I have noticed that at times I can be very good at talking to people in general, but I have to be in the right frame of mind to do so. I am assuming most of you can relate. There are times I go out and just feel reserved and a bit stand offish. Other times I feel like I am the life of the party. It usually happens after just a few drinks, but not too many. There is a sweet spot in there for me that is just right. Anyways, do any of you have any tips on how to get yourself in the right mindset for socializing?