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| 1 | Where can college aged guys, meets girls outside of college?Exactly, he doesn't go to college and I am taking the year out. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Show Your Intent When Talking To The Girl For The First Time During Daygame Cold ApproachProbably not very solid. Like, you can get loads of numbers but you haven't really built much rapport at all. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I finally did my first cold approachUhm, how exactly was it a mistake if he got the number and is now texting with her? That doesn't mean he didn't make mistakes. I'm just saying for next time. If I get a girls number, very rarely was it a perfect pick up. In fact, never. Also nothing wrong with expressing yourself. Being honest about how you feel in such a situation can be very attractive. He is letting her know he is also human with healthy emotions. He is not pretending to be some superhero who isnt afraid of anything. Sure the… | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 01:19 PM |
| 19 | I finally did my first cold approachI agree and I was noticeably nervous, trust me lol. Tbf if you were sweating, calling it out could help put things at ease. I guess what I am trying I say is build up to the point where even if you feel nervous don't show it and don't say it. It's like if I am going I open with a slightly unusual question, I would say, "Hey I know this is a bit weird but..". Although it was probably a mistake, I honestly don't mind expressing myself in that way. I think the approach itself displays some level of… | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 08:35 PM |
| 48 | I finally did my first cold approacheven expressed that I was a bit nervous This was probably a mistake. If you look at nervous wreck she will notice anyway. If you look fine then tell her you are nervous you lose an advantage. It also just sets up everything else you say to be said in low confidence. Now I understand this doesn't mean I'm going to get laid but this was a big deal to me. I was extraordinarly nervous and although it only lasted less than a minute. I was happy I went through with it. Baby steps to success. And I got… | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over my fear of asking out a woman?Ask out a woman. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | I don't have an instagramSnapchat is what the kids use nowadays. If you get a girls snapchat the intention is clear. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedI mean, is still the same. You still see her above yourself as something you have to "win" so you try to look for something to impress her. I'm not trying to impress her, I just want to break the awkward silence Most of the times I just start a conversation with something like: "Hey, I just saw you and I like you". Then it just flow. I believe the more we think about what we’re supposed to ask, the further we’ll be from engaging in a good conversation. I suppose practice will make perfect. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedGoing caveman? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedYeah I am pretty good at active listening. The little conversation you do have at a club, what should it be about? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedI'm normally ok with opening once I've made eye contact and a smile. I will happily use 'hey' as an opener. But wtf do I say after that? So there was this cute girl dancing a tad away from her friends in the slightly quieter part if the dance floor. We make eye contact, we smile, we start dancing together, I spin her around lift her a bit whatever. But I just couldn't muster up anything to say to her. I ended up saying a bunch of lame stuff like asking her what she studies and complimenting her … | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedSo how would you recommend getting good conversation going in, say a night club? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How to Talk to Girls and Get Them AttractedHonest question, what is wrong with the advice given in the article? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How to easily stop overthinking and stressing, 6 effective methodsPractice makes perfect. Next time consciously talk a bit slower and never make plans on the spot. You're doing great dude never beat yourself up! | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 01:52 AM |
| 5 | How to easily stop overthinking and stressing, 6 effective methodsYou did a great job. By approaching you already beat 99% of guys. What I've found through simply being friends with girls is that they might have fun meeting you and everything but are unsure at committing to a date. Try and do something that creates a lasting impact, something that she is intrigued by. Something for her to remember you by and something to come back to. It is hard but it all comes natural with enough practice. Also organising a date for the next day was probably a mistake. | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | What % of girls are you interested in?Incredibly low considering all things. Obesity rate, age, height, ethnicity, location and other shallow things. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Buddy has asked me to be wingman for a night out. Any advice?How do I entertain the friends? | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Buddy has asked me to be wingman for a night out. Any advice?But how do I do that subtlety? Girls aren't stupid they will notice that just as much as when you big yourself up. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Low Self-Esteem, High ConfidenceWhat are the six pillars of self esteem. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 09:39 AM |
| 5 | What's the guy equivalent to girls swaying their hips to a song?Meh I use my hips too. Don't give a fuck tbh. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Spot on advice from a 10/10 babe's dating profile on what guys do that turn her offNot a lot of 10/10 guys? | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm scared of walking up to a girl and she being under 18.It can be pretty harde, especially when clubs are practically just jailbait where I'm from. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 08:41 PM |
| 6 | How to become a good story tellerThis helped my friend who used to be utterly useless at storytelling. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vn_L4OPU_rg | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | on the movie theaterMovie dates are fine if you've already been on a few dates with her and know each other well. But they aren't good for setting up intimacy. | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help. [18, Virgin, Never Kissed a Girl, Serious]It was no problem, I'm happy to help. I guess when you go to college things will be a bit easier. Best of luck bro. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 10:49 AM |
| 2 | HELP! How do I change a first impression?There is no judgement here, tell us what you said. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, help. [18, Virgin, Never Kissed a Girl, Serious]Firstly you just need to relax a bit. As you said you got plenty of time bro, there is no rush. Focus on getting the kiss first. You need to use kino to escalate up to it. Touch her arm before pointing to something. Brush something off her face. Nudge her a bit while walking/brush her upper leg with your hand while walking. Nudge her leg while sitting. You get the idea. The problem with kissing is that it's hard to escalate to fully. You kind of have to take a leap of faith, after already doing … | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:09 AM |
| 8 | How To Make Her Cheat On Her Boyfriend (7 Simple Steps)Not cool. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The damn 3 second ruleWhat is the three second rule? | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:38 PM |
| 3 | True or False?This. Bad =/= evil. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:56 PM |
| 3 | True or False?False | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:56 PM |
| 7 | How to check in with my first date today?Just text her and clarify your plans. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl I'm going on a date with tomorrow?NO! If you have an interesting story to tell, tell it on the date. You don't want to run out of things to say, I learnt this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever a situation where messaging is fine?Meh it's not as bad as people make it out to be. If you literally never see her just message her. If you do get chance to see her it's best to get to talk to her in person. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Need some opinions. Is losing your virginity to a kind of fat girl at 17 bad?Don't do it if you don't want to mate. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 01:28 PM |
| 2 | One line description of how Ive come to understand game.ITT: a lot of bitching and whining about what game is. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Gahhhhhhh I fucked upWow man you really know your stuff! Well not really, I will ask a lot of questions around here and do not consider myself a master at all. But your texts were just awful :p These are things I have never known about and it's really easy for me to come across as a 'nice guy'. I understand this isn't a good habit but for whatever reason I always revert to that.. This isn't uncommon. I do it myself, I had my first ever date yesterday and I found myself giving random poor compliments. Did it matter? … | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Gahhhhhhh I fucked upI think you had the right diea with the first line, making an observation then an assumption (so well done), but it just wasn't a very good one because it doesn't allow her to respond with anything other than what she did. Which is bad because as another user pointed out you want to be investing less than her. You are valuable, you're busy texting plenty of other girls and your busy with your fun and fulfilling life. Stop putting her on the pedastal, which is basically what you did with every te… | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Have you seen a guy do day game?Maybe that's what makes it uniquely good? | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Age differenceDate her. What do you have to lose? If she questions how young you are with something like "Aren't you a bit young?" or even "I think you're too young" respond with something like "Oh don't be too harsh on yourself, you don't look that old" or "Yeah, maybe you won't be able to keep up". credit: Common shit tests and how to diffuse them | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Should I pay for the first date?Pay for it. In my opinion if you were the one who asked her out you should pay. I'm no expert dude but cinema dates are rather terrible unless you already know them well. You don't get a good opportunity to talk to each other. I would maybe offer to get some drinks at a bar afterwards so you can actually chat, or evven meet up early at a cafe or something. edit: unless she absolutely insists to pay her share, like if she says it >3 times and is stern about it. It's better not to fight. Make a jo… | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Girl I had sex with now wants a relationship?"Hey (girls name). Listen I'm not really interested in a relationship with you, I just don't think we have a lot in common. Also I think I caught an STD from you so you should probably get yourself checked out just in case." Sounds blunt but who gives a fuck, you're moving on anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl I had sex with now wants a relationship?Wtf you must tell her you got an STD, she might not know herself. Stop being a dickhead and just text her. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Your personality is a window into your lifeWell you got him there. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?Cheers dude. I think I'm just worrying about it too much. I'm sure if it will be fine for the second date. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?OK cheers bro. Thanks fo the help. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?Do you think food at the bowling place would be a bit too tacky? Sorry I'm asking a lot of questions I've just enver done this before and I don't want to make loads of threads. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?Well yeah when you put it like that it does appear pretty simple, I know she definitely won't mind. Also on that note do you reckon bowling is alright for a second date? Also would it be best in the evening? Cheers bro. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?You're overthinking it. Stop acting like a puss. Yeah I figured this might be the case. Which is wweird because I felt super confident when I asked her out but not so much now. Let her drive if needed, just focus on having a good time. The driver really doesn't matter. How would I approach this though? Like if I wanted to take her bowling should I just say something like "mind picking me up?" | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I can't drive, but she can. How do I approach this?I'm in the UK but your point still stands. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The Nazis of /r/Pussypass have been removedThis is a test comment, please don't remove. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/05/17 02:05 PM |
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