pay stems from men having greater self esteem and by giving employers (and girls) the (false) impression that they are more effective and work harder at their jobs than the girls at the same workplace, and actually ask for more money based on that lie. Women love that very same lie in men just as much as employers do. But unlike sex for an average man, you get work if you LOOK average regardless of gender. Male privilege is an illusion, a lie -- a lie that a lot of men don't have access …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/16 06:13 AM
3	Theory: The differences in "attractiveness" in races is not due specifically to race making indivduals more attractive; there are just a disproportionate number of attractive persons in each race Beauty standards are created by an individuals observation of the average from within the population, and the foundation is primarily laid during one's childhood. Neither race nor species has anything to do with this: A pretty and smart enough chimpanzee -- BASED ON HUMAN STANDARDS -- would attract humans. The same chimpanzee would be considered unfuckable by chimpanzees. The species and race doesn't matter -- their looks being close enough to your aquired definition of beauty does. The same app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/16 03:55 AM
1	Men don't really love women "for who they are" Who you are: Nature, not nurture. Your body and beauty is nature. Your intelligence, wit and charm is nature. Your opinions and part of your personality, as well as your education, are nurtured.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 05:23 PM
3	Thoughts on whatever this is? ...and the objective thing to do, from a purely economical aspect, WOULD be to advice him to cut the malignant economical liability off. Being objective doesn't meant being nice, it means saying things as they are. When they take his social wishes into account, they're not being objective. That green text at the top is essentially like telling the doctors of Reddit that this user is a religious freak who can't be told the objective truth that is the best solution to his problem, so please give w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 05:17 PM
3	Thoughts on whatever this is? If I came in asking a medical advice sub for advice, because I had a cancerous growth in my arm... I'm sure they'd advice to go to a doctor to have it removed -- no matter how much I liked having it there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 04:42 PM
1	Would you rather be hot and stupid or smart and unattractive? Easily smart and stupid. I'd probably get a bachelor or master degree pretty damn easily if I didn't think so bloody much... So many degrees only require a lot of knowledge: Law, economics, teaching... Or only social skills... Apart from physics, medical research, theoretical mathematics -- what else is based on the ability to fine NEW solutions to NEW problems -- rather than just repeating something someone else found out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 04:34 PM
5	Sperm is an important natural hormone for women wat	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 04:13 PM
0	Do women with very low social motivation put up with less in relationships? tell themselves that they don't care, and/or push people away because they're jaded and don't want to get hurt again	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 04:08 PM
3	Bashing women for wanting men to pay for dates & provide resources is shaming us for our innate nature. You often liken it to prostitution, but if that's the case, most male/female relations in history & even in other species are along that spectrum. It's the natural way. Fixed that for you: https://www.google.no/search?q=average+looking+woman&safe=strict&biw=1920&bih=1012&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwig9oG7m5nPAhUJDywKHZq8BEMQ_AUIBigB The average man desires above average, but EASILY settles for average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 03:19 PM
6	MGTOW or anyone complaining women treat them poorly or view them as ATM are unattractive and have little else to offer. Average women can have casual sex with good looking men. And therein lies the problem in any urban area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 03:16 PM
1	Men are more attracted to women that are interesting, extroverted and passionate The only reason extroverted girls have greater success with men is that they tend to short-circuit men's approach and just let them know if they're interested or not, without stupid games. Normal girls are harder to read, and you must pressure them more for acceptance or rejection. But they don't fuck up your life if you're not a creep. Introverted girls can be hell on earth to be attracted to. "Do you want to come with me and my friends to the movies?"... "Dunno. I kind of got plans."... hurt "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/16 01:03 PM
1	TRP mistakes online dating with real life Problem is getting matches, recently. Not talking to them. And when I do get matches, most of them are from the times I feel so bad that I just swipe right on everyone to see if there's any hope what so ever. Being locked to home for at least 4 more weeks due to knee surgery, this is social hell. Tinder might just as well have reminders that say, "You're ugly and nobody wants you! Open Tinder to see for yourself!" ...and despite being a girls worst nightmare -- girls seem incapable of relating o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/16 11:46 AM
2	CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average Men Average women don't have to date average men. Average women think they're far more attractive than the average man. How can you actually debate here without understanding the underlying problems that causes this sub to exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/16 11:23 AM
3	Any theories why men contemplate suicides post breakup? My story... I had just started 5th grade in my 5th school. 1st grade: We moved to a new house far away 2nd grade: We moved to a new city 3rd grade: School was only 1st to 3rd. 4th grade: We moved far away 5th: Grade: the first time I got to stay the same place for two years ... Everyone knew everyone else. I was new. Girls did a poll first week: Most attractive boy in class. 9 boys, 11 girls. 4th as my best position, 7th out of 9 as sum -- the two last guys obviously having disorders. Soul crush…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/16 10:51 AM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Stay optimistic. <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 05:35 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? I'm in a relationship that has lasted 12 years. And congratulations to your above average attractive friends, I suppose. Guess why I stay -- and why I entered the relationship in the first place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 05:21 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? You don't know much about long term relationships, do you..? Or are you a girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 05:05 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? To sum up what was nearing a 10 000 word essay: No. Among the average men, I think less than one third ever have loved a girl he was in a relationship with. Sex and friendship is the only thing that makes it work. And among the third that loved a girl, less than a third of those girls loved him back. So... I'd guess 1 in 10 average guys ever experience mutual love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 04:32 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Average men want relationships because they can't get sex regularily, and even a bad relationship is a serious upgrade from the irregularity of being average and single. Attractive men, on the other hand, can sleep around when single, and find a girl they're attracted to who has a similar sex drive to themselves to ensure their happiness. Why do they stay? They're in love, and have a good sex life. Or -- in the case of a bad sex life -- they stay because they had children, or stay because they d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 01:51 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Attractive men do get sex on a regular basis, if they desire to. And that's my point. If they stay in a low sex relationship and are unhappy about their lack of sex -- but stay out of love -- that's hardly because they don't have options. Attractive men without options are a small minority, as we both agree. The "So you admit that there are men in relationships for love, and not sex?" comment really irked me -- because it implied that the attractive men would have less sex in their relationship …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/16 12:50 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Which means that they DO get sex on a regluar basis. If they want to have sex. (Asexuality, deviant type of -philia)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/16 06:12 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? I doubt many men with a normal or high libido would stay with a girl they loved, if they didn't have sex. Blowjobs and handjobs may be considered sex, for the purpose of keeping the man entertained without a good old fashioned fucking, but not necessarily in all cases. Love + Sex: Great. Sex - Love: Good enough. Love - Sex: Bad. And why would some attractive men not get attention from women? * Geographic isolation * Working 24/7 at a male-dominated workplace * Hobbies every day after male-domina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/16 06:42 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? a) Love b) Good sex and a great friendship c) Responsibility d) Isolation and/or lack of attention from other women e) They don't want to risk losing what they've got f) They're raised to be monogamous, or have a desire to not have many sexual partners g) They're actually genuinely a great person, and want the relationship to work, because they care for their partner and their partner's life through the intimate bonding they've had with the person throughout their relationship h) They've already…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/16 06:53 PM
1	"There is nothing I can say to you that will magically make you not a bitch" -GayLubeOil "Sitting on your ass and reading an online forum isn't going to do that for you." Oh fuck.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/16 01:39 PM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Men are in exclusive relationships because that's the only reliable way for them to get sex with a woman they find somewhat attractive, at regular intervals. Until SHE breaks up, that is; Because she can force a man to make her feel loved in exchange for sex at will without being in a relationship, or just have casual sex, or have a man pay for dinner if she's hungry, or have a guy pay for all her drinks if she's thirsty. Anything an average single woman wants, she gets it. While an average man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/16 11:23 PM