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This. To follow up with this, you’re very invested in her. You’re counting the hours for her response while checking to see if she’s active. Abundance mentality and outcome independence means that once you send her a message, you’re messaging 2 other girls, or responding to the 3 others, or just doing something overtly awesome that you aren’t checking your phone. You forget you even sent that initial message to hottie mcBody in the first place and next thing you know it’s you who is taking a cou…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:15 AM
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You’re a man. It’s natural to feel that animalistic behavior when you see a fuckable woman who should be bearing your children. Take it for what it is. Not every hot girl you see is going to be approachable. I use the missed opportunities as fuel to approach when the opportunities are ripe for the picking. As for actual opportunities, just talk to them. You shouldn’t be going into the conversation with this mindset of “how do I get her number????” You’ll come off as needy and desperate. Instead …
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:09 AM
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I agree that they are very average stats. What my conclusion has come to though, is that those 'average' stats are very well into the top 20% of men. That the average man is actually overweight with bad posture and a neckbeard, or is skinny fat and still wears t-shirts from high school. I mean to say that it is a lot easier than people think to achieve what they want.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 06:42 PM
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A girl messaged me on Myspace years ago (when that was still a thing). We had mutual friends, but did not know each other. We met up, hooked up, and I never saw her again.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:10 PM
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Same. Friend of mine randomly messaged a girl on FB and they been dating for years now. She's extremely clingy, insecure, and fights about everything. He's miserable and won't (can't) break up with her.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:08 PM
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Don't get an escort. Plenty of people go to college as virgins and it's not the end all be all prerequisite to college. Focus on yourself and your mission, join clubs and play in the intramural leagues, make friends with everybody in your dorm. Sex is not the objective. Being a man who is interesting and does interesting things is. If you can build a successful social circle with a good mix of guys and girls, you will get laid.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 07:38 PM
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I got really lucky in that I became good friends with my neighbor (I did have to go outside of my shell to befriend him, but once I did we became good friends). He was extremely outgoing but we got along well, and I was able to build my network that way. From there the social circle got bigger and bigger, since we were the group that seemed to have the most fun, or when people started inviting their own friends.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 12:50 PM
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It's a mixture of both noticing and then acting on the IOI. I believe I outlined every IOI she gave me through our interactions: The initial double take (gave me reason to approach at all) Giving me a hug and then buying me a beer The subtle legs and body angled towards me while watching a movie was the biggest one of all. To me, this was her giving the green light "Hey, I'm testing to see if you are a man of action" move
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 03:02 PM
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I can't recall every conversation exactly. I am sure that negs and game were in there, but it was a natural flow. I wasn't thinking "okay here is where I will neg her for being short" or whatever. At lunch she ordered a wrap of some kind and I made a remark about her putting round objects in her mouth. This is not something I would use every time, but it was piggybacked off of the rest of our conversation that fit the mood.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:38 PM
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This was back in January or February. Over the last few months I have really shed off the "can't believe this" mentality. I look at girls now and I just assume they are attracted to me in one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:27 PM
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I believe that confidence is most of it. I don't know about this sub, but yes, it was unimaginable for me before lifting. I had a pretty serious mental block about my self worth and the positive reactions I got after losing fat and gaining muscle changed my thought process.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:09 PM
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Honestly I'm surprised at the kind of attention I get from girls. Maybe it's the aura of confidence that follows, or maybe it's just that easy to stand out from the 80% of lower tier men. I know that 9s are very subjective. This girl is definitely my 9, might be your 8, but she's my 9. This is why I didn't describe her features, but rather how the people around her acted (had orbiters and women didn't like her)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:35 PM
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That sentence confuses me a little bit. Not sure how I would run social game on her after she's already in rotation? If you mean her friends, then I have met them before, but they seem to respect the boundaries that I'm already fucking their friend. Almost all my game is social circle. I hang out with big groups of people with similar interests to me (lifting, yoga, beer, rock climbing, etc) and they're a fairly attractive group of people with a good mix of guys and girls. I don't game the girls…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:29 PM
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That's the point. She's MY 9. This is why I didn't even bother to describe her features, only the way people act around her. It doesn't matter what she is to you, I fucked my ideal 9 (basically a 10, but there are no 10s)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:36 PM
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I read this post like 3 times after I put this girl in rotation. Your writings have helped me immensely. Thank you for everything.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:30 PM
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I started off with Stronglifts 5x5 for the first 9 months, then switched to the reddit fitness PPL (so far my favorite program), I'm now doing nSuns. I'm 5'11", 169lbs, and 13-14% BF. I have decently big arms with definition and a nice muscular butt (squats ftw) and those seem to be the 2 features that women check out the most. Also I wear slim fit clothes to accentuate these.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:29 PM
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I also think it's very contingent on the situation and the girl. This particular girl was definitely interested but I think she was testing to see how far I would go to beg for the sex. Another girl I had naked in my bed would not budge and did not want to have sex on the 2nd date. Maybe another method could have worked, but in my analysis of the situation I didn't see a way. I waited until the 3rd date, at which point she was okay with sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:27 PM
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In this particular situation, it seemed like she was testing me to see how far I would go to worship her body. I think she's used to men begging her for sex, and was waiting for me to beg her as well. Instead I said "oh, you're not feeling it? ok I'll play on my phone then" and as soon as I wasn't begging for sex she was like "wait, come back and play with me"
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:23 PM
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Yeah it's definitely very connected to my confidence levels. I don't even think I'm THAT fit (I'm like 13-14% BF so I don't have visible abs). What really helped my confidence - and changed my mental block, is when I would take my shirt off for those 5s and 6s and they would have to catch their breath. I could visibly see them getting stirred in the loins. I would be treated like a piece of meat by these girls and their friends, touching my arms, or patting my ass (think hostile work environment…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:21 PM
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One thing I learned is that girls will kiss you back even if they're not sure they like you. The first kiss used to be a really big deal to me, but I learned that it's all part of the interview process of the first date for them. In fact, my last girlfriend (in my beta days) thought I didn't like her because I DIDN'T kiss her on our first date. She only realized that I did when I asked for a 2nd date, and then she said "are you gonna kiss me or what?" It doesn't always work out. A few weeks ago …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:14 PM
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Thank you so much, it's been an eye opening journey for sure!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:05 PM
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Sorry, I won't post pics because of the stigma of this sub and doxing. My stats are 5'11" (but I tell people I'm 6'), 169, 13-14% BF. I don't think I'm THAT good looking. I have a weak jawline and I can't grow facial hair, and acne scars from puberty. I don't have a six pack, but at least have an outline in the abs area. I do have big arms with good definition and I wear tight shirts or cut off sleeves often. I think these are often what girls are checking out.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:03 PM
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Thank you so much. It's extremely eye opening, and I'm upset that it took me until 30 to realize my potential, but better late than never. Hopefully I can help people in their early 20s to realize theirs.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:53 PM
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This happened a couple months ago and yes she was put into rotation. I'm really surprised at how cool she actually is and how wrong I was to just assume she was an entitled bitch. I think she probably still is an entitled bitch, but only to people who worship the ground she farts on. Since I don't worship her like this, she says that she feels tingles for me in a way that she hasn't felt in a long time. Like, nobody has given her shit in years. She said the last guy she dated lasted a month beca…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:52 PM
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I think it was particular to this situation. I could tell she wanted the attention from me. I think she was testing how far I would go to worship her body. I was not going to worship her body, so any kind of reduction in attention would have worked. In this situation it was my phone. Edit: Added clarification and a comma
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 07:22 PM
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Hopefully you live in a bigger city (300k+) to maximize your exposure. Besides that I still found Tinder to net lower quality women than you could in real life because the actual hot ones on there are only there for validation and have no intention of meeting up. But yeah, given your stats, I'm sure you'll slay a bunch of 6s and 7s.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:27 PM
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I'm the opposite of you, I was lazy and introverted in my 20s and got subpar infrequent sex, now I'm in my 30s and am slaying 8s and 9s regularly. But I also created my own new social circle with active friends and lift 6 days a week.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:47 PM
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I had 4 LTRs from my teens through my late 20s and a number of FWBs in between each one. I learned something new with each relationship but I don't think I would have ever been truly awakened without finding this sub. I was always a supplicating beta and though I matured emotionally, I always saw it as nice guys would eventually win, and somehow thought that was a good thing. After my last breakup at 27, I found this sub and spent the next 3 years finding revelation after revelation. Started by …
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:49 PM
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I think another factor is the girls who get scooped up at a young age (18-22) were able to settle for more alpha type men, the ones in their vicinity. When you start seeing girls who date well into their 20s - 30s they're dealing with more and more scarcity minded men on average. Bluepill men still get laid, I got laid when I was, but it was at the complete mercy of a girl randomly choosing one unattractive dude out of thousands. All I can say is, "Be the change you want to see in the world"
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:54 PM
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I'm currently spinning an HB9. She's a total smoke show that gets validated wherever she goes. She likes me because I'm fit (attractive) and have a dgaf attitude. I like her because she cooks me meals and wakes me up with BJs in the morning. Also she's really hot. Because of TRP I 'know' the rules. I work on myself and play dread game, push/pull, shit/comfort test. Everything is observe, report, react. By doing this she reacts in kind by being feminine and submissive and seems to really like me.…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:53 AM
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I was in love before discovering TRP. After TRP I only see manipulation moves performed on both sides. Like a game of chess. It's a little disheartening.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:33 PM
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Currently dealing with one of these. Really created an attraction and then her bf showed up an hour later. She still gave me her number and we text every now and then, but I totally respect the relationship. If it ever ends for her I'm sure she'll hit me up, if not then I'm cool with that too.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:28 PM
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Everybody is different. I crave affection and the touch of the soft body that only a girl can provide. Sex and orgasm is great but I gain so much more emotionally and mentally when there's a girl there. To me, the investment is worth the reward, so maybe you need to look for something else.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:22 PM
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Lifting, social sports (kickball, softball), and rock climbing. I found that gaining friends in each of these arenas also increased my likelihood of continuing to pursue them. I get better at them and also meet more new like minded people. It's gotten to the point where I have so much damn fun with these people doing these relatively low cost activities that I haven't thought about video games in over a year.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:12 PM
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Agree and amplify only gets so far if you continually see a girl and she continues to push for the answer. What I've come up with is pretty honestly saying "nobody wins at that game. Either my number is much higher or lower than yours and it doesn't do a damn bit of good knowing which it is." I know I sure as hell don't want to know her number because it's always given me a perspective I didn't want. Even if it's a similar number there's a damn good chance she's 10 years younger than me and we'r…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:40 PM
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When I first started I was probably a 6. So I was gaming 5s and 6s. But as I continued to increase my SMV, my self image didn't catch up and I continued to plate 5s and 6s. Something changed in my interaction with them. They started to treat me differently, their friends called me hot. They got visibly turned on when I took my shirt off. Sure, they were 5s and 6s, but quantity helped my ego. They introduced me to self confidence through positive reinforcement. Now I plate 8s and 9s because I kno…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:14 PM
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That's awesome, I look forward to continuing my improvement so that I don't have to solely rely on one or another.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 01:45 PM
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Not enough info on if your current town is bigger than the college itself or what cities you would move to. It's easy(ish) to make new friends in big cities such as NYC or DC because new college grads move there every year. You'll be in a new city with a bunch of recent grads who are also looking for new friends, and this time you'll all have money. It's a little harder, but can be way more fun if you keep improving yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:47 PM
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That's awesome that you're able to do that. I grew up very shy and introverted so even though I've worked hard to overcome it, I still prefer quieter, more intimate conversations in smaller group settings. I found that being fit also afforded me to be able to make many more social mistakes before being disqualified. Which in turn gave me more confidence.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:28 PM
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Yeah, I moved to one of the top 20 largest cities in America. I come from a medium sized city to begin with (200k - 300k population) but the new city is 600k+ and much denser, good public transportation, highly educated people flock there, etc. etc. It depends on the girl. This particular girl is more of a hipster/nerd type so even some folk type music worked for her. I do have a sex playlist that has beats like Galamatias, Alina Baraz, The Weeknd, and Odesza. They work wonders for setting the m…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:25 PM
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I was moving out of the building and we met up again. We parted on good terms and I thought enough time had past that we could at least meet up again, randomly. Apparently Not. Like I said, I'm still new to this.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:20 PM
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It's funny, I often start with "Mary had a little lamb" and then lead into some Beethoven or something. Really throws people off lol
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:18 PM
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I mean honestly. The sidebar and sorting by Top of All Time is a good place to start. It's a lot to read, and reading is good, but it's just the start. I was lucky that I had a friend to talk to about these concepts and it helped to further internalize a mindset for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:17 PM
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Good question. I think your reasoning for asking this question is to see how much one has to overcome to become traditionally attractive and it might be more or less for different people. I used to wear glasses, but I upgraded to contact lenses, and later I got Lasik. I have a full head of hair so that is one thing I did not have to overcome. My face is probably average. I used to have extremely terrible acne so I have acne scars on my face, of which I have been using creams to try to reduce. I …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 03:17 PM
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This occurred back in September, so I have a couple more field reports since then. This is my first post so I wasn't sure how well it would go. Seems pretty well received so I'll write more.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 02:25 PM
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I think you're right. It's interesting to hear this perspective though, because until you said something I just viewed it as a spontaneous act.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 02:10 PM
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Yeah I think you're right. When the weather is nice I go on runs with no shirt on and she said she definitely noticed that. Also my apartment is the first door in the building so everybody has to pass by my place whenever they enter/leave the building.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 02:09 PM
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I don't remember. If you want to learn one song, learn the theme from La La Land. It's the ultimate panty dropper.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 03:15 AM
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A worthwhile comment about these changes will probably have enough content to be a post in itself. In short, I started lifting (find any reddit fitness routine), which lead to me joining a running club, which lead to me gaining a social circle of friends with similar interests. The snowball effect really took place, as my gym gains got better, I felt compelled to focus more on diet, and then further each exercise. It was self fulfilling to a point. I did a little bit of cold approach, but most o…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:32 PM
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I had to end things with my other plate so I told her I wasn't fucking anybody else at the time, but also to not expect exclusivity. She lived in my building so she would come over at night and we'd fuck, then she'd go back to her place. It was pretty great. I knew I was moving out of that place within a month so we kept it going until then. It just kind of ended there. I hit her up recently, in not so many words she told me to 'fuck off' lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:23 PM
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Some kind of Casio Keyboard. It has weighted keys. I think it cost me around $300. Something to note, I'm not terribly good at piano, I'm just good enough to play some songs, and girls that don't know shit about music swoon. Any real musician would call me out in an instant. I still enjoy it though.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:14 PM
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Yeah I'd say about 13 - 14% BF. I don't have visible abs but I have good definition everywhere else. Also girls consistently tell me I have enormous arms.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:10 PM
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I never mention piano skills, I feel like it comes off as needy. If there's a piano in the room, however, I might just play something. It's especially mind blowing when they've known you for months and you make no mention of it, and randomly punch out the theme from La La Land or something. It helps to maintain that mysterious hot guy allure.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:09 PM
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Hey thanks man. Yeah you're right. I wrote this up back in September when the event actually happened and 2018 was my year of change. In my year of change, when I got fit, I realized I had these super powers that I could sleep with girls if I wanted to (rather than being an incel). So I did validate my self worth from trying to rack up a higher N count. It's true that it should not be used as a quick ego fix, but I believe it helped me achieve abundance and outcome independence. It changed my th…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:05 PM
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Yeah I put on music. I also have a laser light machine which displays stars on the ceiling - puts on a good magical mood. Then we sit and talk on the couch or whatever, and honestly I just go for it. If there's a lull in conversation, or sometimes the girl will help escalate by playfully hitting you, so I do something like grab the arm thats hitting me, I lock eye contact and move in. If you know they're already attracted then 9/10 times they're receptive, and if they're not receptive then you r…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:01 PM
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Yeah. She went through her call history 3 weeks back and found a number with my area code, knowing it was my number. I meant to politely tell her to fuck off because I felt bad messing with her emotions like that, but also that body was so fucking amazing. So my dick took over and I invited her over. This was a multiple month affair so we were also friends on instagram. She blocked me, then a couple weeks later, on a Friday night, she unblocks me and hits me with a "u up?" DM. Maybe this girl is…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 08:58 PM
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Yeah, this is exactly what I said when I read field reports like this.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 08:50 PM
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Really well said. Yes, I agree with this. I guess where I was going with it is I barely applied any game to the situation, so I earned her simply by being the impervious man that I was. As a blue pilled man for 25+ years, that thought truly blows my mind. Because being the incarnation that I was prior didn't do shit for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 08:36 PM
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Maybe, but you should also understand that it's not all that difficult to become top 20 or 10% because the baseline competition is literally doing nothing. If you do one thing you're already top 30%, if you do a couple things, that's all you need to achieve. ​ It's easier said than done, but the concept is simple. Lift, do interesting things (hiking, rock climbing, running, bicycling, volunteer at an animal shelter, etc), socialize with people. ​ I found that it became a snowball affect. I start…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:02 PM
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Once you become a top 20% male you get close to the same level of attention that women get.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:19 PM
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Substitute "Prize" with "Abundance" mentality. ​ It is truly infeasible for a man to understand abundance the way a woman does. ​ You love pizza, and you can acquire pizza anytime and anywhere, but if you eat too much of it you get sick of it. If you're smart you'll turn down pizza more often than not because too much will make you fat. This is not some 'mentality' that you naturally have, this is human nature. ​ For a man, it's the difference between saying "I wanna talk to that girl" and "That…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:13 PM
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Look in Reddit Seduction for "Never run out of things to say" (can't link because automod) ​ Pretty good reading there. ​ A big basis of building my skill also came from Dale Carnegie "How to win friends and influence people"
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 04:59 PM
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Thank you stranger. This FR occurred back in September - November and I've experienced so much more since then so I plan to write up more.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 04:55 PM
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lol yes. I've found that ever since I hit below a certain BF% I feel extremely comfortable with my shirt off, or in cut off sleeves/tanks. I say this as a former chubby guy. I lost 50 lbs over 2 years and gained a lot of lean mass as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 04:52 PM
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I feel burdened by masculinity because I spent the first 28 years of my life without it. It's easy to follow somebody else's lead, to not make decisions, or not take action. ​ But I've found that the more I lead, the more actions I take, and decisions made, the easier it gets. I don't think it's necessarily 'working around' the burden, but working through it. ​ Like Churchill said "Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm." ​ If I fail to show masculinity during ce…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:26 PM
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What's crazy is, when I wouldn't commit to exclusivity, her response was "hookup culture is overrated" ​ She said this, despite perpetuating the very hookup culture she says is overrated.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 04:03 PM
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Both of your stated solutions involve leaving her be. You already know the answer. This happened to me recently with a girl. We fucked, but she flaked on the next date. She seemed apologetic, but then flaked one more time. Soft next. If she wants to meet up she'll text me, if not, it was a good fuck with a solid 8 and I have other options.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:35 PM
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Definitely A&A I typically deflect and don't acknowledge whenever they make statements like this. I also say things like "what? you were my first kiss" which is obviously not true. Their response is always something like a lite hearted "oh whatever!"
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:25 PM
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Don't be a dick. Beginner negging is always too much and you end up just insulting them. Better yet, don't call it negging and don't use negging. Negging is using some social tool to act a certain way that probably does not fit your personality. It feels disingenuous. Look at the sidebar here: "How to OPEN and CLOSE" "Utilize Push-Pull" Read them.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 03:57 PM
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It mainly comes down to giving you the chance to make the decision. Physically? Example would be if you are out together and somebody asks you guys a question, and she turns to you to answer instead of answering herself.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 03:52 PM
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The book "Models" talks about this a little bit. His explanation is it's less about what you're saying, and more about the confidence in saying it. The example was there was a guy in the club telling every girl he met that he wanted to lick their butthole or something like that. Super embarrassing to watch him get denied, but 20 minutes later he was going home with a hottie, and she said he was funny.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:54 PM
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To reiterate the Matrix analogy: Neo takes the red pill, he is aware, but he does not believe. Neo begins to believe, but does not fully internalize. At the end, Neo fully believes and internalizes, and realizes his eyes are truly opened when he looks around, and sees the world (matrix) for what it really is.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:46 PM
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Wherever is cheap that also carries form fitting/slim fit clothes. Everything looks good when they hug your muscles. As far as minimal and classy goes, you could wear a black/white v-neck/crew t shirt and jeans bought from Target or Wal Mart even. As long as it fits well (provided you lift), it will look good.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:42 PM
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As the other comments have pointed out, your posture here is lacking in abundance. Sometimes we get this way. My favorite thing to do when I encounter this, is just go hail mary. Just text her. In fact, text her something weird or overtly forward. Text it and don't expect a response. If your expectations are low, you will not be disappointed. If she responds, you have something to work with. Do this, and move on. Talk to more girls.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:16 PM
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I appreciate the solid question. That feeling of abundance just hit me one day. I used to sweat out waiting and finding the 'perfect timing' to hit a girl up. Then one day I realized I was so busy with lifting, skiing, and meeting new girls that I forgot I was already talking to hot girls. The hot ones never hit you up first. I hit them up 5-7 days later and they're ecstatic because you're not this 'clingy' or 'needy' guy.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:00 PM
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Meet up with your other plates first. Go through the rotation. Do the awesome things you're busy with in your awesome life, such as lifting weights and practicing with your band. If you're doing this properly, it will be 3-4 days before you realize you should hit this girl up again. Then another day or 2 before you even feel the need to hit her up. If you do not have plates or live an awesome life, know that this is the feeling of abundance mentality. If you were legitimately busy with your awes…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:34 AM
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It's satire and it makes a point. Being on the spectrum has nothing to do with it. Probably.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:56 AM
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Is reading "The essays of Warren Buffet" enough to make you a billionaire? No. Some quote from somewhere "Knowing is not enough. We must apply. Willing is not enough. We must do." I think more to your point, if you apply and do what the sidebar and rational male speak of. Then yes, you will get laid, provided you're not autistic. If going on here makes you overthink, then you should not do that. A lot of people need constant reminder and clarification, which is why I come here. It helps me to NO…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:59 PM
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What has really helped me in approaching and talking with women (people in general) is just making observations. I will do this with both guys and girls. I see a shirt that I think is funny, I'll point it out to them, that's why they're wearing it. I notice the cute girl at the gym isn't with her workout buddy today, I say something like "where's your workout buddy??" Anything can be said, and it's not desperate or thirsty, you're just making an observation. I too have raised my value a lot over…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:00 PM
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A part of my plate situation is having girls in different cities that I maintain contact with. Off the bat that gives me 3-4 self spinning plates, although I only see them every couple of weeks/months. If one of them drops, it's no big deal. In my current city I only have 1 at the moment. I too have stepped back from game and am working on new hobbies and interesting things for myself.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:36 PM
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Very same scenario happened to me. Got her number but had to fly back home. I moved to the city where I met her and texted her something along the lines of "How are things lately" The thing to note here is that I went into this with low expectations. I barely remembered what she looked like, except that I remembered she was hot and we had good chemistry. So I didn't give af if I didn't get a response, in fact I was expecting it. She responded positively, and a couple short texts later we met up …
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:17 PM
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Recent text convo I had has one more element: "I'm really busy with Nursing school during the week, but I'm free on Friday night!"
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:17 PM
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"If you build it, they will come" I lifted weights and lost weight, which made me traditionally attractive. Having a better body, I bought new clothes that fit my muscles well. Being traditionally attractive alone did not give me that mentality, but girls reinforced it by showing me more attention. As you go about your day, when girls start referring to you as 'the hot guy' or start approaching you, the mentality sort of manifests.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:17 PM
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I'm not reading the wall of text messages, but I already know what's being said. Sounds like he's a nice guy. A Mr. Nice Guy. One who thinks he's doing what is nice because he doesn't like confrontation, but in the long run is doing everybody wrong. He is probably not attracted to you, but through a scarcity mentality and your sexual availability, he was content with committing for a short period to have consistent sex with a warm body. He doesn't want to be mean, and the over explanations throu…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:23 PM
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I spent a year in DC and hooked up with plenty. Very similar to the NYC scene, but more feminista/educated types.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:09 PM
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I'm looking at moving to a bigger city, I hear that cities like NYC and D.C. are great for single men.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 02:46 PM
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I have seen some advice on here about moving to a bigger city if our current rural/suburban towns just aren't populated enough for true success. What cities have you guys moved to? Which ones had the best opportunities for success (with women, job, etc.)?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:21 PM
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You haven't necessarily made a first impression yet, just that you are at the gym to workout. The way your post sounds, you're already talking like she's the only girl in your world. She's not. Say something and don't get hung up on one girl if it doesn't work out the way you want it to.
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