Hey all,

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Fellow RP member here who found the pill about 10 years ago.

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Something I've always questioned as I've popped in & out of LTR's over the years is how to handle text game once you're beyond the initial honey moon phase with a plate/LTR.

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Of course early on it's all about logistics/meeting up & gaming in person. However, it seems that the younger generation is BIG on keeping in contact through texting/snap chat regardless of spending time in person. Does anyone feel like it's BP/frowned upon to banter back and forth through text once you've gotten to know your plate/LTR? Or does this not matter once you've been fucking

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I.E. You've gotten to know one of your plates quite well, you've vetted them for good LTR qualities and start to do some BP habits like cuddling after sex, pillow talk etc. Should you keep your text game limited to logistics only still at this point? Is it dangerous to withdraw text attention? I feel like it's a fine line between keeping them interested & being too available. What's the best route? I feel that it's not smart to change your texting habits in general and you should try to keep them similar to the initial style you game with.

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Just curious to here some members input on how this may have back fired or worked positively towards keeping plates around.