I've been seeing a girl quite a lot lately who is quite a bit older than me but we seem to have good chemistry together. We're very very attracted to one another. Anyway I'm really bored of meeting new women now, the amount of planning I need to do for it isn't worth the payoff (and that's not even guaranteed).

Anyway she says she doesn't want a boyfriend but there are some mixed signals, we tell each other we miss each other and we see each other 2-3 times per week. Kind of talked about it last night a little bit but it's hard because of a language barrier.

Anyway I don't know what to do about this. If she wanted to upgrade us from what we are now (kinda just meeting for meals and intimacy). Also I don't even know what I want right now.

What do you do when you get feelings for someone but you know it's probably a bad idea to proceed?