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STRATEGYAPrivatephilosophy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:59 PM
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The fetch it from their bottomless sack of stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:18 PM
7

Why not pay a surrogate then? Like have your embryo created and implanted so she doesn’t have to copulate to conceive. I bet he’s not down for that business transaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:47 PM
8

Beyoncé was a side chick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:31 AM
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People don’t really do this right? Stay with some dude who openly cheats? It’s a joke for Twitter, yes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:15 AM
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Required reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:22 PM
2

Only if you live somewhere with no summer or winter. But then you put out for it to bark non stop, tear up the lawn, ruin the grass and become ferile. Plus you still pay for it, care for it guilt over it and that’s the most significant factor. The guilt. You got into this. You paid for the dog. It came with no papers but it was healthy enough. Then you realized it was missing major milestones pups should pass. And when it’s full grown you’ve had obedience classes. Trainers. Special kennels. Miss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:17 PM
8

Earlier today I compared being married to a NVM to owning a dog for the same amount of time who could not be potty trained. You want to love the thing despite it, but when your house smells like piss and crap and you can’t go anywhere because you can’t trust it alone, and you can’t take it anywhere with you because it’s a retarded dog that grossed everyone out, you’re kinda just all the time fucked. No social life, expensive replacements for household goods it ruins, and see if you ever want ano…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:53 AM
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Women: NEVER. LOSE. A DOLLAR. OVER. ANY. MAN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:46 PM
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Yeah I married a negative value loser. It was about like if you spent ten years as the owner of a dog that could never be potty trained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:34 PM
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When you’re right you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 05:16 PM
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The prefrontal cortex is offline. He woke up with a boner, flipped through your Facebook a little, farted, then messaged you the pic. Disgusting room, disgusting body, pubic hair from neck to knees, no higher reasoning. I’ll take one flamethrower, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 05:10 PM
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Instacart is good too, super cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:39 PM
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You know she sent him some google images cleavage too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:34 PM
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I get what you’re saying and it’s legit, but if you’ve vetted and the man is a HVM, your marriage is when you build that compatibility. Since he’s a HVM and you’re HV, your sex life is your collab. You build it and hone it over the course of the marriage. Make many albums of different genres or tempos until you find the balance that goes platinum. Ideally. But the only reason for keeping sex away until marriage is antiquated and misogynist virginity rituals where we were bought and sold like ani…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:29 PM
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I’m doing the same. When I’m on the treadmill I’m just feeling these vibes like it’s different. I’m happy being me. I’ve got so many irons in the fire and I’m excited for all of them. I took in a project I have ALWAYS wanted to and just the work is exhilarating. I’m 100% doing me and it feels amazing. This year is going to be powerful, I came in with good momentum and energy and I left fear and conformity way behind. Let’s go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:07 PM
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That’s what I think, can someone type in her username?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:07 AM
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It’s hard for normal people to understand that there are some of us who will tie a rope around our waist and go into that arena, but we need support and we need a team who will drag us out. It fucks you up forever but it needs to be done. I don’t know anyone who can function normally after working in trafficking rescue especially where it involves children. Some just stay and work out of panic and fear that comes with knowing the scope of the evil. That said, there are rescued survivors working …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:11 PM
8

Oh shit shots fired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:08 PM
2

I was skipping stuff my gym has, adding stuff my gym has... idk what other ppls gyms have. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:46 PM
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I won’t be, but I was packing my gym bag for today and thought I’d send a shoutout for everyone getting ready for the January gym rush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:04 PM
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Only way I’m losing $200 on a date is if I get mugged on my way to the restaurant lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:24 PM
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As nasty as it sounds, I know I will always come before any of the women my ex ever sees. It’s because he treated me like shit, I left him and never batted an eye. He watched me offload his dead weight, go from 0 to hero on my own strength, and stay drama free and composed the whole time. He knows he lost the best thing that ever happened to him and I’m good looking, too. Nobody better than me will ever set eyes on him and now he knows it. And we have children together. He’s made a very good com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:10 PM
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I love you guys, this is so nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:11 PM
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Go on get those bills paid 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:02 PM
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These motherfuckers are sick ass nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:55 PM
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Glow up bae ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:45 PM
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Shit, I forgot to double enter for line breaks on my phone. LOCK UP YOUR PANTIES tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:44 PM
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It’s because they truly are, in their heads, superior to women. To be turned down by something they only don’t physically violate because of fear of prison is really and truly embarrassing to them and they feel a visceral shame. They are an iota away from total shit fit at all times, and we get to gamble against their hair trigger tempers just non stop in order to not be raped or assaulted or murdered. They’re victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:00 PM
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ANY interaction you have with a man that isn’t sexual assault is that man pouring 100% of his being into holding back from committing some type of sexual assault or sexual harassment. They only have so much energy to stand against the tide. The strength of their resolve is like a wet sheet of paper and we are this close to the real depravity at all times. Any interaction online you have with a man is just a matter of time. This stupid, disrespectful, porn sick loser is piloted by perversion and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:18 PM
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Successful white collar professionals absolutely do pay for dinner dates with attractive white collar women. Is that the chump you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:07 AM
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When do they tell you it’s Dutch or half? I’m not dating so I don’t have that happening to me but I can sure picture the type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:02 AM
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Yeah I’m floored that he thinks $50 is a dinner date. For one plate? I wonder if his hypothetical date gets to order a drink or just water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:58 AM
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I heard that out of a radio pastor some years ago. Tellin ladies stop dating broke ass dudes with nothing for you. He said “You want the romance? Show me the finance!” Not a bad piece of advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:41 AM
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What were the other scenarios?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:39 AM
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With regard to incentive: if you live somewhere, the chores are your responsibility. That’s your incentive. Not to live like a pig. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:12 AM
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It’s because in their idiotic little pea brains, the internet has always been a place where you type into porn hub what you want and it pops up. They use that same thinking to type into tinder what they want lol. Abra cadabra bring me young girls! Ain’t nobody want your old saggy ass wrinkly ass hairy nostril ass no savings ass pornsick teeny weeny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:39 PM
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Lol I guess everyone needs to eat shit once before they stop trying to fly off the roof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:20 PM
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The goodness will only extinguish if one or both of a child’s parents leave the child to its own devices. Parental involvement, honesty, and education to say nothing of gentleness and trust between parent and child are a necessary foundation. A long childhood, where it is sheltered from the horrors of pornography and violence until it’s mind can develop enough in reason, logic, morality, and empathy (which must be trained and taught) to recognize its wrongness, is necessary for a child to phase …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:39 PM
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Commenting to find this later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:29 PM
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And got dammit I don’t have time for that I’m trying to get rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:31 AM
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Children (fuck autocorrect) are people and their feelings are complex and legit. They just don’t have the vocabulary to sort through them until someone teaches them. They generally are a receptive crowd to kindness and sensitivity and empathy direction. Grown men are cruel and opportunistic on purpose. They ignore instruction and boundaries and have cauterized their consciences masturbating with rape videos. There’s no good left in most of them but ALSO no potential. Men are not as good of peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:52 AM
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I looked at her profile. Yikes if he’s not already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:12 AM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:57 AM
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I saw this when it was first posted and was waiting to see it here. For some reason this got to me more than most level up posts do. Look at how real they look. They’re just normal people, doing normal things. Can you imagine being this woman? Having a sweet and innocent little knick knack hobby that your new boyfriend is proud to help you with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:56 AM
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Its dismal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:21 PM
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Ok I think you can just google "Sex crime departments understaffed" and you'll get articles and graphs and data for major cities, and then just amend your search further if you want to by adding "federal" and "state level" or the name of any city or state you're interested in looking for. ​ You can look at social work openings the same way. I highly, highly recommend everyone make a little free time, just a few hours a month and volunteer to do literally ANY work for their community social worke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:03 PM
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Let me see what I can shake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:55 PM
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The FBI and state investigative agencies are so overwhelmed with pedophiles that they just don't have the manpower to collect them all. We need more social workers, investigators, prosecutors, and enforcement officers dedicated to catching sex offenders. Its a horrific and grisly section of society though, and most cannot stomach any of it. The rest who can are in therapy, therapy, therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:49 PM
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Same but in /pornfree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:45 PM
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The one that always gets me is that its obviously a glaring character defect they're dismissing by saying "We're literally best friends otherwise!" and "I know he loves me!" He loves you but he's addicted to porn. He loves you but he leaves you downtown. He loves you but he won't pay bills. He loves you but he won't meet your family. He loves you but he won't introduce you to his family. He loves you but he has another Facebook. He loves you but he has a work wife. He loves you but he's emotiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:42 PM
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Let me abuse women I don't know and who I'll never talk to. Can't pass an opportunity like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:26 PM
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You do not need anti-microbial soap for your vulva! Just use your regular mild soap!! ​ Please don't use anti-bacterial or anti-microbial soap on your vulva. Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:24 PM
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1- I accidentally hit report and not reply at first so I hope the cancel button worked for that. Sry. 2- I've noticed that this huge push for male educators in the lower levels of education, like grades k-8 is really creeping me out. Never gotten any normal dude vibes from any of the men at my kids school. The school they're in currently is the best with regard to staff to student ratio, extracurriculars, risk assessment for high, moderate, and low risk students and solicitation of parent involv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:21 PM
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🌱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:09 AM
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Holy shot dude. Dude did better than my baby daddy ever did for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:54 AM
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Welp, anyone needs me I’ll be digging the Sparta pit for everyone in that comment section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:29 PM
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That dude is bitter and salty like a salt n vinegar potato chip. He cannot stand that a woman would have high standards and can’t come up with a single instance of bad advice for women. Only advice that won’t benefit a loser man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:14 PM
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I disagree with your list, my preferences do not need to be fair or two-sided. Preferences are not fair, equitable, or any other thing. No parameters for it. If I’m tall and prefer short people, fine. If I’m fat and prefer thin people, fine. If I hurt someone’s feelings because I exist and want what I want, oh well. See, it doesn’t matter because my attraction is mine. Literally do what you want. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:33 PM
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Lazy, entitled, piece of shit male steals from a woman? The math checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:29 AM
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Real talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:28 AM
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I’m a MAN with a COCK and BALLS and I watch hardcore PORN and I KNOW what I WANT. I want to TALK to WOMEN like the predators in PORN talk to their VICTIMS. I ZIP my fleece sweater ALL THE WAY because I’m TURNT up. You KNOW this body is PASTY and weak. My budget HAS no room for DECENT clothes. My facial HAIR is as LAZY as it gets. My own MOTHER won’t acknowledge ME in the GROCERY store. I have LOTS of FANTASY novels on my WAL mart particle board SHELF. I’m 48 looking for a hot TEEN blond NUDIST w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:17 AM
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Is that. What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:00 AM
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Like cheating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:53 AM
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I want to highlight the part where you caution for him giving you attitude if you cook or help cook once and then dont do it again for a while. That’s a no fly zone, and he’s trying to bait and switch. I love how you solved it by serving nuts and seeds to him then going out to eat with friends. It’s exactly what I’d do in that situation. Do not cook or clean for a man. Just don’t. Not ever. I guess maybe as a treat very seldom, otherwise he does half of every meal’s work and cleanup. Or else go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:57 AM
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I’m missing out on people I dont think are cool. That’s the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:37 AM
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Shockingly identical to OLD in Denver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:37 AM
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It is not normal and it is not healthy for a 31 year old man to pursue a 20 year old woman. Liking reading is something literate humans do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:24 AM
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You want to ask yourself why a Man eleven years older than you is even trying to get with you. Here’s what you know: he’s not being straightforward about it, he’s lying about his intentions, he knows your age, why is he even doing it? Can he get a woman his own age? What do you have in common? Should you have much in common with someone so much older than you, or does he lack a significant level of maturity and responsibility that 31 year old men usually possess? I mean the whole thing once you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:20 AM
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He’s grooming you like a pedophile grooms a young child. Literally block all contact now, this dude is straight up a predator. He’s using textbook pedo grooming techniques holy shit just block all contact now. Expect him to make a second profile to “see what happened.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:56 AM
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It means he wants to be messaged first. IE, has no idea how the world works but thinks he can whistle and a sexually available woman will come running.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:31 AM
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No, own that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:59 PM
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“Be easy.” Bitch, I smell expensive. I look expensive. I am expensive and you better be able.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:04 AM
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God damn right. If I don’t come, nobody comes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:40 PM
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I would adore to see the look on a mans face when I tell him I have a sex tape. If after 1.5 years, I’m bored. I’m over it. I’m ready to see him cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:24 PM
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Literally treat them that way. That’s all I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:53 PM
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I played that game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:56 AM
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There’s this ~60 year old woman I work with. She has the most severe RBF I’ve seen and she makes men hiss and recoil like vampires in the sun. But she just has these “been there, done that” vibes and I puked all my work frustrations onto her recently and she took me aside and was telling me “Look, I’ve been working with these grumpy old men for more than 20 years. They just can’t handle reality, they all act like they know it all. Men just do that.” Then she gave me the run down how men rely on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:20 AM
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Whenever I have a terrible day, as in disastrous, I take my ass down to the store that always has the best, healthiest flowers and I take my time creating exactly what I want. I love arranging flowers so I don’t limit myself or budget. I buy them, then I step next door to the liquor store and buy a locally brewed hard cider. Then I go home, put in my headphones, drink a cider or two, and cut and arrange my flowers and place them all over my house. Can a man do better than I can for me? Damn sure…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:20 AM
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When I was 30, I turned some dude down and he clapped back with tHe WalL. This isn’t game of thrones but if it was, there’s no women there, either lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:00 PM
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I saw that, Hera was the only comment when I first read the thread and was like ????? He’s a goner. Let’s let someone worthwhile have his social security number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:22 AM
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And on the other end, I left my husband with no money, some student debt, children, and no support. No family. The only contacts in my phone were dentists and pediatricians appointment numbers. I got the school social workers on board with my kids for support, put myself back through college by any means I could scrape after being in a fundamental evangelical church for a decade and a SAHM, and got honors grades. Got assistance for daycare through a work program of his, that I contacted myself a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:15 AM
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YES I was just looking for this one. Thanks for keeping it, it’s big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:11 AM
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Oh my God this is how people reacted when my ex husband and I would meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:46 AM
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I could probably turn every one of those paragraphs into one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:53 PM
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I like how at the end he thinks offloading this disgusting and hurtful burden onto his girlfriend is going to help him. Typical man. Make a woman solve your problems. She’s not your fuckin pack mule but go right ahead. Let me tell you how this will go: he will confess in tears and distress, basically this story he told Reddit. She will swoop in like a mother hen/house flipper. She will agree to start doing crazy shit in bed to try and keep his attention away from his addiction, raising the stake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:19 PM
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Even if someone draws him a diagram of how he went wrong, he won’t care or do better next time because men are low effort and low intelligence bottom feeders trawling for anything they can get. If a man is a fish, he’s a lazy fish. He’s too lazy to eat a worm just sitting there in a hook. He’d require the worm swim to his jaws, pry his mouth open, swim in and dissolve itself and drip into his belly. That worm is your help, your kindest, most meticulous, obvious help. He’s. Too. Lazy. Good men wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:06 PM
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TLC has a song called Silly Ho thats even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:02 PM
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What an idiot, she deserves it. How tf you going to be in love with some dude who is living with his girlfriend dumb ho. he’s playing them both and loving it. Ladies, be a feminist. Don’t do this dumb shit, have dignity, lots of it. Dignified, worthwhile people do not behave like any of the people in the story. Except the girlfriend who prob found out about side chick and is taking pro revenge before the scorched earth ending. Fingers crossed But none of this actually happened, it’s fiction like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:47 PM
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We aren’t allowed to have phones in our work area. If you get caught you can get sent home so it stuck out to me when I saw someone’s phone out yesterday. Someone I’ve never seen, who works for a company that delivers product to my work straight up took a picture of me yesterday. Which, whatever. But dude straight up took a picture of me while I was working and then stood there in front of where I was and texted for a good 15 minutes. Fucking ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:04 PM
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we are the one that provide the resources. Let me check whose name is on my paycheck rq lol
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 03:26 AM
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That’s awful. She already feels like shit, he treats her like shit, she knows what’s wrong... I guess it doesn’t hurt enough yet. I’ve been there, I went to the wall trying to save my sham of a marriage to a porn addict, I know how stiff necked I was out of some programmed sense of duty. I hope she wakes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:51 PM
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I dont even want to call these gals pickmeisha because women are raised to believe this shit is how to be a good woman. We are raised to think the best we can do is to put up with abuse and cheating and scratch dirt over these nasty dudes nasty lives so the public won’t see them for the piles of shit that they are. Everyone has to come to a boil before they can see they’ve been had, so I hope you ladies are messaging these women letting them know about this sub and giving a little support. Becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:50 PM
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Beard is a good enough name, let’s go with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:47 PM
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More than 90%. It’s 100% It’s just that there’s a sliver in the ven diagram where what benefits them also benefits a woman and that’s what many women call a relationship. I hate how autocorrects always changes its to it’s no matter what I’m trying to write.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 06:57 PM
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That fucking nail painting emoji just fries me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:11 AM
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“I’m too smart for this.” Yes. Woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:30 AM
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This is an obvious troll post, don’t entertain it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:24 AM
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Imagine they’re taught to play piano at a young age. Then they play every day for 35 or 45 years. Do you think they’re less skilled because they don’t have a teacher anymore? They are the teacher. Misogyny gets to be second nature, they still do it all day every day, they just quit bragging about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:06 AM
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Live this. I do it, and I check out my neighbors too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:08 AM
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Me thinks thou doth protesteth too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:02 AM
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What a pathetic, shameless sympathy grab. What an obvious, revolting manipulation tactic. This piece of shit has no friends, bad personal hygiene, can’t hold a conversation or socialize, is fat, and no doubt burned out on porn. And here he is playing for sympathy for being a worthless pile of soaking wet dumpster fodder. Get. The. Fuck. Back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 06:14 AM
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It’s not a joke, it’s a feeler. Abusers screen for victims this way. The women who are above this trash will filter themselves out right away. The ones who respond have potential for him to victimize. He’s showing his sexual perversion and obsession with his dick right up front. Then three months later when you find his child porn, or his stash of screen caps from Facebook and IG of people you know, or he says abusive things to you about what you have done with him or won’t do with him, or basic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:31 AM
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Getting the degree is your door in. HVM get educated. I’m not saying blue collar guys are all lost causes, but having been on both sides of the fence, you learn a lot about equality when half or more of the people you’re with every day are women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:03 AM
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If he seems free and easy about basic stuff, like if you’re uncomfortable with how he drives, and you mention it and he doesn’t adjust how he drives when you’re in his car, HES NOT GOING TO GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOUR COMFORT OR SAFETY IN OTHER AREAS. “Can you not run red lights/go 40 over/eat a whole God damn dinner/tailgate like a MF/write a dissertation on your goddamn phone?” And if the reply is anything other than AN IMMEDIATE AND SINCERE ADJUSTMENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH NO TEASING OR MOCKING then he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:41 AM
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The guy was just blathering on and I was sitting there just.... yikes. He was a regular there, and it was a sports bar so I figured he’s just into sports. Turns out, heavy drinker. And the situation was obvious, it was a first date, first meeting. So the bartender probably knew this guy was a douche and was looking out. He didn’t make me afraid, he was just a sloppy mess. This was like my second date after my marriage ended, I was just seeing what’s out there. So of course right now I’d never wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:11 AM
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It wasn’t racist but I can see how you’d take it that way Yes, waiter? I’ll have one Armageddon, right away please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:03 AM
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They’re male pickmes and they’re as common as birdseed. Not enough balls to pursue, just hanging out in hopes you’ll mommy them. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:34 PM
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My ex is still alive and well, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:30 PM
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I want to add to your comment, because I had to do pretty much exactly that. I was stuck in a religion that made it harder for me to get out. I SPENT TWO AND A HALF YEARS TRYING TO GET OUT because I have no family and my friends were all extra religious and thought I was going over to the devil leaving his cheating, abusive ass. DO NOT under estimate how hard it will be. You will never do anything more difficult. I had to have my childhood dog euthanized when I was 19. I had him since I was 4. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:27 PM
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Exactly, do not be lenient of his flaws. Send his scrub ass away from your sight and out of your mind. There are too many court jesters and no Kings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:09 PM
11

I learned so much the summer I spent online dating. I don’t waste my time dating anymore, I know men are a waste of time so I’ve been spending all my time on myself. She’s worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:38 PM
12

Yeah, I recommend women stay all the way sober on dates. For safety, but also you need to think critically about these guys and be able to really weigh their behavior. Lowering inhibitions by having drinks makes a 5 an 8 and you don’t need to waste your time like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:36 PM
27

Oh my God, I went on a date with a man I met OLD. He had this pub/bar he liked and I never drink alcohol on dates but I met him there and as soon as I saw him I was grossed out. His pictures had a lumberjack vibe to them, but irl he was chubby, not muscular, with a big gut. He looked a little sweaty/greasy, and had not shaved for a few days, he looked like Jim Gaffigan lol. He looked like he won the lottery when he saw me. I should have pivoted on my heel and walked out He was boring and talked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:15 PM
12

Packed his shit up and threw it out the house lol!!! Straight up told him she’ll call the cops on his ass I am here for this, and I’m staying a while!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:54 PM
6

Dont be surprised if I ask where the bag at 🎶🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:56 AM
27

🤘😆🤘💰💰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:47 AM
6

And if that wasn’t bad enough, remember that men show us consistently that if no woman is conveniently at hand, animals and children will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:18 PM
2

You’re right. I used to fuck with lash blast and drugstore makeup but one year I said fuck it and dipped into Sephora. Omg. That’s all she wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:41 PM
25

You treat his ass like the Dixie cup disposable ass he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:23 AM
4

Yeah just my mascara is $35 and my eyeliner is over $20. But when you shoot it you will know where that extra money went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:20 AM
4

I just use The Ordinary and Philosophy products from Ulta. I’ve never had a facial but the condition of my skin doesn’t need one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:17 AM
45

You know how you kinda get your thoughts correct before you masturbate, maybe figure out some scenario that sounds fun to think about? Well for men, it’s like that 24/7. They’re just talking to themselves, checking boxes they want in their scenario, in kinda-aroused limbo with the goal of arousal and orgasm. They’re imagining and walking themselves through their selected setting and details, eyes closed. Except for them, there’s no vibrator. Can you imagine staying completely inside of your own …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:47 AM
12

There is a middle ground there, guy who lives with his mom, between prima Donna who wants a full wallet, and whatever the fuck you’re trying to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:57 PM
16

Thats how you have to treat men like that. Every time. I bat like 1.000 on the public shaming, calling out, cussing out of men’s assholery and I don’t give a fuck where we are. You’ll feel better the more you do this. Find snarky and royal ways to do it at work. On the street? Hey, we on the street I’m sending it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:53 PM
2

What does wlw stand for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:12 AM
20

Idk where you are in your recovery from abuse, nor how resilient you are vs she or I or others because that’s not uniform either, but abuse changes how we develop cognitively whether you find that personally insulting or not. I’m sorry for what you went though, but you came in here tearing her down and as a feminist and advocate for women, for healing, for mental health awareness and treatment, I wanted to let people know there is VERY good reason why people behave the way they do after childhoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:59 AM
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Coming from an abusive family IS an enormous fucking factor in her choices. When you’re from abuse, you literally cannot develop in your prefrontal cortex which is THE higher reasoning and planning part of the brain. You literally wander through life immature and underdeveloped with limited reasoning skills in order to find a gentle and safe place to finish growing up. She got married when she hadfew if any of the things on the bottom row of Malslows pyramid. She needed time and therapy. It take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:42 PM
2

And when you find him stepping out and being shady, the worst thing you can do to him is toss him on his ass, no tears, no questions. Don’t give him a chance to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:44 PM
9

Then he’s hiding stuff. An honest man can hand his phone over. We can carve that into tablets and bury it for the women of the future because it always has been true and always will be. If he’s jumpy or secretive about his phone he. Is. Hiding. Stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:33 AM
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They act like James Bond, all jumpy at the restaurant or with their phone going off every 5 seconds on a date, it’s his wife blowing him up because he said he had to work late. Boys need to take steps lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:33 AM
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I just give no fuck about what makes a man happy. You know what makes me happy? Snow Books Running Biking Making shit out of wood Cooking and baking Taking care of my friends when they’re down When my kids read to each other Music Decorating and designing my house Oh fuck, none of that involved a penis. And that’s why I’m happy! So cease to care about or tend to men’s feelings or happiness. Make your own happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 11:52 PM
22

That :) at the end of a text is a warning sign that a mans a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:31 PM
25

Oh my God the guy in those comments saying porn is healthy and shit what the fuck. Dudes who will argue in favor of porn even online like that are the dregs. I have never met a man who doesn’t look obviously ashamed and nervous when porn comes up. At lest most of them still in some level know it’s wrong. Once you’re online defending it, you’re worthless and past all hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:18 PM
19

He said he likes to see her branded by him because it’s an ownership tag for other men to recognize in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:13 AM
40

Not even lite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 11:12 PM
45

No, let’s. Really. How much shit should a woman take? Infinite shit? Yesterday I read a thread where men, males anyway, I don’t know how old they were, were telling women that as long as they put themselves last and never bought anything for them selves with their child support, even deodorant or food, they were “using the child support the way its intended” but if they just think of it as their own money, they’re shit parents. They’re single parents. Raising kids whose fathers fucked off for wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:23 PM
5

God DAMN I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:07 PM
1

Don’t discount my experiences. I didn’t say, imply, or assume women can’t gaslight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:06 PM
6

Is that Lizzo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:39 PM
9

They are for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:55 AM
18

NTA but you should be doing your accounting duties, tsk tsk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:03 PM
5

I commented before I saw your comment that you blocked him. High five, that guy is slimy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:13 PM
37

A l w a y s trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:11 PM
8

“Robin, you’ll do just fine to stick my dick in. I choose you robin. I choose you.” He acts like he’s shopping for a vagina and I feel like he’s rubbing his hands together behind the screen like a cartoon villain. No way homie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:11 PM
13

Then you need to take your fine ass on to better things. He doesn’t exist to you anymore. The only move is the power move. Thanos that motherfucker yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:57 PM
6

It’s bad. I got married to a man who liked normal porn, not super vanilla but the usual bs. I thought since it seemed “normal” girlfriends watch porn w their man that I should join him in his interests and spice it up/not be a drag/what fucking ever. It hurt me and it made me sick to find out what those women by and large are going through in that industry and in their lives which lead them there. I got smart pretty fucking quick aand decided it’s a dealbreaker for me. None of that shit in my re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:13 AM
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Any man who watches porn is low value to me, no matter any other factors. They just aren’t worth it, anyone who would use women and let’s face it, children in that way is a piece of shit not worth my time, attention, or emotional or financial resources. Immediate disqualifier. Any woman who devalues and dehumanizes her fellow women by watching porn is low value. It’s pick-me-esque and a betrayal. Red x. The average woman is way better than the average man. There’s no way in the world there’s eno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:25 PM
2

I’m definitely not communicating hostility, you are misreading that. I’m just making sure to very clear that when you said men in their 30s have grown up on milder porn than younger men, you’re very wrong and minimizing or excusing their choices in any way is hurtful to all the women and children they prey on. Because their porn habits are just as bad as the worst of anyone’s. All men, not just millennials and gen z, but gen x as well. They’re all watching the same stuff on reddit, pornhub, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:11 PM
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Idk how many men you know in their 30s, but they are not level or tame with their porn consumption. My and my ex husbands fields of employment are 90% and almost 100% male dominated respectively, and I can say with absolute certainty ty they swap videos and gifs and make jokes non stop about porn of all kinds and there’s no vanilla sex at all in their private or semi-private porn watching. Being the only woman in a huge field of men, they’re very candid and normal porn consumption for profession…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:11 PM
7

Men in their 30s did not escape from any of the most fucked up porn. They have iPhones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:25 PM
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Haha ;) is the text signature of a sex offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:29 PM
20

Let’s all of us women stop the planet, step off of it, and hurl this fucking rock into the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:13 PM
8

You just need to learn how to get rid of users and cut them out of your life. You need to have standards. This right here, from your own comment, you’re brushing up against the point and ignoring it in order to try and get us as women to bear some of a mans burden as if we already aren’t packmules for their sexism and hatred. We are helping each other cut toxic bullshittery out of our lives and most men are toxic. Most. Not many. Not some. Most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:31 PM
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Cultivating deep emotional connections with a woman friend or two will help. We were meant to connect, and having true, honest friendship with even one person is enough. Vulnerability is important in an authentic friendship and women shouldn’t be vulnerable with people who refuse to see them as equal. It’s safer to wait until you meet a woman you like and chum along well with and invest emotionally with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:26 PM
14

They’re fishing for any response so they can continue the abuse. I’d just delete it and move on. I have way too much cool shit going on to deal with kids mode bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:00 AM
19

Women do all the emotional labor in relationships already. This is assuming that, and encouraging us to wait for an emotionally healthy man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:06 PM
3

I can’t tell what I’m looking at. Is this a pic of looking down at. a hairy belly? With the tiny peepee blurred out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:50 AM
3

There’s a 71 yo fuck boy in the dating sub today, that’s interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 10:35 PM
2

Your parents are legit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:34 PM
6

Time to step up on to that Queen shit, babe. ❤️ You just did the hard thing that a lot of chronically unhappy women aren’t able to do. You gave yourself a gift of the whole entire future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:24 AM
12

Our girl out there getting dinners and drinks and gaming the system just like a man would. The comments someone said even though they weren’t together, it’s still cheating. Lol fuck these dudes. get money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:04 AM
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The high that I get when this has happened to me is fucking nauseating. The whole group can literally feel the power you have and it fucking smashes these guys egos to smithereens and in my case, they get mad, then start competing. Every woman who can increase her chance of this happening should arrange to have it happen. Run in to man A while out with man B. I don’t think any drug is stronger than the power trip you can get from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:34 PM
7

Bye Felicia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:21 PM
11

It isn’t about respect, it’s about reality. A man is not a woman, that’s not hard. Physically, genetically, a man is a man and a woman is a woman. So a man with XY chromosomes is different from a woman, XX chromosomes. It isn’t disrespect to acknowledge physiological, chemical, biological, actual, real things. It’s idiotic not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:44 PM
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They’re never, ever sorry for the pain they caused. They’re only ever sorry they can’t have the benefits they were harvesting from whomever it was they were feasting on. 99% of heterosexual relationships are a simple parasite/host situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:52 PM
13

Woah, he keeps threatening you. I’d be pissed if some dude shot his mouth off like that. Men, if you’re boiling over with rage because you wanted a victim to coerce and got a woman with standards, there’s a lot wrong with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:50 PM
5

All this talk about the wall like a motherfucking GoT marathon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 03:23 AM
7

I can't, knowing full well what do in the bedroom, treat my husband like a guest. I'm not his mother. I'm not his nanny. I'm not his hostess. I'm not his secretary. I'm not his buddy. I'm not his friend. I'm his wife. There's nothing like it. I'm his wife I'll treat him like he's my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/16 06:41 PM
2

In the fall I stuff apples with cloves and they are excellent.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 01:18 AM
2

we don't really need to think how to get into the vibe, we just hide it during the summer and it's there when winter starts, lol. There we go! I'm the same way! This thread is making me so happy though, seriously love Christmas.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 01:17 AM
2

I've made ~600 cookies so far this week. I'm really this close to putting a nose and antlers on my car but I don't want to be that person with the reindeer car. It'd be pretty out of character and I'd feel silly but I love the holidays! I just cook. For everybody. Always baking and cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 01:14 AM
1

It's given that he's already pursuing her. If the dinner goes well and he is interested in her, she's clearly interested in him, there's history, there's chemistry then, given all of that, she needs to let him know she's interested in a relationship with him. No courtship can be one sided. If she sends mixed signals or acts like she does t know his intentions she's as good as rejecting him which, fine. None of this has any impact on my own life, so she can do what she wants. But if she wants him…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 04:53 PM
0

She's right, she addressed what I neglected but don't pursue him aggressively. If he pursues you though.... I'd go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 05:00 AM
0

Where did I tell her to be a plate? If they have a good thing together and are both interested, they should pursue a relationship. That might mean one of them moving. There's always a chance a relationship won't work but distance is an obstacle they can easily enough overcome if it's in the way of their happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 04:58 AM
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She's not gonna make it. She's fighting every single person here. The poor husband...
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 11:39 PM
1

Meet for a meal and see what happens. A good looking eligible bachelor would get any girl's heart pumping! You don't need 2 years of casual dating to know whether you'd want to pursue him. Any pursuit is taking on some risk. Some guys are worth more risk. If he wants to have an exclusive relationship maybe you move there to try out the relationship. If he's a good match to you and you're a good one for him there's no reason not to be forward about it. He's already expressing interest. I'd pursue…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 10:40 PM
6

During the whole rest of the year, I see 90 things a day that I want to get for my husband. As soon as it's reasonably time to start buying Christmas gifts my whole brain melts and I'm like, "uhhhhh A HAMMER!" Nice. Christmas shopping is hard for someone who has everything they need and pretty much everything they want. I took the list as a joke, and I thought it was kinda funny but shopping for people like her (like my husband) really is a first world problem.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 06:32 PM
17

He wants to be a better man. That's it. You think he's good enough- fine. He wants more from life. For himself. For his marriage, his goals are changing. He's not okay with complacency. It's not going to go perfectly smoothly, he's learning how to un learn his feminist programming. Let him go! You can't control him, and that's a hard truth for you to swallow but you. Can't. Control. Him. And really, if he's putting himself out there, bettering himself, improving himself, why would you want to ha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 08:33 AM
1

My sister is a flake and it is a nightmare to deal with any plans she's involved in. I haven't seen her in a few years because her "certain, definite, unchanging" travel plans are always just good intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:43 AM
3

Keeping clean with kids is about getting rid of as much stuff as you can. Don't let them walk away from a mess. If they're done with a toy or a play set they need to put it away before moving on, and before you serve a meal have them clean everything up they've messed so far. Every meal, just say "breakfast time, clean up so we can eat!" Or set the egg timer and let them know the ding means times up and it all needs to be away before that. If they're like my kids they'll test you by ignoring it …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:36 AM
4

Stop making fun of your own post. The length is what you chose it to be, and you wanted to be thorough and make a quality post that reflected the progress you're seeing from implementing some behaviors in your personal life and relationship. It's not a novel, and even if it was, you wrote it to your standard and submitted it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 11:26 PM
3

Maybe some taco dip in there.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 07:06 AM
2

My sisters husband is the same. They had a very colicky daughter and it sucked. They were party animals before her and they had a rocky adjustment to parenthood. She knows he's sassy. She is too. We are close enough that it's been talked about. I wouldn't say anything, and even if you know for a fact he cheated there's a good chance she'll stay with him. It's up to you to decide to tell her or not but my experience has been about the same and it didn't ruin our relationship between sisters or be…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 06:21 AM
1

I want to go back into the labor market. I want to go back to school full time and study things I'm interested in, then I want to go kick some major ass and make some big dollars. I'm good at a lot of things and I enjoy almost any kind of work. I like to win, and I work hard. I have a heck of a business sense and people listen to me. Buuuuuut these are things that are valuable in a man. These are masculine traits. I'm not a man. I don't want to be a masculine woman. That's not red pill, that's b…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 03:26 AM
2

Its valuable enough for all those women to understand it's all they have to attract a man while being devoid of any other redeeming characteristics. When you've got no girl game and your personality is wild and loud and you're a known slut, sex from you has no value. When you're a valuable woman, sex from you has value. Nobody is going to start paying for a free service they've been getting and they know others are getting for free. Sluts giving up sex all the time aren't going to be able to dem…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 07:55 PM
4

That'll be the difference between two similar women when one grows in her femininity and one doesn't. Woman A looks for ways to have say and to have authority without technically being a bitch about it. Still doing X but not being as bad as those other BP women. Woman B looks for ways to relinquish a decision to her leader because she actively wants to be MORE gracious, MORE submissive, she wants him to lead and stand strong. Woman B will have a happier man.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 07:30 PM
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That's not at all how it came across, but there are a lot of ppl lurking here who don't actually agree with RPW, just sit around waiting to interject when they get an opportunity to say NAWALT or NAMALT or That Doesn't Work For Everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 07:27 PM
15

Not only are all men betas generally, but they're so used to deferring to a bossy woman in every situation that they just don't even think to refer to the man at all. For example, my sweetheart and I are vehicle shopping. We have been visiting the car lots around town and watching inventory come and go for a few months but my husband has decided what make and model we are looking for and what price range he will want to shop in. We aren't in a rush, and we aren't considering any other make and m…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 07:19 PM
3

I can't find anything on google that makes her look anything close to pretty. Lumpy forehead, eyes are super far apart... Ehh...
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:14 AM
6

My pullout game final score is sitting on the other end of the couch asking for a snack rn. Go ahead. Play the game.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:34 AM
3

When this almost exact thing happened to us, I was over my head. I'm a saver, so I just put the bills on autopay and direct deposit to savings. Didn't change my own discretionary spending, but increased his. As for the SMV increase, I just bought some sexier underwear and started giving him more blowjobs. Like, way out of my comfort zone slutty for him. He know who butters his bread. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 12:55 AM
5

I'm stockpiling gifts for him on the sly and keeping them in my dressing room. He's a sucker for celebrating every holiday and I hate them, so I'm going full retard and doing all the crap I'm cynical about. So all his favorite candy, a bottle of wine, a movie night. We've got little kids so we aren't going out. I've been putting together little love packages for the kids, too. It's gonna be like Christmas, but on valentines day. Stuffed animals, chocolates, gifts. I'm going to set them at the fo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 12:32 AM
5

I have a big family, and many, many of my cousins have married their first boyfriend/girlfriend. My sister married her only boyfriend and has a couple kids. Very young, but I've got nothing but respect for her in that regard. She never slutted around and all her friends tried to get her to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 11:33 PM
2

I was 21 when I married my husband. I didn't get any comments about my age that I remember, but we had a bunch of kids and I do very frequently hear, "you're too young to have kids!" And "you're too young to have X# of kids!" But that is usually followed up by a coment on how I kept a nice figure through all the pregnancies and postpartum. When they see you and your man handling your relationship and doing well, having kids, etc., you'll start getting too young to have kids or whatever comments …
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 11:29 PM
9

Its his choice. He'll do what he wants, just tell him you'd rather have him around and ask if there's anything you can do to shove him into compliance. If he says he's not interested I'd just leave it alone. Been through this with chewing tobacco. I got pissy when I'd find spitters or cans of chew. Not passive aggressive jabs or lectures or anything, but I was irritated by the fact he was still chewing and he knew it. Once he got over being told by the dentist he had to quit dipping and I quit l…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 07:30 PM
1

ISTJ
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 05:41 PM
1

If he ever went away for TDY or was deployed, one or both of them cheated. I guarantee it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 06:30 PM
3

I really want an update after this date.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 12:22 AM
1

TempestTcup is right. I basically did what she's advising you to do and it's working out well. You do have to choose between nurturing children or nurturing a career, but if you marry a good man, a good provider, and you earn his loyalty and build your world up around you by building up your family, you'll offer so much more to them by working in the home and you'll see that there is no more fulfilling career. When your youngest is ready for school, you might be gung-ho to tackle that bachelors …
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 12:18 AM
-1

The monogamy thing--no. He's definitely not, and she may or may not be either. But he is definitely having his physical needs addressed by someone and will probably never admit it to anyone. He's probably even not admitting his cheating to himself. But as someone who grew up in and around the military, there are almost no couples who don't cheat. I know hundreds of people who are or were married military couples and literally zero of them were ever faithful. Anyone honest who is associated with …
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 11:55 PM
1

Uhoh! Looks like someone needs to go back and re-read. Or work on comprehension skills. Or stop inferring things based on their own insecurities. Or something.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 08:06 PM
1

That's exactly what I noticed too. I'd hate to have to buy Christmas gifts or something for this ingrate. Can't even imagine living with her.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 10:41 PM
1

My BFF is 5'11" and never wore heels. I'm not that tall, 5'8" and I wear them every chance I get. They help my posture, and I'm athletic, so my stride tends to be long, so in flats I'm always striking my heel and walking heavy. If I wear heels I'm forced to take smaller strides and therefore I THINK I feel and look more feminine. My BFF was too put off by her height to wear them. She wanted to be shorter than her boyfriends and feel small or whatever, even though she was drop dead gorgeous in ev…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 10:29 PM
3

"After eight years of the facade of monogamy" because she hasn't the respect to stay loyal to the guys she's with. She left out all her other sluttiness because that would make her look like what she is. Plus, she carried on with this ONS, flirting and whatever for how long before she fucked him? So it's not like she didn't plan it well in advance. It wasn't a drunk spur of the moment thing (which is no better, but at least isn't premeditated) with some dude who's too hot to not. Just... SLUUUUU…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 12:48 AM
5

I do stuff like that, only I hide them in his lunch. His jobs are pretty physically demanding so when he's finally able to sit down to a hearty lunch and finds a promise of a bj when he gets home, he basically skips in the door no matter what kind of crappy day he had.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:52 PM
6

I'm pretty sure he does it to make himself feel manly because I'm pretty "I can do it by myself"" most of the time. But he screws lids on jars and canisters and sippy cups way too tight for me to unscrew them and I'm forced to ask for help.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:22 PM
6

I have five male cousins, they're brothers. All five of them were told they had ADD and were dyslexic in school. We were close with them so I remember all th crap and extra homework they got saddled with for this. My aunt and uncle, both old school, rp, refused to medicate them, set good examples, raised them well, and all five are successful engineers who went to college on athletic scholarships with straight As. One moved on to teach in a private school.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:06 AM
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Yes, a woman has no business to choose to stay home and raise a family. If she's not Hilary Clinton she should be euthanized, right? You know, it's amazing how hateful belligerent feminists can be, all things considered. Enjoy the ban I'm sure you're going to earn yourself soon.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 12:45 AM
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I remember your post before and I'm glad to see you're hanging around! Yes, yes, yes, get a cleaning lady! I can't wait for the day when I live where I can hire a cleaning service.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 12:34 AM
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Yeah, once she got the ring and the house she had nothing left to fuck him into giving her. She's done now. Also, he's a couple years younger than her. She's going on 30, he's 27. She hit the wall.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 04:56 AM
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I didn't know there could BE any issues from sleeping in it, so that's the extent of my noticing any negative impact from doing it. My lashes haven't changed bc of it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:49 AM
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If you nut in a woman and it creates a child, and you don't man up and take responsibility for that child as it's father, you're a piece of total worthless shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 06:15 PM
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The setting spray will save your life! Find a primer you can use. Go to Sephora and get samples of primer for eyeshadow and foundation. You want to know what works and what doesn't before you buy it anyway, but as someone who made the switch from drugstore brands to the mid-grade stuff, it's worth it. With the same skills I've always had, better makeup and better brushes make me look a million times better than the cheap stuff ever did. BUT, if we're talking just eyeshadow primer, ELF sells a sh…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 08:13 AM
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For the oily skin, do you use those oil blotting papers? I had a friend with the same problem and she used these small strips to get the oil off of her face if she felt uncomfortable. Supposedly helps with breakouts a little. They sell them in the same aisle as face wash and creams in Target.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 08:08 AM
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Scoop your portions with actual measuring cups so you know what you're eating. Like everyone else said, fill half of your plate with veggies. Also, I'm in the same boat as you, my man needs to eat a lot and I need to keep an eye on my figure, so keeping all of this in mind, I switched the size plate I eat on. We have large and small dinner plates, and I just started using the very small ones and applying my usual food rules the same, but now on an even smaller plate, I eat less of everything.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 08:04 AM
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Where did she go?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 07:54 AM
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I'd stake my entire life on that he was never abusive, she's just pulling that made up sob story for some attention or something. "I'm cognizant of the fact that I was so abused by him that I need you to pretend to be him while we have sex." Look, nobody smells what this guy is stepping in? Not even HIM? I'd also wager she's had at least doubly the number of sexual partners she's admitting to. This chick is a real piece of work. So's he though. This ship is going down on fire.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 05:08 AM
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Nobody's first resort is a spreadsheet of a sexless marriage. Plus the fact he has direct quotes of her excuses strongly suggests he was communicating his needs directly and plainly, as she openly turned him away so many times.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:14 PM
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Yeah, it's totally doable. Never underestimate what ten more minutes of hw time and some hard headedness will get for you in terms of progress.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:44 PM
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Exactly what I do. If I know the ovens on at 450 and it's going to beep at me periodically for the next three hrs as I rotate loaves and such, I can get those last few grueling hours in.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:36 AM
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And on the slow cooker front: YES! Also, I have a couple. A cheap 20$ one and a fancy expensive one. The cheap one is better. I've used a lot of different slow cookers, and the cheap ones are always at least as good as the pricier ones.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:33 AM
1

Look you seem like you've got it made. I go to school for 40 credits per year and have 3 kids tots and a hubby, am pregnant, and homeschool. No joke, it is not easy. You go home, you get your homework started. Start on it, even if it's just writing your name at the top of the paper. Then, You get the housework done and go back to hw until hubby arrives. Have dinner together, clean the house up, PREPARE THE COFFEE POT BEFORE BED, and then you're ready to do whatever til you go to sleep. Do. Not. …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:31 AM
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I think most of this is feminist drivel. I can't find many points that aren't contradicted by another point. This "wise" college freshman author doesn't have 50 things to say about womanhood. She has a couple cute, "my grandmother would say" type points.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 08:45 PM
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The butterscotch ones made me famous with my hubby's coworkers.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 04:13 AM
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We usually hustle the kids to baths and bed and then collapse on the couch and watch a few shows. Last night we didn't do that, we just shut the computer and crawled into bed and chatted in the pitch black until we fell asleep and it was AMAZING. We relaxed, no screen time… We never get to unwind like that. But almost every night we do the same thing: Cuddle up on the couch and watch some Hulu til midnight. Snacks. Sex. Sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 10:30 PM
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You were not both "the other girl" and "they were broken up before we hooked up." This sounds very clearly like he wants to have sex but doesn't want a relationship. And if he misses his child greatly, there's a fantastic chance he misses his ex as well. If that's the case, you're not going to keep him by having sex with him. She's the mother of his child. Step back from this guy and let him figure out what he needs to do or where he needs to be. You break him loose and he gets back with his fam…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 10:25 PM
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Yes! I've been subbed for a relatively short amount of time and this is posted once a day. It is a fair question, so I think an answer available immediately is a great idea.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 09:03 PM
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To be fair, the american public education system washes boys of being allowed to behave like boys. It is HIGHLY feminized. It caters to feminine learning patterns, demands feminine conformity, makes it a crime to wrestle around on the playground, shoot pretend guns or play swords with sticks, etc. The herd mentality it taught, and that one must never, under any circumstances, stand out of the crowd, but never much actual information.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 09:01 PM
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Those behaviors you describe are exactly what I think of when I think of how I do not want to raise my son. I never could have really painted the picture you did though. I'm a young mother and you're a grown son.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 08:58 PM
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I really agree with your second paragraph. I think I'm using the word "dote" differently than its being used here, then. I do not indulge my sons childishness and selfishness. What I mean by doting is just showing affection and I value him and love him. I don't make him believe things are true to make him feel better or delude him into thinking there is no such thing as losing. I teach my son that there is failure, but that practice and perseverance are more important than getting it right the f…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 07:15 PM
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This is a subject so very dear to my heart. There is NO love a woman can possibly cultivate like that for her son. My firstborn is a son. In jewish culture, there's special blessing on a mother whose womb is opened with a son. I feel special. I feel he is a special blessing to me. He's got all the makings of a strong, excellent man. He's got the heart of a lion. He's brave, fair, kind, intelligent, honest and helpful. He's a born leader because he's not bossy, but people follow him. Even the old…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 07:05 PM
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I was talking bout the down votes, I know Temp is a mod.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 09:33 PM
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I know, but I came back through here the day after and all the decent advice is negative in the down votes, and I just kinda randomly commented that it must've been a brigade from a x-post somewhere that linked to the thread.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 09:32 PM
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That reminds me I need to get an apron.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:43 AM
2

Looks like this thread got swamped with trolls.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:32 AM
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I started locking them out when I use the bathroom, and they stand out there wailing like a stinky, sticky, ginger hallelujah chorus. Oh joy. Sometimes I'll just be standing in the shower thinking, "You know what? I'm gonna stand here for five minutes JUST because I know exactly where they all are." They're outside in the hall banging on the door screaming about the injustices they're suffering at each other's hands and I need to come out RIGHT NOW and solve all these problems.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:26 AM
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Yeah, the belly button ring. LIke the tramp stamp for the front. That's just my opinion. But they always looked super creepy to me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:23 AM
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Hi. No offense, but did you know you are a bunch of anti-feminist misogynists from the stone age because you choose not to worship yourself and step all over other humans for your own happiness? Are you aware that you're in borderline abusive relationships because you didn't castrate your husbands? LIke, you don't need to give head, unless you get hammered and suck some Ds in the club! Because no offense, but I have it all figured out and men like to be smothered, shamed, browbeaten and emascula…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:21 AM
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I second all of this. Lose weight doing a low carb diet and drinking tons of water, and tweeze until you can buy an epilator. Or, if you don't want to spend the time tweezing, buy Nair cream and use it instead. Only leave it on for 2-3 minutes and then wipe it off and wash with mild soap and warm water. Like, as you're getting into the shower, apply it to your clean face and wait 2- minutes. Then wipe it off with a wash cloth in the shower. If you do this, don't buy the face one, buy the regular…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 06:41 PM
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I've cleaned up my language a whole lot. I just ask myself, "Do I want my kids saying this in public?" It takes time and discipline, but you'll get there. If you think about it a lot, think about what you say, you'll master it. Speak slowly, plan your sentences.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:25 AM
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Oh, and idk how long you've been married, but for most people, for the first couple of years, the wedding rings get thrown more than a baseball. We got married before we knew how they worked. We came in, and then expectations and desires for the future and the dynamic changed. That's like digging a hole for a long time, then realizing that the spot where you were digging, you should have been building. You've got to fill it in and start over. Work, work, thankless work. The only thing you'll hav…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:11 AM
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reflect on WHY he is acting so angry NO! Don't think about it at all, walk away and do something else, and cool off. When you think and think and think about it, you get a llllll tangled up. Just separate and cool off before it comes to shouting. But yes, we've come from much worse than this type of thing. Where you guys are now is exactly like a stage we worked through recently. It is a lot harder and a lot longer in coming, and you have to be open and honest with him. If you're like me and you…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:05 AM
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A marriage where you're both home together each night and have a constant flow to things is a whole other ballgame from a wife whose husband works on the road. My husband is always down range. You play all the roles at home so it can be tough to snap your hands off the steering wheel when he comes home. I know this, my husband is gone for work a TON for extended periods of time. Actually, we've been married for five years, and over half of that he's been across the country or out of the country.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 11:47 PM
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I always thought that was ridiculous and unnecessary, but now when I think about all the trouble it would save me considering how much I cook, I want that 6 burner chef's gas top on a huge island, a double oven, omg, the works. I'd hate to be nailed down for so long, but if we found a great condo we loved, I would not hesitate to buy it and drop 50k on a decent kitchen.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 10:04 PM
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I have the girl version of what your man has and there's no way around it. SOunds like you hit it good with the back rubs though.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 10:32 PM
2

Everyone already said all these, but they're excellent: Macy's, Banana Republic, Kohls has good sales and a little variety if you feel like digging through the messes. Idk what your man's built like. Mine's a tank, so he's hard on clothes. He's very muscular and his neck and thighs are so thick he needs to buy clothes that are too large on the rest of him so that he can sit properly and wear a necktie. For these reasons, we usually go to Kohls or Macy's. They have the biggest variety of prices, …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:08 AM
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I really wish I lived by one. I've never been in one but I hear about cheap bras, random dirt cheap makeup palettes, underwear for like a dollar. Wow.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:02 AM
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I second BR.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:01 AM
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You may think you're an 8/10, but that's not even really up to you in the final decision. Your rating is up to the men, not you or other women. Reminds me of something I read in TRP. A link to the male hierarchy rankings. It listed them and listed the characteristics of a guy who would typically fit each, and it said that your opinion of where you think you rank here is the opinion that matters least. The world will decide where you are based on where you actually are, no matter what you lead yo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 02:57 AM
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My husband has a sweet tooth. Actually, all of his teeth are sweet teeth. He's got a pretty physically demanding job so he stays in excellent shape no matter what he eats.. ANyway, he's asked me before, just nonchalantly over my shoulder while I'm mixing up cookie dough for him, "Hey, uh, what…um- what would happen if you, uh, used all sugar? Instead of flour?" He looked so hopeful. He wanted me to say it could be done. Who knows, maybe someone has the code, but I promised him he'd like the flou…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:13 AM
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Hey, well one STEM to another, the girls in the fields are usually pretty similar, at least by my experience: Conservative, in dress and otherwise, and dedicated to their careers. There are the random weirdos who were losers in hs (I was, so no hate) who are loud and obnoxious and want all the attention from every guy, but we don't care about those, right? But it is weird watching someone actually try to sleep around. Ick. I'm 26 and most of the girls in my major classes are around my age, marri…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 02:27 AM
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Yeah, and not getting what you want, that's life, you know? Its pride, and pride is ridiculous. I mean, the kind of entitled pride you're displaying here is selfish. You'll feel that initial pang, but you've got to wrestle that down. After a little practice, you'll begin to change and be okay with it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 12:15 AM
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That's hard, because you're in a hub of feminist yahoos and whores, so good girls who are focused on grades and stuff are going to be the kinds of girls who just do not have time for parties and all that garbage. I'd look in the math department, the science department, if you're a STEM major, you'll be able to start a study group using the bulletin boards in the math, science or engineering buildings. That way you have a group to meet with regularly, it isn't one-on-one, you can get the "I don't…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 12:11 AM
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This approach, I use this. It is so assertive and head-on that these passive-aggressive enemies (not friends, no such thing) will totally panic. They have no idea how to communicate like an adult. Plus I find most people default to petty insults and gossip at all times, and if you hit em with this a few times, they leave you alone. They know you'll have none of their childish garbage and just leave you alone but talk crap behind your back, but believe me, even if she's your BFF, that's nothing n…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 11:01 PM
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I'm the same way, if someone asks and it was a super steal yard sale haul or clearance rack for a dollar type thing, I'm like, "Oh yeah, blah blah" but I never talk about prices of gifts or anything expensive.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:58 PM
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I kinda froze, I was a lot shocked. He was pointing and everything. "That one, the redhead!" "Hey, nice ass!" hahahaha
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:53 PM
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Maybe if he wasn't smoking hot! But I'm claiming that! But once, we went to a playground with our two little toddlers, and there was me and him, and like a hundred single moms, dressed like they were on their way to a pole somewhere. He picked a bench, we turned the tots loose Rampage style, and I left to the car in the parking lot to grab him his pop and the kids' sippies. I passed a chick walking in while I left and she had locked her eyes on him. Like… Headhunter style. There's my man, 200lbs…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:50 PM
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Thanks. He's ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:45 PM
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One day, he goes to the grocery store, and I get no call. Time to wonder what raw animal he thought it would be hilarious to come home with, eh?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:42 PM
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O my goodness, this had me laughing to tears!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:41 PM
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Thanks. We've been through some obnoxious stuff together, and we're really in love.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:40 PM
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Don't dump negative shit on your wife. Always be positive. Her mood will reflect yours. Because all that does is frustrate us to no end. Like, enjoy your clean house, your cold drink, the smell of supper just about to be served, your devices all charged, your wife looking well put together. Let it cheer you up and relax you a bit before you dump all this shit on my head. There is nothing I can do about that stuff you're whining about.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:04 AM
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Aww, your dad's new lady sounds so sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 02:03 AM
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You aren't the only one! Mines an alcoholic, loser, lies about everything to everyone, a coward, manipulative of my mother, jealous and controlling of her, a failure to his kids, a shame to his parents who did no better, and a general embarrassment all around. He is everything a decent man isn't, and I'm glad I married his opposite!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 02:00 AM
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I agree, and also, the part where a man is "happy to live by your rules." That's contrary to so many of the good points he already made.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 11:59 PM
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You know what else scores him points? Bring enough snacks or treats for the guys. If his work environment is anything like most, those other guys can't get a decent meal from anyone but their mom, if they're even that lucky. If he has the same 5 or 10 guys with him each workday, make his little thing extra special, but you can make extra for his coworkers. I know YOU made them, but really, as soon as you leave, HE gets the credit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 10:47 PM
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Pack his lunches. Bake fresh bread, cook a nice roast, and send him with a big, hearty sandwich and some sides. Like a lot of others are suggesting, put a note in there, or a dirty pic or something. If you have kids, KEEP THE KIDS AWAY FROM HIM when he's arriving home from work. Even if you can only manage it for five or ten minutes, just take his coat and shoes, let him sit down. Have the TV and music off, the house immaculate, everything quiet and calm. He doesn't want hectic and crazy. Don't …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 10:43 PM
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I don't think all of it is utter crap. Relationships are an exchange, and I think that a man can love and value a woman as well as have his needs met and be served. Occasionally I'll see a very elderly man walk his very elderly wife to the car and open the door for her and wait for her to get it. This happens at the grocery store, the doctor's office, Target. Every time, it makes me so proud of that man and woman, for the relationship they built, for the value that they have for each other and t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 10:16 PM
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That made me wish I were buried alive. How blind can a group of idiots possibly make themselves?? Ok, so I walk out of my house showing my breasts and butt, knowing I'm going to get attention because they look fantastic, and I'm smiling because I know my body is desirable. If you catcall me because of the attention I knew I would draw, you're a rapist, but also, I dressed this way because the patriarchy influenced me to do it? I throw myself out there, physically, know it is a distraction to a s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 09:54 PM
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Yes, yes yes!!!! Oh man I love this sub. Its like a breath of fresh air!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:59 PM
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As a married woman of sons, I agree. I have daughters too, but I love my kids so much that I also add love to their father for their sake.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:56 PM
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No way she stays around that long. She'll break up on her terms and he'll find some mousy, quiet, not as hot gf he thinks he deserves who he won't be able to satisfy, she'll leave him for a real man, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:36 PM
2

What is SMV?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:33 PM
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Exactly. Sunk costs, move on.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:28 PM
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