Hey guys, Just saw the post about the guy asking how to stop looking away from hot girls. Made me think about sharing an experience I had about 2 weeks ago which was a good example of how powerful holding eye contact is.
I rarely look away or get afraid to hold eye contact, and you realize how confident hot girls are. They can hold eye contact forever. 2 weeks ago I took an empty interstate bus and first stop a hot girl came on. Me being the only other person in the bus, she came on and we looked at eachother. Back in the day I d have given a quick glance and then looked away because I d get scared. This time we locked eyes, and I didn t even think of being scared. She looked at me like a deer in headlights, and before we could realize it she had walked up the aisle all the way up to me without breaking eye contact. She sat 1 seat behind me across the aisle. Now the thing is, there was tension between us and I knew she felt the same. Just by holding eye contact for a few seconds, a connection was created. If I had looked away after a second, this girl would have forgotten my presence already, and I would be thinking to myself that I am a bitch. I couldnt connect my phone to the bus wifi so 5 mins later I asked if I could use hers to know how far I was from my stop. Turned out we had the same stop, and I engaged conversation with her. She was instantly very warm and took of her headphones with a beaming smile. We parted ways at the bus stop with her number in my phone and a promess to meet later that day. Wr went for a beach walk, then for sushi and exchanged kisses and cuddles. I was there for a night only sadly and left the next morning but now we hit each other up every few days and I plan to go there in 2 weeks to meet her and some other friends.
All this interaction and newfound connection emerged from holding eye contact, thus making both me and her comfortable with having a conversation, as it created warmth between us. So next time a hot girl looks at you, think of it as an opportunity, and looking away is essentially shying away from that opportunity
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