Hi guys

I have a problem with my ltr in that dread does not work in the conventional sense.

With other girls dread has motivated them to do better, they see me flirting with other girls they try harder to please me, or i ghost them and they crave my attention more.

However my current ltr goes the fucking opposite way and I dont know how to deal with this. She goes into a state of feeling sorry for herself and will just stay in bed all day hamstering.

For example, I have been wanting her to go to the gym for ages, and have tried so many methods of trying to motivate her, so i thought id try using some dread saying that I had a convo with one of her old friends at the gym and shes really grown a good body since starting. That didnt motivate my ltr to get fit and please me. It just made her feel down and upset that "i find other girls more attractive than her" and she kept questioning whether she was good enough for me and if she deserves me.

How do I motivate a girl like this? I think she just has a submissive, non goal orientated outlook on life, as well as low confidence and a nihilistic attitude. The upside to her though is that she never refuses sex, and literally will let me do whatever the fuck i want to her.

Shes in a sense too submissive, is this a bad or a good thing? Is there any way i can change this or should i start gaming other girls?