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It is not going to get better on it's own. And it is only going to get worse and harder to make a lifestyle change as you age.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 07:20 PM
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You're both letting yourselves get fat and lazy... You have to stop that path NOW before it's too late!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 12:26 PM
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Love watching the guys eyebrow go higher and higher!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 10:14 PM
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I kinda wish the perky boob shape would come back into fashion.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 10:13 PM
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In a lot of Spanish speaking countries "gordo" or "gorda" (literally "fat guy/girl") is a common way of describing someone. You would say "go talk to the fat woman" the same as you might say "go talk to the tall woman". In America it's completely unacceptable to call a girl fat, when all it is is a descriptive truth.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 07:21 AM
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I'm a skinny big booty girl and my SO looooves butts so we make an excellent match and share a fondness for butt anthems. We loved this song at first but then we watched the music video and were scarred and the song was ruined for us. I couldn't believe she was a big white fat chick...with NO ass! "I need a dime, who's top of the line, cute face, little waist and a big behind!" Now those are lyrics I can respect.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 07:15 AM
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Or a meathead who's social life revolves around the gym and looks like he's trying too hard... We like men strong, but you have to have interesting hobbies other than going to the gym. Also muscles are better big but balanced and natural looking, not weirdly deformed. Sexiest are guys who do natural bodybuilding workouts with risks like rock climbing or surfing.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:49 AM
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My SO's brother's girlfriend is almost half a foot taller than him... The overall impression his friends have is "damn how'd he get such a model-tall chick?" It speaks to your man's abilities that his height did not deter you, so if you got it, flaunt it! (As long as he's comfortable with it)
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 08:31 PM
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We all have Pinterest boards of that dream castle with perfectly designed interiors...but most of that is just fantasy and we know it. But if we have good interior design skills, then we can take even a humble cottage and make it into a beautiful welcoming home.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 08:23 PM
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Even then he's not anything like you hoped he would be, even if he looks/acts the part externally
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 08:18 PM
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A wise man once told me that finding a partner is like buying a dream home. First thing you do is know your budget (aka SMV currency). Within this budget, you have a list of "would likes" and a list of "deal breakers." You do a lot of looking around before you make your choice. You might find a fixer-upper with a lot of "potential", but it still needs to be secure enough to live comfortably in without major renovations needed. This is a huge investment and you need to be realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 10:23 AM
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I've had some minor success with sending (even my feminist or hypergamous) girlfriends links from therulesrevisited.com. How to Adapt Your Game According to your Results is a good start, and if she keeps following links to more posts in the blog she'll find some good solid RPW advice (but without the label). I also had a pretty epic fail....this girl I knew had been publishing details about all her dreadful dating results on Facebook. She was so BP, masculinized with such a repulsive feminist pe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 01:06 AM
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What can I do to make arms and shoulders less muscly? I am at an ideal weight (5'6" 115) have a naturally slim body, flat stomach and a nice round booty, but my upper torso is at risk of bulking up. I was on the swim team in high school which transformed my back and shoulders and the results seem to have stuck with me even if I don't workout. I surf but usually only in when conditions are favorable which is not very frequent in my area, and only in the summer or on vacation. Other than that all …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 06:10 AM
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Was she less attractive than her friends? Standoffish to just you or everyone?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 08:47 PM
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Wow great find! I'm going I share this with RPW as a resource for RP parenting.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 08:43 PM
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Curious but when Jess puked was she actually sick (and thus grumpy or PMSing)? Or just drunk sick (would usually be having more fun)?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 07:13 PM
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Yep... I recently wrote a post trying to figure out "how to have a relationship with my mom's hamster" (title of post). So many moms I see are having similar problems. Hopefully our generation can learn from them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 03:53 AM
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We need a new term for people who are naturally "red pill" but who are not redditor/don't know it in these terms...
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 03:51 AM
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Worse...they've sold the souls of their unborn children!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:11 PM
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I'm predicting a surge in surrogate mothers too. Now you don't even have to deal with the problems of pregnancy, just schedule when you want your baby delivered and as soon as it's born, pass it right to the nanny.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:10 PM
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I was in your same position. I had only had sex with my LTR of 2 years and at about the same age, started seeing his really awesome guy (seemed like he just walked right out of my teenage dreams). I told him my situation while we were hanging out once (not long winded, just that I only had sex with one long term bf) and he immediately said "I could be your boyfriend."
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 08:16 PM
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Ah I see.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 08:07 PM
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This kind of "feminism" on a world wide perspective is what I believe should just be referred to as "human rights." Any human being, man or woman, should be entitled to a few basic rights and we should just keep the whole gender thing out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:08 AM
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I think the amount of cleaning can increase naturally as the commitment deepens in the relationship... If you're first seeing a guy then just tidy up a bit. My rule anywhere I'm a guest (even just for a few hours) is to leave the place better than you found it. Then if the relationship is progressing naturally then you'll naturally want to do more appreciative things for him (and will also learn your way around his place and see what things are most helpful).
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 08:49 AM
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I feel like it was a good post for discussion at RPW... Not sure how severe the OP was talking about, and any serious issues need a professional, but learning how to deal with a captain's weak moments as a RPW is a very relevant topic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 05:51 AM
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My SO is a very happy, positive person but he struggles with depression from time to time. He's had issues as a child that were more dramatic but it seems to be slowly mellowing out as he gets older. It comes in waves that can vary from one morning to a few months long...but it is always temporary. What I've learned is to "be grateful when things are up, and graceful when things are down" and to gently remind him of this too. Happiness comes and goes for all of us, but for some people the lows c…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 07:14 PM
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Interesting that in one set, there wasn't much of a difference in their lifestyles, but any increase in aging was attributed to the stresses of divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 06:10 AM
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Wow sorry about your loss but congratulations about your inheritance. The thing is, this is a big deal and both of you need to be ready for the internal mental change that needs to come with such a sudden increase in assets. Most people who win the lottery go right back to their original comfort zone because they just didn't know any other way. You now have enough money to afford a really good financial advisor (and it will be worth paying for a good one). If you and your husband can get on the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 05:51 AM
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Thank you! Even a total RP newbie gets it better than the OP. It's really quite simple... Same toolbox, same tools, but you can build whatever you want with them. I wonder are there any women who would use the RPW toolbox to exploit hypergamous desires? I recently read an article about a top escort who basically did all the stuff RPW do, but as a paid act (at $5000 a night!)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 09:18 AM
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We wouldn't want to date most men on TRP, but there are a select handful that are actually interested in LTRs and commitment, and use the foundation principles of TRP to make themselves desirable LTR partners (instead of just hookup partners). We are holding out for these elite men...not that we'll actually meet any of them in real life, but that's the style of man we're looking for, a masculine one. The red pill is a toolbox, we all use the same tools to build different things.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 09:09 AM
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Yes. It's all about tension. Tension between the sexes (like competition in evolution) is actually a good thing because it pushes us to be better. TRP and RPW both accept the tensions inherent in the sexual marketplace. Men want sex, women want commitment. Somewhere in the middle is the ideal push/pull for a relationship to exist, and there must alway be tension keeping the bond together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 08:54 AM
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Extra thoughtful. He gave me the phone the night before my birthday. If he hadn't set it all up I would have had to go spend an hour the ATT store on my actual birthday.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 04:16 AM
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Once he upgraded my iphone for my birthday and set it all up at the AT&T store and even put it in a new lifeproof case...but to do this he had to cut off service to my current phone. I was so confused as to why my phone service suddenly stopped and never figured it out until he took me out to dinner and I unwrapped the new one, all ready to go!
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 10:51 PM
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What about when these male friends of yours get their own SOs? Do you think these women will be appreciative of your "supportive" role in their man's life. Being a surrogate mom will probably damage their abilities to reach the manliness level needed to attract a girlfriend anyway. Who wants to date a guy that has another girl "moming" him? Let them take care of themselves, they don't need a new mother, they need a girlfriend. In the end, none of it is appropriate. You need to set firm boundarie…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 09:02 PM
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Essential oils are good because they don't cover up the natural scent, but blend with it to make a your new scent
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:53 AM
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She's set herself up for major alpha widowhood complex though... She has unrealistic and entitled expectations for a relationship (undivided attention from fawning, expensive gift giving men) plus spoiled from the money and lifestyle, and it will prevent her from being happy in a relationship. She'd have been better off marrying the 60 year old rich client since she is used to fucking old guys and would be able to keep up her expensive lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:34 AM
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New Yorkers especially are into model-like skinniness. Russians girls pull it off without looking starving.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:27 AM
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Less men have $5000 to spend on sex, so for the price you are getting a semblance of exclusivity... In their minds, she only has a few clients and he's one of the elite few. And it makes him feel more special to be able to afford the most expensive option possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:24 AM
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In this article 90% of her clients are married. They want some on the side and/or their wife is not giving them the experience of being a true man. Quicker, easier, less risky and better value to hire an escort than to invest in an affair.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:22 AM
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Agreed. I don't cook with microwaves. To me that seems like cheating and the food never comes out as nice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 07:48 PM
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Get yourself a rice cooker. Add veggie or chicken bullion to the water. Funny that just a few hours ago my SO showed me this pic and said "So glad I never have to have a plain dinner."
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 07:36 AM
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Using the RPW toolbox, a woman can lead her man to his best potential possible. However part of swallowing the pill is recognizing that there is no such thing as true equality... not all men (or women) are created equal. You may help him be the best man he can be, but it still may not be enough to captain the ship in the way that you idealize. Only he can make that choice to step into the leadership role, and honestly most men are followers, not leaders. The thing is he doesn't necessarily have …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 07:25 AM
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If you're interested in what men really want in a women come visit us at RedPillWomen. ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:12 AM
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This was my case too... I was usually much more reserved about sex until commitment was on the table. But then I met the most amazingly perfect man. I resisted heavy escalation for about 24 hours, the next day I surprised him at his place and we fucked like animals 3x a day for a month. We have been together for 5 years now an. I feel my intuition kicked in and must have known what it was doing to throw caution to the wind, but I wouldn't exactly recommend this kind of gamble to anyone unless yo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 11:19 PM
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Awesome! Love the side effect is that you are more turned on by your SO. Shows how much an effect body language has, not just on others but on yourself! Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 11:04 PM
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This is why we advocate finding captains who are older than us with some life experience in taking care of themselves before we start taking care of them. You've been with him since he was 14 so he never had a chance to grow up. If he had been on his own when he got his first place he would have had to figure some of these things out for himself, sink or swim. He would have struggled a bit in the beginning, but he would have figured it out in the end and become more confident in himself through …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 09:35 PM
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Dates are an occasion for a bit of makeup even if you usually don't wear any. Doesn't have to be all out but put a little effort in for him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 04:37 PM
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Every living thing, whether monkey, bird or human, fulfills it's own evolutionary niche. Each of these also have their own sexual strategy niche. Yes primates (and we are still primates) exhibit a diverse range of sexual strategies. The more different strategies you can study and compare, the more you can learn about the niche our species has evolved for. We like to think we are so different from animals but there are only a few things (consciousness, art, music, tools...and even these are fierc…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:18 PM
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RP theories are about how our evolutionary (more animalistic if you will) motives and behaviors contrast to our so called "civilized" social upbringing. For me both anthropology and TRP try to get closer to the most basic, primal human nature stripped of the social noise that varies from culture to culture.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:11 PM
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Yes human estrus is concealed for a reason. When a female chimp goes in heat her ass swells up bigger than her face to advertise her fertility to the most alpha male that can fight for the right. A human male can't outwardly tell when a female is in estrus, and the female uses this to her advantage so that he sticks around to increase his chances of fertilizing her (thus some form of temporary "monogamy" is the most common in human cultures). Many tests have been done that show women are attract…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:38 AM
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I say "Bless you!" same as when he sneezes. And your SO farts are much better than anyone else's farts. A girlfriend and her boyfriend were recently visiting and slept on our pull out couch. I was in the kitchen and I heard the dude fart in his sleep and I was SO GROSSED OUT! But I realized that I am actually not so grossed out by my SO's farts in comparison (well except for if they're reeeally stinky!)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:50 AM
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As an anthropologist, this is my kind of study :)
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:42 PM
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Backstory? How did you meet? What's the context?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 05:00 PM
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Great advice with Paleo. It is somewhat RPW advice because no man wants to feel like he's eating "rabbit food" but he'll eat a big steak every night! Paleo diet has a "cave man" appeal to it that he might ease into better. Also, I've heard on this sub about steak and BJ day? Not sure what your sex life is like, but try encouraging positive reinforcement with sexual attention. This way he'll feel more desirable and won't feel like you're going to cheat on him with a guy from the gym. If he even g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 07:00 AM
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If parents have unhealthy habits but try to enforce them with their kids it won't work. Kids are smart, they'll know you're being a hypocrite. They'll want what dad is eating/saying/doing because if he can have it why can't they? Do not underestimate the importance of your diet. Modeling good eating habits is the absolute most important thing you can do for your children's long term health!
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 06:51 AM
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Great article! And I love the role reversal at the end... both of them appreciate more and feel appreciated more! Attitude of grattitude!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 04:24 PM
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"I just want to say that that is a lie that satan has led our culture to believe!" Ha! Love it. Maybe not everyone here is comfortable with the G. word but we all know satan when we see him ;)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 06:54 AM
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My wise RP style grandmother definitely put her relationship before her children and tells me this proudly. She loved them all but Grandpa always came first and they are still madly in love over 60 years later. Considering that less than half that amount of time was spent raising their children, I'd say they made a good investment as they have eachother in their old age, and their marriage is really the nucleus of the entire extended family. Only issue is that sometimes the kids took it a bit pe…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 06:38 AM
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My SO sometimes gets called arrogant, selfish or egocentric. I think it comes with being an alpha male, on his path with confidence and not afraid to put himself first. He learned young not to care what other people think, it's not his job to make everyone happy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 03:06 PM
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16 is a great time to start becoming a RPW! I didn't get here until I was 26. While others are "experimenting" with hookup culture, you get a head start on "experimenting" with being a mature woman. Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 02:57 PM
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Already getting ideas for manly Xmas gifts for my man and getting some online shopping out of the way ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 02:51 PM
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Thanks! They even have sandalwood oils and creams which is his favorite scent. Now I know what to get him for Christmas ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 04:47 AM
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Great report and just what I needed to hear! I am visiting my hometown in the south and was trying to reconcile my southern manners with my RP boundaries and had trouble finding the balance. Just tonight I has gone to an open mic night with a girlfriend and some young rapper wannabe was hitting on me and trying to burn me his CD right there at the venue and his friend was being really obnoxious about it, saying I was being disrespectful by saying I was late and had to leave (bc my SO was waiting…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 04:29 AM
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I once spent a summer in the French countryside on a research trip that was half Americans, half French. One American girl talked about a French guy literally scooping her up and running off to a barn without a word (so romantic!) Another time a French guy was flirting with me all evening as I was trying to learn the language, and just after I settle down for bed I get a "knock" on my tent (we were all camping) and as soon as I zip opener the door, before I could even see who it was, the guy is …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:40 PM
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Definitely helps you enjoy your work when you have positive relationships with coworkers. Sucks to work around negative people as that energy will seep into you unless you have extremely strong boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:39 PM
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Sorry hard to follow so correct me if I'm wrong...so you're all lesbians and you're having a hard time getting along with them because you are a lipstick lesbian and they are more butch? Gonna be harder to find lesbian friends who share anti-feminist more RPW views...but girly lesbians are out there, just harder to recognize since they don't advertise their sexuality with short hair and a manly attitude. You'd probably have more luck with straight girlfriends but even us straight women have a ha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:32 PM
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It's more that we idolize images of celebrities in our heads, so in our minds Brad Pitt is head and shoulders above normal men. There's nothing wrong with a 5'7 or 5'11 man, but we don't picture super alpha movie stars that way. Women too... I met a Victorias Secret Angel who was barely 5'5 and super petite, but in pictures she looks like all the other giraffe models.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 05:17 PM
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Just remember that no matter what feminist mumbo jumbo these women are saying on the outside, they're still women and there will always be a RP type of underlying truth to their motivations. See if you can subtly tease out a bit of this feminine side from them. The masculine strength is to compete, the feminine strength is to relate, and these are diametrically opposed. Avoid competition at all costs and work on building relationships, fostering a feeling of community. Don't think of them as an …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 05:04 PM
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Yes, being a good listener is a good feminine trait to practice and it makes other people feel good about themselves and like you. Be careful thought if you're around a lot of complainers and whiners because just listening to negative things has a negative effect. So think of it as practicing your feminine charms and if someone gets onto a gossipy, negative conversation streak see if you can gracefully steer the direction into a positive discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 04:49 PM
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Normal is supposed to be average. It's not enough to pedestal her for simply not being knocked up already. There are plenty of girls her age who are childless, but if you're mainly spinning plates and going to bars you won't find them there. So she seems to have decent a head on her shoulders but don't back off your game or she'll slip out of your grasp. Check this one out... http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/12/more-confident-he-is-less-he-likes-you.html?m=1
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:43 PM
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Hollywood can always cover up height and age with their movie magic. The problem with this is that it makes women ignorant of the wall because so-and-so celebrity is over 40, getting pregnant and she looks as hot as ever!
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 04:36 PM
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Apparently google is lying about the 5'11". From what I recall in think it's more like 5'7"
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 04:16 PM
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Hmm just normal you say... If your going to try LTR game you better hold out for a bit better than normal.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:07 PM
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Haha yeah I thought I remembered him being much shorter....my aunt has met them and was talking about how tiny he was, but if you google his height it says 5'11" so even google lies for him!
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 04:06 PM
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Simply be a man and she will thank you for it. My friend went on a tinder date last night, he was reading a manosphere article I had just sent him while he was waiting for her to show. He pulled some amused mastery and indifference from the article, had the whole tableful of girls next to them laughing and hitting on him in front of her. She brought him home to fuck her. Next morning he gets a text: "10 out of 10 for tindate. You made the world a little less creepy."
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:54 AM
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It's not just about eating skinny... Has she ever heard of eating healthy?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:44 AM
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Bored with sluts? Are you looking to shift from plate game to LTR game?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:34 AM
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Ugh... So true. He's the last in a line of classic movie star alphas.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:03 AM
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I went to an extremely expensive school for a fancy but impractical major (anthropology) because that's just what smart girls are supposed to do. The main useful thing I learned from my degree was simply how to research things for myself. I feel like I've self-taught myself so much about real life by simply reading and exploring the internet. In fact I count my studying of TRP as a continuation my study of anthropology, the study of man! I could have written the best term paper on this stuff, an…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:00 AM
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Just wondering who will fill his shoes as the new metaphor
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 04:02 AM
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"Brad Pitt" has always epitomized the super alpha of every woman's dreams, but he's now settled down, married and starting to age (and Angelina is no "plate" btw...and not really a RPW either) So who is the new "Brad Pitt" that is supposed to represent the alpha ideal? I'm not sure if there is one... (Also if women actually met Brad Pitt in person they would be disappointed with his average height of 5'11")
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 12:04 AM
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(You know the tune) Step 1: cut a hole in the box Step 2: put your pussy in the box...
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:27 PM
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I just noticed that the author will be releasing a book soon. The theme is breakups in the sense that a breakup is the point where a woman is most receptive to rethinking her dating strategy and understanding what she's been doing wrong. Sounds like a great excuse for a gift next time your friend gets pumped and dumped... Pair it with a "stud finder" (the tool that finds studs in a wall) as a way to add some humor and perhaps lead into a conversation about what alpha studs are looking for in a L…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 09:46 PM
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Try showing her therulesrevisited.com, it's not in your face with RP jargon or anti-feminist sentiments, but it gives a lot of straight forward advice and is a bit of a primer for RPW. I've sent a few links to girlfriends and even my "feminist" friend liked one of the posts.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 09:18 PM
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Especially in front of your friends in a game of truth or dare
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:09 PM
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2.6-4.4 partners reported for women? I saw a post from somewhere on reddit where women were reporting in the 50s to 100+ ranges! There must have been a lot of virgins in the linked survey to bring the average down to under 5...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:11 PM
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I can't believe the comments on that post...once you've swallowed the pill you see so clearly how bad they are missing the mark! Her "laundry list," "increasingly picky" as she approaches 30, history of ONSs, longest LTR was 5 months and now she can't find anyone to settle down with.... Only TRP explains all of this perfectly, everyone commenting on her post is totally clueless... Main reason they think men value low partner count is because it "makes him feel special." Haha! Have they never hea…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:02 PM
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Someone should ask her what her real number is. 3...? Really? It's the internet, what does she have to lose by telling her real number?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:37 PM
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Are there some TRP mods at purple pill too?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:35 PM
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So sounds like their past relationship was not serious at all and their interaction is based on shared social circles. It's not like he's going out of his way to hang out with her. Sit back and watch her little hamster run around circles him and just take the compliment that you have a desirable captain. Personally I like to ask my SO all about his exs and past relationships bc it gives me insight into what he has experienced and how it has shaped him into the man he is now. It doesn't bother me…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 04:06 PM
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You need to pause, take a step back, and really decide how to prioritize your life and manage your time. You are pushing yourself too hard and you are going to burnout and become resentful. This sub is all about making your relationship your priority, but I would like to add that to do that, you need to take care of yourself first. Put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others, or you won't be of use to anyone. Carve out the time you need to refuel yourself regularly...yoga, a craft pr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 05:39 AM
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This. A wise very RP style man I know always tells men never to say "I love you" to a woman, but to show "I love you" through actions.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 09:29 AM
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You've been with him for 3 years...how long ago was he dating her and for how long? If they were friends for a long time before dating and they share social circles (and mainly see each other in group context) I don't think there's much of a problem with it. If you trust your man, then any issues are on her side and her hamster is not you problem, nor your SOs really. You feel uneasy because you are experiencing dread, which can actually be healthy for your relationship because it keeps you on y…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 09:24 AM
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Love the website! This is perfect as I'm leaving for a week on Sunday. Gonna spend the whole day cooking freezer meals for my man! I never would have thought to plan ahead so much but it's so thoughtful and loving as he looooves my food so much and suffers from "withdrawal" when I leave and sustains himself on cereal, chips and going out. He is a great cook when he wants to, but cooking ahead for him will allow him to spend more energy focused on his work (he works at home). My BP girlfriends gi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 08:03 PM
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The fact that you weren't trying to fuck her, but were nonchalantly showing confidence with your skills with women made her want you.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:12 AM
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I made this one night and sent it to him... (((*} ~)))~,v |/).. (/ _/( ( ) \ | (( | ))| I\I\
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 04:09 AM
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Yeah, "Let's talk about sex" actually seems like an invitation to escalate
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 12:46 AM
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RPW is not an exclusive club of "perfect" women. There is no minimum partner count or perfect track record required to be able to participate here. In fact, it's the former feminist sluts that need this place the most! If girls with poor past choices can come here and genuinely work on bettering themselves and learning how to make good choices, then all the better.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 12:25 AM
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My SO is so supportive for me when things get rough with mom. It's one of the times I can really lean on him and feel so taken care of. His mom has a somewhat similar situation and he has had to set firm boundaries with her, and is teaching me to do the same. The thing is I wish she would open up about her relationship. She refuses to talk about it. She's always had major walls up when it comes to any relationships and I guess I just have to accept this. I just know walls like that basically shu…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 10:43 PM
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I appreciate your response and I will keep this in mind. Oddly enough she had the perfect role model relationship in her parents. My grandparents are a classic couple from the 50s with a very RP style, my grandmother a charming housewife and my grandfather an esteemed doctor. They are still madly in love after 5 kids and over 50 years of marriage! The thing is my mom has never had a good relationship w her mother, and she idolized her father (even becoming a radiologist just like him), so I thin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 10:38 PM
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It's the "rationalization hamster," a little rodent that runs endless circles on it's wheel in your brain, trying to find excuses for any negative behavior. It doesn't go anywhere, but it feels like it's making progress because it makes you feel better about a situation than confronting your responsibility and accountability for your own life. My mom is very smart, too smart for her own good. Her hamster can run very fast and turn the most f*ucked up situation (like abuse) into something that sh…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 10:31 PM
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Your post inspired me to write my own about my 2 doctor parents and how things turned out for them... Not sure how to link to it but it's called "How to have a relationship with my mother's hamster?" Please check it out. You really have to make a decision as to what comes first for you...being a doctor or being a wife and parent. My mom's female doctor friends either have successful careers, or they are married with children, but I have not met a single one that has both. And the ones that are c…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 09:41 AM
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Thanks for your support. I guess I have to start thinking of her victim mentality as one ongoing shit test, as if I have to be the one "holding frame." I'm also trying to learn from her mistakes. I once thought I was going to be a doctor myself but in watching my mom crumble under career pressures, I decided that my future family and my relationship would mean more to me in the end, and that an intense medical career is very much at odds with prioritizing a family. When I met my SO he finally ga…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 09:26 AM
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Def check out Ian's blog, I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 05:28 AM
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What's your raw honey mask recipe? My SO breaks out from shaving and I'd love to help him find a natural solution.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 05:11 AM
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Isn't it amazing how fast the results can show! Your original post was only 2 days prior to this one and look how much happier and appreciative you both are already! A shift in perspective takes no time at all and the results come swiftly ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:45 AM
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I'd say to tell the old maid that 35 is too old to settle down (cause who would take her?!) but us RP ladies have more class than that ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:09 AM
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Definitely teach the language to your kids! And include your SO in on it too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:01 AM
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Curious have you succeeded in being so bold?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:55 AM
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Haha I posted this to RPW earlier. Gotta love xkcd!
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 05:28 PM
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TRP teaches that there is no such thing as "The One" or the "Soulmate Myth." There is the one that you can choose to spend your life with, but it's not like he is the one and only person you could ever be happy with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 03:58 AM
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Would seem like you were in the friend zone, was there not an initial chemistry?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 03:43 AM
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If is person is willing and able to change for the better, it is up to them to make that choice to change. A woman has to make the decision to be a RPW, she will take you on as her mentor and then it's up to you to train her...
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:33 AM
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I'd suggest instead of nagging, encourage each other to be healthier by doing healthy things together... If he needs to cut __ out of his diet, then you offer to do it too to. Come up with an alternative habit, a reward system, and even planning a "cheat" day can be helpful in dropping a habit in the long run...and both of you tackle the new diet together. It helps to have an accountability partner, but just try to treat it as if you really are a partner, not a parent. You could also try somethi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 02:55 AM
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Over at RPW there are a lot of men asking "where do I find women like you?" and we say that you don't find a RPW, you make her. You find a woman with enough "potential" and without a CC history and your alpha frame molds her into your unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:46 PM
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Serious question....What to do about him farting around me?!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 06:22 AM
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I think most of the things "feminists" want on a global scale should just be fighting for *human rights." Whether your a man or a woman shouldn't matter in the eyes of the law when it comes to marriage, divorce, rape and abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 05:38 AM
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I must say thank you for your post, it spoke to me on a personal level and I believe there may be other RPW who deal with these kinds of judgements against their partners. It reminds me of a similar "intervention" my college friends staged less than a year into my relationship with my SO (5 years ago). At the time, my SO had graciously fronted money for me to join him on a month long vacation in Brazil. Then later instead of having me pay him back, he said I could just work off my debt by helpin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 07:33 AM
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SO is fine, just clarifying that other people (esp parents) give more respect to "husbands" than boyfriends or SO. Not to say that your relationship can't be close/deep/committed. Just tonight I was having dinner with 2 married couples slightly older than my SO and I, they had been together 2 and 4 years while (even though not married) my SO and I just celebrated our 5 year anniversary. The 2 other couples totally respected us and treated us like another married couple. Out generation is more aw…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 07:09 AM
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Are they married yet? She only said he was her SO. Perhaps if they had a more formal engagement the family would feel more comfortable about his commitment to her. Part of getting married is proclaiming to the outside world and to your original families that you are "a new primary family." Marriage is primarily for the couple involved, but a perk is that others understand your level of commitment and are more respectful of it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 08:43 PM
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Check out my RPW inspired Pinterest board: Work it Like a Housewife: The privilege and glamour of the lost art of hearth and home Like most young ladies, I dream of one day getting married. But instead of pinning wedding dresses and party plans, I've started collecting images about the marriage I want to have, not the wedding. One of my ambitions is to be the best housewife I can be for my husband and children, and I want to take this role with honor and artistry. I hope you enjoy! There are a f…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 04:02 AM
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So what are the actual stats for women's fertility vs age? This article only said what women "thought" fertility was for 30 and 40 years old. Any links to a nice graph or other visuals?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 07:34 PM
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My mom didn't teach me squat about makeup. I hardly wore any growing up or in college and, at 27, have only recently been learning on my own. Hoping to pass a few things onto my 2 younger sisters. We all have a natural beauty but I'm on stage for work and barely knew how to pretty up for fancy events!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 05:00 AM
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Interesting you ask... It would be in the organic aisle, but only because my SO turned me onto organic eating. Same he taught me to be a RPW (before discovering this sub). It's often said on here that "you don't find RPW, you make them."
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 11:22 PM
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Inspired by RPW, for our 5 year anniversary I directly told my SO that I would never turn down sex anymore as part of my "gift" to him (and to solidify it as a commitment to myself). I had first told him "he could get me anytime" early in our relationship and he loved it, but we went through a period where our relationship was all upside down and I refused/acted uninterested often, which caused him to initiate less and less. Since I've told him he's been initiating more, in a more dominant way, …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 09:59 PM
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BJs evey other day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 09:41 PM
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Diet can be huge as it has a direct affect on our hormones...read up on foods, vitamins and supplements, that can increase female libido and also pay attention to how/when/what you and make sure you are eat eating the right things at the right time.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 09:41 PM
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When I traveled in Brazil we always kept a wet sarong over our shoulders. Really chills you out. It's what I call my personal AC.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 12:41 AM
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It's a whole sub based on criticism! As ladies learning how weed criticism out of our relationship toolbox we have no business over there. Surround yourself with people you are inspired by, both in real life and on the internet. I've had to weed out a few "friends" who were really nothing but critics, and while we can learn something from constructive criticism, most of the time people are just projecting and trying to bring you down to their level, and it's just not worth exposing yourself to n…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 07:34 PM
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I haven't been sexually attracted to other men since I met my SO 5 years ago. Yes I think this is very different from men, as they will always get turned on by the sight/thought of a new hot young thing because men are biologically programmed to seek variety. But I have some serious blinders on when it comes to other men. I'm almost grossed out by most of them as I can see right through their moves (thanks to the RP). To be fair when I was single I was attracted to only the 1% anyway, so it was …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 03:19 AM
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She stated that his background is Chinese and living with/taking care of elders is a form of respect in Chinese culture. He's getting good grandson points by staying with her, and probably "family pressure" to not move out means that if he didn't live with her, someone else in the family would have to fulfill that role.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:10 AM
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How good is her hearing at her age? It's likely that it's not as sensitive as yours and that she doesn't pick up on the little things. Is she a heavy or light sleeper? Maybe wait till late at night when you know she's asleep. Or maybe like most old folks she takes naps? How often does she go out of the house? Is there maybe a weekly shopping routine or some other event or way to get her out for an hour or two so you can get your freak on? Try getting her interested in a class/hobby/mah-jong nigh…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:06 AM
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I also think a lot of valuable RP men will spend their younger years (20s through early 30s) spinning plates, and that this is actually good for them as it increases their confidence, frame and SMV. Then if/when these men are bored with plate spinning and ready to settle down and start a family, they will shift their strategy to looking for a high value RPW to marry. Some women would be turned off by a man who spent their youth spinning plates but personally I have no problem with it and think i…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 11:42 PM
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RP advice on tinder dates = don't do them
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 10:48 PM
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Watch out for Tinder... Most guys use it for for a quick and easy lay and that's all they're after.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 09:05 AM
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Interesting perspective to realize that her pump and dump hamster knew what would make genetically superior offspring. But I'm sure being on your own at such a young age contributed to your independence and success. There are many who are too mothered and sheltered by the nurturing "good mother" type and it actually gives them a disadvantage. But since your mother was less of a nurturer her hamster knew that it had to rely more on genetics for her offspring to have a chance.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:08 PM
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My SO likes marathon sex which I can't always keep up with, so sometimes he likes to watch porn for a few hours and then get me for the last hour or so.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 05:04 PM
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If your in pain, communicate this to him in a way he'll understand and be flattered by ("You fucked me so good and hard last time, I can't even walk! You're going to have to give me a chance to catch up you stud.") so he knows it's not "rejection" and offer him BJs until your ready to perform again. If there are boundary issues, lay down the line on where you are too uncomfortable to perform before you have to turn hm him down for it. If "no other ppl in the room" needs to be a boundary for you …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 05:01 PM
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This is why RPW advocates finding the man you want to marry at a young age to give him the peak of your youth (and to calibrate the wife goggles at this peak), instead of wasting youth's fleeting beauty ridding the cock carousel and then marrying off once you've "used up" your youth on other men.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 04:31 PM
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Men will always be physically attracted to younger woman... But practically most don't want to be seen as cradle robbers, or they don't want to feel like the old one in the relationship or they don't have enough in common to keep up a LTR or if they are divorcees then they don't want to actually date a woman the same age as his daughter.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 04:27 PM
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I also met my SO at 22. I'm 27 now and he is still pleasantly surprised to look around and realize i'm still "the hottest woman in the room."
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 04:23 PM
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Throwing him down may be dominant but a BJ is still a submissive gesture overall... Shoving his face in your pussy and demanding cunnilingus would be the more dom move and a man may like that for the novelty factory but in the long run most would not enjoy being constantly told how to perform in the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:24 AM
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I agree that sexual variety is healthy, esp for men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:21 AM
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To answer your specific questions specifically.... A woman being sexually dominant is not "bad" unless she wants (consciously or subconsciously) a traditional RP style relationship. I'm sure plenty of female doms are "good" people and good partners (for their specifically minority fetish/relationship group). But if she needs the tingles of an alpha man, then playing the dom role in bed is going to work against her in finding/keeping such a man. A sexually submissive man is not "bad" either. Diff…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:17 AM
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Soooo...Is there enough interest on both sides to pursue a relationship? Where's it going? Did you find other ways to keep warm ;)
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 06:35 AM
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I am working on letting go of being a smart girl too. I know I am more "intelligent" than him in certain ways, but he is so in touch with his "intuition" that I know I am in good hands even when my analytical brain is beeping at me that there is a "better" way. Really the "best" way is what makes my man happy because that's what makes me happy. I admire his ability to just know on a deep level what he needs, vs my logical brain that analyzes things to find the "most logical" solution. It's hard …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 07:33 PM
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Haha! Thanks for that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 06:38 AM
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Haha just trying to provide background info and curious how it works with other couples.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 06:35 AM
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I saw a post on TRP cross linking another reddit post of women telling their numbers (and the alternate numbers they told their husbands). Really fucking scary, as I had no idea women younger than me were racking up into 50s+.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 02:02 AM
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Anyone have the link to the original reddit post?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 01:54 AM
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I totally believe that your emotions go into your food. You are what you eat both physically and emotionally. This is what scares me about restaurant food...no matter how good it tastes, it will never feel as good as a home cooked meal made with love and intention. Anyone who has every worked in a restaurant knows the amount of stress, rush and hectic, negative energy that is found in a restaurant kitchen. And the more "high end" restaurants often have the most stressful kitchens with the gnarli…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 09:42 PM
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It can also be dangerous if you lazily stay with a bad partner because you are star crossed soul mates and you think you'll never be happy with anyone else. A lot of victims of abuse get stuck in this rut thinking that it's better to be with the abusive "soul mate" than alone forever. The soul mate myth limits ones perspective to NEXT a partner who isn't who you thought they were.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 07:39 PM
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I'd say it's possible for souls to "mate" and experience a spiritual feeling of union unlike any other relationship. But the concept of THE one and only person on earth for you is limiting. I had deep love on the "soulmate" level for my first love, who I thought was "the one." We were young and naive, and I later had similar feelings for my 2nd love. Once I started feeling it the 3rd time with my current love of 5 years, I realized that we humans are capable of much more abundant love than the s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 09:12 AM
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If say there's a difference between "changing" a man (from a primarily beta to primarily alpha) and encouraging a man to be more of the alpha that he already is. A man who was once alpha but who has been browbeaten into being beta can "change" back to his alpha self with the right kind of support from a feminine woman, as Ian describes in his post. A man who is fundamentally beta will not change into an alpha unless he does a serious cycle of pain, soul searching and finally rebuilding. Most lik…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 03:07 AM
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That kind of "emotional support" is what girlfriends should be for... Might further emasculate him to fulfill that role.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 02:55 AM
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Trying to drop the habit of saying "good boy" in a baby voice to him but it came from an inside joke that we shared years back so it's kind of endearing but I don't like how it make me feel like his mom when I say it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 03:11 AM
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This! I am lucky (or just secure enough in myself and my relationship) that jealousy has not been an issue for me. I am friends with my SO's exs as I appreciate the fact that he would not be who he is if he didn't know/experience them. I also like when he gets outside female attention, as it makes me feel like the queen bee with the man every woman wants. My SO really admires that I can have this attitude with exs and other women, esp since his ex before me was extremely jealous. The best compli…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 02:10 AM
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True abuse is not acceptable, but RPW are aware that the word "abuse" and "abusive" are often thrown around carelessly by women these days.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 04:57 PM
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It's pretty hard for humans to have no emotions for any extended period of time, if they do then they are deep in meditation and have a completely passive face, not a grumpy one. Even when "spacing out" a person is either thinking positive or negative thoughts and those thoughts subconsciously reflect in their facial muscles. We have a lot of control over out thoughts and our facial expressions and it all comes down to discipline.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 11:30 AM
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Mainly practicing consciously relaxing all of the facial muscles, as if you are going into shavasana. Relax and then relax some more, orbits, jaw, even the tongue. Maybe a good yawn. This is just my own interpretation but I I read about a yoga teacher who developed a whole style of face yoga that is supposed to prevent wrinkles and work on certain face muscles to mimic a face lift and reduce the effects of aging. Think how much faster wrinkles and crows feet will form if you have RBF!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 11:25 AM
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Does he make a honking sound effect? Honk honk!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 04:37 PM
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TRP is like eavesdropping on the men's locker room. They sound all tough, and they like to bust each others balls and throw egos, but they're just sparring like young bucks (and the newest influx is mostly the younger internet savy ones), testing their strength and trying to sound as alpha as they can. As RPW we know that too much alpha is not ideal for a long term mate, a balance of certain beta provider traits must be present too. But they're not strutting around the locker room trying to impr…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 09:15 AM
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History always works like a pendulum The rising popularity of TRP shows that men are starting to reach the upper limits of what feminism and hypergamy will allow. Eventually the men will rebel in enough forces and the pendulum will start to swing back the other way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 09:04 AM
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I went to college in a big liberal city. Now that I've swallowed the pill (and before that as I was already in a RP style relationship) I feel like I've become so disconnected with all of my old college girlfriends... We hardly have anything in common anymore and when we catch up I can't help but notice "oh dear, this one's about to crash into the wall," "this one's trying to date feminized betas," "this one wears the pants in the relationship." I hold my tongue or offer tidbits of very mild, di…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 08:56 AM
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Think of it as if your are the wedding planner and he is your client (aka "the boss"). Organize the event to make his experience of the evening enjoyable and stress free (and make sure you don't take on too much and get stressed out either). Produce his overall vision while taking care of the details as you see fit, a sign of his trust in you to carry out his vision.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 08:36 AM
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Yes, I saw some old fashioned dating advice about how to never do your makeup in front of a man. He should get the benefits without knowing how much work goes into it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 07:55 AM
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I'd say watches are a manly gift. I gave my SO a watch for his birthday last year, a sporty waterproof one in his favorite color. He never has a watch bc he works with his hands and it gets in the way, but this watch was specifically for when he wants to go surfing but has a time limit for when to get out of the water...so yes the point of the gift was very practical.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 07:39 AM
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Thanks for sharing, this post lifted my spirits as I am in a similar situation... Practicing discipline in being supportive and trusting instead of nagging him about how I think he should be spending his time finding more work. While he's always made more $ than the year before, this summer we have taken a big hit financially. I work for my SO's business so we are both taking the same hit, but as I make less than he does so I'm more anxious about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 05:49 AM
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Love this article! My mom always said "A place for everything and everything in it's place" (if only she could have followed her own advice, bless her). I travel a lot so staying organized and keeping everything in it's place (even when it's only a couple of bags) is the difference between an enjoyable departure and a last min stressed out did-I-forget-anything almost-missed-my-flight departure. My recent lifesaver has been a cute floral Vera Bradley hanging organizer: http://m.bkstr.com//Produc…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/14 11:00 PM
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This made me think of a wonderful little book called "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff" where most of the snippets of advice are about shutting up and being a present listener instead of impatiently waiting for a chance to butt in with our opinions. We're so absorbed with what we have to say we forget to listen which causes tension in any conversation. When we just sit back and let the other person express themselves without the need to say our bit, both parties feel more relaxed and enjoy the conver…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/14 06:40 PM
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Because of my love of board sports I am often the only girl in male dominated activities and it can be tricky to find that balance between tom boy and girly girl. Most recently there was a big hurricane swell and I was the only girl surfer in the lineup of about 12 macho surfer guys (including my SO). I try to be as feminine as possible, like wearing a pink/purple/aqua wetsuit and French braids, and I also try to surf as feminine as possible (not aggressively charging waves, happy to sit back an…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 07:26 PM
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I was power sanding my apartment floor in a bikini with goggles and a face mask and my boyfriend thought it was quite adorable. Think pinup with power tools.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 07:15 PM
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I wouldn't get all up in arms about "it's all the woman's fault." Think of it more in terms of "you cannot control other people, you can only control yourself and your part in the situation." Work on minimizing your jealousy and a likely side effect is that your inner peace will naturally reduce his jealousy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 12:46 AM
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Hard to know what the relationship/lifestyle atmosphere will be by the time I start having children... It can either go the way it's been with feminism and promiscuity taking it's toll on unsuspecting young women, or perhaps movements like #womenagainstfeminism will get enough momentum to swing the social pendulum around and being feminine will come more naturally. Either way I want my daughters know the following, ideally by me showing instead just telling: Avoid promiscuity. Keep your number a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 05:34 PM
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My guess is that because they've been dating since try were so young, they both appreciate some time to themselves and the chance to live independently. Guys in the military are used to living apart from their wives (tho usually it's when they're deployed) but he's probably taking care of himself in a bachelor style way, which will make him appreciate his GF more when they finally move in together. Personally I think LDRs are very tough and risky. I was with my high school sweetheart for 2 years…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 04:16 PM
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How does one practically manage life's timeline of expectations from 20s into 30s? I met my SO in my early 20s. I knew kids would be a big priority for me. My SO is 5 years older than me, and when we first started dating I knew I could check off the list for A) wants kids, B) would make an excellent father and C) he thinks I would make an excellent mother. However at 22 kids and family seemed very far away so I checked these off my list and have been continuing happily with my relationship and m…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 08:49 AM
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Buy one beer mug and keep it in the freezer just for him and be stocked on his favorite beers.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 05:18 AM
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