Basically,
Me and my girlfriend only see each others sporadically at the moment because she's in another city in an internship. We keep up mostly by text, and spend about 8-10 days together per month.
I was a bit annoyed with how much we were texting, so I toned down on the texting a lot. More straight to the point answers, less texting, "okay", "alright". However we still had bouts of back and forth live texting, like real.conversations. Wasn't rly trying to dread her as she did nothing wrong, just not text so much.
I noticed a bit of aggressiveness in her lately. Asking me where I am, why did I say X or Y, and just a bit of an attitude. Tday she sent a couple of texts and I told her I didn't like the tone of them, was there something she wanted to say?
Bam. Wall of text. Says she feels I'm not i terested in talking to her anymore, I seem annoyed by her, do I even want to be with her still? Then she proceeds to tell me about every little ambiguous thing I said during the relationship about other girls, that she thinks I'm seeing other women or want to, that she feels really jealous and moody. She asks me what changed. I tell her that she's in the wrong, but she video calls me and tells me that I've never been that way and she won't take that for an answer. She started crying and telling me she wishes I would tell her more that I miss her and love her, that she needs to know what's going on.
I end up telling her that I'm frustrated with some things atm and that I feel trapped by a few things. Tell her I didn't want to tell her, but since it affects her so much that's what it is. I tell her that I love her and want to be with her, and that I'm not pursuing other women. At the end the conversation shifted towards me and that's where I think I kinda failed. I wanted to just comfort her, but it ended up looking like me telling jer about my problems. I don't think it's a huge deal, but is it ok? Honestly felt like I had to comfort her, she doesn't deserve to be miserable she's been good.
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