| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 365 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes? | Logistics | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 267 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"? | Fundamentals | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 11 | Do you agree or disagree that the ideal spot to be in mentally is that fine line between being confident and cocky/arrogant | Logistics | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Do people still get picked up at bars? | Logistics | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Can a girls perception of you change after a certain period of time? | Logistics | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Honestly taking the leap is the one thing that's really holding me back | Inner Game | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Ideas on how to get pictures of myself for my OLD/Instagram profile while at the beach? | Outer Game | ANewOriginalUsername | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 06:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | how to get rid of the fuck boy stigma i have around me?I feel like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:47 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Send bubs and vogine | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 99 | How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend?Yeah literally every girl I've come across (both ones I've been attracted to and werent) somehow mention they are a bf within 20 mins of a conversation I'm having with them | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Basically just combine dirty talk with action words "You a good lil slut? Sliding my hand under your top massaging your tit" "That's it, suck my cock nice and good, groaning as I grip a fistful of your hair" Stuff like that | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:21 AM |
| 7 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?I like that someone here actually disagrees with this, however why does it have to be the guys who have to get the girls into the "fuck yes" mindset? Yes, I agree there's million variables on the girls side she has to take in when essentially a random stranger asks her out, but there are also a million guys out there who approach girls absolutely terrified of rejection/humiliation and struggle on a daily basis to draw up this courage? | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I tried shooting my shot and It didn’t work - now I feel worthless.Honestly I relate this a lot an unfortunately I cannot give any real advice to help I've also been working on myself a lot physically and mentally these past 3 years, I've worked out more, invested in better clothing and colognes as well as consistently read self help books not only to help with dating, but to also enjoy just being alone. While all of this has helped Me feel more comfortable being myself, it hast changed my dating life all that much as the majority of my dates that I've received… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Yeah I get that it's just annoying as I'm trying not to get dates from tinder (which have essentially been the source of 100% of all dates I received since turning 18) and the closets yes I get outside of tinder falls flat | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Yeah, I basically sent "another time then" text, but yeah coming across girls to even give a maybe I'd rare in my Case | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Lol yeah well I've had a lot of initial first dates that were supposed to happen that ended up not happening due to the girl having something else pop up and not suggest an alternative day/time | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?And what about a simple first date? | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 10 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Well in my case, I asked a girl out, she said maybe but she wasn't sure so she offered her number as a follow up to confirm, I said the follow up and she just said she was busy and didn't suggest an alternative time/day | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly?I am not alone!!! Lol same here I was always able go make my ex cum every time we had sex and after I would just jerk off till I came on her face/tits | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly?Well the theory goes that if you hold out on jerking off, it'll motivate you to figure out ways to pick up girls to essentially jerk you off However it doesn't always work as in my case I just get Hornier and thus end up being more desperate which ends up being counter intuitive | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 09:20 AM |
| 11 | What would be your best tips for "Sons of single mothers"?Some advice I would give through personal experience: Join a martial art/mma club. This will not only give you a huge self confidence boost plus helping with your physical looks, but you'll also get a coach (almost guaranteed to be male) to give you that male role model figure to look up to. Reading self help books. Ok so not all of these books are good for this sort of thing and some just give general advice that just printed on a colorful cover page, but some that really helped me was No more … | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Yeah I've also heard this, my usual go to is twice on the neck and once on the wrist and lightly dab the other wrist on the sprayed wrist | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 13 | Just got rejected by the girl i lovedHell kids doing way better than I did at his age, I could barely talk to girls at 15 never mind ask them out/ask for their number | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when you go to a nightclub by yourself? I come from a city (Australia) where everybody goes in groups with their friends and hangs with their friends, nobody is aloneI used to go to night clubs alone for the sensory overload. I do a lot of thinking with my work so I needed something just to shut my brain up for a few hours, so the loud music, flashing lights and a few beers generally puts me in a peaceful buzz As for what I actually do, I usually like to watch and observe the people around me, who's gotten way too drunk way too early, the older guys hitting on girls way too young for them, watching the drunk dancers etc | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach?What I've learnt is, the fuck it approach helps with you getting an answer of a yes or a no, it does not however, give you a guaranteed yes. More often than not, if you're not sure if the girl is into you, it results in a non zero chance of her saying yes to a date, however, if you don't feel nervous about asking a girl out, you both most likely have a mutual attraction to each other which means asking her out is a no brainer | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Doing something "interesting" can vary from individual to individual. You might consider a night in reading a book with a cup of coco boring, but someone could consider that the highlight of their week. If you ask me, you seem to be having a pretty great life, about to do what you enjoy full time, see and hang out with your friends regularly and have a consistent exercise routine. I can guarantee almost everyone on this sub including me (have all the same minus the seeing friends regularly) don'… | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Do you go to clubs or bars by yourself?I go out to a bar every week (usually Saturdays, the odd friday) I usually do it as I need a break from my usual home-work-gym-home weekly routine and since my friends are either too far away to call up and hang out every week or just too busy, going out alone is my only choice I regular at a bar where I bring my kindle, order a few beers and just enjoy myself | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | How do I make eye contact or how do I train myself to, well, do itMaking the weird facial expressions I don't know how to help, but something I've done that's helped a lot with eye contact is I like to visualize a pyramid on the person I'm talking to, where the 4 points are on the person's shoulders, one on their forehead and the last being that soft spot on their throat, then from there I look at the point that would be where the tip of the pyramid would be, it essentially makes you look like you're looking them in the eye without actually looking them in the… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 08:13 AM |
| 9 | Strong eye contact with womenMy honest guess (and no scientific explanation/experience to support this) is its almost a (subconscious?) Way of testing the guy, usually people look away if they're afraid or intimidated so the girls are probably just testing how much self confidence you have while talking to her | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 10:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Unpopular opinion: I don't actually like receiving nudes from girls. Finding pictures of naked girls in today's age is like walking into a clock store and wondering what the time is. Usually if a girl offers to sends me nudes, means I've already seen her naked, and will probably see her naked again soon so what's the point? And the girls I want to see naked but haven't? Pretty sure seeing their naked pics is technically illegal? | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Balding attraction killerBasically look up Ethan Suplee (Randy from My name is Earl) | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Sexual attraction to specific workout body type?For me personally, I like a girl who at least keeps in shape and healthy. Whether that is through weight lifting or doing cardio/yoga 3 times a week I have a friend who entered a body building competition and while she looked incredible (abs, toned arms, an ass you could bounce a coin off of) my issue is that that look isn't sustainable and while I know she won't end up becoming overweight and will go back to a healthy more sustainable build (until her next competition) the inconsistency is what… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 05:52 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]I find it hilarious how some of them aren't even subtle about it anymore "I'm not on here often but you can find me @imdesperateforfollowerstoboostmyegoforinternetvalidation " | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Honestly taking the leap is the one thing that's really holding me backThat's actually very interesting, I'll definitely give it a try! | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Honestly taking the leap is the one thing that's really holding me backYeah I know, but like with all of the others (minus the crush one, I had a bit of liquid courage assist me at a 21st birthday) I could literally shut my mind and just go whereas shutting my mind around people for me generally doesn't work out that well I got a comment the other day where someone said it's ego is holding me back and I think that is in part true, but I'm I'm very analytical person so if I know going into a situation where I don't even have a small strategy to follow, I immediately… | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Need help on my cold approachYeah, my biggest obstacle is what do I say after "hi my name is ANewOrignalUsername" cause I knew saying something like I think you're really beautiful hence why I wanted to talk to you or anything to do with her looks wouldn't work out that well, but finding something intriguing about a girl I'm walking past that doesn't involve her looks (don't see commenting on her shirt would work that well from a guys perspective lol) isn't the easiest hence why I rarely/never cold approach | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Approaching guysr/usernamechecksout ? | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Need help on my cold approachProbably the best advice I've seen here and definitely saved this post now because of it so I can remember for when I actually see a girl to approach lol | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?I'm in a similar situation and these are things I would really enjoy: Home made gifts tend to work in this situation, but in my experience it will only be impactful if you 2 have a close enough relationship Experiences are another thing you can try, can be as simple as going for a hike outside of the city to doing an outdoor activity he's never even heard of (this is assuming he's into those sort of things) Finally, anything remotely unique that will remind him of you, I got something as simple … | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if you are super straightforward about what you want and stop playing games yourself?Same with girls getting the wrong reputation, assuming OP does just walk up to every girl he knows or meets and directly asks if they can fuck, if the girl says yes that easily, word is going to go around and she'll be getting offers like that left right and center and no one will take her seriously I think the whole point of "the game" is to not only show you are seriously looking to invest in the person and see them further than someone to fuck, but to also how you as a person perceives them. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Do girls even try for guys?I think the furthest a girl has ever gone for me was asking me out once after a coffee date | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:16 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]28, car (done) career (sorted) own house (in progress) body (on point) dating (in progress) | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Does "heyy" really mean she's interested?Can confirm, last time I messaged my crush her response was "he" haven't heard from her since /s | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:19 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]If you want to use your money to your advantage you'll have better luck just finding a hooker, it's easier and wastes less time. If you're actually looking for a LTR, my advice is to try and keep your income as one of the last things to mention if possible | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | What are some good Halloween costume ideas?One easy to make costume I did was just get a standard white shirt, write the word "LIFE" on it and carry lemon(s). Did this a few years back and got a lot of compliments on it. As an additional add on, bringing multiple lemons you can walk up to a girl and give her one and ask her "so what are you going to do now?" Second add on you can try that one pick up line where you walk up to a girl, start dropping all the lemons and as you try and pick them up, drop a few more etc, and then end with say… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between cold approach and harassment ?I would assume approaching a stranger for the first time is considered a cold approach, continuously pursuing her after she's made it clear she's not interested would be considered harassment | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | After I've created my value, what are some direct steps to improve game?From what I'm taking away here is you need less advice on what step by step approach to do, and more just keep gaining experience So from me personally I think just do a continuous trial and error since you obviously have no problem breaking the initial ice with a girl so just take note of what you say and what you do, if it doesn't work take note, try something about yourself you think you did wrong, change it the next time and see if that makes a difference, rinse and repeat | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:44 AM |
| 1 | How should you approach groups?Can't say what you can do, but something you should definitely not do is "buy their attention" an example being what happened to me a few months ago, was out by myself enjoying a few quiet beers where this one guy approached me(obviously had more than a few beers) and tried to coerce me into wing manning him for this group of girls (about 6 to 8) anyway I told him id pass and he ended up going solo on them. I ended up joining cause he kept pointing and waving at me in front of them so I got curi… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 01:26 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Yeah this has always been my biggest hurdle with OLD, I've always been the guy behind the camera (was even the school photographer back in HS) because I just feel so awkward having my picture taken, leaving me with very few decent pictures of me (most are selfies which make me feel even more awkward) which sucks cause the few girls I did match with really seemed to enjoy my bios so I must be doing something right in that regard | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Is tinder a scam?I think it's a glitch tinder has, I created a profile and would do relatively well (never got past 50 likes) but then I ended up changing my number and started a new profile and got 0 likes even though my profile was identical (and yes I have restarted my profile a number of times on my original number without any problems like this) | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potentialI get the point you're trying to make, but there are a lot more aspects to consider if a girl was to see a guys potential or not. Going with your example, yes if the girl knows the overweight guy on a personal level for many years compared to having just met him and chatted for a few weeks over text, then yes it is possible for her to see the potential in him getting into better shape one day, however if it is the latter situation it's more of a risk to take his word of him saying he is working … | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 6 | What's the #1 thing you want to change/ improve about yourself?My looks, have always been on the slim/toned side but want to start putting on a bit more mass | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm a bit on the fence about this, I'm 28 and have a decent job and have the privilege(?) to stay in a Flatlet on the same property as the house I grew up in, but still separate from my parents. I pay rent, buy my own groceries, pay my own insurance and pay my share for water and electricity etc. Now it's not to say I can't move out as I can (just barely) afford a small apartment however some things to keep in mind: I am able to save and invest 20% of my salary (before deductions) and am categor… | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 10:21 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are numerous sources you can read/watch/look at that can tell you what to do, but expecting to just read a book once or watch a YouTube video is enough to change you, you got another thing coming. It's like studying, unless you actually put your head down and grind to properly understand, practice and repeat, you will never fully be able to utilize what's been presented to you As for your question these are the following books/youtube channels I'd recommend: Books: The 12 rules of life by … | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 10:12 AM |
| 3 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?My usual go to has been the same with every girl, from the start I keep my expectations low (in regards to a second date, sex, interest from her side etc) and put the bare minimum into having things go further unless I get some form of confirmation from her side that she's going to show some interest and investment (and when I say bare minimum I don't mean take her to a fast food joint as a date or hang out for 30 minutes in the park, more emotional effort). An example being: Met a girl on tinde… | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 09:57 AM |
| 90 | Remember: we don’t chase, we attractAnd in the same breath, if you are all of those things and decide to turn your life around and become who you're meant to be, don't expect it to happen in the first day/week/month/(possibly) year Edit: spelling | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 08:42 AM |
| 62 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?This, either tell her you're short on cash and if she can cover this upcoming event and you'll cover the next one the hopefully you 2 can at least come to a "I'll cover then you cover " agreement | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Cold approach opener: “Hey, I just wanted to talk to you and tell you that you’re glowing.”Yeah I feel like there needs to be a better word than "glowing" as it almost feels like you're trying too hard to be unique (like how neckbeards use m'lady to act more "cultured") | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 06:22 AM |
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