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Guys in trades are making 100k by age 24 with ZERO college debt. If you hate it, then you can still quit and go to college. I know it's tough, but try to keep your emotions out of it and think logically about what the smartest choice is for you.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:38 PM
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So much confusion can be avoided if you follow this
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:54 PM
4

Find a new goal and work towards it
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:36 PM
1

I had to train myself to enjoy the nervousness that comes before an approach. Like the beginning of a rollercoaster knowing there's going to be a huge drop when you reach the top. It's no longer anxiety at that point, it's excitement about what kind of interaction you're going to have. Even if it fizzles or I act like an idiot, there's still a thrill of pushing through the tough part.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:55 PM
19

Because he doesn't give a fuck. So many guys on this sub try so hard to be a perfect stoic alpha male that makes 250k and can bench press a car, but they don't realize that guys that are carefree and dgaf are fun to be around and are happy with who they are, even if they're an out of shape douche.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:12 PM
5

Don't overthink. You don't need to text all-day/every-day to keep interest. Be busy and don't do any stupid "good morning"/"good night" texts guys love to do for some reason. If you have nothing to text, then don't. If you have a funny thought or comment, then send it.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:36 PM
0

If you were truly not attracted, then you made the right decision no matter what any of us say. But it sounds like you were attracted physically but psyched yourself out because of a fear of stds (I've known some cute, innocent looking women who've had stds so there really is no way to tell who's got what). As someone who psyched themselves out of many opportunities when I was younger out of fear, I urge you to avoid doing the same.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:48 PM
1

I got invisalign braces at 30 years old...nobody could tell. My teeth are perfect now and will be for as long as I have teeth. It's painful and can take awhile, but it's a small price to pay for a permanent fix. Get laser eye surgery...the best decision I ever made. Waking up with 20/20 vision after a lifetime of glasses/contacts was such an unreal feeling. Personal opinion, but I think gingers always look better with beards
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:13 PM
0

You can tell someone has an std just by looking at them? That's a pretty impressive skill. No, it means you're a wimp who can't escalate and uses "fear of stds" as an excuse. Wear a condom like the rest of the world if you're scared
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:27 PM
2

Sounds like you were nervous/intimidated and are trying to justify your fear of pulling the trigger. Unless she turned you off to the point where you couldn't get hard, bang away...you're only young once
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:27 PM
3

Do an intense bike ride for 1-2 hours a day...way more fun than running and if you put it on high gear and find some good hills, your legs and lungs will get absolutely destroyed.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:08 PM
4

If you overhear girls commenting on your looks, then make a move on them. All you have to do is be normal at that point...the attraction is already done for you. Girls rarely approach directly, but will position themselves in your proximity in order to get you to approach.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:55 PM
12

Please keep retaining semen so you don't accidentally spread the type of genes that would ask this question
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:31 PM
55

They probably don't take themselves too seriously, have hobbies that put them in proximity to women, and are able to have a good time without constantly wondering about smv and all that. A lot of women appreciate a guy who is easygoing and fun even if he's not "alpha". Just cause you're 6'4 and ripped doesn't mean you're fun to be around.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:46 PM
16

Yeah split it. If she has a problem with it, then you have a problem with her
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:22 PM
2

I've been laid off for 2 1/2 months and have had the time of my life. Working out, discovering new music, reading, playing my instruments, biking...use this time to find new hobbies/interests that will carry over into non-quarantine life when it comes back. There will never be an opportunity like this in the future to get paid to stay at home...this is once in a lifetime and you should milk it for all its worth. I'm guilty of it at times too, but you can't look to women to get your validation. Y…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 06:19 PM
11

Then why are you even on tinder if you cant meet?
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:53 PM
3

You can't let them be more powerful than you - the whole point of being a man is being more powerful and strong than women. You need to get a grip and seriously look inside at what your value is and why you let women have such power over your self-esteem. Do you think she's feeling the same way you are? No. She's getting her shit done and not giving a fuck. Between the two of you, she is acting like the man and you are acting like the woman...be the ripped, confident older guy you appear to be o…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:49 PM
1

Finding good musicians to play with is a huge struggle. Craigslist seems to be the most likely option for finding people but you may have to dig deep and have patience to wade through the garbage you'll find.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:34 PM
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Same. It's a strenuous workout, strengthens the hell out of your legs, gives an opportunity to get some sun, and is quite meditative. Two hours on my bike and my mind is clear.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:32 PM
4

Yes you've managed to achieve a level of being so good-looking that you've become repulsive...become uglier and stop working out
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:10 PM
11

It was many years back when I worked retail so it wasn't a professional environment or anything. She would even parade other guys through there and hook up right in front of me. I just ignored it and felt extremely embarrassed for her and the guys. She had extreme oneitis
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:21 PM
16

Complete insanity...like showing up to my job unannounced and causing a scene type shit.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:03 PM
2

Realize you don't need to text every day or have nightly phone calls - this is not mandatory for an ltr yet I see guys constantly doing the "good morning" text bullshit or trying to stay in constant contact. It's draining and unnecessary. Text when you want to hang out or if something interesting pops in your head that's funny. You're being needy because a girl didn't send you a good morning text...get a grip dude.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:23 PM
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It's not horrible, but I'm dying from boredom. I used to text like this, you're texting like this, other guys probably text like this, so chances are this girl has had this exact same boring conversation a million times already. Her responses are more than one word so I don't think it's lost but it's been since Saturday and you're still trying to get a phone number. Get rid of the school/logical nonsense and be more playful. The "I'm too tall for you" line was pretty good so more along those lin…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:30 PM
3

It shows that you're inexperienced with women
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:39 PM
3

Go for it. She's pursuing you so it should be an easy hookup. If she wants to talk in the gym just say you don't like to interrupt your workout and "hit me up afterwards".
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:08 PM
1

Yep, taking steroids seems like more of a mental problem that needs fixing rather than a physical one
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:07 PM
1

You are the side chick...time to move on
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:50 PM
3

Probably just trying to "dread" you in her own idiotic way to attempt to keep you all to herself. Change nothing, but you may want to vaguely explore outside options.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:57 PM
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The power of no-fap comes from having self-discipline and resisting temptation to pleasure yourself whenever, not from your semen gaining magical powers. When you overcome temptation and have self-discipline it strengthens your mind which is what the "power" feeling actually is.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:03 PM
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Like anything tempting, no fap requires discipline and strength of will and mind. So by avoiding temptation, you're strengthening yourself mentally and feeling the benefits of having self-control over your emotions and body.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:35 PM
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I guarantee this is all in your head. You're most likely insecure and in your head you're imagining that these dudes are in any way challenged by you. They're not. You're probably staring at them like a weirdo and they're just responding to it.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:23 PM
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Discipline. Get your workout in even if you don't want to. Eat healthy even if you'd rather eat shitty food. Read something useful even if you feel like watching tv instead. Overcoming these daily obstacles builds inner (and outer) strength.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:25 PM
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Been down this road too many times to count...like the other guys are saying, you made it too serious and un-fun. The workplace fling is supposed to be exciting and dangerous but you made it gay. You should've agreed with her when she sent that text about only seeing you as a friend - "I agree, we're much better as friends" instead of ignoring it just to show you're not going to be weird about it. It'll blow over. Don't find reasons to be near her or go out of your way to have little conversatio…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:05 PM
2

Monk mode is the dumbest shit ever. Socialize and approach while you’re improving your smv. You're not going to emerge after a year super confident and high smv, you’re going to be a nervous awkward idiot who spent a year avoiding women while mentally masturbating yourself into thinking reading books will solve your problems. Experience is all that matters, and confidence and experience around women is the biggest indicator of high smv.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:41 AM
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I’m 5’9 and have consistently fucked/had relationships for my entire adult life. Stop caring about it and women will stop caring about it too
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:00 AM
1

Carpentry. Other programs may be different depending on location/trade. Over 100k/yr for a mechanic is pretty standard if you work regularly and get the necessary skills to be useful past your apprenticeship.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:03 PM
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I'm a union carpenter in a major US city. After a four year apprenticeship, you'll come out making a shitload of money and have tons of skills. Your best bet for a trade is a northern urban area because their unions are among the strongest in the nation and don't have as many illegals doing shit work for pennies.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:13 PM
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Oneitis and paranoia are a bad combo. Instead of going on vacation and enjoying yourself, you spent money, took time off work, and made yourself look like an absolute weakling over NOTHING. Over what you perceived as her looking at a guy...maybe she was looking at the damn scenery. Go on vacation to enjoy yourself and experience new shit, not to worry like a teenager about nonsense.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:50 PM
7

She has no fear of disrespecting you and is actively playing dread game (which is working). I'd ignore her for awhile and start seriously flirting with other women and getting some other options going as it looks like this is going to end soon.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:17 PM
7

This is the only normal response in here
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:07 PM
4

I think you just took her too seriously and fell into her frame by giving real/serious answers to her questions. Make it more light-hearted and fun next time...congrats on the mullet
/r/askTRP04/03/20 11:01 PM
5

I can guarantee that whatever you're asking is not important and you're just texting to probe about what she's doing because you're nervous and jealous. She probably senses this too. I dated a girl for 5+ years, we lived together and everything, and I maybe sent her like 3 truly important texts through that entire time.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:42 PM
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She did not play you. She was tired of waiting months on end for you to make a move. She made herself available and you fumbled every step of the way. But just think, you did all that awful shit and still managed to get a girl to your place and dance with you. Imagine if you actually had even an ounce of game? Use this feeling of shame to improve yourself through any means necessary. Anytime you feel anxiety, push through it no matter how awkward you feel. Don't do monk mode or any of that loner…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:38 PM
1

Learn a trade. It's a tangible skill that you can do anywhere and people will definitely pay if you consistently deliver high quality work. If I work my ass off I can pretty much make enough to get away with working only 9 months a year. But it's hard work to get good.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:50 AM
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You have zero control over your emotions if you’re letting some idiot in a convenience store get to you. Go to the gym and do the work necessary to improve your self-confidence and stop being so reactive. Nobody gives a shit about other people unless you give them a reason to so also be aware of what you may be doing unintentionally to invite these conflicts.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:33 PM
1

You can’t take it with you when you die. Will you enjoy your money more now or when you’re too old to really have it make a difference?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:25 PM
3

So instead of enjoying your vacation that you probably saved up awhile for, took time off work for, and were excited about for weeks/months, you're acting like a sad sulking puppy getting sucked into drama with your non-ltr back home. Why aren't you enjoying yourself and ignoring her until you get back?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:28 PM
1

Work on yourself and stop being controlled by your emotions. You're acting like a psycho ex-gf, so do something about it. Get some hobbies or better yet, a life, so you're not spending every waking second thinking about your gf getting plowed by other dudes.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:23 PM
3

Ugh...why would you text this? You literally have zero attraction or comfort built up with this girl but she's supposed to meet you somewhere? Another dumbass who doesn't listen to good advice because he's too damn impatient and pushy
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:18 PM
5

Possibly the worst text you could send, but I appreciate the directness. I'd avoid texting anything else and if you see her in person again at the gym, play it off like a huge joke and charm her back into your frame. She may even be a bit turned on by your directness if you show congruence and act confident in person.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 12:31 AM
6

Who knows...maybe you stunk. Did you shower beforehand?
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:09 PM
1

So much overthinking. When do YOU want to go out? Pick two days you're free and ask her if she's free one of those days. If not, then put her on hold until you're free again.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:16 PM
9

I can guarantee this woman smells horrible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 10:30 PM
1

It's almost like you need more than just basic physical traits to attract women...if only there was a subreddit where people discuss stuff like this.
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:29 PM
9

Going on vacation to a cold miserable region for the sole purpose of running game might be the worst idea I’ve heard in a long time.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:38 PM
4

Flooring is a pretty brutal trade in terms of prep work, layout, and handling materials, but the installation part is a pretty easygoing process. Most days I put on my earbuds and just do my thing. My knees hurt initially but I adapted and have no issues anymore. Thicker kneepads are a necessity if you're doing this regularly.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:49 AM
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Don't think less of yourself for being in construction. It's a damn hard job, a very masculine environment, you work with your hands and have a skill, and you develop a certain toughness from being in a demanding/alpha situation. What kind of construction do you do that is causing that much physical pain? Are you in a union and if not, do you live in an area that has a strong one you can join (metropolitan area)? I'm a union floorlayer and make about $50/hour (not counting overtime which is abou…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:39 PM
1

You had her agreeing to 8:30 and should've ended it there but then you prolonged it with fake alpha bullshit. You got defensive and stopped being playful and being defensive over text is possibly the least attractive thing a man can do. Like every red pill guide says, text for logistics if you don't know what you're doing...your situation is not different.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:37 PM
1

A rejection doesn't have to be obvious to other people. In most cases, you'll have a short conversation, it'll go nowhere, and you'll exit quietly with no one really even noticing. Unless you're zipping around from girl to girl like a weirdo, then you'll probably draw negative attention to yourself. Also, I think it's more beneficial to stay in one spot and let them enter your space so it looks like they're approaching you.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:10 PM
2

I find that talking about anything "real" or obvious in the opener/first few minutes usually creates a less interesting, unique conversation. I have a better time and get more satisfying moments if I can get a little more absurd and silly with it. I opened one girl asking her to look and see if she can see any white hairs in my beard. No "Hi I'm Pete_Worst, what's your name?" or "You looked interesting so I thought I'd say hi" type stuff that every other guy does, but an immediate "Hey do me a f…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:03 PM
2

Are you cool with being in a relationship with girls who text their ex's? If not, then don't be cool with it and let her know this. Respect your boundaries
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:02 PM
7

Fuck it, if she's paying, then go. Who cares if it looks desperate?
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:35 PM
4

Why weren’t you talking to other girls instead of sitting there moody and sulking? You lowered your value and upped his by acting this way. He doesn’t owe you any loyalty and you should be treating this experience as a free-for-all instead of getting attached, especially if it’s only a month and you probably won’t see this girl after
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:39 PM
1

What do you hope to achieve by texting a girl “good morning” like every other guy she’s talking to?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:16 PM
2

Live the way you want to live. If you're not cool with your gf going on a date with her male friend, then don't be. If she has a problem with it, then she's not for you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:01 AM
3

So does every guy when they have oneitis. I've had about a dozen women in my life who I was "in love with" and convinced I'd never meet anyone like them again. Then I forgot about them until the next one came along. The only way to get this girl is to not give a fuck about her, move on, and let her come back to you.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:41 PM
3

Watch actions, not words. She's not interested so move on
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:14 PM
2

I'll never forget the episode between the skinny coked out Russian kid and the creepy hispanic dude...they wound up picking a random guy to win other than the two competitors because they were so awful.
/r/seduction08/01/20 07:26 PM
2

Stop over-analyzing and just enjoy yourself and if it ends or she starts showing red flags, then move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:11 PM
2

I'm dying to know what occurs during a "red pill rage"
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:50 PM
3

Why not just go by yourself? Solo vacations have been some of the coolest experiences of my life and they make me a more interesting person than a hermit who just sits home and goes to the gym. Just make time to workout wherever you go and don't eat like shit 24/7
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:55 PM
22

If she's even gotta ask, then she's not good ltr material.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:26 PM
2

I swear some of you guys make absolutely no sense. How does hooking up with a girl stop you from getting out of college? Just don't invest time into them (which will make you more appealing anyway). You're going to regret not taking opportunities like this after college and you'll be like the other idiots on here who begin their posts by bragging about how they make 100k/year but can't get a woman to save their life.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:09 PM
1

Talk to women, It's the only sure way to get better. Talk to them everywhere you are, in line at the store, waiting for a drink at the bar, waitresses, the lady walking her dog around your neighborhood, etc. Just keep at it until they don't want to run away from you anymore. There's no cheat code
/r/seduction06/01/20 05:03 PM
1

The only fix is talking to more women. Everywhere you go where there's women, talk to them. Doesn't matter if it's for a date or just to kill time waiting in line, just open your mouth, resist the urge to make excuses to not talk, and do it. It's truly the only way to escape your situation and improve.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:51 PM
1

Uhh...yeah you may want to actually respond if you want to hook up. What kind of question is this?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Not a good idea to outright "flirt" with other women in front of your gf, but being social and talking to everyone (including women) can increase your attractiveness and spark feelings of dread in women.
/r/seduction04/01/20 01:32 PM
1

I never eat before the gym. I also work a construction job which is pretty rough on the body, hit the gym, then eat afterwards. It can be brutal but I drink a lot of coffee and water throughout the day. I feel fine though I've been doing it for so long that I think I've just trained my body to work well while fasting.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:41 PM
1

The pain is real. I actually was in bed with my oneitis that I’d been crushing on for months. I touched her leg and she mentioned how she just shaved...then I rolled over and went to sleep. I had girls coming into my dorm room late at night on weekends asking to watch movies in my bed...but I was busy playing guitar and couldn’t. Ugh. So many missed experiences that I couldn’t live with myself for awhile after discovering pick-up.
/r/seduction03/01/20 05:16 PM
4

Ive been doing it for about 8 years now, usually 20-22 hours fasting each day (though weekends I tend to do less). I go to the gym fasted and see routine escalation of my lifts and no strength loss unless I slept like shit. It keeps my weight in check and allows me to quickly remove excess fat from eating bad stuff (which I’ve done for the last few weeks). I can attest that it absolutely works but I still eat very healthy during my non-fasted hours. When I ate unhealthy stuff during my non-faste…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:10 PM
1

You have to meet other women and find productive ways to occupy your time.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:59 PM
11

My whole existence up until around when I was 20 years old was an endless wave of missed opportunities. I had girls throwing themselves at me and just didn't make moves either out of fear and/or because a oneitis occupied so much of my brain that I was disinterested. But it's slowly morphed from regret into inspiration to succeed now that I'm in my 30's. Use those missed opportunities as fuel to never miss an opportunity again.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:53 PM
0

Repeated eye contact
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:37 PM
3

Because I'm high SMV. It's useless to worry about shit like that because if she cheats, then I'll just move onto the next one whereas she'll be chasing and failing with guys like me forever while being miserable. Stop posting shit like this
/r/askMRP30/12/19 05:41 PM
5

If you had just not texted her so much and retained the tiniest bit of mystery/intrigue, you wouldn't have this issue. Stop texting so much, leave the sexting for when you're more intertwined, and show abundance through not being so available/needy. This is all the same stuff that's talked about on here ad nauseum and in the sidebar yet you guys still keep doing the same bullshit thinking your situation is somehow different.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:23 PM
2

Go to bars by yourself on occasion. Flirt with women there and get some numbers. Flirt with women at the grocery store, shoe store, etc. Stop thinking you need friends/other people around to meet women.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:45 PM
1

Show him in person. If he sees you having success, then he'll be more willing to dig in deeper on his own.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:44 PM
2

People talk at parties. Your gf may talk to another guy and you should be talking to other girls. Do you want to be the cool guy who has fun, chats up other girls, shows high value, and doesn't show massive insecurity? Or do you want to be the weeny who follows his gf around all night because he's so scared she may talk to another guy?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:30 PM
8

Drink all day and chat up as many girls as you can and try to hook up. The whole environment is a party all day and night, don't just wait until the nightclubs at night to try and make something happen
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:23 PM
2

If you had so many girls waiting in line for you, why obsess about this one? Stop lying to yourself and us. You have extreme oneitis and need to never contact this person ever again. Do not enter friendships under false premises of hoping you eventually get to bang...if you were honest about your intent from the beginning, you would not have been in a situation where she takes advantage of your desperation.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:41 PM
3

This hot blonde is different than most of the girls I have banged! And it’s because I really like her. Like she and I have a million and one things in common! No she isn't different, I promise. You are already aware of what your issue is, so now it's just a matter of thinking before you speak and not going overboard with the affection. Girls chase what is not easily given to them. If you're falling in love after each time, then there's no chase for them anymore.
/r/seduction15/12/19 01:25 PM
1

This seems like a well-thought out argument
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:30 PM
1

You're not in a relationship and can do as you please. Coworker might cut you off and cause problems at work, but it's better than being stuck in something you don't want to be in.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:25 PM
37

Question: have you ever read any material relating to trp in any form?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:45 PM
3

You need to actively think about it. Whenever you're about to speak, actively think about your speech and how it's coming out. You're probably in such a hurry to get a response out that it comes out weak and soft. Slow down, lower your pitch, enunciate, and project. Practice with cashiers and people you don't have to have long conversations with.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:45 PM
1

I'd go. Make an appearance, shake hands with your bosses, make small talk with your coworkers, and bail once you feel like you can escape without being noticed. I hate them too but some higher-ups see repeated bailing on a work party as a lack of respect and commitment/dedication to your job.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:44 PM
2

Why are you guys so hesitant to do shit with your ltr? Why make a girl your ltr if you're just going to be weird about stuff like this? Especially if your plans were to just sit home and watch movies.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:15 PM
9

Stop being a boring fuck and go out for new years
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:53 PM
5

Yep. If you're not good enough friends to tell him exactly what the fuck is wrong with him and his fiance, then you shouldn't be his best man anyway.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:55 PM
7

Well, yeah you should’ve done more. Just make sure you remember how dumb you felt this time and avoid making the same mistake again. Also the business card thing in a casual situation is really cheesy, just get her number.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:31 PM
5

Get yourself out of this texting hell and just say "meet me Wednesday at XXX bar at 8pm". I've had these types of text conversations in the past and they never lead to anything because you're dancing around meeting up like a weenie. Just pull the trigger and plan something concrete and if she flakes, then you're lucky you don't have to endure this text conversation anymore.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:35 PM
1

Probably just showing off to her friend (your LTR) about how "great" her lifestyle is.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:30 PM
1

He's "super beta" but fucking the girl you were trying to bang. Okay... You shouldn't be getting that much detail from this girl. Just a "yes I'm coming or no I can't make it" should be fine.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:52 PM
2

I can't imagine being this emotional and reactive with a woman. Get your emotions under control and stop giving a fuck about inane stuff like taking pictures and your girl commenting on cars. Always feeling disrespected by unimportant stuff just sounds like a miserable, stressful way to exist.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:26 PM
14

IOI's are basically women's version of "approaching". They're letting you know they're interested and receptive to being opened.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:28 PM
8

“I appreciate you so much, if you have to move on, I understand.” Whatever you do, don't text this bullshit
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:27 PM
3

You're going to pass up an awesome trip because you're scared of your gf cheating on you while away? Very weak mentality. Go on your trip, keep contact minimal, and she'll probably be wondering more about what you're doing. And if she cheats, then so be it.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:38 PM
3

Looks are not everything to women, their emotional state overrules. How do you guys still not understand this?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:55 PM
2

Most likely. I understand the need to purge yourself of feelings but you’ll be much better off meeting girls around her and getting her feeling jealous/competitive for your attention.
/r/seduction21/10/19 09:56 PM
3

Has she given any signs that she’s interested or flirted with you?
/r/seduction21/10/19 01:24 PM
1

Tell her you agree (about needing a break) and wish her well. No butthurt texts or asking what's wrong. You should know that that will have the opposite result of what you want to happen. Work on getting other girls in your life asap. She's young and wants to experience other guys, it's the nature of the beast unfortunately but it doesn't mean you have to mope around and feel sad about it.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:18 PM
17

New guy in her life, ex came back, she just wanted attention, etc. Could've been anything and probably has less to do with you than you think. I've had this happen and it sucks. I had a chick from the gym eye-fuck the hell out of me on multiple occasions before I approached her. We chatted, I asked her out, and she said she was busy every single day (aka not interested). The only option is to keep doing your thing and see if she hops back on.
/r/seduction05/10/19 12:19 PM
5

Ive had dealings with some pretty hot foreign Asian women that were married (mail-order) to older American guys. These women were all slutty as hell, bored out of their minds during the day, and would routinely fuck around on their husbands. Yours seems like a similar situation. Seems like an easy bang on your part. Why wouldn’t you go for it?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:24 AM
15

Jesus dude...get this nightmare out of your life. You can't be this desperate for female attention that you're willing to help this chick out while you know she's going to keep banging this other dude she left you for.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:34 PM
4

Yikes. Why ask advice if you're just going to do whatever anyway? This is a horrible response. All's you had to do was ignore or give simple responses until she disappears.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:44 PM
20

Damn. That's rough. It was a glorious moment when I finally gave up on dinner dates
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:01 PM
92

Took a girl who had model-tier looks out to a concert/drinks on a snowy night and at the end of the date, she had me drive her to her ex-boyfriend's house (who was unemployed, lived with his parents, and smoke/drank all day) where she was sleeping over. I didn't even get as much as a kiss on the cheek. To be fair, I did drop her completely after that so I had that going for me but I cringe in retrospect.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:00 PM
1

One tell on its own isn’t a dead giveaway but combine a few and you can make a pretty solid assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 10:45 AM
1

I love how your sample size is just your one friend. Women who smoke are way more likely to also drink and party, which definitely leads to hoeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 10:43 AM
18

Smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:12 AM
1

You don't have to stay at her house. Just leave until her tantrum is over.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:29 PM
1

Were you invited?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:12 PM
18

Nothing you can do about it without sounding really insecure and low-value. I know pretty much nothing about the country, but I assume Bhutan is pretty religious/spiritual and probably does not have a party environment like other Asian countries. But you gather males and females together in an exotic place and fucking around is pretty much a guarantee. Don't act like a little bitch while she's gone messaging her constantly/talking every day. Do your thing and let her miss you, work out, flirt wi…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:06 PM
-1

But there's zero red-pill knowledge being applied in these scenarios by the OP. The above question is basic relationship advice that should be asked in that sub instead.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:10 PM
2

Your head is all wrong on this. If you're in a venue where there are men available to hit on her, then that means that there are probably also women that you can be talking to. This is dread. With your ultimatum and the fact that you're probably hanging on her arm all night, she clearly is running her own dread game on you. I'm not saying you have to actively try to hook-up a random chick in front of your gf, but you can let your LTR do her thing and socialize with random women and flirt/get the…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:53 PM
5

This is the worst part. The first guy who games her even slightly will get to smash her while you haven’t in 3 whole years. I just don’t think women in 2019 are built to follow that kind of religious doctrine lifestyle and if she’s gotten a job as a bartender, then she’s already on her way out of your life. Good religious girls don’t seek out bartending jobs.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:41 AM
3

Not much you can do if you’re not around to personally see what she’s doing. Wait until she gets back, don’t be a nervous little bitch about anything and see if her behavior is different and she’s guarding her phone more than usual. Snoop the phone and look for evidence if you feel she’s acting differently/aloof/extra-loving.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:07 PM
1

Still don’t think the response was any good and I also doubt the decent sex was a result of your line. Ignoring bullshit is a powerful tool and thinking you have to respond to every stupid thing with a witty/funny response is draining. But if what you’re doing is working overall then keep doing it.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:10 PM
5

I don’t like your response. Seems too aggressive and try-hard, plus you sexualized him in her eyes. I would’ve probably just ignored it. Not everything is a shit-test and not everything needs a “funny” response.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:40 PM
2

I work a manually intensive construction job, and hit the gym after work about 4-5 days a week. There's injuries that pop up every now and then (tendinitis, lower back) but I just take off from the gym until it's better. I'm sure these injuries will never fully heal due to how much stress they get, but I can usually go a few months between flare-ups. As soon as they flare up, I switch up my workout to avoid hurting it further. Wear gloves and stretch frequently throughout the day. Ice and heat a…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:43 PM
1

You need to day-game. Get good at making small talk with chicks in supermarkets, bookstores, convenience stores, etc and parlay that into dates. The girl who has 50 matches on Tinder may not get approached by a stranger once and doing that will make you stand out and probably launch you to the head of the pack.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:34 PM
19

Of course it's a shit test. I'd say something like "I like being with you, but sex is important to me and if it's going to be denied, then this isn't going to work any longer." Then no contact until she realizes how much of a dumbass she's being.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:34 PM
2

You say - Issue is I know TRP says as man you shouldn't be the one seeking commitment, the woman should. Then you say - Wondering if I'm being a dork next time I see her telling her I want this to move in more relationship direction? You're hamstering like crazy and about to do something you know rarely ends well. You have oneitis and your behavior will start pushing this girl away. Go with your instincts, shut the hell up, and let shit happen naturally if you want an eventual LTR.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:49 PM
1

I fucked tons of coworkers when I worked retail and was fine most of the time. It got awkward for a bit when the flings ended but shit happens. I got caught banging a coworker at one job (we had sex at work constantly) and got fired which sucked but I got away with it so many times prior to that. Post-retail I had a few minor things go on with coworkers but I had too much work to do to really get into anything on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:37 PM
3

Look at the morons posting on relationship_advice daily. They'll put up with any shitty behavior just to have a woman in their life. "My wife stays out until 3AM every night drinking, smells like cologne when she gets home, and is secretive with her phone...is this normal?" These men are so emasculated that I'm not surprised their women are whoring around behind their backs.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:39 PM
5

Either pay or don't. If you make tons of money and she doesn't, then I wouldn't worry about the expense. If not, then she'll make it happen on her own if she wants to see you.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:06 PM
6

She did come see you and you sent her home. Stop being needy
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:27 AM
1

Just tell him you're gonna fuck his wife or gf or whatever and give it to her better than he ever will
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:56 PM
1

Your wife should be scared as hell of losing you to another woman, not sending inappropriate snaps of a dude she may well be banging. Hugely disrespectful...she should not be trying to get a rise out of you buy doing this. Start flirting with other women in your day to day life. I'm not saying cheat, but open your eyes to what you could have if you start actually acting like you have a spine.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:51 PM
1

What if I only ate meat and vegetables, once a day, with small rations, and HIIT calisthenics and cardio every day? That's basically what intermittent fasting is. Eating for only a small part of the day. Meat/veggies is the way to go for weight loss. Getting in shape is a drug. Once you start seeing results your life will get better and if you're even remotely good looking, girls will notice those changes. Suck it up or jerk your life away in front of your computer.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:33 PM
1

Do intermittent fasting, which is fasting for a significant portion of the day but not cutting out food completely. I do about 21-22 hours of fasting per day but I started by doing 12-16 hours. Doing an extreme fast of just water/green tea for a few days is probably not a good idea, but once you get used to fasting, then you can extend the times you fast. I've gone 36 hours before without eating and been fine. I drink lots of water and black coffee during the fasting period which helps keep hung…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:21 PM
3

In this case, if I was making strong eye contact I would've probably nodded my head for her to get up and go to the bathroom or something where I would meet her and talk/get her number. As cool as it would look to walk up to her table in a restaurant, I don't think you'd be as successful as getting her alone somewhere and away from potential cockblockers.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:16 AM
3

It's most likely an elaborate scheme her and her friends concocted to divert attention away from the cheating and onto some bullshit "drug" problem. I'm glad he postponed the wedding, but he should cut that piece of shit out of his life forever. But like most idiot guys on that subreddit, they're not cutting the girl out completely and will probably forgive her in the end because she promises to "change".
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:52 PM
2

Anything's possible, but with the age difference between everyone (and OP being much younger), I'm inclined to see it a bit differently. This is a married, experienced dude running game (albeit weak game) on a mid-20's chick who's engaged to a 22 year-old. Retail is a huge hook-up environment and the fact that she mentions him outside of work is telling. OP asked if he should be concerned, and I think he should. But I'm just a stranger so obviously my opinion should be taken with a grain of salt…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:05 AM
2

Could be. Only OP's fiance truly knows
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:47 PM
3

I've worked around tons of women and they simply never bring up dudes they are truly disinterested in. The fact that she's bringing him up even in a negative light leads me to believe there is some underlying interest.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:43 PM
2

She's definitely interested in him, but there's not much you can do except be a better option than him. Unfortunately, his age may work to his advantage since your gf is much older than you and you may seem immature in comparison.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:31 PM
2

Make your money, get the skills you need, and move on when you can. What else is there? Stop obsessing over this dude and chick.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:04 PM
2

You still have to talk to fat/ugly chicks to bang dude, it’s not like they just appear in your bedroom. Put in some effort or jerk your 20’s away.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:44 AM
2

That response is the only way to not look like a total idiot. Say you yelled that you had to leave immediately for something and thought she heard you - don't in any way let her know this was some sort of weird punishment for taking a long shower. Holy shit. Some of you guys take this "trying to be alpha" thing way too far.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:30 PM
1

You need to engage more conversationally. Ask fun questions like where she’d go if money was no object, what her top 3 wishes would be if she met a genie, etc. Stupid stuff to get her talking and to find more about her. Make physical contact like touching her arm when you guys are laughing. It’s a date, it’s supposed to be fun, so make it fun. Turn the questions sexual after awhile in order to gauge the likelihood of a lay after the date. Sounds like you just need more practice
/r/askTRP02/06/19 01:40 AM
4

Women can see through this shit a mile away. Dread is best applied covertly.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 09:28 PM
9

So it is AM. I figured it had to be PM but I guess not. I would avoid setting up dates at 9am first of all. It’s too early, no girl is banging you that early, and you’ve already given yourself a time limit for possible escalation by having to leave at 10. I would text her just for the hell of it but make sure you also gather other options because this feels like a flake-scenario.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:51 PM
13

Coffee date on the weekend sounds boring as shit dude. Plus you didn’t specify a time or anything. And now instead of locking something in, you have to wait until 12 to figure out if she’s dtf or just going to ignore you instead. I’d try your best to get some other shit going with other girls at the music thing or daygame and send her a text later on just for the fuck of it.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:43 PM
27

I nexted a crazy chick I worked with because of her shitty behavior, she then quit this job thankfully, and would proceed to show up at times when I worked (usually nights) and literally hook up with guys like right outside the window. I guess she found these idiots online but a few times a week there’d be some guy she paraded in front of my window and make out/grope him. Imagine how much time and energy she expended trying to arrange these stupid encounters and I just didn’t give a shred of a f…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:20 AM
1

Tell her something else came up and you’ll meet up another day.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:03 PM
35

I believe he had a family tragedy involving his sister passing away from cancer. Maybe it was just too hard on him and he’s searching for some kind of solace.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 08:52 PM
2

Why wouldn’t she invite you?
/r/askTRP25/05/19 12:52 PM
8

And they talk about sex?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:42 PM
2

Power/frame grab on her part. Just call her dude back or something and don't take it seriously.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:31 PM
25

Sounds like a real piece of shit. If you invite her home, make sure she doesn't steal anything.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:26 PM
1

Stupid post, but I'll humor it. The knowledge that your breath is good is definitely a confidence boost. But watch chewing gum relentlessly as I wound up with pretty bad jaw issues (clenching/grinding in my sleep) from chewing gum all day.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:32 PM
3

I did 16:8 for awhile but when I realized I was too full to really eat throughout that 8 hour period it naturally shortened. I'm probably at a 21:3 now honestly.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:41 PM
7

I do a 20:4 split. I don't think it matters too much as long as you're fasting for 12+ hours.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:29 PM
2

Those guys probably weren't even thinking about you a minute after they said that whereas you're thinking about it hours later. Don't waste your time or mental energy on unimportant shit like this. It's just some idiots in a car who shouted out a window, not a challenge for your honor.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 12:05 AM
6

Your gf shouldn't be telling you shit like this. You've clearly allowed the type of relationship to develop where she's actively telling you about guys she would bang (even if it is a "joke" ....but it's probably not a joke). And you just increased your friend's value by inadvertently showing that he may be a threat to your relationship. You need to reevaluate how you're behaving around her to make her think it's okay to tell you what guys she would bang.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:28 PM
1

Withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 11:44 PM
2

My gf is a great woman who adds a ton to my life. Sure, I’m always mentally prepared for it to run its course , but I keep myself in shape and keep my flirting skills sharp so I’ll be alright if it fails. Im not going to live in constant fear of being cheated on. If it happens, then so be it.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:34 AM
48

Guys that are more bold and confident will get the girl over me even if I’m better looking. It’s humbling seeing a guy I considered beneath me hook up with a chick I was too scared to make a move on.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:28 AM
12

I think you're reaching. I see more girls doing heavy squats and compound lifts than guys nowadays at my gym.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:55 PM
2

I remember you posted about her improving her looks recently in anticipation to this trip. My response to that was that she is most likely looking to impress someone who's also going on it. You've lost the way man. You say you're a pro photographer that's shooting a bunch of hot girls this week, but that's got to be a lie because you're not acting like it. She should not even want to go on this trip if that is actually your job and you're as cool as you've made yourself out to be because she's t…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:39 PM
1

It's only 4 days dude. Just do your thing and talk to her when she comes back and don't worry about any stupid IG hijinx to make her jealous. That's literally shit a teenage girl would think to do. Do your job, be a "professional photographer" and bang her when she gets back.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:58 PM
1

I don't know how else to say this....just be normal. If you feel like texting, then do it. If you don't, then don't. Me and my gf maybe text a few times a week and it's usually some bullshit about food. Sometimes therer's longer conversations if we're trying to plan something. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:27 PM
2

I've been with my gf for 6 years and still approach/flirt quite often. It's even better being in a relationship since I have zero outcome expectations other than to enjoy the flirting and interaction. I don't let it get to an actual meetup because I don't want to cheat, but I've definitely had girls want to go further and hook up with me. If you're lacking confidence, it's your own fault for thinking you can ever stop gaming girls and being attractive to them.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:25 PM
1

If we work so close that I cannot avoid coming into contact with them on a daily basis, then it’s too close.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:26 PM
1

Go for a drink, not dinner. Be exciting and fun and maybe take a walk/go on an adventure afterwards. She's probably bored out of her mind and you need to be an exciting diversion. Don't worry about the age difference so much, just treat her like you would a girl your own age and make sure you tease/touch. Some 50 year old chicks can be hot with minimal drama...go for it if she looks good.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:28 PM
4

I cracked the bottom of my front teeth and was able to get bonding to recreate the missing half. It was about $600 and was done in about 45 minutes.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:59 AM
1

She's running dread game and there's probably someone on this trip she's looking to impress. Just live your life and make sure you're keeping options open and keeping yourself at the top of your game.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:48 AM
1

You should be on vacation meeting new girls and flirting/having fun, not talking to your gf and letting her suck you into her drama. It's funny how the exact week you're away is when this guy gets out of jail and decides to visit your city. You should've been silent during your trip and explored the local women (not saying have sex, but at least flirt your ass off).
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:39 AM
2

Just go to a bar, drink, flirt, and try to bang like you would any woman. What the hell does a master's degree have to do with anything?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:51 PM
1

You're only acting with your dread game, not truly experiencing it. Dread arises by you being desired by other women in ways that she can see. Do women check you out when you guys go out? Do you lightly flirt with women in her proximity? Do you act in a way that makes her think that she may have some actual competition? Just texting "mhmm" is not doing that. By texting to her that you're getting ice cream with jen/sara etc is you clearly trying too hard and she can probably see through that shit…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:12 PM
1

It's all about having a good time. Get a few drinks in you if you're shy and chat up as many girls as you can with the intention of isolating and escalating as quickly as possible. Girls are looking for easy hookups at things like these and you can move for a bang much more quickly than in "real life". Most of all, just have a good time whether you get laid or not.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:03 PM
2

Seriously, no amount of lifting is going to make you not be a timid weeny on a date. In fact it'll work against you because you're a big, scary looking dude who is too afraid to make a move.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:26 PM
4

First of all, having a 20yo wife is just asking for drama and bullshit. You're still a man who hopefully interacts with other women, so make sure you're keeping yourself attractive to other women and that you could bang another chick easily should the situation arise. I'm not saying cheat, but let her feel dread in that you could get other women if you wanted.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:01 PM
1

RP isn't just about looks. You should know that by now
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:16 PM
1

It's a place where a girl might alert management if you are bothering her, thus forcing them to kick you out for "being a creep". Best to wait for a clear IOI to avoid getting a bad reputation
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:57 PM
2

There's not much detail to examine what you did wrong, but it doesn't sound like you sexualized the conversation enough. Food dates are always a bad idea pre-sex imo unless you guys are drunk. How old are you? I'd stick to meeting up at bars and bouncing to a dessert place after a few drinks and try to drum up more sexual feelings in order to get a makeout mid-date.
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:44 PM
2

I'm sore at times, but I just deal with it.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:33 AM
3

I've just done it that way for years and adjusted to it. I don't do easy workouts either, I'm putting up heavy weight and doing lots of cardio. I drink coffee before work and on break so I'm guessing the caffeine helps, but I'm guessing it's just conditioning.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:03 PM
4

Just go to her house every now and then and be normal and fuck her. How are you guys even meeting these women if these are the types of questions you ask?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 03:36 PM
5

I'm in my 30's, work in construction and still manage to hit the gym 6 days a week after (and I do fasting so I don't even eat until after the gym at night). Get yourself used to doing it, stick with it, and you'll toughen up.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 03:33 PM
2

If you can't make shit happen in a week with girls that are looking to hook up then you're just not ready for this. Go out drinking, be fun, flirt with them (and other girls) and enjoy yourself dude.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:50 PM
2

Maybe she just didn't want to get you a Monster. Not really a shit-test, and I don't think you "passed" anything. Just ignore it and stop overthinking stupid shit like this.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:06 PM
2

I think you're overthinking it. Some older women can be fucking hot and are much more straight-forward. If you're only looking to smash, then these are a good group to use for that.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:15 PM
2

Don't do any shit you don't want to do. If that's a dealbreaker for her, then you dodged a bullet. Guys in engagement photos are made to look like the biggest weenies ever
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:10 PM
18

It's all about that phone. Any secretive behavior with the phone is a dead giveaway that she's hiding something.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:42 AM
1

On the texting front, I live with my gf and we literally only text each other if we’re going to be late or to ask if the other wants food. There’s no reason to text all day if you live together. Start going out with friends more and get hobbies that don’t include her.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:22 PM
7

Might as well approach the fuck out of girls to get some practice in. You won't see any of them ever again so who cares what happens. Also, if your confidence is not rock solid, I would avoid going to places where there is lots of heavy competition. Just enjoy the party man, get drunk and get yourself into some fun shit.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:54 PM
1

Pretty sure I haven't been cheated on. I used to be heavy BP when I was late teens but then I found that guys who acted like assholes were getting laid and I wasn't. I found the sosuave forum and just naturally drifted towards the RP. I think belief-wise, I've always been naturally redpill, but acted bluepill because that's what I thought I had to do.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:29 PM
1

All. You don't know how lucky you are to have access to this shit at just 14 years old.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:08 AM
1

Of course. I did this already with a chick from my old job. I even got her to do anal after never doing it for her husband. Super slutty but not good for anything more than a couple bangs to get it out of your system.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:12 AM
5

If you're not getting any head then she definitely shouldn't be getting any. She sounds selfish as hell and is definitely taking advantage.
/r/seduction03/03/19 08:44 PM
1

Definitely. By next weekend, she will probably have 10 other dudes trying to get with her the same day/time as you and likelihood of flaking will increase. Better to get something going on a weekday
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:37 PM
2

It kind of depends on your personality. Vague answer I know, but cool shit is basically whatever takes up your attention other than the girl. If you withdraw attention from her to focus on other shit, then it will probably make her curious/miss you more. Plus it gives you stuff to talk about.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:33 PM
2

I wouldn't mess around too much with trying to be funny/witty through text unless you're really good at it. She gave you the number because she may want to hook up with you, not get lost in mundane text conversations (which she probably already is with a dozen other guys if she's remotely attractive). I would just text her to set up a date
/r/seduction03/03/19 01:25 PM
5

Pull back completely and let her chase you. At this point, you've given up any mystery or excitement by jumping the gun with relationship talk and definitely appeared too needy/interested. I would honestly put her on the back-burner and work on some new prospects and let her wonder about you. The fact that you were so interested and then you just withdraw attention may pull her back into your frame and then you can slowly restart with her (but it may be a lost cause at this point).
/r/seduction03/03/19 01:20 PM
1

Just be interesting dude. Get hobbies, be funny, and have a strong personality. If you've constantly got cool shit going on/interesting things to say, then she won't get bored.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:57 PM
1

Nice job, but I would ditch this chick altogether. Why keep hanging around her? It seems like you still have oneitis and are hoping to make something happen with her one night.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:36 AM
4

Avoid texting so much in the future. A 15 minute phone call is pretty impressive for just one date, but the text the morning after probably solidified that you are too available/needy and she's probably rethinking you. Don't text again until she responds (if she even does), but I would just show up to the date spot on Saturday and see if she makes it. I feel like any texting you do from here on out will only mess your chances up and if she shows, then you're good. If not, then no amount of texti…
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:21 PM
1

I do this pretty often. I never let it get past the flirting/conversation stage, but I like to keep my skills sharp so I’m not a total social moron in case I ever break up with my her. Ultimately, I think being desired by and interesting to other women only makes my relationship stronger because at the end of the day it’s my gf who gets to be with me.
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:41 PM
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Gym game is tough because you can easily be labeled a creep and get kicked out/bad reputation for hitting on an unwilling person. I would gauge signs of interest instead of randomly approaching and if interest is reciprocated, then have a friendly conversation that leads to drinks later.
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:31 PM
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I always got downvoted in that sub when I actually posted there. I’m almost positive that it is mainly women who comment there.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:54 AM
1

I've been with my gf for about 6 years, and I casually flirt with other girls all the time. I get lots of IOIs and some have even given me numbers, but I never let it get past that. I never know when shit will hit the fan and my relationship will end so I'd rather keep myself in shape mentally to rebound quickly.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:19 PM
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I always found it pointless to take a girl I'm banging into a nightclub. A quiet bar is usually way more effective with a lot less potential competition. Good story. Hopefully the soldier dumped her ass.
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