| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | confidence loop - pseudo codelol :) | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How can you be "man to woman" in an interaction, and what are good non situational openers for random women?man to woman is default as long as my cock is still swinging or standing depending on the target why not do situational... its more fun... i look at what she is doing - imagine stg with it and say that... food... i really like these things... have u tried to eat them upside down? that is when they are really delicious... or whatever stupid crap... have u tried to cook them in vodka ? thats my favorite dish... :) | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 05:26 AM |
| -3 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.Agree, so much haters here. Pathetic. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Here's how to deal with any and all shit tests that women throw at you.4th option: tell them to fuck off and stop the stupid crap because that is what they really wanna hear i mean : imagine that an ugly, stinking, homeless, worthless piece of crap women gives you a shit test - how would you react ? -> that is how you need to react ... or imagine : what would you say if 1) you would have three other hotter women waiting for your call ? 2) you would have 100 million on your bank account and you could buy 10 luxury prostitutes to suck your dick until you die ? someth… | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 07:17 AM |
| 1 | 10 Things Girls REALLY Find Hot About GuysI dunno... I think it kinda makes sense... which particular "things" you don't agree with ? Looks/height/status/humor/brain/clothes ? Also, if they ask me what I like, I tell long legs, cute face, big tits. So determining what I like by asking works pretty well for me - why would it not work for women ? I tell you why, because you don't wanna hear it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to WomenI would say that it is 99% vs 1%. The real game is that you can differentiate yourself in the 99%. The 99% is all the same, its a flat distirubution. The top of the 99% is almost as good as the bottom. Most women don't get the 1% so the real game is to be different from the 99% by other means than attractiveness. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 06:58 PM |
| -2 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" exampleHogy az a Balatonberényben napvilágot látott, sikoltozásokba öltöztetett, ködmönbe bújtatott, rézhasú, nagyfejű, szultán udvarát megjárt, csőszkunyhóban elrejtett, pikkelypáncélt hordó, fafogú rézfűrésszel megsebzett, bronztérdű, repedtsarkú, büdös szájú, ritkafogú, csempeszobában felnevelkedett, mocskos, tetves rabló Mari néni! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaQgFm7HlNg | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 02:46 PM |
| -2 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" exampleDon't read it then, go instead and fuck your bitch mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How To Not Give A Fuck By CharismaOnCommandWell, $2000 for a PUA, $100 for a hooker, which one is more valued then ? Getting laid or being good at PU ? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 12:33 PM |
| -15 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" exampleStop bitching and be happy that you got this useful piece of information, if you don't like it don't read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" exampleYeah, its the idea of utilisation. He always tailors his method for the individual. Invents a new therapy for every case. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 09:56 AM |
| 8 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" example"one seeks to learn what is really strong, secure and safe." - the purpose of a shit test | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Milton Erickson handling "shit test" exampleI agree, its kinda niche stuff. Old school. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Volunteering in a primarycare doctors office for 2 years opened my eyes...Was this some kind of psychology thing ? I don't get it, I go to doctor coz my back hurst then he/she does not ask me who gave me blowjob last week. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Turning 40.....need to start over and need help!!Similar situation here. I can relate :) - kinda annoying feeling but I need to also remember that I have dated a nice girl when she was 29 and I was 28, she told me that she dated a guy 30 years older when she was 20. So I will start to worry when I turn 60, this means that by that time I need to have enough money to move to a country filled with cheap hookers. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | [Part 1 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass ThemWell, sometimes I hate them when they are not telling me that they are on their period ... and I find it out when I stick it in... fucking disgusting... this is a good way to pass this shit test :) "thanks for telling me this... coz i hate blood on my dick" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 01:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went out with stunning HB, slept at her place without closingyeah, really annoying, this kind of shit happened to me all the time, fucking annoying... maybe one day i will figure it out.... "We're both tired as fuck" ... a friend usually gives them some energy drink at this point ... shower is nice... - that kinda works ... - i noticed... | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | worst kindSo was it removed or what ? I don't get it. I am trying to understand how this thing works, coz I got no warning or anything... about ... this post. Also, interesting, what is seduction about if not what you say ? (Sure body language and so on but how often do we watch movies without sound ? - Porn, maybe.) | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | worst kindinteresting, it disappeared from the main list... any idea why ? | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Where is all the actual advice?Well, yeah... the ones who figured it out are busy fucking women... | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The best way to prepare for a date is make your day as productive as possible and forget you even have a dateMight be good but I think I have a better idea. It is still in experimental phase, but if it works I post about it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 12:49 PM |
| -1 | Woman confirms "I'm not sleeping with you tonight" as meaning "I want to sleep with you" in her dating bookWhere is this coming from? It's a shit test. She knows that she can do this coz u still wanna fuck her. It's to raise her ego. Why is she doing this ? Because all the guys wanna fuck her, which lowers her value (in her mind) so she needs to companzate for the lowered value otherwise she cannot have sex with you because if she would then she would be a low value slut, but she wants and this is her way of telling herself : it's ok to have sex with this guy because it's gonna be an "accident". | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | What I learned from Fucking My ONEitis.Yeah, that does work indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from Fucking My ONEitis.I've read a few posts on TRP about ONEitis. They're usually written about the girl we can't have, or the girl that's out of reach. So maybe this can give a bit of a different perspective on the topic. Sometimes when things seem just out of reach we want them more because we can't have them. This is exactly what women need to feel. The question is how can we make them feel it ? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Female Hamstering ---> Inertia ---> MomentumRight but how can this theory be made "actionable" ? How can it increase success with women ? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 08:46 AM |
| 2 | It seems like attractive women are always already in relationships. Is that accurate to you guys? Does it matter?when they tell me they have a bf, i say: well if you would not be in a relationship i would not talk to you .... and well... at least 50% of my ONS are with chicks who have a bf ... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What I learned from an acid trip at a club partyI learned that "I need to decrease the distance" and I need to "open a communication channel". | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | PUA should focus almost solely on texting adviceyeah, it would be good to have some good texting strategies.... maybe setting up the texting stage when you meet her... putting some interesting frame onto when you are not texting her.... i mean when u don't text her she needs to have craving emotions for you ... don't have any idea how to trigger that ... maybe putting in stuff that ... Her: "- you pick up girls in X ?" Me:"-it's a good way to kill time when I am not texting you" something that I could/should have used in a recent convo | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Crazy "theory" I observed after a few years of small talk and some experiments. I call it verbal peacocking...Indeed interesting, I have been doing this instinctively, I did not put a this kind of theory behind it yet but I agree, makes sense. In other words, you are pacing the reality. This reminds me of Milton Erickson's utilisation approach. You take what is there, accept it, and turn it into something where you want to go. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Today I dumped the girl of my dreams... because my emotional core said she was bad news. I now feel like a real man.I'm gonna use this as a line. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 08:08 AM |
| 2 | How holding eye contact makes or breaks opportunitiesi wonder why we ever look away ? for me, it's two things : 1) i cannot think and look at the same time 2) looking is an soi | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | 3 categories of PU adviceI upvoted it myself. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 07:38 PM |
| 0 | 3 categories of PU adviceObviously, you are wrong. I think you are either 1) stupid or 2) just a desperate guy with a 5 cm dick or 3) both. Anyway, for the readers who have both balls and brain, here is the reason why this categorization is important. The most important thing is to realize what is actionable and what is not. It's like, religion is nice but no amount of praying will help to create a mobile phone. I think this distinction "actionable vs non-actionable" is more precise than inner game vs outer-game. Some o… | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a conversation going?stack openers and questions - learn a few page worth of material - i did that - it helped me - you can be like an adventure video game | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 02:13 PM |
| 1 | PUA Infield Pickup: How To Effortlessly Pull A Group Of Girlsyeah... it is indeed very good... I can relate to it, moved to Finland 7 years ago, coz I loved and still love the girls here... I was in Stockholm for 3 weeks, few years back, 1 daygame F (out of 20 approaches) and 1 night-game F ... (out of 50 approaches) which is about the same result that I got during 2 years living in UK ( out of about 1000 approaches )... doing the math ... I conclude ... location matters.... I really like the shit-test handling examples one good answer could have been: -a… | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR~] Trouble plowing through in daygame (Need advice)the 10 % ? I think that is sort of a lower limit... quite obvious... I don't think it needs much back up... if it is less than 10% then something is obviously wrong... otherwise it might be just bad luck | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 09:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG way"No way you can hit that. If you do, you have to give me a kiss, but you're not hitting it." hmmm - I am always asking myself a few filter questions: -would TD say that ? probably not -would Mystery say that ? probably not -would I say that to an ugly girl ? to an ugly girl I would have said : "If you do, then maybe one day you can get a kiss for it." Then when she does it: "Come here, I'm gonna give you a present, so please remember it and appreciate it." KISS -would I say that if I had 3 bette… | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG way"yeah everyone wants to tear my clothes off, it's the life I live, I have to buy new clothes every day, it's really annoying" - just put it into my collection of good stuff to say :) thanks | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR~] Trouble plowing through in daygame (Need advice)what post ? | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR~] Trouble plowing through in daygame (Need advice)Well, this direct stuff can have opening rate of 10%. So maybe 100 aproaches give you 10 open sets. If it is less than that then probably you are doing somethind wrong. I like semi-direct daygame, have opening rates of 50%-80%. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How to respectfully test sexual boundaries if she says she's not ready for sex?it's the red yellow green routine :) | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Don't get their numbers ! Remember them :) - DVHmm, yeah, the thing is I usually leave it on all the time and stop each recording after the set ended. Usually I don't have time to start the recording just before the set starts, it can start out of the blue, often. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Don't get their numbers ! Remember them :) - DVlosers are haters | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?Confidence is an ill-defined concept. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How to not be scared/embarrassed when talking around strangers?awesome ... i am going use this as a routine... | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Disagreeing with womantease: exagerate , target, hostility, emotion (threes) surprise, reality - the elements of the perfect tease, she likes that politican, take something about her why she probably likes that guy and make a connection to some of the negative personality traits , for example , if that politican is green then : "they gonna switch off all nuclear power plants, you gonna scream his name when you go to bed in the evening and you realise that there is no power for your vibrator." | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I have more times that I can count got a girl from club to my house, only to find out at my house they do not actually want anything. Where do I go wrong??happens to me shitload of times, finally figured out a solution: connection, wide and deep rapport - also what worked in that case, to have a shower / bath with them - bj helps too, put a dick into her mouth ... she can say no but why would she ? dick is more fun than no dick - i have this yoga mat and then i tell her, that i am going to show her a cool yoga position - i make her kneel down and ... there u go :) | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsInteresting point. At the moment I am focused on the first 10000 seconds of the interaction. Those are 500 times 20 seconds. Quite optimisable. Any ideas how can I be mysterious in the first 500x20 seconds ? So when she goes home (after the date) then she thinks how mysterious I am ? | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsBut mystery.... that's what allows her to keep wondering about you and constantly have you on her mind, yet still allows you to give her the security of having you. But mystery is a very vague term. What does that mean, specifically ? It cannot be put into action - at least I don't see how. Be mysterious. That is not very actionable advice. Or you have any suggestions? | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How to use neg's and get away with them.Yeah, insult causes collateral damage, though I start to see the point in making the message (=she cannot be sure that she can have me without at least a good BJ) drive home. People have world views, frames of perception, insult reinforces the more-useful frame-of-perception about you. | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How to use neg's and get away with them.Only way to find out is to test it :) | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsYes. But why do they loose interest ? This is a very good question. Probably because you are not there anymore to entertain her. So something has to take your place. What is a good candidate that can take your place to provide emotional stimulation for her ? Yes, you have guessed it correctly: doubt/uncertainty. You wanna be on her mind 24/7, will that happen if she is 100% sure that she can get you ? No, because then another man will take over her mind (who is maybe less attractive than you) bu… | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsLOL. | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsInteresting point. I guess I just need to field test some material that causes them to have serious doubt about whether they can get me or not and see for myself if that helps or not. | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsThat is a good point ! Having doubt in her mind makes you stand out. Because she knows that she can fuck all others except you. Other things being equal, she will choose you because it gives her the feeling of accomplishment if she gets you. Also, by default, if she is 100% sure that she can get you, then you cannot stand out. Having doubt in her mind is a pre-requisite for attraction. I need to field test this ASAP. Somehow Google gave this when I searched for "doubt" and strangely there was a … | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsWell, I am kinda talking about the cases when they are the ones closing me.... - the case that inspired my post happened last weekend and I don't think it was any of the reason you mentioned. That would be too obvious and I would not have even thought about the "lack of thrill" aspect of the story if I suspected any of the more obvious explanation could have explained the flake. On the second thought the closest that comes is : "she just feels way different the next morning." but that can be rem… | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsWell, I am talking about the cases when none of these are true :) | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Yet another theory about flakes, and proposed solutionsFlaking relates to "buyer's remorse" when you bought something and you are not sure that you made the right choice. Again, this can be prevented if she doubts that she won you over to begin with. Somehow one needs to figure out what it means for a woman that "she won you over". How does she know ? More importantly, how does she know that she did not won you over - yet ? I see some potential for NLP here. For example reminding her of a situation where she had a crash on someone and that guy set h… | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 06:15 PM |
| 1 | IOD examples for micro-calibrationHmm... yeah, interesting point, the one about reading people. I wonder if there are some tests to see if someone can be negged or not. Maybe some "almost"-negs. Btw., another way to install doubt is jealousy, perhaps. Or "just" reminding them of a bad breakup and linking it to myself ala NLP style. Or fourth option is to set up barriers ( I am not emotionally ready etc... ). | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | IOD examples for micro-calibrationRight, let me clarify what I mean: the problem with IODs is that they don't have a clear purpose. I have a clear purpose: I want to make her ask herself "can I get this guy ?". The purpose is to install doubt in her mind. Most of the IODs/push-pull stuff out there is not related to this purpose/goal, or it is not clear how they are related. The problem is that they can backfire (hurting the target too much and still not installing doubt in her mind). The goal is to find examples that minimize th… | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 09:37 AM |
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