I’m in my early 30’s with a decent blue collar union job but no longer have the social status I used to have in my 20’s. I used to throw the biggest parties in my city and was in a band. This allowed me to have high social status due to local fame and reached a notch count of about 80. As I got older I lost a lot of friends and stopped the partying and drinking and drugs. I still play in a band but we are not actively touring yet. I’m not jacked and was always tall and slim and have kept the same body due to slow progress in the gym (aka I never got my diet in check). I’m told I have a very attractive face so I guess that helped when I was doing well. Anyways the once so easy pussy I used to get was always through social circle game and i can’t really rely on that anymore. I do mainly online game now and have some success but nowhere near the quality and quantity I used to get. Is this the male equivalent of the wall? I thought the tables changed and men hit their prime in their 30’s? Maybe I should focus on a better career path, focus on my diet and gym and start approaching instead of relying on online. Anybody else notice anything similar? I’m assuming women start caring more about career and resources the older you get. The party life had a negative impact on my life so I had to stop. I’m much healthier now but can’t stop thinking I’m wasting my potential