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Red Pill TheoryAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:21 AM
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AK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:49 AM
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Red Pill TheoryAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:04 AM
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Field ReportAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:42 AM
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Red Pill TheoryAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:57 AM
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Blue Pill ExampleAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:38 AM
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Field ReportAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:38 PM
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Rant/VentingAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:54 AM
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Blue Pill ExampleAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:11 AM
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Field ReportAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:41 AM
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ScienceAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:22 PM
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ScienceAK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:23 PM
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AK27ABROAD/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 04:23 AM
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AK27ABROAD/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:11 PM
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AK27ABROAD/r/askTRP18/01/15 08:40 AM
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I guess it's just the unknown that bothers me- hate the thought of someone fucking around and me not knowing about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:28 PM
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Watch out though- if she wants to make you jealous or jump ship, she's got a ready partner. I say monitor her phone.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:19 AM
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I'm coming late to this one but made it happen the last two days. Jesus, sometimes it's like pulling teeth. Vacant-eyed platitudes from them, accompanied by batting eye-lashes and smiles…but nary an interesting word passes her lips. fuck. I hope third times a charm.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:05 AM
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In all fairness I say this to women all the time…but if I actually found a worthy woman, I would be "ready."
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:03 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's a woman. the tuebluethruandtrue poster
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:32 AM
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I've been seeing more posts like this in trp and it's a breath of fresh air. For me, TRP is about dealing in realities- not about exacting revenge on female-kind. I get sick of seeing posts about guys who revel in seeing their plates in full-on, snotting bawl fests. "HAHAHA SHE WANTED MORE AND I WOULDN'T GIVE IT TO HER! SEE WHAT A STUD I AM!?!" No. That doesn't make you a stud, it makes you a guy who wasn't able to manage the impression you were giving. Yes, plates will want more. They want the …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:23 PM
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You have a link for this research in its entirety, or for the abstract? I'd love to see it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:27 AM
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I've heard stats that the vast majority of Ashley Madison accounts are held by men…so 1) Massive user influx from men who are outted and going to be divorce-raped. But the rest, yes.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:10 AM
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I texted her the next day, actually, after I had my baser needs satisfied by a plate. She wrote back asking what my N was. I jokingly asked hers, not thinking she'd respond. She said "8" then asked mine again. I said, "a lot more than that" and she responded, "I don't think we're compatible then." To which I responded, "Let's take it to bed and find out." She never wrote back. Our chemistry is pretty insane, so if we ran into each other in a more private situation, I don't think she could deny i…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:34 AM
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Hahaha WOW. I 100% identify with this guy. Everything he's said about caring resonates with me. And I DO NOT think it makes me less alpha or less red pill. There's a fine line- trying to rescue a girl or going out of your way (messing with your own life) to make her life better? Ok, blue pill mangina stuff. But trying not to hurt other people? I'd do as much for a dog, why not for a woman? I'm not angry at all woman-kind. They're people. After putting your dick in something for 2 years it's natu…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:02 PM
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Oh, but on this subject, what's your response to girls who say you can't be picky about a girl's N when you have a high N yourself? I was having a conversation with a fairly red pill cousin about this. She said that I can't be picky about that when not only do I have a high N but I'm ACTIVELY bringing up the N's of countless women--- like how can I condemn someone for a phenomena that I'm causing. I didn't really have an answer for her but it's not really a conversation I cared about "winning." …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:32 AM
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That I did, good sir, that I did. Ain't nobody got time for that!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:28 AM
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She got very serious and said, "I don't like to get involved with guys who have had a lot more partners than me, because I think the number of people you've slept with is a good indication of the attitude you have toward sex. I think a couple does better when both partners have a similar attitude toward sex. I've only slept with boyfriends- I've never had a one night stand. Have you ever had a one night stand." I didn't really answer. I just started laughing like it was a joke. But apparently it…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:28 AM
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Lol I DID have a girl (supposedly) reject me for high partner count the other day. It stung, I tell ya!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 10:00 PM
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Night of August 6th: I got 7 hours. Bed at 1, woke at 5:30, slept again at 6:30 until 9ish.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:53 PM
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Night of August 5th: I got 8 hours bed at 2:30, woke at 10:30, with one or two short wake ups in between.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:52 PM
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My experience, there's usually something deeper there when it comes to the impulse to drink. Esp. if you're drinking alone. Dig deeper, if you figure out what feelings precede your need to drink, you can usually circumvent them. Personal experience speaking here.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:09 AM
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You are better than that. What was the precursor to you drinking? Figure that out and you have the key to stop it next time.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:29 PM
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Night of August 4th: I got 6.5 hours Went to bed at 2:30, woke up at 9. I've got to get back on a schedule closer to sunrise and sunset.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:28 PM
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Night of August 3rd: I got 7.5 hours. Went to bed around 2, woke up at 5:30, went back to sleep at 6:30, woke up at 10:30. sleep like this doesn't feel as good as sleeping 8 hours through from an hour or so after sunset to an hour or so before sunrise.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:04 PM
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Night of August 2nd: I got 9 hours. Went to bed around 2am (having a convo with my dad, who I haven't seen for several years) and woke up at 8:30, then slept again at 9 and woke up at 11:30. Have a bit of a fever- think I'm fighting something off.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:06 AM
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Yeah, I've seen it even worse in the poorer countries sometimes! The really insidious thing is that these guys went over there hoping to escape all that. They take the time and save the money to travel thinking they'll be in a paradise, and some of them have really sweet intentions of finding a wife and starting a little brood, but BAM--- things are not as they've been advertised on the internet. I have a couple of horror stories myself, one in particular that, when I get some space from it, I'l…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:59 PM
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have you seen very many successful marriages between an expat man and a foreign woman in her country? Because I've never seen one go work beyond the 2 year mark. I know a couple of guys who have hung in there longer than that but that was usually because 1) all of their assets were in their wive's name (restrictions on owning land/starting businesses in that country as an expat) and 2) there's no way they will ever see their children again if they get a divorce. I'm curious if you've seen succes…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:44 PM
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Yeah I love the guys who've read a lot on happier abroad or other sites commenting here when they've never left america. Take it from me boys! I have real world experience and have seen many a western man asian woman marriage implode with her family egging her on and him never getting to see his kids or money again.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:03 PM
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Not in my experience hahah
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:01 PM
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Do either of you have any experience with being an expat? if you do, fine, but if you don't, don't give advice about things you know nothing about.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:59 PM
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hahaha dude, find a way to get unthirsty. like you've heard here, shit gets real, and you're an easy number in another country, especially in the sex district.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:57 PM
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This won't be a popular opinion, because I know a lot of guys on here see western women as the great white satan and think that salvation lies in the east (or south- any underdeveloped country), but I've got to be honest, and I have a lot more experience with this than most. When you marry someone from an different culture, you've got a whole set of parameters that you do not fucking understand. She has expectations that you don't even know exist and that she's not even conscious of, and you hav…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:53 PM
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I got 8.5 hours WEnt to bed around midnight, woke up 8:30. had some crazy ass awesome dreams.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:14 PM
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I have, but I try to limit my use of it. My understanding is that your body will stop producing it's own naturally if you use an outside source.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:12 PM
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I got 6.5 hours of sleep (fuck) Went to bed around 1 am, woke up around 7:30
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:32 PM
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Ak27abroad will take part in this challenge.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:32 PM
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You're not looking to get married. You're looking to get laid, and American college women are perfect for that!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:54 AM
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Having spent most of my adult life outside of the states (and much of it in Asia) I'll back this assertion up. The crazy thing is that a lot of guys feel they can relax because these girls come off as so traditional and feminine. So the guy begins acting in a way that comes naturally to him (read: the way his father acted, the way he's seen modeled for him in sitcoms all his life, maybe not full beta, but somewhat beta) or maybe he even decides he's going to show her how egalitarian and kind wes…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:31 AM
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I'm in. Something to add: As a person who's struggled with life-long insomnia, and, has at certain points in my life managed to beat insomnia, one of the most important things is to wake up and wind down with the sun. Our exposure to light regulates the hormones related to sleep. For the history of mankind our sleep has been regulated by the sun, and we evolved so that we're healthiest if we live by the sun. I've had my best luck with sleep when I limit artificial light when the sun isn't up. Ri…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:18 AM
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Or flushed his rep for a piece of a prostitute. Yeah I guess we're all slaves, more or less, to our own desires. But fuck man, I thought I could make a real difference in her life. Sucks to see her throw it away on a guy who def saw her as a pump n dump.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:21 AM
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Start because you have no choice. Continue because you see results. Keep it up long-term because you're in love with your own fucking transformation.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:18 AM
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I got a number of a girl from okc. I befriended her. Talked with her every single day. Were you getting anything from that conversation- did you even enjoy it? Or were you just putting in whatever effort you thought necessary to get in her pants? Look, my prescription for you, right now, is MONK MODE. Forget girls- what you're doing isn't helping you with them anyways. Go WORK OUT. Lift weights like a madman, until your frustrations dissipate. It won't feel good right away, but a promise, it wil…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:40 AM
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Just wanted to point out that you're on point with not wanting a stupid HB10. There's evidence that cognition/intelligence genes are on the X chromosome. Your sons (should you want children) will only get an x chromosome from the mother. Stupid mother = stupid sons. NOT a risk I'm willing to take.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:44 AM
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Avoid Washington; I believe any woman with your child gets 40% of your earnings, no questions asked.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:35 AM
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They're not even paying rent. They're posting up for free. Kick em out!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 06:08 AM
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I beg to differ! My direct experience with legs and snatches refutes that claim.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:47 AM
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Therein lies the rub, my friend. In some ways, and in some marriages, things have equalized - I know I'll be roasted at the stake for saying this, but I call it like I see it: I know many couples where the man and the woman make equalish amounts of money (and contribute equally to the household) or where the woman makes up for contributing less money through household/child-rearing duties. It could be that I run into more of these couples because I'm outside of the states and deal primarily with…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:39 AM
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Taking care of the house, children, and preparing food used to be a lot more labor intensive than it is now. It used to take two (or more- extended family) to have a comfortable life. The women you talked to said men married for love. Sure, sometimes, but for the most part, it was a beneficial arrangement for both parties.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:21 AM
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Yeah we're on the same page there. Knowing she's having doubts just doesn't do it for me. The girl I'm talking about didn't have my contact info but I get the feeling she wanted it. I can see why not sleeping with her would raise her interest. If she keeps texting you, just make it completely clear that "If we sleep together, I'm not going to be your boyfriend. It's just for fun. I'm serious." and if she's still into you, I think you're ok then. And you'll have the messages to back you up should…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:22 AM
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Go East young man. Really, I've been living in Asia for the better part of a decade now and you could keep up the life of hedonism that you describe indefinitely. My recommendation: Start in Korea, live as cheap as you can and save money, stay as long as you can stand it. Then go to Japan, where life will be slightly better. After that move on to Taiwan, then Thailand, the Philippines…just keep moving. If you got laid at an American University, Asia will be like shooting fish in a barrel without…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:25 PM
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that's where making her squirt comes in.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:40 AM
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Nah I think the physical reward is great, but the desire leading up to it isn't that good. Like chocolate cake. I'm in shape, I eat chocolate cake, it's fucking great. But I don't need it all the time. Someone who's hormones and leptin (sp?) levels are all fucked up cannot fucking deny chocolate cake. They need it constantly. They have a sugar addiction and nothing else will do. We get the same enjoyment out of the cake, but they need it. I don't. Nature gave us men a sex addiction. Women enjoy …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:38 AM
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Yeah, like my mom. "When are you gonna get marriiiiiiiied?" "When? I don't know IF I'm going to get married." "But you need someone beside you in your life." "That worked out real well for you, didn't it mom?" "But you're a lot more self aware than I was at your age." "Which is why I'm pretty sure I don't want to get married." "But I want grandkids." "You've got 5 grandkids mom." "but I want grandkids from YOUUUUUUU." Actually I do want kids. Fuck if I can get past the "replicate" part of surviv…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:33 AM
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The standard advice you will get ("who cares, hit that shit") is based on sound assumptions that apply in most cases, but not necessarily in all. They're assuming you are bad at sniffing out how many guys a girl has fucked. They're assuming she has probably given it up easily to other guys in the past but is now making you wait for it. They're assuming she is running a power play on you. They're assuming it is bullshit when she says she "might be hurt by noncommittal sex." Playing the odds, they…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:30 AM
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Shitty all around. May you, I and the rest go on to create a better life for ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:57 AM
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This is similar to my situation. Dad fucked off and mom held shit together. We're all better off for it. Mom divorced him and didn't get a penny because he worked under the table so he didn't have to pay child support. Mom worked her ass off to keep us fed and clothed. Every decision she made she had us in mind first. Dad went off and did his own thing and seems to have never given us a second thought, except to complain that we all like mom better than we like him. Uh. yeah. She was a mother, y…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:55 AM
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People's opinions aren't a strong indicator of "success."
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:48 AM
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Fuck it, your dad's not a victim. He's a willing, no, overeager participant in his own troubles. If I were to point the finger of blame in this situation, I'd point it at your dad, not your mom.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:47 AM
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YOU walk him through it. There's no reason this should keep going on. He keeps the check next time.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:42 AM
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Meh. I'm getting plenty of sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:53 AM
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Hahahah Me: "Do you have any hobbies? What do you like to do in your free time?" Them: (totally straight face) My hobby is sleeping.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:52 AM
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I guess if I was left wanting, I'd be more likely to "overcome" my ethics. But since I've got enough of what I want, I have the luxury of having ethics. Much like you or I wouldn't steal bread, but JeanValJean in Les Mis did (and it was the correct course of action because he was starving). I guess I'm just not starving, so I'll continue not to fuck girls if I think it would hurt them.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:23 AM
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I appreciate your reply, but other people's poor behavior isn't an excuse for my own. Realize this: they are rarely reciprocated. Don't bang that chick out of respect for her bf, he will stab you in the back. You cared about her feelings enough to not want to pump and dump, but does she give equal ethical regard to you?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:19 AM
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Ethics. My biggest sticking point with red pill has to do with ethics. I get that "sexual strategy is a-moral" and that that's how most people play the game. However, I believe to be the man I would like to be, to be the kind of man that I can RESPECT, I want to live by a set of principles and, yes, morals. A while ago I posted a question in Ask TRP about whether or not I should fuck a girl who let me know that a) she was looking for a serious relationship and b) she thought she would be hurt by…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 11:00 AM
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I've lived in Asia for a little less than a decade and I share your lack of desire for local women. So many men in the manosphere think that Asia is the answer to their dating woes. That's bullshit. Every guy I know who's married to a (culturally) Asian woman is a miserable shell of his former self, and most of them were caught in the "unplanned pregnancy web" as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:31 PM
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Sorry, what's koreogamy? If it's in the sidebar, somehow I missed it.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 04:09 AM
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Anyone else have a gutt feeling that that post was not actually written by a woman/stripper? Something about the way it's written threw me off. I think the sentence, "He was done with me and he let me know it in no uncertain terms." made me think it was a fake.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:46 AM
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Thoroughly enjoyed this post. It reminds me of the research they did about the difference in drug addicted behaviors of rats in stimulating vs. non-stimulating cages. (Didn't look through this whole link, just enough to see it describes the experiment: http://www.stuartmcmillen.com/comics_en/rat-park/#page-11) Sometimes you have to fix your environment before you can fix yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 06:45 AM
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This would be an interesting exercise, from a "how well can I hold my frame" point of view. Discomfort makes you stronger. I might just go to a local harpy hang out and ask one out tonight. Now where can I find one…?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:22 AM
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I told her I couldn't have kids with her until I trusted her entirely. Watch as he tries to regain his power by using the only bargaining chip he has. Sad. Honestly, if I were to enter an LTR, I'd enter one knowing that cheating is likely, either on my end, hers, or both. Humans are sexual. It's not like every other attractive person on earth disappears the moment you say "I do." I've cheated before, I know how it can happen. I'm more interested in a consensual monogamish-style relationship. I'm…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:16 AM
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Had a look at the inside of those vans- nice designs. Always thought it could be fun to be a van dweller.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:07 PM
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I'm sure someone has said this, but unless she physically barred you from leaving the house (and what woman could do that) it was your responsibility to calmly explain that your mother's health was more important than this argument. Don't ever let anyone's crazy shitstorm be an excuse for not taking care of your responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:19 PM
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Should also be mentioned that paternal age has an effect on the offspring: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternal_age_effect
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 06:40 AM
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I'd like to read it when you're done. As for whether or not to talk about Fight Club: 1. This forum is public. Non TRP people can and do read it. It's only a matter of time before these ideas become more mainstream, and the dull masses will do with it what they like. 2. You may lose points off your final score but you are being true to what is interesting to you. The truths in the paper will settle into the subconscious of those who read. I say do it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 06:29 AM
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Those older women are feeding you fluff, boy. Lift if you're skinny, own the room with your body language if you're short. Or move to a country with more short people =/
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:58 AM
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That's my whole point- if you act chill about it, you can actually get some pertinent information and make an informed decision. If you lead with, "I won't date you if you're a slut," she'll say, "I'm not a slut!" But like the poster above said, if you say, "Ohhhh, slut-shaming is terrible, women should do whatever they want!" (which I actually do believe- I believe every person should exercise free will and I am glad that they are able to act freely and reveal their true characters) then she'll…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:54 AM
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You probably just don't get what women find attractive.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:27 AM
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The best method is to act "chill" about it before you do anything sexual with a girl. Let her know how much you hate slut shaming and how shitty you think it is to judge a girl by her past, how girls should be able to have fun, blah blah blah. Completely agree. Fact is, I am chill- I'm not judgmental…AS LONG AS I'M NOT GOING TO GET INVOLVED WITH THE GIRL. If you give off the nonjudgmental vibe in the beginning, you get to know more about a girl, before you are invested. If you then decide she is…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:04 AM
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Good post. Learned this one myself through personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:33 AM
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The point isn't the ignoring. Ignoring isn't what's getting him laid. Like he said, he's rewarding her with tons of attention except for on the few days they don't fuck. I question whether she's even made the correlation, consciously or subconsciously. Depression and the wussy blah blah blah attitude that comes with it is a complete boner-killer for the ladies. and the gentlemen, as it turns out (look through my old posts, I think my first was about when my then-girl got depressed). Feel good ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:30 AM
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Someday, when I've got a little time to write, I will tell you my story.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:23 AM
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Two thousand bucks gets you out of America and into Asia. 3000 if you're looking to make the transition really comfortable. Major leagues? It's not hard to make it happen if you want it. But shit, I could tell you stories about Asian women that would make your head spin, and NOT in a good way. Anyone who tells you salvation lies overseas is a snake oil salesman.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:31 AM
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That was my thought too- associate with low-lifes and you're a bit of a low-life yourself in my book.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:42 AM
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both white, both expats living in Asia.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:41 AM
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Shit I'm going to be back in the states from June til November. I'll be back in Asia for the winter though; not cut out for snow. I'll look you up when I'm back on this side of the planet. While you're in Thailand, I'd suggest hopping the border to Cambodia. Shit gets real at that border crossing. It's a trip.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:39 AM
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hahaha yeah, we might have philosophical differences there, mate. Any old lady can ask to use my phone and I'll hand it over. Don't see that changing any time soon. Either I value my phone less than you do, value community more, or I just follow my own special equation when deciding whether to do something for some one. Equation something like this: how difficult it will be for me to provide what they're asking * how likely it is they can fuck up my life with said thing / likelihood that I'll so…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:24 AM
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There are plenty of other, younger, more fun cocksuckers within cocksucking distance, thank you very much.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:16 AM
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Nah, the boss has told me to go ahead and give him anyone who's interested. Only 1 in 30 pass the trial cases. But fuck it, I'm not going to do it anymore. I've tried to "help out" about 20 people already- among them, only 1 made it. And I'm sure you can imagine how awkward things become with the people who don't make it - they get embarrassed and aren't as friendly to me anymore. Fuck it, I'm not passing that info on anymore.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:08 AM
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I'm gonna stick with ideno's advice on this one, also, try to keep myself anonymous. Let's just say it's something that, if you're not cut out for it, it's immediately clear. The boss is always looking for more people, because you never know where the talent lies. It's kind of a "fling enough shit to the wall and see what sticks" situation. Very little sticks, in this case. I don't think she'll get the job, but who knows, people can surprise you.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:04 AM
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hahahahahah Feelz trump everything.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:02 AM
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I had a similar situation with a friend who badly needed work; got him a job, he lasted a week before tendering his resignation BY NOT FUCKING SHOWING UP. Guess who had to cover his shifts. man, I'm not learning quite as fast as I should, eh?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:01 AM
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Hey I was in Thailand last month. Bali next. We'll have to meet up one of these times.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:00 AM
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It's the way high school is presented in movies, tv shows and media- that guys are supposed to be fucking left and right and if they aren't, they're losers. Well, 98% of the population is losers then.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:54 PM
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I was just having a conversation about this with a friend- I'm headed back to America soon and this is the thing I am looking forward to least--- how people think it's some kind of virtue to be outraged. How they delight in their righteous indignation. In truth, outrage without action to make something better (and WHINING about it is not ACTION) makes a person look like a fucking child.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:49 PM
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mostly looking for stories of people who came back, but do you have a link for this particular sub?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:27 AM
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Actually two girls helped me out last time I moved--- maybe didn't do much heavy lifting but they helped me clean the old place. Girls can be pretty giving I've found. I always get the sense that there are sneaky little strings attached but I've had a couple of friendships that I'd say were equal.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:30 AM
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I know I'm a little late to this game, but if the OP sees this, is there any concern about her going out and fucking someone else? Granted, it probably wouldn't be someone with as high value (sexual market or financial) so she likely wouldn't leave you, but what would you do if she got some on the side as well? I'm considering an ltr possibly leading to marriage with a girl who sounds similar to your wife, and before I broach this topic with her, I'd like to hear how other men have handled it su…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 02:34 AM
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Recently had a discussion with a woman about this (I know, I know, I'll get shit about that, but when I say discussion I mostly listened as she hamstered her head off. It was eye-opening). She says: "I don't understand why men are so offended by being "put in the friend zone." It's insulting, because they are saying that women's friendship isn't valuable. I'm a good friend! I help my friends, I'm kind to my friends, we have fun when we hang out! So, I don't want his dick inside me. Isn't my frie…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:23 AM
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Must agree. I've dated two waitresses and both were above average in terms of not being bitchy or thinking of themselves as princesses.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:37 PM
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My problem is not knowing how to engage her on the big questions without spilling that I am/read red pill. Women are like heat-seeking missiles, and any girl intelligent enough to attract me is going to dig and dig and dig until i say, yeah, I give, I'm red pill! is there any girl that'll stick with me then?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:01 AM
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I'll second this - far happier now than I was in my early 20's
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:49 AM
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Pick 2 habits to change per month. One starts on the first, one on the fifteenth. You do your habit every day for 15 days and then reassess- is it getting you what you want (are you seeing results)? What obstacles are in your way? If you missed it for a day (NO YOU DIDN'T YOU FUCKING CUNT) why did you miss it? Can you remove those obstacles or design your environment so that they won't be an issue anymore? Reassess, decide if it's worth the willpower, and continue. By the end of the month, it'll…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:59 AM
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A fellow ex-christian surfer, my my, we have a lot in common. I've got a 34 year old who claims to have only been with 8 (also ex-christian, and she says that's why) but I don't know whether I believe that shit for a moment. There's really no way to ever know, but I try very hard to watch micro-expressions when I ask a question. The ones that flash across their faces before they manage to control themselves (I'm talking fractions of a second). That's the only way to get any kind of real informat…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:47 AM
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This may out me as a fool, but I'm firmly in the "want to have kids someday" camp. The natural urge to survive and replicate doesn't die easy. I want to pass on my genes. And I heard vasectomies aren't always reversible. And do they fuck with your testosterone production? On the subject of testosterone, what type do you use and how did you get it? I'm in an asian country, communication with doctors is hard and I'm not sure they'd give it to me. What should I say to make it an option?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:43 AM
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I really appreciate you guys' insights. I didn't even realize, when I posted this, that I was thinking maybe I should go for it. And I still don't know if I should. But I am headed back to the states in a few months and I think I'll go see her. I'll keep you updated on what happens. Really, so glad I found this sub. It's good to have a place to get some advice. I fuck up too much going it alone...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:30 AM
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It's a hard one to call. Most older women are having sex with older men. I imagine the sample size of women who are impregnated by younger men is too small to really know. I've heard that the fact that we make new sperm every day can cause abnormalities. But I've also heard that a woman's eggs, because they're there from the start of her life, are fucked up with more pollution and stuff. Anyways I think my chances of having a normal child are higher with a younger woman, regardless.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:26 AM
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As a testament to her character, she keeps in excellent shape physically. Swims nearly every day. Not fat at all, but still not my preferred body type. During the six months that we were dating I told her I had to be able to sleep with other women. She accepted it but I only slept with one other girl while we were together. I don't know if she'd go for it (me sleeping with other girls) if we had kids together. Despite her low smv she's got killer self-esteem- I chalk that up to her dad being a s…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:08 AM
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See this is exactly it. I'm having kids, I've already decided that, and she might be the perfect mother. I also know she's not a gold-digger because she was into me before I had money. She also makes a fair amount herself- it would be great to have some steady income while I work on some of my more risky projects- and she's all into all the home-making skills. She makes her own bread that is fucking amazing. She's neat and clean and cooks- I wouldn't have to worry about house concerns and could …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:04 AM
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This was all years ago. She's on my Facebook but I haven't seen her in person since that incident.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:24 AM
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I'm not crying. I know I've got it good and I also know that 99% of that is a random toss of the dice and nothing I consciously did. But I think this sub could do with some alternate viewpoints. Critics say that all of this is just sour grapes- unattractive men who come to gripe because they feel entitled to pussy they never got. But not all of us are like that. Some see the truth of red pill even if they have success with women. I knew this would sound like humble bragging when I posted it, but…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:22 AM
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I always felt like it was the other way round. An ugly woman is fucked (not literally) while an ugly man can improve his value through hard work and merit.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:14 AM
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I've met some of the older women who do "improve themselves" but they still don't make my dick hard. Nature ain't kind to the female of the species.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 03:48 AM
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Interesting. I'd love to see this girl's digit ratio. Wonder if we can scare up a picture of her hands? I might get to it later, right now I've got some work to do.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:44 AM
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I think the problem's pandemic. We'd have to kill em all or not breed with anyone in the first place. Even the cute ones couldn't exist. And like YourShadow says below, men have a similar weakness- we conflate physical attractiveness with value.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:35 AM
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2 things: 1, I don't think oneitis is my problem. As I said I sent one girl home less than a week ago, was spinning plates by that night, and met this girl in the water a couple days later. I appreciate womEn, not womAn. 2, Do verbal agreements/stipulations mean nothing to red pill? As in, if she shares, "this is what I'm looking for, this is why" should I not take that into consideration? It's an ethics question. She's let me know where she's at, and been very HONEST about it. It matters so muc…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 02:18 AM
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You already know what you're doing wrong. Sounds like you're getting back on the right track. Early 30's you said? She may be looking for an out so she can have babies. Have you guys discussed that and do you know her stance?
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:30 AM
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Despite my unicorn comment above, I'd have to agree--- by now most women have seen friends/aunts/mothers do the single mother thing and have seen that it's not glamorous. If a woman truly puts her own happiness first, she wouldn't do this.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 07:06 AM
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But what would you have them do? The way I see it, it's like asking us to pass on a beautiful sweet young thing in favor of a 30+ with leathery skin because she's "smarter and more accomplished." If someone doesn't do it for you, they don't do it for you--- It's not a lame reason- women can fake attraction better than we can (no way to hide the lack of a boner) but no one can act aroused for years on end. the only answer is to be a good man AND make the gina tingle. edit: ah shit, now I see this…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:56 AM
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Where do you meet the younger girls, and how do you usually open them? I'm 27 myself, but look older (too much time in the sun) and it's usually 25+ girls for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:52 AM
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There's a lot of chatter around the internet right now about needing to change your environment in order to change your habits. I think there's something to it. Having lofty goals and resolutions only to realize that you don't currently have the willpower to carry them through can wreck havoc on already shitty self-esteem. I just read "small move, big change" The book wasn't very concise, but the principles are sound. Start yourself on small, almost impossible to fail habitual changes, and let t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:25 AM
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Don't have text conversations for an hour or two with anyone. What are you getting from those conversations? I'll tell you what you're missing- you can't be focused on what's in front of you and you're making this girl the focus of your life when you're not even physically with her. So basically whatever you're doing during that time period, you're not doing it well. Stop that bullshit. Your time is important when you're not with her. Don't assign so much value to a phone call or text. Call her …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:11 AM
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"A woman that moves across the world is also needy due to the fact that she has nothing at home keeping her back." Totally agree that that's at the heart of the problem. Damn if I don't have a strange attraction to that sweet fragility. I also can't deny a certain level of "neediness." Actually I think it's a part of the human condition and the degree to which it touches every man varies by genetics, environment, and whether freedom is more important to him than connection (to me it is). For me …
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:46 AM
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