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You get a little bit of attention and immediately come running here to tell us all about it? I say go for it, she will find out what a pussy you really are long before ever get the chance to take her pants off.
/r/askMRP25/02/20 12:50 AM
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Damn dude, you made yourself look like a giant bitch with that one. Newsflash: If your wife wants to fuck another guy, she will, and there's not a goddamned thing you can do about it, especially not arguing with her or asking her politely not to. You can't negotiate desire. That entire thing was a giant unnecessary exercise in you losing frame, openly admitting that you know this guy is better than you, and that you are afraid of him. What kind of woman wants to be around a guy who pisses his pa…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 05:07 PM
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You're a tall skinny bastard like me, so make sure you focus a lot of energy on eating enough, and eating the right foods. Your diet will be just as important to building strength as any time spent in the gym.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 10:16 PM
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Eh, in my opinion it's better to be loose and goofy than uptight and serious about sex. Consider yourself lucky you don't have some cold fish wife who tells you to shut up and finish already. I get it though, you want the hot steamy sex like on tv. You're too weak now to really be able to dominate her like she wants, so hit the gym and start lifting. No woman will ever submit to a man that can't physically dominate her. About her goofy comments and shit, just shut her up by making her gasp and l…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 08:13 PM
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Frank's? Geez...you're lucky I already respect you. I like to keep my hot sauce spicier than my woman.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 07:09 AM
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My gf used to threaten to put me on the couch and make me do things, then one day I told her, "yea well, I'm bigger and stronger than you, so good luck". She didn't bring it up after that.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 06:37 AM
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Whats your favorite hot sauce?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:51 AM
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Stop trying so fucking hard. Your wife is your #1 priority right now when she should be like #8 or #9.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 03:06 AM
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"You're cute when you're angry"
/r/askMRP03/01/20 11:28 PM
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You're not wrong, but until OP is ready to fully bail on his wife, he has to find a way to include her and make it fun. Women with 2 kids in 10+ year relationships are easy, it will take more than good pity sex to keep his wife interested if that is what he really wants. TBH, she was probably crying from being stuck with such a beta faggot, not from any deep or emotional sex. But women with no options are prone to emotional outbursts. Agreed, lots of work to do still. Get on it OP and make her c…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:50 AM
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when she cries, you hug her, tell her what she's doing wrong, then bang her good That only works in a world where all the men here are sexy attractive high value guys. If you've been here more than a minute you know that isn't the case. There are tons of guys here in 10yr relationships whose wives fuck them only because they don't have any other options. I could easily play the "no option" card with a girl in a decade long relationship, but that's too easy. Fat unattracted wives love to put out …
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:10 AM
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Glad to see you're still here too. Just got a little busy with personal stuff, plus some burn out from telling newfags the same shit over and over again. I can see not a lot has changed, but I should be around a little more now.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 06:23 PM
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In my experience it's better when I learn things on my own, then show/teach my gf once I've gotten good at it. Bonus mystery points if she has no idea you're learning it to begin with. I agree with Bobby though, your lifts are fucking weak. You're going to try to be this suave dancing man and the second you try to pick your wife up your arms will snap like sad little twigs.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 06:18 PM
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Briffaults law, branch swinging, being the most responsible teenager in the house....etc. She will be abiding by those principles in any given situation. Will she immediately jump ship if a hotter guy smiles at her? Probably not, but don't expect her to throw her drink in his face either. My gf knows my boundaries, all you can do is lay them out for her and try to not let her make you look like a bitch. If she does, cut her loose, if she abides by them, then reward her by being an awesome man. Y…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:51 PM
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The only thing I trust my gf to do is to act like a woman in any given situation.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:25 PM
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You seem boring, and I bet your wife would agree. The problem is you're not giving her any feels. In this post you basically describe yourself as a decent looking beta bux, it's sad. She doesn't care that you take care of the house and bills or whatever. There are tons of other guys with jobs that can pay for shit. All she cares about is how you make her feel, and you're probably not making her feel much of anything at all. When was the last time you made her feel excited or anxious or anything …
/r/askMRP14/12/19 12:41 AM
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I'm not married, and I think the ideal is a girl that will stick by you even if she knows you will never marry her. Make sure she is willing to do that before you commit to her.
/r/askMRP13/12/19 03:05 AM
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Even a weekend away or spoiling her with cash or gifts gets minimal in return.... You can't negotiate desire. Your wife is not sexually attracted to you, and is actually physically repulsed at the thought of having to even touch such an inferior beta male. What are you doing to make yourself less of a whiny pathetic bitch and into a confident attractive man?
/r/askMRP20/03/19 09:18 PM
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Your ancestors, who are physically, basically the same as you, used to live in the woods and sleep on sticks and eat whatever they were fast enough to catch. I know the world is a different place but why don't you start small and quit being such a dramatic little bitch about everything. Grow a pair, accept that life isn't always easy and just keep moving forward. Somewhere out there is a guy who will be sleeping in a gutter tonight but have more money than both of us in 5 years. You're too short…
/r/askMRP12/03/19 09:17 PM
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I'll keep it simple, women have sex when they are turned on, and with a guy they find attractive. Time, place, and anything else doesn't matter as long as you get those two things right, the rest won't matter. You don't need to track data and other shit to make yourself into a more attractive and charming person, just be funny and confident and wear a good looking shirt.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 11:22 PM
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It all depends on what the variables are, and the kind of variables that actually get results can't really be tracked. "I smacked her right ass cheek and I got a bj" "I smacked her left ass cheek and only got a handjob" I would love to know the exact kind of data OP is actually tracking. How does one quantify maintaining frame?
/r/askMRP11/03/19 10:12 PM
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The problem is that women are living paradoxes, and don't operate with logic or reason. They live in emotion, and spreadsheets and data are the opposite of emotion. In fact, being the kind of guy who takes time tracking this stuff instead of just being naturally awesome already puts you behind the curve.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 09:05 PM
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she she she she she The problem is that you give a fuck about what she says and thinks and change your behavior because of it.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 08:27 PM
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Don't downplay the importance of dread. Bitchy attitude (which I still take the bait on sometimes) And you're still dealing with covert contracts? You really don't sound so hot yourself. A beta faggot with 6 pack abs is still a beta faggot. Your wife will want to look hot for you when you're worth looking hot for. Get hot, improve your game, and don't hate your wife because she is 100% a reflection of what kind of man you are.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 01:28 PM
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So I will be talking to a lawyer IF things start to go South He still doesn't get it. OP is a fucking moron. Maybe he will start to give a shit when his daughter starts calling her mom's new boyfriend "dad" instead of him.
/r/askMRP28/02/19 11:18 PM
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There's a paradox that a lot of guys get caught up in when they come here. They show up because their wives are nagging bitches and they can't stand being around them, or they start lifting and getting in shape and all of a sudden they realize they could do better and their wives look like slobs compared to the gym bunnies in skin tight athletica leggings. However, most guys come here because they don't want to end the marraige, they want to make an effort to turn things around and make it bette…
/r/askMRP28/02/19 06:38 PM
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Shameless self plug, but check out this post about eating healthy. Also check out Rian Stones YouTube channel where he cooks healthy shit and teaches you how to not be a bitch. Just put his name into YouTube to find it. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8bac6e/you_are_the_only_one_responsible_for_what_you_put/
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 01:35 AM
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Definitely get your shit together legally so you're ready when she slaps you with a divorce, but at least you'll already have some plates lined up.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 04:03 AM
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It doesn't matter who moved first or from where. Girls vote with their feet. You're not worth her being around, so she's leaving. That's it. A girl would work at mcdonalds to be around a man they're attracted to. For the record, I think this situation is fucked and I wouldn't put up with it for a second and I don't think you should either. But, I can also tell you're a pussy and no matter what you're going to stick with her and let her go. So I'm going to tell you the least pussy way to live the…
/r/askMRP27/02/19 01:31 AM
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Post this over on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/19 02:30 AM
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Somewhere out there is a guy who is busier than you, makes more than you and goes to the gym harder than you. Excuses are worth shit around here.
/r/askMRP23/02/19 09:50 PM
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The more you bring this guy up to your wife, the more sue knows that he makes you insecure. When she knows that he makes you insecure, she automatically starts feeling that he is more attractive than you. You have a lot of issues that the sidebar will help you with, but the biggest is oneitis for your wife. How do you compose yourself? You don't give a fuck about this guy. You have no confidence and you're shitting your pants because you're worried he will steal her away from you. You need to ge…
/r/askMRP23/02/19 05:01 PM
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Oh ok I see now. I approved it over there and I will approve your comments as well. Good luck, you're about to get wrecked. Throw yourself on the fire and rise from the ashes like a pheonix.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 03:10 PM
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Post this over on /r/askmrp, and be ready to get torn to shreds over the heart shaped pancakes.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 03:04 PM
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If you believe she's the only girl for you, I guess you hold on for dear life.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:40 AM
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Girls vote with their feet, she wanted to be around him for a reason. The bigger issue is that you even give a fuck. You're insecure, probably weak as fuck and you have oneitis for this girl like a motherfucker. Get a hold of yourself man. Your ancestors killed tigers with sticks and you're here shitting your pants over text messages of "your" girl and some older guy. Bitches ain't shit dude, so move the fuck on with your mission. Let them be accessories to your success, not some lame shit you o…
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:50 AM
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Shit tests are flirting and foreplay for women. If you're too lazy to play the game, I heard the new line of sex dolls are pretty realistic.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 06:47 PM
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Women go from angry to horny pretty fast if you know how to do it. She doesn't want solutions, she either wants you to agree with her or to just STFU and let her bitch for a minute. If giving her love or whatever is working out for you, then who gives a shit, but I would keep it in check because that shit can get old quick unless you escalate every night and make it fun.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 11:22 PM
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Post this to /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 08:47 PM
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Women will conform to the mood you put them in. My gf deals with assholes at work all day and she'll come home grumpy and pissed off at everyone. She's not pleasant to be around when she is like that, but just leaving her to be alone won't change anything. It's not like she's being disrespectful, but women can't control their emotions. That's why they need you to be the emotional rock. Let her wavy attitude crash up against your big strong man arms. I change my gf's mood by teasing her and pissi…
/r/askMRP07/02/19 08:43 PM
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talking about feelings Bruh.....
/r/askMRP06/02/19 11:36 PM
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That was a shit test that you failed, and are still failing. She was testing you for insecurity and she got it. You can lie to yourself all you want, but her in a skimpy bikini doesn't "turn you off", it turns other guys on and you don't want to have to deal with it. She knows the truth, we know the truth, just accept it. Next time agree and amplify that shit... "Bathing suit? I thought we were going nude." Odds are if you had displayed security and confidence that she would have bought one that…
/r/askMRP06/02/19 11:13 PM
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Women break rules for alphas, and they make rules for betas. It was never about the kids, she just doesn't want to fuck you.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 07:07 PM
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Her saying yes for a voucher isn't great either
/r/askMRP02/02/19 02:09 AM
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I know it seems harmless but I'll explain why it's fucked. You can never bring these "vouchers" up again. Ever. If you mention this in an attempt to get blown, you will look like a beta who is negotiating desire. If you mention it even in joking you will look like a loser who has been thinking about blowjob vouchers this whole time. There is no way you can bring up the voucher and look hot unless it's some agree and amplify shit involving other women and it pisses her off, and I don't think you'…
/r/askMRP02/02/19 12:59 AM
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Most guys want to have an enjoyable and active sex life. In order to do that you have to play the game a little and make sure you're attractive by the standards of male/female nature. I don't get what your point is, are you saying that any guy who has to put in any effort in order to attract women is a loser and doing it for validation? Do you really believe a guy should be able to fuck off all day and play video games and have women magically want to suck his dick? Or are you saying that all gu…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 08:24 PM
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There is a guy she knows whose dick she would suck for free, and she would clean his house afterwards and make him dinner. That's the guy you want to be, not the one that has to negotiate blowjobs for chores because your wife isn't turned on by you enough to give them to you on her own. Don't ever do that shit again, it's literally one of the most beta things you can do.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:05 PM
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Eh, he will always have that mark against him, but women live in the moment. I bet if she looks at his phone and sees a dozen instagram models thirsty for his dick she won't be thinking about how pussy he was when he took her back. Can he get there though? That's the real question. He'll have to work harder now to overcome it but it's possible. I'm with you, he should dump her ass and start fresh, but life isn't always black and white. Shit happened over a year ago and now he is where he is. I'm…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 02:35 PM
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You have to sort your shit out mate. Losing weight is great, but you shouldn't have gotten so fucking fat to begin with. Don't ever look for validation with your exercise, just do what your lazy ass should have been doing all along. You're going to start seeing real improvements and it's going to make you feel good, as it should, but nobody gives a fuck, especially not your wife. Come tell us and we will yell at you to lift more and keep you from turning into a needy faggot about it. The real th…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 10:20 PM
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Stop giving a fuck about your wife and her emotional needs. She isn't on your team, she doesn't have your best interests at heart and she never will. You are the only one in your marraige who truly cares about you. She is only with you as long as it benefits her. That emotional needs bullshit is just her rationalizing why she wanted that guys dick and not her husband's. Don't believe her words, only her actions. I'm not going to call you a pussy for taking her back, but I guarantee she has thoug…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 10:04 PM
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This belongs in /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/19 03:01 PM
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You don't have to be married to post here. Keep up the good work but stop being a pussy and lift more.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 09:47 PM
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Just understand that the more you resent and dislike her, the less attractive you will be to her. Women are like water and will conform to the shape of the container they are in. Women will conform to the type of man they are with. Your wife's attitude and all the other bullshit that you don't like is 100% your fault. There are tons of guys who have good bitch management skills and strong frame who could make your wife a nice, pleasant and sweet little housewife, you're just not one of those guy…
/r/askMRP11/01/19 05:34 PM
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One thing a lot of new guys do that fucks them over is that they dislike their wives, but want to try to improve and see if they can save the marraige. Like they're "stuck" and miserable and resent their wives but still know they need to improve. You cannot be an alpha male if you are currently in a relationship with a woman you don't like. That's not how alpha males work, if you have options and you're confident and you put yourself first, you wouldn't be with a woman you don't enjoy spending t…
/r/askMRP11/01/19 05:07 PM
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Read up on dread game because that is what you're lacking the most, and any dread you may have built up gets washed away the second you start "communicating" about your needs and sex and all that shit. Women want men who are studs, talking about your lack of sex isn't studly. Fake it until you make it if you have to, but you're stepping on your own feet with all this neediness and discussions.
/r/askMRP06/01/19 02:58 PM
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What the fuck did I tell you in the last thread you made? Pretty sure I told you to stop trying to communicate your feelings with your wife, and to just STFU. You fucked up man. I talked about my wife's feelings and demonstrated some serious low value, and then I STFU. You're either gonna take the advice we give you or you're going to keep fucking up and we're all gonna get pissed and kick you out. I told her sex is very important to me STFU STFU STFU Do you know how dry a vagina gets when a man…
/r/askMRP06/01/19 02:48 PM
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You're trying to negotiate desire. Telling her you want BJs on command implies you aren't worthy of them naturally. Having to state an expectation means you don't naturally deserve it. Not the worst fuck up ever but I would still proceed with caution, her intentions aren't what you think and the outcome won't be as straightforward as you think either.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:08 PM
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Sounds like beta bait. I would proceed with caution. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/05/15/more-common-types-of-beta-bait/ Instead of giving her real suggestions, use it as a chance to play with her feelings a little, build mystery and keep her on her toes and unaware of your true thoughts and intentions. The absolute worst thing you could do is give her a real genuine list of things you wished she'd change.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:00 PM
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If you're so fit, attractive and good at sex, why is your only option a cold sexless bitch? Something doesn't add up here, hmmmm.....
/r/askMRP04/01/19 05:46 PM
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Thanks for putting in the work and actually counting. It might be a new "she" record.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 04:06 PM
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The amount of times you used the word "she" in this post is the stem of your problem. You give way too many fucks about your wife. Stop talking so fucking much, stop trying to figure her out or convince her to change her mood. It's shitty and it's never going to work. The only thing that matters is you and your value. How sexy are you, how charming and attractive are you in social situations. Thats all your wife, or any woman, cares about. Your conversations where you try to communicate and infl…
/r/askMRP04/01/19 03:59 PM
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How has no one posted the Arnold stogie interview yet? https://youtu.be/DklAU4GNpxA
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:23 PM
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through conversation Your words mean nothing to her, all that matters is your value and her view of herself in relation to your value. If going to the gym makes you hot and she wants to be hotter for you she will want to go. Until then there is no point getting butthurt or being pushy about it. You can't control your woman's behavior, you can only control yourself. If I were you I would get the membership for 1 and spend the money you would have spent on her on yourself. Get some new shirts or s…
/r/askMRP22/12/18 09:00 PM
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It's a catch 22. The harder you try to make her happy and do things for her the less attracted to you she will become, and will view you as less "awesome". That's not to say you can't do anything nice for her, but if you're putting more than 5 minutes of effort into it, which you already are, it's going to make you look weak. Check out this article https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/the-true-romantics/
/r/askMRP10/11/18 01:46 PM
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Women would rather be treated okay by an awesome guy than to be treated awesome by an okay guy. The gift she wants the most is an awesome fun and sexy guy, and those kinds of guys don't sit around worrying about what kind of gift they should get.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 07:37 PM
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You're not alone, but it is a weakness. It's oneitis and it doesn't matter if she's the greatest women you've ever known, the more you fixate on her the less attracted to you she will become. Don't force yourself to be a dick to her, or avoid her, but understand that women prefer men who don't give a fuck about them and prioritize themselves. There's nothing wrong with liking your wife, just always remember to put yourself first and don't ever let your thoughts about her get in the way of your m…
/r/askMRP25/10/18 10:45 PM
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What should you do? Stop giving so many fucks. Even in this post, you care way too much and you're defensive as fuck. Your attitude and beliefs are the problem, not who your gf is texting. Bitches ain't shit and you're on here acting like it's life or death if she doesn't give you her undivided attention. I don't know what you should have done, because this would never happen to me. If my gf spent her time texting another guy while we watched a movie, she knows the next movie I watch would be wi…
/r/askMRP11/10/18 10:38 PM
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You're chasing your dog and wondering why she's not coming to you. The best thing you can do to save your relationship is to just let it go. Also I told her I can have any woman I want This means nothing to her. Unless she actually sees random women coming up and flirting with you and giving you IOI's, you're just coming off as a little kid who's crying because no one believes he can handle big boy things. Words mean nothing, 90% of information females take in is from body language and the subte…
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:12 PM
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The shit you're doing is beta as fuck and she doesn't want you to do it anymore. She gives you easy shit tests afterwards hoping you'll prove at least a little bit alpha and you fail those too. No more dick picks or cupcakes.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:09 PM
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The people at your job don't give as many fucks about you as you think they do. Just get over it and keep working.
/r/askMRP10/08/18 12:27 PM
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I think you're misreading your wife's emotions. My girl loves me the most when she is calling me an asshole and punching me in the arm, your wife is no different. Anyways, good luck with your snowflake wife who you also use as your emotional support rock. I'm sure she doesn't wish it was the opposite. Your award is a "male feminist" t-shirt.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 10:54 PM
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My wife would be pissed that I made such a major life change without even letting her know that I was looking. So? Since when is pissing your wife off a bad thing? Also, it should be implied that you're always looking for something better. Telling her shouldn't make a difference. If you only decide to upgrade now, it implies that you were complacent before, which isn't a good trait to display. Your wife will never say this, but she will think it. I will say that if the upgrade involves a move or…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 10:24 PM
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I would bet you a million dollars your wife would rather experience the joy and suprise of having you walk in one day and casually tell her you just made a deal giving you 30k more, than to have to listen to your thoughts and feelings every step of the way until you get there. Familiarity breeds contempt. The more you show her about your successes, the less she will feel about them and the less she will feel towards you when you make them happen.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 09:41 PM
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I ask my girl about stuff too, if I'm fairly certain it's going to happen. She does have an ability to point out things I may have missed. That being said, I do it very rarely for the following 2 reasons. Keeping her in the dark until you can come in and tell her potentially life changing news helps you appear mysterious and as the master of your own universe. Telling your woman everything all the time kills attraction. She isn't on your team, and the things she tells you will be what she thinks…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 10:20 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/gallery/IMmmP8A
/r/askMRP05/08/18 01:21 PM
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She was getting overwhelmed, and she shit tested you so that she could find some comfort in knowing she is with a strong confident man who is in control of himself, and you immediately DEER'd, failed the shit test and proved to her that she is the one in charge, which isn't what she wants. Now she is in free fall as she desperately looks for a strong masculine man who won't immediately get defensive and buckle to her bitchy tone and shit testing questions. All your answers are in the side bar, b…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 08:01 PM
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The veneer of civilization is pretty thin. We have all the cool shit we have today because of a general "moral" code where people generally acted cool towards each other, played by the rules, and everyone benefited as a group. Now it's a fragile system, and it's easy for one guy to say "fuck the rules" and take more than he would if he was playing nice. Think of it this way, imagine a house on Halloween with a bucket of candy and a "please take 1" sign stuck on it. If everyone only takes 1, ever…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:55 PM
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I feel you man, when I read all this shit for the first time and it all made sense, I started freaking out. My mind racing as I realized my special snowflake soulmate was AWALT as fuck. I started remembering that time she stayed with some friends and didn't call that night, or went to one friends house but I thought maybe I heard a dudes voice in the background noise when she called, or that red mark on her neck that one time that might have been anything. There are a million little clues that f…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 07:42 PM
10

Tease her a little and challenge her to expand her horizons and try a little harder. Make her aware that you have a standard for quality sex, but don't say it outright or try to negotiate attraction. This is on you at the end of the day, you're just not bringing out her inner slut, whether it's due to lack of attraction or weak game. I would keep it light and flirty and playful. Act like a guy who gets laid all the time and just wants to mess around and have fun. If she bores you, kiss her, smac…
/r/askMRP01/08/18 01:46 PM
-5

Agree to disagree. But if you ever advocate for marraige on this sub or encourage other guys to get married I will ban you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 10:21 PM
1

I'm not married. I told my girl it was never going to happen, and to take it or leave it, and she's still around. But yea, I'll never really know if you're rationalizing, but I also don't care that much.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 09:56 PM
1

Isn't it? You replied to me
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 09:44 PM
1

I think you're rationalizing your decision to marry your wife, knowing what you know now.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 09:30 PM
1

If you told your wife that you wanted to annul the marraige, but keep the same arrangement, would she go for it?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 09:18 PM
1

Eh, look man, if you have a system that works for you, more power to you, but by your own statement, your wife should be more than willing to share you with other women without being married, if you are as studly as you claim to be. There is nothing in your arrangement that can't also be done without getting married and just having a primary woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 09:01 PM
1

How so? Marraige without monogamy?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 08:29 PM
0

"until she had confessed to me unprompted that she would stay with me no matter whether we married or not, had kids or not." But you married her anyway, so I guess we'll never really know. "I don't believe marraige in and of itself is bad" Monogamy isn't bad, marraige certainly is, unless you're simply equating the two. Otherwise, I strongly disagree with that point of your post. Otherwise not bad, the shit testing never ends, you're right, and any weakness will be pounced on and attacked relent…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 04:47 PM
9

1.) I don't care what my girl, or any girl thinks of me and my "performance" 2.) The better my "performance", the more options I have, and the more options I have, the more my girl with make an effort to improve her "performance" with me. It's a double edged sword, yes, they get used to whatever level they are at, but they also know they have to up their level as you improve yours. Just always be improving and it should go your way anyway.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:22 PM
4

Wew buddy, you have a lot going on. I feel like I just watched an avengers movie that should have never been made. All your questions can be answered with the side bar. Your questions are so general you're not going to get much good feed back. Do you have a specific example you're thinking of? If not, get ready for a swarm of guys calling you a lazy faggot and posting a lot of ----> arrows at you. The general short answer, which is a part of the side bar reading material is that NO, you don't ow…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:18 PM
1

If you can't stfu your way out of it, then I would leave. Go be missing for a while, and come back like nothing happened. It doesn't sound like she is in control of her emotions right now, but don't say that to her.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 10:09 PM
5

Option 4, give a little comfort while also being a cocky asshole
/r/askMRP29/07/18 09:53 PM
1

I followed his advice and now I have the cleanest cell in the whole gulag. Thanks JP!
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:15 PM
6

lol sending pics of yourself to a woman is sad and beta. She honestly doesn't give a shit and probably has guys way bigger than you sending her pics also. It reeks of validation. Don't do shit like that again, if you want to show off your muscles, take a shirtless pic in front of a waterfall or something that looks like you aren't just taking a pic for validation purposes. It's weird. Also, you're gone for 3 months. You don't have to make her your priority and talk to her non stop, but realize t…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 04:50 PM
96

A bird outside my window fluffed his chest up to look bigger for a female bird he wanted to impress. Fucking psychopath I don't want that scary ass bird around me anymore now.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:27 PM
7

Always frame it like she's chasing you and you don't care about her. You care too much right now.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:40 AM
3

You have to be satisfying your girl sexually, otherwise you're just another beta bux.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:18 AM
1

Post this to /r/askmrp instead
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 08:19 PM
10

Women will take a guy who sleeps around over a guy who can't sleep around, because no one wants him. You don't need to cheat or mess around, but being able to do so is a very good thing. The world isn't a nice and friendly place most of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 07:52 PM
3

I see your point. My gf punched me in the chest once and I couldn't help but laugh. Female "violence" isn't the end of the world as long as it isn't serious. Op's girl sounds crazy as fuck though but I guess as long as he can handle it and it's worth it, but I'm sure there are more sane girls out there.
/r/askMRP27/07/18 12:51 AM
4

No one held a gun to OP's head and made him stay with this woman. "I'm beta at heart" this is the issue. No self respecting man would agree to be in a relationship with a woman like this.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 01:48 PM
4

She won't give a shit about you until another girl does. Get to work.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:58 AM
2

Cool. Tell me about another girl you're talking too.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:49 AM
1

Post this to /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/18 01:29 AM
2

Shit test shit test shit test. Don't let her use you as an emotional tampon. If she starts talking about this dude or that, tease her and make fun of her or something to keep her on her toes. Agree with the guy and make her defend herself, or make fun of them both. As long as you're not defending her and you don't give a fuck about who she's with, you're good.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:26 AM
5

You want to give off an image of "fun", not dominant. It's easy to look dominant, it's hard to look fun. Smile more and give less fucks.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:01 AM
1

"I just earn college credits"
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:22 AM
2

I've been there before. You could have also done a pressure flip. "Why, are you jealous?"
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:19 AM
11

"I don't kiss and tell"
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:01 AM
4

Do not get married. There is literally no benefit to you as a man. If you find a girl that you want to be monogamous with, you should also want her to be willing to be with you whether you're married or not, right? Any girl that insists on marraige isn't worth being in a relationship with. I'm not married but I've been with my girl for over ten years. We don't have kids, but I do want them someday. My strategy is to live my life, understand that she is only with me for my value, she is AWALT, bu…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:17 PM
9

"I'm thick where it counts"
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:11 PM
1

You frame it as being a man with options, and these options allow you to be selective and choosy about who you enter into a relationship with and what your expectations are. If she wants to go out clubbing, or getting dinners with guys, it's no hard feelings, you'll just get a girl who meets your standards. Her behavior isn't bad, or wrong or anything, it's just not something you personally want in a girl that you agreed to he monogamous with. She will shit test you about it and call you insecur…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:16 PM
1

It's always better to lean towards not giving a fuck, and just be ready to dump her ass and move on if she gets out of line, however, if you and her are in an exclusive relationship, you do need to have boundaries. I use the following guideline to determine what an appropriate boundary should be. Does her behavior hurt my SMV? Women respect men who respect themselves. If my girl goes out drinking at night, dancing on guys and just doing inappropriate shit, if other girls or people in the communi…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:09 PM
8

Consequences = you ending your relationship with her. Not pulling her aside to tell her how disappointed you are, or not letting her go outside anymore or any other shit like that. There is one consequence and unfortunately many guys don't have the balls to follow through with it.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:53 PM
3

Shit tests are flirtation and foreplay. They wouldn't be so boring if you knew how to use them to escalate and get results.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:29 PM
35

Some guys just have low standards and think that twice a month duty sex with an uninterested wife is the norm, and society and the media reinforce that. Especially guys who have never seen what a woman is really capable of, they just assume she was always a low sex prude. Feminism has made it so the bar of female behavior is so low, most guys are getting fed turd sandwiches and gobbling it up like its a filet mignon.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:12 PM
5

You can't get cucked if you're just casually spinning plates. Don't let one bitch take you out of the game forever.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:53 PM
3

/u/redskeller is spot on about not LTR a woman who goes out to clubs. A girls night out every once in awhile, but if she really cares about a relationship with you then she will choose you over the club's, and it doesn't seem like she wants to. About the boundaries, the key is to frame it as having general standards that you apply to any girl you are with. You have a certain level of self respect and standards, and you don't let people push you around or other bullshit. It has to be independent …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:47 PM
7

Very true. I try to keep my girls rollercoaster like splash mountain, so she's always soaking wet at the end.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 04:01 PM
61

Women enjoy the rollercoaster of emotions they experience, and being able to use her emotions to your advantage, especially the negative ones, is a very valuable skill. Nothing is worse than a guy who spends his days trying to even out a girls emotional state and keep her level, women are physically repulsed by it. Instead jump on the rollercoaster with her, throw your hands up at the top and enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 03:05 PM
1

Just chill out about it, it's as big of a deal as you make it out to be. I doubt she cares about you as much as you think she does.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:19 AM
2

Own it. Tell her it's about some shit but leave it vague and keep her wondering. Don't imply it's about a girl or any pussy shit like that. If she keeps pressing just play it off like the strong sensitive type and laugh it off.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:20 PM
1

Getting good at thriving in the unknown is a much better skill to have than being good at planning everything out.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:57 PM
4

You're already over thinking this. The "dare" game is a fun little premise but you're putting too much weight into it. The harder you try to plan this shit out ahead of time the worse it's going to turn out for you. Go out, have fun, play darts, have more fun, and just roll with it. You're getting too caught up on this will she won't she dare me bullshit. Also, don't put your "dare" back onto her, that's weird and it's like asking a girl where to go for dinner or where to sit in a movie theater,…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:36 PM
9

Bets with women are pointless, if she loses, she will back out immediately, if she wins, she will shame you for not holding up your end of the deal. It's lose lose to be honest. Even if she agrees to something, the odds are good that she will change her mind later and back out anyway. My advice would be to focus more on having fun, teasing with some playful banter and don't worry about who holds up whose end of the bet. Nothing is worse than a guy who is butthurt that he didn't get his way.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:24 PM
2

Something similar happened to me, I wrote about it here. Hopefully it helps, but never let her make you think you can get lazy for even a second. ttps://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4uv9k7/dont_let_her_girl_game_turn_you_into_a_beta/
/r/askMRP18/07/18 05:55 PM
1

"I am getting sick of it" This is your problem, she senses a weakness, and she won't stop until she breaks through or knows that the weakness is gone. Women want a man who will stand strong and stoic in the face of a tidal wave full of rabid bears. If her little shitty comments and questions effect you, it makes her nervous and uneasy about your ability to protect and provide for her. That's just female nature.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 05:49 PM
9

Men typically make better decisions, or at least have an easier time making them because we aren't as easily influenced by our emotions. Women can make great decisions too, but a time(or times) will come where she isn't thinking clearly and doesn't have the self awareness to say "I'm too emotional, you take the lead", so it's usually best to have the man lead by default, with her as a second opinion if you feel like it. There's no harm in doing what she wants to do, as long as it's also what you…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 05:41 PM
3

No, the fact that you care about it does.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:43 PM
4

Dude you fucked up from the start, literally the first thing you said. "I told her it was private and I can't show her" You need to either be transparent or you need to completely disregard her implication that you have to explain yourself to her. This is what stuff like agree and amplify is for. Next time say "Porn" and just tease her after that. Stop reading shit on your phone or laptop in front of your girl that you don't want her to see or ask about. That's what I do. I read books but it's n…
/r/askMRP17/07/18 11:41 PM
18

She's not "holding a grudge", she's just trying to find any reason to justify her lack of sexual attraction to you. Women don't have the awareness to identify exactly why they don't want to fuck a guy, so they'll reach out into thin air and find reasons to rationalize it because she can't just come out and say, "I'm not sexually attracted to you". The grudge isn't the issue, your lack of attraction in her and your probably shitty game are the issue. I wouldn't consider this a "drunk captain" iss…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:58 PM
1

You're right. Any guy who actually sits there for 3 hours while his wife rails on him is asking for it.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 01:58 AM
10

"So....you don't want any?" Don't address the questions directly or give a straight answer. You were right to identify this as a shit test, but you deer'd too much when she started asking questions. Overall, not terrible, but did you get to enjoy your food? Letting her scare you away from the meal you got would have been pretty weak.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 06:58 PM
7

wife finishes 3 hour list of 20 years of wrongdoings "Huh, well you're still here, so I must be doing something right" smirk, smack ass and walk away. You care too much about what she thinks and feels about you.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 04:47 PM
3

Women sleep with men they aren't attracted to all the time, they just don't enjoy it. Being an alpha widow means the range of men she actually finds attractive and enjoys sex with is much smaller, so the odds of you being in the "not attracted" group is much greater.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:47 PM
4

Maybe. I just know it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:36 PM
2

It depends, are they having pre-marital sex? If so, I guess obeying God's orders isn't really at the top of his fiancee's to-do list. If she likes OP for who he is, why wouldn't she stay with him anyway? The only difference getting married would have is to give her legal access to his resources, which is what most women are really after when they push getting married. If he backs out and she bails, it's only because she wants a compliant beta bux, not a man who respects himself and knows what he…
/r/askMRP12/07/18 09:16 PM
18

The red pill is just an explanation of the sexual nature between the two sexes. It's basically science. If we didn't live in a SJW and feminist society that refuses to publish any science that might shed a negative light on a group, this stuff would be getting published left and right. There is the noise of less qualified posters spouting anger phase and incel shit, but the core principles are grounded in observation. It's just like David Attenborough describing the mating rituals of a fancy bir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:58 PM
1

"I am a woman, I do not find this to be true..." You then state that your husband is in fact taller, stronger, and smarter than you (in many things). Also, not all men are naturally tall and strong, but you probably just don't notice those guys, but what about them? I can assure you they will not get off as easy gettinf caught crying than a 6'5 240lbs brick wall of a man would. The wealth thing isn't as important to women now a days, as long as the man makes up for it physically, which it sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:47 PM
1

Sure, TRP tactics wouldn't be as needed in someone like "the mountain" from game of thrones because his physical dominance is so high he can do whatever he wants and it won't negate his dominant status. But most guys aren't able to crush another guys skull with only his bare hands. These "tactics" certainly wouldn't hurt these guys, if the mountain from game of thrones never cries, he will still do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:25 PM
1

Sure, I agree that the most capable should lead, but here's the kicker. Women want men who are better than them. Taller, stronger, smarter, richer...etc. The more things that a man is capable at, the more his wife will respect him and the better his relationship will be. The more he has to defer to her as being the capable one, the less respect she will have for him and the relationship will deteriorate. That is a primal instinct in women that is not going away anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:22 PM
7

If she really loved you and wanted to be with you, she wouldn't care if you were married or not, right? Unless she just wants a nice stable easy to control beta to legally bind herself to his resources. Ask her how she would feel if you didn't get married but just stayed together and see how she reacts.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 06:11 PM
2

Yea well not all guys are giants and can afford to show emotional weakness, most guys are average and have to be strong inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:57 PM
1

Sure, I believe that somewhere out there a woman may exist who would be able to be sexually attracted to and respect a man who submits to her lead, but I've never met one, and I'm not going to hold my breath. The bluepill loves to point out that there's always an outlier, despite the fact that the advice works for 99% of the guys who come there, and harp on that as if it completely destroys everything the red pill says. I read posts every day from guys who tried the 50/50 or let their wife call …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:55 PM
2

I cried once in front of my gf and she still makes fun of me about it and says it was the most unattractive thing I've ever done. She is not a cruel bitch, she is a normal girl, she just feels comfortable being more honest than other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:24 PM
0

I use "big picture/little picture with my LTR and she loves it, even though it's completely interchangeable with captain/first mate. Some people just don't like boats and oceans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:22 PM
8

The text is mostly blah blah bullshit, but there's something to take from it. It seems like you're not making her feel "special". Women love fucking cocky arrogant bad boys, but to be in a relationship with one, she needs to feel like she is special to him in some way that other girls aren't. My girl does the same shit, she's a basic bitch and AWALT as fuck, but every now and then I have to remind her that I'm choosing to be in a relationship with her because she is more "special" than the other…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:17 PM
3

A power rack in your own home and you're still out of shape....smh. I would love to have a rack of my own. I'm not going to give you too hard of a time because you're out here owning your shit, but I will be personally offended if a fat fuck like you is wasting a perfectly good power rack while other guys are out here busting their asses with bodyweight exercises and door hanger pull up bars. No more excuses, you should be lifting the bar and working on your form by the end of the day today. Try…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/18 04:07 PM
16

Every woman is nice and respectful to men who don't have any weaknesses, but I don't know any men like that personally. Your girlfriend sounds like a bitch, but you also sound like a bitch with a weak frame. "I was pressing the issue because I didn't even know why she was mad" This is not red pilled at all, you need to read up on the material a little better because you seem to lack an understanding of the core concepts. Primarily, that women's emotions and words have almost no value or meaning,…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 03:58 PM
2

Good post but talk is cheap. Do you have a plan to lose the weight and get in shape? A gym membership or a place to lift? Also, get her a prepaid credit card or something. The pain of unpaid bills will never set her straight, the pain of having her card declined at the register sure as shit will.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/18 03:11 PM
-1

I'm not actually saying women don't engage in immoral behaviors. Some women murder their kids so they can be free to party. My point was that in terms of sex and specifically cheating, women place the burden of morality on the man. Criminal activity wasn't really the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 02:07 PM
1

It's not the woman's fault that this sexually aggressive man couldn't pick up her implied non-consent, she did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:47 PM
0

Women don't engage in immoral behavior, they create situations where they can reward immoral men while maintaining plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:41 PM
1

Women cannot survive on their own without the assistance of men. That has been true for hundreds of thousands of years, and it's still true today. Women use more tax resources than they pay, which is just the same as women eating the meat from the animal that hunters killed, simply because they have innate reproductive value to the tribe. Congratulations on being an exception to the rule, but also understand that if all men suddenly stopped paying taxes, society would collapse because you and al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 12:29 PM
6

Financial abortion just isn't feasible. Single mothers are mostly unable to take care of their kids and raise them properly. Without someone (men or taxpayers aka other men) the burden she would create on society would outweigh the up front costs of childcare. It's cheaper to pay a woman to (hopefully) raise her kid right, then to let her struggle and either raise a delinquent or someone with severe health issues. I agree with financial abortion on principle, but if it was ever truly enacted the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:55 PM
2

It sounds like you want power and authority over people, but you don't want to have to worry about being socially powerful where they willingly follow you, it sounds more like you want explicit power because you sign their paychecks and they have to submit to you. I don't know man, I'm not a business expert, and if your "business" needs staff, by all means, but just hiring people so that you can be in charge of them sounds creepy and weird. Would you hire someone on as a partner in your business…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 09:37 PM
1

Besides scientific studies, what else did you mean by "source"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:22 PM
1

All I see is a woman who is so afraid to be seen as "wrong" , that she won't even state a personal opinion on an issue, which was the original statement of my comment. Why do I need scientific journals when everything I believe gets proven correct everyday in front of my own eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 08:34 PM
1

Do you believe in extraterrestrial life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 08:03 PM
1

You're not so great at debates yourself, I don't even know what you're trying to argue or defend. I'd still love to hear about how I'm wrong and in what ways, you know, an even exchange of contrasting ideas between two reasonable people, I think there's a name for that kind of intellectual exchange but I just can't put my finger on it, hmmmmm....... Do things only become factual after they are published in a scientific paper? That's a pretty trusting and gullible way to view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:48 PM
0

So anything that isn't presented with a peer reviewed scientific journal article is false? I'd really love to hear how I'm wrong instead of attacking my lack of sources. Can you not think for yourself and create your own ideas and theories about the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:37 PM
1

Then why is the alpha chimp usually the biggest and strongest? Why don't we see smaller more "social" chimps running the show? I agree that women are naturally more submissive than men, but I don't think that's entirely the reason for not wanting to make decisions. I know it's just my own personal observations, but if a guy picks a shitty restaurant or movie, they all get on fine and either leave the restaurant or make fun of the movie, whereas women basically eat each other alive if one of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:24 PM
0

My brain. If you think I'm wrong I'd love to actually hear why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:10 PM
1

Yes, and it's a survival instinct that dates back to prehistoric times. Women aren't strong enough or fast enough to survive on their own in the wild for very long. They need to be part of a group to survive, their social standing in their group is literally life or death to them, which is why women are so much more interested in social dynamics within groups(gossip, romantic comedies and dramas, real housewives type shit). Men on the other hand are strong and fast enough to be able to survive o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:09 PM
6

Beat me to it. Women don't care about the struggle, just the end result, and the more she sees of the struggle, the less value the end result will have.
/r/askMRP09/07/18 03:40 PM
10

I know. You job is to take the fire from her brain and put it in her pussy.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 04:52 PM
16

"You're cute when you're jealous"
/r/askMRP05/07/18 12:06 PM
8

"Kiss me like my wife, not my grandma" is actually a decent one-off line, im just worried about the impending discussion OP might have with his girl about the quality of her kisses. Jesus, I feel like a bitch just saying that last part in my head.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 07:06 PM
7

Most women know how to kiss, and know how to fuck like porn stars. If she's done it with you before, then you know she can, and if she's not, it's because you're not worth it. I don't call out shit that is my fault, I'll just remove myself and focus on something more worth my time than starfish sex. Act, don't talk. Unless your girl is just inexperienced and needs to be taught and led, but that's different. I know my gf can fuck, so if she gives me starfish tonight, it's because I didn't create …
/r/askMRP29/06/18 07:03 PM
27

"Hey wife, even though you don't find me attractive, kiss me like you do anyway" That's all you're saying to her. You're asking her to put more effort into pretending she is attracted to you. Spend less time worrying about her, and more time improving yourself.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 06:24 PM
17

"I'm glad you spend so much time thinking about me"
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:43 PM
22

"Hey man, if you're jealous, just say you're jealous" With a shit eating grin, then just AA his responses as he tries to pin you back down. You won't win by "beating him", you win by displaying a lack of concern for him, which illustrates your dominance. What's a king to a god?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:42 PM
1

Repost this to /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 04:38 PM
10

I think people are born with certain skill sets. Some people are good at abstract thinking, and stuff like math or microscopic things, and other people are artistic and better at social things. An abstract thinker would probably do better in science, and a social type person would do better in a sales type job. There's lots of variation in between, but just take a moment to think about what you're naturally good at and expand on it. Don't just pick something you think will make you rich and popu…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:44 PM
13

You're going to throw away 60 additional years of existence because of some bullshit that will probably work itself out in the next 5 or 6 years? That sounds irrational to me. I'm about 10 years older than you are, and when I think back to my early 20s, I had no fucking idea what was going to happen, or that I'd be where I am today. Everything is so much different than it was back then, some good, some bad, but if I could go back and ask myself to predict it, I would have had no fucking idea. So…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:56 PM
1

Yea maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:04 AM
1

"Don't fall over yourself for a woman's attention" Do you have another source of advice for men besides the red pill who says this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 12:38 AM
2

I see your point, and thank you for your response to my bullshit question. To me, the red pill is just what women find attractive and want to fuck, and nothing else. I think I'm lucky enough to be able to distinguish between good actionable advice and theory, and skip the bullshit, but it's not always so easy. You say that there are men who get along fine by being confident, attractive and dominant, and also respectful of women, and I agree, but I would also say that for every 1 guy like that, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 12:36 AM
2

How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:26 PM
2

I would argue that these men don't need to look up advice because they already "get it", and would probably mostly align with the red pill if they had to pick a side. I know many guys who do very well with women, and they all think and behave the way the red pill would tell them to, despite not being a member of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:50 PM
4

"Better romantic opportunities" I don't understand what you mean here. Are you saying blue pilled men have more success with women? Because every guy I know who is "sexually successful" with women display mostly red pilled traits. In my experience, blue pill guys just have a much lower bar for what a quality relationship is supposed to be. Having a nagging harpy wife who gives you duty sex once a week is viewed as "normal" and is widely accepted by blue pilled society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:37 PM
12

You just lost a shit test Steve, and a fucking easy one at that. What are you doing man?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:14 PM
27

All I care about is what gets me laid and makes me attractive enough to maintain a quality relationship. The red pill did that for me. I've never heard any actual advice or anything from the blue pill. Instead the bluepill seems to just counter the red pill with cherry picked examples to discount the widespread success of the sub. "Yea, that will work, but only on weak and bipolar women" is a common line, but I've never heard anything useful that I could apply to my own life from the blue pill. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:41 PM
5

I'm not married but I'm in a 10+ yr LTR, where I basically called off the wedding 10 months out and told her I was never going to get married. Best decision I ever made, but she does a lot of the same comfort seeking behaviors your wife seems to be doing. My advice would be to not overplay your hand. This dread is a gift, don't nuke it by telling her she is still entitled to half your shit if she decides to leave. Play it cool and be coy about it, but also reassure her that as long as she is mak…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 07:18 PM
4

I don't think all men are better than all women, but I do think that I'm better than most women, because I'm a man, and it drives women crazy, in a good way. The truth of the world, and the true nature of sexual relationships is hard for blue pill guys to swallow. I don't blame you for wanting to close your eyes and look away. Yea there's some incel stuff, but the posts that piss off blue pill people the most have had the most effective strategies in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:37 PM
2

"Damn, I'll get you next time" Smile, smack her ass and walk away.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:32 PM
8

Because feminist controlled society tells men to not stand up to their women or they will be labeled "abusive". This is ultimately a way for women to have an easier time weeding out the "weak" guys and can spend more time trying to attract the natural alphas who will tell her to STFU if she is getting shitty with him, which is what they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:54 PM
1

The women I know who say there are no good men left are all snarky, shit testing bitches with advanced degrees and solid careers. It's not the appearance of the guys, or the lack of jobs or anything, it's that they can't find a man who has the balls to tell her to STFU when she is getting shitty with him, and trying to challenge everything he does. They don't want money, they just want a man who can handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:45 PM
3

It's not about a "solution", it's just about what will happen. This isn't a problem to he solved, it's just the way the world works. You wouldn't say there needs to be a "solution" for gravity. You throw a ball up, it comes back down, it's just the way the world works. As more women have sex with fewer men, those few men will have to spend more and more time worrying about the 80% of men lining up outside their doors ready to fight. Inevitably, the powerful 20% males will recruit some of the 80%…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:19 PM
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Most guys I know who are older are like that. I'm in my mid 30s and every single mother of a boy I know is raising him to become a fuck boy or a felon. I'm just bullshitting here, but my theory is that as social media grows, women are more concerned with social media validation than the validation and love they get from their kids. The boys I knew growing up with single mothers were needy bitches because their moms were up their asses 24/7 making them responsible for their feelings. It seems lik…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:46 PM
10

You know what you should do, but it's the harder decision to make and you don't want to do it. So you're here looking for an out; a way that will let you make an easier choice and keep your self respect. There is no such option. Listen to /u/creating_my_life and have some god damned respect for yourself.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:26 PM
94

I have 2 female friends who have decided to become "voluntary single moms" to young boys. Both of these women had standards out of their league, so I'm not surprised they chose to be single, but it's the bullshit with their kids that pisses me off. All they do is post bullshit to social media about how #blessed to have their special little guys, and how much time they spend only getting the best food and clothes and toys for their kids. I ran into one of these girls recently, and her son, who is…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:16 PM
19

So what? That's life my dude. What would you do if you're walking down the street and a bunch of teens call you a beta faggot? Are you going to go over and write up a 200 word response as to why they shouldn't do that?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:22 PM
15

If you can't handle some anonymous guy on the internet calling you a "faggot" (then usually providing some value or concern) than you will never survive in the real world where people call you a faggot and don't try to help you afterwards. The world is a much crueler place than society and the media like to admit, especially for men. The red pill is a sub that mirrors that reality. If people around here were afraid of hurting feelings, then we would be no better off than the relationships sub. S…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:07 PM
1

Fair enough. Just out of curiosity, do you have a college degree, professional career and mortgage or loans in your name?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:24 PM
1

Probably because you're imagining him as some greasy thug type with loud ghetto baby mommas, but fit it into your own personal life. If you have 10 girl friends, and 3 of them have kids with the same guy, you wouldn't be a little curious about the guy? At least more so than a guy who only has a kid with one woman? I would bet that you spend more time thinking about and talking about the baby momma guy as opposed to some regular guy with 1 baby momma, and in the eyes of the red pill, if a woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:18 PM
1

Better educated women will still want him, they will just be self aware enough to know it's not worth it. Women's sexual nature is a constant battle between what is good for society and what is good for the individual. Women are attracted to men who will benefit them, at the expense of society, but As a woman becomes more ingrained in society (educated, career, mortgage in her name...etc) She has more to lose by hurting society, but the sexual attraction is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:29 PM
6

This is one of those times where women will say one thing and do another. When in public, they will say these guys are deadbeats, scumbag and low value, but when she is laying in bed at night she will be thinking about and intrigued by this guy. He must be smooth to be able to bed all these women, he must be virile and potent to have all these kids...etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:23 PM
4

My gf is the same, she will read some article and take it as gospel and freak out and want to discuss shit. I don't care about politics that much, but I usually take whichever side will piss her off more and have fun messing with her. She knows where I stand on a few key issues, but has no idea what I really think and who I would have voted for, and I want to keep it that way.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 09:15 PM
1

http://bigthink.com/ideafeed/women-looking-for-love-are-still-attracted-to-narcissists I just remember the article, I don't claim to be an expert on the topic, but in my personal experience being an aggressive narcissist works really well with women. It's not good for society but it gets you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 05:15 PM
0

Women find narcissism attractive, I'm pretty sure that was confirmed with a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 04:37 PM
3

This is completely normal. She will shit test you less, and the tests will get easier as you get better.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 10:58 PM
1

Hold those around you to a high standard, and yourself to an even higher standard. Act accordingly and the people around you will notice.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 06:08 PM
2

Your strength rests entirely on your ability to walk away. If you don't have that ability, you will always be weak, no matter how tough you can talk. Improve yourself, invite her to be a part of the newer better you, and if she refuses you exercise the only power you have in the relationship and walk away. Don't over think it my dude.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 09:33 PM
1

Add more context and info you lazy bitch. Punch it up and try again.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 07:45 PM
43

I like to tell my gf that the only requirement I have to stay with me, is to make my life better than it would be if I were single. That really gets her hamster going because as we all know, women need men more than men need women. A single guy is happy as a clam and a single woman is miserable. So she knows I would probably have a pretty good life as a single guy, but can't really rationalize why it's different in a relationship and it really makes her hamster wheel spin when she thinks about h…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 07:44 PM
2

You are the master of your universe
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:33 AM
4

Then I can't help you man. You showed too much of your hand. I would have played that shit off as me just being social, no girl will ever hate on that.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 12:06 AM
1

It's the current year, guys and girls can be friends, get over it
/r/askMRP14/06/18 10:53 PM
2

Holy shit you're telling me the red pill was right all along? I'm shocked. I get it though, I'm a romantic guy too so it's a tough pill to swallow. Honestly, the less you give a shit about them, the more they give a shit about you, but if you're trying not to give a shit it won't work. Good luck bro.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:53 PM
1

"She she she she she she she" Yo dude why are you even wasting your time still thinking about this bitch?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:39 PM
6

Bring some wine, maybe a bottle of nice beer to share with her dad if he drinks too.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:23 PM
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It sounds like you aren't engaging with her enough. It doesn't really matter what you do (celebrate anniversary or not), but you have to engage with her on some kind of level, otherwise she will start to get bored of just sitting around while you do your own thing. I don't give a shit about my girlfriends day or how it went, but I ask her because it gives me a chance to tease her, play around, engage with her and give her different emotions. You don't want to be an emotional tampon but if she's …
/r/askMRP13/06/18 08:58 PM
1

Good luck finding men to "deal with the likes" of people like me. If you and other women aren't having sex with those men, they won't want anything to do with you. You can't deny men sex and still expect them to take care of you. The only way your plan will work is if you have more men who have a woman, than men who don't. That will only happen in a society where women are encouraged to pair off 1 on 1 with men. So in essence, the only way you can get what you want (protection from and destructi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:37 PM
8

I've never met a woman who didn't respond in some way to a red pill idea or strategy. It works, albeit not as effectively on every single woman, but it does work on ALL women. The man is also a variable, because it is possible for a guy to screw up a red pill strategy and have it not be as effective, but it will always be more effective than whatever study you can find that says "women are actually attracted to this, not that." The blue pills problem is that they don't offer an alternative, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:39 PM
9

The red pill says "if you do X, you will get Y result". So guys go out and do X, and low and behold, they get Y result, despite the blue pill telling them they won't. Do you really blame them for not giving a shit about some "study" funded by a liberal think tank or university? If the red pill told then they'd get Y result, and they didn't, they wouldn't come back and the community wouldn't have become what it is today. The red pill gives ideas and strategies that you can use within 15 minutes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:00 PM
8

You can tell me gravity exists and show me the studies, but if I go outside and throw a ball into the air every day, and it never falls back down, would you really blame me for not believing your scientific study? The stuff on the red pill works. A guy can spend a couple hours reading, go outside and implement this stuff and observe the results. That's always going to be more powerful and effective than showing someone charts and graphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:03 PM
2

We are animals, and we will never live in a world where violence and fighting don't exist. As long as women are sexually attracted to powerful men, men will fight each other for power. It's only when powerful men create a system that encourages women to marry less powerful men that society is able to stabilize and move forward. You seem to want to live in a peaceful violence free world, but you reject the system that has created the most peaceful, advanced and cooperative societies ever known. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:54 PM
2

It's not a fantasy, it's reality in many parts of Africa and the Middle East. I don't need to dream, I can turn on the news and see hoardes of men who have become violent because they have no women to marry and start a family with. Every comfort you enjoy today is the result of men working hard because they have a desire to provide for a woman and a family, take that away and you get chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:42 PM
1

What you don't understand is that when you say "the government", you're referring to a population of 90% men who benefit from a society that preaches monogamy and anti-slut behaviors. You can't tell those men to fuck off, and refuse to have sex with them, AND also expect them to keep taking care of you and maintaining society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:39 PM
2

You just keep repeating yourself instead of countering my points, so this isn't very fun. I'm finished with you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:37 PM
1

I still don't understand. If you want something, whether it be casual sex or a relationship, how is one more pathetic than the other? You can be pathetic in the sense that you fail at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:35 PM
1

What do you mean by "pathetic"? I don't understand the nature of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:32 PM
2

The 80/20 rule dictates that for every 2 men who have sex, 8 men go without. Obviously those numbers aren't exact, but there will always be more sexless males than males who have sex. Men have done a good job of creating a society where most men are guaranteed a wife if they participate in society, but feminism is erroding that, as the OP pointed out in his post. What about your entitlement to the things that men provide? Safety, food, clean water, public infrastructure? You aren't entitled to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:59 PM
1

Sounds like you're on the right track. Even though you can't lift right away, get in the habit of eating healthy and lean. You might lose a few lbs in the meantime and it will help even more when you are able to lift. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 05:51 PM
3

Sure, if men don't get sex they won't die, but why even live? Sure, you can banish men to the forest, but what are you going to do when the men in the forest inevitably end up outnumbering the men left in society? There will be a big fight, and the outcome won't be good for women. "You get a right to compete with other men" I agree 100%. Right now men compete by contributing to society to get resources to provide for a family, if you remove that option the only alternative is to compete with vio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:45 PM
3

Just to be clear, I'm in a 10+ year LTR and have sex everyday, so I'm not really an "incel", I just understand men better than you. So who will be shooting these rogue incels down? The police? The military? Well unfortunately the men who make up the military and police force only did so because they felt invested in society that basically guaranteed them a wife if they played along. Do you think men who have no investment in society (wives and families) are going to line up outside your Chads ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:40 PM
2

The term "monster" is relative. To some, Ghengis Khan is a monster, to others he is a hero and a father. I agree that males are violent. Most males in the animal kingdom have to engage in a little bit of violence to compete for females, it's just in our blood. I can appreciate your spirit but the civilization that you seem to love so much is a result of a society that promotes 1 to 1 male and female families and anti-slut behavior in women. If feminism continues and more males are shut out, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 03:20 PM
3

Kicked out of where? I don't understand. I'm fully aware that men aren't owed sex, but by the same measure, women aren't owed infrastructure, reliable food sources, clean water, safety or any of the other things that men are primarily responsible for. Those things will go away if men are cut out of society, and never would have been here to begin with if men weren't paired off 1 on 1 with women, thanks to "the patriarchy".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 03:09 PM
1

If by "hissy" you mean violent and murderous, then maybe. I'm not really proposing anything, just stating some facts. Take that and do with it what you will, just don't discount all the beneficial things we have as a society because women were made to pair off 1 on 1 with guys. If you like iPhones, food and indoor plumbing, you might want to consider advising your girlfriends to skip the next slut walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:36 PM
13

Stop being so indecisive. First you make plans, then you second guess yourself, then you ask your mom, then you decide to ask your wife, then you decide to go anyway without her. You definitely fucked up but at least you know you fucked up. Just do shit for you from now on, invite her along if you want, or don't. Do what you want, regardless if whether or not she comes along.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:23 PM
1

You're trying to fight the very thing that made you what you are today. At some point in history, a female left a lesser male for a better one, and the resulting genetic lineage created you, certainly stronger and better than the ancient man she passed on. You can remove yourself from society, and encourage other men to do the same, but in the end it won't matter because history won't remember you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 06:41 AM
5

Guys don't want to have babies, they want to conquer women, either by value and power or by force. Artificial wombs won't do anything for them. I wish there was a middle ground but there's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:42 AM
1

Man, if you think this is good, I can show you some Taylor Swift that will blow your fucking mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/18 03:25 AM
10

Some yes, but many guys who have trouble with women are normal guys. The same guys who work every day to maintain infrastructure, produce and deliver goods and generally participate in society. We are still very much in the tail end of a society in which monogamy is enforced through religion and social mores, so you can't really look around and say we are currently in a society in which women can fuck whoever and men can have harems just yet. I just think about societies in which plural marraige…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 09:49 PM
2

I agree, but it means that the men they are having sex with will have to spend more time fighting off the guys who aren't, which will slow down the "march of progress". I guess you just gotta pick your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 09:08 PM
2

Do you think men liking action movies and women liking romantic comedies is purely because of societal pressures?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 08:36 PM
4

It has absolutely nothing to do with socializing or conditioning in society. Men and women are very different, it's not society that made us this way. My gf started crying once because she ran over a frog in her car. I would never ever cry over something like that, and it's not because society told me not to or that I don't care about frogs. Women are more emotional than men, it's not a societal or a conditioning thing. If I treated my girlfriends emotions as seriously as I treated a man's, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 08:08 PM
4

My point is that men and women aren't equal, at least in the way they handle problems, but I was told we are equal and that is what screwed me up. For example, if I walk into my male friends house and he is on the floor sobbing, I know for a fact that something is pretty fucking wrong in his life. If I walk in and see my gf or sisters on the floor sobbing, it means either something is very wrong or they are just overly upset about some bullshit because women are a little crazy sometimes. Growing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:35 PM
0

The problem is that guys are told that women are equal to men, so when a man sees a woman upset over a problem, we equate that reaction to our own level of concern we have for our own problems. If my sister is super pissed off about something stupid, I have been told that her emotions and thought process is the same as mine, so I have the understanding that the problem she has must be serious and in need of immediate solution and action because of how upset she is, when in reality women's emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:14 PM
7

If you're wrong, you're wrong. Just own it, do what you must to correct it and move forward. The important thing is to fix it your way and don't get caught up in her shit testing why she tries to use it against you. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes, but women will see any form of weakness(being wrong is a weakness) and instantly attack and continuing attacking your frame until you either submit to her frame or disregard her completely. So if you're wrong, just own it and move forward, …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:38 PM
5

It's not from a lack of respect or an innate belief that women can't solve their own problems, it's that women handle problems differently than men. A woman will sit around and complain about something with the goal of getting everyone in agreement that she is right, not so much to actually fix the problem or move forward. This is foreign to men because we don't get treated the same way when we have problems. It's very frustrating for a man who has been told by society that men and women are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:27 PM
5

I agree that having sisters helps, but only if there is a strong male role model in the picture as well. I have many sisters and spent most of my youth around my sister's and mother, my dad wasn't around much. Because of this, the usual behaviors that women need to be kept in check with by a strong male (shit testing, crazy emotional swings, lack of agency) were treated as normal and rational by my mother, and challenging them got me punished. They also pushed the "women are great" message into …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:30 PM
1

Cool man nice work, but don't expect anyone to give a shit. This is stuff you should have been doing all along, they don't give out awards for that. Doing shit for yourself is all that matters.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 02:07 AM
5

As long as you're still able to handle your shit, it's fine. Lack of sleep fucks with my metabolism and my cognitive abilities, so I need more of it, but if it works for you then who cares? Your only problem will be if you ever need to get a regular 9-5 job, then you'll have a tough time.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:46 PM
7

You already care to much
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:19 PM
7

"She knows I'm motivated for the relationship" As long as this is true, nothing you learn here will do you any good. Women need to respect a man in order to feel attracted to him, and a man needs to be powerful for a woman to respect him. Whoever cares least in the relationship has the most power, and right now it's her and it's fucking your whole thing up. Like, you know she doesn't really love you, right? You're just a set of value points to her? Completely interchangeable with the next beta b…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 12:24 PM
1

I pick up my girlfriend like she weighs nothing and carry her to the bedroom. Usually works pretty well for me, and if she still turns me down at least I got some nice compound lifting done in my spare time, just make sure your form is good.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 07:57 PM
3

I was reading along waiting for some cringey DEER, or ultimatum or some other bullshit but you handled it well, especially after her last deflection. Bullshit like that doesn't even deserve a response. Just chuckle and do something worth your time. No complaints, no negotiating, just expressing your expectations and a sense of disappointment when they weren't met. Nicely done. Looks like I'll have to get my cringe fix somewhere else today. My only advice would be to play the nice card again toda…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:55 PM
3

Do this OP, then don't talk to her for at least 2 weeks.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 03:55 AM
3

Yea but according to the "media", Clinton was going to win by a landslide and Trump was just a joke candidate. When he won it surprised a lot of people for a reason, because the shit that people say in society is different than how they really feel inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:54 PM
11

I don't know about this guy, or his pedophilia or whatever, but anonymous internet boards can often be MORE accurate of the current state of society than what we actually see around us. I just think back to the last election where the media was pumping hard for Hilary, and few people I knew were willing to openly support Trump, but online it was a different story. Liberals have made it a crime to speak up against anything mildly offensive, so views and opinions are being stiffled and silenced ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:38 PM
1

Women need a partner more than men do. They can't survive alone in the woods for long so society and a social network is everything. This causes them to rush in full steam into relationships without really considering what the outcome may be. It's just a manifestation of ancient biotroofs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:59 PM
2

"Because you're cute when you're angry"
/r/askMRP01/06/18 02:47 AM
1

Repost this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 10:24 PM
1

Repost this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 10:23 PM
5

It doesn't matter what you say, and I think that is what is pissing you off in this thread. You want someone to quote you a response that would have been "alpha", but that's not how it works. We have a little game we play around here where we count how many times a new guy says "she" in his post. The more he says it, the more he is in his girls frame. I don't know if you have the record for most "she"s, but it's pretty fucking close. Your problem isn't about what you should or shouldn't say, it'…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 05:02 PM
3

We're just telling you what women find attractive in men, within the context of a relationship. Being reactive to everything is not a good trait. Alphas act, betas react. You reacted like an idiot in the shower and totally fell into her frame because yours is weak and it sucks. Your reply to my comment just proves everyone right that has called you out on your bullshit. If you think we are all just full of shit and trying to "act hard" then fuck off. No one gives a shit if you stick around or no…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 04:22 PM
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OP, your problem is that you're a defensive ass bitch. You seem to have this weird desire to "set everyone straight" or something, but what you don't realize is that it makes you look weak as shit. Your failing shit test after shit test, from your LTR and from the guys around here. Get your panties out of a bunch and stop being so defensive and carry. You sound like my little sister after her friend told her that her top is out of style. Look up DEERing, and stop doing it so much. Also you don't…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 12:51 PM
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It's called beta bait. Don't fall for it and just ignore her. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/89cqze/beware_of_beta_bait/
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:58 PM
5

Her words mean nothing, pay attention to her actions. Does she make you a priority? Does she fuck you well when you two see each other? You can hamster it away all you want but you really are in a long distance relationship. What's even worse is that you're doubling down on beta when you should be upping your alpha game. Here is my guess as to what's going on. She is meeting new people in this city she's at, some of them are going to be really cool, fun mysterious guys that she is interested in.…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:54 PM
1

It all comes down to how willing you are to walk away and how much she stands to gain if you do. The more she has to gain from you leaving, the less she will respect you and the more she will shit test you. If she knows that she will be losing something valuable (status or money) she will maintain a level of respect and things will go a little better. It's not impossible to be married and still stay alpha, it's just a lot harder.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:43 PM
4

Your problem is that you're a total pussy, but I'll give you some helpful advice to take back control of your life. In all honesty, if you try to make a big grand stand, she will probably crush you and destroy your frame with her emotional manipulation. So start off small, do what you want and show her that you don't care what she thinks. Decide you want burgers if she wants pizza, and go get burgers and enjoy them. I know, right? A grown ass man doing what he wants even though his wife is telli…
/r/askMRP30/05/18 07:31 PM
1

My girl will do this shit too. I usually just chuckle and say nothing because it's such an obvious shit test. Or I'll tell her I'm gonna turn the car around, or pull over and spank her or something.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:38 AM
3

All the blue pill people in this thread are just trying to muddy it up by trying to define good sex vs. bad sex. I'm trying to keep it simple to maintain the integrity of the question that OP posted. In response to my original comment, if a girl has sex with an "alpha" and a "beta" man, in which the physical act of sex is completely identical, which man do you think she will enjoy sex with more? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:00 PM
5

No, you're being solipsistic. Men and women are not the same, and different things turn us on. Men are visual, so yes, a hot girl will make us feel better than an ugly girl, but women's arousal is much more complex and nuanced. Sure, they like physically attractive guys, but they also like guys who can excite them and give them stimulating emotions and have social value. The two are almost entirely different. A girl who goes home with the most popular guy at the party is going to be happy about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:42 PM
5

You're fucking up my man. You can't let a girl influence your mood or your behavior. It sounds like you're trying to avoid her like you're scared of her and being all sulky and pouty like a bitch. So many guys do this shit, where they try to play this emotional manipulation bullshit middle ground hoping they will get their way. That's not what men do, that's a feminine behavior. Men manipulate the environment and women manipulate men. You need to just make a decision (which men are supposed to b…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:15 PM
10

The last time I had a female boss, she constantly deferred to me to help her make decisions. No one really knew what was going on until I made a bad decision and her boss tried to chew her out. She threw me under the bus and tried to deflect blame. I owned it, explained my reasoning and they moved her out and moved me in a few months later. Leadership isn't hard, but it takes accountability and personal agency, which few women I know have.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 09:04 PM
2

Everything here is easier said than done. If it wasn't people wouldn't keep coming back.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 09:01 PM
2

"I can't help it, I was born this way" Don't over think it, it sounds like a shit test, but maybe it's beta bait too. Just play it cool and keep going.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:41 PM
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In my experience, the women who get promoted for being women quickly burn out or flame out, and a man is brought in to clean up the mess. I'd stay low key and wait for the right moment, then take it, but that's just my 2cents.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 05:32 PM
1

I think most women would choose 30 seconds of sex with a high value man over 30 minutes of good sex with a beta nobody. Do you think if Billy on the street ran around offering women 30 seconds of sex with John Hamm or 30 minutes of guaranteed great sex with the shy guy from high school, they would pick the shy guy? I mean shit, didn't a girl choose to hang out with Neymar for 30 minutes instead of taking a $10,000 check? Women enjoy high value men, and they enjoy having sex with high value men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:34 PM
3

Dread. My LTR avoids male friendships because she knows if she opens that door I'll be hanging out with a different girl "friend" every weekend. "It's current year babe, guys and girls can be friends" Women are naturally redpilled, and know this isn't true. My gf knows that if a girl wants to hang out with me, she wants to fuck me. I'll play the PC card and use the phrase above and it gets her hamster spinning until she doesn't want to have any guy friends anymore.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:25 PM
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It's more about the suppression of masculinity and male spaces than the overall feminism movement. If men can sit around and discuss how women are crazy and don't make sense, there will be a lot less confusion and frustration amongst young males. Now a days if you say shit like that anywhere public, feminists will find out where you work and get you fired. So young men are growing up with dad's who are afraid to tell them the truth about women, so when these young men get older and experience th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:18 PM
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For the record, I don't think you fucked up that bad, it seems like you did alright. But yea, next time just A&A and keep it light and playful. And never complain about the quality or quantity of sex she gives you.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:11 PM
2

Unsatisfying sex is your fault. Women love to do all kinds of kinky and sexy things for guys they are attracted to, your wife included. If a guy expresses that he is not satisfied with his current sex life, the woman hears this..."I am a beta and am not able to get the kind of sex I want because women won't give it to me. Boohooboohoo". You need to act like sex is no big deal for you because you're banging college sluts 24/7. You don't need to say that, but that's the attitude and mindset you ne…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:57 PM
1

Perhaps. After she decides to move on from the unsatisfying alpha, do you think a woman would be more inclined to go after a shy timid beta, or go after another charming alpha guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:49 PM
2

Eh, if women actually knew what they wanted and how to explain it to men, the red pill sub wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:35 PM
1

I think most women would choose the alpha, especially younger women. Older post wall women might go for the skilled beta, but an alpha who can walk into a room and have all the girls there hanging in his every word will always get the girl. Your example is based on an extreme fringe scenario though, so it's not really an accurate example to respond to the OP on, but if you wanna say "gotcha!" Then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:33 PM
3

What is an alpha, if not charming and seductive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:20 PM
1

The starfish sex with an alpha will still be "enjoyed" more than if it were starfish sex with the beta. The super skilled beta will be enjoyable, but not as enjoyable as it would be if he was also a charming attractive alpha. I know blue pill people love to take the one extreme scenario and use it as proof that the entire concept is flawed, and in this instance you might be right, but it doesn't happen often in the real world. Most sex is average, the personality and attitude of the guys is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:19 PM
3

Wow. I'm curious what other women will have to say about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:15 PM
3

I've experienced this too. My girl lost her mind after an old highschool friend who got super hot came up to me on the street and started flirting. My gf went crazy for me that night and I didn't do anything special as far as the physical act of sex goes. The opposite is also true, if I sit around playing video games all day in my boxers and we have sex later, she's probably not going to go crazy over it, even though I'm doing all the same moves I did after my old friend approached me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:14 PM
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True but now we are getting into specifics that go beyond the scope of the original post. We can sit here all day and talk about the little things and the special moves that make good sex good, but if we're just talking regular, normal average sex, a woman will enjoy it more with a guy who knows how to turn her on mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:07 PM
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I agree with you, that an attractive guy who doesn't know what he is doing and sucks in bed won't be any fun, I'm just generalizing because most sex is going to be "average" not great or terrible, so the man is what will make the difference. Otherwise we will just be splitting hairs all day trying to define what physically makes bad sex "bad" and good sex "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:04 PM
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True, but most sex is average, not great or terrible. Billy beta and alpha Chad probably fuck in a similar way, but because Chad spent the day gaming other girls, teasing, making new friends, and being the life of the party, the girl is going to enjoy it more than if she was with a guy who no one even knew was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:59 PM
3

So you think women just enjoy the physical penetration and don't get any extra arousal or pleasure from being charmed and seduced by a cool confident guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:56 PM
3

Did you even read what I wrote? The alpha is described as funny, charming and unpredictable. Those are not physical attributes, those are traits that will stimulate a mental attraction in a woman. Looking physically attractive will help but it's the other stuff that matters more. The woman's mental state dictates how much she will enjoy the sex, it doesn't matter how the actual act goes down, like your post implies, what matters is how she feels about the guy she is having sex with. A woman will…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:50 PM
2

Telling men to act like pussies and shaming them for their innate masculinity while also pushing to import thousands of men who act and abide by a culture that is the embodiment of everything they claim is wrong with men in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:44 PM
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The sex isn't what matters, it's the man that matters. Let's say you have 2 guys, a stereotypical alpha and a typical beta. The alpha is funny, charming, unpredictable, has abs...etc. and the beta is nice but not so much the other things. Now let's say they both have sex with a girl, the exact same way. Same foreplay, same dick size same rhythm. The sex is the same, but the men are different. The woman will enjoy the sex with the alpha, and probably cum quicker and more intensely just because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:36 PM
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Do something exciting and dangerous for a minute. It will help build your character and give you good stories to tell when every other guy at the party is talking about his "IT manager" job. Something physical, like working on a boat or in the woods, or maybe some law enforcement or jail guarding for a year or two. I've done a variation of a lot of these and I've found that when I interview for more normal jobs, the hiring managers have a little more respect because they know I can handle my shi…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:25 PM
2

A woman giving a man her money? Geez, what kind of man would take money from a woman and spend it on himself. Certainly there must be a name or title for such men. What would such a man buy with his woman's money? Maybe a fur coat or a purple Cadillac?
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:11 PM
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Here is your bigger issue; you give way too many fucks about what people think about you and how they perceive you. I can tell by the way you wrote this post and your need to come back with some snarky reply to every comment. You're absolutely right, and everything is a power game, that is life. Your problem is that you're getting so caught up in exerting yourself as the "winner" in these power games that it's effecting your ability to maintain frame. A guy who has to win every social interactio…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:46 AM
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You didn't enforce shit, you just got pouty and butthurt and acted like a bitch. Slow down Napoleon, and next time just tease her a little, spank her and fuck her anyway. We're not giving you shit for liking her not showered, we're giving you shit for getting so hung up about it. Thinking everything is some "power dynamic" game shows her that you give way too many fucks about what she thinks about you. You're 100% in her frame because all she has to do is shower and you freak out. This isn't a h…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:17 AM
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Yo maybe she had nasty swamp ass or something and just wanted to be clean. Stop trying to do this "50 shades of grey" power dom thing. You suck at it and it's making me cringe. Just get over it and fuck her next time, you're getting too caught up in your own bullshit, it's just a shower dude.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:26 AM
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No, you make it clear that if she goes on this trip, your monogamous relationship is over. If you want to make her a plate when she gets back, that's on you. You can ghost her too if you want, I don't care. Stop looking for some easier 3rd option where you don't have to have balls.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 11:43 PM
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"I'm not going to stay in a monogamous relationship with a girl who goes to Europe alone to travel around without me. Enjoy your trip, let me know when you get back and maybe we can get lunch sometime."
/r/askMRP24/05/18 10:32 PM
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If my girl wanted to go alone to European "dating event" I'd tell her to have fun, but that she won't have a boyfriend when she gets back. You can't frame it as you're worried about her cheating, that will make you look weak. It's the overall trip that is a boundary for you, so explain the boundary and get ready to back it up if she decides to go. Your only other option is to let her go and give absolutely zero fucks about what she does there. Do your own thing and have fun while she's gone and …
/r/askMRP24/05/18 10:00 PM
3

Have a little god damned self respect. For thousands of years, men knew that we were the ones who got shit done and made society what it is today. This men and women are equal shit is pretty new and not entirely accurate at all. Your wife's emotions are like that of a child's. If a small child called you a smelly doodoo head, what would you do? Whatever that is, take it and use it on your wife.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 03:31 AM
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Try being less overt, or take things they say and twist them into double entendres and act like the good guy vs. her as the perv. Most girls won't openly fuck married guys, they need to feel as though it "Just happened" and wasn't planned or anything. A woman can't say "omg I can't believe we did that last night" if you spent the entire day telling her you want to fuck her. Play innocent until the time is right and escalate physically instead of verbally.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:52 PM
2

I see your point, but I have to disagree. Giving a straight answer to appease her feelings won't generate tingles or get her hamster going. Plus he cheated 9 years ago, her time to decide whether she trusts him or not has passed, he is who he is, and she has to accept it or move on if she can't. This wasn't an honest question, it was a test of his frame. A straight answer means he's in her frame, anything else shows he is not beholden to her questions or her feelings, which is what she actually …
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:41 PM
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It's a shit test. I'd A&A to piss her off, then pull her back in with some comfort and teasing. "Everyone" "Geez, how long do you have?" "The 80yr old housekeeper" Or pressure flip her with the classic.... "Why would I want to cheat on you?" And mess around with her responses.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:21 PM
1

I'm a large so I'll get a tall size large. A medium would be too small, plus I'm always lifting and getting bigger so I assume I'm going to grow into it if it's a little loose.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 04:42 PM
3

Yesn't
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:51 PM
3

Holy shit dude stop saying "I love you" so much Jesus Christ you sound like a needy pussy pull your head out of her ass and your balls out of her purse and go do something manly.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:48 PM
5

Same thing here. It's so freeing when you accept that no one gives a fuck about you, so you just own yourself and don't apologize for anything. This song is a pretty good reflection of my current state of mind about how much I want to fuck. The more you care about them the less they care about you. https://youtu.be/AlzgDVLtU6g
/r/askMRP22/05/18 10:08 PM
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"Once I didn't care whether or not I "made her mad" it was game on." Women use their emotions to try to control men, and they don't respect men they can control. This part is so fucking important it should be branded on new guys foreheads. Good post.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 09:17 PM
1

Defining your self worth by how women treat you is never a good way to measure your self worth. I'm a pretty great guy, I work hard, take care of myself and achieve the goals I set for myself. Somewhere out there is a total loser, broke ass ugly fuck, that, given the right circumstances my girlfriend would leave me for. That's just the way it goes sometimes. Maybe you're Mr. Right, but she wants Mr. Right now. It's all good at the end of the day because you still have your wits about you. I don'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 09:02 PM
2

Girls don't want to get beat up themselves, but they love watching guys fight. Violence is the ultimate form of dominance, if you can't physically dominate another guy, that other guy is better than you. Why do you think girls are so sexually attracted to bad boys? Because they know they aren't afraid of using violence as a means of dominance and they know it is the ultimate form of violence that most guys are too scared to use. Especially in this scenario where it is justified violence, do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:50 PM
1

The girls will run away? You haven't been in many fights, have you? The OP does say the guy is smaller than you, so you might look like an asshole for beating up a little man child, but I'm assuming that he is slightly shorter but a mostly even match. Every single girl I know would be dripping wet if I beat the fuck out of a guy who called my girl ugly and disrespected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:16 PM
2

A clever riposte is the best option because it keeps you on top, and also out of jail. Beating the shit out of the guy is the best bet to get laid though, but you might get cockblocked by police before you get home. Women are extremely responsive to male violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:58 PM
1

This belongs on /r/askmrp. Repost it over there.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/18 11:47 AM
3

The silent treatment always fails because it means you're in her frame. You are letting her influence your behavior, and she knows she had control over you and it makes her lose respect for you. When my girl is pissed and giving me silent treatment, I talk to her even more. I'll tease her and fuck with her just to show her that I don't give a fuck about her attitude. The same goes for you being silent to her. If you are doing, or not doing, something you would normally do (i.e. normal conversati…
/r/askMRP19/05/18 06:11 PM
1

The situation you are in is entirely your fault. You wouldn't get mad at the sun for giving you a sunburn, right? Your wife is a reflection of the kind of man you are, I just think you don't like looking at your own reflection.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 06:04 PM
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Women don't orbit men, they use them for validation. If you're not fucking this girl, and she's not buying you shit or doing other stuff for you, than you're orbiting her. "Nevermind, something came up" Cool, she never cared anyway and now she knows that you have been thinking about her, despite her ignoring you and it's making you look beta to her. NEVER DOUBLE DOWN ON A TEXT. Like you said, women always have their phones on them. If they don't reply, it's because they are choosing not to. Forg…
/r/askMRP19/05/18 05:59 PM
7

It is a cold world, but I disagree about society. Women are cared for much more than men, and for good reason. Men are disposable, women have innate value. Remember "1 in 4 homeless people are women"? Put an unconscious man on the side walk and an unconscious woman on the other and see who gets helped first. That's just a result of human reproduction. Human babies are hard to raise and take care of, so women are incredibly value. It's a biological necessity to value women and take better care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:48 PM
3

I was gonna say, I know you're better than that.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 07:00 PM
6

Definitely the latter, but I do believe that a guy who is fit and has game also has the discipline to handle his shit in his own life. But you're right, I know guys who slay and live in dirty shit holes, it's just harder to do when you're in a years long LTR or marraige. Personally, my girl usually falls asleep after I'm done with her so I make sure she cleans before we fuck. But she also knows my house would be clean whether she was there or not, she's just the girl lucky enough to get to clean…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 06:55 PM
1

I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 06:42 PM
8

Good post, you might catch some shit for encouraging guys to do more chores, but this isn't like choreplay. There's a disconnect a lot of times when guys come here who haven't been owning their shit, and they get told they need to grab the wheel and take back control. That's all well and good, but if you haven't been owning your shit before, your orders and leadership won't be respected. When your woman looks around and sees a messy house, dirty dishes...etc., she doesn't think "wow, I'm really …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 06:40 PM
8

Unfortunately for women, men are much better at building and maintaining a civilized society and infrastructure. So 100 beta males will be of more value to a powerful leader than 100 women. A male leader who kills off the undesirable males will just be overthrown by the warlord next door who harnesses the beta males from his tribe as soldiers with the guarantee of women. A males sex drive is what inspires him to want to work and be part of society. A man without a sex drive wouldn't be very valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:09 PM
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The red pill is just the laws of nature, explained. The current narrative that humans have created is that we are somehow, "above" nature, which isn't true. So, in my opinion, I think it would just reflect human history. Men fight each other for power, women give themselves to powerful men to reproduce. Eventually, the powerful men in charge realize they can get more power by harnessing the lower tier men by providing them with women in exchange for loyalty and work. The women are encouraged to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:53 PM
6

"References to evolution, history and biology" You mean, the entire foundation of what dictates human behavior? I have nothing more to say to you, cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:30 PM
1

Fair enough, thanks for pointing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:14 PM
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I know for a fact that ugly women are more sexually successful than ugly men. It might not be Prince charming happily ever after each time, but it's still better than what incels get. Being desired as a fleshlight is still better than not being desired at all. I'm not posting a source for something that everyone knows is true. As another poster pointed out, my ratio might be off but the point is that historically, fewer men reproduced than women. Which is true. What do you mean by edgy clap trap…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:13 PM
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It's been proven that women do only prefer the top % of men, and while men also prefer the top women, that range is much broader, so even the lowest women still get male attention. Incels don't think the world revolves around them, they are just bitter that no one gives a fuck. They really are worthless in the eyes of society, and all they want is for people to admit that. Instead people just keep telling them to shower, go outside, be more outgoing. Well, historically, 10 women reproduced for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:01 PM
5

You should 100%, undoubtedly, absolutely not get married. There is zero benefit to you, and it will make your relationship worse, or at the very least more difficult to maintain than it is now. Unfortunately, my guess is that she will leave you if you refuse to marry. You're late 20s, and she's a couple years older. She is hitting the wall, wants your beta bux and resources and she can't secure those without a marraige contract. She wants an easy to manage beta, so expect heavy resistance when y…
/r/askMRP14/05/18 02:42 PM
1

A wide range of emotions, and the stability to not get washed up in those emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:12 AM
3

I know that you're Mormon, but do you have a moment to talk about our Lord and savior Patrice O'neal? https://youtu.be/MjiXpuGCPWE I think he might be able to help you out.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 03:14 PM
2

Read this..... https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/
/r/askMRP11/05/18 10:08 PM
321

A woman will fuck a guy she hates before she'll fuck a guy she feels nothing for.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:14 PM
3

Because we all know that if these men didn't have these issues, the women wouldn't want them. It's the bad boy thing, most women know what they are getting into. If these guys were reliable and dependable providers, the women they are with probably wouldn't want them. It's the unpredictability, aggression and passion of the drunk that draws the women to him. It's the narcissism of the man who abandons his children that makes women interested in him. Women choose these men before the men select t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:36 PM
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Hey OP, either reply to this comment with more info about your relationship and what kinds of issues or specific questions you have, or face an army of guys calling you a lazy faggot and telling you to read the sidebar. I advise you to choose the former.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 10:55 PM
1

Good question, but it belongs in /r/askmrp I'm removing this post, please repost this over there instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 10:29 PM
13

Only if you give a fuck whether it is or not.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:18 PM
6

I called of getting married 6 months out from the wedding and it was the best decision I ever made. Also, I can tell from your replies in this thread that you have zero understanding of the true nature of women and also have zero frame. Your girl is going to eat you alive and spit out your bones if you give up the only power you have in your relationship. The answer is no, you should never get married. We won't stop you from doing it, but please read up first so at least if she burns you in the …
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:51 PM
3

"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist"
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:48 PM
3

First off, get over her sister dude and stop saying weird autistic shit like you're "intrigued about the inside of her vagina" or whatever. I hope the shit your wife saw wasn't as cringey as this shit. My gf doesn't have a sister, but she has friends who are hot as fuck. I'm not going to lie about it, but I'm not going to obsess about them either. If I want to fuck them I should just be a man and do it. That's the cause of a lot of your bullshit. You don't want to man up and make decisions. The …
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:02 AM
1

You should do whatever you have to do to make your wife feel as though this new you was inside you all along, and that you didn't just "learn" it from a book. Whatever reason you have to give for owning the book doesn't matter, as long as she knows that this new masculine you is in your genes and not just some book on Amazon.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 12:23 PM
1

Thanks for pulling this up. I almost believed him, maybe I'm the pussy. Either way, removed and banned, thanks again.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 08:52 PM
6

That's dangerous advice, and it's also why the advice on the relationships sub fails so often. Women will change to fit the shape of the man they are with. If a man knows how to maintain frame and has proper bitch management skills, his relationship with work out for him. If he lacks these things, then his relationship will be a challenge and his woman won't respect him. Your advice is to dump a difficult woman, but that ignores the actual problem, why is she difficult in the first place? Yes, s…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:40 PM
3

I'm in a 10yr LTR and couldn't be happier. I guess I was wrong, thanks for clearing that up for me.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:31 PM
1

I had been getting shitty half assed advice from people my whole life and it wasn't working. When I came here and a bunch of guys called me a lazy faggot and a pussy, I knew they were telling the truth because they weren't bullshitting me or trying to spare my feelings. I respected that and it helped me get over the bullshit I was fed before. Also, as a man, the world is full of people out to get you. If you can't handle getting called a bitch by a guy whose also going to take time out of his da…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:15 PM
1

Removed. Cut out the bullshit link to the website and just post your story if you want help. Also this belongs in /r/askmrp, repost it over there.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 06:38 PM
18

She doesn't respect you because she knows you're too big of a pussy to leave her. Stop being a pussy and I bet she will start acting right, if she actually wants you in the first place.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 06:31 PM
3

"I personally didn't care either way" This is the right frame of mind to be in.
/r/askMRP04/05/18 11:01 PM
8

AWALT. My girl lied to me over stupid shit before too, like she spent $200 on clothes instead of $100. It's her money and I wouldn't have given a shit but she would have felt bad if she had to admit to spending that much. Women will always lie if the truth will make them look even a little bad because they are horrified of being socially cast out by the group. I sat her down after that and played the "us vs the world" card. "I thought it was me and you vs everyone but if I can't trust you then I…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:34 PM
3

Not trying to be a dick, keep improving yourself every day. It helps if you put the bags of water in a cloth laundry bag before you tie them to the ends of a broom stick and bench press it that way. Good luck my dude.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:56 AM
2

Why can't you get a job? I would be shoveling shit for $5 an hour if that's all I could get.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:44 AM
10

It won't make you look butthurt it will make you look like a meta faggot or some shit. "I don't give validation" is some fucking autistic shit. Tell her as little as possible. If you don't ever want to fuck her, why do you care at all? Just say hey and leave it at that. If you do want to fuck her, be vague and tease her until you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:42 AM
2

Stop making excuses man, guys in jail do push ups and lift bags of water to get swole as fuck. I've seen a dude go from bean pole to ripped in 6 months with nothing but body work and prison shit. Quit whining and just get shit done.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:38 AM
7

Be cocky, funny and try to say less than her. Setting up a hang out should be your #1 priority. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:23 AM
1

Removed. Post this on /r/askmrp instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 12:20 PM
15

Get a reliable baby sitter. Preferably a hot one.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 09:57 PM
1

Removed. Belongs in /r/askmrp instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 05:20 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp instead
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 10:00 PM
12

I'm not telling you to leave her, I'm just telling you to take her less seriously. Who gives a shit if she calls you a psycho? You need to come on here and tell is how you save moths because she hurt your feelings? Man up my dude, and realize your wife's feelings and opinions mean nothing.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 09:22 PM
10

Why do you give a shit what she says about you? It's almost like you still consider her your emotional equal instead of the most responsible child in your house.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 09:04 PM
8

My girl knows I would never cheat on her, because she knows I'd call her on the way to the other girls place and dump her first. A little comfort can be good, but don't swear off other women forever in an attempt to make up for past indiscretions. As others have said, your past means nothing, I think she brings it up as a form of beta bait than anything else, trying to get you to overcommit and give up all your power. You should still be cultivating passive dread.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 06:10 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp instead, and get ready to have your ass handed to you because this post and your frame if mind is garbage
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 06:00 PM
2

Good tip about Amazon. I'm tall as fuck but also pretty lean. Most medium shirts fit well but are too short, and size L is long enough but too wide and baggy for me. Amazon has a great "slim fit" or whatever else size you are selection. Same with some designer stores now. My best button up is a slim fit that cost $10 on the discount rack at express for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 09:03 PM
1

I'll usually go with black socks and pull them up ankle high, or (against the main point of this post) get some ankle socks with a weird or cool pattern or design and keep them pulled up. As long as you don't bunch up the sock around the top of the shoe you should be alright.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 08:05 PM
2

I love a good polo, but they're hard to find. There are a lot more shitty cheap polos out there than good ones. If you find one that looks good, go for it, but I feel like a lot of guys just see a polo shirt and assume they look good because it has a collar or something. It can be hit or miss, so proceed with caution.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 07:59 PM
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There is a very fine line between a polo that looks and fits well, and a cheaply made polo that hangs off and has too many buttons. Proceed with caution my friend. The polo can be your best friend or your worst enemy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 07:54 PM
4

Being called a pervert is just a shit test. Own it, agree it, and amplify it. Just avoid pedo shit and hookers, they tend to stir up the wrong kind of emotional response in women.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 07:52 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 12:53 PM
3

read these posts by /u/archwinger, especially the last one. women will enjoy spending their time serving a high value guy, if he knows how to get her to do shit for him. don't be afraid to boss her around, and make sure to reward her after she does what you tell her. you need to put yourself first, but make sure she knows that what she is doing is critical to your mission. women don't like feeling useless, they can't take care of themselves on their own, so to them the tribe is everything. if my…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 08:14 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/18 07:13 PM
26

"I'm thick where it counts" But yea, hit the gym now
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:18 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 12:16 AM
9

"Hey guys I'm so boring and lame to be around that the only way to get my wife to have any fun is to get her drunk. What do?" You should be trying to make her drunk on the roller coaster of emotions you give her, not alcohol.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 04:45 PM
1

I'm probably the wrong guy to ask about technical specifics. I never really tried to use a set diet or meal program, because I knew I would just end up fucking it up and falling off the bandwagon pretty quick. So instead I just made sure I ate about a gram of protein per pound of body weight a day, drank a shit load of water and ate lean protein with lots of veggies. I've never done intermittent fasting either, I just eat whenever I want, I just make sure it's not junk. My goal at first wasn't t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 02:48 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 12:49 AM
1

I feel you bro, but this is too low quality for this sub. Posts like this go on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 10:52 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 04:30 PM
3

Eggs without Tabasco is like a crime against nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 02:49 PM
3

This is also a hot sauce thread. You don't need to defend tacos here.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 03:25 AM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 02:27 AM
12

A woman will rub her man's belly, tell him how attractive she finds him and feed him a slice of pizza, then spend the rest of her night ogling guys with abs and 12% body fat. The key is ignoring the noise and knowing what really works.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 09:16 PM
1

Removed. Post this on /r/askmrp instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 07:46 PM
2

Will do, that looks good. Couscous is easy as fuck too. Thanks for the link.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 07:34 PM
2

Sriracha is 10/10, I just don't eat enough types of food that it would go well with. The chicken and sweet potato combo is something I've been messing around with more lately because it's so cheap, but I haven't found a good recipe yet. I'll give the stir fry a shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 07:19 PM
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Post this to /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 07:15 PM
7

All of your problems stem from the fact that you are unwilling to let her go. Correct that and everything will improve. Honestly, at this point the longer you stay the more beta you will look to her. She basically told you flat out that she doesn't respect you as a man, or find you attractive. I guarantee there is another guy in the picture and when she mentions "friends with benefits" she is referring to someone specifically. Whether they've fucked or not yet doesn't matter, she has identified …
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:19 PM
25

Your problem is that you give a fuck about your wife and her expectations and feelings. Stop doing that and watch how much better it gets.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 10:08 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/18 10:06 PM
5

They're just talking guy shit, get over it. Unless it has a negative impact on your life or career, learn how to maintain your frame and just shoot the shit with them. Tell them the last 4 you fucked was their mom and now you'll only get with 10s.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 03:42 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp instead
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/18 03:04 PM
2

A&A her questions and accusations, so you're already failing. "I would never date an HB4, don't insult me" Own that you read it, but that we're not a hivemind cult. It's just a bunch of words on a website and some stuff you find useful and some stuff you don't. Honestly though, the less you say the better. A&A and fogging should be your best friend for this. Also I hope this is a throwaway or something because if she reads this post you're extra fucked.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 08:50 PM
2

This is why I love this place.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:34 AM
11

I'm 6'5, you're tall too. Girls, children and animals will naturally look up to and respect you, initially. Don't let it get to your head, personality and frame matter over anything. Girls give me a head start but I've been fucked over by shorter guys before. Height is like a speedpass but if you don't have anything to back it up it won't do you any good. You got lucky genetically, but don't let it make you lazy in other areas.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:02 AM
2

I don't know, I'm not married. This is a low effort thread, right?
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:33 AM
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OP is gonna take some time to re-evaluate his priorities. Let's move along.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 07:38 PM
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Post this in /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 06:26 PM
1

Keep up the good work, it sounds like you're on top of your shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 09:50 PM
1

Yea it's more a semantics thing than anything. That was a good response for that one time, but if you say shit like that all the time it will quickly fall flat. Use responsibly.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 03:32 AM
2

A cocky and arrogant guy will always be more attractive to women than a humble and simple guy with the same level of ability. It's a good personality trait to have as long as you don't overdo it and can reasonably back it up.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 02:41 AM
1

Getting called "arrogant" is a shit test that you pass by being able to back it up.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:17 AM
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Act like you just got done fucking 2 bitches and you'll fuck her too because why the fuck not. Enjoy yourself and stop caring so much about this and that. Keep improving yourself and as your value grows, your options will grow and you can re-evaluate your priorities as time goes on. My second piece of advice would be to focus on your pleasure only and don't give two shits about trying to make her feel good.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 09:30 PM
3

I know I'm the kind of person who would say "fuck it" if I had to count calories and do math and all that shit so I just ate a shitload of healthy lean protein rich foods whenever I was feeling hungry or bored. My initial goal was to get strong enough to pick up my gf and throw her around, not to get abs or anything like that and eating a lot without worrying about it got me there. I still ended up losing fat and looking leaner anyway because I quit drinking and eating junk food, so it worked fo…
/r/askMRP12/03/18 06:05 PM
3

I was skinny fat too. I did stronglifts 5x5 and ate a shitload of chicken, rice broccoli, eggs, yogurt and oatmeal. I know you want to get shredded off the bat but don't under eat or you're going to not progress as fast as you could. Also quit drinking alcohol to help cut even more bf. I lost my gut and ate a calorie surplus but it was all lean shit that I listed above.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 05:10 PM
2

Play to your strengths, and exploit their weaknesses. Find what they are bad at and do it very well. Once you have that down you can crush them one skill at a time. Become the most valuable person in the room, whether it's blood, sweat and tears or easy social charm, just create value and you will have all the leverage. Just don't slip up.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:49 AM
1

This isn't your personal stream of consciousness journal. Provide some value or an honest question or fuck off.
/r/askMRP10/03/18 01:25 AM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/18 09:52 PM
2

You need to care about your wife less than she cares about you. Instead take that energy and put it entirely into yourself. Mostly work on your game because that was the saddest fucking sex exchange I have ever read in my life. I need a shower.
/r/askMRP09/03/18 02:24 AM
1

Women give everything they can to a man they are attracted to, and they take whatever they can from men they aren't attracted to. Women will go 40k in debt for a guy they like and will drain the bank account of a guy they don't respect. So just make sure you're a guy women want to serve and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:40 PM
2

If you don't lift it makes it easier to get your ass kicked, and ain't no woman ever fucked a man after he got his ass kicked.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 09:45 PM
5

If you do give it to her down play the amount of effort and work you put into it. Tell her you were just feeling inspired and threw together a quick sketch. Don't make her think you were sitting up alone at night obsessively painting her likeness or anything, keep it casual.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:01 PM
1

What are you talking about? Women love criminals. Tell a room full of women that your recently paroled friend is coming over and watch how their eyes light up and their interest peaks. It is definitely not a detractors, especially for sex. I can't argue your points because they are not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:13 PM
1

I mean in regards to sexual attraction. A drug dealer will always be more sexually attractive to a woman than an accountant or school counselor, all other things equal. And it's not just for free drugs, it's the social power and the bad boy angle that girls find sexy. I think you're just saying "holistic attraction" as another term for beta bucks. Sure, most drug dealers aren't relationship material, but guys would rather be sexual partner material than relationship material. Do you really not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:44 PM
2

"Drug dealers are social turds" I think it's been established that women don't consider a man's morals when finding him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:12 PM
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"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac" Women don't fuck drug dealers and club promoters because they want something in exchange, they find these men sexually attractive because they have social power . Have you ever been around a drug dealer? Their phones are always going off and they are telling people where and when to go, how much to pay them, making deals and plans. It's the power that makes girls wet, not the drugs. Same with club promoters. They have high social proof, and women find that att…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 07:51 PM
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My gf has friends who fit this description. They are mostly perpetual students though, grad school...etc. They are probably 5 and 6 looks wise, but because they have advanced degrees they feel entitled to a guy with advanced degrees who is also very attractive. Needless to say, they are both still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:38 PM
23

"Call it, if you're lucky"
/r/askTRP03/03/18 06:22 PM
8

If everyone is physically attractive, other traits like money, personality, status, aggression...etc will become more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:56 PM
13

You shouldn't LTR girls who stay in contact with ex boyfriends.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:37 PM
5

I think you just want to fuck Martin Shkreli dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 01:05 PM
5

She doesn't even care about you dude she's just using you she probably has like 8 other guys just like you and she doesn't even give a shit and here you are crying like a bitch on the floor. Unfriend her ass, put your phone down and go outside. Go to a strip club or something and watch how fake bitches can be to a guy.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:52 PM
11

I'd bet $100 she would be DTF in the texts but as soon as he gets home she "doesn't feel good".
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:46 PM
2

Bad idea. If she wants to fuck you, she will wait until you get home to fuck you, or will indicate that you should come home early.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:29 PM
3

If you're so hot and high SMV, why did it take an ultimatum for your wife to fuck you?
/r/askMRP20/02/18 07:45 PM
3

Your wife doesn't find you sexually attractive. That's the bottom line. It's either your personality or your appearance, or both, but whatever it is, you are unable to get her sexually aroused to the point where she wants to have sex with you. Your ultimatum was a weak move. She only fucked you so she wouldn't lose her wallet. You know that, right? Here is what she heard when you "stated your rights"... "I know I'm not able to seduce or arouse you, but if you don't pretend to be aroused by me, I…
/r/askMRP20/02/18 07:39 PM
26

lol @ arguing with women
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:33 PM
1

My gf loved compliance tests until I got really good at them, she still tries but I think it's just because she enjoys getting teased by me. I don't like your mindset and I feel like you're over thinking it. This shit is supposed to be fun, especially low key compliance tests because it's usually over stupid shit. Be goofy, have fun with it and don't worry if you fuck up, it's not the end of the world. She might act like it is, but trust me when I say that women prefer a man who says "No" to a g…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 04:50 PM
4

My gf was on the pill for a long time and it fucked with her in some pretty bad ways. Now she has an IUD and it's awesome, but it's definitely made her more sexually aggressive and with a greater desire to be physically dominated. Good thing I've been lifting.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 06:28 PM
3

I never said she asked. I just go off her physical response, if I get a positive response, I assume she likes it, and she likes that I have a "take what I want without asking" kind of attitude about it. Getting consent for dominant sex is like a catch 22. Women want dominant aggressive guys, which implies they won't ask her first, but if the guy isn't that "type" of guy she wants to let do that to her, she won't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:09 PM
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Women don't see unattractive guys as sexual beings. A woman will walk into room with 10 guys, 5 neckbeard Omegas and 5 buff Chads, and if you ask her in the way out about the guys in the room, she will only remember the Chads. So of course she will say, "yea, I bet all those guys get casual sex" because in her mind the neckbeards don't even count as men. Plus most beta and omega men tend to stay inside more and are less likely to go out, so for a woman who goes to a club, 8 or 9 out of 10 guys c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:44 PM
0

Feminism is flawed because it aims to serve women's desire for submissive sex with high value men, while also pushing woman's dominance over beta males. Feminists tell women to be free to have all the sex they want, while also telling them they should be the ones on top and pegging their man every night. The problem is most women don't want to be dominant like that, and the kind of sex women enjoy goes against feminist dogma, so any girl who had been preached to about feminism will feel like she…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:57 PM
5

Funny you should mention that, her gross diarrhea friends are the exact SAHMs that I'm talking about who sit on instagram all day and order pizza every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:12 PM
9

I work full time and pay for everything and my gf's feminist friends give her shit for cleaning up after me and doing my laundry. They would rather her work full time and we each just clean up after ourselves and live like fully independent room mates. I really believe that most women enjoy taking care of a home, and don't mind doing subservient things for a quality guy, but once their (usually single) female friends hear about it, they start shaming her for it and making them feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:01 PM
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Do the men in their lives call them lazy gold diggers? Yea, my mom didn't either, she cooked and cleaned and all that stuff, just like my grandmother. Feminism has poisoned women into thinking that any subservient behavior to men is bad for all women. It's a stigma that exists and I believe women are the ones propagating it, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:52 PM
2

A good rule is to always use less words that the person you're replying too. OP's wife gave him a 5 word message, OP should respond with 5 words or less. His problem is already that he cares too much, if he spends time thinking about the "perfect" witty response and it's a paragraph long, his wife will know he is still thinking about her and in her frame. Unless you can get a picture with a "Linda" and she is hotter than your current wife, it won't do much good and will just come off as try-hard…
/r/askMRP14/02/18 06:49 PM
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"Someday I'll get you to join me" You're speaking to her in a way that implies you are chasing her, instead of being a man she wants to chase. You have already established yourself as beta with that message, and her reply is an attempt to get you to reveal your true full beta self. There really aren't any responses you can give that will make sense and won't make you appear butthurt or beta, because of the tone that YOU set with your message. Your best bet is to just reply "maybe", but that won'…
/r/askMRP14/02/18 06:35 PM
14

All the ones I know do. I'm in my 30s and have only met 1 girl in my age range who could cook a decent meal and would make sure her man was set up for the day. All the other women I know just sit on social media all day, then order out or cook boxed meals at night. My grandmother raised 6 kids, cooked every night, and made sure my grandpa was set up to take care of business every day, but somehow my friends wife with 1 kid has daily anxiety attacks and leaves dishes and shit around all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:23 PM
2

My gf does stuff like this too. In the heat of the moment her primal urges take over and she will want me to choke, slap, call her names and get really rough, but when it's over her brain tries to process what just happened in the context of modern society and she gets weird feelings. She's never cried but she has definitely been like "what the fuck just happened. You still respect me, right?" At which point I just reassure her, same as the OP in the post did and everything is fine. I know with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:11 PM
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Not if they actually take care of the house and their man. Modern women would be called lazy gold diggers because most would sit in instagram all day and suggest ordering pizza for dinner every night. My grandmother used to clean every day, make dinner every day and make sure my grandfather had clean pressed clothes to wear every day. I don't know any man who would shame a woman for wanting to be a stay at home mom, I think most of the shaming comes from other women, like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:04 PM
0

"I'm worth it"
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:34 PM
11

"Hell yea, it's good to be King" sushi eating intensifies
/r/askMRP13/02/18 06:49 PM
1

Post this on /r/askmrp and prepare to get wrecked because your frame sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 05:36 PM
15

No, telling your wife that you know she doesn't find you attractive, and listing that as a reason for your recent self improvements will not induce dread, and will in fact make you look even more beta and repulsive than you already are. Keep your fucking mouth shut about your reasons or motivations for your improvements and personality changes. You need to make her believe that you were this way deep down inside all along, and now you're just letting it out. Listing any external reason for your …
/r/askMRP13/02/18 05:04 PM
2

You're talking too much and being too wordy. Next time leave off the last part about her being "lucky enough to land there".
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:18 PM
2

Agree and amplify, maybe listen to some gangster rap
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:30 AM
2

Don't give a fuck
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:16 AM
7

I agree most men are unfuckable but that will always be the case. Women are hypergamous, so even if 100% of guys have abs and make 100k, women will just desire the guys who have an 8 pack and make 500k. That's just the female sexual strategy. Feminism has made it acceptable for women to openly fuck top tier men and everyone is losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:32 PM
3

The option to select is worth x1000 more than the option to chase. A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush. Your logic make no sense to me. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:24 PM
2

Being chased automatically implies having more options to choose from. If you have to chase, it means you aren't desired to begin with. Also in the real world it never works like that. Let's say my friend and I are in a room with 10 women. 8 if the women are chasing him, while I chase the 1 woman I want. Do you really think that I would be the one with more options than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:15 PM
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"Chasing allows you to select" "Being chased limits your choices" This make absolutely zero sense. If I'm chasing a girl, I'm chasing one person and limiting my options. If I'm being chased I get to pick from a variety of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:11 PM
1

Most men don't need to be good at sex because they aren't attractive to their partners anyway. No amount of "special moves" will help if you're a doughy pushover who is unable to turn on your woman. Most guys are beta bux who think their wives find them attractive because of "who they are" and that mediocre sex is "normal". A lot of guys aren't bad at sex, they just aren't sexy and learning or reading about sex specifically won't help. They need to change their overall personas and attitudes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 08:04 PM
1

What do you consider crazy degrading porno shit? Maybe I underestimated you and you're on some next level freaky shit I didn't even know about? Are you giving out Cleveland Steamers or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:27 PM
2

I totally agree that women want to feel safe, and my mellow DNGAF personality is huge in giving them the comfort to be themselves around me knowing that I can get down with it, but won't murder them and wear their skin. I disagree a lot that women don't enjoy gagging on fucks. I've had girls tell me how wet they get when I make them gag and get rough. Maybe it is their brains or whatever you said, but they got more turned on from hardcore face fucking than a "normal blowjob". Pussy juice don't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:09 PM
1

If I describe what kind of sex I like to a variety of women, and I give the following 2 examples, which do you think is more likely to excite and arouse women? I would like to lay you down and gently and smoothly penetrate you over and over until I achieve climax. I'm gonna carry you to my bedroom, throw you down and fuck the shit out of you like a piece of meat. Example #2 will always get a stronger emotional response from women, and will excite and arouse them more. It's the danger and excitem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:03 PM
3

I just want to make the world a better place, one female orgasm at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:54 PM
5

The sex is used as a tool to describe a man who is powerful and craves more power. If he was a CEO who just fucked missionary and chose her, no body would buy it. It's the fact she was so "special" that this powerful and aggressive man only wanted her that made it so successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:49 PM
1

You're not wrong, most sex is pretty ordinary, maybe with some of this stuff peppered in. But when a girl wants to get "freaky", I bet she is thinking about the stuff im describing, instead of going the other way with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:47 PM
5

Isn't he also a CEO of a large and powerful company? Money is great, but power is what women really want. If he was a lottery winner who couldn't boss people around, the book would not have been such a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:45 PM
2

Don't women also find aggressive and dominant guys attractive? Sure, she may be doing it "for him", but the fact that he enjoys it confirms his dominant and aggressive personality, which she likes. So she enjoys doing it because it confirms to her that she is with a dominant and aggressive guy. Girls will do this shit to see how the guy responds, secretly hoping he will be more dominant and aggressive like that. If a girl says "you can spank me and pull my hair" and the guy says "no, I respect y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:44 PM
4

I believe they are thinking about being choked and slapped by guys when they are using their vibrators. Wasn't it on here that someone posted a study about women loving ultra violent and degrading porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:38 PM
3

Just stating my observations. Most of these girls asked for these things, I never suggested them or anything, they just knew I wouldn't judge them and I would be cool with it. It also used to be that men weren't such supplicating pussies to women and would take pride in their masculinity. Maybe the shortage of masculine and confident men has increased the urges women have to be dominated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:35 PM
4

It's my reality because women find me attractive and I have a confident and non-judgy personality that allows them to feel like they can be open and their true selves with me. I know women like to be sluts, and they like that I know that and they take advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:32 PM
1

I guess everyone just has missionary sex with the lights off for the sole purpose of procreation. Honestly, girls are just as pervy and sometimes more so than men, they're just very selective with who they get pervy with. Maybe you just haven't found that right guy yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:30 PM
2

Every girl I've ever fucked has either slapped herself in the face with my dick, or asked me to slap her with it. And these have been normal girls, not crazed sluts. What reality are you all living in? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:20 PM
2

"Slap and tickle and light hair pulling" Lol. That's basic in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:18 PM
1

Yes, I'm sure you know lots of girls who don't enjoy it, it's just a weird coincidence that every girl I've ever known has expressed a desire to be dominated and degraded to an extent. From church goers to self proclaimed sluts. Sure, I'll ignore everything I've experienced and just take your word for it that these girls are lying to me. Thanks for setting me straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:09 PM
5

Most of the girls I've been with want to be fucked like they are porn stars. I've noticed it's proportional to how attractive she thinks I am as well. If I've had a rough go of it lately, it's missionary with the lights off, if I've been killing it in life and have displayed high status, she wants me to pull her hair, talk dirty, smack her ass and throw her around. Yea, weird shit like eels and shit porn is not the norm, but most girls enjoy being treated and fucked like slutty porn stars, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 06:00 PM
4

Porn is just a representation of the kind of the kind if sex top tier high quality alpha men get. Women greatly enjoy all the dominating and degrading stuff that happens in porn, but only if a high status guy is doing it to them. When girls post about wanting a "guy like Christian Grey", the implication is that he does all the dominant stuff, and also has the high status of Christian Grey. If anything porn sets up guys to think that women crave sex just as much as they do, when in reality, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:23 PM
1

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/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 09:00 PM
4

It's not uncommon for people to have multiple phones, but the fact that it's a prepaid burner and was hidden in a drawer isn't a good sign. Are you sure it's a burner phone? I have a couple of old phones in a drawer that would probably go off from time to time if they were still charged. I'm not saying this isn't important, but consider all options before you act. I think the best course of action would be to monitor the phone and see what info you can get off of it. People talking about sim car…
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:48 PM
1

I'm just showing him the door, it's up to him to actually walk through it. If he comes back tomorrow like "how to handle wife's personal trainer shit tests?" then I'll be mad.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 10:54 PM
3

Stop explaining and justifying yourself, you're talking way to much. Every word after "no" is a beta tell that she picks up on, like a shark smelling drops of blood in water. Read up on amused mastery and instead of defending yourself, treat her like an emotional teenager, have a little fun with it too.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 10:50 PM
2

Wew boy, this ones a doozy. Im going to give you some highly technical, top level advice that I need you to follow very carefully. Ok here it goes... Stop doing what she tells you to do. Ok, take as long as you need to digest that, I know it's a lot to take in. Alright I'm done being an ass. Just stop listening to her, it really is that simple. When she tells you not to have a female trainer, look her in the eyes and say "no". Sure, she will shit test you afterwards, but we all know how to handl…
/r/askMRP06/02/18 10:30 PM
1

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/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 03:49 PM
1

"If I wasn't happy with you I'd tell you to get the fuck out" The starfish sex is your fault, not her, don't bring it up. She will lose respect for you for not being man enough to dump a woman you're not fully satisfied with.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 04:28 PM
3

My only advice is to not be wishywashy about it. Decide if you don't want to stay with her and tell her and stick by your guns. Like most women, if she sees her wallet about to leave, she will start fucking you like crazy. Don't fall for it. Also don't let her pressure you to leave or give her your stuff or anything. Maybe some of the lawyer guys on here will have some better advice about the legal stuff, but my only advice is do what the fuck you want and don't let her have any control over you…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 04:14 PM
12

"I don't act pissed, just cocky about the whole thing" AKA "i was actually pissed but tried, in vain, to hide it" It's almost impossible to hide your true emotional state from women, no matter how big that forced smile may be. Women are like bloodhounds when it comes to emotions and body language, it's literally the key to their survival. I'm guessing you didn't play it off as well as you thought. Anyway, stop giving so many fucks. It's sweet that you want to spend time with her, but she doesn't…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:33 PM
6

My girl uses to do this too, I think it's like what McLearner said, a triple check of your frame to see if you're really butthurt. She knows that if you really are upset at her, that you'll deny her accusation, so hopefully you're not doing that. What worked best for me was agree and amplify, or pressure flipping. Her: "Are you mad at me?" A&A: "yea I'm fucking furious raahhhhh!!!" Then grab her and wrestle her around a little in a playful way, then leave or go do your own thing. Pressure flip: …
/r/askMRP02/02/18 01:38 PM
1

Eh, women are pretty predictable and boring. Most of them use the same shit tests over and over again. I don't think having some witty responses to common shit tests is the worst thing in the world. "I have a boyfriend" "we're not having sex tonight" "will you buy me a drink?" are shit tests as old as time, brainstorming some funny and unique responses won't hurt. You are right though, and if you are using canned lines and it goes off track, you're fucked if you don't have the right mindset.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:43 PM
4

Women are addicted to the rush of emotions. She won't ever be addicted to "you", she will just become addicted to the high levels of emotions you can provide if no one else is able to make her feel emotions like that. If another guy can make her feel "more" than you could, she will become addicted to "him" instead.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:54 PM
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Your frame sucks, and your personality sounds boring and lame. You're at square one, and it seems like you have a decent grasp on the materials and the laws of attraction, so just keep reading and don't dwell in this event for too long. My advice is to immediately stop giving so many fucks about your wife, she sure as shit doesn't give a fuck about you. Right now, you are living as if your wife is the prize, but it needs to be the other way around. Women fuck prizes, they don't like to get fucke…
/r/askMRP29/01/18 08:56 PM
4

First off, listen to everyone's advice about getting a lawyer. Second, STFU and move on. Life is tough sometimes, get over it. Calling that guy and telling HR on him was the lamest gayest shit I've ever seen. The only thing he did wrong was being better than you, don't be a bitch about it, just get better now that you know how. Same goes for your wife, running around telling everyone will just make you look like a petty faggot. Move on like you don't give a shit. You were probably running at abo…
/r/askMRP28/01/18 06:11 AM
7

Hell yea, feminism is great for guys in the top 20%. My gf used to scoff at the idea of "traditional gender norms", then I became hot and now she sounds like an Amish grandma.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 08:42 PM
7

I keep everything on the level and up front. As far as anyone knows, I'm just being friendly. I don't have any intention of fucking other girls though, so it's more about just having fun and being friendly, not so much seeing how far I can get with anyone. I use our current political climate to my advantage as well. All women know that men and women can't be just friends, they know that the man either wants to fuck them, or they want to fuck the man. Fortunately for us, feminism has created a na…
/r/askMRP25/01/18 08:22 PM
1

Flowers? Cleaning service? Yoooo fuck outta here with that weak ass shit my dude. That's just you trying to buy value because you don't have enough of your own. You can get her a cleaning service when she has been so busy sexting you that she has let the house get dirty, but of course don't tell her that up front. I don't know what your gig is that put you 6000 miles away from your girl, but you want to create the feeling inside of her that when she calls you, she is talking to the absolute best…
/r/askMRP25/01/18 07:54 PM
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You're being solipsistic. Women don't appreciate or respect being "wanted" like men do. Obviously, if a girl sends us nudes, that means she thinks we're great and she is into us. If a girl tells us about a new promotion, or how she totally owned that one thing she did, that's great, but not really as great as seeing her tits. If you really want her to get slutty with you long distance, turn her on by demonstrating value, not demonstrating your desire for her. She probably has hundreds of guys wh…
/r/askMRP25/01/18 07:33 PM
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That only works if the risk is completely equal between both parties. Women tend to do much better if a relationship goes south than men. They can file for divorce and get alimony, find another man to provide for her...etc. Men can't just drop everything and move into another woman's life, they have to have the value up front, unless they're super ripped models or something and hook up with rich older women, but that is very rare. Men carry the burden of greater risk when making decisions, there…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:10 PM
2

Because the risk of taking risks isn't equal between the two sexes. If a woman invests her life savings and it immediately goes under and she loses everything, she has the option to pack up and move into a guys life and let him provide for her. Yea, he may not be a perfect 10 Chad, but most women have at least a couple beta orbiters that they know would provide for them if needed. If a man invests his life savings and loses it, he will be financially ruined and possibly never fully recover and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:05 PM
1

The only time it's ok to hit a woman is when not hitting her will result in bodily harm, injury or death to you. Hitting a woman for any reason other than that is weak as fuck.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 06:28 PM
5

The captain/first mate dynamic is just a reflection of the natural state of heterosexual relationships. Men are judged by women based on their actions and a collection of value sets that are largely based on those actions and decisions. Women are judged more on physical appearance and general personality and attitude, not decision making, other than deciding to not get fat. I know that my gf likes me because of my value. That value is a result of the decisions I have made in my life (career, soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 05:16 PM
18

I agree that porn is cheap and lazy, and best used in very moderate amounts. The only issue I have with the anti-porn stance is the argument that it creates an unrealistic expectation of what "real" sex is like. I think that's bullshit, all porn is, is a representation of what sex is like for very very high value men. Women will willingly do, and enjoy all the depraved and nasty things you can think of in porn, but only to the highest value men. Most guys aren't high value, don't know how to cre…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:32 PM
2

It takes more than a pretty face to make my life better, so yes, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:12 PM
4

So? A woman's earnings and career power have zero effect on my attraction to her. How is she making my life better? That's all I care about. I don't need extra money or status to be happy, I need a woman who respects me and wants to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:55 PM
10

As long as you give a fuck, and let it get to you, it will keep happening.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 08:06 PM
12

Wew boy, you almost got me.
/r/askMRP11/01/18 07:16 PM
2

Asshole bosses are a part of life. It's better to learn how to deal with them then to try to report everything they do to someone else. Make yourself a very valuable employee and that will open doors to other opportunities away from your current boss. Just plough through the bullshit and get your results. No one will want to lose an employee that is an asset to the company. Your only options, assuming what he is doing to you is not illegal, which it sounds like it isn't, is to quit, improve your…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:13 PM
6

What kind of face did you make? I'm picturing you making a sour puss face and pushing the potatoes away like a small child. Next time, instead of making a face, just tell her straight up what you do or don't like about it. Make a joke and keep it light, don't be a huge dick about it. She made an attempt to provide you with food, it didn't work out, but you don't want to shit all over her about it. I wouldn't apologize, but I feel like it's on you to set things straight since it doesn't seem like…
/r/askMRP08/01/18 02:29 PM
2

If YOU think that YOU would have a good time in Portugal, then yea sure, go for it. If you want to go so that SHE will have to be around you, and as a chance to rebuild your relationship with HER, then you might as well buy her a one way ticket so she can stay there with her new Portuguese lover.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 08:58 PM
11

Stop doing shit just to get your wife to love you. It's like every trick you try, you immediately want to watch her and gauge her reaction to see if it "worked". Do shit for yourself, don't worry about how she feels about it. Women need to be in relationship where the man has the power, and whoever cares less about the relationship has the most power. Right now it seems like your wife has all the power. You're constantly worried about what her next move will be, what she's feeling, what kind of …
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:36 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 02:03 PM
1

Remove your time and attention from her, sprinkle in a little dread on top of the already attractive person you should be and she will want to make an effort to please you. If she feels like you are perfectly able to handle every aspect of your daily life without her, it will usually make her step up her game to stay in your good favor, but that's only if she already respects you and finds you attractive.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:22 PM
6

Imply they were catcalling you and tell them sorry but you're not gay.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:01 AM
4

Wew, good save on the "don't". Thanks for catching that.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 03:59 PM
13

Just clean your house if it needs to be cleaned. You're an adult man, just handle your shit. Sitting around waiting for others to do shit for you makes you look weak and helpless. It never hurts to just live your life as though you're already a bachelor and can handle your shit just fine. It will show your girl that you don't need her around as much as she might think and will probably cause a little dread. Just make sure you do go validation seeking or ask for praise or anything. Just clean you…
/r/askMRP03/01/18 03:01 PM
0

There is no better alternative and there will never be one. At it's core, the red pill is a breakdown of how attraction works in women, and the female nature. These are things that are defined by biology, not society, so they will always stay constant. It's like debating whether or not gravity exists. The only thing the bluepill has is to point out the crazy posts on the redpill, or point out the rare exception that goes against red pill ideals. As long as women are women, the red pill will be r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:31 PM
2

Women shit test men they are attracted to, and completely ignore or act apathetic towards guys they have no interest in. Even a guy who has never heard of the redpill will be able to identify a pattern of behavior that says "girl giving me shit=girl who is attracted to me" and it increases interest. Maybe some guys can misread genuine negative attitude, but most girls are at least a little bitchy and rude towards guys before they put out, just to test their frame a little bit first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 02:48 PM
2

lol she probably has 5 other beta schmucks just like you pining over her thinking they're all special. I agree with Persaeus, this is a solid last minute entry for faggot of the year. If you're still this big of a bitch tomorrow you might win 2 years in a row.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 05:59 PM
6

I don't have kids, so I don't know what it's like to have a new baby, but I do know what it's like to move with your girl to a new place where you don't know anyone and her social circle has shrunk to just one person (you). I'm sure it's difficult taking care of a new baby, and when women experience difficulty, they rely on their social network for help, and for validation that she is doing a good job. What is your social circle like in your new town? Does she have friends she can go out with? D…
/r/askMRP29/12/17 01:44 PM
5

They're unhappy due to lack of sex, not just from being single. A girl can get all the ONS she wants, but she won't be truly happy unless she is in a relationship with a man she respects. A single guy can have a bunch of ONS or a relationship and he will be happy with either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:46 AM
1

She'll just move on to one of her backup guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:44 AM
5

There is no risk for the woman in today's legal system. She divorces and blames the man for being a bum, and gets "strong independent woman" points from her social network, and she will probably get half of whatever the guy earned while they were together, even if he loses his job. The point of marriage as opposed to a LTR is the legal right to the man's resources. Plus the social points that she gets. Women pressure other women to get married all the time, or shame them for not being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:39 AM
7

Because it's easier to cash in on her innate value and get a man to provide resources than it is to grind it out in a 9-5 career. Plus women basically need to be in a relationship with a man to be happy. A single woman is usually miserable and constantly complains about not having a man, whereas a single guy is happy as a clam and does his own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:34 AM
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It's a legally binding contract that ensures the man's commitment and basically guarantees access to his resources should the relationship end. Also the social value and attention from having a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:30 AM
5

Realize that she doesn't give a shit about you, just your social value. You are entirely interchangeable with any other guy of equal value, and given the chance she would leave you for a man of higher value if she could be certain he would give his commitment to her.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 02:27 AM
3

I've never met a woman who wasn't at least a little disfunctional and crazy on the inside. Some are just better at hiding it than others.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 02:24 AM
5

Women love emotions, even the bad ones. Stop worrying about making her jealous. A girl who doesn't experience jealousy in a relationship is a girl who is unhappy in her relationship. Harness those emotions, make her feel jealousy and dread, then bring her up again with comfort and love. If you can create a roller coaster of emotions, she will be hooked on you.
/r/askMRP27/12/17 10:24 PM
2

Let her vent and rant a little, then focus on changing her mood, not her mind. When my gfs grandfather died who she was very close with, she was upset, cried on my shoulder, I listened, then I made a joke about it and she laughed and melted into me. Part of being "the rock" is being able to show your girl that you're in control and everything will be fine. If you just sit and listen and smile and nod forever like a jackass, she'll never feel that strength and security she wants from you. Hold he…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:57 PM
66

If you work hard, are smart and you're assertive about getting what you want, then you will do well. If you work hard, are smart and just expect to be noticed and rewarded, you'll be walked over and used until you die.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 10:13 PM
1

Everyone gets 1 victim puke, this was yours. Your next post better have something about the positive changes you've made for yourself, otherwise you're going to get fucking roasted. Good luck brother, now get moving.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/17 06:52 PM
2

I'll give you credit for one thing, this post is all about you, which is exactly how it should be. Too many guys come here blaming their wives and everyone else for their problems. The "she" to "I" ratio in the post was refreshing as fuck. So in that regard you're starting off better than a lot of guys. Honestly, you sound depressed as fuck. I'm not a mental health doctor or a therapist, but when I'm depressed nothing makes me feel better than to go to the gym, put my headphones on, forget about…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/17 06:28 PM
9

You were a weak pussy before, and you're still a weak pussy now. Cut the passive aggressive bullshit, man the fuck up and just make a decision. You sound like a catty bitch from the "mean girls" movie. After you purposely dug at your wife cooking, did you go into the bathroom with your boyfriends and gossip about the look on her face? Seriously dude, your ancestors killed saber tooth tigers with sticks and rocks and you're making passive aggressive comments about your wife's food. Sad! I persona…
/r/askMRP26/12/17 01:43 PM
3

The threat is real. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/05/15/more-common-types-of-beta-bait/
/r/askMRP26/12/17 01:12 PM
8

She wanted you to handle her bitchiness in the moment, carry her to bed and spank her, tease her, AA. The nagging is just shit tests. Now she's throwing you beta bait and you're eating it up. You can't use logic to end shit tests.
/r/askMRP26/12/17 03:30 AM
1

Can't take credit for that one, someone more clever than me came up with it, just don't remember who.
/r/askMRP24/12/17 03:52 AM
10

Oof. You couldn't have handled that any worse. Next time reply to the post "you just made it onto my naughty list" and leave it at that. There is nothing more sad and pathetic than a man who has to ask to be respected by his wife. Take the L, don't dwell on it and don't bring this shit up ever again. Hell, maybe you'll get lucky and a power surge will fry her hard drive so there will no longer be a permanent digital record of your beta shit goblin crying at her.
/r/askMRP24/12/17 01:50 AM
9

Cool, while we're at it, you want us to come over and fuck your wife too? Do you want tattoos or not dude? It's a simple fucking question.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 06:45 PM
4

Stand next to a guy who lifts 4 times a week and spit your game at a girl and see who gets better results.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:21 PM
2

No one gives a shit about your lame mug bro. Merry Christmas.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:34 PM
3

You might be coming off as too thirsty or focused on sex. I've had success implying that I actually don't want to have sex with her for a variety of different reasons. Her bratty attitude, what she was wearing that day, the bad food she made the night before, just generally teasing her and being an ass. I guess it would be like a neg, but it really gets her hamster spinning when I turn down the one thing she thinks will always have control over me. Plus it takes the pressure off knowing that I r…
/r/askMRP21/12/17 07:29 PM
247

Eh, I'd rather spend my money on a gym membership and know that the girl I'm shitting on is doing it because she's really attracted to me, and not just my money.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:57 AM
3

Exactly. You want her hamster wheel to spin, but you want it to be spinning over you, not whatever stupid shit she wants to argue about.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 03:57 PM
8

If you have a pair of glasses that make everything look like a sunny meadow on a nice day, and you take them off and everything looks like a post-industrial wasteland, most people will want to keep the glasses on.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 02:11 PM
7

It's not really about passing enough shit tests, or avoiding arguments, it's about understanding the true nature of women. They think with their emotions, and believe them as if they were facts. No amount of logic or rational explanation will matter if she feels like she is right. If she feels like it's raining outside, but it's sunny and there's no clouds, you can point to the sky all day but it won't do any good. Its like running on a treadmill when you're trying to move forward. Just step off…
/r/askMRP19/12/17 01:51 PM
2

Your wife does these things because they work. She is able to get under your skin because you give way too many fucks about what she thinks about you. Learn how to use amused mastery. She is just the most responsible teenager in the house, and you're letting her bitchiness and comments get to you? You're a grown ass man, next time she calls you out, rise above that shit and do what you want on your own terms. Don't engage in the back and forth, just shut it down right away. Maintain control of t…
/r/askMRP19/12/17 01:35 PM
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Why are you comparing yourself to women? You're a man for fucks sake, your life is supposed to be harder. You don't have that innate value that women have, but that society tells you they don't. This is the kind of shit that turns men into trannies.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:24 PM
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He sacrificed himself to further his family and bring them into the "for better" part, which society tells men they will be rewarded for with respect and appreciation from their wives. The red pill teaches men to put themselves first, that your hard work means very little to your wife, and that if something better comes a long, all your hard work and self sacrifice will hold zero weight in her decision to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:38 PM
9

Briffaults law isn't common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:20 PM
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In a lot of these cases though, the "facts" are nothing more than how the girl feels about the encounter, and how she feels about the guy, and often times it doesn't get reported until days or even weeks after it happened. It's very difficult to take feelings as facts and evidence and take someone to court over it. I don't think there is bias, but I do think a lot of women expect their feelings to be taken as 100% truth, and that's not how the justice system works, or at least that's not how it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:43 PM
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Women are more emotional than men, that's been proven. Let me run a scenario past you that I think a lot of guys in relationships have experienced, and I want to hear how you think the man should best handle it: You're a guy, hanging out at home when your wife or girlfriend come home from work. You can tell she is upset about something and she immediately starts chastising you for leaving a cup in the sink, and just pointing out every, seemingly minor, offense you've made over the past 2 days. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:33 PM
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I've interviewed rapists who jump out from behind bushes with knives and drag women into alleys. I know that rape happens. I just think that women expecting to be believed 100% of the time without question, and getting upset when the man's side of the story is considered is a bad thing. Especially if it wasn't immediately reported and the two had a pre-existing relationship. The sad reality is that there are situations that women may get into where it will be more beneficial for her to have ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:25 PM
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I've known 2 girls who have filed false rape charges. One was because she got caught by her friends having sex and rumors started and her parents found out. She retracted the claims after the police became involved and it started getting serious. The second had consensual sex with my friend, and later claimed he raped her after he wouldn't leave his gf for her and people found out and started calling her a slut. She retracted the claims after the police got involved and it started getting seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:46 PM
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69 gorillion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:14 PM
1

I've never met a woman who did not get like this when she was upset. Some get more emotional a little easier than others, but all women lose any ability to think rationally and logically when they are upset. It's like a little kid who falls down and starts crying, you don't try to explain to them that they didn't really hurt themselves, you just act goofy and make them laugh and they forget all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:05 PM
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You don't need to find the root cause of her anger, there might not even be one. Like you said, she might be on her period, and you can't do anything about that. Women treat emotions like facts, instead of trying to change her mind, change her mood. The best way to end an argument is to be a bit of a cheeky asshole, show her that you're not concerned about her emotions, then make a little cocky joke that will make her laugh and piss her off a little. Once a woman becomes emotional about a subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:41 PM
4

The opposite of the CC is being a male Virgin in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:33 PM
3

Looks, money status. It's a combination if the three. A guy who makes 40k a year can have a combined score of 8, while a guy who makes 100k a year can be a 6 if he's not attractive or popular. A woman won't go from an 8 to a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:11 PM
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OP is gonna read up and try again next time. Thread locked.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 01:27 AM
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So what are you gonna do faggot, sit here and argue with random guys online, or what? We don't give a shit about your life or your bitchy comebacks, we all have hot wives who suck our dicks. You're one snarky comment away from getting banned. Either own your shit and make a decision, and we can help you, or keep fucking around and I'll make sure you don't waste any of our time ever again.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 01:15 AM
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Ok, so then stay with her and lead her toward becoming fit and attractive by being a guy she wants to follow towards your fitness goals. You have 2 fucking options here my man, stop looking for the 3rd easy option, it doesn't exist. For fucks sake, listening to your excuses is making me want to work out less. Own your shit dude.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 01:11 AM
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She's fat because you're a shitty man and a shitty leader, if she was so attracted to you, she would have been fit all along. Or, you're a superior man in a relationship with a cow because you don't have the balls to leave. Your life is what you make of it, don't try to pass the blame onto her. If you're done with your relationship, then tell her and move on. If you want to stay with her and give her a chance to improve with you, then get ready to lead her there. Women take the shape of the man …
/r/askMRP13/12/17 12:57 AM
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I think you already know what you want to do, you're just being a pussy about it. Just man up and make a decision. If it were me I wouldn't go.
/r/askMRP12/12/17 03:31 PM
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She probably just needs to feel more comfort. Take a little bit of time to listen to her complain about her day, tell her that mean girl at work is a bitch, make some jokes and tease her a little then give her a big hug. You need to provide some level of comfort and a little beta to maintain a quality LTR. However pay attention to what she does over what she says, her mind and emotions can change at any time.
/r/askMRP12/12/17 02:25 PM
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"Too bad" as a response is highly underrated.
/r/askMRP12/12/17 01:48 AM
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Seems like a lot of effort, and a little too passive aggressive for me.
/r/askMRP12/12/17 12:12 AM
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She is testing you to see if her petty bullshit will have any effect on your emotions or thought process. A man who is influenced by shit like this is a weak man in her eyes, and she doesn't want a weak man. If it isn't a big deal, which it usually isn't, then stop giving a fuck. STFU, and when you get a little more confident you can actually have fun showing her how little fucks you give by being cocky about it and pushing her buttons on purpose. Women hate supplicating beta males. Women will t…
/r/askMRP12/12/17 12:10 AM
3

I cried once at the beginning of my decade long relationship with my girl and she still brings it up as a point of weakness and makes fun of me a out it. I also know for a fact that if she ever caught me in make up, she would laugh my ass out of our house and probably leave me, or at the very least ridicule the shit out of me for it. I think the OK cupid study shows that men have a wider range for what the consider "hot" than women. 10 women in a room will usually all want to fuck the same 1 or …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 03:37 PM
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Good post. Don't let your wife, or any other woman decide your life or how you feel about yourself. Men have been the creators and maintainers of civilization for the past 1900 years at least, take a little pride in yourself, don't let modern society bum you out. However, you're a grown adult man, if something needs to be done in your life, just do it, you don't get to sit around and whine like everyone else, men don't get that luxury. That doesn't mean you have to put up with a woman who doesn'…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/17 05:43 AM
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Women need romance, the US vs them satisfies that to an extent. There's nothing wrong or beta about making your girl a priority as long as you put yourself first and don't let her influence your decisions.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 05:16 AM
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It sounds like it's more of a shit test than a drunk captain test. I'll give you some specific advice that I think might help. I read something awhile ago, that to help keep a LTR stable, especially in rough times, you need to cultivate an "us vs the world" type of mentality with your girl. I've always found that useful in my own relationship, not because I actually believe it, but because I've found it to be a useful tool to frame certain situations or to reaffirm to my girl that I'm not on som…
/r/askMRP09/12/17 04:24 AM
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My gf used to give me shit about drunk captain stuff, and about stuff relating to me just being a selfish asshole. The first category should be treated as a shit test. You don't want to submit to her demands, but you do need to get your fucking shit together. Do it on your own terms, and tease her or AA in the process. The second category I just had to tell her straight up, "there's no one more important in my life than me, that will never change, so accept it or GTFO." She stuck around and pout…
/r/askMRP09/12/17 03:33 AM
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She wanted to wear it for me, she just didn't know how or where to start. She follows her friends, and their husbands all spend $100's at Victoria's Secret every year with shit results. I didn't feel like playing that game so I went this route and it worked for me. You're spot on though, if you're not attractive and a man she wants to wear it for, it won't work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 03:49 AM
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I appreciate the actual response, but next time put in the effort up front. Keyboard bitchiness with zero substance is not a good look. I don't see what's so bad about trying to empower and build confidence in your woman to feel sexy and have fun dressing up like a slut. My girl, who you might refer to as an ice-queen, is very conservative with a very low n-count. I actually considered that a positive in the vetting process, and still do. My mistake is that I didn't initially know how to bring o…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 03:35 AM
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Nothing you tell her will have any effect because women don't think logically and rationally. They are driven purely by emotions, so even if she hears you out, 5 minutes later some player could come along and make her feel good, she'll follow those feelings, and become an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:53 PM
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To help guys learn how to pass the global shit test that is feminism, and because of my general disgust with the society that lied to me for so many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 05:06 PM
1

"Fuckbeast: A guy who just fucks and doesn't give a shit about much else"
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 02:23 PM
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I get it though, there's a fine line between this and being a covert contract beta bux trying to pressure her into sex. I think it has to do with the way my gf and her friends are as well. "Conservative feminists" I guess you could call them, hence the emphasis on helping her let out her slutty side. If she got this stuff on her own, her friends would slut shame her and give her a ton of crap about it. Getting it myself let's her pass the blame on me for being a "dirty perv" or whatever, even th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 04:15 PM
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The expectation is the hardest thing to avoid, but if you honestly don't care either way, she will pick up on it and it won't be a big deal. It also helps that I knew she would get pissed when she saw I was buying her discount stripper stuff. She would have already been mad if I bought her stripper clothes, but the fact I wasn't even willing to pay top dollar and got the discount brand is what really sent her over the top. Like I said, whether she wore it or not, I was gonna have fun either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:15 PM
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I agree that buying shit for her to wear for you is lame. I just knew I was stuck in a repeating cycle of bullshit and I knew she would never take that first step into slutty clothes on her own. She followed the same shit all her girlfriends do, which is buy VC shit like the TV says, or have their beta husbands get it and then never wear it. She was never going to go out on her own and buy anything that was risky or over the top, I knew I had to take her there just to get over the anxiety or wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 01:57 PM
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I honestly think my girl gets more turned on wearing trashy slutty stripper stuff over classy silk and lace and shit like that. It's like the taboo of it drives her crazy and really let's her let out her dirty slutty side.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 01:29 PM
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I've found that my girl respects me more when I spend less money on her. It's a win win.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 04:48 AM
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"It gets so much better than that bullshit" Can you please expand on this point? It seems to be the only one you're making.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 04:06 AM
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Good luck man. My girl will have fun wearing a 10 dollar fishnet bodysuit. If you want to spend $60 on something similar for your girl, then by all means. I'm just trying to help my fellow bros keep costs down and still have a good time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 03:06 AM
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If she is fat that's on you. If you want her to wear lingerie while she loses the weight, use this guide. Otherwise dump her ass and get someone hotter.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:58 AM
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It is a guide. It's what worked for me so I thought I'd share. About having an ugly wife, you don't need to settle for a fat cow, but you can't expect a fat cow wife to feel confident in fishnets if you don't make her feel good in them. If she's not sexy to you, lingerie won't help, so this post isn't for you anyway. I do agree about Victoria Secret making quality bras. When my girl has to work 8 hours a day, she'll take a VC bra over discountstripper, but that's not what I'm really on about. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:45 AM
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I feel you brah. I await your counter argument to my post. I wouldn't be where I am today if people didn't call me out on my bullshit. They usually just put more effort into it than you have so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:20 AM
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Give me more than a "no" to work with and I'll take you seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:14 AM
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Yea, of course there is hope. You started putting yourself first. If you went out and fucked Jennifer Lawrence tomorrow your wife would be all over your dick, problem solved. You are your life, and women are an accessory to your life based on the value of the life you have created for yourself. They always have the option to bail and find someone else, and they will always blame you for any shortcomings on the life you have created for yourself. From now on, put yourself first and foremost. If y…
/r/askMRP06/12/17 01:35 AM
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No, I wouldn't feel harassed because I'm physically stronger than all of those women, so if they wanted to force themselves on me, they wouldn't be able to anyway. Plus being chased by such a high value and attractive woman would only help boost my smv. If I told my gf that scarlet Johanson wanted my dick, I'd have to worry about my gf trying to rip my pants off too hard. Plus if I tried to press charges or make it a big deal being approached by these women like this, it would make me look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:43 PM
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Women are a reflection of their man, and it sounds like your house is a reflection of you, sloppy and unmotivated. Take control of yourself, and your life, and stop expecting her to want to pick up your slack if your living a slack life anyway. Just be a man and handle your shit. If it needs to get done, just do it. Letting shit sit around while you wait for her to deal with it and get more resentful towards her is weak as fuck. Once you hold yourself and your life to a higher standard, she will…
/r/askMRP05/12/17 07:38 PM
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He's a big boy, it's not my job to tell him how to live his life. Some people want to live in a weird fantasy world, he's one of them. If or when he asks me what I think, I'll tell him, until then I'll just mind my own business and hang out and do guy shit with him. You can't save everybody.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 12:49 AM
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I was hanging with a friend awhile ago, a couple months after he started dating his current wife. She was out of town at her ex-boyfriends wedding and he was telling me how she is still friends with all of her exes and they talk and hang out frequently. I could tell from the tone in his voice that he wasn't cool with it, but everyone and everything was telling him to get over it, she's a modern woman, it's petty and controlling to care who she hangs out with, she's in a relationship with him, ri…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:53 PM
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The red pill is amoral, so if a guy wants to cheat I don't think anything of it. I just have never personally seen anyone on the red pill advocate threatening to leave a relationship or threatening to cheat in order to get more sex or whatever. One of the principles of the red pill is that a woman is a reflection of her man, meaning that if she doesn't want to have sex, or be submissive or whatever, that it is the man's fault for not being attractive enough, and he should focus on himself instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:27 PM
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Passive dread is simply being attractive. If your wife knows you look great, she will feel a little bit of dread every time she knows you will be around other women, whether she is there or not. Or, you don't have to actually do anything and women will just approach you because you are attractive. Active dread is when you are the one engaging with women and getting positive results (laughing, eye contact, touching...other IOI's) and only works if your girl is there to actually observe these inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:16 PM
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Maybe we will have to agree to disagree, but I think dread game is effective when it causes the woman to up her game to compete with other interested women, not just to keep a man from leaving. I'm not suprised that women in relationships where the men actively lead her to believe they will cheat or leave are unsatisfying. It's the idea that he could leave or cheat very easily because he has options, not that he actually has to directly imply that he will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:38 PM
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They won't feel "dread", but they will feel the need to compete with other potential mates. The definition OP posted isn't correct in my opinion. The goal of dread game is to get the woman to up their game to compete with other women, not up her game to maintain the relationship. The actual definition of dread game on the redpill sub is different from what OP posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:34 PM
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It will depend on the woman, but usually it just means a "committed relationship", like an official boyfriend/girlfriend thing, or marriage. Women need men more than men need women. Women will enter into relationships with men they aren't sexually attracted to just to fill that "relationship" need. Some women want men to pay for her, some women want their man to stop pursuing other women, some women want a man who will enter a legal marriage with her, or a combination of those things. Some women…
/r/askMRP04/12/17 05:18 PM
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Stop using her sexual attraction to you as a form of validation. She will be able to sense it and it will turn her off. And yes, the less you care about what she thinks of you, the more highly she will think of you. Sex or no sex, just focus on yourself and how awesome you are, and can become. The rest will follow. Don't let her possible opinions of you get you down. I did the exact same shit you did and got the exact same results. I'm sure there are tons if guys here who gave the "fuck me or fu…
/r/askMRP04/12/17 05:12 PM
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"Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibilty for female attention is enough to get the hamster going. (If you develop a great body, she knows that other women will find that attractive without having to actually see other women displaying interest.) The purpose of using Dread is to get the target (wife, girlfriend, plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:05 PM
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Yes. Women will have kinky sex with a beta bux in order to keep him around, but it isn't the default setting. Most beta guys I know who date older single mom's have some of the freakiest sex I've ever heard of, but as soon as she gets his commitment, she can drop the act and go starfish once a month while he keeps paying the bills. She might have had a good time once she got going, but she didn't do it out of a genuine attraction to you, she did it because she "had to" to keep you from whining a…
/r/askMRP04/12/17 04:56 PM
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She fucked you because she didn't want to lose her beta bux provider, not because she was actually attracted to you. I prefer to get laid because my girl finds me attractive, instead of just doing enough to keep me around to pay the bills. Was it "dread"? I guess you could call it that, but I wouldn't count it as a win. Having to use manipulation to get laid is a beta quality that I think you should avoid. I did similar stuff before finding the red pill, a lot if us have. It's called the "fuck m…
/r/askMRP04/12/17 04:47 PM
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"Dread game" is a vague term that has no exact definition. You seem to define it as "fearing for your relationship", which the word "dread" would imply. I personally don't like the name "dread game", becsuse of that exact implication. In reality, dread game isn't supposed to make the girl fear for the relationship, it's just supposed to show her that her man has options. It's on the man to reinforce his commitment to the relationship in order to keep her feeling comfortable enough to still be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:51 PM
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In order to maintain a stable long term relationship you need to mix alpha and beta qualities. Dread game works to increase attraction, but if you don't throw some beta comfort on top, then yes, the girl will feel too insecure and less satisfied in the relationship. If you go too hard on dread game, and try to live your life as a player with no softer comforting side, the relationship won't last. Dread game absolutely works to spark attraction, beta comfort absolutely works to keep her feeling s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:22 PM
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So you'd rather be with a man that no other woman wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 09:46 PM
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Women don't use dread because jealousy isn't an attractive thing in men. Women get turned off by guys who are jealous, because it signals insecurity, and usually makes them more attracted to the guy he is jealous about. Same as the sluts vs studs double standard. A woman who gets jealous,is jealous because she feels that her man is wanted by other women, and that will make her find him more attractive. Jealousy in women triggers sexual desire and attraction. If a man gets jealous, it's because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:00 PM
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You need to spend some time listening to patron Saint Patrice. https://youtu.be/wtekgjiqZGY "Nigga she pimping you out" *another good one for you OP https://youtu.be/m1Pl6iqgFVw
/r/askMRP02/12/17 05:35 PM
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You're in her frame and she doesn't like it. She knows that what she does (sex or no sex) will effect you and she is turned off that she had that much control over you. Be outcome independent, stop bringing up sex and trying to get a solid yes or no. Those are worthless anyway. Instead just initiate when you want to, and if she gives you a hard no, give her a kiss on the forehead, stay happy and go do something else or just go to sleep. Stop letting her have control over you through sex.
/r/askMRP02/12/17 02:27 PM
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Very true. I don't know about kids, or divorce, or any of that shit. What I know is how to be a high value man, who is attractive, can engage a girls emotions and get all the quality sex I want and respect from my girl. The things that make a man high value and respected are independent of relationship status. Take my advice or don't, I don't give a fuck either way.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:42 PM
1

No kids
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:37 PM
2

I've been with my girl for almost 15 years. If I'm wrong, please tell me how I'm wrong.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:31 PM
2

No woman will ever love you the way you want to be loved. All women love men based on their value, and nothing more. So yes, if she does fuck you at DL 7.2, it's only because you're at DL 7.2. No woman is going to ever willingly fuck a loser. Get that into your head. Don't hold it against your wife, or think of her as some superficial bitch, she's just a woman, accept it and move on. The more butthurt about it you get, the more it shows you don't understand women. About your relationship, what k…
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:25 PM
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I don't care if my woman makes 100k or 0k a year. I honestly don't think most guys care about money other than a way to survive and get females. Most guys would probably be happy living in a small 1 room apartment living off a minimal wage if sex wasn't a thing. Maybe they'd want some money to travel, but the sole reason I work hard to increase my earning potential is because I want to be able to support a family. If my girl makes 100k that's great, but women aren't as generous with their money …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:00 PM
1

Went on a date with a girl, ended up making out with her at the end of the night. I made the mistake of calling her the next day and being too nice. She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she needed space from me. Proceeded to fuck my best friend a month later and try to date him, when he rejected her she accused him of rape. So I guess I got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:43 PM
1

The red pill has tips and stuff, but it's not something that "works" or "doesn't work". Pick up artistry, which is a part of it will work, or not work. The red pill is just a outline of reality, relating to dating and sex, in terms that are often ignored or suppressed by society and mainstream media. The people who complain about the dating scene aren't complaining that the red pill "doesn't work", they are just frustrated at how the game is set up, especially in today's society where social med…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 06:19 PM
2

Find something that scares you or makes you anxious and do it. You need to start embracing challenge and overcoming them. And I don't mean "approach 5 girls a day" or any of that lame PUA stuff, like something manly. Find something dangerous and just go for it. Amateur auto racing, sky diving, join the military, become a cop, live in the woods for 3 months, I don't know, but hopefully you get my point. Men are built by adversity and overcoming challenges, it sounds like you haven't had any and t…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:03 PM
1

The answer is "no" you fucking retard. Do you want me to hold your dick next time you take a piss too?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 09:10 PM
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Post this on the sub that was created for questions, /r/askmrp. Post your own thoughts in the body of the post and you'll get some answers. If you just resubmit this low effort "straightforward" question with no context or other input, it will probably get removed again.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 08:45 PM
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Post this on /r/askmrp with a little more detail and an actual fleshed out question. This is too vague and low effort for this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 08:39 PM
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Don't make mountains out of molehills just to prove a point. If you have no where else to go, and you and your wife and kids are going to where she said, then she's right, correct? Don't get butthurt because she didn't run it by you. There's a post on the main TRP by /u/Archwinger about being the social dynamo so she doesn't have to be. Look it up and read it. Maybe as you continue improving your wife will actually respect you enough to feel the need to run things by you.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 07:17 PM
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In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king. It's easy to be attractive around unattractive guys. Don't get ahead of yourself "Patrick Bateman". Tell us how you used this to fuck yours or your friends wives, improve yourself or something useful, otherwise you're just sucking your own dick.
/r/askMRP26/10/17 01:56 AM
4

If you speak about it openly you'll lose your job thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 06:05 PM
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Don't overthink this, you basically have two options: Stop giving a fuck, because you're a confident alpha male who doesn't mate guard and you know AWALT and you know if she wants to cheat, she will whether you tell her who she can or can't hang out with. Decide that this is a boundary for you, and tell her that you will not continue being in a relationship with her as long as she violates that boundry by talking and spending time with this other guy. No one here can tell you what you should or …
/r/askMRP23/10/17 02:58 PM
2

Did he hurt your sensitive feelings? Maybe if you weren't such a pussy, your wife would respect you. Your ancestors had to walk and run for miles, survive bad weather and disease and kill dangerous animals with stone and wood tools, and you're getting your panties in a bunch because some guy on the Internet called you a nice guy and a cuck? If you had put in any effort and read the material at all, you would know that women take the shape of the man they are with. Women are the water, men are th…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 08:40 PM
1

It's not.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 12:50 PM
2

Not bad but next time STFU about your emotions and your plan to be a better man. If she thinks you have to try to be an alpha man, she won't think you're an alpha man. Just do it and stop talking, results are all that matter.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 12:34 AM
3

Stop being a pussy and waiting for her to end it. She doesn't want to share you, you want to fuck other girls, so break up with her. You're being a bitch faggot by setting it up like that. "I'm gonna do whatever I want, but if you want to leave YOU have you make that decision because i'm the good guy, I'm just being honest". Be a fucking man about it my dude. Did she hurt your ego by not agreeing to be the complicit madam for the new harem you want to build?
/r/askMRP19/10/17 12:27 PM
11

My mother raised me this way and was a self-proclaimed feminist. It caused me to be weak, submissive and supplicative to others because it was "the right thing to do" and completely hindered my ability to attract females in high school and college to an extent. Imagine my suprise when the guys who bullied others and acted selfishly got all the female attention and sex. It's hard to decode the world when you've been fed lies by the person who is supposed to raise you and teach you how the world w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 04:18 PM
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It doesn't matter how you say it, all that matters is how attractive and valuable you are to her. Tell her whatever you want. I give you props for being able to say "fuck it" and be up front about it. Unless you're incredibly attractive and also socially charming enough for her to be able to rationalize it to her social group, I doubt she'll stick around much longer. Most women I know will choose a 7 who wants a relationship over an 8 who still wants to play the field, but who knows, maybe you'r…
/r/askMRP16/10/17 05:02 PM
2

Yea but you don't do that by bossing little girls around on a city bus.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/17 12:56 AM
1

You went and told a little girl to move her shit, and that's the moral of this story? Don't go too hard on your son for favoring women, it's in his dna. It's modern feminism that has ruined it for both sexes. Also this post is trash and is getting removed. Please don't try so hard next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 11:27 PM
1

Girls vote with their feet.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 04:57 PM
15

Dude just park the car and let her feed the dogs, don't overthink this. If you want to flip it on her, tell her to do something for you while she's inside. "Cool grab me a drink when you're done." or something. My gf does the same kind of tests, where she tells me what to do before something I was already going to do. I'll either ignore her, start doing it, then ask her what she said, or confront her in a playful way and accuse her of being my boss and bossing me around, then escalate in a physi…
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Dude just park the car and let her feed the dogs, don't overthink this. If you want to flip it on her, tell her to do something for you while she's inside. "Cool grab me a drink when you're done." or something. My gf does the same kind of tests, where she tells me what to do before something I was already going to do. I'll either ignore her, start doing it, then ask her what she said, or confront her in a playful way and accuse her of being my boss and bossing me around, then escalate in a physi…
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:52 PM
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"Maybe I should find someone new" is 100% a shit test. My guess is she watched you talking to other women, could sense with her keen social awareness that you were making a conscience effort to flirt with another woman, and decided to test your frame to see how strong it is. Turns out its pretty fucking weak because you made this post. Stop over thinking this shit.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 10:56 PM
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You're asking us what we think you should be more worried about? This is a sad post my man, what kind of place are you in where you need to ask this kind of stuff? /u/red-sfpplus is right, why do you fucking care? A 9 wouldn't be worrying about who his woman will leave him for. Why don't you spend less time worrying about your wife and more time getting your drama and frame in check.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 05:59 PM
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Women will always lie if honesty will make her look bad. From now on, just assume that your woman will say whatever she has to, to make herself look good in the eyes of her social circle (which includes you). Keep reading, this shit shouldn't suprise you. Also, get over your fears and insecurities. I know this place can inspire dread in a lot of guys, but don't get hung up on it. If your woman wants to fuck other guys, there's nothing you can do about it. Worry about yourself only from now on.
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:56 PM
11

Dude you're literally the product of millions of years of evolution and your kids are making you cry in a restaurant? Starting taking control of yourself and your world around you.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 04:59 AM
1

Nah, if men have to shoulder the burden and be responsible for women and the decisions they make we get to do whatever the fuck we want. You can't have it both ways. If a woman CEO is worth it, and makes money, she will be paid accordingly. That's how the free market works. Money talks and bullshit walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 08:56 PM
1

Fair enough, but then women can't bitch about earning less than men, demanding more females in CEO jobs, being allowed to act like sluts without being judged...etc. Men are more than willing to accept responsibility and shoulder the burden, but not while women are yelling at us for being the bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 08:39 PM
1

lol I wish. If men acted like women society would collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 08:30 PM
1

Being uneducated and of a low SES isn't really said as a negative though, more so as "this poor woman, so disadvantaged and now she's burdened by this bad man's child" The men are viewed as evil scumbags, the women as helpless victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:43 PM
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I think most imagine a struggling woman just trying to get by after her evil man left her high and dry. If she strong and independent enough, maybe she'll even sign up for online classes at University of Phoenix or ITT tech, because that will show the evil patriarchy that she doesn't need anyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:37 PM
1

So if a condom breaks, or the girl is "crazy" and lied to the guy about BC, it's his fault for not knowing she was crazy? But if a woman has sex with a known player, it's not her resonsibility at all and she is completely innocent? It's almost like you're saying men are the responsible sex and women should be viewed and treated as irresponsible children. Maybe we're not so different after all, you and I...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:32 PM
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I wish I didn't spend so much time around women, but unfortunately my life is full of them. Not all women are like the women here. Women who will engage in debates on a Internet forum aren't like most women, especially younger women. Single mothers are always given the benefit of the doubt and the man is instantly vilified for not sticking around and "manning up". I have never heard anyone under the age of 70 say anything bad about a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:28 PM
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If he just wanted to take back control of his life and get some respect back, I'd say STFU and do work, but he wants sex, and you don't get laid acting like a mute all day. He's gotta push some buttons in order to get her to feel something towards him, even if it's anger. You're right though, based on this post I can see how it might backfire if he goes too hard or doesn't have the frame to handle it.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 07:25 PM
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I'm not denying men's agency, I'm asking for it to be fair. Right now the state forces men to bare the burden of a woman's decision, as she has the sole authority on whether or not to keep or abort a baby. I just think men should have a little more say in that decision or their role afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:16 PM
2

I know, I'm asking for pigs to fly. It's been a slow day at work....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:07 PM
1

Men end up shouldering the burden for both, but I already think women are children so you're just preaching to the choir. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 07:06 PM
2

The increase in abortion access and safety has made pregnancy much less of a "big deal" for women, and single mothers are hailed as hero's in our society, instead of failures. Now when a woman gets pregnant she bases her decision on how much she wants to be with the guy for 18yrs or not. Do you think a woman who gets pregnant by an NFL player will run to the abortion clinic? Hell no, she'll use that baby as a way to be a female in an alpha males life for the next 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:58 PM
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That's why we need to bring slut shaming and societal standards of decency for women back again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:54 PM
0

I get my impressions of women from women I know. That is almost an exact quote from a girl that my gf knows, except the teehee, that was just me having a laugh. I'd prefer women be more careful about who they have sex with and stop having to accept almost no responsibility for their actions. Women gets pregnant and keeps it despite man not wanting to be involved: "You go girl! Take that deadbeat to court and make him pay what he owes" Women gets pregnant and gets an abortion: "You go girl, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:52 PM
2

With no regard for how the fire started? Let's not look back, let's just hand this guy the bill and call it a day /s. I don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:48 PM
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I see your point, but he needs to do something to get his spine back. Like ripping the bandaid off. Maybe not piss her off, but a good tease or something else might be a good starting point.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 06:46 PM
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If a woman gets pregnant, and the man wants her to abort, and she refuses, she can still make him responsible for that child. If she decides she does not want the child, and the man does, she can abort anyway. It sounds like the man is just as responsible with far fewer rights in the matter. It's almost like men have to shoulder the burden of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:42 PM
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Girl: "I set this building on fire, can someone come put it out? Let's not worry about how it started, or who is responsible, it's already happened, let's just move past that and you guys can put it out for me? K thanks" I feel for your brother, but removing all agency from the woman is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:37 PM
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Yeah but she reeaalllyy likes this guy and just knows he'd make a great father after he gets over it. Teehee... And if not he will be stuck being a part of her life forever, or at the very least the next 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:34 PM
2

I agree that my ideas are only good in theory and would never work in reality. Women will always need to be subsidized by men in order to survive. Even men are better at being single parents than women. Society would collapse because the streets would fill up with homeless single mothers and their bastard children. Men have to shoulder the burden, I'm just asking for a little credit, at the very least, and maybe some personal responsibility from the women's end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:29 PM
3

Don't stick dick in crazy Why is there no focus on the girl's not getting pregnant by some player fuckboy? It's almost like men are supposed to be the responsible sex and women have no agency over their decisions...hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:25 PM
3

What if the condom breaks, or the girl lies about being infertile or on BC? The guy is just screwed? Tough luck pal, better luck next time lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:23 PM
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I've personally known 2 women who have lied to men about birth control in order to get pregnant. Women have too much control in these situations and that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:17 PM
2

Yes, but the mother is the one with 100% complete control over whether or not the baby is born. The men have zero say in that decision, yet are forced to deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:52 PM
3

A situation the mother had complete control over when she decided to keep the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:50 PM
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Or both parties need to accept responsibility after the fact. If a man impregnates a woman, and wants her to keep the baby and she refuses, then he should have picked a better partner or known her better. If a woman wants to keep a baby a man doesn't want to provide for, she should accept that she made a mistake and accept the consequences. Feminism seems to be about decreasing risks and consequences for women. Maybe if women had to think twice about the consequences of having sex they would mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:42 PM
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By your logic then, a woman has no right to complain if she chooses to fuck a guy she doesn't know well enough, and pursue childsupport when he doesn't want to be a parent. She should have known him well enough to know whether he would stick around as father or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:31 PM
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Women have just as much control, if not more, over whether or not a child is conceived. Maybe she lies about being on birth control, or says she is unable to get pregnant and traps the man. So now he is basically a slave to the whims of a crazy woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:14 PM
2

True. I guess my point is to be an asshole, but don't try to be an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 05:11 PM
2

This is was I did OP, and I had no prior lifting experience. Download the app, watch videos on YouTube about correct form and just start with the bar. If you're really unsure then get warmed up to lifting by doing body weight exercises for a week or two before you get into weights. 45lbs isn't that much, I'm sure you can lift it at least once, then go back again and lift it twice...etc. The most important thing is not making up bullshit excuses and just do fucking something. Do pushup's today wh…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 05:08 PM
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I agree, it's good in theory but will never work in practice for the reasons you stated. Men will always need to subsidize the female population to an extent, especially single mothers. It's nice to dream though...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:04 PM
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Tact implies that you're making an effort to consider her feelings and avoid negative emotions. It's better to have a woman be pissed off at you than feel nothing. It's very difficult to be assertive, dominant and cocky without coming across as an "asshole" some of the time. A strong but emotionless robot isn't any fun, a cocky arrogant asshole is fun, if you're a woman, even though they say they hate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 05:01 PM
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Do you think a man should be required to pay child support if he wanted the woman to get an abortion and she refused? It only seems fair that if a woman has complete control over her body, a man should have complete control over his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 04:50 PM
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You need to stop feeling uncomfortable around your wife before anything else. Stop giving a fuck about her feelings or what she thinks of you. As long as you have her as a concern on your mind, it won't matter what you do because you'll be doing it within her frame. My advice is to go home tonight and piss your wife off on purpose. Nothing too crazy or nuclear, but you have to be comfortable making her upset, and letting her stay upset. Be independent of her instead of trying to figure her out f…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 04:42 PM
1

In today's society, yes. In the "society" that our sexual impulses are based in, it's better to have 10 so 2 can survive. Again, sexual desires are rooted in primal instinct, not modern life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 09:59 PM
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Our sexual impulses are ancient and based on nature, not the earth as humans have made it to be today. In ancient times, the man who has 10 children from 10 different women is much more likely to have a child who is immune to a certain disease, not allergic to something, is tall or strong enough to fight and kill, is smart enough to plan ahead and survive a harsh winter. The whole concept of committed relationships, child support, college funds doesn't mean shit when it comes to sexual attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:34 PM
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I think you're mistaking "feminine men" with men who just have a more defined facial bone structure. Personality wise, women will choose a John Wayne or a Bruce Willis all day over an emotional man who cries and feels uncomfortable making decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:14 PM
4

Yea but men and women vary greatly in the things they consider "respectable" in the opposite sex. This isn't something you can just generalize as "people" and not just women. Women care a lot about how much their men make, and men don't really care at all about how much their women make. So yes, "people" don't respect those that are inferior to them, but it's not so simple. My gf could make 200k a year or 0k a year and I won't lose any respect for her. If I lose my job and make 0k a year, she wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:44 PM
1

What was your point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:38 PM
2

Yea but a lot of guys don't understand what traits and qualities women actually respect, or that women even need to respect a man to be attracted to him. Too many guys think a woman's love is as simple and pure as a man's love, when it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:03 PM
1

Having children with multiple women increases generic variability and increases the odds that your children will go on and be successful. It's biology, it's not a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:57 PM
0

It's also exciting, dangerous, uncontrollable...etc All the feelings women love to experience. You'll have to be gushing with those emotions if you want to keep a woman who makes more than you satisfied in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:48 PM
2

I disagree about the "better social background". A wealthy woman will gladly hook up with a lower class artist or musician or even drug dealer if he is out on the town, and being social every weekend. Having a rich and well connected background is good for a beta bux, but it doesn't create sexual attraction which is what will keep a woman who earns more than you happy in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:36 PM
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Be very attractive, charming and have a greater and more active social life. I think the physical attraction and active social life are the most important. It doesn't matter how much money you make if you're the guy who is always at the center of the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:29 PM
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I wouldn't care but she would eventually lose respect for me unless I made up for the value loss in other ways (social value, physical/attractive value, personality...etc). Having a woman who makes more just means you have to increase your value in other areas to make sure she still respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:21 PM
4

Good on you brother, congrats for not being a pussy anymore. Embrace the struggle and enjoy the rewards.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 06:31 PM
1

"Reclaiming what is rightfully mine" Life doesn't owe you shit, and nothing is rightfully yours. The only thing you're guranteed in life is death. Stop focusing on all the things you don't have and take time to appreciate the things you do have. Children are born every day who literally exist, the starve to death 3 days later, and you're bitching because you think you're owed a better life? Cut the bullshit, accept your place in life and make the best of it, it's the only one you're ever going t…
/r/askMRP14/09/17 12:45 PM
1

Men take action, women are passive and usually only act on men. Men manipulate the environment, women manipulate men. Some men manipulate the environment in negative ways. That's also why most female criminals are acting at the behest of a male who is calling the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 06:43 PM
1

/r/marriedredpill /r/theredpill Shut the fuck up until you've read the sidebars on both subreddits.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:28 PM
3

You're trying to put together a plan that will get your wife to (love/fuck/suck...etc) you more. Stop worrying about your wife and focus on you. You're obviously not worthy of getting her respect, or her nudes, so what are you going to do to change that? It will take more than a witty text response. Stop being lazy and put in work.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 05:31 PM
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I agree with smokecheck, that you should address it before it weakens your frame any further, but I think a little more context is needed. How did you find out she's buying him gifts? How far is she going to actually "hide" this behavior from you? How do you know she doesn't buy gifts for all of her co-workers? How expensive are the gifts? Like, a $100 watch, or a 5 dollar gag gift? My response is based on worst case scenario that she is actively hiding it from you, he is the only one she buys g…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 05:27 PM
6

Your wife does not find you sexually attractive, and she does not respect you. In fact, she probably feels physically disgusted any time you make any effort to be sexual with her. You seem like a clingy, needy pussy and you base your life around validation from your wife who only views you as a chump she can exploit for resources. No amount of quick tips, easy responses, or step by step plans will make your wife respect you, or be attracted to you. Stop making "quick advice" posts, you lazy fuck…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 05:04 PM
5

Prostitution being illegal is the male end of state and society enforced monogamy. Back when society encouraged men and women to marry each other and create stable families (the evil patriarchy), prostitution was outlawed to keep men staying faithful to their women. It's the equivalent of how slutty women used to be shamed, instead of formed into parades. Now that being a slut is openly accepted and the family unit is dying, let's do men a solid and legalize prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 07:42 PM
3

Look her in the eyes and tell her "don't say shit about my family". Maintain eye contact until she looks away first and if she's mad, let her be mad. Don't argue, don't explain yourself. Just tell her she's out of line and you won't tolerate it.
/r/askMRP09/09/17 01:45 PM
1

"I happen to be incredibly more incisive and cutting when I lose my temper" AKA, I'm a bigger cunt than my wife. That's not anything to be proud of my dude. Turn your bitchiness into charm and sharp wit and you'll have something. I think your problem is that you respect your wife too much, and you put to much weight and value in her words. You realize you're supposed to be better than her, right? http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/2015/03/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in-house.html?m=1 Read…
/r/askMRP09/09/17 01:37 PM
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You're focused too much on sex and the validation you get from it. It's a tough cycle to break but I don't think telling your wife about a celibate period is the way to go. First off, it just sounds fucking lame. Women want masculine strong men who are built to fuck. Telling her you want to not have sex sounds like some beta nu-male Huffington post bullshit. I totally understand why you want to just remove the option all together, but I don't think it will work. You're like a heroin addict who i…
/r/askMRP09/09/17 01:29 PM
11

Be honest and don't get butthurt. My family partially hates my gf as well, but I choose her, so therefore that means I value her over my family, which I do. Own your decision to be with this woman and have her back a little more. I won't tolerate blatant disrespect, but if she calls it like it is, I'll agree, we'll laugh and feel closer to each other because of it. My dad is a huge dork who buckles under any pressure, her dad is a narcissistic drunk and her brother is a man-child. No body is per…
/r/askMRP09/09/17 01:22 PM
2

Only the other men that are better than you. I react the same way I do when I see a bird fly or a fish swim.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 05:58 PM
9

I'll tell you what your wife doesn't have the heart to tell you. She doesn't find you attractive enough to want to look good for you. She has no desire to have sex with you, so why would she go out of her way to seduce you? She'll put out just enough to keep her beta-bux around, but that's it. Confronting her won't magically inspire her to become attracted and actively pursue you like she would an attractive and high SMV man. Don't call her out, keep working on yourself, your game and becoming m…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 03:55 PM
17

She didn't want to fuck you, what more do you really need to know? Move on and find something better to do.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:49 PM
9

"I have no idea, a lot was said" That's where you fucked up. Never give a straight answer, justify yourself, or explain your actions during a shit test. This was a guy conversation between you and your friend, she has no business listening in, so anything she hears is free reign for you to mess with her. I would have pressure flipped her: "Yea I'm talking about a side chick, are you jealous?" Then tease her from there. Or something foolish, if you don't want to get too real. I like to go with al…
/r/askMRP07/09/17 04:14 AM
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Good job figuring this shit out and finally understanding the true nature of women. However, don't get too caught up in tracking software and surveillance and all that shit. You're better off giving less fucks going forward than more. By all means, trust but verify, but don't get sucked in at the expense of your sanity. Focus on yourself first and foremost always.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 04:06 AM
4

It would have but don't sweat it. "I like your boobs" is still better than listening with concern and offering emotional support. All that matters now with your wife is that you own it and don't give a fuck.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 12:36 AM
3

Something robots can't do
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:17 AM
1

Don't be afraid to piss her off
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:16 AM
3

"I like your boobs" is too direct, next time dance around that shit. Always leave an out for plausible deniability so you can flip it on her and make her seem like a perv for thinking that. Innuendos and shit. You just came off as a horny school boy. You fucked up but it's better to fuck up going too hard than too soft. Just own it, downplay it and make jokes. Throw in a little comfort and tease her and you should be straight.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 12:07 AM
3

You're failing this shit test so hard. Can't you see that she is fucking with you and literally couldn't care less about how you feel, only how much weakness she can get you to show? She's either fucking you good enough to justify the bullshit or she's not. With all her bullshit she better be fucking you good as fuck or its not worth it.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 01:25 AM
1

I know I could get it easily elsewhere if I wanted, so if get turned down or whatever, it really doesn't bother me. The less I care about sex with her, the more she'll want to give it to me though.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 02:05 PM
1

I think it's because you depend on her too much. I know in my own life, if I have something that I need my girl to handle and she's pissed, it might compromise her ability to add value to my life and do what I want her to do. I used to depend on her for sex, cooking, cleaning and other basic shit, but once I started just handling it, and realized I can do anything she can do, but better, I stopped having to depend on her so much and became more comfortable messing with her and pissing her off.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 01:08 PM
7

Whenever my girlfriend gets a new friend, I invite her over and give a demonstration of my alpha qualities. I have slides and diagrams that show how my posture and body language match those of a confident alpha male. Then I dry hump the ottoman while R. Kelly plays in the background. I thought everyone was doing this.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 01:05 PM
5

I just fuck with girls when they ask about my height. I'm the same height as you. "How tall are you?" is the biggest shit test I get. I try to reply like one of those manlet memes. "I'm 5'9" then pretend I'm serious and accuse her of being 4'8 or some shit. Just don't take it seriously and fuck around with them. Avoid answering questions truthfully and directly.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:57 AM
1

OP right now you're at butthurt level 9000, and that's exactly your problem. You give too may fucks. Chill the fuck out and let her be mad, stop being a pussy. Also read the sidebar for fucks sake.
/r/askMRP02/09/17 10:30 PM
7

It was a shit test to see if you're cool and confident enough to actually pick up girls while you're out. Your response told her "no, I'm not cool enough. Don't worry". As a general rule, if the comment is about "you", it's a shit test. If it's about "her" or "me", it's a comfort test. "I don't feel loved" "I don't feel good enough for you" "I'm worried about what you're up to". Those are comfort tests, and they are said with a serious tone. I mean shit, she even used a snarky little emoji, so y…
/r/askMRP02/09/17 05:49 PM
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No, overt communication is a turn off for women. Also, if she cheats with a chad, it's because that chad is better than you in some way, explaining that to her won't make her want him any less. However women do get turned on by a man who "gets it" and understands the true nature of women. Use subtle comments and subtext to show her you know her in and out. For example, most women like to have rough sex and get dominated by a man. Bad example: "You like being fucked hard because I'm a big strong …
/r/askMRP01/09/17 09:41 PM
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Every woman will nag a man who responds to nagging. This post is proof that her nagging gets to you. You care way too much about what she thinks and she doesn't like it. You need to become comfortable pissing her off and playing with her while she's pissed off.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 07:19 PM
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Yes, if I feel like it.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:05 PM
1

If you were better than him and you knew it, you wouldn't give a shit about him. If he can kick your ass, get bigger and stronger, if he has a better personality, get funnier and more charismatic, if he makes more money, increase you income or learn how to be confident with what you have. This is all shit you should have been doing all along. Also, don't talk bad about this guy to your wife. Alpha males don't have enemies, and if they do they are other alpha males. The more you bitch about this …
/r/askMRP31/08/17 06:25 PM
2

Nature favors the successful, so stop being a fat bitch and start creating your own success. I was a niceguy like you too, I still am but I make sure I'm the nicest to myself first.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 06:04 PM
2

Two cavemen throw their spears at a boar and they both miss. One caveman immediately starts thinking about how he can improve his spear, the other gets frustrated and emotional. Which man is more likely to survive and thrive? Nobody is perfect, everybody fucks up. All that matters is what you do about it going forward. You can be emotional and angry but if you never get over it and adapt you're going to die like the caveman with the shitty spear.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 05:59 PM
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You sound like a faggot tbh my dude. 90% of your post is you gushing about the women in your life. You're not a man, you're a boy following around his next mommy. Every other sentence was some lame shit about some bitch in your life. Get over that shit and realize you're the only one that matters. Women are accessories to a man, and right now you're talking about them like they're the center piece. No wonder your wife doesn't respect you, you're a pathetic thirsty beta boy who gets his balls in …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 01:51 AM
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You should always want to be the best, most fun and awesome version of yourself. If you try on purpose to impress others it will ultimately come off as fake and pathetic. Just keep doing you. All women do this, all they care about is social value, and how much of it they have. They get most of it through their man. Women view men the way men view jobs. This is just female nature, hypergamy...etc
/r/askMRP21/08/17 03:31 AM
2

Great post, it reminds me of an article I read awhile back that basically says the same thing. https://www.livescience.com/3938-creative-types-sex-partners.html Creativity is hot. It's easy to get stuck just being good at what you're good at. Branch out and take risks, women love that shit, as long as you don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 06:25 AM
1

Also stop talking about being selfish like it's a bad thing. I know it's wrong in the eyes of god, if that's your thing, but in the eyes of nature and women it's the best possible survival strategy. Do it more often. You can be selfish and good at the same time.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 05:32 AM
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You give way too many fucks. Next time she call's you like that, A&A with "suckin dick" or "what's up slut". You have to let that shit roll off your back in the moment. If you gotta be a little gay to show her you don't care, so be it. About her wanting to come over, I would have just gone with you. A confident guy with a strong frame can adapt to shit. If you try to set a boundary or be a hardass over dumb shit it just makes you look stupid. Girls vote with their feet, so if she wants to be aro…
/r/askMRP19/08/17 01:02 AM
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I second this. A lot of people treat college like highschool 2.0, instead of the foundation for how successful you'll be for the rest of your life. Spend more time getting to know professors and those that can help you and add value to your life, and don't focus too hard on spending time chasing girls. After you graduate you'll need people to vouch for you and act as references. The tenured professor with a Ph.D is a much better reference than your boss at the McDonald's where you worked on week…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:27 PM
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I generally agree. The red pill claims that most guys are losers and as long as you're in the top 20% that you'll do alright, but what guys seem to forget is that a good chunk of the bottom percent never go out and are barely even members of society. So yes, I would agree that tall attractive people are more likely to be places where social interaction's with women occur because they have more success and enjoy it more than a 400lb virgin.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:21 PM
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You're way too far up her ass my man. I know you think you have some special woman, because you've known her for so long, but you don't. She is just like every other woman. Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. She thinks you're a pussy, because you are, and she also probably thinks you're a loser because it seems like you put a lot of your time and energy into her. You need to get to a place where if she walked up and told you she was done, you'd say "OK bye" without a second glance. As long …
/r/askMRP18/08/17 08:54 PM
1

Get to the point where your smv is so high that any interaction you have with a woman counts as flirting, then you can just claim you're only being social. The best kind of flirting is where you're being yourself and the girls are coming onto you.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 03:41 AM
1

You don't force your leadership onto her, you do your own thing and if she follows great, if not, great. This is about you, not her.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 06:09 PM
2

Divorce her and quit being a pussy. Don't over complicate shit with plan A, B and C. Be a fucking man and make a fucking decision. You either want to be with her or you don't.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 11:38 PM
1

I don't fuck my friends girls because I value their friendship over pussy.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 11:13 PM
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Dude what the fuck are you on about? I really hope English isn't your native language. What exactly is your question? So one of your plates is hanging out with another girl that you know? What's the problem here.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 04:26 PM
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Stop trusting other people to put your best interests forward just because you "assert" yourself and ask them. These sound like legal/contractual issues. Asking nicely, or even assertively won't do shit. You need to take it upon yourself to understand your options, and choose the one that best benefits you. Just demanding others to bend to your will is pointless.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 04:56 PM
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Life's hard, if you can't handle it buy a helmet. There are humans every day who are born, get bitten by flies and starve to death 5 days later. What are you crying about? Go watch Dawson's Creek and stare contemplatingly at a lake until you discover the meaning of life.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:31 PM
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10/10
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:27 PM
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Women love guys that other women want. She's not actually disgusted by you, she likes it. The fact that you are believing her words at face value tells me you need to read more and get a better understanding of the true nature of women. She is testing you to see if you still have the alpha traits she likes. It doesn't matter if you've fucked 100 girls ten years ago if you're a pussy beta faggot now. Stop taking her words at face value and own your shit in a cocky and funny way. If you're not com…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:23 PM
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So....you are a pussy and don't know how to handle her emotions and that's why you lied?
/r/askMRP07/08/17 01:53 PM
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Why did you lie about fucking the model girl? And why were you so defensive in the car? It's almost like you're a giant pussy who is afraid of upsetting his woman and doesn't know how to handle her emotions. "She's a friend, yea we used to hook up, but I'm all yours now baby" or something like that would have been a million times better than sitting silently in a car like an autistic mute. Honestly, this is your girls thought... "Wow, that's a hot girl on my guys phone. That means he is high val…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 01:42 PM
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Sing along with her. Put your arm around her and steal her thunder and she'll be gone faster than lightning. If she sticks around you can hook up with her friends.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:09 AM
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Do you my man. Just know that every decision you make is your own and no one gives a shit about you but you. Good luck.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:36 AM
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"Groomsmen" lol keep reading bro
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:27 AM
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For the record, I don't believe your written account is 100% accurate, you James Bond wannabe motherfucker, but that doesn't matter. If you handled this situation at 20% of what you said here, than nice work. There's a lot of criticism for women on the red pill, and the women in your life absolutely deserve to be held to a high standard, but don't always fall for the "bros before ho's" meme. I've known many guys who I considered friends and have known longer than my girl, but for whatever reason…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 01:02 AM
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"She will make me" She doesn't make you do shit bruh, she just prompts you and you fall for it every time. That shit is on you. Repeat yourself once, then tease her 9 times, I bet you'll get less angry.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:04 PM
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Yea, and if evolution didn't exist and everyone was just 100% perfectly adapted to their environment, wouldn't that be great? Wouldn't it also be great if we didn't need to eat or breath to live? How sweet would it be if we could fly? This is a good thought, but it's just day dreaming about an unachievable utopia type society. Humans are animals, animals have to fight to survive. A man with a proven record of violence will always be favored to win over someone with no history of violence, and wo…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 12:40 PM
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Yea she called you neighbor because she doesn't want to fuck you. You're a beta male in the friend zone. What the fuck did you expect? Keep improving yourself, if she brings it up at the party laugh about it, but don't apologize or backdown, and spend the rest of your time talking to other girls and new people.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:45 PM
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It's not a big deal, move on with your life. The bigger deal is that you're so worried about breaking/violating some social taboo that you're sweating over calling some girl sexy. Stop being a pussy my dude and own that shit. If she looked sexy, there's nothing wrong with letting her know, the only mistake you can make would be turning into a giant pussy about it.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:29 PM
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Drop her, or spend the rest of your life living in this guy's shadow. Even if you do manage to become more alpha than him, you'll never be better than the version of him she remembers through rose colored glasses. And for fucks sake hit the gym you fat fuck.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:22 PM
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Women want a rock, not a soft squishy pillow. You can tell me I'm wrong and an asshole or whatever, but my evening last night ended with a BJ while I watched tv, yours ended with you wife ignoring you on your birthday. Give the selfish asshole lifestyle a chance, what do you honestly have to lose? I thought it was common knowledge by now that nice guys finish last. *read this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3x3tzd/women_want_a_rock_not_an_equal/
/r/askMRP31/07/17 12:40 PM
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Stop thinking so much about her and her emotions and shit. Women love guys who literally couldn't care less about them. Do your own fucking thing man, if you want to bring her along, great, if you don't, great. Stop asking and prodding her issue, she probably doesn't even know what they are herself. Instead stop giving a fuck, keep becoming more awesome and share some of that with her if you choose.
/r/askMRP31/07/17 12:21 PM
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You sound like you know your shit. Start focusing on yourself 100% and stop giving so many fucks about her. From now on everything you do is for the benefit of you and you alone. Anything good you do for others is because of your own benevolence. I wouldn't give her a penny unless it was for something I wanted too. She doesn't want a partner, or a buddy, she wants a leader, and sometimes leaders have to be tough, but in the end they don't give a fuck because they know they're right. Remember, sh…
/r/askMRP29/07/17 01:31 AM
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It doesn't sound like you know this guy very well, I'd be careful telling him too much. I have 5 or 6 guys I consider "good friends" and there's only 1 of them I would actually talk to straight up about this red pill shit. You never know what they will tell their women, and if they tell her the wrong things, and it gets back to your girl, you're fucked. It's not your job or obligation to go around and save every guy you can. I know it's tough, I've seen some of my GF's friends husbands just act …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 03:24 PM
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"A man of my level".... lol dude get over yourself. Your superior "level" huh? Is that the level where spoiled bitches throw temper tantrums because they don't have the balls to handle a woman? No one gives a fuck about you and no one owes you shit, especially not your wife. She'd rather fuck a charming bum who still lives in his mom's basement than your whiny beta ass. Your money and career don't mean shit if you can't make women feel attracted to you. About your anger issues, get the fuck over…
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:02 PM
3

Go to the gym
/r/askMRP25/07/17 03:22 AM
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An open marriage is cuck tier shit if you ask me. Women will naturally lose respect for a man who still loves and provides for a woman who is getting slammed by other guys. She will know you're only sticking around because your trapped and don't have the balls to leave. A real man would just say "fuck it" and leave her ass.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 12:10 PM
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Fucking leave her ass then. What's the point of this post? Do it or don't, but quit being a bitch about it, make a decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 06:48 AM
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I like "you're welcome" instead of oops
/r/askMRP22/07/17 09:28 PM
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Say no, then tell her if she buys it you're just going to throw it away. But be happy and laugh about it, don't be whiny or butthurt about it, and be ready to pass the shit test she'll probably throw at you soon after.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 08:38 PM
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Doing this for you, and having a mindset of fear of failure don't really add up, which is it? I don't really believe you're doing this for you, you're doing this so you can get more out of your wife and your relationship, and you're afraid it might not work or you'll screw it up. Stop caring about screwing up with your wife, or your relationship and just focus on becoming an attractive guy, then live your life as a attractive guy. Nothing else matters.
/r/askMRP21/07/17 07:32 PM
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In my opinion, 90% of weak frames are caused by men who are too scared or pussy to actually walk away from a relationship. I think you may have the same problem. You don't want her to do this shit because you're scared you will actually have to enforce the boundary you set. She knows you're scared so she's testing you and calling your bluff. There's nothing you can do other than actually not give a fuck, and be ready and willing to drop her ass if she violates a boundary you have. Instead of dis…
/r/askMRP21/07/17 07:22 PM
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If she wants to fuck another guy, she'll do it regardless of whether or not you care about it and throw a temper tantrum. Sitting around worrying about it won't do shit, it will actually make it worse. Don't be so fucking insecure, is this the only girl on the planet you can get? I doubt it. Chill the fuck out, go do your own manly shit, and let her have fun with her girlfriends. Nothing is more beta than sitting around pissing yourself at the thought of another guy.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 12:24 PM
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In the mind of your woman, this is what's going on: "An alpha males friends naturally respect his girl because they fear upsetting him or the social hierarchy. His friends don't respect me, therefore they must not respect him." If they are actively disrespecting your girl, it's killing your value and you need to either fix it, call it out or find a new social group.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 11:47 PM
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Check out this post by /u/Archwinger, it's about your role in your girls social life. It's not exactly the same, but I think you could learn a lot from it. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3uuxzp/be_a_social_dynamo_so_she_doesnt_have_to_be/
/r/askMRP13/07/17 09:34 PM
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Are your friends all women? They sound like a bunch of catty bitches. My friends would never purposefully snub my girl, but they won't go out of their way to make her feel comfortable and accepted. Are you sure you're not asking too much from your friends? Honestly, if it were me and my friend group, I would just call them out in a joking way. Get it all out there, that's the good thing about guy friends (usually), the catty bullshit isn't there because everything is out in the open. If you thin…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 07:51 PM
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"I tried to explain that to her" Quit this shit. She doesn't care, she'll never care and she will never understand in a logical and rational manner. The only thing you should be worried about is how you're making her feel. You can't tell her how to feel, or explain to her why she feels a certain way, so don't even try. Just get her in the emotional state you want or learn to play off of it.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 03:27 PM
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I think you handled it well, just keep on maintaining frame. Lots of guys in relationships have tinder just to fuck around with text game. It's basically just an app to meet people, the sex implication is just a part of it. I would continue to provide some cocky funny attitude with a lot of comfort. Don't apologize, but provide plenty of hugs and make some jokes. Patrice O'neal has this joke that I like and I'm about to butcher. You can find it on YouTube if you look but I'm too lazy right now. …
/r/askMRP13/07/17 03:12 PM
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"Since she'll be able to have empathy" Don't hold your breath my man. I think you should expect nothing more than a little extra income, a lot of complaining and a wife that still doesn't respect you. You know her better than I do, so I hope I'm wrong, but either way good luck.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 03:11 AM
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If it benefits you, I think it's a good idea. Just don't turn into a jealous little bitch when she starts talking about how funny her guy coworker is, or going out with her new friends sometimes. If she's not getting that validation from Facebook, she will probably get it somewhere else. I personally think you need to get her to respect you a little more. If she doesn't have the motivation to help you out now, she sure as shit won't when she's also one of the "breadwinners". My girl has a couple…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 01:17 AM
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That was a very general and basic example to prove my point. Also, I believe that women would choose the supervisor even if he made the same amount as the employees. I know that would never happen, but it's just something to think about. Women crave powerful men. I never understood when bluepillers claim that the red pill is wrong. It's basically a framework for how to be successful with women. If it didn't make guys more successful with women, why is it so popular and continuing to grow? The am…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:16 PM
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You never answered my question, you do know that 100% of women would prefer a man in a supervisor position over a man in the employee position, all other things variables removed, right? That is a fact of nature, why wouldn't you want to explore it a little and think about how you can apply that to your own life? That's funny, because this is where TBP loses its steam for me. Humans are animals, our behaviors, especially when it comes to mate selection and reproduction are very predictable, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 06:47 PM
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That's why the 80/20 rule exists. There are only so many powerful guys, and all the women want them. Also yes, any guy with a boss will have his wife be attracted to that boss over her own husband, solely because of his professional power over him. She might not cheat, and maybe her husband is more attractive, has more friends or whatever, but that innate power is something women will respect and be drawn too. Of course other variables matter, but power is an important part of the equation that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:34 PM
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In every way. Woman want guys who wake up and have the world at their finger tips, who are in complete command and control of their surroundings. They get off at the thought of society bending to their man's will. That's why power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Women are attracted to powerful men, and they enjoy when powerful men use their power over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:10 PM
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It won't take long to find one that is receptive to it, I guarantee that. The assertion is based on what works in the real world. The difference between TRP and TBP is that TRP actually goes out and tries things, gauges the success and proceeds accordingly. The bluepill just makes counter arguments. If the stuff we say on TRP didn't work, guys wouldn't do it. It's not something you "do", it's just reality. Women want to be with a man who is better than them, that is why they respond so positivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:41 PM
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I demand exactly what I'm worth, and she gives it. However it's not fair to her for me to demand more than she can give. I wouldn't throw a fish on dry land and expect it to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:31 PM
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I don't wonder at all. Girls are treated special from birth. They exist in a bubble of inherent value. That bubble stiffles their emotional maturity. I used to treat my girl as my emotionally mature equivalent, but it didn't work for my relationship and it didn't work for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:23 PM
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True, but only if the guy has enough value. Women would rather be treated OK by an awesome guy, than be treated awesome by an OK guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:19 PM
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This is another difference between TRP and TBP that I don't agree with. The bluepill has this idea that all women are unique and different, and if a woman is being a bitch, that she's just a bitch and that's the end of it. Why is there no focus on the guys behaior? Women act very nice and sweet towards guys they are attracted to and respect, and cold and nasty to guys they don't respect. It's not that she's just a "bitch", she is just responding to the type of guy she is around. The reality is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:09 PM
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"Be nice to them" This is where the red pill and blue pill differ the most. The bluepill agrees with the advice on self improvement, but the mentality they try to push is one that creates guys who are "relationship" material. The red pill tries to create guys that are "fucking" material. You have a much better chance of hooking up with a girl the same night you meet her by being a cocky asshole, over being a nice guy. The bluepill gets guys into the relationship door, but then it falls apart aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:54 PM
1

I'm a 4'8" Mexican gangster from the Southside of L.A.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:44 PM
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Yea her friends are constantly shit testing their boyfriends and husbands, sometimes with literal shit. I feel sorry for them. Glad I was able to leave an impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:39 PM
1

How they highlight posts of guys who are are fucking up, and post with a question about it. They will get called out by red pill guys for fucking up, but the bluepill will post about it, like it's redpill truth to act that way. Say for example a guy posts about not getting enough sex from his wife, so he tries to lie about some hot girl at work hitting on him, or he'll get butthurt and whine about it, or he'll make some other weird comment about the hot neighbor or something. The red pill guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:13 PM
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You give way too many fucks about this girl, and she knows it.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:26 PM
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My LTR doesn't do this, because she knows it's inappropriate to hit up guys like that. I'm sure she would love the attention from random guys online, but it's not worth it to her to risk losing me over something like this. She also doesn't have social media like snapchat, so I don't really know how that shit works. She's mid 20s and I'm early 30s. You either haven't properly laid down boundries, aren't attractive enough to be able to back up those boundries, or she doesn't give enough of a shit …
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:04 PM
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The only thing you have in a relationship as a man is the power to walk away. Why would you willingly give that up, or make it exponentially more difficult?
/r/askMRP11/07/17 03:44 PM
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Here is where you're fucking up, she doesn't actually want a man who can do everything to her standards, she wants a man who doesn't give a fuck about her standards, and has the balls and the confidence to not let it bother him. The only way to win her standards game is not to play. You need to become comfortable having your wife be pissed off at you and not giving a fuck. Also, stop seeking her validation, she isn't your mom or your teacher. You are a red pilled man, you should be holding yours…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:18 PM
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I'd say you got a C+ on that shit test. You didn't comply like a bitch, but the stupid comment was over the top and sounded kind of butthurt. She's a woman, she has the emotional maturity of a child, of course she's going to say stupid shit. As a man who understands the nature of women, this shouldn't be a suprising or noteworthy observation. I would have A&A, and made a stupid joke about being a bellhop or accepting tips or something. Then you can spin it into a subtle innuendo, and if she bite…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:53 PM
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Money is just like any other valuable resource, as long as she is bringing her share of value to the relationship, pay whatever you want. I used to pay everything because I made a lot more than my girl, so I made sure she kept my place clean, made me lunch and did other shit to make sure she wasn't leeching value from me. As long as you are able to spend your money from within your own frame, you'll be fine. That means that she doesn't get to tell you when and how you spend money, and on what. I…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:44 PM
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It doesn't bother me because I make sure I'm getting equal or greater value from my girl. The more I do, the better her life will be. She knows that she has to add as much value to my life, otherwise I'll find someone else who will. If she's not adding enough value, hold her to a higher standard, and make sure you're at a high enough level to be able to back up that standard.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 05:59 PM
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"Asking for something you really want" Your problem is that you want it too much. Women are attracted to studs, studs fuck all the time. If one woman turns him down it doesn't matter because he fucked two girls the day before. So just laugh it off and find something else to do.
/r/askMRP08/07/17 02:58 PM
1

I don't know exact rates, you may be correct, but two girls from my highschool class of 400 people have decided to "single parent". One adopted and one got pregnant through a donor and IVF. Now all they do is post pics of their kid in the latest coolest clothes and toys that their parents got for their grandkid. 2 out of 400 is still small, but I wouldn't count this out as some small fringe group who will never gain any steam. Women don't need beta bux men anymore, these women have full time job…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:54 PM
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I think it's weird that your wife showed you this stuff. I think she saw what we do here, and liked it and wanted to show you either to let you know that it's OK to be the strong confident man you naturally are, or she thinks you're a bitch and is just seeing if you'll go along with this, per her wishes, and confirm your bitch status in her mind. Women hate fakes, don't be a fake. This was the real you all along. My gf could have discovered a magical potion that would turn me into a confident, o…
/r/askMRP05/07/17 07:25 PM
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Your job is too initiate desire and attraction in her. She will respond by offering up sex, then afterwards she will look for intimacy so she can assure herself that you won't leave her all alone and pregnant in the middle of the woods.
/r/askMRP05/07/17 07:07 PM
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Good post. It's a hard truth to swallow, but guys need to realize there are NO fucking excuses in life, or in nature. It doesn't matter how the next guy acts, or how he got there. It doesn't matter if he got there by putting you down every day of your life. The bottom line is, he is BETTER than you, and that's all that matters. The strong prey on the weak. It doesn't matter how the strong got strong, or how the weak became weak. All that matters, is in that moment, the stronger one devoured the …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 06:48 PM
4

Your wife is desperately wishing a real man will come in and sweep her away from the miserable life she is now stuck in. You are the reason she wants to escape her life through celebrity fantasies. Until you fix yourself, she will continue to want to live in a fantasy world. Keep being a fuckup and shrug it off until she eventually leaves, or become the kind of man she fantasizes about. Those are really the only two choices.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 06:18 PM
6

I don't want to look in the mirror and see a bitch looking back at me.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 06:22 PM
4

Boohoo, it's hard not being lazy. No shit. Keep slacking off, you're only making it easier for some other guy to come into the picture and punk your bitch ass. Life is hard for a reason, it's the only way to ensure the strongest survive.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 04:42 PM
5

True. Tingles without fuzzies won't last. Fuzzies without tingles are worthless.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 10:25 PM
5

Women only have one love language, tingles.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 07:09 PM
1

You maintain yourself, she will maintain the relationship. Women will climb through glass, work out 5 days a week, bake pies all day....etc for a man they are attracted to. In her mind, you are the relationship. You're either someone she wants a relationship with or you're not. If you're too busy trying to keep the "relationship" in good condition, you're not helping yourself, and she will lose attraction and respect for you. You are the gatekeeper of commitment in the sense that you agree to re…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:45 PM
3

You have to actually not care if she doesn't want to fuck you. Hit on her while you tell her you don't want to fuck her and see what happens. You sound thirsty as fuck right now.
/r/askMRP18/06/17 02:23 AM
1

Get really good at cooking chicken
/r/askMRP06/06/17 10:06 PM
5

She just wants validation for all the work she did taking care of the kids. Tell her she's an awesome mom, let her bitch and moan and reassure her that you'll be home as soon as you can. If you can tease her a little and make her angry-laugh, that won't hurt either, but what she wants is social recognition for doing her job. But what bobbyperu said is most important, this is a phone call problem, not a texting one, don't text her about it.
/r/askMRP27/05/17 04:44 PM
7

Nature and evolution have been around for millions of years. Humans have been somewhat self aware for a couple thousand, and you want me to believe that in that short time, humans have been able to rise and overcome the laws of nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 01:23 AM
24

Feel a connection = feel tingles for the guy Yes, an attractive celebrity will be able to "make a connection" with a simple glance, and a hand on her lower back. But it doesn't sound like you're an attractive celebrity, so you have to do a little more to "make a connection" with her. Learn game, push/pull, tease her, flirt, kino and all that other stuff. You're not wrong, it's just your view of what a "connection" is that's wrong. A connection to a woman isn't sitting next to her on the couch, o…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 12:19 PM
0

I failed the pet shit test a couple years ago and now I'm stuck with a reptile that will live for 20 more years. You can't let the most responsible child in the house get a pet, then get mad when she needs you to help care for it. This was a shit test that you failed, and now you're paying the price. I love animals, so I don't mind the little guy, but looking back, this was nothing more than a shit test. Women love to claim that they are all strong independent women, but the second shit goes sou…
/r/askMRP15/05/17 01:50 PM
2

Nature doesn't reward quitters and defeatists. If you want to wallow in self-pity, go ahead but we're all about solutions here. If you don't have one then fuck off.
/r/askMRP13/05/17 06:45 AM
6

Your dog post was a little fucked on your part, so I wouldn't go too hard on the DNGAF. I'll give examples for each scenario. First, the dog story. It seems like the dog situation was a failure of leadership and support on your part. So you're not innocent enough to stfu and move on. You need to show her that, as captain, you will be there for her when she needs you. In this case I'd advise keeping it light, thanking her for handling it, make a joke about how clumsy she is and try to stay humble…
/r/askMRP13/05/17 02:01 AM
2

I like this theory
/r/askMRP13/05/17 01:52 AM
2

Yea absolutely. If the sex is boring or garbage tier she'll basically ignore me for the next day or two or just not give a shit about me. Not angry or anything, just uninterested in me or us.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 08:40 PM
10

She's right, you are a fraud. You care way too much about what she thinks, and it's obvious that you're doing this to change her opinion about you. To answer your question, no, there is never a point of no return, in theory. If I come home to find my gf getting banged out by my neighbor, and I burst into tears and beg her to take me back and politely ask the guy to pull his cock out of her mouth, in theory, with enough self improvement I could eventually become so alpha that the incident becomes…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 05:22 PM
7

The freakier I get with my girl the harder she shit tests me later. Like you said, she will be nice and sweet right after, then maybe that night or the next day she'll get shitty. My guess is that she I thinking about all of the dirty nasty things we did and is freaking out that maybe I'm really a beta and she did all those things with me and that would be disgusting. So she gives me shit to make sure I'm still a cocky asshole, and worthy of getting all those freaky sex acts, and she starts acti…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 04:18 PM
4

I don't know what your house, yard, or neighborhood is like but if my gf let our cats out by accident, I would have helped her look, as long as it's not a recurring issue. Sometimes a captain has to get down and dirty with the crew to help get the ship out of stormy waters. You've just set a precedent that if she genuinely and honestly makes a mistake, you won't be there to support and help her. That's not very "rock" like. But I don't know, if you have a fenced in yard or something and all she …
/r/askMRP12/05/17 12:14 PM
6

Girls only talk badly like that about porn if they're talking to a guy they aren't attracted to. If they think you're hot they'll he talking about how they can suck dick just as good, like I rough like that...etc. Again, different experience depending on whether or not they think you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:38 PM
2

Because it's your fault, not hers. If you were an attractive man worthy of her respect, you wouldn't have these problems. That's like getting mad at a fish for not being able to walk on land.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 01:18 PM
1

That's the only way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:10 PM
1

I don't just want pity sex that guys on tv sitcoms get where the wife rolls her eyes and a laughtrack plays. I also want a attractive girlfriend. I have guy friends who are in relationships but their women are either 100lbs heavier than them, or play them up like thirsty horny chumps always barking up their tree. I want my girl to want to stay attractive for me, and to actually want and enjoy sex with me. The red pill took me from constant sex "rain checks" and "upset stomachs" to slutty outfits…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:51 PM
4

Yes. Finding the red pill is like finally finding a diagnosis amd cure for an ailment you've had for years, but that every previous doctor told you was only in your head. Feels good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:56 PM
2

Your amused mastery is forced and she can tell from a mile away. She knows you're not really a "master" and she's trying to call you out. Women have hundreds of thousands of years worth of evolution that enables them to sniff out fake alpha males from a mile away. I personally think your AM responses are too wordy. It seems obvious that you're trying to display mastery, instead of just naturally being a master. I like to apply the "text less" rule to my AM responses. If your response is more wor…
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:44 PM
1

What do you have against pizza?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:32 PM
3

My girlfriend is not immature, in fact, I think she is probably more mature than me most of the time, but I still view her as having the emotional intelligence of a child. I will define what I mean by "child". I don't mean that my gf laughs at shiny balloons, or keys, or plays with toys. You know when a little kid falls and hits his head and starts freaking the fuck out, even though he isn't hurt? That''s sort of what I mean, and women often do the same thing, albeit in a more "mature" context. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:09 PM
2

This will be a fun exercise in googling shit. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sexual-personalities/201504/are-women-more-emotional-men Women are more emotional than men, in a similar manner to the way children are overly emotional. This isn't just my personal opinion, it's a proven scientific fact. Now, describing women's emotional levels as "child-like" is not how an academic would phrase it, but it doesn't make it any less accurate. Women are children does have a basis in fact, and that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:11 PM
2

I disagree about it being a negative emotions behind it, that is just caused by the bluepill mindset that women are angels and anything negative about them comes from a place of anger and misogyny. People are quick to point out that most muderers are men, or that men are more prone to risky behavior, is that from a negative emotion? Men are more likely to engage in risky behavior, just like women are more likely to act like emotional children. These are just generalized statements, I don't see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:48 PM
2

I don't hate women at all, especially not my gf, otherwise I wouldn't have been with her for as long as I have. Let me give you a real world example from my own life. A while back I read a post about how women are children who are fueled by emotions, and you should not take them seriously. The tone of the post was pretty harsh, but it stuck with me. I generally agreed with the overall message and the tone helped to cement the ideas in my mind. A couple weeks later, I'm getting off work and it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:39 PM
3

I don't know, some of the most "misogynistic" posts have been from guys who have a good understanding and a lot of success with women. If you're talking about /r/incels or something I would agree, but a lot of times its free from anger, and just stated as a matter of fact, exchange of information. "Women are children, so don't take them seriously" is misogynistic, but I don't think it comes from a place of anger or frustration, or comes from guys who have the mindset that gets them results, so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:26 PM
5

Women respond very positively to men who treat them as inferior, if it is done correctly. Those posts help to reinforce that mindset in guys who have been putting women on a pedalstool their whole lives. Most guys who read the red pill aren't 100% hardcore flaming woman haters, but the strong tone of a lot of the posts is needed to help guys "snap out of it". Let's say a misogynistic post is made, and it's like a level 100 on the misogyny scale, the average reader will read that post, absorb the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:12 PM
14

An orgasm
/r/askMRP05/05/17 02:42 AM
1

Very underfunded, all the more reason to make sure you keep the few sources of funding happy with your results ad outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:55 PM
1

No thanks, you might cut yourself on all my edges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:53 PM
3

Yea, because a scientist or "expert" whose entire life and career depends on producing favorable results within the university will always be 100% open and unbiased about their research findings. Going against the social narrative is career suicide for an academic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:47 PM
3

I'll believe what I see with my own eyes every day over what some politically, financially and socially motivated university tells me is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:04 PM
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Hard science like chemistry and biology are still relevant, but the social sciences have been completely corrupted by the left and social justice warriors. Any outcome that doesn't match their worldview gets labeled sexist, racist, or just isn't published, and even if it gets published, the results are immediately discredited due to "problems with the study design". Your question is equivalent to asking "if all Muslims aren't terrosts, why does Fox news say that they are?" Either way, I'm sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:58 PM
5

The science and research say otherwise. Selfish men are more likely to spend 10 hours a week in the gym, maintain their appearance and dress very well. They are also more likely to be aloof and harder for women to "pin down", which really drives girls crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:27 PM
9

lol at modern "science". Maybe bill nye will make a song about the spectrum of alpha and beta traits. To answer your question, there was a study done that showed how women were more sexually attracted to selfish and narcissistic men, which in the right context can be viewed as alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:50 PM
2

Become funnier and more charismatic than them. If you enter a room and everyone shouts your name in excitement, it doesn't matter how short, poor and weak your jawline is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:56 PM
3

That's such a blue pill liberal way to view things. "Someone is better at life and has it better than me, therefore they are toxic and I must distance myself from it" Guess what, the girls he knows won't be distancing themselves from these guys. This is just standard male competition. He needs to find a way to make it work if he wants to have a chance with any of the girls he knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:54 PM
3

Why not encourage him to rise to the level of his Chad friends, instead of taking the easy way out and getting less attractive friends? Sounds lazy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:45 PM
3

I define a valuable relationship like this: Is my life better because she is in it, or would I be better off single? My gf can't cook for shit, but she cleans, does my laundry, buys and puts away the groceries, and other general stuff. Overall she makes my life better than it would be if I was single. It sounds like your girlfriend doesn't do much for you besides look cute, that's a bad dynamic to be in as it sets you up to be a prime beta bux. Keep your standards high for yourself and your woma…
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:42 PM
2

If he handles it like that, then he is 100% on point. That's hard though and I imagine more guys in scenarios where they are "going to the gym" or some other lame bullshit lies, then wife catches him like some highschool shit and 6 months later he's posting about his impending divorce rape. It's just the lying the leaves a sour taste in my mouth, but if it works, it works.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 08:50 PM
2

I have nothing against guys who want to fuck around, I know for a fact that my girl would rather be with a guy who cheats on her every weekend over a guy who can't fuck any girls. It's just the secrecy part that doesn't work for me. If a guy can make it work, by all means proceed, women love the dark triad. I prefer to keep my shit on the level and if my girl isn't working for me I'll let her know. I'm also not legally married so that can make a difference as well I suppose.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 08:46 PM
3

True. CAD was in a league if his own with all his extra marital shenanigans. Still, the idea of lying doesn't sit well with me. If I wanted to fuck around, I think my gf just wouldn't ask and wouldn't want to know. As long as I'm not running all over town with different girls, she probably wouldn't care. I'd just give her a look or fog until she dropped it.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 06:56 PM
9

"You're welcome" with a cocky grin, then make sure you provide good and loving aftercare. Also, yea, trim your nails.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:26 PM
7

Men who are completely cut off from women and are unable to reproduce become restless, angry and eventually violent. Can you describe to me a society where only top men are able to have sex and reproduce and the men who can't stay civil, without having the powerful men use violence as a means of control?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:25 PM
4

Any time in history where civilization's enjoyed peace and prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:14 PM
20

I don't care about the moral issues with cheating, do whatever you want, but from a "red pill" perspective, especially a married red pill perspective I have the following thoughts. A truly confident, DNGAF and abundant man wouldn't need to cheat, because he would just be upfront with it because he has the balls to 100% own his shit. Why sneak around and hide stuff? Are you afraid of her finding out? That means you're in her frame. Also, cheating makes it harder to hold frame. Alphas don't have s…
/r/askMRP03/05/17 04:59 PM
6

It's for the greater benefit of society. Controlling hypergamy allowed for a more stable civilization because men were almost guranteed a wife, and didn't need to waste time fighting other men for reproductive access. Instead of small tribes banding together to fight over girls, every man was given a girl so that they could focus on bigger picture stuff. Hypergamy is good for the species as it ensures that the most fit animal is able to reproduce, but it's not good for overall society and stabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:46 PM
2

Women need men more than men need women. Humanity needs women more than it needs men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:50 AM
1

My personal opinion about how women act during these initial changes is that she is trying to gauge your intentions. She likes the new you, but if your only doing these things to get something in return (sex, validation, or whatever) then you are still a beta to her. That's why she is holding off on going all in, she is waiting, testing and watching. She wants to see if she can frazzle you stilll, if you're still in her frame. It's great that you are working out and owning shit, but if you keep …
/r/askMRP02/05/17 05:33 PM
5

Normally you just tell your girl "too bad, the rules have changed", but you can't do that here or you will look insecure and she will be repulsed by you. She goes out because she likes attention from other men, guys she actually finds attractive and enjoys getting attention from. I wouldn't sweat her fucking around unless she's staying out all night and you're a dumbass or something. If I were you I would apply this simple 3 step process. Become hot enough that you have other options besides her…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:18 AM
3

About the fighting stuff, try picking her up, throwing her around and stuff like that. Pinning is easy, a fat ass can do it. Show her how strong you really are and don't be lazy about it.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 11:35 PM
1

Bill Gates, or most tech leaders for that matter, whiny emo guys in bands...etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:28 PM
3

You're focusing on your wife too much right now. The quickest way to make your wife see you as a beta is to worry whether or not she sees you as an alpha. Also, you lack confidence like a motherfucker. I mean, at 100 lbs overweight, I would to, but you need to move past it. Realize your inner potential, set goals and achieve them and have a little self respect. You're smart enough to realize you're a fat, lazy and unattractive bum, and you have a plan to change yourself for the better. That's mo…
/r/askMRP28/04/17 05:31 PM
1

It's a balance though. Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac, an ugly king will still procreate more than a handsome peasant. A handsome peasant has good odds at secretly cucking the king, but in the end powerful men are what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:53 PM
2

In any social group, there is going to be an individual who has more "pull" than others. Whether it's because he is more assertive, more confident, more respected. There is usually one individual who solidifies the plans and that others look at for leadership and direction. That person usually maintains that role as long as the social circle exists. These roles don't shift frequently and equally, they are pretty set. You might not want to call the group leader the "alpha", and he probably has so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:11 PM
11

"You don't think I need sex?" Is one of the most beta and pathetic things a man can say. Remember, women's sexual desires are based on traits that are 10,000 years old. Back in those days, 1 man reproduced for every 20, or some shit like that. Sex was not a right, and it still isn't. Winners and alpha males get sex, if you're complaining about a lack of sex, you are basically holding up a giant flashing neon sign that say's "beta male" with a big shiny arrow pointing right at you.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 12:32 PM
1

Marriages with the highest frequency of sex are the happiest, so I think you're wrong about that. I'm almost certain that studies have proven that. He'll only be getting nagged if he doesn't use his physics attractiveness to become a leader among his social circle and get attention from other women. I've never known a woman to leave a man that other women want, regardless of the circumstances. A popular and attractive bum will get nagged less than an unattractive and unpopular man who works 9-5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:49 PM
2

I bet the amount of time it takes for a wife to nag her husband for not taking her out enough will be much shorter for the fat guy than the abs guy. I'm not about being neglectful, but narcissistic guys do get laid a lot more than less narcissistic guys, that actually has been proven with science.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:19 PM
1

Yea, let me just pull up this peer reviewed double blind academic study with n=10000000 that analyzes how women treat guys with abs vs. guys who are out of shape. Come on, you can't just demand evidence then claim falsehood every time someone posts an idea or an anecdote. Do you really believe that a woman would treat an attractive and fit man the same way she would treat an out of shape, less attractive man? Do you really need to see a scientific study to believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:06 PM
-1

Women constantly test their men for evolutionary fitness. These tests are meant to indicate to her whether her man has the confidence to not get flustered when faced with conflict. In the mind of a woman, a man who quickly buckles under the slightest pressure, is a weak man and not evolutionary fit. Women constantly berate their men into submission, then lose attraction to that man because e has become so supplicating that she loses all respect for him. His passive and supplicating behavior is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:47 PM
0

Your post essentially describes a man who turns into a full on beta after getting married, which the red pill will tell you all day that leads to divorce. All the things that you described as stressful for a woman, she would gladly do for a high value alpha male. Of course no woman wants to submit to and serve a manbaby who sits around and plays video games all day. I would argue that the same woman would gladly cook dinner and clean the house if her husband is out fighting bears with his hands,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:50 PM
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The idea that feelings can just die is a lie that feminists tell beta males so that they don't realize their woman lost interest because he is a boring and predictable beta. Society needs boring and predictable men, it is against the best interests of civilization to honestly tell men that it's their fault that their women are bored with them because of their predictability and lack of excitement. Going to work 9-5 and paying bills and taxes on time does not turn women on, but we need guys to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:14 PM
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The relationship is dying because the spark has gone. That spark is the excitement and feelings that come with a new relationship. Women are emotional creatures, they need to feel emotions in order to be happy. If every day is the same, and her man is just "her man" and nothing else, then the feelings will die. The thrill of having a man that you know other women want is often enough to reignite and salvage a "dying relationship". I can tell you're a woman by the way you downplay Sex and speak s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:39 PM
2

I had to, this post triggered me.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 07:50 PM
5

You cannot negotiate attractions, they are primal and based on feelings and emotions. The only way the man can get the sex he wants in that situation is to become a man who triggers those primal feelings in a woman. He does that by being confident, masculine, assertive and dominant. Those traits are often frowned upon by the bluepill, because they lead the man to feel superior to the woman, but that's exactly the kind of man women are sexually attracted to. Before you get started on the argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:42 PM
2

Not true about the woman being more prone to break it off with dread being used. Dread often reignites lost feelings. If she was bored and feeling stagnant before, seeing her man being approached or entertained by other women will make her view him as the prize again and get her juices flowing, granted this is only true of the other women are more attractive than her. If a man suddenly becomes "high value", which is what causes that dread effect in the first place, she is less likely to just bai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:36 PM
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You're only getting sex once or twice a month because your wife is sexually repulsed by you. Your attempts at seduction are weak as fuck, your attempts at dread are weak as fuck, and despite what you think, your frame is weak as fuck. Why do you care that your wife knows that women have been commenting on your appearance? It's almost like you started dressing nicer in some pathetic attempt to get your wife to find you more attractive and fuck you more often. That would be really sad on your part…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 02:19 AM
17

I'm curious what the other guys will say, but my thoughts are that it's kind of lame. You're giving these women free validation, attention and your time for very little in return. Its a low value move. Also, it can be easier to only game girls online, and it might hurt your real life game and your ability to seduce your wife. Even if they send you nudes, I just don't think it's worth the effort, but that's just my two cents. I don't give a shit about the morality of it, but if your wife catches …
/r/askMRP19/04/17 08:50 PM
12

What was the joke?
/r/askMRP19/04/17 08:43 PM
4

Regarding your issue with her dominance plays, the only way she really dominates you is if you give a fuck. Who cares if she pushes buttons or walks ahead of you or whatever stupid shit she does? Those things only make you look like a bitch if you actually care about them. Walk slow and lean back more. About the shit testing stuff; there's already a lot of good responses here. I only want to add in that you should make sure your body language isn't weak when she shit tests you. You can have the …
/r/askMRP19/04/17 12:30 AM
7

No. If men want to get laid, they need to adhere to these gender roles because that's what women are attracted to. It's not other men, or the manosphere, it's men's desire to get laid that causes them to fit into these roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 04:37 PM
2

You fucked up by skipping the pull part on the push-pull dynamic. It's one thing to say that you find other women attractive, but to say that they are more attractive is a pretty big push, so that means you need a pretty big pull in the opposite direction. You should have teased her a little, said something cocky or assholish, then went in for a big hug and something sweet to pull her back in. Then say something else snarky, smack her ass and walk away. Telling her that other girls are more attr…
/r/askMRP07/04/17 12:12 PM
1

It's not about what he does, it's about what people thought he would do when they voted for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:33 AM
11

Yea, that's the difference. The women I know always talk about how they don't feel "fulfilled" in their jobs. It's because they don't need the money, they want the social value that comes along with having certain jobs. That's why you don't see women sewer workers or plumbers. Men need to work to survive, they don't have the option of being taken care of by members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:10 PM
6

Definitely true about women in the workplace. I have 5 female coworkers and only 1 is as competent as anyone else. The other 4 constantly complain to each other about how hard work is. If they stopped complaining to each other so much and just got shit done it wouldn't be so bad. I second that about this stuff getting more mainstream. It's one thing to talk about this stuff on an abstract subreddit that is created for the topic, but when friends of mine who never use social media or reddit or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:54 PM
11

Marriage rates are already plummeting. Women almost have to work now because the security they got from marriage is gone. So now women will have to balance having a job to provide for themselves and having time to establish a family. It will be very difficult without a committed partner like a marriage would provide. The government was taking over for men by providing for women and single moms, but the election of trump proved that people aren't cool with women fucking whoever and leaving the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:23 PM
10

High incomes and professional success often leave women depressed and unfulfilled. The ones who earn enough to have a job and a family, like the yahoo CEO will be alright, but every professional woman I've known goes through a crisis at around 35 when the desire for a family kicks in. If she has a slutty past and is a known alpha widow it will only get harder to lock a man down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:20 PM
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A beta uprising is already happening, and it's happening in the form of social awareness and plummeting marriage rates. The terms "alpha" and "beta" are commonly used to insult guys, and we all know about the huge increase in the use of the word cuck. Those terms were never used when I was growing up, and I went to high school in the early 2000s. It won't be an uprising with burning cop cars and molotov cocktails, it will be an uprising where women with tattoos and multiple partners who are look…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:49 PM
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Clear as a cucumber >.>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:15 PM
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Yea, trust but verify. There's nothing beta about following up on some very well grounded suspicions in order to save yourself from getting taken advantage of and fucked over later. Just don't lead on to the fact that you're checking up on her. If she's willing to burn herself to keep her beta bux around, who knows what else she'll do to cover her tracks if you really are onto something. I'd also ask to come along on one of her late night "walks" or library trips and see how she reacts.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 07:00 PM
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Your desire for a guy who enjoys karaoke translates to a guy who is confident and fun enough to get in front of a room of people and put out positive and fun vibes, i.e. a guy who can become the life of the party. If you went on a date with a guy who stood there awkwardly and shyly when he sang, and lost the attention of the room, you wouldn't be into him, despite him meeting your karaoke requirement. It's all about the subtext with you women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:05 PM
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She's not worried about the shit that's coming out of your mouth, she's worried about your actions. Stop trying to tell her you're fine and everything is fine and start acting like it. I get it man, I've been exactly where you are now. This shit hits you like a ton of bricks and you're in a daze trying to sort out the pile of shit that is your life. You feel conflicted emotions about your girl, youself, your life choices and your future. You see more clearly than ever, but you're also more unsur…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 05:49 PM
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I read that as "I don't want Chad, I just want a guy who is physically fit, is fun and outgoing enough to be the life of the party, and who is intelligent enough to do well at trivia nights. But yea, I don't want a Chad, just a regular guy with all those traits. His name doesn't even have to be Chad!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:36 PM
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You can joke that it's "common knowledge" that lifting and taking care of yourself will make you more attractive but it's not as simple as that. My gf literally owns a shirt that says "I dig scrawny pale guys" with a picture of the skeleton guy from nightmare before Christmas. Me, being formerly scrawny and pale, thought to myself "great! I've met a girl who truly loves me just the way I am!" Imagine my confusion when she would turn into a giggly school girl whenever a tanned muscular guy would …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:32 PM
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I'm in my early 30s and my LTR is in her late 20s. She has several girlfriends who are independent working women, and single. They spend almost all of their free time (at least from what I can see) on tinder, dating sites, planning group events to meet guys, talking about how their last tinder date pumped and dumped them, and how disappointed they are. They make great money and save almost all of it, they're way better off than me but their main focus in their personal life is finding a man. Mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:51 PM
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I'm a fedora tipping euphoric atheist, but my advice would be to not defer to God on your decisions, especially with her. Don't ever say "God is telling me this" or that, or whatever. That will get you no where. Religious guys have a rough time because in the eyes of their wives, God is the ultimate alpha. You can't compete with that so you just need to make your decisions, and live life from within your own frame while you're here on earth. If you defer to God for your decisions, your wife will…
/r/askMRP05/04/17 12:55 PM
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So you'd be dying to jump gamer guys bones and suck his dick off every night, but not Eli Roth or "banana boy"? It's one thing to enjoy eating ice cream and watching Netflix with a cool fun gamer guy, but what kind of guy really drives you wild with lust? That's the kind I attraction I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:38 PM
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Ok, remove the gay pose from your mind, and imagine buttboy and gamer guy in equal pics, holding a puppy in a flannel shirt or some shit. Which guy are you most likely to swipe on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:27 PM
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Good point, maybe I'm just fishing for deer in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:07 PM
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If this thread has taught me anything, it's that women love a big burly bear jew. Maybe I should start carrying a baseball bat around with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:04 PM
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So how was I wrong when I said that you're assuming he is gay because he is too attractive for you? That's kind of exactly what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:00 PM
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I completely understand that, but I always thought the purpose of those threads is to weed out other factors and discuss strictly physical features. While all women are attracted to status and power, that status and power can vary, that I understand. Some women like music, so a high status musician will be more attractive than a high status wall street broker. Or some women like sports and prefer a high status athlete of a high status gamer. I am just attempting to flesh out all other factors an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:57 PM
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Do you know for a fact that the guy in the yellow briefs is gay, or are you just assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:52 PM
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I Googled Eli Roth to see recent pics and he is objectively more attractive than "banana man", so I concede that point. But what about the gamer guy, or the other skinnier guys? You'd take average Joe Asian gamer over yellow briefs guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:51 PM
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"one is not my type, the other would be more into my husband than me." What did you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:49 PM
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"He's too attractive to ever be interested in me, therefore he must be gay" That's a hamster in action. Status does override everything, but looks do play into status as well. I also don't believe that you wouldn't be slightly taken aback by that super handsome guy bringing a pizza to your door. I know women don't evaluate partners the same way men do, but it seems like whenever there's s thread where women are asked to post pics of attractive men, they always need to throw in the status too. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:25 PM
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Nah, you're right about Eli, he is definitely more masculine and attractive than banana boy. But the gamer guy? Come on now...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:19 PM
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Just Googled Eli Roth and I do see your point. He is pretty macho manly looking. So yea, I'll concede that Eli is hotter than banana boy. But the gamer guy, vs banana boy? That's no contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:18 PM
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I'm sorry but I think that's 100% bullshit. You are thinking of Eli Roth, the famous actor and horror movie director as a plumber. You're simply unable to separate the status that he has in your mind, into a hypothetical situation. If he was just another faceless stranger, and was standing next to abs guy, you'd really pick Eli for the one night stand? I know you'll claim I don't know you, and blah blah blah, but I would love to get you together with handsome abs guy and a non famous Eli lookali…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:14 PM
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Fair point. I suppose it is easier to find pics of famous people over average Joe nobodies. But seriously though, if that league of legends skinny asian guy from the q4women post brought a pizza to your door, you wouldn't bat an eye. If yellow briefs guy brought a pizza to your door, you'd be flipping your hair and getting lost in his eyes. Status overrides everything with women, so maybe it's hard for them to completely remove that variable and go off if appearance alone, but the fact that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:08 PM
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If Eli Roth was a no name average joe, and yellow briefs guy was another no name average joe, would you still rather have Eli Roth?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:04 PM
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Almost all of the men women posted in the other thread had significant social status. Professionals, actors, celebrities. Of course those things are attractive. I'm talking about purely physical appearance though, with no indication of any other forms of status or power. Abs guy will beat skinny Asian all day, unless of course that skinny Asian is a famous celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:00 PM
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If you put the male in the pic that men posted, in a room with one of the males that the women posted, the women will most likely all choose the male version to have sex with. Women need plausible deniability. They know that they will never be able to handle and lock down a man like that, so instead they tell themselves that he isn't attractive and tell themselves that males like the ones in the original thread are who they really want. It's just the hamster in action. Men will flat out say "yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:51 PM
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A woman with a lack of social skills as described above may have a hard time finding a lasting relationship, but if she is physically attractive enough she will not have problems getting dates. A male with a lack of social skills will have a hard time even getting dates, as women fitness test men on their social skills before even agreeing to go out with them. The only social skills that may hurt a woman's relationship potential is if she is completely unable to communicate and set up plans. Oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:40 PM
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Why do you think that? Women will always desire powerful and high status men. Just because people may be more equal, doesn't mean the traits that women find attractive will change. There will always be a man who has more than other men, no matter how egalitarian the society. That man will be viewed as more attractive and other men will compete to up their own status so they have more access to reproductive rights. That's just the way animals, and humans, and evolution work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:25 PM
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But the traits women view as "hot" are vary broad. With men, a physically attractive woman is hot. It's easier to be physically attractive at 21 than it is to be at 41. The stuff women are attracted to goes beyond physical appearance. Status, wealth, confidence, power. These are all things that increase with age. So yes, a hot 40yr old is hot, but it's very possible that the "hotness" is a direct result of simply being around longer than some of the younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:15 PM
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Nice post man, you're already ahead of the curve. This place isn't here to help marriages or relationships, it's here to save the men who are in those relationships. The kicker is that once those guys let go and start taking care of themselves and putting themselves first, the relationship usually begins to turn around for the better. Everyone is different, and will come to their own conclusions. For me, it was the realization that my girl, who I thought was so different and unique from other gi…
/r/askMRP30/03/17 04:11 PM
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Mine was the opposite. I was always skinny and lanky and goofy looking. My gf claimed she loved it, even had a t-shirt that said "I dig scrawny pale guys" with a skeleton man on it. I bought that shit 100% until I saw her turn into giggly putty in front of a tanned muscular guy at a bbq. Thank god I can see through the bullshit now. She still gives me shit over working out, but her actions tell a whole different story.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:46 PM
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"And I like attention from you and others" This was a fuckup, don't ever say shit like it again. Only beta faggots do shit for others to notice and get validation from. Total weaksauce. Telling your wife that you are getting outside attention does not induce dread, and will have zero positive results. You don't have to explain yourself to her, so say whatever you want. You just want to be healthy, you want to be strong for the upcoming zombie apocalypse, or whatever else you want to say.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:42 PM
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That just makes it even more exciting when she is able to sneak away from her controlling and insecure boyfriend to hook up with the guy she actually wants.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:53 PM
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Girls entire lives revolve around relationships and social networks. They have a very good understanding of what is and isn't appropriate in any given relationship, especially romantic relationships. That being said, they will still try to push the boundaries as far as they can for their own benefit. They are selfish by nature, but that doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing, they're just really good at playing dumb. It's like my cat slowly pushing a glass off of the table. She will loo…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:51 PM
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I've been with my LTR for a little over a decade. She "soft" moved in with me when I went to college, about *4 years into our relationship. I was still pretty beta and just let her basically do whatever. I got to see her naked a lot more, so I didn't mind, but that's also about the same time she started having headaches, not feeling well, not "in the mood" and sex dropped off a lot. After I finished school I got my own place and she moved in with me full time. The quality of the relationship dro…
/r/askMRP27/03/17 05:50 PM
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Just always make sure they are flirting with you more than you're flirting with them.
/r/askMRP25/03/17 07:52 AM
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"Dread game" is just blowing the dust off of your relationship and giving it a little kickstart. As time goes on, people get comfortable with each other and the things that attracted your girl to you in the first place begin to get old and tired. Attraction drops off as the relationship stagnates in its little bubble. "Dread" is simply the man showing his woman that he is still desirable to the rest of the population, and that often reignites the attraction in the woman, for the man. It's useful…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:57 PM
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I've known girls like your wife, my girlfriend is one of them. I've seen a lot of girls who claim they couldn't possibly go on without their man, they would just curl up and die, they would have no reason to live....etc. Until they go out with their friends and get attention from other guys, then it's like you never even existed. Your wife would be fine.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 04:27 PM
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Lol, cablecuck. This was a logistical type shit test. You fucked up by "calling her on it" or whatever the fuck happened. Your frame needs some work. Check out the link Sepean posted. The bottom line with tests like these is that there is a quantifiable outcome that will either prove you wrong or right. This isn't something purely emotional on her end, it's her logistical mindset vs. yours. As a man, you're naturally better at logistical stuff, but there have definitely been times in my life whe…
/r/askMRP23/03/17 04:16 PM
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That, or she'll jump into the arms of some charming local guy who has a solid frame and charming personality and doesn't need to rely on some kind of situational powershift to force her back into his frame.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 12:35 PM
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Of course you're not moving just for that purpose, but the fact that the thought even came into your head that her lack of resources would force you into a more powerful position is fucking weak. Your problem is that you're too bent up on "controlling" her, the interactions, or whatever else you're on about. That's not what alphas do. Alpha men don't actively try to control things, they control themselves and others follow because they put off an irresistible energy. Right now the energy you're …
/r/askMRP22/03/17 12:27 PM
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Have you read anything? Do you have any grasp of the concepts talked about here? Because you're doing all of them horribly wrong. First off, your plan to "take back control" by moving your wife to a country she doesn't speak the language if and controlling all of the money is pathetic, and also creepy as fuck. You're like 2 steps away from just locking her in a basement with a bucket and a hose. You really think your only play here is to move her to a place she has no control in? Oh, god forbid …
/r/askMRP22/03/17 12:15 PM
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Cool man, I'm happy for you. Why do you care so much about what I'm doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 06:30 PM
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The media panders to women and women's issues. Look at that little girl statue someone put up on wall street. It literally means nothing. Women didn't develop some new stock market equation or develop a way to properly balance the economy. Someone just put a statue up and screamed "girl power!" and everyone lost their shit like it was the greatest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 06:20 PM
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If me being wrong means going from sex twice a month with a chronically depressed girlfriend to sex multiple times a week with frequent blow jobs and a much happier girlfriend, then I'll be the god dammed mayor of crazy town.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 06:12 PM
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Sure, things are filtered through my own eyes, but after a certain point, reality is just reality. When you observe something 1000 times and notice consistent patterns, is that really just you "filtering" the information to fit your view? I've noticed that women seem to enjoy the company and sex of men who are loud, dominant, often rude and selfish, with varying degrees of narcissism. If I apply those traits in my own life, and women suddenly begin to show sexual interest in me, you can say I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:51 PM
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First off, what is "emotional intelligence"? Is that considering and adjusting to someone's feelings at the expense of your own? That's the main reason many guys go to the red pill in the first place. Women, the media, and society tell guys to sacrifice and always put women first and they will love and respect you. "Emotionally intelligent" men get shit on every day in favor of the narcissistic manipulating "assholes" that women love. Guys come to TRP because it is an exact reflection of the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:25 PM
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Feminism is way more popular now than the red pill. Sure, there are extremes to both ideas, but I see the crazy feminists get validated by society and the media a lot more than I see the angry red pillers on the news getting praised for "standing up for themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:12 PM
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Bringing it up as dread is pathetic. That's like trying to build some dread by playing as a slutty elf on WoW and letting her see you cast a level 9 fireball or some shit. I mention sexy dreams to her sometimes, but always frame it as her being involved in some way and imply that the dream gave me some ideas for later. Then she gets thinking about sex, and the thought of some kinky sex surprise gets her mind racing all day. That's really the only benefit of telling her you had a sexy dream.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 03:05 PM
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Exactly. I wonder how many other "girlfriends" this guy has besides OP's wife's sister.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 09:07 PM
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First off, /u/abdada is 100% onto something about your wife projecting. The way you describe this guy, I'm about to get a crush on him. You could probably stand to learn a thing or two from him tbh. Secondly, never ever say anything negative about this guy again unless he absolutely deserves it. From now on, he's like your best bro. Beta males talk negatively about alpha males because they are insecure around them. So seriously, STFU. This isn't about the sister at all, but if she makes it a poi…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 08:48 PM
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2.5 million women complained at once, so what? Men manipulate the environment, women manipulate men. Women will always be looking towards men to "get things done" just because that's how it's always worked for them. They can talk all they want, but as long as their talk consists of "hey men, give us this or give us that" it's going to go nowhere. Also, women don't fuck male feminists. They can talk about how hot feminists guys are, and yea, some fat feminists have fat pussy husbands, but the rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:39 PM
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Because, if they are able to gain enough power in society, they will be able to vilify and exclude "white men" from society. That won't ever happen though because they'll eat themselves alive from the inside first before they can ever get any real actionable power against a specific group. Feminists are playing a game where the biggest victim wins. So let's say women successfully take over society by guilting others with their victim mindset. Well all of a sudden, within the group that is "women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:46 PM
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Handle your emotions like a man and don't dump anything negative on her. If she wants to help, have her cook you good meals at might, or run a few errands while you get other stuff done. Give her tasks and activities to help her help you, don't just vent your emotions to her. There's nothing wrong with being stressed out, but she'll lose respect for you of you just bitch and complain without any action to fix it. Put her ass to work for you and give her an extra long kiss when she does a good jo…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 06:22 PM
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OP, first off, I want to strongly advise you against getting married. Despite severe family and social pressure, deciding to never get married was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Secondly, while N count is important, I'd take a look at her overall behavior and lifestyle before you got together. You'll probably never get a straight answer out of her, but if she has a history as a wild girl, regardless of how many guys she's fucked, it's a good indicator she won't adapt nicely to the mon…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:04 PM
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Don't sweat the porn, it will make you look insecure. She doesn't find you attractive bro. Either you have a dumpy body or you're boring or both, I don't know. Get fit and better at game, while also not giving a shit about the porn. Make fun of her and tell her you saw some weird shit on her history or something and just go with it. Also don't ever say "hawt" again. For God's sake man have some self respect.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 11:28 PM
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"All I want is sex I don't need a reason" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AlzgDVLtU6g "Yuuup"
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:24 PM
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I poke her in the ass with my dick and tell her that her butt isn't bleeding.....yet.
/r/askMRP15/03/17 09:19 PM
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Not bad but be careful, she is probably probing around a little for your intentions and motivations. You want her to believe this is the real you, the version of you that is in the DNA you shoot inside her every time you fuck. If she probes enough, and you talk enough, she may get the idea that this isn't the real you and you're getting told this information by a brain collective of random men online. She doesn't want that DNA. The natural guys don't ramble on about "nice guys", and "beta bux" a…
/r/askMRP15/03/17 08:37 PM
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Damn, 3.50 for a cup of coffee? I get mine for $2 and it's made and served by a girl in lingere. Starbucks needs to modify their business plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:39 PM
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Hah, yea. I should know better than to argue with women over the Internet anyway, but damn, work is slow today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:55 PM
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It's not about a guys own "wasted life", I think if any guy knew for 100% certainty that their girl would be kind, loving and devoted to him forever, it wouldn't matter at all what her N count is. The reason it matters is because it makes the girl more likely to get bored, give more shit tests, and more likely to want to relive that past experience of chasing and getting validation from high value men. If I'm a 29 year old virgin, and my gf has had 30+ past sexual partners, but is absolutely dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:12 PM
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You're able to see the whole picture better than she is. Her ideas are fueled by emotion, not so much logic or reason. If you think selling your house is a bad move, it's probably a bad move. If you end up selling it and end up in a shitty condo or something, she will still blame you for making the wrong decision. Just make sure your decision is based in reason and not just sentimental value or sunken cost because of all the remodelling. If you decide to stay she'll be mad, but if you do move an…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:24 PM
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My gf always claims to like me with longer shaggier hair, and I believed it and left it long and unkempt for as long as I could. Now I can see clear as day how important it is to pay attention to her actions instead of her words. I keep my hair short and neat now, and I notice a very clear pattern that the longer and more unkempt it gets, the less attracted to me she becomes, despite telling me the exact opposite straight to my face.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 07:44 PM
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What do you mean by "beta-buxing a woman"? Like guys who want girls to pay for them and provide for them? Because that's just a perk of being a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:10 PM
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25-29. I don't know what will happen with the younger generations but guys in that age range are well aware of what a beta bux is and aren't afraid to call each other out on potentially becoming one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:03 PM
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It's not the physical differences but the mental and lifestyle differences that make the difference. Most women don't need to work. Sure, they enjoy the money and it's better than being provided for by some beta loser, but at the end of the day, being a woman gives them enough intrinsic value to be accepted and survive in society. Men don't have intrinsic value. Their value is what they have to offer society, via the work and effort they put in. As long as woman are able to be impregnated and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:28 PM
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Maybe it varies by location, but I hear complaints constantly from my gf's friends who have masters degrees. They refuse to seriously date any guy who doesn't have a Ph.D or is at least on track to get one. The problem is these girls are average at best. They have no problem getting tinder dates and hookups with handsome med-school students, or other attractive educated men, but they never call back or just want to "keep it casual" right now. They're approaching 30 and the desperation is beginni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:59 PM
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Women don't have to position themselves under men, but they can't bitch and complain about how there's no good men when their standards are too high and they end up single and childless in their 40s. There are only so many available spots in college every year, the more women that get in, the less men get in and the women now have an inflated sense of self worth. And yes, women can be pretty and educated but it's the pretty part that matters the most. Pretty and educated > pretty > educated I pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:25 PM
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I honestly don't mind women working, but I think it will have a negative effect on the relationship potential of these girls. Women don't date "down", so if you have a ton of women with college degrees, they're gonna want men who have advanced degrees. Also, because of solipsism, they will believe that having a degree makes them more attractive, which it doesn't. So we'll have a bunch of women with degrees, who are getting frustrated that there are less men above them worth dating, and the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:18 PM
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Fantastic post. This is something I see all the time. So many of my gf's friends are running around with guys who work part time at a box warehouse and still live at home, but these girls will literally do anything for these guys because they just take, take, take and have no remorse. You need to have at least some sociopath/dark triad type shit in your personality. There's nothing wrong with channeling a little Ted Bundy or Charles Manson every once in awhile, just don't murder anyone obviously…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:15 PM
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Damn son, you fucked up. This might be the most beta post I have ever read on here. Get your fucking shit together and stop being such a supplicating little bitch. This bitch doesn't deserve shit from you, why did you get her flowers? You're not the prize bro, she is, and that shit needs to change.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 09:41 PM
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My gf has tons of anxiety, but hers usually involves pacing around and lashing out at me at random. I'll share what's worked for me and hopefully it can help you as well. First and foremost, you need to be her rock. Women are constantly bombarded by a storm of emotions. The emotions have control over them and they actually don't enjoy it. Most women know they are irrational, a little crazy, bitchy, whatever. What they want is a man who is able to live his life completely unphased by her emotiona…
/r/askMRP08/03/17 09:29 PM
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It depends exactly what you're talking about, and how it's framed, so it's not entirely black and white. I'll give you some examples. Every girl knows that guys want sex with them. That's not something you need to overtly tell your girlfriend, same with blowjobs, or to be nice to you, to respect you...etc. You don't need to overtly tell her to fuck and suck you more, because she already knows you want that. You need to use covert communication (look at how many girls give me IOI's in public, loo…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 09:17 PM
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Boundaries and expectations should be stated overtly. Everything else should be expressed via covert communication. Words are cheap and mean nothing. I want my girlfriend to blow me every day, I can tell her that overtly, but that won't instantly trigger a desire in her to please me and sick my dick. Using covert communication, you're able to influence her emotions and create a genuine desire to blow you every day, via solid game, dread, social proof...etc. Don't tell her what you want, make her…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 04:51 PM
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You have no control over her whatsoever. The fact that you're even attempting to control or influence her is very concerning. My guess is that you're starting to get insecure. You're probably a normal guy and she is bordering on celebrity status and will probably be hanging around other high status celebrity males. There's nothing you can do but focus on yourself. Be the absolute best version of yourself that you can be, develop and enforce your boundaries and be ready to cut her loose in an ins…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 05:50 PM
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Honestly, with the smiling stuff, it just comes naturally after long enough. It's more of a devilish grin than a full on smile. I just get filled with joy sometimes when I know my girl is about to shit test me because my mind starts racing about all the ways I can mess with her and piss her off a little and push her buttons even further before pulling her back in again. I see it as an opportunity rather than a burden, most of the time. There's definitely shit tests that are a pain and piss me of…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 01:46 PM
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It's not framed the way you describe, she won't flat out refuse to allow her man to see his friends, what is more likely to happen is she gives him a line like this: "Aww come on babe, let's just hang out and watch Netflix and eat icecream together. Maybe we can mess around later ;)" The the end of the night comes, and she's sick, or too tired or whatever so she asks for a rain check until the next day. So, 40 or 50 movie nights later our homeboy has gained 60lbs, has no friends because they sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:23 PM
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You care too much about your wife and her validation and recognition of you. You're able to handle a shit storm of 2000 people and chaos, but your wife throws you a little shade over some extra ounces of soda and you let it ruin your weekend? You're better than that, you just told us all about it. Your wife is not some special snowflake worth impressing. Do you and DNGAF about anyone else. It was definitely a shit test, and it was actually pretty mild and tame as far as shit tests go, but someti…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 10:47 PM
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If a man in a sexless or low sex relationship sits his girl down and asks her how he can be more attractive to her, in a way that will make her want him sexually, what do you think she is going to say? Do you honestly think that would work? Hypothetically, what things might she say to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 10:09 PM
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Because you're not getting what you want. Nothing compares to fucking a girl who is genuinely attracted to you and wants to please you. Guys don't want starfish duty sex, they want respect and admiration from their women. They won't get that by asking their women how to be attractive and respectable to them. If what you want is just plain PIV sex, then yea, I guess it would work for you in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:43 PM
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"Be yourself" is fantastic advice, but first you need to make yourself into a naturally attractive person. Telling an overweight socially awkward guy to just be himself will get him nowhere. He needs to make himself into a truly attractive man, through and through. Don't pretend to be confident and not give a fuck, actually be that person. In order for a LTR to go on for an extended amount of time, the man can't lose his identity and turn into a supplicating bitch boy. Maybe that's not pure unpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 07:35 PM
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You're half right. Finding them attractive is the first half, but even then, if a guy who she finds attractive is calling her constantly and giving her too much attention, it will make him look low value in her eyes and she will lose attraction. Women are attracted to guys they have to chase, because that indicates that they are of higher value than the female. If the man is putting in a lot of effort to pursue the girl, it tells her that the man believes she is higher value than him and is a tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 07:26 PM
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If you really make an effort to do these things in an attempt to get a result from you wife or gf, then yes, I agree it is manipulation. But the red pill doesn't preach manipulation. Ideally, the "dread" that you develop comes naturally, and is not a planned activity or event. That is the red pill ideal. A man who is very muscular and attractive will naturally get attention from women, whether he is trying to or not, and that will cause his woman to find him more attractive. A man who plans on g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 07:09 PM
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An exciting man is a man who is unpredictable, doesn't care what others think and is not afraid to speak his mind and stir the pot a little. It's also a man who genuinely enjoys life and likes to have fun. Exciting doesn't need to mean going out skydiving every weekend, or going out to party all the time. Exciting, from a red pill point of view is having a woman be interested in you because she doesn't know what you're going to say or do next. It might be something offensive (crude joke or slap …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 06:56 PM
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What's manipulative about finding the balls to say "no" to a woman? Believe it or not, but not letting a woman get her way just because she's a woman is a very attractive trait in men. How is that a manipulative tactic? How is working out a manipulative tactic? How is having self respect and the balls to not cave in the the shit your woman gives you manipulation? I see this word get thrown around all the time on here but it's never actually stated which red pill ideas are inherently manipulative…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 06:44 PM
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My story was similar with a lot of guys who are married or in LTR and come across the redpill. I'm curious what your stance is on this chain of events. I was in a band and a pretty cool guy when my gf met me. I was doing my own thing and living my life wild and free. After time in our relationship, she told me she didn't like me going out every weekend, hanging with my friends, hanging out with other girls...etc., so in an effort to respect and respond to her "overt" communication, I toned back …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 06:34 PM
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Eh, I suppose some weight and appearance issues could be resolved from just calling the guy out, but more often it's more than just physical appearance. Men just become complacent and passive in relationships and their overall personalities become weak and unattractive. Women will complain about being bored and say they want more excitement, but it's not enough in the end. The men will plan exciting activities and such to keep his woman happy, but she is still bored because even though he is pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 06:19 PM
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What was your issue with sex and how did you and your man resolve the issue in a way which led to him getting the amount of sex he was happy with? Some lack of sex issues can be treated by a doctor, but the majority are just caused by men who don't know how to excite and stimulate their wives. They are not attractive to their women and no amount of doctors visits can cure that. Also, no amount of discussion will help either. If a woman feels bored in a relationship with a man she isn't attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:40 PM
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Wanting to enjoy regular sex with your partner doesn't make you a sex addict. Please elaborate on your points and how you would address this issue. Everyone always says "communication is key" but can never describe how to properly communicate these feelings to your wife in a way that would resolve the issue, you included. The answers always seem to be that the man just needs to accept that his sex drive is "too high" and that he should be happy with once a month stale duty sex. Is there a way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:34 PM
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Your example is hilarious because every woman I've ever known goes crazy for guys who ignore them and act distant. Yea, the girls call them assholes, but their eyes light up when that distant asshole finally calls or texts back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:02 PM
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Let me ask you this, let's say in a hypothetical situation, you are in a relationship with a girl and she is great, however she is not very interested in sex with you anymore. She'll spend time with you and go on dates, but there's very little sex, and when it does happen she is disinterested and only goes through the motions to satisfy you. The lack of sex begins to take its toll on your mental health and well being. How do you address this in the relationship in the terms you described, being …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 04:59 PM
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Where are you from? Do you walk the streets barefoot? I'm just trying to wrap my head around this one, because it's weird as fuck. Your problem is that you're a pussy and you care too much about what your wife thinks. Stop caring and do whatever you want, youre not responsible for her emotions. A&A her concerns, tell her you walked through a murder scene and got blood all over your feet as you're walking through the house. Seriously though, what's up with your "downtown"? Downtown to me is like …
/r/askMRP06/03/17 03:54 PM
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Tone-policing is against the rules of the sub.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 06:09 AM
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No, I choose my words carefully and mean what I say. I'm also not going to let some faggot like you tell me what to do. If you don't want to call someone a "mean" name, then don't, but don't go around telling other people what they can and can't do. If you continue to do so you will be banned. We live in a society that lies to men every day. Feminists, SJW's, white knights and everyone else tells men to be nice, gentle, equal with others, sacrifice for others, and you'll get all the great reward…
/r/askMRP05/03/17 10:00 PM
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We call guys faggots and pussies because that is what their wives are calling them in their own heads. Sure, we can stick with calm, rational and supportive discussions, but that's not how the real world works. I'd much rather be called a pussy and a little bitch from some guys who are trying to help me, than from my girl the day she leaves my ass for some guy who isn't a pussy faggot. The world is a cold and unforgiving place, and this sub should be no different. Women certainly operate in the …
/r/askMRP05/03/17 09:06 PM
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First off, a blowjob is a blowjob. It doesn't really matter if she calls it a special treat, or good boy points or whatever, if she's eagerly and frequently sucking your dick, you're doing it right. So the problem isn't that she calls them "special treats" or whatever, it's that she's not attracted to you enough to want to suck your dick all the time like that. Focus on becoming more attractive, and also how to properly receive a blowjob and she'll start coming around. Don't worry so much about …
/r/askMRP04/03/17 01:52 AM
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My gf does this shit to me all the time, and her stepmother does the same shit to her husband and does it to me as well. Even more, she'll ask highly technical questions then set it up at me like "well I'm sure cholomite knows, so, what are the proper medication ratios after someone gets cardiac surgery with a high risk of bronchitis?" then she will just look at me waiting for a response. I have no fucking idea, I'm not a doctor, and I don't know why you think I would know. I absolutely view the…
/r/askMRP02/03/17 08:03 PM
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You need to decide what you want to do when your girl flips out. As I've said before, mine I very emotional and prone to outbursts, and I very very rarely get upset or angry at her for them. If she really gets personal and nasty I'll shut her down, full stop, but normally I just tease and mess with her until she storms off or gets sick of my shit. If she makes an effort to re-engage me, I try not to rub it in her face too hard and will typically act like it's no big deal, and usually she realize…
/r/askMRP02/03/17 06:28 PM
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Texting is bullshit. All shit like this should be handled in person, or at the very least over the phone. If it were me I'd send a pic of something stupid to make her laugh, or make her angry, until I could see her later. Then I'd tease her for being so demanding or being a princess or something. DO NOT get caught up throwing all kinds of love and validation and shit over text to her. Do that shit in person, and only if she is behaving well and deserves it
/r/askMRP02/03/17 05:38 PM
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She basically flat out told you "I'm a woman, I'm crazy and emotional and you should not take me seriously. Please be my rock and not give a fuck about my crazy mood swings" You're letting her emotions influence you, and that's not good. If she's pissed, let her be pissed. You don't care because you see it for what it is, the crazy emotions if a child in an adults body. Don't try to change her mind, try to change her mood. Don't take her or her feelings seriously, always stay upbeat and positive…
/r/askMRP02/03/17 04:41 PM
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"Starfish" is a woman who does not desire or enjoy sex with her partner, and so she simply lays there still, allowing him to get off and nothing more. It happens for a variety of reasons, the biggest being that the female is in a relationship with a man who she is not sexually attracted to. Her lack of desire causes her to simply engage in sex just to "get it over with" and keep the relationship going, without having to actively engage in sex acts with a man she is not attracted to. The answer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:53 PM
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Being busy and mysterious is great, but going out of your way to avoid answering a simple question like "where are you" or "what are you doing" just comes across as weird, try-hard and autistic. Be vague and keep it short, but don't be overly evasive and dodgy for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:48 PM
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You can't negotiate desire and you can't negotiate respect. It's either there or it isn't. Asking for it will just make you sound like a bitch. You CAN tell her that you won't sit around while she talks disrespectfully to you, that part is ok. Just don't let her emotions and bitchiness make you upset or angry. You don't care if she respects you or not, you just won't sit around and be treated disrespectfully because you have better shit to do. If I were you and my gf called me with those problem…
/r/askMRP28/02/17 08:11 PM
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You can't let your woman's anger and temper and bitchiness affect you. My gf is super emotional and prone to bitching and acting bitchy. When I first started I was like you, I wanted to demand respect and to not be talked to like that, but that's almost like asking a fish not to swim. Women are emotional, and that often comes out in frustrated bitchiness. I don't tolerate blatant and offensive disrespect, but I also understand that she is the most responsible child in the house and expecting her…
/r/askMRP28/02/17 07:41 PM
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I'm personally not a fan of making an effort to go out of your way to avoid answering a basic question. Anytime you're putting in extra effort in regards to your wife or gf, you're trying too hard, in my opinion, and that includes being weird about telling her where you were. I prefer to just answer the question the way a normal human would. If I'm out at a bar with friends, I'll tell her I'm out at a bar with friends, if I'm at the library, I'll tell her I was at the library, or the gym, or the…
/r/askMRP28/02/17 04:33 PM
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Take this fake cuck shit somewhere else.
/r/askMRP26/02/17 05:45 PM
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You seem to be implying that the guys who are attractive in their youth somehow lose that attractivness and are surpassed by betas. That's not true. The hot and popular guys in their 20s, if they remain single, are often still hot and popular in their 40s. They don't get passed by betas once they hit middle age. The difference is that the hot and popular guys get to continue fucking attractive 20yr olds well into their older prime years, while the aging betas have to settle for post wall former …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 06:41 PM
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Either way, the fact that you told her what you were going to do instead of asking like a little bitch was the right move. This is definitely not a loss, but I wouldn't chalk it up as a big win either.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:32 PM
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Having to do anything in exchange for sex is inherently beta. Your wife would have blown an alpha male and let him bust all over her face even without getting the milkshake. You got what you wanted, but I wouldn't consider it a step in the right direction. Ultimately, you want to be able to get blown and cum on her face without having to do some petty shit first.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:02 PM
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Older male teachers prey on weakness. They target and seduce insecure young girls and play on their emotional vulnerabilities. These male teachers aren't fucking the popular cheerleader with rich parents, or the class president. They are preying on the poor girl, or the girl with no friends. They target and go after weakness. Female teachers allow themselves to be seduced by power. They are not adding the captain of the chess club or the AV club on Facebook and sending him racy pics. They are ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:30 PM
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You're fucking it up and here's why. First off, don't blame your wife's laziness for her lack of participation in the stuff you want to do with her. Women, your wife included, would walk over mountains to get to a man they are attracted to. The fact that you would even think to blame that on her laziness means you need to read up a lot more. You're not attractive or an alpha in her eyes. She views you as a beta bux right now. You're not giving her the excitement and tingles that an alpha would, …
/r/askMRP22/02/17 02:52 AM
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Because results are all that matter. Women, just like men, want an attractive and desirable partner, and they know deep down that their best bet at getting a high value man is by showing off her most prized posession, her body. It's an uncomfortable truth for many but it's still a truth. If being able to fix a motorcycle, or make good money programming, or get lots of social status playing guitar would get women attention and attraction from high value men, they would all be doing it, but it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:15 PM
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How often do you show her how strong you are? I don't have much for you, as my girl is a tiny balls of emotions. My only thoughts would be that you need to be a mental and physical rock to her. Show her your physical strength as well as your mental strength. Honestly though, as long as she isn't seeking emotional stability from another guy, I wouldn't sweat it too much. Just make sure you can handle it when she really does need you to be her rock.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:50 PM
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Are you physically strong enough to pick her up and carry her around?
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:43 PM
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You can claim whatever principles you want to be true, but people are always going to believe what they see and experience in their own lives. You can call me a shitlord all you want, but when I've seen almost every woman in my life change herself slightly to align with the interests of the man she is pursuing, I don't care what you call me because I know I'm right. Of course women have their own beliefs and principles, and many women will stick with those principles. I don't believe that a hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:35 PM
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Just don't ever get angry, grumpy, butthurt, disappointed or any of that shit. If you can learn to have fun and make a good time out of even the shittiest scenarios, you'll be alright.
/r/askMRP19/02/17 03:27 PM
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Like Seamus said, don't even bother arguing. There is no bigger waste of time than arguing with a woman. Your goal is to change her mood, not her mind. The two are often completely disconnected. Also, accept the fact that she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings. Feelings = weakness in the mind of a woman. When you talk about negative feelings, she sees a man who is not in control of his domain and she loses respect for you. She doesn't and won't ever care, so don't even bother.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 09:34 PM
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What kind of stuff does she throw at you? The last thing my gf got pissed at me for was not texting her enough when I was out with my friends. I hugged her tight, kissed her forehead and told her I loved her, but that I will never text her the way she wants. She got sad but moved on pretty quick when I had her help me out making some food. Don't react, just own your behavior and accept that it's ok if she gets mad at you, and never defend or explain yourself.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 08:16 PM
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My girl is the same way. I handle it mostly with physical stuff. Grab her, hug her tight, overpower her and make her feel small and safe and secure. I'll also use a little fogging if she is really fired up, or use A&A and tease her a little. Mostly I just make sure I'm not being an insecure beta asshole. All my "asshole" behaviors are just me not being supplicating and she throws temper tantrums because she can't get her way with me. I'll just laugh, pet her head and tell her straight up, I am a…
/r/askMRP15/02/17 08:01 PM
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Sapphire_jizz is right on about not letting her handle important documents. Women are not as mature and responsible as men, simply because they don't have to be. Handle all important matters like this yourself from now on. You're stuck for another month because of your own failure to take charge and make sure shit gets done. The first mate handles low level tasks, the captain handles the big picture shit and steers the ship. I don't think you're going too rambo, I just think your wife doesn't re…
/r/askMRP15/02/17 01:33 PM
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You're not leading in an attractive way. Try being more fun and playful with your boundries and directions. Alphas don't have to bark orders because the women in their life naturally respect them. Any back talk is met with humor and jest because her opinion has such little influence over him. If you're getting angry, defensive or tense when you discuss this with her, you are in her frame and will never get her to go along with it.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 10:40 PM
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Yea man, this shit changed my life in ways I never even imagined. My story is a lot like yours. Got with my LTR when I was 19 and been together ever since. That was over a decade ago. Also like you, I was alpha at first before getting caught up in bullshit and turning beta. Before I found this stuff a few years ago, I was down to once or twice a month boring duty sex, and maybe one BJ a month that was always prefaced with "do I have to?". Shit was soul crushing. I've put in some good effort and …
/r/askMRP14/02/17 01:52 PM
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Tell her once to turn it off or you're going to throw it out the window. If she keeps playing, throw it out the window. Seriously, if this were caveman times and she was purposefully keeping you awake at night, you'd probably be sluggish and get eaten by a Sabertooth tiger. You cannot tolerate this kind of behavior. Take back control of your house.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 01:18 PM
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Don't hate your wife because you're a pussy ass bitch. So what, you wished you could go back in time and marry a nice sweet, submissive and wholesome woman who will cook and clean for you and blow you every night? Good luck with that man. My bet would be that every other woman would treat you the same way your wife does. Women take the shape of the man they are with. They will love and respect a strong masculine man and resent and disrespect a weak pussy. Stop thinking like there's some wholesom…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 04:37 PM
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Yea but women always have a plan B. There are a lot of guys who have nothing to offer besides the resources they provide. Maybe they're short, ugly, or whatever. Back in the day, if you worked and could provide for yourself and a wife, you could get a girl to marry you because the social norms enforced by the "patriarchy" encouraged women to do so. Feminism and the sexual revolution took that away from these lesser males, who now have no reason to live. Working is no longer good enough to get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:22 PM
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But the men aren't happy to be essentially getting kicked out of society. Women have it all now, they can work and stay single forever, or choose a man, or wait a long time and hold out for a top tier alpha male. Many men have zero options. It's work and stay single forever, or quit society and likely starve to death. They don't have that plan B women have of not working and getting taken care of by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:10 PM
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No, but almost every woman had the ability to not work and get taken care of by a man. However, women have chosen to not let inferior men take care of them and would rather work, which is fair, but now all those "inferior" men are getting depressed and rejecting society because they no longer have a place in it or a reason to keep going. Again, not saying it's good or bad, it's just the reality of the current state of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:08 PM
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Men are upset because they are the worker bees. They do the jobs that need to get done and that women don't want to do. Women claim to want equality but only fight for access to nice cushy office jobs, then celebrate themselves that they are able to do things that men have been thanklessly doing for years. This, plus the open sexual marketplace means there are a lot of unsatisfied "worker bees" in the population. Women are no longer encouraged to be modest and monogamous, and are actively ignori…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:41 PM
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Your problem is that you give a fuck what she thinks, and what she thinks about you. Your frame is weak and that's why she's not submitting to you. Women don't submit to pussy ass men. That shit you pulled where you got all pissy and slammed on the brakes, or asked her to explain herself, or whatever was weak as fuck. My girl is the same way as yours, and routinely states that all men are scum and should be sent to camps or whatever, woman power is the best, blah blah blah... and all that shit. …
/r/askMRP13/02/17 03:10 PM
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Attractive guys get to be assholes and still get laid because they're attractive. You're not all the way there yet, and your wife is pissed that the beta bux she signed up for is trying to act like an alpha. My first bit of advice to you would be to shut the fuck up about any "changes". You're not changing anything, this was you all along, and you're just being yourself. About the tests, a simple way to keep track of shit vs. Comfort tests is to look at them like this; if she is talking about yo…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 01:55 PM
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For the record, I believe that 90% of these "cucking gone wrong" stories are written by guys and they jack off reading the replies, but this post brings up a certain point that I think is important. The Chad here just "gets it" and that's what is so hot. Obviously the sex and relationships subs will just tell her to "communicate" with her husband and explain what she likes, but we all know that's bullshit. This comment by the OP sums it up nicely I think... "There's something really hot about a …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 07:04 PM
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If women were vulnerable during sex, they would only choose to have sex with soft gentle guys. We know that's not the case and women prefer strong, aggressive and dominant male partners. When women are really vulnerable is during pregnancy and with a baby. That is why they favor stronger and more aggressive males, because those males will be better able to protect her and her baby from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 05:06 PM
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"I'll put your ass to work" Then throw her down, flip her over, spank her, toss her, whatever you wanna do man.
/r/askMRP01/02/17 01:44 AM
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This is the right move, but I would drop the last part about having other girls or several. Guys who can get several girls don't need to humble brag about it, it just comes off as pathetic. Just own up to the porn because it's not a big deal and move on.
/r/askMRP29/01/17 06:10 PM
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She knows you think her sister is hot and she secretly wants you to have the balls to be honest and tell her.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 04:32 AM
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You're still balls deep in her frame, and that's why the sex is on "her terms". You're doing all this stuff so that SHE will find you attractive, so that SHE will want to fuck you, so that SHE will respect and admire you. It's the wrong way to go about this. You need to approach it completely independent of her. That's the only way you'll ever get out of her frame. This is all about you, she is just one of many bitches with holes you can fuck. There is nothing special about her. Focus entirely o…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 06:59 PM
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Trump shit tests are definitely on the rise. I've been getting them from my girl, as well as most females at my job. When it comes to your girl, why do you give a fuck? She's not going to leave you for a male feminist. Be as big an asshole as you want about trump. Your problem is that you're giving too many fucks. When it comes to the women at my work, I'm a little more tactful about being an asshole because I don't want to get HR'd.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 02:19 AM
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Sorry, I must have missed that part in the sea of puke and shit I had to wade through to get to the bottom of your post. Don't say "it's hard" ever again. It's not hard, you're just soft. This is real life. It's not hard, it's just how it is. Talking about how hard it is is asking for pity and setting you up for forgiveness if/when you fail. I don't care because I don't know you, and your wife doesn't care because she's a woman. If you haven't already, read the 48 laws of power. Law 30: Make you…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 06:42 PM
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"Boohoo, I could have done things in my past that would have made my life better today." No shit sherlock. I could have dumped my life savings into Google or Apple stock and been a millionaire, but I didn't. I also don't cry about it via rambling stories on the internet. Get over your past dude. No one lives a perfect life. You're being way too negative, and whether you're saying it overtly or not, your wife will pick up on it. Stop being so negative about the effort you have to put in now. It's…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 06:25 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ Took me less than 30 seconds to find on google. How do you expect your wife to respect you when you can't even do a simple Internet search?
/r/askMRP20/01/17 10:32 PM
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You need to show her you don't give a fuck from the start. She opened the door to her frame with that first line about the dishes and you jumped right in. Next time, don't give a fuck from the start. "Yea I am tired, can you carry me to bed?" Or some other smart ass comment, then just tease, ignore, deflect or A&A any other shitty comments she has going forward. This is a tough part for a lot of new guys, but it's ok to just let your wife be angry. She bases reality on her emotions, which isn't …
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:32 PM
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You made the right call ignoring those texts. You maybe could have teased her about her spending it, but saying nothing was also the right response. Whenever I piss my gf off and I know I'm walking into a shit storm, I always stay happy. Her emotions have no influence over me. Also, I like to just blow her shit up and get it out there. Call her out for being mad, for being a pouty brat and just have fun and don't give a fuck. Whatever you do, DO NOT try to argue any of her points, do not try to …
/r/askMRP19/01/17 05:16 PM
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Your girl needs to be putting in more effort into the relationship than you. If she's not, then she doesn't respect you and is not worth keeping around. Decide what it is exactly that you want in a relationship and find a girl that will do those things and more. I'm currently in a position where I don't have time to cook, clean, run errands, and do the many other miscellaneous things my girl does for me. I focus on the big picture and bringing my life up to the next level, and she does the small…
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