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AIisVolatPropriis/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 03:48 PM
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Considering that a trauma bond is a response to abuse, yeah, I would say it's not a good thing and one should try to avoid it. I mean, unless both parties are totally into that kind of thing and are consenting, then more power to them. But generally it's not a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 10:15 PM
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They did this with Stoicism as well, completely skipping over the 'virtue' and 'goodness' parts. Very typical cherry-picking mentality.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 12:02 PM
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Not anymore. The trolls ruined it by harassing and abusing the men that were being vulnerable and trying to share their feelings. Hit up the mod box and we can try to help you individually.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:33 AM
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I have to remove this because to linked to TRP. Resubmit without the link and it can get approved.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:31 AM
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Simple answer: Some like assholes and some detest them. Some are only trauma bonded to their asshole and don't actually like him and some are actively trying to release their trauma bond by dating around.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:27 AM
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A lot of people are forced to use throwaways due to quite literally daily harassment and abuse from other throwaways and users that actively subscribe to The Red Pill and MGTOW subs. They come here in very predictable ways and flood the sub with their indoctrinated garbage all the time. Now we have measures in place that reduces a lot of that. The new procedures are a direct result of their behavior of acting like 3rd graders but sadly are actual adults. I'll post some of the garbage that we get…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 11:24 AM
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With that ratio, I'm willing to bet at least half of those were bought and they're dummy accounts.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 11:28 PM
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Curious, have you cross-referenced the behaviors with the common-use terms instead of the relabeled ones?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 04:09 PM
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I find that there is an endless supply of them. When we get rid of some, they either try to come back with different alts or get distracted and go somewhere else. If they truly wanted to help themselves, they'd be trying to have discussion on the counterpoints. But they don't, they blitzkrieg basic comments with the false narratives and then leave... over and over and over again. Then if you get real lucky, they'll blast your chats with really abusive stuff and then deny it minutes later. The mi…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 03:39 PM
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I know, I saw that he's trying to sell courses on The Red Pill. But we try to humor them for a bit anyways, just in case they need help. As long as they don't break the rules, they're welcome here too. Thank you though. 😊
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 02:13 PM
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because women have such ridiculous high standards You're placing a very broad belief on billions of women. If this was really true for all women, there would be no men under 8's that are happily married, thriving even on a modest income, etc. These lies they have fed you only stay due to a cognitive distortion commonly referred to as 'overgeneralization'. Here is an article on it that explains its purpose and how to try and break free from it: https://cogbtherapy.com/cbt-blog/cognitive-distortio…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 12:54 PM
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I know, I'm sorry, I was making a joke about how stoic women often get called psychopaths because of the stoicness and nothing actually to do with being a psychopath. Bad joke. 😬😇
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 09:44 AM
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The problem is that it does work on certain types of people. That's not the concern with a lot of people, it's the ethics and morality behind it and why it works and how much harm it does to the person it's being used on. There's a lot of justification around it all and people often say, 'well it works' and yes, but that's not the point.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 03:20 PM
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You're a closet psychopath too, eh? /s 😅
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 11:47 AM
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Funny thing is, there are still billions of manly men. It's not like manly men are rare.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 11:24 AM
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I, too, have a mentally ill mum. I feel your pain completely and get you. It's so very hard to be the victim of being human and dealing with mirror neurons. Those autopilot habits are HARD to break, but sooo worth it when you can see yourself escaping the cycle.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 11:02 AM
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People just need a wake up call of the powers of misinformation and propaganda. People are just being reckless and it's doing real damage to people's minds they 'claim' to care about. It's clearly easy for others to get people to dehumanize people and turn their empathy off for the reason of getting more sex. What an easy campaign to deploy and it shows how gullible some people are and how tightly they hold onto it when it's been quite thoroughly debunked. Oz's curtain has already been removed a…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:42 AM
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Hard to decipher who is who when you've got multiple very different groups calling themselves Red Pill. Edit: Hint: The real Red Pill group was more closely tied to the actual movie and the what the creators of the concept actually envisioned.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 09:52 PM
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Wooow, this makes so much sense! My 8 male friends of mine all went Red Pill (all of which having their own mental health issues, including Borderline). After that, they were all deploying the 'tricks' to 'control' Borderlines (women), but instead it ended up breaking me (because I'm not Borderline). I did not learn until later that my ENTIRE social circle went Red Pill because they were all men who had been abused by women (and being poorly taught how to detect abusers and what to do with them)…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 07:56 PM
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OMG, this has been my experience so much. You wrote that so perfectly. I feel like I make their brains 404 by talking to them. They cannot believe there are woman stoics. Then, if I'm too stoic, they call me a psychopath. LOL
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 06:51 PM
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Oh man, that sounds hilarious! But I feel like I'm the only person in the country who has not yet seen The Office yet. LOL
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 06:50 PM
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In my experience of dealing with Red Pill and it's believers for the last 5 years (I left around that time and switched 'sides' then), I find that there is an interesting dynamic in there. You have a bunch of men acting hard all over Reddit, but when they slide into my DMs to sweet talk me, they're a completely different person because I'm good at cracking the shell and then they don't know what to do. Within hours of talking to a Red Pill man, I can 'convert' most of them (around 90+%). They th…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 06:44 PM
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🤣 That's quite scary honestly.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:52 PM
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Yes, I think the causes of codependency are moreso the reasons. It usually comes from abuse, being raised around addicts, etc. Those naturally cause the symptoms/behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:51 PM
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I did too and was originally diagnosed with Asperger's as well about 10-ish years ago, but it was changed to PTSD/Dissociative Disorder afterward and I was likewise finding the unstable partners. In my recovery, it was referred to as the codependent/narcissist dance (prior to Red Pill) and I learned it was VERY common. If you don't mind me asking, are you also codependent?
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:38 PM
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Sure thing. Anytime. 😊
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:35 PM
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Amazing women get conned by sociopaths all the time, as do amazing men. Breeding can be a byproduct of said conning.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:21 PM
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OMFG YES! That's what I was looking for.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:04 PM
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Ohhh yes, I get you now. I misunderstood. And yes, there is actually a great quote and discussion in The Matrix that talks about this very concept: Oracle: I'd ask you to sit down, but, you're not going to anyway. And don't worry about the vase. Neo: What vase? Oracle: That vase. Neo: I'm sorry... Oracle: I said don't worry about it. I'll get one of my kids to fix it. Neo: How did you know? Oracle: Ohh, what's really going to bake your noodle later on is, would you still have broken it if I hadn…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:02 PM
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I think some do absolutely use things like irony, being offensive, and being a shit lord as their MO for sales because it works. Some really love that stuff, but they also are often the worst behaved people themselves, so it makes sense. If you want to be better, logical, morally good, you have to read that stuff, live it, breathe it. When I was lost and confused as you were, I turned to /r/Stoicism and that along with therapy literally saved my life. I was following Red Pill stuff because its t…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 04:23 PM
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Sounds reasonable and obvious. I do believe many are under the belief (and blame) that 'settling' is a 100% conscious thought and that is rarely the case. Sometimes it's us ignoring (or lack wisdom to see) red flags for a long time until we finally get fed up, or getting stuck in the cycle of abuse until we can escape the looping until someone breaks us out, etc. Both women and men experience these lapses in judgement, but it does not mean one was 'settling'. When someone comes along that treats…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 04:09 PM
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Congrats. Then you're not the type we discuss.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 04:08 PM
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This is amazing!!! This is a great example of the 'alpha male' types even in my own experience. They go from being nice to suddenly being abusive. The dude called his woman and baby mama "ugly", threatened her for money, and a bunch of other bullshit. He nailed his own coffin by becoming abusive. HVM do not abuse.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 03:19 PM
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That's not my quote, that's what the announcer said. I laughed so hard. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 03:12 PM
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"He's built like Snorlax". BAHAHA!! 🤣
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 02:56 PM
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I don't think anyone debates the preference to not want to date them, what people get upset at is the hate parade of single moms. Some are amazing women that were completely fucked by a awful man and yet they take the blame for walking away or being left (similar to how amazing men get fucked by similar women with those same mental illnesses/shitty behavior). Some do it to protect their children from abusive men and yet again, they get the hate for daring to leave them AND also get hate for stay…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 02:52 PM
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One that focuses on their mental health with accurate information. One that recommends that they go to a therapist and take medicine if they need it. One that tells them to heal any childhood trauma before trying to get into a relationship. One that doesn't harass them and bully them for being 'beta cucks trapped by evil wahhmen'. I could keep going...
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 02:40 PM
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Agreed! Keeping up with the rat race only caused stress and trauma in my life. Exiting from it has been the best decision I've ever made. I feel like when I was that age, I was not ready to be a wife or decent partner. I think the new marriage ages should be no earlier than 30 honestly.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 02:32 PM
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Just go look at marriage statistics yourself. There are millions of people that find partners, get married, and have kids if they want later than 'the wall'. Everyone, barring health conditions that prevent this obviously, has the ability to learn, grow, and change. Addicts recover and change their lives at most age groups and if they can make those changes, you can as well. Milestones are made up markers to make you believe you need to check certain boxes determined by some unknown entity and t…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 02:30 PM
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You're approaching dangerous territory, cowboy. Don't say you weren't warned lots of times before all this explodes in your face like burning hot tar.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 10:35 AM
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Validation-seeking behavior gets validation from women who don't know better. These games work on inexperienced women. They pretend to love her, she feels good, she in turn makes him feel good, then he ghosts her after he's taken from her and he's onto the next plate with no remorse as to how he's destroyed her afterward. That's POWER and CONTROL. That is intoxicating to the ego and those controlled by their egos (and not the other way around).
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 10:32 AM
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Literally anyone can write anything and can get a following (especially if the hype is manufactured). Just because it's written doesn't mean it's ethically and morally right. Stop following the pills written by random schmucks online and find yourself and your moral center first. You're trying to put the cart before the horse.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 10:28 AM
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Bullies are gonna bully. They've been here throughout history and they will continue to exist (especially when we often praise it on social media). All we can do is what's within our control and make sure we are being kind and not being that same sadistic chucklefuck that gets pleasure off the pain of others. With that also comes something else within our control and that's learning these tactics they use so that we can avoid them, learn to see them, and learn what to do. Learning human behavior…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:54 PM
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"The suspect's prior criminal history consists of six felony and eight misdemeanor arrests, with charges including aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, drug possession, hit and run and DUI." He was a consistent danger to the public. They failed that family by letting him back out.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:56 AM
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Yes, there is the abuse/trauma aspect that comes from it as well. I went through it myself and there is definitely an anger stage with trauma recovery, but it's good for us abuse survivors to go through. Narcissistic abuse, whether from a man or woman is terrible to go through. Both men and women go through that stage. I just meant to put more emphasis on the grieving stages rather than the 'stolen' idea of it. Trauma recovery and the stages have been well-known and around much earlier than Red …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 05:44 PM
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Make another post and we can approve it if you list out the talking points instead. Be sure to mention the author, channel name, and video title.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 11:08 AM
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Removing due to domestic violence misinformation. Before the 1960's violence between family members was believed to be rare and only committed by the mentally ill or by disturbed and defective individuals. Until recently, wife-beatings was an accepted part of marriage in many cultures. There was a battered women movement during the 1960's which helped provide shelters for women who were getting abused. Abuse used to be accepted. Now it is not.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 11:07 AM
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I can't be sure without watching it. 😬 Just please list out the talking points for discussion and name the video and author for those that want to go find it. It's better for SEO anyways. If we're talking in depth and use the video title, it'll show up in search results. 😈
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 11:01 AM
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Red Pill Rage is a stolen idea. It's the anger stage that's natural as part of the grieving process when going through religious 'deprogramming' or from a generally 'Blue Pill' world (those that were raised around heavy religion or in high-control groups/cults). If you didn't go through it, it's likely not for you, but it is real, it just does not belong to Red Pill.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 10:59 AM
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Approving post because sexual stigmas and sex-negativity absolutely need to be discussed.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 10:55 AM
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Of course women do! Both men and women sexuality was and still is heavily repressed due to the biggest factor being religion and general sex-negative beliefs of the older generation. These things should be fought at the government level so that things like escort services are no longer illegal. Both sexes understand this.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 10:52 AM
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Removing so we're not giving them views. Other mods can correct me if necessary. I like your enthusiasm for debunking the bullshit, but let's just do screenshots of the video title or whatever and then use specific talking points instead of routing our followers there to mindlessly watch. We don't want to be the reason a person relapses.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 10:47 AM
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I believe you can self-publish on Amazon. Not sure how helpful this comment is though. 😬
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 07:47 PM
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"By playing puppeteer to the survivor’s perceptions, the manipulator is able to pull the strings in every context where his or her target feels powerless, confused, disoriented and on edge, perpetually walking on eggshells to keep the peace. ... After all, if someone cannot trust their own perceptions, it becomes that much easier to hand over the reins to the person who is shaping their reality in the first place. It becomes that much more difficult to confront the gaslighter without the fear of…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 05:57 PM
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"Speculation, movements having abandoned rational thought, echo chambers, projection, hypocrisy by little to no self-awareness, bewildering minds brainwashed and manipulative hearts manipulated - one is sure to find these à la people cock-sure in their biased and fanatical, immovable despising of persons. We would all do well to humbly re-think from time to time: 'Whom do I really hate? For what purpose?'" -Criss Jami
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 04:20 PM
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Overgeneralizing is a cognitive distortion, or a distorted way of thinking, that results in some pretty significant errors in thinking. A great deal of unnecessary emotional pain is caused by distortions such as overgeneralization. Making a broad assumption about something from limited experience is how we end up overgeneralizing. Here’s more info. CBT can usually help people work out of these bad thinking habits.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 02:57 PM
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"Feminism" isn't a dating strategy, nor are "they" the creator of nice guys. Nice guys have their own issues to deal with regarding being forward or not forward for whatever reason, they cannot handle the rejection well (especially the ones that abuse the girls after they get rejected), and a plethora of other issues that aren't the responsibility of anyone to fix but their own. Feminism isn't anti-dating, it's not anti-men, it's not anti-masculinity, it's anti-oppression. If you want to talk ab…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 07:53 AM
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OMG saaaaame! And yes, the relabeling within Red Pill was my first clue in too.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 07:41 AM
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Really important part: "Please keep in mind that facts are meaningless to these individuals. Consequently, it doesn’t matter what the facts are, no matter how well you articulate them. The facts are whatever the narcissist says they are at any given time and are subject to change at any given time. Typically, the narcissistic abuser will keep bullying, raging, throwing a tantrum, stonewalling and making life hell until you concede that their lies and distortions are true and apologize. When you …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 05:49 PM
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I'm open to assisting here or in private chat. But regardless, we're going to need more details to answer effectively.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:31 PM
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Yes, this! Learning that The Red Pill does NOT have the healthy answers for 'dysfunctional' relationships helped mine a lot. Their teachings are power plays and dominance rather than healthy communication, recommendations of therapy for both parties, and trauma-informed strategies (The Red Pill is intentionally triggering for trauma victims/survivors, which can make issues worse only then triggering our confirmation biases). ACT and CBT were my personal favorite.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:26 PM
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Rule 5 is for The Red Pill trolls that come here to obviously recruit. They'll comment on people's posts with things like, 'You're obviously a beta cuck with some dumb b*tch who is just using you for your money! Take The Red Pill!' Then they'll show their IQ by using 3rd grade spelling while trying to comment on adult manners. Rule 5 is reserved for those that obviously still need to be seated at the kid's table while the adults talk. 😊 Reasonable discussion about relationship issues without nam…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:17 PM
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You're generalizing. You've taken the wrong pill. Red Pill isn't about this. This is hijacking of The Red Pill ideology. You got conned by misogynistic money and clout chasers.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 01:27 PM
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You must be young if you're unable to see through this bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 01:24 PM
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Yuuup! It's the same as all the other interviewing videos too. You have no idea what went on behind the scenes and in editing. I've seen these twats record video asking totally different questions to get a certain answer and then change the question in editing. All these guys are frauds and soon their old SO's will come out and show proof of how abusive and terrible they are behind closed doors. Online clout chasing is addictive to these guys and they'll say anything to get more viewers, because…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 01:23 PM
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I didn't say you are, I'm saying that detoxing from the pills is the main focus here. No promotion of other pills.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 11:25 PM
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One thing that's stuck out to me, as I enjoy studying brains for fun, was that autistic people have issues within their DMN of their brains. That issue shows up with specific behaviors like a lack of understanding of the self, empathy towards others, etc. All of the behaviors of those subs show up in the missing 'components' of wonky DMN brains. (Not a med student, I'm simply a fan of brains and am very new to this study. Forgive me for stupid errors.) Red Pill, Black Pill, etc. often are people…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 07:45 PM
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Maybe if it was labeled 'safety test' or like 'pen test' in IT, you'd see it in a different light. These are normal human behaviors. Men do it as well. These are imperative for people to avoid abusers and for reintegration of an abuse victim back into dating after an abusive relationship. Talk to a trained professional if you don't believe me. Abuse victims are taught to use this to relearn how to 'listen' to their instincts again.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 11:19 AM
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I'm familiar with epigenetics. But on this sub, we don't allow soliciting of any other programs due to how they're being exposed for things like manipulation of studies or relabeling of someone else's hard work and career accomplishments (and most insidiously targeting and grooming of younger people). Are you Dr. Ajay Kumar PHD, The Founder and Discoverer of The Orange Pill?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 11:11 AM
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Your link does not work. Drop the science as well or you'll just be classified as another bunk 'program'.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 10:28 AM
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Haha, are you me? I agree with everything you just said.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 12:28 AM
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To assume an entire personality based on artwork they've chosen to put on their bodies, then they're shallow. I have tattoos, but they're tasteful and can be covered up if the need arises. To me, it's greatly dependent on the type and placement rather than the existence of them. It's 2021 and billions of people have chosen to express themselves by getting them. You limit yourself to some amazing partners by making that a deal breaker.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 09:59 PM
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Again, I don't either, but you keep asking, so I thought I would clarify my personal stance. I don't go around assessing people's value, but to me, there are certain minimums that adults should have and I listed mine plus things that I consider above the 'minimum' range. To be quite honest, social media has shown me a side of people that can just be downright vile and while I don't go around calling them low value, they clearly need some lessons on being a decent human at the very least.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 09:52 PM
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I don't really know how to explain subjective to you any other way. I have my own 'standards' of what makes people high and low value, but it's not for me to determine for anyone else. In reality you should be determining your own, based on your own experiences and preferences. I think a majority of people have "value" on this planet. Some are doing what they are good at and others needing to find that out still. High value women to me are kind, virtuous, financially responsible, can cook, clean…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 09:16 PM
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Haha, thanks. I try to spice up my rants with colorful language every once in a while. 😅
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 07:04 PM
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Again, it's subjective and depends on what each person is looking for. I agree, I don't like it either, but try to use the lingo that people know to explain things. I think this whole movement is garbage and is destroying relationships more than helping.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 07:01 PM
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It's subjective. To me, mental health care for one. If you're a narcissistic douche canoe who gets a rager over baiting women into false friendships and then huehueing over the destruction you've done to her psyche over nothing other than your hatred of vaginas, and not hers specifically, just the fact that she had the audacity to be born with one, then you have no business talking shit about the other sex. Low value men do this and we see it all the time here. High value men don't fraternize wi…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:45 PM
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I get you, but it's not enough context. We can't be having people use this sub as their 'exposure' (defamation) platform. Let people come to their own conclusions. Provide the link of the video, prove your case, etc. and then let it go. This war has become a disgusting display of middle school mean girling and the mods are tired of the drama.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:39 PM
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A lot of men have learned that there is false narratives going around about feminism. Once they learn that the good feminists are actually on their side and support proper mental health and a bunch of other good things for men too, they convert themselves by doing proper research and using their brains. Good feminism isn’t anti-masculinity, it’s anti-oppression. Lots of smart men can see that and see through the bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 02:05 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 01:55 PM
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Yeah, all to create conspiracies with cherry-picked science and whatnot. The whole thing is a dumpster fire.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 01:55 PM
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Bro be coming in, droppin' a mic, and then back out like Batman. 🦇😅
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 01:51 PM
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Yes, they're both dumpster fires. But with all the sociopathic LARPing going on, there is no telling who these people are other than they get hard ons for framing, extorting, and exposing people with these false narratives they've built in their heads. Most of the FDS users I've spoken with honestly don't sound like women (based on how they describe certain things women are intimately knowledgeable about - more like /r/menwritingwomen stuff honestly) and with RPW being exposed as being run by me…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 01:45 PM
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Real high value women want a man that takes care of his mental health. How the hell they were able to convince you guys we enjoy this sadistic shit they pull is beyond me, but it's not true. It's like a battle of the mentally ill at this point. This whole dumpster fire of an ideology is just stupid.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:59 AM
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Removing because this doesn't show context. Please don't create drama where there isn't any. Misogynists are all just fighting for attention now, there is plenty of content to go around.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:53 AM
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The platforms just need to be nuked at this point. They've lost control and it seems apes are running the show now.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:51 AM
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These guys aren't Red Pillers. They're so far removed from Red Pill now. They're just showing their IQ now.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:50 AM
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Not to be rude at all, but it might sound that way, but this could also be what you're doing with your time. Are these sexless men spending most of their day consuming Red Pill material or going out and running/jogging? Are they picking up their own groceries or going to where the women are or at home jerking it and wondering why there isn't an UberEats for women yet?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:18 PM
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Yes, I am a woman and this is my and the perspective of women I know. In therapy is where I learned the value of 'shit testing'. I really hate this term because it shines a bad light on a very valuable practice. Here's more information regarding the actual value and why she does it: https://www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/signs-she-is-testing-you Number 11 is the most important one in my mind. 😉 But in reality, it shouldn't be insulting to be tested. She's determining if you're r…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:29 PM
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Shit testing outside of The Red Pill pipeline is actually very normal. Go read about it more. But yes, I do agree with the 'value' statements.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:23 PM
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Well yes because a lot of the teachings require you to either choose morality or sex. The Red Pill (minus the generic self-help stuff) is comprised of a lot highly immoral actions. This is like a 'have cake and eat it too' situation. You cannot do both.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:09 PM
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I don't think you fully understand their purpose.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:06 PM
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Simply put, a shit test is an easy way for a woman (or man, because men do it too) to test what kind of a man you are. It’s a way for them to throw a verbal curveball at you to see how you react, and based on that, she’ll be able to determine how much of a catch you are (these can even be safety tests to 'test' things like if their date is an abusive man trying to maintain cover). She’s looking to figure out how real you’re being, so she knows whether or not to let her guard down and trust you. …
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:04 PM
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It's used by trauma/abuse victims as well no matter the age or sex.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:00 PM
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Provide studies of your claims please.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 05:59 PM
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Yes, it's fairly rare that all people behave in a certain way, but because of certain variables it's easy to calculate how many would be more likely to do it. The Red Pill is a great example for this study based on how they want their women to be. If she trusts him and submits to him and he isn't holding himself to high standards, he's more likely to lead her astray and then blame her for the mistake, even if it was his call.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 05:52 PM
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I believe this has not been corrected and it's still all been and RPW was a hostile takeover. Are you able to confirm?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 05:02 PM
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Wow, you hate women so much you aren't even willing to discuss the real data. Do you really believe that 100% of the actions of others and yourself is fully controllable and that people are 100% capable of foreseeing all the possible outcomes of a scenario when they decide to participate? Have you ever made mistakes or are those somehow justified? Edit: All I'm seeing here is another member here that follows The Red Pill (already saw it before another one tries to delete their history after bein…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 03:09 PM
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No, that's not correct and really belongs in /r/confidentlyincorrect. You are absolutely 100% uneducated on the impacts of trauma and abuse. Go read more books before you speak this poorly about victims. Go look at the data on actual brain changes, bodily changes, etc. It's not just "irresponsible".
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 02:59 PM
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Nah, you have a fundamental misunderstanding about how things work. They are in abusive relationships that are failing is what you’re saying? Think this is because they picking the wrong guys? They usually pick the wrong guys the same way men pick the wrong girls. Often because their parents were pieces of shit and they didn't have good role models or a good support system. Many of them were severely abused by these same chucklefucks. So get off your high horse and stop pretending that people ge…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 07:23 AM
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It's really fun to turn human behavior knowledge around on them. Once you learn it, you see them for the scumbags they are. "I will tell His Majesty what a king is. A king does not abide within his tent while his men bleed and die upon the field. A king does not dine while his men go hungry, nor sleep when they stand at watch upon the wall. A king does not command his men's loyalty through fear nor purchase it with gold; he earns their love by the sweat of his own back and the pains he endures f…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:51 PM
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You've been told numerous different things and I even spent hours helping you yesterday, among MANY OTHERS, on Reddit, which you seem to be conveniently leaving out of this story. This is why you're being seen, at least here, as 'toxic'. There is a post that I wrote about mental filtering, I suggest reading it, because you're clearly experiencing it at least within your posts and comments. Also, this sub has quite a bit of women that were harmed by Red Pill abusive and 'objectifying' behavior an…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:20 PM
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What these guys don't realize is that women are also reading and following this stuff. They can often smell these guys a mile away now. There's a perpetual misinformation machine going to combat the real Red Pilling, which is not even close to this bullshit these guys parrot every breath. The Red Pill with the guys that just fake Alpha has become synonymous of culty abusive relationships. They're basically becoming a walking red flag.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 02:58 PM
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Crazy what you can do with some creative editing and cutting interviews out of context. 🙄 Shady media strategies 101.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 02:08 PM
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Preeeeach! 🙌
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:06 PM
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Work life needs to be strictly separate from home life. Too many issues can stem from this. You can actually use this in your favor as well, so she anticipates 'getting you' after work, if that makes sense. Are you mostly extroverted or introverted?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:05 PM
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Mirroring can help, but it's just dumb mind games that I personally don't feel are necessary. If you're free, reply, if you're busy, wait a bit. Since I gather you might be codependent, I recommend setting timers until it's dealt with. As silly as it sounds, it really helped me as I was prone to being too quick, but some people don't mind quick back and forth, especially when flirting via text. 😋 Communication will be your best defense. If you want her opinion on her communication preferences an…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:02 PM
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12-hours is fine for event days. I used to work in that industry and time is a completely different construct with weddings. If she prefers to hear you, wait for that (I personally prefer phone as well, so I get that). As for event days, wait until tomorrow. Weddings are exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 08:49 PM
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Sure thing. Been doing this for 5-years. I love it. As long as you're not disrespectful just HMU if you need more resources.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:44 PM
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Tsk, don't listen to them. Just report it to us and we'll handle it.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:43 PM
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I'm not seeing where you were called a sick fuck. Can you give me the link for that?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:37 PM
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That's funny because the last 5 years there has been a huge societal push towards focusing on self-care and mental health before marriage (in an effort to trim divorce rates), so that could be your 'problem'. I was in a group that helped push people to understand how abuse tactics were impacting their mental health, teaching people about it, and helping them understand the benefits of therapy prior to marriage. This is literally what I've been doing for 5-years and we have made a substantial foo…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:33 PM
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Yeah, at that age, they're more 'independent'. It's not bad, it's just the older you get, the less codependent you get, especially if she's gone through therapy. What is the age difference? How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:27 PM
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Codependency is a lack of self-love (aka 'self-love deficit disorder'). Ross Rosenberg's YouTube channel might speak to you. And sort of, yes. This is a healthy relationship. Sex, common goals, communication, sexual tension/teasing, etc. When you become official, do dates with each other a few times a month if you're both working too. If you become serious, then that's when 'the talk' helps you nail down more common goals and make sure they align, etc. If you're going to spend the rest of your l…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I'm the loud obnoxious one. 😅 And as long as you follow the rules, you're good.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:12 PM
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I'm a former codependent. I GET IT. But for you to ever have a healthy relationship, you need to heal these parts of you. Coda.org is my personal favorite as well as the "Codependent No More" book. I think they might be beneficial for you.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:10 PM
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There is a huge anti-feminism movement going right now as well. The information is frequently skewed within these movements as well, the most alarming being a woman's inability to love and all that. Just gotta be careful about what you believe. Stay vigilant. ✌
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:06 PM
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DM me if you want to talk. I can probably give you a decent starting direction for recovery.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:04 PM
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There is a difference between strong women and thug-type women as well. This nuance is commonly forgotten.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:02 PM
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K, let me look. Might have to bust out the ban hammer. Hang on a bit.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:51 PM
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I do believe there are things you still need to work out in therapy. This is stretching to be honest. People do have jobs and a life outside of you and this screams of codependency (I'm trying to say this as nicely as possible). Work is usually 8+ hours plus commute alone, then there are things like pet care, house care, cleaning, self-care, etc. 7 hours is quite honestly nothing. Now if it was 24+ hours when you're official (not casual), then that's a smidge worrisome, but people do need their …
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:50 PM
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What she's doing is a healthy avoidance of the "love bombing" potential for new relationships. This is a strategy that is actually okay and is taught for the healthy 'slow burn'. It keeps relationships stable and helps avoid the peak and drop off. Your mom is right and this is okay. Waiting ~7 hours isn't really a big deal and might be causing you discomfort that you should explore in therapy. This isn't a 'women' thing, this is actively taught in recovery programs. Hope that helps!
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:38 PM
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Can you give an example of what exactly people have said is toxic?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:30 PM
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Oh man... you don't get it. Okay, watch The Social Dilemma and then report back. 😅
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 03:38 PM
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We could make a list 100-items long about possible end game theories, but it won't really do you any good. Profits over health is the common theme of a lot of these pop up cults. Especially when there is no clear 'leader' and it's just a coincidentally totally random group of men online that all day 'read the sidebar' to most questions and all say 'go buy these books!'. I mean, come on now. Be realistic.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:59 AM
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He's probably implying that you don't understand certain psychological phenomenons being used to quite literally brainwash you into believing certain things to be true, but the facts are, you weren't paying attention to them before. Suddenly, this magical group online shows up and uses what's called the "frequency bias" (go ahead, look it up, that's the common use term) in their favor and then suddenly, (insert doge meme here) "Oh wOw, mUcH hApPy wItH wOmEn! SeCreTs uNloCked!" Then you become en…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:55 AM
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There is so much truth to what I'm saying, it's scary. I'm a former coder. I get a lot of what's happening on a scarily intimate level. I literally quit coding because I saw a lot of the scary shit that was being coded to deliberately alter minds for profit. This is not a conspiracy. Educating yourself on dark patterns marketing would benefit you so much. Also, watch The Social Dilemma. That would answer A LOT of your questions. We've got social fabric-breaking shit going on right now. Follow th…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:37 AM
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Educating yourself on dark patterns marketing would benefit you so much. Also, watch The Social Dilemma. That would answer A LOT of your questions. We've got social fabric-breaking shit going on right now and a lot sane and older people (~30's+) of people are checking out of the online nonsense and enjoying life offline. Online world =/= IRL reality. You've got to get that through to your head. Follow the yellow brick road.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:32 AM
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I get that your social system there is very different. I have several friends in India and I get the struggle is real. The mind games are taught in a lot of cases and they can be untaught (especially if they have the traditional Indian mothers - I would put $20 on most of their daughters being tired of the narcissistic mind games). The back and forth of who can game better will often lead to disaster. Communication will be your biggest trophy to those women. If you ask, a lot of them don't want …
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:27 AM
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And that's how they recruit. Not by using actual good info, just that it sounds good. Brainwashing 101.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 11:02 AM
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Ah yes, there it is, the 'all women' and diversion schtick. Take the labels off Red Pill and look at the behaviors, then cross-reference it with common-use words instead. There, I just gave you The DaVinci Code of Red Pill. After that, go look up brainwashing and how it's done, then go cross-reference that with the Red Pill's way of 'doing business'. Good luck out there, Capitan. Maybe, with enough cross-referencing, you'll see what we see. 🤕
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 10:38 AM
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Wow, props to sounding super smart and diverting away from many of the claims here, but "female nature" that's taught is taught as an absolute and a lot of it is actually wrong. Then when you get into a relationship with these men, they don't know how to act outside this 'book' of female nature. I want a Red Piller to come here so we can discuss the abusive tactics that have been relabeled. So far, it's been 3+ months of diversion.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 09:56 AM
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What country are you in?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 07:38 PM
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These guys are such snakes. "It is quite rare". Give me a fucking break. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah, so that's cool that you now know the real definition, not the made up one that is taught as a woman-only behavior is mind bogglingly harmful and does such a disservice to the men and women that follow it. This belief that this female-specific obliviousness prevents us from having any concern, or lesser prioritized concern, of anything outside their immediate existential needs is outright absurd and can be proven wrong with thousands of examples, but nope, that mental filtering and "don't t…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 05:52 PM
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No alternative? You're joking, right?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 04:53 PM
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It's just okay when the man does it. If a woman does it, she's egotistical. The mind fuckery this group perpetuates is mind boggling.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 01:21 PM
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Men who have their heads far their asses thinking they know the truth and if someone disagrees with them it's because they can't really admit they are right out of solipsism Or because they've got BetaBrain™, or because they're a cuck, or because... it's always something. Even a dictionary is wrong. 😅
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:40 PM
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Go to a non-Red Pill dictionary for me and actually look up the word. Can you let me know what it says?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:37 PM
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Their definition: "the female's tendency to frame everything she experiences or witnesses in terms of herself and her own needs - personalizing it even when such personalization would not make contextual sense." (pulled from RPW this morning) Actual definition: The belief or proposition that the person entertaining it alone exists, and that other people exist only as ideas in his mind. See the differences? Edit: put source up.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:27 PM
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LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK! 🙌
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:35 AM
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Older women are fertile too. Do you science?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:34 AM
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Welcome to the last ~8-years of horror I've been living in having all of my male friends get pulled into this shit. Genuinely good dudes being convinced they're worthless, betas, unlovable, but "here's a NEW thing for you to believe in!" Their own "brotherhood" did this to them.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:33 AM
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The sad thing is most of these guys don't understand they've been conned into spreading misinformation. They get caught up in the hype of being famous on YouTube that they can't yet see the information is bad because they got it from some other schmuck on YouTube doing the same thing. It's a big game of telephone (not sure if you remember that old child game), but it might actually break our society.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:50 AM
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The thing is, this answer is perfectly acceptable to a lot of the subscribers of The Red Pill pipeline. The sheer amount of studies that I've caught being edited for these narratives is wild. The fact that many of the people don't know how to verify a study is even scarier. These guys are being scammed by typical cult tactics and there's almost nothing that can be done except to keep talking about these frauds.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:06 AM
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Yeah, a woman's autonomy is hard for some of them. Even the ones that are okay with rape-only abortions. It's like, "Ah okay, so she can only get one if her body has been violated first? Gotcha." I'm so tired of this still being a fight in 2021. I was hoping us apes would have evolved beyond all this by now.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:42 AM
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This is the same group that posts out of context videos and calls them "truth" about women, then when you do some digging, you find out the women in the videos are being 'dared' or whatever to do the thing and it's been cut from an original which shows WWAAYY more context. This is the same group that's also been caught trimming studies by almost 50% too from the originals to change the conclusions. The group has also been caught publishing books under a fake woman's name and a bunk company which…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 12:47 PM
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Cults thrive on this situation Lulz. If you only knew my history and why I think this comment is so funny. Edit: This dude straight up went to my chat to abuse me further and I'm the problem? Okay.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 08:58 PM
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The Red Pill pipeline is a sales strategy and uses known and verifiable cult recruitment, dark patterns, brainwashing, and a whole host of other really fucked up shit that is deemed by actual professionals to be toxic and damaging AF. Yes, they teach wonderful stuff, like narcissistic behaviors and whatnot, but a lot of it is actually wrong and/or cherry-picked and more so the actual behaviors they speak against. Please stop coming here with the The Red Pill talking points and cite your studies …
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 08:10 PM
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