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| 1 | Advice is appreciatedGreat advice ☝️ | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Advice is appreciatedYour self awareness is awesome brother and is the only way we have a choice to do anything about it.. our vibe/state is all about momentum which is why you do better as you build momentum after you get there.. so all you need to do is get yourself in a really good mood before you go and you’re good.. for all of us it’s different but for me I’ll usually blast some music and get exited for the possibility of a girl I don’t even know exists right now coming home with me tonight, just the possibilit… | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Do y’all escalate stuff with a girl if you only want sex but she’s clearly looking for something more?Yes. I am clear about what I want (to have fun) and what I don’t want (a relationship) and if she stills wants to hang out with me I’m for sure escalating towards sex as quickly as possible.. if you are this honest and straight forward and you’re approaching different girls, you will always meet girls who are down for this and some will not be, all good either way.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for inspiration,(none of these girls were down lol) https://youtu.be/lT_1ZJQPGH8 … | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 07:16 PM |
| 0 | I don't know what I'm doing wrongWhenever I get “rejected” (it means nothing to me so I put in quotes lol) I always immediately think the next girl I talk to may be the next girl I hookup w/ the same day I meet her and I am really excited to talk to the next girl.. make sure you’re not creating a story about all this stuff that is messing up your vibe, and make sure you have fun with it all brother.. remember there’s 7.7 billion people on earth, it’s like a treasure hunt lol.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for added… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Infatuation and the difficultiesIt’s cool that you allow the energy to go here brother but in my opinion you definitely want to continue approaching other girls and setting up additional options so you don’t overwhelm one girl too quickly w/ your attention/energy.. on the other hand if you’re looking for a LTR which it sounds like you might be, you can and will attract a girl that loves nothing more than all the loving energy you give and the more you choose to give this energy to her the better.. there are plenty of girls who… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:07 AM |
| 2 | How to ask out my ex's earlier flatmate?Simple brother just invite her out as close to today as humanly possible.. I would save all the catching up/vibing with her for the date, and you already have an in w/ this girl and if she’s matching with you and agreeing to go out w/ you it’s very very likely you can hookup w/ her that night if that’s what you want.. here’s a new daygame video that turned into an all day instant date, for some added 1st date conversation inspiration.. have fun with it all, sending you positive vibes bro! https:… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:00 AM |
| 2 | [Screenshot Included] Should I ask this girl next week when she's free? Or should I move on?Do whatever you’re inspired to do brother, curious though what’s up w/ the “rules” if you’re both vibing and want it to go there, stopping the energy can definitely cause a negative feeling within the girl if she gets excited to go there with you.. like I said it’s all good either way you do what you’re inspired to.. I know for me personally I have definitely not wanted to hang out w/ girls again if we were both feeling the physical/sexual energy and she stops the flow because of a rule.. Not sa… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Im curious if anybody has propositioned multiple girls back to back in front of eachother?This is a great question.. the key is keeping your vibe/swag regardless of the outcome.. I try and do it based off proximity if I’m equally attracted to both, that way it just looks like I stopped at the first girl because I was walking past her first, then it’s to your advantage because if you don’t now say something and she saw you speak to the other girl, it’s like why’d he talk to her and not to me.. ideally brother you can approach both not within sight of each other but like I said I’ve be… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?If I were you brother I would escalate faster “strike while the iron is hot” when I approach girls if my schedule allows I always am going for the instant date “what are you doing now?” and I have a place already figured out to invite her to have a drink w/ me.. if not right now finding out what she’s doing tonight.. most of the time if the girl is in to me she’ll give me a day she is free if she’s not free now/tonight.. and if she doesn’t I’m figuring out her schedule with her while I am in fro… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Starting to approach, and staying accountable? Should I hire a coach?Before you hire anyone, take advantage of some free resources, I have been posting daygame video every day for the past 85 days straight on YouTube.. hundreds of approaches, let me know if you have any questions.. here’s the newest one I posted today, approaching a hot 20 yr old blonde on the beach and I spent the rest of the day (and night :) with her.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some Dead giveaways that a woman is single?When you ask her and she says that she is. To each their own but I approach and eventually ask EVERY girl that I am attracted to, because none of us truly know until we ask.. this has been a successful strategy for me for YEARS and I always ask with a smile and immediately reply with “very good” with an even bigger smile which for me immediately escalates things and I keep escalating from there.. here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration,( I didn’t know if this hot blonde was single until… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Hello madafuckers, please post you success stories here 👇These comments will be fun to read, I’m rooting for every one of you! I just posted a new daygame video which was a HUGE success story for me.. this is my absolute favorite type of girl, hot, fun, 20 yr old blonde, and we vibed together all day (and into the night :) sending positive vibes to all! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Should I just leave dating alone and just go for prostitutes weekly instead. Very unsuccessful with dating.Brother first and foremost you MUST change your story if you’re ever going to attract what you want in life. “Can’t get fish if you aren’t given a rod and bait” If that’s your story that will be your reality. And that goes for every part of life.. there are 7.7 billion people on the planet and EVERYONE is someone else’s type including you, and to make things even better, even girls who thought you would never ever be their type will be attracted to you if you shift your story/vibe/energy/mood/et… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Unmatching on tinder?Haha that’s the beauty of it.. I’m always at home doing nothing when I message them but if they’re down to hang out I get ready real quick and I’m inviting them somewhere walking distance to me lol. Sometimes I’m even at the gym and I say “I’m on the pool deck” lol I’ll quickly go home and shower and all good 👍 | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Unmatching on tinder?I say the same thing EVERY time lol. Me: Hi Sally How’s your day? (I send as a separate second message) Her: Good thanks and you? Me: Happy to hear, mine is great also thanks.. (second message) I’m outside on the pool deck right now enjoying the breeze with a glass of wine, want to join? (if I didn’t have a pool deck to have drinks on I’d replace with I’m at (any bar closest to my house) having a drink, want to join? My point is I’m ALWAYS doing something right now and inviting her, meaning I’m … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm 15 years old, should I care about dating?There’s no “should’s or should nots” brother.. you either want to or not and it sounds like you do which is awesome.. have fun with it all and keep approaching! Here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration for you, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I persist with this girl or leave it beI would just tell her, all good the balls in your court, enjoy your weekend.. (completely unattached to whether she messages you or not) then most importantly approach someone other girls and give yourself lots of additional options and if this girl does message you back it’s a bonus. Here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it even possible to hook up through tinder anymore?Just answered a similar tinder question above.. I personally am only on tinder if I’m trying to hang out with a girl that night.. so I message right away and try to set up the instant date/meetup.. tinder for me is like a bonus round of approaching girls I may not ever see in real life.. I am always super unattached to the outcome because I’m approaching so many girls in real life, which is always my advice on how to play online dating.. have lots of real world options and you’ll play online rea… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Loss of game after relationship?It’s like riding a bike brother, assuming you’ve known how to ride in the past, you just need to get back on and start riding and you’ll get better and better like all of the rest of us.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for added inspiration.. have fun with it all, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/Gvwl08jWIyQ | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Unmatching on tinder?I personally am only on tinder if I’m trying to hang out with a girl that night.. so I message right away and try to set up the instant date/meetup.. tinder for me is like a bonus round of approaching girls I may not ever see in real life.. I am always super unattached to the outcome because I’m approaching so many girls in real life, which is always my advice on how to play online dating.. have lots of real world options and you’ll play online really well always, having fun while be unattached … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How to take rejection?I always smile and say have a good day.. check out this new daygame video in Miami Beach, there’s several girls in this video who “reject” me.. all good I’m always on to the next and my advice to anyone is after every “rejection” expect the next one to potentially hookup with you that day which of course is the complete opposite of rejection.. this gets me really excited for the possibility and it has actually happened way more times than I can count.. have fun with it all, sending you positive … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | A problem loopThis shift in perspective I think will be very helpful for you brother.. the point of game isn’t to get any girl you want, the point is to play the game as good as you can possibly play it that day in that moment, and you can be ok with the results either way.. Even Michael Jordan, Lebron James, every human that has ever walked the earth, has missed shots, lost games, didn’t always win championships. But just like them if we just continue to put in the work and enjoy the process, we will have A … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Y’all nikkas really outchea like that?Do whatever you’re inspired to do bro.. I’m equal opportunity.. doesn’t matter if she’s online or in the real world, if I’m attracted I’m approaching 💯 | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Y’all nikkas really outchea like that?“I don’t want a reputation” is just one of the many excuses we’ve all used with ourselves to not approach a girl, the same as “people don’t hit on girls in public anymore” we’ve all been there and have come up with reasons why not to approach, but for me personally the “what if I would have said something?” feels way worse than anything else that could be said or done by this girl or anyone else.. as long as you’re always cool and don’t seem attached to the results when you’re approaching these … | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | A problem loopYou approach other girls so you have additional options so you’re not thinking about this one all the time.. super easy to give space when you always are approaching and have other options.. here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/nzrtBhvBUGk | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | New to all of this, but would like to keep it simple & straight forward?Tbh though even if I wanted a LTR I personally would still ask this and I did every time even back when I was looking for and got into a LTR. No right or wrong way brother, for me it just helps things escalate quicker.. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | New to all of this, but would like to keep it simple & straight forward?It all depends on what you want brother, which is by far the most important thing, get clear on that and then you decide if that’s too straight forward or not.. I’m personally trying to have fun sexual experiences with these girls as close to right now as humanly possible, so everything I say and do is with that in mind.. what is it that you want? And thanks for the support on the video I appreciate it ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Best way to ask a girl out on a Thursday?My advice is start trying to iron out all of those logistical things if possible in person first.. go for the instant date, “what are you doing now?” Find out what she’s doing tonight.. I like to escalate quickly, it just makes everything so much easier in my experience.. so now with her I’d still find out what’s your day look like, you want to meet for coffee (are you guys under age? My preference is to always get alcohol involved if possible lol) typically when I ask to hang out today they’ll … | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls I am attracted to on my course. Is asking out/flirting a bad idea?Everything you just said is always a good idea (girlfriend part is just personal preference), enjoy the journey brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m only attracted to Italian American girls...I like Italian girls also brother and also every other type of girl lol.. if you want to be that specific you have to get creative and find local meetups or Italian bars/restaurants etc. hopefully you live in an area where there is a large Italian population or you may be super limited.. here’s a daygame video for added inspiration, I met this beautiful Italian tattoo artist on the beach and spent the rest of the day with her.. have fun with it all and remember we always attract what we expect a… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:35 PM |
| 2 | New to all of this, but would like to keep it simple & straight forward?“Hey I saw you over here and wanted to come over and say hello (smile).. (get name, from, etc) after this I personally always ask if they’re single with a smile on my face which for me escalates things.. when they say yes I say very good.. usually find out what they’re doing now/tonight if I’m free (I already have an instant date plan in my mind ready to invite them to) since in your example if you’re already at a cafe you could have instant date there if you’re vibing but if she’s with a friend… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Girls I am attracted to on my course. Is asking out/flirting a bad idea?The best time in my opinion is the first time you have a chance to.. have fun with it and don’t be attached to the outcome.. then all the girl will ever know about you regardless of the result is that is the cool guy who saw me, went for what he wanted, and was cool with me either way whether I was interested or not.. I had so many girls in college I did this with who weren’t interested or not available (many were interested also lol) but either way they would come up to me and give me big hugs … | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Been with 100+ women, 6 years of seduction pua shit... but never really had the balls to do much daygame. Looking to change that any tips?Hey brother.. it’s easier than you think.. just be in a really good mood/vibe/energy and have fun/be playful with it.. once you are in conversation you sound like you’re already skilled at escalating so all you have to do is focus on the initial approach.. I have probably shown more daygame than any human on the internet in the last few months and all I’m doing is having fun, saying whatever pops in my mind, and escalating when I’m feeling the vibe from the girl I’m talking to.. my goal is alway… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?Brother for me the feeling of “what if I would have said something to her?” feels WAY WORSE than anything a girl can say or do when I approach.. so my advice is approach everyone you are attracted to.. if you’re in a good mood/energy/vibe and are playful with it not being attached to the outcome either way, you will never come off as a creep.. you will come off as the fun guy who went after what he wanted and wasn’t attached to the outcome either way.. because that’s who you are. Approach whoeve… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked a while ago and made out with a few days ago texted me saying « when are you gonna make me food »Nice.. if you want to do it do it if you don’t don’t.. I always ask myself what feels most fun/exciting in the moment so if it’s something you enjoy all good, just don’t feel like you’re obligated (we never are) just because you mentioned it a while back.. I’m not sensing you want a relationship with this girl so definitely keep approaching other girls and having plenty of options.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I have invited her home?You played it exactly the way I would have played it.. if a girl doesn’t kiss me and gives me the cheek, I try and continue to vibe with her and I’ll find out playfully asking “so you’re a “good” girl?” Lol. Anytime I get the cheek I let the girl know I only have 1 addiction, seeing how good life/my energy can feel.. vibing/talking with you feels great, so when I try and kiss you it’s me asking how can this moment vibing w/ you feel even better? I’ll listen close to her reply and this is all ver… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys control your fear?Only approach when you know you have a good vibe/energy/mood and then just have fun with it saying whatever pops in your mind, being cool with her either way regardless of the outcome.. this way whether she’s someone you’ll never see again or not, her only impression of you was the guy that was cool, went after what he wanted, and his vibe was it’s all good either way.. my advice is approach the next chance you get when you know your vibe is on point and have fun with it all.. here’s a new dayga… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 04:03 AM |
| 12 | Your “vibe” is a reflection of your inner state-of-mind. Don’t skip the inner-game, it’s just as important as outer-game (if not more)💯!and VERY IMPORTANT, our vibe is ONLY in the moment, doesn’t matter what it “usually” is.. and we’re all human so the key is not to be perfect, the key is to be self aware, and awareness gives us the choice to change.. great post brother, here’s a daygame video I just posted in Miami Beach, Florida and the ONLY thing I’m focused on is my vibe, whether the girl is down with me or not (several girls in this video are not lol 🤷🏽♂️)sending everyone positive vibes! https://youtu.be/TfetHsF8R-I | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | No problem approaching, just don't know what to sayEverything in life is challenging, until it isn’t brother.. walking was challenging, talking, etc.. the key is to have the desire to get better, believe and know that you are improving with each attempt, and have fun with it all having 0 attachment to the results. The results you seek are seeking you 💯✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | No problem approaching, just don't know what to sayThe %’s don’t matter and there’s no real way to calculate this lol.. You need both, without the approach there is no conversation, without the conversation there is no escalation, and without escalation there is only masturbation 🤷🏽♂️ (these bars were inspired by the Shaq vs Dame dis tracks that just came out today 🔥) | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | No problem approaching, just don't know what to say*90% of the way there.. Just a random number close to 100% encouraging him since he is doing a great job of going up to approach.. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:37 PM |
| 3 | No problem approaching, just don't know what to sayYou’re 90% of the way there brother .. my advice is just have more of a plan of where you want the interaction to go with her.. for me I want to know 1. Who you are 2. Are you visiting or do you live here 3. How long are you here/how long have you been here 4. Are you single/available I always assume if they’re single that they’re interested in hanging out with me (whether they are or aren’t we’ll soon find out lol) And personally I like to escalate things very quickly, seeing what they’re doing… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 07:48 AM |
| 9 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.Congrats brother.. keep enjoying the journey ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 07:37 AM |
| 1 | I fear women I give them too much power and I put the pu*** on a pedestal how can I stopHappy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | I fear women I give them too much power and I put the pu*** on a pedestal how can I stopWe all start somewhere brother.. we stop putting pussy on a pedestal when we realize there are billions of pieces out in the world, and some will be down with us and some won’t.. the only way we know which is which is by approaching them and finding out.. if/when we can get to the point where the result doesn’t matter to us because there are so many pieces in the world then we can just have fun with it all, approach when we have the chance and get better and better as we go.. this was the proces… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Not Sure How to Move this ForwardMy personal advice brother is to escalate much faster if you are looking to hook up with this girl.. (if that’s your goal) what was stopping you the first or second time you hung out? We’re all different so maybe you’re looking for something different, but if you are looking to have sex with this girl I would go for the close the next time you hang out for sure.. I personally only do no contact if I don’t care if I hang out with them anymore or not, I will reply back to them though.. and this is… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?I can only speak for me but almost everything I do is centered around me having as much fun as possible and enjoying the only moment truly guaranteed to any of us, right now.. and for me being with a beautiful girl is by far the most fun.. but like I said I can only speak for me, we’re all so different ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | How do I get myself in the mood to talk to girls?Great question.. the answer is we’re all different so what works for me may not work for you.. I like going to the gym, listening to loud music, etc helps me get in a better mood.. I like looking at hot chicks on IG and getting turned on to go outside and meet someone that gets me going like that.. most important for you brother is to find what works for you, find some parts of life that you appreciate no matter what they are, and then use that energy when you’re approaching women.. this is my s… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?There is a lot of life lessons shared in this subreddit by many different people looking to help, and I also think it’s very entertaining and also inspirational to see people winning/evolving in their personal lives.. if you can’t find anything that you enjoy about it then I think you answered your own question, if there is something you enjoy, keep your popcorn 🍿ready and enjoy the show.. here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration to you or anyone else that wants it, sending you positive … | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I lowered my standards and had sex with an overweight girl just so that I could have sex with 3 different girls in a rowTo each their own brother but yes as long as there’s humans on earth real life approaches will always be a thing lol. Basically what you’re saying is every girl you see that you’re attracted to when you’re out in the world you have a 0% chance of smashing unless she is on the dating apps you use.. for me brother the dating apps are a fun bonus round of girls who I may never run into in person.. if I ever see a girl I’m attracted to it’s mandatory for me to say hello and see if she’s down with me… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I next this girl?Happy to help.. all that matters is you’re clear on what you want and if the girl is down great, if not all good you’ll attract someone(s) who is. A little side tip if an older girl ever questions your age.. I’d say playfully “you know 19 is when guys are in their sexual prime right” wouldn’t use it with this girl unless she brings it up again but if it ever comes up, say it playfully, she’ll like it, escalate. 💯✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Texting advice? How do I keep the conversation engaging and her coming back for more?Personally I use text message to set up dates/logistics.. so if she’s saying she’s busy or wants you to wait, if I were you I would get really busy approaching other girls.. that way you have other options, and you can play the long game with this one, find out when she’s free and if she’s not ready to hang out/see you in person I’d just leave it in her hands for now while you focus on other girls.. if she comes around great, if not that’s ok too.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for a… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I next this girl?If I were you and I hadn’t hooked up with her yet and I wanted to, I would still try before I next her.. she’s just being playful and questioning herself as far as should she be trying to date a guy her age who’s probably more ready to settle down.. but who knows.. all that maters is if you still want to hook up with her, it’s time to escalate.. and in the future I would try to save all these type of text conversations for when you’re vibing in person.. I personally only use text to set up date/… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I lowered my standards and had sex with an overweight girl just so that I could have sex with 3 different girls in a rowJust have fun with it all brother, we live and we learn.. I think any of us who have had sex with lots of girls have had a few we’re not proud of and have learned from.. I personally had to make a pact with myself to never lower my standards because it feels shitty to me to have to ghost a girl that wants to hookup with me again when one time was more than enough for me.. or I’ve also been there where you were where you have to create some reason she has to go ASAP lol. Just keep approaching onl… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | When you see guys on YouTube approach women do they actually get anywhere with them?Miami Beach, Florida. 🏖 | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Advice / Tips for approaching a female in public (M/21)I love what you said about not being attached to the outcome/results brother.. if/when we get to this point we can truly have fun with it all and whether the girl is into us or not, we’ll leave a positive impression on her and things overall approaching and if life will work out very well for us.. With that said I personally approach every girl I’m attracted to because to me that feels way better than asking myself the question “what if I would have said something?” and I treat tinder and other … | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Approaching in a foreign country with a language I don't speakAll you can do is ask yourself is she worth the extra effort of using translator apps etc. Sometimes you won’t be down, and sometimes they won’t be down to do this.. sometimes you both will.. just approach like normal and have fun with it.. one of my early question when I spent a lot of time in Colombia was habla ingles? (with a smile on my face) here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach Florida where I had the exact situation and decision to make with a girl from Argentina. Enjoy yourself bro… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | "On a scale of 1-10 how attracted are you to me?"☝️💯 | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:05 AM |
| 0 | "On a scale of 1-10 how attracted are you to me?"No need to answer anymore specifically than “I’m either attracted to someone or I’m not, and you of course I am definitely attracted to” (if you are) Girls rarely if ever will ask that but that’s always my answer to anything even remotely related to ratings when I’m talking to a girl. Here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration for your upcoming approaches, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/e-T11uUlT4w | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:50 AM |
| 3 | When you see guys on YouTube approach women do they actually get anywhere with them?I’ll answer for me brother since I post approaches on YouTube right now as much as anyone.. When you talk to hundreds and hundreds of girls (even thousands) over time and many every day, some are down some aren’t, some are available some aren’t, some it’s a fun 30 second conversation, some I spend the rest of the day (and night with). I’ll be more specific here for you so you get the context you’re looking for.. This week so far I’ve hooked up with girls I’ve met that day for the first time 3 ou… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are guys almost always more available than girls?Brother when you talk to hundreds and hundreds over time and many every day, some care some don’t, some it’s a fun 30 second conversation, some I spend the rest of the day (and night with). I’ll be more specific here for you so you get the context you’re looking for.. I’ve hooked up with girls I’ve met that day for the first time 3 out of the 6 days this week so far.. I’m not doing anything special that anyone couldn’t do, it’s all fun, and I’m just doing what I love, attracting girls who want t… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | When is it serious?Every relationship between people is different. The only way to answer this question is most importantly get REALLY clear on what you want, and then ask your partner what is it that they’re looking for. Once you both know that, if it’s the same great, if it’s different you just have to ask yourself do I want to keep hanging out with this person because it’s fun, or any other reason.. if the answer is yes keep hanging out, if the answer is no the great news is there’s billions of other guys on th… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Am I blind?If I were you I would approach and bring home some other girls and she will make things even more obvious if she’s feeling you.. it’s definitely not ideal though to smash your roommates girl, if that isn’t kept a secret there will obviously be drama.. keep approaching other girls brother, here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/e-T11uUlT4w | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Best kiss close?My go to for YEARS has been vibe with them for 30-45 minutes or so, and after I’ve been vibing with them, I always have them stand in front of me if we’re standing, sitting if we’re sitting, towards anything nice to look at, and I’ll start massaging their shoulders while continuing the conversation (there’s almost no girls on the planet that don’t enjoy this whether you’re good at it or not, but I have had the .1% that don’t feel comfortable being touched and for those the rest of this doesn’t m… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are guys almost always more available than girls?Because they have a vagina and we don’t lol. For me it’s all about rapid escalation, I’m not waiting around days, weeks, months, to escalate.. if I approach you I want to hang out and hookup with you ideally, as soon as possible, today if possible. So the key is to escalate as much as she is down w/ while at the same time not being attached to the result/outcome.. if she’s not down to go for the ride all good, but that is always the direction I’m leading in.. have fun with it all.. here’s a new … | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How soon is too soon to ask a girl I’m friends with out on a date?There’s no right or wrong answer to this but my personal approach is to approach any girl I’m attracted to as soon as I get the chance.. doesn’t matter to me the result, I just want her to know I’m interested and I want to know if she’s down or not.. my advice at this point is to approach as soon as you have your next opportunity.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for some added approach inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/e-T11uUlT4w Edit: when I say approach… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | False Accusation Friday?Happy to help ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I now live with this girl I've known for years. How can I finally seduce her?Happy to help ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Can’t make eye contact with women and want to become a PUA any advice?It’s all about your vibe/mood/energy in the moment brother combined with life experiences.. we’ve all been fearful at one point and we’ve also all been in a great vibe “in the zone/flow” if we’ve allowed ourselves to do it long enough (more life experiences) you’re doing great to want to learn from people you feel have what you want, so just enjoy the journey, and always know the more fun you have with it all the better you will be.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added in… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | I now live with this girl I've known for years. How can I finally seduce her?If this much time has passed and you’ve tried making a move before brother I’d let it go and approach some other girls, let her see you bringing girls home and if she decides she wants to go for a ride on the train great lol if not all good too.. here’s a new daygame video for additional inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/zrCBBEBCUrI | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Is there some kind of magical formula in day game?Happy to help brother.. it has been the best thing I’ve ever stared doing and one of my favorite parts of life (because it leads to my absolute favorite part of life lol) some girls are down some aren’t, all good either way it’s all fun, I’ve posted 80 days in a row of daygame videos if you need additional inspiration .. enjoy the journey brother! | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Is there some kind of magical formula in day game?No magic and no right or wrong way brother. Here’s my personal steps.. 1. Be in a good mood/vibe/energy 2. Say whatever pops in your mind (could be as simple as “what’s your name or where you from?” or anything else that pops in your mind (say it with a smile) 3. Escalate (have a picture in your mind of where you want this interaction to go.. ie) instant date/ date later today, etc 4. Don’t be attached at all to the outcome 5. Learn from your experiences 6. Repeat 7. Have fun with it all brother… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 3 | False Accusation Friday?Bro you really want to get that out of your vibe/energy.. we attract what we worry about, and create the stories we continuously tell in life.. The ONLY thing that ever matters is your vibe/energy/mood and if you legit have a good vibe with her or any girl everything will always go drama free.. VERY IMPORTANT though, you must never be attached to the outcome with her or any girl for that matter. as far as if she hooks up with you or not.. if your vibe changes because you’re not getting what you … | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How to reframe negative thoughts?This will make things simple for you brother.. EVERY subject on the planet we think about in a certain way, some subjects we feel positive about, some subjects we feel negative about.. and the more we experience these subjects the more engrained in our thoughts and our energy/vibe how we feel about each subject (becomes a habit aka the “story” we tell about this subject) with that said if we find ourselves thinking/feeling negatively about any of the trillions of subjects on earth, we only have … | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 08:39 AM |
| 1 | How douchey is it to give a business card as a way of giving a girl your number? It made me feel weird but I felt like I had no alternativeDo what you do brother.. like I said there’s no right or wrong way to do any of this.. and this isn’t theory from me, I may show more approaches on the internet right now every day than any human on the planet, and it’s all fun to me.. just said and did the exact thing I suggested less than 24 hours ago and brought a beautiful 23 yr old blonde back to my house for some fun.. what you said is important though, but I’ll re word a little bit, anything we do if it’s going to bring success the way we… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Breaking the ice but unsure how to proceed from there? [Inexperienced with picking up]Happy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Need help with flirtingHappy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting a lot of dates, but they're not going wellHappy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Breaking the ice but unsure how to proceed from there? [Inexperienced with picking up]This is important brother and I see a lot of people worried about seeming “creepy” for talking to a girl.. get that thought out of your mind.. if you approach a girl in a fun playful mood talking about whatever pops in your mind to talk about, and still being fun and playful ask a girl if she’s single (to each their own on this but I always do to immediately let them know this isn’t just friendly small talk, I’m interested..) when they say yes I’m always like good with a smile on my face, and pe… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How douchey is it to give a business card as a way of giving a girl your number? It made me feel weird but I felt like I had no alternativeTo each their own but I ALWAYS ask if they’re single, it immediately makes it obvious that I’m not just here for small talk and I’m interested in you.. and I always ask with a smile and say “good” with a smile as soon as they say yes (already escalating) I like your approach in this scenario, and I’m the same way with a cute waitress it’s not an option for me to not say something.. the only thing I’d do differently because for starters I don’t carry business cards usually, is I’d be looking for … | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:25 AM |
| 10 | Need help with flirtingIt’s all about your vibe/mood in the moment brother.. to be playful with girls you must be in a playful mood.. so before you even leave your house before going out in the world do what you need to do to be excited for the day, watch something funny, listen to some music you like etc, and notice how much more fun you are with everyone around you when you are in a really good mood.. the second piece is not caring AT ALL what the outcome/result is of this conversation.. if/when you get to that poin… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Getting a lot of dates, but they're not going wellMy go to for YEARS has been vibe with them for 30-45 minutes or so (I don’t see anything wrong with your date strategy logistics wise) my only question is best case scenario if/when this escalates, where is the hookup spot you’re going to take them to? (if that’s what you want to happen) if your date spot is ideally walking distance of that hookup spot I say that’s a great spot.. now back to the escalation strategy.. after I’ve been vibing with them, I always have them stand in front of me in th… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | NEW DAYGAME VIDEO Miami Beach, Florida. (talking to🔥French, South African, and Turkish girls 🌍 )I don’t discriminate brother lol. Even if that was true and 90% were cray (I never generalize like that lol) that still would leave about 300,000 that are awesome 🤷🏽♂️😂 | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?Lol thx for the compliment.. there’s always someone better looking than us and there are LOTS of girls who I am not their type.. all any of us can do is be in the best vibe/mood/energy that we can, approach when we have a chance, and let the chips fall where they fall.. sending you positive vibes brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 03:54 AM |
| -2 | Girl with headphones advices besides leave her alone?I do this a lot at the gym and on the beach.. just make eye contact with them and start talking, 99% of the time they’ll take them off so they can hear you, and I usually say, “can you hear me with those things on?” (with a smile) then it’s a normal approach from there.. have fun with it brother, my advice is always approach anyone who you are attracted to, it’s way better to know who this girl is, etc, than the feeling of “what if I would have said something?” Here’s a new daygame in Miami Beac… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Keeping things casualI would say for me life is only in the moment and I appreciate the awesome moments we have shared together.. If/when you decide you want to vibe with me again, I’m down, sending positive vibes to you always either way.. And for you brother I already know you are, but definitely keep approaching other girls and giving yourself more options, and if/when this girl comes back around it will be a nice bonus.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach, Florida for added inspiration.. sending you pos… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?And when it comes to the “coincidental” breaks.. when she’s taking a break all of a sudden I am ready for a break too lol.. Its always great timing for me to talk to a hot girl 💯 | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Happy to help brother.. We all have this vibe/energy.. think about the times where you’re in a really good mood, when you’re extremely excited about something, we’re always more talkative and playful in those moments.. and when we have 0 attachment to the results/outcome, we can be this way, carefree, 0 fucks to give lol, just having fun with it all. Once we become aware that we can get to this vibe/energy/mood on purpose, whenever we choose, we’re unstoppable brother.. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?There’s no right or wrong answer brother but don’t over complicate it.. I personally approach girls I am attracted to anywhere on earth because for me that feels WAY better than wondering “what if I would have said something?” With that said the gym has been a prime hunting/approaching ground for me for years.. it’s all about timing, obviously don’t interrupt her set, but when you see she’s taking a break, approach.. I normally say, “I wanted to say what’s up/hello to you while we’re both taking… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Being direct in College bars/approach anxietyEveryone’s experienced approach anxiety at some point brother.. when I first started approaching my approach was as simple as 1. What’s your name? (said with a smile) 2. Where you from? (said with a smile) 3. You single? (said with a smile) It really hasn’t changed much years and years later.. The key regardless of what we’re saying though is our vibe/energy/mood. If you’re in a really good mood, being playful, having fun, and don’t care about the result/outcome of this approach, you’ll do reall… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find girls to date in London?Everywhere there are human beings brother.. if you see someone you’re attracted to approach.. sounds like you’re visiting which always makes you even more interesting when you’re approaching, and whether you are or aren’t, there are thousands of girls around you whenever you leave your place and go out into the world.. have fun with it.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach, Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/NFdLqD3hZ2Q | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:32 AM |
| 11 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?Brother it sounds like you’re giving lots of reasons and making lots of assumptions waiting to approach girls. You know when I always know if a girl is into me or not? After I approach her and give her a chance to be interested in me or not. The kiss, the hookup, the relationship, etc can only come after the approach. So if I were in your shoes I would start getting really excited about the possibility of your first kiss, relationship, etc and start approaching these girls, remembering ALL of us… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Advice!You just need to have an escalation plan brother.. I call it “going down the path” my path leads to a fun sexual experience, so if she decides to keep coming with me while I’m leading her down this path I already know what’s going down. So we have to start with the end in mind, where is this hook up going to take place? Once we have that figured out, you must do the most important 1st step which is the approach. So on my escalation plan/ my path I want to go somewhere I can vibe w/ her 1 on 1 th… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | changeThe first step to change is being self aware and then choosing to change from there.. so congrats in advance to you brother for being aware and making that choice.. it’s a journey for all of us, and the more fun you can have with the entire process starting now, the faster you will evolve into who you want to be, and of course you will enjoy yourself all along the way.. here is a new daygame video from Miami Beach, Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming Past Awkward ApproachesI’ve never heard of someone being proud of or excited about their nostrils, so that can only workout negatively or at best neutral for you.. I’m not suggesting at all you change how you are, and how you choose to interact with girls, however I am suggesting that once you do a good job of breaking the ice and you’re starting to have fun with the girls, just make sure you are escalating towards where you want things to go.. make sense? In your description it felt like you were breaking the ice, an… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I made an awkward impression what should I do to avoid such things in the near future?If you view her only as a friend then there doesn’t need to be any thought given to this at all.. you hung out w/ a friend for an hour, cool.. now if you want things to be more than friends and you’re attracted to her that’s a different story, then you want to be using that hour alone to be escalating with her towards where you want things to go with her (hookup, relationship, etc) I definitely wouldn’t be hard on yourself and the best way for any of us to strengthen our game is by approaching a… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming Past Awkward ApproachesEvery past experience is exactly that, a past experience, they don’t matter moving forward.. if you noticed things you said or did that felt weird or awkward, don’t do those things the next time.. I’m assuming your game is being the “funny guy” my question would be when do you switch it to escalating with the girl vs just joking around? But most important when it comes to your future approaches, make sure your vibe/energy/mood is on point, have an escalation plan, and have fun with it all.. here… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I cant say no to sex with next door neighborJust be honest with her brother, ideally when you’re both sober. If you’re honest and aren’t attached to the outcome either way (whether she wants to keep hanging out or not) then you’re good. And make sure you never support a girl just coming over without texting you first for permission (unless thats what you want to happen) what if you have another girl there, that is never all good w/ me but to each their own. I would definitely approach some more girls also and set up some additional option… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Problem with Transitioning Phone Numbers to Physical DatesHappy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Problem with Transitioning Phone Numbers to Physical DatesStart going for the instant date brother, strike while the iron is hot.. if I’m approaching someone I’m attracted to and the vibe is there, the possibility of me potentially hooking up with this girl tonight sounds WAY more fun than anything else I may be doing, so immediately I’m finding out what are you doing now? (obviously that has to be possible w/ your schedule, but if you have time to approach, many times you will have time to escalate right now) and if not now, I’m trying to hang out ton… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Need help in CollegeYou’re at an awesome time of life brother, an abundance of girls all around you.. My advice is always what I choose to do personally which is, the first time I have a legitimate chance to approach a girl I’m attracted to I do.. this way there is no question in my mind of “what if I would have said something?” And also the girl will always have a level of respect for you as long as you’re cool with her regardless of if she’s available or down or not.. and who knows what can happen in the future w… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I get girls to grind on me at clubs when I'm 5'3"?Everyone has a different type brother, and everyone is someone else’s type.. this is the beauty of sharing a planet w/ 7.7 billion people. The key for you is looking in the mirror and deciding to rock with what you got, change the things you can if you choose, and be excited to play the cards you were dealt.. this vibe will be felt by the girls you choose to approach and then regardless if they’re feeling you or not, you shot your shot when you had the chance (all girls respect this as long as y… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Date went well but in text afterwards she just want to be friends. Romantically salvageable or let it go?Approach some other girls brother and you’ll easily answer your own question.. the key is to attract girls to you that want what you want, not to try and get someone who wants something different than you to want what you want.. can you? Everything is a possibility, however with 7.7 billion people on the planet, I believe it’s much more fun, and WAY easier to attract and approach someone who’s feeling how you’re feeling.. no right or wrong answers brother, and have fun w/ it all.. here’s a new d… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Not able to open girls I like, vibe?You’ve answered your own question brother which is great.. it’s always only about your vibe.. great news for you is self awareness which you’ve got gives us the choice to change.. so regardless if the girl is a 10 or a 100 she’s human and you’re human, so just have fun interacting with a beautiful human being and let the chips fall where they may, 0 attachment to the outcome/results.. here’s a new daygame/ night game video in Miami Beach for added inspiration.. don’t be hard on yourself, and hav… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | What should I say to this girl in the club, how should I approach her?There’s no right or wrong thing to say brother, it’s all about your vibe/energy/mood.. usually the best thing to say is whatever pops in your mind in the moment because it’s typically something you are noticing or pointing out right then in that moment.. even if it’s “we always see each other in here, tonight we’re going to vibe..” or whatever it really doesn’t matter just have fun with it and then decide if/how you’re going to escalate with her to wherever you want to take it.. here’s a new day… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Not lasting long enough throw off my confidence. I am getting anxious about it.Happy to help brother! | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 15 | I ask a girl out and got rejectedAt least now you’re not wondering “what if I would have said something?” brother.. to me that feeling feels WAY worse than anything any girl could say or do.. there have been more days than I can count that I have been rejected many many times and the next girl I talked to was feeling me and I ended up hooking up with her that day.. this is possible for all of us if/when we can become detached from the outcome/results.. have fun with it all, get in a good vibe/mood/energy and keep approaching! H… | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Not lasting long enough throw off my confidence. I am getting anxious about it.Getting good in the bedroom is just like anything else brother, nobody is great from day 1, and the more you practice (especially good techniques) the better you get.. you mentioned kegels.. DO THEM and also jelques as well.. the penis is a muscle and if you take strengthening it seriously, it will perform like one. Definitely don’t ever ever ever share this insecurity you currently have with any girl you’re trying to actively hookup with as I don’t see a scenario where this would be to your adv… | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Can someone explain to me the insane (to me) idea of just walking up to random girls out of the blue and starting a convo that ends in a date? I just don't understand how it can work and flow smoothly.Start with the end in mind brother.. what is it that you want with these girls? (hookup, relationship, etc) then have a plan of where you’d like to hang out with them at, then get in a good mood/vibe/energy and talk to them walking out of class one day, or in the hallway, etc. “hey I’ve seen you a lot but we’ve never officially met, I’m Noel what’s your name? (say with a smile).. you’re from? (the city you’re in).. you’re single or you have a bf? (say with a smile) ((single)) Nice.. we should ha… | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach essential?Keep in mind why we’re approaching brother.. I’ll speak for me, if I see a beautiful girl I’m attracted to I want to know who she is, and most importantly is it possible to vibe with her, and potentially have a fun sexual experience with her if it flows there.. the ONLY way to know any of this is to approach her. So to each their own, there is no right or wrong way to do it, but for me when I see someone that catches my attention, no matter where I am on the planet, I personally must approach. I… | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 09:39 PM |
| -2 | 15 rejections since college started 3 weeks ago.This is awesome news for you brother.. the fact that you even approached 15 times is more than many approach all year.. my advice is go for 30 and expect to meet some cool girls who are down along the way.. the more rejections I get the more I expect to talk to one who’s down to hookup with me that day.. true story, I probably got “rejected” 15 times combined on Monday & Tuesday and you know what happened with the last girl I talked to Tuesday.. (I put “rejected” in quotes because I truly don’t … | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you really get an abundance mentality?Happy to help brother! | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 06:38 PM |
| 11 | How do you really get an abundance mentality?By having fun with it all and increasing the amount of girls you’re talking to brother.. I personally say something to every girl I see that I am attracted to so I never have to wonder “what if?” At any moment I can be talking to someone I could possibly be hooking up with today.. so knowing I’m not looking for a relationship there’s never a need to obsess over anyone.. however don’t be hard on yourself, we’re human and I also have noticed myself obsessing over a really hot chick that I may have… | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How many girls per semesterEVERY ONE THAT I’M ATTRACTED TO. That is always my answer.. it feels better to know if there is potential or not vs “what if I would have said something” I am not at all attached to the results and it is a win win for you as long as you aren’t either. Worse case, to the girl you are the guy who had the balls to approach and you were cool with her whether she was in to you or not.. she’ll likely say hello to you forever, give you hugs at parties, girls like this become great social proof for othe… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Is It Worth It???If you’re still attracted to her approach her and don’t bring up anything from the past.. have something/somewhere in mind you want to invite her to and ask her to join you.. if she’s still interested she will or will be open to setting up another date, if she’s not she won’t.. most importantly continue approaching other girls so there is no attachment whatsoever to whether this girl is down for you or not.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for inspiration.. sending you positive… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 3 | For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on.Don’t stress too much on it.. there’s so many guys out there, some will just want to hook up some will want to date.. the key is to continue to be clear on what you want and remember we share a planet w/ 7.7 billion people. The more you can stay focused on what you desire and not worry about how, when, where, who, etc and just enjoy the mystery and adventure of life, you’ll start attracting more and more people who want what you want.. guys will give obvious signs also from the beginning by what… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Best openers?Be in a good vibe/energy say whatever pops in your mind from that place.. check out this new daygame video at the beach in Miami, I’m doing exactly what I just suggested.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/ZrkC7rR-9es | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of rejectionYes and No. If you are excited and willing to do lots of approaches you know you have unlimited opportunities living on a planet with 7.7 billion people. But regardless being not attached to the outcome is a choice.. for me the question in my mind of “what if I would have said something?” is way worse than a girl not being interested, at least I now know, and taking it further, there is always a respect level from a girl to a guy who has the cajones to come up and say hello in a cool way, and is… | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of rejectionYou know who gets “rejected” the most brother? The people who approach the most 🙋🏽♂️.. I show lots of rejections in my daygames, it happens, but if you’re being cool and aren’t attached to the outcome, you can simply tell them enjoy their day and keep living your life.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/ZrkC7rR-9es | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | NEW DAYGAME VIDEO - Miami Beach, Florida. (🔥Girls from around the World. 🏖 Fun Conversations)I appreciate your comment brother.. just combining self awareness (making sure I’m in a great vibe/mood/energy) with truly not caring at all about the outcome/result.. and then it’s just a fun adventure that could turn into anything at anytime. Have fun with it all brother, sending you positive vibes! | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else get tired of seducing?Life is all about doing what feels best to you in the moment.. if you’re excited to approach someone do it, if you’re not don’t. If you want to but you fear doing it because of what others may think or because of the stories you’re telling yourself, that’s a different conversation. It sounds like you are clear about what you want and don’t want relationship wise, so just be honest about it when it comes up and if they still want to hang out with you, sleep with you, etc great, if not great.. if … | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | NEW DAYGAME Miami Beach, Florida (a dude tried to FIGHT ME! 🤷🏽♂️ This is definitely a 1st in all the years I’ve been approaching. DO NOT be this guy! 👎NONE of us started out this way brother.. years of life experience and genuinely caring most about my vibe and least about the outcome.. if you have fun with it, and allow yourself to evolve over time, enjoying the process along the way, any of us can do want I do 💯sending you positive vibes bro! | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How to cold approach a girlWe’ve all been there brother.. when I first started approaching my approach was as simple as 1. What’s your name? (smile on my face) 2. Where you from? (smile on my face) 3. You got a boyfriend? (smile on my face) It really hasn’t changed much years and years later.. The key regardless of what we’re saying though is our vibe/energy/mood. If you’re in a really good mood, being playful, having fun, and don’t care about the result/outcome of this approach, you’ll do really well. The best teacher fo… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How to talk on social mediaI’m personally not a cold approacher on social media, it is more of a follow up tool, once I have approached in person, especially if I’m not able to hang out with the girl right away (but to each their own).. when it comes to approaching in person, I just make sure I am in a playful/fun mood and literally say whatever pops into my mind from that energy.. now I do find myself opening in a similar way because of lots of life experiences and seeing what works (you will also with more life experien… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:32 PM |
| 2 | A girl cold approached me and motivated me to do the sameThis is a great awareness for you brother, I’m excited for you.. being fun and flirty is an energy, a vibe, a mood.. we all know when we are in a great mood we are a lot more fun and a lot more playful.. so get in a really great mood and genuinely have fun and be playful.. the ONLY way to do this though is to not care at all about the outcome.. if she’s down for you great, if she’s not great, now you know and don’t have to wonder, “what if I would have said something?” Life and definitely approa… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Tried to schedule a date for Saturday on Tinder, match said she couldn't until next Friday. We ended up setting it for then. Not sure what to do now...Happy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Damn waited too longHappy to help brother ✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Tried to schedule a date for Saturday on Tinder, match said she couldn't until next Friday. We ended up setting it for then. Not sure what to do now...Tbh I don’t even text until the day of (to see if they’ll text me first which is uncommon but if they do I know they’re super down) but your % of hanging out with them will go up slightly if you do the night before, because most girls are anxious to make plans when it’s Friday or Saturday night.. so if you do the night before and she says yes tmr is good, etc. Then I’d just iron out logistics, and text her the next day a little bit before I’m about to start heading to the place, just to make sur… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Damn waited too longWe’ve all been there brother, don’t be hard on yourself.. start noticing how on point you are in life period when you’re in a really fun/playful mood.. when you approach girls w/ this vibe they know a) you’re not scared to approach b) you’re not attached at all to the outcome. Then just say whatever pops in your mind to open.. a lot of times I find myself saying, “you look like someone I want to say hello to” or “you look like someone fun to say what’s up to.. or hello to” (with a smile on my fa… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Tried to schedule a date for Saturday on Tinder, match said she couldn't until next Friday. We ended up setting it for then. Not sure what to do now...(Thursday night) “hi there.. hope it’s been a great week. Tmr still all good for you to hang out? There’s no right or wrong answer but I personally only use text to confirm logistics of hang out/date, unless she texts me asking other questions, to get more comfortable w/ me before date, then I’ll participate.. most importantly and it sounds like you’re already doing, approach some other girls/set up additional options and you’re all good either way.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach, fo… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Street game?My rule for me is if I’m attracted I approach, it feels better than asking myself later “what if I would have said something?” and I always say whatever pops in my mind so I’d either say.. 1. With you smiling at me like that I had to come say hello, I didn’t want to be rude (be smiling when you say it) 2. I had to come over and say hello, one of these guys aren’t your bf are they? From there I’m just vibing w/ her down my normal escalation path.. My personal advice brother is if you’re attracted… | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What should I do next?The beautiful thing about what you did and social media in general is you have a built in long term follow up.. if a girl isn’t acting the way I want them to from the beginning then I put her on pause indefinitely.. maybe she might post something in the future that you’re inspired to comment on and possibly get her attention that way.. either way, you’re already doing the most important step 1- the approach, so I’d definitely keep approaching other girls and if this one starts to act right and/o… | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Once you’ve lost the initial high attraction, what is the best tactic to take?Every experience in life helps us learn and grow, so you learned a great lesson of what can happen if you choose not to escalate.. Great news is we share a planet with 7.7 billion people so you will have plenty of opportunities to apply this new knowledge.. with this girl all you can do is re invite her to wherever you feel would give you the best chance to escalate and if she’s not down anymore, all good, approach some other girls.. if she is down, great, approach some other girls.. it’s always… | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach help. UrgentYou’re welcome brother, happy to help.. and you are 100% correct! | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach help. UrgentWe’ve all been there brother, don’t be hard on yourself.. when I first started approaching my approach was as simple as 1. What’s your name? (say it with a smile) 2. Where you from? (say it with a smile) 3. You single? (say it with a smile) (it really hasn’t changed much years and years later) The key regardless of what we’re saying though is our vibe/energy/mood. If you’re in a really good mood, being playful, having fun, and don’t care about the result/outcome of this approach, you’ll do reall… | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | People who have slept with many women, explain your game.You just need to have an escalation plan brother.. I call it “going down the path” my path leads to a fun sexual experience, so if she decides to keep coming with me while I’m leading her down this path I already know what’s going down. So we have to start with the end in mind, where is this hook up going to take place? Once we have that figured out, you need to be doing the most important 1st step which is the approach, so on my escalation plan/path I want to go somewhere I can vibe w/ her 1 on… | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | First real approach all semesterDo whatever you’re inspired to do brother, there is no right or wrong way.. you know when I know if they’re truly interested or not every single time?.. After I say that and then ask them to hang out.. if they do hang out they’re interested, if they don’t they aren’t lol. Great news for you there are likely thousands more on your campus, meaning dozens and dozens who are interested. My advice always is approach the ones who interest you, and let them sort themselves out. Whether they’re interest… | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl in my classIt’s good you went for the approach brother, in the future I’d happily walk with her up those stairs if that’s what needs to be done to say what you want to say.. I’ll give the same advise to you that I gave the guy above.. For me it’s always easiest to approach the first time I have a chance so that’s all the girl knows of you, he saw me, he liked me, he approached me, sounds like you did that, but just didn’t escalate .. so with this girl you still want to take your shot, or else you’ll be thi… | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 08:19 PM |
| 2 | First real approach all semesterPerfect.. same advise, just start with any conversation starter that pops in your mind.. “how’s your semester going so far.. you headed to another class now, or you done for the day.. Then I’d personally say, “question.. are you single?” (eye contact/smile) “I’m going to go to (instant date/later date) want to join?” it’s always the same escalation path for me brother, you just have to find yours, make a plan, and lead the conversation down that direction.. make sense? | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 08:12 PM |
| 2 | First real approach all semesterFor me it’s always easiest to approach the first time I have a chance so that’s all the girl knows of you, he saw me, he liked me, he approached me.. so that is my advice moving forward.. with this girl you still want to take your shot, or else you’ll be thinking about it until you do.. approach her ideally when it’s possible to chat for a minute or two, like when walking out of class.. you can say anything to start the conversation, and have an escalation plan.. is there an instant date you can… | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 08:00 PM |
| 0 | How can i introduce myself to a girl?My advice is always just be in a good mood, and say whatever comes to your mind.. at the gym, I’ll say things like, “while we are both taking a break I wanted to come say hello..” for me the best conversation starters are always whatever pops in my mind and out of my mouth to say.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach, Florida that will help you brother.. just have fun with it all, sending you positive vibes! https://youtu.be/1wMNNqFS59M | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 07:42 PM |
| -1 | Why did she leave me on read?Every situation is different brother, so why is an almost impossible question to answer, it’s always case by case.. however we can always learn from our interactions and decide to do or not do something again if we’re are or aren’t getting the results we want.. my best advice is approach more girls, and set up more options for yourself, and soon it won’t matter much to you anymore if she leaves you on read or not because you have other options.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach Florid… | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How to bring the fun when you are in a group ? We usually sit and everyone is on their phone bored how can I BRING THE FUNBy you being in a fun mood and being playful.. when we bring a high vibe energy into any environment we raise the vibe of that environment and the ones who want to join you there will and the ones who don’t won’t but we’ll always attract to us people who are vibing the same way we are.. look at this new daygame video as an example in Miami Beach Florida, I bring my vibe and everyone who wants to vibe w/ me will, if they don’t they won’t.. most importantly have fun w/ it all brother taking care o… | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How transparent does one need to be from square one?There is no right or wrong answer to this but I can answer from my perspective.. I want a girl to know my intentions from the first second we make eye contact.. so I approach every girl I am attracted to and very early in that conversation because of my vibe and the words I say, she knows I want to be way more than friends.. and from there I am taking her down my escalation path until she wants to get off the path.. if she doesn’t get off it will lead to my bedroom.. one of the worst feelings in… | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you sort out logistics?Happy to help.. If you can approach #1 you can approach #2 and like all of us you’ll get better and better at it. The key is to start where you are, and enjoy the process.. sending tons of positive vibes bro! | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Note to self.Great reminder brother.. To add onto that, control what you can control in the moment.. your vibe/energy/mood.. when that’s on point all of us are WAY better at every phase of the game, and when our energy is shitty (we’ve all been here we’re human) we all pretty much suck.. Combine a great vibe w/ more and more life experience and all of us are unlimited to where we can evolve to, and how much fun this journey called life can be.. here’s a new daygame video illustrating this for added inspirati… | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 03:57 AM |
| 2 | What tf do I do if I’m not exactly, uhm... attractive?All of us have what we have in the looks department and can choose to improve the areas that we can, and then it’s a choice to be confident and rock with what you got or not be.. that vibe/energy can’t be faked, we either have it in the moment or we don’t.. when we do we’re magnetic, when we don’t we’re not going to be very successful even if we have “10” looks.. the opposite is also true.. you can be a 5 in looks but have an amazing vibe/confidence/charisma in the moment and have WAY better res… | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Opening groupsEasy way is to go up in a very good mood/vibe/energy most importantly and just start having fun with everyone, figuring out who you’re most attracted to, who’s into you, who’s available, etc.. your vibe will allow the words to flow.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach, where I approach a hot group of girls right at the beginning.. have fun with it all, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/_XPZYQYKr-s | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Every successful infield pull seems to be someone pulling a strong 'yes girl'Don’t over complicate it brother.. all of us have what we have in the looks department and can choose to improve the areas that we can, and then it’s a choice to be confident and rock with what you got or not be.. that vibe/energy can’t be faked, we either have it in the moment or we don’t.. when we do we’re magnetic, when we don’t we’re not going to be very successful even if we have “10” looks.. the opposite is also true.. you can be a 5 in looks but have an amazing vibe/confidence/charisma in… | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Made out with a new freshman at my college after two weeks - how to progress?Don’t say what you said at the end.. 2 bits of advice.. first all you can do with this girl is invite her to hang out w/ you 1 on 1. You decide what location is best, ideally as close to your spot as possible so when you’re vibing w/ her again and escalate to kissing you can seal the deal.. Second, approach some other girls and get some additional options so that there is no neediness/attachment to the outcome of whether she chooses to hang out with you again right now or not.. regardless you di… | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Brazilian Trouble (19M)It’s escalation time brother.. kiss her and ideally do it at your place or her place or at least close by so that you can then seal the deal (assuming that’s what you want) what’s stopped you from already trying? If it were me I’d also continue approaching other girls so that you have 0 neediness/attachment to the outcome and your vibe will be even stronger w/ the Brazilian girl.. my strategy and advice is always be escalating and go for the kiss and beyond asap.. here’s a new daygame video for … | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What does your text game look like?So I have 3 main places I invite girls to that are part of my overall escalation/hookup plan.. A bar which is walking distance of my place, A restaurant w/ a great happy hour (also 5 min walk to my place) and my pool deck. For 1st hookup I always first try and invite to my pool deck for drinks. For 2nd hookup because I’m not looking for a relationship I’m usually waiting for her to initiate the text communication (one reason I send the “flashbacks” text so now it’s her turn to initiate) all the … | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Those in a relationship, how have you kept your skills sharp?Was definitely the right decision for me brother because every cell in my body wanted to be free and get back to enjoying the mystery and adventure of life that I feel when I’m single.. but that’s just me, we’re all so different and of course you have to decide what feels right to you.. a little tip I use whenever I want to make a decision.. if something is a “hell yes” like I’m really excited about it, easy decision, I do it.. if something is not a “hell yes” for me it’s a “hell no” (for now) c… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Is taking a girl I’m interested In to a frat party a bad idea?Nothing wrong with it brother.. if it were me I’d try and already hook up w/ her prior to the party but if that’s not possible just go and have a blast at the party and if she’s feeling you like you’re feeling her you’ll likely hookup that night.. but if she gets there and is “weighing her options” then you’ll hopefully be doing that there too which will either make her gravitate back to you or you just enjoy whoever these new options are.. also I’d definitely increase my approaches around campu… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Social Circle Game / College Game. Give me some advice about the topic covered so less on this subP.S. I NEVER play the “friend” role. Personally that’s just demeaning to me and completely dishonest about what I want.. to each their own but all I want a girl to know about me is when I had a chance to approach her and shoot my shot, I did.. Even Michael Jordan missed shots, but the next chance he got he was definitely shooting again 💯 | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Social Circle Game / College Game. Give me some advice about the topic covered so less on this subThe same rules always apply for me brother.. if I’m attracted to her I’m going to approach and I am totally not attached to the results.. this way whether she’s down to hang out with me or not I’m still always going to be cool with her, she respects you for having the cajones to approach, and you never know how things may change and all of a sudden she’s down to hang out in the future.. it’s a win win for you as long as you’re not attached to the outcome.. keep approaching and setting up options… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts about the 1-10 scale categorizing womenFor me brother I’m either attracted to her or not.. and if I am no matter where I am on the planet, I am approaching unless the situation we’re in just makes it not possible for whatever reason.. the 1-10 scale is a personal thing what’s a 7 to you may be a 9 to someone else and vice versa so I stick with if I’m attracted I go.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach with girls throughout the 🔥scale. Sending you positive vibes brother! https://youtu.be/xunWVE01P28 | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:16 AM |
| 2 | What does your text game look like?It totally depends on what you want out of the situation with these girls brother.. if you want a relationship which it sounds like to me then the beginning is the same approach/escalation/sexual experience, and then keep the momentum going.. I like to text the next day talking about the amazing flashback I just got from the night before.. now for me because I don’t want a relationship, after that text the next day after I hookup with her, I then only will text her back if she texts me or when I… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I give up and move on?I’ll give the same answer I just have a second ago to the guy above.. first all of those questions you had about what’s going on with her are possibilities, could be yes could be no.. She has many distractions/options brother, all girls do, and especially at her age.. Best advice I can give you is get a lot more options yourself/approach some other girls, and that way if/when she decides to act towards you the way you’d like her to great, it will almost be like a bonus for you because you have o… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Why would she act resistant/disinterested towards me but then says she will text me before we part ways? 23m 21fShe has so many distractions/options brother, all girls do, and especially at her age.. Best advice I can give you is get a lot more options yourself/approach some other girls, and that way if/when she decides to act towards you the way you’d like her too great, it will almost be like a bonus for you because you have other options already. And when that is our vibe (I’m down to hang out w/ you but I’m good either way) we become magnetic and situations like these go better and better for us.. her… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Those in a relationship, how have you kept your skills sharp?When I was in a relationship (6 yrs - I broke up w/ her half way through and for good Jan ‘16 because I wanted to be free/single) you definitely will lose sharpness at any skill you’re not using, but good news this skill once you have it is like riding a bike for sure. I personally never did nor would I suggest “practicing” because for me when I’m approaching I’m really trying to escalate to a sexual experience asap so that wouldn’t be in integrity of the agreement I had being in a relationship.… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Where to find complete RSD infields and other PUA infield?Here’s new daygame video from Miami Beach, Florida brother.. enjoy, sending you positive vibes! https://youtu.be/xunWVE01P28 | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 02:47 AM |
| 3 | NEW DAYGAME Miami Beach, Florida. (today was a fun day talking to lots of 🔥girls from all over the world 🌍)I appreciate the compliment brother.. the most important part of it all is our vibe/energy/mood.. when that is on point everything flows and we are magnetic.. combine that with more and more life experiences/approaches and we all have the same capabilities 💯 | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Why approach random women? How to attract a woman you already know?We’re all different brother, do what feels best to you.. I realized for me a long time ago that one of the WORST feelings I could have was the feeling of regretting not talking to a beautiful girl I may not ever see again.. that feeling sticks with me still to this day, so if I see something/someone I like, to quote lil Wayne, “I’m going in..” 😂Have fun with it all brother | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you sort out logistics?If I were in your shoes and I wanted to hook up in my car, (I used to do this a lot) I would buy cheap vodka, kiwi strawberry Snapple lol, pour out half the Snapple fill the rest with vodka (the type of drinks you choose don’t matter I was just reminiscing lol), find the nicest scenic place to park where the hookup could go down, and just vibe w/ her.. that was always my number 1 option, if you can’t start there than I’d find a date option that is a 2-5 minute drive from that potential hookup sp… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Why approach random women? How to attract a woman you already know?The process is the same brother whether you’ve known someone for 5 years or 5 seconds.. at some point you will have to approach and let them know you are interested.. why approach random women? I can only answer for me but we live on a planet with 7.7 billion other beautiful humans and if by “chance” (everything happens for a reason) we come face to face with one of these 7.7 billion that we’re attracted to, just know there is a great likelihood that this will be the only time we will ever see t… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Young and need advice :)Just messaged you brother | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Young and need advice :)You’re human, sometimes we all struggle to have good vibes.. the key is not to be perfect but rather to be self aware of if we have good vibes in the moment or not, that way we at least have a choice to change or increase those vibes even more.. don’t be hard on yourself brother, the fact that you’re already comfortable initiating conversations/approaching puts you way ahead of the game, just enjoy the journey and you’ll continue to evolve just like all of the rest of us will. 💯✌🏽 | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Young and need advice :)Best advice I can give you brother is you never have to worry about holding a conversation when you are in a fun/playful mood.. it’s all about your vibe/energy and your brain will just keep feeding you the next thing to say.. combine that with more and more life experience/approaches and you will get better and better and better, but for now you’re good, just make sure your vibe is on point aka be in a really good mood, excited to vibe w/ good looking girl(s) and things will work out really well… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Just noticed i have a HUGE problem to approach girlsJust be in a really good mood/vibe/energy and be cool with everyone.. making sure to open the one you’re attracted to.. I always make sure one of the dudes isn’t her bf so I’m being respectful and that’s a really easy way to open.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Fl. I show the exact thing you’re asking cute girl, 2 guys around, I sensed they weren’t her bf, I approach.. have fun w/ it all brother, sending positive vibes! https://youtu.be/tYcM7IAim04 | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Do's and Don'ts of picking up girls from college bars/clubs as a studentNo don’ts, if you’re in a good mood/energy/vibe you’re golden. Do talk to whoever you are attracted to just like any other location. Be cool with everyone, the more it looks like this is a really cool dude who’s friendly with everyone, the easier it will be for you to divide and conquer if you should need to pull a girl out of a group.. Most important just be in a great mood/energy/vibe and enjoy yourself, everything will flow from there.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach Florida for … | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How to escalate with a shy girl over text?Assuming you want to hookup with her.. for me escalation always involves inviting them to join me as close to my designated “hookup spot” as possible.. if you’re comfortable enough to invite them to your place even better, if you both drink it makes it even easier in my opinion, “having some wine here, want to join me?” The art of escalation is all about continuing to move the interaction with this girl towards where you want it to go, so start with the end in mind and keep moving towards that..… | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Hail Mary on the dead cold approach numbersYes exactly. It’s not that it’s “wrong” but yes in most cases this will make it much more challenging through the entire process. You’re in a cool place, many guys never get to 50 approaches in their life.. keep going, have fun with it all, and enjoy the process brother! | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Hail Mary on the dead cold approach numbersMy advice is put more focus on your initial interactions with these girls, and then the text message can just be for confirming details of the date you ideally already set up when you first met them.. if it works with my schedule I always go for an instant date “what are you doing now” or a date that night.. regardless of how much you vibe at the beginning though brother, some will just be flakey or not respond, it happens.. you could totally send your Hail Mary text if you want to, there’s no r… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I really suck at converations and flirting... Please help.Just messaged you brother | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I really suck at converations and flirting... Please help.I just messaged you brother 👍 | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 05:39 PM |
| 5 | If you had to spend 8 hours alone with your crush, how should you spend it?It depends what you want.. big difference in the advice I’d give if you said you just want to escalate towards a relationship w/ this guy vs. you want to hookup w/ him.. if it’s a relationship, use this time to get to know him better and find out what he wants and if it sounds like you both want the same thing, be flirty with him w/ your body language and eye contact and see if he’ll escalate.. if it’s a hookup super easy, you just have to find a decent reason to move your hangout to whatever pl… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:30 AM |
| 2 | I really suck at converations and flirting... Please help.This is super simple when you are genuinely having fun and enjoying vibing with the girl.. let whatever comes into your brain come out of your mouth and if you’re in a good mood it will work out great for you.. just feel the vibe when it’s time to escalate from playful flirting to the kiss, then going to the hook up spot if you’re not already there, and then seal the deal.. here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration, you can see how I’m super flirty and literally just say whatever flies ou… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:27 AM |
| 1 | What about you?.We’re all different brother, the key is to be clear about what you want and know that all of us can be do and have anything in life.. me personally every sexual experience I’ve ever had in my life has been different, unique in their own ways, and this is by far my favorite part of life.. so for me as clear as I am on this (took me years and two long relationships to figure myself out completely), I’d be insane to give up my favorite part of life for a monogamous relationship, wouldn’t matter to … | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Does kissing/getting number always indicate *enough* attraction?Like @crawley mentioned below.. go for the first night hookup and if that doesn’t go down I’d definitely try and set something up as soon as possible but don’t be shocked if that is it for that experience (you could always run into her again and w/ social media it’s a great way to let your stories/posts do long game follow up for you) most importantly keep approaching & setting up additional options for yourself which always makes your vibe stronger and leads to a lot more first night hookups w/… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Does kissing/getting number always indicate *enough* attraction?We’ve all been here brother and I’m happy you said the first part of the last sentence “I tend to push for the first night lay” always the best strategy, and it’s not always dead if not but we won’t hold our breath, I normally will try and set something up within 24-48 hours and if not I just let social media do my long term follow up for me until I’m ever inspired to shoot another shot at her or she communicates w/ me.. either way I’m always setting up additional options as I’m sure you are too… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:10 AM |
| 3 | How do you sort out logistics?When I was in your shoes and I didn’t have my own place and the car was the designated hook up spot I just knew exactly where I was going to park to escalate and let it go down.. I would never hold back from going down my escalation path which led to sex in the car to first find out if we could go to her place.. now once I’m already hooking up with her and it’s either continue hooking up in car or go to her place then it’s a win win.. but I’d rather take the for sure option if it’s there w/ the … | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | What’s better speaking softer or louder ?If you’re in a good mood/vibe/energy you don’t have to think about stuff like this brother.. sometimes I’m super loud sometimes I’m super chill, when your vibe is on point you just gone/ the flow.. check out this new day game video in Miami Beach, I was super high energy this day so I was super loud, the 2nd girl I talked to we joked about how far away she could hear me from when I was out in the ocean recording a video.. most importantly just have fun and no matter what volume you’re at you’ll … | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't ask a woman out if she saw you hitting on another woman minutes before.I appreciate it brother! Just a true enjoyment of the adventure of what possibly can happen if we just say hello! | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Any 30+ or 40+ daygamers here?Yes 30+ here and it’s going amazing brother.. age doesn’t matter it’s all about our vibe.. Here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/GsMH3JFGKGE | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Don't ask a woman out if she saw you hitting on another woman minutes before.Thanks brother I appreciate it! We’re just getting started, enjoying the journey with everyone! | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 06:38 AM |
| 45 | Being in this community has changed my lifeGreat post brother.. congrats to you for making the decision and commitment to evolving as a person first and foremost, and allowing it to positively impact all areas of your life.. keep enjoying the journey brother, it never ends.. sending you tons of positive vibes! | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 05:48 AM |
| 1 | "Bring 2 girls with you if you want to come" to fraternity eventRe read what I shared about confidence brother.. until you choose to rock with what you got, this game will be challenging.. change what you can and rock with what you got because it’s all you got, and believe me it’s enough my friend.. girls feel your vibe/energy first and then can justify “yea I’ll hook up with him” And to answer your question, you won’t know what they want until you approach, and it’s not about what they want at this moment, it’s about what you want.. I know that I want to sa… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | "Bring 2 girls with you if you want to come" to fraternity eventThat’s awesome brother.. you fall in love w/ self improvement you’re unstoppable.. the key is to enjoy and rock with what you got now and all along the way! And the best place to approach girls is anywhere there is a girl you are attracted to. Doesn’t matter where it is.. for me personally all I ever want her to know is that the first time I had a legit chance to speak to her I did, the results don’t matter as long as you do it with a good vibe/energy and aren’t attached to the outcome which mes… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | "Bring 2 girls with you if you want to come" to fraternity eventThat’s awesome brother.. you fall in love w/ self improvement you’re unstoppable.. the key is to enjoy and rock with what you got now and all along the way! And the best place to approach girls is anywhere there is a girl you are attracted to. Doesn’t matter where it is.. for me personally all I ever want her to know is that the first time I had a legit chance to speak to her I did, the results don’t matter as long as you do it with a good vibe/energy and aren’t attached to the results which mes… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:35 AM |
| 0 | "Bring 2 girls with you if you want to come" to fraternity eventMy advice is have more confidence in yourself brother.. and confidence in life comes with successful attempts/life experience.. all of us at one time in our life weren’t confident with women because we had 0 successful attempts/life experience.. what you’re taking about when it comes to looks is just a choice to look at yourself in that way, rock with what you got brother and if you want to change it, change what you can change, (workout, clothes, etc) Most important when it comes to interacting… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Don't ask a woman out if she saw you hitting on another woman minutes before.I have to say yes and no to this. Yes if you don’t want to immediately make it more challenging to get somewhere with the girl you just hit on and you were vibing with her.. to go hit on the next chick right next to her wouldn’t be that smart.. however if the vibe really wasn’t there w/ her and there’s another hot chick right there you want to talk to I personally will.. but there is a fine line because if it’s such a small area that it looks like you’re hitting on everything moving, it will mak… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Use texting to setup dates onlyYes the text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date.. if you’re doing the most important part already with the approach, I personally always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, what are you doing now/tonight? And if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night before or day of to set up details.. the only w… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | People I see walking outsideYes get in a really good/excited/playful mood and say whatever pops into your brain. Fun playful mood = fun playful thoughts = fun playful words. It’s no more complicated than that. Then it’s all about life experience when you start finding the flow of conversation and then escalation that works best with what you’re trying to accomplish with these women. For me I want to have a fun sexual experience with them as close to right now as possible so my escalation flow is always moving towards that.… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 03:03 AM |
| 3 | How to hook up with chicks older than you?Yes it is very possible.. anytime we get clear on what we want in life, and expect it to come without needing to know how, when, where, who, etc. and we can just enjoy the moment we are in now as much as possible wherever we are, whatever we’re doing.. we become magnetic to those desires and they attract to us.. affirm to yourself “I am meeting hot older chicks everywhere, who are super into me, and want to let me smash” lol. And then live your life being prepared to approach these women when yo… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Soft rejection or Still interested? And what to do from here?Definitely move on to other women brother and if she does text you in the future it will just be a bonus, and if she doesn’t you still have other options. Either way your energy is not stuck or in a needy place waiting for this girl to figure out what she wants. Have fun with it all and worse case scenario you meet some girls you are excited about and this girl you like messages you in the future, (good problems) here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach for added inspiration, sending you posi… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 02:49 AM |
| 25 | How do I approach a girl when I notice her checking me out?I say a lot when I notice girls looking at me, “with you smiling at me like that I had to come over and say hello, I didn’t want to be rude.” (I always say it with a smile and they always smile back, this could be only for them giving me eye contact also and I still say since you were smiling at me lol) From there super simple, first question for me pretty much always is “where you from” and then let your conversation flow from there.. most importantly have fun with it, if you’re in a good vibe/… | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 08:11 AM |
| 2 | How to smile when making eye contact with girls?I appreciate it brother! My goal is always to have as much fun as possible in the moment, and what’s most fun by far in this life for me are fun sexual experiences that I had no idea were going to happen when I woke up in the morning.. the mystery and adventure of life.. so yes fun can be approaching and having these cool conversations with hot chicks, and for sure even better if they lead to me hooking up with them (I keep it super respectful on the vlogs to not even imply which ones I hook up … | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it makes any difference if you tell someone you're going to seduce them before you do it?Great answer I co-sign w/ this message ☝️ | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it makes any difference if you tell someone you're going to seduce them before you do it?This could work with the girls who are already clear about what they want but with the ones who just need to feel comfortable w/ you and vibe w/ you first and then will be down, you are shooting yourself in the foot by talking about it.. my opinion, like Nike just do it, no need to talk about it. To each their own though brother, here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes! https://youtu.be/qJYEoey9rKI | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How to smile when making eye contact with girls?There’s no right or wrong answer to this.. me personally I always am smiling while I say my opener on any cold approach.. I want the girl to feel comfortable with me right away and then I can escalate from there.. remember it’s more than your actual smile, it’s your vibe/energy which automatically increases when you are playful/smiling.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach which is POV but just know I am smiling during each approach and as a result each girl smiles back and becomes more … | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Bars with Zero anonymity and terrible ratios.Shoot your shot and bounce bro! Lol. Same rules apply for me always, if I’m attracted to you I’m going to shoot my shot and see what’s, what’s.. but definitely not the best ratio, have fun no attachments to results.. here’s a new daygame video for added approach inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/qJYEoey9rKI | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Stay Friends? Or Make A Move?If I were you I would start approaching some other girls, and let her know about them, “I’ve been meeting a lot of cute girls but not really vibing with them more than just physical attraction.. how’s things w/ your situation?” Lol. I always respect people’s relationships but it’s always ladies choice.. and if I were you I would definitely set up some other options, the last thing you ever want is your vibe to feel thirsty/needy with someone that isn’t even technically available (or anyone for t… | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:03 AM |
| 2 | When you started getting better, did you have "off nights" along the way where you couldn't get in the zone and it felt like you were moving backwards? How do you push past that?Don’t over complicate it brother, life is always moment by moment, we can be “in the zone” and we can not be. We’re human, nobody is in the zone every moment of life. The key is to be self aware and know that our energy/mood/vibe is never stagnant, it’s always feeling better and better or worse and worse, moment by moment. Great news for you is you’ve felt what it feels like to be in the zone before so you know what it feels like and know you can be there.. the key when you’re not is to remind y… | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Any way to spark interest over text?The text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date.. if you’re doing the most important part which is the approach, I always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, what are you doing now/tonight? And if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night before or day of to set up details.. the only way I’m getting into… | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 08:18 AM |
| 12 | I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoeverBro it’s all about getting in a good mood and having a good time letting your mouth flow with whatever your brain gives you.. combine that with more life experience and you’re good.. NOBODY in here had any game before they got enough life experiences, so don’t be hard on yourself, appreciate the fact you’re smart and good looking (huge advantage but the above applies whether you have those advantages or not) and just have a blast enjoying the process of evolving as you gain experience.. here’s s… | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Approaching is enough to call an interaction a successful one.Facts 💯 | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | NEW DAYGAME Miami Beach Florida (ran into a 🔥girl I approached 2 years ago on the beach)I appreciate your comments brother.. I’m not doing anything special that any of us couldn’t do if we are in a good mood/vibe and combine that with lots of approaches/life experiences.. keep having fun with it all, enjoying the process and you will get better and better 💯 | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How old were these girls that I filmedEnergy is always only in the moment brother.. we’re all human and sometimes will feel up and sometimes feel down.. the key is to not make ourselves right or wrong for it and be hard on ourself, but instead be aware of it which is what gives us the choice to change it. You will only see me approaching when I’m in a good mood because like you said it is pretty pointless if we’re not, I can’t think of any situation where it has worked out great.. so better use of our time is doing whatever we need … | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | College Is Here, But Not For MeIt’s not weird at all just go visit.. if you have the money get your own airbnb right on campus or walking distance to where the parties are, and you can clean up brother.. get comfortable with approaching the girls you are attracted to and have fun.. sounds like the best of all worlds for you, 19 yr, no classes to take, some money in your pocket.. here’s some brand new daygame for added inspiration, all the girls in this video are college chicks I met out at the beach.. have a blast bro, sendin… | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | I Need To ChangeThe first step to change is being aware that we want to make one, so you’re already on the right track brother.. my advice is get really clear on what you want, relationship, fun hookups, etc. Once you’re clear on that you can make a plan as far as the direction you want to go with this/these girls and escalate down that path toward where you want to go.. the first step on any of our paths is the approach, and the best teacher on any of our paths is life experience.. every single one of us will … | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 04:13 AM |
| 0 | How old were these girls that I filmedI appreciate your comments brother.. Everything you see from me is the result of 2 things.. first being in a really good mood/energy/vibe. We’re human so none of us will feel this way all the time, but the key is to be self aware and know that when we are we are magnetic and life is a blast, when we’re not none of us will have that great of an experience doing whatever it is we’re doing.. Second, tons of life experience which is all of our best teacher. I genuinely love connecting with people an… | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 0 | How old were these girls that I filmedI feel you bro.. There’s no way to know if a girl is 16 or 18+ until you ask however I just keep it fun and most of the time they are over 18 and it’s a funny icebreaker and then it’s business as usual.. here’s a daygame I posted earlier, the 2nd girl I talked to was 19 but easily could have been younger.. it’s all good, it’s not illegal to say hello.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/KSvt-i6plgM | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Advice on Approach Anxiety?Be in a really good mood/vibe and have fun with it saying whatever pops in your head first.. it’s more your vibe than what you’re saying.. lately I’ve been noticing myself saying a lot “you look fun to talk to” (with a smile and eye contact) it’s all your vibe brother.. here’s some new daygame from Miami Beach Florida, you can see some good openers and how I’m literally just saying whatever pops in my mind based on the situation, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/KSvt-i6plgM | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 05:02 AM |
| 2 | First proper nightgame experienceYou are 1000% correct. When we go out into the world no matter where or when, and we have playful good vibes, everyone is magnetically drawn to us and life is very fun.. keep enjoying yourself brother, here’s some new day game from Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration, you can see how playful I always am.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/KSvt-i6plgM | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Should you assume Tinder girls are for the most part DTF on the first date?I assume everyone is DTF on the first date.. some are some aren’t, but we are going down my escalation path until it ends up in my bed or she decides to get off the path.. I use Tinder like a bonus round of girls, with my preference always being in person approaches, but either way I’m going to go for the hang out/date as close to now as possible, as close to my place as possible (walking distance ideally) and escalate from there.. here’s some new day game from Miami Beach Florida for added insp… | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 04:51 AM |
| 0 | How do you all deal with the "you're just a player" comment?“I’m not a player because I’m not playing any games. There’s 7.7 billion people on this planet and we can all attract exactly what/who we desire. I am open and honest with everyone, I’m not looking for a monogamous relationship and am enjoying the moments of life right now, knowing that tomorrow isn’t promised to any of us. All of us can choose how and who we spend our time with, and if I choose to spend my time with someone and they choose to spend their time with me, they will receive my 100% … | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | What is my problem? Girls think I’m cuteBro if you’re doing anything different than getting in a good mood/energy, having a plan, and escalating through that plan leading to you getting the exact results you want, I highly recommend you nerd out for a sec and take lots of notes..The amount of life experience, and not just theory that’s in that reply.. Jay Z said it best, “men lie, women lie, numbers don’t.” My numbers would put any of us in the HOF years ago (and we’re not talking phone numbers lol) It’s all fun, sending you positive … | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 11:21 AM |
| 3 | What is my problem? Girls think I’m cuteYou just need to have an escalation plan brother.. I call it “going down the path” my path leads to a fun sexual experience, so if she decides to keep coming with me while I’m leading her down this path I already know what’s going down. So we have to start with the end in mind, where is this hook up going to take place? Once we have that figured out, you do the most important 1st step which is the approach, then set up date/hanging out (I always go for instant date now/tonight if it fits my sche… | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that texting back girls late makes you mysterious?The text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date, so I never play any text games because I’m actively trying to hang out with them now/tonight.. when I first meet them I always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, and if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night before or day of to set up details.. the onl… | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Worked with a semi-toxic girl and developed feelings...There’s no should’s or should not’s, do what you’re inspired to do brother.. if I were in your shoes I’d send what you were inspired to write because you were inspired to right it.. and it’s great you’ve become aware of new things about yourself because of this experience with this girl, every experience in life brings us the potential for new self awareness if we are open and willing to look for it, which you obviously are.. keep approaching/having more and more experiences and life will contin… | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Tips about textingWhat’s your escalation plan.. is hanging out with her at the beach part of it? If so, “I’m here at the beach right now, it’s such a beautiful night, want to join?” I’m personally “always” already doing my next step of my escalation plan and if they’re really down to hang out with me they’ll join. (I say this even if I’m currently doing something else, and this strategy works great as long as I’m close enough to this location to really be there when they say “yes I’ll join you”) Most importantly … | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | With social media, do you still ask for a girls number?Everyone is different and there’s no right or wrong answer.. truly as long as you have a way to communicate after this approach great.. my personal preference is IG because for me it does a lot of the long term follow up with girls who either aren’t single/available, don’t live in the same city as me, didn’t cooperate as much as I wanted them to initially so they get put to the back (with only a number in this scenario we would never speak again unless she texted me, with social at least we both… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Gaming in college tips?My entire college experience was set up beautifully from my first week on campus and I was just like you, had already done 100’s of cold approaches before I ever got to campus. With that said, still to this day what makes the game so much easier for me now, and helped me through my entire time at college was, all I care about is that the girl knows that the first time I had a chance to say hello I did. (like a real chance, not interrupting her talking to her guidance counselor or something lol) … | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | This girl led me on and i don't know what to do about it?Happy to help brother, it happens to all of us.. sometimes we escalate all the way to our bedroom and close the deal, sometimes the girl decides to jump off the train prematurely never to be heard from again.. it’s all part of it, have fun with it all and know there are plenty of girls who are really down and will happily ride the train all the way to the station 🚉 | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Flake or not?You can always tell from a girls vibe if she wants to make an effort to hang out or not vs making excuses which seems to be the case here but you never know 100% so I like to put it back in her court and let her know I’m feeling social and will be hanging out, so if she can convince mommy and daddy to let her play, let you know... and always and regardless if it were me I’d be approaching/setting up some other options, win win either way for you whether this girl turns out to be down or not.. he… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | This girl led me on and i don't know what to do about it?Anything could have happened w/ this girl you never know, likely she wasn’t really down like she appeared to be.. Regardless when stuff like this happens the best way to get it off your mind in my opinion is approach someone(s) new, give yourself some other options.. Here’s some new day game from Miami Beach for some added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/rf-Qx74mX1w | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Me being 25 y.o is it bad to date someone who is 19?There’s no rule book in the sky for good or bad.. All I want to know when I approach a girl if I’m questioning it for legal reasons is, “are you 18” if so we’re golden (and for the record I also meet 40 yr olds that are super 🔥it’s all about attraction and the overall vibe).. here’s a new day game for added inspiration, 2 of the girls in the video are around 19.. have fun, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/rf-Qx74mX1w | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 10:36 PM |
| 4 | I’m very curious about the women’s body after 50. I’ve always dated older since college and I found my favorite age of women were 28-35 with high sex drive and could have intelligent conversations. Now I’m 34 and talking to a 50 yr old that looks like she’s 30. What’s the sex drive and anything elseLife is only right now in the moment brother.. if it’s fun to spend time with this woman now, today, that’s all that really matters.. tomorrow and for sure 20 years from now is not promised to any of us, so if I were in his shoes I wouldn’t let the potential what if’s of the future ruin a great time in the present.. always to each their own though, sending positive vibes to you both! | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Likes a girl and want to approach herHappy to help, enjoy yourself.. sending good vibes! | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Likes a girl and want to approach herBe in a great mood, have a plan, escalate... I’m assuming she won’t be the only girl at the party brother so be prepared to approach every girl there that you are attracted to.. all I want any girl to know is the first opportunity I ever had to say something/approach I did.. I know my vibe is on point and I’m not attached at all whatsoever to the result/outcome.. with this mentality you will attract and have fun with her or whoever else at that party is feeling you like you’re feeling them.. her… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 04:36 AM |
| 2 | I’m very curious about the women’s body after 50. I’ve always dated older since college and I found my favorite age of women were 28-35 with high sex drive and could have intelligent conversations. Now I’m 34 and talking to a 50 yr old that looks like she’s 30. What’s the sex drive and anything elseEvery woman on the planet is different however this 50 year old just like the 28-35 yr olds will want to have fun sexual experiences with you if you are vibing with each other.. She’s probably a lot of fun sexually if she’s confident enough to be talking to a 34 yr old dude.. here’s a new day game from Miami Beach for added inspiration, the last girl I talk to is older (not 50 but it’s all the same to me, if she’s 🔥at 18 or 50 lol) have fun with it brother, sending positive vibes! https://youtu.… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | What Am I Doing Wrong + Tips to Modify My ApproachHappy it’s helpful brother.. Once I learned that when I’m in a great mood (always my #1 priority before I ever leave my house, we’re human so this won’t always be the case but it is a choice) when we are in a great mood everything always flows, what to say, how to say it, perfect timing, it’s all fun and in the flow.. my openers are always literally whatever pops into my mind first, it’s like we’re already having a conversation before it even starts.. watch that day game I posted above, you’ll s… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl giving me interest and then all of a sudden ignores meHappy to help! | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | What Am I Doing Wrong + Tips to Modify My ApproachBrother we share this planet with 7.7 billion people half of them women, they are everywhere.. in the last hour I decided I was hungry, went to restaurant to get a burger to go, sat at the bar, 3 girls (1 cute) sitting right next to me, now we know each other, she’s single, and already planning on when we’re going to hangout (I was going for tonight but she’s hanging w/ her girls, all good). Then as I was waiting for my food, I told them I was going to go next door to Walgreens, sure enough a cu… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Best text game resource?Just gave this exact advice to the dude above.. The text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date.. sounds like you’re doing the most important part already with the approach, so I always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, what are you doing now/tonight? And if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night be… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl giving me interest and then all of a sudden ignores meThe text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date.. sounds like you’re doing the most important part already with the approach, so I always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, what are you doing now/tonight? And if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night before or day of to set up details.. the only way … | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 02:36 AM |
| 2 | What role does social media play in seduction?Biggest role for me is long term follow up with girls who are either not available now (relationship, etc.) or who I approached and don’t live in same area as me.. other than that I’m all about approaching new girls and setting up hanging out with them as soon as possible and/or right now.. everybody uses social differently though, there’s no right or wrong way.. here’s some brand new day game from Miami Beach for added inspiration, including a few girls who fall into this social media category.… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 02:27 AM |
| 3 | my text game is badThe text for me is primarily only to set up details for hanging out/date.. you’re doing the most important part already with the approach, so I always like to go for the instant date first if it’s possible with my schedule, what are you doing now/tonight? And if that’s not possible with you or her then she’ll either give you a day, “I’m free on ...” or I’ll ask what’s your week look like? Then I’ll tell her I’ll message her the night before or day of to set up details.. the only way I’m getting … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?It’s always more challenging when a girl is working in a crowded store for sure.. in that scenario instead of handing my phone to the girl to put in her IG, I’ll just open it up and say “I know you’re busy here at work, what’s your IG I’ll add you and maybe we’ll connect sometime in the future.. then just look at her and then down at your phone with your fingers ready to type.. she’ll give it to you if the vibe is there.. plus there’s something more comfortable about girls giving their social wh… | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Rude to approach/open when she is on the phone?It’s definitely not my preferred way to approach HOWEVER there are certain occasions where you have no other option and you may never see this beautiful girl again (maybe you will in this situation maybe you won’t) but for me if a girl is super🔥and I may never see her again I’m approaching.. and I’ll be straightforward, “I hate to be rude and interrupt people on the phone however this may be the only time in life we are in the same place at the same time and I had to say hello..” If they are fee… | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?Every situation is different, so because of this every time I am attracted to a girl I approach, I’d much rather know one way or another what can go down with this girl.. and on the bf note if I’m feeling the vibe with a girl and we both know something could go down if the timing was different, I’ll just say with a smile “all good, let’s connect on IG and maybe we’ll cross paths in the future.” That at least leaves it open to whatever possibilities may happen later.. most importantly brother you… | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm just too bad at starting the conversation. Help me out.Very similar challenge to the post I just commented on above (approach anxiety) I have the same advice for you brother, and I’d expand your mind to more than just this one girl and start practicing your approach so you feel comfortable over time talking to anyone at any time.. here’s the best advice I can give.. Most importantly be in a good mood/vibe/energy. Have a plan (start with end in mind). What do I need to know? Who you are, do you live in the area, if not how long are you here, are you … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:04 AM |
| 3 | how you fix your problem with approach anxietyBe in a good mood/vibe, have a plan (start with end in mind). What do I need to know? Who you are, do you live in the area, if not how long are you here, are you single/available, (yes) very nice we should hang out.. (connect on social or number) go for instant date, what are you doing now or today/tonight? Either hang out with them then or nice to meet we’ll set something up.. Most important have fun and don’t worry about what you’re saying, just have a plan, and go down the path towards where … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 03:59 AM |
| 0 | Am I over thinking this?Its kind of like we have to take a half court shot after all this time that has passed without sharing how you feel.. So if it were me I’d be direct, and make it seem like you just now realized you’re interested in her.. Something like, “we’ve known each other for a long time and I’m realizing now I’m feeling you more than just as a friend.. if the feeling is mutual let’s hang out.. All good either way, but I’m the type of person that likes to be honest and straightforward about things, so this … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Attractive, experienced womenThe key to manifesting desires is to truly enjoy the process, “enjoy playing the game” if you have a desire to hook up with hot girls, have a relationship, or whatever, you’ll get to that outcome by enjoying the moment and letting it unfold without worrying about the result.. Get in a good mood, have a plan, approach, escalate.. Have fun with it all brother, here’s some new day game from Miami Beach, Fl for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes! https://youtu.be/kwBtqxi4VWM | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I NEED BRILLIANT OPENERS FOR COLLEGE GIRLSHappy to help brother | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I NEED BRILLIANT OPENERS FOR COLLEGE GIRLSNo difference between college girls or anyone else.. Be in a good mood/vibe, have a plan (start with end in mind). What do I want to know? Who you are, where you’re from, how long are you here, are you single/available, (yes) very nice we should hang out.. (connect on social or number) go for instant date, what are you doing now or today/tonight? Either hang out with them then or nice to meet we’ll set something up.. Most important have fun and don’t worry about what you’re saying, just have a p… | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 12:16 AM |
| 3 | how i get more confident ?Confidence in life comes with successful attempts/life experience.. all of us at one time in our life weren’t confident with women because we had 0 successful attempts/life experience.. what you’re taking about when it comes to looks is just a choice to look at yourself in that way, rock with what you got brother and if you want to change it, change what you can change, (workout, clothes, etc) Most important when it comes to interacting with women and people in general is your vibe/mood/energy..… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What do I do with a girl who has a boyfriend?I can only ever answer from what I would do, there are no “should’s or should nots” with that said I’d make sure she knew I was interested and the only reason we haven’t hung out yet is she’s not available.. however I’d say let’s connect on IG because who knows what may happen in the future.. MOST IMPORTANTLY I’d approach a lot more girls, if I’m thinking a lot about someone who’s not available it means I don’t have enough other options.. here’s some new day game from Miami Beach for added inspi… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | 'Nowhere' interactions frustrate me more than harsh rejectionsIt’s all part of it brother.. the more and more you approach, you will experience everything.. the I just met you and I want to come home and have sex with you, the I definitely can see and hear you are approaching me but I’m going to act like I’m blind and deaf and maybe you’ll just disappear lol, and everything in between. All we can do is be happy that we approached and as we have more experiences we will continue to play the game better and better.. Here’s some new day game from Miami Beach … | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Need help lads!! (Picking up a cashier girl)Love it brother happy to help! Confidence comes in anything in life with successful attempts, and in this game as long as you’re approaching and having fun with it = successful attempt.. and you’ll gain more and more experience aka confidence! | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | When picking up girls IRL and not online, do you use a pickup line? Or just be casual?Be in a good mood/vibe, have a plan (start with end in mind). What do I need to know? Who you are, do you live in the area, if not how long are you here, are you single/available, (yes) very nice we should hang out.. (connect on social or number) go for instant date, what are you doing now or today/tonight? Either hang out with them then or nice to meet we’ll set something up.. Most important have fun and don’t worry about what you’re saying, just have a plan, and go down the path towards where … | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Need help lads!! (Picking up a cashier girl)If it were me, I’d choose a time to go through her line where it’s not busy and there’s nobody else behind me, I need 30-60 seconds to work.. again if it were me (no right or wrong) I’d say, “I’ve seen you in here before but it was always too busy to talk to you.. you single? (I say it with a smile) (she says yes) I say “good or very nice” (also with a smile and eye contact) “We should connect when you’re not working.. you on IG?” (my personal preference these days is connecting on social) Then … | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:15 AM |
| 1 | No women in my day-to-day lifestyleBro you can’t fake energy.. you are either happy or sad, frustrated, worried, angry, blissful, joyful, euphoric, etc.. It’s always in the moment and these days w/ technology our energy can be measured so these aren’t just words or theories (I’ve had my energy measured at events using an EEG brain scan).. with that said there is no right or wrong way to be, it’s all a personal choice, you want to be unhappy today, cool, will be a challenging day for sure (we’re human we’ve all been there) you wan… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | No women in my day-to-day lifestyleMaybe one day brother.. the best way for any of us to teach anything is through our example, so right now I’m showing that through the daily videos/vlog. Who knows what will evolve in the future.. Thx for the compliment, sending positive vibes bro! | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | No women in my day-to-day lifestyleAs you’ll see in that video ☝️I personally always ask because it’s a part of my escalation strategy, my reply normally will be “good or very nice” (with a smile on my face) then I can find out what they are doing now or tonight, etc. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 05:56 PM |
| 0 | New/Beginning ApproachingWelcome brother! The first and most step to evolving in any area of life is desire, and you obviously have that, and the absolute best teacher is life experience.. with that said my best advice is enjoy the process of learning and applying, and don’t be attached to results.. If/when approaching becomes a fun game to you or to any of us, we become unstoppable, and all the success/results we want to have is inevitable! Here’s some new day game from Miami Beach Fl that will help you, and give you a… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | When a girl leaves me on readApproach someone new.. if I text something where an obvious reply is warranted and they don’t reply.. we will never talk again unless we see each other in person again (I’ll always be cool in person because they get a brand new taste of your vibe/energy and can now have a second chance to act right lol) + you showed you weren’t the needy dude who kept texting even after she disappeared.. to each their own but to me this is standard operating procedure.. do whatever you’re most inspired to do bro… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 07:16 AM |
| 1 | No women in my day-to-day lifestyleBro if your story about anything in life is “it’s hard, or it won’t work” it’s a self fulfilling prophecy.. whatever our story is in life we get to keep, this is your movie, you’re the star.. with that said, we share this planet with 7.7 billion people half of them women, they are everywhere.. in the last hour I decided I was hungry, went to restaurant to get a burger to go, sat at the bar, 3 girls (1 cute) sitting right next to me, now we know each other, she’s single, and already planning on w… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | 20 year old needs motivation/adviceGreat advice ☝️ | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:26 AM |
| 1 | 20 year old needs motivation/adviceNotice how much fun you are when you are living life in a really good mood.. all of us are magnetic and super on point.. timing, humor, etc when we’re enjoying life the most.. my advice is get clear on what you want, dates/hookups/relationship/ etc and then have a plan working backwards from that final outcome.. it all starts with the approach though and I can speak for all of us and say we all suck if we’re in a crap mood or worried about results.. so just have fun with it and always know that … | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be a loser and not get any womenWe all love and find joy doing different things in life.. all any of us truly have is this moment right now, so if you are enjoying this moment no matter what you are doing it is a really great moment, have enough great moments you have a really great day, have enough great days you have a really great life. All of us can be, do, and have anything though, so if evolving your life with women, or any other area is important to you, you can do it 100000%. Sending you positive vibes bro! | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Is it okay to be a loser and not get any womenGreat answer ☝️ | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | NEW DAY GAME! MIAMI BEACH, FL. (prob my favorite day ever at the beach and ended with same day hookup 🔥)Thx brother | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 03:32 AM |
| 2 | NEW DAY GAME IN MIAMI BEACH! 🔥Girls from 🇺🇸🇨🇭 🇮🇹Appreciate it brother 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 04:10 AM |
| 3 | NEW DAY GAME IN MIAMI BEACH! 🔥Girls from 🇺🇸🇨🇭 🇮🇹I feel you brotha.. sometimes escalation happens after the cameras go off and through text.. I’m always looking to divide and conquer when it comes to groups, but yes some interactions flow quicker there than others.. I show everything and yesterday’s video and tomorrow’s (filmed today) led to same day hookups 🤷🏽♂️ every approach is different.. sending positive vibes bro | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on the final final closeIf you’ve already escalated it to kissing on the sofa, keep escalating until you’re having sex with her.. work your way down, kiss her neck, pull out her tits, enjoy kissing them for a minute, work your way down kiss around her stomach, she knows you’re going to try and go down on her at this point, just keep going.. it’s all about the energy that’s building, just be completely present to her and the experience and enjoy.. it sounds like you may be overthinking now and also probably during the e… | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I start Escalating?You just need to have an escalation plan brother.. I call it “going down the path” my path leads to a fun sexual experience, so if she decides to keep coming with me while I’m leading her down this path I already know what’s going down. So we have to start with the end in mind, where is this hook up going to take place? Once we have that figured out, you’re already doing the most important 1st step which is the approach, so on my escalation plan/ my path I want to go somewhere I can vibe w/ her … | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Bus rideSame answer as above.. it’s all about your energy.. if you are in a happy/excited mood your brain can only feed you happy/excited thoughts, which turn into, words, actions, and results.. the simple and very important key 🔑 to life brother | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Bus rideBest advice.. the better mood/vibe you’re in the more you will just naturally be comfortable to others, that along w/ just doing more and more approaches.. it’s all fun, playful, good vibes, enjoy yourself brother! | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach with sunglasses on if they make me look more appealing?Happy to help brother | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach with sunglasses on if they make me look more appealing?If you are more confident with them on wear them, however if the girl is not wearing glasses good eye contact will only help you in your approach/escalation (I personally always take my sunglasses off whether she is wearing them or not unless it’s blinding sunlight outside, because then she’ll usually follow my lead and I can see what she looks like better and the above mentioned eye contact).. as you approach more and more you will become more and more confident and it won’t matter to you wheth… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Bus rideHappy to help brother.. We’ve all been there where we’ve missed an opportunity to approach.. that sting of not having the balls to do it has always stayed with me and is why I approach everyone I’m attracted to now. Keep doing your thing, awesome experiences are happening for you! | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Bus rideI appreciate it brother, yes she was slow to warm up but did gradually the longer we vibed.. she was only 20 and I found out had only been at the beach for like 2 mins before I came up, so it must have been like “who is this dude” lol. You see when she said this is her only day in town I was like, “let me (get comfortable) sit down and talk to you.” | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Bus rideNice brother.. it’s never about the results, just the fact that you had the courage to approach and in a bus full of people.. as you know it always feels better not wondering “what if I would have said something?” A little side tip, if there is a good vibe w/ the girl and she’s unavailable because she has a bf I will simply say, you use IG? And I’ll connect w/ them there, that way you have the long game automatic follow up in place.. all this girl and every girl you approach will know for the re… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:11 AM |
| 2 | NEW DAY GAME + SAME DAY HOOKUP! Miami Beach, Florida. 🔥(love sharing these videos with you guys, not doing anything any of us can’t do. Sending positive vibes to all!)Thx brother happy you enjoyed! | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | How to get into nightclubs for free (+ Infield)Great video brother | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | So i am intermediate at Pickup but i still suck dick.You just need to have an escalation plan brother.. I call it “going down the path” my path leads to an awesome sexual experience and if she decides to keep coming with me while I’m leading her down this path I already know what’s going down. So we have to start with the end in mind, where is this hook up going to take place? Sounds like you’re on vacation, so your hotel room? Her hotel room, don’t have your own room, then we already need another place in mind, a car, in the ocean, a bathroom, et… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Best app for managing contacts?Bro what’s your plan with all these numbers? You’re talking about playing one helluva follow up game and for all of us, definitely girls included out of sight out of mind. My advice is escalate faster, like “what are you doing now/tonight?” They may be down for instant escalation or they may say, “I’m free tmr, etc” and if not I say cool I’ll msg you.. From the time I first meet someone, if we don’t have plans made in 24-72 hours it’s very unlikely I’ll think to message them again, that’s just m… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | DAY GAME VIBE LEADS TO SAME DAY ONLINE HOOKUP (story in comments)Lol yes the urgency of your example is definitely a very strong neediness.. We’re on the same page brother, the definition of sense of urgency and the way I use it is, “imperative to act decisively, promptly, and without delay.” Otherwise ✌🏽maybe we’ll connect another time. Good vibes always bro | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | cold approach girls on college campus as freshman - good idea or nah?Yes great idea if and only if that’s what you’re inspired to do, that is exactly how I approached my freshman year in college and it benefited me my entire time there as a result.. I’ve seen several mentions to being “that guy” the guy I’ve always wanted to be is if I crossed paths with a girl I’m attracted to all we both know for the remainder of our time here on this planet is I said something when I first had the chance. Even if it’s a simple flirty, “what’s your name, where you from, etc, fi… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 3 | DAY GAME VIBE LEADS TO SAME DAY ONLINE HOOKUP (story in comments)No. You can’t have an abundance mentality and be needy at the same time. Needy implies scarcity and there is none of that on a planet shared with 7.7 billion other people. Sense of urgency means I’m not here to play little text message games, if you want to hang out let’s vibe, I’m only messaging you right now because I’m available, you are too, cool, oh you’re not, cool maybe another time, and I’m already approaching or messaging someone else. I thought the “3 haves” above had a good flow, but … | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | DAY GAME VIBE LEADS TO SAME DAY ONLINE HOOKUP (story in comments)Don’t miss the message brother, I purposely mentioned what my escalation plan is if/when I don’t have a pool deck. 95% of the same day hook ups I’ve had in my life have not included these logistics. I remember 16 year old me, and stage 1 of my escalation plan was having drinks in my two color car (white and rust lol) that barely started. Have good vibes, have an escalation plan, have a sense of urgency. Just one mans opinion, again not doing anything anyone else can’t do. Sending you positive vi… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | DAY GAME VIBE LEADS TO SAME DAY ONLINE HOOKUP (story in comments)This is a great example of how day game vibes can lead to either a hookup that day with someone you meet (if that’s what you’re looking for) or how that same vibe makes us magnetic to someone that shows up out of nowhere online. I never post any of this to say “hey look at me” I’m not doing anything that any of us can’t do, it’s all energy, it’s all attraction, I’m rooting for all of us.. Storytime - So I was in a great mood all day, approaching hot girls on the beach (see day game video below) … | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Good ways for a female to approach guys at the gym?Just ask any question about anything, easy if it’s workout related if you’re at the gym. Just breaking the initial conversation barrier will be enough for many guys, with others they still may not try to escalate it so you can easily say playfully “I have another question, are you single?” (Yes) “Nice, we should hang out sometime..” You’re making it nice and easy for these guys who may or may not have been nervous to approach, definitely nothing wrong with that.. have fun, sending you positive v… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 05:42 AM |
| 2 | I can be confident but not all the timeWhatever works do it, it’s great that you’re aware of something that works for you, enjoy the journey brother! | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Pamplemousse Field Report ;)))))))))))))))))Bro the fact that you’re so self aware of your vibe/energy/state makes any of us unstoppable.. is the #1 thing I try to help anyone with who wants to improve themselves in any area of life. Humans walk around with a lot of blind spots until we become aware of them, bring them to light, and then can choose to change. For you the fact that you’re going to enjoy yourself and the process regardless if it ends in you getting laid or not is a great place to be, every girl can feel this level of detach… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | I can be confident but not all the timeNone of us do we’re human.. you could be the best PUA in the world and if you have a worried vibe because there’s something else going on in your life that’s worrying you, even that person won’t be on top of their game because their energy is off.. so what I’m saying is think about those areas of life you’re best at and have fun with, and try to go into your approaches with that same fun, happy energy, and that alone will make your approaches go better, then as you have more and more successful … | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I can be confident but not all the time💯 we can’t be confident and worried about the outcome at the same time, we must choose | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:04 AM |
| 2 | I can be confident but not all the timeConfidence is a vibe, it’s an energy.. think about when you’re doing something you love and are good at, that’s of course the vibe you want to be in when approaching.. we get more and more confident in everything we do the more successful attempts we have at doing it.. when it comes to approaching if you can have a fun, playful, happy, just enjoying life vibe, and come across energy wise as I’m talking to you because I’m attracted to you and I’m not attached to whether or not you’re feeling me o… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Need advice on chatting up women during the day in the street.@goofed good advice.. most important is your energy/mood.. be excited for the adventure of that 30 minute walk and be prepared to say something when you see someone you’re attracted to, I advise saying whatever pops into your brain as long as you’re in a playful mood and aren’t attached to the results of the approach.. and have a plan of where you want this interaction to lead.. doesn’t sound like an instant date is an option if you’re going to work, however EVERY time after I’ve connected with … | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Pamplemousse Field Report ;)))))))))))))))))Entertaining read.. nights like this are really fun whenever we are high vibing this way.. best advice is clear up your intentions for the night.. if you’re trying to get laid (by someone you’re really feeling of course not talking about the ones who were just so so for you..) then each one of those interactions you had that you did a great job of escalating, you would have kept escalating until it led to wherever logistical spot you had set up for the hook up.. however you didn’t have a clear l… | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you admit to girls you’re a player?Definition of player - “one who plays” I don’t play any games and am very straightforward about my love for the adventures and mystery of life and the fact that monogamy isn’t something I’m personally interested in (to each their own I’m rooting for everyone) if the girl then still decides to keep coming along for the ride with me, everything is all good, we were clear from the beginning. In the words of the late great Big Pun, “I’m not a player I just crush a lot.” 🤷🏽♂️😂 | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?All of us build confidence through successful attempts and successful doesn’t have to mean sex.. it’s whatever for you is an improvement from where you were.. keep doing that and allowing yourself to evolve without beating yourself up for where you are now, and all this stuff you wrote about above will be a distant memory and be laughable to you. The more you embrace the journey the faster and more fun it will be.. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?That will NEVER come up when your vibe is on point.. if it’s coming up now it’s only because you’re worried about it coming up and that’s what your vibe is attracting.. and if you’re in the moment with a girl and she wants to have sex with you, how many girls you’ve been with won’t stop her whether it’s 1 or 1 million (well maybe 1 million may stop some but it wasn’t a problem for Wilt lol) | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?If you have sex today you will be happy. If I have sex today I will be happy. If I don’t have sex today I will still choose to be happy. We all get to make that choice for ourselves.. if you keep your mind off of results for a little while and put your full attention on the fun of the game your results will come. And all of us are BAD at everything in life until one day we practice enough and we’re a little better, and practice more and finally get good. Every person in this subreddit SUCKED at … | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?Read above comment to Marv.. the past doesn’t mean anything and it has exactly 0 to do with your right now which the cumulation of all your right nows is what is creating your future.. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?There are BILLIONS of subjects in this world that we can focus on, so don’t choose to focus on the one that makes you feel depressed when you’re trying to be in a good mood. That’d be like being 100 pounds overweight and your strategy to be in a good mood is going over to the scale? It doesn’t matter how we get happy, you can watch funny YouTube cat videos if that’s what does it for you.. the point is, in those moments when you are your thoughts and words will flow, people/girls will be magnetic… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?Yes that’s key 🔑 and now that you’re aware of it you have the power to choose.. when you’re not in the best mood don’t beat yourself up for it, just do whatever you need to do to feel better, doesn’t matter what it is.. what do parents do when their little kids are in a cranky mood? “little Johnny you need a nap” sometimes we do too lol | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?I will also say that even though I’m not thinking about the words.. all my approaches have the same strategy as far as the path I want this interaction to go down.. I know that if a girl comes with me down my path, it leads to my bedroom.. She can choose to stop coming with me down my path at any time but that is where the path leads, and if she chooses to get off at any point (could be from the beginning if she doesn’t want to talk at all.. could be in the middle if she doesn’t want to go along… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?Appreciate it brother.. going to give you the secret to life and human connection.. the better your mood the better it goes.. your brain can only give you thoughts/words that are a match to your vibe/energy. Happy, fun, vibe, your brain will serve you up happy, fun words.. worried about what to say, none of us are nearly as sharp from that energy.. so may sound easier said than done but next time you’re wanting to approach, check your energy, if you treat it like an exciting adventure and are in… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?If I’m attracted to you I’m approaching.. I’m not attached to the results. I want them to know 1 thing, the very first time I had a chance to say something to them I did.. and if they’re receptive I’m trying to hang out w/ them as close to right now as possible (and always find out what they’re doing now for the possible instant date) If you do this w/ everyone you’re attracted to, then the ones who are most down will sort themselves out and because you’re being straightforward and at the same t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:24 PM |
| 0 | How to pick up girls during my study abroad semester?My vibe is ALWAYS if I’m attracted to you I’m approaching.. HOWEVER I’m not attached to the results. This is very important.. I want the girl(s) that I’m attracted to, to know 1 thing, the very first time I had a chance to say something to them I did.. I’d want to know where they’re from, did they leave a serious boyfriend back at home, etc. If they’re single I’d plant the seed immediately, let’s grab drinks tonight (even if it’s w/ the whole group or 1 on 1 all good) If you do this w/ everyone … | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Would like to get better at flirting with girls bet I’m pretty shyIt’s easier than you think brother.. do whatever you have to do to get yourself in a really good mood, and then just trust yourself to say whatever pops in your brain, just say it, don’t second guess it.. if you’re happy you think happy thoughts, therefore you say happy words.. if you’re worried about what should I say what will she think, then you’ll have worried thoughts and she will feel that vibe.. once you start doing this remember we all learn most by life experience, so just get and a goo… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Today at the gymThat’s just your story, it doesn’t have to be, and definitely doesn’t have to be his or anyone else’s. Any place where there is an attractive girl you want to meet is a good place to approach, they’re human you’re human, there is a chance you may never see this person again and have another chance, so 1st opportunity you get approach or wonder what could have happened if you did. Sending positive vibes to you and the writer of this post, keep it up brother! | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGNice happy to connect with you brother.. will be a fun school year for you! | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGHappy to help. Yes daily daygame vlog. Just did the first 28 days in a row from S Beach Miami. This is by far my favorite part of life 💯 | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGOh and if I read this right I wouldn’t spend any time talking to anyone who isn’t local that you can actually meet up with now. Find out when you’ll both be in town and start back at step 1 invitation then 👍 | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGIf day game is what you’re good at you’re golden.. if I were you and my goal was some fun hookups letting things flow wherever they flow (that would be my personal goal not saying it’s yours) I would have a strategy in place starting with the end in mind and work backwards.. hookup is taking place where? (my apartment) ok how close can I invite her to my apartment so when the vibe has escalated enough we can ideally walk back to my place. I use my pool deck as an example but if I didn’t have thi… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGWhat’s your plan here brother?.. I see this message stretching out from Sunday early afternoon until Tuesday night, without one mention of hanging out.. personal advice when it comes to tinder and trying to move things where you want them to go with a girl in general.. SENSE OF URGENCY. Anytime I’m messaging with a girl it’s because I’m available to hang out right now/tonight.. I am always “out on the pool deck with a glass of wine.. want to join me?” even if I’m chillin in my draws inside or at… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:18 AM |
| 2 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?Read comment above about escalation and hanging out as close to now as possible.. it’s really not about whether or not to ask this, doesn’t matter, it’s just the next step in my personal escalation process.. for some they may take a different approach it’s all good | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:39 AM |
| 2 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?The entire process is WAY easier the more urgent we are but not thirsty or attached at the same time.. all a girl will know is “damn he knew what he wanted and had no problem going for it..” | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:37 AM |
| 2 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?I don’t want her phone number I want to see how quickly I can go from meeting her right now to escalating it back to my place.. when you look a girl right in the eyes and I always have a sexual vibe/energy from the first moment, and ask if she’s single and within milliseconds of her saying yes, I’m saying “good” with a smile on my face, now we can escalate to what are you doing right now? I don’t waste any time lol. The phone number/social media exchange can happen if it’s not possible to hang o… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?And for further clarification there’s been times where I’ve asked that and found out she’s in an open relationship or is still down to connect w/ me on social and connected with me down the road.. just because she says she has a bf the game doesn’t stop if the mutual vibes are there.. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?Sometimes she will sometimes she won’t. That’s what takes it from friendly conversation to let’s clear this up right now I’m talking to you because I’m interested in being way more than just your friend.. To each their own but that gets asked early in the conversation every time for me unless she says it before I ask. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:18 AM |
| 9 | There’s this cute girl who rides my bus and I want to talk to her. How do I talk to her and get her contact info?Hey this will probably be my last day of summer school and I want to make sure I meet you before I go.. (say it with a smile) What’s your name? I’m .... You going to be in town the rest of summer or you have some travel plans? You single or have a bf? Nice we should hang out.. what are you up to tonight? (I’m always urgent) (if she’s not free say cool well I’ll message you and we’ll set something up) She’ll say ok. Hand her your phone with number pad open. My preference these days tbh is IG inst… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 05:08 AM |
| 11 | My hands are tiedThe moment we’re in now is all that is promised so if you’re feeling the vibe with him enjoy the moments you have with him.. I wouldn’t make any “committal” decisions until you are 1000% certain in one direction or another. I have a saying that helps out a lot when it comes to making decisions.. “if it is not a HELL YES it’s a hell no (for now)” Things can and always do change, enjoy the moments.. sending you positive vibes! | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Shy Timid, DM Slides afterwardsMy advice is strike while the iron is hot, have a sense of urgency.. have a plan.. when you meet them find out what they’re doing right then (instant date) have a place in mind to go have a drink with them etc. If you’re leading the interaction in the direction you want it to go the girl will either keep coming with you all the way down your path to your bedroom or wherever you want it to lead, or she won’t, then you course correct, adjust accordingly. Most importantly keep approaching and like … | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:54 AM |
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