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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP03/06/19 09:02 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:38 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:17 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:49 AM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:59 AM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 09:08 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:45 AM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:36 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:10 AM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 08:40 PM
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Nighthawkdragon8/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 09:50 PM
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Dude ur just a keyboard jokey that means haha
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:10 PM
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Lol this hit home kinda hard. Literally so much of what you said applies to me its a bit scary
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:03 PM
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Meeting important people isn't all about celebs. A business owner or nightclub promoter or cocktail waitress could all be important people.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:07 PM
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He was trying to be funny I think. But I liked your original message personally.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:06 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:05 PM
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Crazy expensive though right?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:05 PM
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Ya Miami and Vegas are my top two choices if I stay in USA. How expensive is Miami, relative to NYC and Vegas
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:04 PM
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For sure thanks.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:28 AM
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Great advice by the way. I will look into those places for sure. Still got a couple months of college, so plenty of time to figure it out.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:00 AM
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I actually am considering moving into that mansion. Is that program still a thing?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:00 AM
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I agree, I own an online business so I can work from anywhere. However, my top priority is to work on building a social circle/develop social skills for at least a year or two.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:59 AM
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Thx man. I used to be a guy that preached "field is king" and acted on it. Recently I've been just too caught up in my head with speculation and improving in my head instead of practicing and getting out there. My top commitment right now is to get out there and do things instead of thinking about things, which is not only more effective from my previous experiences but it is also more fun and rewarding.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:17 PM
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Wow thats a great field example man. Good stuff. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:59 AM
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Thanks man. So when you find the area you fucked up in or had success in that you want to either change or replicate, have you had more success by proactively practicing the idea/change, or do you kindof naturally internalize after the fact?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:12 AM
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Would you recommend going out and then fixing the issue after, or going out with a specific frame in mind to practice it?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:10 AM
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Absolutely not. You should strive for model quality girls. You know about game which, with hard work, can allow you to get past 97 percent of guys, so top 3 percent women is your standard.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:32 PM
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Well damn man sounds like you are one of the rare guys that probably still has a wife that feels a ton of attraction. Good for you honestly
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:44 AM
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Lol bruh you shouldn’t have to do that with your wife haha. All you need with wife imo (I’m not married to be fair) is this: make your purpose more important than her, be engaging, don’t vent to her find someone else to do that with. Basically read way of superior man by David D
/r/askTRP12/10/19 04:36 PM
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Wow I never considered that this would be a possibility that’s pretty weird way to lose an interview. IMO remain confident though,it’s interviewers will like that.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:48 PM
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Lmao I meant go out to CLUBS or social gatherings. But a walk is a good idea as well.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:47 PM
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You have to actually not give af and behaviors will come more natural.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:00 PM
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Literally just go out. 30 min a day every day. Will resolve the rest of your problems spontaneously. Just take that ONE action a day and the rest of your life will go well around that.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:00 PM
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This is the right answer
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:49 PM
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Honestly I don't relate cuz I usually get a boost in emotion when I get an IOI. Id say look at it more positively, but honestly try to figure out why you are freaking out. like whats the bigger issue behind it.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:48 PM
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This is really tough man, I'm not going to sugar coat it. The only positive I can say is that you are going to have to go past your reputation etc and find happiness from inside yourself.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:35 PM
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I also pull tho.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:43 AM
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Yeah you are tbh. I respect the hell out of women, they have way more social pressure on them and pressure to get their life together and find a man before they age.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:45 AM
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You’re right, if you hit the field and meet women most of what is taught here that is true will be obvious within a year
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:12 PM
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Great way of putting it, agreed.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 08:07 AM
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It’s not about feeling inferior, it’s about feeling validation.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:16 AM
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And they should despise those betas. You would despise your wife if she weighed 900 pounds!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 08:29 PM
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I think it’s 97 3 rule
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:26 PM
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I’ve found that women usually are the ones that don’t ask for me to use one or sometimes say things like “take it off” even. I think it’s because sex is emotional for women and condom isn’t part of emotional equation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 12:31 AM
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No, they want their man to be out on their purpose. Working, which stimulates them hunting or being a chief of the tribe(boss at work place).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:21 AM
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I don’t think having women perform the study would help much. If you could somehow do brain/body monitoring or scans that would certainly be effective (they have done this and found women get turned on by literally everything, from gay sex to animal sex etc). That’s where my belief comes from about studies where they ask women being misleading. Ready moody bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:34 AM
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It’s my belief about women and what makes them attract. What specifically did I say that’s wrong, or even negative? Like if I was turned on by animals having sex, and I was asked if I was turned on, I’d certainly lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:31 AM
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This is just an informed opinion, but I think that they feel they may be judged, they think the guy wants to hear one thing, and often they themselves don’t even know what turns them on outside of that moment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:36 AM
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Studies don’t work for female attraction. Women lie about what they’re turned on by.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:59 AM
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Absolutely it has. Girls literally think they have a chance to date guys like drake because these celebs will hire people to dm every girl 8+ in a city and the girl receiving it thinks they’re actually being hit up. So we’re competing wih that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:26 AM
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I don’t get your question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:38 PM
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But I will say that of the girls that tried and didn't like it, could have said they didn't like it because they didn't want to be judged for liking it, or could have disliked it for reasons other than it being a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:23 PM
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Gotcha. you could be right, my argument is just speculative and based on one study.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:22 PM
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Interesting. What I would say is that girls typically don't tell the truth about what they are sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:20 PM
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Interesting. What makes you say that? Like what are the numbers based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:10 PM
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I think I agree with that. I said most women, not all women. But the amount of women that are attracted to other women and men are WAY higher than amount of men that are bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:13 PM
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Sexually stimulated/aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:09 PM
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They hook up with each other for sure. Studies show most women were equally attracted looking at men and women photos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:28 AM
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And pick up techniques work wonders in sales.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:47 PM
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Lifting doesn’t directly help with women since looks aren’t what actually make women attracted. But it indirectly helps by reducing stress, making you feel accomplished, it’s good for your energy and confidence etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:26 PM
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Ik I’m bitching, but my excuse is bad rotator cuffs from an old injury
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:24 PM
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Read letting go by David r hawkings. Help explain it much better than I can. If you do read it, lmk what you think Keep in mind I have 3 years experience as a pua, so it’s not like some newbie mediating thinking that everything works out when you just let go. Basic step: sit down. I bought transformation mastery, so il use that sometimes. You feel a feeling of when you got triggered during the day. You allow the emotion to be felt(ignore thoughts) without resisting it. You WILL resist it. Just s…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:37 PM
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So what I’m referring to when I say let go of it is getting rid of it, not accepting its existence. That’s like a different thing, accepting an emotion. But to be fair, there is not an emotion that I have yet to literally get rid of. I’ve probably reduced certain emotions by around 95% by identifying the first trauma in which I felt that emotion and staying with that trauma the whole time. For instance, with fear when approaching a girl I’ve literally gotten rid of that. However, il still feel a…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 06:10 PM
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It’s possible to pretty much get rid of certain emotions through surrendering/letting go of them.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 10:11 PM
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Why don’t you just get rid of the emotion? Read letting go by David r Hawkins or follow what Julien blanc says
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 03:37 PM
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Gotchu. So imo it’s not the literal fact that they’ve been with many other women, it’s that they have the option to have been with other hot women. And 99% of men that has that option(about 2%society) will hu with many many hot women, What is ONS and FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:52 AM
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I do agree that the reason they are attracted to men who have been with many other women is mostly because of abundance, not literally them sleeping with the women. What I would say is that no man that actually is in top 1 percent of guys in terms of their ability to attract 10s-9s chooses to not have sex wih a lot of women, unless for religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:28 AM
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But I will say that if you have field experience with picking up girls where you have seen in the field girls wanting men that don’t sleep with a lot of other girls over alpha men that fuck 100s of girls that surprises me and goes against my 3 years field experience, but it is legit cuz you saw it first hand. Studies don’t work for this because what women say and do are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:23 AM
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You don’t agree that women are more attracted to men with an abundance of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:20 AM
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I highly disagree. Women usually want their man to have slept with a lot of women. She will be more attracted to the alpha that has a history as opposed to a desperate beta who hasn’t been able to sleep with many women. Also, the men that care about women’s sexual history are just insecure. I don’t give a fuck, I assume a beautiful women has had a lot of wild sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:33 PM
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I’d say read less go out more. Approach more women.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 06:27 PM
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Be the producer, not the consumer. Posting instagram stories allows you to game every girl that follows you at the same time, and by keeping them on your highlights that epic set or party you threw stays with you for life.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:56 AM
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Damn I think the games are fun asl.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 04:17 AM
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Women love positivity and good emotions, so people who leave negative comments are usually the people not getting laid. Your behavior during the day manifests how you will be when you go out to game.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:16 PM
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What’s sad is it’s almost too late for them also. I’m 21, and found out about game at 18, so going out and gaming is fun and easy for me. But I couldn’t imagine learning it at like 40.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 06:41 PM
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Unless she bad
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:51 AM
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But I’m literally the same way. Il have the hottest fucking girl into me, and go crazy for a 6 that loses interest
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:38 PM
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Ya I can’t tell you specifically - I have no idea!
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:37 PM
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Often trauma based.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:32 PM
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Sad reality, "this guy" is probably around 80 percent of married men in America.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 05:04 PM
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good talk then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:39 AM
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You couldn't have missed my point any worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:07 AM
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With which part lmao. No way you can disagree with everything I just said. Either that, or you haven't been out to bars and clubs a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:08 AM
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Nothings wrong with you, just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:07 AM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:03 AM
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I don't use very much manipulation with pua. Mainstream society is extremely misinformed. Typically, people that get into pick up start by manipulating, realize it isn't fun and it doesn't work, and transition into developing themselves into being an attractive person that women naturally desire. I literally think nothing in the world is more fun or better than being a pua. It takes men that are weird and shy, and turns them into fun outgoing people that get over things like fear of rejection an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:58 AM
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Gotcha, that makes more sense than what you said before. To be clear, they don't actually want to be raped. Even girls with the biggest rape fantasys would be highly traumatized by being raped. Its a fantasy, not something they actually want to happen, that I think stems from wanting to be dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:41 AM
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Oh i didn’t know u were in a relationship haha. But that’s interesting that you wouldn’t still, even if single. kinda surprising to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:11 AM
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And when I say looking for a provider, I’m meaning finding a guy that’s like a doctor or lawyer instead of a good match attraction wise, to avoid the risk of them cheating and getting the financial and stability rewards. Not saying that’s what you are doing, it’s just what I meant. Because that small portion of alpha male men that also have their shit together usually aren’t looking to settle down. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:25 PM
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That’s cool. I respect that. And that’s cool that you wanna pull your own weight also. I’m not trying to argue, but am curious - if brad Pitt or Leo DiCaprio wanted a one night stand when you were out partying, would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:22 PM
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Ya im not educated on feminism enough to convince you that it was a good thing. I simply get the vibe that they were pretty repressed by men for a lot of history, but today they certainly are not necessary, imo. Yeah I really do feel that feminists often argue to win, as opposed to reach truth. So if we bring up a statistic that shows our perspective, they won't even reconsider their positions, they'll instead just look for a way to argue back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:17 PM
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Lmao ur funny af. But fr, I think you are likely right as to why she argues the way she does. But I personally do think a lot of feminism is good - maybe not anymore, since things like wage gap are equal now and women and men are pretty much equal now. But it certainly was necessary over the last several decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:48 PM
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I don't think that viewing sex as primarily emotional for women suppresses their sexuality - in fact, by realizing this general truth, it has allowed me to turn women on way more and make them more comfortable sexually. For instance, many men will try to physically attract a women in the way that they would wanna be seduced - by touching, gropping, grabbing, grinding etc. But in reality, what women want is to enjoy the chase, to laugh a lot, have tons of fun, and swings of emotions. By knowing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:44 PM
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I just started having some good back and forth with her. She has interesting views so far, but does seem pretty biased. I can tell she definitely cares a lot though, which always makes conversations good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:38 PM
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Its not threatening imo. I can't speak for all men, but I don't see why sex being emotional would threaten men in any way, although I could be missing something. I am simply interested in the facts, as being a "pick up artist" is my number one hobby and passion. Anything that steers away from truth would hurt my progress. I believe you when you say that sex is physical for you, because for women, the standard deviation as to the reasoning behind deciding to have sex is WAY WAY WAY higher than re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:35 PM
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Rough sex is very different than rape fantasy. The statistic, which I just looked up, was specific to rape fantasy, and I was actually incorrect with my number - it is 31 to57 percent. What makes you say that they aren't really rape fantasies? I am not trying to be hostile, although this next statement may seem that way, but you seem well informed. I am genuinely wondering if this is just you being biased, or if it is you using reason to argue that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:27 PM
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Sweet just replied to two of her posts. She does seem well informed, but somewhat biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:06 PM
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Ive read statistics that 31 to 50 percent of women have rape fantasies. Its much more common in women than in men. Would you say that that many women have a serious problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:06 PM
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Women standards for men go down in turns of what attracts them. Offering wealth to a women is a beta male strategy, which is why women often make them wait so long for sex, as opposed to instantly fucking the alpha males in college. As women approach 30, they are interested in finding a provider male. So their standards for the man being an alpha male goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:38 PM
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LOL wtf. I feel like a lot of times women just want to disagree. Like saying sex is "heavy on emotion, when for men it tends towards the physical" isn't even offensive, its just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:34 PM
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All girls like casual sex with top 1 percent type of alpha males (Rare guys who are non judgmental, are good at spiking good emotions, and don't show too much creepy interest). I agree that the guy will not necessarily date her - I'm more saying that when dating happens, its after casual sex usually. Unless the women is looking to marry a provider male? Lmk if you disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:32 PM
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I thought that dating happened after they liked someone they were having casual sex with. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:27 AM
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You need to go out and hit the field more. that simple.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:51 PM
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Got you. I pretty much only do club/bar game at this point of my life(I'm in college, so it makes the most sense), so thats why vocal projection is so important for my game, although at times I still struggle with it. Thats interesting that you make a distinction between different scenarios. honestly, I have always just thought of my game as like a singular thing I work on, when in reality different situations call for such different types of game, like you said. "I find most dudes don't want to…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:57 AM
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True. Opening is probably the most important basic skill, since you can't realistically improve the rest of your game without ability to open.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:10 PM
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I consider that more advanced than basic, although it can be important.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:10 PM
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Great answer thanks man. Only think I would add is good vocal projection/being loud, and leading the interaction - would you agree?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:09 PM
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Yeah goes to show that looks don't matter at all in game, something that is hard to believe but true. Also, it is not a numbers game: If you approach a lot, you come into a flow state which allows u to pull. If you had been in that flow state going into the first set, you would have pulled first girl(assuming good logistics).
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 10:54 PM
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Honestly when she gets “full of shit” I get more attracted. I love the chase
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:09 PM
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Ya. If you are just fun and uneedy, your social life and dating life will be pretty excellent. Tons more you can add to that without a doubt, but the most simple things you can do without doing anything else is fun and not needy(being carefree achieves this)
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:21 AM
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I like your response better than what I had in mind. Nice. Hope u hu again!
/r/askTRP15/06/19 10:35 PM
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Hard to tell. What did you respond to her first text? I’d say more than likely it is attention seeking, but I wouldn’t read too far into it
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:05 PM
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Il just tell u what i would say, not that its the right thing to say necessarily. Id say: "It was expired and torn and anything" as a sarcastic remark. And then respond to her next text with "I was jk, i wouldn't worry about it" or something along those lines depending on what she said. Alternatively, you could just say "nah" or "it wasn't expired or torn or anything"
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:15 AM
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2 days after? Ur g lol
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:58 AM
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I would add being carefree, being fun, generating good emotions.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:57 AM
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Social media is essential for dating. Without it, you are bringing a sword to a gun fight. Think of social media as your resume for many of the people you may hook up with or connect with through business. Like you, I hate social media, but I understand its value, so I use it proactively not reactively.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:36 PM
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Honestly I haven't seen much shaming or telling people to suck up mental health in recent years. I find that many people are willing to support men who are vocal about their depression, insomnia and panic attacks. Maybe anxiety could use some work, but that isn't as severe as the other three issues you named.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:09 PM
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You shouldn't be getting girls as an accomplishment.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:08 PM
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Yes take the easy win. Once you gain momentum you won't even need to look below 7s/8s, but as of now definitely do it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:35 AM
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I never said you gave zero chance of being cheated on. If you don’t engage her, for instance through working too much or traveling too much etc she will cheat for her validation more than anything. And a small percentage of woman will cheat no matter the relationship, and those are woman you should just avoid. A good example is do you think Brad Pitt has a realistic chance of being cheated on if he’s engaging her? Not that any pua/self help work gets you to that level, just an example to prove a…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:50 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS1qSD9sJgw I recommend you check this out. Especially last half.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:21 PM
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Nice. Idk why your comment has down votes. Yeah Im not even saying I'm at the level of masculine polarity where a girl wouldn't cheat. I think less girls would cheat on me than many other guys, because I don't do really beta stuff like use her as an emotional tampon or act too needy usually with long term girls. But I've seen guys who i just know carry themselves with such a polarity that theres no way a girl(excluding like maybe 5 percent of girls who are just very very fucked up emotionally an…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:00 AM
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Good post but you’re wrong about “don’t expect slut to be faithful”... if you have a very very high level of masculine polarity, pretty much every woman will be faithful. But if your polarity is low (which in modern society so many men’s are) she’s pretty likely to cheat.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:32 PM
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No. Friendships are all value exchanges, but value most often comes in the form of good emotions, which is fun. Also, there are many normal people who don't need info from redpill, who are just naturally good with people and hence good with women. Thats why its absurd to say you can't relate with people who think outside of the pua/redpill community.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 01:11 AM
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Incase anyone is following this thread I thought I’d give a quick update: I went out to a bar on Monday and saw the HB9 there. I had a few other girls around me to social proof me, one of which was very into me who I used to hu with (she’s like a 6.5. My game has gotten to point where it wouldn’t make sense for me to hu with her again, but having her grab me and flirt with me is great social proof and fun.) Anyway, I talk to the HB9 and her friends for about an hour, all while this other girl (t…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:04 PM
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Lol. Bro you have friends for the mere purpose of having a good time when you're with them, you're misunderstanding redpill information.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:30 PM
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Its all sub communication and pumping her emotions. She will never LOGICALLY fuck you, like you will logically decide to fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:24 PM
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Social media has made game so much easier. You literally can make stories of you gaming, so you essentially are gaming and showing your life to every girl that follows your instagram. The social proof is just massive. Absolutely insane stuff, if you know what you are doing. I believe that people complain about social media because use it furthers the wealth inequality in getting laid. There is an old saying that the top 3 percent of men fuck 97 percent of the hot women. The top 3 percent of men …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 10:19 PM
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Advice on looking at macro: it’s tough man I have same problem - I naturally always want quick easy fixes. My advice would be to enjoy the process just for the process itself, but it’s hard to give advice on something I don’t necessarily embody myself. Kindof inspires me to work on that also. Bro she likes you still because you’re acting like a fucking boss alpha male in the way you’re dealing with her. Like when you do things like not respond to her texts and say things like I don’t think I sho…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:33 PM
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Couple of things stood out to me, il just give some pointers. To get over oneitis, go fuck ten other girls. Old school pua advice, works like magic. And a bonus , if you happen to still have feelings for this one girl, you will develop the skillset required to fuck this specific girl again. Those things you are doing take wayyyyyy longer than 3 weeks to make a difference. Sorry, but just a fact. Sounds like this girl likes you dawg, based on her texts to you about missing you. Play hard to get, …
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:19 AM
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I appreciate it, I actually will reach out to you, as I have not posted in RedPill yet, and have only posted in askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 04:09 AM
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I think you answered your own question when you said it happens more with alcohol. Don’t drink and game.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:45 AM
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Fuck her brains out
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:43 AM
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Yeah I will good idea. I didn’t realize nobody had written about it tbh.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 03:42 AM
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Love what you said about how he didn’t know what abundance feels like. I feel that many non puas do not understand the sheer level of abundance that a dedicated pua can build. The feeling and sense of contentment you will get from being in abundance is so great compared to just getting that one girl you’re obsessed about.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 03:40 AM
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I don't have a post about it. I initially heard the idea from rsd tyler, and field tested it and found it to be more effective than competing for girls. Thats not to say I'm never competitive. In fact I'm very competitive, but with myself and my abilities not other peoples abilities. But if you wanna field test it, try doing this. When you approach a girl or group of girls, come from the frame of wanting to have a good time with them, and potentially be friends with them. Then, if you notice som…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 12:31 AM
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Few points I’d disagree with, but overall good stuff. Looks are pretty irrelevant. Girls don’t experience attraction physically, they experience it emotionally, and from there it’s all about comfort and logistics as to if they’ll sleep with you. I guess if you’re a boring non fun guy, they may be more inclined to go with the taller better looking guy. However, in a nightclub environment especially, id take an ugly club promoter that can ignite emotions over the hottest man in the world any day a…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 10:24 PM
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Lmao, game with low self esteem girls is so much easier. Sounds fucked up but is a fact.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:58 PM
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I turned to walk away, and actually did walk away while smiling. The reason I did that is because I could tell she was shit testing me based on how much focus she put on him like right away. Not something I would recommend doing usually, just in this specific spot, also since she was sitting on a bar stool and I was standing at the time it would’ve looked kinda desperate for me to stay.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:57 PM
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Ya if the women does message me first that’s huge, simply might be unrealistic expectation though
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:54 PM
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Amen
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:53 PM
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Ya it’s no so much that I’m worrying about it(maybe I am a little) it’s more so that I was asking for future reference as well. Like in general what do people say say after they fuck a girl
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:52 PM
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She was laughing about it though. But ya maybe I should’ve just not mentioned it
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:51 PM
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I straight up just turned away while smiling and slowly walked away. Very risky move, but I got the vibe that she was talking to him just to shit test me. She followed me about 30 seconds after, so it paid off. Not what I’d necessarily recommend doing. But I was coming from frame of if we don’t hu we can still be friends and she can introduce me to other friends that she knows or we can hu later, so the bigger risk for me was coming get across as creepy/needy
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:50 PM
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Ya I agree, thanks. I get the vibe that she hooks up with a lot of guys, while at the same time making certain guys wait several dates. When I said she’s normal/nice, I meant in how she seems to talk socially/her non sexual personality. But in bed, she was pretty wild, which usually means she’s someone “slutty”, which I don’t have a problem with.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:48 PM
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Ya my situations a bit unique. There’s only one good college bar over the summer, so we’ll both be there on weekends. I definitely will continue to “game”/hu with new girls, but retaining this girl is ideal.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:45 PM
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Haha wym lol
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:33 AM
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Yeah i think you're right. I already know she will be out on Friday, "just happening" to see her would be far better than me planning it. See, when I have 2-3 girls in my rotation, this is a non problem. I think Im feeling a bit scarce since this is the first girl I've been with since mono and she happens to be cool and hot. Its kindof a good chance for me to come into a more abundance type of frame without having external abundance that I typically have relied on in the past.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:40 AM
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Lol hope thats a joke
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:37 AM
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"Then don’t text her shit. Women go crazy when you ignore them." I have learned this lesson the hard way lol. Lost a lot of hot girls that were into me from over texting and responding too quickly I think. I already snap chatted her once today, but left her on open when she responded, and I am not planning on messaging her again until Friday.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:21 AM
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Damn smart. Shorter is better, no need for me to say "I had fun last night" when I have the joke option.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:15 AM
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Honestly. For me, when I am at a bar, the hotter she is the better I do because I get more energized/engaged to be really talkative and fun. But after the initial hu, I find that I will often supplicate or get nervous about keeping them.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:14 AM
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Yeah she has it. I texted her while i was with her something funny, so that neither of us had to be the initial texter
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:12 AM
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Damn thanks man. I like what you said about "The true interaction is the pauses, the eye-contact, the slow drift into each others personal space. The words you're saying at this point barely matter." When I think back to the interaction, its so much more about the timing of words and eye contact smiling etc, like you said.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:12 AM
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Awesome thanks. I went with "I had fun last night, hope your neck is okay" (I left her a hickey that we were joking about before she left). IK she goes out on weekends to the same bar every time, so Il probably just skip step two and STFU until Friday, and maybe text or snapchat her then to see if she's going out.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:08 AM
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Yeah before now I had been saying(over snapchat or text) "Hey I had fun last night. (Insert inside joke)". This time I debated saying nothing, and maybe with another girl that I don't have as good of an initial interaction with Il try this out, but I didn't wanna field test saying nothing so I decided to shoot her a snapchat, and sent "Hey last night was fun. Hope your neck isn't too bad (Laugh face)" Because I left her a pretty fat hickey. I got an almost immediate snapchat back, so seems g. Il…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:05 AM
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True probs what il do. Wait until weekend when I go out again.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:02 AM
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True. Probs making it into too big of deal. I was also asking because I get confused with what to text girls generally after sex, not just in this one instance
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:01 AM
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Damn this is what I needed to hear. Thx for being straight up. Honestly, it’s probably my biggest weakness in game right now is worrying too much about others feelings and not what feels good to me. My biggest beta trait I have going, gotta fix that
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:00 AM
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Thanks a lot. Yeah the more I think of it, the more I have to lose by texting right away, whereas not texting can actually be helpful in not being too interested. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:58 AM
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Lol probably the move tbh I’m just being a little bitch
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:56 AM
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My only worry with that is I want to make sure she feels good about having decided to sleep with me. I definitely don't want to text her again for a while after I message her once, but I'm worried that if I don't message her at all shel feel like I just used her.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 09:10 PM
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Nice! Il give some advice based on your problems you mentioned: Don't worry about "respect" from other men. More so be authentic, and learn from instances where you get good or bad feedback. Respect is simply ego inflation, does not matter at all. In terms of substance, focus on trying to enter a creative state when you are out. Like don't necassarily TRY to game, but rather allow game to come to you through your mood your in. Say things to pump your own state rather than to take from the girl.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:54 PM
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Maybe call a Wambulance
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:42 AM
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Looks don’t really matter, since women experience attraction emotionally not physically. You are probably doing something wrong and are blaming the interaction not working on your looks, when it has nothing to do with the way you look.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:05 PM
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Women experience attraction emotionally since they are sexually receptive, not aggressive. So they actually do not care if a man is fit or not, since being fit doesn’t make a women feel emotions.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:02 PM
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Super interesting man. Ive never considered this, but it makes so much sense. Id imagine that the same applies for men as well: the more feminine men will value the way a women acts/makes them feel more than a masculine man will.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:21 PM
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Good to hear man, glad I could help out. I think Il shoot you a private message instead man.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:18 PM
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Good to here that you're doing better man! Couple pointers from what you said: Meditate every day if you can, it helps even when life is going extremely well, Don't worry about the oneitis. Actually hooking up with girls isn't that big of a deal for you right now, just based on where you are at. Just socializing and talking and becoming less stifled/getting over depression is your focus, and if you happen to hook up with girls, thats really great, but not a priority compared to the other things.…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:39 AM
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Arguments to inform are useful. Arguments to "win" are ego-based and useless. A common scheme by those arguing to "win" is intentionally missing the point - rather than considering adjusting their view, they change the subject. Great quote man, good job.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 07:59 PM
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Yeah I decided to buy it almost a month ago. See my above response I just gave. Overall, really happy with it so far. Not sure that its the end all be all answer to life/game that Julien hypes it up to being, but it helps a lot with past emotions you're carrying with you, at least for me.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:59 AM
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I ended up buying it. I haven't noticed much difference yet in terms of social skill results etc, but what it has done has actually helped me release emotions of past events. Ive been through some intense stuff, one particular thing that happened in high school that I literally would not even acknowledge that it happened for like 4 years. Now I can think about that event and not feel almost any emotions about it. Like I still remember it, but any charge from it is gone. So I can't attest as to i…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:58 AM
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All learned by experience, but il try my best to give some tips. This is one area I feel pretty naturally good at for some reason. ​ Honestly, I am very used to gaming at bars, so it is a lot different there. But at your house, I would try to get her to like a couch or futon if you have never hooked up. Maybe show her some funny video on your computer, idk be creative with how you get her to couch a million ways to do it. ​ From there, talking and making her laugh etc is way more important than …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:44 PM
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I would say that you should stay with the party life and continue to go out to bars, but without drinking or doing drugs. Party life will only be a positive thing if you do it sustainably.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:49 PM
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You shouldn't be "trying to make your move" wtf. It should happen organically, or she should start touching you first. Wait for more indications of interest, and escalate her emotionally before trying to get "touchy feely"
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:46 PM
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Wedding is huge switch because the girl will no longer need to seek the mans validation. This can be overcome with a high level of masculine polarity, but it is a struggle even with polarity because validation is such a key part of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:44 PM
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Really don't agree, use both game in person and social media. Social media is a great way to keep girls invested, and to social proof yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 06:41 PM
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Bruh taking the redpill isn’t that big of a deal, it’s just a saying that means that social conditioning isn’t always accurate on a micro level. I don’t think your lack of motivation etc is a result of redpill knowledge, it is probably something a lot deeper.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 01:49 AM
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Top 20 percent of men are getting SUCH bad results lol. Top 3 percent fuck 97 percent of the hot girls. If you’re an 80 percentile type of guy, you are not near abundance levels. To be a top 3% guy, looks are completely irrelevant. You have to make girls feel comfortable around you by being non needy/not self qualifying, and you need to be really good at giving good emotions.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:11 AM
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So true. The guys that claim they are "nice" are the same guys watching hardcore porn because they can't get laid. Wasn't very "nice" of them to watch that porn of a girl getting a money shot!
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:40 PM
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Said it was not found on my server damn.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:08 PM
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It’s not that women don’t respect men: it’s that they don’t respect beta males. I don’t know why this angers you. Being a beta male is cowardly and fake as fuck. Trying to manipulate women by getting money or what society says to do is also manipulative and fake as fuck. And it’s not that they don’t like nice guys or that they respond better to assholes: it’s that they don’t like fake ness. If you’re an alpha male and you happen to be nice, they love it. They just don’t like fake nice, because i…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:44 PM
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Can tell by your response that you are not getting laid by hot girls.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:14 AM
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But you do bring up a good point that in theory good looking guys should be able to pass on good looking genes, like logically that does make sense.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:24 AM
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That’s a good point that they want the genes. But I believe, based on my experience at least and what I have seen, that they care about alpha genes and genes that indicate an ability to socialize more than genes rather than genes that indicate good physical traits. This can be explained by the idea that “women provide the looks, men provide the behavior”
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:01 AM
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For most women, sex is just sex. However, due to beta males and other women shaming them for being sluts, they have to hide the fact that they love sex just as much as men. However, when they meet a top 1% player guy, this goes away, as the top 1% guy knows how to raise her emotions and make her comfortable because she knows he won’t be a needy beta male. And when emotions are raised, and they are comfortable, logic goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 10:32 PM
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Wow good to hear. Didn’t expect it to have an impact for a couple of weeks if not months. Keep me updated.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:30 PM
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Looks don’t matter from the girls perspective. Men and women experience attraction differently. Men only care about looks, while girls don’t care at all, they only care about behavior.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:03 PM
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Been in pick up artist community for 2.5 years. This belief gets more reinforced every time I pull a HB8 plus girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:58 PM
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Don’t try to. Just get out of your self image
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:45 PM
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No it’s not. Most is based on experience and what I’ve witnessed. See club promoter example i gave
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:39 PM
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How does that make me a troll? C’mon this is pick up 101, literally been known since early 2000s. You can disagree based on ur field experience, but I have a valid point.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:50 PM
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And don’t fucking take Ritalin lol, just imo
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:41 PM
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I have lots of more advice, but honestly keep it simple for now. Only take advice that leads to actual actions. Meditate. Look up “letting go of trauma guided release” by julien blanc and try it with an open mind for a few weeks every day. Go out to bars to meet women, with the intention of just having fun and talking a lot rather than of pulling. Maybe even see a therapist if that’s an option.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:40 PM
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True does make it easier, even if it doesn’t add attraction. Just helps with a lot of subtle issues
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:37 PM
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Idk how many girls are bringing far slobs, but I do know fat slobs that bring home hella hot babes.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:36 PM
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Attraction for girls doesn’t happen physically, it’s all emotional.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:35 PM
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Haha even if looks are important, it doesn't matter cuz id treat it same anyway, I would just have the mentality that my looks are not an excuse and work on my game/personality anyway.I just like talking about looks for debate purposes cuz it goes against social conditioned beliefs, which makes it interesting and fun to talk about. If I'm wrong or right, the quality of my dating life won't be affected.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:26 AM
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I don't try to "game", i have an unconscious understanding of game. And the girl goes to my college, most guys in my pledge class know about her. To be fair, was best pull of my life. I have only hooked up with 2 "10s" in looks, so idk how qualified that makes me. and even though I understand how unimportant looks are, I also am shocked every time I pull a hot chickk and I just think damn i learned this on the internet holy fuck is this a dream. Cuz I got no girls whatsoever in high school.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:22 AM
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Lol ur a newbie then
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:03 AM
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Every celeb u named would kill me in field cuz they are celebrities and they are probably cool as fuck. Jock of football team was probs cool, ik a lot of great football athletes n my high school that couldn't get a hot girl. Honestly how would I have flings with 9s and 10s if looks mattered. They'd just be with better looking guys, cuz I'm about a 6. Cant explain it any other way. Id literally only get 7s if i was lucky if looks mattered a lot. And the fact i can pull a literal 10(I'm talking ho…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:02 AM
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Not cuz you're a fat fuck, its because you don't have good game. being fat is an excuse, I've seen fat guys get laid by beautiful women. the problem is u. You're probably insecure about your looks.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:59 AM
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From my experience game and personality are almost everything. Looks really only help opening. Maybe they influence game a bit more at a newbie level/on an off night, cuz you can just get by on looks or bad looks will draw more attention to being bad at socializing. But when I'm on point, being better looking couldn't possibly create any more attraction than I'm creating.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:11 AM
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I mean in reality it doesn't even matter if looks matter or not, cuz either way you should do the same thing: not use them as an excuse, and look as good as you can. But I just find the debate interesting, since it goes against social conditioning so much. Like back in the day I thought looks were all that mattered. Ultimately you're right, theres not really a way to tell definitively. But I will say this, id take a good voice over looking good any day in terms of game. In terms of the study, fu…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:19 AM
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To be fair, you could be more confident, energetic, and experienced. I wonder if you put on the weight again now(not that you should for obvious health reasons) if you'd get even better results than ever.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:57 AM
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Cant say i have approached 1000s of girls. probably in the high hundreds for me. I was saying this based on my experience though, not based in theory. but I agree, more than 90 percent of people on here probably are pick up theorists, not artists.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:56 AM
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Hard to tell without seeing a picture, il be straight up. Honestly, if you have an unattractive face it can be hard to do something about it, but if you work out and eat well and get a great body, there will be guys that find you attractive.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:31 AM
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100% agree for tinder, insta, or if you haven't met her yet. Any online dating also. Cuz how else can they screen you?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:09 AM
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Yeah you're right, this isn't what you said in your previous response though. Money for you is cool, but no girls will gain or lose attraction based on your financial situation. But like you said, if you spend money on them as a form of giving away power, it could decrease it, whereas if you spend it on creating a cool life style, it could draw women in.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:05 AM
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Ya definitely in agreement that lifting helps. Yeah you're probably right that it matters to some women. I think that majority literally don't care at all though. Maybe I'm exaggerating and il change mind about that, just what I'm feeling from very recent field experiences I've had. Let me know what you think about this though. Most girls I talk to that Im just friends that I've asked about what they like in guys have told me that personality matters more, but they do care about how they look al…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:54 PM
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But I do agree that "game" or personality does matter more than anything. Anyone with actual field experience figures that out within about 5 months I say.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:49 PM
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I don't think that being muscular helps seduce a women, logical reason is because its so much more valuable during tribal times to be a socially savvy leader of strong guys than it is to be the strong guy.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:47 PM
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Yeah good way of putting it I think
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:47 PM
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what makes you think that the guy with a chiseled jaw/works out has any better chance though? Like it honestly doesn't give the girl any survival value. All value comes from indicating that you're socially savvy and provide good emotions, since sex for girls is emotional not physical.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:44 PM
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Definitely agree with alot of what you said, but not your money point at all. They may hook up with you in their 30s if you have money, but that is them settling with a provider male, not them feeling attraction.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:42 PM
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Good point, but I listed several real life examples as well.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:39 PM
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Il read it!
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:38 PM
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You could be right. But from my experience, a girl that cares about looks at all is the rare exceptions(for instance, some girls only like black guys or white guys or guys worse looking than her etc) and its for a weird reason usually. I think in 95 percent of girls it is black and white that they don't care about looks at all, because looks aren't a big enough part of their emotional response.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:37 PM
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Good stuff haha I thought you meant 5 days from when you meet the person my b.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:24 PM
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Yeah its really crazy how against social conditioning it goes. Like when I first got into game I read that looks aren't an excuse, and I didn't fully buy it. But the more I pull girls that I think are so far outside my league(like I am shocked every time inspire of my knowledge) the more I realize the truth behind looks don't matter at all for guys.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:23 PM
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True
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:21 PM
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Yeah thats where I'm coming from also. They really do help a lot for first minute or so, I think because the girl assumes you're a cool guy if you're good looking, but if you're bad looking they assume you're weird and its on you to prove otherwise.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:21 PM
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What makes you think this? I definitely don't agree at all.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:20 PM
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Haha I like your response a lot. Especially to someone brand new, gym will be big. It will probably increase their confidence as well. And my smoothness with woman is only good because I have a lot of field experience, I'm naturally the least smooth guy ever. But to nitpick your point a bit, the only thing I disagree with is hitting the gym will directly help with girls. If you say that because it helps your confidence/brain chemistry to function better and have more energy, you're right. But I …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:19 PM
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True. Can still get in door without the looks, but its so easy if you do have the looks.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:25 PM
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Why would it take you 5 days haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:00 PM
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Haha well put. Yeah I agree that being well groomed does matter ALOT. To go along with you’re analogy, if you’re horribly groomed and have game you can still pull, just like a girl with super small boobs that’s still hot will still be attractive , but being well groomed is a important.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:51 PM
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Lol least humble brag I've ever made.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 08:40 PM
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Obviously, looks help with opening and help with any social media game. In my post I'm just talking about after you have opened a set successfully.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:37 PM
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Il try it out. But I do think I will find myself on my journey, because it is a journey of action taking, not a journey of sitting around waiting for a magic pill, as gay as it sounds.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:26 PM
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The real problem with redpill is the lack of field testing. Like argue with me about this, thats great, but use field experience to make an argument, not some theory you read on line,
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:25 PM
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Yes, i thought looks mattered for long time tbh, and what first really inspired to test out(really out of curiosity, because even if I'm wrong it is irrelevant, you can still objectively date the hottest women if you're bad looking and know game, it will just be more challenging) how much looks impacted attraction was when I stole a girl from a very objectively good looking guy that was socially dominant, just by getting her to chase my validation. So I continued to TEST this theory by asking ma…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:24 PM
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One big problem for me specifically is my lack of sleep. Its really hard to have good brain chemistry when Im not sleeping correctly. Stress management might help a lot.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:03 PM
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This may sound weird, but part of my problem is my lack of patience I think. Like I honestly don't know what kind of person I want to be. Do I want to be the kind of person that is just authentic, kind of person that doesn't give a fuck and just has fun, kind of person thats just unfiltered. I feel that I need to just be more patient with my journey, and in figuring out what I want.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:02 PM
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Good stuff. I was kindof having fun with my responses btw, its not actually a big deal if you ask her out or don't or ghost her. The bigger point is to go into abundance, which is what you're intending on doing, so you will be g either way.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:00 PM
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Yeah that’s a big dilemma I’m facing. Like in terms of how to act. And even where I want to self improve. It’s a struggle between what I want to do, and what will get the better result.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:37 PM
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4 girls in your rotation is abundance, but not even close to saturation point. I think more than 10 girls gets overwhelming, personally (max I’ve had is 10, and I can’t imagine having time for more than 10 girls while meeting new girls)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:20 PM
1

Wait maybe learning game has been pointless for me though, and the last IG model I had a fling with just really liked 6s. You're probably right.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:55 PM
1

I get the vibe that you haven't field tested the points you're making. The difference is I have. Ive lived it and seen it. In the future, if I see a good looking guy acting weird and getting a girl, il change my mind. Or if I see a bad looking guy thats and alpha male and source of good emotions with advanced pua skill not getting strong results, il change my mind as well. But I haven't seen either of these results occur.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:51 PM
3

Perfect. If you are insecure about your looks or if it limits you, it will matter so fucking much. Like if youre insecure, even hot girls are so insecure that they won't even give you a chance.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:49 PM
0

You are clearly a newbie and need more actual field experience before you can make a claim like that. Get a 10 to chase your validation or pump her emotions and she will make out with you in a heartbeat. Then literally just pull away from the makeout, and she will be shocked because no guy has ever done that to her. She will literally be begging to go home with you. At least my experience with 10s. There is no room for error, but validation based game makes it literally easy when done right.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:44 PM
1

Women do lust for men. But why do you think they don't watch porn nearly as much, but rather read about porn? Sex is 100 percent emotional for them. Id encourage you to read "the secret society" by rsd tyler. Very old article. Will explain it much better than I can.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:39 PM
1

Woah looks are definitely not "by far" most effect. My view that looks don't matter at all is definitely subject, but objectively speaking game/personality attracts far more than how good looking you are. Very very basic female psychology
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:37 PM
2

Like I said, they help open an interaction. If the good looking guy is weird, they will not be attracted.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:19 PM
-1

I don't agree that you can't have the best looking girls being not good looking. I myself am about a 6, and have slept with 3 girls that are 10s, and several 9s. and I am only a few years into the game, I don't even consider myself close to my potential. Why do club promoters and ugly celebrities have literally their choice of model women? ​ I can only say this from second hand account, but i talked to a small indian club promoter who claims to sleep with jessica alba looking girls when they're …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:43 AM
1

Have you field tested what you just typed?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:29 AM
1

Game is really just indicating status/value and giving emotions, so I consider game and status to be the same thing. ​ Looks do matter for first 30 seconds of an interaction, because she has no way to tell what your value is right away. Better looking guys typically are more confident and secure with themselves, so they will have an easier time opening. Hence, for the first 30 seconds, looks do matter. But to be fair, being too strong/good looking can hurt since they are more likely to assume an…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:28 AM
3

Of course, he's not gonna take my advice I almost guarantee it. You need to experience failure to learn this 95 percent of time, I'm not even perfect with the abundance approach yet.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:09 AM
1

For real been in the top two most helpful thing for me. Started very recently, but have not been consistent. Like when I socialize and just don't think at all, many of my natural problems just go away. I attribute that to learning to be present to the moment.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:08 AM
3

Cant argue with that
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:57 AM
1

Whats blackpill and are the hot jacked dudes cool and fun or weird and insecure?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:33 AM
2

Yeah definitely could be at least a part of it. Also have sleep problems, which could contribute.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:32 AM
1

Damn man couldn't be a better summary of how I feel. Imposter Syndrome isn't something I know much about, but it sounds so much like what I'm feeling. Yeah to get a bit personal, my dad would yell insanely loudly/get extremely angry over small things like once ever 2 weeks or so.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:31 AM
1

Too busy sucking us off
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:30 AM
2

Lmao
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:30 AM
1

Hahaha for real
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:30 AM
1

To be clear, on the outside my life looks relatively good in terms of friends and sex life.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:03 AM
1

And Naming men is so easy... Jesus, Julius Caesar... so many come to mind that were influential, but barely any women. To be fair though it was a patriarchy until like 50 years ago, so maybe they need some time.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:43 PM
1

This is so fucked, but I can't think of any women that has had THAT big of an impact. Like sure theres Queen Elizabeth, Michelle Obama, Hilary Clinton. All had influence, and theres thousands more I could name like that. But Id say of the top 1000 most influential people ever are pretty much all men.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:42 PM
4

Yeah if you get good at game it will help you in actual business sales so much as well. Same principles apply
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 11:09 PM
7

Didn't even read after your title... DO NOT ask her out again, go fuck 10 other woman first,
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:05 PM
0

Another exception is if the skinny guy is not well groomed. That can matter, if they have similar game.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:01 PM
1

Lol very subjective view by me, and there is no way I can prove it, but based on my experience I really do. Of course there are some girls that really do care about looks and muscles, but thats the exception. My logical reasoning for this is that girls experience attraction emotionally, so the way you look rarely makes someone feel emotions after 30 seconds of knowing someone, whereas the way you act and talk will.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:01 PM
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RP thinks that being good looking will help, and it just won't. It helps to open an interaction, but after that looks don't matter in the slightest.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:37 PM
2

Looks don't really impact game after 30 or so seconds into the interaction. Just learn how to generate good emotions in the interaction and be a source of good emotions in general, that is 90 percent of game tbh
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:36 PM
2

Dont change your mind, you are in scarcity. Fuck Ten Other Girls First.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:34 PM
-2

Lift for yourself and your not for girls. Any skinny ugly guy with .0001 percent better game and provider of better emotions will outcompete a perfectly in shape hot guy to get the girl.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:33 PM
1

Haven't actually. Originally got this idea from "The way of the superior man" which I highly recommend.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:11 PM
21

SO true. I view game as a business funnel, and will make a post about this at some point: Product development, which is working on yourself/self improvement/getting better game Lead generation, which is why its a numbers game. A lot of leads lets you become the selector Marketing of yourself, through social media etc Logistics of closing, which is the sales aspect.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 09:10 PM
1

What about becoming an entrepreneur? Work for yourself, build a team, partner up with someone even.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:05 PM
1

Ya dont cry in front of her whatever you do. Be sad, show emotion, just get the crying done by yourself.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:04 PM
2

Women have a feminine and masculine side. About 10 percent are more masculine than they are feminine, due to either nature or nurture, its unclear.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:02 PM
1

This is retarded I hope you're kidding.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:02 PM
1

I didn't have to read past first line but i did anyway. This is a classic scarcity based mentality towards sex. You need to fuck 10 other girls.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:00 PM
2

Yeah I've had a similar problem with insomnia over the last year or so. Caused me to lose most of my friends, and to put yourself back out there is extremely challenging. Im at the beginning stages of putting myself back out there. My advice: Get your nutrition damn near perfect, and exercise. Will help with depression. Lower your standard for a good conversation. You can't compare yourself now to when you had a lot of momentum built up from years of good socializing. It will take at least 2 mon…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:58 PM
1

Lol sorry to nitpick, but don't "plan to eventually bring her to my room." You should be the selector/chooser here, not her.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:52 PM
5

You don't need to ditch your friends over it. 98 percent of people who do not know game are creepy opportunistic vultures. Still, don't trust them fully again after they hit on her.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:50 PM
5

Opportunistic approach to women vs abundance approach to women.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:48 PM
1

Glad im not the only one lol. Right now, I'm at least glad I am aware that I have this issue going on. I think Im just going to make my only focus to take a break and step back until I can come at self improvement from a totally clear mindset, until I don't need it anymore.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:18 PM
1

Thank you. Good tips.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:16 PM
1

Great advice. thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:16 PM
4

Lmfao. I have no ideaaaaaa, sorrryyy :)
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:51 AM
0

This is coming from a place of scarcity and desperation as opposed to already feeling enough and happy and simply being inspired to engage with life. You're training your mind to say "I will be happy when'" which can help you grind for a few months and maybe years, but will not be sustainable in the long run.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:05 AM
1

You should not be coming from a place of unhappiness. You need to let go of and process negative emotions, in order to come from a place of inspiration as opposed to fake desperation.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:04 AM
9

Sounds like you're too in your head. I have had this same problem before, and to solve it I went the opposite extreme, of talking as much as I could about anything I wanted to. From there you could risk being a "dancing monkey" or talking too much without listening enough, but its easier to scale that down than it is to break out of shyness.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:02 AM
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Not a shit test to test your personality. More of her making sure she didn't seem like a slut in her own eyes, if that makes sense. So when you said yes to "wanna fuck", it made her uncomfortable, since you haven't had sex yet. It made it seem like there was too much of an agenda, and it wouldn't just happen organically. It would have been best to say something that makes her comfortable, like "Idk if I want to do that, but I do want to see you tn." or something to change the topic, not exactly …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:00 AM
1

Ya I meant to elaborate I just forgot to finish my reply haha. By drama I'm referring to some stuff rsdJulien used to teach like 5 years ago, if you followed him back in the day. So creating a dramatic situation in a fun way in order to spike her emotions by saying something like "you're a slut" or calling her a dog but then apologizing and saying I went to far. Sounds mean, but its always with intent to make it a fun interaction for both of us, she subconsciously knows by the way I'm saying it …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:54 AM
1

Ya I was more saying social status. Before posting this I had assumed that everyone in the group would know that finances and career status etc don't matter at all(If you read the comments to my post I obviously should've been more clear. Kindof concerning lol). I was more so talking about indicating you're a popular guy, or an alpha male type of guy, as you said. ​ ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:49 AM
2

Ya looks don’t factor into attraction for women, because attraction is emotional and the way you look rarely makes someone feel an emotional response.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:36 PM
1

Agree with most of what you said, but I don’t think looks factors into it game for men at all. Not a part of the emotional equation. Although, it will factor in for the first 1 minute of the approach
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:34 PM
1

Agreed. Learn about every aspect of game.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:32 PM
1

Yeah i am in a frat so we have decent amount of parties there. Super easy when were having parties, because opening is just so easy and u can just have a good time and get laid most times.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:48 PM
2

Good point. I also find that showing disinterest used to help me more when I was truly just starting out, cuz it could make them chase validation hard, but as Ive progressed not showing interest just stifles me and gets me in my head.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 03:56 AM
1

Thanks a lot for the detailed answer man. The reason I am considering it is because I find that no matter how much success I get, I am fighting against self sabotage. I am worried that its all nonsense, but I figure that healing trauma could be really helpful, even if it doesn't cure everything.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:21 AM
1

I see where youre coming from, and that sounds good in theory, but in the field to "go after what you want" will never work as well as coming from a screening frame.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 01:18 AM
1

I create drama in the field all the time.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:42 AM
3

Good point. If you do give a fuck and try to mask giving a fuck by not showing interest, then that is very beta
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 12:39 AM
2

Good point! I feel like status can help more with keeping a girl once you have already hooked up, but emotions are a lot more important the first time you hook up.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:18 PM
-5

Not showing interest is alpha, but still won't work in game.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 09:25 PM
1

When I say status, I am referring to indicating that you have high value, in the form of social proof, making them chase for validation, being dominant, etc.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:21 PM
1

That is where I'm at as well. Indicating status for me comes more naturally then being really fun or giving a lot of good emotions, but when I have had success with giving strong emotions, the level of attraction is pretty crazy.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:17 PM
1

Seeing hot girls hooking up with absolute losers is what made me start thinking about this actually. Like I have seen the worst kind of guys pulling girls with such ease.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:15 PM
1

Let me know if you agree. Obviously this model of attraction is an over simplification: Im more trying to say that emotions and comfort are 90 percent of attraction. Validation, indicating value, etc still all help. But they are merely the icing on the cake.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 09:10 PM
1

Depends how long you have been dating. Sounds like a poison drip to me though.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:22 PM
1

Its because girls choose who they want to be with based on EMOTION, not logic. Attraction for girls is essentially good emotions plus comfort. Of course, when they reach around 29/30, they will logically date men that they may not have attraction for, but that is out of security, not out of attraction.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:58 PM
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