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My first thought was "Awesome, you delivered". My second thought was "AWESOME, it was a success". I hope this experience will aid you in getting the rest of that sexual satisfaction out there waiting for you. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/05/14 11:38 AM
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We're going to need an update in this.
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:05 AM
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I'm feeling the same as you. Facebook is a brilliant method of organising events for you and your mates. Sure, I couldn't give a flying fuck about half of the people on my friends list most of the time but for the ones I enjoy spending time with it gives us far more chances to interact. And how would I be able to keep in contact with mates on the other side of the world? The video is just attacking over-consumption, and if you know anything about moderation, it won't affect you.
/r/seduction04/05/14 01:28 AM
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I'm also a little confused right now. I'd probably need the original article/post for context but here goes: It could be related to role-playing. Like complimenting a girl you just met by saying 'that's why I married you'. EXAMPLE: During a moment of good rapport you could say something like: "Remember our wedding night? Even after such an exhausting day we were just so hot for each other. I ripped your panties off and just buried my face between your thighs. Do you remember, baby? You were moan…
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:48 AM
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I know if I was a girl that would get me wet. Another piece of advice I've read about is saying that stuff in the past tense. Before you do anything describe it as if you already have. I think it was recommended because it is easier for her to visualize.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:15 AM
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Do you mind me asking where it went? Did you give him your number or meet up with him? Would you like to?
/r/seduction13/03/14 12:54 AM
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That's why I decided to pick up trying to dance like a female stripper. Sexy hip movements, 'droppin it like it's hot', body rolls and all that fun stuff. I often try to teach them some of this stuff but most are too embarrassed to try. I suppose I should start with easy moves first. I do like your idea of bringing them into the spotlight with you once they're comfortable because if you pull it off that is some insane rapport building.
/r/seduction25/01/14 01:27 AM
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Also, your choice to use 'cause instead of because was not congruent for a formal sentence.
/r/seduction21/01/14 10:33 PM
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See now I consider myself a good dancer compared to most of the people I ever meet in a club. To the point where I can be intimidating. While I love to let myself loose, take up a lot of room and feel the music (and I could do this for an hours). I struggle to actually dance with anyone that isn't already my mate. While I agree that dancing can demonstrate high value... I've never really felt it work for me. Have you any good examples of its practical application? For now I will attempt what OP …
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:20 AM
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This is very good advice. I often found myself thinking 'I really want a girl with a scorching hot body... but would a woman like that settle for a lanky kid like myself? ' The thought process definitely helped motivate me into trying to gain weight.
/r/seduction20/10/13 01:27 PM
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This comment chain made me smile, it was such a nice resolution to the discussion.
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:31 PM
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OP must deliver.
/r/seduction06/09/13 04:31 AM
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If this isn't your style of game then it won't be congruent. Yes, in that case it will come off as creepy. However, if a passionate, no-bullshit, lust-filled relationship is what you want, perhaps this method could help you attract those kinds of women. More importantly it will have you perceived as the kind of man that doesn't blend in and doesn't believe that what he wants is only available in a fantasy realm. If that is the sort of man you want to become then it isn't unreasonable to mold you…
/r/seduction17/08/13 02:33 AM
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I very nearly used this from Mystery Method on my latest girl: "Do you want to kiss me?" Yes = Kiss Maybe/silence/hesitation = Kiss No = "It just looked like you had something on your mind" Only reason I didn't was I forgot, then at a later time a better opportunity came up and it wasn't necessary.
/r/seduction18/06/13 01:21 PM
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You delivered quickly, cheers.
/r/seduction18/06/13 01:13 PM
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Where would be the best place to find it? I remember looking a while ago and it was difficult. Any suggestions?
/r/seduction18/06/13 12:35 PM
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'Cool story, bro.'
/r/seduction08/04/13 02:55 AM
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Damn OP, good work on this thread. Not only do I appreciate the original content, but your replies are fantastic. This one in particular was just perfect.
/r/seduction22/03/13 12:37 PM
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Great... Now everyone on the train thinks I'm a weirdo
/r/seduction12/02/13 04:51 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSzOXtXm8p0 [0:30]
/r/seduction15/10/12 12:16 PM
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What is with all the downvotes for OP? This seems perfectly reasonable to me. What jobs33ker is saying sounds pretty defeatist. While I respect his point of view and it is far from unreasonable, I don't understand why OP is getting flak for defending himself. Maybe it has to do with saying 100% and you haven't given any room for error, reddit hates that shit.
/r/seduction16/09/12 03:42 AM
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17/f/chicago
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:38 AM
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Too often though these kind of efforts are in vain, he really needs to be motivated by himself and not solely rely on you for information. I hope your efforts spark that motivation. Worst case scenario: Teaching someone else is always beneficial in assisting your learning. And that... doctor, is why I talk to myself.
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:27 AM
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Only way I see it is if he already had tight inner game, still within moderation and jokingly, not a whole conversation... >.<
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:21 AM
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When you listed what you are on paper, I thought: "This guy is me". But when you listed what you will make her feel by being 'THAT GUY!' I thought: "This guy is my role model" The fact that I'm still a virgin and you may as well be swimming in pussy by comparison, just highlights the fact that looking good on paper doesn't mean shit. I won't give her my resume; instead upper-management (or should i say lower-management) will be telling her to hire me on the spot!
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:59 AM
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I'm curious as to the quality of your current friends. I'm pretty sure most guys won't have any trouble being attracted to girls, they just need to be attractive and sexy women to begin with. I'd suggest widening your social circles. I came from relatively small school and it sucks having only 3 girls that are any decent and if you don't develop early enough as a man, you're stuck in the friend zone with all of them.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:05 AM
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I've accidentally started playing this with friends. Needless to say it turns into some strangely intimate moments... Once someone caves and you learn your lesson, you both become socially awkward and avoid eye contact with one another at all costs. Speaking of which it can be quite amusing to hold a conversation without once looking at someone's face.
/r/seduction23/08/12 07:51 AM
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Yeah you seem to know enough mate, I suppose it'd be nice if someone with some experience picking up the top end of the HBs could lend some insight. From what i can tell it all looks good so far with her though.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:18 PM
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Yeah that always sucks. Right now I want to find a wing that is committed to at least reading some material and actually giving it a shot (I'm doubtful of how committed my friends are). Otherwise someone who is decent and can mentor me would be damn awesome! Anywhosal, have a good one mate.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:22 PM
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Nah mate I'm actually progressing quite well, inner game has improved a shit load, getting some numbers, just can't find good times to organise dates. I appreciate the shove though mate. :D
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:01 PM
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Forgive me if I'm using the term incorrectly, but I'm just saying I still have relatively little experience, especially in gaming girls that tend to get hit on a lot. My comment just describes things that should theoretically work based on the things I've read. I'm being an 'Armchair PUA' here because I'm telling OP to do things I haven't exactly tested myself.
/r/seduction20/08/12 11:48 AM
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Just don't be like all the other guys oogling over her. Do not put her on a pedestal. Be the guy who leads the conversation with everyone else and do not look to her for validation, almost ignore her. Try and make sure you are talking to women in these situations, the more and hotter the better. I will admit to being an armchair pua here and gladly submit to anyone with more experience.
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:55 AM
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Just #closed a girl this weekend on the train. Basically, I chickened out from AA and didn't approach this one girl (she was a little older and that was my limiting belief), and as I did the walk of shame and took a seat, it just so happened to be in front of a girl my age. Before I even knew what she looked like (cute) I smiled, said 'Hey, how's your day been?' (Genuinely), she took out her earphones and I was golden for the next 25 mins. The parts that made the difference here were: No hesitat…
/r/seduction07/08/12 01:48 PM
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When they say 'you use this on all the girls', what is your usual response? Agree and amplify? Awesome routine BTW.
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:04 AM
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Your response to that sort of shit test?
/r/seduction06/08/12 07:41 AM
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This. Women who actually know how to move their body. Coordination is so damn sexy!
/r/seduction05/08/12 09:34 AM
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So what is your take on telegraphing interest too early?
/r/seduction05/08/12 09:15 AM
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... ok screw it... Did you actually eat the cheeseburger???
/r/seduction04/08/12 03:22 PM
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merry cakeday :D
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:52 PM
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To expand on: the ability to express oneself correlates with the ability to pick up women. Being a good storyteller is a characteristic of the PUA because they must be able to entertain anyone at any time to be successful. They learn how to tell a good story and combined with the inspiration of picking up girls, they can write these awesome field reports.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:17 AM
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Non-smoker but I'm pretty sure it's $18 a pack in Aus.
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:08 PM
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Damn that seemed to escalate quickly.
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:26 PM
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I like to pride myself on dressing well formally. I bought a couple of bow ties online, tie up ones that I'd learned how to do properly. I just found that they didn't work all that well (had the suit and dinner shirt as well), and they seemed to be far surpassed in look by just a nice skinny tie. I'm a tall, lanky teenager. Suggestions? Or should I work on really dressing the part with a fedora or something to really catch their eyes?
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:31 AM
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Within my group of friends (final year of high school), there are women in this group too, I'm sort of that guy who is very open and objective about sex, weird considering I've still got my V-card, i.e. we were talking on a bus when my friend reminded me that the topic I was talking about (The Grafenberg Spot/G-Spot) could have been borderline sexual harassment considering there were other people on the bus. Often I try and move the conversation in that direction just for fun and the pursuit of …
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:14 AM
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EYE SEA EET
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:58 AM
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Thank you for the clarification
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:07 AM
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That lip bite is DAMN SEXY! Question... do women find this nearly as attractive when guys do it?
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:48 AM
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Very good question, I'm intrigued also. My understanding though is that a value statement is made in an we're-already-friends manner; you have no need to impress your current friends so there is no need to impress them. Assume they already know who you are, i.e. "I go to the gym twice a week right, and when I was there last week..." versus "When I was at the gym last week..." Both mean that you look after your body, one is telling, the other is implying. One is needy and validation seeking (qual…
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:48 AM
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As have I. It just seems like it'd be painful for the neck, especially for extended periods. Upon further analysis, this is entirely possible considering they can twist from the abdomen. I retract my previous statements... but the alliteration stays, I was proud of that.
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:45 PM
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Wouldn't staring into one's eyes be dubiously difficult during doggy? (bonus points right there for alliteration)
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:16 PM
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Just for future reference, next time you're DD try and frame it as some sort of superhero. If played right it could keep you out of the 'sweet' zone, making you fun even though you're sober... Never tried this yet but sounds good.
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:11 PM
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For some reason reading this got me excited for waiting in line and just cold opening strangers.
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:31 AM
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You seem very deflated from reading this. I'm pretty sure you know what you need to do, you need to just get out of the comfort zone and start talking to anyone. This concept is stolen from theapproachmachine: RISK IT. It is worth the risk to start the conversation, often we talk ourselves out of situations with high gain and minimal risk. We imagine a greater risk so that we can logically talk ourselves out of it and take the easy road. Don't let this habit own you. As for coffee shops, I see n…
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:27 AM
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I regard myself as a pretty good dancer - the white guy that can dance - in mostly hip hop, popping and some bboying. Also I've learnt some VERY basic salsa... So I'm looking to meet women comfortable with their body, or who at least know their body (bad coordination is a pet peeve of mine that extends to myself and everyone I know). So what better way than learning some sexy dancing? From this I gather Swing and Salsa are the way to go... anyone have some more recommendations or advice on danci…
/r/seduction13/06/12 06:06 AM
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Sounds like my sort of style, I'll take it!
/r/seduction03/06/12 02:02 PM
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BAHAHAHAHA! Beautiful freeze out when she leaves after the "Ms. Devout Christian" comment. I really need to remember this shit!
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:55 PM
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I laughed my ass off at the number you got
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:46 PM
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Damn, I really need to get myself out there. And good job mate, it's awesome to hear the success stories.
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:41 PM
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From what i've read it sounds like a good idea to take her on an 'adventure', try and bounce her to as many places as possible, if you just have one conversation in the one room for hours, it doesn't seem nearly as memorable or adventurous as if you take her all over the place. I'm yet to put this in practice, but sounds good in theory at least.
/r/seduction22/05/12 09:52 AM
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you can't just be going in there with your dick in your hands
/r/seduction22/05/12 09:15 AM
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When preparing for a speech, at least if I was nervous I would make a mild grunt in the right tone first. Probably can't really be slotted in when someone is waiting for a reply and it'd probably seem fake. But it might help for example before approaching. Also some reading on voice resonance I found on seductionbase the other day that I found interesting and highly amusing when practised.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:15 PM
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Hey baby... you got parking? cus I want to PARK MY CAR!
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:54 PM
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I can't remember if I saw it on seddit or while reading 'The game'. It sort of reminded me of Juggler's style so I found this which covers the concept.
/r/seduction20/05/12 08:14 AM
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BAM! False time constraint right there too, you can even make a good joke about doing the pee pee dance.
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:14 AM
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It still sounds a lot like an interview with tons of questions though. I remember reading somewhere about making provocative statements. ie. Instead of asking: Do you believe in reincarnation? Say My cat is the living embodiment of Richard Nixon. Still I need some practice in making this work and keeping it interesting.
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:02 AM
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This sounds a bit morally insensitive, I think more appropriate questions could be: How many of you guys are married, yet still give advice and participate on seddit? Does your wife approve of the PUA community? After finding a good LTR, do you frown upon some PUA concepts? That being said I just feel OP's question was too closed and could only be answered by the very few.
/r/seduction20/05/12 03:54 AM
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Very good to know for future reference, ALWAYS hang out with two honey bunnies if invited :D
/r/seduction20/05/12 02:25 AM
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I've heard that you should do as little questioning as possible. So as to avoid an interview scenario. As a curious afterthought, this interview scenario, though somewhat awkward would work great for receiving TONS of qualification. If played right you can get her to qualify why she deserves the right to give you her number. Thoughts?
/r/seduction20/05/12 02:21 AM
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I was thinking about that, so definitely ruled out anything but a #close, and after camp she wouldn't be a person with responsibility any more. Even throughout the activities she was more of just assistance anyway, I doubt she would've seen me as just a child. Thanks for the input though :)
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:30 AM
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I know right. We started talking about one of my mates, but then she realised he had black socks on and just couldn't bare the topic any longer XD
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:28 AM
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Just means 'anyway' or 'back to the point'... saw some guy on youtube say it once, I laughed and it has been ingrained into my vocabulary ever since.
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:00 PM
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See i like this response because it is straightforward :)
/r/seduction12/05/12 09:13 AM
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Sounds like so much fun to go sarging with mates... Also props to Red_Alt for 59 straight. :D Edit: Or should i say 60?
/r/seduction02/05/12 12:51 PM
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You are an oak tree.
/r/seduction27/04/12 06:37 AM
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Excellent gaming analogy. At least this small interaction helped build some healthy momentum for the rest of the day. I am attempting to interact with more strangers everyday and I need to make this a new habit. Thanks for the advice :) Edit: Also are you ever worried that a stranger is thinking you're hitting on them even when that isn't your intention? ie. you are just trying to make conversation with anyone.
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:40 AM
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This sounds so sweet, have you found any problems in doing this? Such as a negative response? (just like to add this is probably a huge contributor to approach anxiety in most guys, or at least in me, just fear of overstepping boundaries) Also do you have any lead up to it? Eye contact, body language, or is it just sort of walk right up and hug like a boss with no warning?
/r/seduction25/04/12 11:50 AM
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