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Bill Burr said it best; “Theres a tremendous amount of risk playing it safe...” Do whatever makes you happy.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 06:47 PM
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You sound like a whiny bitch.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:04 PM
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"When I text you that I'm on the way, just keep the door unlocked and be naked in the bedroom."
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:53 PM
3

Traveling the world and seeing as much of the planet you live on as possible. Seeing how other cultures live and strive.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:53 PM
1

A beta is a beta is a beta. They all fall into the same patterns. That's why they are the comfort pill. Women can find a beta anywhere. You are a beta because you should have an abundance of pussy at your fingertips. You can go out and know you're going to smash at least a 6 because your SMV has been and is a priority and your game is on point. Sex is no longer on a pedestal for you. You can have it anytime or within a small range of days. If this were the case, you wouldn't be crawling around a…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:51 PM
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Here's why it's the most fulfilling. Another comment went kind of into details but I'll reiterate: If you are a TRUE RP, you see the TRUTH behind relationships. This probably comes off as what women would call "emotionally unavailable" but it's not. You see the behind the curtains that keep the BP men in "love" and you are way stricter with your emotions/heart/whatever. True RP men do not commit to a woman until they've ran through many women, usually. This takes sex and relationships off a pede…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:47 PM
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Life is a puppet show for women. They do not truly want to see what is behind the curtain because then it won't be as magical. A good example of this is fitness. The love seeing the ripped Chads but don't want to spend day in and day out at the gym with him seeing him maintain his body. The men who they cling onto and chase are the ones they know very little about. The men they branch swing from are the ones who they know everything about.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:39 PM
2

She's not your girlfriend, she's everyone's girlfriend lmaoooo
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:36 PM
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First off, you don't even know if she wants to fuck you. I'm almost 100% sure the "50 text messages" is slight exaggeration. How would you even go through with it? Are you going to text her, "Hey want some fuck?" and then she freaks out and shows your friend? Second, for even thinking about this, you are a beta bitch. You can't find a woman on your own so you try and game your friends lmao...PUSSY
/r/askTRP10/05/19 01:31 PM
2

Depends on how involved the baby daddy is, honestly. I wouldn't want to take a bullet or bat to the face over a woman...
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:30 PM
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If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it. I'm thinking for every 1 successful, doesn't need a day job, day trader, there's 1M people who have failed horribly doing the same thing.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:29 PM
2

Even the best looking guys will be shit tested to hell if he's a BP.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:27 PM
2

Basically, how far can she go with other guys and you stick around.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:26 PM
4

If you feel like she’s taking too much of your time, you don’t necessarily have to next her. You can play it much more smoothly and have her chasing you even harder. Stop talking to her for a couple weeks and then start a conversation like nothing happened. Brush all questions regarding your absence off as “I was busy”. Or Drop her down and start using her more of a booty call for a couple months instead of a FWB. If she offers food or weed just say you’re good and on a time limit.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 07:23 AM
3

Aw, you’ve become a little girlfriend! How cute. When is martini night?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:36 PM
6

Whoa buddy, we don’t condone socializing like a normal human being around here. Let’s calm down so we can dream about talking to women but never actually do it.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:33 PM
1

Other commenters are right, work on yourself. Do not work on the relationship. If you want the relationship to work and shift to your frame, it has to be gradual. This could take a couple years but if you push too hard for it, it will all come crashing down.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:32 PM
1

The party being there isn’t what I’d be worried about. It would be showing up in fucking PJs at your average house party.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:22 PM
5

PornHub works like YouTube now. You make ad money off videos uploaded.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:17 PM
1

How long did it take you? I’m like...3 weeks into not jerking off...and it’s still pretty rough.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:49 PM
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Passive dread is the ONLY dread you should use for hobbies. Going to the gym is a hobby. If you looking ripped doesn’t get her to go, she’ll never go. You shouldn’t throw another girl in her face for not going. The gym is great but you lose weight in the kitchen. You don’t HAVE to hit the gym to lose weight. There’s other options for her. Second thing. Dread is mostly used for long, long marriages where it’s become a dead bedroom. It’s not something you start throwing up 2-4 years down the line …
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:18 PM
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Practice. Practice. Practice. Also, don’t hate your sensitivity. You might bust quick but I’m on the opposite end. I gave myself death grip and it takes me 30~ minutes to nut and it’s usually pretty numb throughout.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:07 PM
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Agree with other comment. You sound socially retarded.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:05 PM
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It’s not so bad. Cheapest form of protein. Some are getting up there. $40 for a 2.2 is pretty nuts.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:04 PM
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Alpha: drop her and never talk to her again. No attachment. Beta: date her.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:51 PM
1

He definitely wasn’t doing anything fun.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:48 PM
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PM sent.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:26 PM
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You’re going to be boring and average. Do you HONESTLY think women give a fuck about what you’re doing in your pictures or do you think they care solely about looks? There was a study done by another Reddit who took a models photos and put in the bio that he had sex with children and was a convicted sex offender. He also wasn’t doing anything in his photos. Just sitting in a chair. Based on his looks, women were still asking him to come fuck them with no other interaction needed.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:20 PM
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I’m going to guess it’s more likely due to nerves. Most people are socially autistic due to social media and standing in front of another human being is intimidating. Unless you’re getting numbers from these women and banging them, don’t assume they’re into you.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:16 PM
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Everything you do should be for YOU. As soon as you start to do things for picking up women, you’ve already lost.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:14 PM
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We don’t condone LTRs here, sorry buddy. You won’t find better advice. Travel over to blue pill, they’ll lead you to where you belong.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:11 PM
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If a woman has to mention she has a boyfriend right off the bat, she’s not attracted. Trying to game her into being attracted is a beta move. Seeking validation. Signs of disinterest don’t deserve your time. Move on.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:11 PM
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So stop putting women on a pedestal and fucking do something with your life. Why do you NEED a woman in your life...? All it’s going to do is take up your time and motivation to do other, more important, things then it’s going to end by her cheating on you or dumping you once you become too beta. Fuck off with it and go become a millionaire.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:05 PM
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I’m guessing you’ve read up in what TRP thinks about video games. That was one of my first readings and one that was a great passives filter. Every time I turned on my PlayStation I would think about those readings and usually play under an hour. Then I signed up for the gym and sold my PS4 to stock up on protein powder.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:02 PM
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I love the questions from people who have no idea what TRP is and have never even peaked at the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:59 PM
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Your SMV is too low to flirt over social media and the only way I know this for a fact is because you’ve stated you wanted to game over social media. Get back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:58 PM
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Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:56 PM
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You should make fitness a LIFESTYLE change, not a 60 day challenge.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:32 PM
2

It’s eye opening for most guys to see how their girl REALLY acts around a true Chad when they aren’t around. Sadly few get to see the truth.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:39 PM
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Winner right here. Anything further is stepping into beta provider.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:31 PM
1

Some things are meant to be taken at face value.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:28 PM
1

Schizophrenia can be treated though. There’s no reason to not take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 02:29 PM
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Mental limitations...? Maybe you should get these solved first before worrying about college. I’m currently enrolled in an online college(SNHU) and it’s been easier than IRL college. I can knock out all my homework right then and there at my desk. I’ve always been a self starter and learner though so our experiences may be different.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 02:04 PM
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Pick up game is not something you memorize. It’s something you just...have. Read Models and come back to us.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:54 PM
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I’m going to guess a sexual act that they didn’t want. This is based on children BTW. 1 in 4 girls were sexually abused IN THEIR CHILDHOOD.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:52 AM
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You have to turn it into something flirty and fun but not forced. Women are geniuses when it comes to reading emotions. If you're too scared to say something and just let it blurt out, they'll next you. Read Models by Mark Manson. His parts about vulnerability are amazing for this.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:37 PM
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She shit tested you and you failed. Time to game some other women and keep learning!
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:33 PM
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She won the shit tests. It's a sad sight to see.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:31 PM
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Women will usually shit test your SMV down to nothing. "Don't go to the gym baby, I want you to just stay in bed with me!" "You can eat whatever you want, will a little sugar hurt you?" "I'd rather you have a little belly, it's okay, I love it!"
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:29 PM
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Yeah I'm 24 and just started getting my shit together. Last year I had no car, no job, wasn't lifting, and was basically a fucking loser. Now, I'm lifting Mon-Fri, in college, have a car, have a job, have hobbies, and created new friends. The most important thing I've changed though is my mindset. I no longer seek validation from anyone but myself. I truly do not give a fuck about what another person is doing in life compared to me anymore. It was the most freeing thing I ever learned to do. Our…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:23 PM
1

Classmates have always been okay for me but when you're in such close quarters, you NEED to communicate clearly. This means explaining exactly what you want and what you don't want. Do not leave it open for interpretation.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:21 PM
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If you have the term “alpha widow” at the ready whenever you think about dumping someone, you are still a beta bitch.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:07 PM
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Lmao dude you are delusional. I flip through everyone’s story every time I open my Snapchat. I hardly even watch any of them. Stop being a beta cuck.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:06 PM
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Anticipation. Sex is usually the same between every woman with little variations unless the woman is actually wild.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:03 PM
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1 in 4 women are victims of sexual abuse. It’s a staggering number if you truly think about it. She’s on a personal journey and I don’t think you can be there for her the way she needs someone there for her(therapy).
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:09 PM
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For your benefit, just don’t ask for a number. Let her past be her past and just live in the moment. Have fun with her and realize it’s probably going to end BUT THATS OKAY! Everything ends eventually.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:04 PM
2

You’re only a dick because you are actively trying to hide it from said friend. Just tell him you’re interested and if he doesn’t go after it, you will.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:02 PM
1

If you live a sedentary lifestyle and get into lifting seriously, it’s going to take some time to adjust though. Your first couple months, that test is going to be going through you like a MF.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:01 PM
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Y’all need to calm down. Just because a girl looks at you does not mean she wants to hop on your dick. You’re stretching hard as fuck for some validation.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:59 PM
1

Networking is one of the most important aspects of college. You’d be missing out on a big piece of WHY you go to college.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:52 PM
1

You get your homework done and that’s it. There’s nothing more to it. There’s no group activities, no socializing, no networking, no walking to classes, no teacher right in front of you, no clubs to join... Homework. Done. That’s it.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:42 PM
1

I’m currently going through online college. It’s okay but I’d rather go to university.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:13 PM
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Dude if you trust her this little, end it. I’ve been where you are right now. I was driving myself bonkers trying to catch her doing something that she wasn’t even doing. I was hyper analyzing every she did or said. Fucked that relationship real nice because she started becoming paranoid of every move she made and started walking on eggshells. It was all downhill from that point and we could never recover after that. It was incredibly BP.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:48 PM
2

I choose to stay away from taken women because of this. Those women will spill EVERYTHING about you and you never know what’s going to happen. Your address, your car, your phone number, where you work...it will all get spilled like milk when the SO finds out. The best part is that you won’t know when he does find out. It could be long done by the time he finds out and you’ll be blindsided by a guy jumping you after work with a bat.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:43 PM
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If you want the cock, take it. No one is gonna judge. Just stop making these posts.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:23 AM
2

I really like models. You can’t go wrong with that kind of approach.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:51 AM
7

If she's not into you, she's not into you. You were never going to get laid anyways besides maybe a pity fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 06:57 PM
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The bigger issue you're going to run into is that it's almost impossible to transition from BP to RP while in the same relationship. It's a delicate process and one misstep will have you signing divorce papers.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 06:56 PM
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I don't really get the extended lengths here. 6 months? I don't even think I'd REMEMBER her 6 months down the line of no contact.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 06:54 PM
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My female "friends" are usually FWB's.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:49 PM
4

Is there any GOOD way to end a long relationship? Probably not unless you're both on the same page. Rip the band-aid off and just tell her how you feel and why you think it should end. Then you leave it at that and go NC.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:46 PM
5

Seems like the dread game is working perfectly for OP's girl.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:44 PM
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Keep up with the lifting. Start reading books from TRP book lists. Pick up another hobby either active or not such as an rock climbing, kayaking, camping, picking up an instrument, learning a language, learning to program, ect. Then you need to take that hobby to public level. Meet people within your hobby, connect with them, and you'll start seeing your life get much more fun.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:42 PM
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You either go to a therapist or fight through it yourself but it doesn't look so good for that option.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:40 PM
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Yeah, don't approach her in person about her online identity. That will instantly scare her off. You can bring up her in person identity to her online identity but not the other way around.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:39 PM
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She’s just not that into you. Move onto the next woman.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:51 PM
1

You're going to have to lower your standards to match your body type/looks. It sucks because we all want to bang 8+'s but you're probably going to have to game the 4 and 5's. Use them as practice game and lay's until you get into your SMV.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:24 AM
1

Rejection is a part of life man. You either face it or shy away from it.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:54 AM
2

Yes it's completely worth talking to chicks at any point in your life. Start lifting, dieting to cut, and taking care of yourself. When your SMV raises, you'll have squashed the fear of rejection and your game will be fierce.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:49 AM
1

You've seen exactly why these pictures raise your SMV just by posting this. They're fucking hard to get for a various number of reasons.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:46 AM
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The truth is, we all have beta traits and anyone who says they are pure, 100% alpha is bullshitting, not only themselves, but everyone else. Part of TRP is gaming women. There's nothing wrong with that. There's also nothing wrong with going and getting more education. Learning is a great use of your time and money. It's also not wrong to have fun. You wanna play Xbox for an hour? Do it. You wanna smoke a joint? Do it. You wanna fuck a 4 just to get some easy pussy? Do it. Everything in moderatio…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:44 AM
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Russel Brand is awesome but, remember, these aren't normal people we're talking about. That man is a highly trained, highly paid, and highly sought after actor. Not only is his SMV already sky high, his job is to literally act like a different person. He could become anyone he wants with ease and that is a huge difference in the pick up game. You don't want your PUA role model to be a celebrity or rich or something that shoots their SMV artificially high. No, you want your role model to be the a…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:38 AM
2

You ask a stranger to take a picture of you and your friends. It's pretty simple.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:35 AM
10

This was a God awful approach. but with an attitude that right away felt like the rejection You started doubting yourself the minute you approached her. She felt that. meanwhile some other chicks standing next to her(not her group) turned around and started looking at me. Who cares? You lost confidence in yourself by caring what other people think. "I'm leaving now, and will be back in 2 hours, will you still be here?" First, she already didn't like you at the beginning due to the confidence iss…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:30 PM
2

Texting is the medium to schedule plans. That's it. Why would it need to be more than that? It makes it impossible to hold a conversation when you're hanging out that night if you've already literally texted out your entire day or week. I think it keeps the relationship mysterious and interesting.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:26 PM
8

Stop comparing yourself to other people.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:02 PM
5

My go-to is always a hard-next. You're right, she's not so busy she can't find 2 hours to get a drink. She's just too busy for YOU to find 2 hours to get a drink. Move on and keep all conversations in class related to class.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:31 PM
3

Hard nexting accomplishes multiple things; Lets you leave her with the imprint of where you were when you nexted her. If you feel yourself start to slip into BP habits, you can end whatever you had with her so her image is of you in it's prime. Lets you not get attached. Getting attached is a BP habit like above but this is more of a lesson for you. You love your little plate so much that you need to smash it and move on. No oneitis allowed here. Makes room for better women.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:28 PM
2

Well they were literally Nazis...so...I don't know what you expect.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:25 PM
4

If you're too lazy to read the sidebar information and chase down theories/books, you're stuck in BP forever. Stay in your false comfort and think what you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:24 PM
6

It's literally possible to change every external factor in your life, if you really wanted to. Even your physical appearance can be changed drastically if wanted to. Nothing is set in stone. Chase what you want.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:21 PM
2

Are you sure you haven't had a stroke or something? Go see a doctor because this behavior is not normal even for the most lethargic person.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:19 PM
3

so I decided why not and we saw us a couple times since then Beta move. Learn to hard next. she actually didn't have much against "groping" her but she told me no we are just friends and doesn't want to have sex She'd probably suck off a Chad before he could even find a show on Netflix. Her opinion of you is getting lower and lower because you haven't passed one shit test and don't know how to let go. At this point she thinks you have no other options and stick around waiting for her to spread h…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:19 PM
7

I think you're confusing bad boy with mentally ill in this case.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:13 PM
-3

Anything else is basically pointless.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:18 PM
3

Definitely. Hone in your social skills in game and networking. Meet people, meet women, and learn to talk to superiors. Being a good conversationalist will be extremely profitable in the long run.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:16 PM
13

Time. We love to talk manly shit around here and say shit like “FUCK THAT BITCH” but the real fact is, most of us turned to TRP because we were heartbroken. I know I did. Just give it time, read theories, read books, pick up a hobby, and life.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:06 PM
5

This is not a platform for that shit. Go outside.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:46 AM
6

It's less of a "I'm going to follow all these things exactly as they are laid out!" and more of a way of thinking. You start understanding the female psychology and using that to your advantage in conversation. You start understanding leadership dynamics and use that information to better lead a group environment. It's less of an answer and more of a study guide for me. It opens your eyes to social dynamics but it's your job to use that information to better yourself.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:44 AM
2

Again, I’m not a great person for this situation because I’ve only just started practicing game. It’s impossible to say because women love to talk but don’t love to commit to action so even if she agrees, there’s a high possibility she’ll come up with some excuse about why she said it and joke it off. For guys like us, it’s 95% luck and 5% conversational skills.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:53 AM
5

That is something I think only a MASTER at the game can navigate into. Otherwise, it just happens randomly due to right place, right time, and right words. Cold approaching a threesome is going to get you dropped but if you're not scared about getting dropped(Why would you be?), then you're just gonna have to ask. Get her in the bedroom, make her cum, and ask her in a way that isn't creepy or cutting her out. DO NOT ASK HER until she has orgasmed. Horny talk is just that, TALK.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:48 AM
2

I can see the beta oozing off of you from this post alone. You want pussy, right? Cut the bullshit and get the pussy. Read as many guides as you need to feel comfortable but you ain't gonna master the game with one woman. Every girl is practice.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:45 AM
14

Still haven't figured out shit test, huh? "You don't need to work out, you look fine!" "Why do you need a nice car, the one you have is fine!" "Why do you need to grow a beard? It would be too itchy, I wouldn't like it!" "Why do you need expensive cologne, just take a shower, you smell great!" You think your girlfriend wants you to attract any other women in ANY capacity? Fuck no.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:42 AM
1

Google “TRP Handbook PDF”
/r/askTRP14/04/19 12:22 AM
2

If you aren't going to spend your time(Money) on learning new theories and skills, your time is never going to be worth the fry cook at McDonald's.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:34 PM
11

For years upon years, cultures everywhere have taught different but similar methods to not feeling attachment and now might be your time. Monks would spend weeks upon weeks on an art piece. Crafting it to the best of their ability. Then they would have to immediately throw it in a fire once they were finished. Children in the Nazi regimen were given puppies to take care of for a number of months and then were forced to choke them out. This is a little extreme but you get it. As soon as you start…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:32 PM
9

Opposite actually. Blue pillers cheat. If you read TRP handbook it actually says we DON'T condone cheating. Cheating is not Red Pill or Alpha. Cheating is just being a shitty person who is afraid to tell a woman that he doesn't want to be exclusive so he fakes his feelings to keep her on the hook. That's what women do.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:28 PM
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Man the fuck up and own up to your mistakes. It's either going to come out now, by you, where you control the tone and emotion or by someone else. We all make mistakes but the only way we learn from those mistakes is to face them and admit when we've wronged. You broke an agreement. You and her agreed to be exclusive. You didn't hold up your end of the deal.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:22 PM
3

Women are geniuses when it comes to reading energy, confidence, ect. If they don’t feel like your genuine, it’s an instant turn off and you’re trying too hard.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:32 PM
0

I consider myself maybe a tad over a 6. Like, 6.5, maybe. I’m definitely not in the top 20%. 5 and 6 are average. 7-8 is above average and 9-10 is the top 10%.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:30 PM
6

If it’s truly “family before everything”, you should be fine not getting anything back. You helped them.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:14 PM
1

That’s the great thing about plates instead of LTRs. You can bail out and leave before her view of you goes down. That’s not really an option in a LTR. You can use new plates as learning experiences until you’ve dismissed the issues you’re having.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:03 PM
3

And it’s a simple question; if you’re not comfortable with yourself why should anyone else be?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:00 PM
10

Loaning money is not loaning money. Loaning money is giving away money on the basis that anything given in return is just a plus.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:53 PM
0

It’s a good starter book. I wouldn’t dismiss it.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:53 PM
2

You know we don’t condone cheating around here right? It’s literally in TRP handbook.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 08:24 PM
2

There’s plenty of day game guides out there. Every situation is different so general advice is usually not great. Read a lot of guides and just practice. Eventually you’ll get better for different situations.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:22 PM
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And this is a good lesson that the longer you play the game, the more victories you get! BP guys trying to take the RP get discouraged when they don’t get immediate pussy from a HB8 or 9.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 02:51 PM
6

Why do you care if they find out about each other unless you’ve been pillow talking about being exclusive?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 02:49 PM
8

Calling her names is childish behavior expected by women.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:46 PM
9

This is EXACTLY WHY we don’t condone LTR’s. When your GF knows that she’s your sole provider for sex and intimacy, you’ve lost the game and given her all the power. You need a stack of plates who are edging between friends but are wanting to fuck and then you need to introduce them to your LTR. The problem is that your LTR has already set expectations and boundaries. She has the power to say NO to you being friends with another woman and you’ll probably agree to drop her.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:45 PM
1

I love the break down LMAO, what a beta bitch.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:23 PM
2

Bro! No way! A hug? OH EM GEE! YOU BASICALLY LOST YOUR VIRGINITY!
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:22 PM
1

No. I took TRP and swallowed it down, killing the parasite that TBP manifested in me. You’ll ALWAYS revert back to your BP ways if you don’t kill it at the start.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:21 PM
3

Because she knows you check. She just wants to make sure her little beta boy gets his mind boggled a little bit.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:18 PM
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If you ever let a bitch come back after a branch swing, you might as well hand her your testicles and say “keep these, I won’t need them!”. We don’t condone LTR’s here. That’s what we call a unicorn(woman worth getting into a LTR with) and that’s face value. Unicorns don’t exist.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:17 PM
4

I’m not even going to get into how to form a good habit with you but I will say this; No woman, EVER, is going to even want to talk to you or be near you with rotten, blackened, or deep yellowed teeth with stank ass breath. Get your shit together. This is more than forming good habits. This is something you need to see a therapist for.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:14 PM
5

I don’t think we as a race are meant for monogamous relationships anymore since the advancement in modern technology. Maybe when temptation was basically non-existent because you had a village of 20 people but not now. Imagine meeting someone in your 20’s and having to make it work until you’re well into your 70’s or even up until you’re in your 90’s! It would be impossible in the age of technology. There’s going to be infidelity of some kind. It’s way too easy for a bitch to get annoyed with he…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 12:36 PM
3

Just one or two photos every two or three months showing you doing awesome stuff on an Instagram profile that’s not open to the public. That’s you. That’s what you said. Please for the love of God tell me you’re not a social media bitch who would take photos of a vacation and continue to upload them for months?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 12:28 PM
3

And I’m sure if you were doing these wild things TWICE A MONTH, you’re not worried about gaming bitches lmao
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 04:44 AM
5

Yeah except you’re not doing those things so, it doesn’t matter lol
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 04:02 AM
3

What if you got chased by a bunch of ugly girls you had no interest in? Would you feel like a prize or would you still have your eyes set on a 10/10? You might feel like a prize until someone comes in who is YOUR prize. Then nothing else but YOUR prize matters.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:52 AM
8

When you're asking a woman out, you want to leave choice out as much as possible. Lead them, don't question if they want to be lead.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:48 AM
3

Women have this vertical gauge on how they view men. We'll make it simple and say 1 through 10. 1 being a homeless drug addict that comes up to her and says "Want to suck this dick" and 10 being her celebrity crush who she would suck the dick of just to get a chance from him to say "Hello" to her.. There's also one simple rule: you can never move up and you're always slowly moving down. You're put on the scale as soon as you meet but soon enough she'll start noticing you slip on shit tests and s…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:42 AM
2

You've never had a man approach you because most men are pussies who are too scared to approach a woman and need to hide behind the keyboard. You're looking at a survivorship bias on these type of subs. Remember, the women on My 600LB Life usually have husbands and boyfriends. You're fine.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:30 AM
9

LMAO, I kind of miss the days of ignorance. Dude, girls don't "take breaks" from guys they want to fuck and are interested in but you'll find that out when she comes back to you after begging Chad to fuck her one more time and he blows her off so she decides to text you to feel validation. She's probably getting her ass blown out by her ex-boyfriend but can't get him to commit to her, that's why you're the "back up".
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:11 AM
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He doesn't want to admit that his "plates" are actually just dates he's going on to find "the one".
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:07 AM
1

Keep communication as little as needed. It should pertain only to the club events and that's it, nothing else. At the same time, you should be gaming women regularly. I'm talking 25-50 cold approaches a week. You should be lifting and eating right. You should be getting 8 hours of sleep a night. You should be reading a book a week. You should be throwing in 15~ minutes a day of meditation. Oneitis is a sign that you are not reading TRP and following the theories as much as you should be. It's no…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:06 AM
1

Taking sex off a pedestal is a great move in life and you've done it. It's no longer your motivator and your game will only get better because of this. You're right, sex isn't enough! Now go out and chase your dreams without the thoughts of pussy surrounding it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:56 PM
4

I like hot girls but only approach ugly girls. What am I doing wrong?!
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:54 PM
1

Looks are the resume, the rest is how you do in the interview.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:50 PM
1

Is this a true FWB or just a girl you call to fuck? There is a major difference IMO. FWB means you are actually friends. You enjoy their company in a non-sexual manner as much as you do in a sexual manner. A fuck is just someone you call when you want, well, fucked. If it's just a fuck, you're over there to do one thing; fuck. You're not there to hear about their day, you're not there to get validation, you're not there for anything else. Get in, fuck, get out. If she is a true FWB, then you hav…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:39 PM
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Any career you chase to win someone else's validation is a blue pill career. RP men do not need validation or to be checked by other men or women on their career choices. Whatever you do though, make sure it's your PASSION. That's what makes a career a RP career. Chasing your passion and dreams while not caring what the hell anyone else thinks. Women(and RP men) are great at seeing through your bullshit. They will instantly see if you're just doing something to impress them or someone else and t…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:34 PM
10

Ding ding ding! We have a winner! Reflect on all your interactions in one way: Would she do or act like this to her celebrity crush? The answer is always going to be a fat NO. If he texted her "Hey" she would probably be willing to throw her entire life away to suck him off a single time, just to TRY and win his affection. Your SMV won't be able to match that because it's a pretty extreme case but you should base interactions off that. It's hardly ever going to be about anything other than, she'…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:28 PM
4

"My GF(Well I like her and she turned me down 3 times but I think it's just a shit test) is fucking other guys and got a restraining order on me. How do I pass this shit test?!"
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 08:13 PM
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Mystery is part of seduction. The less a woman can look up about you, the better. You think just because you show "glimpses" into your life that you're okay but lots of small glimpses can show a much bigger picture.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:54 PM
5

On social media, small things aren't eye catching and are considered boring. You've got to live like a celebrity to gain any traction. In real life, small things rule our social circles. Shows we're watching, movies coming out, books we're reading, how many girls we've hooked up with, what beer is our favorite, ect. These things can be interesting in a real interaction but on social media these things are completely boring and useless.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:53 PM
9

Fucking felt this. Just now starting to get out of BP and move onto RP. What a fucking idiot I was thinking that just because you're "dating" means you have them. LMAO. Women won't date a guy who has more options than she has. She likes to play it safe and feel validation all the time. She fucks and lusts after a RP but dates a BP because she's too scared to get left in the dust when her true "value" comes out.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:46 PM
1

As long as you're regularly sleeping with women, gaming them, and working on your seduction technique, it's okay to throw up PornHub to get off every once in awhile. The problem TRP has with porn is that if you're NOT doing those things, it changes how you view real sex and women. Porn is nothing like real life so we don't want you to think it is and ruin your IRL sex life. AKA if you know women don't orgasm while giving a handjob, you should be fine.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:50 PM
2

It's a weird situation. Your career doesn't define you but it does define you. Your career isn't what's going to get girls but it branches into many other things. When you're focused on being successful in your career you have passion, drive, work ethic, and are a goal crusher. Those define you. Those are attractive qualities. It's a shakey rope to walk on but it's all about confidence and wording. If you shyly and embarrassingly tell a woman you're a 30 year old college student, she immediately…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:43 PM
3

This is a beta/BP trait. I had the same issue. Men are biologically "fixers", we need to "fix" issues to feel important but nobody actually wants us to fix their personal/mental issues for them. They might want us to change their oil, fix their computer, or do something physical for them but NOBODY wants you to fix their personal/mental issues. Nobody. Do you want somebody to come in and explain to you why social media actually ISN'T stupid and can make you incredibly wealthy with advertising? P…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:28 PM
1

Here's the thing; if people knew you were dating, they are probably smart enough to know that you weren't forcing her to have sex with you. Maintain your frame by ignoring it until it comes up. If someone asks you about it, just calmly tell them you broke up with her and she's trying to ruin your image. Do not try to convince them that you didn't do this or that. Maybe have a conversation with her over text message. Gain her trust enough to let her slip that she was telling lies about you so you…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:21 PM
3

Seems you haven't done any reading buddy! Let me get you a source! Page 13, titled Plate Spinning: http://redpillhandbook.com/The%20Red%20Pill%20Handbook%202nd%20Ed.pdf "Otherwise known as a "Soft Harem" and a personal favorite of mine. This is basically "dating" multiple women at once without commitment. Most of us here will tell you flat out that honesty is the best policy. Let the women know you are not available for exclusivity now, or at any point in the future. TRP does not condone cheatin…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:12 PM
2

It's not going to happen. Your frame is more than your interpersonal skills. It also includes your career, lifestyle, direction in life, and loads of other things that matter when trying to get laid/date. Women have a vertical file system for men. You are given a starting position and it can only go down from there, NEVER up. At the top is where they see their celebrity crush. At the bottom is where they might see a homeless drug addict on the street. Your spot is temporary and slowly goes down …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:09 PM
2

Remember, the higher your SMV, the more "weird" and spontaneous shit you can get away with. An overweight, neck-beard who lives at his parents and has no car or job trying to put his arm around a girl to get her number is probably going to get a harassment complaint. A ripped, clean, upper class Chad who puts his arm around a girl to get her number is probably getting laid.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:00 PM
2

Cheating is the most Beta thing you can do in a relationship. First, an Alpha/RP male usually does not date so there would be no such thing as "cheating". There is a huge difference between cheating and plate spinning. Second, an Alpha/RP male will not break his word. If he finds a unicorn and his given his word to being exclusive, he's going to follow it. Only a Beta/BP male would tell someone he's going to do something and then go do the opposite. Yes, this means that even if he KNOWS the rela…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:55 PM
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Just letting you know that TRP doesn't condone cheating. Cheating is a blue pill thing. The good thing is that spinning plates doesn't have to be sexual but it makes it much harder to keep those plates in the air without getting into the friend-zone. Only a true RP/Alpha can make that happen.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:49 PM
2

Hard nexting is simple. You have personal boundaries that you don't want crossed. If they get crossed, she gets tossed. You don't bend or extend your boundaries for a woman. Period. If you even extend them just one tiny inch, you've lost frame. She knows she can get another inch out of you and another one and another one. You'll do it every time because you haven't learned to hard next. Usually blue pill-ers are afraid to hard next because they get validation from their partner. Their happiness …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:47 PM
1

Are you trying to go full monk? If not, it's all about moderation. Porn, video games, drugs, alcohol, ect, are all fine in moderation. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have fun in life. Your life is short, enjoy it. If any of your "pleasures" get in the way of being successful and completing goals, then it's time to look at cutting back on them.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:42 PM
1

Good question! There are usually Meet Ups for public speaking. If your city doesn't have one, start one! Plus, other Meet Ups are great for networking and approaching people in a non-sexualized manner.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:41 PM
3

I'll give you a small cheat sheet here. Intimidating = Creepy, in a woman's eye. The following screw ups also make me think that is the problem. It's incredibly hard for anyone to tell you what went wrong but I can tell you this; would a true Chad(Prime Brad Pitt, for example) have any trouble like you are with women? Probably not. They'd be at his knees begging for a relationship. Raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:39 PM
1

No. Cheating = Blue Pill Hard Next = Red Pill If you value yourself at all, you NEVER ruin your image to get "revenge". Let them fuck up and let you walk away.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:36 PM
2

This post has beta written all over it. First off, you haven't even learned to hard next. Talking to an ex or someone she previously slept with? Goodbye! No looking back. Second, humble-brag is the opposite of RP. You don't need to write out who you are for someone to put a value on you if you're really RP. You're a musician? Cool! Nobody fucking cares on here. Your SMV is for YOU, not for us. Third, ultimatums are for betas. The only thing you're telling someone by giving them an ultimatum is "…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:28 PM
4

Your time is finite. Why are you wasting it by taking sluts on dates?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:56 PM
3

Maybe a part time job? Earn some money and a good work ethic on the side.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:51 PM
9

You know who sends messages expressing "their feelings" because they were hurt? Women and beta men. A girl cancels on you? So what? Now you got the best date you could have, YOURSELF. Go fucking do something that you've wanted to do. You were hungry? Try a new restaurant. I would've found a sigh of relief that I didn't have to put up another "I wanna get to know you" bullshit facade. Flake on me, make my night better.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:50 PM
2

You ever want to go swimming but the water was just a tad too cold? If you back out and go back inside, you've created a bad habit. You'll always tell yourself "another day when the water is warmer" but that might come just a handful of times every summer. If, instead, you just jumped in and had a fun day swimming, you'll see it's not as bad as you thought it was. At first, it was probably really cold and a bit miserable but as you swam around and got used to it, you were doing back-flips and pl…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:47 PM
1

There's no downsides. You find out she's a slut and you find out your friends are pathetic blue-pillers. It's a win-win in my book.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:28 PM
2

Dude. They don't even respect themselves. You think they give a FUCK about OP? Hell no. Chasing after another mans table scraps because you saw him leave the table is a low, low point.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:27 PM
1

Leg press isn't useless. It's just a risky work-out that has more efficient and safe options to use instead.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:23 PM
4

Use a fucking condom. I had a kid at 19. He means the world to me but now I got a rubber band called "Child Support" wrapped tightly around my nutsack and, what would you know, every paycheck it gets tugged hard as fuck.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:19 PM
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Those choices are exactly what a woman would give herself. Man the fuck up and learn to HARD next. To me, it's the most important aspect of TRP. Also, LTR's and TRP don't mix too well. Like another user said; it's just your turn. If you think this is going to last until you both die together, happily and with no infidelity, you're going to get a RUDE awakening.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:12 PM
2

This is one of the not so talked about faults of TRP. In the end, you're probably better off not getting attached in any way but, like you said, sex is just crazy amazing when you are attached to somebody. There's something about being so vulnerable and feeling invincible with the person at the same time that is a euphoria. I still say my best sex is with my last ex. It was just raw emotion. But, weigh the risk VS rewards of BP and RP. I'd take emotionless sex every single time over going back t…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:07 PM
1

Personally, I think Red Pill and Alpha are the same thing in the end. TRP just shows you the steps to become Alpha along the way. If you actively follow TRP, it's impossible to not have Alpha traits. The whole system is designed to make you Alpha. Remember though, we're all human. Even the most Alpha male will have Beta traits.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:02 PM
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No but your goal is to keep your people in line. If you're not well versed in dropping people out of your life, it's best if they aren't causing drama. If you ARE okay with dropping people, causing drama is a great way to get on a block list so I would start there.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:22 AM
1

Get to the gym at 7AM and start with a scoop of Mr Hyde. You'll be rolling and it's a great way to start the day.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:20 AM
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Dude, this is absolutely pathetic. Learn how to hard next and be done with it.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:19 AM
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But you have to keep this going. You can't budge even a little. If a woman wants to date you, she will keep trying and trying because she thinks you're playing games. Even a small change will get her thinking you lead her on.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:14 AM
2

Why the fuck else would you hang out with an ex, alone? There's only 2 reasons why you would even COMMUNICATE with an ex; To fuck or to work things out. The whole "We were friends before we dated!" is bullshit. You were friends BECAUSE the guy wanted to fuck the girl. OP is a cuck and threw on some rose tinted glasses. It's not "mate guarding" to have self-respect.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:04 PM
2

It's literally been ingrained into their head from the dawn of time. In almost every type of mating interaction between male and female, the male is the one trying to impress and the woman has her pick of mate based on who can provide more for them or looks the best or gives the best call/dance/whatever. This isn't a theory, this is fucking science. Women have power and they know it but they don't want us to know it, they want us to SHOW it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 04:35 PM
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Ninja would take your bitch.
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