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91

I love Drew! Found her through FDS and have been following her ever since!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:11 PM
23

Hell no. You shouldn't have to explain to him that he needs to pay bills. He's an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 05:06 PM
10

This right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 12:57 PM
4

Third grade. He used to bite and lick my arm all the time and the teacher did nothing. I was in advanced reading and supposed to “help” him improve in reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:17 PM
75

This is brilliant. It’s so forced into our media so that it seems romantic too. When in reality, it’s gross. Thank you for this analysis, it’s excellent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:15 PM
16

This is such excellent advice. And so well stated. I’ve seen friends overlook this thinking it will change or get better once they are married and “have their own family.” But it only gets worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:11 PM
7

I referred a friend to FDS who was having a dating dilemma. She posted a very personal story that was difficult for her to talk about publicly and some questions. She was immediately blasted by one of the mods and banned from the sub. I felt so guilty for sending her to FDS. We have spoken very little since then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:50 PM
48

I mean, she could just not announce to everyone that she’s “engaged.” The most natural follow up question is usually to see the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:10 PM
214

I agree with so much of this but could you please not label the whole romance genre with the same brush? Romance gets enough sneering side-eyes from society and from men. It’s also a billion dollar industry mostly written by women for women. So like everything else intended for women, people love to shit on romance books. Yes, PLENTY of it is problematic, but not all of it. And a lot of Indie authors are trying hard to smash the patriarchal hold on publishing and succeeding. It’s tiring to hear …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:04 PM
5

Did she buy him a house too?🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:35 PM
27

Same. I always thought Porn Hub made people submit proof they were of age before uploading. I had no idea CP and abuse videos were there and no one gave a damn. They verified ages by whether or not the girls painted their nails??? What the fuck? My nieces have been doing their nails since they were 5. What kind of vetting criteria is that? I’m absolutely sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:31 PM
4

The misogyny is coming from inside the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:17 PM
5

Nah. Just because you can’t recognize it for what it is doesn’t mean it’s not happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:15 PM
40

Men are so tough on pedophiles, yet rapists get a free pass. Men are terrified of Wuornos because they’re afraid other women will start fighting back too. They had to put her in her place fast. That’s why she got the death penalty and was executed so fast. Can’t let women get the idea that it’s okay to start defending ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:10 PM
110

The excuses she makes are ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:12 PM
115

Her goals are incompatible. Why is she trying to force fatherhood on a extremely flawed man? He “checked all her boxes.” Did he though? He seemed like a lazy slug with mental issues. Why would you want to pass that to your kids? Has she not heard of sperm banks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:12 PM
6

I’m actually sick thinking about what she’s possibly endured all these years. With the blessing of the California court system. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:14 PM
2

Run. He sounds exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:09 PM
2

I love your optimism. I have a feeling nothing will change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:59 PM
4

It was nice to see him apologize this year (or last, I can’t remember) but it was like too little too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:58 PM
6

Framing Britney. It’s a NYT documentary on Hulu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:56 PM
3

?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:53 PM
5

Vince Neil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:52 PM
14

How long was R Kelly free to molest, rape, and imprison young girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:50 PM
14

Yup after watching the way they hounded her, I’m surprised she didn’t do worse sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:49 PM
24

I can’t even count how many times women have sent me “cute” memes like this and get butthurt when I tell them they’re not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:36 PM
37

Yup. Only male friend who ever helped me career wise was gay. Any other men have been paid advisors, not friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:46 PM
6

Absolutely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:04 AM
2

This is really sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:58 PM
5

How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:39 PM
15

Damn. Where did this energy go??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:32 PM
74

Yes! It drove me crazy that PLL had a literal statutory rape storyline presented as some star crossed lovers bullshit and no one saw a problem with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:12 PM
6

I absolutely agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:09 PM
8

I have no idea what Letterboxd is. But I’ve sat through quite a few of these when I was younger because they were academy award winners or just talked about in general. Like it was considered cultured to watch these so-called “classic cinema” (Goodfellas, Clockwork Orange.) But I remember hating most of them and not understanding why. Of course there are always people to imply you’re not smart or sophisticated enough if you don’t “get” these movies too. The Joker. JFC sitting through that that f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:01 PM
146

What ticks me off is so many of these women, Miley included, will tell you it’s their “choice” and they want to break free of their clean image and “express their sexuality” and it makes them feel empowered. Personally, the older I get, the more I welcome invisibility. I have my own niche in a female dominated industry and I couldn’t give a single fuck about what men think. It’s quite freeing when you literally don’t care. I still have to deal with toxic assholes in remote ways but because I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:46 PM
208

Holy shit. Do actual human beings respond with such disdain when they’re trying to date a woman?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:32 PM
131

I’m sorry you’ve been forced to make this decision , Lilith. I’m really only here for FDS and I like the podcast a lot, so guess I’ll figure out how Discord works. I followed on Twitter but rarely use it. Thank you for everything you’ve done!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:22 PM
16

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:41 PM
59

Couldn’t agree more. I was definitely an outsider in college and law school because I didn’t understand the point of getting black out drink every weekend. It just never appealed to me. I like wine occasionally but I can’t relate to anyone who centers their life around alcohol. They’re boring and often dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:37 PM
2

He needs to die alone in a dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:31 PM
6

Any guy who things he “switched” to being “dominant and alpha” is such a pathetic tool he deserves to die alone. Farting in someone’s face isn’t dominance. It’s being a disrespectful piece of shit. What an absolute tool. Bless his poor gf. So glad this had a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:31 PM
1

That’s pathetic. Why ask for testimonials? His messages spoke for themselves. He’s ignorant and needs to STFU about things he does not understand and mind his own business. Why are men like this?!? P.S. After a scroll through his IG, he seems like one of the WORST toxic male allies. Sure seems to worry about fake rape and misandry an awful lots for such a nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:21 PM
15

This was painful to read. I wasn’t diagnosed with ADHD until my 30s. I’ve always struggled to maintain friendships, I just don’t have it in me. And except for my husband and one or two people, I’ve pretty much let most relationships go to focus on my career. I don’t have the energy or interest to “check up” on people and when I do but they reject me, I’m done. Sometimes I feel bad that it doesn’t bother me more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:00 PM
2

This was so perfectly said. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 PM
2

I struggle with this too and thought it was just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 PM
7

Yes! This is so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:50 PM
1

Why was this deleted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:46 PM
46

He’s right about one thing. The jokes write themselves. If only he put this much effort into being a decent, interesting person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:24 PM
25

My husband is late 40s and actually fired two 20 somethings for their openly racist bullshit at work. But he’s not a scrote, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:16 PM
32

This is one thing I can thank my crazy mother for. She drilled this into my head. A baby is innocent and will never fix things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:24 PM
28

Wow. This is an eye-opener. I know a lot of people in the BDSM community who will say not to stereotype all subs as victims. Some just naturally “like” it. Yet, every single one I have encountered has abuse/rape/trauma in their history. And I realize this is anecdotal evidence but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:08 AM
3

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:46 AM
18

Ouch. #3 is me. My husband has done a whole day’s worth of work around the house before I wake up on the weekends. Probably during the week too. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:43 AM
11

Why do the guys all have such terrible posture???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:35 PM
1

Woman repellent really is the best way to put it. I see or hear any of those PUA buzzwords thrown around, I immediately know that person can not be taken seriously and avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:29 PM
2

I stand corrected. Still weird to be so aggressive about wanting to be a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:26 PM
10

I feel like it was his code for “I’m a racist piece of shit. Got a problem with that!?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:13 PM
20

I mean, you could always try being interesting instead of just “spitting game.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:28 PM
2

Thank you for the links!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:25 PM
26

I started shaving at 11 because some guy in my theater class made fun of me. My leg hair wasn’t even heavy or dark. I was 11 for fucks sake. Years later turns out he is gay. So why was he so obsessed with my damn leg hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:15 PM
24

😁Stares lovingly at my Dr. Marten collection. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:12 PM
12

Please steer clear of the Q rabbit holes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:04 PM
20

Because that’s all anyone cares about. She’s a footnote to him. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:01 PM
37

This is what always upset me about Hilary Clinton. She was the more intelligent, higher achiever. But she took a backseat to support Bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:01 PM
14

That is the biggest fucking dealbreaker. The dealbreaker to end all. How is it a question!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:38 PM
18

I’ve always hated his films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:35 PM
39

Does she get to screw other guys for her OF too? Or is he the big provider and she’s a stay at home wifey on easy mode?? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:20 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:12 PM
2

She’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:37 PM
8

Is there a link to the video on TikTok or does anyone have her username? My old eyes can’t make it out from the video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:36 PM
7

Nothing will make you put on weight faster than cheating on Keto. Yikes. He clearly has never read about the science of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:28 PM
2

reeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:55 PM
30

My question is who is the schoolgirl fantasy for? Men. Women do it to please men. Few women are into that on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:52 PM
3

Wait, where did OP go? Why is her account deleted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:00 PM
111

It’s still a pretty cute story, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:45 PM
5

Both parties should have a lawyer when a prenup is involved. In many jurisdictions, a prenup can be invalidated if one party did not have a lawyer. Negotiating the terms is pretty standard. Please do a bit of research on the subjects you’re handing out advice on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:42 PM
7

Wait, how did she even get into the UK? I thought they were not letting people in the country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:33 PM
14

Gee can’t imagine why women ghost him. Bet those prostitutes wish they could ghost him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:13 PM
13

Yup this was the bigger issue for me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:54 PM
13

Going to Christmas parties and strip clubs during a pandemic. Tells you all you need to know. Kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:53 PM
91

I really wish younger me had known this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:44 PM
28

Apparently she has received zero sex in her life. WTF? He gave her an STD last year and she just went on about her life like it was nothing? Now he might have given her another one? How do I approach him is the wrong question. Just leave and don’t come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:25 PM
1

Same. Hot garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:44 PM
14

Are these people or cartoons? I can’t tell what’s what with those names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:01 PM
51

“Memberships on sites that offer only racist porn have swelled, according to new data obtained by Cosmo. At the beginning of the summer, during the height of the Black Lives Matter protests, internet searches for “racist porn” tripled. And between May and June, searches on Pornhub for Black porn—which can return racist results—spiked.” Just...what in the actual fuck is wrong with men???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:20 AM
8

What a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:12 AM
10

Ava, Peppermint, The Old Guard were all good. Aliens is classic. Killing Eve. Hanna on Amazon Prime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:10 AM
1

So they’re no compatible. Why on earth would you worry about saving something that doesn’t work anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:47 PM
13

I was just going to say this. I know of plenty of LV white men who expect this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:21 PM
10

Never heard of her. I guess sometimes the YouTube algorithm is a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:11 PM
94

I’m going to guess his personality alone dries up vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:06 PM
4

Where are her parents??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:39 PM
6

Men who complain about “muh taxes” need to STFU. They are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:38 PM
87

THIS. True alpha men don’t need to tell anyone they’re an alpha. They just are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:01 PM
13

They are really confused about the meaning of FDS aren’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:59 AM
4

It’s so weird. I literally almost never think of high school or anyone I knew then. I can’t imagine stewing about that stuff for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:11 PM
5

Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:00 PM
72

Some men never mature past high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:53 PM
6

Completely agree. I’ve never understood the obsession most of my peers have with drinking and getting drunk. My husband and I rarely drink and people always react like we’re the strange ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:18 PM
7

Can confirm this was also the case in 1996.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:04 PM
2

I noticed that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:26 PM
40

Probably still bitter and jealous no one asked THEM to be on the team when they were in high school or college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:24 PM
32

I love this! Happy anniversary to them!! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:18 PM
37

Very powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:30 PM
99

I blame your mother for letting you have a 21 year old boyfriend at 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:57 PM
19

I mean, at least she didn’t force her daughter to have the baby? But, still, a little more concern that her 16 year old daughter got pregnant might be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:55 PM
7

Soooo....he’s had a known porn addiction for a while and she went ahead and had another kid with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:42 PM
5

This is sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:39 PM
3

Dump that MF immediately. Why do women put up with this bs!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:01 PM
5

Excellent idea. Except I don’t think men who do that have any shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:53 PM
7

What book is this? It sounds like tropes we use in romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:12 PM
6

The women I have seen taking up for Deep because “see, men can be victims too” has been sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:30 PM
2

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:22 PM
4

FFS, this can’t be real!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:54 PM
13

Pepper spray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:32 PM
5

Who actually says that!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:57 PM
1

I can’t tell which photo is supposed to be edited?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:52 AM
1

Thank you for sharing your experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:27 PM
1

Happy to see this. I was just saying this to an 18 y/o the other day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:22 PM
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