Without getting into crazy detail, I hooked up with this girl (call her A) last weekend. I had fun and I enjoyed spending time with her, so I made plans to hang out with her again this weekend. She seemed excited so I left it at that. However, we run in similar social circles, which means that occasionally her group and my group do shit together on the weekends. A mutual friend of ours who knows what happened between me and this girl last weekend invited her along. That friend also said I shouldn't go for a hookup last night, so I took her advice and didn't. The girl, A, and I talked about some random shit last night and it seemed all good.
This morning, however, she texted me saying that she couldn't hangout later in the weekend as had been planned. She gave a reasonably valid excuse, but of course you never know. Obviously, I did not make any attempts to reschedule, just gave a quick "no worries" and got back to my other business. If she wanted to reschedule, I figured she'd let me know. She responded "thanks," and nothing else, though, so that leads me to my predicament. Does this constitute a hard next or a soft next? Do I wait and see how things play out or do I just move on? Also, was not going for the hookup a mistake?
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