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3

I think you're just reading too much into the situation.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:26 AM
0

That SO doesn't have the balls to punish that behaviour or she is actually rewarded for behaving that way which is why she is so casual about it.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:31 AM
5

You like your superiority of the situation and/or you like the attention you get.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:28 AM
1

You are saying regardless of gender, 50% of Americans cheat while in a relationship which only strengthens my statement. Correct me if I am wrong. If it is an open relationship then there is no such thing as cheating. But if it isn't, you are just a man who can't keep your word. It's fine to cheat but don't expect people to be accepting.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:49 AM
2

Cheating is the result of an individual's lack of self-control and rationality. If you are in a shitty relationship, don't wait to get lucky with another girl and cheat. Get the fuck out and be single.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 02:10 AM
3

Relax. The red pill is the brutal reality experienced by all men. It's a cumalative experience so it sounds absolutely horrible. Your job is to learn from these mistakes so that you don't have to experience them.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:58 AM
3

Why did you choose this routine when there are full bodied beginner programmes out there?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:54 AM
2

It is fine to dissapear without reason and reappear months later like nothing even happened
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:53 AM
1

Tell me what steps you have taken to improve the situation
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:52 AM
2

You can give any ratio you want but if the women are self-sufficient then they have the power to choose, and 9 out 10 times they'll choose the top 20%.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:50 AM
1

In the Book of Pook there was a topic on giving 2 for every 3. In your case, for every 3 snaps, you send 2. Or something like that. It is unfair to punish her for her real world commitments but you should always be the one putting in less effort.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 01:38 AM
2

There will be no 'drama' between you guys. I talked about the conversation. They will be talking about their own personal dramas.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:28 AM
3

The first two paragraphs and the end where you talk about your key takeaways were the best parts
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 02:15 AM
2

The conversations at this level will be fun and drama filled. If that's your vibe, great. But don't let it distract you too much
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:03 AM
5

Great that the principles you learned are working out in your sitaution. Now to turn the plate into plates
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:23 PM
1

There is a portion in the sidebar for newbies. It takes less than a month to read up and if you wish to contribute in anyway in the future, it's best you get started ASAP.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:07 PM
1

You did fine with just a casual farewell. Drop thinking about her and keep your eyes out for the next one
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:03 PM
1

Why you gotta act like a goof
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:00 PM
1

I'd rather you burn into memory everything he is doing and remind yourself whenver you decide to slip
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:59 PM
6

You win some lose some. You took control of the situation and made it a short night. Try again
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:56 PM
2

When a close friend started gymming, he was sore all over and in a lot of pain. I advised him to get back in the gym and workout again. It took his body a week to adapt to recovering faster.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:55 PM
11

Imagine your classmates flipping out having to give a presentation at a moment's notice and you don't feel any anxiousness or fear. You just stand up, get infront of a crowd and fake your way through a short presentation like you owned those slides. TRP points in a lot of directions when it comes to development and opinions. You just need to pick the right direction for you.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:52 PM
2

It started with beta brown guys which didn't link up with any other part of your 'story'. There is this girl you are talking about who we have no idea how you are approaching her romantically. Are you even? And then she is a heroic thief. Damn
/r/askTRP09/05/19 10:54 AM
1

Yeah sure. But focus on the fact that approaching is easy.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:07 AM
9

Where did you see this
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:04 AM
6

She's just a fish you're not used to catching. Stay in familiar waters or risk losing frame. Your call.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:02 AM
11

There is a reason we advocate reading the sidebar. What's so hard about it?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:47 AM
1

Put your phone away and call it a night. Let the situation play itself out and settle it after a good 8 hours of sleep.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:29 PM
1

Your freedom is genuine. A woman needs the aid of the government and policies to express her fragmented freedom
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:22 PM
1

Since you are so confident might as well
/r/askTRP08/05/19 10:53 AM
3

Continue the grind or become MGTOW trying. Being put in a college where the feminists are thriving? That's harsh. Top 20% or higher man.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 10:07 AM
2

makes sense. ain't an easy decision it has to be made
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:52 AM
3

All lifestyle mistakes you made are yours and you need to own that. As for the girl, your life has been easier thanks to her and that comfort is ruining your mind. You can definitely go single and gain back the drive from having to work out, go out on friday nights etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 08:21 AM
3

Are you looking for role models? Barron from Charisma Matrix is great. He may not have Red Pill ideas but if you want to model after someone that would be a place to start
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:18 AM
1

Ignore. Like it never happened
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:12 AM
1

I like walking into a room knowing I'm top 20% just by looks and strength. It's the cheapest way to gain SMV.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:11 AM
2

I'd rather you take a piece of the sidebar and ask questions about it
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:10 AM
11

You literally posted this 6 days ago and I answered it then. No updates, no progression? What the fuck you up to
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:09 AM
1

Do you feel validated from her saying that?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:08 AM
1

What is the issue? You don't want to be in the class? You afraid that if you go up on stage, your whole act is belittling women? You need to relax.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:22 AM
1

Stoicism exercises has helped me keep my emotion in check. Go to the stoicism sub and sort by top and skim through some of the exercises and see which fit you best
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:44 PM
1

And that's a fine reason
/r/askTRP05/05/19 11:21 AM
3

That she ain't going to say anything
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:03 AM
1

Yeah things get boring because they don't yield results. Things don't yield results for a number of reasons. I'm just advising you to make sure that the reason isn't your lack of effort and trying.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:01 AM
1

If you get the vibe that she is down and she knows what she wants, that's great. But if she is fickle like how 'virgin' girls can be, be prepared for copious amounts of LMR.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:22 AM
1

How about less talking and more time spent doing things together? You have a way better chance getting an emotional reaction from that. Don't ever spend long periods of time just 'talking'.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:12 AM
1

Great discovery
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:11 AM
1

What are the chances of this even working out? Letting feels fuck around with reality is one way to get your time wasted. Time that could be spent on other girls or goals.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:09 AM
6

Good on you
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:08 AM
1

The world is a big place and if some beta chump can get pity sex by employing beta strats, I'm sure you can atleast get laid once before you die.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:08 AM
1

How did she react and how did the night end
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:05 AM
9

Didn't bang, flew back. Cut the crap out of your life. There is no LTR here.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:03 AM
61

The beginning of the article is a bunch of a nonsense but if you read towards the bottom they talk about setting up small (6-8 men only) groups where their wives and babies aren't allowed to intrude. They even get babysitters if their wives are busy. They come together, talk about their problems and just chill. If anything, we should use this article to open up the minds of non-TRP males to stick with their male friends. It'll be better than just forcing the pill down their throat.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:56 AM
5

Like what I read. Can you link your past posts in your future ones since you're making a series on this
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:41 AM
1

She already said she is going out with her friends. What other form of rejection do you need
/r/askTRP04/05/19 10:44 PM
7

Well it's time to look for a new plate
/r/askTRP04/05/19 08:18 AM
1

Yeah I don't see what you're seeing but I wouldn't take it for much. I'd rather you forgot she is even interested in you until you get something substantial
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:44 PM
7

Green flags don't stay green. Same with reds. She is just on a emotional high. Don't let it get to your head.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:35 PM
2

You just have to find the right balance. I found having multiple group of friends to work best. I have work friends who I chill during office hours, a friend to gym with after work. A group to drink with some Friday nights. Family during the weekend. Girlfriend twice or more a week. I even have a clique of friends who I travel overseas with once every other month. And these groups have not met each other in any setting. I didn't find these groups overnight.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:34 PM
1

What are these signals
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:26 PM
2

Just do what you're doing. Keep pulling back, stop seeing her and get back to your normal routine. It'll be like the relationship never happened
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:20 PM
2

The Model. The Book of Pook. All of Robert's books
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:14 PM
6

I'd just let that comment hang in the air. Replying to it gives it acknowledgment. Or you could agree and amplify if that's in your alley.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:13 PM
5

Have you learnt nothing about hypergamy. It literally explains why a woman would choose a 27/30 alpha.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:20 AM
2

TL;DR - No
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:15 AM
5

Fuckin' comedian
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:13 AM
2

She doesn't text you for weeks and you think it's because she is pregnant. Yeah you fucked up with protection but this is a irrational train of thought
/r/askTRP01/05/19 02:18 PM
1

Get on google translate and find a way to say "It was nice talking to you" in spanish. Keep it simple
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:45 AM
3

Susan has a boyfriend who bought her gifts and treated her like a princess for 6 months before sex. Even then it was just bad foreply and 2 min PIV. Susan goes to a club with her slutty friends, gets drunk and sees a cute guy. Susan can't get said cute guy so she settles for the next dick that is interested in her even if this dick is attached to a fat beta slob. That's just how it works.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:39 AM
6

The guy she fucked is beta and awkward and she seems to have her shit sorted out. Instead of fearing, you should change your mindset to this: It is her duty to prove her LTR worthiness, not yours. She knows what kind of a situation she has put herself in, and she should take every precaution. The relationship could end not on your terms and you have to be alright with that.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:28 AM
0

Seems religion is important to you. That's fine. Why don't you have 20 flings/ plates. By then you would have gained the knowledge and experience (impeccable frame etc.) to have a proper LTR. Then you can choose to settle down and fall back on your religious convictions. It's only 20 girls, can't make the world any worse.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:23 AM
2

Dread is made at no expense on your part. Inaction is usually the answer.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:19 AM
1

In her mind she was following her instincts. That's how random hypergamy is. That's the rational explanation if you're looking for one. No one can bend hypergamy to their will. All her actions that followed suit from her cheating was just her bad judgement.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:17 AM
2

Stop thinking of banging her. Make it look like it was a prank and save yourself a visit from HR
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:14 AM
1

Maybe
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:28 PM
1

If the phone call is for venting that stick to the objective. 98% of her venting and 2% of you going "Mhm". Once she is done, so is the phone call. You've given her the 15 minutes, now back to reality.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:52 AM
1

Yeah this will work in most situations. You just need to have a firmer and more confident voice and projection of your body language.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:35 AM
1

Cut her out of your life. She needs to be dead to you. When I break up with a girlfriend, I never leave myself alone with my thoughts. Boxing classes, gym, swimming, just do something where there are other people around you. Time heals all wounds.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:31 AM
1

Congratulations bro. Thanks for the great read and keep it up.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:29 AM
0

Hah, great read but another issue are the few but common comments which are vague, out of topic and derogative. All good. Just the nature of askTRP.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:27 AM
1

It should an internal process. Glad you take the time to meditate. You won't feel the effect immediately but having control of yourself puts the power in your hands
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:21 AM
0

Bucket List
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:15 AM
14

The sidebar is literally a few clicks away. You don't even explain what are your BP behaviours. If you are so confident that you have girls coming after you that where are these behaviours coming from? Family upbringing? Share more about your situation if you want constructive advice.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:14 AM
1

Do you spend a lot of one on one time with your girlfriend? I am usually by myself at work, then to the gym, then to my online courses and then I have a 30 minute phone call with my girlfriend where she vents and talks before I head to shower and then to bed. Over the course of my day, I give her roughly 1 hour of my time in my 16 hours of being awake. Someone who you label as a "girlfriend" should be atleast worth that hour. I am sure just sitting down and listening to her vent for 15 minutes i…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:10 AM
41

There isn't a rush so the first thing to do is to create rapport with EVERYONE. You don't have to be the life of the party, just try to be the guy everyone has had a good first impression of. Never be more drunk than the party and once the mood is set, start approaching. If you see three girls, approach all three. Worse thing you can do is orbit one girl for the whole party.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:03 AM
1

Your fun fact is just an opinion not a fact. Anyway it's a risky situation to be in and it is okay if it doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:29 AM
3

You know you are high value but you are not high value to others. I'm not putting you down but that's reality. What's value if it doesn't add value to someone else. That's just an item I don't have a need for
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:21 AM
0

Just relax. If you ever feel needy then it is time to back off. You don't even need an excuse. Just take a couple days to do other things
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:18 AM
5

During the date, you should be able to evaluate how much attraction she has for you. You then decide if putting in more effort is going to cut it for you
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:10 AM
1

"Two elements must therefore be rooted out once and for all: the fear of future suffering and the recollection of past suffering. Since the latter no longer concerns me and the former concerns me not yet." - Seneca Spend a minute on this thought and see if it offers you peace of mind. I do not think you issue is "Frame", but rather, Fear.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 10:28 PM
1

It sounds like you want me to say, "Yes, she looked at you because you were "damn he ok"." That's what you wanted right
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:25 PM
10

As a teen my Dad did not talk much to me. He let me take my own path and I found TRP by accident. Now, nearly 5 years later, he tells me RedPill truths as we start talking to each other more. I simply nod when he tells me "Don't marry, girls will bend you to meet their needs etc.". I don't want him to know what I know, almost pointless. If not for TRP, I would have come up differently. My mission now is to transfer these knowledge to my son when the time comes and I will not be making the same m…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 12:35 PM
3

Look her in the eye: Shows her you notice her. Scan her from head to toe: As a beginner you can't hold eye contact for too long so just take a gander. Back to her eye: To end it off. In her head she is thinking "Well, he is definitely checking me out. I wonder what he is thinking."
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:16 PM
1

I am not talking about motivational videos and pep talks. I am talking about whether your brain is motivated to do a task becasue there is something to be gained from it; rational motivation. Before starting out any task I asked myself three questions. Will my effort lead to performance? As basic as it sounds, if I bring my ass to the gym, can I even lift anything close my goals? Ofcourse. Will my performance lead to outcomes? The more I lift, the closer I get to my outcome (goals) Are these out…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:09 PM
1

"No."
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:04 PM
1

You can work on the way you dress to manage your body proportions to your favour. That's one. You can improve SMV by adding value in other fields such as an art (hobbies, drawing, rock climbing etc.) or by simply being a funny guy. If you focus all your points in physical looks, you'll lose. Broaden your competition and you'll find yourself in the top 20%.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:03 PM
2

SMART goals are a way to go, but it goes way deeper than that. You need to know if you will be motivated to even do the task. I set monthly goals, plan it on my calendar and get to it. For example, Fitness Goals: 200 lbs Squat and Deadlift. 150 Bench. 130 Row. 120 OH Press are my goals for the month of May. I plan out when I will go to the gym and which days I rest on my calendar. I will list out the gyms I will head and at which time. I do something similiar with my other goals as well. Hope th…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:40 AM
1

Look her in the eyes, scan her from head to toe and then back at her eyes, if you're going to approach that is.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:36 AM
2

Well if you can express yourself and witty and funny why not? I used to write poems that started off real sweet but ended with what I would do to her if I had her all to myself
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:34 AM
2

Watch their actions not what they say. They participated in an online poll that would have no real world effect whatsoever. Will they actually go through with their thought? And will their boyfriends let them? and if yes, what does it have to do with you?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:31 AM
13

Why are you making a deal out of it? Because she withdrew sex?Does it happen often? Does she play the period card often? Because if not, you do not have to get work up over it
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:29 AM
1

Strengthen his frame Are you sure that's a LTR if she does it to a few specific guys?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:49 PM
2

Applying dread for disrespectful situations is fine, great advice on that part but this is behaviour that will happen again. You need to identify if it is the friend that sent the invite that's an issue or is she addicted to that game. Or does she just have bad manners in general. You can't be applying dread every single time and not plan ahead to cut the habit at the root. If not she will get sick of you playing the same card
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:58 AM
1

Practice. If you can't get that then stand up comedy. Choose your comedian catered to your result
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:22 AM
1

Your life is going so great I can't come up with a reason on why you still have her on her mind.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:21 AM
5

You looking for fiction books to read? Why not just stick to non-fiction where the shit is real without the fantasy
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:20 AM
5

I hope you're not here to rationalize being a beta
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:19 AM
0

If it is a one time event, leave it be. But if it becomes a recurring problem, tell her off once, firm short and sweet. Dread and then it should be fine.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:17 AM
1

How is this disrespect?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:16 AM
2

Well why don't you go for more of your walks
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:15 AM
7

Some girls keep getting hit on betas all the time that they have no idea Alphas even existed
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:13 AM
3

Hey if they weren't so interested in the trip why did you force it on them? It's not your fault for how things turned out but you can't be crying over spilt milk
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:12 AM
1

Pick a hobby or a quirk and build your reputation. For example you squat the heaviest in your gym. People will take notice of this and you need to build upon on that. I'm sure some guy would need squatting tips from you
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:23 PM
3

Gym. Fixing your looks will fix so many problems starting with your confidence.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:21 PM
1

Don't fret. Judge her by her actions, not words. A date is imminent, why don't you judge the nature of the relationship after the date?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:13 PM
2

Great that you are doing the 5x5. The squats and deadlifts will definitely help but I recommend sprints till failure. You can also check if you have tight abs and hamstrings; they could be giving you a flatter ass through posture. Not a bad thing but good to check
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:08 PM
3

Put an image of one of your 'Pregnant Queens' on your right hand and a condom on your left. Which would you pick?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:04 PM
0

Make her work for it. Have a "New Boobs" jar and fill it up with 1% of the fee whenever she does something for you. You make the rules. On a side note, she wants new tits because she feels insecure about her current ones whenever she walks by a busty one at the gym. A thousand guys could appreciate her body but it won't matter because all it takes is a woman with a bigger rack to stare her down and destroy her self-esteem.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:01 PM
1

What kind of SMV do they provide? Incredibly good look people? Host parties and fun events. Rich types? Help with idea generation and help with their business processes. Whatever value they naturally possess you must help bring it to the public through some avenue.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:03 AM
4

This list looks solid. Focus on one portion at a time, I recommend getting rid of useless dopamine hitting activities first. Take your time, it's a marathon not a sprint.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:58 AM
1

It's hard to fix but if it affects your self esteem a ton, I can tell you that it shouldn't. I have friends with bowed legs who run faster than me and carry more weight than I can. Wear joggers or jeans if it bothers you.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:54 AM
2

You feel guilty because you have to actively push this guy away through all his efforts. Keep ghosting.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:45 AM
1

and if you're so worried why don't you just drop it altogether? She is a mutual friend with who you have made future plans in a big social setting. These are normal barriers to not ruin a working relationship. Why not just continue focusing on your gym work and career and go after girls who you don't have all these social barriers with
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:30 AM
1

Lack of sleeps leads to other issues other than just holding frame. Do you have trouble sleeping?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:33 AM
2

Call her up, ask her out. She'll either politely drop you or say yes. You can still head over for Easter both ways.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:31 AM
3

How many doses of the red pill have you taken? Read more of the posts "Top of All Time" and you'll come around.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:32 PM
4

Then it still makes sense to have some dread by being close with other girls no? Why are you being shy?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:20 PM
1

Maybe she did this to a bunch of guys to become her bank for travelling.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:44 PM
13

Showing your winning hand to anyone is never a good idea in poker. Neither is it when it comes to TRP.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:37 PM
5

If these girls are still into after seeing you with other girls, then you have nothng to worry about, be honest with them. And if they haven't seen you gaming other girls then it's time you got to that
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:35 PM
-2

You better have tried looking this up on youtube and google before coming here
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:32 PM
5

Just ignore them. They'll get your vibe eventually. And if they keep pushing the line, it'll be apparent to your friends and let them handle it.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:31 PM
2

Hah
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:46 PM
1

What you really want to ask is if you were to travel right now, would you miss any life altering opportunities from staying?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:44 PM
1

Just say "ok" and wait for her response
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:29 AM
9

Then talk to the ones that have power or decision making skills. I'm sure with your trp lens you can decipher who is the mother hen and who is there just to be social. Target the main lady and if she has a good perception of you, it'll trump all others.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:21 AM
1

Be busy
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:12 AM
18

If she has seen you enough times to be used to your prescence then yes. It's too late.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:09 AM
1

Haul your ass to the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:44 AM
3

Cut. Continue your deficit and get lean. See your muscles. Then start bulking and gaining mass and repeat the process of cutting. You just keep switching between being a caterpillar and butterfly seasonally.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:17 AM
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Sex and girls aren't everything. If you are truly following your schedule as you describe it then I see no fault in it. You are taking in information and creating something out of it. You are creating content and that is value. Just not value targetted at getting you chicks. I do recommend getting some sun and having a social circle albeit online and you should invest the time to going out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:13 AM
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I propose fixing logistics first. You need to be able to bring her out, get in some kino, giggles, kissing, heavy touching and be able to end it in a bed with sex. Best case is to get it all done in day. You make it harder for each day that passes without finishing the process.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:07 AM
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By laying out what they are doing, you answered your own question.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 11:02 AM
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Does it work for him? Sure, there are a few steps laid out by TRP to increase chances of closing but just because it isn't in the books doesn't mean it won't work.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:58 AM
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Delete all forms of contact. Social media, phone contacts, photos and texts. Delete them all. Now you have put a stop to any simulation from her. Next you put your focus on other endeavours, be it other girls or the gym. She will still pop up in your head but with each passing day it'll be less of a problem. By then you'll be more focused on getting bigger or getting laid, both which benefit you.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:16 AM
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That sounds like a solid plan. See if you can out of slowly paying and using your dads car. Looking forward to your progress man.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:30 AM
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Okay let's be rational here. Reading your 'report' I am sure you missed out some minor details that could have played a major role in the interaction. Regardless, I think you did fine in terms of kino and isolation. The part about the roses: I know she was your oneitis, but you could have done something fun instead. Create an experience. For example, print pictures of each others' favourite characters and she can color your favourite and you, hers. Maybe you didn't have that one key piece of inf…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:25 AM
3

Great that you are eating clean, now try eating cheap. Save money wherever you can. Every dollar will count to you getting your own apartment.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:24 AM
5

How about you share your recent experiences. There are many ways to go about a first date; it is not set in stone. We can just fix what you're doing wrong already.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:18 AM
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If time and money permits, you can pick up a genuine hobby that requires you to attend classes with a group of people. Acting classes, boxing gyms (with females inside ofcourse) etc. You won't see results instantly, but stay there long enough, make a reputation and friends and females who attend the same classes will notice you. Together with this you can continue being on Tinder and Bumble and run other strats like cold approaching simultaneously. Eventually you'll meet some girls.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:17 AM
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Imagine yourself a beta male and it is easy to see why they fall for that trap. You can't blame beta men for being beta. Feminism has occupied so many spaces it is hard to express manly traits. Find what small community works for you and keep it alive and growing. Do not waste your energy changing the minds of the majority instead use it to raise like minded individuals and groups to great heights.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:56 PM
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The option to cheat only exists because you chose to be in a relationship. You either break it off, or cheat and live with your decision. You made that decision anyway.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:52 PM
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False reporting is hard to fight against. But it makes it easier for HR to follow through with it if you act 'chad' at work. Most of gaming is done offline but there are ways you can log time spent together. Short videos, pictures of the both of you having a good time are some examples. I wouldn't do audio recordings because providing that as evidence is creepy. Keep it light, just act like you're updating your instagram or snap. Texts are great too. Maybe you can make it public if you are hangi…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:48 PM
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These questions you ask yourself are why different parts of the manosphere exist, MGTOW etc. You just have to decide if TRP's solution is up your alley or do you think another community has better options. You choose your own coping mechanism. Remember that TRP is just a toolbox.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:36 PM
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Great answer.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:43 AM
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It isn't a question of whether she is attracted to you, she goes through painful PIV for you. She has some preconceived notion of sucking dick in her psyche that just screams NO DICK IN MOUTH. No amount of talking is going to fix that. Couple of things you can do. Watch tons of amateur porn together. Disguise it as turning up the heat before sex or something, just don't make it obvious it's about blowjobs. She will take notice of how frequent blowjobs are a part of the sexual process and the ide…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:45 AM
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Your current friends were made when you weren't lifting and trying to improve your life. How can you expect them to be like you now? You should leave them be and make new friends. Want to get friends to lift? They are in the gym. Want to head out every Friday night in a clique? Well there is clique out there Friday night you can give value to. The people you are looking for are already there at the venue doing the activity you want. Go to them.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 01:19 AM
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Imagine future Vintage_Cola, slaying, jacked, smart and hilarious. Now look at current Vintage_Cola. I am sure you can see a gap. Work on it and the social circle will come about in due time.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 01:15 AM
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Like what I am reading here. I want to touch on the point of "Alphas are absolutely clear in what they want". You can choose to be a really loud and disruptive "Alpha" or to be a aloof, calm and relaxed "Alpha" but they "are absolutely clear in what they want".
/r/askTRP30/03/19 01:11 AM
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Reading your post reminds me of the Elliot Hulse video "Giving Mini Orgasms", something along those lines. In that video he talks about polar opposite males and you kind of fit the overly aggressive. Just give it a watch for a good chuckle yeah?
/r/askTRP30/03/19 01:05 AM
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Yes. People play out some of the laws without realising and their 'victims' get caught feeling a loss of control in the situation. If you are aware of which 'law' people are applying and know what is about to happen next, you have the power and option to control the situation; simply because you can foresee what is going to happen.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 12:53 AM
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Go to the main TRP sort by Top of All Time and just read through until you feel sick to the stomach of all the shit that happens to other men out there. You'll be down for awhile. You'll bounce back and you will have a few options laid out in front of you: TRP, MGTOW, Seduction etc. But when you reach that stage, you will not look at woman the same way as you do now. It's your journey from there.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 12:49 AM
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Stay busy, be productive. Pick up a skill to master and stay in the gym. Write articles on absolutely anything; a book you have read or maintain a journal. Pick up your phone and record a short film or take pictures of things around your house. Just be producing something, doesn't matter what. Change up your environment. Staying in familiar surroundings can bring back memories of a darker time and you don't need that. 30 days, bring yourself to new places or to the park, doesn't matter. Time hea…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:50 AM
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Reading this, I didn't get what was the big deal. If anything she has a style and you're letting her frame how you both communicate. Chill out
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:11 AM
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You don't want to to quit and your superior won't help you out. Stay away from the guy and your superior will see him for what he is; a liability to the company. Meantime you just stay low and out of their sights. Let the situation sort itself out.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:46 AM
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It is just your turn. In her next relationship, you will be part of her n count and it will produce the same gut wrenching feeling in the next guy and it'll happen again to the next guy and the guy after that. Also, don't think your LTR is an angel. They rarely are.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:16 AM
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If you want to befriend a woman, I assume you have zero attraction towards her. Do you see her as an acquaintance? Because you should treat her like one, nothing more. To elaborate: Women friendships have no value. Rarely do they assist you in achieving your personal goals. Also, do you want to open up about your feelings and sentiments to a female and risk her sharing it with her close friends? They do that unconsciously. Can't blame them. There are more but I have proven my point.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:07 AM
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There are factors outside of your control but you managed to align the stars. You are able to score and you are happy in your current situation. That's good. But not everyone has it going for them and TRP offers solutions. With all the advices thrown into the mix, you get an 'ideal state' which is impossible to achieve but you do your best to reach it. You fall somewhere between the spectrum. That's it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:57 AM
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Some males choose to be orbiters as a sexual strategy; there will ALWAYS be orbiters. You do you while the LTR manages these orbiter relationships herself. If you sense something is up, for example, she spends more time with guys or texts too frequently, you prepare to next her because it is her job to prove to you her LTR worthiness.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:25 AM
2

I see you are going for the approach showing you are not invested. I recommend some cheap lingerie or yoga pants ; something you can use in the bedroom for your own needs and wants.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:04 AM
2

You're kinda right. What else can be done though? I'm thinking a trail martial arts class or maybe a walk at a tourist spot.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 03:13 PM
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Safest bet? Start out with coffee and if it's hitting off well, carry out the rest of the date as planned. If it isn't, just head off once your cup is empty.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:04 PM
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Build yourself up first to increase your low chances 1) Gym: Stronglift or Starting Strength. Fastest way to increase your attractiveness. 2) Watch stand up comedy to increase wit. It helps with expressing yourself fluently. 3) Clothing. Get tight fitting, colour complimenting clothes. Watch AlphaM for starters. Why don't you focus on these 3 first and try again when you're a better man.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:41 AM
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