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1

Amen.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:04 PM
1

Just get you an ugly woman.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:09 PM
15

Plate is cracked. But not fully broken yet.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:02 PM
3

Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:08 PM
6

That's one long fucking sentence. ​ If he doesn't want to fuck her she develops a crush on him and wants him more. He doesn't become a beta unless he acts like one.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:07 PM
8

No, that's flaking on someone and disrespecting their time. If you make plans, and plans change, you tell her. If someone did the same to you I doubt it would increase your attraction to them. If a friend did it, you would be pissed they wasted your time. You are better off just "being busy" for a week, than making plans and then no-showing on her.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:36 PM
13

You flaked on her. You were rude with plans. Some people value their time and if you abuse it, they will say "Fuck off"
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:24 PM
10

Ever wake up in a bad mood? Ever just get pissed off and want to be left the fuck alone? Everyone has, with parents, friends, people we are dating, etc... ​ This isn't really disrespect. You knew she was pissed, she told you she was. Just do your own thing and let it go. Make her wait a few phone calls before you get back to her though. Just for good measure.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:54 PM
6

You cant fix everyone man. This girl has big problems. AKA - Crazy, BPD, Abuse, whatever. You may care for her, but you cant let that get in the way of what is best for you.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:50 PM
33

Bottle of Vodka - 20$ (Lasts a week) $2.85 per day Cranberry Juice - 3$ (Lasts a week) $.42 cents per day 2 items from the Wendy's Value menu if shes good- 2.14$, if shes bad 1 item - 1.08$
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:49 PM
6

Then break up with her already. I better not see you post this same shit tomorrow though.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:46 PM
13

You can't help. Only year of therapy with a professional can "possibly" help. ​ I reckon you get as far the fuck away from this as you possibly can and never look back.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:34 PM
3

Unless you completely tear it, then rest should definitely help. If you tear it you will feel it, and may even hear it. You would also have a big lump on the back of your arm. You may not even be able to straighten your arm out if this is the case. If it is torn, you have to have surgery to reattach it. ​ The severity can differ, as with any tendon injury. A very slight tear or irritation would have minimal recovery, where more serious tear would take longer. ​ My advice is to stop using it if i…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:29 PM
8

You have to actively exercise what you learn the rest of your life. Even the best of the best can slip up/lose frame/react. Once you begin to practice it and see the results, it doesn't take long to realize it is the correct way. But, you have to constantly and actively be aware of it since it can and does often go against your natural and sometimes even instinctual urges and behaviors. Everyone is different, and some can manage this easier than others.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:24 PM
3

Research: Tricep Tendon Injury
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:20 PM
9

It sounds like you have a good thing going here, and that you are going to throw it away for a somewhat petty reason. I realize everyone has their standards and beliefs, but the older you get the less of a pool you are going to have to choose from that meet these standards. Which is 0 N count, AKA a virgin. ​ You want a virgin, and now, you, yourself, are no longer a virgin. So, what about the next chick? Since you have an N count of 1 now, does the new chick get to have an N count of 1 also? Pr…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:03 PM
5

Alcohol makes shit a little easier. You give less fucks. You are less inhibited. Blah blah. My question is why do you need it to do these things? You can do these things sober also. Its just a mental shift.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:54 PM
6

You just posted pretty much the exact same shit yesterday.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:52 PM
21

The same as when you are drunk. Fuck the shit out of her. Lead her. Tell her what you want and when you want it.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:45 PM
7

If I am able to, I no longer give them that ability over me. ​ If I have a date or am meeting someone, and they show up 30-60 minutes late without giving me any heads up at all, then I generally leave and no longer let them plan a time with me going forward. From then on its - "Let me know when you get there and then I will head that way." ​ If I leave food at someone house and dont get it back in time, I no longer leave food at that persons house (or anything else). My time is important to me, …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:39 PM
2

Looks good to me man. I am always up front with them. Deep down inside they love the challenge, and they are far more willing to make you happy when you leave them in this grey area.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:53 PM
3

Some people excel under pressure. Some people cave under pressure. Its pretty much adrenaline and a fight or flight response. Being in more situations definitely helps, experience, etc... ​ Other than that its purely mental. You have to find a way to focus the flight in to more of a fight response. You can incorporate this in to your daily life. Anytime something would normally make you run/back down/cause anxiety, you just face it head on. No fear. No worry. Just face it. (Don't get yourself ki…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:38 PM
3

She wants a provider now. Shes likely hitting up anyone who has the potential to do this. ​ You can forgive her, but I wouldn't give her another chance.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:22 PM
8

Its a bit different when you have the power to point at someone and have them killed, at will.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:12 PM
4

If he weren't a 30 year old who has never been on a date I might agree with you.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:05 PM
2

You left some sort of impression on her back in the day. So, when she catches up with others that know both of you, she asks about you. Beyond that, I have no idea.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:04 PM
4

Stop jerking off so damn much first of all. Then maybe hit up a gym 5 days a week with all of that time you free up from not jerking off. Then work on getting a date.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:42 PM
5

Not sure about your sex drive either, but at least you have a good jerk drive going for you. ​ Did you have a question?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:33 PM
3

Go back to /nofap before you get some poor kid kicked out of his house. #Daddyissues
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:48 PM
2

Sidebar - how to open and close.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:00 PM
9

Oh, you know, you just do it, without giving much information or you could tease with humor (cocksucker) and make up anything you want if you think you have the balls, you could even redirect the question back on to her. What do you think about that?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:57 PM
7

This was negging. And, in some circles, disrespect. You better offer her double leftovers next time.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:48 PM
4

DONT let it stop you! Just understand the possible outcome. Approach her, introduce yourself, try to make her laugh, and tell her you want her number so you can take her out for a drink/walk/meal/whatever. Expect her to say no. Go in to this fully expecting rejection. Almost to the point that if/when it happens, you can laugh about it. If she says no, dont let it get you down. Tell her to have a great day and just politely move on to the next.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:34 PM
7

Some may disagree with me, but hitting on a girl while she is working drastically reduces your odds of getting anything out of her unless you have extremely high SMV. ​ You are practicing on the lowest hanging fruit you possibly can. While its practice, you need to go after more. More girls! Esp at the stage in this you seem to be at. ​ Girls like this get approached by every creep in the book who cant cold approach a girl out in the general public. "There she is, trapped behind the register. Sh…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:24 PM
11

She could be. How the fuck would we know? Until you take the test you dont know.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:12 PM
1

lol. Jesus christ. His dad got pissed the dog pissed on the floor (common response). Entitled kid asks his dad to please stop and dad puts him in his fucking place. Hardly abuse. ​ You softies are fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:05 PM
2

Doesn't really seem like you need to eh? ​ Could mean anything man.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:37 PM
2

Just for clarity; You want us to tell you why some girl you met at a bar nodded at you while you were looking at her? ​ And, did you fuck her after that?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 05:40 PM
18

In my humble opinion. As with any other fuck up it is best to accept 100% responsibility, quickly and sincerely. Apologize to any and everyone you can that may have been there. Preferably in person (its more sincere). If not, send a text. ​ Other than that, you arent the first person in the world to get too drunk and act a fool. If these people know you when you are sober and know you to not normally be that way, then recovery will come easier than if it was just a group of randoms who didn't kn…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 05:24 PM
3

You are missing the fucking point. Its jot about hitting a dog. Its about your dad being in control. He is. If you don’t like it. Move.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:45 PM
1

Damn man, that made me cry.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:40 PM
4

You can't rectify it! You can mask it, fake it, etc... but deep down inside, you will still know you are walking around in high heels. I'm not bashing you man. I'm saying you dont need this shit. So what, 70% are taller than you. Be smarter, stronger, faster, more confident, funny, smooth, and carry yourself like you DGAF how tall they are. Then, you are top 70% at everything else. If you wanna wear your inserts or whatever then go for it. Order them online and get them shipped to your friends h…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:38 PM
3

How about improving yourself to the point you dont need high heels to feel confident that you are a high value man regardless how tall or short you may be?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:22 PM
4

Both. Let her know, and then withdraw attention and soft next until she comes back. If shes a good plate. If she sucks in general then just replace her.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:21 PM
6

Not by wearing fucking high heels.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:15 PM
7

Bro, she got you ice cream. They are all someones sloppy seconds, and if they arent when you meet them, then they will be after you are done with them. People like sex. At least she didn't run off to the local bar and fuck 5 other random guys. She fucked the only guy other than you that she trusted to fuck. Either get over it or don't. If you can't get over this then best of luck finding the perfect virgin or unicorn who has never made a questionable decision.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:10 PM
1

Get the fuck out of here with this shit. Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:01 PM
2

I would hit your dog and cuss if it pissed on my floor also. ​ He is 100% correct. Its his house and if dog piss on the floor makes him mad then he has every right to get mad. Train your dog better. If you dont like it, get the fuck out!
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:54 PM
1

Write a letter stating your intentions. Also, verbally tell your manager/boss. Let them know that you don't want to leave them hanging so if they have any questions or need any help after you leave then you could make yourself available as a contractor. This way you give them the option to get help from you/training, and you also get paid for your time. If you don't have the time for this then offer phone/remote support if you feel up to it. ​ Otherwise its on them to fill the position. Two week…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:51 PM
6

I remember that I was perfectly fine before the plate/fwb/ltr, and that I will be perfectly fine after. Outcome independence. ​ Sounds like you have a good plan.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:22 PM
2

Don't tell me that. Tell him that.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:19 PM
2

Boss or not you can professionally demand respect. You have to call people out like this on the spot and let them know that you will not be talked to in this way by anyone. Stay cool while doing it, and they cant really do anything about you defending yourself. ​ "I dont care who you are, no one talks to me like that." If he continues. "I have already told you that I will not tolerate this level of disrespect from anyone. If you have anything else to say to me you can do it in a professional and…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:46 PM
1

Definitely maybe! Or definitely maybe not.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:31 PM
12

You give to many fucks and place faith in shit you cannot place faith in. If you want the short n sweet version.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 05:31 AM
3

Eat and bulk until you get to 225. Then cut back down to 190.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 05:53 PM
2

Yes, the sidebar explains all of this.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:59 PM
3

Do what you want man. Sounds like these aren’t close friends. Close friends will respect your shit.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:57 PM
0

Diapers.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:38 PM
5

We don't know why you care about something you also do yourself. Why do you?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:09 PM
7

BPD? Bi-polar? ​ It is not normal, but it seems to be becoming more normal.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:08 PM
6

I mean that this one thing, by itself, doesn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:54 PM
9

About the same you would expect from a girl who has a pet hamster and not a pet rabbit.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:39 PM
1

"I do a few curls here and there" ​ I am pretty ripped though, so anyone who asks me if I work out is a fucking moron.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:31 PM
1

Sounds like you are single again. Nothing wrong with that. You had oneitis for the work girl, let her too close, and you also lost your wife (who you didn't care to be with anyways). ​ Cut the xanax, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Whether or not your fucked up and are feeling guilt is none of our business. Take the time to put the focus back on yourself. Hang out with friends, work out, stay busy, reset. This shit will pass in time, but cut the X out. It isn't going to help at all other than t…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:28 PM
24

“Have fun”
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:43 PM
2

Leave her and find someone that makes you happier. Or multiple people that make you happier.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:06 PM
4

Currently, yes. But when it first came out it was gold.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:47 PM
2

Invest in yahoo and amazon.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:42 PM
2

You have the questions. PM me.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:35 PM
21

Haha. This is what women do.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:29 PM
2

Ask your questions.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:28 PM
8

Alcohol consumption has nothing to do with TRP. Sex, in itself, has nothing to do with TRP. ​ Read the sidebar, fully, 5 times over, and then get back to us.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:10 PM
4

"Take me home with you after work."
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:08 PM
3

"Come home with me after you get off work."
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:48 PM
6

Unless you are blind, douchebaggery.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:45 PM
6

As a cynical asshole, I also enjoy the social benefits of alcohol.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:44 PM
5

I used to enjoy cheat days but they really do set you back. If you are bulking its one thing, but if you are cutting or shooting for lean and mean then they are just a big fucking waste.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:15 PM
13

I thought you meant after sex. My mistake.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:48 PM
17

If you love it, why is it bad?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:45 PM
2

Its just another naked woman. Roll with the thoughts, eventually they will fade away assuming you didn't save them and arent looking at them daily.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:27 PM
5

Maybe she read something online about the dangers of anal? Maybe her best friend told her that he asshole would eventually fall out and drag on the ground? ​ Who knows, could be any number of reasons. Either its ok with you, or its not. If its not, find another girl that loves anal.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:50 PM
13

You dont need any pointers. You get it.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:44 PM
3

Fuck, sit down and ask her. ​ I wouldn't want anal either.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:39 PM
7

Accidents happen man. I have lost a few friends/family/and people I know along the way. There is always a small form of guilt. "What could I have done?" Type stuff. Its normal. Mourn the way you mourn and realize you didn't cause this or couldn't have prevented it.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:33 PM
3

Get busy living or get busy dying. ​ Its your choice. ​ I personally only have one life and want to make the most of it without being a worthless slob. If nothing else motivates you, then at least let pride.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:17 PM
3

If she proposes that you meet at a private place, be wary. Otherwise go for it. Wouldn't want you to get mugged if it is a set up of some sort. ​ You didn't give a whole lot of detail. If you talked at all, or if she just walked up and gave you a number and walked away. I have heard of date/scams/robberies before, but who knows if this would apply.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:52 PM
1

As long as the kissing was consensual then you are OK. The parents could possibly pursue something, but it is pretty unlikely anyone is going to do anything over mutual kissing. ​ In Cali "Mistake of Age" is also a defense. If the girl appears above her age and gave you a false age or misrepresented herself as being above age of consent. Otherwise if you had knowledge that is provable, then that wouldn't apply. ​ Again, if all that happened was consensual kissing then you should be OK.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:38 PM
1

Just put a vibrating butt plug in your ass and walk around with it on all day.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:29 PM
5

Less than a 3 year age difference in Cali is a misdemeanor (in most cases) and you would NOT be considered a sex offender. Only intercourse counts. So, if you only kissed and you did not penetrate, then you should be just fine. ​ While you may have to deal with bullshit, the burden of proof would still lie on her to prove anything else happened, in which case it would likely be your word against hers/testimony in a courtroom. So, save all texts/etc/any crazy shit she might say.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:22 PM
3

what state are you in and I can tell you if you even have anything to worry about.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:09 PM
2

Just let her leave for college and she will end it about 3-6 months later.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:00 PM
1

Sounds like a headache. Whats your question?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:18 PM
0

Yes, alcohol.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:25 PM
2

Pompano Beach, Austin, South Padre
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:50 PM
14

Welcome to the first step towards becoming a lifelong alcoholic.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:49 PM
1

Definitely. Also join a local Curves.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:17 PM
3

I personally don't think so, but one of them might.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:13 PM
1

It's an LTR. After the honeymoon phase things like this die down and each person gets back to their "regular shit" and the relationship takes slightly lower priority. If you want to talk to her just pick up the damn phone and call her once a day. Doesn't have to be long. Just long enough for her to think "He called me, he cares." ​ I personally hate texting little check ins, and bullshit, so my opinion on this may be somewhat biased.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:12 PM
2

It means they arent completely repulsed by you.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:06 PM
1

Hi, I'm ____, could one of you rub sunscreen on my back? If they look at your weird or no one volunteers, cry and run off. If they laugh or one of them volunteers, you might have a chance.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:04 PM
3

Her sister was already an ass about it and shes probably not going to stop. If its not done now and she goes back and forth on it. It likely has no chance going forward long term. Mainly due to the way the sister sounds.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:09 PM
13

3.2% higher SMV.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:39 PM
5

I wouldn't give a shit.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:36 PM
28

You mean people exaggerate themselves while posting online anonymously? No. It can't be.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:33 PM
2

Work out hard, eat correctly, rest. Doesn't matter how you do it. Gym/Bodybuilding is generally easier and more cost effective. Some people dont like to work out in this setting though. Whatever works for you man.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:21 PM
2

"I'm busy" "I have a lot going on" "Ill text you if/when I can" "You have been replaced"
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:19 PM
1

Jesus fuck.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:15 PM
1

Its always situational. Who would you rather take to space with you? Stephen Hawking or Ray Lewis? Who would you rather have on your football team?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:07 PM
2

I treat myself well, thank you.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:53 AM
2

It can be a weird place at times. Filter out the shit posts. Good luck.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:52 AM
2

I can confirm that sometimes I have to piss during sex. Esp if I have been drinking or its morning sex. It makes it difficult to finish if I don’t.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:06 PM
8

As long as I am around you will never be the prize. Solution: Get better than me.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:09 PM
3

Yes. Its always worth the work of lifting.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:06 PM
3

No point saying anything.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:16 PM
2

Monthly cycle plays a huge part in this.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:58 PM
2

Sucks when batman cant even get a date on Tinder.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:54 PM
8

She is answering. So no.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:17 PM
1

I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 05:46 PM
7

3 Days a week minimum for me. About an hour and 15 minutes per session. Sometimes more if I have time. Depends on what your goal is buddy.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 05:36 PM
14

Have you ever had a dream about fucking someone else, perhaps even a day dream while awake? Its a dream. She told you about it. That alone really isn't much to go on. ​ If she said "I dreamed my ex was fucking me doggystyle while you watched in the corner jerking off." That would be a little different.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:44 PM
6

3/4 of my closest friends were people I actually got in to fist fights with before we became close friends. So, for me it seems I have to physically fight people to secure some sort of man bond.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:38 PM
1

Did this problem start before or after your experience?
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:28 PM
2

Any other outside stresses? Shit on your mind? Not getting in to it mentally as much? Not getting enough rest? Drinking too much? ​ Take a 3-5 day break and see if anything changes. I have had this happen randomly but its usually because I just dont feel like fucking sometimes or I have other shit on my mind. Gym wears my ass out, work, etc... After a very short break everything is fine.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:14 PM
8

After that level of disrespect she does not deserve an ounce of closure.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:22 PM
3

Trp is the correct mindset. Trp is about yourself. Not getting girls>self. Self first. Your frame first. After that it depends on what you personally want.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:18 PM
3

Dissappear.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:15 PM
5

I would read the #1 rule of asktrp.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:22 PM
3

How do the random opinions of anonymous people on the internet have any bearing at all on what the fuck you personally do, how the fuck you think, and how the fuck you personally act? These groups (from all races) have been around forever. The internet just gives them a voice. ​ Be a better man, be your own man, and take pride in yourself and what you do. Fuck everyone else.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:09 PM
6

Getting divorced while your wife is pregnant is already socially acceptable. ​ Many couples get divorced after their kids leave the house. And, they are waiting until that exact moment to do so.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:04 PM
1

If she is working for you or under you then you know the answer. Either way, She sounds like she has been around long enough to pull whatever strings on a man she wants to. How do you know she isn't pulling yours too?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:23 PM
11

When you have no bite, all you have is bark. Until someone punches your teeth in.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:21 PM
1

Is this some random tinder girl or someone you actually know?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:10 PM
1

Unless they have had a hysterectomy or have been "fixed" and you know it for a fact or you have had a vasectomy, fuck no dont do it. ​ So it feels one-tenth better than just pulling out and going in her mouth. Not worth it in my humble opinion.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:15 PM
2

If its what you want and you arent making other self-sacrifices then go for it. The time compromise would be the only issue unless you start developing feels. Other than that just react accordingly to whatever escalation attempts she makes. If she does.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:54 PM
4

Unless she comes at you with some sort of domestic abuse/battery or sexual assault charge, then she shouldn't. This is why you need to keep all texts from before and after the event.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:51 PM
5

What in the actual fuck.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:35 PM
9

Save the texts. Offer to cover part of the repair if you give a shit.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:33 PM
78

Crabs in a bucket.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 03:51 PM
3

Happens every day a million times a day. You give her tingles. He doesn't.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:34 PM
1

Part of fitting in to many social settings involves the ability to change your approach with people based on certain factors. Gender, social status, social setting, race, etc... ​ You either learn this and adapt, or you dont and you get poked at. Possibly even beat up.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:53 PM
3

Get a job.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:04 PM
1

Soft next. Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:42 PM
9

Yes, on your neck.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:11 PM
1

Someone else said it. Misery loves company.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:47 PM
40

Her: “Yes! 400$ a month for 18 years!”
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:35 AM
3

Posting this question sacrificed more frame than dancing when you felt like it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:34 AM
2

I get one of my dedicated towels out of my closet and toss it to her. Then I usually have a smoke or a beer, or both.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:36 PM
3

I don’t online date or have any form of social media and getting laid has never been an issue. Once you realize the game, play along, and accept how women are, it really does become pathetically easy. Trp definitely teaches and preaches how to do this.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:35 PM
2

Based on what you said you can’t tell jack shit. And don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:23 PM
3

Excellent answer. Just keep at it man. Live and learn and adapt accordingly. Practice works. Stick around until last call to increase your odds .35%
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:32 PM
6

How many neon light sticks do you usually dance with? If its 1 or more then that could be your problem.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:25 PM
14

Porn can rewire your brain to where self-stimulation via optics to the brain vs stimulation from others and actions/feelings/sensuality/passion “could” no longer stimulate you as they should. Your natural drive can also drop. Why game/go out/talk/bother when i can jerk off to a hotter chick for free? Can get in the way also. Some people can compartmentalize and make and keep the two separate. Most cannot.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 05:30 PM
11

I generally require solitude in some form. Gym, meditation, doing something outside, fixing something, creating something, music, shooting guns/bow, turning off the phone for a while, sleep/rest. Doesn't take long to get a small reset in most of the time.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:01 PM
6

I'd tell you, but you would probably leave.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:56 PM
6

Seems like she likes you and wants to do nice things for you. From what you have said I dont see a problem. Other than its kind of gross to have someone popping your pimples in public places.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:33 PM
3

From what you have described this girl is plate material at best. Shes also showing signs of BPD, AKA the kind of crazy that will fuck you up one day. ​ Demote to plate and keep her there or hard next. Stop wasting your time and energy.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:50 PM
3

Don’t care. I do what i feel like when i feel like it.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:43 PM
8

As long as shes showing up its ok. Shes also giving you notice. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:41 PM
6

At work you do your job and you do it well. The hierarchy is in place for a reason. Once you get to the top, you can give orders. ​ Helping your brother move has nothing to do with frame. If he disrespects you by saying "put that box over there you little faggot cunt," you can say "move your own shit asshole." And that's that.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:11 PM
3

As long as you two get along and you dont catch any major feels I dont see a problem with it. If shes a good companion then cool. ​ Advantages: Guaranteed sex, someone to hang out with Disadvantages: You may be stuck with her and only her. Limiting yourself. Not sure whose paying for this or everything? If shit goes south, you are stuck with her. What if shes on her period that week? You may get too close/catch feels. She might get to close/catch feels. She might decide she wants to fuck someone…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:46 PM
15

You keep your mouth shut. Actions over words. Words mean shit. Just do.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:57 PM
2

You are a 30 year old MAN. Who gives a fuck about your birthday? You certainly shouldn't. ​ When you are a 60 year old father, then someone might give a fuck.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:47 PM
9

Always best to act like you dgaf. They wear that shit for a reason. Be the guy that doesn’t give a shit. “Ive seen this a hundred times. So what?”
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:48 AM
1

Cool story. What was your question for advice or what did you need clarification on?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:49 PM
1

6'2 195 11-12% I usually consume about 2500-3000 calories a day and work out like a madman. One day a week I will do a partial-fast and only consume 500-1000 calories, sometimes less. I do not bulk or cut at this point as I am where I want to be. Only maintain and tone further. I pretty much only eat meat/veggies/rice/beans/fruit/nuts/beer/and protein bars and shakes.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:42 PM
1

Sometimes you cant without sacrificing yourself, or more than you should. You deemed her a plate, she knew that. Just wait... hit her up in the future, or wait for her to hit you back up. It will happen and your plate will come back for a bit. Enjoy the cycle and keep plating others.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:35 PM
2

Its a plate. Plates are meant to break. Find another one.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:22 PM
2

You can learn to love things. Things I used to hate that I love/like now. Cooking Going on a walk outside Hiking Golf Working on my truck Leg Day Dressing formally suite/tie Etc...
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:00 PM
6

If you expect her to introduce you to her girlfriends with those expectations then good luck. You could use the guise of "hey get all of your friends to go hang out with us" and work from there. Either way, if you arent really slick, and even if you are, prepare to be labeled an asshole/player among this group pretty quickly. That doesn't mean you wont get laid by another one of her friends though.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:54 PM
1

How old are you and have you ever been laid?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:46 PM
7

This is a comfort test, not a shit test. She wants to see if you are OK with her taking a job that requires 70% travel and to see if you would stick around if that were her choice.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:41 PM
5

Call him a pussy and tell him you are going to fuck his mom because he said that. And smile at him.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:34 PM
33

There is likely an underlying reason you are doing these drugs/substances. Until you figure out the underlying reason, and focus on that, then it will be a struggle to get anywhere. ​ Everyone is different. Some people can do weed, alcohol, caffeine, coke, and still go about their lives and be perfectly fine with themselves and successful. ​ I would say that starting with a clean slate would definitely help. But, it can be hard to cut everything out at once. ​ So, pick one indulgence, only use i…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:24 PM
4

Seems she had enough attachment to you to get pissed about this. If she is a FWB, then not much you can do other than to remind her that you had no commitment to her or just let it go. ​ If you do end up talking shit out, you can almost guarantee she will push for an exclusive FWB arrangement. Whats the point of that?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:54 PM
6

Then find another bad bitch. They are everywhere!
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:52 PM
3

Do what makes you happy man. If sexual needs outweigh the other positives of the relationship then find someone else or tell her you no longer want to be exclusive. This is for you to decide. If the needs arent being met now, in the early stages of the relationship, they are likely never going to be met unless something drastic changes for her.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:50 PM
6

Jesus fuck man. Find another girl!
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:41 PM
3

Jerking off just reduces my urge to get laid for about an hour or two. ​ Everyone is different.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:01 PM
2

Nope. Unless you know them very well, nope.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:22 PM
4

For now, soft next until she pushes seeing you again. Then, If she keeps up with the red light green light crap then dread or consider a hard next as others have stated. Remember. The juice is never worth the squeeze. Sounds like you have abundance anyways. Keep that up and you shouldn't care much about this one if she keeps up with the kid games.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:17 PM
216

Dating apps. A blow job from a below average chick is just a click away. ​ Decent looking guy gets bored, wants a BJ. Hits up any randoms on Tinder that meet BJ standards. Girl gives best looking guy she has ever been around a BJ, and then thinks shes a 10 and permanently increases her standards.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:11 PM
1

How old is this girl? 16?
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:03 PM
5

Girls at this age (and all ages) have guy friends, AKA Orbiters, co-workers, classmates, etc... If she isn't fucking them and there's nothing there, who cares? Don't mate guard. Don't give a shit. You arent even committed. Have fun with the group, get to know them, watch her behavior around them and theirs around her. You will know pretty quickly if you/them being there is making shit awkward. ​ The only time it shouldn't be acceptable is if you two are committed, and she is going out with ex's.…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:52 PM
1

Tell her you would like a copy of the bill because you want it for tax purposes.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:36 PM
2

Whats the difference in cost? 10$? 200$? 500$?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:27 PM
4

Do you have any idea how many 35+ year old "cat ladies" are out there?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:25 PM
29

Shes going to gaslight you to death at this point. You know what you have to do. ​ Take care of your daughter and begin the process. It will take time, but it will get better.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:07 PM
3

Just sarcasm. Nothing groundbreaking going on here.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:02 PM
4

I wouldn't really call that dread. More enforcing your SMV. She sees other girls checking you out and in turn feels like she has the prize. ​ Taking her a few times and then telling her you would rather her not go there with you anymore is dread.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:24 PM
9

Google: Victim Mentality
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:52 PM
2

Unless someone is asking you for advice or help, stay out of it. If they come to you after a break up and need help, then you can gently guide them, but I wouldn't start with this forum. Start with one of the many recommended books here. If they like the book , and are receptive to it, then let them know more.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:49 PM
2

People have issues man. Your dad = just another people. Since he is your dad, why not ask him without getting emotionally involved in the conversation? We don't know if you are some perfect guy or if your dad has valid points and just doesn't know how to express them to you. ​ He could be trying some tough love approach. He could have had a verbally abusive father. We don't know. ​ Handle your own shit. when you get to the point you can escape the environment if it is still bad, then do it.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:46 PM
1

What is this obligatory after sex text you speak of? Let them do that.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:35 PM
3

So what advice were you seeking, or clarification?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:32 PM
1

Soft-next, or keep him as a plate.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:58 PM
23

This is a people thing. Not a woman thing. There are both men and women who cannot be alone and happy.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:25 PM
1

This shit is everywhere. Some women have no limits. You can fuck a married guys wife in the bathroom. While he’s in the other room. She could be the quiet sweet girl no one would ever suspect. Always be ready to leave.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:56 AM
21

That I was 10
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:05 AM
4

When I was 10 I stumbled upon my parents illustrated "The Joy of Sex" book. ​ Changed my life. Changed a lot of my friends lives also.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:32 PM
6

Why not just start slow and give her a kiss on the forehead? Take the edge off of you a little, but still make some progress and see if she likes it or not. If she does, kiss her again on the lips after you break the ice.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:16 PM
6

You wasted 10 seconds of my life. Dick.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:50 PM
3

What do you expect? A step by step playbook from us when we know absolutely nothing about you or her?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:04 PM
16

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Space it up some more. You are spending too much time with her.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:07 PM
7

Yes, train your brain to not give a shit and be outcome independent. Why devote your thoughts to something like that? Instead, do something for yourself that benefits you. If she doesn't respond, who cares, you cant make her. Trying to make her will result in self-sabotage. Hamstering about it is a waste of time and energy that could be spent on many other things that actually benefit you. ​ Women know when a man is a cluster fuck of insecurity. If they don't right away, they figure it out reall…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:26 PM
16

It takes self-control, discipline, and the feeling of confidence and abundance to get out of this mindset. Re-train your brain. You know the problem, you have acknowledged it, now act on it. Your analysis (AKA Hamstering) doesn't accomplish jack shit but holding you back and potentially sabotaging yourself. Set some hard rules for your thinking. "I will never think this" "I will never care about this." Follow those hard rules and never deviate.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:45 PM
4

You have never even talked to this girl. Next time, at least introduce yourself in person before you ask a girl to prom. Then she might feel a bit more of a connection. The hype around the talk likely scared her off. She probably asked everyone else but you, about you, and she convinced herself to back out. ​ Pain and conflict...from what? Some little girl changed her mind? Get used to it. It never stops. Don't take this shit personally. Let it go. Move on. Make a joke about it. Be a man who doe…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:39 PM
3

Photos like that are not necessary. They are attention seeking. If you want to send them, keep them private, do not post for all to see. If 50% of girls love it, and 50% hate it, you are still turning off 50% for no reason at all. Stay neutral on the surface level and send privately.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:50 PM
4

Make up anything you want..friend passed away, dog died, grandma has been sick, etc... You are getting back to your normal self now and want to make it up to her.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:30 PM
2

For some reason my brain just cant comprehend what you are asking here.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:23 PM
81

Don't respond. Look at her like shes a slut, and keep her as a plate. That's just TMI and a lack of class on her part to say that. At least it was a compliment...I think...sort of...
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:21 PM
1

Depends on the situation. If I am out with someone and they are minding their own business, not looking for trouble, then I will back them up if shit goes down. If they are looking for trouble, belligerently drunk, and trying to start shit with the wrong people just because, then that's on them. ​ Ill take a beating for a friend, or try to help if they arent antagonizing someone. But, if they are starting the drama its tough to stick my neck out for them other than getting them out of the enviro…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:13 PM
1

17.634%
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:58 PM
1

So, they weren't there at all? Or, they were there, saw it, and did nothing to help?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:50 PM
2

Under the right circumstances, yes.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:47 PM
1

Shes your plate. You are one of hers also. ​ DGAF about plates. She obviously doesn't want more at the moment. She told you this.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:45 PM
1

I have experienced both sides. Lean and mean is definitely the way to go. For more reasons than just looks.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 03:07 PM
5

You don't. You can't click with everyone. You can focus on improving yourself so more girls want to click with you, and then you will get some clicks.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:03 PM
5

What the fuck.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:52 PM
7

You are better than her. Dump this worthless leech. Or knock her up and have her mooch your lifeforce away the rest of your life. Wanting a relationship doesn't mean you sacrifice and settle for a crappy one. ​ You owe her nothing. Find someone else that makes you happier. Or, go solo until you do.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:57 PM
5

Haha, now that is pretty damn funny. Fuck his mom instead.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:50 PM
7

Would you rather your friend be the guy, or some random dude you don't even know? I can see how you may feel your trust is betrayed, but they were a bit young when this started and sometimes making things open and transparent for everyone isn't the first thing on peoples minds in these situations. If your friend is good to your sister, and it doesn't cause any other drama or issues, then I say just tell your friend he pulled a dick move that may have cost him some trust. Your sis could have been…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:40 PM
3

Sounds like you have tried to get her out with you a few times. If you want a new text buddy then keep it up. Otherwise, shes not interested at this time.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:07 PM
7

Pulling out and making her swallow it reduces 58% of my anxiety.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:57 PM
11

It depends. Did this happen on the playground? Or behind the bleachers?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:48 PM
4

Googling it generates numerous results. I'm not in to cold showers, but for soreness ice baths definitely help.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:53 PM
3

I second his point.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:51 PM
1

Not a lot of context to work with here. I gave it my best.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:30 PM
1

"But, mom, I haven't seen you in over two weeks."
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:25 PM
21

If a guy fucks a fat chick in the woods and no one is around to see it, did it really happen? ​ Girls are the same.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:53 PM
13

Ride it out for a bit. Then, switch jobs using your new title to assist.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:09 PM
8

I do it. Whats yours?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:21 AM
3

Tell her you want to see other people. Then see other people.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:17 PM
23

She likes to be dominated. Most girls do on some level. Wouldn't call it a red flag without knowing more about her.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:56 PM
6

It was just a joke. Laugh. No need to overthink it. Sometimes people say funny shit at the expense of others. If you are able to amplify, then do so. If not, then just laugh and do what you did.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:49 PM
17

Don't even consider an LTR until the girl has been properly vetted. The vetting process should include witnessing and experiencing her actions, decisions, and behaviors firsthand. In multiple environments. You cannot rely on words. Only actions. You must witness her in action, and be comfortable with her and all of her actions before you reward her with an LTR. ​ You cant stop cheating. You can only be better than the rest so that cheating on you would = a loss for her, and never a loss for you …
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:45 PM
7

Laugh. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:31 PM
62

If you arent interested then just take a break. There is nothing wrong with a break, and clearing your head. Continue to improve yourself, continue to stay away from porn. No idea how long your relationship was, but if it lasted for years then this could take a little time. Don't force it. ​ Otherwise: Get off of autopilot with the women. Tease them, tease yourself. Get in to it on a mental level and not just the physical and the physical will come easier. Coming from a relationship you may be u…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:21 PM
1

Yeee haw!
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:46 PM
2

Fake your own death. Move to Guatemala. Block on social media.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:39 PM
8

If it is sarcasm that reflects jealousy or insecurity, possibly. Depends on the extent and frequency that you do it.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:35 PM
5

Totally depends on your diet. I have people at my gym that have not changed a single bit in the 10 years I have been going there. Why not? Because they eat like shit and work out like pussies. Eat well, work out hard, rest. Results will come very quickly.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:17 PM
6

If you are done with her why are you worried about this? Its not like you have any control over it, and if that's what she chooses to do then who cares? Your friends shouldn't mess with her if they are really your friends. If they do, then reconsider those friendships. ​ This is just life man. People come and go. Relationships come and go. Any time spent worrying about her or stuff like this is nothing more than a waste of time. Think 2 years from now. 5 years from now. Will it truly matter?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:15 PM
5

It means they want to know if you have a girlfriend. Or a daughter.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:15 PM
7

Light physical contact and gauge the reaction. If shes pulls away, pushes away, or looks disgusted, you are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:47 PM
5

Your friends suck!
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:41 PM
1

Just be direct. Tell her to go out with you. If she says no or strings you along, next her again. If not, go from there.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:07 PM
4

Well, shes gone. ​ All you have left to do is confront your friend and decide if hes worth keeping around also. If they didn't do anything sexual, and she was just your fuck buddy anyways, then that's your call man. I personally don't fuck with my fiends girls, ever, period, even if they split up 10 years in the past. Because, they are my friends and I know what kind of shitstorm that causes, and there's a few hundred million other women to choose from. Between you and your friend to hash out, a…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:05 PM
12

the past two weeks while this birthday nonsense has been going on, she denied sex once which has never happened, she started calling names and acting crazy, told me she would intentionally cheat on me, etc. Calling names and telling me she would intentionally cheat on me would promptly end any LTR I were in. No words would even be exchanged after this. Period. They would never hear from me again after saying something like that. ​ Light dread? You need to dump her disrespectful ass. In my humble…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:01 PM
4

Just to clarify? Your good friend met with your FWB (not committed) and they fucked? Or, they met, and you don't know what happened?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:51 PM
8

Why scrounge around for something that didn't work 2-3 years ago? ABUNDANCE!
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:40 PM
8

Borderline Personality Disorder. Block/Ghost/Run
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:37 PM
6

I waited an hour for sex once. It still wasn't worth it.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:29 PM
6

If you do go. ​ When she asks about the camera, look her dead in the face and say "I cant believe this, but I forgot it. How about that drink?" ​ You will shortly after learn how much she is truly in to you.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:19 PM
3

You are 28 and worried about an indecisive 19 year old being indecisive. Not to be insulting, but you sound like another orbiter that shes toying with. Stop letting her and move on. Show abundance at these clubs. Talk to other girls in front of her. Show her you are valued and you don't GAF about her. If you want any chance then stop giving her anything until you get what you want first. No validation. No chasing. And for Christs sake, no more cake!
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:04 PM
6

We are all different. RP says do what makes you happy and pursue your own self-interests. Swinging/group sex isn't for everyone, but some enjoy it. If you enjoy it. Go for it. I think its more individual preference than male/female imperative.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:55 PM
9

I guess it doesn’t matter because they all wanna fuck anyways. If you aren't doing it to them, they are just gonna do it to you. Even if you are a psycho, the girls only know this because they are too. You are doing what you want, and what makes you happy. and, you really arent hurting anyone or breaking any laws.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:35 PM
1

You let her know how you felt about it already. If she brings it up again and asks for forgiveness just say "Fine, but don't pull that shit again." ​ If she doesn't bring it up just let it go and act like it didn't happen. ​ If she fucks with you again, revenge X10.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:20 PM
4

If you don't give a shit about her and shes just some chick who annoys you then just don't talk to her anymore. ​ If you are friends/friendly just tell her not to do that shit again and get over it. ​ Not many other options other than revenge.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:58 PM
7

I am guessing there is no sexual attraction here?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:34 PM
4

Is this chick just fucking crazy? How do I handle this?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:15 PM
21

You should accept nothing less than an immediate fuck. If you are going to dig through old trash at least make it worth it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:56 PM
3

I don't think there is a direct correlation to lifting vs materialism. Probably just more of what they put more value on in life. Buying stuff/having nice things/maintaining these things vs working out. Also, people with less money may be more inclined to invest in a gym, and spend their time there vs going out and buying shit all of the time which isn't really an option. I know people who are very well off and still take great care of themselves. They also hire other people to wash their BMW's …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:51 PM
4

Until you get something take what you can get. And read the damn sidebar. Start with "Theres this one girl..."
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:28 PM
10

Find something else to do? Sounds like you don't have enough going on to stay busy. Put the phone down. Do shit.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:25 PM
22

She: Called you a tranny fucker Told your GF Fucked your room mate Is annoying Baited you in to a blow job to bite your dick Rubbed it in Left And is ignoring you ​ How many more subtle hints do you need?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:13 PM
1

Healthy "medical" range for your age is about 250-950, which is kind of bullshit. ​ At 700 you are pretty average. T Level of 950 would put you in the top 95 percentile for your age. At 400 you would be in the bottom 5 percentile.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:05 PM
2

How old are you? ​ Without knowing your age you are in the average range.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:59 PM
2

If you want to prevent possible infection and dont know the person or have not seen their STD test results, then a condom would definitely lessen the likely hood of getting an STD through oral sex. ​ Unfortunately, It could also reduce the likely hood of the blow job feeling good, or you getting to cum. ​ Depends on how dirty these plates you are spinning are... I have never worn a condom for any BJ personally.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:52 PM
1

Just tell her you aren't in the habit of buying dinner for strangers but you would like to go for drinks and go from there. If she comes back with bullshit then don't bother.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:35 PM
2

Its not just women. Some people just dont take pride in earning what they have or get.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:08 PM
5

Is she trying to escape your attention by talking to someone else?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:50 PM
7

You aren't saying it because you really need it. You are saying it to play along and entertain her original thought/keep your cock on her mind. ​ They only have something over you if they really have something over you.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:23 PM
8

Shes being a dumb bitch. ​ Treat her like one.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:02 PM
5

Date went well but I did not escalate as I saw the chance of smashing as low. She was using more kino than me, touching/holding my arm and shit. How do you interpret this as "I shouldn't escalate?"
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:58 PM
14

"I was asleep, but now I'm awake and need you to suck my dick."
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:56 PM
8

A condom wont necessarily stop chlamydia anyways. Its bacterial. ​ You need 7-10 full days on antibiotics to be certain it is fully gone. This is a question of morals so its ultimately up to you. I personally would not spread an STD if I knowingly had it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:34 PM
2

If you tell her once, shes going to expect it every single time after that. So, hold your frame. Keep your frame. If she wants to leave because of that stupidity then let that be her choice. Then you can say "Guess you didn't really love me after all." And then chuckle. ​ Edit: Fixed that just for you bigdaddy
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:35 PM
18

To mind fuck you. It worked. Ghost time...
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:28 PM
7

Her is her Alpha, for now. Shes pregnant. Lives in his house. She has no other "better" options...for now. Sounds like she has some self-esteem issues as well. Combine this with her very likely "daddy issues" and hes the perfect guy for her, for now.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 08:07 PM
21

Ghosting/nexting is more for girls who have disrespected you or do not show interest. If you are the one making the cut then afford them whatever level of respect you deem appropriate.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 08:02 PM
6

but I feel like if she was interested she would have at least texted and said she couldn't make it that day Ball is in her court. Leave it there.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 08:01 PM
3

Sounds like she met someone else. ​ Either way, ghost her, block her, delete her, and move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:14 PM
16

Never let words bother you. Especially from dumb ass people you barely even know. Either its something constructive from someone you trust/respect or its dog shit and should be ignored accordingly. ​ That said, since you really don't trust or respect me, you should ignore this.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:43 PM
11

No, all hope is not lost. I hope your finger at least got to cum though.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:32 PM
1

I wouldn't post it if in a "good" LTR. But, I can't stand stupid questions and pointless drama in an LTR. Good for dread, sure. But, are you ready for the potential payback posts/fallout/questions/revenge that could come? Sure, you can hold frame, pass the shit and comfort tests to come. DGAF, etc... But, is it really worth it? Maybe so, maybe not. That's up to you and how you and your girl are in the LTR.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:31 PM
8

If you weren't in to it, you weren't in to it. Leaving is better than uncomfortably rubbing your limp dick on her while some other dude is hammering away at her. 2M/1F 3-somes aren't for everyone.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:16 PM
25

Some of them are. Some of them are not.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:25 PM
7

ap·a·thet·ic /ˌapəˈTHedik/ adjective adjective: apathetic ​ showing or feeling no interest, enthusiasm, or concern. ​ a·loof /əˈlo͞of/ adjective adjective: aloof ​ not friendly or forthcoming; cool and distant.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:16 PM
2

Lip condoms. And vaseline.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:14 AM
5

“You’re fat and ugly, wanna fuck?”
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:07 PM
2

It takes time man. You shared 10 months of your life together. It could take a month or two to move on. Everyone is built differently in this way. The more distractions you have, the better. The more focused on yourself, the better. One day you will just wake up and realize you are over it, and you will feel great. Keep ghosting her and it will go faster. Block her, don't look her up on social media, etc. Shes dead to you until you are over it. Then, once you are over it, it wont matter.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:56 PM
1

Get her a dildo and make her suck it while you fuck her. Get a bunch of different shapes, sizes, and colors so its like she doing it to a lot of different dudes from all over the world. Maybe that will hold the worse thoughts at bay.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:41 PM
3

Offhand and without knowing more. It sounds like she had possible BPD and a lack of Object Constancy, which is pretty common in BPD. Also attachment issues and/or separation anxiety. Also pretty common in BPD. ​ You dodged a bullet with this one in the long run. ​ Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:58 PM
19

Just sounds like dirty talk to me. Amp it up. Call her your dirty little cum whore and tell her eat up.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:11 PM
1

I personally use BCAA's, Citrulline, Beta Alanine, Creatine, ZMA, and Glutamine
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:01 PM
14

Go monk. Dgaf. You will find that you naturally begin to game as long as you are focused on self improvement. Get smarter. Stronger. More determined. Then you will see things fall in to place. Then apply trp.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 08:48 PM
2

As someone who frequently interviews people for technical jobs, it is extremely easy to figure out who is exaggerating and who is flat out lying about their job experience. We have questions and scenarios for this. Sure, some people are good enough to slip through the cracks, but then we let them go during their probationary period when they prove that they aren't capable of jack shit. If you are going to lie, at least do some research on what you are lying about, that way it isn't completely ob…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:26 PM
5

I would wear a swimming suit. A suit is a suit.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:27 PM
9

Just take a week off man. Or go to the gym, but don't work to fatigue. See if it at least helps. 6 days a week is quite a bit if you aren't getting ample rest and recovery. A week off isn't going to hurt you that much at all. ​ I get like this too. Sometimes the body just needs a little break.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:07 PM
5

Haha. 40$ and Ill leave right now dude.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:46 PM
1

It should no longer show up.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:11 PM
18

Very difficult to see a return without having a LOT to invest, and potentially lose, or at least wait out. You also really need to know your shit. It can take years to learn the flow. And then, you still wont even know wtf is going on. For a rookie with little money or experience I would say to stay away and find other investments.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:36 PM
5

Every shot missed is practice for the next shot. Keep practicing.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:23 PM
23

Yes, it is possible. But, so is the alternative.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:15 PM
1

It doesn't become a LTR unless you let it become an LTR. Stop hamstering and just DO.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:39 PM
5

Haha, see you on the news soon buddy. Fortunately this is a temporary/class setup and you wont have to tolerate it forever.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:32 PM
3

Ignore them, they will always be around in some form.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:27 PM
2

"I wont tell anyone if you don't" "Hey, its a 4 star hotel" "I don't like it anymore than you do, but the pros outweighed the cons."
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:06 PM
2

There are a lot of IT/Customer Service/Sales jobs that allow you to work from home. You just have to find them. These jobs often track the shit out of your log in times/online/phone times/etc... so freedom is relative. ​ Without knowing your experience or credentials I really cant recommend exactly what you are able to do.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:58 PM
14

Don't fuck with underage kids unless you absolutely have to to defend yourself or her from actual harm. ​ You should just let something like this go. If he actually hurt her/punched her/assaulted her with something then you could involve the police if you really want to go that route. ​ Some kids are dumb, don't stoop to their level and trying to get verbal with them is often just going to egg them on.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:55 PM
21

This ^ ​ Fuck that.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:42 PM
2

Set "Eye of the Tiger" as your alarm clock tone.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:22 PM
2

Go to a strip club, pay for a lap dance or two from the ones you are interested in, and politely ask the dancers if they do work at bachelor parties or know anyone who does. Kind of depends on where you live/availability/who you know also. Most of these girls go in pairs or do have some muscle with them if they are going to do this stuff. Some clubs don't like you soliciting their girls either so keep it polite, quiet, and phrase it as a simple question. "Hey do you know anyone who would do this…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:15 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:15 PM
6

You still need to keep your own life. Do your own things and be your own man. Hanging around her too much can prevent this. It can also change you eventually. Space is good for attraction for both of you. You dont have to go to extremes but yes you should dial it back a notch or two and be sure you are handling your own shit and goals.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:36 PM
1

I fail to see the cock block.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 01:40 PM
2

You can still go to the gym. Just focus on legs/stairmaster/uphill treadmill and go slow once you are past the initial healing phase/pain med phase. I broke my collarbone/arm/wrist/hand and was in a similar situation. Take rehab seriously. Focus on diet. Keep your blood flowing as it will benefit the healing process. A few months off is nothing.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:40 PM
19

Self-Improvement
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:33 PM
29

Live and learn man. You made mistakes, but it sounds like you know what they were and you have a plan. Execute the plan and don't look back.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:01 PM
3

You were fine before her, you will be fine after her, and you will be fine after the next one. Take a break from the whole scene if you need to. Rushing in to dates and shit while you feel like this (not feeling it) isn't going to help anything. Hang out with your guy friends, have fun, keep focusing on you. Don't rebound to someone else because of the way you feel at the moment. You will end up feeling worse in the end. If its just sex, cool, but don't seriously invest in anything else until yo…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:42 PM
1

If they are naked and pointing their feet at you, yes. Unless they are a stripper.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:17 PM
1

Back way the fuck off and wait for her to text you for sex again. She probably will. ​ Sounds like a bit of a warning to you though...trust your gut on crazy also. If you need to totally bail, do it.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:32 PM
5

What can you do? Either invite the friends you have or make up a reason your friends couldn’t make it. Or, hire some escorts. Just be you. Enjoy the party regardless.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:56 AM
10

Pretty normal. This is why kinky shit exists.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:49 PM
1

When you do go you need to ghost 100%. Disappear. Any contact with this one will just prolong your future agony. ​ If you have a key and can sneak in and get all of your stuff. Do it. If she gets violent or makes threats, record it. Do not be alone with her from here on out. Call the cops to accompany you to get your belongings if you have to. Bottom line is you need credible witnesses to anything that may take place during this. Give her no warning. No prep time. Nothing.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:42 PM
15

May as well work in a salon. ​ ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:09 PM
3

If you can get hard and stay hard, with or without porn, you don't need to see a Dr about anything physical. Performance drugs will also most likely do nothing for you. You still have a mental barrier that even Viagra wont break through. You are overthinking things. Too much mental/thinking/hamstering, and not enough losing yourself in the moment. Either. You aren't attracted enough to these girls. You aren't comfortable with these girls, for whatever reason. You are putting too much pressure on…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:10 PM
6

Your definition of lonely is my definition of peaceful.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:22 PM
1

Not reinforcing your habits or anything...And, not looking to debate anyone. I smoke nightly for sleep also. I have for 20+ years. Nothing much, just a hit or two before bed. I have always had initial sleep issues, and weed works better and I consider it safer than any pill or other alternative. It's also great if I need a 2-3 hour power nap. It sounds like you may be smoking more often than just to get to sleep. You don't have to fully quit, but if it is effecting your social relations/relation…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:15 PM
20

Actions > Words Words = meaningless ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:39 PM
2

Go to the party and have a threesome with her and another girl.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:05 PM
0

Slayer/ACDC T-shirts, Neck/forehead tattoos, a wallet with a chain attached, wearing sunglasses indoors, large rings on both hands, cigarette always tucked above the ear, hair slicked back and dyed black, black leather pants/jacket... ​ You will look dangerous as fuck. No one will mess with you. Ever.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:45 PM
3

Unless hes using your finances (credit card), SSN. Theres not a lot you can legally do. ​ If hes using your SSN to open credit accounts, that's another story. But, just putting a random name, even yours, on a package to be delivered is not illegal. ​ The act of using an assumed name is not illegal. The act of using an assumed name to commit fraud, is. ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:37 PM
3

How old are you and can you give an example of something he has ordered?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:55 AM
4

Agree and amplify. Your best course is to just play along and make a joke of it. Laugh it up. Encourage them. Tell them you think its all pretty damn funny. The girl is out already. Who cares about her. Be cool. Dgaf.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 01:13 AM
8

Remove the word from your vocabulary. “My apologies” or “thats on me” is a good start. Then remove those from your vocabulary.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:26 AM
14

It sucks but you just gotta man up and end it. Theres no best or easy way to do it. Tell her the relationship isn’t what you want right now and you need to be your own man for a while. The simple truth.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:50 PM
14

Its a good situation.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:30 PM
21

Dont argue. Ever. Dont break frame. Always keep it clear and obvious that you dont “need” her. You were fine before her. You will be fine after her.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:24 AM
41

Shes just making sure that if you ever attend a family BBQ, that you will survive.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:47 PM
1

Fuck that. Hard Next. Guess she broke her fingers and couldn't text you either? Too much BS already.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:43 PM
6

Just relax and get her out for a damn drink. Keep up the humor and confidence and you should get what you want easily. Shes flirting, you got her number, shes interested. Don't stall out or overthink it. Strike with logistics now/soon.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:18 PM
6

I have 1-2 close MALE friends I can discuss anything with, and also my father. That said, I never frame anything as a weakness. I simply tell them whats going on and hear their input. They reciprocate if they need to have a chat/get something out. Its good to have people to talk to that you trust and know you, but you cant frame problems you have as a weakness. More like "What would you do in this situation?" Its good to hear other perspectives sometimes. It does not mean you have to rant/bitch/…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:10 PM
6

Exactly this.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:10 PM
1

Why not start with "Lets go get a drink?" If shes down to get a drink, then you are half way there until you step on your own dick by hamstering more.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:25 PM
7

If your not her best option, how will you be the best option for anyone else? ​ Improve yourself more. Then you will stop worrying about petty shit. ​ Don't mate guard. Don't express weakness/insecurities. Don't worry about her meeting someone else at work, or cheating. ​ If its going to happen, its going to happen. ​ The thing is, if you are on top of your game, physically, and mentally, you wont GAF. You can find another, and another, and another. From the sounds of it, you may need to anyways…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:57 PM
2

You broke up for a reason. Remember that reason.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:38 PM
2

Some girls can have few partners, and just have been with one experienced partner that taught them everything they know. (And they can be amazing in bed and extremely loyal) ​ Some can have had many partners and still suck in bed. ​ I have not personally noticed any correlation other than the value they place on me at the time. The ones who are in to me do what I want when I want it, regardless of their history, if handled correctly. ​ Beta husband VS Chad for example. Betas wife wont give him h…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:01 PM
1

I go through phases myself. Shit gets old sometimes. Take a break, focus on self/friends/family/goals/hobbies/whatever you enjoy, and don't sweat it. Do what you enjoy, let the rest follow. Never stop improving yourself.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:29 PM
1

Anyone remember Al Gore? Didn't think so.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:47 PM
4

Like any other disorder there are varying degrees of it. Someone with more mild BPD can be tolerable. Someone with bat shit crazy BPD can be your worst nightmare. ​ These girls can be a blast at first, and absolutely amazing in bed. At first they will mimic you, acting as if they are in to everything you are. If she says shit like "You are the best I have ever had." "No one else is like you." and other ego boosting shit to make you get your guard down, be very cautious. It will be like you found…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:37 PM
1

I am far pickier about a nice/in shape body now that I am older. And, I don't like fake tits as much as I used to.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:56 PM
3

Go talk to women.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:51 PM
8

You didn't say please, and she doesn't like you enough at this current time to let you get away with that. Fuck it, you got your monster.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:03 PM
2

I never do cardio while bulking. Or while cutting. I simply adjust my diet.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:28 PM
6

It's called PTSD. She will need years of counseling or trust in you to "maybe" work through it. And, certain triggers may still set her off years from now. ​ Is it worth it?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:34 PM
8

It sounds like she is eventually going to scam you out of money.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:29 PM
3

She obviously lost the online chess match.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:47 PM
5

You promise to get her a new car in 1 year if shes still with you. If she trusts you, and can stomach being around you for 1 year, she may stick around depending on the benefit the car provides her vs her tolerance towards you. ​ Where, if you make the same promise but the time frame is 1 month, she is more likely to stomach you/stick around because the wait time is more proportionate to the benefit. ​ Just an example.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:41 PM
1

I am not qualified nor certified enough to help you. Good luck to you both though.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:01 PM
3

Tell him to stop masturbating because you want sex.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:49 PM
5

"Put out, or get out."
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:36 PM
1

Give her a few days to a week to get back to you. Go silent unless she does. After waiting, if you still have interest, send her one more text saying "What happened is really unfortunate, I enjoyed my time with you. Had I know about the circumstances involved, I would have told you about (other girl) up front. I wish you the best." ​ This is all you can do. You aren't apologizing, you did nothing wrong. You aren't sacrificing frame. And, you will likely send her hamster in to overdrive if she st…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:31 PM
2

You aren't too far gone. You have the ability and means to be whoever you want, however you want, whenever you want. Meditate (really). Push the insecurities out, and make room for a new future. One that you create for yourself. Only you know why you are the way you are, and only you have the power to change that. Just know that you can, and its not too late.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:48 PM
1

If you aren't felling it then you aren't feeling it. Either way it sounds like you have nothing to lose. You can try to have some fun with that concept...
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:38 PM
11

Use this as an opportunity to exert control. Direct the situation. Do something that YOU find fun, and see if it changes the mood. Just because she may take a while to get warmed up to people doesn't mean you bail on a perfectly good submissive/highly agreeable girl. Escalate things. Do something less boring next time. See if she warms up. If you lose interest after that then no big deal.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:19 PM
14

Going after something you want or are interested in is not Beta. Its doing what you want. I believe the saying goes "You always miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Confidently approaching a woman does not make you lose any "power" at all. Quite the opposite.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:10 PM
2

Yup, NEXT.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:20 PM
4

Don't spend another penny on her until you get that cold sore infested kiss.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:48 PM
2

"But how do I approach asking her out, but not losing her as a friend?" ​ You don't, without asking her out casually and going from there. You have to decide what is more valuable to you from this specific girl. Date/LTR or Friendship ​ Ask her out for drinks with no intentions whatsoever. Try kino a few times and you will know if she is interested or not if she returns it and gives you the right signals. ​ Wont be hard to figure out if you are friend zoned or if she wants more.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:42 PM
1

Think about pulling your cock out of her and putting it in her mouth. Tell her to suck your balls, and make her comply while you finger the shit out of her. Think about doing that each time you switch positions, and randomly throughout the sex you are going to have. Tell her when you are going to shoot your load, and be sure to follow through. ​ That always gets me going.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:31 PM
2

Looks just make it easier to get her attention. If you open your mouth and are a total moron, you wont get very far. ​ But, as someone else said, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:11 PM
34

Really hot water... Rinse it off and down the sink. Then throw in trash. Water should be hot to the touch. Wash it well.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:06 PM
1

"yo whats up with the bumps on your ass?" <<<This Just report back afterwards.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:46 PM
3

If she broke up with you for the same reason, she wouldn't feel bad.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 08:39 PM
2

Next!
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:44 PM
2

You can worry about the well being of your girl, but does it do anything to help? Sounds like you watch too many true crime TV shows. Install a good lock on her door/ring type doorbell system. Buy her a gun or taser for self defense. Not much else you can do. Its kind of natural to want to protect your woman. Unfortunately, when shit happens, it happens randomly, and you rarely see it coming. Being prepared is all /she can do.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:27 PM
1

Focus more on yourself. Once you have the confidence in yourself you read about others here having, it will make sense. Once you own yourself and don't let anyone else, you will have far more success with women in both the long and short term. OR You won't GAF.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:23 PM
1

M - Chest and Abs T - Back n Bi W - Legs TH - Shoulders and Tri Friday, Sat, Sun - Rest, or some cardio if I feel like it. Most workouts are about 60-75 minutes. About a minute rest between sets.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:17 PM
7

Shes pouting and trying to make herself feel better.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:29 PM
3

Yup. For this position, definitely a suit and tie. If you dont have a suit. Slacks, button up, and tie.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:33 PM
2

If you are a good looking guy with a decent body, then women, married or not, will check you out and see if they get IOI's from you. WOMEN LOVE VALIDATION
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:27 PM
5

I like to call out shy/anxious girls and put them on the spot about it. It breaks their ice in a way and has had good results. It lets them know that I know they are anxious, but you can put it in a way that lets them know they don't have to be...you can immediately increase their comfort level with you, assuming they are attracted. Cocky/playful smile..eye contact "Nervous? Don't be. -insert kino- You're in good hands." Continue kino/contact and keep it light. Let the push/pull begin. Shes on T…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:57 PM
2

Jager-bombs!
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:28 PM
1

Do whatever you gotta do to give yourself that constant reinforcement. Daily calendar alert each morning, some knick-knack on a shelf that reminds you of the principles of who you need to be. A tattoo on your forehead. Whatever works. Just keep the meaning to yourself. We all need a reminder and to keep ourselves in check every now and again.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:24 PM
3

Do whatever you feel like doing man. You know TRP...just practice it and keep your frame, even if you go the LTR route. If you like her and shes a gem, cool, enjoy. If you want to plate her or keep her on the side, cool, enjoy. I tend to keep the harder to find girls around longer. Sluts are a dime a dozen. Good girls, even AWALT, lead to better, more fulfilling relationships, if managed correctly. Both are fun. Just depends on what YOU feel like at the time.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:07 PM
2

Sounds like you need to further reduce your caloric intake or get your macros down a little better. If your diet is on, I don't see why you wouldn't be cutting. You could also be packing on muscle, making it seem that you arent losing weight as quickly. Since you trying to cut, cut more calories and fine tune your macros.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:43 PM
7

It's your LTR. Why cant she suck you off drunk?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:38 PM
3

How old are you? How long have you been doing this? How long are your workouts? Are you lifting HEAVY, or just doing reps? Are you trying to bulk, or cut? I assume cut. Full body routine? As in, you are working your full body all 3 times? Or, a part or two on each day?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:26 PM
3

She likely monkey branched over to someone else, or has been seeing you and someone else for some time. The other guy probably progressed on her, she gave you an opportunity to match him, you did not, she went with him. Drama for no reason, flaking, etc. All signs. My best assumption based on what you have said. She will likely be back for more, one day.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:19 PM
15

I would say based on her comment to you, you are going to get sucked off whether you like it or not.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:13 PM
2

$4.99 per blow job. $9.99 per lay.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:30 PM
5

Over-thinking without focus. Running in place on a wheel, getting no where.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:18 PM
4

You have my permission to drink two.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:31 PM
5

I hope shes not projecting... women/people do that at times. I end up telling her that I'm frustrated with some things atm and that I feel trapped by a few things. Tell her I didn't want to tell her, but since it affects her so much that's what it is. I tell her that I love her and want to be with her, and that I'm not pursuing other women. At the end the conversation shifted towards me and that's where I think I kinda failed. I wanted to just comfort her, but it ended up looking like me telling…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:31 PM
2

You asked her out, so yes, you can buy her a few drinks. The push/pull is good, just dont get too cheesy. If it were an online first meet I would say no.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:12 PM
8

Who knows. Next!
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:57 PM
12

Women are always Actions > Words.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:55 PM
4

Let it go. No more texts for her.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:52 PM
6

As hard as it may sound, you have to find a way to "forgive and forget" these people who have angered you. They were simply doing what was in their best interest at the time, and you shouldn't take it personally, even though it may seem you should. You dont have to be their buddy or anything like that. You just have to get over it. Actively forgiving them, and acknowledging that you may have made some mistakes that led to these things is the best way to move on. One day, you may be the one to br…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:50 PM
1

I would take the job that gives you the most hours and the most pay, assuming you can work the shifts they need. It may be tougher to get the restaurant job with no work history, but it cant hurt to apply/interview. Food service can suck, just FYI. Trampoline park would probably pretty easy.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:38 PM
1

You win some you lose some. You just lost this one. Keep it up though!
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:35 PM
1

Sounds like a basic summer job. If you have any work history it may help. I don't think they are going to scrutinize you too heavily. You will be around kids so focus on making these apparent about yourself. You will show up on time and not call in sick/etc. This is big on a summer job, and really the main thing they will look for. So many kids are totally unreliable. If you stress this alone you should get the job. Flexibility. You want as many hours as you can get, and you can work whenever th…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:30 PM
3

You can wean yourself off of it too. My main habit was just because I was used to always having something like coffee to sip on. Switch to green tea...it typically has about 30-70mg per cup. where coffee typically has 150-200 mg per cup. After that I switched to flavored water. The MIO energy drops have about 60mg per squeeze, so if you just go with a drop or two you get a really low amount of caffeine. Then you can drop to nothing/water. I tried cold turkey and got pretty pissy.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:12 PM
8

Yes, you may invite her. Invite her 2 days 3 hours 22 minutes and 15 seconds from date and time of the activity.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:41 PM
4

You're 18. You ARE a cute little boy that just wondered away from momma! Unless you still live at home. Lift heavy, get bigger. Stimulate more growth hormone. Grow some scruff on your face if you can. It will make you look a little older as long as it doesn't look trashy. If it looks trashy, don't do it. Dress older also. Wear nicer clothes. Carry yourself in an older way also. Broaden your shoulders and walk tall. You'll be ok. Command that respect!
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:53 PM
5

"I didn't come here so you can have sex with me whenever you want" Let me introduce you to my brand new plate who was formerly my LTR.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:46 PM
3

You give too much of a fuck. Work on that too.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:59 PM
6

With him being your friend and roommate it could put you in a awkward spot if you don't wait for him to leave. Plus if a girl knows you two are buddies that may not help you either if he's a creep or weird. Guilt by association. I don't think it matters with a stranger, but hes your friend.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:55 PM
2

This is why it is best to not crap where you eat. You never know what will happen or what she will say/do.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:45 PM
2

I would need more information about the particular girl and her everyday personality to know if she is testing you in some way. It could be a test, to see if you are a man-whore. It may just be a direct question because she wants sex. Did you have sex?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:33 AM
2

You should have just run around the venue in one of those giant inflatable hamster balls. You would have gotten a hell of a lot more action. You didn't approach a whole lot of women, and you are still obviously in a learning stage. You just need to keep at it, and work on your approach skills and conversation more. You need to give them a reason to like you, and want to spend more time with you. That's going to be tricky in a setting like this without some sort of "lure," or a group to help you …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:06 PM
1

King of Shaves Alphagel is my go to.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:28 PM
3

Generally no, but definitely maybe sometimes?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:25 PM
3

Just put your dick in her BEFORE removing the beanie, and you should be golden.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:22 PM
2

Some girls can be sexually stubborn or inexperienced about some things. Letting them know you are used to it or have gotten it/done in the past has worked for me. If I am not getting something I want I can give them a nudge by bringing up past experiences. It is not an all that common occurrence, but has worked at times. (It makes them feel less dirty knowing someone else did it already, or makes them hamster that if they do not do it, I will be greatly disappointed, and their time will be limit…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:18 PM
1

she sounds like a Flibbertigibbet Hell yeah she is. Stay away from these!
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:00 PM
3

My problem is if I game and get a woman with my beanie on and then later end up removing it, won't the woman be disinterested or turned off because I look bad without my beanie and ruin my chances? I can't wear my beanie all the time... Lets cross this bridge when you get to it. Do you have a weirdly shaped head or something that the beanie is covering up? Or, does it just seem to be a magic beanie?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:55 PM
2

You're gonna be eating hairy pussy for months to come!
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:51 PM
4

You broke up with her for some reason. Maybe she is a unicorn, RIGHT NOW, maybe not. Only time will truly tell. You weren't happy about something. You can be happier. You apparently realize this on some level. We can't tell you how to treat this, or possibly know what is going to make you the happiest in the long run. We don't know if she will meet Chad one day on a girls night out or business trip and spread those unicorn legs. We don't know if you will lose frame, and turn in to Beta-Billy and…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:44 PM
5

As a 38 year old this does not strike me as the least bit odd. The past is the past. Some people choose not to live in it, or re-hash it. I don't mention my LTR's either, and if ever asked I am as vague as I can possibly be unless I need to apply dread or stimulate a hamster. There's no positives to bringing any of it up, and not much good can come of you knowing intimate details about a past LTR of hers.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:16 PM
1

Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:11 PM
2

You were likely just fine before her, and you will likely be just fine after her. You use this as a learning experience and you take some time to work on yourself and do things that you enjoy doing. Now you know more about what you want, and what you dont want in a relationship. It may not be easy man, but if its the best thing for you, how can you regret it? You will look back on this in a few months and thank yourself for not staying in a toxic relationship. Also, she would dump you in a heart…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:07 PM
3

Your best odds of keeping her in the kitty is to next her. You keep sacrificing frame and all you are doing is pushing her further away, putting yourself on the line, and sacrificing yourself, for nothing in return but more kicks in the balls. At best, she calls you lonely one day and you take advantage of it. But, for your own mental sake, start doing your own thing again and get over her. No one said its a fast or easy process, but you can make it easier on yourself by doing what you know need…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:58 PM
5

It sounds like you possibly voiced a complaint about a lack of affection or sex? Hard to know for sure without knowing what she is replying to...
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:51 PM
3

I am 100% positive that some men lie to women to get laid
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:46 PM
1

It may not be in a book or course, but I personally know people who employ these tactics who consider themselves a PUA of sorts. Just the first thing that came to my mind. I am sure it is not used by every PUA.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:38 PM
4

Hope for what? The continuation of a crappy relationship? Contrary to what you feel like you should do right now, you should probably bail on this one emotionally. If she comes back, she comes back, and you can keep things on your terms. Don't sacrifice your frame anymore though. If she wants to earn that top spot back, let her do the work and reward her for good behavior. At least let her know, through silence, that you arent playing along with the BS. She isn't even respecting you at the momen…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:34 PM
1

Some PUA's will completely lie about their profession, income, and other attributes just to get a girl back in bed that evening. I personally do not agree with this method. If a girl is dumb/shallow enough to fall for it then so be it though. I personally prefer to play on attributes I really have/do, and if I do not have something, improve on it instead of lie about it. I don't debate or judge others morals here, thats just my personal thought on it.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:35 PM
11

Blatant lying to manipulate others in to getting what they want.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:23 PM
7

IF she does find a beta generally all she has to do is show him her tits, pussy, or give him any attention whatsoever. He will then turn in to a drooling puppy who she can mold however she wants to. He will never tell her no, and she will know she has him in her twat trap the moment she meets him. Order of events: Meet thirsty guy, smile at him, show a little attention, get him to pay for 5-50 dates, evaluate his assets, give him a taste of the poo, tell him she wants to marry him, get a ring, m…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:01 PM
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Because they are validation seekers, and the easiest way for them to get any sense of validation is through their phones/friends/and social media. They need to look and feel important.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:40 PM
2

Approach more girls. Work on your game/conversation skills. Practice makes perfect. Learn what works for you and what does not work for you. You arent giving yourself much value either. Work on that. Improve. You are 16 for Christs sake. You just got pubes 2 years ago.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:37 PM
26

Yes, some girls are just fucking boring. That's why God made alcohol.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:32 PM
5

An alpha does not try to be an alpha, or call himself an alpha, he just is an alpha, in that particular situation. I don't know your structure at your job. Are you the boss of these girls, or just some random they work with? Either you have the power at the job to "command" them, or you don't. It sounds like you don't. Either way. Don't ever blame another guy for your own problems just because the other guy has a higher perceived value. Keep working on yourself. It sounds like these girls may ev…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:53 PM
7

This would royally piss me off. In the good ole days he would be owed an ass beating. Borderline vandalism. Next.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:24 PM
7

I should blow my load all over her feet and then see if Dom will unknowingly give her a foot massage later that day with my dried up cum on them. I like this idea.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:14 PM
10

He did ask for our opinion on cheating...
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:12 PM
2

No, but I still fuck them on occasion.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:05 PM
2

Theres a ton of possible reasons... Personal preference Childhood experiences/trauma. Were raped/Distrust of males Curiosity Wanting to feel different/like attention Had a good experience with another woman They were manipulated I know dumb lesbians and I know educated lesbians, from all walks of life. Why are some guys gay?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:59 PM
6

Find similar, male role models to be around if you can. Play sports...coaches are "generally" good role models and father type figures. Don't be afraid to let them know your situation. You know what your dad was like, and you will know if you are in another mans presence who is like your father was. Surround yourself by positive male figures. Other than that just always keep your fathers memory in mind when you approach something new. "What would dad have done?" You can keep him close to you thi…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:54 PM
3

Really tight condoms...
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:34 PM
3

Fagody fag...nice. I have to admit it did make me laugh. If you frame it like you are playing her game, and tell her about it, sure it would. If you just do it and don't even tell her until the next day, how would it? If he wants to go out too, he can go out too. Or he can stay home and jerk off and hamster about her being around a bunch of male nurses.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:20 AM
11

I would remember this on her birthday, anniversary, valentines day, christmas, and anytime she expects you to pay for the date.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 08:07 PM
70

Yep. Don't be a jealous beta. Tell her to have a great time. Don't bother her while she is out. Even better, go out on your own with your own friends too.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:45 PM
2

I had a female roommate at one point. Girls had a similar reaction. She was good looking and we got along almost like a brother and sister would. She was a LTR of a really good friend of mine, so she was perma-off limits in my book. Their disappointment could be some sort of masked doubt. I had girls that just refused to believe we could live together and be as playful and friendly as we were without having any kind of sexual background. They may even view her as competition, but don't want to s…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:53 PM
3

lol... What about Whatapussy?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:40 PM
4

It's pretty normal in this phase of things. Focus more on yourself. Do what you want to do. Find what makes you happy. If its not dating or picking up girls, then so be it. This phase will pass if you just do your thing and stay focused and active about yourself. I went through a few years of my life where I just didn't want to fuck with anything the opposite sex had to offer. They were probably the most productive years of my life. It's about living, learning, and finding the balance that works…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:34 PM
1

Driving 20 minutes to the mall and approaching women, getting their number, and getting laid, is not chasing pussy. That is approaching and getting results. Chasing pussy is if they are wasting your time and you let them continue to waste your time in hopes of getting laid. You are chasing the pussy. The pussy is outrunning you, and you will not catch the ever elusive pussy. Following your logic, every guy that gets dressed nicely on the weekend and goes out to find a new girl to fuck is conside…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:13 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with it if that is what you prefer to do. You don't have to be some fake/liar/manipulator to follow TRP. You simply have to be comfortable and confident in yourself without compromising yourself or falling for BS. If gaming a bunch of girls/plates at once isn't your thing, then its not your thing. You do you. They are along for the ride. Understanding that how you do you, effects how many will sign up for the ride, is all you need to know.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:06 PM
4

If it is better game you seek, then YES, you should improve in these areas. Being quiet and introverted will not help you cultivate abundance. It might get you by, get you a girlfriend, etc... But, you will be limited to the girls that approach you and not the girls you actively seek out.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:57 PM
1

Whats the difference in approaching a girl at school vs approaching a girl at the mall? Either way you can look at approaching a girl as chasing pussy. Whats wrong with chasing pussy? We can't make more chicks that suit your standards magically appear in your area.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:54 PM
1

How do I send the message that I expect certain levels of affection in our relationship without expressing neediness? Pull way back on your PDA attempts. Withdraw more than her. = Dread Some people don't like PDA. I don't. She might not. You aren't going to fuck her in front of anyone so who cares if you get a few less public kisses or can't hold her hand or dry hump her in front of others? What is that even doing for you, other than cultivating further neediness or making you feel rejected in s…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:46 PM
2

See: Shit tests
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:20 PM
7

Honest assessment. You have no income = lowers smv You are below average in height = lowers smv Chubby = lowers smv You have a somewhat small social circle = lowers smv Unfortunately being a good listener does not raise smv. Being a virgin = lowers smv Currently you have low SMV, but don't let that get you down. Some of these things you can fix, some you cant (height). Keep working out, get low BF%. Work on your income and social circle. You are also going to need to rely more on confidence and …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:06 PM
3

I can give you a good idea without even looking at you. Age? Income? Height? BF%? How many friends do you have? What is your best overall quality? How many different girls above a HB6 have you fucked?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:44 PM
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Lift, get bigger. People tend to talk less shit when it appears that you can rip their head and arms off with ease. It also sounds like you might be 15-17 years old. This shit will pass in time. Surround yourself by people who arent jackasses. Other than that, read the sidebar...everything you need is there.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:31 PM
21

They all smoke weed, expirement with drugs, have criminal records and don’t own cars. If you are interested in bettering yourself, I would say get a new circle.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:28 PM
84

Fuck her, and tell her about how you fucked other girls while doing it...
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:14 PM
2

this post sounds a bit contradictory to me. Can you clarify? Are you trying to plate this girl or LTR this girl? At the first it sounds like you want to plate her and DGAF, but at the end it sounds like you want to LTR her and do GAF.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:12 PM
8

"I never use my best material over text." Meet me here/come over/etc.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:56 PM
3

Perhaps you were meant to be a pimp or a porn star? Anytime I hit a stall like the one you describe, I spend more of my time helping others. Its productive, keeps me busy, and feels good knowing I am helping someone with something. I also learn new things and find new interests this way. If you have that much free time, you can always get a side job too. I will spend time doing side work. this lets me help others, and make some extra $.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:00 PM
7

Since she is a professional why dont you simply go to her place of work and ask either her, or her secretary? Let them know your predicament and that you would like to know what is going on. Thats a good start.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:11 PM
1

Girls on these sites flake so damned much that you almost have to make her come to you. You want to drive two hours to get flaked on and then feel like a fool the entire drive home? Worst case, if she refuses, you meet half way, and have her CALL you when she leaves to drive to meet you.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:07 PM
1

No it is not worth pursuing this particular relationship. The US is great, but attaching yourself to a woman to get here is not the best way to go about it.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:04 PM
4

The IOI's you have gotten don't seem like much to me. Friendly stuff. Too hard to tell otherwise if that is all. Problem with this is that we're in a place where it could potentially ruin my reputation and my social proof. Don't crap where you eat. She is no big deal, since I could game other, potentially more attractive girls, but it would not hurt doing something fun with her. Treat her as such. Go do something fun with her, go from there. Slowly escalate while looking for more IOI's if you re…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:56 PM
1

24% of men 8% of women 26% reported MMF and MFF 51% reported only MFF 17% reported only MFM This is from some random web site, but sounds somewhat accurate. Ages 18-24, 275 people polled. Numbers probably go up a bit as you get older.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:29 PM
1

Just be casual about it. Act like its not a big deal. It's not. Start small. Esp if its causing you anxiety. Close/touching? Make eye contact? She seems comfy or even shy or nervous herself? Go! Move slowly towards her face, give her a little kiss, then another, then let it go from there. Scared of rejection? Move in really slow (actual movement speed)...project sexiness/patience/confidence. The slower the better (within reason) for the (typical) first kiss IMO. This will give you time to read a…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:19 PM
3

I think she might get a little kick out of knowing that top execs from her company are meeting me for drinks. Kinda close to crapping where you eat/are going to eat. Be careful about that. Just be you man. It sounds like you are on track so far. Women love having feelings/tingles. Hating you or thinking you are an asshole is better than no feeling at all or indifference. Should be plenty of other options where you are going also.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:48 PM
2

This only happened once in 4 months? I would think this would be a more frequent occurrence than once in this period of time. But, I am no Dr. Do you hold your breath excessively while you lift? If so = bad. Are you a smoker/use any drugs? Has this ever happened to you before? While doing anything else?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:57 PM
1

Then, YES, she is a borderline.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:52 PM
3

Can you find a male doctor? Do you have that option?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:40 PM
2

How long have you known her, been with her? Have you fucked? Are you married? Is a love bomb telling you she loves you constantly. Or, she just randomly said it once after sex? Need. More. Info. Until then, I stand by my original answer.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:39 PM
1

They are all on the border of some line... You weren't very specific. Borderline romantic? Borderline crazy? Borderline really loves you? Borderline bi-polar?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:36 PM
1

How often do you lift?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:29 PM
12

THEY ARE ALL BORDERLINE
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:21 PM
0

Unless you immediately pulled out your dick and started humping her calves, you failed.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:21 PM
5

Just ask her out in some way. Meet up for a drink. Have her over. Etc.... Go from there. She started watching you, so there is SOME interest for you there already.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:14 PM
5

These are basically shit tests because whoever is making that comment is a moron. I would personally just ignore this. Pretend they didn't even say it. Who gives a fuck what they think?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:12 PM
6

"Hey, its been a while, come over tonight."
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:05 PM
1

I sometimes joke that I have two penises. Usually within a minute I am asked to prove it. That works too. If it works, go with it.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:47 PM
1

How did you make your difficult decisions that seem like coin tosses in life? I flip a coin.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:36 PM
2

So, hes more of a go-getter than you? Not sure how to interpret this as you don't really have example of him making you look bad on purpose or throwing you under the bus or anything. He does work behind your back? He agrees with his boss? Do your shit. Do it well. Do it better than he does. Experienced managers know when someone is fluffing them. They like these people though because they can generally make them their bitches. The managers bitch is the managers favorite, usually. If he isn't dir…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:21 PM
1

If I'm going to waste my time with a chick like this, she needs to be better than below average. If shes flat out crazy, or bi-polar, pass. If she likes you and wants to fuck, have fun. Just be careful. Watch red flags. Wrap up, etc... She sounds a little slutty to me based on what you have said. Not enough info other than that.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:15 PM
3

The only IOI I saw out of this is she chose to stay in the bed with you initially. I am not certain if that is even an IOI or she just hates air mattresses like most of the world. Then after you groped her, spooned her, and probably mildly dry humped her while she was sleeping, she moved. Should you have escalated in this moment? I think you could have, but you waited too long. When she refused to move from the couch was your opportunity to get more physical and playful. As you admitted, you cue…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:06 PM
71

Based on my experience, true love (between a couple) is simply a feeling/emotion, and is only real or possible "in the moment." That moment can pass at any time. The feeling of love may be real, but it is fleeting, and not eternal by any means. TRP is a generalization. Could you find your unicorn? Maybe? Will you? Statistically, no, you won't find a woman that will be with you the rest of your life. You likely won't even find one who wouldn't cheat on you under the right circumstances. They are …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:50 PM
3

Why would you want to remember someone like this who fucked with you? As with any case of oneitis, you need to get over her. Ghost her. Delete her. Block her. Throw all memories of her away. Nothing good will come from any of this. After that you simply focus on yourself and being the best man you can be, for yourself, and stay busy. Then, you replace those shitty memories with someone new who doesn't have 100 red flags attached to them. Its your first "love." Getting over it can take a little t…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:31 PM
14

"It's obviously been a long day for both of us, I've been pretty active, and you were obviously masturbating with a tuna fish at some point, lets take a quick shower."
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:24 PM
3

They are just social circle/male shit tests. You pass them as you would any other shit test. Agree and amplify, DGAF, show no weakness, don't explain yourself, laugh it off. Dish a little bit of it back. Until you get in tight with any group you will be shit tested by someone. And, even after. Best friends neg and shit test each other all the time. IE: Keep each other in check. There is a line between a joke/shit test, and flat out disrespect. If someone disrespects you, you let them know “No ne…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:14 PM
5

It is not impossible if you know how to navigate it. Unfortunately you would likely have to fake your way through a lot of it. Social aspects, being comfortable with her being outgoing, etc. OR, ideally, being RP and comfortable enough with yourself to not GAF. Shes along for the ride, you are the prize, mentality.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:03 PM
8

If the pussy smells bad I make them take a shower. If it still smells bad, pass.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:59 PM
1

So whats your proposed solution? Hide in a box?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:07 AM
8

There will always be someone smarter than you, someone stronger than you, someone more charismatic than you. You can let that cripple you in to doing nothing or you can buddy up and share resources or use it as motivation. If I'm at the gym and someone more jacked that I am starts working out next to me, do I quit and go home? No. I introduce myself and now jacked guy and I are gym buddies. If I am at work or school and someone smarter than I am sits next to me or is in a meeting with me, do I q…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:10 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar yet? Just checking.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:49 PM
1

Depends on your looks and approach. If you look or act like some creepy dude who is really thirsty then you might creep them out. Taking a picture of someone and getting their info isn't showing a whole lot of interest if you are doing it under the guise of "this is what I do for a living/hobby." It's your game after that that will matter the most.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:35 PM
2

Comfort test or just playing. She wants you there either way. Have fun!
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:19 PM
13

Wait till you break up with a girl because you are tired of her and then she says you were abusive so she left you.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:14 PM
2

Are you interested in her or not man? If so, talk to her. If not, don't.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:12 PM
2

Wouldn't it just be easier to ask her on a date?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:09 PM
1

Haha... They are still married and have two dogs. OK is relative.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:01 PM
3

Crabs In a Bucket...
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:47 PM
0

I think you crossed the point of no return on this one. Best to leave it be at this point.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:25 PM
6

So, you fucked his girl, and now you want to tell him shes a slut? In that case, move along.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:19 PM
10

Can you leave the proof anonymously?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:14 PM
1

Ewww. This is one hard no I would go along with.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:51 PM
0

Use photofeeler. Then you can have girls rate your photos and get a better idea from girls.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:46 PM
2

Too valuable to move up = shit excuse Don't do a bad job on purpose. If you are truly valuable you will have negotiation room, or you walk and find something else. Preferably find something else first. They will find a way to promote or keep you around if they know you are a valuable asset. If they don't then they arent worth working for in the long run. Anything else is bullshit and selling yourself short in some way.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:54 PM
40

Propose a three-some. You are just there to help, after all.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:39 PM
11

You need to boost your confidence levels and IDGAF levels. Lift. Practice being social. Approach people and make random conversation. Get out of your comfort zone and make a new comfort zone. Be well read. Establish your own firm beliefs and convictions. Trust yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:32 PM
69

Exactly. This is the vampiristic nature of them. She will suck the soul from you while at the same time telling you how much she loves the taste of it. Then, once she sucks your alpha juice dry, she will leave you and do it to another guy. "You dont need to work out, you are sexy enough for me. You dont need to go out drinking with your friends and have fun, you have me right here at home to fuck you. I think (your friend) likes me. You spend too much time at the gym. You should be here sitting …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:30 PM
20

One of my girls told me this once. I asked her for a blow job and she said "You could be more romantic about it." I went to my living room, grabbed a candle, brought it back to the bed room and lit it. Then I said "There, now give me a blow job." With an LTR you have to invest. Time, energy, and effort. Even if you are alpha. . With an LTR you will have to compromise, apply dread, or be ready to walk. Withholding sex is never a good thing though. I would apply immediate dread. Let her know you d…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:15 PM
5

An abortion will not cause her to become infertile unless there are some unpredictable complications. First. Are you 100% positive she is pregnant? Did she take that test right in front of you? If not, make her. You make her piss on that test right in front of your face if she hasn't! Or, go to the Dr. with her for 100% verification. I can't tell you how many times I have heard this same story and the girl was never pregnant. If she is pregnant you need to make that call. Morality aside... Kid o…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:54 PM
15

High School doesn't last forever, and once its over, its over. Keep bettering yourself in every way possible. Ignore the haters. Haters gonna hate. Keep up your new persona but dont be overbearing about it. Don't tell people your intentions, or what you are trying to do with TRP stuff. Don't be a creeper with your girl friends. Don't try to crap where you eat. Toning your body and being funnier and cockier shouldn't anger entire groups of popular people unless you are doing more than that or bei…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:29 PM
3

Remain silent and un-reactive. I would continue to do exactly what you have been until the girl tells you otherwise. Your friend knows the situation. Hopefully this doesn't ruin your friendship, and it may if your friend is a BB. He won't be able to handle it and it will cause problems between you. Until they are in a committed relationship you aren't doing anything wrong by continuing to try to plate her. If they do commit, well, thats up to you as to how you handle it and how good you consider…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:16 PM
14

Most sororities do consist of high validation seekers, and Chad-loving sluts, but I have no idea what your HB standards are. Perhaps you are just too damn picky!
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:19 PM
8

Play in the rain with her. Then you have a good excuse to take her clothes off and dry them for her when you get back to your place.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:15 PM
1

You could also buy a Bugatti...
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:06 PM
4

If you were getting laid without the broken arm, you should have no issues with it. "Hey why dont you sign my cast. With your vaginal fluids."
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:04 PM
6

I told her to hit me up when she's back in town and gave her my number. You told her to hit you up. If she agreed to do so, anything else appears needy. Just be ready for the flake. They tend to do that on tinder.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:56 PM
2

No, but it can help. People are most likely to notice both extremes. Supreme ugliness or supreme looks and confidence. You can also "peacock" and get people to look at you too. If you have a reputation and your name is well known it can also help. Average = average. You can dress sharp, appear confident in your mannerisms, and carry yourself with respect for starters. That will get more people to notice you than average will. But, more people are going to to a double-take on things they don't no…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:53 PM
1

It's a bit of a risky situation for someone in your place. I'd double up on that rubber. And, pull out. And, take it with you when you leave. The last thing you want is a pregnant bi-polar chick getting your paycheck or causing you career problems. Or, faking it to get some money from your while you are away. I don't trust any of these bitches, even the virgins though. Good luck in boot camp marine!
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:39 PM
3

It does for me personally. In this situation. It shows she is needy, emotionally desperate, somewhat of a slut, and acts on those impulses. Not what I would want from an LTR. I wanted to stimulate your thinking by asking you questions instead of just saying hard next, since someone already said that. =)
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:32 PM
2

I personally don't fuck with crazy, or bi-polar. Go with your gut. If you have something telling you that something is off, trust it. If you arent sure. Verify. Before you put your dick in it.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:28 PM
3

If you want to do it, do it. Fuck what everyone else thinks.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:25 PM
5

If you didn't give her a place to live, would she continue to "love you" as much as she does? Would it be possible to have her live on her own, and you on yours, while you work things out? By working things out I mean cultivating abundance and meeting other girls to see if you are really in to this one as much as you think. This is an investment. Of your time, your effort, your future. So far, what has this investment gotten you other than some handy puss and companionship that is worse than tha…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:22 PM
1

I didn't see the words girl, woman, female, lady, or vagina, anywhere in your post. Are you on the right sub?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:15 PM
7

Are you trying to convince us, or yourself? You won't want my advice here...
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:11 PM
3

I'm just going to answer the direct question: Yes. Look at Lil' Wayne.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:03 PM
1

How many times have you read the side bar?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:55 PM
2

It does not matter to a confident man with a sense of purpose. You know why you are there. That's all that matters. The place with the most girls or that you prefer at the time. At a bar you can get to know people better usually, cultivate conversation, etc... At a club, theres usually more quality single girls and more energy. Just depends on what you are in the mood for at the time.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:49 PM
2

Shes either fucking with you, wants to fuck you, or has a ton of confidence around you and knows you are thirsty and likes to make guys salivate. I also tested a theory: before leaving, I jokingly threw a small piece of paper where her pussy was and it felt to the ground, and she didn’t flinch one bit! The ole throw a small piece of paper at the direction of her pussy and let it fall to the ground short and see if she flinches tactic... nice. But, inconclusive nonetheless.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:41 PM
3

Same in person. Just look for the IOI's. If you get them, you are good to escalate. Practice. Get out there like everyone else had to. Fail, fail, fail, succeed. Since you already have a lot of experience with them online, and closing, you should learn very quickly.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:36 PM
8

Yes, if you approach. A woman at a bar or club is usually ready for something. They wouldn't be there if they weren't at least somewhat interested in the concept. How the hell do you have 60/100bj's and are terrified in person????
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:32 PM
133

The female guilt trip. Works every time... Unless you see it exactly for what it is. Her attempting to get her way. And, shes winning so far. You do what you WANT to do. Ignore the tears. They can cry on demand... Learned from childhood. It works. She knows it works. It has been working. Do what you gotta do, ignore the BS.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:28 PM
2

As a younger man I did just fine with my hair buzzed. I am 38 now, and a full head of hair actually makes me look younger now. I can pass for 25-28 with hair and a shaved face. Buzz cut, with or without facial hair and I look at least 30+. With my age, displaying my "mane" while everyone else around me my age is balding is probably a little beneficial as well. Hair adds height also. Most people get an inch or two from their hair. So you may also appear a tad shorter. I am not sure if I have ever…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:23 PM
1

When shes done using you, ask her! I'm curious also!
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:20 PM
2

Solipsism just means that they believe they are truly unique in some way, regarding a certain opinion. "No other woman can please a man like I can." "No one is a better mother than I am." "I am by far the best looking girl in this group." Whatever they get stuck in their brain. a Skewed sense of reality that is not necessarily projected upon others or made obvious...like you would have with a narcissist. Hypergamy is the act of moving themselves up by attaching themselves to a person that they p…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:16 PM
1

I believe the odds of this happening are so slim that, yes, unless you pay for this specific treatment, it is simply too uncommon to understand. We could test it. Create a tinder account and just have your profile say "I want a supermodel to dominate me, kicking me in the balls and calling me a bitch, while I beg her and kiss her feet." See how many dates you get!
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:48 PM
3

Confidence, Patience, and discipline. Having the confidence that when you set off to do something, that you will have the discipline to see it through, and the patience to know that it can take time. If I want a new truck. I know that if I save X amount over X time, I can buy that truck. The only thing stopping me from my plan, is me failing to have the discipline and patience to make it happen, or a royal set-back that is unpredictable, but can be planned for to mitigate too much of a set-back.…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:34 PM
7

First try not to crap too close to where you eat. For this reason, and others. I would just pretend you didn't get rejected. Their loss, not yours, should be your mentality. No need to make things weird. Get to where you need to be in TRP life, and this should come naturally.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:25 PM
1

When these things happen, do not question them. But, continue to work on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:14 PM
2

Pity fucks are real.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:39 PM
3

In my experience, not texting has never ruined attraction, it only makes them think about why you arent texting them as much as every other fool does.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:37 PM
3

I simply remind myself of what led me to do those things in the first place. I remember what life was like before I did those things, and how much better it is now that I am doing those things. Make sure you are doing everything for yourself, and not doing anything for anyone else too. If you do anything for anyone else, like work out in hopes of getting girls. You are doing it wrong. Work out for yourself. Look good for yourself. Be smarter for yourself. Don't do anything for anyone else. Makes…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:34 PM
5

This is why it is recommended to text as little as possible, and preferably only for logistics on when you are going to meet. The more you say via text, the more you remove mystery, the more you can turn her off, the more opportunities to blow it. Say less, text less. Save the conversation for your friends, or in person. It is not as necessary as you may think.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:58 PM
15

Hanging out with good looking people raises your SMV, but increases your direct competition. You may not get the pick of the litter, but it is better than running around with a bunch of uglier nerdy guys.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:53 PM
11

Dump her and do this. Started lifting, went from 135lbs at 5'10" to 180lbs. Started grinding my business on YouTube and did $20k a month for several months. Learned fashion, groomed myself better, and cleared my acne. Went from 2 sexual partners to over 15 in a **summer.** Traveled, made new friends, discovered new hobbies, and most importantly had confidence higher than I **ever** had in my entire life. It was like a drug rush that never went away.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:39 PM
8

The gym is extremely important. Stress release. Discipline. Confidence. Looks. Drive. Social aspect. Respect. Health. I would have a lot unspent aggression if I didn't burn it off. It definitely effects your overall feeling and everything I said above. I think any intense training regimen could replace the gym as long as you are structured enough. You may not be able to become Arnold, but you can definitely increase SMV, definition, muscle mass, and looks. I personally prefer a gym because of my…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:26 PM
9

Sweet baby Jesus. Ignore the shit out of this girl. Ghost her 100%. Change your number, delete social media, vanish. There is nothing you can do in your favor at this point other than pray she is not pregnant and demand a DNA test if that baby is born. If that happens, well, you reap what you sow. You knew better! Beware "abortion extortion." She will need 1500$ for an imaginary abortion. This is why you need to just ghost, and get a DNA test later on if a baby pops out. Other than that, cut you…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:10 PM
1

In my experience with people like this, you simply put them in their damn place. Don't lose your temper. Don't lose control. Tell this bitch straight up how it is, and how its gonna be if she is going to continue to be your "friend." Domineering people actually respect this form of communication more than beating around the bush. Because, they rarely get it from anyone. (It's like negging a HB9, it happens so rarely that it actually works) It lets her know you DGAF, and you will end her from you…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:57 PM
3

LOL, thats awesome. Gonna have to borrow that one.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:37 PM
3

Both situations have the potential to get...stale. LTR's get stale, and fucking random chicks can too. Do what you want now, no regrets. Live, and learn. You are really young and have your whole life ahead of you. If you follow most trends and statistics, you could marry this girl, have a kid or two, and then you end up divorced 2-10 years later. Only then, you are really screwed. AWALT, even unicorns. Never forget it. You arent happy with her in some way...you want more, different, random, etc.…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:35 PM
24

Seems like comfort tests to me. You answered fine IMO. So, did you fuck her or not?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:15 PM
3

Keep your McNuggets in your pants on this one. Having fun at work is fine, flirting is fine, but if you really want to practice your game, do it elsewhere. You are simply picking at the lowest hanging fruit. Challenge yourself.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:11 PM
3

Most people who attempt to stay in a relationship from high school, through college, fail in some way or another. AWALT, first. You may have a great girl, but hypergamy always kicks in at some point. Realistically, your LTR will come to an end in some way or another through college. Either you will want more, she will want more, or your opinions and experiences will change, resulting in individual changes. Not to mention tons of other girls/guys/alcohol, etc... Whatever happens. Don't let this g…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:54 PM
4

Talking to a girl on behalf of another guy is not what I consider being a wing-man. That's being a middle schooler. He already knows this girl. Kissed her. She already likes him. It's on him now. A wing-man is more of a "going out" buddy that can help you with small groups/pairs of girls and shares similar interests. He wants you to be his fluffer.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:34 PM
1

She got your hint. That's perfect. Its up to you where you take it from here. If you care to find out why she wanted her friend to join, etc... I would extend an invite for the friend to come to a future outing. "Yeah this time isn't the best, I really wanted time for the 3 of us this time, but it would be great if she could join us another time."
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:14 PM
2

I'm not sure if this is a shit test or her just being inconsiderate or too comfortable and not asking you first. She may also be uncomfortable being alone with just you and your child. Her friend being there with another kid could ease the situation for her. You made the plans. Not her. What she did was slightly inconsiderate, but not major. You have to establish your lines. If it bothers you, you have to convey that somehow. At the same time, you have to pick your battles in an LTR. Maybe let t…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:59 PM
4

Certain foods can cause body odor. Garlic, onions, strong spices... Genetics can cause body odor. So can alcohol through sweat glands. You can shower with antibiotic soap. Wear cotton or moisture wicking fabrics. Flush your system/sweat glands by using a sauna a lot. Eat a well balanced diet. Veggies, whole grains... Some smells can stay in your clothing, even after you wash them. Check your clothes to make sure they dont stink. What do you smell like? Ass? Balls? Shit? Old lady? Mildew?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:29 PM
8

Her behavior is AWALT. Is there a chance you might get laid by her one day. Maybe. Would I invest much time or energy trying for it? No. Your next text should be logistics on when you are meeting up again. If she doesn't meet and F you this time, soft next. I say soft, because one day she might break up with her boyfriend and text you.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:09 PM
9

I wouldn't. Not sure if I am misinterpreting, but "dont" sounded a bit bitchy and condescending. Plus she ignored you. If you rescue a damsel in distress all you will get is a distressed damsel. Let her work out her shit, then she can text you. Until then, do your own thing.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:52 PM
10

"No, but if you get down on your knees I'll feel taller."
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:44 PM
2

I graduated HS in 97. Our sex education was pretty much just the basics. This is a penis, this is a vagina, etc... Abstinence was taught as the only "Safe" form of safe sex. They went over STD's condoms, the pill, etc. They never addressed anal, same sex, fetishes, etc... Pretty basic.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:29 PM
5

What I got from this is: You went out. Got drunk. Attempted to pick up the one girl that was with a guy. Then you hamstered, started caring too much, and lost your mojo. Keep practicing!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:25 PM
11

No, but I wouldn't wife any of them.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:13 PM
3

Time to apply some SERIOUS dread or even demote her to a plate, if thats even possible. If not, I would next her. Too much bullshit... Her:"Whatever, I guess we'll need to have a talk." Just the fact that she would say this tells me she thinks she is the dominant one. Either you lost frame, or never had it. I would personally ghost a girl the moment she said that shit. The next talk she has with you should be directly to your cock, asking forgiveness for the way she talked to you, or you are out…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:08 PM
2

He has to show that he wants to change too. If he doesn't, I have to agree with others here. Next him. If he is actively trying to improve its one thing. If hes in a downward spiral with no aspirations to improve, you can't do anything but face disappointment and possibly even get dragged in to his problems. Just tell him you want the best for him and you are there if he decides he wants to change for the better. You can't fix someone who is not willing to fix themselves.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:55 PM
6

Keep it locked or DGAF. If you arent committed and she does that, its her own damn fault. She had no business doing it, and you have no reason to explain yourself in those situations.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:48 PM
9

You have a gut feeling. Listen to your gut.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:38 PM
3

Just remember that within 30 seconds after you are done, no one cares anymore. Its the same as you watching anyone else speak. Do you really care? Not really. They can fumble, bumble, etc, but as long as they don't face plant on the stage no one is going to really talk about it days or even minutes later. You might say "that guy seems nervous." Big deal...most people can relate. Public speaking is the #1 fear, even over the fear of death itself. Just be confident that you are doing this already.…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:00 PM
5

The hamster is strong in you my friend. Just start by inviting her anywhere. Literally anywhere. If shes in to you, she will say yes. No more pedastooling!
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:45 PM
2

Just see how the night goes. Your place might be optimal after all if the party is continuing there and you have a door to your room. If shes all over you wherever you go out it may not matter. If you do get back to your place and shes really that concerned about the other people there, then you can leave and go to her place.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:26 PM
11

Their house = their rules, and you have to deal with their bullshit. Nothing you can do about it. They caught you with that smack. I got caught sneaking out of the house when I was 15. I got grounded for about 6 months and they put locks and alarms on every door and window in the house after that. Just parents being parents man... Tell them how you feel about it, and what them saying stuff like that does to you. IE: Guilt trip/heart to heart If that doesn't work, just deal with it. You have to d…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:08 PM
150

Like a legendary boss would. =) You have a once in a lifetime opportunity here. Don't let us down!
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:02 PM
12

Hire a midget Have the midget put a suit on. As you are enjoying coffee or dinner or drinks, have the midget run up to you in a hurry out of no where, whisper in your ear with a serious look on his face, and then run off really fast. Say nothing to her about the encounter, don't even acknowledge it happened. Hamster = Caffeinated All I got right now, been a long day. (no disrespect to any midgets, it just adds to the mystery)
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:49 PM
5

You got a wink...so shes teasing or shit testing. Just go silent and text her where to meet up later.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:46 PM
2

Sounds like a good enough plan. Assuming you dont have your own bedroom. The back of a car is always an option too.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:41 PM
9

Don't complain. Don't whine. Don't bitch and moan. Don't make excuses. Handle your shit without help from anyone. Own your mistakes and failures and always strive to improve. I could probably list 10,000 specific examples, but basically - Be a man.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:33 PM
5

By doing the opposite of acting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:28 PM
12

Sadly , you may not be able to help him until he gets dumped.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:28 PM
23

Roses are red Violets are Blue Give me head And lick my balls too
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Are you against using creatine? BCAA's to help with protein synthesis?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:54 PM
9

If you are losing self-control and yelling out of anger or emotion, you are breaking frame. If you are completely in control and yelling because you know it will work, then you are not. In most cases, you are breaking frame because you are losing self-control.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:16 PM
4

I miss the days when you could just kick someones ass after school and no one would be punished.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:57 PM
2

It doesn't matter. Your focus should not be on the BF. It should always be on yourself. You will know if the girl likes you more, because she will come fuck you. It doesn't mean hes not bigger than you and cant kick your ass in a fight. It just means that you stimulated her more in the moment. There's plenty of "alphas" out there. But, take those alphas and put them in prison, and your gonna have a whole lot of alpha bitches. It's all relative. To the girl, the moment, and the environment. You c…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:18 PM
1

Say HI. Otherwise, DGAF.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:10 PM
2

Girls flirt all the time. A true alpha wont give a shit. When she crosses the line and shows true disrespect, the alpha says "next" and moves to the next. The alpha wont care if his girl flirts, because hes going to flirt too. He knows AWALT, and that he doesn't own her. He has abundance. He is secure about HIMSELF. He is the prize, not her. And, he does not GAF what she does because shes just along for the ride.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:01 PM
1

I see girls with their boyfriends all the time, and I walk by them, and eat dinner next to them too. I feel like you left a part out of this question.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:57 PM
10

Get a magic marker. Write "Will you go to prom with me, on your cock." Pull out your cock in front of her and the whole school Success.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:49 PM
2

What are your ages? If anyone physically assaults you, the police can and will intervene. Even in domestic issues.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:33 PM
4

Being in a relationship doesn't make someone a Beta. Knowing your GF is fucking another guy, and staying with her in any serious capacity, does, unless there are some abnormal circumstances going on. (Open relationship on both ends, swingers, etc...) Looks don't matter as far as Alpha/Beta. The biggest, meanest looking guys, can still be beta. The skinny guys with no muscle can also be alpha, if they have and can hold frame. A skinny guy, due to social status and frame (Dr. Lawyer. Hollywood sta…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:31 PM
3

I don't have a college degree from a prestigious university and I make great money. I went to a trade/tech school and then busted my ass without attaching myself to a permanent leech (woman). Work, work, and more work. What you put in = what you get back out. Only, what you put in now, can last the rest of your life with little maintenance along the way. Don't doubt yourself. You will never get the job you don't apply for. Keep working hard, move up, when you hit a ceiling at a job, change jobs.…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:09 PM
2

If shes a really close friend just talk to her about it. Tell you that you know you arent doing this stuff and ask her if theres something else she needs to talk to you about. Tell her you have specifically asked other people and no one else has anything to say about it. You don't have to make it weird. But, if she is sabotaging you, spreading false info, or even telling you false things for selfish reasons it has to stop. If she continues, and insists that you did these things. Ask for detailed…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:50 PM
4

I feel the same way about 2 girls 1 cup. People b weird man...
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:37 PM
7

AWALT man... You might get one now, but if you don't stay on top of your shit, she will leave you for the next upgrade that comes around. Then you figure it out the hard way. Which, I think everyone needs to do at least once. It is work, but not for anyone else. Its is work to better yourself. Stop looking at it as "I have to do all of this stuff just to get laid." Getting laid more easily, and maintaining any relationship (plate, ltr, even marriage) is simply a byproduct of doing all of this st…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:06 PM
15

Yes and no. Its easy to get laid by a fat ugly chick at Wal-mart without doing any of this. If you want quality, and the ability to get laid whenever you want, then YES. It takes more effort. But, you arent doing this shit for them. You are doing this shit for YOU. They come as a result of YOU getting better.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:53 PM
5

Yes. Yes. And, Yes.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:48 PM
1

This is just how people are. People like to talk about themselves in most cases. Most people are pretty damn shallow and not very creative. Not being questioned is never a bad thing. If you appear closed off in your body language it could also cause some of this. Arms crossed, looking at them really seriously, not smiling...people will tend to ask you less. It's also possible you don't bring up topics that intrigue them. If I said "I ate at McDonald's today." You probably wont ask me a lot about…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:43 PM
1

It's really hard to know this other than experiencing them. This is why you tell them what to do when you are having sex. You can make them better, and if they are really in to you, they will like and prefer it. Tell them what to do. Tease them. Even make them tease you. You seem to have that knowledge already. I dont know why, but most of the "hot sluts" I have been with were the worst in bed initially. Maybe they have been spoiled in to not having to work very hard. Just being a hot slut got t…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:30 PM
15

Is it possible that Kelly likes you as more than a friend and is simply saying things out of jealousy or spite? She seems to be the one common variable in all of this.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:21 PM
1

Social status is simply one factor of attraction. It is not everything.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:16 PM
3

Whatever you do, dont just sit around and mope. Music always helps. I will play music and clean up around my place. Work on my playlists/download new stuff. Wash/clean my truck. Get outside, get some sun. I'll lay in my hammock and read or just meditate. Stay busy, keep your mind active if your body won't be.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:13 PM
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She has no right to your phone or other personal conversations. If you are married or LTR and have trust issues (you cheated on her but want to stay with her) its one thing. Any other time, hell no. Its none of her damn business. Esp if shes messaging your contacts and saving her fingerprint.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:08 PM
2

So, you are depressed because you feel you have to behave in a stoic manner and hold frame?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:09 PM
1

In my humble opinion your buddy did nothing wrong. You had nothing established with the girl. As you said...there are no "dibs." They did what they did in the moment and something developed from it. What would you have done if the roles were reversed? Tell her you don't want to get laid because your buddy likes her? Then what if she said "I dont really like him, I want you." Etc... If its a truly close friend of yours, be happy for him. Feel it, show it, DGAF. You did leave the door wide open fo…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:07 PM
1

Too many risks, and no certainty whatsoever.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:23 PM
1

I think you answered your own question. If that even was a question.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:07 PM
2

Hell - to- the - no. Get 2 free "escorts" out of her first. See how far you get.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:05 PM
2

Meh, who knows. Could have been anything. Maybe she sensed your thirst, or was simply not in to you or the moment. Don't hamster too much. Women rarely make sense when you want them to. Next!
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:00 PM
2

Just be glad you didn't marry her.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:53 PM
1

Just tell her you arent going with her anymore. I did the same thing to a chick...to Vegas too. I just told her I was going by myself. She asked about the cost of her flight. I told her I would pay half of it if she ended up not going by herself. Shit happens. Its up to you if you want to reimburse her somehow... I personally felt bad about mine because it had nothing to do with her and I felt like a dick about the plane ticket.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:53 PM
1

Treat her like any other plate. Text for logistics on the next time you are meeting up. Go from there.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:31 PM
2

Not enough info here to know who paid for what, whether or not you can get a refund, etc... Did she book it, did you book it, etc? Most of the time you cannot get a refund on the flight, or change the name. So, that would leave the hotel as the only way to recoup losses.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:28 PM
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I am not familiar enough with the laws outside of the USA to be of much help here. I would be speculating, and I dont like to give advice based on speculation. So, forget everything I said up to now!!!
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:53 PM
1

Is your perceived SMV is notably higher than hers?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:51 PM
1

The problem with this is that if things go south, YOU are the one getting kicked out and losing the house.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:44 PM
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No, I was in the same situation. Only the person whose name is on the loan paperwork is the "owner." Until you get married. If/once married, she could prove that she paid in to the house and could possibly get something back, but far less likely if you never marry and are not considered common-law. Go as far as to give her receipts for her "rent" payment. Write on the receipt that it is specifically for "rent." Never let anyone assume you are married, always say "no we are not married." Never pr…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:35 PM
1

Go talk to the police. Don't necessarily file a report, but talk to a detective that handles that stuff. Make your intentions of covering your own ass known. When you dump her, if she goes to the police and says you beat her, you are the one thats going to get screwed. After that. Dump her. You may even want to record it, just in case.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:28 PM
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Your name only on the loan paperwork. She pays you "rent," much like a roommate would. If both of your names are on the loan contract you are setting yourself up to be considered common-law marriage. Assuming the state you are in has common law.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:24 PM
3

You "had" a friend...
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:00 PM
1

Buy a cheap bottle of tequila Enter party and yell "LADIES.....Who wants shots!?" Pour shots for anyone who wants one. You are then the fun guy, who provided free shots, made some friends, and never have to drink one yourself. But, you are still associated with the shots, and it will be the general assumption that you are also drinking.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:47 PM
2

Fuck that "if he cant dance he cant fuck" shit. I cant dance for shit either, but I can fuck all night. If a girl thinks that or worries about that, fuck her, theres a billion more out there. If you have 10% body fat and muscles you can flop around on the dance floor with a pink light stick and still get plenty of pussy anyways. Your root problem is confidence, and self-esteem. All corrected by focusing on and bettering yourself. Get in shape first. While you are getting in shape, eat healthy. W…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:41 PM
1

50% of the time you get laid by her later that night. The other 50% you get married and have kids and get divorced 5 years later.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:30 PM
4

I have shit grades - study I'm fat, out of shape - lift and diet, every single day I can't dance worth shit - you must be white, welcome to the club no good hair - comb it, get a stylist or gay friend I'm not happy with the music that I'm making - no idea on this, I just listen to music and I'm still working on my self esteem - do all of the above, and you might get some self esteem!
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:21 PM
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IDGAF in my opinion applies to situations that would normally arouse emotion or insecurity, in which you display, feel, and show, no emotion or insecurity. You simply DGAF. You are confident enough to handle any situation that may arise, without letting anything get to you. It is not easy to fake. You must be confident in general, and have an abundance mentality. You could get excited and anxious when approaching an unfamiliar hot chick. Stumbling, bumbling, being beta. Not approaching in fear. …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:53 PM
1

Is a 4-some out of the question?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:33 PM
2

Hope you never go to jail bro. =)
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:28 PM
3

8 Bucks an hour = needs someone to pay for dinner = keep on fuckin
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:26 PM
1

They look smaller in the back of a little car than sprawled out on a big bed? Its too cramped, you cant see shit, they can typically leave their shirt on, etc... =)
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:23 PM
4

This is a tough question, and probably better suited for a guidance counselor or some sort. We dont know your capabilities/IQ/Social skills/grades/financial situation, etc... If you dont know why you are going to college, save your time and money until you figure it out. Or, get the basics out of the way at a local community college, while you work, until you have a better idea of what you want to focus on. I skipped "real" college. Its not for everyone. It wasn't for me. I learned a tech trade …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:17 PM
3

I don't cater to the opinions of others, and I don't lie to keep phony friends around that would stab you in the back in a heartbeat, just because you have a slightly different opinion. You either need to avoid, lie, or be your true self and risk the friendships. Not very RP of you to avoid or lie though. Is it?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:47 PM
2

Overactive sympathetic nervous system. There are not any quick fixes for this other than drugs that make you a zombie. You can actively focus on your breathing, taking your mind off of any potential set offs. You can become numb to what is setting you off. Approach tons of cute girls, get used to them, realize they arent any different than anyone else. I had this issue when I first got in to public speaking. I had it bad. My face would turn almost purple. I had to speak in front of a few hundred…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:35 PM
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If taking a break from women helps you focus on and achieve your goals, then sure. I don't recommend it in your case though. Why do you have to give up? Just go in to IDGAF mode. Which, you should be in anyways. Keep working on yourself, keep talking to women. If anything it may reduce some anxiety with the girls. Not ready to make a move? Then don't. You can still be practicing, learning, observing, etc... You ever see a hot chick with a guy and ask "How the heck did that guy get that girl?" Tr…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:09 PM
2

Tell her you don't want to be in a committed relationship anymore but you still enjoy her company. The relationship is just too much to handle right now with how busy your life is... She will either say Go F yourself and bail. Cry and beg. Or agree. With any of these outcomes she could change her mind anywhere from 1 minute to 20 years later. For example, she could say Go F yourself, and then text you a week to 20 years later for sex. Either way you limit all future correspondence to logistics o…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:55 PM
1

The ones I have known either 1. Had daddy issues. 2. Were raped or abused in some way earlier in life. 3. Both.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:34 PM
1

So, whats the problem? Chicks are crazy, fickle, and emotional. She could have gained 3 lbs and just feels insecure in the moment. Who knows... Get used to it though =). Next.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:31 PM
4

Every single time I should have trusted my gut, and did not, I regretted it later. Every time I did trust my gut, I was always right to. That said, your gut is different than mine, and I don't know what is setting yours off. Take a step back, be a little more cautious, remember actions > words, but if you have to hamster too much about it, it is probably best to just get out or at least cut any/all emotional ties. (Plate)
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:26 PM
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Many years ago I dated a "good ole christian girl" who everyone really liked. Coworkers of hers, my dad, my dads friends (she worked at my dads office). She was really outgoing, and social, said all the right things. Second date came around, and she ended up being the sexual aggressor. Something was off, in my gut, so I pulled back from sex, at which point she had a complete breakdown. Cried, begged, etc... I should have run my ass off. I didn't. I left for the night, thought about it, and since…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:47 PM
1

Had I married all of my 5+ year relationships that I thought would last forever, I'd be divorced 3 times now. But I'm not you and you are not me. I simply got tired of mine after time. I prefer to lease and not own. Always have. She is young. She will change. You will change. Something will change. She will hit the wall. She will eventually very likely want kids around the 28-32 year mark. Maybe you found the unicorn...maybe not. We don't have a crystal ball anymore than you do. Either way, good…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:20 PM
3

Every day you wake up tell yourself "She got gang banged by 5 guys last night, and all of them have 10 inch cocks." Every time you want to text her tell yourself "Shes probably sucking some other dudes cock right now, it would be rude of me to interrupt." Every time you miss her tell yourself "Shes probably taking it in the ass from my most hated enemy, and likely has AIDS." You have oneitis...congrats. Just remember, AWALT. Shes not yours. Shes only yours right now. Meditate and condition your …
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:04 PM
8

You need a break from all of it man. Take control of yourself and ghost her. She no longer exists to you. Get rid of all reminders, pictures, phone numbers, defriend her on all social media and do not look back. Until you get this junk out of your head, you are not going to make progress. It sounds like you are under a lot of stress too, doubting yourself. Go all out monk mode for a while if you have to. Tell yourself "F all women for 6 months, not my problem" Nothing wrong with with taking some…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:49 PM
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It's situational, but it's just like approaching anyone else you have never met. Be friendly, outgoing, funny, light, compliment them, smile, make and confidently hold eye contact (without being a creeper). Excuse me, I really like your dress, shirt, earrings, hair, shoes, blah, blah. I'm Joe Bob, whats your name, nice to meet you. Fall back on FORD topics if you have to. Family, occupation, recreation, dreams, in the most appropriate order. After talking about all of that, you will likely find …
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:32 PM
2

"I know you are the big boss hoss now, but it doesn't mean I will let you disrespect me. Respect is a two-way street brah. You need something, I got your back, but don't disrespect me again."
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:33 PM
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You have sex 2-3 times a week. She doesn't try to talk to you too much. Sounds like a decent plate to me... Either way don't play in to any possible games. You never know with women, and its not worth your time or any amount of hamstering to try to figure it out. Often times it wont make any damn sense anyways. Shes not trying to have "the talk" so thats another bonus. Accept her as the plate she is, enjoy it, DGAF otherwise. Keep cultivating more and more abundance so it doesn't matter, and kee…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:27 PM
6

Work on your abundance. Find other girls. Hold your frame. DGAF about this one. Shes a time-sink. Once you have abundance she wont matter and you might actually get somewhere with her.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:15 PM
2

Get a dog. Meditate, a lot. You have to find something that you look forward to each and every day no matter how small it is. Make a list of goals every day before bed. Achieve those goals the next day. Find a sense of purpose. You have been through a lot already, more than the average person. Use your knowledge to mentor other young men...even if its just providing encouragement to others on this site. Knowing you are helping others goes a long way internally. Remember you still don't have it n…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:02 PM
1

I have experienced similar from a couple of chicks and they never ended up being worth it. Shes either an attention whore, a gold-digger, a manipulator, or bi-polar with daddy issues. You can see where it leads but cover all of your bases and protect yourself. Your gut is already telling you enough to post this here... Trust your gut. I would personally run from this. If you had any kind of sexual background with her at all my opinion might be different.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:38 PM
1

I would ghost her, get over her, and move on. You already broke frame with her a few times. She has an abundance mentality going. You do not. Actions > Words. Her actions are crap.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:26 PM
2

I had similar experiences, but at a much younger period in my life. I experienced this stuff in my high school days. I was a good athlete in high school and had girls all over me. I was just too damned high strung and over-thought everything during sexual moments, much to my own detriment. I was inexperienced as hell with, "sealing the deal." You have to learn to let go of this "fast" mentality. That takes a good deal of mental practice, and some experience with patience and success. Read the he…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:55 PM
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Sex isn't everything man. Like anything else it can get boring/old/redundant. It doesn't seem to bother you so no biggie. As long as your lack of interest isn't porn induced then I don't really see a problem.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:56 PM
1

Since you seem confident up to the point of action...Would you classify this as some sort of performance anxiety? Some fear of not being able to physically pleasure them? Or, something even deeper than that? Some guys arent able to pull off quick hookups for these reasons. You may be rushing things in your mind too much for what you are able to handle. Relax, get to know these girls a little better if you have to. If you have deep seeded trust issues, or anything like that, you are going to be o…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:52 PM
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Reduced BF "could" give you more self confidence. Setting a goal to reduce BF, working out hard, and hitting your goal, could also. Like others have said. Focus on yourself, and your own goals. The side effects from this assist with TRP ideology. You can have 8% BF, and be shredded, get more IOI's, looks, etc, but if you open your mouth and sound like a moron, it wont help as much as being 20% BF and having confidence in yourself and decent game. To give you a direct answer, the exact BFP that m…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:28 PM
2

Practice makes perfect. Practice approaching EVERYONE. Hey, how you doing...hows your day...I'm "blah" nice to meet you. Practice on guys, old people, co-workers, ugly people, everyone! Work on being social and friendly, and stop putting ANYONE on a damn pedastool. Eventually your fears will subside. Pretend girls are guys, pretend they have a mustache, approach them like you would any guy or group of guys. Lift and work on yourself and you will naturally improve your confidence also.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:09 PM
1

As long as they aren't strippers, gold-diggers, or a waitress, then its usually a good thing. It means they like you, or they want something from you. Escalate back and see what happens.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:58 PM
2

Pretty common tactic man. Don't feel bad about it, she lied to you to get you back. You dodged an imaginary bullet. Let it be a lesson, but don't let it bring you down.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:54 PM
1

As an intern you will be seen as a "lesser being" by some people at your company. When this guy offers his advice on arrogance, placate him without being submissive. Take the opportunity to ask him, in a personal way, for advice on how he thinks you should have worded your thoughts. If he quickly dismisses you, then he is probably defending just his turf against someone he might see as a threat. If he is willing to pull you aside and offer advice/mentor you, then he likely has better intentions.…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:29 PM
1

One week really isn't a huge setback. Sometimes a short rest can actually help you and you may be stronger coming back. I am usually good if I only miss one week. If I miss two I definitely lose a little edge. Just start with what you normally do and see how it goes. Feel it out. No one but you knows if you can handle the routine/weight or not. Either way, go hard.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:17 PM
1

Delete them all. Control yourself boy!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:15 PM
1

Sounds to me like you are doing a fine job!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:03 PM
3

Always show authority in response to these tests. And, Do not give away free validation. You can say "Insecurity bores me." or "I thought you were more confident than that." or ask "Are you fishing for compliments?" If you are past first base with them. "I'm XXXX(kissing,banging, etc) you, arent I." You are not agreeing with them. You are not rewarding them with blue pill replies. You are putting yourself above them, exactly where they want you to be and exactly where you should be.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:33 PM
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Maintain your goals. Even though you may not be able to lift right now, stay focused on your well-being. Eat right, stretch/meditate if that works for you. Do what you can, without causing further injury. Take rehab seriously. Read. Use this downtime to continue to better yourself in other ways. Do you have access to a sauna? Use it if you do/are able. It will provide a few of the benefits of doing cardio, without the physical activity. It's hard not being able to lift and reap the benefits of l…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:20 PM
2

"No, but shes hot, isn't she?"
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 04:07 PM
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