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| 1 | Applied some slight text dread game the last couple of weeks. LTR just exploded out of the blue over text and I had to explain. Was it right?Sorry I'm really NOT gonna take the time to give you examples. As you said, KMG was a clown, yet he was flaired. So the rest of your post is basically irrelevant. This is enough to prove my point. I'm sorry you take so much pride out of your online ribbon, for me it doesn't mean all that. Okay, maybe it means that you're knowledgeable. Doesn't mean that you are infaillible, or even sensible. If we're talking about numbers, I'm well over 50. I'm probably around 80. My 3 best friends are above 200… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Applied some slight text dread game the last couple of weeks. LTR just exploded out of the blue over text and I had to explain. Was it right?It's a pathetic mentality to follow everything EC say. They sometimes give bad advice or are straight up clowns like ketomoose gains and a couple others. This is ultimately an online platform, a flair is very little legitimacy. Personally, I judge a comment by its content, not by who posted it. The hivemind mentality is the enemy of critical thinking. I have been reading TRP for 5 years and comparing it to reality, I have more than a good grasp on sexual strategy. And I regularly disagree with E… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Is it me? or are girls today more on that "princess" mindset.Just don't partake. It makes it a lot harder to get sex from dating apps or social media unless you're hot. But I can't stand chasing after randos who want me to do the dancing monkey. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | LTR upset that I only talked about sex with her recentlyLol you got played like a fiddle. That shit she pulled at the end, shows that you acrually failed this shit hard. If you had played your cards right, she'd be coming over and giving you the ride of ypur life. Instead she broke your frame and then turned you into a little bitch who she's punishing by withdrawing her presence | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is getting quite jealous recently, what can be the reasons?No that's not what happened. A dude she thought was a friend started telling her he was envious of me, sending her songs etc. She ghosted him. Then about a week later another of her acquaintances made some weird comments on her instagram pictures and she told me she realized that most of these guys just secretly hope to get in her pants one day except for a couple of them. So she was like fuck all of them I don't even know why I still have them. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Should I have sex with girls I'm not super attracted toAudi is not a 5, more like a 6. I'd say a Volkswagen is a good 5. BMW is a 6.5 | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What was the reason for your mind shift from beta to alpha and discovering TRPWhat for? Not wanting the 26yr old beta? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Potential Fight... What's the best course of action?It's going to sound really stupid but...my father is a small dude, about 5'6. He met some bullies like this guy sometimes in his life, but he isn't a bitch. He just doesn't take losing fights. If you're really set on solving this problem yourself, because of dignity. Keep going to this bar. If this guy crosses the line, don't threaten him or anything. Track him, ambush him some day with a weapon, while hiding your identity (mask, hood whatever), and fuck him up. Even the toughest guys end up cra… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:24 PM |
| -4 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..I read it. I've used the pull out method for eight years mate. Actually I'll tell you more, I cum inside girls vaginas during specific windows of their ovulation cycle and I've never had a problem. If a girl has a very steady cycle and you know it, a basic understanding of biology is a very efficient form of birth control. The sperm survives for 5 days MAX in the fallopian tubes of a female. Most girls have around a 28 days cycle. Just count about one week as a safety measure. You can literally … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:09 PM |
| -2 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..Yes use protection for random hookups. But it still sucks, it completely dulls the sensation for me, I don't really enjoy it. If you have a girlfriend, why would you ever use a condom. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 14 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..Haha you need to chill. I see so many of these posts, but they just show that you're still clueless. When you'll find a girl you think is smoking hot, and you make that girl your submissive slut that you fuck roughly like she's your property without any sort of inhibition or holding back...and you do it to her everywhere for a little while....then you'll know what sex can be. Also condoms, they suck. Trust me right now, you've lived nothing. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | LTR & AWALT: How Much Does A Woman's Sexual History Matter?That's so much horseshit, makes you wonder how many of you actually have been out there and met women. Some girls lose their virginity to a KID, a highschool crush that they "date" for 3 months, and then never see again after college starts. They have missionary sex and he can barely move his 4 inch cock. Girls pair bond with thr first alpha of their life. That's it. It can be you even after she took 20 dicks. It just depends on context. Some girls have an n-count above 10, but that doesn't mean… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | LTR & AWALT: How Much Does A Woman's Sexual History Matter?Hey man just saying, you can absolutely put her in her place. You're telling us that this girl is submissive to you and in your frame. I had a situation in the past with an ex girlfriend. I knew 3 of her past sexual partners, and she was speaking in the car with her girl friend in her native language, which I can't understand. However she mentioned those 3 names in a row, and I instantly knew what she was talking about. I stopped the car, and I asked her what she thought she was talking about. S… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:42 AM |
| 13 | LTR & AWALT: How Much Does A Woman's Sexual History Matter?The way I see it is very simple. If it bothers you, you can just tell her the next time that you don't want to hear about it, you're not her girlfriend and it's of no interest to you. It's not weak or beta or jealous behaviour. It's normal. It's just setting a boundary. Now, personnally, I would never entertain the idea of LTRing a girl who has had a train run on her. Apparently, she's had multiple, and she probably sampled a lot of cock. It's just because a girl who has allowed other men to deg… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get rejected?Very little, because I mostly run social circle game, so it's pretty easy for me to gauge the situation. Also I'm very good at reading girls, so I don't take that many risks. If she doesn't seem interested, personnally I will never chase. I don't care enough. Doesn't mean that I get laid every time I try something, but I don't get rejected either. It's more in the lines of some girls want more out of me and I don'y bend that way. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | why do I get scared by girls that like me?You're afraid of success because you don't know what to do and you feel like you're not up to the task. When a girl likes you, she has a positive image of you, and you probably think negatively of yourself and you're scared that you won't live up to her expectations. Also, you're afraid of rejection, because it takes a fool to lose in a favorable situation. And you believe that you're capable of fucking it up. We've been there, most of us. Goes away after a few positive experiences, but you'll h… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | TRP in decline?Reality changes, just not that fast. I think TRP might just be losing traction because it's a hard pill to swallow, and not everyone is able to do it. I'm in a very easy relationship at the moment, so for me TRP right now is pretty easy to use, but I don't doubt I'd find all this shit depressing again when shit hits the fan. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:41 AM |
| 2 | LDR's are never a thing, under any circumstances... right?The last part is the most important. Keep busy and build abundance. I remember when my LDR started. I had already swallowed the pill and was aware of AWALT. I was so anxious that it would all crash down, that I'd become a cuck etc. Then spring hit, sun came out, and I was always outside doing stuff, going out with friends and coincidentally meeting girls. I ended up thinking about my girlfriend very little, mostly at the end of the day or when I was doing something we enjoyed doing together. And… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Grooming & Hygiene, what are some things that we forget that really make a difference?You're doing more than most with the charcoal thing. I don't even bother with that. You can maybe tweeze between your eyebrows if needed sometimes. Trim your nose hair if needed. That's about it really. Ultimately, being out in the sun, being active, lifting and having a decent diet and sleeping habits are what make you look better than other scrubs. Ah yeah one thing, I use some garnier oil on my hair, makes it super soft. And about every other day I use body lotion, girls always tell me I have… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:39 AM |
| 6 | LDR's are never a thing, under any circumstances... right?Dude don't let an online platform govern your damn life. Remember that the people here have no fucking reign over your life and their opinion is ultimately irrelevant. The way you wrote this message sounds very beta, like you come here not really for advice, but to report to strangers because you're afraid of doing something you obviously want because some community said "nope". Realize first that half of the posters here are virgins, or wannabe alphas who are posing on the internet. If you feel… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you say thank you without validating a person/putting them on a pedestal?Say thank you, I really appreciate it/means a lot. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend hangs out 1 to 1 with this guy she's known since childhood. I'm not concerned she'll do something with him but I don't like the situation. How do I tell her this without coming out as insecure/butthurt?As others said, your only viable move is to apply dread by hanging out with a girl 1 on 1. This happened to me two weeks ago, my girlfriend mentioned two guys that we met while travelling and that they texted on whatsapp because they live around. One of them sent her a song being sentimental and shit and saying he's a bit jelly of me, and she cut that shit real quick and he's blocked everywhere. The other one I know, he's a skinny 6'6 twig who wouldn't hurt a fly. She said she might meet him one… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend hangs out 1 to 1 with this guy she's known since childhood. I'm not concerned she'll do something with him but I don't like the situation. How do I tell her this without coming out as insecure/butthurt?That would imply that the girlfriend is ugly and the other guy has options, which is a very rare case. I have 1 female friend I would never bang. She's like a sister to me and I'm absolutely not attracted to her. I have another one who's smoking hot but nothing would ever happen unless a lot of alcohol or drugs are involved because we respect each others relationships and happiness. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 10:48 AM |
| 3 | After NC for 2 months, she messages me again.What a stupid fucking advice. I can't believe how moronic some of the people on this sub are. What a princess mentality. It's about reading the signals. If he thought he could have fucked her that night, he should've gone. Abundance mentality is just a concept designed to keep you away from oneitis, bad deals and to help you maintain frame. It's not fucking designed to keep you away from free pussy. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 06:11 PM |
| 14 | Have you ever met a red piller in the real world? If so what is the protocol?Yes and it was cringy as fuck. I met 2 guys in the queue of a club in Sydney, I was with my friends and my girlfriend. They started talking to us, and from what they were saying I immediately recognized TRP. They were however completely over doing it, they were trying really hard to be alpha, claimed they were gonna get "borderline rapey" tonight because that's what girls secretly want, illustrating it by telling me they stopped a girl on the street last week and told her straight up they were g… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Can you still be friends with a girl but not her beta orbiter?She's not extracting anything. I don't give her any attention if she doesn't call. Otherwise literally every person is doing this | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Can you still be friends with a girl but not her beta orbiter?Untrue. Met a girl about 3 years ago. I was attracted to her at first, which led me to get to know her more. She was in a long distance relationship and I think she wasn't rly interested in my anyway. When I realized that, I stopped gaming her. But I still appreciated her, she's a really cool chick. And now, she has a new boyfriend, and she always, always calls me, asks to meet etc. I literally never contact her first. And it never goes beyond friendship. Yet she keeps calling. It's rare but som… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I have an affair. My erections don't last long.It was just one night stands. I was fine in the beginning of the relationships, but once it got serious with my girlfriend I didn't rly enjoy any of them anymore. I'd say my last ~4 ONS I didn't feel really into it. It's mostly the fact that the girl is enjoying it, and I don't actually care about her enjoying it. Only my girlfriend. So it fucks with my head. Last ONS I had, everything pissed me off. I was rly into the seduction etc, but I didn't like the way she was kissing, moaning, when she w… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 12:26 PM |
| 3 | I have an affair. My erections don't last long.Happened to me. It's just that I bang my girlfriend every damn day. So when I got with another girl, it just felt weird that it wasn't my girlfriend. I had to "adapt" | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants kids more every time I reject the idea.It's really not complicated.... You reply, yeah I want kids someday, but not now. If we are still together then, then it will be with you. If she says "what do you mean if we're still together". You say "you know, life happens. Since the dawn of time, people have been in love and out of love, have married then divorced. I'm not hoping for that, but I'm not going to pretend it can't happen to everyone". Done. If she has anything negative to say, tell her to stfu. At no point, you lose frame in do… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.To be fair my girl was like that at first. But I opened her to a lot of things, and she became much more interesting. She had no hobbies when I met her. Now she's rly into interior decoration and customisation, and photography. I introduced her to both, suggested we build her desk instead of buying it, and got her to buy a DSLR instead of a stupid compact camera. I would probably introduce her to more things if we lived together. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.I don't hide my concerns to her. It's too shitty to be in a relationship and not be able to talk about emotions with your partner. However I make sure to NEVER go on and on about it. Like I say what I'm feeling sometimes, we talk about it a bit, then case closed. People, not only women HATE whiners. If someone is always complaining and whining, you start getting rly annoyed with them and I'm well aware of it. The only "real" problem I have is long streaks of poor sleep. And she always asks me if… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.A year. No, she really is that way. I mean, she's been that way since she's fallen in love. She was more distant and cold the first ~2 months. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.Thank you. That's exactly how I see it. It's a tool. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.I actually cheated on her, many times. It was always a one time thing, no further texting, not even a second round. I wouldn't ever cheat on my girlfriend by having regular side chicks. That's just too fucked up for me. It is too much lying and involvment. So I am left with ONS. And a few months ago, I analyzed the situation. I barely have any memories of those encounters. I forgot their exact faces, the sound of their voice, how I felt in that moment. I did it to feel validated, to be a player.… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.Could have happened earlier in the relationship. We talked about it, the friend was attracted to me, we previously had sex while she was in the same room etc. Then we went on a small trip and she was invited. We got cold feet. I didn't want any feelings hurt, and I saw she was not so sure anymore. Better that way I think | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 10:15 AM |
| 12 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.She's far more attractive than I am. I'm really, really fit, but I have an average to below average face. She's a hb7.5 small blonde with a big ass and a great style. However I'm much more intelligent, experienced, and "cooler" than her. She has discovered a lot of things with me, and it was always a dynamic where I was leading her and getting her out of her comfort zone. She sees me as higher value for sure. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 09:57 AM |
| 20 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.Yes I realize that. She wrote me letters as a side gift for my birthday, with different themes. In one of these she basically says she admires me for my intelligence, my confidence, my willpower. She sees me as some kind of failproof dude who gets everything right and who's capable of anything. Whatever comes up she always tells me that I'll be fine, if anyone can do it it's me. It's set me to a high standard and I love it. It gives me that extra motivation when I feel like slipping, because I d… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 09:53 AM |
| 2 | A woman's type describes the guy she's currently seeingApparently you can even tell bullshit over the internet through a comment, you're that good. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | A woman's type describes the guy she's currently seeingQuick look into a girl's instagram will tell you if she's bullshitting you or not. I look like her real life version of her celebrity crushes. How's your hamster? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | A woman's type describes the guy she's currently seeingHe probably could have, but she was a lot less attractive than my girlfriend so I don't think he cared. That girl was insecure as fuck so I think she'd have switched just because he was much more attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 07:51 PM |
| 13 | A woman's type describes the guy she's currently seeingIt's gonna sound very pretentious, but I have the kind of intelligence that fascinates some people. I'm not talking about being good at maths etc, but I'm extremely smart, emotionally mature and I have seen and done a lot of things. I don't get very far on looks, I'm extremely fit but my face is terribly average bar a beautiful smile and okay eyes. But I have class, and everyone thinks I'm brilliant. I do extremely well in 1 on 1, but pretty bad in bars, clubs etc. I have had many people in my l… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 12:18 PM |
| 27 | A woman's type describes the guy she's currently seeingThis isn't necessarily true. My girlfriend has dated what you'd call "Megachads" before me, Kevin Trapp, professional soccer goalkeeper and much more attractive than me, and a guy on Germany's next top model. Yet I'm her #1 bang and she claims I'm exactly her type. In fact I cucked the german dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Messy situation with LTR of 5 years - I've become extremely beta, she broke up and had a brief rebound, now that I'm improving in every way I can, she begs me to let her come back. I have mixed feelingsExactly. Being redpilled, I would never blame my girl for leaving me if I became a beta bitch again. I'm all too aware of the competition and a girl is a human being after all. If I'm not giving her what she needs, she'll get it somexhere else. I'd do the same. Hell I already do. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Me "not asking" is becoming a problem. Tips?I'm in the opinion that if you care about your relationship and your girl, you should try to make her feel included. Strong relationships are the ones where you're a team, but you're the leader. I always, always ask my girl about how she feels. Now, that doesn't mean that I will act based on how she feels. But if she disagrees with me, or feels bad about something, I will at least hear her out, and I'll either reassure her or explain to her why I'm going through with my actions. The very importa… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Don't touch Men.I was coming twice to four times a day from sex or sexual acts. First of all, most of that burden was on my girlfriend who doesn't have a high libido, so it kind of drained her a lot. And secondly, it just fucked with my energy and general motivation. I feel much more energetic and "wired" when I cum less, once a day or 5 times a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Don't touch Men.Well considering my submission is about having too much sex, it kinda proves my claim, doesn't it? Also it's asktrp, it's not about giving advice, but asking for some. And I figured it out for myself, I was definitely cumming too often | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 05:00 AM |
| 8 | Don't touch Men.To be honest whether the story is fake or not isn't even the real sticking point here. People come to this sub for advice. Mainly on sexual strategy. You don't need to write an exaggerated, delusional, self-aggrandizing novel to explain your point. You only do it because you need to satisfy your ego, to get validated in your internet badass fantasy. Yes, you could say that illustrating a point with examples and stories reinforces it, but all I see here is a lot of fluff that only serves your men… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 04:40 AM |
| 13 | Don't touch Men.Your story makes no sense. AmateurFighter fights dudes in a cage, pushes instructors on the floor, threatens them, but somehow becomes a total pussy with you, eventhough right before he apparentlt thought so little of you he fucking threatened, then assaulted your brother right in front of you like you didn't even matter. It reads fake, and you seem so much up your own arse it's probably some ego mental masturbation. Then you add some passive aggressive comments in the middle towards the reader … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 04:24 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants to travel solo.I only started having great game after a lot of exposure and a lot of trial and error. Before I came for the first time in Australia, 2,5 years ago, I was average at best. I did good in my social circle because I have the "cool" factor and I'm popular and well spoken, but with random chicks I was pretty bad, granted I didn't try that much. The best way to get good is to practice. Backpacking means you're around random chicks 24/7. It's like a training camp for getting good at gaming chicks. Now … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 04:08 AM |
| 34 | LTR wants to travel solo.It's over bro I'm sorry, I feel for you man. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:07 AM |
| 57 | LTR wants to travel solo.I'm backpacking in Australia right now. Between december 24th and January 6th I fucked 4 girls who all had a boyfriend not around. Hours after meeting them. Fuck my friends gangbanged a spanish girl wjose boyfriend was coming in less than a week. Five of them. And I've seen 9 girls out of 10 cheat. Granted, your girl will only be away for a month but trust me solo travel girls usually skyrocket their n-count. I'm sorry bro, I'm usually not the kind of dude who's like "Your girl took 4 dicks on t… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:00 AM |
| 3 | How much sex is too much sex?I don't know who harvey is but he must be a horny motherfucker. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend asks me "do you miss me" every day. How do I reply to this? Kind of annoying/ demandingHaha I like that girl | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Is my ex best friend's ex that i was friends with off limits?I did it, and the number one factor that mattered was how my friend was doing with girls. When I did it, despite my friend's blessing, he was weird with me afterwards. I knew that he had been struggling with girls. He was being friendzoned by a cock tease, and I was fucking his ex who dumped him. No matter how much he convinced himself he'd be fine with it, he was affected. After a month, he started hitting it off with another girl and eventually fucked her. He became totally cool with me again.… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Wanna-be-alpha trying to pick on me, pours a drink on my head. Critique me.Yeah you could. Except you wouldn't, because that's how it works in real life. If you sense that a man is ready to defend his dignity and you might end getting fucked up, you'll think twice about pouring a drink on his head. And you'll probably stop way before that. This guy got humiliated because he put himself in that position, he never set any boundary. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Wanna-be-alpha trying to pick on me, pours a drink on my head. Critique me.So you're saying you're willing to let someone walk all over you, take away your dignity and your right to physical safety because you're afraid of the consequences of defending yourself from that? You're a coward, there are things that have to be done sometimes, and you can't shy away from them. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Wanna-be-alpha trying to pick on me, pours a drink on my head. Critique me.Are you serious? So I can just come over and take a piss on your back and you won't do shit about it? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 04:10 AM |
| 4 | A Plate asking who my current Girlfriend is.LOL | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | I don't get it. Why is it so difficult for me to get laid?Truth. Once you get some momentum sex just feels like the natural following step to meeting a girl and you just have to cruise to sex. And then you end up banging a lot more girls because you just have the mojo | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 11:10 PM |
| 9 | 27 and lost my virginity todaySex is now 1000x better than it was for the first times for me. Find someone hot that you care for, get her on an IUD and you can have raw animalistic sex everyday. Condom with a random prostitute is worse than a wank for me. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaThe fuck do you read on this sub. My mom always encouraged me to go out and live a man's life, slay and enjoy. She just loves bragging about having a beautiful and attractive son, that's it. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Tell me about some of your quickest tinder lays.Matched with Scandinavian girl late at night, 1 AM or smth. She straight up asked for my location. I gave her the adress of the street next to mine and she said it was a 40 min walk for her. Then she said she was on her way. She walked for close to a goddamn hour actually to come to my place, I just said hi to her, she came inside and took her clothes off straight away. I was like "well, ok then". Got hot nordic pussy delivered to my front door at 2 AM with 0 effort. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Suicidal thoughts and depressionI've been there dude. What worked for me was a change of environment. I essentially did a fresh start. Moved across the world, went travelling, made new friends, tried new things. Renewed my appetite for life. In my old life I felt like a loser and I felt trapped in that frame. I just decided to break the frame instead of breaking myself. I won't say more than that, you need to act now. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?Yeah, and it's not only about looks. I have 3 friends who are naturals. Two of them look like chads, the last one looks average to ugly, has bad facial aesthetics. My two hot friends naturally do better than him and plow through 50+ girls a year without trying, but the third one still goes through a good 20 girls a yeae consistently. His secret? Doesn't give a fuck, just tries with every girl he likes. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 03:16 AM |
| 0 | My girl admitted to me she was attracted to a guy at a party yesterdayI don't think she wants anyone other than me to be honest. She is crazy about me, but at the same time I got with her right as she was riding the CC. We are travelling and live in a hostel. She is german and 20. She admitted to me that she had only 2 partners in germany but had 10 here in australia in 6 months. However she also told me she never felt that way for anyone else and I'm sure that I'm the alpha of her partners in her eyes. I've taught her to swallow my cum which she never did with an… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | My girl admitted to me she was attracted to a guy at a party yesterdayBecause I wanted to. I'm not gonna live in fear of what may or may not happen and shy away from it, I prefer to confront these things and see how I measure up. It's how you grow as a man and learn how to deal with these situations. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 08:34 AM |
| 1 | My girl admitted to me she was attracted to a guy at a party yesterdayNo, it's just that we have a no bullshit policy between us. I'd rather have her tell me exactly how she feels than her hiding it. The day before she told me she noticed another girl was attracted to me. I said "yeah, I know she was trying to get my attention" then she said "she's pretty" and I replied, "yeah she's hot". I'm fine with it | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Is there such thing as a 'too tight' pussy?Depends on the people. I have a thicker dick than usual (need 60 mm condoms) and there have been a couple girls I just couldn't have quick sex with. The logistics made it so that we never really had a chance to prepare anf it just wouldn't fit. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Some girls seem to actively try to not look at me/interact with me.Yeah it's really easy, basically relies solely on the numbers game. Just being around, someone eventually gonna like you whether you try or not. Pretty much what happened to me, was sitting next to a german girl and she said something in german to her friend while arching her back and looking in pain. I just asked her if her back hurts and she nodded then turned her back to me, initiating for a massage. She kept telling me to go higher with my thumbs until I had my hands cupping her boobs with m… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Some girls seem to actively try to not look at me/interact with me.Yeah it's been better since. Most of these girls actually wanted to talk to me. Got a girl who's down and one who's warming up nicely | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Some girls seem to actively try to not look at me/interact with me.I do, but I just have a hard time solicitibg girls who don't even have the decency to say hello or introduce themselves properly, even if just out of courtesy. Instantly turns me off | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Going to Australia backpacking tomorrow, advice to maximize experience?Got a six pack, but not the right face haha. I just posted that I would land in Sydney Thurdsday and if some people wanted to grab a drink and got some replies. Some hot blonde even said "just name a time and a place, xx". Gonna be fun! | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a dykeFail to see how her being a lesbian seems relevant here. Best advice is to hold your frame, your ground and be fair. As long as what you do doesn't create a toxic work atmosphere without purpose it'll diffuse itself. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Some on TRP say the ideal man is tall, handsome, and white; how big of a setback is it if a guy is tall, handsome, but not white?Kissless hugless handholdless touchless complimentless eyefuckless virgin until death* | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:06 AM |
| 3 | How do guys rationalize feeling good about having "mediocre bodies" and being "slackers"?Some people literally don't give a shit too. It's a pretty alpha trait inmy eyes actually. I have an old friend who is passionate about web design and music. That's all his energy is driven towards, he has goals, he works towards them, creates stuff etc. Doesn't give much thought to how his body looks at all. Only cares about his clothes and his beard. I don't see that in a negative light at all. In fact he's more of an alpha than I am because he has a mission and everyone sees that it's his pri… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:00 AM |
| 1 | When a guy targeting you won't let you alone... would you remove him from your life "without mercy"?Did the right thing obviously. Maybe ask yourself why was he attacking you so much. I've only been targeted by a dude once in my life and retrospectively I was a huge beta bitch at the time although I thought I wasn't. Worth thinking about. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Going to Australia backpacking tomorrow, advice to maximize experience?Most of my friends told me Aussie chicks were the hardest to lay and not worth the effort. Backpacker chicks were easy pickings. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Going to Australia backpacking tomorrow, advice to maximize experience?Everything I saw about WA looked gorgeous though. I'll definitely skip Ayer's, unless it's with special people. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Going to Australia backpacking tomorrow, advice to maximize experience?Thanks for the advice. Just joined the biggest group and the first post I see is a legit 9.5 girl askingfor travelmates for a roadtrip. Obviously tons of guys answered and she ignored every single one of them, understandably. Still, sounds good haha. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Having success with this Tinder strategyI'm not gonna bother uploading 12+ pictures on my computer and edit them all to hide my number just so that 1% of people in this sub maybe can profit from them.m since it's in French. If you don't believe me that's your problem, not mine | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Small idea/visualization that boosted my confidence in conversation with women.To be fair though, these are some seriously bad looking girls in the first place. I spent a year living in youth hostels, and I saw thousands of girls' morning faces. Some look terrible, some look beautiful even without makeup. However, it's true that men generally look better than women without trying. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Having success with this Tinder strategyI don't know, I guess they think it's tryhard. It's just me though, I can't bear longer conversations on Tinder, it's just something that bores me to death. So I'd rather be cheesy and over the top and get what I want, than be too normal and demotivate myself. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Having success with this Tinder strategyYeah, no that's not too much talking. In fact it's barely enough. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:31 PM |
| 17 | Having success with this Tinder strategyVa sauter d'un pont* for the rhyme | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 11:50 AM |
| -7 | Having success with this Tinder strategyYou're terribly wrong. You have to realize that girls can get hundreds of matches a week. So what you say is actually extremely relevant, otherwise you're just another match that doesn't go anywhere. Especially in my case since I didn't make any effort with the pictures. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 09:51 AM |
| 8 | Having success with this Tinder strategyI only swipe on girls I'd be motivated enough to meet. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Having success with this Tinder strategyIn real life you have to calibrate a lot more, this is too forward for most girls. But on Tinder, first of all, you don't have to give a shit. Secondly, since you don't have to give a shit, you can be completely honest. Just say whatever you REALLY want to say, which usually means you want to talk about sex or meeting her. Then turn those thoughts into questions or statements that trigger a reaction. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Having success with this Tinder strategyNo, I've stopped watching pick up videos a long time ago. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:13 AM |
| 9 | Having success with this Tinder strategyAll the pictures have my face in it, but they're all taken from a distance and it's not good resolution because I took em from my FB. Like my first pic is in the desert from 20 feet away, second is with a girl sitting on the porch of a beach cabin from 20 feet away, and third is me jumping inyo a natural rock pool striking a pose right as my feet enter the water which looks like I'm Jesus, but I have a hand in front of my face. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:11 AM |
| 22 | Having success with this Tinder strategyConversations are in French, so useless to most people here. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Having success with this Tinder strategyI don't see what's cringe worthy to be honest. The 50 shades of Grey one was more tongue in cheek, but if you want to make the conversation sexual fast, you have to take shortcuts and sometimes it's hard to make it elegant so I do my best with what they give me. What I find cringe worthy however is most of the stuff on r/Tinder. Guys trying way too hard to be original and funny | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Try this. Quit social media.I'd say you should just delete everyone that is annoying or that isn't important to you. It's better. I went from 700 smth friends to 50 and now it's all good. There is a lot less publications and notifications. I don't spend any time on it anymore, except to organize things. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Vitamins/medication for laziness?? I just rejected a 3some possibility.Others are right, this event in particular, I think it was more anxiety than anything. But in general about laziness, you have to do things. The more things you do, the less lazy you become, there's some kind of inertia about it. I'd suggest to start lifting, and to go out with people, find activities to meet more people. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksIt's been two days, calm down. However, proper nutrition helps with everything. If you eat well for a month or so coming from a bad diet, you'll see a huge difference. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Do femimine attention from woman satisfy your crave for attention and interest?I am actually down that road, and my answer would be yes, and no. I feel good when I get attention from women, it does make me a happier person. However, I'm looking for a love that is so idealized that I might never get it. Rollo said men have to come to terms with the fact that women can't love them the way they want them to. And that's pretty much what is always missing for me, I have a deeper need for love that is just never satisfied, love I didn't receive even from my own mother when I nee… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 11:05 AM |
| 5 | On Curing OneitisI just got a message invite from my last oneitis about an hour ago sibce I've deleted her from facebook. The message started with "Sorry I'm only..". Didn't even bother reading the message and just ignored then deleted it. I felt so good afterwards.. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 11:10 PM |
| 3 | If you start to be complacent, you're just not shooting high enough.No my ideal isn't to reach that level or mimic anybody. My ideal is to reach a point where I feel completely at ease with who I am and what I have, no matter what the context is. The only thing I have to keep going forward is this deep, raging hunger I have since I have stopped being afraid. I turned my sadness and fear into determination and ambition. Sometimes I slip and find myself doing all the wrong things again. But unlike before, I have something built up that I want to defend now, and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I Am Questioning My Views...It seems nowadays that women are just bitter at the fact that they're biologically weaker than men, and generally achieve less in life, not because they're oppressed in my opinion, but because they're more timid and submissive by nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 11:32 AM |
| 19 | Never Get Emotionally Involved With a Woman Who Has Lots Of TattoosThat's anecdotal, especially if you're talking about women with a /single/ tattoo. It's very common. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 11:29 AM |
| 6 | German Women Chanting Allahu Akbar - The West & Islam; Beta Bux vs Alpha FuxI agree on the first part of your post. However, if you think western women are attracted to Islam and muslims, you've been smoking some good shit. Women want to have their cake and eat it too. Right now they have all the cards in their hands and for nothing they'd want that to change. They're free to follow their hypergamous agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Dear Men: Never Take Advice From Men About Women That You Never See With Women!The time where I improved the most with women, is when I spent a whole summer with a guy who's an absolute slayer. I didn't even ask him for tips, it's just that we were constantly around women so I could observe him, and we would talk about the women we wanted or were seeing so it was indirect advice. I learned more there about what kind of behavior attracts women the most than in years of reading. All in all, the biggest takeaway I got from him is that he was just clear in his intentions. He n… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Dear Men: Never Take Advice From Men About Women That You Never See With Women!I have to disagree on the funny part. It's probably because for "funny" to become "I want to jump his bones", you have to be REALLY funny. It also has to deal with the fact that very funny people usually are very confident and at ease in the spotlight, are good story tellers and seem interesting. I had a friend when I was 20 something who was hilarious and he was definitely getting a lot of pussy because of that, because he was impossible to forget so he'd stay on girls minds. And he'd make move… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up my chance with Oneitis, beating myself up over it, but some fucks are not worth it.It was the right move, in a few months if you continue swallowing and digesting TRP, you will see that girl for what she is, an attention whore. I had a very similar situation happen, except she wasn't in an LTR, just a hot bitch who was playing with every guy's mind. I decided to not play her game, and she couldn't handle it. Now I have no respect for her, and she probably got it since she finally stopped contacting me 2 or so months ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Boys don't cry, and girls don't ask whyYeah, I actually cry at whatever movies portray conflictual yet loving relationship between brothers and father/son, just because it relates to me. I'm actually a pretty "tough" guy I would say, but my older brother is my softest spot and I am his. We actually fucking cried last week while talking about some random feelings we have because we feel so much empathy towards each others. My brother is an ex convict, and someone who was involved in hardcore drug dealing and heists when younger, he's … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Who is a 10?I disagree, I have seen a few 10's in my lifetime, not because they were perfect because that doesn't make any sense, but because they were so attractive that it looked like they belonged to a different species. I mean if you rated them as 9's, then 8's would be VS models. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Day One- 1.25 miles and lifting tomorrowNot going to call you a pussy or anything like the others, but really this post should be deleted. It contributes nothing for now, and if you wanted to thank TRP, come back and do it when you actually turned your life around. Right now this post is mental masturbation and procrastination, I mean you're telling us about stuff that isn't even real yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/17 06:54 AM |
| 2 | I'd rather fuck a 2 than watch pornYeah that's the same for me, I live in the area with perhaps the prettiest girls in Europe and it's well known for it, so 8's and 9's from this scale are very common. It's not that you actually see much better looking girls than those 9's often, it's just that they're a dime a dozen so they shouldn't be considered 9's | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/17 06:02 AM |
| 2 | I'd rather fuck a 2 than watch pornIdk why but the 7 is mind fucking me right now. Like I can tell they're more attractive than the 6's and less than the 8's, but I wouldn't rate them as 7's except maybe one. I'd say they're 6.5, but then they would be too far away on the scale from the 8's. I can't figure it out haha | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Is she considered "pretty" enough & not fat? Said by every guy on Tinder subconsciously.You should give it a real try, and if it doesn't work, stop completely. I was having zero success with Tinder. Then I became curious and looked at other guys' profiles. My profile was literally the worst of them all, I had the shittiest, most boring pictures with no bio while the vast majority of guys were trying really hard. I took half an hour of my time and made the best profile I could possibly make with what I had and it worked much better. I got laid off Tinder that same month without even… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How 'not giving a fuck' helps in attracting women.Totally, the time where I got with the most girls in my life were the times where I was the busiest and happiest with myself. Also, I found out about this with texting. Couple times I was texting with a girl, some random banter, and then I thought of something extremely aggressive (sexually) and bold to text. Before I had the idgaf mentality I would never have sent those texts, but then I was like "bah, so what if she doesn't like it". Those texts instantly triggered sexual attraction and eventu… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Show your value and reap the benefitsLook, I just explained to you, that what sounds plausible, isn't necessarily as frequent as the media wants us to believe it is. I've been a backpacker, I know what I'm talkign about. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Show your value and reap the benefitsThe news tell a whole lot of things for the sake of sensationalism, I don't take what they say too seriously | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Show your value and reap the benefitsI've worked plenty in Australia and no boss ever asked any girl I know for sexual favours. And I worked alongside hundreds of girls, it's jsut a stupid statement | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Canceled dates and soft/hard nexting.Just let her initiate. If she's into you, she'll find an excuse | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Show your value and reap the benefitsFigs are not a full strip picking kind of fruit. They ripen each day during season, so when I say there were no more figs left, it means there were no more ripe figs left on the tree, but of course plenty of green ones or "almost there" ones. Figs are a very delicate fruit, plus they produice a juice that's extremely sticky and harsh. When it's 40°C outside, if you're slow to fill your buckets and have poor technique handling the fruits, they end up all sticking to each other and scratch or tear… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | It helps if you have a red pill role modelYou can tell the go-to inveted story now always involves an "mma fighter". It's the new thing delusional faggots obsess about. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 07:34 PM |
| 17 | Yes even your MotherThat's anecdotal though. The only thing my mother and most mothers I know do when their son is improving in whatever area of his life is encourage him and admire him. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | "You dont act like a black guy"Well you certainly don't act like a mountain goat | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | "You dont act like a black guy"Then try the "well, I always wanted to be white to be honest, I...,I.." then go silent for a second, look down then chuckle/exhale while awkwardly smiling and nodding your head and snap out of it with a "Okay!, where were we at?" | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I want to cryI used to be like you, trying to find the big meaning of all this and asking myself existential questions while withering away. What you have to come to terms with, is that you don't have a fucking choice. You will never get answers or find the truth of life. You can only live, and make that life as enjoyable as you can. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl that rejected me, after leading me on, now thinks im a creep?Just a dumb bitch, not worthy of an afterthought. I can understand if people get hung up on nice decent girls that rejected them, but a stupid bitch? Move on. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Hooking up in Japan?If you look very caucasian you'll be a god over there. I have a german blond buddy who's good looking and fit, he fucking SLAYED in Japan, it's easy mode. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:27 PM |
| 3 | "You dont act like a black guy""Well, I'm hung like one". Then wink and hold laser eye contact while biting your lip. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl texted me after 5 months.Don't give her any opportunity to talk about her bullshit, I'm sure you absolutely don't give a shit. Keep the conversation on you and her. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl texted me after 5 months.Look, if you WANT to reply, and obviously you do because you're asking us to give you permission, you should. But ONLY if it comes from the right place, that means, serves your interest to fuck this girl. If she shares that interest, you lose nothing. The moment you feel she has other motives, ghost her forever. Unless you're afraid of triggering your oneitis, then you shouldn't reply. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Found out in a funny way that some girls might think about you a lot more than you thinkMy god let me unsub from this shithole of a sub. | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Found out in a funny way that some girls might think about you a lot more than you thinkContext is important. Probabilities as well. Time frame. Correlation. Causation. It's like "you're overthinking it bro" has become a meme on r/seduction now. It's not a coincidence if 3 girls I've had on snap for years blocked me 2 days after I unfriended them on facebook. Maybe 1, fuck even 2 could be coincidence. Three? No way. And since the only mean to know if someone is still friends with you on FB is to check their profile, you get the point. Seems like people are actively trying to act sk… | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Found out in a funny way that some girls might think about you a lot more than you thinkI wasn't looking for them, I was deleting some snapchat contacts that were cluttering my stories feed, if you have 30 stories loading at the same time and you're gonna check maybe 3-4 of them it's unecessarily slow. I was planning on deleting them as they post useless shit every day, and I noticed they had disappeared i.e blocked me. Edit: and you seem to be missing the point of this post, I actually thought I wasn't on these girls radar because they were not on mine anymore. So it's more about … | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Found out in a funny way that some girls might think about you a lot more than you thinkI disagree, I think FB is very useful. I don't have an IG so idk, but I always found facebook useful but it's distracting if you have too much people on it and it also becomes uninteresting. I actually care about my close friends / cousins life, not some random dude I was in class with 4 yrs ago. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Found out in a funny way that some girls might think about you a lot more than you thinkWell, I tried to find out another explanation but nope. I mean I have seen these girls post their stories earlier this week, I've had them on snap for years. That's not overthinking it at all. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 08:55 PM |
| 13 | How to be the best listener she's ever hadIdk, I found some of his latest songs great to vibe to. Maybe it's because I have associated great memories to them but I enjoy Company and No sense a lot, especially No sense, it's one of the best urban rnb songs of the last years. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | On Cold ShowersThat's easily the most noticeable change. Your hair and skin improve significantly if you stop taking hot showers. Personally my skin became more elastic and even, healthier basically after a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 02:17 PM |
| 2 | On Cold ShowersAre you guys seriously clashing over tastes? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Which do you think is better? Dating girls you aren't attracted to? Or being a loner?Contrary to the consensus here, I'd say that if you're feeling lonely and it's weighing on your mind, just date someone that you're not very attracted to. You will hold all the power in the relationship because you don't give a shit, it can give you the little confidence boost you need to rebound and sometimes you just wanna smash and a soft butt is still better than your hand. I don't see the problem honestly, if you're even thinking about it, means you kinda need it. You're free to walk away w… | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Women's sexual attraction to you is based on your hormone levels.Absolute horseshit. I have stupidly high testosterone levels (got tested because of acne issues back then), and I have a weak chin and jawline. However I'm naturally shredded and put on muscle at like twice the rate of average people if I bulk hard. I think it's mostly down to genetics and posture/habits while growing up. I was an underfed child. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/17 09:40 PM |
| 10 | You may have taken some shit tests to heart and they're fucking you up your lifeI found that mindfullness has helped me with that. Nowadays when I am in a situation where I feel a rush of negative emotions, I just remember to distance myself from it and describe it objectively. Like "I am just a guy on a balcony with a girl and I am feeling nervousness.". For some reason I instantly relax and feel neutral again. It's like describing it in my head makes it look futile, and realize that things being what they are is totally fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Went drinking, got a girls number, now what?Give constructive criticism/advice, or shut the fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Can you ever be alpha with a beta face?Yep, seen countless guys with an "alpha face" that were perceived as beta, because they acted like betas. The opposite applies. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from Fucking My ONEitis.Seems accurate. Reminds me of the first time you have sex. You have been fantasizing over it for years and you make it out to be this life changing experience. Then you fuck for the first time and you realize you're still the same and it's not a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/16 09:47 AM |
| 0 | Going out with natural friends. Any of you have friends who slay pussies on a weekly basic and struggle to learn from them?I have a friend who sleeps with 1 new girl a week a least. His secret? He's good looking. He has awesome game but you won't slay pussy effortlessly unless you're good looking. You'll have to work a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Grit : Your Most Important QualityAmazing submission. The combination of the powerful message and vivid writing style had me entranced. I have felt strong emotions reading your post and I thank you for writing it. Grit is all I need to finally get over some obstacles that have been in my way for too long. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to Defeat OneitisIs it safe to assume I could genuinely have fallen in love with a girl if even after 8 months without seeing her and barely no contact, and having been with several other girls in the meantime, I still think of her daily? Not to mention I didn't even sleep with her. Like what the hell has she done to me? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Creating A Meaningful Morning Routine Will Make You More SuccessfulThat simply doesn't exist. It's just conditioning and years of morning inertia. I used to be the laziest person ever in the morning (I would sleep till 11 am) until I had an outdoors arduous job for 4 months in the tasmanian winter. Had to get up at 5.45 and prepare food etc for the day in a kitchen outside by -10°C. After those 4 months, waking up early in the comfort of my home feels like a breeze. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I normally wouldn't share a failed close, I'd just next and move on but last night really stumped me.Don't think it's a failure on your part, it probably had something to do with her that would have led to the same outcome with anyone else. Either period, not properly shaved or just principles. Who knows | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Change takes time - introspective recollection of a TRP journeyI think that the more you fuck the more you will fuck in the future. I guess it has to do with confidence. I had never fucked more than 2 a year before 2 years ago and last summer I had a good girl who gave me confidence and I pulled 5 in a month. I was ravenous and it paid off. When I feel low I don't fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 12:29 PM |
| 0 | A Basic Guide to Touching GirlsTotally agree. And yeah a neutral "I'm touching it" works very well when asked "what are you doing?". It's like when a kid starts to cry and you just say "it doesn't hurt" with assurance, the kid will stop crying. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 12:17 PM |
| 7 | A roadmap for men to increased happiness, life satisfaction, self awareness, and success with desired sexual partners.Great post. One thing that wasn't mentioned. Nature and wilderness - You should as frequently as you can lose yourself in the beauty of the wilderness and nature, in all its forms. It's a craving that a lot of people seem to have lost but I am positive that it is still a need that's within everyone. It just takes a little while to readjust for some. I've spent 3 weeks in the wilderness last year and it was the most serene experience of my life despite my lack of equipment and discomfort at night… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 10:24 AM |
| 8 | Why social circle is the best path for most guys on here.I'm 25 and I got several BIG social circles, I'm pretty much the only person I know who has that many friends. Apart from the social circles I kept from high school, college and lifetime of sports, here's the way I've met other people. 1- Travelling alone. I have a LOT of friends that I met abroad and kept up with. Now I have a huge group of friends who mostly live in Paris from this and we talk weekly and meet every few weeks in various cities, and several other friends abroad that I see a coup… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Male HamsteringI always had a nice body. Nobody ever cared until I was also the "cool guy" WITH the nice body. Unless you're extremely ripped and well proportioned, it'll never be enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How likely is it for a girl to lie about being uninterested in this context?Oh yeah this was like 8 months ago anyway, was just going over my year in my head. She's still the only girl that gave me the tingles in years. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Best, smoothest and most realistic pickup I've seen from this channel. Enjoy my mothafuckas!Vadim ( the bald guy) is by FAR the best PUA on youtube. He is so fucking good it's insane. Austen is also really witty and cool, but IMO Vadim is the real deal. | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Travel Game. How To Meet Girls In HostelsThat's a dumb reason not to go, hostels are a blast anyway. And the majority of guys don't get laid actually. You still have to provide more value than thei next guy if you want the prize, it's just far easier to approach and meet girls because you have a good reason to. Getting laid is easier as well due to proximity but no girl is just gonna put out for you just like that. But if you have a good understanding of social dynamics and seduction and you actually apply it, you'll be among the top g… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Travel Game. How To Meet Girls In HostelsIt's pretty much spot on, god I loved meeting girls in hostels. If you follow these principles it's also a snowball effect. The longer you stay in the hostel, if you have established yourself as a cool dude it becomes almost too easy because your social status will be huge in that context. So you will appear like hot shit to every new girl or group and asking them to join you will work every time. When it comes to "hostel pigs" I have to say I personally enjoyed the competition a lot. It's usual… | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 10:14 PM |
| 0 | I went through all the motions with a girl over the past 2 weeks.I actually asked her to leave. The night's already over. It was fine until we got into bed, she put herself on top of me and asked me how kinky I thought she was. She then proclaimed she was the kinkiest girl I'll ever meet and I playfully told her that she has no way to know that. She then asked if I ever met a girl like her and I said yes, because I was already tired of her shit. She instantly became defensive and started acting weird. I already don't like having a girl on top of me trying to … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 10:00 PM |
| 5 | I went through all the motions with a girl over the past 2 weeks.It wasn't cringy, we were all leaving and I saw her, I just did it because I kinda had to, not telling her would have been perceived as a low blow, and I wasn't gonna grab somebody else to do it for me. I was just letting her know what we were all doing, I wasn't trying to creep up on her and she understood it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 07:59 PM |
| 4 | I went through all the motions with a girl over the past 2 weeks.I agree, I will see how tonight goes, she'll be here any time soon. But I already lost respect for her, she isn't the only one around anyway so I'll probably drop her altogether | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 07:52 PM |
| 0 | I went through all the motions with a girl over the past 2 weeks.What are you talking about? I saw her often at the beginning because we were always in the same spots, read my post we were only acquaintances at that point. And I apologized to her like I would've apologized to anyone I did wrong. I was a total dick to her intentionally because I couldn't stand her behaviour and she eventually broke down. I mocked her and belittled her several times in front of our friends. Of course I apologized, it's called being a human being. If I had thought I did nothing … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Have a date and I have herpes. What do?As I said, it's a lose lose situation. If I text her tomorrow saying that I won't be there and then won't be free until next week, she's gonna next me, I'm positive. She's a hot girl and she likes to play hard to get. I'll go and just won't get physical, so at least I stay on her mind. If it's over after the date, atleast I had a fucking date you know. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Have a date and I have herpes. What do?No, I agreed to meet her once, then told her I was busy, then we had a hard time scheduling a date and we agreed on tomorrow finally. Now if I tell her again that I won't make it, it's gonna sound like a lot of bs. I think I'll just go. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | 20 Year Old Sex AdviceIt could also be lack of dominance. Because you're inexperienced, you maybe felt like she was the one in charge, that you were kinda both on the same sexual energy, not like you were the man in there and she was the woman. I say that because the first times it's what happened to me. I had girls sucking my cock and getting on top of me and I would let them do but I wouldn't be rock hard. Then I learned that it's because I have a strong masculine essence, and when I get naked with a woman it comes… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:26 AM |
| 2 | In basic terms, what are your core principles of your game?I make girls feel good. I analyze the girl and calibrate my personality to match her expectations in the moment. Basically I make her believe I'm "the one" for the time we're interacting. I don't lie or anything, it's just a matter of matching energy level, humor, sexual vibe to what I think she's looking for at that moment. It takes a lot of accuracy in reading body language and subtle cues, which has always been my thing. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | [Request] Trying to find thread about being dominant in sex. Talks about being able to turn a girl on both emotionally and sexually.Honestly sex is very intimate, if you're trying to act some way that you're not feeling at that moment, it's gonna be very obvious and will probably turn her off. Not to mention that you will be so in your head that you will feel disconnected from it and not enjoy much. It happened to me in the past when I made the mistake of talking myself up with a girl who wasn't shaven down there and made me wait. When it actually happened, I was just trying to do what I told her I would do but that wasn't h… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Cold after date - AdviceUhh what the hell? I mean I get it your date went well and you apparently like her etc. But you don't have to text her all the time? I mean even as a guy, if I go on a date with someone but it's still early stage and she'd text me everyday for attention - because that's what your texts are, calls for attention - I'd be kind of annoyed. Just cool it down until the next date, you don't have to text her twice a day. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to consistently get kiss-closes at nightclubs?Depends on how it's done. Sometimes it's unintentional, as clubs are usually crowded. Sometimes they do it very aggressively, in which case you just kino her accordingly. Sometimes they do it because they feel promiscuous on the moment but if you come on too strong they'll flee. In this case just give her a light touch on the hip, arm or shoulder so you can show her you noticed her. She might look at you then, or keep doing what she is doing. Just take it slower with the kino, show energy and in… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Pickup Nightlife Guide To Every City In The World - Sydney Australia Episode 3Ah well, next time you're in Sydney on a Sunday, go to SASH by day and SASH by night. Great music, great venues, great girls. Seen some of the hottest babes over there, and they're pretty open because the vibe is great. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How to consistently get kiss-closes at nightclubs?Well you have to be able to recognize IOI's. Sometimes there is no eye contact, a girl will just notice your presence and then through body language will make herself seen as available to you. I mean even if she's literally facing the other way, if she's backing into you, or even slightly isolating herself from her group to remain closer to you. Basically it's either eye contact, or her lingering around, flicking her hair in your face, bumping with you etc. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Pickup Nightlife Guide To Every City In The World - Sydney Australia Episode 3Generally a good guide. I feel like you left out Darling Harbour though, there are some cool bars over there. The Argyle on wednesdays is also booming, it's salsa night and for a change of vibe it's great, amazing atmosphere, packed and lots of girls willing to dance. And you definitely undersell SASH, it's probably the best party in Sydney, everyone is extremely friendly. For pickup though it's hit and miss because of the molly. Coogee pavilion is also hella cool. Kings Cross Hotel is good for … | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 10:00 PM |
| 3 | How to consistently get kiss-closes at nightclubs?Clubs are all about physical escalation. It's a different game, it's much more primal. So if you want to have more success, you're gonna have to calibrate to that. Be more dominant than usual, more aggressive and assertive. Just get eye contact with a girl and if she even seems slightly interested, go up to her, and then you can either go silent and gradually physical, e.g get closer and closer until you touch, and eye fuck her; or you can introduce yourself by speaking in her ear, but eventuall… | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 09:09 AM |
| 16 | I brought her to my room but I didn't know what to do next. Any tips?If she lies on your bed with you, and you aren't clear platonic buddies, the only thing you should do is make a move. That's like as big of a sign as a girl can give without being aggressive. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Attractive girl I used to work with is very active on my social media posts, should I go for it?Yeah you should. In my experience that's a good IOI. I've had girls always check my snapchat story or like my posts and pictures without fail and it almost always turned out with them being interested. Once it was said and done or that it was clear we were not gonna date or whatever, they stopped. So the iron's probably warm right now, go for it | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Is anybody else just not bothered?I'm not even good with girls or bang a lot of them, but I'm in the same boat. Sometimes I just won't even try, eventhough it's right there for the taking. It just seems like a chore. Maybe it's because I'm very picky | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Looks don't matter fallacy.I think most of your comment brings up nothing or misses the point. Yeah fat ugly people get married. Doesn't change the fact that looks tend to bring prejudice. And that nowadays you're likely to be dismissed based on that prejudice alone. I know that women think differently around the world. Nothing is uniform. This applies to anything but strict sciences. However you have to generalize sometimes to make a point. I'm targeting the audience of r/seduction, to whom it applies. Social media press… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Met someone that capsized my dingy!Good for you man. It's a rare thing and you will be forever chasing it. Happened to me last year and due to impossible geographical reasons it ended super, super quick. I feel lost now. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Don't wanna leave my introvert comfort zoneYou have to start getting comfortable around women. Start small, for example if you do an activity that involves other girls and you have to talk to do whatever needs to be done, most of your anxiety will go away. Because you'll feel like you have a reason to be talking to this girl. Then making female friends is also really important. It's the single thing that helped me the most to be comfortable around girls. Just be a friend, don't push for anything else if you don't feel comfortable enough … | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Definitely fucked up this conversation with a girl, what should I have done differentlyOverreacting much, you didn't fuck up anything, and she seems appreciative. Get out of your head | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Does my friend have 'game'?Gotta disagree, keeping up with the opener would have been increasingly cheesy. He got her attention then took back control of the interaction, he doesn't want to be the one reacting. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Very forward girlsJust reply that if she really wants to know, she gotta meet you at X place on X day | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex?I think that great chemistry outside of the bedroom often leads to great chemistry in the bedroom, as long as there is no insecurity shown. If you let yourself go and are the same with the person and communicate, it just goes well. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Just a few ver useful non-sedution tips that will make you feel great,which is a basis to be good around women !These friends I made along the way but back home I had a lot of friends as well. It's always been my "thing", never had trouble making friends | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Just a few ver useful non-sedution tips that will make you feel great,which is a basis to be good around women !I can give you somewhat of an answer about this. Few years ago, I was quite the gamer and the cyber addict, and I seriously had a hard time to imagine how one fills his free time without internet or video games etc. I was often finding myself lost at the idea of not having a computer. Now my lifestyle has completely changed, even moreso in the past year because I started travelling. I don't have a computer anymore, only a Telstra 30$ phone that does the bare minimum. I use it for Messenger/whats… | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Necessary Changes to become Alpha (what I discovered through 8 months of intense research, reading & journaling).Wow thank god, I don't know where my life would be without you laying out this absolutely revolutionary system to become alpha. I took a cold shower after reading this post and I already feel the alphaism growing in me. Smh. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What is attractive about mysterious men?It's the fact that you don't feel the need to tell/show them things about you. This shows that you're not needy, and don't need their validation and attention. This works most when you're obviously confident and have a lot of social proof, because it can't be mistaken for shyness. Hot girls will essentially wonder "who is this guy and why isn't he dancing like a monkey for me". I found that the most effective thing you can do to make a girl interested in you is to at first be distant and mysteri… | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | (How) Would you approach a random girl who death-stares you?From experience there are 2 scenarios : Either the girl is pissed at you about something you're currently doing or just being / she is thinking something pejorative because of whatever reason and wants you to know. Or she is just very attracted to you. I've had a girl in my hostel do this and it was very annoying. Constantly staring at me like I was some divinity or some shit, couldn't stand it. Anyway if someone is staring at you, ask them whats up | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 01:15 PM |
| 2 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?You don't actually have to slay tons of women to give good advice or know how it works though. It's true for a lot of fields involving coaching. Some of the best soccer coaches in the world never were actually good players. I say this because I have infinitely more success now than I did, and it's not because I know better or know that much more than before. It's just that I finally had the balls to put it into action. I was still quite right about a lot of things before even when being kissless… | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 12:47 PM |
| 12 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?PUA theory, especially the convoluted, over thought bullshit that they dare to call "advanced techniques", is all horseshit. It's no more than that. It's absolutely useless, it'll make a clown out of you, it will disconnect you from actual true, sincere connection with women and a LOT of non needy, smart girls will think of you as pathetic. I have spent the last 9 months travelling, and I have been exclusively living in a group setting, with tons of different girls and guys who I have spent enti… | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 12:36 PM |
| 3 | I have a hard time believing I am in the league of the women I'm attracted to, and even feel like there are guys leagues above me!From personal experience, unless a girl is a total bitch, or you really come off as creepy/unkempt, when it comes to hot girls they usually respond positively to any kind of unapologetic, confident behavior. For the hot girls, the most unattractive thing is people who make them uncomfortable or can't be at ease around them. It makes them feel weird and ill at ease that you can't be yourself around them. I know a guy who is 216 cm and 180 kg at 19 yrs old, and he is honestly weird looking but he … | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 12:52 PM |
| 4 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesI used to do the same, raise an eyebrow and it was a very bad move. It can be interpreted the wrong way, especially if you also do a quick snappy nod like I used to. Looked more like a "what do you want" than a "hey'. If you have to nod do it slowly. A slight smile is good, and I have found that the best way is to actually break eye contact very briefly in the same general direction of her gaze then locking eyes again and smiling at her. It's very natural and it kind of resets your mind set, in … | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 05:20 PM |
| 6 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesThere is nothing creepy about looking at a girl respectfully because you find her attractive. How else are you supposed to acknowledge her? As long as you don't check her out up and down like a piece of meat for way too long, you should be fine. Or if she shows signs of disinterest, like you being in her field of view and her deliberately avoiding your gaze. You should not insist. Happens a lot in public transport. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 05:13 PM |
| 9 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesGood for you. I am not the kind of guy to look for sex all the time and everywhere. I never learned game or theory either actually. I just find the process of seduction and everything that is related to it rather fascinating. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 12:55 PM |
| 16 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesI would say any kind of eye contact is better than none. Them not smiling can be due to several things. Not their personality, not confident enough, or simply doesn't feel like smiling. A sustained eye contact and a smile is a very very strong IOI that not every girl is comfortable with giving. Personnally I rarely ever smile while checking out a girl, because that's not the emotion I get from it, and can't fake a smile. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 06:42 AM |
| 7 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesI'm French but in Australia atm. It wasn't exactly public transport, it's a coach service that links small towns together | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 06:39 AM |
| 22 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesMy point being I don' care. I wasn't pushing for sex and it wasn't my goal. I didn't game her or played games to try and get in her bed. I enjoyed my evening that way. My goals aren't necessarily yours | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 04:27 AM |
| 15 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesWe met that very same day, shell told me she didn't do that, had 0 logistics, and I was set to leave the next day early morning. I'm more than fine with what happened, I actually enjoyed it more than casual sex. I don't really care for hookups | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.Luckily that's absolutely not the way it's pronounced. It's pronounced Ahneess. Seems like you enjoy being rude, if that's the way you lead your life I'm sorry for you. | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.What about my name? | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 02:08 AM |
| 0 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.That's the point of this post, I totally don't look like that at the moment (not that I look Good imo in that pic either). My hair is chemically relaxed in that pic with a nice haircut and my skin is clear. I am shaved, groomed, blabla. If I would take a pic of me right now, 100% ugly | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 08:49 PM |
| 4 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.You have no idea how many european people there are in Australia. We are everywhere, especially the french | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:33 PM |
| -1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.I'm not a monster but I'm definitely average or below average. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:17 PM |
| 0 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.Wish it was that easy | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:15 PM |
| 2 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.First of all I wanna say, and I don't know if you thought it was, but my original post has nothing to do with what is called abundance mentality. That's a different matter, my post is about mindset and attitude. Anyway, abundance mentality is paradoxical in a way imo, you can't really develop it without having had an actual period of abundance, at least that's how I see it, you can't really think "pfft I got plenty of other options anyway" if you actually don't. To me that's more what I would ca… | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.Toulouse | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:00 PM |
| 12 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.Shut up | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 09:54 AM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.There is a picture I think in my post history, but I look totally different right now. My hair is curly and longer, my skin is shit and I have a shitty stache/beard. I look even worse than that photo haha. Sadly I broke my iPhone about 3 weeks ago and the phone I have been given, the camera has been fried in the sun and it has no front cam \o9 | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Don't be a little bitch like me.Yeah, just waiting for her to get up, although I'm not gonna jump her straight out of the bed lol. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't be a little bitch like me.That's beautifully written, thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Come back from the Dead?Yeah, Thought I'd never have a sex life or ever get any kind of relationship with women after I went several years with only two sex occurences which were just random. Had no attention from women at all and didn't know how to behave with them. Was in the deepest darkest pit, feeling inadequate and suicidal. Now about a year and a half after I initiated a change in me, I've had sex with a lot of girls, have had more makeouts than I can count and have a plethora of female friends and female attent… | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | I have no problems getting a makeout, but once I do the interaction seems to die.You can check my submission history for the story, it's a rather long one. Check the thread with the most upvotes. Since that post I've gone a lot further. I moved to Australia 2,5 months ago from France, a whole 17,000km to travel, do some backpacking and keep evolving as a person. As I'm living in hostels, the amount of girls I have interacted with has skyrocketed as you constantly meet new people. In these 2,5 months I've had more makeouts and sex than in the last 24 years of my existence. An… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Will women ever truly lust for you if you are average looking?Yeh | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Will women ever truly lust for you if you are average looking?Yes. I'm average and unremarkable and currently I always have a bunch of girls lusting after me. And it's not the same bunch of girls, they constantly change. I am backpacking and live in youth hostels so every week I'm meeting a new flock of girls, and the schema is always the same. They're not attracted to me physically at first, I know that none of these girls see me coming in and think "oh he's hot" like they do for a bunch of guys. But two days later, I'm the one getting all the attention w… | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Having some success, but often feel I'm an asshole for doing so - how do you deal with success with women?It's not that simple though, when you feel that the girl is getting emotionnally invested but you still keep her around because you had an agreement and she pretends that she's ok with it but you know that each time she falls more and more for you. Sure you said how it would be from the start but you know it hurts her. It feels bad, but that's life. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I have no problems getting a makeout, but once I do the interaction seems to die.Honestly I don't like that wording either but it's a way for me to make myself understood by most people here on this sub. Basically means looking nervous/shaken by the physical contact. Went out again yesterday and managed to not "lose frame" after making out with another girl from my hostel. Went much better, she maintained interest throughout the night and we ended up cuddling on the hostel couch after being back. Will prob lead to more later as she was on her period. Me consciously trying to… | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How do you get a girl to leave?If coming to your place meant that she had to leave it after sex, she probably wouldn't have come in the first place, very few girls like to go back home alone at night. So either you make it clear since the beginning and you lower your chances immensely or you let her rest. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 11:08 PM |
| 6 | How do you get a girl to leave?That's a bit much and a bit cold tbh. After sex she wants to relax and sleep as well most likely, be a bit humane and let her sleep. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 02:32 PM |
| 2 | [30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women.Have you considered the fact that some pf these women get 15 guys a night coming up to them trying to strike a conversation, 50 trying to lock eyes with them. This is a defense mechanism, you clearly don't go out enough. There are so many creeps that will fucking harass the shit out of them if they try and be nice to them. Happens to my female friends all the fucking time, and I can empathize. I have a friend who's a very humane and sweet girl, and she sometimes gets the bad end of the stick bec… | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 08:58 PM |
| 0 | If you feel that you are not ready for seduction, try friendship instead.We tell ourselves a lot of stories. We're so good at bullshitting ourselves we could do it for a living. For all my life I've lived thinking I was unattractive and would be alone. Fact is I was super loved by guys, but not by girls. Most girls thought Iwas arrogant towards them, when I was just shy. By not being able to be myself with them, it always felt axkward and girls want comfort before anything else. No girl will ever be attracted to you if she doesn't feel comfortable around you, and sin… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 04:50 AM |
| 2 | If you feel that you are not ready for seduction, try friendship instead.It's more like, if you go out and do activities, there will always be girls around one way or another. Personally, I'm not attracted to every girl, and not every girl is attracted to me. When I feel like this with a girl, I just treat them like they're buddies, there's no seduction game and I just talk to them in a friendly way. Sometimes you connect so well on that level that you become buddies, and even friends. I don't dismiss girls because I find them ugly or they aren't interested etc, I lo… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | For all those who are lonely and browse this sub to fix that....I think I agree with OP when he says some men are meant to have tons of women and some don't. Doesn't mean those who aren't meant to will not be able to get a decent amount of women without hard work but you can't deny the other fact which is that some men will get tons of girls effortlessly. I say that because today I went to the beach with some people and among them is a german model guy who gets women pretty easily. Well this guy had a friend joining us as well who is another model, they used… | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 09:54 AM |
| 2 | How to apologize without being needy?"I want to apologize if that joke made you feel that way, it was not my intention tohurt you and I hope that you understand. Sorry xx" | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:34 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Made out with a 10, got bored and then rejectedFirst of all, wasn't a gaming session, i don't do "gaming sessions". I don't cold approach during the day or anything. I was having a party with friends and this girl joined because her friend called her. She happened to be beautiful and I wanted her. And secondly, I think you read my post backwards. I am not happy at all about not feeling it, it's actually the main problem of this interaction. I had the opportunity to get intimate with an awesome and very hot girl but I was numb and didn't feel… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Like it or not, girls love muscles.I found that what girls really want is a guy who looks like he is physically sharp rather than big muscles or anything. What they're looking for is that healthy, active vibe that muscles give off, masculine energy basically. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:00 PM |
| 2 | [23m] Long post, Still feel like the kid I was in Highschool, God Damn.I have only read one book about seduction and it's Models by Mark Manson. What seems to strike me in this post is that it seems that the girls that you want are not the girls that want a guy like you. In the book it's called demographics. Are you looking to get laid with party girls that enjoy wild nights with wild bold guys and getting drunk and party hard? Then you gotta appeal to them in some way, you gotta become the life of the party. You gotta become part of their demographic. Otherwise th… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Made out with a 10, got bored and then rejectedYou're right, I actually don't drink for any other reason than to have fun, and I'm not a heavy drinker but sometimes you get carried away becausz the night is rly fun, got offered many shots and a pint as well so you just go over the top. Sucks that it was that night though. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Lose Once, You'll Never Lose AgainFucking true, it's a core part of inner game. Right now I'm backpacking and interacting with tons of girls. A lot of them come and go as it's the backpacking way of life. Every day I get into a new girl, and every day I forget about the girl I was into the day before, even if that day I thought I needed HER and only her. Abundance and being self sufficient really help with coping with rejection, flakes, things not working out or missed opportunities. It's all petty stuff and the more you go by t… | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl interested but tries to ignore. Insight?This can be a possibility but there are also girls who react that way while being really interested. To solve this problem, you have to be polarizing, in order to create a significant reaction. You gotta make a move that gives her only 2 choices : show interest ot show that she's not interested. If a girl likes you, even if she acts like she's ignoring you, when given the chance will not turn you down and burn all her chances. Happened to me last summer, girl was acting like I was literally invi… | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Is social media making you socially retarded?I didn't even read the article because I think the question is retarded in the first place so there's a good chance the article will be too. Answer is really simple, social media is what you make of it. It's a tool like everything. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Don't struggle that much with making out with a girl, but absolutely suck from there on. Any advise?Escalation. I guess your mindset is not in the right place yet. You think of the interaction as if it actually has steps, that you have to take one after the other. It shouldn't be like that, it should be a smooth transition, so that when you are kissing a girl she's already thinking about sex. That means after a few pecks, the next kiss should be sexual, because that's right there that you make it lead to sex. It's not "we made out, now let's try to get her in bed". Not sure if you catch my dri… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 06:18 AM |
| 4 | How do you properly touch and greet a girl that you are trying to flirt with?The hand thing is a little unnatural I think. If you really want an excuse to hold her hand might as well go all the way then, say can I see your hand please and then grab it and say, ok I just wanted an exvuse to hold your hand. I think it's better because she might keep her hand there and the ball is in her camp, while if you do what you described, you essentially make a move and then back out of it, because she's obviously not dumb as she will understand you did that to touch her hand. You ca… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 06:11 AM |
| 3 | So I found out today that I'm a bad kisserWell next time you kiss a girl just ask her the question really. Last girl I've kissed was a shitty kisser, and while we were in bed I just told her stuff like don't put so much teeth etc, and an hour later she was a much better kisser already. It's really not a big deal | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 03:42 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlLol funnily enough reading this post I'm on the rooftop terrace of my hostel and there is another rooftop terrace over it and there's an indian dude having a bottle of wine with a smoking girl. He's attractive though. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 09:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlCheers mec ;) | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 05:42 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlWell a lot of people on this sub are really keen on the pickup rules, forgetting that they are just general guidelines that you CAN use in different situations but you don't HAVE to use them. Just like some guy telling me I should neg her about her wealth, because he thinks negging is a staple. If I negged this girl she would have nexted me instantly, being genuine and funny was the right behavior. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 05:33 AM |
| 13 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlI did not and the way I said it was really casual, I know my way around compliments I think, I'm pretty good at showing appreciation without conveying neediness or being over the top. I honestly just said what I had in mind and it was very natural for me so it was for her as well | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Charlie Sheen HIV. Seduction is overratedThe girl of your dreams is by definition the hghest quality girl by your own standards | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Kissing on first dates. Bad move I think.You have to consider her emotional state. I had this happen to me last month, and The worst part is that she was the one who initiated the kiss. Then she flaked and I stopped chasing. Eventually I talked with a friend of hers, she was just out of a long term relationship that ended badly, and she got scared of the fact that we got so close so fast without really connecting and she was afraid of being too distant/uncomfortable the next time we would meet so she kinda cut contact because of her ow… | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Charlie Sheen HIV. Seduction is overratedWho said seduction is about sleeping with hundreds of girl. I thought the end goal of seduction was to be able to attract the girl of your dreams when she crosses your path. At least that's how I see it, it's just being able to seduce high quality girls, not a high quantity of them. | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Girl gave weird look when complimentedYou shouldn't give a shit really. Some people are nice, some are receptive, some aren't | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 08:33 AM |
| 20 | Just a little note on texting gameI have found out that the most impactful texts I've sent were the ones where I literally didn't give.a shit about whether it was a decent text or not or whether she would like it. They were exactly what I wanted to say and unapologetic, and probably conveyed and always got a polarized and actially interesting answer, 90% of the time the answer I was hoping for. | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Friend wants me to go to a house party tonight but I'm feeling like a little b****Wtf man, just go there and enjoy yourself. You literally have no reasons not to go other than you being scared of absolutely nothing. No one will judge you for going pr anything. Just do it | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I read "Models" one year ago and it really changed my life for the better. What other books would you recommend?Not sure if narcissius and goldmund is really relevant but it's a wonderful book nonetheless! | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Is shaving my leg hairs gonna pick up chickybabes?Wtf | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Most unhappy person on earth I know is me.If you want to have someone to talk to, you have to actually start talking to someone. If you're interested in somebody, show him/her, and maybe they'll be interested in you too. Happiness has some inertia to it, just like bitterness and depression. You will start small, and if you keep cultivating things that can make you happy, keep going out there and being more social/positive and open, chances are it will snowball and you'll get some satisfaction soon enough. I wish I could make a better po… | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Most unhappy person on earth I know is me.While I respect you being happy the way you are right now, being cool and popular at school when you were younger is a totally different thing than having a close group of friends you know like the palm of your hand and a girlfriend, even though I never had one. Those things can only make your life richer and happier, and they're noble things to pursue. You'd definitely feel happier if you had them, I think. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Thanks bro appreciate it, good luck with your goals | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 10:24 PM |
| 2 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Man really what helps me the most is to interact with many girls at once. The HB9 I mention in this post, I think I fucked up the date by not escalating because of reasons and now the attraction kinda died. After the date I had a bit of anxiety when I texted her again, and felt pretty bad for a day. Then I started talking to 2 other girls and it clicked with one, and boom the next day I had totally forgotten about the date and got a new girl on my mind. So really abundance mentality is fucking g… | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Guys who were never good at "talking" their whole life, how did you change/improve?This is very true, I actually went to therapy a few years ago because I had issues with depression, and I talked to my therapist about the fact that I was constantly speaking out loud when alone, not only to myself but to images of people I know. I'm constantly conversing with friends of mine that exist but aren't present. I asked if that was sane and we came to the conclusion that I'm someone who feels the need to talk all the time and that is a way of expressing feelings. It is just a habit an… | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Cologne 101: The Fragrances that Turn Women OnI honestly haven't read the article as it didn't load on my mobile, but I can recommend Legend by Mont Blanc. When I was wearing it I had TONS of compliments from girls, had a group ask me in the tramway, a girl smell me while waiting in front of a club and generally very nice reactions, only after the first nights wearing it. Try it next time you buy cologne, it's awesome. | /r/seduction | 04/07/15 10:35 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep a FWB around without seeming needy and driving her away?Texting her is totally fine, she gave you her number for a reason. The content, the frequency and the timing of your texts are more important. There is no neediness or "clinginess" in texting a girl that you spent some time naked with that you wanna see her again, either on a date or straight up as a booty call. You could simply ask her if she wanna grab a drink, or test the waters with a casual text about whatever or if she gave a naughty vibe you could even be straightforward and say something… | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 07:34 AM |
| 2 | First time putting myself out there - A few QuestionsFuck it man you went out there and I'm sure that you're proud of yourself. Keep going, be bold, things will happen | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 10:58 PM |
| 3 | 19M Got led on pretty bad now I feel dumbBest way to move on would be getting around other women, flirting, having some kind of sentimental life going on. You'll forget about her instantly. Also I'm sorry but, as inexperienced as I am, I never quite got the "we cuddled on my couch" part. I see that in so many posts, but I just don't understand how it's possible to have a girl over on a 1 on 1 and cuddle with her without escalating. I just don't get it, what is the vibe there? | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 10:53 PM |
| 33 | Appear Attractive: A Man's Style In One PictureI think Fit was referring to the fitting of clothes but I could be wrong! Edit: actually idk, picture is dumb anyway imo | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 10:47 PM |
| 4 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.You don't have to make it a sob story, and you don't have to tell them all about your internal struggles to open up to your friends. They probably already know you've been single. Instead, why don't you tell them how you've been feeling like making a change lately, like working on yourself to make your life better. That would be interesting to them, if we have the same notion of friendship. You could tell them about how you feel about that, and they might tell you they felt the same at some poin… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How to dirty talk?I recently had sex with a girl and the way she talked made it fucking amazing more than the sex itself. I was inexperienced so she just asked me what I like, and told me what she wants to do with me, and what she wants me to do to her. Very openly. It was really casual and not awkward at all, and it was extremely hot. She'd say stuff like "I love it when you touch yourself, I want you to cum on my face, you're so hot blabla". Basically just say what goes through your mind, what you wanna do. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:52 PM |
| 2 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Do it like it's just casual talk. That's what I meant by not being dramatic. There doesn't have to be a right place and a right time to be yourself around your friends. You don't have to unleash a torrent of drama onto them either, although you could. The first time I told a friend I was depressed I did it via text after he asked me to hang out. Said I didn't feel like it, was kinda depressed lately. He was cool about it and said the usual it's gonna be fine bro. So when we talked about it in pe… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:47 PM |
| 3 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.I wouldn't know really. I don't really like my face as I said I have a bit of a weak jaw and a receding chin but I got nice eyes lips and hair. I actually intend to have surgery on my chin because it's really disgracious imo and borderline dismorphic (if that's a word, I'm not a native speaker sorry). However I look very "sharp" and girls seem to like it, I got a clean haircut, well dressed, I'm tanned shaved and very fit/lean. I look very healthy basically, but I'm not sure what to rate myself.… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:37 PM |
| 1 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Alright thanks I've got a lot of things to read I'll put it on my list. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:29 PM |
| 13 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.I stopped caring. I know these people and they are my friends because they're good people and tolerant. It has always been my #1 criteria when judging people, how tolerant and open minded they are. So I started being more honest around them, bit by bit. For example I would sometimes talk anout videogames that I played whn before I would not, hiding the fact that I used to play a lot. And they didn't give a fuck, we just talked about videogames like friends do. Then I talked more openly about wha… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:26 PM |
| 8 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Cheers! I just recently moved in with my mom because she has a big house and she often travels so that the house is empty. I have discussed with my parents that I might not go back to college next year if I haven't found something I'm passionate enough about to study during the summer. They're supportive because they saw how much I changed but they don't want me to do nothing next year for my own good and I share this opinion. So the plan is either find something I wanna study, and if I don't I … | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Um...how do I kiss?It is natural and anyway, you'll rarely have a perfect making out session with a girl right off the bat, even if you're experienced. Everybody has his style, everybody's mouth are different as well so you'll often have to adapt on the fly and it will quickly become better. Also a lot of girls are bad kisser, because nobody ever told them that they were using too much teeth etc, so if you want, just tell them, if you do it confidently and not like a jerk, but with a smile and a gentle tone, it'll… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 12:55 PM |
| 5 | What could I be doing better appearance-wise? [20M]Hey man Tinder doesn't mean shit, if you fuck up your profile at the start, don't engage your matches etc eventually the software never shows you to anybody. I'm getting 0 matches on Tinder and getting a lit of attention in person lately. Fuck Tinder. You look fine btw | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 03:37 PM |
| 3 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]That was a fantastic read, very inspirational and a great mindset to have towards life. I have recently been applying this thought process as a motivation to do chores/boring stuff and finish tough workouts. Basically telling myself that once it's over and done with, this time where I suffered and endured, that last rep I struggle to find the mental strenght to make will not exist anymore, that moment will be erased and only the benefits and the accomplishment will remain. It's a powerful tool, … | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is texting "I wanna see you" needy or just fine.Well if she was a stranger maybe but we've been to several parties, she told all her friends she really liked me, we've made out and danced dick to vag while I was hard and she told me she liked me in my ear. We just havent seen each others since and she initiated text convo everytime, I think I'll be fine | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Is texting "I wanna see you" needy or just fine.Definitely. I pretty much had 0 interaction with girls before like 2 weeks ago when I started reading this sub and other info, and since then I've just applied the basics like not trying to give too many fucks and just be honest and not needy and I've had very positive results. http://imgur.com/Nz6ot1x This happened today, the girl is swedish and a solid 8 from the photos and she was wishy washy about setting up a date. As soon as I showed I wasn't needy her tone just switched. Funny how it work… | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is texting "I wanna see you" needy or just fine.Yeah I thought the same, she told me she was into me when we kissed/danced etc, was very intimate so I guess it comes from the right place. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Is texting "I wanna see you" needy or just fine.Yeah it might have been better, however I felt like my text would be more genuine and intimate by simply saying I wanted to see her. We're both into each other, or she's a liar, so I wanted to sound a bit sentimental on purpose. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:10 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Is it wrong to tell her your feelings? Or are just most of the feelings itself wrong? Challenge my claims!I think you're mixing it up a little bit. Being open about your feelings is not the same thing as being open about your intentions. In case one he wasn't open about neither his feelings nor intentions, whereas in case 2 he showed his interest in the girl in a non needy, his intention to be more than friends with her. He didn't show his feelings, and actually the cases are not even comparable because in case 1 he is probably in love with her when in case 2 he just wants to get to know her and get… | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Good material on natural seduction?Check out simple pickup on youtube they have decent material and their project go stuff might interest you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What kind of date would be appropriate for a boring girlThanks, will do | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 07:57 PM |
| 2 | K-closed a girl in my social circle, not sure how to behave next time.Aight those were interesting reads and advice thank you. I'm not feeling insecure or awkward at all though, I didn't know the exact term but I wanna try coquetry to try and reveal her real level of interest. Because you kinda assumed that it was casual because I used the word but I think that she might actually have feelings for me already because of the way she says hi to me, I can tell she's nervous every time which indicates that she's probably thinking about it a lot. But the way she behaves… | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 01:46 PM |
| 2 | K-closed a girl in my social circle, not sure how to behave next time.Thanks for your input. Another thing, I knew she was into me because some girls told me so, but before I grabbed her and kissed her, she gave me zero fucking IOI's. If I didn't know for sure she was interested I would have thought that she didn't even notice me at all, she'd avoid eye contact, barely talk to me directly etc. So tonight I wanna make out with her then kinda ignore her to see if she's going to chase me or not. Do you think it's a good idea? | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 12:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First F close since reading Seddit.Good for you man! It is indeed a great place to find that little kick in the butt whenever you feel like not acting on something. | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Hot girl is attracted to me, I feel like I can't handle her.That's probably the right answer, since we have the same group of friends sex is unlikely to happen right there, and I can definitely handle a chill interaction with her, it's more of the escalation that I was afraid of, not sure how to handle a hot girl or just any girl and "make it happen". The only time I had sex it was basically the girl who just was into me and asked me to go to her room so I didn't have to do any work. | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 07:42 PM |
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