Hey guys, I’m new to this sub but I want to share with you my first ever experience trying to have sex, it didn’t go too well and hopefully someone can recommend me some tips. Basically, at the time I was 15 (im from the UK and the age of consent here is 16), I got into a relationship with this girl (she’s now my ex), one day she messaged me and asked if I wanted to “do it” with her when her parents were out, I said yes and a few hours later I headed to her house, however I was very nervous, I was just thinking all day about the possible outcomes of this situation, I was worried that wouldn’t be able to get hard, anyways I got to her house, chilled most of the afternoon and evening. She then asked me if I wanted to have sex after we finished watching our film, I obviously said yes. Once the film ended, she said she was very insecure of her body so she turned the lights off, I didn’t think much of it at first but then I realised what was going to happen (it was like 10 pm and it was pitch black outside so i couldn’t see anything, the room was completely in the dark), she then lays on her bed as she takes her clothes off and says “put it in”, there was 0 foreplay and I couldn’t see a thing therefore leading to me not being able to get hard; to make things worse, my mum said she was waiting outside for me. I’m not trying to blame her for me not being able to get an erection but could there have been any solution to this problem at the time? I did some research once I got home and discovered I potentially could have Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction(PIED), back then I would masturbate and watch porn daily (i had been doing this for almost 4 years) so I reckon that played a massive part to that whole experience, 20 days ago I decided to start NoFap just in case I do have PIED and so far some of the benefits have been amazing. However I also discovered that it could’ve also been Performance Anxiety, I haven’t done much research on this topic but that could also be a factor. What do you guys think? Have you got any recommendations to try and stop this from happening again?