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I agree with this. I made this post for the second example. I believe she is leaning on me to help her make a decision about catching up with this dude since she is feeling bad about ignoring him. I more or less told her I do not approve, but she can do what she wants. ​ As far as the other shit goes I 100% agree with you, just see what her actions are on it. She seems to just never respond, more than she's ever said something about a BF
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:14 PM
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She is young and I'm older. So she definitely could not know any better, it wouldn't be the first time. Overall it's been mostly green flags with a few hiccups being chalked up to she is young an inexperienced in a serious relationship. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:41 AM
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Aye. I almost want to hard next on the spot, but I will sit on this and watch for more bullshit. A few days ago she told me her ex tried to follow her on insta, but she declined. However, a few days after that this occurred. Sketchy indeed. Could just be her way of doing things, but this shows me she isn't over her ex.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:33 AM
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Haha I already made a joke about the lesbian friend sleeping over. Trust me. Like I said, I didn't really give a shit at first. It's not a big deal especially after meeting him I don't see ANY threat. It's more of a being grossed out by the idea of this fucker sleeping next to my girl than anything actually happening.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:26 PM
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This shit sounds sketch. Enjoy what you had and walk away my dude before anything else comes of her "feeling uncomfortable." Sounds like to me her BF is tired of you slaying his women and she's letting you down easy.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:11 PM
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Up your game. Learn to sweet talk, read their body language, etc. Make them feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:12 PM
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Thing is it's not that I'm not asking for them. She just suddenly stopped once we became more serious. Do you think it was something she was doing to gain my commitment rather than something she just does?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:50 AM
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Don't say anything else. Also, eliminate the "!" from your texting game it's feminine, drop the emoji as well. ​ Definitely don't ask her if Tuesday night sounds good. Reframe it to something like "Tuesday night after 7 works for me." That way you don't give an exact time so she can't back out/be late, etc. Get an exact time once she confirms. ​ Try "Looking forward to it" or Sounds good" next time.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:05 PM
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Meditation. Once you have practiced it enough you can use a breathing technique when you notice your mind wandering, to help quiet your thoughts. Ultimately you will think, it's just how you think that is important. Rewire the way you think into as many positive & productive thoughts as you can.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:39 AM
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Looks like she's at a low with self-esteem regarding your relationship. You def need to up some comfort for her at this point. Of course, only if you want to. It does not appear to be a shit test to me, she's communicating a true issue that she has with the current state of your relationship. How you go from here and maintain power I'm unsure, because I don't know your frame for the duration of it all. Perhaps you can start small, with some good morning/thinking of you type of txt now and then. …
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:13 AM
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It's unreal. I'm searching for issues where there are none, when you finally get what you want it's tough to believe it. AWALT though, always so I'm on my guard. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:38 AM
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Alright, I felt this way too. I just wanted some opinions on it, I enjoy her enough to let her know it's not needed. However, maybe this is a "if it's not broke, don't fix it" type of scenario. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:20 AM
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Perception is one thing, reality is another. You can show off your wealth & still be alpha. Let her into your life, do interesting things that your wealth provides, have fun. Don't give her money and you're fine
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:55 PM
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Late reply, but just remember no matter what EVEN if you were perfect & did EVERYTHING right AWALT & you could still fail. Once you consider that it's a lot easier to be less insecure. You can't control the uncontrollable.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:31 AM
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I'm generally a super insecure person compensating with fitness, rudeness, MMA and low inhibitions. HOW DO I FIX THIS??? HELP ME! You need to simply look at the facts. You have nothing to be insecure about, or you wouldn't have secured such a position in life in the first place. Also consider that if your confidence could reflect how well you're doing, your SMV would be increased even further, solidifying the fact that you don't need to be insecure. ​ Just start catching yourself in the insecure…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:34 PM
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Iight my man, take a step back & look at what's going on here. You're so deep into her frame you've constructed all these irrational thoughts. If your frame is this shaken, she's going to be turned off by your different behavior in general & possibly make your fears into a reality. ​ There are questions that need to be answered. Where do your boundaries stand in your relationship with this woman? Is this brand new behavior from her? Have you noticed any difference in her actual behavior outside …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:25 PM
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Each time takes time, but as the others have said. Occupy your time with self improvement & of course meet new women. There is always one that will burn your ex into flames. Improve yourself and they will come. ​ Also, realize that when you're not "emotionally well" your ex/all women can sense this and it's not attractive.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:43 AM
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You're assuming way too much, I am not looking for validation, I wanted honest opinions from other people here. I've had several LTR's and just recently started catching feelings for a plate. ​ Thus the thread. Why are you so hostile in a place where we come together for advice? I'm glad you admit you have short conversations about other topics, that's all I was really trying to figure out. If people ever step beyond the rule with girls that have progressed beyond a simple fuck. ​ No hard feelin…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:20 PM
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Except this wasn't based around early texting. Which I start the entire post saying I agree with. There is no fucking way to maintain a plate/LTR for long periods of time without texting beyond logistics. If you've managed a LTR you would know that.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:03 PM
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2 weeks is nothing, so treat it like such. It could be a shit test to see if your schedule would revolve around getting a drink with her. You say you see her in class? What made you ask her about the time through text & not in person? My advice would be to treat her like she didn't decline you over text next time you chat with her in person. Don't bring it up and continue treating it how you want, keep it in your frame. If you try to go for a second outing with her, ask her in person.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:24 PM
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