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Men's RightsBlackhawk2479/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 12:01 PM
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And jumping to "treat this like a paraphilia and get therapy" is ignoring the part where her husband doesn't appear to care if they don't have sex. But that is exactly why I gave that advice - her husband has already told her through his actions that sex (with her, at least) is now less important to him than his personal appearance. Personally, I think the medium is the message here and the why is probably not so important. Plus I think there’s enough troublesome wording in the original post to …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 11:31 PM
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I’d point out that your examples of bad breath and obesity are indications of someone being unhealthy or not looking after themselves properly, whilst having body hair isn’t, so I don’t really see the relevance. If OP has a strong (extreme in my opinion) preference for no body hair on a partner, and her partner has decided to go against that preference, then the only real choice OP has is to decide whether this man is right for her or not and act accordingly. If she’s prepared to walk away over …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 11:06 PM
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We have no-fault divorces in the UK now, but even before that abuse such as described in the article would be covered by “unreasonable behaviour” under the irretrievable breakdown category.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 12:44 PM
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More partners != cheater - as I already said, men with options are less likely to commit to monogamy and more likely to exercise those options. Successful, attractive men will naturally have more options, but once they’ve committed to a partner the only real factor in whether they remain faithful or not is morals.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 08:02 AM
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Women having lower libidos is something of a fallacy, you only need look at the sex toy market to see that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 11:57 PM
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No, and if you think about it, if there was a direct connection between opportunity and infidelity, then there would be way more women cheating and a lot less men cheating, since the average woman generally will find it much easier to pick up potential suitors than the average man. In reality a quick Google tells me that a 2023 study found 20% of men but only 13% of women cheat. In my opinion, you’re more likely to find that attractive and successful men are less likely to be monogamous (certain…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 11:16 PM
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I don’t think there’s any correlation between attractiveness or success and cheating, other than it perhaps increasing the opportunity. You’re looking at this wrong though - cheats cheat, men who value fidelity don’t - lots of attractive and successful men are faithful, lots of unsuccessful and downright unattractive guys are cheaters.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 11:06 PM
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Getting him to modify his behaviour here is not only unlikely to work, but also ultimately futile. What you need to figure out is why he is treating you differently, then address that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 11:21 AM
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No, she won’t want to hear it, especially if you mention RP specifically. The best thing you can do is lead by example and show her what a healthy and happy relationship looks like, by living one. At some point she’s going to ask how you do it, and that is when you ease her into it, again without mentioning anything RP specific. People have to want your help, otherwise it’s futile.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:49 AM
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I wouldn't talk to your partner about it, nothing good will come of that and you'll learn nothing in the process either. Treat him as you find him - if you've never seen him act the way the mutual friend described then you have little reason to suspect it is true. especially if a closer friend has vouched for him, but perhaps stay mindful of the possibility. More importantly, the mutual friend is a guy, so be wary of his intentions - the first question you should ask yourself whenever someone di…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 12:06 PM
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Fat no, overweight - a little.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 01:08 PM
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I agree with everyone else that says you’ve crossed a line and that this isn’t the way to deal with your insecurities - you don’t need to hear that again. Instead I’ll ask you a simple question, please think carefully about your answer: would you feel the need to track your partner like this if you weren’t, in your own words, “obese, smoke and in a lot of cc debt”?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 10:52 PM
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Because only one side preaches tolerance then silences dissenting voices. I’m a centrist so I don’t align myself to either extreme of the political spectrum.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 06:33 PM
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The “tolerant” liberal left is anything but. A lot of subs have auto-bans in place based on participation in other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 02:46 PM
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No, they’ll keep doing what they’re already doing - vetting women without entering into a laughably one-sided contract. I’m not going to respond again, your idea is ridiculous, would never work, and you’re looking at the whole thing from the completely wrong angle. This is not the right sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:40 PM
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A high value man (that I think we can both agree is the sort of man women should be aspiring to marry) is not going to agree to CCTV in his home for the same reason he’s not going to sign up to this app in the first place - because he doesn’t need to.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:27 PM
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Yeah, nobody is agreeing to third-party CCTV in their home, nor should they.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:15 PM
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The conditions are impossible to enforce, and since physical intimacy is a huge factor in compatibility, you’re not going to find many high value men signing up to a no-sex contract, especially one where the woman is getting paid for her time. What’s in it for them?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 01:57 PM
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Lost in all the noise.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:28 AM
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Probably not enough context to this (why did you separate, who has the kids?) but assuming he’ll be using his own money then I don’t really think you have any say in it, so think carefully before you try to draw a line that in all likelihood will just make him more determined to do the opposite of what you say.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 12:30 AM
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You’ve not provided any context in your post, but regardless the answer is going to be see a therapist. Nobody on Reddit is equipped to counsel you through multiple past traumas. The important thing though is that you acknowledge the problem and want to get help.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 08:53 AM
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Relinquishing control does not mean abandoning boundaries you wish to set. If you don't want him driving your car (and from the sounds of his track record why would you?) then don't let him. Besides which, unless insurance works differently where you are compared to me, he is only insured to drive your car with your permission if he is fully comprehensive on another policy which entitles him to drive other people's cars, or if added as a named driver on your policy. He's a man (though you've not…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/23 12:16 PM
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With the greatest respect, they sound like nice people and the difference in backgrounds/social status is obviously not an issue for them or your boyfriend, so this is very much your issue and one you need to resolve by yourself. All you are going to do is sabotage this relationship if you continue down the path you’re on. My advice is come to terms with your differences as quickly as possible, be at peace with yourself and shed any insecurities you have about who you are and where you’ve come f…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 10:52 PM
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most of us were never raised to understand, accept or appreciate these differences It’s even worse now with the narrative that we’re all the same and the apparent push to make us all androgynous.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/23 09:20 AM
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Hoping to understand this guy, or looking for some sort of closure is folly and is simply going to hold you back from entering future relationships in the right mindset (or even entering into them at all). The only takeaway you need from this relationship, is being able to identify the red flags that indicate similar incompatible behaviour from potential future partners, so you can vet for them properly before committing to anything serious again. Chalk this down to useful experience and move on…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 11:01 PM
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Thanks for not banning this particular man, pearl, all the best.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 12:37 AM
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I would argue a genuinely HVM would want intelligence, personality, behaviour and looks, with no good reason to compromise on any of those. I’d also argue that breast size is not relevant in a conversation about beauty (though men may have a preference), but the nose is a major contributor to the overall aesthetic of the most important aspect of perceived beauty - the face. Confidence also plays a part in attractiveness, so if this would improve after surgery then I’d advise OP to consider the r…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 01:11 PM
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The only demographic that won’t treat you better after a weight loss transformation are jealous overweight people.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/22 10:59 AM
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A couple of things you may or may not find useful coming from a guy. Firstly a question, you say he moved closer to you and after that inviting you over to dinner and cooking for you was low effort - what were you contributing to the development of the relationship at that point? This is not a dig at you, think of it as encouragement to do a little introspection here and see it from his perspective a little more. I’d say inviting you over and cooking is higher effort than booking a restaurant an…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 12:00 AM
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What sort of answer should I settle for? Aka what’s the bare minimum I should need for him to proceed? Isn’t that a question you should have an answer to yourself? You’ve obviously got a rough timeline in mind, either he’s on the same page or he isn’t. Find out. But bear in mind talk is cheap and you ought to be judging him by his actions, not his words.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 10:48 PM
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How many kids did you discuss having prior to getting married?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:36 AM
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I think you’re getting too wrapped up in who is giving the advice, rather than in the advice itself. But regardless, living in a big city with more girls, centrally for good logistics, and alone - all just common sense and should be fairly obvious. Put your John Anthony boner away.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/22 12:16 AM
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Tenet - a tenant is someone that pays rent.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/22 10:11 AM
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Whenever you’re asked a question like this when whatever answer you give may be divisive, just say “we’ve not made any decisions yet” and steer away from the subject. A bit like RP in general, politics and religion, discussion of these sorts of topics is of absolutely no benefit to anyone. There are only downsides and you should avoid where possible.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 08:21 PM
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Are you young, and/or is this a fairly new relationship? Don’t take this the wrong way, but there’s a million and one hills to die on, and this isn’t one of them. It sounds like he said it as a joke/throwaway comment (this is exactly what I’d do too especially as I earn 4x what my partner does) and you’ve run with it. Next time he offers to pay half, say “yes please, I’d really appreciate that” and think nothing more of it. Also, there’s a chance that he’s feeling taken advantage of, especially …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 10:36 AM
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His curt reply is nothing to do with insecurity and everything to do with the obviousness of your revelation and the unnecessary nature and length of your post. If you’d bothered to look at the sidebar or spend any reasonable amount of time here, you’d already know this shit, skew’s snark is a reflection of that.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/22 12:05 PM
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Just having fun and dating girls with no pressure on settling down or even establishing a frame that depicts her as a temporary This is, quite literally, how a man should approach every relationship. It’s your job to unlock sex, it’s their job to unlock commitment.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/22 12:01 PM
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Softly, softly doesn’t work with these Nice GuyTM types, they see politeness as encouragement. Tell him to fuck off then block and delete him from everything and - no offence intended here - but next time a situation like this arises, “more wine?” is not the solution. Vet your potential partners better.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 11:45 AM
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Reddit is mostly filled with very liberal-left millennials that are completely intolerant of any views that aren’t their own or toe the line of whatever group-think narrative is currently trending. Don’t give it a second thought.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 09:01 AM
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…and feel …I feel …I feel …I feel …I just feel Feelings don’t define reality, and the reality is that you’re 29 and have most of your life still ahead of you. Instead of focusing on your age - one small aspect of yourself that you can’t change - put this energy into the aspects that you can control: be healthy, physically and mentally take care and pride in your appearance dress well be feminine be a good person - kind, generous, supportive, loyal etc learn new skills, constantly try to improve …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 08:29 AM
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I used to work with a lesbian, she messaged me one night asking where her and her girlfriend should go to eat - they’d been trying to decide for two fucking hours. Even the lesbians need a guy to lead them.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:52 PM
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it hurts to watch her go through this Fuck that noise, she’s now reaping the consequences of her actions. Nobody forced her to fuck her own life up, it doesn’t even sound like Chad duped her, this is 110% on her, but classic female solipsism and a society that doesn’t hold women accountable means she’s not self-aware enough to see what has happened. Zero sympathy for her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 05:11 PM
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There are some topics that are ultimately a hiding to nothing when discussed with loved ones, and politics is right at the top of the list in my opinion, especially if you and your SO are differently inclined. Rather than worrying if it’s masculine or not to want to talk about politics, I’d look inwards a bit more and try to understand why you want to talk about them with your SO in the first place, especially when it’s a divisive topic that he’s already said he doesn’t want to engage in. What a…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 12:27 AM
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It’s not just the States buddy.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 05:44 PM
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This really is unlikely to work - one thing I can say definitively about TRP is that you absolutely have to find it for yourself, the vast majority of men just can't swallow it, especially when led to it by someone else. OP is better off trying to coax him into acting more RP, without being explicit, but I'd also argue that if you have to show someone how to be a leader, they're just not leader material.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 01:17 PM
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Why did you not speak for a week?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 08:39 AM
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UK law does not recognise that women can rape men That is only because the legal definition of rape requires a penis - that’s not to say women can’t rape (men or women), it just gets labelled “sexual assault via penetration”.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 09:03 PM
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No worries, I think if you’d added that to the TLDR it would be clearer. Ultimately whether or not her actions are a deal-breaker for your friendship only you can decide, but I would consider that she’s perhaps not the person you thought she was, and perhaps never held the same values as you, despite appearing to. Personally I wouldn’t be worrying about wether it would be hypocritical or not to support her, I’d be wondering whether or not she was still a person worthy of my support and close fri…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 01:56 PM
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No idea what that means, you claim to be a 36-year-old man, maybe try to act and sound like one?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 01:01 PM
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I find it interesting you’re troubled by her potentially giving birth out of wedlock, but seemingly okay with her trapping this guy by deliberately getting pregnant to force his hand (unless I’ve read your post wrong).
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 10:07 AM
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Of course she’ll be fine, she’s 25 and you’ve only been “at it” for two months. Why are you “all in” already and freaking out about this, you don’t sound “way more chill” to me? she is hard to read She’s not the only thing then. Stop writing like your brain just evacuated its bowels and use paragraphs.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 09:52 AM
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As a guy I can recommend Skyns - thin but durable and more importantly, latex-free, which makes a big difference with regards irritation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/22 07:47 AM
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But you don’t compete with them if you’re doing it right. Girls aren’t stupid though, the guys they milk for gifts, favours, meals are not the guys they drunk call at 3am for a good fucking.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 07:16 PM
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It doesn’t need to be extinguished, it’s a useful filter to separate the wheat from the chaff. Don’t be those guys, be a masculine guy that lives by his own code and thinks for himself, not how society wants him to, and avoid the “women” that game the system like that. Because regardless of what society says, girls are and will remain attracted to masculine men, and there’s still plenty of feminine girls out there that don’t buy into the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 09:18 AM
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You’ve crafted a long list of red flags here, about a guy you only see 3-4 times a year, at the tender age of 19. I don’t know why you would want to perpetuate this relationship when there is so much wrong, and seemingly so little right.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 12:09 PM
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OP, for future reference could you provide more context when making a post like this please? Your ages, how long you've been married, etc - anything that may be relevant to giving you assistance. It sounds like this issue stems mostly from a cultural standpoint, so knowing a bit about your/your husband's culture and what societal norms you may have in place (like it being weird for him to pay for a room at his families' place) then please include this. Now, if I were him, I would simply tell my …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 12:16 PM
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I agree completely, but that is the difference between being high value and appearing high value to the opposite sex. Nobody is a cheater until they actually cheat, many an ostensibly high value partner (on both sides) can turn out to be not so great.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 11:14 AM
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(gross) It was a play on “can’t cook, won’t cook”.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 11:11 AM
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That is exactly your problem, you didn’t come here for answers, you came here for affirmation. I find the best way to stop people responding is to not reply to them…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 10:32 AM
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You’re posting on a public place on the internet, you cannot expect privacy 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 10:26 AM
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Having sex before marriage does not make you a “hoe”, Jesus. The world is not black and white, it’s not one extreme or the other. Your posts reek of that millennial/zoomer entitlement that has invaded modern society. If you can’t find your “Prince Charming” you’ll just get your parents to arrange a marriage for you with a rich guy. Really? I assume you’re trolling at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:52 AM
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I said generally - not once did I say they can’t wait, but as I said, that drastically reduces OP’s potential partners.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:48 AM
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Nobody is telling you to change, I answered your question honestly from my own experience; that most high value men won’t wait, because they don’t need to. Here’s a suggestion though, perhaps you’re asking the wrong question? Maybe you should be asking how to be the sort of potential partner that men will want to wait for? A cursory glance at your Reddit profile shows me you: can’t cook won’t fuck (worse; you’ve no interest in sex and already described yourself as a future duty-sex wife) have a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:31 AM
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how do men manage to wait till marriage Generally, unless they are religiously-inclined, they don’t. Marriage is already a very risky proposition for men, and expecting a guy to wait until marriage for sex is practically insanity. What if you’re not sexually compatible? I wouldn’t buy a car without test driving it, I wouldn’t hire an employee without interviewing them, and I wouldn’t marry a woman without sleeping with her first. Physical intimacy is a vital part of any healthy relationship, and…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 07:41 AM
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Think as you like but behave like others, or as I like to say, STFU. There is nothing to be gained by people knowing you’re RP or your opinions differ from theirs. Nod your head, agree ostensibly but act according to who you are and what you believe. I appreciate this doesn’t help with your current crop of friends, but you may be better off ditching them and making new friends with a more agreeable mindset to yours anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 10:25 AM
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Beta bucks is still very much alive and well friend, for some women the easiest way to earn is still to leech from a human ATM man.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 09:32 AM
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He should never have been investing that much in her anyway, aside from anything else men and women are equal now, haven’t you heard? If she wants to go to college she can pay for herself like feminism tells her to, the same way men have funded their own education, for years.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 03:01 PM
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The real kicker for that guy is, if she's asking permission then she's already done it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 11:12 AM
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Depends on what you mean by “working”. As an unmarried/never divorced guy in his forties with his own business and no dependants, retirement for me looks more like employing people to take over the reigns and keep the company running whilst I as the owner, take a back seat but still earn good money. I have investments and I have property as a “pension” so I don’t really need to think about that side. If you’re a wage slave then obviously “retirement” is a very different prospect. Edit: would als…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 02:21 PM
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If your looks and femininity are as on-point as your post suggests, there is probably something else going on. Do you carry yourself as approachable or do you think you may appear aloof or perhaps overly-picky in demeanour?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 12:37 PM
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I think you mean emasculate - immaculate means pristine and I doubt you’re turning down pristine men 😊
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 12:34 PM
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The fact you think you can ever not be work-in-progress speaks volumes to me. We’re all WIP, or at least should be. Not sure why you’re here pimping your YouTube channel and talking about girth.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/22 05:04 PM
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Because what they think they want, and what they actually want are usually two completely different things.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 02:48 AM
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Rather than trying to mind read, why don’t you wait and actually find out for a fact what his intentions are? If you want to see him again, see him again - as another commenter said, maybe he thinks you’re not interested and that’s why he’s gone silent? Life is too short for nonsense. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 06:47 PM
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Any man that thinks a woman even knows what she wants is setting himself up to fail. They have zero self-awareness, are incapable of introspection and run purely on emotions.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 12:52 AM
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Not really sure what you mean by the last part of your post, it is demonstrably false that a man has the “same opportunity to earn with sex-type work” as a woman does. There is simply too small a target audience (even factoring in gay/bi/etc men), next to no male strip clubs, and even in porn the women are the high-earners. No guy is selling his used bathwater, soiled knickers or farts in a jar to girls online.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 01:41 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. It was ever thus.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 07:32 PM
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One aspect of Pence's actions is to insulate himself from even the possibility of a woman acting inappropriately with him, regardless of social media or propriety. He simply doesn't need that opportunity even to exist. Same with OP. Sure, but whilst the possibility of trouble from the opposite sex is the same for both Pence and OP, the probabilities are totally different. Pence, as a man of power and influence, with his particular political persuasions is an active target for many people with a …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 07:26 PM
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OP has already refuted this by saying she is Greek, agnostic and from an affluent white area Whilst OP and Pence may be acting similarly, their motivations are completely different, and this is where the problem is. Both motivations are indicative of wider societal issues though - increasing (not decreasing) gender divides, increasing class divides and lack of social mobility, and in Pence’s case specifically, a dramatic increase in trial-by-social-media, witch hunts and cancel culture.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 04:54 PM
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Expecting men not to rape is like expecting burglars not to steal And there it is, all men are rapists. This is not a healthy perspective. All burglars steal by definition, but not all men rape.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 04:40 PM
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You don’t have to assume either, take men at face value, but be prepared for any eventuality and able to defend yourself when necessary (I can’t stress this part enough, you can take self-defence classes and carry pepper spray or something similar whilst remaining feminine and without being a misandrist). Not having male friends, avoiding being alone with them and avoiding physical contact is not healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 02:14 PM
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But the overwhelming majority (76%) of male-on-female sexual assault is perpetrated by known men, not strangers, so your argument about being unsafe around a stranger doesn’t hold up. A healthy, realistic man would understand this and not prioritise his feelings over our physical safety. If you’re referring to me here then I’m afraid you’ve fallen foul of ascribing a female mindset to a man - it’s not about my feelings, they are neither hurt, nor do I care how the majority of men are perceived -…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 01:57 PM
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For me personally, because I acknowledge male nature I practice gender segregation in my life. I don’t have male friends, I don’t end up alone with men, I don’t make physical contact except a hand shake, I definitely don’t drink with men because I acknowledge that men will seek sex in any situation including a non consensual one. This sounds less like “acknowledging male nature” and more like “all men are rapists” to me. I’m sure I’ll get downvoted into oblivion here (not that I care) but I don’…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 01:27 PM
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They’re virgins in spite of being tall. They still have to do the work, just not as hard. I’ve witnessed (as sub-6’ myself) tall guys countless times being completely oblivious to girls making themselves available to them, or checking them out across a room - you’ll get initial attention easier being tall, but you still a) have to notice and b) be able to maintain that attention afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:46 PM
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Not sure I entirely agree with being up-front about non-monogamy - partly because it’s not going to work for a lot of guys, but also because it’s none of their fucking business early on in proceedings, especially when they’re almost certainly doing exactly the same thing. Personally think it’s better to be non-committal on it, or lie by omission if you have to, but be honest about it when forced or let them walk away. Far be it from me to question uncle Vaz though.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:40 PM
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Feels before reals as they say in the TRP sub. I’ve personally found ignoring all the bullshit to be very effective. No social media, no mainstream news; better for your mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 11:26 PM
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“Bewildered” is a bit much don’t you think? If he’s as high value as you suggest, he’ll not be short of options and this is probably part of his quick vetting process to find out early on what you might bring to the table. If you quit at the first hurdle the answer is “nothing” and he moves on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 09:36 AM
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Where did he say you should tell people? Masculinity is about how you look, how you dress, how you carry yourself, how you speak, how you react - actions, generally. None of that involves being autistic and saying “hi, I’m masculine, wanna fuck?”
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 01:38 PM
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I think your priorities are all messed up. If you try to find men in your own country you won’t need to place so much emphasis on communication via phone because you’ll be able to see each other in the real world. Have you even met this guy?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 02:27 PM
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There is a difference between not caring what people think (which is great, I’m right with you there) and understanding that how people perceive you is important. Try getting girls as a fat ugly loser, or getting a job when prospective employers think you’re a jackass. No amount of being happy in yourself is going to help if you’re a fucking douche. Don’t confuse actions and results with motivations.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 09:56 PM
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There is no contradiction; the thing with inherent value is that all men have it - that’s kinda the point, therefore you need to be able to stand out from the crowd.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 10:58 AM
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Firstly you shouldn’t care why they are like they are, there’s a ton of dick people out there - who cares about their motivations? Secondly, the correct response for these people is to always ignore, never engage. Leave them to their online echo chambers.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 10:56 AM
15

Sleeping with him on the second date is not “taking it slow”. Your actions are incongruent with your words, so any expectation of sex on his part is down to you, not him. Also - and I mean this in the nicest possible way - you write like a 12 year old and I had a hard time wading through your post.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 10:10 AM
20

My advice would be to ignore what men think/say, and focus on yourself. In particular, you need help for your dysmorphia, especially as it has resulted in you starving yourself and attempting to take your own life on more than one occasion. Please seek professional help - you have many years of beauty and worth ahead of you and it would be a terrible shame to waste them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 08:01 AM
7

It is the norm (rightly or wrongly). Two things going on here: Men are visual creatures and from a societal perspective much of a woman’s value is still based on health and beauty and being overweight counteracts this That the men who tend to be most critical are overweight themselves is classic projection and degrading someone else using their own faults as the target is a subconscious (or maybe even conscious) coping mechanism. There are plenty of double-standards that work the opposite way to…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 10:44 PM
3

Is it possible for you to have a fertility test before you make any serious decisions about this? You’ve not said what country you’re in, but in the UK it’s possible to get checked out in a single-visit clinic with same-day results. If this would work in your specific cancer-related scenario then at least one unknown could be removed from the equation. With that said though, it sounds from your post that this is certainly a deeper issue than just a change of heart on his part regarding having ki…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 07:16 PM
9

I think this is more a lesson in not digging through the trash of old relationships than anything else. You broke up with him the first time for reasons which the rest of your post does not seem to suggest have changed much, if at all.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 07:09 PM
8

I didn’t say it was healthy/unhealthy or good/bad - just pointing out that plenty of women are quite happy having casual, no-strings sex. Also, I’d like to point out from your original post: disappointing reality of male nature is not a healthy mindset to have when it comes to the opposite sex. Men and women are different, they have different needs, different desires and certainly different attitudes to sex and relationships. Does that make men wrong if their views don’t align with yours? No.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 05:18 PM
5

is this idea common or widespread amongst men? Yes, not just men either in fairness.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 05:01 PM
0

Part of me thinks that people never really change, but I’d offset that by pointing out that every time you meet a potential new partner they have a past you may never know about, so in a sense you’re ahead of the game with this person; forewarned is forearmed. My advice would be give them the benefit of the doubt but proceed with caution; everyone deserves a chance to prove they’ve changed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 11:21 AM
15

Absolutely. OP, I’d also suggest that you don’t go around stating that you’re “not looking for a one night stand” because you will actually encourage men to be dishonest to get sex, like the guy in your post.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 08:42 AM
35

He said what you wanted to hear to get what he wanted from you (assuming he did) then when he got it he left. He preyed upon your lack of experience and naivety. This should be a useful learning experience for you - don’t waste it. People who promise you the moon before you’ve even met are never to be trusted. Stop meeting men online, start meeting them out in the real world where you can vet properly.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 07:44 AM
-3

Nothing in OP’s post suggests she has a particularly high body count, she’s worried about inflating her count with women, and those are two different things. My advice was to not worry about increasing her count with a few girls, I wasn’t advocating having a high body count which is obviously undesirable. It is all relative though, and increasing her count with women is going to be generally less undesirable than if those same hookups were with men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 06:39 PM
-8

A couple of observations from reading your posts: You seem to be viewing your bisexuality and potential higher body count as negative - don’t. Own it and be happy in yourself and don’t worry what other people might think about it. If it puts some men off then good - consider that a useful filter for weeding out incompatible partners. You say you’d like to be married at some point. Don’t put the cart before the horse here - marriage for the sake of it should not be the goal. Don’t meet men with o…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 11:43 AM
7

I can’t vouch for other men but as far as I am concerned, whilst technically counting towards your total I wouldn’t consider them bodies personally, partly down to the fact that the vast majority of women have experimented with other women, and also that the pitfalls of sleeping with lots of men don’t exist when sleeping with lots of women (unwanted pregnancy, for example). I also don’t find other women threatening to my position in a relationship because they satisfy completely different needs,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 11:36 AM
10

Just say “hoe” fucktard, I don’t have the patience to be figuring out what your sperg-ass codes mean.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 09:13 AM
6

I’m sure he’ll send you a video if you ask…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 07:38 AM
1

Agree with not arguing, disagree with dropping her. If you're going to drop a girl because you think she's in the process of branch-swinging, then you're going to be dropping every girl you get into a relationship with; they are all somewhere along the process of branch-swinging, because every single one of them is open to the idea of an upgrade, regardless of how good your relationship is or how much of an alfalfa fucks you are.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 01:57 PM
30

Your mind seems to be all over the place here: You’re not excited for the date but sound desperate for him to see you as high value for some reason You’ve barely talked and don’t remember much about him but he seems decent and you’re looking forward to the conversation You’re not dating at the moment but are looking for something serious. I think the first thing you should do is figure out what you actually want. You should be excited for a date and I think if you were actually interested in thi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 11:51 PM
1

OP is 33, it should be obvious why.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 12:12 AM
4

Relationships, and especially marriages, should not be predicated on one party’s dysfunction and the other’s unhealthy need to try and fix it. Continuing this cripplingly unhealthy “relationship” is an impossibly bad idea and one that can only end in disaster. He is not your responsibility, he needs serious, professional help and all you will do is further enable his self-destruction with your continued involvement. You have posted a long list of red flags here that should be obvious to any rati…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 07:20 AM
4

If not giving a fuck is key, why did you sign off with that bullshit about having a family and legacy to leave behind? You can’t have it both ways, so which is it? I think there may have been a worthwhile message buried in here somewhere, but you drowned it out with all the blue pill goals you’re shilling.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 11:17 PM
54

With great power comes great responsibility. Some people are simply incapable of interpreting things with any nuance or subtlety, others will act red pill but remain fully blue-pilled internally (like this guy's friend). These people will always screw things up; it's not a reflection of whatever ideology they happen to be following at the time, it is purely a reflection on them and their own personal flaws.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 10:09 AM
3

Just to be clear, I wasn’t apportioning any blame in my comment - men need to take responsibility for their part in getting to where we are at now in the dating world. I agree fully with what you say, and whilst I consider OnlyFans et al to still be sex work (albeit extremely low-risk) I’d never begrudge a woman making money from it if guys make it easy for her.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:38 PM
14

Indeed and it’s not just dating that young men are checking out of either - young male suicide rates are at all-time highs. As a child of the 80s (arguably the last great decade for childhood) I see all the increased pressures of being young today - for both sexes - and am certain I’d struggle to navigate it all too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:18 PM
32

I think the main issue for them is dating apps and the dramatically different experiences of them depending on whether you’re male or female. As an average or below average guy, you’re going to get next to no matches, whereas an average or below average girl is still going to be inundated with matches. This translates out in the real world as those same guys being ignored because what girl is going to give a below average guy a second look in person when she’s got hundreds of other thirsty guys …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 11:01 PM
14

I’d say those messages come off immature rather than weird, but I’m in my 40s so hey. From a strictly RP perspective if he’s still looking for unicorns then he hasn’t fully-swallowed. Might be a bit premature to unmatch just yet?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 10:52 PM
4

Just don’t discuss it with others. Most of this shit doesn’t exist offline, at least not in my country. Stay off Twitter, Instagram etc, avoid mainstream media and academia and you’ll find nobody is wondering whether or not trans women are really women, or debating which statues to tear down next out in the real world - they’re dealing with more important things.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 07:22 PM
37

deplatform hate You're being too generous here; opinions you don't agree with != hate.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 04:08 PM
8

If you’re close enough that you’re crossing your eyes then probably, otherwise (e.g. normal conversation), no.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:59 PM
9

As a crutch you can look at the bridge of their nose instead until you’re more confident. Easier for you but same result for them.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:54 PM
31

Use a fucking condom - bonus points for not catching STDs. I’ve managed to get into my forties without the snip and zero kids. It’s not hard.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 06:14 PM
8

Inclined to agree with this, she’s 33 - what sort of bullshit nonsense is that?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:44 PM
35

Live some life first, you may find your thoughts on children will change over the years. I know the snip is reversible but why bother at 24?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:16 PM
7

100%. Curious why OP even has things to pick up from a plate's place though.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:41 PM
7

That is a lot of effort when he could just find a girl who will fuck him without demands.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:16 AM
4

Captain-save-a-ho to the rescue!
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:07 AM
0

You might wanna decide your gender considering you stated you were a woman in another comment (and sound like one to be honest).
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:13 PM
2

This. How old are you OP?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:03 AM
7

LMAO, nobody uses Tinder to find “friends”.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:02 AM
0

Men provide stability.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:50 AM
2

Imagine defining “functioning human being” as someone who has time to text pointless shit to girls they meet on dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 11:05 PM
2

70kg is light dude, how tall are you?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:43 PM
1

Do you actually need to cut if you’re doing BJJ twice a week? You’ll be burning a lot of calories doing that full-force. If you stop cutting you might find you’re less tired and can then fit in another workout or two?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:39 PM
2

no way to tell if she’s just looking or actually wanting them secretly. It doesn’t matter - it’s just your turn and if she’s going to branch swing, she will, whether she checks out other guys in public or not.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:35 PM
4

Downvote lol, who gives a fuck about fake popularity points on the internet? What you’re basically advising here, is a coping mechanism to avoid being the best man you can be. It’s way easier to act a little bit more beta and shoot some comfort texts than put in the effort to be a standout guy that doesn’t give a fuck and who girls want to date. But hey, if it works for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 08:30 PM
4

Only one way to find out. I find myself typing that a lot on here. Shit or get off the pot.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:19 PM
13

The whole point of TRP is to not be most guys.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 08:18 PM
1

Did you just come on TRP and tell everyone to start sending automated texts to girls?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 08:16 PM
12

There are practically zero gold star lesbians, and you wouldn’t want to fuck those anyway.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:12 PM
5

Wouldn’t know, I don’t talk to them on the phone.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:09 PM
0

Amateur, BBM is where it’s at.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 08:08 PM
32

if she finds you attractive enough she will respond. Also true if you only text for logistics (which you’re not supposed to take 100% literally I might add). You said you wrote this out in 10 minutes while taking a shit - it shows.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 08:07 PM
1

You don’t improve at sport by watching shit players.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:07 PM
1

Sure, but rule one of AskTRP is that posts must be for personal advice or clarification you’re not going to learn anything about the dating market from how simps operate.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:42 AM
2

Don't address it at all, just set up the date and time. If she brings it up again respond like adam-l suggested.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:21 AM
1

If you put your foot in it, don't double-down on the mistake with further contact. She will get in touch eventually, if she wants to. Nothing you can do in the meantime.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:14 AM
7

No such thing as a Long Distance Relationship.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:12 AM
19

Desperate men with no options either take what they can get or go full incel and shoot up a shopping mall. How are these questions in any way helping you on your own journey?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:10 AM
5

Yes. At 34 he has access to girls of pretty much any age. If he can find identical qualities in a girl 10 years younger than her, why would he want the 31-year-old?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:39 AM
1

I am not sure I even see any shit tests in that example to be honest - just a girl with all the power in a relationship being bitchy because she can.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:13 PM
1

Are you uncircumcised? If so you might have a sensitivity issue, especially if you’re used to masturbating using your foreskin. Are you uncomfortable with your own touch directly on the glans with your foreskin back?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:09 PM
3

You sound thirsty. She's just a FWB, why do you care about her priorities?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:01 PM
4

Because weak men with no other options allow them to contribute nothing.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:16 AM
1

Not your problem. Stop white knighting.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:57 PM
1

Other people are not your responsibility dude, your only duty is to yourself - and once you have them - your kids. Anyone else should be looking after themselves.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:29 PM
1

Laugh it off bro, it’s all useful experience.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:27 PM
1

My first time was shitty too, in the back of a (small) car, in the dark, faffing about with a condom for ages and then nutting after about a minute of being inside her. Second time in a more conducive and relaxed environment was pretty awesome though. Avoid the self-conscious, low self-esteem girls if you can because sex with them is almost always shit.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:22 PM
2

I think you’re way overthinking it. First time with the lights off with a girl who is putting in zero effort whilst your mum is waiting for you in the car is not conducive to a successful sexual experience. Stop worrying about it, because all you will do is ensure that the next time is shitty too, even if the situation is ideal. Keep up with nofap and avoiding porn, put the rest out of your head. Next time, be in the moment, not your own head and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:16 PM
7

And if she doesn’t, move on.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:13 PM
5

The world is literally chock-full of idiots, so what?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:22 PM
12

So anyone that is correctly applying TRP principles then.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:20 PM
2

And stop using Instagram as a measure of interest.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:44 AM
-4

Holy shit you're an idiot. Firstly, it's "losing", loose is what you dropped out of as a baby. Secondly, You literally said yourself it's retarded, but you went and wrote it anyway. If you want to sound like a retard, crack on pal, you obviously don't need my help with that.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:56 PM
-1

You know what would've been even less retarded? Not fucking mentioning it at all.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:40 PM
19

Why would he look cringy if he's literally come from work? Have a word with yourself. I've heard girls say many, many times that men never look better than when in a suit. Just make sure it's not a cheap one, and that it's tailored properly, to you.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:37 PM
8

Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:34 PM
3

"cis-white-male" Fuck off, you're just a normal white male. No need to buy into that bullshit; there are two genders, male and female, anyone between is mentally ill. To answer your question, my brother lived in Fort Worth - seemed pretty boring to me.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:30 PM
11

FYI you treat them the same as 4s, 5s, 6s etc. As another poster said, always set the date and time yourself, don’t ask.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:36 AM
19

People are like that because it’s easier than taking responsibility and putting in the work. Fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 10:49 PM
1

You cherry picking one example trying to say it represents the norm is pretty ignorant. Where did I say it was the norm, sperglord? If you have striking male model features obviously your nose is overshadowed by everything else. Have you fucking seen Gérard Depardieu? My point was his nose hasn’t held him back, because his attitude doesn’t stink like OP’s and presumably, yours.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:17 PM
0

Nobody is born a famous actor…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:10 PM
1

I agree that a nose that is too bulbous from the front view can actually be a detriment depending on how it looks. Try telling that to Gérard Depardieu, who was a French sex-symbol for decades and has probably the world’s ugliest non-deformity nose.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:16 AM
3

It’s not your nose that is the problem, it’s your attitude towards it and you constantly comparing yourself negatively to your hotter friends. Surgery on your nose will probably help, but not because your nose will look better, but because you’ll feel better about it and your attitude will improve. It’s a lot quicker and cheaper to just fix your attitude without the surgery.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:56 AM
8

That advice is for people with careers in jobs with high potential; it does not apply to the gig economy where people are fucking each other all the time.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:52 AM
2

Drama is for girls. Why do you care what random girls say about you? Also, it is worth pointing out that just because some girls that are mad at you say that you “treat your girlfriend like shit” doesn’t mean your girl has been bad-mouthing you. Girls make shit up all the time - especially about people they “hate”. Who knew?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:48 AM
10

Do not call her out on it. Not only will this achieve nothing positive for you it will also encourage her to double down on the secrecy. You have your suspicions, try to verify without alerting her to them. Withdraw some attention if you wish but try not to come across as butthurt. Sounds like you’re prepared to end the relationship if needed - good, you may want to start sowing some seeds with other potential girls if not already.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:19 AM
1

Only you know if it’s worth it.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:26 PM
1

Ditch these losers and get better friends. If you have to move to do so, move.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:25 PM
2

If you want to fuck her, fuck her, if you don’t, don’t. The fuck you care what we think?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:23 PM
5

Don't have conversations about politics or other such controversial subjects where feminism or liberal-leftism dictates to them that their opinion must differ from yours.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 11:20 AM
1

The vast majority of my friends have no idea how much money I make. I like it that way; people are more interested in you for who are, not what you can do for them. Buy yourself nice things, but don’t get too flashy and invest what you don’t spend wisely. Spend for the future not just for now.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:30 PM
2

Your problem is you’ve got an excuse for everything: Work is devoid of females, boohoo I’m only 178cm, boohoo I can’t talk to girls because my brain isn’t wired correctly, boohoo I don’t have any friends because I’ve moved around so much, boohoo. Buddy, I’m surprised you have the time to do anything at all with all those pity dicks to suck on. Make sitting alone, crying over a fucking cartoon be as low as you get, because from where I’m sitting you: make good money and have good prospects are no…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 10:15 PM
–

Everyone is “making it work” until their LTR suddenly helps herself to some strange because they’ve been absent for 4 months. There will be no warning. It might have already happened and OP simply doesn’t know it yet.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:53 PM
1

Why are you allowing yourself to be isolated into these situations then? My point is you should be leading, being the man and isolating girls you are attracted to so you can make out with them instead.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:19 AM
143

Doesn’t matter what we (or she) think - you did the right thing for you. No such thing as a long distance relationship.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:14 AM
9

Why are you making out with girls you’re not attracted to?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:12 AM
8

Also consider that it could be relevant insofar as people with protected characteristics in the workplace (gay, female, trans, ethnic minority, etc) are realising they can push the boundaries much further than the rest of us, without fear of recrimination, because the vast majority of companies out there are scared shitless to do anything to them.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:04 AM
1

Sounds like you’re probably alright then. I would consider covertly recording your interactions with him if you get an inkling they’ll escalate again.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 09:00 AM
3

Why are you in an LTR with a girl you didn’t vet properly? You can’t vet properly without meeting her friends. You learn a lot about the girl by the company she keeps, she will have similar behavioural traits to them.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:48 AM
3

Any witnesses other than his family/friends?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:37 AM
1

Presumably so the coworker could be related back to his previous post, which worked for me.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:36 AM
30

Two issues with this beyond being butthurt you didn’t get laid: You’re wining and dining a plate, even going to the effort of cooking - you’re treating her like something more You bought two bottles of wine when one was more than enough Her state of sobriety is on you, take responsibility for it. You lead, they follow.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:30 AM
2

LTRs aren’t “despised” here - but you need to have vetted thoroughly and understand what you’re getting into once you decide to go monogamous. Personally, I don’t see much wrong with your current situation, you’ve had your eyes opened and you said yourself decent girls are hard to come by now, if you can’t love them, ultimately who cares? You’re statistically very unlikely to spend the rest of your life with one girl, so guarded is good.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:24 PM
5

Who said anything about winning? He doesn’t care whether she thinks she is being “led to her demise” (whatever the fuck that means) or not, he leads and she either follows or doesn’t.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:17 PM
14

For that type of girl you don’t need a strategy, she sounds like a chav and she will be all over that Spanish dick at the first opportunity. Aim higher.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:13 PM
8

It’s literally in the first line of his post that they are not related.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:18 AM
1

You've mentioned being overweight in other comments - fixing this should be your number one priority. I know he has said it doesn't bother him, but guys have had hundreds of years of answering "does this make me look fat?" to know how the game works. He is not going to tell you straight up he finds you less attractive, but his actions are. Playing games like making yourself less available or no longer initiating sex are not going to do anything to improve your situation, you will just feel worse…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 09:38 AM
8

Don't over complicate things, closer to the time of the move shoot her a "Hey, I'm moving to the city for work in a few days, we should get drinks". Move, get settled in, then fix up a time and place with her.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:26 AM
20

It's either: They're busy messaging all their other lays or getting their tits out on OnlyFans They don't want to come across as slutty, even if they are
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:15 AM
-4

“Cool, some other time then.” Don’t initiate further contact.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:48 PM
2

Just enjoy the view, it’s not like your girlfriend doesn’t check out other guys.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:46 PM
1

And I'd give "The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome" a go
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:40 AM
3

NMMNG was one of the first TRP-related books I read, well over 10 years ago, so don’t try giving me advice. I’m not the one here digging myself a trap and then asking guys to spoon feed me the way out. I didn’t ask you directly for two simple reasons: I was trying to get you to use your brain (my mistake) Girls don’t communicate directly, so being able to read between the lines and communicate indirectly is a useful skill. that’s not what I’m saying in the slightest to her That is the point numb…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:12 PM
2

Are you autistic? You’re still not answering my question. I’ll give you one more shot, rephrased; would you say this to a girl? I’m so insignificant in my job I can be gone for hours and nobody notices
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:49 PM
2

I don’t need the context, the situation is irrelevant - why would you tell a girl you skipped work for 4 hours and nobody noticed? Think about what I am asking you before you reply again.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:39 PM
2

Why the fuck would you tell her that in the first place?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:35 PM
2

That’s what other girls are for.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:18 PM
6

You’re friendzoned - you took your shot and she knocked you back. Next time escalate quicker and make your intentions clear from the off. Onto the next buddy.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:18 PM
1

Fair enough. Sounds a bit like scarcity though and you’re falling into a trap where you start to “really like” your best lay despite her issues because you don’t have enough other good lays. Be patient, the pandemic is winding down and in the meantime try to train your other plates to fuck how you want.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:15 AM
1

Snores Get the fuck outta here, she’s a plate (though I suspect she’s your only one, in which case, she’s your GF).
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:08 AM
2

Be that as it may, on appearance alone a 5’5” jacked guy is not going to be viewed or treated in the same way as a 6’3” jacked guy. For every guy there is a cutoff point where muscularity begins to reduce their aesthetic appeal rather than enhance it, and that point is reached earlier if you’re short.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:02 AM
7

Muscles increase every man’s SMV, but I think there is a caveat with very short guys that they can go too far. As someone in an old friend circle of mine discovered, you can cross the line into try-hard territory very easily as a short guy, and everyone then assumes you’re doing it because of a massive height-related chip on your shoulder.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:28 PM
11

To me that reads “I don’t like just the one cock”.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:33 PM
3

Honestly, why do people make this shit so difficult?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:21 AM
5

Enjoy the peace and quiet.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:32 PM
4

I also feel so lost and don’t know where to start. First step is to quit that Nice GuyTM, white-knighting bullshit. The only girls you help and support are your family and your LTR, and even then be mindful of the sort of help and support they’re seeking from you. You’ve been lurking for months, the rest is in the sidebar and the gym.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:22 PM
2

Why isn’t she buying her own stuff with her own money?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:36 PM
1

“Correct”?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:26 PM
1

It was time to move on the instant the T changed to a D.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:24 PM
5

Nope, leave him alone. He's not going to listen to you; he doesn't want to listen to you. Your best play is to be there for him when it all goes to shit, and nudge him in the right direction of avoiding putting himself through a similar situation in future.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:12 AM
17

If you’re a girl I hope the irony isn’t lost on you. Girls wear make-up, push-up bras, high-heels, all designed to make them look better, they ghost guys, they apply dread, use sex as a weapon, dangle carrots for favours, etc. And before you say “but they’re not doing it consciously” let me ask you what is worse, conscious manipulation or a complete lack of self-awareness?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:51 PM
1

There is no one-size-fits-all in that scenario and you’d have to assess each individual friendship on its own merits and drawbacks. I’m not looking for the same things from my friends because some are extremely loyal or useful, but not much fun whilst others are number one on the list of people I want to spend a night out with but I wouldn’t dream of trusting them with anything more important than ordering the next round at the bar. Personally, I’d be thinking more along the lines of being the f…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:12 PM
5

Well you’re in charge of contraception because you’re a man and not an idiot, so you get to fuck her brains out multiple times without risk before she toddles off to billy beta to trap him.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:00 PM
2

If you’re using words like “toxic” in this manner then you’re part of the problem; you’ve bought into the bullshit mainstream narrative that uses such words to shame people for their behaviour because it doesn’t toe the “facism in the guise of tolerance” line. I have a very hard time taking people who describe non-chemically hazardous things as “toxic” or get “triggered”, seriously, but you won’t (and shouldn’t) give a shit what I think, so crack on. To address your question, people are fucking …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:56 PM
89

It’s like you’ve forgotten the vast majority of the internet - particularly mods on sites like Reddit - comprises basement-dwelling, liberal-left neckbeards who still think being a Nice Guytm feminist is going to get them a sniff of that sweet, sweet pussy.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:43 PM
2

No, always a good thing.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:38 PM
1

Fair enough, but no, that is not what I’m looking for in a girl and you’ve got to remember that the vast majority of girls are not interested in bettering themselves or being ambitious because they don’t need to be. At the gym, you make sure your gym buddies challenge you, have similar goals and don’t slack off. In your career you try to surround yourself with hard-working, motivated people with similar or greater ambition than you that are going places or can help you to go places. In your soci…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:27 PM
8

Time to cultivate other options, a branch swing is likely impending. Getting your ducks in a row now with regards other girls is win-win for you; if she's still genuinely interested in you a bit of dread might bring her back around, but if not you're good to go straight back into dating the minute she decides you're done. As mentioned elsewhere, the wall of text is meaningless; acta non verba.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:51 PM
4

You do you, but I would suggest you're looking for the wrong things if you're vetting on intellect/intelligence or looking for motivation. You need to be your own motivation, she just needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. Personally I've got fuck all chance of finding a girl with a similar intellect; make of that what you will.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:41 PM
2

So you had a fit on her kitchen floor and she did nothing to help? She sounds swell. Shame is a pointless emotion and nobody gives a fuck what embarrassing stuff you’ve done because they’re all too worried about their own dumb, embarrassing shit. Personally I’d deny all memory of the night and ignore any attempt from her to get you to pay for a new fridge or acknowledge any of your actions. If there is a lesson to be learned here it’s probably get less fucked up.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:31 PM
7

Ok, dance, monkey, dance.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:39 PM
7

How do you get over the need to tell her that she hurt you, when she is acting oblivious and gaslighting you? Honestly? That shit would be a deal-breaker for me and I wouldn't deal with it at all; she'd be gone. I think you need to de-couple hurt from investment in girls a little bit: entering a relationship knowing full well beforehand that it might not work out and any effort on your part might be wasted does not necessarily render that effort a pointless waste of time. Perhaps the relationshi…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:59 PM
21

If you've got all the answers, why are you on here asking how to "steal back" a girl you've never fucked, that has straight up told you she's interested in someone else instead?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:49 PM
15

Sending a few messages about sex and a butt pic that I guarantee you can’t identify her from isn’t high investment dude, it’s minimal effort. You need to go back to the drawing board. Best case, she wants you to jump through hoops and compete with this other guy for the ego-boosting validation. Neither of you will fuck her, because the dudes that she is fucking are not talking about it or simping over butt pics, they’ve actually got their dicks in her.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:41 PM
2

For future reference: If you set boundaries, make sure you enforce them with suitable consequences for overstepping them Never issue ultimatums, they are always from a position of weakness. If you’re in control you will never feel the need to issue them.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:36 PM
75

Oh my bad, y’all already married. Congratulations on finding a unicorn that shoots rainbows from her ass. Question: how many other dudes do you think have talked about sex with her and received a butt pic or two?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:32 PM
68

That “connection” you feel is worth the sum total of fuck all, especially to her. If you’ve not fucked her you’ve not got anything to “steal back” anyway.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:25 PM
15

The only mistake I can see is that you committed yourself to a girl for 3.5 years when you should be focussing on your studies and having fun. This shit is not important, but your future is. Stop hating yourself (I’ve no idea why you would) work hard and build a future for yourself. At this point in your life girls should be a fun distraction, not a commitment and not something you should be putting much effort into. Honestly, she sounds pretty crazy (who is thinking about marriage and kids as a…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:50 AM
8

LDR explained that I need space Lol, you not have enough already?
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:04 PM
21

People are quite capable of making a homemade pizza, yet they’ll still order a Domino’s or buy a ready-made pizza to stick in the oven. This is the same thing, as long as you are actually capable of making your own pizza.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:54 AM
1

Correct. Society doesn’t hold them to account, generally, why should they hold themselves accountable?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:46 PM
0

Still who cares?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:15 PM
2

Who cares?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:33 AM
1

This is a trainwreck. OP, you know she wants to break up, be a fucking man and dump her ass. Then let this serve is a very important lesson for you going forwards: don’t jump straight into exclusivity, and vet girls thoroughly, paying particularly close attention to the emotional baggage they are carrying around with them.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:35 AM
3

Might matter to him.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:20 AM
5

Proper etiquette requires you to slap him across the face with your gauntlet to issue the challenge of a duel. OP if you’re sure your girl is talking to another guy and lying about it then the issue lies with her, not the guy. I am sure you don’t need to be told that calling her out on it is pointless, so decide on the severity of the transgression, the seriousness of your relationship, and then act accordingly by cutting her off completely, nexting or demoting as you see fit and appropriate.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:16 AM
1

OP said he’s “not super tight with” the group. Know your audience.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:39 PM
5

Have you not been paying attention to the rules of engagement recently? It’s okay to be racist if you’re a person of colour, just like it’s okay to be sexist if you’re female. If you’re a white male though, shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:28 AM
9

Social media is genuinely responsible for a lot of society’s ills.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:24 AM
31

Stop feeling terrible for him, he doesn’t want your help. Focus on yourself, lead by example. If he wants to wake up, he will.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:21 AM
7

“Only one way to find out, meet me at <venue> at <date/time>”.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:19 AM
3

No it will not put you in the top 10%, it’s just one piece of the puzzle. Also, girls have no idea how much money you make when you first approach - it’s not really a factor in attraction when you don’t need lots of money to be in good shape, dress well and look good.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:13 AM
1

Girls know fuck all about cars except for the colour.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:29 AM
1

You’re asking the wrong question; don’t bother yourself with what he might want from you, what, if anything, does he bring to your life? If the answer is nothing, or relatively little, then there is no upside to rekindling a friendship that failed previously and you’re better off remaining distant.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:45 PM
2

A quicker/easier moral would be: don’t put your dick in crazy. Where are you guys finding these crazy-ass bitches?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:05 PM
18

No socials, no problem.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:12 PM
1

Cool story, bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:19 AM
7

You need to find a more productive use for your time then. You know the problem, you also know the solution, you just need the discipline to do something about it now.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:56 PM
1

September is ages away. Keep her ticking over if you like but game local girls in the meantime.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:51 PM
13

I'm finding social media to be a terrible place to be right now. Wouldn’t know, not on it with the exception of Reddit. If it’s eliciting that sort of response from you, why are you bothering? Delete, live life in the real world and be happier.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:46 PM
84

Ignore it. Drama is for girls. You’ve told her nothing happened - leave it at that. If she can’t accept that then on to the next.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:33 PM
21

Bit late if you’ve found the cock.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:56 PM
4

Welcome, Midlander checking in.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:34 PM
37

Definitely you, although if you’re used to whiney American sorority girls I can see how you’d come to that conclusion.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:06 PM
5

Try Skyns - thin and latex-free. But otherwise, yeah, stop death-grip desensitising yourself.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:53 PM
1

There are plenty of quality girls out there but as you’re probably American and seemingly 12 years old you’re completely oblivious to the world outside your shores, so you wouldn’t know.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 01:36 PM
39

This. The IUD might be safe, but she is not. OP stick a bag on it and cum in that if you really don’t wanna pull out.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:39 PM
7

If it was me I would be bored of this shit already and have moved on - 19 is no age to be tied down to one girl, you should be having fun. To quote the Senet Groups’ gamble responsibly motto: When the fun stops, stop
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:37 PM
1

Pretending to be jealous when you’re not seems stupid to me. Are you a performing monkey doing tricks for a girl or a dude with better things to do that doesn’t give a fuck?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:33 PM
3

They’d just say “but it’s not all women!” and the irony would be lost on them.
/r/PussyPass16/04/21 11:52 PM
16

Don’t bring it up, no point being verbal. Just have the meal as planned and as long as you’re being fun and chill about it (and assuming she doesn’t want you out of the way later for nefarious reasons) she’s almost certain to ask you if you’re sure you don’t want to go to the party. At which point you say yes in a “okay, fuck it, why not” sort of way. Hell she might still find time to come back to yours and fuck first if she’s having enough fun with you. When it comes to flirting with other girl…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:32 PM
39

Disrespectful like changing anniversary plans last-minute to go get drunk at some other dude’s leaving party you mean?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:01 PM
28

Should’ve gone with her and used the opportunity to have some fun and flirt with other girls there.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:54 PM
14

I’m confused, you marked your territory, what’s his problem?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:52 PM
6

mental health of women Go to the RedPillWomen sub if you want that, there’s no place for that here. Besides, they don’t need or want your - or our - help.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:48 PM
0

girls will fuck the couldn't give two shits dirty grimy motorbike jetting hells angel with $105 bucks to his name and sleeps in a tent Of course, but are you valuing quantity or quality? Generally speaking, the girls you fuck most are the ones that tend to reflect your value back at you. Do you think girls that hop on hobo-cock are high quality with good self-esteem and high self-worth?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:46 PM
12

No, I get sex, I just don’t value my existence by it. Attention from girls is a byproduct of having your life together, it’s not the goal. If you’re looking after yourself physically, have your career on point, have a good social circle and cultivate a social status you will get girls.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:46 PM
63

Pedestal You need to learn to value your own worth from within, not externally. Basing your worth on how much sex you get is meaningless, nobody gives a shit and neither should you.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:55 AM
1

Fun fact, he was vegetarian and deeply concerned about animal welfare.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:11 PM
8

I don’t know about the goal, but I do know that the far left will turn on itself eventually and cancel culture will get cancelled. The way to avoid it right now is to not have any social media, not follow the news (particularly MSM) and avoid SJW-types at all costs.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:02 PM
2

“Hey” etc are low-effort, put you in the same category as every other simp with nothing to say, and don’t give her anything to respond to. If you’ve got something to say (preferably logistics) then lead with that.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:34 AM
1

I’d be more concerned about my irrationality and paranoia if I were you.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:24 AM
5

The irony is that if a guy had written that he’d be an “abusive, misogynistic asshole”. Gotta love the total lack of self-awareness or blatant double-standards (or both).
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:08 AM
1

Wrong sub friend, this is for advice to females, usually from other females.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 08:45 AM
1

Right on. OP was onto a good thing and then his ego decided it needed some validation and it backfired.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:37 PM
2

Missed opportunity here, she’s asking for your approval - this is good. Also you’re focusing on the length aspect instead of what the question really was; “have I got the legs to pull this off?” Next time tell her which dress you want to see her in.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:09 AM
73

Some may have been genuinely assaulted, others use it as a way of rewriting history and absolving themselves of any responsibility for their past sexual escapades (I’m looking at you, “three guys at once in my junior year” girl). Don’t forget that every single one of them just got out of an abusive relationship too.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:54 PM
4

This will be my last reply because you’re too stupid for me to keep wasting my time on. You’ve heard of analysis paralysis? Tag, you’re it. I’m in my fifth decade on this planet, I’ve followed TRP et al for probably 15 years or so now, I’ve seen a lot of shit and I take nothing at face value. You know what I’ve never done? I’ve never been asked to fall asleep on the phone with a girl, or been begged to say “I love you”. These are things gay best friends are asked to do, not things a guy a girl w…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:17 PM
7

This is the way.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:11 PM
3

You’d be better off trying to poke this girl, instead of his logic. Then when she reels in disgust and hits you with “I thought we were friends?!?!” maybe you’ll get it. I doubt it though because you’re one of those autistic thinkers; analysing everything and doing nothing.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:57 PM
4

Not sure what you’re hoping to achieve by constantly questioning further. You’ve had the correct answers, maybe try shutting the fuck up and reflecting on them?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:49 PM
5

if it’s possible for a girl to actually emotionally like a guy without liking him sexually Yes, these guys are called friends.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:48 PM
13

It’s like you’ve never seen girls hugging and telling each other they love them. What makes you think of any these gestures is romantic?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:26 AM
14

You’re effeminate and/or give off gay best friend vibes.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:22 AM
2

If you’re trying to distance yourself from him, why did you bother to reply? Trying to think of something witty to hit back with is pointless. Drop him, and some introspection as to why this dude’s words still get to you wouldn’t be amiss.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:37 PM
4

Hooking up anywhere without protection is fucking stupid dude, period.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:31 PM
3

Next. Why on earth are you having pyjama parties with this girl?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:54 AM
3

What a fucking train wreck. Marrying for financial gain is what women do, plus when you’re 30 and should be out there banging girls in their 20s you’ll be attached to a dried-up 44-year-old post-waller. I’ve got a better idea: stop being a bitch, man up and be responsible for your own fucking life instead of being a pathetic leech.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 10:31 PM
8

I have no fucking idea what you’re talking about.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:25 PM
-2

Anger is part of the process.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:22 AM
1

That’s bullshit, and I’d venture that a pretty good way to lose whatever feelings you do have for a girl would be to see some other guy’s baby gravy plastered all over her.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:45 PM
4

lol dude you’ll be telling us all to check for unbroken hymens next. You’re aware there’s plenty of things that can go in a pussy that aren’t attached to a guy, right?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:41 PM
2

She’s 25, and a single mother of three kids - what needs breaking down? To put that into context, if she’s grown up in a state where the age of consent is 21, then she’s basically had back-to-back children from as soon as she legally could.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:24 PM
6

There’s a difference between not showing emotion/weakness and suppressing your feelings. Nobody is suggesting the latter, what you must not do is allow your emotions to control you; you control them.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:40 PM
3

In many ways a sudden showing of weakness/emotion when you’ve a history of being RP/stoic is more repulsive to girls than consistent BP tendencies. It’s like you trigger this panic button that tells them you’re actually a fraud and they’ve been duped; they will bail.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:36 PM
2

What you need to do is ignore all that bullshit and work on being the most attractive guy you can possibly be, because more often than not the difference between a welcome approach versus an accusation of harassment is how hot you're perceived to be.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:00 AM
1

“Not about the sex” but you’re addicted to porn? Everyone that can’t get laid says they’re not here for the sex. That is a coping mechanism and you’re doing yourself no favours by not being honest with yourself. How’s your health, diet, physique? These are probably the last part of the puzzle for you.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:50 AM
1

She stormed out of my house and took all her stuff. Result. You’re young and in good shape, go have fun with girls you are attracted to.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:18 AM
1

Is she actually a plate or are you just parroting?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:16 AM
1

Of course there are outliers. Does that mean you should be testing for unicorns? No such thing.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:00 AM
3

I have no idea what you mean, but there are plenty of girls who will call out other girls for bad/slutty/whatever behaviour. So what? You need to be out there testing the theories and seeing if their behaviour confirms them, not on here wondering if any of it is true and if you might be able to get girls to talk about it, like that would achieve anything.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:47 PM
0

So your idea to try to not overthink about women is to ask them if a bunch of material written by dudes on Reddit that basically defines them as hopeless thots that don’t know what they want, lack self-awareness and are basically always looking to trade up is an accurate reflection of who they are and how they behave?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:40 PM
13

women of TRP LOL. Don’t take fishing advice from fish. Besides that, would them “admitting” anything benefit you? The answer is no; watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:28 PM
2

It’s not a “test” per se, and a genuinely high-value RP guy will not be trying to impress a girl anyway. I think you should also stop gauging interest by how much a guy is prepared to pay on dates; a lot of guys are mindful of “girl power”, the earning potential of modern women and the constant feminist roar that men and women are equal and calibrate their behaviour on dates accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 11:21 PM
1

People are on tinder to fuck, “a few dates” is already too long to have got nowhere. Did you even try? Only way to find out if a girl will fuck you is to escalate.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 12:13 PM
35

Welcome to the world of DGAF.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 12:30 AM
2

Your head looks top-heavy, offset this by getting a skin fade back and sides to remove some bulk, and grow your beard out to give you a stronger jaw line, but tidy the neck area up (the beard should stop two finger-widths above the top of your Adam’s apple). Also you look fucking miserable in that head shot, try to look more fun (but not goofy). Edit: you’d benefit from a thicker neck too, although there’s obviously no quick fix for that.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:14 PM
13

Don't listen to this guy OP. If you're okay with your LTR hiding messages to a guy discussing an arranged marriage then cool, but bear in mind that you're very unlikely to have received the whole truth from her here. Her actions are the message; number not saved, messages deleted and lying to you about the whole thing - personally I wouldn't stand for it.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:35 AM
6

You know what you need to do.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:32 AM
1

“Come over later and show me how much you hate me - in that lingerie”. Also, WTF is “shup ur bad bad”? Are you smashing a retard?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:52 PM
34

"Thanks". This is on you; either conduct your business covertly or be open about it from the off. Trying to find out who "snitched" is an exercise in futility and time spent better on other things - assume none of your friends can be trusted and move on.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:31 PM
5

Why didn't you?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:34 AM
3

How long did you vet for?
/r/askTRP07/02/21 11:13 AM
2

Since you said “can’t be arsed” I’m going to assume you’re British, in which case I’m going to suggest you might just be feeling a general apathy towards things right now because of having nothing to do, nowhere to go and being technically stuck in a third lockdown with no end date in sight. This shit is starting to wear really thin now.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:31 PM
3

You should’ve ended things instead of going long-distance. “Explore” means bang other dudes now she’s in new surroundings with loads of new opportunities to get laid. What more do you need to know?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:21 PM
1

Yeah, saw your your other post and she’s certainly dialled up the crazy. If the situation is as it looks to be then you’re doing the right thing - she needs help, but it’s not the sort of help you can give her and she’s certainly not your responsibility.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:50 PM
8

That’s not third-person dude.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:24 AM
9

To be honest, that’s pretty low on the crazy scale, more standard girl drama than anything. Forget about her mental state and what she wants for second - what do you want? If the sex is good enough to put up with the drama then continue to smash. BUT: be in charge of contraception have other options You may get a few more lays out of this one before it breaks fully.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:22 AM
1

He didn’t get a single response anywhere else 😂
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:07 AM
2

lol.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:58 PM
3

She’s already gone. You’re 19, get your shit together dude. It’s all bullshit at your age.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:55 PM
2

You must be seeing different responses then, to me it seems everyone agrees you’re overthinking - because you are.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:34 PM
5

Autist.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:32 AM
3

“Cool”.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:29 AM
3

It is a coping mechanism. It’s much easier to move on, and easier to convince yourself you’re trading up, when your ex was an asshole.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:27 AM
1

Abs are tricky - as much about diet as the actual muscle building, but unless you’re approaching girls topless they are not going to help with initial attraction. What does help is big arms and broad shoulders - more easily attainable than abs and assuming you maximise your style to compliment your physique, more useful for attraction.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:24 AM
6

While you were dicking about he stepped up and gave her a dicking. Try a move straight from his playbook next time - less talk, more action.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:19 AM
5

33F. Open, long-distance relationship. Stopped reading there - what are you playing at?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:14 AM
3

Pretty much. You can try talking about it but it has to be in the abstract and you cannot refer to things directly because it puts 99% of bloopies off.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:30 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:42 AM
1

Is English your first language?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:49 PM
2

Context? But generally the other answers of “walk away” probably apply.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:48 PM
1

Maybe edit your original post for clarity? Are you saying she’s asked you to meet her and her friend?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:42 PM
1

So creepy-ass stalkers like you can’t find her?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:41 PM
5

Buddy you’re approaching this all wrong. Firstly, how can you know you want an LTR with her when you’ve not been intimate with her? You might not work well with each other. She could be shit in bed or a completely different person when she’s in a relationship versus being a friend. Secondly, you should only want sex, nothing more; it is her job to push for a relationship later on down the line. In your original post you said “should I go?” but didn’t say where, have you got something social line…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:34 PM
4

You can’t just go from friend to instantly trying it on - that is autistic and it’s difficult to get out of the friend zone at the best of times, never mind with zero effort.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:12 PM
5

Why are you lurking on ask women? Women don’t know their own minds, never mind other women’s.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:09 PM
11

So you tried to kiss her and she rejected you, then you told her you liked her? Your game that night wasn’t “pretty bad” it was non-existent.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:04 PM
2

You’re never going to “get your mind right” whilst your end goal is winning back an ex. She’s done what you should’ve done the very second she ended it - blocked you and moved on.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:02 PM
1

Walk her to your place?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:05 PM
4

How are you going to fuck her if you don't walk her home?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:39 AM
1

Don’t know unless you try. Those of you thinking “ewww” are fucking pathetic. This place really has become overrun with bp simps.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:30 PM
-4

Anal is awesome for both you and her - why limit yourself?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:07 PM
2

Why? She won’t remember you.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:31 AM
31

Because girls are whores and this is low risk sex work.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:22 AM
3

Why are you wasting time with this shit? Seven months is nothing and it was years ago, that’s why. This question is stupid.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:14 AM
1

Imagine giving redpill advice but caring about downvotes...
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:57 AM
0

Block all of them and move on with your life - the only drama is that which you allow. Don’t allow it. Also, nobody can “make” you feel guilty, that’s some lingering, internal blue pill conditioning left for you to work on.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:42 AM
1

Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:38 AM
5

How is this in any way helping you personally?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:25 PM
3

Don’t care, neither should you.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:39 PM
2

Top trolling.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:25 PM
5

Imagine being so insecure that you worry about your girlfriend changing her profile picture.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:56 PM
24

Another vote for Skyns - plus they’re latex-free.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:55 PM
10

The solution is to stop getting into relationships. Stop being exclusive, start plating multiple girls and suddenly this sort of bullshit is a non-event.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:31 PM
9

But I already know she's giving me her pussy because of what she wants from me, what she hopes she'll get in return, what she hopes I'll do after. This is just the female version of a covert contract and that is entirely on them, not you. You have nothing to feel bad about - the only person you owe anything to is you, so crack on and don’t look back. If it makes you feel any better remember that these thots crying over you are the same ones that have been leading little billy beta on for eternit…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:04 PM
1

Shit, you didn’t even need to buy them back when I was 30 - you only needed a half-decent GPU and you could mine the fuckers for free overnight. I wish I’d done that and then had the nerve to not sell them for a couple of hundred bucks each.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:22 AM
1

I don’t know why you spergs are still trying to save simps from themselves. You have to find TRP for yourself. Stop trying. First rule of Fight Club...
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:04 PM
14

Nothing more than “ok” - she’ll probably hit you up again when you don’t bend to her will and rollover.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:47 PM
4

Why don’t you and OP go private and circle jerk yourselves silly - a lonely little-man love-in.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:14 AM
3

That’s not dread dude, she’s not interested. Dread only works if you have something to lose - a 30-second Instagram conversation is nothing.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:17 PM
61

So? No such thing as bad publicity and she’ll almost certainly gain a few extra simps to milk from here.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 01:26 AM
2

End the relationship, tell her to seek professional help and warn someone in her family or friends group about what she is threatening to do. DO NOT let her come over - the last thing you want is some crazy girl grabbing a knife in your home. Her actions as a fully-grown adult are not your responsibility.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:13 AM
15

What part don’t you understand?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:08 AM
5

OP is it you downvoting these answers? You’ve literally had the only answer you need, multiple times - ditch her. Anything else is bullshit.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:45 AM
7

Make sure you're the one who is responsible for birth control, because this is exactly the sort of stupid shit girls hit you with when they've "forgotten" to take the pill for a few days.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:31 PM
5

If you want to hang out, hang out, if you don't then don't? Worrying about being too available demonstrates over-investment and/or a lack of abundance. See her as much as you want, get as much sex from her as you can and if you notice a behavioural change in her as a result then adjust accordingly or drop and move on to the next one. Trying to pre-empt such things is focussing on the wrong aspects.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:27 PM
2

It’s game over with this girl, but in her case the clue was in “she’ll hookup when she doesn’t expect it to go anywhere” - be the fuckboy that these sorts of girls expect to never hear from again.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:34 PM
10

You need to understand the reality that she is a slut and is simply using being drunk to absolve herself of any responsibility for her slutty behaviour. She then overcompensates when sober and tries to project a completely different personality if she thinks there may be long-term potential with a partner. This is the sort of girl you fuck but don’t get attached to.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:26 PM
1

You again. At least you’ve not mentioned getting your legs broken this time. Dude, as you’ve been told countless times before, whilst your height and looks maybe an an issue, they are not the issue. You sound like you’re no fun, try-hard and have a massive chip on your shoulder. Fix these first.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:34 PM
1

You’re probably just moving too slowly. How long does it take you to get physical? What number date do you get to before attempting to fuck?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:15 PM
1

Don’t be a sperg, did you see me saying that those elements were bad advice? They are not. Telling him he shouldn’t be confident, however, is.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:58 PM
2

Why “shouldn’t” he be confident without being able to back it up when so many other people already are? You’re advising him to put himself at a disadvantage when he should be faking it til he makes it.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:52 PM
5

Nonsense, there’s plenty of high-confidence, low-ability people out there. Stand out by being confident and able to back it up.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:48 PM
36

It has got decidedly boring seeing everyone hide behind their labels - just another excuse to be mediocre.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:47 PM
0

“Why do you need to make a choice? I won’t be”.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:45 PM
13

Why the fuck would you even want to? You’re not going to help anyone, and you’ll just make yourself a target.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:47 PM
10

Fuck better other hoes.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:55 PM
1

If you’re moving away for uni you’ll be able to do whatever the hell you want, so consider that before taking the other good advice and talking to them about it, because you may unnecessarily cause issues. If you’re staying at home for uni though, do indeed have the chat. You should be free to do whatever you want (within reason and the bounds of common courtesy) at your age.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:50 PM
11

lol train wreck. You decide when to LTR a girl, not her.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:54 PM
14

looked through my phone found i was texting my female friends and got mad and forces me to cut ties with any female friends. “Forced you” find your balls quick buddy, jeez. Also, put a fucking passcode on your phone and don’t tell anyone it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:53 PM
5

Life is transactional, everything is predicated on value and worth. Stop being such a Nice GuyTM.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:36 AM
3

Unless “bonding” means getting your dick wet, it is of no benefit to us.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:35 AM
5

Fair enough on the second reason but the first is pure ego-protection and procrastination. You’ll never be “ready”; stop being a thinker and start being a doer - as soon as lockdown allows.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 08:28 AM
11

WTF is this shit. Instead of dicking about in “online communities” with instasluts from different countries why don’t you try interacting with girls in real life?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 08:21 AM
3

u/TRPCops are we cool letting this guy keep spamming about getting his legs broken to magically fix his shitty attitude?
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:16 PM
0

Not sure that’s a shit test without some context. She might just wanna fuck your best friend instead.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:56 AM
1

She left me for someone else but i love her and miss her how do i get her back? You don’t. Have some self-respect. Look at it from her point of view; she’s already left you for someone better, how is you grovelling going to achieve anything other than confirm you’re as pathetic as she already thinks?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:52 AM
2

Bingo, always remain in control in a scenario like that. It would not surprise me if the girl who asked the question already knew the answer and was only asking because you were within earshot and she wanted to get a reaction from you. Don’t give them the satisfaction.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:29 PM
4

Either learn about the technologies you suspect he might ambush you with ahead of time, or answer honestly - “I don’t know about that, as you already know”.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:26 PM
6

Badly, by demonstrating you were butthurt about the comment at the time and then confirming that with her in private afterwards by issuing a demand that it doesn’t happen again. Were there any other guys there or was it just you, her and her girlfriends? If the former next time I’d suggest you and the guys have your own conversation and Ignore this sort of shit. If the latter I suggest you don’t attend any more girls nights.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:19 PM
12

What you say isn’t so important as how you say it and demonstrating you’re not phased by shit tests such as this. Basically do whatever you want except answer honestly and directly.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:15 PM
16

“Only because you sucked at cooking”
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:08 PM
0

Being red-pilled and wanting kids are not mutually exclusive. What is “full RP” anyway?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 07:08 PM
-5

I think it says more about you than it does me if you interpreted what I wrote as “talking down”.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 10:35 AM
2

No, it’s not. Marriage is a very different proposition for women than it is for men. It’s not hypocritical to be pro-marriage for women but not want to get married yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 09:21 AM
0

He already said he wants a family, and marriage doesn’t automatically safeguard her against those risks.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 09:19 AM
4

You’re only 17 and way ahead of the game. You’re going to naturally get bigger in the next couple of years or so independently of the lifting so just keep at it. I would be more concerned about your motivations. It’s cool to want to be big and imposing but trying to look intimidating because some guys are giving you shit is a good way to find yourself bleeding out in an alley with a knife/gunshot wound. Keep your head down, ignore them and focus on your personal goals.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:25 PM
0

Or he wants daughters.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 11:10 PM
4

a few days later she msgs me again. She's just fishing to see if you've found your balls yet or if you're still there ready and waiting to take the bait.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:59 PM
1

orphan, bad childhood, sexual abuse, trafficked to the US as a teen, no education, no family I stopped reading here, you are a meal ticket and she knows exactly how to play you. Her past is none of your concern and certainly not your responsibility. Also, drop that "privileged" bullshit, you sound like a Gen Z snowflake. Life's not fair, there are haves and have nots - don't apologise for being a have.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:55 PM
2

You're a thirsty orbiter and she is milking you for validation and attention. multiple times like 7 That's at least 5 times too many.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:47 PM
2

More likely she’ll tell you she has then go covert.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:33 PM
4

Doesn’t want to “catch a case”, sends pathetic apology text next day owning up to whatever she decides to accuse him of in future. Next time, send nothing.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:55 AM
3

You’re not gonna find a hot girl that doesn’t have an army of ready-to-fuck simp followers in the age of Insta and OnlyFans dude.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:39 AM
0

How have you improved yourself in those 10 years? Also, unless you're married with kids, breakups are not tough.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:27 AM
5

Would you like to pay loads of money to have both your legs broken and still be shit with girls? That is where you are heading. I'm not tall.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:19 AM
3

It really won't, but you do you bro.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:09 AM
2

She's not going to give a shit bro.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:08 AM
2

Can't be bothered to read all that, put a TLDR in there. I'll assume your problem is that you're focussing all your efforts on one girl - oneitis - and you're micro-analysing all of your interactions with her instead of being able to read a situation and act accordingly. A sample size of one is not going to tell you anything meaningful - it is a numbers game. Talk to more girls.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:04 AM
4

You're on the right track, but forget about the leg lengthening. Why anyone would want to put themselves through that for pussy is beyond me. Keep improving your looks, but more importantly, stop placing importance on girls and go out there and excel at something worthwhile, and make a ton of money and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:01 AM
1

Just smile? They’re staring because you look good, why would that make you feel uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:48 PM
3

It happens man. Anyone says anything you say “we just didn’t click”.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:42 PM
3

What have you got to worry about?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:40 PM
3

You didn’t enjoy it, forget her and have sex with other girls.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:39 PM
2

Don’t be a sperg, he’s 21 and has his whole life ahead of him, as does she.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:33 PM
1

Why are you watching movies with a plate, never mind debating giving them a choice? For me it’s about 50:50 with my LTR, but only because she has good taste in movies.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:51 PM
0

Tell your friend to mind his own business, ignore whatever comes out of your girlfriend's mouth and her friends' mouths. The important part here is that she is behaving the way you want. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:45 PM
3

Wrong crowd bro, this sub is full of guys who “could care less”.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:38 AM
1

The texting only for logistics rule is not supposed to be a substitute for common sense, and it's only really there for the simps who text like girls, because as we all know, you can't really build attraction via text, but you sure as shit can lose it.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 02:46 PM
1

Everybody knows it’s handbrake turns that get pussies insta-wet, not speed. Rookie error.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:03 PM
16

The problem is you’re being logical and that’s not how girls work. Plenty of girls have been with their best option and still risked it all for one night with a guy objectively much worse because it felt right in that moment and she got the tingles.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:00 PM
2

Is Mormonism the one where I can have five wives?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:57 PM
5

u/TRPCops can we ban this Lord of the Spergs please?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:38 AM
3

Everything you write is dripping with autism.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:37 AM
3

I feign mental illness to be able to troll other subreddits without getting banned from them. You sure you're feigning bro?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:24 AM
3

Why are you pursuing a relationship? That’s not your job, it’s hers.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:51 PM
11

What’s with all this mental-masturbationary bullshit on here lately? What you’re missing is that those guys aren’t getting fucked. Sure, they might get occasional duty sex and birthday blowies, but they’re not getting fucked, and as men, we want to fuck and be fucked. You know who is getting fucked? Chad.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:50 PM
1

From one extreme to the other, what could possibly go wrong?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:20 PM
-1

Let me ask you a question, how in any way are the answers going to help you?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:16 PM
2

Dance, monkey. Why are you living with a girl you're not fucking, even for two months?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:13 PM
3

You've either been too accessible or she's climbed back onto her ex, or both. Don't chase.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:52 AM
5

Says he’s red-pilled, thinks his 22 year-old LTR never sucked a dick or watched porn before him. Here’s how your long distance “relationship” is going to go buddy: You’ll be a good boy and remain exclusive, she’s going to be sucking and fucking hot Spanish dudes the whole time She’s going to keep telling you “next time I’ll come to visit you baby”, you’re going to keep being the one actually paying and making the effort to travel You’re going to start making plans for the future when you can be …
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:18 PM
1

Women aren’t “wicked”, you cannot ascribe motives to creatures that act only on emotion and instinct.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:12 PM
3

Why, what difference does it make? She was either fucking someone else before you broke up, or she wasn’t. Either way you broke up and she should now be dead to you. Closure is for bitches.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:10 PM
2

Someone else in here a few weeks back was also told they were being “abusive” by a girl for ignoring her texts. Firstly that’s horseshit, ignoring someone can’t possibly be abuse, just tell them you’re busy. Secondly, girls lack the self-awareness to realise that not responding to texts is straight out of their own playbook. How many times have women given men the cold-shoulder silent treatment over the years? They must all be toxic abusers too then.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:26 AM
5

Probably, but firstly and most importantly, who cares what they think? Secondly, your average 18-21 year-old, bleeding-heart liberal, gender studies unitard has grown up in a world where words are “violence”, where tweeting something that goes against the group-think grain is a “hate crime” and where everyone is slowly but surely being moulded into a gender-less, vegan, soy milk latte-drinking, skinny fat, delicate snowflake. In that context they’re gonna consider a fucking fart to be toxic.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:20 AM
6

No, they don’t. I’ll give you a clue: if a girl says something is “toxic” it almost certainly isn’t. Stop listening to stupid shit that girls say.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:08 AM
10

Why are you trying to be a toxic douchebag? Are you autistic?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:04 AM
9

You could quit like a pussy, or you could try to understand why you’re getting rejected and work on improving yourself? One of these is easy and yields nothing in return, the other is hard but you will reap the rewards. Your choice.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 11:39 AM
1

Yep, get it properly shaped by a barber to create a strong jawline impression.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:32 PM
13

Read Sex God Method, but honestly the best way to improve is to practice my guy, the more girls the better.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:15 PM
3

All this drama, after only a week...
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:33 AM
1

Because it works. A guy literally posted here a few days ago contemplating LTRing a girl because she'd started flirting with other guys in front of him.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:23 AM
11

Personally I would value honesty over protecting feelings; if that is how he feels then he should be free to express his emotions however he wants. But the better approach is to find somebody that you rarely/don’t argue with, then it’s a moot point.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 08:17 AM
6

100% this, but there is no way OP will pay attention. Imagine being so pathetic that you're desperate for nudes from your own GF and she can't be bothered to send them.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:07 AM
2

This is the right attitude my guy, pity more posters don’t have your mindset.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:22 PM
6

Your dick game sucks and to make things less awkward these girls are leaving you with the false promise of further hookups before ghosting you so it’s not so obvious.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:01 PM
1

Then your original post is redundant - you already have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:57 PM
1

You need to be better than that. The real issue here is you’ve described her as both a plate and an FWB - these are not the same and now I’m wondering how many other plates you have?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:55 PM
3

You’re getting dread played and you’re falling for it. Your only motivation for considering a relationship with this girl should be actually wanting to LTR her in spite of other options and only after a sensible amount of vetting (minimum 6 months). Personally, if a girl I’m with blatantly flirts with other guys I find it disrespectful and would pull back, not consider further commitment.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:50 PM
2

I’m 5’10 and had a 6-year LTR with a girl a shade over 6 foot. She looked great in heels too so I’d get her to wear them a lot. I didn’t care so neither did she.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:14 AM
2

Ignoring someone isn't "abusive" whatever the reason. Don't get suckered into all this safe-space, woke, words are hate crimes bullshit that liberal university lesbians with no life experience peddle around.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:54 AM
1

Girls talk shit. All their exes are abusive assholes, etc. Next time a girl accuses you of something, just ignore it. In this case you should block her on everything and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:51 AM
2

Why the fuck would you even want to? Get as far away from both parents as possible and live your life the way you like, in spite of your upbringing.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:24 AM
9

This is really fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:48 PM
1

pedastool Is that some sort of exercise seat?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:12 PM
5

100% - if she had a problem with it she should’ve opened her mouth and said something at the time. OP: don’t make a scene, but next time you and this punk are alone you need to put him in his place. Also, get better friends.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:33 PM
3

You failed the second you gave a flying fuck what your female coworker and her lesbian friend think and say about you. My standard response to anyone peddling religion is “Oh are you the one that lets me have loads of wives?” to which their usual response of “er, no” is met by my silent walk away. Saying no is empowering.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:21 PM
2

If you replace “horses” with “whores” it does read much better.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:12 AM
7

Real men want to hug horses and worry about how said horses feel about them? Okay dude.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:11 AM
15

“I’ll let you know if it ever happens”. On the face of it it sounds like you have a decent relationship with your boss and he bigs you up. If true, don’t fuck that up by getting into some sort of AMOG contest. Sometimes the smart play is to lose a battle but win the war.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:24 PM
8

Can’t get divorced if you don’t get married.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:01 PM
2

Ignore her request - I don't see how anything other than bad news could come of you admitting in writing that you tried to kiss her when she didn't want it. If "what you did was not ok" is how she worded it, then be extra careful, because she can turn "it" into whatever the fuck she wants at a later date - "he assaulted me officer, look he admitted it". As it stands now, it's her word against yours and your response to anyone that asks should be "I don't know what you're talking about". Going fo…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:55 PM
48

I turn 41 this week, never been married and have no kids... it’s fucking awesome. Obviously this year has been a bit of a blow out with Covid-19, but I have a great family, great friends, a good LTR, my own house, my own company, six-figure income, zero unsecured debt and am in good health. I’d say I’m about as far from being sad and lonely as possible.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:09 PM
11

She is denying you sex whilst chasing her ex with nudes and love bombs - yeah, sounds pretty awesome to me 🙄
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:05 PM
21

I was with one of my exes for six years, and we broke up about nine months after moving in together as it just wasn't working out after that. I am thankful we'd not got married because that would have been a much worse situation for me to have extricated myself from. Whilst I am pleased you have personal rules to live by, and the integrity to not compromise on them, I don't think it hurts to be aware of the flipside; of men's potential motivations for not wanting to commit before cohabiting. The…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 09:11 AM
2

Oh, we’re doing sarcasm are we? In that case, I see you’re listening to the advice you’re being given and learning from it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:44 AM
1

Not “Hi, I think you’re better than me so you shouldn’t be interested” which is basically what you said.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:11 PM
4

You don’t have to have lots of money to be beta bucks - you just need a willingness to spend what you do have, usually whilst in orbit and getting nothing in return. Money is a factor in SMV because it is an indicator of success, and success usually creates status.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:54 AM
1

There’s no magic bullet to kill the beta in you, it’s just confidence - which takes time to build and is generally built on success. The only advice I can give you is that you will regret inaction much more than pulling the trigger and being rejected. You’ve really just got to go for it, and either way you’ll be better off; you’ll get to fuck her or you’ll know where you stand and you can leave limbo and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:32 PM
3

Oneitis coupled with fear of missing out or being rejected is making you hold back. Two months of interacting with this girl is too long to have not made a move - you’re going to end up in orbit. The difference with this one versus the two previous fucks is that you probably cared less about them and pulled the trigger quicker.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:06 PM
1

This is a time when OP needs to lead his LTR. You’re suggesting he does nothing out of a fear of losing her. No you spastic, I didn’t suggest he did nothing, I said that telling her she has shitty friends will achieve nothing except her likely siding with them and instead he has to lead by example. Because that is apparently too complicated for your lizard brain to comprehend, leading by example in this case would be: not having shitty friends himself taking her out to interact with his own frie…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:59 PM
1

Ok, Rambo, keep parroting those TRP catchphrases and completely missing the nuance in OP's situation. I'm sure that's working real great for you. You will notice the current top answer is offering OP advice on how to manage the current situation, you are offering OP nothing.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:29 AM
0

And why would that be an issue? Because she's an LTR, not a plate, and he obviously wants to keep her around or he wouldn't have asked. That’s indicative of her low quality. No, it's indicative of female nature - you're not going to find a girl who doesn't place huge importance on what her friends and other people think. don’t desperately try to keep every one you come across It's not about that, he needs to understand why her friends feel the way they do about him, because if it's not jealousy …
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:05 AM
-2

Don't do this OP, she will almost certainly choose her friends over you. As with most dealings with girls, you need to be less overt in your actions; lead by example, not words.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:16 AM
11

I'm also a grower, girls think it's hot when "they" make it way bigger than it was before. 2 inches is not a micropenis; stop self-sabotaging and roll with it.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:51 AM
5

Sigh, this isn’t your diary dude. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:33 AM
2

If you’re raw-dogging your plates, perhaps this will be a wakeup call for you.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:30 PM
1

You attract with Looks, status, money and game. You keep with good dick game, not making them your purpose and being their best option.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:18 AM
7

The only person trying to train their lizard brain is you. She's blocked you so she can get pounded into oblivion by multiple Tinder matches, and yet for some unknown reason you're trying to tell yourself she's hesitating because of "mad love" for you? What the fuck.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:15 AM
1

If it is then girls are much more abusive than guys - dread and nexting are straight out of the female playbook.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 06:27 PM
4

Tell me, what possible advantage do you hope to gain from doing this? I already know the answer, but you obviously need to think about it.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:52 AM
1

No, have some self-respect and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:53 PM
3

Plausible deniability is her job, not yours. You just have to make it feel natural, like it just happened.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:55 PM
3

Experience, just keep it at and the bloopie in you will fade. If it makes you feel better, consider how easy it was for you to get her to do something she didn’t want to do, without saying a word. Also remember that girls are master manipulators themselves.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:53 PM
38

Because unless you’re Chad Chaddington they’re not going to do the work for you.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:51 PM
10

You say, my place at x time on x day, and bring your sister. Unless 17 isn’t legal where you are, of course.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:45 PM
13

Withered old hag is jealous of the nubiles and/or wants a piece of you herself.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:31 AM
13

Why do you care how you “come off” to this chick? All this talk of flipping the script and so on is just bullshit. When you ended the relationship that should’ve been the end of contact, period. No going back. You don’t want to be friends with this girl, so tell her that. No need for reasons or explanations. Focus your relationship efforts on new girls, and lay off the video games - find your purpose and excel.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:22 AM
10

If she makes you jump through all sorts of hoops, and has you buying her shit and treating her like a princess before you get to take her to poundtown then she's probably digging for gold. If you can bang her relatively straightforwardly and without having to barter for it then you're probably good. Point is, either way, you need to try sticking your dick in her.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:12 PM
4

Think you're in the wrong sub, bro.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 02:55 PM
20

Same way you find out if any girl from anywhere is interested in you - try to stick your dick in her.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:54 PM
3

Something like 65% of second marriages end in divorce. That's not a whole lot worse than the 45% of first marriages that end in divorce. Conclusion: don't get married. it's hard to see having a very fulfilled life being alone, single, and fucking plates the rest of my life. It can be exceptionally fulfilling and there are many states between fucking plates and marriage that you can occupy. I'm 41 next month, never been married, no kids, but am director of my own company, make great money, own a …
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:34 AM
1

What sort of bullshit is this? Step up and be accountable for yourself, cretin.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:34 PM
1

This is correct. OP, be someone your cousin can look up to and imitate. Acta non verba here.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:53 AM
6

It’s not just the job you’re in at the time though. Aside from the hassle it can cause in the workplace, you don’t want to have to explain to prospective employers the reason why you got fired from your last job because Stacy accused you of sexual assault when things went sour and she got pissed off.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:38 PM
200

Don’t shit where you eat. How many times 🙄
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:58 PM
7

She’s your ex, so instead of asking us stupid questions, ask yourself why you still care? If it helps, block her completely and get on with your life.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:23 PM
37

It means she wants to hookup but doesn’t want to sound like a slut.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:51 PM
4

No. Dude she was fucking grinding on you and was the one that initiated - take it to it’s natural conclusion. She won’t do anything she doesn’t want to.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:44 PM
2

Don’t ask, tell her what you want.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:35 PM
3

Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. If you’re capable of attracting one girl, you’re capable of attracting many.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:16 PM
1

Spot on. OP please understand how backwards it is to be thinking long term about a girl you’ve not even met yet. She could be a complete cunt and fucking terrible in bed for all you know. One step at a time dude.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:48 AM
6

If it’s such “good pussy” why the wall of text suggesting otherwise? 18 is way too early to be thinking about a wife and kids dude, you need to live some of your life first.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:27 PM
12

Dude you’re fucking 18, why are you locking yourself down to a single girl?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:16 PM
2

No, all pro-level dudes are helpless virgins /s Why do you care?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:56 PM
1

Ignore the “don’t shit where you eat” advice OP - the rest of your post is so fucking cringe it won’t matter because you’ve got no chance with this girl.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:26 PM
3

You can care without being a fixer, which is a Nice Guy trait and not the selfless, altruistic act you think it is. Nobody is suggesting you stop caring completely, but you need to be way, way more selective about who and what you care about, and you need to start putting yourself first, much more. You’re asking why you should, but you already know the answer - caring has achieved nothing and left you hurt and alone. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy, and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:01 PM
18

This sort of bullshit is why TRP advises against social media. Have you not got anything better to do than look at your LTR’s friends’ IG stories? Secondly, if you think your LTR might have been saying that threesomes are fun, you should be trying to have a fucking threesome with her and one of her friends, because she’s right.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:26 PM
2

Trainwrecks, everywhere.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:02 PM
6

Girlfriend after two months? How long did you vet? if she thinks your cum is gross she’s just not that into you.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:17 PM
2

Whatever it is you’re not getting, the issue is the same; you’re comparing your relationship with this girl to her previous relationships and getting butthurt. Blowjobs I’d get, but pictures? Come on man, set your ego aside for a second.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:48 AM
1

Inclined to agree to an extent - OP is getting whatever he wants from this girl physically but is butthurt she won’t send nudes? Doesn’t make sense.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:26 AM
2

Never go full beta - you need to mix it up a bit in an LTR.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:39 AM
4

Your only response to "your ego is impossible to deal with" should have been to laugh and say "ok". Then not give it another thought. Pointless question.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:19 AM
9

They’re just disappointed with themselves that they gave up the only thing they could hold over you so easily. It’s just an extension of you being the gatekeeper of commitment and them being the gatekeepers of sex. I say keep doing what you’re doing, unless you’re looking to keep these girls in rotation, in which case you may need to give them a bit more comfort, especially after sex.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:57 PM
1

You can have tits and ass without being fat, dude.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:14 AM
0

I really don’t understand this millennial obsession with “thicc” girls.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 10:00 PM
7

You’ve gotta remember that a lot of TRP advice is from the perspective of sleeping with multiple plates, and what works there doesn’t necessarily translate well to LTRs, and certainly not long-standing ones with children involved. The advice is also geared towards day-to-day situations, not a situation where a parent is dying and the dynamic is very different.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:29 PM
11

I think you’re over-simplifying things. It’s not a case of acting more beta = less sex here, and being supportive of her during this difficult time for her isn’t exactly being beta anyway. I really think Occam’s razor applies here, and the simplest explanation is that she’s stressed out - understandably - for multiple reasons, and it’s having an affect on your relationship with her physically. Don’t over think it man - continue to be supportive, in a strong way - be her rock and things will star…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:13 PM
1

Then make new friends outside of your STEM circle and go out with them instead.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:30 PM
2

Your real issue is your relationship with your friends. What’s the deal with them calling you gay?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:51 PM
3

Have you got a plan for when one of them tries to lock you down by pretending to be on the pill when they’re not?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:34 PM
12

We all hate them buddy, but you should not be going raw with plates/FWBs - period. The risks, far, far outweigh the momentary benefit of a little extra pleasure.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:49 AM
2

It doesn’t really matter what she says now, or the reasons behind her actions - once they get physical and/or start trashing your shit it’s game over and they should be dead to you. Imagine if it had been the other way round and you’d got physical with her - what do you think she’d be doing now? She wouldn’t be on Reddit asking for advice, she’d be at the very least over you already, at worst reporting you to the cops, but certainly she’d have left you and not looked back.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:43 AM
12

That’s what condoms are for.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:38 AM
3

The logical reasoning is that your example predicament is indicative of wider issues in your relationship and with you yourself. Also, I can count on two hands the number of phone conversations I’ve had with my current LTR of four years, and all of them were short and about something important. Long chats with girls are for girlfriends.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:13 PM
6

Those are shit tests, and stop saying "it" like some sort of wannabe reddit edgelord.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:25 PM
3

Surround yourself with better people.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:58 AM
5

How and why are you seeing so many dude’s dicks? WTF.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:10 AM
1

StrongLifts 5x5 - there’s an app you can get on your phone that manages the progression for you. Couldn’t be easier.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:57 PM
123

To be fair, showing some emotion because your dad died is not exactly displaying weakness and is not a vulnerability you should be afraid to show. On the contrary, it demonstrates you’re not a completely emotionless robot, that you care about family and that you’re capable of being invested in things that are important to you. All reasonable, positive things.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 03:50 PM
2

Now I really value trust and loyalty in a relationship She’s the girl, you’re the man; lead by example. Your actions don’t suggest you value those things at all.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 12:20 PM
3

Double standards much? If you want to fuck other girls, don’t get into LTRs (or get into OLTRs). I don’t think you can complain about her actions in this instance, so if you want to keep fucking her demote to plate and cultivate other relationships. I don’t see this working out though.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 10:15 AM
2

I’ve been talking to this girl for a couple of months who we’ll cal “A”. She’s someone who meets LTR material How can you possibly know that after only two months of talking? Why has it been two months and all you've done is talked?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:18 AM
1

It’s called pre-selection. Crack on. makeup can’t cover it WTF?
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:32 PM
1

I’m not trying to “convert” anybody - generally TRP needs to be found by people looking for it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 06:56 PM
1

Fine, but people conflating advice that goes against the grain with advice that is misogynistic, still doesn’t make it misogynistic, whatever the context. I don’t give a shit what the average BP simp thinks about it anymore than I’d care what a feminist thinks about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:06 PM
5

a lot of the advice here is misogynistic I disagree; the advice is not gyno-centric, but that doesn’t make it misogynistic. What you’ve done here is made the same mistake that militant feminists make - “you’re not a feminist? ZOMG you must be an evil woman-hating, abusive man then! Reeeee!” That’s not to say there isn’t misogyny on display here, but the advice usually isn’t, in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 02:10 PM
3

You’re only creeping into oneitis territory because she is turning you down for sex; see this strategy of hers for what it is. You can try the usual ways to ease through LMR (standard sidebar stuff) but if this doesn’t work on the next date then your best recourse might be to employ the same strategy and take further dates off the table, e.g. next her and accept the possibility that there may be no coming back from that.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:18 PM
2

How do you know it's happening?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:31 AM
10

“I’m busy”. At least you can see how badly you’ve been nibbling at the carrot she’s been dangling. I’m sure I don’t need to say: she’s not going to fuck you, she’s just getting a kick out of leading you on, and you keep coming back for more.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:11 PM
3

Too late now
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:06 PM
3

There’s things you can do if you don’t think you can pull off being bald - transplants and hair systems spring to mind. But there will be another reason why you’re not getting laid when your friends are, and it’s not your lack of hair.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:21 PM
1

Fuck off with that incel bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:35 PM
2

Looks aren’t just how handsome you are buddy. Looks include physique, style, haircut and even how you stand, move and carry yourself. All of which can be improved and none of which is genetic or immutable.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:26 PM
14

Way too much text. I would’ve responded to her first message with “ok sexy” and soft-nexted her. She’s obviously enjoying the D so let her get over herself and come crawling back. It’s not even as if calling her sexy is disrespectful as she put it - it’s just years of bullshit feminism has told her that you’re “objectifying” her. Ignore.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:19 PM
3

Things like sudden lack of interest from her, less interest in intimacy, going out with her friends a lot more than normal, being more secretive of her phone, etc.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:30 PM
1

Most women eventually cheat? Maybe, maybe not, but the import takeaway from that is that **all* women can cheat*, so be prepared. Don’t go rummage through your GF’s phone, nothing good ever comes from it. Just trust your gut and know the signs.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:24 PM
2

Bullshit, but on the very, very slight chance you have seen a vagina in person; why are you here if you’ve got all the answers? Go touch her private area, get that fountain flowing and fornicate with her so you can mix DNA.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:25 PM
2

“Fornicate” and “private area”? Found the autistic virgin.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 08:50 AM
12

Doubt it was just the compliments; you’ve wasted two weeks texting a girl who had been chasing you for months and you’ve still not fucked her. She probably thinks you have a vagina and want to be besties.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:37 AM
10

You must be a lesbian because a) you messaged first on Bumble and b) you text like a fucking girl - “ooh, shopping!” Are you trying to fuck her or be BFFs?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:07 PM
1

Ok, in which case you’ve gotta decide if this is fixable, but more importantly if you want to fix it - is it worth it? I wouldn’t blame yourself too much, it’s not like you could’ve done anything to prevent it, or help her much after the fact over the phone. But I feel there’s something you’ve left out here, had you mislead her into thinking you were exclusive?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:43 PM
5

Did she get the police involved? Seems unlikely to me she’s being honest if not - if she tried calling you because she’d been assaulted I’d expect a voicemail at least when you didn’t answer. I’d then not expect her to not tell you about it for a whole week. My guess, she probably got mad with you for the radio silence and banged someone else while she was on holiday, then concocted the assault story to both deflect attention from her and make you feel bad at the same time.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:32 PM
7

Read up on the corporateland sidebar stuff (uncle Vas I think?) and the redpillworkplace sub. My advice would be, firstly, document everything; get all deadlines in writing, log (or if you can, record) all calls, always have your ass covered. Secondly, the reality is you need to fool these simps into thinking you’re one of them. This is a bit tougher since you opened your mouth and told them about the gym and martial arts (lesson learned, STFU) but is still possible. Hide your gains, act and tal…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:27 PM
5

I’ve been following these tinder rules by AMS What? There are only two rules: Be attractive Don't be unattractive Stop wasting your time with Tinder "dating coaches" - Tinder isn't even for dates, it's for hookups and thots seeking validation.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 11:27 AM
12

it seemed easy for me at first to AMOG all of them Sounds to me like you dialled up the autism and went into your new job acting like a total asshat, and now for some reason you’re surprised that they don’t like you and treat you accordingly. Sound about right?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:59 PM
4

40s guy here. 30s weren’t depressing at all, better than my 20s and my 40s are starting even better still. I’m not married, no burning desire for kids and own my own business - life is good.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:34 PM
6

Tell her exactly what you just told us? You’re the man, you set the pace.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:16 PM
13

Initially I wanted to say “treat it as a shit test”, ignore and keep doing your thing. But on reflection I can see her point of view and you yourself acknowledge the imbalance here. So I’d say instead treat it as a comfort test and meet in the middle until your schedule is a bit less hectic, then get back to taking as long as you want in the gym. I’d also add that skipping sleep to workout is counterproductive and you really ought to be aiming for closer to 8 hours sleep (if possible) and being …
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:12 PM
2

You’re in the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:31 AM
1

You probably should. Taking something for anxiety might help too.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:29 AM
1

Can’t hurt? I don’t think anyone here is really qualified to help you. Have you spoken to a doctor?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:26 AM
1

Ignore what she says She’s gone back to her ex, move on too You’re 17 with your whole life in front of you, so who cares?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:22 AM
5

And despite the overwhelming evidence they still have that pussy up on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:13 AM
2

Have you tried Cialis for first times with new pussy?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:11 AM
8

Guide to bitch management in the main sidebar and it’s probably worth checking out the married RP sub too.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 01:34 PM
3

Fuck someone else, she’ll get the message; your current dynamic with this girl is too well established to change now.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:52 AM
26

Sarcasm detector for the gentlesperg in aisle four please.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 10:52 PM
6

In the words of Dr. Dre, bitches ain't shit. You seem like you have the rest of your life in order, why are you making such a big deal out of this? The really sad part is you're going to fuck your first girl at some point and wonder what all the fuss was about. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, channel all this self-hatred and regret into making it happen sooner, rather than later.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 09:22 AM
7

Her motivations are irrelevant - it’s the fact she cares so much about it either way that is the issue here.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:46 PM
1

As everyone else has said, no, don’t tell them. I’d like to go further and say that one of the better RP lessons I’ve learned over the years is that less is more. Learn to STFU, because talking too much and volunteering unnecessary information will most likely bite you in the ass.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:39 PM
2

No, that’s really the point of the endorsements. All you can do is take everyone else’s advice with a huge grain of salt and go try stuff out in the field.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:22 PM
5

You sound like you’re doing well to me. As far as things with your LTR go, this was a drunken ONS, which tends to play much better with girls than affairs or “emotional cheating”. I think you should use this as an opportunity to think about what you actually want though. Is an LTR still right for you now or would you prefer to be spinning plates? If your LTR ends things as a result of this, think of it as one door closing but a whole bunch of others opening.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:42 PM
10

I think you’re heading for a ban for stupidity. Have you fucked her? And no, rubbing yourself raw whilst tipping her vibe from 3000 miles away does not count.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:23 PM
24

One of the biggest differences between men and women is responsibility; taking responsibility for their actions and accepting the consequences is not something most girls have to deal with. For you though my friend, there is no escape. Your first mistake was getting drunk and smashing some random thot without thought of the consequences. Your bigger mistake was denying it once questioned. The jig is up, time to man up and accept the consequences. What you absolutely shouldn’t do now is make excu…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:14 PM
2

Example?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:00 PM
1

What results have you got from the topicals?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:38 PM
7

Yesterday after another argument she told me that she wants me to act like a men To be fair she's done more for you with this one line that most girls would - take her up on it and start acting like one. This means: - No arguing - if she tries to start a fight, remove attention - Set boundaries and be prepared to enforce them - Don't tolerate bullshit - no bitchiness and no child tantrums when she doesn't get her way - Be prepared to walk away if necessary. If I were you though, she'd already be…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:42 AM
3

You can still cultivate potential new relationships without actually acting on those possibilities if integrity is important to you. Basically, always be flirting; it doesn't hurt for your LTR to see it from time-to-time either, just don't be a douche.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:26 AM
3

I'm currently a bit skinny fat, working on losing fat on my stomach before I start bulking. No no no no no. Start training to build muscle IMMEDIATELY - you're using belly fat as an excuse not to start when in reality lifting will help you shift the belly fat. We all know being a virgin sucks, but the only person who gives a shit is you. If you feel like the stigma is holding you back then pay for an escort and get it out of the way so you can get into a better headspace.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:19 AM
3

Your dick is above average. If you’re getting ghosted after sex it’s for other reasons.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:51 AM
3

Found the burger-flipper.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:40 PM
5

looks like a totally hot 20-something I call bullshit, but even if she does, she sure as shit won’t feel like one. That said, if you want to fuck her then knock yourself out. Why do you need TRP’s blessing?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:35 PM
1

You shouldn’t reveal weaknesses to anyone - male or female - unless you want said weaknesses exploiting.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:28 PM
1

Print the pdf (acrobat has numerous options for printing double sided even on single-side printers) and get it bound.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:22 PM
5

There’s your answer bro, they will notice you’re insecure and bail. Get your PE sorted, get into a better headspace then smash away because you’re obviously doing the hard part and getting them DTF.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:43 AM
6

Are you seriously asking how to tell a girl you don’t have IG?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:49 PM
11

The hardest things are the most rewarding.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:24 PM
4

Looks like you might be getting a couple of dudes there.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:10 PM
45

It’s called a joke, dude. Just A&A or something - “hell yeah we’d make bank with this face!”
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:48 PM
12

Yes that’s why I said he needs to act like someone who’s got it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:28 PM
26

Obligatory “do you lift?”. It’s hard to say where you’re going wrong without more detail, but I’m pretty confident that one of your biggest issues is you’re trying too hard and you want it too much. It gets said in here quite often that sex is like oxygen; it’s only important when you’re not getting any. Hard as it may be, you need to act like someone who’s got girls and doesn’t need another one. Otherwise they can smell the desperation on you. Read up on abundance mentality on the main sub side…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:21 PM
8

That’s a fuckton of text to basically say “I flirted with a girl for ages without pulling the trigger, then she gives me an in by bringing up me always making things sexual but I sperged out and went full nice guy beta instead of going for it and now she’s mad, what gives guys?’ See, couple of lines and your answer is in the fucking question.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:59 PM
35

Why the fuck do you need to pick apart what was “wrong” with her ex? How in any way does that help you stick your dick in her? Literally every girl’s ex ever was an “asshole” and girls toss the word “abusive” around so much now it’s practically lost all meaning. Ignore all of that bullshit because it’s about as reliable as her telling you her n count. Also, you’re not setting yourself up for anything other than orbit here, because if she felt the need to tell you after just one meet-up that she’…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:47 PM
8

I agree in principle, but op’s original question lacks context. There’s a big difference between telling your wife you miss her because she’s away with work versus texting Stacy (whom you’re orbiting in high school) that you miss her because it’s spring break and you can’t longingly sniff her hair from the desk behind when nobody is looking.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:19 PM
9

There are no shortcuts to becoming a high-value male; put in the time and reap the rewards.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:45 PM
3

First things first, end this pity party right now - it achieves nothing. Secondly, stop comparing yourself to others, focus on you and you alone. Finally, what are/have you been doing about improving your failure rate and ensuring you don't fail the second stage exam again? Get as much feedback as you can about your failure, ask your lecturers/tutors to break down your weaknesses for you and highlight the areas where you have the most improvement to make. Seek extra tuition as necessary. As othe…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:13 PM
2

Ignore all the other comments suggesting you make up some bullshit excuse (whether genuine or tongue-in-cheek) and own that shit, if she asks - she knows what it is, and how you got it so why pretend otherwise? It will go either one of two ways; she'll double down in her efforts to stave off the competition, or she'll tell you that she "doesn't share" and end things. If you're laying good pipe she'll disappear for a bit but will probably hit you up again when she struggles to get other good dick…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 12:17 PM
8

See them as much as you want? Honestly I’m sure some of you guys can’t even wipe your own ass after taking a shit without checking if TRP approves first*. *it does, as long as you’re not shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 10:36 PM
21

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:14 PM
6

Solipsistic. Don’t you know any?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:04 PM
13

No-hassle orbiters who won’t try to fuck them.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:54 PM
2

I think you don’t know shit about a girl when you first meet other than how hot she is and her approximate age. Anything else is not contributing to her SMV in any significant way.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:07 PM
2

No point discussing it with her, that is a road to nowhere: you’re unlikely to get the truth from her you’ll come across as insecure or controlling she’s going to do what she wants anyway. These things are best enforced non-verbally, by refocusing your attention elsewhere. Again, what she says is irrelevant, her actions are everything; she shouldn’t even want to go camping one-on-one with another guy, and you should not be thinking about keeping her as anything other than a plate/FWB.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:17 AM
5

Ok good. First off, as you’ve pointed out, you certainly can’t trust this other dude; you’ve been there yourself so you know. Secondly, whether this girl is up to something with him or not is irrelevant. Not only are you over-invested at this point, her actions should be telling you she’s not relationship material. Girlfriends do not lie to their parents so they can go camping with some other dude alone. You’ve said you’re not exclusive; the best thing you can do here is continue to fuck her but…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:13 PM
1

First question is, have you and this girl fucked yet? I’m kinda getting the impression you haven’t.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:05 PM
1

I’d take my chances with a blade over a Glock any day. What sort of “worrying stuff” do you mean? I take your point about third-party observations but I’d counter that by saying I’d trust what I see with my own eyes over some text a random dude has put in a sidebar on Reddit.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:06 PM
7

He’s also lost on the irony that google being fined multiple times demonstrates how little of a deterrent it is.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:54 PM
4

I wouldn’t read too much into that - the sidebar can be very US-centric and they can sometimes have really skewed opinions of other countries. Plus if you fuck a crazy dude’s girl over here, you’re not getting shot.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:34 PM
5

I’ll be honest with you buddy, you done fucked up. But don’t now fuck up things up even more by trying to undo it because your relationship with your ex will never be the same again. You’ll find someone else you feel that way about - there’s 3.5 billion females on the planet - but until then, continue to slay and learn from this.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:31 PM
8

Fining the 3rd most valuable company in the world, yep that’ll do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:53 PM
11

Yes because huge corporations are known for obeying laws, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:44 PM
2

Yes, stop using bullshit social media.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:41 PM
14

Spelling, grammar and use of French are not subjective, they are matters of fact. This is not a “to each their own” scenario, you’re just a bad writer and probably not very intelligent. I do like a good walk though, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 10:02 AM
21

I feel it’s well written Nobody cares how you feel buddy. It’s way too long, rambling, incoherent, littered with spelling and grammar mistakes and even contains a laughable “bone apple tea”-style attempt at French. It’s anything but well-written text.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 09:53 AM
11

What are you proposing as an alternative to owning a house? If you’re going to say “renting” then you’re really just pissing away money by paying someone else to own a house. Property is an asset, and your basic argument is that shit can happen and you might lose it? Guess what, that’s true of everything including your health, so are you just going to give up because it might be beyond your control? Your post is pointless.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 09:43 AM
14

I tried to read some of this, but honestly, what the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 09:36 AM
3

No I'd be aiming for 10-15 years younger than her.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:52 PM
6

So get jacked and make bank - you’re supposed to have a mission, remember?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:19 PM
3

Do you think the Rock struggles to get pussy without hair?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:16 PM
87

If she’s still draining your balls despite the stupid shit she’s saying, ignore and crack on. If it becomes a nuisance, next.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:43 PM
120

She’s just parroting things she’s heard her therapist say. What is your relationship with this girl?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:30 PM
21

Being hot is not just about having your looks and physique on point, it’s as much about mindset and attitude; about confidence as it is appearance. You need to be sure of yourself, and come off assured in all your interactions; girls want to be led, and there’s nothing hotter than being led by an attractive guy who knows what he wants and usually gets it. They get so much validation from this, and as we all know, they crave validation. If I had to guess based on your examples, you’re probably no…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:11 PM
43

It is probably a combination of not being attractive enough and giving off provider vibes. Girls want to fuck hot guys the same we want to fuck hot girls. Be the hot guy.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:17 AM
2

TRP is not a fixed set of rules dude, it’s a toolbox for you to pick and choose from. If you’re constantly worrying whether what you’re doing is red pilled or not you’re entirely missing the point. If you wanna hang with this girl, do it. If you want your dick sucking, tell her. Be in the moment, not in your own head.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:45 PM
1

lose your masculine center What? Frame and not giving a fuck are not mutually exclusive, in fact if you want truly solid frame a huge part of that is not caring what others think.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:40 PM
1

Why are you fucking girls you don’t want anything to do with? Choose better girls, and avoid girls with BFs if you’re looking for something more serious.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:36 PM
3

This gets worse every time you add more details. Starting to sound like oneitis for a girl with a BF. How many other girls are you fucking/trying to fuck? I’m guessing the answer is none, and that is the heart of your issue.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:14 PM
7

she didn’t say no she said I don’t do that then she said she sometimes does If you’re not familiar with the concept of girls stringing guys along by giving them just enough hope in their words to keep them hanging on then you’ve got a lot more learning to do. Have you fucked this girl yet?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:00 PM
9

"Doesn't really do that" = hard next. Plenty of girls who will.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:15 AM
7

I don't think you can do anything really other than deny everything if there were no witnesses: She's higher up than you You're a recent hire Your boss is female Congratulations on cooking up a perfect shit storm for yourself because you couldn't keep your mouth shut. Best thing you can do now is learn from this mistake and not repeat it.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:58 PM
8

So many paragraphs basically saying “I want to pretend to be someone else” for the sake of a relationship with a guy that is pretty much the complete opposite to you and who wants kids when you don’t. Here’s a suggestion, why don’t you stop wasting this guy’s time and do what is best for everyone and find someone more compatible who wants to be with you, not some fake unicorn trying to erase the past?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 04:57 PM
1

First question you should ask is, what does righteous mean to you, and why do you want to be it?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:46 AM
6

Strawman much? Check your ego kid, then take a long hard look at yourself and ask yourself why, instead of taking onboard the advice you’re getting, you’re getting all defensive. Here’s the real kicker; by feeling compelled to show your ex how much of a man you are, it’s you that is the slave. A slave to an ex of 7 months that cheated on you, a slave to your emotions of bitterness and jealously, willing to do anything and everything just to get a bit of revenge. The truth hurts.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:39 AM
7

The key bit of info that nobody else has mentioned from your post is that your ex is now in a new LTR and suddenly you’re motivated to try and make her jealous? It’s you that’s jealous bro. You’re a little boy and she probably needed a man.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:32 AM
1

Why have you plated a coworker, then confounded that idiocy by letting another - male - coworker know about it?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:44 AM
1

Out-bantered by a girl so you end it? You have far bigger issues than how you handled this one girl. Also, drop that telling people you don't tolerate disrespect shit - if you command respect through your actions and frame, you don't need to tell people, they will respect you automatically.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:28 AM
6

Spend more time with your dad and less time with your mom. Learn from him, not by asking questions (though you can) but by observing his behaviours and integrating them into your own. Also, nobody “makes you beta” - that’s all on you buddy. You’re doing better than most by at least having a decent masculine role model in your life - make the most of it! Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:49 PM
1

Because you don’t have anyone else.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:07 AM
23

Know your audience.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:56 PM
1

Better, but still no context - what is your relationship with this girl? It’s not one-size-fits-all and we’re not psychics.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:54 PM
1

Context? Also, format your post properly - I couldn’t be bothered to try and decipher what you’ve written, and I am more patient than most.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:51 PM
4

how do I avoid This is easy; shut the fuck up. Why are you running your mouth off?
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:44 PM
2

"Thanks. That's one of the best nights I've had in a long time." Guess what? No response Hold up champ, did you fuck her that night? I’m thinking not. In which case, why was it one of the best nights you’ve had? If I’m her I’m not responding to that message because I’m thinking “jeez, this guy is so lame he’s thanking me for one of the best nights he has ever had and i didn’t even put out. What a loser”. Or if you did fuck her (unlikely), then I’d say your dick game sucks. The macro look at why …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 11:28 PM
10

If you are rich and look like a model but have five flaws, according to her, she's obviously good enough to get the rich model who only has four flaws. Truth; she's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 10:46 AM
5

You should've been using them from day one, no excuses, no exceptions. I don't like using them Guess what cupcake, nobody does - you're not special, the rules don't apply to everyone else but you. If she's a plate, a FWB or anything other than a monogamous LTR, you wrap that shit up.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:11 AM
3

It’s not for HR’s benefit, it’s for if/when he loses his job over it and/or the cops get involved. If he has solid proof that whatever this crazy chick eventually accuses him of didn’t happen, then he’s got grounds to argue wrongful dismissal should he want to take the company to tribunal (they won’t want that).
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:33 PM
313

Lol the only thing more stupid than shitting where you eat is shitting where you eat with a girl from fucking HR. If I were you, I’d secretly record all your interactions with this chick from now on, because shit is going to hit the fan when you reject her and she’s going to try and fuck you over.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:13 AM
3

Hold up, you were at her place with her cute friend, looking at each other’s shaved junk and you didn’t smash then and there? If her cute friend was involved at any point of that then shame on you for not smashing them both.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:11 AM
36

If she was routinely still banging her ex then it’s much more likely to be his than the result of a drunken ONS with you. The only question you need to ask yourself is “do I want a kid with this girl?” If you do, tell her you think it might be yours and want a test done. If you don’t, keep your mouth shut and let her name her ex.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:06 AM
-1

Yes, thank you captain obvious - that was my point. You can have 50 people at your funeral (if you care about that shit) who genuinely care about you, without them being there because they are family.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:37 PM
5

I don’t disagree, but they are world famous, multi-millionaires at the top of their industry (which just happens to be Hollywood) and they’ve got the looks, bodies and personalities (at least overtly) to match. One of Vaz’s key pieces of RP advice for building yourself is to “be excellent at something” (paraphrasing) - I think you’d have a hard time arguing that being a top Hollywood actor wasn’t excelling.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:32 PM
2

Yes but that is very much an outlier scenario statistically - it takes the average couple six months to a year to get pregnant, and that is with them actively trying.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:05 AM
2

One of my favourite movies.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 08:42 AM
18

Even assuming the beta-biased sample, there are plenty of objectively alpha guys that end up in fucked marriages or dragged through the divorce courts by some crazy bitch - Brad Pitt springs to mind with Jolie, and look what Johnny Depp has had to deal with with Amber Heard.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 08:34 AM
71

Having 50 people show up at your funeral is also, well, better than no one showing up. Of all the retarded reasons I’ve seen to get married, this has to be the stupidest. The fuck you care how many people turn up at your funeral? You’re fucking dead. Besides, you can touch other people’s lives and make a difference enough for them to turn up when you die without wifing a hoe.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:17 AM
1

It’s not about whether she should or not - that’s entirely your call and you’ve made the decision to be covert. In which case the standard ignore then follow up with you were “busy” if quizzed may suffice, but really you’re just kicking the can further down the road here and you won’t be able to dodge it forever.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:58 PM
1

There's a difference between her knowing she's not your girlfriend, and her knowing you're fucking other girls too. Does she know you have other girls?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:06 AM
3

There's a difference between nofap because you're sat alone for hours every night spending your hard-earned money vibe tipping camwhores while beating it raw to the detriment of your career and mental health, versus nofap because you're just trying to cut down. If you're having sex multiple times a week, you're not in group A, so feel free to knock one out sometime before sex so you can last longer. Otherwise, as the other commenter said, kegels, plus you can always switch to pussy eating/finger…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:12 AM
1

I think how you should react is going to depend partly on how you’re being perceived in the circumstances - so think carefully about it. If one colleague is giving you shit, and onlookers are silently agreeing with him, reacting is going to backfire - you’ll look butthurt and this will make things worse, both situationally and also in how you’re going to feel after the fact. Conversely, if everyone else is watching and wondering why you’re being a little bitch and letting this punk give you shit…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:05 PM
4

One of the most powerful tools available to you as a valuable man, is the ability to say no. If you don’t want to get into a relationship, don’t - you have agency; use it. You should be defining your interactions with girls, you set the expectations, you steer the relationship in the direction you want.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:54 PM
3

There are algorithms in place specifically for detecting bots, triggered by such actions as swiping right on everyone, sending the same message repeatedly, etc. Once triggered you’ll still be able to send messages, but recipients don’t get them, you drop from everyone’s deck and your matches will dry up. At that point you need to delete your profile and start from scratch.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:51 PM
6

I don’t get it, you’re a model, you have hundreds of matches and you’ve saddled yourself with a girlfriend so your conscience is making you resort to begging for nudes? Why not just end things with your girlfriend and go have some fun? There are millions of guys that would love to be in your shoes and you’re wasting it on nudes from snapchat thots.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:19 PM
9

Until you get shadowbanned and have to nuke your profile and start again.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:16 PM
1

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle, and asking the wrong question. I don’t know anything about depression, but I do know you can seek help for it, and if you’re not, you should be. It’s not “less alpha” or “weak” to acknowledge you have an issue that you can’t deal with effectively by yourself, and from the description of your depressive bouts, you’re not dealing well with your issues on your own. There are people that can help you with that. In your shoes I wouldn’t be worrying…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:10 PM
1

Yes, just a matter of time; she’ll either give up short term and try and lockdown a bunch of other chads, or she’ll give up long term and settle for someone less. That or she’ll go nuclear and try to get pregnant with you (bag your shit, soldier). Either way you win, assuming you don’t put a bun in her oven.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:59 PM
4

You’re high enough value that she’s currently happy letting her hamster tell her you’ll change your mind down the line when you “realise how amazing she is”. Enjoy it while you can, it won’t last for ever.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:49 PM
3

Autistmaxx
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:02 PM
2

Gender-neutral or female-oriented; which is it?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 09:08 PM
1

Who cares? The best part is when you're still into girls 25+ but you're pushing 40.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:56 AM
3

You can get away with pretty much anything if you're attractive enough.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:14 AM
8

STFU and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:05 AM
0

What she does will indirectly shine you in either good or bad light. No it won’t, why would it? If she crosses a boundary you demote or ditch, depending on the severity of the transgression - no come back on you other than being seen as a guy who knows how to set boundaries and stoically enforce them. Your LTR whores on social media... bla bla bla Again, no. Firstly I am able to vet LTRs appropriately in the first place. Secondly, I’m not on any social media myself and couldn’t give a single fuc…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:49 AM
1

There’s a difference between acknowledging her actions and their motives, and caring about them. Not caring is the right course of action because: Sluts are gonna slut He can demote and work on other girls It’s just your turn and you should always be mindful of your turn coming to an end.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:31 AM
3

You should’ve ditched him years ago: He’s not your responsibility You can only help those who are prepared to help themselves. Plus you’re forgetting the first rule of Fight Club. Fuck him.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:22 AM
34

This is basic stuff covered in the sidebar: Girls don’t know what they want Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:42 PM
16

I got Chlamydia and Gonorrhea from a 18yo healthy girl, she just sucked me without condom that's all Are you sure of your facts? Both are highly unlikely to be transmitted to you from receiving only oral sex, and you're not going to catch anything from a healthy girl.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:44 PM
0

Just give him a knowing smirk and grab her ass - consider it a compliment.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:31 AM
3

Context? Your reponse will vary depending on if this is a one-off from someone random walking past in the street versus someone you know doing it repeatedly.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:34 AM
1

I would take this at face value, but be mindful that lonely girls in lockdown are likely soaking up as much digital validation as humanly possible. You being distant is only going to make that worse until she can physically see you again or you give her some crumbs. Tell her you’ve been busy and give her some of the comfort she’s looking for. Find a suitable balance between dread and comfort until things are back to normal.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:34 PM
3

Men don’t manipulate, they demonstrate.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 12:31 PM
1

Not weird at all.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:27 PM
6

They are contradictory in places because they are situational. Like TRP in general, it doesn’t all apply, all of the time. Use your common sense.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:54 PM
8

You don’t find them, you make them.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:12 PM
2

I don't like the idea of her thinking she doesn't have to be sexy to keep me interested, that's all. Then you demonstrate that non-verbally. Obviously this is tricky in the current covid climate, but you’ll want to increase dread (lots on this in the sidebar). Make it obvious you’re checking out other girls, flirt openly with waitresses, barmaids, etc. She’ll get the hint. Dial it back when she starts acting how you want again.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:13 AM
7

Don’t forget that the UK is still only testing the ill in hospital, so the death rate will be disproportionally high. Also don’t forget that men are roughly twice as likely to contract it than women, and also more likely to have more severe symptoms. So, no, no need for outrage, it’s a statistically sound outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 07:14 PM
11

She’s mental. Next.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:23 AM
2

Especially in a “high paying” and “respectful” job.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:46 AM
1

Why the fuck are you messaging “how’s it going”? Not only is that really fucking lazy and boring, but you’ve got to remember girls are boring too, so you’re not leaving them much scope to respond. Be interesting, and be different - how many guys do you think text that exact same shit to a girl on the daily?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:00 PM
34

...two months. Wait, what? The way you were talking up until that point I thought you’d been together for years. He’s not right for you, and marriage and kids should be far, far from your mind after only two months. You don’t even know him properly yet and you’re already frustrated and losing respect. Time to find someone that you’re not even frustrated with after years together, not mere months.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 10:08 PM
3

Most of the time yes, but you do get the odd one that’s bored with their life, dangles the carrot, gets a bite and then was either just in it for the validation or gets overcome with last-minute guilt and bails.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:30 PM
1

So you got butthurt about some comments on reddit and went looking for revenge? You’re lost bro, why are you here?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:34 AM
1

The real question is why are you wasting time on FDS?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:32 AM
0

Try don’t care. How does knowing if women are conscious of their decisions help OP get laid or improve as a man? Too much mental masturbation by autists in here.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:05 AM
-2

It doesn’t matter if they are aware or not, because it doesn’t change anything. Women operate in the moment - they know only what they are feeling at the time. This could be conscious or sub-conscious, but either way they act how they feel they should.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:29 AM
1

Why do you need that to perform a purely physical act?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:43 PM
10

Drop that “amazing chicks” thing for starters - sure there are some great girls, but amazing is too much. They are all boring, self-centred and take huge shits just like you and me. Yes, you’re still a virgin. And that’s why you’re making a big deal out of sex. It’s not a big deal, it’s fun, but once you’ve got it under your belt you’ll wonder what all the fuss was about.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:06 PM
6

Fuck no. Her reason is bullshit too.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:59 PM
1

You could join fetlife and get involved in the BDSM groups on there.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:28 PM
23

Correct. It’s been a month OP, she’ll have had other dicks in her since you. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:16 PM
2

Could be imposter syndrome if you used to be a fat, lazy gamer. What you’re feeling is probably unworthiness rather than insecurity; even though you’ve worked hard to drastically improve yourself you feel that you don’t deserve it and girls will see through it as a sham. Conventional advice on here is to not compare yourself to others, but that advice is for the lower SMV chumps comparing themselves to Chad and feeling sorry for themselves. You’re probably closer to Chad than chump, so my advice…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:24 PM
4

What’s worse, “coming off as chasing” or waiting for him to make a move he might never make? He might like being chased. He might not have reached out yet because he’s not sure where he stands after things ended last time. The point is you don’t know. Only way to find out is to try.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 05:26 PM
2

Why?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 03:07 PM
1

Shit test failed, frame non-existent.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:44 AM
1

Did she respond?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:12 PM
1

Why is that a problem? Sluts are for fucking. Use her then lose her.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:40 PM
2

Give me her number then.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:39 PM
20

I know he’s the only man I’ll ever want No, just no. 3.5 billion men on the planet and you’re attempting to lumber yourself with a guy who doesn’t find you physically attractive. Value yourself higher.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 07:53 PM
47

Girls can’t make decisions because they don’t want to be responsible for making bad ones.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:46 PM
6

“Cool”.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:41 PM
8

I think he’s less concerned about the outcome and more concerned about being creepy. There’s an element of shitting where you eat at school and rightly or wrongly reputations are important.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:58 PM
4

If you’re concerned about asking for numbers directly, ask for them indirectly. Use the conversation to find a simple common ground (this should be easy in school) and then use that as the reason for the number. E.g, if you’re in the same class for something, tell her you should study/revise/homework together and go from there. The permanent solution to not being creepy though is to be attractive. Always be improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:53 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:51 AM
4

Glad you fucked off again, we’ve got enough idiots already.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:50 AM
3

Hahaha, did you believe Fox News when they declared Birmingham city centre a “no-go zone for whites”? Your analysis of the UK is utter bollocks mate.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:19 AM
44

The best way would be to drop women’s and men’s sports and just have everyone compete together. Of course, nothing significant would ever be won by women again so this would never happen.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 10:11 AM
3

You probably moreso. Considering he’s got this bitch’s name and lips tattooed on himself I’d be inclined to agree.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:08 AM
8

Just don’t do it again and forget about it.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:56 AM
16

You are, don’t let your ego rule your actions. She’s demonstrated she can say no, why get involved? Any mate guarding displays on your part might just push her to not say no next time.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:42 AM
10

Right then, in that case you should’ve moved on when she moved away, but doubly so now.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:54 PM
9

Is this an LDR and you’re being sketchy by not disclosing that here? Fail to see how you’d go 1.5 weeks without communication and only see an LTR once a week otherwise.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:49 PM
7

If she’s in an LDR she effectively is single.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:43 PM
8

Too much thought going into this. She’s a plate so it’s supposed to be fun. If it’s fun, crack on, if it’s not (and it sounds like it isn’t) that’s when you see other plates instead.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:41 PM
17

Dude that’s not normal, you might have phimosis or something along those lines. Get to the fucking doctor.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:31 PM
45

What should I do? Start with having some self-respect and kicking this idiot to the kerb.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 10:40 PM
4

He doesn’t need to see her phone man.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:52 AM
5

You’ve got a lot to learn, but the good news is you’ve come to the right place. Forget about answers from her, you’re not going to get them. From this point on she is dead to you. Now hit the sidebar on the main sub and start learning.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:36 AM
1

You’ve got Ronaldo all wrong, he is just as practiced as Messi, if not more so. Regardless though, this is askTRP - what’s your question?
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:53 AM
20

Nobody gives a fuck, but you’re missing the point: BBC is mainstream media, a global news organisation, giving this crackpot exposure. Be mindful of what people are thinking and how normalised this sort of thing is starting to become. It’s a warning.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 03:09 PM
30

Give them an inch and they will take a mile. She’s a disgrace to the name too - on holocaust day no less!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 03:06 PM
1

What is the nature of your business partnership, and how is it represented legally?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:04 AM
15

This is askTRP - nobody giving good advice here is going to give a flying fuck about “gold”.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:35 AM
1

If you want to give the impression you just wanted to fuck her and you’re no longer interested now you have then wait 10 days. If you want to be less autistic and see her again then don’t wait 10 days, but keep your communication short and without emojis. You should look to keep things ticking over with minimal effort until you’re in a position to text again for logistics.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:54 PM
1

Experience is gained by sleeping with lots of women, not just one.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:27 AM
2

No, but they are irrational when they jeopardise that family line because Chad gives them just enough tingles to suck him off in a parking lot while beta-bucks and kids are at home.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:56 PM
2

Only in so far as most women aren’t “less rational”, they are full-on irrational to the point of insanity. Your point about ethics is probably right; they do tend to leave morals behind in favour of whatever their emotions are urging them to do in the moment.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:09 PM
2

You need to take a long look in the mirror if you need to do this sort of shit to feel better.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:40 AM
6

Why bother? You know she fucked him, she knows you know she fucked him. Her getting pissy that you “broke her trust” is just deflection. She’s just another lying whore, and pressing her on it will achieve the sum total of fuck all. You’re 50, so what? If you’re in good shape and making bank there’s plenty of much younger girls to fuck.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:22 AM
28

It’s fine; just means you’ll get better responses than “You lift, bro?” sooner.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:46 PM
22

You shouldn’t have said anything to those simps, but to answer your question, in the UK it’s not uncommon to get stroked off and sometimes even sucked off by a stripper if you’re not a douche. Kinda hard for either of those to happen if you’re soft.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:49 PM
3

Makes sense now. If it’s when you’re busy and not paying her attention it’s probably just an excuse to text you to see if/when you reply. She’s telling you what she’s doing because she doesn’t know what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Zero context to your post. Has she always done this? Is this when she’s out doing things with others or even when she’s at home alone wasting time on socials? Is this indicative that she’s up to no good and trying to provide alibis or is she generally reliable and likes keeping you updated?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:43 PM
10

Don’t use red pill means for blue pill ends. If your mindset is trying to win her back you’ve already lost.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:43 PM
11

How did you find out? Don’t fuck anyone raw unless you’re in an exclusive LTR (and even then make sure you’re on top of the birth control situation) - it’s just not worth it.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:40 PM
3

What are your room conditions like? Things to check: is it quiet enough? Consider ear plugs is it dark enough? Consider blackout blinds or wear an eye mask is the temperature right? I’d say midnight is probably too late to be trying to sleep if you want 8 hours - somewhere around 11pm would be better. Also make sure you take a piss before you turn in, whether you need to or not. Consider investing in bulbs that can change colour temperature - I do quite a bit with home automation and my bulbs pa…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:45 PM
0

Until your last paragraph I’d have said “she’s got/lined up someone else, your turn is over” but just maybe you’ve been applying a little too much dread and not enough comfort. Either that or she messaged/saw new guy to say she’d finished with you and he told her he’s not looking for a relationship right now so she’s backtracking. Regardless, do you still want to be with her? Sounds like this might be a good opportunity to explore your options if not.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:38 PM
10

This is only really valid if you’re in the States - the rest of the world has left you far behind here. I’ve not used my physical credit card in years.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 06:35 AM
2

Autist alert.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:54 PM
9

Keep fucking her for free?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:38 PM
32

I’d have responded to “why are you even still with me?” with “good question” then just walked out.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:47 AM
3

So take self-defence courses. Honestly your mindset is totally wrong here. You sound desperate to compensate for your size, and if this many people are giving you shit then your attitude must stink too.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:36 PM
1

Stop being lazy. The same face on a ripped body will always look better.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:58 PM
46

That’s a lot of paragraphs for a hoe that you should have completely erased from your life by now. People get burned all the time, as an RP guy the only course of action you should take is learning from the experience so that it doesn’t happen to you again. Revenge is petty.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:31 AM
10

I don’t know why this question comes up so much, she might just like attention, she might be fishing for orbiters or her LTR might be boring as hell and she wants to fuck your brains out. BUT let me try to put this to bed right now; Every single girl out there is “available” to the right guy at the right time in the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:27 AM
2

Why is your LTR drinking without you? Probably a work Christmas party - hookup central.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:42 AM
132

Headshots only = fatties. Congratulations on filtering out another land whale.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:49 PM
1

How many other plates/FWB do you have?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:38 PM
1

Are you muscular, attractive and have little trouble getting interest from girls?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:01 PM
10

“That shouldn’t take long 😉”
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:57 PM
2

Just do it, stop over-thinking.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:45 PM
3

Came here to say this too, it’s cool you’re picking fights with your landlord and all, but it’s even better to be the landlord.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 08:26 AM
3

Don’t tell them what you’ve done.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:18 PM
2

She was fucking Ryan before she married his uglier, less talented brother - apparently aborted his baby too before the wedding. Gotta love the way even your own mother can be disgusted with you if you complain about your better looking, better achieving, wealthier, famous alpha brother smashing your wife 😂
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 09:41 PM
0

Nothing about kids in there but we’re obviously talking about different things and in particular completely different female demographics. The average TRPer is not going to be married with kids, nor contemplating such an arrangement, nor is he going to be targeting post-wallers that are looking to settle for beta bucks with a side of alpha fucks.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:39 PM
0

Who said anything about husband and kids?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:55 PM
0

It’s okay, don’t feel bad. Girls are experts when it comes to optics - reputation is everything to them and they know how to operate to maintain social relations whilst acting like total whores in secret.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:19 PM
2

There are no “social costs” to monkey branching because she’ll have been sowing the seeds of leaving with her friends ahead of the fact, or if not, her LTR will have been an “abusive asshole” after the fact. Hypergamy 101.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:08 PM
12

What the guy in the LTR thinks is largely irrelevant - what matters to her is how she feels in the moment. There’s no guarantee she’ll cheat, obviously - some girls have more morals than others. If she perceives the higher SMV guy as attainable though, you can guarantee there will be some dissatisfaction on her part for her current relationship. How this manifests varies but expect general bitchiness to increase.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:33 PM
8

I’ve found a policy of not burning bridges is sensible in all walks of life; you never know when paths might cross again and there’s no point making unnecessary enemies.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:41 PM
1

Have you fucked her?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:56 AM
9

Sounds to me like you’re just picking shitty women.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:54 AM
12

Second this, don’t give her the satisfaction of seeing that she’s hurt you OP. Always deny them closure - they’re not interested in the reasons, they just like the drama.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:34 AM
3

Well, second date is already late for your first kiss, were you trying to get further than that? You need to make it obvious you want to fuck them - girls dig being wanted.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:43 PM
6

Unlikely to be the text thing since you’re getting multiple dates - I’d say you’re just not giving them the tingles. Probably you’re not escalating enough and you’re making them think you’re not sexual.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:36 PM
6

A glass of wine a day is no biggie, but why have you got nothing to do?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:48 PM
1

The reason I think this is not a dude that’s slaying is a dude that’s fucking doesn’t get talked about. A woman keeps that shit to herself, it’s a combination ASD and “you don’t talk about fuck club”. Right, but the girls not wanting to get involved could be construed as not talking about fuck club - that was kinda my point. The only person really talking about Ted is the White Knight and that could well be because he knows Ted gets pussy whilst he doesn’t and he’s jealous.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 05:42 PM
1

Give us examples of the sort of banter you’re getting.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:54 PM
1

Examples?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:15 AM
7

Yeah I don’t even see why OP felt the need to post this at all. He enforced a boundary, they’re done. The end.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:15 AM
1

She wants you to “rescue” her from her shit relationship - her sad face and glances were supposed to be the cue for you to ask her what is wrong.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:13 AM
1

It’s probably medical - polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) is a fairly common condition that causes amongst other things, excessive arm hair, for example. It may grow back so quickly that she struggles to do anything about it, or may even have given up completely. It’s not necessarily “fixable” unless she’s wealthy.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:03 AM
2

With anyone - FTFY.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:55 AM
4

Eye candy gets pussy, that should be your primary concern when interacting with girls. Beyond that you need to come to terms with the fact that “deep and meaningful connection” is just a Disney fantasy. All relationships with girls are a marriage of convenience insofar as they’re into you when it’s convenient for them (you’re their best option), but onto the next when it’s not. Sure, there are great girls out there and you can have great relationships with them, but you need to look within for m…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:43 AM
1

It’s not a bandaid it’s the definition of outcome independence - you’re not going to be anxious if you don’t care either way. Also, TRP does not preach that your girl will “jump on a hobo’s cock the moment she can” that’s an autistic interpretation of the advice.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:25 AM
1

This girl should only be a plate. Dont pursue anything further. Men shouldn’t persue anything further than plate/FWB with any girl - that’s her job.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:32 PM
10

It’s all relative. Most girls will not give a shit about your dick if you don’t make an issue of it. Plus at ~5 inches and slender you’re gonna feel pretty fucking good to them in their ass.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:28 PM
3

How big are we talking? Most of the spergs who come here whining about their small dick only have porn to go by and are actually totally normal. Unless you’re absolutely minuscule try browsing the smallpenisproblems subreddit to see just how bad some guys have it (we’re talking the size of a fucking pinky finger or chapstick when erect).
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:13 PM
1

Lol dude, the only “reformed hoes” are the ones too old and no longer attractive enough to be riding the cock carousel. You’re making it sound worse, stop. Do you earn good money? She’s still a hoe, she’s just looking for a baby daddy to knock her up.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:41 PM
4

So let me get this straight, you have video evidence of her, on fucking pornhub no less, being a hoe, she’s got tons of DMs from dudes sending her dick pics, and her ex has straight up told you she’s a hoe, and yet you don’t think she’s a hoe? And you’re worried about losing her? This is a troll right?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:27 PM
16

The ONLY way for this sort of thing to not bother you is to have options. If you’ve got potentially multiple other girls to fall back on you won’t care about This One Girltm slutting it up - on to the next one, it’s just your turn. While she’s away try to cultivate some new options, go out socialising with your friends and hit on girls, get on tinder/bumble etc too; get numbers and be ready to use them.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 01:55 PM
8

Why the fuck would you tell her you’re tying to fuck her? That sort of direct, overt communication leaves no wiggle room for her to operate in the grey areas. Give her a reason to be alone with you with plausible deniability Escalate non-verbally once alone She either continues the ASD or fucks you because “it just happened” and she gets to hamster it away as not cheating ??? Profit.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:02 AM
7

Fair. I’m not saying your choice to drop her is wrong, just that you might have got your dick wet again, then ghosted her, rather than telling her outright to leave and not come back.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 06:16 PM
7

Your lessons learned are correct but I’m not sure you handled her right; she might’ve said something, but she still paid her way and didn’t cause a scene at brunch, then she’s back at your place taking a shower - should’ve smashed again and not said anything. Who cares if you get the silent treatment? Peace and quiet.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 06:12 PM
9

There are two types of “generation”: Biological generations are defined by offspring - your kids are the next generation on from you, and your parents were the previous generation. Social generations as we’re discussing here are defined by the conditions and the combined experiences of the people within; its difficult for boomers and gen Xers to relate to each other due to the very different experiences and conditions each grew up with, for example. I’m Gen X (tail end) - arguably the last “good…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:56 PM
8

I would say they are based on societal shifts as a result of key historic events, so each generation has a span that varies in length. They might also vary from country-to-country due to differing social conditions around those key events. For instance it’s easy to define the start of the baby boomer generation due to WW2, but that start may differ by a few years across countries due to varying involvement and timeframes in the conflict.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:48 PM
9

It’s not an exact science - Wikipedia has a page on the generations and their spans.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:08 PM
6

Have fun with the other guy’s jizz.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:11 AM
3

Dude, you’re just making it worse - she’s not interested, you had your shot and you blew it (or not as the case was). Now you’re just hanging around her like a bad smell to the point where she’s having to engage nervous ugly dudes to avoid you. Take the fucking hint. Also, learn from your whiskey dick.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:11 PM
5

You might get better results cold approaching in more social situations rather than out in the wild, e.g house parties, at the gym or somewhere similar where you audience is more captive. I’d persist with street approaches too though, it’s still mostly a numbers game.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:46 PM
2

That’s good. Without wanting to sound too blackpill, how’s your face? Body and dress-sense aside, would you say you’re objectively good looking? The problem with cold approach, especially with girls with earphones in or that are glued to their phones is that you get zero time to make an impression through non-visual ways such as being good at game and making them laugh. Optics are important here and poor optics get you shutdown before you can influence the interaction.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:13 PM
26

Not to mention the fact that the White Knight has no idea what involvement in the conversations these girls had. I suspect most of them don’t want to make an issue of it because they were complicit and don’t want to look like sluts. For all we know Ted has been absolutely slaying it with these girls and they’ve been lapping it up, but the jealous White Knight thinks these precious, defenceless unicorns need treating with nothing but total, asexual respect.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 03:06 PM
9

This is where lifting, dressing well and grooming properly come into play - an attractive guy is going to get much more leeway when cold approaching than a less attractive guy. Make sure you look as good as possible.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:41 PM
7

You sound young, and you also sound like you weren’t with him for very long, this will make healing quicker and easier, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Beyond that there are several positive take-always from this regarding your personality and how you act in relationships, so I urge you to learn from the experience: Work on your insecurities internally, avoid showing them externally where possible, never self-denigrate Don’t act jealously, it is unattractive Learn to enforce boundarie…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 02:16 PM
8

Talking to male strangers is easy but girls are hard No, they’re exactly the same, the difference is you care about the outcome of one, but not the other. Don’t hide behind your “personality type”; you are not the results of an online questionnaire, you are a man. You have agency, you have control of your life, so be active not passive and leave fate and the stars to the girls. The way to get over this is to interact with everyone with the same intended outcome - nothing more than a short intera…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:54 PM
2

She sounds like she needs more comfort - give this to her if you want to salvage it, but your line about “keeping her around until spring” suggests you don’t have any long term goals for this girl, so then why bother? Also, it takes two to fight so are you fighting or, as you say, withdrawing attention?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:48 PM
3

It takes time. How did you and your ex part ways?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 11:07 AM
2

Surprised Blake could get it in her mouth with those gnashers.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:01 AM
1

You wasted five years of your life bankrolling and inflicting on your family a skank you thought was a unicorn who was claiming to be a virgin and yet actually fucking a bunch of dudes including your friend (you think) and now you’re mad at your friend. I’m pretty sure I’ve read that right, did I miss anything? You’re right to be angry but that anger should be aimed squarely at yourself for letting that shit happen.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:16 PM
1

She isn’t your ex, fucknut, she was just using you. Stop kidding yourself it’s not about her - you’re clearly butthurt that everyone got to nut in her except you.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:08 PM
2

Invest it in what? How much money are we talking about? It sounds to me like your making excuses to stick around your toxic family, when the opposite should be true. If you can afford to move away do it ASAP.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:06 PM
1

You haven’t swallowed shit yet buddy. If anyone and everyone was riding this fucking ho except you then you can hardy be pissed at your friend for getting his piece. STFU about it and move on, or ditch him if there’s other reasons, but either way you need to let it go and focus on yourself and the things that are important.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:04 PM
3

They are not your responsibility - your two sisters that got out have more sense than you. Also, stop fucking about online and get a job.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:00 PM
6

It’s not a power thing it’s an ego thing, and apparently yours requires quite a lot of stroking.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:54 PM
22

Just fucking Han Solo it: “I know”.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:29 AM
6

Did you laugh at the child throwing her tantrum? Who fucking cares what your sister thinks.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:24 AM
1

Who said anything about arguing?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:15 PM
5

Either of you could be right - the only way to find out is to try fucking her again. If she suggested Netflix, even if she changed her mind that suggests she was probably DTF at some point. One thing is for sure, regardless of what she says, she certainly does fuck, you just need to be the right guy in the right place at the right time.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:18 PM
15

There’s a lot of truth in this, your average sperg gets curious about TRP, takes a look and sees a lot of logical stuff that makes sense, so they start acting like more of an asshole, get some success but then their takeaway is “women suck and I must fuck as many of them as possible whilst hating them and myself and society”.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:09 PM
3

Tell them you really appreciate the offer, and then take them up on it and go and enjoy Christmas with your family, but make it clear to them it’s a loan and you will repay them in full. Your dad’s fuck up is not your responsibility, but if it helps, think of the offer as them acknowledging and rewarding you for being a man and picking up your dad’s slack.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:00 PM
2

Third pic is best for hair, second is, er, second.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:35 PM
1

The issue here is abundance; you’re not gonna care about this girl, even spending so much time with her, if you got several girls in rotation. So the question is, rather than asking how to handle this girl, what are you doing to change your situation with other girls?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:32 PM
6

Don’t shit where you eat. You care way too much about how this standard, early 20s, basic thot sees you.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:06 PM
4

I agree, I’m just saying it’s not always a good indicator without context.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 04:25 PM
13

Just something about credit scores: I don’t know how it works in the US, but in the UK you need to have actually used credit to have a decent score, so anyone who’s never been in debt (they exist, and quite a few women I’ve met over the years prefer to not accrue debt) will have comparatively poor scores. It’s not always a good indicator of financial performance.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:17 PM
1

Yeah I misread - my bad - have also edited my comment to reflect.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:53 PM
1

Definitely option a - you’re in for a world of pain if you tell your gf this girl fancies you and then ultimately still proceed to spend one-on-one time with her. If you’re interested in the band and jazz scene then why close this door? Generally the rule for guys is STFU - say only what is necessary. Edit: to add, the potential dread opportunity will be much higher if your gf gets to see you and this other girl interacting because it will be obvious to your gf that she’s interested in you and y…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:49 PM
1

Well, she might have pulled away in that instant but she’s making it clear she wants it to happen.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:46 PM
2

Kino is any touch designed to generate comfort or illicit some sort of conscious or sub-conscious sexual response. Yes, she was lining up for you to make a move and kiss her. What about her boyfriend? They all have boyfriends until someone more attractive comes along and gives them the tingles, then suddenly it’s not important.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:43 PM
8

She could well be projecting, yes, especially if she’s started being more guarded with her own phone.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:38 PM
6

Three and five are the big ones: don’t do LDRs, and who worries about cheating? Cheaters.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:08 PM
2

Fucking now.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:18 PM
15

You’ve done the hard bit - get out of your head and stop overthinking everything. Bottom line is, nobody cares about you and what you do, everyone is too wrapped up in themselves.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:07 PM
1

The more important question is why you can even get away with not getting up until midday - do you not have work or school to go to?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:14 PM
3

How long had you been seeing her before becoming exclusive? At your age you really shouldn’t be getting tied down to one girl.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:47 AM
4

Why the fuck are you listening to what women say? The fact that there are girls fucking guys 15-20 years older than them tells you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:11 AM
1

It’s so she can be polite and give short messages to guys she ends up not interested in with plausible deniability, whilst saving herself more time for blowing up chad and tyrone’s phones.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:19 PM
4

lol not even then if you’re the right kind of 30.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:55 AM
1

Who cares, why aren’t you still lifting?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:47 PM
1

And you’re wondering why she doesn’t want to fuck you now but did back then? Hint: she’s noticed you’re now a lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:41 PM
1

What do you mean by “before when I was lifting”?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:37 PM
1

Something doesn’t add up here - why aren’t the girls you’re kissing progressing into girls you’re laying?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:28 PM
25

Poignant - You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:04 AM
7

He probably went full sperg and told her what you’d said and now she’s reluctant to “let” him go out. Just drop it and he’ll either come round or go full bloopy but he’ll end up single either way, eventually.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:40 PM
63

The insecure, lesbian feminista types don’t like it - good, you wouldn’t want one of them anyway.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:58 PM
8

Why are you so desperate for her to erase her past? If I could be bothered to look at my LTR’s profiles I’d probably see pics of her and her exes, but I can’t even be bothered to look. Don’t care.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 07:45 PM
2

Correct, you shouldn’t care, it should be beneath you. You’ve got the law on your side, get your money back then forget all about it.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:18 PM
5

Or do I act empathetic and let it go Sure, if you want to get played by the same girl twice. What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:04 PM
7

Or balls deep.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:45 AM
18

It’s good for girls to think this. It’s not-so-good for your jealous friends and white knights to think it.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:23 AM
5

To be fair to him, in the restaurant industry if there is an issue between someone front-of-house and a chef, if he’s a decent chef he’s not going to come off worse. Good chefs are hard to find, pretty girls to work FOH are a dime a dozen.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:20 AM
15

If she wanted her “boundaries to be respected” she wouldn’t be going on a date whilst in an LTR.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:14 AM
4

“Still waiting for the results back from NASA” “None I’m a virgin” “Today or in total?” Doesn’t matter what you say as long as you deliver your response properly and not take it seriously.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 07:55 PM
4

Your sex life is not going to magically improve without some effort on your part. I see you have a couple of issues, based mostly on the notion that people who want to have sex make the effort, people who don’t want to make excuses: She’s maybe not physically as attracted to you as she could be. The solution here is obvious: improve yourself physically, lift to build a muscular body, find a good barber and get your hair styled regularly, dress well at all times. She’s subconsciously less attract…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:00 PM
3

Nowhere, why would you want to? She should be dead to you and you should be onto the next, not thinking about petty revenge.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:54 PM
15

Haven’t used anything except reddit for a couple of years now. If you’re a top-tier male in terms of looks you may get some mileage out of it, but otherwise it’s a huge waste of time (got better things to do) and really just a validation platform for girls. I don’t miss it at all.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:04 PM
10

Professionally.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:47 PM
3

I wish!
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:26 AM
21

I hated condoms until I tried Skyns - they are more expensive but latex-free and thin which I find much better than regular.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:31 AM
7

Would you give your mother a foot massage?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:30 PM
14

Don’t forget pissing on her to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:15 AM
1

He’s right - ignore and show absolutely zero signs of being affected by it. If you don’t care, people won’t believe it, especially if you act incongruent with the rumour.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:12 AM
16

100%. Can’t understand why so many guys on here have such trouble with such golden - and easy - opportunities. She says she wants threesomes and she says she wants to hook up with her girlfriend, it’s not fucking rocket science is it.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:22 AM
21

You’ve accepted that the text exchange you posted is laughably weak. She’s looking for a fuck buddy - which is fucking ideal - and you’re oneitising your way into getting ghosted. Leave it a couple more days then invite her to the park with a short, direct message.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:16 AM
3

Just seen your edit, yes it’s entirely possible you’re being too subtle, but it’s also entirely possible these guys know you’re interested, want to make a move but are reluctant for fear of ruining your friendship. In many ways it’s a lot easier if you don’t establish decent friendships beforehand, but as you’re in your social circle maybe you need to consider initiating more.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:54 PM
3

Sounds like it could be the case then, and if so you need to decide how to handle it going forward. You’ve basically got two options: Keep doing what you’re doing and consider it a useful filter to weed out the guys who just want sex (or want sex on a shorter timeline than you) Accept that to keep up with the competition you might have to relax your standards a little and be prepared to either escalate physically quicker than you’d like or aim for guys with fewer options. Both options have their…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:49 PM
7

It’s very hard to say without seeing you with these guys or reading the conversations but I’d say generally if these are attractive, high value guys then they will have options and they might consider these options more fruitful than their interactions with you. You didn’t mention what sort of timeframe we’re taking here, but guys want sex and if it seems to them like it’s unlikely to happen with you in the shortish-term then they may be giving up and moving on.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:38 PM
6

I’m confused, are you conducting these relationships over text, or are you actually meeting up with them? Over what sort of time period are you noticing these drops in interest?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:30 PM
1

You’re okay with bilpolar drug addicts though? 😉
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:03 PM
7

You should start by getting the fuck out of there. Top trolling though.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:01 AM
1

You’re cockblocking yourself because you’re scared of being shit at sex. You gotta just pull the trigger and get your first time out of the way.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 05:52 PM
11

Honestly, don’t waste time trying to understand girls and their motives. She’s probably got someone else that she’s looking to lock down and was hoping you’d say no so you could carry on fucking without her conscience getting in the way. Next time don’t shut down your other plates so quickly.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:15 AM
1

She might consider those other options more attainable - wouldn’t stop her dropping everything if OP comes knocking, she’s just less willing to invest.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:48 AM
65

Stop calling them out on it, you’ll achieve nothing.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:46 PM
1

The fuck are you talking about?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:44 PM
2

Nut up or shut up. If you’re already getting a date a week, perfect your current warm approach technique - don’t change approach for the sake of it.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:42 PM
8

As a Brit I can safely say we’re much closer to the US than say Germany for example. Berlin girls are fucking sexy.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:37 PM
10

Yep. The secret is having good dick game; doesn’t matter how long you go no contact if you’re their best option.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 08:35 PM
83

20 years from now there's going to be a lot of law cases against these parents by their children for the damage caused. Probably not since the suicide rate for people who’ve undergone gender reassignment is around 50% supposedly.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 04:11 PM
2

Females ones 😉
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:00 PM
7

Yes but how your girl handles those orbiters is key; she should not be encouraging them in any way.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:47 AM
4

If there’s one thing sluts are good for, it’s fucking.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:58 AM
25

Do you think what she has done is forgivable or should I hard next? It doesn’t matter what we think bro, they are your boundaries to enforce and it sounds like she’s crossed them. Next time, don’t let your emotions get the better of you; smashing her phone and leaving the scene in a way she can accuse you of domestic violence is not going to help you.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:17 AM
108

So she got some side dick during the “break”, then either failed to secure said side dick or realised she made a mistake and now wants you back. Happy for you bro.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:02 PM
20

This sort of reactionary, revenge-seeking behaviour is beta. and demonstrates poor frame and lack of abundance. It’s pretty obvious she’s up to no good, you shouldn’t care about catching her red-handed or getting one over on her, you should be on to the next girl already.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:51 PM
12

Not sure why you’re worried about giving off a fuckboy vibe - girls love trying to lock them down.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:48 PM
1

You’re a virgin right? You’re just ego-protecting. Sex is not a big deal, even though it feels like it is when you’re a virgin. Once you’ve got your first time out of the way you’ll wonder what the fuss was about. Just pull the trigger and get on with your life.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:51 AM
9

You need to understand the mechanics here dude. Asking her for consent when you’ve already got her in bed, naked and 2/3rds of the way there made you look like a pussy. Don’t get lost in this SJW sea of explicit consent bullshit - a girl will say no if she doesn’t want to fuck you; especially if she’s already manhandling your junk. Enthusiastic consent is physical not verbal, and guess what, girls want to fuck guys.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:46 AM
1

Next time don’t go looking to pour your heart out and especially don’t warn her in advance that you’re going to.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:38 AM
5

If the sex is good and your head is straight, keep banging. When she becomes more trouble than she’s worth, pull the plug.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:32 AM
12

They are directly proportionate to how attractive you are.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:06 AM
1

If a girl is aggressively making out with you and then makes up some bullshit reason to go back to your apartment it’s not a fucking shit test you cockmuncher she wants your dick in her ASAP. Also why the fuck are you relying on plan B?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:02 AM
3

There’s always a dog with a bigger dick. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin - you’re already attracting girls that you perceive to be a couple of points higher than you so take confidence from that. Abundance is not just about options for me, it’s also accepting the temporary nature of relationships and coming to terms with the fact that they all end sooner or later. Just enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:54 AM
2

Don't confront. She's either going to say what you hope to extract from her, or she's going to say what you predict she'll say. Either way, same shit. Follow your instincts. I’d like to echo this OP - there’s really no point bringing it up, no girl is going to say “you’re right, some other guy was balls deep in my ass, sorry I didn’t answer”. Do your due diligence, follow your gut, but don’t confront.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:48 AM
20

TRP does not espouse lying to make yourself look better, it advocates actually making yourself better. Huge difference.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:40 AM
12

Learn to shut your fucking mouth.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:37 PM
2

⁠They're confident enough to post publicly about their mental health... most guys would never consider this This isn’t confidence, it’s naïve attention-seeking.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:32 PM
6

They’re all sluts that will do just about anything for a high enough-value guy. Instead of viewing them negatively for it, view yourself positively for it; it’s a reflection of your status and a result of your hard work. Also, stop barebacking random thots you idiot.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:54 PM
3

It's so incredibly easy to fuck up attraction. It is when you’re wasting 100s of messages without even arranging a date. Do you want a pen pal or do you want to get laid?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:41 AM
12

Yes, ghost. No need for further communication on your side.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:58 PM
1

You can make every girl cum. Some girls can’t even make themselves cum - are you going to waste time, thought and energy on this one girl or are you just going to keep getting your other girls off and not worry about it?
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:00 AM
5

Shit test failed. “Do you think I should be having sex and not get what I want out of it?” shrug “See you on Friday”.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:32 PM
2

You did the right thing, don’t dwell on it. You can lock your phone and wipe it yourself - log into find my (or find my phone if still on iOS 12) on someone else’s iPhone with your iCloud account and you’ll find options in there.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:07 AM
4

It’s not that simple. If you’re model-tier Chad you probably are on Tinder because it’s just another effortless way to fuck girls, especially if you’re looking for no-bullshit hookups.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:23 PM
13

More importantly, why are you using fishing photos for your profile? If you go out on a boat and you’re in good shape, use a non-selfie pic of you topless in the sun enjoying yourself, but otherwise keep rods and fish out of it. You have to tailor your profile to your audience.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:20 PM
2

Then I think your relationship is too one-sided in her favour and it’s going to be very hard to redress the balance. You’re probably better off cutting your loses here, moving on and chalking this one up to experience. How long did you vet this girl before agreeing to be exclusive?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:11 PM
1

My personal experience there is that sometimes girls genuinely don’t like PDA around friends/colleagues but more often than not they are super happy to show off Chads they’ve locked down, but much less happy to appear taken if they’re planning to branch swing/think they can do better/want to keep their options open.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:06 PM
1

It’s kinda hard to unpack that without some context, like what is the beer bucket stuff about?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:00 PM
2

This is on you buddy - you established a pattern of bankrolling her, then suddenly decided to move the goalposts - of course she’s going to be put out by that. First off, always begin relationships the way you mean to go on. If you expect her to contribute later on in a relationship then you need to expect that from the off. “Waiting for her to pay” is never going to work. Secondly, she has a point about paying for other things to even out - she can be equally right in saying she “thought you we…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:43 PM
4

She is far from wife material, open your eyes buddy.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:36 AM
3

That’s irrelevant - she shouldn’t be accepting numbers, period.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:35 AM
15

Fuck off with that nonsense - if you wanna eat pussy fucking do it. Beta is worrying about how your actions come across to others.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:32 PM
19

It’s none of your business. Best way to handle it is to largely ignore - let her BF and your LTR fawn over her if they want, you should remain distant and uninterested. Do not suggest to your LTR (or anyone) that you’re dubious about the authenticity of her feinting - you’re not going to achieve anything and will only cause trouble for yourself. Accept that some girls pull shit like this - it should be an irrelevance to you.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:26 PM
2

If you’re soft nexting girls for doing something stupid you’ll never not be nexting.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:29 PM
3

“Wait, isn’t this <incorrect girl’s name>?” “Well they do say you can’t have brains and looks”
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:03 PM
10

This sub is primarily for helping men with heterosexual relationships and is not geared towards same-sex advice - you’re better off looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:55 PM
3

Twelve paragraphs - twelve - over some train wreck hoe that cheated on you. If you’re tall, jacked and make six figures as you claim, why the fuck do you care? Have a word with yourself.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:04 AM
6

I agree, as long as we can adopt a stance that allows us to first try and help incels before banning them outright. Many people here may have started out as an incel or potential incel.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 10:01 PM
3

I must’ve missed the bit where I said that it did.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 09:41 PM
12

Reddit was name-dropped by Toronto van killer Alek Minassian - if they are still planning their IPO before the end of this year it makes sense to distance themselves from anything and everything related to incels.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 09:31 PM
4

I’ve got nothing except reddit now and will be deleting this account once the ban hammer drops on TRP.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:25 PM
1

Context?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:58 AM
5

Yeah, WTF?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:10 AM
5

How good is your dick game?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:58 PM
97

I think you’re reading too much into a stage persona. Feminism is rife - know your audience.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 06:29 PM
6

I rub her back every single night and now she fully expects it How in the hell did this become a thing? You need to learn to say no. Also lock that ring away and forget about it; don’t go down on one knee for a girl who doesn’t go down on two.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:42 AM
28

Anyone else read this in Patrick Bateman’s voice?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:07 PM
5

Lol no she wasn’t.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:19 AM
14

All of this could’ve been avoided with a simple “daddy’s gonna make your ass sore when he gets back” when she first hit you up. Instead you’ve made it all complicated enough to write several paragraphs here about a plate.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:32 AM
10

What’s your question numbnuts? Don’t talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:03 PM
4

Having a good portfolio of properties to rent is effectively having your own business, but diversification is a great strategy. It depends on what you’re currently earning a living as, and your skillset. I agree with the rat race comment, but it is a means to end in some regards. I won’t go into details with what industry I’m in, but my aforementioned colleagues and I have built up good reputations and good relationships with many of our corporate clients, so it’s less of a stretch to walk away …
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:50 PM
9

Thanks. You’re definitely not running out of time - I was nowhere at 27, came a long, long way in the last 5 or so years. That said, there’s no time like the present to get your ducks in a row.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:42 AM
15

I don’t - yet - but I’m in the process of starting a consultancy with a handful of current and ex-colleagues. I’m 39 for reference.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:55 AM
170

Own your own place in a good city Make good money, preferably run your own business Have a portfolio of smart investments that will pay off later in life Be muscular and healthy, including eating well Be excellent in multiple non-work related areas, I’m polymusical for instance Be well-travelled, appreciate other cultures
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:45 AM
0

You’re obviously shit at vetting for LTR: It’s been three weeks LTR-quality girls are happy to pay their way It’s been three fucking weeks.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:23 AM
1

Three weeks? Who the fuck cares?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:21 AM
5

Supposedly men like cleavage because it looks like a butt, so technically they’ve always preferred derrières.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 07:19 AM
7

Are you gay?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:26 PM
2

You’re not special, every guy on here would prefer to go bareback. But we don’t because it’s fucking stupid. Think with your big bead.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:23 AM
72

This is a poor quality post and your conclusion is wrong. Your brother and friend may get numbers, but what’s their conversion rate to lays? Girls give out their numbers like candy, and the only reason you’ll get more numbers indirectly approaching is because they can reject you but still have a reason to give out their number, which is easier. If you flat out ask for a number and they want to reject you they will tell you they have a boyfriend. But bottom line: girls generally don’t like direct…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 08:44 PM
15

Guys don’t lose the ability to pair bond in the same way girls with high n-counts do, what you’re actually experiencing is the slow realisation that girls really aren’t all that; they are boring, mindless and shallow and AWALT really is true. You’re realising they’re not worth the time and effort.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:12 AM
39

Let me get this right, you want to know why someone having fun is appealing?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:10 AM
3

He’s gonna get shot down either way so he may as well practice escalating and communicating with girls the way they communicate; non-verbally.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:49 AM
1

Don’t “tell her” though, show her by escalating physically.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:39 AM
9

Is she fuckable? WE ARE ALL 18 Doesn’t sound like it.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:29 AM
1

Brush off any flak you get for getting messages from other girls while you’re not exclusive; do not let her use it as a gateway to discussions about locking you down. Basically, unless you’re 100% certain you want to be exclusive with her, and you’ve vetted her thoroughly, you should remain elusive about your relationship status with her and not engage in discussions. It she falls and breaks, so be it; she’s a plate.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:44 AM
3

Why are you afraid of negative emotion? Girls love emotions, positive and negative; why do you think they’re such drama queens? Don’t fall into the billy beta trap of being scared of ruffling your girl’s feathers - dare to do the things bloopies won’t, like flirting with other girls in front of her, cancelling plans with her to hang with your bros, etc; sure she’ll act pissed initially but I guarantee she’ll fuck you all the better for it after. LTRs should be an emotional roller coaster for the…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:49 AM
3

What form are the shittests coming in?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:32 AM
1

Is she pushing for exclusivity? If she’s not, you shouldn’t be either.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:30 AM
1

No idea what you’re trying to say but why are you mentioning LTR and tinder thots that you barely know?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:41 PM
2

3.1415927 years, approximately.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:11 PM
2

She’s got someone else - wanting “closure to move on” is most likely retrospective in this case. If it makes you feel better, her throat was probably genuinely sore from all the new dick she’d been gobbling that weekend.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:09 PM
3

No, because she won’t know why. CainPrice’s top comment to your earlier post is right on the money. Leaving you was purely an emotional decision for her based solely on how she felt in that moment. It doesn’t make sense because we’re men and we’re logical. There is nothing for you to learn except AWALT and they can flip the switch on you in an instant.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 09:58 PM
18

It’s autism day again I see.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:29 PM
3

I live in a very big UK city so cold approaching is looked down upon. That is some bloopie white knight bullshit right there. Don’t believe the feminist narrative; girls love being cold approached by attractive guys. Be an attractive guy.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:13 PM
19

First off, how are your looks? Men are shallow creatures: Are you slim? Do you put effort into your hair and makeup? Dress feminine? Resting bitch face? Other things to consider: Are you approachable when you’re out or are you giving off a vibe (jealous of you sister for instance)? Are you making eye contact with guys/other IOIs to green-light their approach? Are you going out to appropriate places to get interest (no point going to a club full of 20 somethings if you’re in your 40s for instance…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 05:20 PM
90

Don’t ignore her, you’ll potentially come across as butthurt about the breakup. The way to be is like you would be with a friend of a friend; be cordial, talk to her if she approaches but don’t go out of your way to associate with her.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:19 PM
1

Honestly if I’d been you when she walked off and started texting so blatantly I’d have said the to waiter “put half on my card and the rest on hers” pointed at her, paid then walked off. What an entitled cunt.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:18 AM
5

Stop stalking her online and forget about it. You care way too much what some thot says about you on Facebook.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:46 AM
8

what do you think about this? I think you might be autistic.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:36 PM
2

Second paragraph?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:39 PM
7

“Which one is this?”
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:10 AM
9

The strategy is the same regardless of end goal: 1) Maximise your SMV 2) Spin plates so that you have options 3) Vet your options thoroughly so that you pick the absolute best option to LTR Also, fuck off.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:08 AM
2

Ouch.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:04 AM
22

I’m not gonna a comment on the common sense aspect of what you’ve done, but a day late is nothing my guy. Also, whilst accidents do happen, you’re fairly unlikely to get her pregnant from one shot - only 30% of couples manage it within one month, 60% within 3 months and 80% within six months of trying. It takes effort.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:03 AM
10

Have you shaved your head fully? Nothing looks worse than someone clinging to a few sparse weeds on a baron landscape. Shave what’s left off and fucking own it. If you insist, you can get some extremely good “hair systems” these days, but they are pricey and require ongoing maintenance.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:34 AM
1

Easy, you never really “fail”; you either win (succeed) or learn. Being angry at yourself is a useless emotion.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:48 PM
1

how do I answer to this bitch LOL. Sidebar, fast.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:28 AM
31

most men prefer virgins Do they? That’s certainly not my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 07:07 AM
44

Who knows why women do what they do? Look at this way, you got an easy SMV boost; girls love guys that other girls find attractive too.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:56 PM
2

Sorry, I meant OP, but thanks for the info anyway, fully in agreement it really is ultimately unfulfilling, albeit fun.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:42 PM
2

This is bang on the money - take heed OP. Also how old are you if you’re matching late 30s/early 40s?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:17 PM
14

Stop disagreeing with your mother - it doesn’t matter what she or your sister say, you know better, but you gain nothing by going around trying to counter their perspective with a red pill one. Best thing you can do is get yourself into a position where you can remove yourself from that environment as soon as possible. If you’re not old enough to move out/away yet then be less of an asshole in their eyes in the meantime. As is often said in TRP; think for yourself but act as others.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:15 PM
-1

Well you can try changing things up, though the dorm situation makes it difficult. Your issue I think is that she’s lacking comfort - she told you you’d never fuck again, and you did, she told you you wouldn’t become a thing again, and you did; right now she’s probably annoyed that she’s let this stuff happen again and she’s still no closer to locking you down. If you care about this girl and you’re not fucking other girls and are happy not to fuck other girls, then you may as well give her more…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:10 PM
11

You’re sniffing around a girl that had a crush on you 12 months ago and has a boyfriend - what’s wrong with all the other girls out there without boyfriends, and what have you spent the last 12 months doing?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 12:38 AM
7

What’s wrong with all your other options?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 12:06 AM
1

Post that URL in the body so I can tap it because I’m fucking lazy
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:39 PM
15

Be better than them.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:37 PM
9

You shouldn’t base how you intend to behave on how others, and especially women, already behave. Conscience aside (TRP is amoral for a reason) you really just need to ask yourself what sort of man you want to be - principled and with integrity, or happy to lead girls on and potentially be a dick. Either answer is fine, but you need to come to that decision for yourself.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:46 PM
9

I see her probably twice during the week and over the weekend - the rest of the time we’re either busy or socialising with others. The key to a healthy relationship is space and maintaining social circles separate from your girl.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:40 PM
1

You don’t, because he’s going to disregard whatever you say and carry on with this girl, plus potentially fall out with you over it. If you value him as a friend, be there to support him when she inevitably branch swings - this will be the time he’s most receptive to help (but don’t try to TRP him up specifically).
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:37 PM
10

What? I’ve been with my LTR 2.5 years and we both own our own places. Also, hour-long chats on the phone OP? Do you also have pyjama parties and keep a diary?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:32 PM
7

How’s your integrity?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:30 PM
4

Wait, did you LTR her after “4 or 5 dates”?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:14 AM
7

According to that article, the average female BMI in the US is over 28!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 07:50 AM
19

If delivered the right way, yes. The thing about A&A responses is they are guaranteed to not come across as you being affected by the question, whereas your response could.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:39 AM
18

Start by taking out all of the unnecessary fluff; you can convey this exact same message in about a quarter of the text you actually used. There’re a lot of grammar issues, “themself” several times and “crisis” as the plural particularly jumped out.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 04:00 PM
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