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| 12 | Newly ended LTR, reflections and advice | DubbleFUPAwitCheez | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 06:07 AM | |
| 1 | Meeting other Red Pillers | DubbleFUPAwitCheez | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 10:51 PM |
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| 2 | What do you guys think of the whole “If they don’t see your worth, they don’t deserve you” thought?A shrouded candle sheds no light. If you're deliberately not showing your real worth and hoping someone sees your "inner beauty" or some bull shit, you're naive. If you are showing your worth and the other person is unimpressed, that's on them. Who cares why. Are you going to stop? Are you going to start tailoring to what they think is impressive? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to not "fast forward" through life?You're not making enough memories and you're not pushing yourself hard enough. I am about your age and I know exactly what you mean. Recently I started running 2 miles before every work out. That has definitely slowed time down. I feel my mental acuity has also increased, probably from my ability to better oxygenate my system. Anyway, you went to bed 27 and woke up 32 because you don't have that many memories. Apparently 27 does that to you because, again, I too don't remember much between then … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Chick doesn't want to give blowjobOlder women are always the ones that don't want to do it. Wonder why she's still single at 32. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Does cutting/dieting make anybody else way more risk averse and insecure?I've been thinking about this a lot lately actually. I wouldn't say I feel insecure but I've been thinking about how immensely irritable I am and ready to fight anyone at the drop of a hat. If you're losing fat it only stands to reason that your body thinks something is wrong. Irritability = scarcity mindset. If anyone looks at me or comes near me I want to rip their face off, what business do you have with me? I have none with you so you must want something from me. Fuck you. There is also an e… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Going to lose a lot friends and family over me not getting vaccinated? How do I find fellow like minded people my age? Anyone else going through this?I doubt they get that. Independence is a masculine trait and having your ego tied to cultural narratives is absolutely a sign of being a beta. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Going to lose a lot friends and family over me not getting vaccinated? How do I find fellow like minded people my age? Anyone else going through this?Those who can not control themselves will be controlled. Seeing the absolute histrionics going on in here, you can tell what type they are. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Going to lose a lot friends and family over me not getting vaccinated? How do I find fellow like minded people my age? Anyone else going through this?You're absolutely right in your thinking. These people are mindless and just want to be told what to do. This is just something else to virtue signal about. California is always going to be like that. When implanting ID chips becomes "woke" they'll berate you for that as well. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 0 | My parents don’t want me going to the gym what should I do?You started off well and then you went bat shit with this and started spamming the comments. Learn to control the autism 💪 | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 24 | LTR wants to break up because of rare datesAs soon as a girl threatens a break up, you do. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 0 | I matched with the manager of my gymYou are in the only situation where I would say don't do it. I am a big proponent of fucking gym bunnies, they are the hottest and the rarest in the wild outside of the gym so where the fuck are you going to find them but at your gym? That said. The gym is the bedrock of my life. If I lose the gym (or the only one I can go to in this case) then I would be taking quite a blow. So, personally, I wouldn't risk my only gym for some nice snatch. In my own life I pass by 3 of the same chain on my way … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | My (18M) girlfriend (18F) and I never talk about anything sexual over the phone or text, only in person. Should I try to change that?Personally, I think that shits dumb, even in your case. What are you going to do after all that? Go jerk off? In person it leads to something, over the phone, idk you trying to get her turned on so she go finds the nearest guy? In my experience if she likes you she already thinks about you when she's rubbing one out anyway. I know some guys are going to disagree with this but I think it's dumb. When you found out she was going to be away for a third of your "relationship" you should have started… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Questions about fat losseat the same thing every day, it removes food decisions Underrated diet tech. I eat the same things around the same time, every day. When you get into habits like that then it makes it a lot easier to control yourself. Losing weight isn't complicated but it does feel hard. The beginning is always the worst. After the first month it's much easier. Especially if your stomach was rather large. It will shrink and you will get full much easier. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman after learning she has children?It is your innate programming as a man. You don't get a woman so you can take on her kids. You get one to make kids. The idea that it is a good or noble thing to do is some "high minded" thinking based solely in a society where that society does in fact benefit from those kids having a positive male figure but that also stems from the tribal days and in that case it almost 100% would be from the kids dad being killed which is no fault of the woman's so it isn't as bad. But this is assuredly not … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Ungratefulness to the MAXYou married a bitch, stupid. The amount of contention here is astounding. She is obviously trying to compete with you as the leader of the house. If there is ever a question of who the leader is then you don't have one and you are doomed. The leader role in the relationship is what you must always have. If you have that, the rest doesn't matter. Now you have to fight her for it and since you're married you're in a position of weakness. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Is lifting for me?I'm your height and I have no idea how anyone this tall can weigh under 200 lbs. Unless you are narrow as a fence post you should have no problem getting to at least 205 with muscle. The lowest I've ever been was 215 and people told me I looked emaciated. You obviously have never lifted weights in your life. The best time for you to start was 10 years ago, the second best time is now. Get to it. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Shut test over text. Being called a bitchThis a latina chick? she's always going to be testing your frame. She's a plate. When you're tired of her throw her ass in the trash like the nothing she is. Dumb asses in the comments are gonna say stupid shit about frame but it's a plate, you take exactly as much shit as you're willing to put up with and no more. If they give you more than that, dumpster. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | She says she feels bad for sending nudesTell her you already deleted them. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How do you get rid of used condoms?FFS. Even a cursory look over that guys life reads like a treatise on the pitfalls of being blind to the dangers of women. The predators of alpha males are beautiful women(and by extension the government), never forget that. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 14 | Want to lift a bitch up with one hand like Michael Myers.That's two hands buddy. Idk what kind of shit you have in mind but lifting a person is nowhere near as easy as lifting weights. I might be able to pick that chick up one handed but it's not going to look nearly as cool as you think unless you are fucking huge. Two handed is easy. Do upright rows and front raises you psychopath | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How to be happy alone?Bruh. This is 2021. I have the inverse problem. If you want something that is alone alone, start working out till you love it, start reading till you love it. Get a dog or if that isn't an option go volunteer at a shelter. I really wanted to be a dog walker for one around here but fucking covid scared them from doing the training. Now it's not an option for me. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Had a date with a chick today and we kissed then she pulled her tongue into my mouth is she a slut?Was she showing ankle? Then she's a slut. Here's the real answer, that's how her and her last boyfriend kissed. Happy you know now? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 9 | What are the basic IOIs?The chub is an underrated indicator in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Plate asks "Am I getting the crumbles in the eve as always?"I love when you send me poetry. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 06:22 PM |
| 3 | “Coaching app” that lets you stay disciplined and motivated"Let's you stay motivated". You need permission? Motivation is an ongoing struggle if you need to get it externally but I say get it wherever you can. From the stars in the sky to the dirt under your shoes and everything in between. The only thing you can rely on is self discipline. No ones holding your hand all your life. Best throw away that crutch and enjoy it when you get a helping hand but never expect it. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Girl says shes out of my leagueThose girls will always say shit like that when around her group unless she knows for a fact they all think you're hot. It just takes one girl saying "ewww you like that guy?" then they get made fun of and they feel bad. Girls don't like to feel bad. If you aren't model hot, this is what you're going to get almost every time. Doesn't mean you can't get any play from those girls, just this is a rather dumb way to go about it. If a girl is openly saying a guy is attractive she is inviting him to h… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Got dumped because I teased her too hardMore likely it's just not funny. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you tell a woman that she’s good at sucking d even if she isn’t? Or do you only say it if you mean it?If she is good you don't have to say a thing, there's an end result that lets her know. In my experience the girls that are good, know they're good and the ones that are bad know they're bad. What matters is, the details. Does she want to please you or doesn't she? And in the first case, why is she so good at this? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like itI do believe you have had experience with this way of life because I see a lot of my own experience dealing with this topic in this post. The words change a bit from what I would have said but yeah. I find doing something and the initial motivation being doing it because it sucks can help. I start to think, that sucks, I don't want to do it and then I think, yes that's why I'm going to do it. Even if it's little things it can help you to make bigger strides. You've already probably heard this be… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/21 09:21 PM |
| -2 | Is it genuinely possible to stay friends with exes?It's not even possible to stay friends with girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 14 | What else have we being lied to about?So many black pills. But the white pill is finding someone else who understands. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What's up with psychological terms being overused in western society?No ones going to pay attention to you if you're not the victim of some sexy extreme. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | My female boss shouted that i have a great ass infront of everyone. Should I get offended?"Um, HR?" Obviously joking tone. Keeps it light, you woulda got some laughs but you would have subtly let her know she fucked up, which would send her a mixed signal, which women fucking love. You wouldn't have done anything, obviously, cause you're a man and those rules don't apply to you but the entire "turning clichés on its head" trope was in play, that's called humor. Humor is used to skirt edges. She might have been into you but if you look all stone faced and autistic, well maybe you put … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | how to recover from this situationDear penthouse | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Temporarily unable to fuck my gf and it's driving both of us crazyshe should be on her knees in front of you on the floor A man of culture. I like to be sitting in a chair. Bonus points if you have a throne | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Temporarily unable to fuck my gf and it's driving both of us crazyI have a pretty good idea of what you're talking about here. I had a girl that I made her give me some of that good noggin before we had sex because if she did it right I'd plateau and last longer. Sometimes she fucked up and did an amazing job and she wouldn't get any dick but that's not the point. My advice is, lean into it mentally. Let yourself really get into how good it feels, think about how awesome it's going to be to nut in her mouth, etc. I also see you said she will sometimes mess up … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Recently Read The Game and The Rational Male: thoughtsI enjoyed The Game mostly as entertainment, though it was my introduction to all of this. I'm going to date myself pretty hard but what lead me down the path here was a flash game on Newgrounds that was an ad for the book. It had enough in it that it piqued my interest to get the book and apply the principles which they still apply even now to a degree. I'd say TRP is the most generalized form of all of this and is the most applicable to the wide variety of men because of it. For example the rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Does getting a lower BF% actually make a difference?It's not that hard to accomplish and it will make everybody treat you with more respect, if you have muscle that is. Staying lean is not hard but you have to be cognizant of it. In a first world country it won't just happen. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Are there a lot of psycho/insane women in India?As a HWHITE man let me tell you, yes indian women are fucking insane. They are the definition of solipsism. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend's female coworkers insinuate in front of her that I'm not a man just to provoke her... how can I deal with shit like this?You should have told her to stop shaving her mustache and be the change she wants to see in the world. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Quitting CaffeineThis fuck is exaggerating that effect. I have stopped using caffeine for long periods. It's not crack. Drink it or don't. If it's giving you anxiety you're drinking too much. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Bestfriends SisterI got a friend that married one of our buddies sisters. Best advice is, if things are going bad or you don't plan on marrying her, get her to break up with you and not because you're being an asshole to her. If you do it you're gonna look like the bad guy. If you're just spinning your friends sister as a plate, well, he owes you an ass beating tbh. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Am I scaring people off because im lean?I have a couple cm and more than 10 kg on you. Trust me, no ones impressed. If you're not freak status no one cares. Their comments are tantamount to how the first thing anyone that wants to talk to me says is, "You work out?" like it's not a banal question. You worry too much. Assume it's not a diss until they make it obvious it is. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 5 | What if I want a girl best friend?I had a close female friend. She was a big tall girl. Liked to lift, I was very unattracted to her, (I think she was attracted to me though, attraction in general being the crux of the issue) and she was kind, giving and we had good long real talks. Most of the time we didn't even do anything, we just talked for hours. All of the trappings of a genuine friendship. I don't see her anymore and it's not because we ever fought, ever. We got along swimmingly but if I had to hazard a guess as to why s… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't black chicks from the slums begging for a BetaBux?They are often unintelligent and/or glorify thug culture It is rare that someone says something actually profound when it comes to these topics and this statement conjures a time that someone did. Be the best at the top or the bottom, the middle doesn't mean shit. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Are most women attracted to black guys?Most people will fuck most races but prefer to marry their own kind. This is a dumb question. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 06:26 AM |
| 0 | What would you tell someone who accuses trp of being misogynistic?You are really proving my point. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 08:17 AM |
| 0 | What would you tell someone who accuses trp of being misogynistic?The rest of you really need to sharpen your instincts. I smelled this one a mile away | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 0 | What would you tell someone who accuses trp of being misogynistic?Ah, so this isn't actually asking for advice. You just wanted to stir shit up. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | What would you tell someone who accuses trp of being misogynistic?You wanna call em termagaunts and prostitutes? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What would you tell someone who accuses trp of being misogynistic?Shit by any other name is still shit. There's no reason to ever change words because someone is "offended". Whatever takes its place will eventually be "offensive". | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 0 | LTR says she wants a break and I suddenly lose all my friends over it. Feeling completely isolated and depressed.It's like rope a dope. You're not smart enough to ask the right questions. Like I said, are you sure you're on the right sub? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | What did I do wrong?Throw her ass out into the streets where she belongs. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 10:13 PM |
| -1 | LTR says she wants a break and I suddenly lose all my friends over it. Feeling completely isolated and depressed.The goal here was to elucidate that you are not worth listening to, not to pick apart your inaccurate ramblings. You have to free yourself from the mind virus, friend. Go educate yourself, for real this time, on the topic. TRP reddit isn't all encompassing, it's really more the first step. It is all linked after all. Ask yourself why Roosh and Heartiste are where they are right now. If you don't know who they are then you really are just a neophyte and need to hit the books. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 0 | LTR says she wants a break and I suddenly lose all my friends over it. Feeling completely isolated and depressed.Wrong. Read rule 0. TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Trying to push a narrative of "racism" is antithetical to that because it limits what men can say and alters female perception about "right" and "wrong" by giving the power of it to society. You are tightening the noose around men's neck with this bull shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 0 | LTR says she wants a break and I suddenly lose all my friends over it. Feeling completely isolated and depressed.You sure you're in the right sub? You've caught my eye for idiocy a few times lately. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 2 | What does a woman have to do to be deserving of a LTR?Come up with your own barrier to entry. Mine is honest, good looking, sucks dick on command and cooks. 2 of those aren't as hard to find as you might think but getting all 4, it's a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Girl asked me to rate herHer: what would you rate me? Me: F+ | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Ex/fling just died. Just feel "off".Not too weird I guess cause you saw her so recently. I'd say the main reason you feel anything at all is because it's always weird when someone your own age dies. A stab at your own mortality. A girl I dated for awhile died when she was in her mid-late 20s. Real good looking girl, terrible judge of character. I didn't care when I heard she died, though I "loved" her when we together. But it did feel odd that someone so young died. Ultimately, you can't force people to make good life decisions. M… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 17 | What's it like to be in a long term relationship with a very attractive woman?Back when I played baseball I remember hitting my first homerun. I didn't celebrate because I knew I would hit another. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Is this girl testing my frame or she is just weird ?Change all the things she mentions, see how it goes, then you come back and tell me the answer. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Is ghosting cowardly"Coward" is ironically used by the biggest of bitches. In reality, it's a matter of perspective. Those guys with bombs on their chest get called cowards by one side, the other calls them martyrs. If a woman calls you a coward it means you hurt her feelings. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Looking for an analogy of women.This is an old analogy that has many forms. Woman walks into the man store looking for a man. They can only enter once and they can only go up the escalator, never down. First floor. These men are smart. She goes up the escalator. These men are smart and good looking. Up the escalator. These men are smart, good looking and would make good fathers. Up she goes. These men are smart, good looking, would make good fathers and are rich. She's really tempted to stay but she can't help but wonder how a… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 07:49 PM |
| 0 | What is it with white girls and their high ass expectations?I'm a 23 year old white they're lowkey racist. Maybe they don't like you cause you're dumb. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Is hypergamy even real when the majority of guys have girls that are more attractive than them?Proximity breeds familiarity Other guys are too big of pussies to hit on her You're a guy and don't have the same ability to see attractiveness of guys like women do. She has yet to find a branch to monkey to Hidden reasons not apparent to you Pick a reason, stop asking bad questions. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the most underrated thing that can help one ace a corporate job interview?You're going to get a lot of fucking bull shit with this question. As someone involved in the hiring process here's the answer: it matters what you're trying to get a job doing. Most companies are hiring because they want someone sooner rather than later. If you're doing customer relations type stuff, are you amiable? Are you not an idiot? I would try to annoy you during the interview to see how you acted. If it's a technical thing, can you do the fucking job? Can you solve my problem? Can you? … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Triggered her panic attack whilst making her cumwent down on her passionately cause I liked her She probably just wanted you out. You did the male equivalent of giving head and getting kicked out. You're surprised he doesn't want you around, whore? Idk how some of you bitches can stand yourselves. I fingered a girl to an orgasm once and she laid down to watch tv. No desire to reciprocate and that was it. I shot her down for another date later. Ever since then it was always I get mine first but here some of you guys are diving face first into … | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Flirting with younger girlsYou're trying to hard. Young people's humor is basic as fuck. Send em a KEKW | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually go for the kiss?Back when I was going on a lot of first dates I remember my anxiety rising quickly every time the moment was right for the kiss. You just gotta push through and do it. If you get denied, which I did a couple times, chalk it up as a loss. I'd recommend not wasting any more time on the girl, personally, if you fail. Other than that, it's just judgement call -> do it. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Reading FictionA lot of guys around here also ask "how can I be witty" "how to know the right things to say?" You know who's renowned for such things? Bill Shakespeare and he wrote fiction. Anyone that says reading fiction is a waste of time is an idiot. Metaphors and symbols are a great way to influence other people aka charm. If you read nothing but self help and improvement shit you're wasting your time. All work and no play makes you dull as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Gf broke up, will not let it go or honour no contact *Continuation of previous post*This sounds like gang stalking. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 17 | Threesomes are mostly silly and definitely overratedDid you really just do it to say you did it? Yes. I do many things for this reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Fucked a girl ive been talking to but I could barely get it up.... but now she’s acting obsessed af. I’m kinda confused.Considering you couldn't figure out a cause with rudimentary red pill lessons, I doubt it. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 07:32 AM |
| 4 | StocksCool | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think 7 sexual partners is a lot for someone age 30?First, always assume they're lying about this, second why are you even asking since you know it's a lie, third, objectively that number wouldn't be bad at her age - if it were true but you don't know, fourth, whatever is acceptable in a relationship is up to you and your expectations for it, fifth, if she's so great why is she still on the market at her age if she's hot?, .... 93rd, if you're looking to plate her why would you want one that apparently doesn't like to fuck? If it's a plate/fwb/no… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 10:48 PM |
| -1 | Fucked a girl ive been talking to but I could barely get it up.... but now she’s acting obsessed af. I’m kinda confused.Probably used to chads that refuse to eat her out so she found someone to do it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do girls keep going all over you guys who raised SMV or not?Why do you think "hook" is a metaphor? Once it's in there, what it's attached to gets pulled along. You have no hook in them so they let you go. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | As a Christian man, is it really possible to be Red Pill? I don't want to sleep around...late 30's Ugh. I'm low 30s if that makes this source feel better to you or maybe worse. Fuck it. I'm going to respond only to your TLDR FYI. You're missing the forest for the trees on this one, friend. I too have thought about these kinds of things. Ultimately, you can be alpha in anything you do. Frame has always been touted as the most important aspect of game and with good reason. I'm not going to go too deep into that though. Bottom line is, frame = boundaries. You don't seem to have a probl… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend said I was a 7, and acted like this is a huge compliment. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this.Chances are I'd say you're a 5. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 15 | How to get over my gf's past?Aren't you fragile. You need to break up with her and get your own experiences. You haven't even fucked her yet. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 19 | If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion?Standard nihilism. Now that you're looking for a motivation, you'll eventually find it. Ultimately, everything that's important is only so because you decided it is. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do some of the women I go out with start acting like little girls, literally? How do I nicely tell them that I don't find it cute?I find it interesting that you mentioned anime. I've actually thought that before. Some of these girls that have never seen any in their life, when they're at their most feminine, pose like they walked out of one when they're trying to endear themselves to me. Hands behind back, bending over, chest out, big eyes, best smile they can give, stuff like that. Those guys know what they're doing over there. Anyways, now that you know it's ubiquitous, you should understand that with women, youth is tan… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 10 | "You have a big dick"Lets cut through the bull shit, all of you in the comments. When a girl likes you, your dick is "huge" "amazing" etc. When she doesn't like you anymore, you were trash and your dick was small. You guys are fucking regressing. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Any advice for increasing my confidence amongst my rapidly increasing SMV? (Read story within body of post)Quit being a pussy. If she doesn't like you she'll let you know and you leave. If you care that they throw you out of the wine bar because she acts like an irrational psychopath then your priorities are fucked up. You should be grateful that she let you know so early on and fuck that venue, there's plenty like them. If you're worried some guy is going to try to fight you for hitting on a girl, you don't have to fight em, you can just walk away. There's very little to actually be afraid of. The w… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Tinder : I get matches and dates, but fail to turn these dates into sex. How to improve?It's screening. If they're down for a "boring date" like coffee they're interested in you and you can get laid a lot easier. Coffee dates are the best. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | SteroidsI don't but I am already naturally strong and big. More people than you think use them but it's still not a lot in the big scheme. I have a friend that is in the business world, the wolf of wall street type business world and there are a lot of guys that do coke. I do not condone drug use of any kind but those guys are taking these things for a reason. Like how the germans would do meth so they could blitzkrieg these guys do that so they can get something done. It will destroy you internally but… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Tinder : I get matches and dates, but fail to turn these dates into sex. How to improve?However I have a hard time connecting dots and visualising what the date looks like with these ideas in general, from meeting to getting to the bed. You should not be trying to follow a flow chart. Your main focus should be having fun. It's a fucking date. The rest will fall into place as you get more experience. So if I got your message right, your process is: Start the date with something like a hug or a kiss on cheeks. I said the exact opposite of this. Have the date, do not touch her during … | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Tinder : I get matches and dates, but fail to turn these dates into sex. How to improve?Coffee is best because it puts people in a good mood to have caffeine flowing through their system. The walk is optional. It's used to extend the warming up period, if needed, which it isn't always. You look for excuses to touch them but you try not to make it awkward. I think going for a hug when you first meet them is weird but some guys can pull it off. I don't think you're that guy. Netflix is just a false precedent to get them to your place. If you actually turn on netflix you're losing the… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Girl I’m dating is moving to another state to be with me. Am I being an ungrateful asshole?When it comes to TRP and advice I do tend to view it in black and white but what I mean by that is, you can either be a sociopath about it or honorable about it. Sociopath... path: Don't bring her along. Tell her you want to try long distance for a bit because it's a big step. She'll probably come visit you every weekend for awhile or at least every other. Use this time to settle in and find new girls while still getting some action, then tell her it's not working out. We all know LDRs aren't re… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Does meditation actually work?I don't know what meditating means to most of the guys here but to me it means the same as sitting and thinking. Reflecting on life etc. Praying almost assuredly used to be akin to meditating but now it's more like a hail Mary. The "calm" to me comes from knowing myself better. You don't get flustered when you know what you think and feel in any given situation and if you know yourself that's what happens. You don't have to subscribe to all the zen bull shit to sit and have a think. Spend some t… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Iam a bartender just dropping red pill for you guys about woman being alone in pubs/clubs (Part1)The fact that women will blow a guy they just met should show you how much they desire validation over anything else. A purely giving act, just for approval from some guy who will promptly be filled with disdain. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I can’t sit down and read a book.I always advise, if you're just starting out reading, find something you know you'll enjoy reading. When I wanted to get back into reading I got Jurassic Park. A movie I literally fell asleep watching every night as a kid for awhile. I had heard the book is different so I always wanted to read it. One of the easiest reads of my life, because I enjoyed it (it also brings up interesting questions) and the ball was rolling again. Don't forget there is such a thing as bad writers. Consider not just … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Friends call me a pedo , how to deal with it/ sort it out/ respond to it ?Just wait till you're in your early 30s and girls 18-22 still like you. Then your 30s friends with their 30 year old wives envy will really start to shine through | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 07:47 PM |
| -4 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start HappeningWhere have I insulted you, mate? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 08:48 PM |
| -5 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start HappeningI get it, reading comprehension on a second language has gotta be hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 9 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start HappeningI remember when that insurance plugin for your car came out. I thought it was one of the scariest things I've seen in a long time. I've used it as a real life example of numerous other points I've had and that gray state trailer with the mark they scan reminded me of it. Here's the slope: Mandatory masks <---you are here mandatory vaccines mandatory Health monitoring devices (think those wristbands for starters, implanted chips later) chips start being used for everything - money, id etc. chips … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 08:00 PM |
| -5 | Get Ready For Happenings To Start HappeningThanks for bringing all that here now, preciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Interview with an OnlyFans girlThat is true. I went on a date with one of these hoes off tinder and she basically told me she was constantly networking and taking professional pictures etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What, some of you clowns are actually MAD about OnlyFans?Didn't know this was something I needed to hear until I read it. It's easy to get tunnel vision on the topics talked about here when many of its' messages are "Get to work". | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/20 06:33 PM |
| -3 | approaching girls at the gymIt's not shitting where you eat. You just have to consider the consequences. If she's a regular can you deal with seeing a girl that rejected you every day? If so, go for it. A guy this week got shot down right by me while I was benching. Only me and those two know it happened, no one else reacted. Ed. I'll say it again, if you think this is shitting where you eat, you are in fact a tactless retard. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | I Had Lunch with the Chad I Hated TodayThe wc3 dota? No wonder you weren't getting any puss | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/20 05:09 AM |
| 9 | How to run a train?Be the conductor, not the caboose. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Why would I try to prove you wrong when you are absolutely correct? Women want to wait for you at the finish line, not run the race. An admission of a need/desire to improve flies in the face of one of the aspects of the dark triad they love so much doesn't it? Narcissism. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 78 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanSounds about right and that's for a good looking guy. But not bad considering you can put in all this effort from the toilet. Shitty ass rate indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why does it feel wrong?That's the nature of it. You either cash out all your plates for a girl you want a relationship with or you keep spinning and they come and go. They will cry and ask you why, knowing they won't get an answer and you will go and fuck one of your other girls that night. Just like the beta that likes every new post will watch her cry through his screen and want to fight you. He'll ask the universe why, knowing he won't get an answer and maybe one day he'll find his way here. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 11:15 PM |
| -6 | "I guess you don't miss me?"There's no great one liners here so you have to go for a setup. "you don't miss me" "because I see you every night in my dreams" "awwww" "you get eaten by a trex" Ed. you guys do not have text game. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 203 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanOld news. You can still get laid on these apps, the point is to not rely on them. The fact of the matter is if you are not noticeably good looking you are not going to get a lot, if any, play and you'll just shoot yourself in the esteem. If you are good looking you can expect an easy lay about every 2 weeks. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being such a pussy?Aware. Was going to give similar advice. GLL, underrated imo. The guy genuinely wanted to help the average man become above average. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Failed shittest, don't know if this subreddit is the right place, but if yes hope you guys could give me some adviceI'll shame your mistakes. What you did is stupid to the point of being unbelievable. She is laughing at you. She is not back together with you. She now knows she was correct to break up with you. At best she is going to string you along for awhile, do nothing with you and then you're going to be back here crying again. Get back on track and don't make this mistake again. And don't talk to the bots. It's pitiful. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Getting rejected by mid-tier girls, what's your hypothesis?I can only work with what you give me and you're giving me a load of shit. Beta undermines everything else. If you are some sort of ubermensch and you're having troubles it is because you are acting like a bitch. You're welcome for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting rejected by mid-tier girls, what's your hypothesis?If all of this is true, it means you are in fact a bitch at your core. Doesn't make sense? No, it doesn't and neither does any of this but that's the most likely scenario. You act like a bitch. If I had to pick out the most likely thing to be false, it'd be that "leader" point. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 10 | 4th date adviceYup. As good as a no. The point of this play is to not waste any more time. I once wasted about 3 months with a chick, hung out with her a lot and never fucked her once. Was absolutely awful. Better this way, believe me. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Can you ignore red flags if a girl treats you amazing?Regular advice is, just enjoy your time with her but don't take her serious. HOWEVER, I saw you said you "love" her so you are an inexperienced man and thus are playing with fire. Many girls will do these kinds of things for you, some of them better, some of them worse. Point is you can always find these things elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 01:04 AM |
| 12 | 4th date adviceThis is what I would do, tell her the date is her coming directly to your place. You can have some food, drinks, watch some tv whatever. The important part is, she's coming there. If she says anything but yes, I'd next her. If she does, go for it and if you get nothing, next her. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | How do you pass this shit test?"if thats what you want" Notice the lack of punctuation. This pushes her to do something or leave. She knows already that you have other girls so you're under no pressure. She basically has to say, in girl speak mind you, that she does want a relationship. There's a variety of ways to get here but the take away is, if she says, "what are we" or ANYTHING along those lines, she said in girl speak, she wants to be your girlfriend. You can handle that how you want but if I do want her to be I like t… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 2 | I have to eat 700g of carbs a dayI am also your size and I also try to have zero carbs most days and I lift 5 times a week. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 6 | ComplimentsUnder is always preferable to over as a rule. A girl sent me a picture of her ass and I said nice boots. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Fight with girlI think you missed an opportunity to not have to put up with this type of shit. Guys coming up to a good looking girl is a fact of life and can get tiresome dealing with. When she said they were implying she's a whore you could have used that to your advantage. You could have framed it as "us vs them" and said, what do you care what others think? Tell you what, next time some random people(guys) come up to us we'll make fun of them until they leave us alone. Then you have this precedent in your … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 11:35 PM |
| 6 | I think I'm an "alpha" widowThey come out of the woodwork when you have other girls. I'm going to assume you have banged other girls, is that correct? Bang more. Just wrap your dick and go bang girls. Maybe you find one you actually start to like, you go out, start to get a little serious, perhaps.... you even begin to love again. That's when a hot chick always fucking comes out of nowhere looking to grab your shmeat, so you drop that chick and now you got another hot girl. When it rains, it pours with women. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 0 | FOR MEN: Don’t have kids until your 40I'm in my 30s and there is a sweet little red head that goes to my gym that I told my friends I was thinking about hitting on recently. Gyms are rough seas for most but I consider it my specialty. Naturally, my friends, who are around my age, ask how old she is. Their wives are late 20s/early 30s. I said she had to be right around 18-22. Then the jokes started, "what are you gonna do offer to buy her beer?" yadda yadda, but one of them actually said something very telling. I don't remember the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Why wouldn't you enter a relationship with a hoe if AWALT?One of the most overlooked aspects, for some reason, of TRP is: do what you want. Everything has cons and pitfalls, everything. You just have to be aware of them, work around them and accept them as a part of whatever it is. If you know all these things and get fucked over, it's your fault. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What’s it like going out with 22-23 year girls as a man in you’re 30’s?relate I have not since the time that I considered myself a man tried to "relate" to females. So not in like 6 years. keep the conversation going Young girls mostly just want to hear a knowledgeable men talk about anything. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Dating bartenders? LTRif someone wants to cheat they will cheat Nailed it. she said she would care and that would bother her Hypocrisy is their native tongue. Look, it's all a matter of how much you want to put up with. To me, if she was a plate I would not give two shits but simply put, my girlfriend doesn't do this, I can't take em seriously. Like I said, it's all up to how much you're willing to put up with, aka boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Red pill is illegal depending your country? Because I almost got into fight from talking about red pill. (I live in UK)What do you think would happen if you pointed out the very clear hypocrisy here and how they are trying to oppress you just because you're a cis white male? Would they change their minds? Unlikely. It's never about being equal. It's about being more equal until you're too weak to fight | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 03:16 AM |
| 5 | How to get "into character" before seeing a girl (or girlfriend)I know she doesn't really want to hear my opinions anyway. What mentality has pervaded my dear asktrp as of late? Since when do you care about her opinion on your opinion? There is also this confusion around the idea of being "mysterious". You don't have to be unknown to be mysterious, you can also be unknowable, which is an innate quality of everyone other than you. It is possible to be mysterious through complexity as opposed to quiet. Bottom line, I hold court in my own space. She knows what … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 07:44 PM |
| -1 | How to tell a girl you don't do social media because it's for losers, without it coming across as a direct insult?I've always just said it's for women. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I am 32. How strange is it that I haven't had a crush on a girl since I was 15?Oneitis and a crush aren't exactly same thing but at least your question makes sense now. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | I am 32. How strange is it that I haven't had a crush on a girl since I was 15?Why is a grown man thinking about anything in terms of crushes. You naturally become less effected by things as you get older. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 0 | I am 32. How strange is it that I haven't had a crush on a girl since I was 15?Whats strange is that you thought about it. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | If girl aggressively a trick question.Muh dick likes what it likes. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Just one question WHYBoys are not men. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Best way to quit smoking weed?Wrong. I've never had a problem with drinking but I had a problem with smoking. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test 101 (rescue!)Unless you've been saying some real sexual shit I'd say, you're getting ahead of yourself | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Best way to quit smoking weed?This is just my experience so grain of salt but when I was giving it up I got drunk instead. I was really missing the getting out of my head feeling but weed wasn't an option so drinking got me a close enough feeling that I eventually got over it. A good way to get over certain bad habits is to just take it a step down instead of cold turkey | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why Are Guys Unaware That Girls Want What Guys WantThe most succinct way that I can think to put it is, looks and status are the focal points of attraction for men and women respectively. There's nuance and other things but that's the idea. If we can see those two things then we can always understand why someone else would want to be with them. However, for men, we do not care about status with women unless we are aiming for something else along with it but if a girl goes from attractive to getting fat, men will lose interest. As for women you c… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Why Are Guys Unaware That Girls Want What Guys WantI think it was "The Game" where I first heard this but it's something along the lines of, some women will ask if you're rich, smart women will be able to figure it out. Your lifestyle should show your financial status to some degree naturally. In regard to how to show it in a short time span, you can wear expensive name brands to show it passively or talk about certain topics for a more active approach There was a drug that I was looking into investing in that was actually interesting that I cou… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Should I be concerned about finding quality ltr as I approach 30?This was annoying to read. The only thing to comment on is the title, the answer is no, which you should have realized from your own statements. You still date younger girls, which are the prime stock girls. Most people are fucked up in some way. To find a chick worth an LTR you gotta go through a lot of chicks. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Why Are Guys Unaware That Girls Want What Guys WantMen and women work on different scales. You don't have to be fit to have a fit chick, it just helps. Status is everything when it comes to a man and how you get it comes from multiple sources. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Curious, who here uses Phenibut?I abused phenibut for a little bit and was unimpressed, if that's what mdma is like then mdma must not be shit. The hardest thing I've ever done is smoke weed so I don't know where you're getting all this from. The most noteworthy thing I found about it is I slept like the fucking dead. Didn't even get much of that IDGAF attitude from it either. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Finishing in a girlFuck society for what its done to you poor boys. Look at this fucking question. If it makes you feel weird have her beat your meat while you unload on her. It's preferable anyway. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get a second invite to MFMI'm disgusted by you. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl I met online asks about my height. Shit test.And so I go back to lurking. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl I met online asks about my height. Shit test.Text is always subject to Poe's law but IRL if you are saying something snide and they respond with "you are so sweet" then you're killing it. My real life example is, a girlfriend was saying something and I said, "shut up, hotness" and she stopped for a second and genuinely responded, "you are just so sweet sometimes". Blew me away at the time. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | My boss wants to fuck me but not sure how to proceedWell, you could always..... deny her. Bitches love getting denied, nicely. She'll probably like you more. Then when you've gotten play and promotions out of her you point back to it and say, I warned you, I didn't want this to happen. The first step to being the scar that she remembers fondly is making her think she did it to herself. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really have it that good?There are male equivalents. The athlete that, without a doubt, can go pro. Those kids are treated like, no shit, kings. People throw stuff to em and everyone wants a piece of em, including women, including women that would be committing a crime in doing so. There's a lower entry for girls but the peak isn't as high either. That's a "white pill" this forum overlooks often. It's hard being a man, yeah. But the heights we can attain are greater because of it. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Girl asks how many girls I’ve slept with"How many girls have you slept with?" | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | I'm a nice guy/beta, should i marry some girl just for sex?For a second thought this was another EC troll post | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Being a total beta male actually works for my friend. How is this?And he will eventually get cheated on. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 10:12 PM |
| 2 | If you know a chick wants to bang, does it matter if you go on a day or night date?Nope. Example: Met a chick off bumble, got coffee, went for a walk, went to my place, fucked. The hard part is almost always just getting them out of the house. Night might be easier but meh. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 18 | How to accept plates fucking other guys?The only time I don't assume a girl is fucking other dudes is when I am in the act of fucking her. You're gonna have to get over this one. Just don't think about it. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 19 | How to accept plates fucking other guys?Don't fucking ask. If they insist on telling you about other dudes, well, I don't put up with it. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 36 | Is this the direction we are headed ?Any guy that thinks a woman is just as strong as a man needs to get his ass in the gym immediately. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to hang with a 30yo old dude?I'm not missing it. I'm just implying it. The only optimistic thing I can see about it is maybe he wants to be like a big brother or uncle to the guy which is still fucking weird. There's a lot of details that can change things but broad strokes is the guy is probably a loser. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 8 | Is it weird to hang with a 30yo old dude?Because i fuck with this dude and this dude fucks with me. If by this you mean banter, yeah, I assume there would be a lot of that. My friend has a 12 year old nephew that I've met and all we did the whole time was talk shit. It was fun but not meaningful and will only take you so far. By real conversations I mean shit that matters to older people. Taxes, politics, work, investing, kids etc. You think I care to hear about a retail job? Or what a teenager thinks about the cultural or political cl… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 10:12 PM |
| 22 | Is it weird to hang with a 30yo old dude?I'm about this dudes age and I would never invite you over to my house. I'd keep the relationship about how it would be on TRP, if you want the benefit of my experience I will give it freely but I don't wanna hang out with you, what interest are you to me? Early 20s kids are fucking boring, let alone teenagers. Large age gaps only don't matter when you're a full grown man with real life experience, otherwise you're just not worth having real conversations with. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Need your perspective: too much dread or am I retarded?You're retarded. Now, let me read this post... She was just expecting more from you. It's on her. Like a beta thinking doing favors etc. entitles them to something. I've had something similar happen before. I was seeing a girl, she was being real good to me, she was pretty fun etc. and right when I was thinking, "ya know, I like this chick, I think I'll let her be my gf", she just starts acting fucking crazy, way crazier than this. I busted her down to plate and that was it. Let her reinitiate c… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Strippers & Sex workersThey're the most insecure group in the world. If they get a whiff of you thinking them shaking their tits doesn't make them a saint they'll get offended | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Best friend owns exotic cars, lending me one while out of town, how to capitalize?This is passive value. Just try to be seen getting out of it. If you're getting a girl in the thing it's already your game to lose. It might seal the deal but you should already have it in the bag by then | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | My Democrat client who vented to me for months about his hatred toward Trump, voted for Trump today as a “gift” to an ex who ghosted him to “wipe the slate clean.”In 2016 I told my ltr she was voting for Trump. She said he's an ass hole etc. And I said, you're voting for Trump. She voted for Trump. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 2 | I've met a real RP... Now he's my enemy.Are you suspicious that he wants to fuck his sister? You just have to have the guy give you enough respect that he doesn't get mad at the fact you're banging his sister. I ended up dating the sister of a guy that I wasn't on best terms with in high school and he told her that he was cool with it because at least she wasn't dating "some douchebag" little did he know... Anyways, that's the goal. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Girl wants to bring her friend (her friends a girl)You could always go for gold and try to bang em both. If you keep em away from places like loud bars and clubs to keep their attention on you - which should be easy in this "pandemic" - and you manage it well then you could get there. I'd say silver is ending up with the hotter chick and bronze is banging the original chick, just to keep my analogy going. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 17 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachYou should be happy you know now. You won't make the mistake of taking her seriously. Keep the same non-judgmental rapport up and I'm sure she'll be pretty good to you, for awhile. If I was you I'd just use her like the rest of the world has, like she has allowed the rest of the world to do. Let her find some beta to lie to and get hooked on the feels. Have fun with her, maybe get a couple threesomes but never look away from the truth that turns your stomach. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | funny guy at party basically stole girl I've been seeing from meShe'll either always be like that or she doesn't like you that much. Drunk girls tend to fawn on a guy if they like him | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 15 | Is redpill toxicOne man's hero is another man's villain. Decide for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Hung out with girl 3 times, shes ghosting me now, should I delete off social media?Literally just recently happened to me. Leave it be my man and move along. Channel that energy into something new. I'm not on socials but I'd "hide" her if that's an option. She no longer exists. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 02:32 AM |
| -1 | porn a form of mind control to keep men weakOk, well, that's beta. Thanks for outing yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 05:03 PM |
| -1 | porn a form of mind control to keep men weakBut are you seriously saying you have never been turned on by seeing a beautiful couple make out in public? Are you saying you have? I am always disgusted by seeing other people make out. Unless it's two girls but even then I am bored almost immediately. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Girls who do OnlyFansThey're rhetorical questions, dingus. What anyone individually thinks on these girls is their own reasoning. Look at idubbz. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Girls who do OnlyFansThey're rhetorical questions, dingus. What anyone individually thinks on these girls is their own reasoning. Look at idubbz. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of almost 1 year doesn't want to have until next year. Should I be worried?Confucius say | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 11 | girl stopped talking to me when i told her my current situation.but i'd rather just know You already do. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend of almost 1 year doesn't want to have until next year. Should I be worried?You talk funny so I'm going to assume you aren't from America but if you are/were I would say, she's saying that you should stop having sex right before she becomes legal drinking age? Huge red flag. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 4 | How many of y'all here think that the "emotional connection" an LTR provides means absolutely nothing?Emotional? Nothing you can't get anywhere else. The steady stream of oxytocin? That's the only reason to do it in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman lose respect for you if you don’t have sex?In my experience, yes. But these are hos of which we speak. You can have strong frame as a Christian man. I remember hearing about a guy that would send his dates back inside to change if they dressed in a way that aroused him too much. Denying these women and "not going for it" are worlds apart in how a girl will react. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Ex wife wants me to apologize for trying to kiss her, 3 days after the kiss atempt (wtf?)When a woman decides she's done with you she'll treat you like a stranger. Think about it from that perspective. But don't apologize. At most say "I lost my mind for a second and thought it was old times but it won't happen again, believe me" | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Not sure why I’m posting here but I’ve been casually looking over this subreddit and learning small things. I’m going to post my situation and I’ll take any adviceYou might not be totally screwed but what she says sounds like she's gonna string you along far longer than it's worth IMO. Women don't talk about fucking a guy, they fuck him. If you've ever tried telling a girl you don't want to have sex you will see how pitiably tenacious they are about it. They will do whatever they can to fuck you. You "take advantage of it" by taking the lead. Women have ways of really letting you know that they don't want anything to do with you. Most are yellow flags but… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 03:41 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think of Girls who do OnlyFansDo you want a gf or wife that has been doing shit on only fans? No? Then do not consider them as wife or girlfriend material. Don't do things for them you would do for a gf or wife. I don't. I treat them like hot girls and if they want something more, well, I don't. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Not sure why I’m posting here but I’ve been casually looking over this subreddit and learning small things. I’m going to post my situation and I’ll take any adviceThe subtext is your overt asking ruined your chances and that she wants you to orbit her by giving the implication that you might still have one. In woman speak she told you that women prefer it when "it just happens" that's what she meant by naturally. They say a lot of the same shit, "I don't normally do this on the first date" or "I've never done this before" "you're not normally my type but.." blah blah blah. They love their plausible deniability so they can feel ok with themselves while slu… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | When They Use Your Love Against You..No one ever wants to give you something they know you want, for free. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How to handle this girl?Just fuck her while she's on her stomach. It's a naturally more dominant position and it can ease you into more of the other shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?All you've done in this thread is fuck up etymology, spew blue pill nonsense and give us an example of losing frame. So, thanks for that last part I guess. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?I agree. You start every ladder at the bottom. Some guys can start at the top but you'll find a lot more happiness just getting the experience. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?Absolutely not. If you cannot discern what is valuable or not you are an animal. You are spouting blue pill nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?Quit talking like you are. Non-judgmental is a synonym for no taste. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?You're black, we get it. The normal turn of phrase is everything's good but her face. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How to lose 3 lbs a week while gaining as much muscle as possiblerecomp 1000 calories a day Do you weigh 60 lbs? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?Yes. One of my all time favorites, Good Looking Loser is a big advocate of this kind of thing. Just get fucking laid. There some weird shit you wanna do? They'll do it the majority of the time with a smile on their face. Have trouble feeling like the prize? They're more giving with compliments. It is probably the best way for newer guys to get started. No one has to know either. All my friends know I was seeing a chick for years but they never even saw a picture of her. Amazing girl though. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why does every guy basically rate themselves a 7?It just happens man. I probably wouldn't need to borrow your hands to show how many times but it's consistent enough. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Why does every guy basically rate themselves a 7?Both. Even people that don't like me admit it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Friend become rough with girls around"don't pay attention to hornfinical he's gay." "don't pay attention to him, he wishes I was gay." Have you never bantered before? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 11 | Why does every guy basically rate themselves a 7?I've already written a bit about this but I had to put up with some real retarded shit. Basically a "7" is the nice answer. No one wants to be average but any higher and you risk people thinking you're lying. Basically, a 7 is "you're not ugly but you're not so obviously good looking that I'm going to say it". Essentially you're decent. If people consistently tell you you're an 8 or above, you are actually good looking. I have never been called a 7, I am normally called an 8 or more in looks by … | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | When someone tells you to 'calm down'?This is a dumb ass question to be honest. You wanna know how I've responded to this? "do you wanna die?" I was a teenager at the time. You don't get this situation if you aren't acting at least a little crazy and if they pull this and you aren't then you have plenty of room to work with. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Bullied my entire life, how do I stop putting myself down?Ugh. Yeah, whatever, I'm not reading all that drivel. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Can fucking loads of women be bad?What're you asking me here? Is this a question on self control? You can do whatever you want man. It's up to you if you want a girlfriend or many but this is just how chemicals work in our bodies. Think of it like if you go a few days without caffeine and you have a coffee, that shit hits real hard doesn't it? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder for LBGT people to find mates because there are less of them than straight people?Are you gay? what the fuck do you care? If you've known any homos you'd know this isn't the case. Idk about lesbians. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 10:57 PM |
| 10 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tAnd now you know what it means when we say, "She's not yours, it's just your turn." | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Bullied my entire life, how do I stop putting myself down?i put myself first in life. You better really fucking bring the thunder if you're going to open someone with that and if it's someone you're acquaintances with, you better have been doing well. This is tantamount to the idea behind "peacocking". You are essentially daring someone to challenge your frame, at best, if they even engage you at all. I would immediately write you off as soon as I heard this until you showed, somehow, that you were undoubtedly worth my time. And if you engaged me, I wo… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Can fucking loads of women be bad?As in you'll be able to pair bond a little easier through physicality. And also, I assume you mean retain and yes, meaning you understand the game and that you don't need these women. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Not fully physically attracted to my gf??Yes and she's the only one I still think about fondly. You're dealing with the classic comfort vs excitement that afflicts us all. The less attractive she is comparatively the more comfortable you can be. It's got its perks. The one I'm thinking of was my soft LTR for about 5 years? I fucked many other girls during that time and when I wanted to just relax and not chase girls I had her to drain my balls. But I never ever mentioned a relationship and she never asked, she was afraid I'd leave. So,… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Can fucking loads of women be bad?Stop for awhile then see what you think about that. The desensitization will fade but the experience won't. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Why do Red Pill Content Creators appear so shady?Anonymity, like all freedom, is irrevocably linked to good men, lunatics and scoundrels alike. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with Oneitis if i have to see her everyday in the gym?This is the only downside. I've always said this isn't shitting where you eat but be sure you can handle seeing her everyday if it goes south. If you can't then don't. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Confirmation bias in TRP?I was in that thread. The x factor is age. She's approaching the wall, in the optimistic situation you're talking about she is attempting to redeem herself on our boy here all the while comparing him to the amalgamation of all her memories of her past fuckers. It's a raw deal for him to have to put so much effort into. IF this was an 18-24 year old girl, I would be with you but at the same time skeptical. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 03:31 AM |
| 10 | Should I be angry? (Short Story)Holy shit you're investing way way way way way way way too much thought into this. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Girl doesn’t wanna fuck bc she says I’m a playerI've noticed late 20s and early 30s chicks do this type of shit. Younger girls accuse me of being a player or talk about my "other hoes" and yet I brush it off and we move on. I think there's an undercurrent for these women of delusion, insecurity and desperation to find a man willing to wife her that is the Super Man amalgam of all the previous guys that pumped and dumped her. Don't play this game just for a shot at some worn puss. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How to become more outgoing in social situations?My going advice for this is normally, warm up by doing little things, after that, go into a situation having decided I'm going to have fun. You seem to be past those beginner strats so there isn't really much to say except: dive in. If you want to be better at leading conversations, lead them. Sometimes you might look weird or say something stupid but if you're among friends it shouldn't be a big deal and you've almost assuredly seen them do the same and know that it's easily forgotten except ma… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to "what do you like?"How fortunate for you that I recently had this exact same problem. Dating a 24 year old, she said that she had never given a blow job before. Even though I was the victim of the tugging that followed I still find it hard to believe. Basically I told her just do stuff and I'll tell you when you're doing something good. The first time I just fucked her instead cause it was taking forever but the second time we got there. Still far from the best blow job I've ever gotten. What's important is how th… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | leaving a date that sucksI was on a date recently where we were having a pretty good conversation, pretty good looking chick but half way through I realized something. I was only having fun when I was talking. Everything she said was just insipid. I have long said, it doesn't matter if she's interesting, funny or can hold a conversation. We are here to just get laid, the vast majority of the time and I don't mind at all hearing myself talk up until I get inside her. But, if she's boring and you don't want to fuck her, j… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 05:18 AM |
| 24 | Given up on girls because they are not as good as my exYou sound like a girl. Get alpha widowed by some ho? Sounds rough. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 183 | How to become OBSESSED with success?Aristotle said, greatness is a habit. The best way to build a habit is to chain it to another one. Eventually you have what we call "structure" in your life. Clearest example, when I get off work, I go to the gym. I always go to work so I always go to the gym. Build a structure of success. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | How do i pressure flip and be spontaneousPressure flipping is essentially corrupting the meaning behind something and putting the onus on their motivation for saying it. A flip you've undoubtedly heard is, "is that all you think about?" or "I bet you'd like that". I'm glad you've noticed the trap of A&A that so many guys get in. It's the weakest form of deflection. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls ask to put make up on you? Or give you a little pig tale?They also do that shit to kids. Are you a kid or a man. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | So Rollo Tomassi...?I think the best example of this is my first girlfriend. I was not red at the time and the way I went about it was dumb and I gave some shit advice to my friend who had a similar problem around that time. It's a lesson learned... anyways: Every few months my girlfriend would turn into a fucking bitch. She would whine, complain and, well, be a bitch. I just had to weather the storm and then for another couple months she was great. Then like clockwork she would be on her bitch shit again. From an … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?"ok" and move on to the next hole. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What Advice Would You Give to an 18 Year Old Who's Mission is To Be a 0.1 PercenterYou say that like it's easy. Regardless, the best advice on this particular topic is: do the things others won't. One of the best examples I can think of is Arnold Schwarzenegger. The guy did roids, broke into gyms when they were closed, lied - a lot AND worked his ass off. He's been the fuckin man for a long time because of it. You're gonna be playing in the moral grey and black if you're really serious. They say many CEOs at top companies are psychopaths and I believe it. Making money is easy,… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm struggling with some sort of multiple personality disorder and madonna-whore complex.wants me to be her last She thinks I'm into cuckolding You're right you got some real cognitive dissonance going on. At first I was with ya on the whole non-judgemental thing. I hold off on "judging" girls with these kinds of pasts because there's no reason to care. They will never be more than a FWB, I will never take them seriously. If they fall in love it's their fault. To a man with standards they are unloveable and that's also their fault. She is my equal This is the kind of shit that gets … | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 8 | Went over to girls place and we got super sexual but didn’t actually have sex.Bull shit. That's just the lie they tell, if it's gotten to the police then ironically the truth is out the window. But if you're too scared to do some things then your game is limited. That's all there is to it. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 9 | Went over to girls place and we got super sexual but didn’t actually have sex.Don't be a dumb ass. If they decide to metoo you anyway the fact you asked doesn't mean shit. Girls in reality and not on twitter have ways of actually letting you know they don't want to. You can't carry a thrashing grown woman easily. The types of women that do that kind of shit are crazy anyway and you know what the advice on that is. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Went over to girls place and we got super sexual but didn’t actually have sex.Don't ask questions like "want to go to my room?" If you're strong enough just pick her up and walk to your room and throw her on the bed or just lead her there then throw her on the bed. If she was iffy on it before, this will put her over the top the majority of the time whereas "do you want to go to my room" slows it down. This working before means that chick was already damn sure she was gonna fuck you. If she's on the edge it'll turn on that asd because she conciously is making the decision… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What are respectable natty gym PRsI'm not misleading anyone and that's true you can do pushups but what's unique about deadlift and what's the real motivation? What's really unique is that people get snapped up doing that more easily than anything else and the benefit it gives opposed to anything else is nill to 0. The motivation is "I can put on a ton of weight and feel good about myself" but anyone with experience will know you're wasting time and making a lot of noise. If that's what you want fine, but that's the essence of a… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What are respectable natty gym PRsBecause it has no real benefit that you can't get from other lifts and people only like it because you can move big weights. It's to show off and nothing else. First time I did them I did 535 with a fat bar in a strong man competition. It is a pointless lift. Go squat. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a friend finds some acquaintance on the street but you don't know them?That is true. Sometimes you find other friends you really click with too. It's best to err on this side than the other. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What are respectable natty gym PRsUse your own body weight, don't listen to some of these other fucking retards. For example 100 lbs over bodyweight max bench is very respectable goal at any weight, 2x bodyweight squat same, deadlift is a dip shit ego lift - unnecessary but if you love it, whatever. Don't injure yourself using random numbers from random dumb asses. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 16 | Thought she was a 9 until she took her makeup off....On the plus side it should be very very rare you see her without make up on. I have heard that korean people are vain and very diligent about their looks. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Girl doesn‘t want to give me her numberoh wow you left me on read Is that a first for you? You assuaged her ego when she was getting in the position you wanted her. Notice how innocuous but slightly teasing "is that a first for you?" is? That's what you aim for, indifferent with a side of teasing. It's rich in subtext and will put her on the backfoot. If you're playing the text game, learn text game. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Starting to be turned off and jaded toward women age 25+Ok well Idk who the fuck that is but all I know is I have dated a wide range of women and the most noticeable thing is something that's hard to believe is even real. As women get over 25, the glimmer in their eye fades. I don't know how else to describe it but it does, their eyes get dull. They can still be happy, fun, hot and energetic but their eyes never lie. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 06:58 PM |
| 21 | Starting to be turned off and jaded toward women age 25+Sounds like you've had a bit too much to think, son. These are just facts. They're past their best years and headed on towards the wall. The narrative wants you to stop thinking like this. You should recognize both these things and the fact that the reason you're with them is to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Anger is not a phase.I have said this for a long time. Anger is the emotion used to make change, sadness is the emotion used to accept things you can't change. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't women funny?Not necessary to achieve their reproductive agenda, if you wanna take an evo pysch look at it. Wit is an application of smarts for humor to display ability/status. I've never needed a girl to be funny for me to want to fuck em. Most women's jokes are just grotesque. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Are lesbians real?A "hard lesbian" or a "gold star" lesbian is either a girl with serious mental issues that had a terrible experience when she was young, she's not attractive enough to get any man she finds attractive (sour grapes) or somehow her life path dodged men she would fuck in some way. I don't believe they exist. Rollo actually wrote about this now that I'm thinking about it. https://therationalmale.com/2014/04/20/homosexuality/ | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with guys at school making snarky little comments/ostracizing me?A lot of it has to do with standing up straight. Don't hunch over. Don't stare at people weirdly. Don't have a defensive posture. Stuff like that. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with guys at school making snarky little comments/ostracizing me?Sounds a lot like this one guy that I used to work with. We all liked him at the start but he just gave off really weird vibes and eventually we all held him in contempt. Whatever you do, don't try too hard to ingratiate yourself with them again, that will just make everything worse. I'd advise to just take the class and work seriously and keep it professional. Your body language also might suck. That can be what gives off the "creep" vibes. Carry yourself with some dignity. That should tone it … | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Fucking a girl on her periodAs a lover of getting blow jobs, as long as they do that, which they do, I am more than ok to not get my red wings.... for the umpteenth time. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 5 | "I like you" never been told this thru text so I don't know how I could have handled it.Not bad advice but if logistics are bad then this isn't useful. I had a girl that I was talking to that was across the country, for reasons, long story. Anyway, she called me kinda drunk and she pulled something similar to this. Obviously I can't tell her to come and tell it to my dick so I teased her about it. "I like you." "Ya do?" "yeah." "How much?" "a little....(or a lot doesnt fuckin matter)" etc. etc. You could try to go the romantic route like you did here but as you can tell, you run in… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I use a sleeve?It's a plate, right? What do you care? Do what you want. If you want to fuck her with another penis then do it, if you don't, don't. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Guy is pursuing same girlYou're fucking trickle truthing us here. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Do younger girls typically have a certain preference in older guys?The zfg attitude that comes with age along with the money and knowledge is what bridges the gap for older guys compared to younger guys. However, If there's a 25 year old guy that was highly knowledgeable, had zfg and money then girls will go with them, but those guys are extremely rare. If you're in shape you shouldn't have too much trouble. I'm around your age and I get attention and play from the 18-24 crowd of girls. Oddly not my own age group. I can only assume they can tell I won't settle … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Ever regret leaving an LTR to pursue other women?I had a girl that would have been a great mother, was a good cook, smart, understanding and did anything and everything I wanted. I left her because some growth can only be done alone. Self actualization is also a commitment. If that's what you choose there's no time for regrets. If you make a sacrifice the only thing you can do is make it worth it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 57 | I get so much shit from people ever since getting muscles, a fun well paying job, cute girlfriend that every one of my friends would love to fuckFeel better now champ? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Getting girl to work out?Uncle V pretty much nailed it, the best way is to just get with a chick that already stays in shape. But ya never know, you could have a chick that is a sleeper gym rat. Dana Lynn Bailey apparently was not into the gym at all originally according to herself and go google that name to see what she's like now. Best bet to convert a non-believer is lead by example. Are you jacked and shredded? If not, be that. When she sees you looking better and better she'll want to better herself too. If she doe… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | If you had a 40 yr sugar mom approach you, would you accept?Ugh. Why'd you bring rationale into this? Haven't you seen the other comments? The crowd wishes to be entertained by terrible decisions. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | New guy, harsh reality: is it possible to ever meet a girl I find equal in terms of character, depth, self-control etc..Look on the bright side, you won't have problems with keeping them off the pedestal. Stop trying to compare apples and oranges. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | My flatmate goes full on AMOG asshole mode around girls and it pisses me offI had a friend that was getting no action and would do shit like this in some awkward attempt to poach girls or some shit. He doesn't do it anymore because he finally got his own girl. Help your idiot get a girlfriend and it should at least put a damper on it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Met a virgin and i seem to be giving her more preference than other women ... can't seem to devalue her because she hasn't been ran through and it might be fucking up my game.She's most likely lying. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the "Great Minds" of History that every man should read?I miss gbfm, he'd never let this be a question. lololozlozlz | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is a messy as fuck apartment a red flag?The only fuck I regret was with a girl that had a messy apartment, take that for what it's worth. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people asking about your past and your past failures?Like all things that have some sort of power in this world, there is only two ways to deal with it. Avoid it, or own it. If you avoid it, that means you're ashamed of it or unable to handle it, and if you're ashamed of it that means you haven't dealt with it yet, which means you don't own it. If you own it, you've probably dealt with it or accepted it as some sort of permanent situation. This is known as "baggage" when we refer to women. Hopefully, you've gotten stronger from it, which we refer … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Feel like I’m under a microscopePretend you're a hot chick and do what they do. Ignore it | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is agree and amplifying the same thing as sarcasm?https://youtu.be/vAw2c25eG_o?t=33 | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend spit cum all over me after blowing meWhatever you say guy. Enjoy your girl spitting it in your face if you want, doesn't matter to me. Just like it doesn't matter where you draw the line for delicacy. You may not think it's abundance but clinging to a girl that does things you don't like most assuredly is not. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend spit cum all over me after blowing meYou say that like it's a bad thing. Women are accessories to success, not the success. How long does a girl get to be annoying before you drop her? His abundance mentality that allows him to think about dropping a girl over this is more valuable than worrying about someone thinking he's butthurt over something trivial. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Asked her where she'd like to travel, she said "your heart." How to respond?Cause blood enters thru the right you dingus | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:53 AM |
| 11 | How to deal with overtly being undermined, treated like shit, and talked aggressively toAnd does this sound like a good relationship? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Should i be a bro or nah?You can lead a horse to water... He probably won't believe you at first and then it'll probably eat away at him till he jokingly brings it up with her then she denies it and he thinks you're a lying ass hole and continues on being a blue pill fucker forever. Unless one day he gets indisputable proof she's a cheatin ho in which case he'll think "I should have listened to that guy with the small penis that tried to warn me." Also, like I said there's a good chance you ruin your own situation with … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Should i be a bro or nah?One of those, not your clowns not your circus kinda deal. It does tell you about your gf though. Ultimately it's what your integrity tells you to do. Your gf doesn't like you telling him and her friend getting mad? Fuck her and her slutty friend. Are you a man that does what he wants or not? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | “whipping it out” actually work?This is hilarious. A couple weeks ago this girl was alluding that she'd blow me and I said, "you know what I want..." She started to reply "you're gonna have to say it" and halfway through that sentence I said suck my dick! And she did. I've heard lines like that before so when I hear em again I know what to do. Now you know when a girl is telling you she's great at sucking dick, the subtext is, let me show you. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 07:41 PM |
| 4 | “whipping it out” actually work?Came to say this. Make out with em, grab their hand put it there and it's all but over if she starts strokin it. Pulling it out yourself is kind of an all in type of move. This is a step under and a better form of escalation. Escalation is boiling the frog, not throwing it in a fire. But there is a time and a place. I've done whipped it out with success. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | LTR asked "What my thoughts are on gay people?" after I made her orgasm. Surprise shit-testThey're gay as fuck | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Did I do the right thing?As an "elder" to both of you, I want you to know, I view people in both of your age ranges to be equally retarded. That said, if you know you're going to get your ass kicked, get it kicked over something worth a damn, not this. And if you know you can kick his ass, the time that happens for me is when they grab my shirt. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I have two goals in life, one is to fuck 10s, the other is to get fabulously wealthy. One is going ok, the other not so wellI'm pretty sure I've read that model one before. That bit about "the hotness" becoming a druggie always shows me I still have some humanity in me. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 15 | Asked her where she'd like to travel, she said "your heart." How to respond?Left or right atrium? If she says left call her a fuckin idiot | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Are mass gainers optimal?Have you ever had a mass gainer? I remember having one and it tasted like intense kool-aid. Was delicious but a waste of money because food does the same job and makes me not hungry. The only supplements you really need are multivitamins, fiber and creatine. And if you do take "supplements" and put in enough work you can get your calories from damn near anything, including micky d's. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 12 | What to do when having good looks but no gameI always like to see GLL getting repped. He helped temper my anger more than any of the other big contributors. He's got a real chill air to all his stuff. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys fuck 6’s and below?So very true, you can't glean anything from what people publicly say to your face and compare it to their actions to reveal truths. It's all a load of shit and means nothing at all. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Question on Compliance TestsYou're thinking too much about this. You didn't care what she thought and you navigated the social obstacle to get what you wanted. Plus, with this pandemic the fact she didn't outright say no is a pretty good sign. I've straight up told people no they can't work in with me because of it. I wouldn't have taken this as a compliance test I would have taken it as her greasing the skids by getting you to DHMV yourself because she obviously expected you to succeed. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys fuck 6’s and below?While we're talking about "the scale" in normal day to day if on average people call you an 8 or above that means you're actually good looking. A 7 means you're probably averageish but not ugly. The 7 is the "I don't want to insult you" grade because no one wants to be called average but they don't think you'd believe them calling you top tier good looking. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Learning opportunity, how would you have responded to this?These weird kind of uncomfortable corners can normally be traced back to prior responses. My response to "are you worth the effort" would have been "I'd date me". Putting the onus of witty banter on the girl is like tossing the ball to worst player on the team, you can't expect them to handle it well, which “Oh, I’ll have to find out will I?” is a prime example of. That's a pretty autistic response and it pushed the conversation into that corner and it's hard to smoothly transition out of. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone ever feel like an alien trying to learn how to be human?I'd say the opposite but that's because my experience that led me here. Ultimately the point is the why of it all. Other people may walk the walk but they can't talk the talk. Meaning they don't know why anything is the way it is. I was not a social pariah before finding TRP I was always quite popular. It was the mystery of women acting seemingly irrationally that sent me here. Like you said it's taking a detailed look at something that should be "natural". But electricity has a basic nature to … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women are turned off by me getting shit off my chest and ranting, how can I change this behaviour?That link is full of damn good maxims. Idk if I would have appreciated them as much when I was new to the pill but it handily reflects what I've learned through the years. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | On Hubris and HumanityI'm glad to see this so immediately in the comments. Got through the first two and felt like I was reading a soap opera. Scratch that, a high school soap opera. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you y’all do when someone asks personal questions about your life?There's a lot of context to why they feel entitled to ask such questions. This group you're in is why they don't back off. Additionally divorce is so common place they probably don't think anything of prying. 20 years ago that response would shut people up but not anymore. "It all worked out" is what I would say in response to those questions. "It's nothing but facts, here I stand because of them" is an example of the "frame" I work in when these questions get asked. Shit happens. You can lament… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Women are turned off by me getting shit off my chest and ranting, how can I change this behaviour?Same. But like I said I connect it to other things like culture, humanity and life. Women often say I teach them stuff and I don't just complain about that person and what they did I talk about fundamental human nature and essentially explain why it's wrong or why it makes them a lesser human. It could be you aren't ranting enough. But do you my man, if you don't like getting on a soapbox, don't. This almost assuredly has something to do with how I was raised. Hearing my old man and grandfather … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys ever have dates that don’t go well?Yes. No one bats a thousand their whole life. When you're more experienced and have had more fleshed out thoughts on life you will see that this young idiot is just regurgitating boilerplate and you will make fun of her all the way into her pants and then leave her for being a stupid idiot. Spare not one more moment thinking on this. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it even possible to find a HB8,9,or 10 that is also a good housewife? Will cook and clean?I remember one time this girl complained about how she was tired but she knew I expected her to do my meal prep for me so she gathered herself and got in that damn kitchen. She never complained about me to me. That said, we didn't live together and we weren't married. Far too many men have said that fucks up female thinking for me to outright contradict it, I simply haven't experienced that. It is so ubiquitous even outside TRP, and most of TRP will straight up say don't do it, that you have to … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Women are turned off by me getting shit off my chest and ranting, how can I change this behaviour?What do you bitch about? I go on rants often. One girl said it was her favorite thing about me but I do have a point I'm making and it generally culminates with some sort of unifying idea about life or humanity and the topics I'm ranting about. It's almost like I'm giving a lecture and the girl just happens to be there. Maybe you're just ineloquent. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Offer to pick girl up for date?The last time I did that was when the girl had already shown immense interest and intention she wanted a relationship and so did I. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Can I, a male foreign languages and literature teacher, ever be considered traditionally alpha?You're just bummed because you're not exercising like you were. Exercise is an antidepressant and you're off your meds. You can be into literature and still be manly. Look at Ernest Hemingway. But don't suck start a gun | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you y’all do when someone asks personal questions about your life?Things like where's your mom? And I say she's dead. There's more to it but you get the point. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 12 | What do you y’all do when someone asks personal questions about your life?This smacks of you being ashamed of it. I have things about me that when people ask they realize they asked a fucked up question but I answer it honestly and remain stoic. It's nothing but facts, here I stand because of them. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Insecurities with regard to high SMVMy first thought is, look at that gross delusional bitch, who cares what she thinks? And 2, mate guarding is a real thing and a sign of insecurity and lowers your SMV in the woman's eyes, nothing new. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Sucked my dick but didn’t let me fuck?There's nothing really noteworthy about her actions here, you said she's a ho. So instead I'll talk about how I love the fact that women are not just willing but happy to suck a dude off with 0 reciprocation. As a man I would hold any Y chromosome owner in contempt if he did the same but for women, they are A Okay with it. One of the perks. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Men over 30: Swipe apps or nah?I would say you need to get more lat development. You look a little boxy and it'll help you get more of a V shape, otherwise seems you're killin it. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Got a weird one for you boys.. Mates GF keeps throwing trash on the ground...?Does she leave it on the ground or pick it up and put it in? If not I don't think the cooch of that slattern is any cleaner than her habits. But if she does pick it up I'd say she just has a playful bend to her. Making the mundane amusing. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Wanting an LTRI know exactly what the motivation behind it is and it's not wrong to pursue it in a utilitarian fashion. Obtaining status is essentially the name of the game. If it's rooted in a need for validation, you're fucking up. Also, showing off one girlfriend will almost never raise your level as much as showing off adoration from numerous girls. You might get called a cad or something along those lines but never forget that it won't hurt your chances with women and infamy is still a form of fame. Poin… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Wanting an LTRget a feeling of satisfaction from showing off a gf on IG As you kids say, cringe. Here's the thing about getting LTRs, you have to find a chick that also wants an LTR and hunting for an LTR as the main goal specifically is shooting yourself in the foot in the first place. It is important to note, especially in college, not all girls are looking for relationships. I'm going to assume you're saying LTR but actually mean a girlfriend, so, the important part about that is she has to be the one to a… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | I do not feel the urge to explain myself anymore: a sign of maturity or sociopathy?This is what's called being the boss. You take things into account but ultimately it's what you decide to do. You've been delegated the authority for the decisions because you're trusted to make good ones, not the monkey wielding the camera. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 14 | Men over 30: Swipe apps or nah?I'm early 30s and I've had decent success with mid 20s girls on bumble with my sandbagged profile. Meaning I also don't have any pics of emma blowing me or a shirtless pic. I have gotten laid with fairly minimal effort though. Don't take it seriously. It's low effort and the return is low. That said I am told I'm objectively an 8 and above facially so, grain of salt Ed. Strong reading comprehension ITT | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Confrontation at liquor storeArgument over a girl escalated, my friend got stabbed and barely lived. Reminds me of the video of this military guy reenacting what to do if someone pull a knife and you're unarmed. His buddy pulls a knife out and he runs his ass outta there | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with goals being crushed? Feeling absolutely devasted.You can see what type of work you can get with military contractors. I hear the pay is amazing but idk who for specifically or what type of work they'd have ya do | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | LTR won't stop tickling me - how to hold frame?Lift for strength. I could throw your girl with one arm while I wedgie you with the other. You have to be bull shitting, no man worth anything at all could stand being so emasculated and not do something REAL about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | A 7 or below asks wants you to go down on her, how do you refuse?If you can't stand the thought of missing an opportunity for pussy then you don't have frame. I would go home and beat my meat. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | LTR won't stop tickling me - how to hold frame?You're dumb weak and I don't believe you. Even a D1 soccer chick with supposed wrestling experience should have 0 chance against an average male. If you "lift for aesthetics" and this is happening to you then you're a moron. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | LTR won't stop tickling me - how to hold frame?You're pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Tips for same lay days without having to go back at home?Do you not have a car? Is it a small back seat? I've gotten a good amount of action in parking lots in the back seat with tinted windows. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Do I hide my books?what do I even say when one notices these books? It worked didn't it? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate in 1h during a day?The main breakthrough is the kiss. For the most part if you kiss a girl she'll fuck you. All that touching is leading up to that. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 49 | Girl at work tells me she's not playing games"Misogynist" is a word used to shame you into submission. Do not feel ashamed for being a man with goals, desires or noticing the bull shit women do. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | My FWB won’t shut up about politics through text and also when we are about to fuck. Total boner killer, should I soft next her? Or drop her completely.She sounds like my dad during the obama days. Couldnt talk about the weather without it turning into a rant. Granted I hate that fa- ... guy but letting someone live in your head like that is symptomatic of a different underpinning. His was he's a business owner so he was worried he'd have a hand in ruining it and I'd bet her hang up is she genuinely thinks trump represents putting her back in the kitchen and ruining her identity as a "cool" "radical" feminist. She's one dimensional and can't st… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 05:49 AM |
| 12 | What crucial parts of trp did you ignore way too long?Wrap it up. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 3 | LTR with GF of 9 years.It won't get better. Unless you're prepared to feel like this for the rest of your life and most likely get cheated on then move on. You already tried the beta play of trying to inject understanding and communication and it's a payday loan at best. Try the alpha play. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Extremely left-wing teachersIt only seems like a big deal now. You have two options, get it, be done with it and talk shit about them later or cause yourself problems and maybe never get your magic paper. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Dog barking at strangers/the door?Adopting? You fucked up. Never put a collar on it. Not in todays america. Be like me, free and easy, enjoying the decline. I go up to these dog owning simps and kino their dogs RIGHT INFRONT OF THEM and they don't do shit about it. Fucking cucks. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Fourth Generational Warfare: How Women Are Being Weaponized Against You And What You Can Do About ItBag of skittles. With that said, reading the comments shows me that a lot of the guys running around here can't even conceive of the possibility of a truly sinister, even diabolical, plot being real. Even if it's not I believe best practice is to keep yourself understated and your enemy overestimated. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | How does the redpill rationalize this?Wtf does this mean? a petite girl who's very pretty will be considered a lot more attractive than an average thick looking girl Anyways, is he goofy looking? What does that even mean? Just because those girls think that guy is good looking and are appreciating him from afar doesn't mean shit because unless he's tremendously good looking they aren't going to approach him 99/100 times so what does that mean? It means that if you will approach and he will not, you win. Who dares, wins. Take advanta… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Ex called me twice, left voicemails, asked for red pill advice. Ignore or give her advice?Idk what you showed her but a girl I shot down did ask me for guy advice and I helped her the best I could and told her some things about guys and girls that could be considered red pill. But I did it in my own voice, I didn't link her here or some articles. If that's what you did that's pretty autistic. I don't think there's amything wrong with using TRP to understand humans more fundamentally and using that to give advice to people. But if you send em one of Uncle Vs articles right of the bat … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Had a little realization about trp and I wanted to here you guy’s thoughts on itThere are similarities in some aspects, which is to be expected because we're both humans but it's not similar enough that you can rely on "well this is what I would do if I was her". How much does a girl getting tons of attention from guys turn you on? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 14 | Are all blowjobs like this?If a girl is amazing at blowjobs without you having to say anything, you got yourself a slut. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't really understand what the problem isI like metal and horror movies and wear a LOT of black. Not having mainstream interests has never hurt me and it shouldn't hurt you. Hell, my personal views are very extreme and if I said half of what I really think on this sub I would get banned from reddit. That shit doesn't matter. It's all how you play the game. Gonna have to go with the classic: read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 10 | Got an E-mail from ex ltr? Use the search bar. I basically gave you a summary of what closure means to women. They want you to act like a bitch so they will feel justified in breaking up with you. The best way to deal with this as a "shit test" is to ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 08:33 PM |
| 45 | Got an E-mail from ex ltrAttempt at "closure" and evidence that it was right to break up with you. Don't respond. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl says she likes guys who are "good speakers"?I would assume she means what women mean by "can carry a conversation". She wants to listen to a knowledgeable, interesting man's thoughts and not really contribute but be able to agree with you so that she feels smart. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Why don’t I feel comfortable being more sexual with woman? How to be able to sexualize a conversationI hate saying "sexual" shit personally. Just have a regular verbal conversation and a sexual physical conversation. That's what kino is. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone get bored of sex?It was when I first started getting with more... exotic girls that I came to the realization, a pussy is a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Single mothersYou got two types, for the most part. The ones that also just want to fuck and you got the ones that are looking for new dads for the kids. They aren't hard to get with. Subconsciously they know they've taken a hit in their market value. If the chick is the latter type I wouldn't recommend it. It'll be a lot of hassle for a used car. Other than that it's just another female, no relationship possibility though if you're smart. Leave that for the beta she eventually finds and cheats on. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Why does it feel empowering when you're met with resistance?When the going gets tough, the tough get going. These old cliches have stood the test of time for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 9 | How to get self respectSelf discipline leads to self respect which leads to self esteem which leads to self love. Uncoincidentally one of the places this is fostered is in the gym which is why its one of TRPs favorite places. If you say "I already go to the gym" I ask you, do you put in true effort? Are you consistent? Do you go on days you "don't feel like it"? If not, then you do not have self discipline, so you do not get self respect. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Former foster kid. 19, almost 20 years old. What should I know and how should I go forward?who I am not what I am I think this is one of the deeper issues men face when they do start being successful. It can cause resentment when you think "you only like me because X" but that is feminine thinking. Most men have heard at some point "would you still love me if I got fat?" And the answer is no bitch. And this is very similar. It's good that you're killing this thinking. No one can ever understand what's in your head, they can only see your actions and accomplishments. In essence, who yo… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Gold just raised the price for men to $37.99 lol, what a joke. Women remain at $19.99 or $24.99 for the same thing.Betas pay. As it has always been | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Who the Fukkk is this guy?? Satan himself???You've lost my favor | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Who the Fukkk is this guy?? Satan himself???Moderately amusing story OP. He's a space cadet. Some chicks fall for it, whatta ya want | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 10 | I fucked my first fat girl last nightTell it to your diary, not us. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you define the fine line between putting her in her place for bad behavior and failing a shit test?It's nice to have these things put back into focus every now and again. benevolent dictator This is EXACTLY how I think of myself. I learned with my first two girlfriends before I even was red pilled, if someone's gotta be a tyrant, it's going to be me. At least then it'll be magnanimous. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | I became needy and totally bombed my 10 Bumble matches , i was desperate , i forgot the abundance mindset , in the past 2 weeks i have stopped working out , stopped learning new skills and switched back to gaming and porn. How can i get back on track again?Alright. Anyway, I have a pretty good idea of how you feel. Recently I made a somewhat sandbagged profile on bumble (no DHV pics or shirtless pics etc.) and it did feel kind of depressing despite it all. Dating apps in general can be a bummer. If you don't care about any of it then what are you waiting for? Don't let current lows undermine future success. Get back up and get back to it. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I became needy and totally bombed my 10 Bumble matches , i was desperate , i forgot the abundance mindset , in the past 2 weeks i have stopped working out , stopped learning new skills and switched back to gaming and porn. How can i get back on track again?Just the matches? Not even dates? If so, yes you really need to reassert TRP teachings and NEVER EVER quit the gym. You're in the gym for life. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 26 | Any of you guys have long hair? did short hair work better for you?Gonna point out the fact it's the exact opposite for women is a great example of gender dichotomy | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Girl keeps asking me if “I can handle her”All speculation about the hotness or thiccness of the chick aside, the most likely answer is she's uncreative. This is just some shit chicks say when they don't know what to say but wanna act lasciviously. The male parallel would be something along the lines of "you're a naughty girl" or "I'm going to punish you" | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with Stretch MarksIt doesn't matter for dudes and you should not slow down your progress. If you're really concerned get some moisturizer and rub it over those and any areas you're concerned about to help lessen it... possibly. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Ending a happy & well-rounded LTR over high N-count?This and your response to comments shows that you have a scarcity mindset. Ultimately it's up to you. If you want to stick around an OLDER girl because of these traits, obedient/cooks etc, that can be instilled in any young girl before getting near your own peak SMV then you can. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this situation on my accommodation?Shot your shoot and it missed. Keep on trucking like it didnt happen | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Since Mate guarding is trending I want to get some opinions on how Baki reacted when is LTR wanted to date Mohammed Ali Jr, was it Chad ?I'm ashamed I know what you're talking about. Baki is a beta with alpha fighting skills. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend mockingly dismissed me in front if two other women and I felt really disrespected... am I exagerating?As a third party not there at the time who is experiencing lessening effect of a statement due to the medium of print over oral, I say you're overreacting. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend and her girl best friend talking about hot friend.Ironic that you invoke rollo when he would say he fucked up by living with her | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 17 | The girlfriend-getting-fat dilemma. Is there a solution?The male's attraction is the primary column of a healthy relationship. After that it's a man's ability to be strong. To put in succinctly, it's all about the boner. You decided to pussy foot around it instead of confronting it and now you have regret. That's all there is to this. If she got offended and all her friends and family hated you then you wind up in this exact same situation anyways. It's not even selfish, it's also for her own well being. Whereas her getting fat is selfish and unhealt… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Need some older male advice hereThe irony about your bitterness towards them is, when you do become as successful or more successful than them, they will have a much more profound bitterness and resentment because they know that you did this yourself and there is no way in this life for them to have that. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 4 | I am 16 years old, and I have a lot of stretch marksYou're growing, that can happen. For guys it's not a big deal. I have stretch marks and girls still fawn over me because I'm in shape. Get in the gym, make sure you don't injure yourself in there and it'll all work out. Don't think anymore on stretch marks, waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | About "Sigma" males. Is this category worth to adding next to the "Beta", "Alpha" terms? Or just introverts were fancy coming up with a new name so they won't feel ashamed called "Beta"?Truth tends to be concise. From the descriptions I've read before, I am a sigma but it's just nerds trying to dissect everything ad nauseum. It's basically taking the "brooding alpha" archetype and giving it a name. If it resonates with you that's fine but this is putting a new hat on an already discussed topic. Interestingly enough, I started writing before reading the post and you and I hit upon the same topics and we are very similar in lifestyle and thinking even to the point of why we both … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Getting TOO jacked counterproductive?You're probably fine. Being that big, for that size, will probably make people think you're crazy or something. Just be chill when you approach and that should wash away quickly. I'm also a scary looking dude but when I go up to those girls and say hi their faces light up. Ed. I knew you were going to get a lot of "too big" comments. You're the same height as kai greene and about 40lbs lighter. Girls don't normally like mass monsters like him but you aren't 40 lbs of pure fucking muscle bigger s… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I respectfully tell a male friend to shut the hell upThis is a poor person problem for guys that went to a public school. Having went to an all male school this isn't even comment worthy. "Show us". He either does, you call him a bundle of sticks for wanting to show his dick to dudes and call him gay every time he brings it up again. Or he doesn't and you call him a baby dick bitch. This is true Agree and Amplify. When either way the other person reacts, they lose. Call his bluff | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is this why women shit test us? Major realisationThis is tiring. This is not a conversation about whether naturals exist or not it's a conversation about "naturals" i.e. whether they put in any effort or were basically shat out like they are. All you're talking about is a guy that has just been unaware of the mechanics of what he has successfully navigated. He has still had obstacles to overcome that have made him what he is. What's your point with all this? Is it just to say, "these guys didn't have an upbringing that lead them to have had su… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Is this why women shit test us? Major realisationAnd that is what it is. The point is any man that women want has had to put in work. Whether they are blissfully unaware of the red pill or not. The women want the destination, not the journey. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I be not boring?Good advice and a good article, basically sums up any advice you can really give on this topic. To paraphrase the message from it, 100 bad days make a 100 good stories, a 100 good stories makes me interesting at parties. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Is this why women shit test us? Major realisationI'm pretty sure the point he's making is any successful guy has had to work for it in some way no matter how you cut it but women don't see or care about that. They just want to be there at the finish line. You take that "natural" and he doesn't work out, he doesn't work a job and he doesn't network, what is he? He's nothing. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Are you her plate, or is she your plate?So? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Using dating apps as a yard stick for SMVMid level? 7s means youre doing pretty well. I'm told I'm very good looking and I'm currently sandbagging with a profile right now and 7s are my top end. If I do it "correctly" I get matches with the top tier girls fairly regularly. You can't really put that aside. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 2 | When is it appropriate to apologize ?There it is. You don't. You can take the billy clinton route and say "mistakes were made" but only if you have to otherwise you dont. There's no benefit and as the rules say, if its of no benefit then its not for men | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 0 | EpiphanyIt is pretty vile. The things they've told about the experience are actually too gross for me to want to type out. BUT that is child rearing for you. Would you prefer I try to sugar coat it like a blue piller? The dehumanizing part is.... just unfounded. Like I said I was laying it on thick in hopes that others have this epiphany our friend had and realize these women are in fact just humans. However, I don't think "black pills" don't have a part in red pill philosophy. If you don't know all asp… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 05:36 PM |
| -2 | EpiphanyVery incorrect. I said what I did to help with some more pedestal smashing. I know I'm laying it on thick. The anger phase is a natural part of this. You don't revel in it but you accept it. Also, what did I say that's not true? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 04:58 PM |
| -2 | EpiphanyYeah, where are they? You women aren't allowed in here. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Newly Divorced and Catching FeelsIs all that history why you're getting hung up on that pussy? You seem to have a pretty good handle on yourself you're just treating this one like she's special or at least thinkin it. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 04:57 AM |
| -4 | EpiphanyThey're vile creatures from the moment they're born. My brother and a friend of mine have both had daughters recently and they say it's pretty damn disgusting and one in fact does have a son to compare the experience. Men are truly magnanimous to care for these beasts. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | LTR accepted dinner invitation from orbiterYou think because of covid there aren't guys out there laying pipe in strange? It happens, just ask this "orbiter". | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Ex-LTR and weddingYour sister sucks, why the fuck would she invite your ex? Just have fun. Interact with her if you have to but don't seek it out. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | What do you with all your past LTR memories? (Crafts, letters, paintings)30s. But I've done this since prolly mid 20s and I started going out with so many girls and I couldn't recall them all without something to jog my memory. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 11 | What do you with all your past LTR memories? (Crafts, letters, paintings)I keep it. It's not something as sentimental as holding a flame for some girl, to me it's mementos. It represents my life to me and I personally value my life enough that even though those girls are gone and I mostly feel nothing for them, I want to remember my life. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | (LTR) I need some help. This is bad.Oneitus is a terminal disease for relationships. Here's where you fucked up: you literally let blue pill thinking take control. You let the blue pill idea of cheating destroy this relationship. This is why we say TRP is amoral, what you think about cheating does not matter here. You are a man that wants to get laid so you do it. It is as easy as that. You're not owning your actions. There are ways to come out ahead but it's too late for that now. This is why you don't apologize and why psychopat… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | GF rejected sex today.You know what "feels natural" to her? You pullin her pants down and giving her some d randomly. Spontaneity is analogous to natural in women's minds because they are... well I'll just say it's cause they're women. Dropping hints all day has never felt natural to me and it never made anything any better or easier in my experience. If it's there for the taking you just take it. In this situation I would say this is what made her feel obligated. Best relationship I ever had I would walk in the door… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you lock eyes with a cute girl in a random place?This happened to me at the grocery store yesterday. Couldn't tell for sure if she was smiling because we were wearing masks but it looked like it, if she was it was def an IOI. Little did she know I was holding eye contact because I disapproved of her buzz cut wasting her other cute features. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Let's settle this once and for all - WHAT is an HB9/HB10 to you?I think a fat ass is repulsive and I like a tight shapely ass. I hate that this thinking as rised to prominence and caused women to think that having steatopygia is attractive or that it's ok to eat too much because that makes you "thicc". | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 2 | ex-smokers red pilled brothers , how did you manage to cut the habit and how did it change you overallI used to be a smoker and used to dip. Dipping is far more dangerous. Not just because it is apparently "worse" for you but because you can literally do it from the moment you wake up till the moment you go to bed, easily. You have to be a chain smoker to do that and I don't know what it takes to become someone like that. It took me a few days to a week to get through a pack of smokes or a few days to go through a can of dip so my addiction wasn't the worst but I know it. Nicotine is definitely … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 14 | Shittest from old high school girl. What should I reply?If you got balls: After all this time I'm afraid of what you might look like in direct sunlight | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | GF told me her ex was great in bedI did have a gf that brought up stupid stuff like this. I ignored it like you have been and it basically just festered and she sure didn't stop bringing it up and it drove a wedge between us. I think she was kind of a vacuous girl in this regard but that's digressing. I also had another gf long before that one that when she brought it up I brought up something that reminded me of my ex and she didn't like that. I then told her that's why we don't bring it up and I never heard any more. Now if a … | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | Why are women in California/Oregon so aggressive and opinionated?Are they... something that all peoples should aspire to? What is this? Sarcasm? Women do what they're allowed to do. In those liberal areas men are encouraged to be feminine and women are encouraged to be masculine so you get shitty versions of both. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Dad just passed away two days ago. How to pick myself up?Losing your dad must be rough. I have brothers but when my dad dies I know it'll feel like a pillar of my life disappeared. But we are men. Become that pillar. For yourself and for others. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating crush of good friend- am I breaking the bro-code?I have a friend that was like this. Any chick that was around was instantly "his" in his mind but he would never make a move and if he did it would be some weak nonsense like friending the girl on facebook after she left the party. Teach him a lesson in taking action, first hand. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Ripped FB's sheets during sexWhat do you care? She's a plate. I am like a bull in a fuckin china shop. To know me is to know that I will accidentally break something of yours at some point. Accidents happen. Regardless, that last text is her admission acceptance. Stash your guilt in your purse and carry on like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Is Prince Harry a beta?There's an obvious indicator that he is. If you do something specifically to spite someone, especially your relatives, you're probably bitch made. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 38 | Failed a shit test with a chick at gym.This is actually exactly why Agree and Amplify is such a popular technique. In my opinion it'll gain you minimal points but its better than saying something really stupid or bad. It doesn't need to be too clever, it just shows your indifference. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Should you ever do ultimatums that dont come from a place of neediness?There's an argument that setting boundaries are "ultimatums" you cheat i leave etc. It's just expressing the fact you aren't putting up with something. What really makes ultimatums bad is how explicit they are. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Texting AdviceMore like I was just jabbing at you because your texting is autistic and I'm not writing you an essay | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How to lift like your life depends on itBig enough for what? IDK how big you want to be or what your goals are. What I said initially is generic but it's true. The gym is all about consistency and the only thing that forcibly interrupts consistency is injury. If you're concerned with getting large muscles more so than strong muscles focus on doing sets of 10+ reps. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Texting AdviceAre you eating bakers chocolate like a candy bar? I'd block you tbh | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 10 | How to lift like your life depends on it5 months huh? Wow. When young guys ask me how I got big, I ask em, "how old are you?" and in this case, I have literally been lifting as long as you have been alive. Don't "lift like your life depends on it". Lift intelligently. Do go and try your hardest but whatever you do don't get injured, that is the NUMBER ONE rule. Injury is the biggest set back you can have in lifting. Aside from that just eat a lot of protein and put in the work. Lifting is a lifelong thing. You're young, just do that a… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with all the lies of the world?How fuckin poetic. How old are you? 16? The world and the universe don't care about you how sad. Lies make the world go round. Money in its current incarnation is a lie. Society and the government lie. Lies are so ingrained that people will tell you lies that they think are truths. More to the point it's on you to find and assign meaning and worth. Why anything is important is because you decided it was. I have goals, dreams and ideas but why do I put up with all the bullshit that comes with bei… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right awayShe's salving her ego and trying to feel desirable. Women do that by hopping on some dick. Since you broke up with her she wasn't able to fully prepare a monkey branch so she's going where she knows she can get attention. Why are you surprised? Especially since you did the breaking up you should have prepared for this mentally. This ones on you brother. Buck up. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Attempt to build attraction BLEW UP in my faceYou should feel dumb, you are dumb. That therapist is wasting your time and so is she. Do not ask therapists for advice on women. She isn't attracted to you and if she is she's a fucking bitch anyway as indicated by this interaction. If you REALLY want to be friends with women you have to friendzone a girl that finds you attractive. If you find her attractive and she doesn't you are a beta and women treat betas with contempt, as seen here. I say eject, tell her to fuck off and that she's too upt… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How to act when friends disrespect/say things way out line towards youRelationship equity doesn't exist with girls but it does with male friends, aka loyalty. If you've known this fucker for a long time there's no reason you shouldn't be able to work it out. A lot of advice around here is based on the fact that women can't be reasoned with because they run on emotions. You should be able to talk to another man as a man. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my uncle to mind his fuckin business?Need more detail. Tell whoever your related parent is to tell him to knock that shit off and if you haven't tell em. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Theory Clarification: Soft NextI am amazed there's no answer for "what if the soft next lasts so long she fucks another dude or she thinks we broke up?" I'm guessing this mostly applies to fuck buddies but my answer to my own question would be it is officially a hard next then. Interesting it's not there. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Don't talk about fight club.Yeah that part about the "big reveal" is the important part in what I said. It doesn't really have to do with "risking your future" exactly. You two, like I said apparently are just not aware of what it is yet. That's why I brought up status and things that aren't to be questioned. That will lead you to it if you care to keep going. There's more red pills out there. What you guys were talking about points almost exactly at something. I only bring it up to make you aware you're on to something bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | After getting with multiple 'unicorns', I've noticed that no matter what, when you get to truly know their personalities, they are literally all the same.... so how do some guys stay with an LTR for so long, don't you get bored?I would say this is a symptom of not internalizing the aspect of women that they are accessories to what you would be doing anyway. They are meant to compliment what you are doing, not be the focal point. Sometimes I'll just be laying in bed unwinding before going to sleep and I'll think, "I would like to have a woman under my arm right now". I'd be doing the exact same thing, watching whatever nonsense I happen to be watching to fall asleep to but have myself a warm body wrapped around my arm. … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Don't talk about fight club.But I thought there was always someone bigger? Yes, status comes from the masses and it is contextual. If Trump walks into the republican convention everyone's going to act like they love him. If he walks into the democratic convention everyone's going to act like they hate him. That doesn't mean that opinions on things can't be manipulated. People like to feel smart and saying stuff everyone agrees with makes people feel smart and a way to make people think everyone thinks something is to say i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Don't talk about fight club.Are you sure you belong here? I am getting some real lefty vibes from your loquacious way of writing. Truth is concise. To use your lazy idiom, "there's always someone bigger" BIGGER = STATUS. Everything you said is an aspect of power and status. I can't believe you lost the plot so incredibly quick. Also, gillete went "woke" and lost lots of money didn't they. Also, for farmers look at South Africa. Also, you kneel to BLM or you are punished. BLM = High status Essay writer = Low status. Also, i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Don't talk about fight club.You two are either dancing around the real problem or just haven't discovered it yet. Instead of giving the big reveal I'll just paraphrase a good blog post I've read recently that cuts to the heart. If you are allowed to be harassed, you are low status. If harassing you is not allowed, you are high status. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 319 | My gf hit meYeah that's leaving time. It's one step away from "I can do whatever I want to him" because why didn't you hit her back? Cause the law is on her side always. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 10 | Don't talk about fight club.Fuckin hell, I had to get this far down to see some shit that isn't "hide your thoughts because consequences are scary" thinking. TRP has been in a sorry state indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 17 | Don't talk about fight club.What they did is idiotic but tell me this, how are some of you guys getting into LTRs with girls and they come to you indignant with shit like this? trying to get a defensive opinion out of me about the anti-feminism tweets the account is sharing No girl that's around me for a few months is going to think for one second that shit is something I would give a fuck about let alone commiserate with. Are you all just playing the "cool guy" and never let your own thoughts be heard? I honestly can't im… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What is a “feminine culture” ?I’m not saying one is better than the other. I'll say that one is better than the other. And there's an example of the difference between the feminine and the masculine and you can extrapolate from there how it leads to culture and society. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 4 | I can't talk to peopleI was like this too in my late teens early 20s. My friends would point out I was trying not to smile and if I couldn't help it I'd look away and they'd point it out because they'd know what I was doing. But now over the years I smile and laugh a lot more. I've seen my friends change and they've seen me change. That's part of growing up. So it's up to you if you want these people around while you're making a change if you decide to change at all. In the mean time saying, "shut up" in a forceful b… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 6 | I can't talk to peopleYou're obviously too caught up in that persona. If a girl is asking you lots of questions she's obviously into you or at least curious. One of the ways you can have the "cold" persona and get away with it is if you got a razor wit and you're good with metaphors since you can say a lot while saying little. Many people are really fucking bad at this. Anyway, my perspective is flirting is supposed to be fun. Sometimes being the cold guy is fun but if it's not, don't be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | How to Proceed with a Top 150 PornstarThe question remains. Well, if you pedestalize her just because she's well known for getting miles of dick, you're done. Good luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | How to Proceed with a Top 150 PornstarSure. Something else interesting, you said you've fucked other girls in the industry and get passed around "like a joint" and yet you're asking for advice on a pornstar? Why? Cause she's top 150? What, are you intimidated? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | How to Proceed with a Top 150 PornstarI find it ironic that a "pornstar" found out how "good you fuck" because you have a "8.5 inch dick" and that's what made her interested. Treat her like she's any other girl. It works even better when you handle a girl of.... notoriety like she's just a normal bitch. There's a lot of ways to handle it so I'll let you figure it out but the only time the topic of her being a film whore should come up is when SHE brings it up. Otherwise ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm afraid to have sex because of my penis...Honestly, I don't see how women find anything attractive about male genitals but they do, so Idk if you're gonna get solid advice on aesthetic peeni from a bunch of dudes. That said, it's probably not the weirdest dick she's ever seen and if you're at the point where she's lookin at it then you're probably golden anyway. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I called the cops on my (ex)LTR for DV. She was arrested/charged and I feel terrible...I had a buddy that was in a similar situation. A drunk slut "friend" of his that he wasn't banging, known for over 10 years, always was kind to was at his place drunk as shit. She already had 1 or 2 DUIs on her record and he was trying to keep her there and she lost her shit and started hitting him and going crazy. He called the cops and when they showed up she claimed he raped her and hit her, etc. They could tell he was telling the truth and that she was out of her mind and he was trying to st… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 22 | Any success stories after a breakup?Basically it's just gonna suck for awhile. It's a good thing you had a plate but you didn't use your momentum while you had it and now it's gone and the stagnation feels like depression. Quite being a bitch and get back out there. Are you surprised that she gets a lot of immediate attention? If she's a 9 there were always vultures just waiting for it to end and at least a handful that she had in mind. Don't dwell on it. Finally, any friends that left because you "broke her heart" even though you… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 8 | Having the worst time on bumble. What am doing wrong?It spiralled into gal chit chat pretty damn quick IMO, even in the first message. I'd say cut to the quick here because text is the land of betas and females. "Which bollywood movie should we watch first?" then tease her about her choice, blah blah blah, "let's get a drink and then we'll see about showing you my collection." I say this but Idk what kind of vibe you're giving off in your setup. I imagine you're a dandy based off what I've read here. This is why people say "read the side bar" beca… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 11:16 PM |
| 22 | Having the worst time on bumble. What am doing wrong?Man, my vagina dried up reading this. Super wordy and you're trying to connect with her as a woman when you should be trying to connect with her as a man. Specifically with your penis but you know what I mean. This seriously reads like two girls talking. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | My LTR keeps disrespecting Bach (haha) and I'm about to snap; what is a man supposed to do?The whackyness of this got tiring quick. Your call man, with all your psychonauting you're either going to hold out for the chick that connects with you in all 27 dimensions or not. Sounds like she's pretty alright otherwise and just making fun of your objectively freakish ways. That said if you do treat this like some sort of religion I wouldn't tolerate a woman deriding mine in a relationship. Lay down the law or tell her to get out. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Rejected LBJFWe telling anecdotes of bros choosing hoes? Not as heavy as yours but you reminded me of it. I had a gf that me and some friends were meeting up with along with some of her friends and I was driving. We show up and I have 0 recollection why but she did or said something that when I showed up I basically said, "fuck you and fuck this, we're leaving." And I turned around and started walking to my car. My best friend turned around with me but I could tell the other two weren't. I turned around to l… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Does being good at roasting people improve your frame control?I've always thought of the ability to "roast" as analogous to flirting and banter. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Milf/older woman shit test?Mehhhhh not very lighthearted, almost insulting. Besides, it keeps the conversation on age which is not what you want. What I said segues the conversation into jokes/culture/entertainment, fun. I'm not saying it couldn't work but flirting is supposed to be fun. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Milf/older woman shit test?Yes. Pressure flip is the best in this case, they expect A&A more and it's playing offense which is more masculine and will make them think of you as more of a man than a child. My age? I bet you don't even know what a meme is. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 09:51 PM |
| 37 | I just swallowed the fattest red pill in months. I am out of words man.Hopefully this knocked good looking girls off the pedestal for you. Fact is they're way easier than they look and they probably fucked a guy less attractive than you. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Want LTR to Lose Weightshe’s going to go to her friends and they will crucify you. Who the fuck cares? Who ever said that her friends were ever on your side to begin with? There's a lot of pussy footing around going on in this thread. The rest of what you said is fine though. Tell her to come to the gym with you and if she says no then that's about it. You're seeing what she will inevitably become. If you're ok with that then that's fine but if not you gotta get out. Sometimes you have to accept that they're only goin… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Too red or too blue? I ditched her at the club to go the carnivalI'm going to add this near the top. Once I did a compliance test on a girl during the beginning of my red pilling, I asked her which way down a path in the park we should walk, she said right, so I said well I'm going left. She straight up walked around the park and I went and sat on a bench for awhile. That bitch strung me along for about 3 months after and I never even fucked her. Part of me knew at that time that I should have drove away and I thought about doing it but that bit of nice guy w… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Girl sees guy for the first time and is all over him.I've had this happen a few times. It just means the chick thought he was very attractive. Girls do not know how to flirt they know how to play games. So if they see a small window for a guy they really like they come on strong. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Can Turn You Into Thinking You Can Be An Island But Unfortunately, No Man Is An Island.Non-judgemental is a code word for no taste. And that's the nice way of putting it. Pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Who's the most red pilled celebrity? Why?Mel Gibson | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask, but not sound like you're asking a question...?Tell me what you mean. For example. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to playful hittingThis is what I believe is being a clown. You don't have to have a bit for every occasion. If you have 2 or 3 good responses that's all you need and you reuse em on every new girl and if you use em all on the same girl then you already impressed her enough, it's on who you are now. That said here's a free one "hands off the merchandise" | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a woman that had an abortion 3 days ago (or in general?)In general, I have and it went badly. In 3 days? No. That bitch is a maniac. She's trying to run away from guilt and the reality of what she's done. No telling what she'd do. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 04:41 PM |
| 11 | Why would a wife of football superstar cheat on him?*jumbotron test. It was heartistes analogy for your texts to a girl. You should act like they'd be displayed on a jumbotron at a stadium because the girl IS going to show others. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 13 | Why would a wife of football superstar cheat on him?Quite the historic corroboration. Interesting indeed and Heartiste's "megatron test" taken to the extreme. Letters set in the stone of history showing your betaness forever when even an offhand knowledge of the man would have you assume he was a bad ass. That last part is especially interesting because he could have the man put against a wall with no one batting an eye and yet his beloved bitch got stuffed by him nonetheless. History has red pills for those with eyes to see. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 133 | Why would a wife of football superstar cheat on him?Alpha is not your job. I could rule the world with an iron fist and have a bitch cheat on me. It is in her mind. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Injured with no end in sight (22 yrs old)Yes, avoiding injury is always the most important part I tell people who ask me about serious lifting, if you get injured you lose all your gains. That week or two will gain you months, maybe even a lifetime more. That said, I had shoulder/elbow pain which inhibited my benching and here is the one question in this entire thread you must answer, do you do reverse flies? If not, do it. My shoulder and elbow pain for the most part don't exist because of doing reverse mech flies. I had a gym that ha… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | “Sweetie”That's the response a chick would give a stranger that she doesn't care what they think. Since you have plans already with friends I would let that be all there is. Act like every thing is cool but understand that this is it. If she wanted to treat me like a stranger, I'd be one. This shit isn't going to get better. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 02:41 AM |
| 7 | Someone tells you having fun & spinning plates is "little boy shit" and then claims married family life is superior.No true scotsman. Tell him that real men don't think about other men's penises and what they do with them | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Female coworker is pissed we didn't invite her to have drinks cause she's a pain in the ass, how to handle her?You may have heard the word solipsism thrown about round here. This is that. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | The Lucky Sperm ClubI don't have anything against the feel good posts per se but I don't think I've ever come to TRP for positivity | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Red Pills from A Working GirlInteresting way of putting it. If she's in it for money, there's only so much. If she is in it for semen, there's plenty to go around. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about asking my plate to not mention me at all to her family or close friends?What you're doin is caring about her feelings getting hurt worse when this inevitably ends. If you're worried about that break her now. Talking to her about that is gonna speed it up anyway. Or you can let it run its course and realize it was her fault hoping for something not meant to be. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality?It's a mix of a ton of things but a large part is social media allowing a mouth piece for a very loud, very annoying minority and the shunning of people that publicly "punch down". Straight white fit male? Stop oppressing that poor xer! It spilled over into irl. They say that someone having the benefits of generations of hard work are something to be frowned upon and the only real virtue is victimhood. This is clown world, up is down, bigot and don't forget it. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 12 | First time ever being insulted by a girl. What should I do differently next time?You saw she was a left wing nut job and tried to have a rational talk with her about something emotionally charged. She was right about one thing, that's on you. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Why everyone frowns at PUA?I think around here it's just viewed as archaic and outdated. Like a less evolved version, a stepping stone. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | What would you guys consider for a LTR in terms of body count?How are you going to know? This is one of those things that women are highly likely to lie about. I've had numerous girls want to tell me because they think it's so low. In reality, if she's not a virgin the BEST case scenario is indifference and if the best outcome is neutral why would you ever want to do it in the first place. I just sidestep this whole thing and use other means of vetting. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a hard time reading The Rational Male?I totally get what you're saying. Reading his blog I almost always would find myself wandering over to another tab mid paragraphs. It can be a drag to read. Like a textbook on women, which you could argue is what Rollo writes more than he writes about "Game", he writes about the concepts. The more you become a reader though the easier it is. Read a pretty long post of his recently and I got through it a lot easier than I did when I first found all this. Keep at it. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | When a woman trully disrespects you what is the right thing to do?If her friends are around ask one of them, "is she always like this?" Ive seen that line work miracles. One on one you can say are you always like this? But its less powerful without a crowd | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 0 | What’s the end game with women?What a sign of the times. There used to be a period where this question didn't need asking. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:49 AM |
| 0 | How to handle women who turn up to the date in a dress / looking very sexyI had a gf that was a gym trainer getting ready for a fitness show come over once early in the relationship. I can't remember what she was wearing now but all I know is when she walked through my door I could feel what could only be called intimidation shoot right into me. This was a chick that had already asked me for a relationship and did everything she could for me. Took me on dates, cooked me food, sucked my dick when I wanted and I still got shot right in the chest with it like a spear. So… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Women keeping their maiden name upon marriage (hyphenated surnames)I say, marriage is a tradition and if we aren't going to follow its traditions then we don't need to be doing it. Any girl I date long enough for it to come up damn well knows my stance. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting black pilledThis is a waste of time. You have many avenues to get women. Pick one and use your envy of your friend to fuel it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | What is the red pill stance on being the “other man”?Red Pill is not here to be your conscience. Red Pill is amoral. You make these decisions, not it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Made comment about gf needing to lose weight, she was super pissed now super lovey and sweet the next day.I always say, deals off. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 07:16 AM |
| 13 | what's with tatoos on chicks everywhere?That's clown world brother man. Up is down, cats are dogs, black is white, men are women etc. Especially that last one. Women taking on male tendencies/attributes. I see less men with tats than I see women these days, ESPECIALLY at the gym. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Women in TRPAnd you sound like your average redditer. We both know what you are. I've had enough of this joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Women in TRPAnd yet you seem to not have learned. Strange. In the very least you don't get subtlety, also a game concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Women in TRPI did not say that. The sidebar exists because people that wander in here do not understand. Enjoy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Women in TRPAnyone that asks that needs to read the sidebar, you're obviously new. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Women in TRPThat would explain why I got downvoted for saying if I have a kid I'm not going to be changing any diapers. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys consider asking a girl who’s always at the gym same time as you “shitting where you eat”?I've written quite a bit about this. Bottom line, no, it's not. Unless it's the only gym in town or you somehow have no other place to lift it's perfectly fine to get girls from the gym. Just remember it's not a bar, the game is different | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Quick Help: Pressure flip upon being openedYou got a lot of questions, how bout we swap numbers and you can text em to me | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Why is it so hard to respect men who dont lift weights?A lot of hamstering in this thread. All those other accomplishments have a pretty significant context to them. If you aren't in his place of business, or whatever area they are experts in they appear less alpha because it isn't being put on display. Being jacked requires no context. It is always on. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Would you fuck a random chick that approached you?Definitely the biggest concern. No risk no reward but with true abundance it isn't worth the risk. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Marcus Arelius once said "To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it". What is your redpill example of this?Are you asking what redpill principle is an example of this? It's frame. For a real life example, I have a few. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "you are fat" shit test?Give the back of their arm a little slap or squeeze and say, you're one to talk. Or something similar. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 07:55 PM |
| -1 | Why you should never show emotion in front of a womanI never plan on changing any diapers if I do end up having a kid. The fact he looked forward to it says quite a bit about him. I get the sentiment but I'm not doin it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 11:58 PM |
| -9 | Brutally Effective Strategy For Dealing With Guys Who Try To Steal Your GirlI had something like this happen, though I'm over 6 foot. I had this chick neatly pinned to a wall, I was pretty drunk and had taken some phenibut so I was totally 0 fucks given at the time. I was standing right in the middle of the walkway with one arm pinning her in to the wall so I was in everybodies way. Some guy yells at me about something really loudly, I give him a look of complete indifference, turn to the chick and say, "anyway..." and keep on keeping on. The dude leaves us alone, I eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 10:52 PM |
| 4 | What is a boyfriend?It's just a title. It has some implied meaning but it all comes down to how bad the people involved think lying is. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 4 | How do you reply to “I enjoyed hanging out with you but me and my ex are going to work it out”Because this is a rejection not a reconciliation. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Girl I’ve been talking to for a while mentions a date she went on.take things slow Ya done fucked up son. In my experience if you don't fuck on the first date then you're not seeing her again or if you do it's going to be a slow descent into friend zone which you're on right now. That's not always the case but I would say anything that is around 80% or more likely is a good rule of thumb | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?Anytime a woman does something that might be a bluff, immediately call it. If it's not a bluff, find another woman. I absolutely agree with this and I always try to remember to do so. If she's bluffing then you basically passed a shit test, if she wasn't you don't want to be with that bitch anyway. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:46 PM |
| 15 | AgeShe's legal. If you wanna fuck and she wanna fuck then only someone who has their own insecurities would care. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 05:36 AM |
| 10 | What to do with a girl that is scared of being played ?It's a headache of a game she's playing. Winning move is not playing | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Afraid to touch big compound lifts because I don't want to get shorter.Apparently I lost about a quarter inch of height from compression from years of smashing into guys more than 100 lbs heavier than me in football. Not squatting | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Female employee busting my balls at the gym?I'm imagining something like pin pulls. Unless you're doing something really stupid like you're using a dumbbell like a hammer on it I would have told her that's nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 4 | I really do understand female nature, so why do I keep falling for every girl I meet?You already know that having plates will help with this and yet you don't. You seem to get wrapped up enough in one girl that it's almost like a chore. Go, get plates. Earn your abundance mentality first and then afterwards you can still have this affection with girls but also have the ability to walk away. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 09:33 PM |
| 11 | Plate Overtly Asking to Be My GirlfriendThis is make or break. Most likely you'll either have to give her the title or she's prolly gonna leave. Whether her being a "girlfriend" means anything to you or not is on you and your conscience though. You could still fuck other girls if you wanted, you fuckin sociopath. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Going for hot girls who like you but are not your type versus going for hot girls who you are into but don't like your look. Anyone had that dilemma?Stereotypes workin against ya. A lot of indian men tend to be obsequious, the ones you want are known for being a lot to handle ESPECIALLY the latinas. They tend to want that hard alpha that puts them in their place and since this is a dating app they're gonna see you in that polo shirt and think you're a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 06:17 AM |
| 4 | "Bad Boy" Characteristic ?"Bad boy" is female interpretation of stated alpha characteristics. Doing what you want unapologetically chief among them. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 13 | Guys, before you got a place of your own, did you (mostly) fuck girls at your parents house or the girls house?I fucked a stripper, and numerous other girls, in my parents basement. It doesn't matter to them. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 08:55 PM |
| 5 | LTR told me she is into girlsThere is a phrase thrown around here quite often that I think applies exceptionally well here. She's not yours, it's just your turn. The sentiment behind it is: enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | If a lower smv male calls you a bitch in passing?Im the bitch? Then flip his titty up | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 2 | My (23M) wife (25F) manipulated me to open our marriage and sleep with her coworker. She did and kept taking it too far so I ended things. What advice could you give me for the divorce process and later on afterwards when I’m back dating?If you're expecting it then you are beginning the correct path friend. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | My (23M) wife (25F) manipulated me to open our marriage and sleep with her coworker. She did and kept taking it too far so I ended things. What advice could you give me for the divorce process and later on afterwards when I’m back dating?I agree with you to an extent but the gym is also a great place to release emotions. This kind of stuff is going to cause a lot of pent up emotion and the best way to deal with it is to put it into some iron. Better that than being a sad sack and eating his emotions or withering away. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | My (23M) wife (25F) manipulated me to open our marriage and sleep with her coworker. She did and kept taking it too far so I ended things. What advice could you give me for the divorce process and later on afterwards when I’m back dating?Prepare your ass for her to try and make moves that frame you as a manipulative abusive ass hole. We all know that if you let her get away with this shit you are in fact a blue beta bitch and would never actually do it but she will claim emotional abuse and that time you accidentally brushed past her as "physical abuse". That she was terrified of you and that she was just trying to get away from you because of the abuse and fear, some sort of bull shit. Regardless, it is to get pity for her and … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys talk about in the bar-to-home ride?How long is this fuckin drive? That's a part of logistics son. Hand her the music device in your car and tell her to play dj. Every choice she makes should give you something to talk about. Oh, you're that kinda girl huh? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Parenting: If you have boys, or plan to, get ready for what the world has in store: LA Juvie experiments on boy with estrogenBut how can you argue against it? It used to be accepted that if you gave up any amount of freedom for any amount of comfort/security you deserved neither but modern society is all about comfort/security. I tend to think of the primary difference between humans and animals is we will seek out pain if we think it will be a benefit later. Working out being the first example in my mind. Exercise is an absolutely foreign idea to animals but we see that there will be a benefit even though at times it… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Any of you guys on NoFap? If so, has it helped you with females?A lot of what you read about no fap is pseudo science shit but if there's any benefit to no fap it's this: your dick will start persuading you to talk to girls. I went on accidental no fap because I was too tired to when I got home for like 2 or 3 weeks and when I saw girls, no matter where, my dick would demand I talk to them. I'd have a short inner dialogue with the Governor and he'd make a declaration. You want me to go hit on that? .... alright here I go. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Women say that men who think The Wall exists are mostly incels. True or false?I think your own dick can verify the truth of the wall. Unless you're a woman in which case go away. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many girls have abusive bf stories or cheating stories?They're exaggerating most of the time. Furthermore, every girl has an "abuse" story. I've heard quite a few. When you don't even react to theirs, because it's far from the worst one, they seem to think you're a psychopath. Kind of a bonus I guess. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 09:27 PM |
| 8 | Warren Ellis Being Publicly Shamed for Withdrawing Attention from Women He Was OrbitingLet's say that by some sort of lunacy they make it stick that any man that has fame and uses it to attract women has somehow taken advantage of them. Aside from the question, how "famous" do they have to be for it to apply, what's next? A man used his wealth, his looks, his charm, his smell to take advantage of them? Will men be forced to only approach women way out of their league as to not be in danger of being a sexual predator? But then is the inverse also as problematic? All this unwanted a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 9 | Do Women Simp for HVM and Talk About Guys In Similar Terms as Guys Talk About Girls?Why do you ask a question you already know the answer to? That shit from movies where they write the dudes name over and over again in their notebooks etc. they do that. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How to not fear losing a unicorn?I mean move it on emotionally and mentally. Move on from this childish notion. Grow up some more. Quit getting hung up and realize the truth in what I said. You don't have to break up with her. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 3 | How to not fear losing a unicorn?If one existed there's many that exist. Move it along. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Lessons from Jada and Will Smith marriage?I think that where you need to look is at his son. Idk if will is influenced by jaden or vice versa but wherever that shit is coming from, the gender bending, the dip shit philosophy spouting, is where the problem lies. Maybe will doesn't even care. During the fresh prince - MIB years the guy couldn't swing one cat without hitting 50 shaved ones. Maybe he's totally numb to it. Who the fuck knows. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 4 | How would you guys deal with public shaming? [Story inside]I'd keep it simple. I broke up with her and she's the ex for a reason. If someone asked me point blank what I thought about that post I would say, believe none of what you read and half of what you see. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are you acting so sensitive? Shit test how to handle with agree and amplifyTitanic is a good movie though | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Robert DeNiro DivorceI'm sure heartiste would have some things to say about this. He was our black knight. Anyways, I have a neighbor that is de niro's age and I was the first visitor he's had since the pandemic started because he is at very high risk to die to the disease, due to age and health issues. A guy that's been famous for the majority of his life has to have health issues from abuse or just plain genetics and I doubt he is constantly around his wife or their kids so it would in fact be dangerous for him to… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | i just had an epiphany after a blowjobThat "emptiness" is what contentment feels like. When you totally feel the urge for nothing you are content. I remember it was after one of the best blowjobs I ever got that I felt content for about 5 seconds. I just sat there staring at the wall. For a moment the whole world as far as I was concerned stood still. Kinda underwhelming huh? But that's it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | For the guys interested in marrying and settling down, how can you justify it given the modern state of women, the atmosphere, and inequitable marriage laws?The same way I justify anything I do, I wanna. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:01 AM |
| 5 | Meal delivery serviceThis is, in my experience, the truest form of failing to prepare is prepare to fail. Meal prep on weekends. Thats it | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 08:39 AM |
| 6 | How do I respond to tinder match (HB8) shit test after she agrees to meet?"You can leave" is laconic and powerful | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 05:59 AM |
| 3 | How to get rid of feelings of loneliness? Lost teenager seeking advice, basicallyThrough out your life you'll experience really weird dips where you feel more strongly than other times in the past. Just remember that you will get through it eventually. Softer men than you have gotten through harder times. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?Would you date a lush? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Date with hood girl? Went terribly wrong, how to move on?Here at TRP and as men we tend to blame ourselves for things going wrong because it is assumed we are supposed to be the ones in control of the situation but you can't be in control of her brain. The bitch is crazy. It's not always your fault. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | DO girls develop at a faster rate?Aside from literally physically developing faster women get socialized way faster than men in contemporary society. As soon as a girl hits 18, and even sooner to an extent, it is open season on her. Knowing she's in college is knowing she's legal so the guys come and with these guys showing up come opportunities. This is networking. You are not a hot woman, you are a man, I assume. This means you have to do it. You are a tiger in the wild, not a fat bitch at a buffet when it comes to opportuniti… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Selling plates clothes?Your friend has an imagination on him, sell the shit or don't. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | my tattoos, best responseWhat kind of impression do you give off? You could say some shit like, "only the dead know..." if you got some sort of dark look goin on. If you look like a hipster you could just say "they dont stand for shit just like me" | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Girl next door asked me for helpLots of questions here. Mainly, how far away is it and how much of a pain in the ass? You obviously already responded but for future reference I would say this is similar to the "bet" gambit. I never make bets with girls that I can't cash in on immediately. I say similar because she ACTUALLY owes you, it's not just some honor bound "bet". That said, using this to set up future interactions like a dinner is never going to work unless she has already given you IOIs out the ass. She'll just agree a… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 08:01 PM |
| 38 | Man defends girlfriend, she flips out and becomes terrified of himWhile I totally agree with all that you've said here, I think the reason is she was looking for an excuse and she found it. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"Absolutely correct. Most turned on I've seen a chick I grabbed her by the throat and put her on her knees. She sucked down my dick like it was water in the desert. Best head I ever got. She was turned on and all she thought about at the time was pleasuring me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 193 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"It took me becoming red pill to realize the "my girlfriend is my best friend" idea is utterly blue. Just like the scale to measure a man and the scale to measure a woman are not the same, the scale for a best friend and a girlfriend are not either. They can not and should not be compared. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you kiss girls after blowjob and after you came in her mouth?No. And they know why I don't. I give em some gum. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 12:51 AM |
| 8 | TRP likely banned tomorrow. What were your favorite TRP moments?I liked when that guy had bouncer stories for a little while there and then all of a sudden the renown went to his head or something and his threads got deleted or some craziness. Interesting stories though. Also, if it counts, the glory days of heartiste and roosh going "crazy". Heartiste had some of the most readable material out there and it was insightful as well. As for roosh, I remember when he first started doing the "roosh hour" or whatever it was called and he actually was taking discor… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Ltr just posted a bikini pic on ig, what should I do?Need more info. Post link. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Read This and You’ll Never Struggle To Lose Weight AgainI used to tell people all the time that you will get tired of eating before you eat enough chicken and vegetables to get fat. I'm a big fan of eating only meat and fat along with a multivitamin to cut these days though. Helps circumvent feelings of tiredness in the gym as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Considering buying a barbell set and rack. Thoughts?I have a power rack and some weights but it just doesn't compare. Unless you're gonna put in some real money the gym is better. It was nice to have during quarantine but now that my gyms reopened I can tell it's way better. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to a Man's Hands like we are to her BreastsStay tuned for my post on how to date on reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/20 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to a Man's Hands like we are to her BreastsIf the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Approaching girls jogging?Not the ideal scenario but think of it this way, you're probably never going to see her again. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Why is so much of the focus on women?the purpose of pleasing women If anyone here has this mindset then they need to pull their heads out their asses. I was just thinking today about how much more satisfied I am with myself being in shape vs not. Women give more attention etc but there is an internal feeling of satisfaction I have for myself because of it that really keeps me doing it. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a chance if there’s pro athletes hitting her up?I always find it funny how women will brag about fucking some pro athlete or some quasi famous dude. Like bitch, don't glorify your pump and dump. You're just a breathing fleshlight here | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | I'm angry towards women close to the wallHere's some actionable advice, date those girls. Nut on their face. Don't ask, just do it. If they say not to do it again, tell them don't come around again. Eventually you will get that anger out. And it will end up on their face. IF after doing this a few times you're still irrationally angry, seek help. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 11:59 PM |
| 24 | Why is it that girls are better looking in richer areas?Correct, I'm glad someone mentioned this. I forget where I read this but even some semi-famous female psychologist(?) designer(?) said there are no ugly women, just lazy women. Which has some truth to it. Point is, rich chicks tend to put in the work and more importantly the money. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?In my experience, if your dick isn't inside her at some point during a first date, you're not seeing her again. And even then not for sure | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Everytime I send a face pic to a girl she gets dry, why?"7" is a bull shit number on the scale. It's the "nice" of the 1-10. It really means you're not ugly but you're definitely not hot. If everyone doesn't consistently call you an 8 or better then you're above average at best. 8/9 is people admitting you are in fact good looking, 10 means they love you. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.I don't think our friend here can get past all the "noise" of modern society to understand what you mean here. If grug has a woman walk up to his cave and he already has 5 women, if he can feed a 6th he has 6 women. No other questions asked. That's how men are naturally polygamous. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.long distance relationship Even more evidence that LDRs do not exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.The best part is, she is talking mad shit about him to that guy. If only he could hear some of the vicious shit she is undoubtedly saying about him behind his back. How do I know? Logic aside, it's because I have been that other guy... to an extent. The girl in question was a very kind very sweet person. Very giving and nice to everyone but she loved me and not the guy she was with. She would tell me how big of a pussy he was in comparison how she would never deny me anything but she makes him w… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | How to become attractive in terms of facial features?I watched the gum chewing one and it's pretty funny to me. I've always been a gum chewer since I was in middle school. If you do chew for a whole day the first time you'll notice your jaw is actually tired the next day so there's gotta be something there. People do tell me I have a great jaw. Also, I'm going to add do not be a mouth breather if you can't breath through your nose, do something about it. Being a mouth breather has been shown to really fuck up your face. I'm sure any one in these v… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | 2 plates, they know each other we end up at the same party. Not down for threesome and ask who I'm going home with. WTF to do?That's actually pretty damn funny, what you did. Now both of them think there's even more girls. They could both break but that's the nature of plate spinning. Let the chips fall where they may, my man. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "This isnt a trap question" - im no simp but that surely means it is right?She wants more. I'd treat it the same as "what are we?" Hand on hers, we have fun right? They tend to get the message. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | How should I answer when a girl asks how much money I make?6 Million | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me out of nowhere saying that I'm ruining her relationship with her new bf."dont shit where you eat" has been getting out of control around here for awhile. Soon guys are gonna be using it as an excuse for not ever talking to women at all. I dated a girl from my city (I know, don't shit where you eat) | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | A question for mans above 30 getting with girls around 20I read a few of your other replies. Your ability to extrapolate is pathetic. Maybe girls don't like you because you're unimaginative and bland. Lacking in that is all the more detrimental when dealing with young girls. If you think this is "just be Brad Pitt" then give up and go for single moms. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 04:28 PM |
| 21 | Is the red pill big right now?You'd be surprised how much subcultures leak into the mainstream. Numerous things from demonized groups have shown up. If people like it, they don't care about its origins or anything else. That's a red pill lesson linked to why girls will always forgive bad boys but never a beta. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | A question for mans above 30 getting with girls around 20What makes you think anyone thinks you're 30? Do you remember anyone asking your age when you were 25? Let us ask the "Brad Pitt" example what would happen if he walked into a bar at, fuck it, let's say 40. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 3 | “You Were Born This Way”I get this perspective and how it aligns with your handle. Kind of like how old honest Abe said, "I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends." You kill the inner loser when you're not ashamed of him. I always enjoy these kinds of twists on dynamics. Trying so hard to go in the opposite direction when you can just flip the scale instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Hamstring exercisesLeg curl machine, the one you lay on your stomach. It's underrated | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Everybody sizing me up (outside gym)Obviously they want to grab your meat. This is the kinda bull shit I hate to see on this sub. You're not half as big as you think you are unless you're juiced to the eyes. No one fuckin cares and if they did who the fuck cares. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Pretty bad at small talk.In your example you could have just talked about the event. What do you like about it what don't you and if that dries up just ask, "so what do you do when you're not at things like this" and if she's lame about that tell her about yourself. If you're a red pilled man you should have enough interests that are interesting to other people that you can break through any sort of unfamiliarity and get into building rapport where she will more naturally tell you about herself and ask questions of her … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "why don't you talk/smile" shit test?If they say smile, say tell me a joke, if they say why dont you talk ask what they want to talk about and then talk or shoot it down if it's boring. If they say, "idk" say this is why | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | In my 30s, I'm increasingly become annoyed at friendsEven if you wanna keep em around you can still go do your own thing and just see them at special events every once in awhile. I'd posit that if you can't do that and still have a good time with them then they were never really your friends. I have numerous I don't see for years at a time but when I do it's still a lot of fun and no ones being a bitch | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Ever cut a date short simply because the girl turned out to pretty damn trashy, and felt it’ll be a bad idea to go through with it?Gut is normally the tie breaker. Good call. I did go out with a chick that she pinged this radar for me and it did end up being a mistake even though she was nice and cute and was a damn fine lay. If I could go back I wouldn't do it and that's knowing how good that sex was. She just did everything right. Still wasn't worth it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | are skinny jeans gayAs the heavily tanned guy said to me in middle school when i said boy bands were gay, "shieeeet aint gay if it get you pussy". The height of their wisdom tbh | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t approach girls at all, will you be a virgin forever?Counter question: are you good looking? Are you noticeably wealthy? Women WILL approach but very rarely and almost always they will be quite well under your own SMV. Sometimes a girl around your SMV will approach but there's a lot of factors, not the least of which will be how frequently you are in proximity of each other. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?I disagree and that is an expensive experiment which I flat out fucking detest but it looks like the one we're going with so I hope you're right. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?What do you think about the fact that even wealthy blacks commit more violent crime than their socioeconomic peers means? Are they all rappers and it's the driving factor? You people really want to act "based" but you're afraid to drill deeper. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 8 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?This is one of the red pills I was alluding to in my own response. The media has no interest in justice. Thank you, person who has more patience to explain it than me. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 6 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?I'd never LTR a girl that went to one of these but then again my views and the things I say she'd know to never bring it up to me or it'd never get this far. Some of you need more red pills but then again some of you are here to find out how to get white wimmens. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with “cute” languageWhen women say they "love" something about you they're testing the waters to see how you'll react to her saying she loves you. What you have to deal with, if you're wanting to keep it casual, is the push for relationship. If you shoot that down correctly you won't have to worry about the rest. I personally had great success with "what are we?" (which I bet that's verbatim what you're gonna hear) by responding (pause) "we have fun, right?" she'll get the message. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks what I think of a fat girlThat is not AA that is simply agreeing. Agree and amplify means you exaggerate it to the point that it's obvious you don't really agree. Now what's going to happen is she's going to let others know you actually thought that fatty was cute and you have been lowered in everyone's eyes and since she is a female and makes judgements by committee your value in her eyes lowers as well or she just straight up thinks you like fatties and she's going to get fat. Congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man strong?I took that as sticking to your own morales and maintaining discipline despite no one being around not all this you're saying. I can guarantee that you and I don't share the same idea of what is "right" and at no point did this guy try to tell anyone what is "right" and "being a man of your word" is not the same as "always tells the truth". It means you don't just say bull shit, you do what you say you're going to do. For example during quarantine and gyms being closed are you maintaining your f… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is doing drugs a red flag?Loose morally, loose vaginally. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.And like I said before, then what happens? You gonna try and convince her otherwise and negotiate? I shouldn't have to tell you why that's not smart. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Yes. If a chick says you're too old for her but she sucks your dick, do you care? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.The point is talk is fucking cheap. Only action matters. If she says youre too old are you going to try to negotiate with her like itll change anything? If she tries to dye your hair are you going to let her? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Then what happens? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.A girl at 18 has no idea what the fuck is going on. She knows how old you are and she is still on the back side of that point of life where she expects older people to know more than her almost unquestioningly. An indifferent "ok" to any of what she says is "amused mastery" to an extent but the age gap makes it more so because she expects you to be more experienced so she will try to figure out what you mean and why you're so ok with it. If you can make a girl ask herself "what does he mean by t… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.text "ok" Spin hamster spin @Edit: you fucked up | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you hide the fact you have money from women? Questions on women “liking me for me”I found it, I'll pm it to you cause trp is quarantined | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Do you hide the fact you have money from women? Questions on women “liking me for me”It puts you in the "beta bux" category in her mind. It might get you an initial lay but she'll try to get you to beta up real quick afterward. There was a real good example around here somewhere. Basically this chick was bitching on reddit about her boyfriend was a real cheap mother fucker, torrenting movies for date night, etc. and then she found out he was actually rich. She tried to turn him into a beta provider and he broke up with her. Look for that post and see what you can glean from it a… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | LTR said she wants to watch me with other women. What are you thoughts?That's what I'm fuckin sayin. There's only a handful of times dogma is allowed. Religion, government and in my fuckin relationships. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 07:07 AM |
| 10 | Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court?A cursory internet search and seeing a few images of her... the man could have chosen a much better looking woman to throw his life away with. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Albert Camus' view on the absurd, which is touted as an answer to nihilism, basically says something is important because you decide it's important and that's all it needs for it to be. I believe that could lead to being "passionate" as you say. It was sufficient in elevating me out of nihilism and I think anyone that respects themselves and cares about their personal growth enough to find their way here can identify with the idea of "It's important because I say so." | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!What do you think of the cucking of europe and its opening of borders to allow these proud cultural ideals to be trampled? Are they not just as bad? Or are you using purely a previous generation of europeans not corrupted by the current female-centric culture as your example? If so why not use the more wholesome previous culture of America? Too simple? I wouldn't say not educated enough as America during the time was the scientific leader of the world. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!This is exactly how I try to approach this whole thing. I have been a proponent of "warming up" to gain momentum for a while now and been giving that advice around here. Also, sometimes you do in fact get lucky and you go up to that chick that's been eyeballing you all night and she makes it the easiest thing you've ever done but it won't happen if you're in the corner stuck in your head. Even a race car doesn't start at 200 mph, get that ball rolling. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Oneitits for my ex's ass?I sometimes day dream about that chick that gave the best blow jobs or that chick that had huge tits or that one with an amazing body or that one that was a great fuck or that one that was a lot of fun or that one.... do you see what I'm saying? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Saw this guys post about his wife, pretty eye opening. Thoughts?He woulda had to do it a long time before this started but yeah I think so. He might not have gotten anal but I don't think he would've got cucked if he got in good shape. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to in the club ended up being a transsexual (transgender) or whateverEverybody just put their elbows to their sides after reading this | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:37 AM |
| 21 | Saw this guys post about his wife, pretty eye opening. Thoughts?What a fucking simp. And now I ask you, rhetorically, what is the first thing we always tell guys? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop my retarded HB 9.5 GF from getting a boobjob???Yeah some girls have been wanting boob jobs for almost all their life. I saw a grandma at the gym who definitely had her tits done at some point and they look pretty great. Nature sure as hell wouldn't have held up that long. I am unopposed to boob jobs. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I fuck my Professor?If I was you I'd wait till the end of the semester. When's it end? May? Maybe start chatting her up final week or two asking about summer plans and then try to get her alone somehow and try to pull. Gotta really avoid her feeling like she's risking her dream of whatever the fuck at school for some dick if she's how you describe | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony.More proof that main stream culture does not know what a "neg" is. Based off of everything I've heard from the type that uses that word, they think a "neg" is teasing someone in a mean way or being critical of someone but in reality that's just a miscalibrated mistake. Remember, the correct response to an actual neg is positive. Also, something of note. Notice how right from the hooooorses mouth we can see she expects double standards through out. It is fine for her to be borderline insulting bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like you have gained alot of muscle but still lack alot of strength?There's training for strength and training for size. Sounds like you do the latter. Strength training doesn't "show" as much. I knew a guy that could bench 500 lbs and he didn't look insanely muscular. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | old womenHow was she at blowin? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Does being in good physical shape somehow grant you automatic initial respect?"When people see a strong horse and a weak horse, by nature they will like the strong horse.” - bin lauden | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | my [23 M] gf [19 F] just cheated on me. this is her reasoningFake or not you are one dumb son of a bitch. Obviously fake though. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Cancer Risk & PromiscuityI called this from a mile away. One of those virtuous pussy eaters I see. It's fine if for some reason you like to do that but dick goes there and it's a submissive act so I'll pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 03:14 AM |
| 26 | Cancer Risk & PromiscuityI have read that the rise of degenerate "ass eating" has caused an increase in stomach cancer. Regardless if it is true it is a disgusting act that has risen in popularity due to our recent enabling up of backwards cultures in our own. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 2 | My son died. No will to liveThat's awful. My condolences. Ed. Thinking and coming back to this later, one of the main reasons to have "frame" is to make sure you don't get taken advantage of and to get the best out of a given scenario. If someone you know is trying to take advantage of you or get some sort of power over you during this situation you have a pretty clear sign that they don't need to be a part of your life. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal not to have a friendly rapport with people/staff at the gym?Pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal not to have a friendly rapport with people/staff at the gym?Don't date in high school or college is what I hear. Fact is, it's a matter of if you're willing to take a risk and if you can deal with the fallout. Do you know what the fallout is? You have to see your ex pretty frequently. Can you deal with that? If not, then yeah, don't do it. If you can then it's the same as anything else. You just ignore her. What if she bad mouths you and get a rep? That's covered in that write up I mentioned. If you do it right you guard against all downsides and if it g… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal not to have a friendly rapport with people/staff at the gym?I'd say you're normal but I'm abnormal. Those people that talk aren't serious or they're looking for instafollowers. Believe me man if you are in good enough shape or strong enough you won't be able to avoid people talking to you. Also, trying to bang a gym staff member isn't "shitting where you eat". It's not how you make a living. However, there is a right way to go about it. I did a pretty significant write up about it. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR Valentines DaySettle down there buddy. This is a tired question and you gotta have fun sometimes. Worst case it gets them to start thinking outside the box. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR thinks experimenting with another girl is not cheating.Well.... there it is.goldblum | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 10 | QuinceI know texas has been overrun but you cant just throw that shit around and expect guys to know wtf youre talking about. Theres people all over the world here | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Curious about this - just thoughtYou are hamstering. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Curious about this - just thoughtLiterally attention. She's signalling she's single and wants a mix of pity and dick | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:17 AM |
| 16 | LTR Valentines DayBag of skittles | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 4 | Why should men be like the father-figure type to the woman in the relationship/marriage?You seem to be in the process of regurgitating the koolaid of this poison culture. Start here: Men and women can never be "equal" in the way they talk about because they aren't the same. It's an apples and oranges thing. If you try to get women to act more like men or men to act more like women you're just going to get a worse version of both. Two things that can not be measured on the same scale can never be equal. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyDon't act cynical but be cynical is what I follow. The reality is everyone is out for themselves. Just always keep it in mind but there's no reason to act on it all the time. People love the bull shit veneer that we put on everything but the vast majority of people are extremely selfish and you have gotten a glimpse behind that veil. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I think I have a fetish but girl thinks it's weirdTbh I do like me a nice clean muff down there but I would never be disappointed with a girl if she changed it up down there. A nice little landing strip can be pretty sexy. I am a man, I like vagina variety. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 12 | Shirtless Tinder Pics?I had a tinder profile that was literally nothing but a shirtless mirror selfie with my head cut off. Still got plenty of interest. You can do it. It's just not ideal. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Was that a comfort test from my LTR?Wheres the line before you feel comfortable with other guys getting laid? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Met a cool chick, is she a lost cause?Here's your takeaway: The guy never asks for the relationship. Even if you want one. She has to ask for it. Otherwise you're just taking a stupid unnecessary risk. Keep in mind they ask for it in chick speak. "what are we?" and the like. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Dancing in Clubs, How to Escalate?I don't care what you think is trashy. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 31 | Dancing in Clubs, How to Escalate?As the man said, grab em by the pussy. Or rather escalate to it. When they're grinding, rub your hands on them. Start small, see how they respond, side boob here, inside of thigh there. Eventually you can just be full on grabbing her tits and rubbing her pussy in front of everyone and she wont give a shit. If you can't pull from there then I don't know what to do with ya. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Being Alpha - Athletes, Kobe Bryant and Vanessa Bryant -Ahahaha, I always wanted to see more like that around here but then again it's plebbit and that kind of stuff is "dangerous". | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a routine to get laid?Just do that but in real life. Knew of a guy that he would go up to girls at bars, talk to them a little bit and ask if they wanted to come home with him. If they said no, he said ok and went to the next one. Same shit as your "do you want to hook up or not". | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | I notice lots of men yell during a high-pressure moment when working with machines, is this panicing a weakness?I agree, it is bitch like to fall into histrionics whenever something goes amiss. I used to be a mechanic and I would curse constantly while fixing something but I was cussing at what I was working on, not anyone else. I'd say what they're doing is tantamount to that pointless scream women like to do when something happens. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 0 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?The gym should be a given around here. “No citizen has a right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training". Personally, if I was unable to take an active hand in shaping my son in social dynamics I would give him a copy of "The Game" over any of those other books out there and tell him to talk to me about it after he's read it. Yeah, Neil is a bitch these days and you could call this a form of survivors bias but it did set me on the path to getting good with girls and it was an enjoyabl… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?Tough love is the truest form of love. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Negs still work: field reportThat is what I have referred to as a neg for a long time, so you seem to know your stuff. I especially agree with the last part. If I could say there is one rule you have to follow above all others it would be, do not be boring. It's more important than be attractive don't be unattractive. You could split hairs and try to point out that a part of being attractive is being interesting but that would be boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | GF is an amazon, asked me in a joking way if she was too thicc for me?Which is also a good response to this question | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Addictive? Seems like you'd have to try for that. Biggest danger I ran into was you sleep like the dead. If you need to wake up on time I wouldn't use it | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?You mean alcohol? I recommend it | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there a version of the resting bitch face for men?I have this. I like it this way. Those women lied to you though. They weren't going to approach you. If a woman is going to approach you she's going to approach you. Every time one has approached me it has always been at a shit time. I was getting ready to dead lift 600 lbs and a chick came up and asked "are you lifting that?" | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?TRP is borderline mainstream nowadays This is true. Borderline. Surprised how I can hear the word "neg" randomly. They have no idea what it is but then again neither do a lot of the guys around here | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you balance BJJ with your lifting routine?This is true. It takes somewhere between 2 and 3 weeks before you acclimate. I remember doing two a day work outs being exhausted the first two weeks and then suddenly acclimating multiple times. Your body just takes it as normal at that point so you don't feel tired. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | So I hard nexted my ltrYou did the right thing. If I have a ltr I love I don't mind trying to make more time for her, in fact it's made me a lot closer with some of them. However, if you don't have the time, you don't have the time and if she doesn't understand that then she's going to grow into nothing but a pain in the ass. Simple as that. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with onlookers when approachingColloquially referred to as, "the show". They will be listening, and they will be judging but they will not be remembering. It's just something mildly interesting and they're just waiting in line. Even if they do remember, you'll never see them again, most likely. Just remember if they had the balls to talk to strangers much less hit on girls in the first place, they'd be doing it, not you. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?This exemplifies some of the guys mentality around here | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youI haven't been in this shitty of a state but I have gleaned what it's like to be homeless, twice. People really do not give a shit about you. It was almost fun and at very least gave me more perspective of the world. I say almost fun because it was only for a night each time and it was interesting to see how resourceful I could be. Each time I was black out drunk at the start and sobered up over the course of the night in a bus stop. Met a number of interesting characters the first time but the … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | 23 and starting to bald, when is it time to say fuck it and shave it? Pics includedyayish http://haircutinspiration.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Buzz-Cut-Tom-Hardy-500x721.jpg | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | 23 and starting to bald, when is it time to say fuck it and shave it? Pics includedI'm not a fan of the shaved bald look personally. Mines worse than that and I just keep it cut short. The good news is, if you're facially good looking you can just wear hats and not worry about it | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 0 | LTR doing 4 month internship in south africa. Is the relationship doomed?Was with a girl that sounds similar to yours that did a good amount of traveling for work and I was never worried. But I never suspected her of having yellow fever either. I haven't been so embittered by the red pill that I expect everything to always go wrong, I just act accordingly when it does. I'd let her go and if she starts acting weird while over there then consider studying some wild animals of your own. Sidenote, elephants might be my favorite animal after dogs so I could understand goi… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Good bye Red PillHere, have a dose of reality. You won't be missed. That said, you're making the right choice. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls who like to subtly brag about their sex life and or the attention they get from other guys?You're going to hear "shit test" a lot here but to those guys everything is a "shit test". How you respond is important but here is the bottom line: The chances these girls will make good LTR material is low but it's partially your fault. Women mirror the men they admire. As another said, she sees you as a sexual being that every girl wants so she wants to be at your level. Since you obviously have no interest in this stupid shit (she's always noticing when girls do it but you don't notice when … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | "Be yourself" is such bullshit it's not even funny, anyone else agree?Seconded. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit test? "If I was born a guy would I have a chance with the female version of you?"How big are my tits? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 3 | What to say when a girl says “If only you were 2 inches taller”Define childish comebacks. As a grown ass man I have still yet to see any "childish" comebacks go poorly if they were funny. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What kind of shit test response works best for you and why?"Not in Trump's America" | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 09:18 PM |
| 27 | LTR being corrupted by TED talkFor my own curiosity, was this TEDx? Cause they let anyone do those. What you did is fine. Personally I subscribe to the idea of don't take advice from anyone unless they're someone you want to be like. I'd just ask her, do you want to be a (probably) fat lesbian? If so then yeah you're right, get out of here. A synonym for not giving a fuck is indifference and when you internalize the fact you can not make other people make good decisions it comes easy. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Dear TRP: You were rightI'd say this is an important part of this whole thing, doing this type of experiment. Not just seeing that this kind of stuff works but verifying that the opposite does not. Even more so that it will undo all the work it did do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I live with my parents. How do I ask date to meet at her place (she stays alone) or go to a hotel so we can get physical?So anyway I started blastin | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Upset about the world and people since my last travelDon't be dense. I'll be as vague as I can without hitting on the real issue, since this is still reddit, while still being helpful. Basically you're getting glimpses of true reality. First world society is like a dream compared to the rules of nature and there are still parts that cannot be circumvented. We cite briffault's law all the time around here for example. When you decide to forget that we are in fact predatory animals and that death is as much of a part of life as life itself, then thi… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Why, and how do I stop my seething hatred of women.Yeah yeah life's unfair. You were born a man instead of a hot woman so people don't instantly love you. Such it has always been. You're gonna have to come to terms with it. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Wife asked husband to list 6 things she could work on, he got her 6 roses instead . How to win friends and influence peopleUndermining expectations is game. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Im 22 and am pursuing a 29 year old, what are key differences in attracting girls my age and girls her ageThat she sucks. As a guy in that peer group let me tell you, the VAST majority of females this age are low quality and didn't get snatched up yet for a reason. There are some that don't suck but if we focused on margins round here we wouldn't be TRP we'd be the relationship sub. To sum it up, they tend to have bad personalities. If you want to put up with her just maintain frame and by that I mean don't let her shake you. Chances are she has some real feminist ideas in that head. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 9 | Anyone military? Ex-military?More girls than you seem to realize have one of those "woe is me" stories. Brush it off. It has little to nothing to do with you being ex-military | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell the difference between banter and someone talking shit about you seriously but lowkey?How well someone takes it being done to them can indicate their intent when they do it. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted my ex - gf and she’s contacting me 4 months later for closureThere are some girls you've been with that deserve to get "closure" but this is not one of them. The types that deserve kindness and warmth after the fact are the kinds you didn't want to leave but had to. The kinds that were good to you and worked to obtain and keep your trust. These are not girls that you get up and ghost one day. One in particular that I knew, if she contacted me I would reply 100% of the time. She knew not to ever play games with me and she helped me through some really roug… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 14 | How to game leftist women who know about the redpillersDeny deny deny. If they accuse you of being one ask her if she supports all those causes because she enjoys being labeled or if she just does it to label others. Tell her it's just how you are and you don't know wtf she's talking about. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Mocked and disrespected by studentsI would want to smash those kids into the wall but there's nothing to be done. Don't forget they are children, what they say does not matter. You did the right thing. Eventually you should grow numb to it just from being exposed to it so often. If they aren't your students you can't really do anything about it. I'm sure whoever is their teacher has already given up on them because they are trash so you would more than likely just get them mad at you if you tried to discipline their class because… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Is it true chewing lots of gum all the time chisels your jaw (enough to be worth it) or is this broscience?I've chewed gum a lot for years and I have been complimented on my jawline many times. However, I don't think it's related and people that think otherwise are reaching. I think not being a mouth breather in your growing years has more of an effect and there is actually some science out there about it, if I recall correctly. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How to de-escalate with aggressive guys without looking weak?Maybe it's your tone with your "my bad". Some guys will straight up run into you and say that in a way that is worse than not saying anything at all. I know a few times I've gotten that from someone and it almost got their ass handed to them. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you AMOG a court jester?These examples are mis-calibrated for the vast majority of night game since the reason most people go out is to have fun, they risk coming off bitter. That's my point. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 06:42 AM |
| 8 | How the hell do you AMOG a court jester?Alright Mystery. Anyway, these are the trappings. You can easily get forced out if you try to force your "vibe" before you've won over the group and people love their comedy relief character so watch it. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 23 | How the hell do you AMOG a court jester?Pretty solid advice for undercutting someone but it's not really funny. Some people will pick up on what you're doing if you play this game too long and think you're bitter and just ruining a good time. But I understand these are examples and so are very generalized. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | I live with my parents. How do I ask date to meet at her place (she stays alone) or go to a hotel so we can get physical?Do you not have a basement? I banged plenty of broads in my basement when I lived at home | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Dick size shit tests? LolDef some truth to this. Had a gf that damn near refused to have sex with the lights on even though she had a damn fine body and was adamantly against receiving oral. I'd bet it's because I could feel she has some roast beef curtains down there. Didn't bother me one bit but I alway thought it was funny. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 06:48 PM |
| 13 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?I feel very complimented | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Do women orbit?They do but it's hard to diagnose if she is or not in this case but most likely not tbh. A lot of factors, maybe she wants to rectify her feelings for being unable to pin you down, maybe she wants to feel connected to her old life now that she's becoming famous and you seem to be heavy into socials too, etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubI am of the same mind as you, in fact I view it almost as ladder climbing. Once you get one it's easier to get two and eventually you do find one of quality that also wants to have a relationship and you drop all the others. The fact that once you get out of a relationship it can feel impossible to get another girl even though they flowed like water before is tantamount to being back at the bottom of the ladder. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Ok so this girl and I got in a beef and now she telling people about it in homeroom which are people I’m cool with but she closer with them than I am with them so I guess it’s making me look like the “bad guy”.If you wanna know more details ask below :[Ok, zoomer. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:50 PM |
| 18 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?Stopping on that first pull back probably fucked you over. If there's one lesson I've learned it's go until that bitch gives a hard no. Sexual tension is not comfortable if she's into it she's going to feel nervous, anxious, apprehensive but if she goes with it she goes with it. The most terrified I've seen a girl is also at the times I've seen them the most horny. Sounds fucked up but that's the female animal for you. Fear is heavily linked to female attraction. The only red light you pay atten… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How to have the abundance mentality when you don't get girls in abundance?Abundance is relative. It all comes from if you have more than you want in the first place and that goes for anything. I have an abundance mentality for how many plants I have in my house, I have none. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Perpetual red pill rage: are some men better off MGTOW forever?I think you could use a different approach. You probably visualize it all as going up to girls at a bar or day gaming or some other such shit. That sounds and feels like a chore for many guys. Go out and do stuff. Lately most of my opportunities have come from just doing things out in the world. No day game, no night game, just living and doing interesting and fun stuff. I plan on taking a dance class when the next enrollment comes and after that I plan on taking a music class, haven't decided w… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over gf slept with ex right before commitmentRecognize that the reason you now care is because she showed you that she actually is of some quality and now you take her seriously. It's pretty childish if you think about it. When I was young I used to ruminate a bit about how I didn't like that any of my first girlfriends had ever been with someone before me. I wouldn't say she has given you any reason to break up with her but she has given you reasons to not. I broke up with a girl and she went and fucked a guy and told me when I decided to… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do all high HB girls do this?Maybe she sees all your hand wringing and is on to your tricks | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?Happy to help. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 0 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?Funny how it works like that huh? Yeah yeah, you're sad. I get it. I've been through it, it's a matter of will. My original post doesn't much go into the fact that I've been through all of what he's asked about because it is in fact the least important part. It is looking for pity. Be a man. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?That's why we all come here, we're looking for that wake up call. Even now some around here aren't ready to hear this. They still want to wallow. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 11:22 PM |
| 5 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?Not so much "embrace" as lean into it. That's been something I've done for a while now in many aspects of life, it almost becomes reflex. When you hit friction, you push against it, that's how sparks are made. Don't take that too far like I did though. Like I said I almost became homicidal. That's TOO much of taking whatever you want. Fight Club is an oft mentioned story in these parts and what I really took away from it was: It's only when we have nothing, that we can do anything. If you really… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 10:14 PM |
| 5 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?I think being suicidal is childish thinking. The edge I almost fell over was becoming homicidal. Suicide is entirely antithetical to TRP ways of thinking so if you're here you should be on the right path. If you care so little for the world then why not use that indifference to go and do whatever you want? What's the worst that can happen? You die? "But some things are worse than death!" That's some horror movie/dramatic bull shit. Do you imagine you got trapped in some psychotic amateur surgeon… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | LTR potentially racist or am I overreactingIf it's not a hard R then that person is not racist. I use the hard R so I should know and I will still give you advice and say you're overreacting. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | "Why aren't you thinking about sex like all 30 year olds?" Wtf kind of a shit test is this? What's the best way to response?Man's gotta eat. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 04:41 PM |
| 60 | Girl I rejected at the gym is walking around telling people I’m gay .Ignore. Seems like you don't care about any of the goings ons in the gym anyway right? So why start now? Besides, it's 2019. No one gives a shit if you're gay or not. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Sister's friend is reading my text out loud to sister and othersHeartiste used to refer to this kinda shit as the "Jumbo-tron test". If you would be embarrassed to have the texts you sent to a chick displayed on the jumbo-tron at a stadium then you fucked up, is the idea. She will show and tell her friends about your texts, especially at the beginning. Some dudes do this kinda shit too. Taking screenshots of conversations and what not to show others. Avoid those guys but with girls, it's basically unavoidable. Large reason why TRP advocates for sticking to l… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Your lossWomen think playing hard to get is attractive. She didn't like you enough to chase, that's a given but there's a chance she's playing that whole, "I wanted you to chase me a bit and ask again." bull shit that no man in the history of ever has liked. That's why men developed the idea of "preselection". If they have any genuine interest in you and see that you are already loved by women, they don't pull this nonsense because the dread of losing their chance compels them. They see that you have opt… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Do not let your mind be corrupted and consumed by the blackpill. My warning to some of the younger guys on here.Too many black pills can lead to nihilism. Things aren't always as bad as they appear. TRP is looking at and accepting facts. A black pill is taking a fact and letting it bring you despair, as I understand it. Like, you're ugly so life will be harder so you say fuck it and become a slob. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Observations from a Dating ClassI haven't been here for so many years now and not known these things. Everything I've said stands. Sometimes you just need to say the obvious to people that understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/19 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Anger issuesThere is such a thing as "the warrior gene" that lends itself to higher aggression but the thing about it is, it's not rare. Do you see everyone losing their shit all the time over every slight? No. That means you can control it too. I also have high aggression and I also am a large man but I've never been in a real fight. I understand the indignant feeling of some guy that you can easily destroy with your bare hands trying to act like he's hot shit but just like every other emotion you have to … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Debating/arguing on the first date?I normally think "do what you want" is some cop out shitty advice but in this situation I say do what you want. I debated a hot, intelligent feminist on one of our dates and it didn't hurt my odds. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Interesting Observations from a Dating ClassUmm ah, I don't know, let me check my schedule and get back to you, let's see There was a chick that has been giving me every signal in the book that I've seen a couple times in non-romantic scenarios so I ask her if she wants to get a drink sometime and she gives me her number. I tell her I'm free saturday night, she says ok, I say meet me at x at x and I get the above and my interest plummets. For the record she is not a young woman, she's not old but she is not young. She's around my age. TRP… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Do not let your mind be corrupted and consumed by the blackpill. My warning to some of the younger guys on here.I know the allure of the black pill. Nihilism is a way to lean into the pain. Ultimately you are the one in control of the time you've been given. You can succumb to entropy and despair or you rail against it. I'm someone who grew up almost entirely with negative reinforcement. I can't really recall any kind words of encouragement ever said to me in my childhood. This may come off as woe is me but I appreciate it now as an adult. It sucked as a kid but eventually I came to the realization that a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I Lowering My SMV By Going To The Gym With My LTRNot unless you're trying to hook up with me. Gym couples tend to be fucking annoying even if you aren't the lovey dovey type. Mostly I think you're not using your head. If you take a novice to the gym and they think of you as an expert they are thinking you are going to train them. Doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. Personally my gym time is hard me time. If I do agree to train someone they should feel very honored because I don't fuckin want to do it and not get my zen but I value them eno… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Whats The line between game and IDGAFWhat they mean is to be outcome independent. Most guys only get a taste of this after they've bumbled into having a few steady plates and have gamed a girl other than them. It does not matter if she likes you or not, on your way home you're stopping by one of your girls places and getting laid anyway, maybe you'll have her make you some food. You're more in it for the thrill of it. When you're just there to see what happens instead of hoping something happens then it doesn't matter what happens. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | "If you must break, break into a weapon, not into pieces."our anger isn't evil. It's not your enemy. It's a tool. Its letting you know that something in your life is wrong and needs correction. If your father did say this then he and I think a lot alike. I've said for more than a decade now that anger is the will to correct a problem. Break into a weapon is a nice saying and I think I know exactly what it means, it's the part about channeling it into something useful. The broken pieces can be sharp and used to move on. Something about life I've been po… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 46 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningWhen the student is ready the master will appear. Most, if not all of us, have had a run in with the female Id monster to some degree just like this man now has. If he wants to know why it happened, he'll find his way here on his own. Otherwise, he'll just call us a bunch of misogynists and go deeper into the wild blue yonder. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Was told something last night that I cannot get out of my head and just killed my confidenceI think when it comes to the jaw droppers luck starts becoming a factor for the majority of men more than most people around here would like to admit. And by that I mean the luck of her mood that night aka availability. Super hot chicks tend to get carted around places because the people that know her also want to be seen with her, even if they aren't going to bang her. For example she could just be waiting to go home all night and it doesn't matter that a good looking, smooth guy comes up and h… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Was told something last night that I cannot get out of my head and just killed my confidenceThey could be right but they also could be wrong. The question is, do you get girls? Do you get laid? If so, fuck em. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 27 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningDiscount, "sober man's thoughts, drunk man's words" at your own peril, especially when it comes to women because those "thoughts" are actually feelings. In my experience I have never had a drunk girl I was dating talk shit on me, ever. Not bragging but what they do instead is tell me how awesome they think I am. The closest I ever got to the opposite side was when a girl that has liked me for a long time got drunk on her birthday and in front of her boyfriend went on and on about how much she li… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | PSA for young men: You will almost *inevitably* get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things upA thousand times yes to this. Younger men come up to me asking me for advice fairly regularly and I always tell them the same things. In this order: Don't get hurt and don't ever stop. If you get hurt you will have to stop for awhile and everything you've gained will have to be regained. If you never stop going you will always make gains eventually but if you hurt yourself you have no choice but to stop. That PR is not worth it. Reel it back and go after it again when you're stronger. You will e… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Does being in a relationship with a girl automatically betafy you in her eyes?It matters on a lot of things. First, who asked for the relationship? If it was you then you fucked up. If she had to be the one to make it "official" then there's a good chance it's the guy she's in a relationship with. Objective SMV isn't everything that's why we talk about "game" and not just genetics, money and looks like we're a bunch of MGTOWs. I've seen girls treat guys that are higher SMV than their man like they don't exist because the girl actually loves her man. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 08:36 PM |
| 28 | Doesn't blowjob (traumatic experience)Is this chick your only option? Not your job to unwind her past "trauma". Some chicks really don't like doing certain things and when those things are things I really love to do I chalk it up as incompatibility. If she wants me to stick around she does it, otherwise I act like a man and go find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman perceive a drop in her SMV correlating to kidsI think what women do not understand is there is fuckability and marriageability. A young female with a kid can have incredible fuckability but her marriageability still takes a hit no matter how hot. I will fuck a single mom but I will not LTR a single mom. But because they still attract guys and fuck whenever they want they think they're still hot shit. Then they wonder why they can't keep a man. Maybe if I have kids down the line that changes but if I have no kids, my girl has no kids. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | LTR might move to Hawaii - Should I go?Moving somewhere for the sake of the girl is fully putting yourself in her frame. If you wanna move to hawaii do it but don't do it for or with her. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 11:31 PM |
| 10 | How to react when girls act self deprecating?You must be very new to flirting. In my opinion getting along with women is the same as flirting with them. If they're saying things like this the best way to deal with them is to switch between A&A and encouragement. "omg I suck", well I didn't want to say anything... and then they do something good, see? you're getting less bad already. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | EX is telling my friends I like butt plugs shoved up my assSeems you do the nose candy, do you really think you're going to be around people of moral character in the circles that shit attracts? Here's what you do any time an ex says anything, "she's the ex for a reason". Done. Two other things, getting defensive about anything stupid like this is like blood in the water to your friends. It was funny before but now it's hilarious. Lay off the yak. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Among white women, why do blondes, redheads, and pale girls go interracial so much more?They do but for left wing tenants it's the government paying the rent. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Among white women, why do blondes, redheads, and pale girls go interracial so much more?If you're getting a "right wing" vibe it's because personal responsibility and owning up to the fact that you are in control of yourself is a right wing tenant and TRP is about owning yourself. TRP is apolitical and I have no idea where you get the white supremacist part. The only overlap might be that scientific facts have become "racist" as of late. If you think that too then TRP is not right for you. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?Have you actually been approaching and talking to women or have you just been thinking about it and all the ways it sucks? A good approach should be like a good conversation. You've never had a pleasant chat with a stranger before? Do you not like talking to people? Maybe since you're still a teenager. When you get a bit older you'll start to realize having a good conversation can be a lot of fun but to be fair girls your age tend to be vacuous. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Shit Testing New RecruitsI think the names for these are script flipping or pressure flipping, something like that and it only applies in an obtuse way. I always just think of it as giving them an opportunity to fail. If they choose wrong, you know. For example some guy asked recently what to do when a guy comes up and asks your girl to dance. That's a test for her, not for you. If she says yes then you know what she is, a plate at most. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?That include the top comment? Curious what caused such a stir in replies. Any links to "control game"? I probably know some of it but have never heard of it referred to as such. I imagine dread and boundaries are big parts. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | There are no more beautiful girls left in “normal jobs”. If a girl is an 8 or above, she WILL be an “industry” girl.It was tinder but this was during the time that it was free and the new hot thing. My main point remains the same. I live in an area of over a million people and I have a lot of exes that have not left as far as I know and yet I almost never run into them or girls that I have simply gone on a date with. What I'm driving at is that should elucidate how many people you just never come into contact with due to the nature of your daily lives. Internet will allow you access to some that you just simp… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Should you ever date a girl that have a Billionaire ex-goyfriend, if you are not even a millionaire?Long story short, you now know about alpha fux beta bux. lozolzozozlozozlozl | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Attacked my "Brother in Law"You need to think this through some more. You talk about a conservative family would never do this? Think about the rest of this scenario. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 10:05 PM |
| 3 | There are no more beautiful girls left in “normal jobs”. If a girl is an 8 or above, she WILL be an “industry” girl.The super car analogy is old but that was the best I've seen it presented. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | There are no more beautiful girls left in “normal jobs”. If a girl is an 8 or above, she WILL be an “industry” girl.There is a third avenue to getting them, internet. No, I'm not talking about paying for one online. One of the problems with these girls has been outlined numerous times. Archaically they are "hired guns". For those that don't know, meaning they're paid to be there. They aren't there to have a good time they're there to get your money. This can make them hard to get because you have to jump through so many hoops just to get over that. THEN the game can begin. It is luck based and you aren't guar… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How important is game when your in highschool?Game is a way of showcasing value. In high school it is mostly self evident based off your reputation and what you do. Being a notable scholar athlete or standing above everyone else in almost any aspect should be all you need. I had the highest bench record in my school as a sophomore and was a starter on the football team junior year. That was all I needed. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Attacked my "Brother in Law"Well of course he wasn't light on her. They don't respect her anymore. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 09:22 PM |
| -2 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"Then be prepared and don't be a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 06:34 AM |
| -1 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"No, you read it again. What I said goes for everyone in his neck of the woods. Bitches afraid of their pride getting hurt with an ass whooping. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Is plating turning me into a hypergamous bitch?In the box of contemporary society what I said is the most accurate. I am fully aware of our true nature which you describe. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 01:16 AM |
| -16 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"Ridiculous. You think getting slapped is worth shooting someone? You're more of a baby than the guy in the OP. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 12:56 AM |
| 5 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"The joker needs to learn when to lay off. I'm pretty good at verbal sparring but sometimes if they're acting too familiar or you don't feel like putting up with it this is what ya get. Manners are for the sake avoiding violence and people forget that sometimes. Just because it's frowned on to react that way doesn't mean it won't happen or that they don't deserve it. Sometimes it takes less effort just to beat some sense into people. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Is plating turning me into a hypergamous bitch?I've thought for awhile now that to think "hypergamy" is only a female attribute is wrong in the sense that men also wonder if they can do better quite frequently. I think men are better able to handle it in general but the fact remains. To put it succinctly, there's always a runner and a chaser. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: VasiliyZaitzevThe bit about psychology is too true. The two biggest cheat codes in life are being good looking and being able to read people. If you're perceptive you can jump multiple, entire conversations ahead with people. They'll be impressed and the rapport will be increased rapidly with them. It's pretty hard to do and if you misread it has the entirely opposite effect but risk is a part of the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/19 09:01 PM |
| 25 | The main reason why lifting helps so much. I know this isn’t a questions but it felt important enough to share. IT GIVES YOURSELF PERMISSION TO EXPRESS AND BE YOURSELF.Have some balls and post it to the main sub. But while we're on the topic, I've always thought of lifting as the manifestation of hard work leads to results. It proves that if you put in the effort you get something out of it. You can literally see and touch the progress. It is a reminder of that and the fact that if you aren't putting in the work, you're falling behind. You'll eventually have to work your ass off just to get back to where you were before. It is struggle manifest. Lifting is one… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 3 | All the previous Asian girls I’ve been with have said European men are more favored over Asian men by a long shot. Does the Alpha/Beta dynamic play into this?There are statistics out there that white people in general are just considered the most attractive. The only one that has preference for their own kind is black women, go figure. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting a girl to swallowJust tell her it turns you on when she does that. Personally I don't care about swallowing just if they take the shot in the mouth and fully finishes the job. At that point I consider it their property. Do with it what you will just try not to get it on me. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:08 PM |
| 7 | Gen Z gameThe fundamentals are always the same. Social clout is the name of the game. However you want to get it is based on you. If you want to be some sort of social media bad ass then push some talent you have to the nth degree. That's why TRP preaches what it does, a lot of it is THE most generic shit to get ahead. Work hard, be fit, be sociable, always be growing. Opportunity only presents itself to the prepared. That goes for women as well. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How to be a playful guy?You're probably languishing somewhere in or around the anger phase, point is you haven't hit a milestone somewhere yet. The more experience you have in the world in general the more you realize it's all a joke. That makes it easy to make fun of it and be "playful". | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Taking creatine for the first time?It's not that big of a deal to take it. It gives you some extra ATP and helps reduce fatigue. Keep in mind that glucose is what causes your muscle stores to open so if you're on a low carb diet I recommend taking it around the time you have those carbs. Other than that I wouldn't say there's a specific time to have it in regard to when you work out. It's not caffeine, it's sitting in your muscles long enough you can use it whenever without issue. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | A girl I had been talking to for over a year says I'm an 8. How accurate are these claims?It's true that the chicks that will initiate with you are an indicator of where you're at. You're normally 1 to 2 smv points above them. This girl I used to talk regularly said I was an 8. Another case of pay attention to what they do not what they say. A girl that loves her man will say he's a 10 and that he's perfect. Anything less than a 10 means she doesn't really care she probably was just being nice and said 8 because everyone wants to be at minimum an 8. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Do I really need to be a man whore?Some things you do have to experience for yourself to understand and appreciate but it isn't required for you to become actualized. If you can handle women, know not to put them on a pedestal and can leave at any time then you're only missing something in the same sense someone who hasn't smoked cigarettes is missing something. If you've never had it you won't miss it, is it enjoyable? Yes. Do you need it to reach your potential? Absolutely not. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Concussions have made it difficult to multitask and forgetful. I’m bummed that I can’t work service industry jobs like bartending and serving.Welp, get ready to struggle. Take care of your brain the best you can, meaning no drugs or alcohol and practice memory and thought exercises to try to improve thoughts. If you wanna give some sad story about it's impossible then I guess you should take out that last part about blackpill incels. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Every girl I've encountered 18-21 considers their current BF to be the love of their life..?Were you born 25? I was sure I was gonna marry my first girlfriend after the first 6 months. First few loves are puppy loves. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Hit on by HB8 at clubNailed it. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Advice for eating a girl out for the first timeSure whatever. I never say this expecting anyone to agree, it's an agree to disagree thing. You can cut it however you want. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Advice for eating a girl out for the first timeHere's a controversial opinion: don't. I haven't eaten pussy in years and have never gotten a complaint and yes I still get blow jobs when I want. I have always viewed it as submissive behavior but if you wanna do it then of course, do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:58 AM |
| 4 | How do I get over the fear of not getting hard?Yeah but it happens round then too. A buddy round when were that age was worried he was gay cause he went floppy in his gf | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:30 AM |
| 17 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?Close. Nothing gets em wet like suing your ass | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | I used to be one of the top students in my high school, until I got 2 feminist teachers.Then you have received your answer many times over in this thread. Say it but don't believe it. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:02 AM |
| 15 | How do I get over the fear of not getting hard?Funny how a teenager is afraid of getting hard at the wrong time and when you're older you're afraid of not getting hard at the right time. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 10:39 PM |
| 39 | I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay?That can also get you in trouble if it's in your bedroom and you do the deed. Throughout the house if they can see the girl all giggly and shit into the bedroom you would at least have a leg to stand on. In our friends case I bet you he could have a consent form for them to sign and if he presents it to them correctly they'd probably just laugh and sign it. If they actually did get offended or something, well it's best to not risk it just for some dime a dozen puss. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Help with gym approachingI have a good amount of experience in indirect game in this area so I will tell you all I know. Whether it's sidebar material or not remains to be seen and ain't up to me. First, only do this if you can either: A. put up with working out near girls you either get rejected by or girls that are now exes. or B. Can easily change gyms if need be. That settles the whole "shitting where you eat" question. First of all, that "sexual connotation" shit is a bunch of nonsense. Every girl looks like a ho w… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of anxiety face?I recommend exposure therapy, I.e. put yourself in that situation until it becomes boring and then this won't happen anymore. That's the crux of a lot of TRP advice when it comes to social anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 05:10 PM |
| 5 | I used to be one of the top students in my high school, until I got 2 feminist teachers.Hard to give advice without knowing the subject. If this is English or some sort of literature class, well... There's a meme out there that says "Differs from my interpretation C-". If it's something more objective like math then you have evidence or they're all right and you don't study hard enough. I am one of the last people to diverge from the "be yourself" train but when you have no choice but to fake it, that's about it. Or you can throw caution totally to the wind and try to bang em and p… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | What are some risks a 17 year old can take to get out the comfort zoneJoin a club or some sort of after school activity or some weekend group. These are a lot easier to find and join in school than later in life. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How to reply to this shit test?If this was me and this was my gf I would say, Probably even more, you know women got those stupid brains. But I'm well known as a chauvinist in my circles. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Can you fuck a girl with orbitersThere's plenty of guys around here that have fucked cam whores, celebs, models and strippers. There aren't many women that get more free male validation from orbiters than them. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 07:26 PM |
| 6 | I need to cut my ex out of my life. If I do, she will immedeately fuck a bunch of dudes.Go fuck ten other women. I hate when people keep making acronyms out of everything. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I need to cut my ex out of my life. If I do, she will immedeately fuck a bunch of dudes.Block all her socials so they don't come up on anything. When I was younger I used to take the battery out of my cell phone and put it far away from the phone when I knew I was being tempted to text a girl when I knew I shouldn't. Put obstacles in your own path that while you're climbing over them you can think to yourself, "what am I doing?". Eventually it'll fade and you'll be back to normal. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Viewing ASKTRP/TRP at workI'll say what I said in that thread, the reason I get away with the fireable shit I do at work is because I am the one who knocks. If you're gonna look at questionable shit at work use your phones data you dummy. Most IT/QA/HR can see everything you do on a work box but they can't see that. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | The women in my office found my TRP-inspired private journal ramblings. How do I recover my dignity?I'm gonna let you in on a secret, the only reason I get away with all the VERY fireable shit at work is because I am the QA team. You fucked up mate. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Is it weird to go to bars by yourself?Is it "Weird? Yes, but if you're here you don't want to be normal (aka average) do you? It's definitely viable. If you ever need an excuse just say your friends are in the bathroom, coming later, whatever. If they ask you where your friends are, which when does that ever happen, you can say "you aren't my friend?" | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 84 | This girl I live with applied to be a "professional cuddler" tell me about herShe's delusional or she just lied to your face. If she thinks it's going to be sweet little old ladies she's in for a rude awakening. People like your friend make me tired. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 07:13 PM |
| 20 | LTR and trip to vegas. First red flag in 1.5 yearsHere's a better question. Are they boring? My buddy had a .... bachelor/bachelorette party for his upcoming wedding and we all drove to a big city in another state. For most of the time we were split up and the guys/girls did their own thing. Later we found out what the girls were up to while we were out getting wild at bars. They stayed at the air bnb, did puzzles and drank. It was a party type city and that's what they decided to do. If her friends are the type that are going to just laze abou… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Just had a reminder of why you can not teach everyone about The Red PillI think a more apt metaphor than "first rule of fight club" is, when the student is ready the master will appear. Even if you saw other guys talking about it, if you weren't wanting to learn or at least weren't curious, you wouldn't even have noticed them talking about it. That's the difference between hearing talk and someone talking to you about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | autoimmune diseases/health problems - talk about it?should not have children Time to get snipped then buddy. Your kids aren't guaranteed to get it. I got one my brothers don't. My buddy has one, his brother doesn't. To answer your question, they'll bring it up when they get comfortable with you, they'll bring it up to neg you or they'll never bring it up. Not something to really worry about. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Dear TRP, you where right, I was wrong and now I need your help.That's subconscious bull shit fucking with ya. She's good enough that your lizard brain is willing to look away from this because your lizard brain is dumb, lazy and has no foresight. It's a bird in the hand but this bird has the avian flu virus... better to go back to other bush. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Should I message all my tinder matches?I did the conservative math that most men can expect and if you message 100 girls you can expect like 3 dates. Low risk low reward. Hit em all up. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 12:24 AM |
| 4 | To women, men are all just losers until proven otherwiseIn other words: Briffault's law. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 11:38 PM |
| 2 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.Well, yeah. I was also considering that it was around a time that was significant in that relationship, I believe it occured in the same month we first got into a relationship. Anyways, I think you elucidated it for me. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.I think you already explained it well enough. Essentially I had a break up and I wasn't exactly torn up about it at the time but it was always on my mind. Almost every conversation for a pretty long time I would inevitably lead the conversation to talking about her without realizing it. Anyway I thought I got over her and months passed after that. Then one night I had a dream about her and I fell into what I think you could call despair for a few days. Long story short, I did a bunch of stuff an… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.You're probably mistaking me with someone else, I'm sure you got a few questions regarding this topic in this thread. I never said "a few days ago". What did trigger it was a dream so maybe "re-exposure" is right. I never had much in the way of being comforted in these sorts of things from other people so in almost every case of these types of extreme emotion I've had to get over it myself. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Kissed girl, apparently slut, now regretting and losing confidenceYou forget it. You might catch some shit from your friends but that's what friends do. Forget it. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.Not really what I was going to ask about but interesting nonetheless. Basically, is there a type or a name for something that after a year or more after the event invokes a feeling of despair for a number of days? I was wondering if there's something like a delayed reaction. I did get over it by reasserting a feeling of control over my surroundings I suppose, so maybe it's just what you're talking about. I quit my job and made a lot of plans but instead got a new girlfriend which as a matter of … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.Hm since you work in a ptsd lab would you care to elucidate something that happened to me and what it might be? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Date drains meIt's probably the lifting man. If you are hitting it hard and working hard in other aspects the dating is gonna be a bit of a drag. I think you'd be happier getting 2-3 plates and just chilling with each 1 or 2 times a week. If I relax for a bit after one of my work outs I don't wanna do anything. I used to walk in the door and tell my girl to head to the bedroom while I sink washed the junk after the gym because if I sat down it wasn't happening. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 5 | "I live in a third-world country, living in a city where it can get dangerous at night ... kept remembering when I got mugged a few weeks before... I'm worried about showing weakness to her."Duke Nukem? Fuckin rad. Gun is probably the best option but from my personal experience as a big man, it is one of the best deterrents there is. They look for easy targets not someone that might beat their ass. Obviously it's not an option for everybody though. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 21 | Favorite tricks to get the water gates running?Just get more imaginative man. Girls just want to have fun they say and a lot of that is expected to come from you. I've had girls eating out of the palm of my hand for the dumbest shit. Took a girl to the park and told her we were gonna jump off all the benches we came across together. I'd count down and not jump after 3 and laugh at her, we jumped off holding hands etc. Stupid shit. Look at the environment and think, if I was a bored kid what would I do? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Why do women do this?Ah. A true veteran. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do Asian women love weak, white, beta males?Solid response, americanized asians aren't as strict about it as their FOB counterparts but yes you are correct. In essence for our weeb friend, if he wants to get with an asian chick without playing beta provider game he should look for the youngest ones he can find. In fact now that I say that, the asian girls I remember in high school that were hot were massive sluts but now I'm almost positive they're all married now. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible for guys and girls to be strictly friends?All I know is my penis just ran for cover | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible for guys and girls to be strictly friends?In my experience every girl that I've gotten along with and was able to have fun with has given me IOIs at some point so in one sense I would say to have any meaningful interaction, yes there will always be some sexual tension. For women respect and attraction almost entirely overlap so if she has 0 attraction to you she probably doesn't respect you and if she doesn't respect you I don't think you could call her a friend. All of my friends girlfriends that I get along with have given me an IOI b… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Always getting shit tested walking into the barbershopI have no idea. I'm a white guy. The closest experience I have to it is I sat at the black kids table in middle school and high school and they loved talkin shit all day every day. I think it's just for fun mostly. If you like insult humor then it's pretty funny and it does feel good to land a joke on someone and everybody laugh at em. I'd say don't take em seriously. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Always getting shit tested walking into the barbershopSounds like you need to roll in wit ya homies and bust caps dog | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to a plate saying "I really missed hanging out with you"Yeah, it's fun. Indirect > direct more often than not. If you straight up compliment yourself you seem boring and conceited. The subtext is: of course, it's fun to hang out with me / I agree, it's fun when we hang out. Self-compliments are best when nested in a real response through implication. Sometimes you get looks from people that can't figure out if you did or not and you can just smile smugly at them. As we know occupying their thoughts leads to occupying their heart. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:31 PM |
| 11 | Why do a lot of the people in this community give terrible advice?Different levels of understanding. Show a group of guys a hammer. Some won't know what a hammer is. Some will know it's good for hitting nails. Some will be able to teach you the form of hitting a nail correctly. Some will be able to tell you the mechanics of the hammer, some the dimensions. Etc. A lot of guys only know a hammer is used to hit nails. Be alpha, don't be beta. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Can't come up with AA?This is one of the easiest and most basic ways to deal with shit tests, it's not even a clever tactic, which is why it's talked about so much around here. It's a bad sign for you that you have trouble with it. You must have an extremely low level of socialization. If your mind is going blank so easily your priority should just get exposed to social situations more. Be on the look out for opportunities to use it, not just in a situations involving you either. if you see an opportunity to AA for s… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Simple definition of Amused Mastery?I can give you a real life example that some will disagree with but it just proves the point of how people have different levels of this "mastery". I was at a party and I unknowingly was calling a guys girlfriend fat to his face. He slapped the cup I was holding onto the ground and I laughed at him for it. Some guys will be like "that's blatant disrespect I would have kicked his ass for that" blah blah blah. I was so much bigger, stronger and not threatened by this guy that his pitiful attempts … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 08:40 PM |
| 11 | How to comfort GF without being betaGeneral advice on comforting a girl: hold her. Tell her to talk about it and just hold her while she spills her little heart. You don't even have to be listening, women just wanna talk. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Handling Disrespect from Girl I'm Exclusive With"Failed a shit test" fuckin nonsense. Look man, it's all about how you want to deal with the never ending shit that comes along with a relationship. You can dance around it with AA, amused mastery blah fuckin blah and have it come up AGAIN and AGAIN or you can plow through. Sometimes you have to be a man and verbally pound it out. This is what they mean when they talk about setting boundaries. This is the important part of new relationships if you want it to last and be pleasant. When you get in… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)The only kernel of truth in what she's saying is that it stokes competition anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 09:27 PM |
| 3 | BF asks GF that he wants her to continue wear makeup and shave/wax body hair. This is what happens.And TRPS verdict iiiiiiiiiis...... of course axe that bitch. I'm not one to just say that myself but only at a time where a girl makes what amounts to a suicide grab for frame do I recommend ending it based off one event. The only answer is to leave, the alternative is she gets a pair of tiny balls in her purse. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being a "clown" /entertainer for women?Be a clown for yourself. Poking fun at girls aka teasing them is one of the most fun parts of having them around. Fun at other peoples expense isn't wrong and it'll help you to have "amused mastery" because it teaches you how to take, and make, a joke. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedI love getting blow jobs. Probably more than sex. I dont see a problem here | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Kind of fucked up my approach but got a number and going out for coffee. How the fuck do I escalate or get any kino in as an absolute beginner?When you're experienced/high value you can take a girl for coffee on the first date and bang in an hour, seeing as how you're inexperienced it might not be the best. It all matters how good you are at talking. If you are a charming mother fucker it doesn't matter where you take em. You can take a boring person to the most exciting of places and it will suck but you can take interesting people anywhere and it'll be fun. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Unusual reaction from a ONS; you guys ever experience women laughing at you right before fucking?You still fucked, right? This, including the laugh, was just her hamster trying to be like, "hey I'm not this type of girl but he's that type of guy right? ok lets do it." | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | What to say to a girl when you want to touch her on first dates?Extended hand holding is for LTRs. You can touch em, grab em, intertwine your fingers for a bit, shit like that but you don't just hold them. That's way too familiar. Hands are not how you want to escalate anyways. I remember there was a guide on this and it was something like elbow -> back -> side -> neck -> leg or some such. More on point, you do these things while you're talking, you don't say something to do these things. Just throw them in there when you see opportunity. Invade her space, s… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 06:02 PM |
| 6 | The aggressive slut vs the no-resistant slut -- ever notice this?Only aggro slut I've encountered was black. Shoved both hands in my pants in the middle of the bar. Too bad it didn't work out. She knew to cradle em | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else had an LTR who progressively looked worse the longer you dated?Gotta add, if a girl will not tell people openly "x(you) wouldn't let me do that" then she's on the downward slope. x wouldn't let me cut my hair, x wouldn't let me wear that, x wouldn't let me do y. That's what is known colloquially as "hand" in the relationship and she will try to not displease you. Now, here's the other side of that, you are guaranteed to hear from some fatty/feminist/slattern/another redundant noun "'let you'? No man tells me what I can do!". What does that mean? The same th… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | “Neg hits” and other stuff that sounds retarded when you read it.Yes. You basically spelled out what this whole thing is about. It's all a loose knit "group" (for lack of me thinking of a better word) of guys helping other guys because their culture and society failed to prepare them to deal with real women. I imagine it's similar to when one of those speech therapists deal with feral kids who never learned to talk naturally. There's no reason to denigrate the feral kid because no one taught them how to talk but talking to them in the beginning is going to be… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Lean like an mma fighter or big like linebackerThat makes sense then. You start getting that bulldog look at that size and it does start having the opposite effect | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Lean like an mma fighter or big like linebackerHow tall are you? I'm 6'2" I do mostly a strength program and float around 250 mostly and I get a ton of female attention. If you were 6'5" and 250 I'd be truly amazed they didn't like it | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 10:11 PM |
| 17 | Lean like an mma fighter or big like linebackerThere's the answer. Girls will always say, "I normally don't go for guys like you" if you're not the "type" they like as long as you're some type of fit and have the game/confidence to get the fuck in there. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Finally met a respectable, feminine, old-school, woman— the problem is she expects me to pay for everything.Matters. Does she make up for it in other ways? She cook, do your laundry or anything like that? Does she buy shit every once in a while? If not then you should consider telling her you like traditional women but there's a lot of fakers these days so It'd help her to pick up some tabs so you know she's not fake. Good chance she'll get mad about being accused of being fake so look out for that and stand your ground. Maybe AA and smile at her and say, see? A trad woman would listen to her man! | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 07:12 PM |
| 12 | I’m awkward at saying goodbye to people.. I know it sound a bit stupid but it’s just a little niche I want to improve at. I feel awkward exiting conversation sometimes I don’t know the proper way or I feel some sort of resistance?? Not sure where that comes fromPart of finding something amusing is being surprised. More to the point it's undermining expectations. It has a lot of subtext as well. I leave when I want, I'm not over eager to see you again, I'm not trying to drag out this interaction, etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Aww don't get butthurtI'm guessing you were going with "mysterious" game all night based on "to catch a vibe" which is a tough game to play because it tends to mean you have to be laconic. I woulda said, these buns of steel? never. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Coworker of girlfriend shit talks me. How to handle competition properly?I had a kind of similar situation with my first girlfriend. There was a guy that would actively lie about me and talk to her a bunch. He's just a bottom feeder. He's waiting for his scraps like a hyena waits for the lion to be done eating. This is a true beta game plan, what else to say? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Mate gaurding in club with fwb.Best way to put it is, competition is for suckers. Just grab her and start walking off with her, that's my go to. No reason to treat it as anything but a fact of life that you're taking care of. If she resists, she's a shattered plate full stop and you act accordingly but the norm is she comes with you and she gets turned on. Best part is, it doesn't look like you're "guarding" it looks and feels like you're just taking what's yours. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 11 | I’m awkward at saying goodbye to people.. I know it sound a bit stupid but it’s just a little niche I want to improve at. I feel awkward exiting conversation sometimes I don’t know the proper way or I feel some sort of resistance?? Not sure where that comes fromThe more abrupt the better. People find it amusing. Walking a chick to her car, she gets in, make out real quick, "alright bye" slam door. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Matched with me to talk shitI'd say she needs a little sweetness to know you're not a piece of shit. I'd say, then that must mean you're a dream. Don't forget you're playing a low stakes game. No reason to get upset. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I can't respect women. Am I a misogynist?Sounds like resentment. Work on it. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 04:40 AM |
| 4 | How would you guys approach getting a hook up at a party?How bout bring a date. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Finding a woman who has her shit togetherMost of the ones that "have their shit together" aren't going to be that good looking. They're the ones that have made peace with the fact they aren't going to be a rich man's wife and will probably have to be a part of a dual income household AND they have to be reasonably smart. Does that sound like the type you're going after? I doubt it. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Girls like teasing less as we get closer?I like to pull her pants down when she walks by me when we're just hangin out. Never gets old if you do it right | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 06:32 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with an abundance of hot chicks?Holy shit, kid. You're supposed to wear a helmet when you play you know that? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 11:12 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with an abundance of hot chicks?I'm sniffin some bull shit here. I played football at an all guy high school and it wasn't as complicated as you're making it sound. You're tellin me you don't get invited to parties? You're tellin me these girls aren't at these parties? The answer is whichever one is there at the time. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 10:59 PM |
| 3 | How to downgrade an LTR to the plate status?If this were a time before the internet this sub would essentially be a men's club. If two senior members came to the conclusion that you deserve to be shunned, for any reason, you would be shunned. I didn't say any of these things because I love either of these two oh so much but because this kind of structure based on esteem is emblematic of patriarchy and if there is something we like around here, it's patriarchy. There's ways to compose yourself with men and with women. Men, especially those… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How to downgrade an LTR to the plate status?Do I have to write you an essay to explain what I said? You're just contradicting yourself. You want answers but don't want to listen to the proven members? "Think for yourself", why did you even come here for advice if you think this is being a mindless sheep? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 6 | How to downgrade an LTR to the plate status?I figured something like that response was coming. This is indicative of why something like this sub has to exist in the first place. The culture of showing respect to those that have much to teach has been destroyed and that's why a stupid little ingrate like you now has to come to the internet and bitch about how you can't laid and cry for help. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How many plates is too many for you?I like 3 personally. You can see each one twice a week and still have a day to yourself. It can back fire a bit though. If you're seeing girls that often they're gonna fall for you and try to tie you down. It's more of a mLTR setup to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 7 | How to downgrade an LTR to the plate status?Hmm, I have actually actionable advice on how to achieve what he's asking about because I have managed to do this successfully twice but I'm not helping anyone that is being called a troll by endorsed members. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 9 | Plate shit tests by spamming insults, how to handle?Are you always like this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Tell me if I've got this right.You can get those women before then but you have to be high value. Most guys don't have the value to stop their sexual rampage and make them want to settle down early. Marriage is a point of great contention around here. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningPoint blank, she lied to you. If you let it slide she thinks she can get away with shit. You confront her, you look like a needy bitch. Plan your exit strategy but don't just walk out, apply dread and see if she works it out. She at least still likes to flirt with the carousel. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | New hot coworker actively avoids me in the office. IOI or IOD?Good post. A quality, seemingly needed, call to the carpet. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Dudes who used to have short fuses, how did you evolve to DGAF over moderate to highly fuse-lighting stuff?I never had the intention of quibbling over the interpretation and expression of emotions with the men here, much less a woman that wandered in here. This says something about your boyfriend and only your boyfriend. What I said is simply an example of how people will react to an actualized man versus one who has work to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 20 | Dudes who used to have short fuses, how did you evolve to DGAF over moderate to highly fuse-lighting stuff?I completely disagree. Anger is the emotion of desire to make change. Things I have no control over never make me angry. Throwing a tantrum is acting like a child. There are masculine, grown man ways to express your emotions and there's childish ways. You'll know the difference when people don't take your anger lightly. They know it's a deep and thought out reaction. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | "People eat ass nowadays."When it comes to cheating you either have it in you or you don't. She'll cheat with some other guy. The only question is if you want to be an accessory to it, I'm guessin you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | "People eat ass nowadays."If she's letting you touch her all over but not letting you kiss her, see how much she's willing to touch you. Take her hand and put it on your junk. She might not kiss your lips but she might make out with your dick. If you had her do that then when she said this infamous comeback you could have said, "Then suck my dick instead." ESPECIALLY since she was loving being told what to do. To me what she said would have pinged in my head that she escalated. I'd say you blew an opportunity. It'd be qu… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Guys and girls being friends?That's not what they're talking about. You know how to be a friend to guys right? Just be that for a girl, if she is also a friend to you. Such as helping you with school, shit like that or whatever girls can help you with. You can be friends with girls and oddly you can only do that, in my experience, if there is some sexual attraction. With women respect is a form of attraction and respect is necessary for friendship. If there is no respect, someone is using someone else and that's the whole t… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 07:50 PM |
| 0 | I feel like TRP is not like it used toI doubt you get metaphors, analogies, similes, etc. since this isn't your native language Mostly a pointless post I would say, let alone the fact that as you grow and learn you view what you've been learning differently. As stated in other comments, it's a journey and where you start looks different when you're further down the road and there will always be posters unworthy of doing so but this is the internet and this is a forum so they will always exist and so will the misguided idiots that th… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Advise to stop smokingI was an on off smoker for a few years. Never got up to a pack a day. Normally lasted me a few days. The way I always thought of quitting was, you have to give up the first cigarette. The first one of the day is always the best and that's the one you gotta give up. If you have that one, you didn't quit that day. Whatever smokes you have, time it so the last one you have is the last one you would normally have. Then just don't buy anymore. If you smoke at all during a day, that day is shot. You d… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Girl says I am out of her league?"Sounds like quitter talk." How the hell is anyone supposed to give you advice on this. What are you wanting to do here? Whatever it is, do that. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Question About Charismatic WomenWomen aren't an entirely different creature, just mostly. If you're good at something you tend to like to do it. Work is boring and if she gets good reactions from people when she talks to them it probably gets her through the day and gets her the validation. For example, I like making jokes because I feel good when it lands. Not a lot of people around here make jokes because they're bad at it. If you see someone regularly exhibiting a character trait that probably means that's what gets them th… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 07:22 PM |
| 4 | How to finally accept that I am a high SMV man?Start doing the opposite. See what you can get away with. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Question for older men who have been redpilled for like 20ish yearsGood to know my feelings about what it's like are pretty accurate. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Why do bouncer looking dudes always try to start shit with me at clubs and bars?skipped the part where you're definitely doing something to draw their attention. This has gotta be it. As a big guy I speak from experience. Big guys do not start shit for no reason. It's like being a gorilla, they don't run around starting shit because moving that big body around feels like effort. You have to antagonize large guys. Size is already a massive deterrent and I never feel like I have to prove I can beat the life out of your average guy. Going up and starting shit pointlessly does … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Hair loss. How did this affect your SMV?Not a whole lot. If you look good in hats (i.e you have a good looking face) it affects it even less but then again I'm not full on mr. burns or anything like that. I have enough that you basically have to be taller than me to really notice and most people are not taller than me. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 11:10 PM |
| 3 | How can I stop hating myself?To be honest with you, looking back, I didn't even feel like I was alive until I was about 23. Everything before that feels like another existence. Not that those years were bad or anything, I had a lot of fun, learned a lot and accomplished some things but it just seems kind of grey in comparison. What I'm saying is fulfillment is not something you can expect as a teen, let alone an early 20s man. Give it some time and just do what needs to be done. You'll still have some good times as long as … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Overall was the sexual revolution good or bad for society?This is fishy. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Is it odd that she doesn't touch me in public and barely has any photos of us on social media?You're in trouble buddy. Think about your exit strategy. I'm sure everything that needs to be said as already been said so I'll say for next time (relationship) you make a few changes. Firstly, I have never had this problem but I have had the opposite problem of a girl complaining about how I ignore her in public too much and wishes I did what you're doing so I personally don't have any real world examples for what to do to turn it around but obviously DEER wasn't the answer. Second, I don't thi… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Most women want to be dominated and lead, and most are submissive by default even if they say otherwise. Why is this?Because that is firmware and all this sjw feminist bull shit is malware. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Men in the top 20 percent for looksReading these experiences, I must be in this group because this happens to me. Basically you get some freebies thrown your way but it's usually not the super hot girls that walk up and grind on you or come tell you how hot you are out of nowhere. They act aloof but when I talk to them their face lights up. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsI've spoken about the topic of SMV and fat loss numerous times around here but due to the tenacity needed to lose and maintain it I believe it's worth reiterating. Here's my very first experience with it. For some reason I haven't told this story yet. I was a high school football lineman so I ate however much I wanted of whatever I wanted and it made me a big strong boy. I used this excuse until the end of my football career and had to look elsewhere for my prestige. I'll tell you, if you're a b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I am bitter about my teen days and my past.Your neoteny is showing. Your views on suffering are cute. There's nothing to discuss. This is the most basic part of TRP and has been beaten into the ground. It's so basic you yourself know the answer you just wanted to vent to us. You have your direction, walk it. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I am bitter about my teen days and my past.At very least you just proved that english is not your first language. That saying has nothing to do with what I just said. Despite how stubborn you are about getting advice when you asked for it it's always going to be the same. Improve yourself and your past failings won't matter. Every mountain looks like a speck from a far enough distance. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I am bitter about my teen days and my past.And you not getting laid is making you bitter? Color me incredulous. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I am bitter about my teen days and my past.You know nothing of real regrets kid. Go fuck up your life some more and crawl out of it then see how much you care about that. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | ‘Body count’ shit test.If someone asks you your "body count" reply, "warm bodies?" | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?Probably the most surprising thing I've noticed about getting older is I have more and more experience and knowledge relevant to almost any topic. Someone will be talking about some obscure topic and I actually have something relevant to add or an experience or anecdote. There is rarely a topic of conversation that can come up that I don't have anything to say about. You should eventually get to that point as an adventurous and outgoing redpill man but for now it seems you're beating yourself up… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?You're probably trying to "tell it like it is" instead of actually listen. You know Socrates asked a lot of questions. You don't have to feel like a bitch if you're the one asking the questions. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | 26 and heading towards giving up. It does get better, right?It sounds like you know exactly what to fix. All that stuff making you feel bad is your brain telling you to fix it. It's ok to fail, it's not ok to give up. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Daughter has been touchedYeah there's nothing lawful I can think of, man. There are some guys that have kids and have had to fight this sort of thing and though I'm one of the older members I have not. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 12:31 AM |
| 13 | Daughter has been touchedLol, in Cuckanada? Where the Trudeaus bend over for diversity far and wide? Where the inmates run the asylum? A sane man in an insane world is insane. You're fucked man. That country needs a cultural collapse. Canada is US lite and it's a testing ground for all the bull shit they're trying to do to us. Sorry friend. The people that are supposed to deal in child safety are now the ones ensuring they're endangered. I could never give you any normal advice but maybe talk to lawyers though I'm sure … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Tips to improve muscle imbalance?Do more dumbbell. Imbalances often come from doing barbell exercises where you use both limbs on a shared weight. While doing dumbbell when your weaker side fails you stop. For legs you can do elevated lunges. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Well there ya go. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 07:46 PM |
| 4 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Well the Pope is catholic but yes you are right. Mainstream has corrupted it I'm not denying that. Your "fallacy" doesn't apply though. There's what it should be and what it currently is. Culture should be downstream of religion but they successfully subverted it with degeneracy and it has become influenced by culture. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I don't really want my friends to succeed more then me *sometimes*, does this happen to you too sometimes?Nobody likes to feel left behind but realizing writhing in envy makes you less of a person and using it as motivation instead is what's important. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 14 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Tolerance is not a Christian virtue and many people have forgotten that. It's been corrupted by embracing only the kind and loving parts and neglecting the strict parts. Think of that stereotype of a nun that could and would break her foot off in your ass for being left handed. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:55 PM |
| 15 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?It's the toxic culture. You're starting down a rabbit hole with this one. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How does lack of affection / sex change a man?As you can see, it makes a man feel undesirable. Going for a long time without sex or affectionate touching will make you have a strong desire for it, or "thirst" as they say these days. This thirst implies the truth, that you have not had any affection in a long time which can be interpreted as you being undesirable which then implies that there is something wrong with you. Women, being the more socially based of the sexes, want men that are desired by everyone so this implication is a turn off… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Social games are.stupidYou’re seeking emotional validation in a community that wants you to internalize your own worth. Bingo. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 0 | My fiancé is tainted in my eyeThat's a real bluepill thing to think. Men prefer to marry debt free virgins. There's nothing wrong with you. You just have to decide if it's something you can swallow or not. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about exYou get some of these. I was thinking about one today. Not the best looking girl I ever fucked but she was such a good girl and gave awesome head. She's the kind that if I lived multiple times I'd stick with her for life in one of them. But as far as I know we only get this one, so we soldier on. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madThe "eh" is directed at this "game" of whether to tell a girl you love her or not. Not at love. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madYeah. But brother, let me tall ya, it doesn't come from a place of pity. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | existential crisis - how to deal with it?You're assuming I've read all there is to know about absurdism. I've never even heard of the guy you mention. I merely read to the point of the idea of value in something existing purely because you decided it did and that was enough for me. I haven't looked any further into it. What other people think it is or have experienced with it is of no consequence to my own thoughts about it. If how I practice it overlaps with any other philosophy or it deviates from "absurdism" it's just me acting how … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 04:32 AM |
| 3 | My friend admits to having a crush on a girl through the phone and this was her responseYou sound like you're in high school | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 10:31 PM |
| 10 | How much do you guys bench?Sounds like a whole lot of bull shit but if not congrats on being super elite. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | existential crisis - how to deal with it?I think just about any philosophy that tries to explain the unexplainable or bring value to things that can't be valued has a sort of cyclical logic to it somewhere. With absurdism it's important because I say it's important. What makes it important? I said so. Ultimately most, if not all, philosophies are going to have a hard time making people satisfied but again you are the one that decides what determines what is "satisfying". I take absurdism as a form of accepting that you are in control o… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madI hate this game. A girl told me she loved me and I said "I know" and she looked so dejected and sad that I said it back. There's probably something to it but eh. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Going to club alone to meet and have fun with girls. How to don't look awkward and get some numbers?There's an escalating set of actions I like to use. Go up to a girl or group of girls, ask em if they know what time it is. Thank them if they give it to you, leave. Go up to a girl say, Hey I'm X what's your name? After she tells you say some variation of "Cool, I wanted to introduce myself." leave. High five a total stranger. That should get you rolling. If someone's an asshole or acts weird you just say "I guess i misjudged you" and walk away. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Going to club alone to meet and have fun with girls. How to don't look awkward and get some numbers?Do you feel or act awkward when you go to a club with friends? If so then my suggestion won't work. Otherwise, just keep in the back of your mind that if someone asks you can always say your friends are showing up later/they're on their way/they left but you like the atmosphere blah blah blah whatever. Point is no one will ever know you're there alone or you came alone unless you tell them so there is no point to psych yourself out because of that. Something else I'd recommend is, go warm up bef… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | "Friend" telling me that lifting is useless.Why lift when it's all about the face? I've seen ugly guys that are jacked get hot women. This guy is deluded and I bet his girlfriend is unattractive. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted a girl after vacation with her and meeting her family in the countryside. Right decision?Like I said. What is acceptable in a relationship is up to you and doesn't need to be justified by anyone. That would be what I would have you take away from this. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted a girl after vacation with her and meeting her family in the countryside. Right decision?That's fine. So why are you asking if this was justified. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted a girl after vacation with her and meeting her family in the countryside. Right decision?Based off your reactions to some of the comments here your frame is still, at least partially, stuck in societal norms. Any relationship you have can only suffer as many problems as you allow. She could be perfect but have a weird sneeze and decide that's more than you'll put up with. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | existential crisis - how to deal with it?Absurdism is the answer to nihilism. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Constant Shit TestsAh. Well that's a different analogy. That's a "tribe". I think our friend here is referring to people he doesn't know or acquaintances that you have to tolerate. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Constant Shit TestsWhy not | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Why do some men still act bluepill even if they got redpill aware from experience???I read about something called the "cognitive valve" a long time ago. Basically you're limited in the info of what's going on in your body because if you constantly were aware of it, you'd go crazy | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 02:12 AM |
| 4 | I Have a SecretI think this is an ideal example of what you're talking about. I would hazard to say this is our poster showing inexperience that this was even noteworthy to him. All women have some sort of "secret" or "tragedy" that they will confide in you when they start feeling comfortable with you and this wouldn't even be a 1 on my 10 scale for shit I've heard from girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How to game at a raveAny place where talking isn't an option looks, action and timing are everything. There's going to be a peak where the highest % of people will be off their face and that is going to be the best time to go after someone. Look for the girls acting the most outlandish, they're going to be the ones that are dtf. Do not waste your time yelling into someone's ear trying to talk unless absolutely necessary | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Buying Me Gifts?I want to just write you a book on critical thinking right now. I'll put it this way, if you like somebody a whole lot do you buy them things? And if not you, have you seen someone you know give gifts to people they like as a token of affection? Yes? If no then it is understandable that you ask this. Girls do this when they see you as high value and want to keep you around. This is them trying to work against the "gold digger" stereotypes and show that they "aren't like other girls". The irony i… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 07:04 PM |
| 5 | "I hate you"You can't be serious. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are we attracted to what we can't have?You know her face is based off a real person right? How bout you get a crush on her instead. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 08:45 PM |
| 36 | Woman wants her husband to get rid of a sex doll while refusing to sleep with himthis dude has over 30 years of life left and he’s giving up on sex completely? Oof. Man, I'm very anti-divorce but putting it that way I can see why people do it. It's tantamount to turning yourself into a worker drone till you're dead. What a waste. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 07:02 PM |
| 70 | Woman wants her husband to get rid of a sex doll while refusing to sleep with himAccidental massive agree and amplify. Well played, beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Why are we attracted to what we can't have?What many people don't understand is, the challenge is the fun. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 04:43 PM |
| 19 | The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From WomenDoesn't matter if she likes it, what matters is if she likes you. Who you're with makes a huge difference in whether you're having a good time or not. You're right but you seem to be emphasizing the importance of the location which is secondary at best. Have you never been in a crappy place but had fun because of who you were with? That's the aim. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/19 09:21 PM |
| 7 | The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From WomenTrue. This is also a reason why it is best to do what you want to do. For example: Let's go to x. Nah, I like y more. Ok, I'm going to x. Even if she doesn't want to come along it's still what you want. Especially pertinent when coming to choosing restaurants on cheat days. Nothing makes me more irritable than a wasted cheat meal cause it was shitty. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: CainPriceRoosh before he went crazy I think the fact he "went crazy" is what proves he's legit and actually has accomplished success with women. No man of sufficient thoughtfulness and self-awareness won't eventually find himself looking down a similar path to him after finding mastery over romance and seeing the gaps in life that remain. If you think he's gone crazy ask yourself if you're truly as enlightened as you believe first. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 8 | It seems that women prefer to be kept and controlled as opposed to letting them feel free. Thoughts?They like to feel owned not so much controlled. It's a subtle difference. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl called me low value because of my exSure but I don't need to see a pic to know what's up here. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl called me low value because of my exA shit test is a shit test, doesn't matter what "reason". | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Girl called me low value because of my exShe's testing your frame and it looks like you're folding. I dated a girl that sounds similar but I wouldn't call ugly, simply below me in looks and I wouldn't put up with someone bad mouthing her. She was a high quality person. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | I can only get girls by lying that I also want a relationship. But it makes me feel terribleWelcome to the psychopath angle of the dark triad. Two girls that I had on rotation are still in love with me years after the fact. It could be just talk but they claim to and I have seen, they have trouble in other relationships because they still think of me. If these aren't slutty girls they have a hard time letting guys of quality go after they've been around you for awhile. If they are sluts they just come and go. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Why are women ashamed of being women these days?Women are highly susceptible to the winds of culture. The culture says be a stupid, drunk, fat, delusional slut. So that's what they do. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get a bit sad sometimes even if everything else is going good?Is it normal to feel happy when everything is awful? I've been on both sides of that. Just do some introspection and roll with it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 10:54 PM |
| 2 | No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women.Yes. Absolutely. This is something that I think is very undervalued around here, the idea of ramping up. Those high quality women only seem to come out of the woodwork when you're knee deep in it anyway. Doesn't matter if it's 6s and 7s, you talk to that 10 the same way. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women.Almost assuredly we've all run across the girl that is highly interested, recognized it and fucked it up somehow. Either by over gaming because you're an inexperienced idiot or getting flustered because you don't know what to do. In these situations you are the pretty girl. They handle all of the work. They will ask you questions and talk constantly, they will follow you around if they can and all the other beta shit. There's only one thing you need to do. You have to break the barriers. You hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/19 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Why?What the fuck man. Have you never had a neg land before? They fixate on it. You run it till it's out of gas and if they're around long enough you can turn it into an inside joke. A friend of my first girlfriend ran into me many years after the fact and brought up that I said Rosie O Donnell was her lesbian girlfriend. I was a teenager when I said that. Also, all that stuff you said at the start, standard cock blocking due to boredom. That's one of the benefits of wingmen, they hit on the friends… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | You workout?I partake | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:21 PM |
| 8 | How to stop ass sweat?Use a manpon. Just stick a wad of tp in your ass cheeks. Big black mentions his manpon in rob and big. Normally only a problem if youre a fat sack of shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Is this an IOI?A lot of old fat guys eye fucking me around here then | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Cheat daysVery true. Cheat days are best saved for when you're at the weight you already want to be at. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | In the field right nowThis is where "getting lucky" comes into play. The logistics of everything is all fucked up here so it's looking bad. You getting her number is a road to nowhere though. Your best bet would probably have been to bang her in one of your cars. It's a long shot but it's probably your only shot. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:08 PM |
| 30 | Getting in the zoneWarm up. Go hang out with a friend or someone you enjoy talking to before you go out. If you can't do that then do little things with strangers. Introduce yourself, give someone a high five, talk about the weather, whatever. Do something that in your mind is totally non-committal and has no purpose other than to do and get out of there. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:02 PM |
| 15 | "Sorry i'm not going to answer that"Yours seem light hearted and sufficiently deflecting to me. I would say if you deflect a number of times and she keeps pressuring you to answer, what does that say about her? Quite simply, she's a nagger. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Had to choke my younger brother outUh huh. About your edit, I actually had a long thought out post that I cut down to the above because you're right. We don't know all the history of you and your brother we only know our own and the experiences that relate. People come on here asking complex, emotionally charged, sometimes desperate, most times taboo, often times psychotic questions and expect quality advice from the people that have found their way here first. Watch your own attitude too. We are here to help each other. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Girls who smokesSmoking is a devil may care activity, that's why it's seen that way. You don't have to smoke to be a bad boy but it does help. The key is more of how you carry yourself. Body language, what you say and what you do is what really determines it. Don't smoke just because she does, that's like textbook walking into her frame. If she smokes tell her to go do it alone and come find you after. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Had to choke my younger brother outWhat's your dad like? Is he around? How is he acting towards him? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?Hamster all you want. You think it's respect anyone feels when their genitals are in someone's mouth? It's a purely giving action, feminine. If that's something you love to do, fine. It just means you're bitch made. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:00 PM |
| 0 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?And it seems like trp has more bitches than I thought. Make any excuse you want, I'm right. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:55 PM |
| -4 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?Didn't say anything about being a player. If you're the dominant type you don't take that subservient role. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 05:56 AM |
| -4 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?I'm not reading all that shit. Do you eat pussy? If so you're not a "bull" type. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:03 AM |
| 14 | Should I give up my senior year of college for a sick job?If this is a high status man you'll probably have access to many very high class women especially if this is a protege type deal. I have a buddy that works with what you could call wall street types and he tells me they always have good looking women about | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Man here, I have a problem with the whole 'market' philosophy and want to know what you thinkYou sound like a bitch. You were born a man, woe is you. The universe and its indifference can be summed up as such: fuck you, what are you going to do about it? So, for all your despair, nihilism, cynicism and desperation, fuck you, what are you going to do about it? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Is sober sex awkward? Is sober sex for children?You are fucked up even if you are sober. Your mentality is as twisted as these degenerate sluts that you seem to pine for. Those are party girls. There's also girls out there that think you're a loser if you drink to excess let alone do drugs. Chase other tail before you end up killing yourself. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Best way to tell a plate I don't like how her hair smellsI love the apocalypse opener though I have not used it myself. I'd say it's definitely a lone wolf maneuver and I haven't been alone on my nights out in a longtime. Also, I posit this is what "never apologize" means. Your desires and goals need no apologia. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What is she negotiates desire?I'd say flatly, 'my dick looks forward to it' or 'promises promises'. Talk is cheap. Her saying this means nothing at all. I've heard any number of these things and it means nothing. If someone is going to do something they do it, they don't tell you they are. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How to start LTR without losing frame?She asks for the relationship, not you. Though you seem to be catching the oneitis and feeling like you're not interested in other chicks you should be getting with other chicks. Until she asks for exclusivity you're not even close to it. Last girl that got the title "girlfriend" from me asked me for it the night before I had a date with a brand new girl and I had been seeing two others girls at the same time the entire time. You never lose frame or come off as too needy when you're in a situati… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over pussy you never got to hit that you invested in for a good amount of time?Go get others. I wasted a lot of time and effort on a dark haired beauty that wanted it but I was too fuckin chivalrous to bang, apparently. And another who was a chick I liked that for one night I had a window with but I was too busy being alpha and trying to amog the whole room, apparently. Regrets are a part of life. Move it along. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 07:51 PM |
| 17 | I love the red pill, mostly the theory. I seriously have my doubts about the guys who represent the manosphere.I think Roosh deserves some credit. The guy has been on the wrong side of the cultural beating stick a lot but it barely slows him down. I personally like him and think he is a great example of the stages of red pills. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here? 44 yo, 5'3", $1.6M, in NYC1.6m in nyc? so what, like 5 bucks? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Inner vs Outer BeautyYeah we're all shallow. I have a girl I think about often because I loved her personality and character but people don't come on here asking questions about what it's like to fuck a girl you like talking to. I'd say the point of TRP and all this stuff is to point you in the right direction, maybe give you some good advice every now and again and you figure out all the rest. You're the only one living your life. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The girl I’m seeing is a YouTuber, should I see that as a red flag?First thing, you don't ask for a relationship, she does. The youtube thing I wouldn't care about personally unless she makes it blatant that she's attention whoring. We have a bit of a problem with guys around here looking at any little thing not absolutely perfect or anything out of the ordinary as a huge problem. She's a girl in the internet age, she's going to do something on the socials. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Did I do the right thing in breaking up with GF, or did I jump the gun out of insecurity?Both, really shit people. Personally I think there's not always a way to be "cool" but there is a way to keep your pride. There was a guy that I considered something of a friend and all he did was proposition a girl that I had just started seeing. It took his close friends begging me and telling me how shitty life has been for him for me to let that go without a beating. I don't accept such betrayal. The girl is long gone but I haven't forgotten the disrespect. Main difference here, he did it wh… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Did I do the right thing in breaking up with GF, or did I jump the gun out of insecurity?I need some clarification here, when she said they already hooked up, was she saying before you two met or while you two were together? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?It's because women want men that "just get it". They don't like that this can be taught. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | is a girl dressing sexy CONSCIOUSLY for male attention?Pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | is a girl dressing sexy CONSCIOUSLY for male attention?Can't pick up sarcasm huh. You're like someone with a fetish showing me feet and swearing it's sexy. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:43 AM |
| 4 | is a girl dressing sexy CONSCIOUSLY for male attention?Ok, so, you tell us plebs what the ivory tower is like cause I don't normally see girls wearing what looks like a combination of my grannys sunday dress and trash bags. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 09:12 AM |
| 3 | is a girl dressing sexy CONSCIOUSLY for male attention?You're conflating "high fashion" with fashion, friend. As a model told me, "no one is supposed to get it". Imo its a joke but its like "art". How often do you see picasso in your day to day life? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 08:38 AM |
| 5 | is a girl dressing sexy CONSCIOUSLY for male attention?Who determines what is sexy? Men. If all the alphas in the world decided cargo shorts were hot, that's what would be hot and that's what she'd be wearing. If she's dressing "sexy" at all it was defined by men in the first place which means whatever she's wearing is to please men. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 12:12 AM |
| 3 | American NOT Japan is the worst country for men in the world (Evidence inside)Feels good to not be average. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Planning on breaking up with LTR, how do I get out of this impending doom of loneliness?You'll get re-used to it. Just accept it, find other chicks and carry on. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How to do a successful monk mode?Form habits. Especially try to build on habits that you have to do. For example, I work out at home so when I get home I put my food for tomorrow in the oven, change and go to my garage. It doesn't matter if I "don't feel like it" one thing always follows the other like breathing in and out and it's all based around something I have to do or I won't have anything to eat tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Getting a girl to your placeNo kiss -> bring home is a bad idea. I don't see how in reality it would benefit you, in theory I see what you're getting at. Give them a pretense, 'lets go chill out for awhile and watch a movie or something' has worked for me through the years. Just give them any reason to come and if they try to rebuff it give em another little push. If they don't come after that then they aren't coming. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Does fighting or martial arts help with frame?I can't talk on fighting specifically but as a football lineman one of the things I noticed from smashing into 300+ lbs guys full force over and over is you stop flinching. Which means your body language is always strong and no fear of getting hit means no fear of conflict. I imagine there's something similar to gain from combat sports. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you afford all these plates?Definitely overthinking. I just walk up get mine, pay (which indicates no intent to pay) then I go sit where I want. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the equivalent of the red pill for women?Keep looking for others. If he knows you're into that and that you're interested in him but he doesn't want that it's important you don't waste your time. You can't make him change his mind but losing his shot might make him reconsider. I'd say most guys like the idea of having a sweet loving wife but the government has made it such a shit deal for men it takes a LOT for them to consider it. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 05:54 PM |
| 0 | What is the equivalent of the red pill for women?So what, he's married? You drop him some signs if he's not? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How can I stand my ground when presented with Conflict?It sounds weird but you need to give yourself permission to be confrontational. By that I mean, think about the situation, think about how you want to handle it and if seems like it's going to be a conflict accept that first. Accept that there will be conflict, if you can't then you're never going to do it but if you can then after that just lean into it. You expected it, you accepted it, do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 05:31 PM |
| 0 | What is the equivalent of the red pill for women?That's not true. You're asking for something rare so most people have never seen it but it's out there. What you're describing you're most likely to find in a guy that's in his 30s or late 20s. A guy that has had time to go out and come back around to a conservative mindset. You're unlikely to find that in a young man. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 05:20 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with toxic feminist family members?Mock and ignore the nonsense they're spouting whenever they bring it up. Don't insult them though. Agree and amplify is great for dealing with older women. They pick up on the fact you're not serious and that you're making fun of what they're saying more than younger women do. Welcome to the never ending battle. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you afford all these plates?Yeah but like I said, it's cheap stuff. On average it's probably $10-20 a week total for 3 girls, seeing each 2 times a week. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:47 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with toxic feminist family members?I doubt this is "in the bud", this is probably going to be a fact of life for you unless you totally flip shit about it and even then, probably not. Old women love to do this kind of shit. My father's woman does something similar, she will say such outlandish things that it is laughable how obvious it is she's just trying to get under my skin. Old women love drama just as much as young women, they just go about it in a different way. This will probably never stop, all you can do is stand up for … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | How do you afford all these plates?The better you get at this the less you spend. Most of my first dates are going out for coffee where I only buy my own. When I spend the most time watching netflix is when I'm with plates. They get rotated on who gets the "good" date for the week on saturday and that's only if there's something I feel like doing and it's rarely if ever expensive, playing minigolf, going to a museum/park, a movie. Plate spinning isn't the same as having multiple LTRs, plates are low effort and you let them break … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | What is the equivalent of the red pill for women?I know there's a sub on a different site that the women there absolutely talk about how girls can be the type of woman that men want and want to keep. Do an internet search for traditionalwives, like I said it's not the one on reddit. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Cocky/'bad' boy behavior helped me score with a girl over a better looking guyYou can try taking a class or join some sort of group. There are plenty of those available. Are you working on yourself? Lifting, all the regular crap we spout? People always treat people that look like they have their shit together better than if they don't. Make sure you have that on lock before truly trying to tackle something more abstract like this. It could be said luck is being prepared when there's opportunity. To have the easiest time make sure you are a high level version of yourself a… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Is “straight edge” the only way to form long lasting inner peace?Cold turkey doesn't work for every case, consider weaning yourself off. Is it hormonal? I don't know and I haven't had increased overall anxiety due to age. Our T does decrease as we get older which might have an effect on that but I'm not that old yet. I'm just giving you the benefit of my experience which is that substances have had a more profound effect on me and others I've known as we've gotten older. For example I have a friend who has mentioned to me that he feels increased anxiety after… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Is “straight edge” the only way to form long lasting inner peace?The state your body is in can determine how you're feeling. Chemicals in your body and brain will cause you to feel a certain kind of way, as you well know. Days I feel anxious I know it's because I've had way too much coffee or I'm hungover or something like that. My life is pretty great and there's nothing that should cause me anxiety but things weigh on the mind and so do the chemicals. If you're feeling that way it helps to just accept that's how you feel because something is running its way… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:42 PM |
| 6 | How important is building size from the gym?Size gets you more passive attention, I'd say. Being strong you have to display it somehow normally. I find people tend to gloat for you if you're stupid strong though. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Dalrock: Melinda Gates, miserly billionaire. "Complementarians are convinced that the solution to feminist discontentment is for husbands to do more. If they work harder, do more housework, etc. wives will be content."It takes patience being married to the second richest man in the world. Damn, shot right out of the gate didn't we. One of her motivations for this is she probably hates being compared to him quite a bit, even though no one is. "Oh, Bill founded and runs one of the most successful companies ever but I got the kids into the car on time for soccer practice." She can't compare and female solipsism is, as always, I am right, you are wrong because reasons. She's totally overshadowed by her man but be… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Cocky/'bad' boy behavior helped me score with a girl over a better looking guyExperience. When you go out don't be afraid to fail or even better watch other people fail. Learning what doesn't work is just as important as learning what does. Analyze what happened after it's over and try to figure out what there is to be learned. Fake it till you make it is real. Eventually you won't have to think about these things because you'll have internalized it. You have to just go out and see how the world responds to you personally. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Cocky/'bad' boy behavior helped me score with a girl over a better looking guydoes anyone think there that strong Beta vibes can offset even good looks? I've said this before but I guess it is one of the things worth repeating again and again around here. Yes, beta undermines everything. I am an ostensibly good looking, tall, strong, in shape, witty guy but before I found the redpill and I was buying into all the blue pill indoctrination I would lose girls all the time. All those good qualities only last for so long, when the shine wears off, and it does quick, they'll tr… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | "Influencing girlfriend" shit test?She's dumb. People are influenced by those closest to them. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Are all girls on tinder sluts and active carousel riders?You can assume all girls are on the CC at all times and it won't hurt you. If a relationship option ever comes up it's always on you to decide if you want it, whether she's as pure as the driven snow or a gutter slut. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 08:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think is the ideal male body?We all have body types and all we can hope to do is attain the best version of that particular body type. I'm about 6'2" and to get under 200 lbs I would be incredibly weak compared to what I am and an unhealthy bf % whereas I hear there are guys my height that have trouble getting up to the low 200s. The best, most generalized, advice you can get on getting your own bodies best physique is aim for around 10-12% bf and as much muscle as you can put on. If you want to put on more muscle you have … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:48 PM |
| 58 | WTF is wrong with me?TRP has this weird effect on guys sometimes. Like thinking we purely run on algorithms or something. You're a normal human. Someone said they would do something and it turned out they lied. Until you found out it was a lie you acted on it being the truth. When you found out you reacted normally. She sucks, waste little to no effort on her. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Its just me that finds the "amused jockester" thing forced and stupid?No one says you can't shut shit down but most of the time when you're hitting on chicks you're at a place where people are trying to have fun. Can you not tell the difference in tone when you're out having a drink with one person as opposed to when you're out with a group? Read the room. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Why am i so weak and how do i get strongerAlmost sounds like you want people to like you and when they act in a way that implies they don't you break down. It sounds somewhat similar to how I feel when I'm worried a friend might be mad at me or something but as long as you keep doing what you think is right and stand by it everything will normally work out in the end. I've always thought that "frame" is doing what's best for you or as I said, what you think is right and then weathering whatever comes after. The first step to being able … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 11:49 PM |
| 0 | After banging a girl, she asks you how was the sex? What do you say back?That'll do pig. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 11:38 PM |
| 14 | I frequently go back and re-visit some post in the main sub when it's something to remind myself of or important. What are some posts or comments you frequently re-read?It might sound conceited at first look but I go back and reread my own comments from time to time. I try to see how my mindset has changed and if I still feel and think the same. Also, I find myself amusing. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond to this shit test?I got a "shit test" like this from a girlfriend, she was a nuisance. The girl is autistic. Since she's an ex you probably have multiple memories of times she brought up shit that is just plain inappropriate to bring up to someone you allegedly love. Long analysis short, I'd file this under relationship management more so than a simple shit test. You need to be clear that it's not ok to say such stupid nonsense. For example when she said this you could say, "yeah, ya know this girl I used to date… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Calling a girl bitch etc.It's all in the delivery. I don't like making risky plays through text at all, in case that's how this went down. Met a new girl years ago, we were talking and I said something and added "bitch" to the end of it and I gave her a look like I was hoping she got mad from me saying that with a huge grin on my face. She looked at me and said, I'm not the type to get mad about stuff like that. Humor has always been how we broach dark or taboo topics to take the edge off of it. If for some reason you r… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Big fucking red flag or her trying to impress me?It's a trashy compliment. Just make a note of it and look out for more stuff like it. If this kind of thing is a theme with her it's a sign of how she thinks and you'll want to make some decisions based off that. If she doesn't make more comments like this, chalk it up as nothing. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | "My kid is the best thing that's ever happened to me"Idk, my brother had a kid a little under a year ago and he is obsessed with him. He talks about him all the time and always tries to show me pictures. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 08:17 PM |
| 4 | When a women settles for a "beta" provider.Literally, The Red Pill. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 06:26 PM |
| 3 | When a women settles for a "beta" provider.You need to learn a lot more obviously. Physical attraction isn't the be all end all. Apparently, I'm really good looking - I don't say this out of vanity - it's what objectively good looking girls have told me. Back in my blue pill days even though I had abs and wit and everything you could ask for I still got dumped and dissed by girls, because I was blue pilled. That's how I found this place. Getting shit on even though everything looks good on paper makes you ask questions and you figure the… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Dating a girl who keeps talking about a boy band? Are these red flags as well?It's all in the delivery. "Alright, save it for your girls night/book club/sewing circle etc." Again, your masculine vibe helps determine what you can get away with. "Tell it to the kitchen" is a fun one. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date with singlemomexpect LMR and demands of providership rather than easy sex. Not my experience. They've always been one night stands for me. Good generalized advice though. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What are common introductions for cold approaching?Your vibe matters more than anything. A few weeks ago I opened a girl by saying "Is that a romper?" she was glad I came by. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Dating a girl who keeps talking about a boy band? Are these red flags as well?I'd tell her to save all that shit for her girlfriends. You're young so your masculine vibe might be understandably lacking. No girl ever says this shit around me anymore. Not to date myself but my first girlfriend thought the guy from fallout boy was "so hot" and once when I was around she said if she ever got the chance she would definitely fuck him. I just said, "if you get the chance, go ahead. Neither of us will be around the next day." | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:17 PM |
| 87 | Don't ever doubt yourself brothers. This stuff really works.As long as we're sharing anecdotes here's a corroborating one. Got a brand spankin new girlfriend. Tall, blonde, beautiful, outgoing and sweet. She was highly sought after. Anyways we get into a week or so of being official and she calls me. We talk about something and I have no recollection of how it happened but I recall she was saying something that was berating or she was trying to get me to change something, some typical bull shit. I said to her, if this is what you think right now, this ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Called her by my ex name while having sexYou apparently let it get a bit serious so here's what I did. I did this with my second girlfriend and I didn't laugh it off, I was young but I wasn't stupid. I told her that before her the only one that I was in that situation with before, for a long time, was the ex. Something that intimate doesn't happen often so it apparently was still lingering there, like a reflex and that it just means that she is taking over that role for me. You have to say something like this flatly and matter of fact.… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 5 | How to break a porn addiction?Since you're a pollack you might appreciate this. This is not my original idea but from someone else and it's pretty good. Porn is free for a (((reason))). Whenever you get the urge just think of some ugly troll rubbing his hands together because you're doing exactly what they want. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 04:51 PM |
| 31 | Gym nervesOne of those roid monkeys would probably be more than happy to give you advice and maybe even take you under their wing. You'll certainly get more detailed advice than you will here. I've been approached many times by young men in the gym asking me advice and I haven't turned em down once. If they do react negatively it's a them problem, not you; go ask someone else. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?That's what I'm saying. No one likes wasted timed or effort and it can apply to almost anything. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:51 PM |
| 8 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?Machiavellianism is getting people to do what you want without giving them anything. Narcissism is supreme confidence. Psychopathy is not giving a shit what anyone thinks. Basically a girl gives the guy everything and gets nothing. I theorize it's the sunk cost fallacy in action but the currency being love. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:41 PM |
| -1 | What’s the deal with cold showers? Does it do anything?This could be simply stated as ice baths/cold showers reduce inflammation and inflammation is a part of building muscle. Same as how if you take a lot of ibuprofen it can also slow muscle gains. Ed. it's true. Quit trying to be pompous. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What’s the deal with cold showers? Does it do anything?The only noteworthy thing it does is increase your discipline, if that. If you can wake up and jump into a cold shower then there's very little you won't be able to force yourself to do. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Should I skip lunch at work?I do IF and don't eat until after I work out. There's probably 20 hours between last and first time I eat. Doesn't seem to effect me at all during lifts based off of the results. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Girls assume I have a haremNever heard a girl say the word harem in my life. It's tantamount to saying you're a player. Might have something to do with your look or age bracket. I only got asked the player question point blank when I was your age and I wasn't. When I was and I really did have a harem none of them assumed I did. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Still feel more like a kid and not a young adult. Anyone else feel the same?This is my experience so far, sans kid. Meaning I am days away from being 30 years old but I don't feel less child like than any other time in my life. I'm more responsible, experienced and knowledgeable but the childish nature is there, just suppressed when needed. My old man is the same as you I'd say. When I was young he would get angry and stressed but ever since my siblings and I got older he is an extremely amicable and silly man. He only gets serious when he has to, which really is not th… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herDoesn't matter what you think of the guy. Just what her hamster thinks of him and it looks like it's givin him green lights. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else find themselves looking up to older alphas as mentors or older brother figures?When I was a teenager I kind of thought of my gym trainer as like an uncle. We were pretty close. He was definitely a type A, intense, "I am the alpha or I will fight you" type guy. So, as I got older I became more assertive and independent and you can't have two bulls in the same field. Knew him for a number of years and it all fell apart in an instant. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Got called a psycho last nightShe's right. This kind of stuff looks psychotic, getting close to people and leaving them like they never mattered. It's even in the dark triad, a set of personality traits lauded as the most powerful in terms of social ability. It doesn't matter. It's a tool. Just because you act like a psychopath in one circumstance doesn't mean you have to be a psycho in all aspects. You're doing it right, as long as you don't lose yourself in it. a couple guys in the group wanted to swing at me (ha!) I also … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Do women find it attractive when you are more assertive/bossy?Saw your other comment, tinder chicks are like wet paper, it can fall apart at any time. Personally, I found when I was doing the online dating a lot that it's best to be normal and allude to the fact you're dominant, let your profile do the heavy lifting. If you met in person and you can tell she's attracted then you can be about as assertive as you want. When I finally texted a girl I met from the gym I said to her "I'm taking you on a date on saturday." and she loved that. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:17 PM |
| 3 | How do I pass the "what are you looking for on here" Tinder/first date shit test?I'm after your heart, literally. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with white knights?No problem. No sense being vague when you're trying to help. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with white knights?You envision this incorrectly. If you're at risk to "enter his frame" you never had any. It's easy. You: This your boyfriend? Her: Yes! Y: whens the wedding? H: We haven't set a date (we aren't engaged) / "some bull shit date" Y: I bet the invites will be real cute. / have you sent invites? You seem like a man that enjoys a nice floral pattern. You're busting the guys balls and getting info to see if it's bull shit or not. If it is bull shit and you weather this storm you won. If she really does… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with white knights?Have you asked, "is this your boyfriend?" blows them out most of the time. The girl either says no or if she says yes you can do a bit of counter role play and ask questions about their relationship mockingly. Then you'll find out for real eventually and you can just bow out gracefully... or not, do whatever you want. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to banter?Good. You're going about this in a solid way I'd say. Just keep in mind that you being offended should never come into it. Sometimes they may go over the line and you'll have to use your own discretion on how to deal with it but the majority of the time just think of it as a challenge. Pay attention to what they're saying, think about how it applies to you AND to them, how it's related to other things and what the tone is. Worst case you can always agree and amplify, it shows a lack of butt hurt… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to banter?Do you not have guy friends? I'm always amazed when I hear this from guys around here. This is one of the things that male friends are for. Whenever I'm hanging out with my buddies it just happens naturally. It's like practicing with your team before going and playing a real game. Any ribbing is not done with the actual intention of beating you down it's for entertainment value, if they're really your friends, and a good comeback normally gets a bigger reaction than a good diss. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | "who's dick is that?" during sex by ltrMan, I thought like you had a buddy sneaking around in the dark or some weird shit. I would say it's my dick and this is my pussy but that's cause I would rather lose dirty talk than say that. If it aint broke though, don't fix it if you're fine with it. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 4 | (LTR)GF wants me to put on a suitI'd say you missed an opportunity to see her dressed up. You could have agreed and amplified a bit by telling her she better not show up looking like you're slummin it. Or agree and see what she thinks this means for her. Meaning if you show up in your suit and she looks normal you order her to go change, say you won't be seen in your suit with her lookin like that. If she's dressed to the nines then you just have a good time. Either way you get man points. Ordering them around with authority ge… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women challenge men who act dominant?Feminists need a bold approach. If she said that to me I would respond, alright but I decide when you get to decide. Delivered with a am I serious? type of tone. Chances are she'll crack a smile but she also might get an attitude but making a chick mad has never been a deal breaker, it's indifference that's the killer. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 06:44 PM |
| 23 | Why Cant I Keep Anyone?Relationship escalation is the woman's prerogative. Basically summed up what I have to say about this. She always has to be the one to ask for the relationship or you're off on the wrong foot. Without enough info, maybe our boy here is just banging sluts that don't want a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is joining a team in high school worth it now?If you're 5'8" 150 you aren't a big guy but I guess it's all relative. I'm 6'2" and was about 285 in high school and I was not close to the biggest guy on the football field. I met the guy that connected me to my friend group through playing football which I know seems to contradict what I'm saying but I also connected with my best friend just through being in class who was also a part of that friend group which is why I view the team aspect as not necessary. My memories of football aren't exact… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Is joining a team in high school worth it now?I take it that since you thought about swimming you aren't a bigger guy. Big guys, especially ones that lift always get hounded to join sports teams in high school. If that was the case I'd say don't join a team because you already have a high enough status that it would be unnecessary. But I digress. If you are looking for status then yeah you might want to join a team but if you're looking for a tight group joining a team might not necessarily accomplish that. I played football with only one o… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Text advice. Met this HB9 while she was working at grocery store pushing cartsDon't tell me what to do. logistics | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Do I(17) look creepy?Don't hunch, stand up straight. No one ever thinks someone with good posture is a creep unless you're wooden. Also, standard, lift etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I turn my LTR into a stripper?Whatever man you're seemingly a bit of a deviant. I bet you'll eventually find out you like swinging. Who cares what you do. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Why do marriages fail although women SMV declines?To put it concisely, the beta backslide. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to kill egoSame principle. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 09:18 PM |
| 10 | How to stop disrespect coming from someone (guy or girl)All that with tae kwon do huh? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 8 | How to kill egoYou got it all wrong. You don't want to kill your ego you want it to be so big and strong any time somebody comes at you it's like they're throwing rocks at a giant. Then you just shrug it off if you even notice it at all. Most times I've had people try to insult me or something like that it either amuses me or I just don't even think anything of it. Ants. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Do men hit a wall?When you go from being daddy to grand daddy but even then you'll still find some girls if you take care of yourself well. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 13 | "You're being very touchy-feely."Alternatively, for this and the OP. I'm a man of action. Works in a variety of scenarios | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrYou own a restaurant with her? You're already in up to your neck with this broad. Might as well go through with it and marry her. If things go south you're pretty fucked anyway regardless of being married. I'm not a total hater on marriage like some of the guys around here but I recognize that's it a bum deal for men in general but there are still some out there worth marrying and this seems to be one of them. The only slight red flag I see is her broaching the subject of marriage herself. A gir… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 6 | GF keeps making fun of my EXUgh. If you knowingly get with a cheater you already know they're a cheater so you know they're the type of person that has no problem cheating on people, which means you. It says something about both people. One is a piece of shit and the other is an idiot or also someone that cheats. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:37 PM |
| 7 | GF keeps making fun of my EXSounds like a vile bitch reading this and your other comments. If you think she's about to break up with you make sure you break up with her first. It'll salve your ego and give you the high ground, plus you have an easy thing to point at. Call her shallow and that you expect more from people. Also can be used before the break up to see if it turns things around. If it doesn't tell her you warned her and she didn't change so you're out. Report back if you pull the kill switch before her, this so… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:28 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?Absurdism is the answer to nihilism. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:47 PM |
| 4 | What does game boil down to?Frame | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Do slim young girls go to the gym only to pick up?You're looking way too far into this. I have witnessed this phenomenon too and it's just those girls on break or going to a different gym for once because it was more convenient. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Optimal diet for fat loss?Yeah ephedrine gets a bad rep but it's good for that. Alternatively, caffeine which I forgot to mention. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Optimal diet for fat loss?Keto, intermittent fasting. You're always going to get hungry dieting, sparkling water and gum can help. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | GF won't let me randomly touch her boobsMaybe she has really sensitive nips, some girls do. If she says she does then well that's part of the package and you kind of have to be understanding about it unless you consider this a deal breaker. If she says no then she's just unfun and you should consider alternatives. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 04:47 PM |
| 14 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubshe said she isnt the type to enjoy the nightlife Wasn't going to comment on this thread but this needs to be pointed at as a clear example of pay attention to what they do, not what they say. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Would you cheat STYou're gonna end up like Ross. A break is a break up, if there's ever a "break" she's fucking another dude. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:39 PM |
| 2 | how have you dealt with bossy or controlling women in the past?Idk if you'd call them bossy or controlling but I have dealt with hardnose/stubborn women before and they are fun to break because once they do you're in a pretty exclusive club, which means they are pretty much all over you. If they're hot/interesting/fun enough then I feel it's worth it because it's just holding frame and amused mastery for awhile and then it's hard fucking and genuinely amusing antics. They tend to be the type to throw their women card around which when they don't try to use … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Friends girlfriends felt up my arms twice, how to respond?I've had girlfriends of friends try to kiss me, this is more a question of your character and your bond with your friend than anything. The girl herself is his problem. Maybe bring it up to him if you want but if you're not doing anything then who the fuck cares. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Can being too stoic make you come across as a doormat?Let's say she's being a bitch at your place and you've had enough. You calmly get up and say, "Ok, it's time for you to leave.". You don't get emotional you just walk her out and close the door. Message received and you are "stoic". | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting/maintaining erectionsWhat's your fitness level at? I get a bit of a case of flop dick if I'm out of shape and doing all the work. Increase your aerobic work outs a bit if you're working out and if you're not working out shut your face and work out. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 07:03 PM |
| 0 | How do you make protein shakes more palatable?The way I always dealt with it was sticking to the same brand and flavor and being extremely hungry. I find that if I so much as change the flavor I have to adapt all over again and it tastes awful for the first few then gets better. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpWhatever works man. I don't know exactly the source of your issue or how you feel all I can do is give you my story and the promise that things will get better if you're willing to work on it. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpYeah that part about the plate isn't implying NAWALT I'm just saying that's what got me through it. Find something that will bleed off the anger is my advice here. The rest is to let you know how far you can go and still come back. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Regrets about life?The best advice I've ever seen on regrets was on the MISC on the bodybuilding forums. A 20 something guy asked about regrets and this guy that was in his 30s said, when he was 25 he wished he could go back to 20 and when he was 30 he wished he could be 25. His point was, you are an age right now that in the future you will wish you could go back to so you might as well work with the now. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:34 PM |
| 16 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpThe anger phase makes itself known at different times for all of us. I thought I had gone through it and then it really hit me when a girl broke up with me. It was a dam breaking. The air around me was hot. People could literally feel my anger when I walked into a room. I was known as an angry guy before but none of them had seen anything like this. Literally angry from the time I woke up till I went to bed. I lifted weights twice a day and did body weight and stretching before bed on below main… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Ah, well I think it's more of a white people and to a MUCH larger degree black people thing. Just go dissect comedies. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Mmm hmm. I am also a large, good looking, scary guy - apparently. My friends constantly give me shit and I give it back. Maybe you're just not drawn to these types or vice versa. Hell, you might have dismissed the type of friends that would have helped foster this skill because they didn't suck your dick and call you a "legend". Regardless, that's the generalized advice I give on this. You can also watch a lot of comedy, whatever type and analyze why it's funny. A key part of being clever is rec… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up with exesIt's an optics thing. IMO it's only bad if people know. It looks like you didn't learn your lesson and lowers your relative SMV. Also, who broke up with who? If you broke up with her it's not nearly as bad because there should be little fear of beta backsliding. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | How to respond if at all?I don't have anything for ya man. I'm at a loss when it comes to being witty about "I don't like how you message me". There's just no way to get around it man. Texting through the week is a way to get closer in a ltr and if the way she texts you irks you it won't change and bringing it up is going to look bad. I had a similar situation with a girlfriend. Texting her always left me mad when I was the one to message last (it still pisses me off, feels like I'm the one more invested) So I would ref… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How to respond if at all?With girls that are smart enough and I like enough, I tell em how they fucked up around this point. If she's the type to get defensive/mad you just hold frame and start considering exit strategies. If she's understanding then you be understanding. If it's about messages it's always a battle that ends poorly. It makes you look needy. I'd chalk that up as a compatibility issue because otherwise you'll always be text gaming her and personally that shit pisses me off in an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:25 PM |
| 7 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsLaugh at them and be in good enough shape that you can defend yourself if they swing at you. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Do you have friends? Talking shit and joking with them is practice for this. Don't expect to be the funniest immediately and you may never be the wittiest of your friends period. I'm convinced some people are just naturally more witty than other people. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Nuclear shit test or bpd? Cant understand this plateYeah yeah, playing the game on hard mode, I get it. I did it. It gets old real quick and eventually you'll just get to the point you won't put up with it from any woman. If she manages to find a chink in the armor just look out. I don't think there's any advice if you're looking for the experience. Your "frame" will become unflappable because you just don't care, eventually. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Nuclear shit test or bpd? Cant understand this plateI'm almost positive I've seen you come in here twice now bitching about this old crusty bitch. She seems to be a nuisance. I'd drop her before this shit starts getting to you mentally and fucking it you up with other younger girls. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Dont shit where you eat - but how close to it?This is really generalized advice. I have fucked a girl that works at the same company and I am in a powerful position at said company. I had her come by my desk in the middle of the day with my dick out and she gave it a little suck. Never found a good opportunity to bang at work though. I did date a really hot chick with huge tits for a bit that told me she used to bang the CEO at the company she used to work for and it apparently was a pretty big one around here. Anyways, it's a bad idea in g… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:07 PM |
| 46 | Fiance want new boobs, i will be shit tested, need adviceThe man won the thread. Personal experience with a girl that got fake boobs: Knew her in early college days. Not a bad face, like 0 boobs. Soft spoken, not very interesting. Real quiet. 5ish years later see her again and she had been living in Miami and had some tig o bitties. Such a cocky entitled bitch. She was definitely more attractive but for me cockiness in a woman is always a turn off. Point being when women get more attention their hypergamy is going to get pinged and think "I get way mo… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 4 | At what point do you become too muscular for most girls?Yeah, I'm sure Steve Cook is losing oceans of pussy because he's "too big". Reading your title he didn't even come close to the list. Kai Greene is "too big". When it's obvious you're on steroids not just rumored then you're too big and you're going to lose girls to it. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How are white collar white guys supposed to compete in the sexual marketplace with thug blacks?Take a lesson from them, bitch boy. Quit giving such a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:32 PM |
| 0 | How are white collar white guys supposed to compete in the sexual marketplace with thug blacks?No, you're not. "Inferior genetics"? The race that made the modern world and dominated every other people it ran across? You're a cuck or a troll. Take your pick. Regardless of all this nonsense women across the board of any race prefer white guys (both white women and others that decide to jump ship) but they want high value white guys. You can pout about the state of society and how it's unfair but in the end all you can do is work on yourself. Make the best out of yourself and you'll get the … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How are white collar white guys supposed to compete in the sexual marketplace with thug blacks?Roasting in a troll bread. Did you come here to try to black pill? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterYour friends can't get any pussy on their own so they have to leech off you it seems. You don't fuck a buddies ex unless you don't care about them. It's just fucked up. You should take this as a sign that your friends are low value. The reason you didn't take up your friends exes for rebound sex is because you're not desperate and can get your own, you don't need scraps. I'd say take some time to think about that aspect. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I work full time and generally lead a busy life with variety. Yet spinning plates just doesn't do it for me, I can't stop craving a LTR and it's fucking with my head. What do?The way I think of it is spinning plates are a prerequisite to an LTR. When you have options and multiple girls you will be able to start an LTR on the right foot and you will be discerning enough to pick a good one that you really like. She has to be the one to ask for the relationship. If you ask, you done goofed. Watch out for them hinting at it. They will rarely be up front and ask you to be their boyfriend. They'll say something like "what are we?" Then you can say something like, what do y… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Does anybody actually fuck HIGH smv women off tender?If you are not very good looking you won't have much chance of getting them off tinder. Your best chance at these "rapper gf" girls is going to be in person. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 07:38 PM |
| 43 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?You're making people think that they've been lied to by society and culture. Since those are abstracts and can't be yelled at, you become the outlet because you're the one exposing it. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 06:26 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a woman that keeps asking RP Questions?I read your other comments, seems like why you believe these things are baseless. You should reflect more on why you do what you do and then you'll have your own, thought out, congruent answers to these kinds of questions. People have asked me why I'm not friendly or how can I be so dismissive with people I don't like and I tell them that if I got along with just 1% of the people on earth that's still 70 million people and if only 1% of those people were actually worth my time that's still 700 t… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always say they don’t care if you get ugly?Women are jealous by nature. If they find you attractive they know other women find you attractive, at least subconsciously they know. So they try to salt the earth so no other women will have you. They may think that they would love you if you were different but women are creatures of the now. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | good natured girl failing other girls shit tests.I like smack talking and ripping into people especially people who are straight up ass holes. Try to not come off as just defending her but more like it's banter if you can help it | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Ltr is dumb??Matters what you're looking for. LTR? Nexted. FWB or plate, carry on and hit on other girls. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 06:57 PM |
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