TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

iamthesage Archive

View 0 posts and 411 comments by iamthesage on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I agree -- there will be jobs. I was responding to OP's attitude that its OK to be comfortable in a minimum wage job. Unfortunately, it's those minimum wage jobs that could be under attack. Eventhough taxing robots sounds good on paper -- it hasn't been done yet. In the mean time, jobs will be lost and replaced. Focusing on skills and careers is like insurance -- you are ensuring that in the case of jobloss, you can quickly adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:57 PM
1

Having a career aspiration gives you a sense of day-to-day purpose. It makes going to work more meaningful. It gives you something to look forward to --rather than doing the same thing over-and-over again. There is enough studies and research showing that people get more and disengaged and unhappy at work if they are not challenged. Also, most people know that climbing the career ladder -- means they can make more money. Which allows them to buy and spend on other things -- hobbies, travel, larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:35 PM
1

Get a piranha and get a large aquarium. Nothing get better than that :)
/r/seduction24/12/20 05:05 PM
63

I agree with everything except the puppy. Don't get a puppy unless you genuinely care for it, and want to look after it. Getting a puppy just to pick up girls is cliche. Other than that -- solid list.
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:56 AM
2

I agree. Most of the advice here is to "get the girl" or "get a girl". "Keeping the girl" is whole another ball game.
/r/seduction21/12/20 07:54 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:52 PM
4

I agree. Too many assholes out there. I have heard numerous horror dating stories. There's a reason women are hesitant or are resistant or as some people call it "stuck up". In reality most aren't stuck up -- they are trying to protect themselves. Unfortunately, the pick up community spends too much time on the "attraction" and "seduction" part. But the "comfort" part is where we need to focus on. Before you date, sleep with any women -- its important to make her feel comfortable and safe. You c…
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:43 PM
1

It's a work in progress brother. It's never-ending self-improvement. That's what TRUE Game is. Women ,dates, lays are byproducts.
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:31 PM
7

It's not uncommon. Most guys go through this. Sometimes girls give you numbers -- because in the moment they wanted to. Then, their rational mind kicks and they go through a process of elimination of not wanting to meet the guy. Also, you don't know their situation. Some even give you numbers, but actually are in a relationship. They wanted that momentary validation by your approach. But later realize that they cant do anything.. This has happened to me few times. Your ratios are not horrible.
/r/seduction15/12/20 05:32 PM
2

Yeah. That's what I wanted to say. Just because a woman talks to you and smiles doesnt mean -- they are interested in dating you.
/r/seduction13/12/20 07:17 PM
8

Good summary. Eye contact and touching are definitely surefire signs. Even if you don't catch the subtle mirroring -- a strong eye contact means she is attracted to you.
/r/seduction12/12/20 05:42 PM
1

Congrats man. Maybe this be the beginning of many more dates to come.
/r/seduction30/10/20 04:50 PM
2

I hear you totally.. Enough women have told me the shit they have to go through daily. It's worse in other countries.
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:24 PM
4

As a man, I can understand how and why cold approaches can be intimidating for women. They have to put up with years of catcalling and random assholes with bad intentions. So I can imagine why naturally their guards are up. Yes, most of the time girls are in a rush, and that's another reason, cold approaches don't go well. Plus, it's not normal. Most guys don't do this. Now both men and women are used to online dating. I have had great conversations with women when doing cold approaches. Some we…
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:35 PM
1

A very condescending response for someone's opinion you respect.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:01 AM
3

You are not alone :). Most girls I have got numbers from are the same.. They wanted me to reach out. Some said it explicitly, some implied.
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:02 PM
2

Good tip. It's not just about getting the number. Exchanging numbers is a sign that she is more interested. I would go a step further, and try to confirm a date on the spot (especially when you get her number from daygame). The numbers goal should always be to confirm logistics and time. Ideally both of you should setup a date right there... This is a clear sign of interest. If she is not interested, she wont agree to a date. Also, I concur about your point about abundance mentality.
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:01 PM
2

Not really dude. This has nothing to do with entitlement. Let's call this the laws or rules of dating. This is how they are conditioned and programmed. Just because they won't make the first move doesn't mean they are entitled..
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:49 AM
3

True. As a guy I just accept it. No big deal
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:48 AM
6

Why? That makes no sense. She turned out to be an amazing date. Plus she is a career-oriented ambitious women. Just because she won't message me first doesn't make her bad. Or any women who won't make the first move. Dude, they have been conditioned for years on how to date.
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:46 AM
3

Interesting...
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:09 AM
3

These are the ways of courtship.. It is what it is. As men sometimes we need to stop analyzing, and take the lead. This happens with approaches as well. Whether in a bar or social situation, we have to do the approaching. Women might give us signals such as eye contact or smile, those are cues for us to approach. Even in Bumble, all they do is say "hi" (the first message). We still have to ask for the number or setup the date. These are the rules of courtship, and we will continue to abide by th…
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:09 AM
53

Yeah so true. That particular girl told me flat out she never messages a guy. She finds it weird. I realized that's a common response for women. We guys have to do the work. It's simple. It's part of the courtship process.
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:06 PM
597

I experimented with this method for 2 months back in 2016... Many of there were cold approaches, and the convos were great. I then gave them my number. Guess, how many sent me a text? 0. The last girl I tried this method told me straight up "No take my number. I won't send the first message". I texted her later and we went on a date. Since, then I have stopped giving women my number. I always sent the first message.
/r/seduction21/10/20 04:10 PM
1

Just to clarify, not all girls are just attracted to money. Yes, your status is higher and easier to attract. But it doesn't mean you will be able to keep them. True game is about becoming the best version of your self -- health, wealth, lifestyle, skills. Yes, it's true the more money you make, the quality of girls you attract will also be higher.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:34 PM
2

If you are asking me how to be like Onassis, then yes become a billionaire.
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:12 PM
6

He was rich as fuck.. So that was his pickup line. So yes, it's easier to get laid with hot women when you are a billionaire.
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:01 PM
3

You are missing the point. Daygame isn't about going to game 1 hour a day for the next 10 years. It's about building that identity of a person who can talk to and attract girls no matter where he goes. Grocery stores, events, airports, transit, etc. That's the core benefit of Daygame. It's not about making it a purpose or routine. Unfortunately you can't do the same with nightgame. You have to go to a club on certain days to pickup. And not everyone likes to stay past midnight just to score. I w…
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:12 PM
1

How many girls you approached are single? Then adjust your ratios and see how effective you are. Yes, I have seen this is my daygame as well. You are approaching a lot of girls to get a number. But most of the girls are taken. And hence, your ratios are bad. I have been doing it for years, and no it is not a waste of time. Think of it as building a lifestyle, rather than just getting a number. Once you have this skill down, you can be anywhere in the world and start talking to girls. Things will…
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:33 PM
3

You both have different values. You shouldn't be forcing her into something she doesn't want. At the same time,she should not force you into something you don't want (celibacy). Here's an honest unsolicited advice -- perhaps it's time to reconsider the relationship. Sex is an important part of a relationship.
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:28 PM
14

Eye contact is one of the most underrated things you can do to boost your attraction.
/r/seduction07/10/20 06:17 PM
1

Did it 5 years ago, and will not go back to a reuular hairstyle
/r/seduction03/10/20 12:38 AM
6

It's been over 10 years since I read the book. It has amazing insights. Thanks for the summary. The 1st one was profound (Live as your father was dead). It's an amazing mindset to have.
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:19 PM
2

Dude. But she didn't owe you anything. It's one thing if you guys were dating but you were not. Let me ask you a question.. Do you share all your sexual fantasies with your friends and people you work with? Obviously no. So, she doesn't have to tell you everything. One more thing.. I learnt this from the last few women I slept with. Almost every girl wants to show perfection,that they are good girls. But in bed, almost all of them are wild ones. They are more horny than us. They have more at sta…
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:28 PM
3

Everyone new to seduction has had an experience like this in the past. It's an eye opener for you to see how people are in the real world. Also, don't judge her. She has every right to be promiscuous and be free with her sexuality -- as any other guy in this forum. If a guy did the same things, he is a stud. If a chick does it - red pilled? WTF? Be more open-minded guys. Anyways, my friend now you have learnt. Work on yourself, get out there, practice your game, meet more girls, you will get ove…
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:02 PM
6

Yes. The ultimate IOI (Indicators of Interest). If a girl smiles, just go say "hi". And let the conversation take you where it takes you. Thank you. It's always good to read a female perspective.
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:07 PM
4

Well said
/r/seduction10/09/20 11:34 PM
110

This!!! Instead of focusing on shit to attract girls, become a more attractive man. Work on yourself. Love yourself. Women will be attracted to you.
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:07 PM
1

Speak to your friend first. Just ask him if it is OK. If he gives the green light, then its open season. But respect your friendship before banging any of his exes.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:46 PM
2

In my experience, if someone is really interested or attracted -- they will always make time to meet you. Even if it is a video call or a 1 hour coffee date. Either you are misreading the situation about her interest. Or maybe you are here "maybe". She is fishing in the pond to catch other fishes, and she wants to keep you as a backup. I would suggest you pull back. Stop flirting or texting. Use text only for logistics. Spend more time on text after you guys on a few dates. But limit texts befor…
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:27 PM
1

Sounds like a setup for an MLM pitch.. vitamins, healing,etc. Am I the only one looking at this as trap? LOL. I personally dont like getting involved with married woman. It can get complicated. To make things worse, you guys work together. Another no-no. f you are getting compliments then just enjoy it. Move on.
/r/seduction03/09/20 03:22 AM
1

Sounds like you are enjoying sex with the mom. If you dont want to lose it, then keep it going. LOL. Ignore the daughter. Dont risk it. Attraction sometimes has an expiry date. She might get over it in some time. That's why I asked earlier - what are you looking for?
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:13 PM
1

Yeah something weird in their relationship lol. It looks like they are open about their sexuality. I could be wrong, but I have a feeling that the daughter has told her mom about you. LOL. If you are just having fun. Then have fun all the way ;). You will never get an opportunity like this again. Nobody does.
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:37 PM
1

Do you like the mom and are looking to take this further? Or is it a short-term fling? I think things will always be complicated because the daughter has shown interest in you. Let's say you keep seeing the mom and it turns into something long-term -- you cannot shake off the weird connection the daughter has for you. If you are just having sex with the mom. Then hey man, go for it. The daughter is legal. She walked into the room when you and the mom were having sex. And it does not look like th…
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:19 PM
75

Wow. this is awesome. Its been close to 9 years since I read Neil Strauss. Some of the wisdom in the book are timeless pieces of advice.
/r/seduction01/09/20 07:21 PM
2

Sometimes people have hangups about sex due to past trauma, relationships or even not being comfortable in their own skin. By your stories, it sounds like you both like each other's company. My suggestion is to have an honest conversation. Let her know how you feel, and ask her to open up. Perhaps after opening up she feels more comfortable she might have sex. If all this does not work, time to move on.
/r/seduction31/08/20 06:00 PM
1

Be more attractive - inside and out. Outside - work on your health, grooming, looks,etc. The more you work on yourself it will start fuel your inner self. Inside - Read more, learn more, work on your inner self. Strive to become a better man. All of this will raise your attractiveness, then it becomes relatively simpler to attract women.
/r/seduction08/08/20 10:20 PM
1

Awesome dude. congrats
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:00 PM
2

Wait. You say you got "nothing". You got a date. You got 5 numbers. You acted manly and went to a girl, which most guys will never ever do. You have build skills that most men never have. Stop being too hard on yourself.. Enjoy the journey and savor the results..
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:06 AM
1

Small wins compound over time.. Keep it up.
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:51 AM
1

First off all.. You are being too fucking hard on your self. You are in a much better space than most 35yrs old. You lift 2x your weights, that's fucking rad... You have a good career, sounds like. You are driven. Most guys don't have the balls to do 1000 approaches.. So give yourself a fucking break. Don't be too hard on yourself. Now, who told you are not getting results? 1000 approaches got you 40 numbers. So now you have something to work on. Your ratio is 1 in 25.. That means you need to do…
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:45 AM
-6

Your reply should be "Be Careful what you wish for :)"
/r/seduction10/02/19 10:30 PM
4

This is good advice. I will try this out on some of my upcoming dates. I don't understand the other sarcastic comments for this post. I think this is an idea worth trying.
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:28 AM
1

Great FR.. I want to see more posts like this.
/r/seduction15/07/18 12:29 AM
4

Awesome story dude. These are the type of posts that we want to see in this Forum!!
/r/seduction24/06/18 03:52 PM
8

Holy shit.. This happened to me few weeks ago. I totally misread the situation when she said "Im tired".. Fuck. Thanks man..
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:35 PM
11

It isn't always Nofap that doesn't give you bones. sometimes erections don't happen because you are nervous. Or even when there is no real sexual chemistry.
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:38 AM
2

This is awesome. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/08/17 10:53 PM
1

Threesome??
/r/seduction27/07/17 10:49 PM
1

True that.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:29 PM
1

That's the 1st thing that came to my mind. Lol
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:03 PM
1

I only do street game or Daygame. And my results are far better than on Tinder. Its also less commitment on your end. No need to go to a bar, buy drinks and approach chicks late in the night..
/r/seduction25/07/17 12:31 PM
3

This. This is why I visit this sub. Thank you for posting stories like this. It's inspiring to see that street game or cold approach pickup works.
/r/seduction23/07/17 11:00 PM
1

I am not even going to explain myself or defend myself to someone who justifies his lack of action to his own made up fallacies and a YouTube video (by the way Tom Torero has posted tons of other videos where he successfully picks up girls doing daygame, it's amazing how you only found one video where he is talking about the difficulties with daygame). And I am not going to defend my successes (your so called 20 minute lays - lmao; for your information I last 22 mins not 20 :) :)). Dude, stop be…
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:41 PM
1

You are the man...
/r/seduction23/07/17 12:36 PM
2

"Men lie, women lie, numbers don't lie" - Floyd Mayweather. I am not going to convince you about cold approaching. Looks like you have a strong opinion against it. Here are my 2017 stats - 400+ cold approaches (1 approach a day) - 91 numbers - 12 dates, some of them instant - 3 make outs - 3 lays All from cold approach pickup. Sorry I lied 1 Tinder date. Then I deleted tinder. Stop whining about cold approach pickup. It works.. You just have to put in the work.. Social media and Tinder has fucke…
/r/seduction23/07/17 12:35 PM
3

Well said
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:28 PM
9

I am curious why this is a big deal. Women are like us. They date, they have sex, they have relationships. Why would that be a red flag if a girl talks about her sex life?
/r/seduction10/06/17 05:19 PM
1

Nice... Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction09/06/17 10:00 PM
12

Mark Manson - overall mindset and lifestyle building. Black Dragon - what to do when you are at the date with the girl? The guys from Daygame.com (Yad, Tom Torero, etc.) - These guys will open you up to the possibility that girls are everywhere. You should be approaching during the day.
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:32 AM
1

I love field reports. That'd why I come to seddit. But sadly there aren't many here nowadays.
/r/seduction13/05/17 12:48 AM
2

Thank you for sharing this. Loved the story.
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:48 PM
1

Awesome. I miss reading posts like this on seddit. Thanks for sharing. I couldn't disagree with you. Everything you said here is true.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:22 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction23/04/17 02:26 AM
1

Awesome..
/r/seduction26/03/17 12:59 AM
1

Amen.
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:08 PM
1

But aren't you technically getting rejected more in online dating. You swipe 100 girls you might get 1 match. But if you approached 100 girls, I can guarantee you will get more than 1 potential option.
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:08 PM
2

Hey man, just wanted to say good post. Fuck, I can't believe the negative comments I am reading on your post. Chill the fuck out people, read through, take what works for you and throw out the rest. And to the people calling OP a creep for 100 lays, why the hell are you on this sub? He is talking 100 in 5 years, that's 20 per year. How's that perverted? I don't personally agree with couple of the points, but the rest is good stuff. For example, living downtown definitely helps you get more oppor…
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:58 PM
4

Dude. This is perhaps the best response I have seen here. Awesome and congrats.
/r/seduction18/02/17 12:18 AM
-2

Dude. This is perhaps the best response I have seen here. Awesome and congrats.
/r/seduction18/02/17 12:17 AM
-3

Dude. This is perhaps the best response I have seen here. Awesome and congrats.
/r/seduction18/02/17 12:17 AM
1

Good post. I deleted all my dating apps few months back. All my latest results have come from cold approaches.
/r/seduction14/02/17 12:11 AM
0

Wow..
/r/seduction12/02/17 11:20 PM
1

The more you don't give a fuck, the more confident you will come across.
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:46 PM
5

I love your posts. I hope you don't stop after 50 days.
/r/seduction31/01/17 12:01 AM
6

I second that
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:54 PM
2

Thanks for the FR. It's always good to hear stories like this.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:57 PM
1

Awesome.
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:41 AM
1

Solid advice..
/r/seduction24/12/16 01:27 AM
1

Been there done that. We all have learnt this lesson. Society feeds is bullshit that if you are dating a girl, take it slow. Wait 3 dates. That's bullshit. Women are equally interested in sex or more. They just need us guys to make them comfortable with it. The same goes with bringing a girl over to your place. If you don't escalate then it becomes to get a second chance. Now that you have learnt the lesson, you now know how to in future dates..
/r/seduction24/12/16 01:20 AM
2

I love FRs. It just shows me what else is possible.
/r/seduction24/12/16 01:02 AM
11

Excellent post. Your post pissed me off. Not at you. But at myself. I was waiting for things to improve in my life so I can feel more confident. But I realized that I can start to feel confident now, this very moment. A lot of the things I already knew but never applied them.. I just got a sudden surge of motivation as soon as I read this. Keep posting awesome stuff.
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:54 AM
3

Great job man.. Most guys don't plough through the conversation after the opener. This is where things are the most awkward, the more you talk the more comfortable she becomes.. And this is exactly what happened here.. Congrats
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:11 AM
2

Good stuff
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:08 PM
4

Damn had I read this 3 years ago, I would have closed more girls. . Many times I have had this experience. Any time a date said this to me, I took it on face value.. And tried to be the nice fucking guy.. Damn..
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:50 PM
1

Yes, you also forget them soon.
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:47 AM
27

This is just the beginning. More dates to come for you. No oneitis please.
/r/seduction25/11/16 07:27 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:13 AM
1

Sounds like you did great. Unfortunately you were not able to isolate, and that was not your fault in this situation. Your friend is a terrible wing lol, if he sensed that you are having a good set he should be supporting you..
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:10 AM
2

Your life is interesting. So stop trying to attract girls who don't find it interesting. Most guys on this sub try to impress girls who wouldn't jive with them anyway. I am pretty sure there are a handful of girls that right now at this very moment find you and your life interesting.. Focus your energy on them.
/r/seduction24/11/16 11:56 PM
3

Plenty of fish in the sea..
/r/seduction24/11/16 11:54 PM
2

In my experience, if you don't communicate that you are interested in her, she will never know. Women are not mind readers. Don't assume anything. Tell her upfront why you approached her. Otherwise you are just another guy: who is talking to her.
/r/seduction24/11/16 11:50 PM
4

Great stuff. Right now my entire game is Daygame.. I approach a lot, and my success rate is low. . I think that's because I am not going in confident.. I like your ideas..will start implementing it..
/r/seduction24/11/16 12:33 AM
1

When you say "met" are you talking about approaching or dates? . If it's 200 dates then there is a serious problem that you need to look into. Work on your conversation and Kino skills. If it's approaches, don't worry, things like this take time.
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:37 AM
1

Awesome post. I have saved this post.. Thanks dude.
/r/seduction15/11/16 11:52 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction15/11/16 12:19 AM
1

Lol. No. I dont think so.
/r/seduction13/11/16 02:27 AM
1

For me it was consistent action that improved my inner game. The more I practiced, the better I became, and the better results I got. And this made my inner game strong. It is still not the strongest because I have a long way to go to improve my game.
/r/seduction13/11/16 02:26 AM
6

This is normal. Most girls won't sleep on the first day. Seal the deal on the next date.
/r/seduction13/11/16 02:21 AM
2

This might sound lame but I use a spreadsheet to track my approaches, number, dates. Etc. It is important to keep track. It shows me how far I have come.
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:38 PM
7

Whenever a girl messages me back with a text like that. I sent her a text like this "Let's do it again. How about Saturday? I will take you to my favourite place in the city..". It works. Girls rarely text back after a date. So jump on in right away before the attraction expiries.
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:35 PM
6

I agree. I lose interest if there is no sexual chemistry
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:14 AM
6

Like you approach them anywhere else. Just go and say hi. If she is not interested - no problem. At least you know..
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:21 PM
1

Thanks for this. This is excellent.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:54 PM
1

Thanks for this. This is excellent.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:53 PM
6

Fuck yeah.... Congrats.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:50 PM
1

Cool story. !! I like reading FRs like this. Its one of the reasons I come to this sub-reddit
/r/seduction06/11/16 10:04 PM
2

Good luck mate. You can do it. I remember the first few times was hard and painful as fuck. Then it becomes easier.. Go for it.
/r/seduction04/11/16 11:33 PM
2

IMHO this has to be the best post I have read in this sub. I couldn't agree with you more with all the points you shared. Thanks for the contribution.
/r/seduction03/11/16 09:58 PM
3

If you like him so much - just tell him. When a guy is direct - women like it (in my experience). Why wouldn't you just tell him? Most men do not know the game or never study how women communicate. Perhaps, he is clueless. Men are not mindreaders. Some men (like the ones in this sub-reddit) take time to understand female communication, but most men don't.
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:46 PM
2

If it works, why complain. :)
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:28 PM
1

Flirting is harmless. Play along, flirt with her.. But don't do anything. If you think she is playing.then you play as well, but play Better :). Flirting doesn't mean dating or fucking. It's just communication.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:24 PM
1

Congrats. I believe your mindset helped you, best case you get laid, worst case you get a drink. At the end of the day you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:22 PM
1

Take a moment to pause and reflect. What have you learnt in the process? What have you become? What have you overcome? I think your expectations are messing with you. You are only aiming at sex. Yes that's the goal we all want to improve. But just focusing on that one goal will make us demotivated. Do you have a wing?
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:54 PM
1

Last minute resistance
/r/seduction17/10/16 01:30 AM
21

This is not LMR. You guys were having sex. So you passed that stage. Sex is emotional for girls. She was going through some things, and probably needed time to process it. You handled it well.
/r/seduction16/10/16 01:22 PM
2

A FR is a FR. it's upto the reader to see what type of value they can deliver. I don't think OP should get the slack for posting this. He is just sharing his story.
/r/seduction16/10/16 12:45 AM
1

I like reading FRs like these. Good stuff. Anything is possible. How old are you by the way?
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:22 PM
3

Fuck the league mindset. There is no such thing as out of your league. This is bullshit mindset perpetuated by society. Work on improving your game, and start practising on women who are more attractive. And once you start dating and having sex with more attractive women your mindset will change.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:37 PM
1

Check the [FR] section of this sub. I once read a field report from a guy who was able to pick up from Instagram.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:36 PM
0

I can't disagree
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:34 PM
2

Status does come into effect sometimes. However, most girls don't care (in my experience). They are looking to see if you are driven, ambitious,etc. It also depends on your goals with pickup. If you are looking for quick lay, then you shouldn't worry - attraction is more important than status. If both of you are looking for something long term - then it might be different. She might be looking for a stable partner.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:33 PM
2

Hey dude. 32 yrs old. Been doing pickup for 5years. No more a beginner, I have progressed to a intermediate status. I respect that you are still doing this at 40. I don't have any plans to settle down. You have inspired me. It's good to know that there are people out there still living the life. For the love of The Game.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:30 PM
3

Good job man. It's small tiny things like this done consistently over time that will improve your Game. The more you practice doing things that scare you, the more stronger you become.
/r/seduction14/10/16 12:41 PM
1

Yes. So what?? . Just tell the guy, you saw the girl, and approached her to say hi. Many times the boyfriend laughs it off. Some guys are possessive, and might confront you. If he confronts you, tell him calmly "look, I saw her and thought she was cute, I had no idea she was taken"..
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:37 AM
1

Approach means just talking to them. Just say hi and chat them up. What you feel is normal. I have done so many approaches in my life, I still feel nervous each day but I do it anyway. I bet your life will change and your game will change if you just focused on approaching.. Other things such as conversation skills, numbers, dates will take care of themselves. Our brains are incredible at adapting and growing to new situations.. You will not become a master pua in 90 days, but you will be far be…
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:34 AM
4

Yeah perhaps. But if those were the only standards, then most guys in this forum(including myself) will never get laid or dates.
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:30 AM
17

There is no one out of my league. I am the fucking prize.. And you too should have this mindset.
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:35 PM
5

You are 40. No problem. You have another 40 to 60 years to live (depending on your lifestyle!). It's never too late to start improving yourself. Start fixing one thing at a time - your job, heath, finances. Regarding Game, the best advice anyone can give you. Just fucking do it. Stop analyzing and studying shit. Just do it. Heres a challenge.. In the next 90 days, set a challenge to approach 100 women in person. I guarantee you, that your game will change and your life will change. And don't qui…
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:33 PM
2

Good stuff. Short, sweet and to then point. I like the fact you stopped her as she was walking away..
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:08 AM
3

I have never got that before. Interesting..
/r/seduction10/10/16 05:00 PM
1

It's time for you to graduate From Hello. start opening girls during the day. I like Daygame. I do direct approaches. because it saves time and is effective. Situational or indirect approaches work too. Not my favourite, but it helps you get started.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:31 PM
1

Don't beat yourself up. This is only one approach. Like any skill if you work on it consistently you will improve.
/r/seduction08/10/16 04:56 PM
24

Lmao.
/r/seduction07/10/16 11:09 AM
1

Wow. I have no idea how you came to that conclusion. FYI - I am 5`6". Brown Guy with a slight belly. Average looks and average build. Maybe I am not trying hard to get girls.. If the girls not interested, I walk away. And maybe they sense that. And that's why they like me.
/r/seduction06/10/16 10:37 PM
1

To be honest - no clue. I had no idea I will be getting lots of upvotes . I was just sharing what works for me, and tried to make sense of it.
/r/seduction06/10/16 10:35 PM
1

First of all you have a lot of good things going for you. So kudos to you for that. Honestly, I would fix that porn addiction first. Your social anxiety is a mere symptom of another cause (and in this case porn). There are numerous studies showing the negative effects of porn on young men. So I am not going to preach about that. I urge you to look it up. Even actor Terry Crews made a video on YouTube how porn negatively affected his life. Fix this, and a lot of other issues can be fixed over tim…
/r/seduction06/10/16 03:14 AM
3

Roger that.
/r/seduction06/10/16 03:06 AM
3

Thanks man. I learnt it the hard way. But I am glad I did. I don't chase girls anymore.
/r/seduction06/10/16 03:04 AM
111

The best advice I have ever received from a buddy. "If she's down, she's down. If you have to spend too much time to get her to give you her number, or lots of effort to get her out on a date. Then it's not worth it.". In my experience, all the girls I have s-closed or kiss closed, there was mutual chemistry and attraction. There was not a lot of resistance. Of course I made the effort of approaching her. That's my 2 cent. She might give you a number if you do mind tricks on her, but will she co…
/r/seduction05/10/16 12:29 PM
1

I agree with some of the comments here. I would have gone direct. If she is attractive, just go tell her that. You have nothing to lose. The false gift card approach might across as weak.
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:57 PM
0

This is a good post. I sometimes have the tendency to approach just for the sake of approaching. And it is counter productive.
/r/seduction25/09/16 08:14 PM
2

Just go for the date. Don't play around with texting. Texting is a dating black hole.
/r/seduction17/09/16 01:58 AM
6

It's cool to know that amazing things happen when you just fucking open.. It's that simple. Great story bro. Keep us posted. :)
/r/seduction17/09/16 01:54 AM
3

Yikes, that's a tough road to climb bro. From friendzone to 3some. I love your ambition :) After dinner, get some drinks out. Start talking about dating and relationships. Girls love talking about that shit. Then transition talking about sex. The more they open up the more you can build on it. Then they get turned on. At this point, introduce Truth Or Dare, or strip poker. Then escalate. Sorry that's all I can give you. I am curious to hear your update. If you nail this, you will have mine and a…
/r/seduction07/09/16 10:11 PM
1

Have you slept with both of them before?, in that case it could be easier.
/r/seduction07/09/16 09:41 PM
1

I agree. I meant you need to focus on the basics which is getting out and talking to girls. And the plan or methodology can come as you progress. But if you spend too much time planning then not much happens. In my experience, I have gotten better over time. Better results. All I focus on is pushing myself to have conversations. All others (numbers, dates, lays) have happened steadily and surely. Avoid analysis paralysis.
/r/seduction06/09/16 12:41 PM
14

Just start hi or start approaching every girl you find attractive. That's all. Just focus on talking to girls. Everything else will fall into places. It's amazing how well our brains learn and adapt to be experiences.. Forget about everything else. Trust me.. It works. You will get better. Trust the process. No need to memorize anything.. Just fucking take action..
/r/seduction06/09/16 10:57 AM
2

Start going to Meetup events ( find groups that you are interested in or close to your hobbies). Forget about girls at this point. Get yourself in the habit of talking to strangers. Once you get comfortable , then you start approaching women. Take it one step at a time.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:28 AM
1

Buddy you should be happy that you are out of relationship. The world is your oyster now. Learn from your experiences and move forward. You will do great :)
/r/seduction28/08/16 03:52 PM
5

great FR I love stories like this. You obviously have enough experience and the presence of mind to go after her (eye contact, IOI). Most guys are clueless. It's amazing how much of an impact eye contact makes. I am always nervous about dance floor game. But your story is a testament that it is possible if you do it properly
/r/seduction27/08/16 04:58 PM
1

Great stuff. Keep up the good work
/r/seduction27/08/16 12:23 PM
1

Good stuff. Most people are bad texters. That's why I like to cut the bulshit and get to the date ASAP lol.
/r/seduction23/08/16 03:55 PM
1

If she has already told you she has free time, then don't ask. Just tell her. I might write something like this "Hey X, let's celebrate you quitting your job. Coffee is too boring. Lets have ice cream on Wednesday"..
/r/seduction22/08/16 11:41 PM
1

Personal experience "Lets continue our chat over coffee. What's your schedule tomorrow night?" Simple and sweet. She might say yes. She might say she is not free. Then ask her schedule and setup a date when both of you are free.
/r/seduction21/08/16 02:20 AM
1

Text her tomorrow and setup a date. Girls don't like to talk on the phone (personal experience,) texting is better
/r/seduction21/08/16 02:14 AM
2

Lmao. So true
/r/seduction21/08/16 01:58 AM
1

Don't sweat it. She texted you so that you have her number. She is interested to degree, otherwise she would not have texted you. Stop asking her about her fucking day (like you really care lol). You want to meet her so verbalize it. Just text her and tell her let's meet for coffee. And ask her out. I have made the same mistake many times by trying chat using text. It's a black hole.. Get her out..
/r/seduction21/08/16 01:57 AM
6

I dont do affirmation or mantras. Used to do those when I started out. Now i visualize everyday. I go through ideal situations of all my goals. I visualize that each girl I approach wants to talk to me. And I effortlessly get numbers, dates. And recently I have had a lot of success in terms of numbers and insta-dates. So obviously something is working. Also, now my successss has made me a bit more assertive and aggressive. So that has become a perpetual feedback loop. The more I talk to girls , …
/r/seduction21/08/16 01:54 AM
14

Wow. Great FR. I love stories like this. After reading this I have realized how many opportunities I might have missed because if there is no real IOI, I dont usually put a lot of effort in. I liked the fact that you persisted inspire of resistance. And that's a great takeaway from this story. I am inspired and motivated.
/r/seduction20/08/16 07:52 PM
2

Good FR. Good lessons here for all us. Just tell her to relax.
/r/seduction20/08/16 05:32 AM
1

This is why I come her every day . To read stories like this. Buddy, you are a living example of what can happen if you just put yourself out there. Epic FR. Keep it up man. I get inspired reading stories like this.
/r/seduction18/08/16 12:46 AM
1

Don't we hate it when we face the text black hole? My recommendation - dont text her asking anything. Few hours before your scheduled date - message her " I look forward to seeing you again. Be there at 8pm". I have tried this and it works. Honestly man texting is shit. Sometimes girls stop texting for whatever reason..
/r/seduction18/08/16 12:43 AM
0

I agree. People don't read a lot of the advice here. Some people just want to post their FRs
/r/seduction13/08/16 08:44 PM
13

Movie dates a bad idea for first dates.
/r/seduction13/08/16 01:24 PM
0

Good post. I enjoy your posts. I totally agree with the first part. Whe. I started appreciating Game, my game got better. I stated hanging around with guys who were better than me in terms of seduction. And I started absorbing their good attitudes and habits.
/r/seduction13/08/16 01:47 AM
11

True. I miss the gold ole days of Field Reports.
/r/seduction21/07/16 10:39 PM
2

I get numbers and insta-dates. My living situation now is shitty (live with parents, so I cant take girls there). My current focus is to find girls who have their own place and take them there and bang them lol. I just closed a cougar last weekend. So yes, its possible. And the glass is definitely greener.
/r/seduction18/07/16 12:29 AM
2

Yes. I couldn't say hi to a girl if my life depended on it. It was painful, embarrassing. I came from an Orthodox Asian family. So I needed to unlearn a lot of bullshit. And thats why it took longer for me. My friends and wings who grew up in western culture were able to get success fast. I was patient and I hustled. I had AA each time I went out. Eventually it goes away..
/r/seduction17/07/16 07:35 PM
1

It takes months or even few years to get there. But once you are arrive you will so free.
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:15 AM
3

Focus on one thing at a time. In the beginning all I did was open. It took me few months to just do that. Once that was taken care of, then I started going for numbers, then dates,etc.. This worked for me. It was a long process. But the journey itself is fun.
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:14 AM
28

Stay in there and hang in there. I know this sounds like a cliche advice. But it is true. I remember my first lay from Gaming. It took me 3 months of going out twice a week to get my first solid number close. Then it took me another 3 months to get my first kiss. Then it took me another 8 months to get my first lay. It took me 14 months to get my first lay. And I am glad I hung in there. My perception on dating, relationship, life has all changed. I am no longer needy , if a girl rejects me i do…
/r/seduction16/07/16 07:18 PM
1

Smile and eye contact. Then I went and said hi. There was mutual attraction.
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:28 AM
1

This weekend i slept with a chick taller than me , and I picked her up on the train on my morning commute. Am I tall? No, average height 5'6". Am I well built? No, average build. Six pack? no, a small beer belly. Point is nothing matters. I saw her, made eye contact and talked to her. My height was never an issue. Are there girls who wouldn't want to date guys my height. Yes there are plenty. But I don't want them. Dont worry about your height. Work on your game . Approach and talk to girls.
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:24 PM
1

Saved.. thanks
/r/seduction13/07/16 02:19 AM
0

The creators of Pokemon would be proud ;
/r/seduction10/07/16 08:11 PM
13

Lmao. I agree. It's always hard to pick up girls where they are working.
/r/seduction10/07/16 04:14 PM
1

Stay away from chicks you work with.. it does not usually end up well.
/r/seduction06/07/16 12:06 AM
2

Got job. This is what I love to read here. I love people who take fucking action. Keep it up.
/r/seduction30/06/16 11:46 PM
1

I think thats true. Eye contact is such a subtle thing, but it is hard to master. And once you do it well, girls will respond well The date got rescheduled to next weekend.
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:13 PM
6

Don't analyse just enjoy.
/r/seduction25/06/16 05:53 PM
36

Ya I agree. Just go with the flow. You are living the dream. Stop thinking. Just fuck them all
/r/seduction25/06/16 03:29 PM
1

Motivating post. Thanks
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:30 PM
1

That's awesome..
/r/seduction19/06/16 05:28 PM
1

Too fast too furious 😭
/r/seduction18/06/16 12:03 AM
1

I dont care what people say. Physical fitness is important. It makes you feel good. And girls can pick up the feel good vibe.
/r/seduction11/06/16 06:12 PM
1

Good point..
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:48 PM
1

Yes that is true.
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:48 PM
0

This is awesome.
/r/seduction28/05/16 12:52 AM
1

Awesome. I am now pumped after reading this.
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:55 AM
2

This, this , this is exactly why I come here. I love reading these type of Field Reports. Great FR bro. You are totally correct. Going direct sets the romantic tone so she knows your intentions right off the bat.
/r/seduction24/05/16 06:07 PM
1

There are plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:05 PM
3

Good advice
/r/seduction22/05/16 12:44 AM
16

I read this on Reddit once. "does he take good care of you?". If she says yes , then say this with a grin " I certainly won't".. I tried this today with an daygame approach today. The girl laughed, I didn't end up pursuing her as there wasn't much chemistry. But the above line is fun and it will definitely get them cracking up.
/r/seduction14/05/16 12:56 AM
1

Wow. Thanks for the inspiration.
/r/seduction14/05/16 12:47 AM
3

Please please please more Field Reports like this.
/r/seduction10/05/16 04:44 PM
1

Nicely done.
/r/seduction08/05/16 06:02 PM
6

Lmao. That's so true. Every time when I experienced a girl approaching me, it has always been a MLM scheme or some charity
/r/seduction30/04/16 01:57 AM
1

Yes dude. Think about it. Even if she ends up hooking up with you, imagine the awkwardness of setting reach other in the office the next few days..
/r/seduction29/04/16 06:31 AM
0

Don't shit where you want dude. It never works out well. There are plenty of older women out there for you ;)
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:33 AM
-4

This will teach you how to not restrict women. Where in Quran does it talk about treating women well?
/r/seduction27/04/16 11:24 PM
2

Good point. Thanks. I learnt the lesson the hard way.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:30 AM
3

I think I was too cocky. She mentioned that she was free Wednesday at 6.30. Then I messaged her with a cocky text. "Sounds good L. I am always rushing, but for you I will make an exception" After this she went cold. No replies thereafter.
/r/seduction21/04/16 02:29 AM
3

Damn. I could have used this for the past weekend. Met a cute girl from daygame . we wanted to meet, even had plans and it went cold.. I was pissed. But after reading this and all the texts that I sent her, I know where I screwed up. I showed too much interest ..
/r/seduction21/04/16 12:16 AM
1

This is why I come to this sub-reddit. To read stories like thks. Thank you for sharing bro. Awesome story. You got a same night lay with a girl in the class. That's motivating. I love seddit :))
/r/seduction20/04/16 12:41 AM
2

Your post gives me hope. I am almost 32 and I want to continue Gaming till I am in my mid 40s. Thanks for this post. This is inspiring :)
/r/seduction20/04/16 12:37 AM
4

As a late bloomer myself 26 was the first time I ever kissed a girl (has sex the same night). And then I have taken on this journey of seduction and self improvement. I don't care if I am late to the game. All I care is that I am still in the game ;). Thanks OP for your post. It's motivating.
/r/seduction20/04/16 12:32 AM
1

Regardless of if you get girls or not, improving your fitness has so many benefits. It makes you healthier, your self esteem goes up, it builds character and discipline,etc. Girls are a secondary by-product of the quality life you created by being healthy. I must say I am motivated after reading your post. I am fairly active but not that great in the muscle area. Time to pump it up;)
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:21 PM
12

Lmao
/r/seduction15/04/16 12:52 AM
1

Good success story. Let the girls chase you.
/r/seduction14/04/16 12:26 AM
1

Classic.I am going steal that :)
/r/seduction13/04/16 01:39 AM
2

Excellent post. You have a great point. And it makes total logical sense. I love the math probability theory. It makes it even more dumb not to approach.
/r/seduction10/04/16 08:23 PM
2

Just maintain eye contact and smile. I will do the rest..
/r/seduction07/04/16 12:30 AM
1

I agree. Lots of guys spend a lot of effort getting the girl into the bedroom, then they miss this piece. Definitely improves your retention rate I.e they come back for more. I have always been fascinated with eating girls out and I enjoy it. I can't believe most guys don't do it. I remember girls telling me the same thing that they don't experience this a lot. For the love of eating her out :)
/r/seduction04/04/16 03:49 PM
3

Dude I wish I could give you 10 upvotes. OP is full of shit.
/r/seduction25/03/16 12:56 AM
1

It's not odd at all. When you invited her she was busy - she did not reject the person ( you) she just declined the event. Girls don't chase. Even if they were super interested, they expect us guys to chase.. That's just how it is. Now that you have got the date. Just go for it. Don't think too much.
/r/seduction25/03/16 12:50 AM
7

That was 50% FR and 50% erotica. Well done. Good job with handling the LMR.
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:13 PM
1

Everywhere.
/r/seduction19/03/16 12:35 AM
1

Great post. I have kicked myself many times for not having pulled the trigger, or even staying in sets long.. Good advice. The more you make yourself uncomfortable, the more comfortable you will eventually become.
/r/seduction16/03/16 12:02 AM
1

Wow. One of the best advices I have seen here. Great stuff man. I am saving this post.
/r/seduction11/03/16 01:23 AM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction06/03/16 12:11 AM
1

Lmao. So true
/r/seduction06/03/16 12:09 AM
1

I love your style. I am going to steal your line :)
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:23 PM
1

Do you have the link or title of the TED talk
/r/seduction29/02/16 05:38 PM
1

Your brain believes in proof rather than promises. The reason you are feeling this way is because you haven't got positive references. The more you do cold approaches, the more success experiences you will get. So the short answer is to keep doing more of it. Don't stop. Lower your expectations. Maybe you are aiming for a date or number for each child approach. Be happy with small wins. Celebrate each thing. Even just saying hi to a girl. Slowly build on that. Eventually you will reach a point w…
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:29 PM
1

Great point. Thanks for the examples.
/r/seduction27/02/16 01:11 AM
1

The habit is more important than the outcome.
/r/seduction25/02/16 02:02 AM
3

Smile and wink. And then approach her.
/r/seduction23/02/16 06:07 PM
3

Solid game man. You just opened my eyes.
/r/seduction18/02/16 03:17 AM
37

R/sex or r/relationships might be a better place for the best advice regarding this situation. Do you know why this is happening? Is he stressed at work?
/r/seduction17/02/16 05:30 PM
1

Awesome man.
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:23 AM
38

True dude. Dont set expectations. The best thing to do with dates is to go with the flow. I do the same thing during daygame or night game. I go to just approach and talk to girls. No goals in mind. And the less pressure I put on myself, the better it turns out. Good story.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:25 PM
43

Wow. It is for stories like this I visit this sub. Great FR. Thanks for sharing this. I am extremely pumped after reading this.
/r/seduction06/02/16 01:18 AM
3

It's a journey dude. Keep moving forward with the things that you are doing. Eventually you become better at these things. I went through the same journey.
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:29 AM
1

What the fuck are you here on Reddit, instead of getting willing pussy. If she makes you hard, then go for it. Case closed. Come back and give us a report soldier..
/r/seduction31/12/15 01:55 AM
4

And a great ass
/r/seduction22/12/15 12:46 AM
1

Great list.. I think it helps to be well rounded .
/r/seduction22/12/15 12:46 AM
1

Thats very badass. I love the airport story. One of the best
/r/seduction16/12/15 05:42 PM
2

Congrats man..when I read posts like these I am proud of this seddit...
/r/seduction15/11/15 06:48 PM
-2

Lmao
/r/seduction11/11/15 01:23 AM
1

Thanks for this post.. I had made a commitment to improve this area of my life. I was looking for some advice and I am glad I stumbled upon your post.. Thanks for the inspiration..
/r/seduction01/11/15 12:45 AM
1

Great information. And the examples I need to start using these. By the way I dont know why some dudes here are giving you hard time..whats their fucking problem?? If they dont like it they dont have to read it..
/r/seduction29/10/15 02:21 AM
2

Respect.... You hustled very hard and got rewarded...
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:44 AM
12

This is fucked up. What benefit does she get from scaring the shit of you by telling that she is prego..
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:39 AM
1

If the date is set, dont.worry too much man.. is the date too far out (more than a week) then just text her normal stuff "How are you?" "How is your day?" Blah blah blah. If the date is closer then just text her when and where to meet..
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:39 AM
1

Just invite her out for a specific thing to do.. cut the chit chat.. get to the point.
/r/seduction05/10/15 12:58 AM
1

Well said..
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:26 AM
2

Good discussion point. I agree with most of the comments here. Yes, you must work on imprint yourself.. create the best version of yourself, but it should be done for you not others.. focus on building the best life because you deserve it.. Also good luck waiting for women to come approach you. We as men have to be proactive.
/r/seduction19/09/15 12:26 AM
1

Details please..
/r/seduction12/09/15 12:27 AM
1

Just make eye contact and smile. The guy will get the signal and come over to you. Seduction is more fun that way. As a guy I love the hunt ( many guys do).
/r/seduction09/09/15 04:47 PM
2

Awesome post. Totally agree
/r/seduction07/09/15 10:05 PM
1

Isn't that what Game is all about - inner confidence?
/r/seduction05/09/15 10:29 AM
15

You picked her up like boss. And got an instant date . well done. Don't worry about that she did not want to see you again... I look at things like this as practice..
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:53 PM
3

Well done. Great FR. You just showed that it is possible anywhere.. Thanks for posting... Keep us updated on how the date goes
/r/seduction29/08/15 09:09 PM
6

This girl is persistent.. I like her. As for you.. I m concerned. Don't get suckered in. I m curious to hear what's happening after
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:41 AM
5

Ha you stole the Tinder date.. My favorite story yet. Awesome man. I am starting to enjoy your posts. You have motivated me
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:18 AM
1

More FRs more FRs please. Awesome story. U just blew my mind.. Showed me anything is possible
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:09 AM
1

Awesome success.. What are the things you did to change?
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:19 PM
3

Define history.. Lol.. Details..
/r/seduction23/08/15 03:20 AM
2

It is hard to find a girl to whom you can talk about seduction. Respect for the great post.
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:20 AM
1

Book stores are a great place. Because they are not on the move. I have had some success there.. What is your success been in the mall?
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:52 PM
1

I learnt this from a friend of mine who was very successful with the game. He mentioned to me that he talks about game, social interaction, sex on all his dates. Initially it was awkward, but over time all his dates included such conversations. I took his advice - initially my dates were awkward and boring shit ( work, hobbies). I have practiced this on multiple dates, now I am very comfortable talking about relationships, feminism, pickup and sex (even BDSM though I don't do it myself. Not a fa…
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:44 AM
1

Ha ha
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:38 AM
2

Maybe it is the location. Who goes to Library to approach? Book stores Makes sense
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:35 AM
0

All 3. Pls share. They are all different, and I want to read them :)
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:33 AM
2

The date was a bit awkward. Mainly because I deviated from my standard dating. I usually take a girl for drinks- then I have my set system that worked wonder. For this date, I decided to take her for ice cream and walk by the lake. I had to improvise a lot, I was trying something new. It did not go as planned. I got a kiss at the end of the night. However, for future dates i used the same strategy (walk by the lake) and I became better at that.
/r/seduction16/08/15 10:51 PM
1

Yes at the end of the date. It was an awkward kiss lol. One of the cutest and youngest chicks I have gone on a date.. After the date the attraction fell off.. I think my testosterone was too, I was too aggressive.. Probably scared her a bit..
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:49 PM
7

Great FR.. This happened to me once, I believe there is an increase of endorphins and testosterone after any workout. And people can sense that... I finished a run and and went to a grocery store to pick up something quick. I noticed a cute chick.. I went to get with a direct approach. I was sweaty and probably smelly. We had a great chat. I told her I didn't have my phone and we should go on a date later.. She took my number.. She texted me same evening and we went on a date.. When you don't gi…
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:23 PM
1

Nicely done..
/r/seduction16/08/15 08:04 PM
1

Congrats. I was a kissless virgin till 26.. So you are way ahead of the pack.
/r/seduction15/08/15 04:30 PM
1

Sage advice:)
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:02 AM
2

One thing I learnt about years of Gaming, is that your opinion of yourself and your confidence is more important than looks.. I have had friends who are not the best looking guys, but their game was solid and they got laid more than any of us... If you are already setup, don't worry about stupid things.. Just go for the date and see how it goes..
/r/seduction14/08/15 11:10 PM
8

She responded same day. But my text game was weak. She lost interest ..
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:21 PM
15

Nice advice. This totally makes sense. One day I sat opposite to a voluptuous Caribbean chick in a train. She had best sexy clothes. I tried to break the ice by eye contact, but she wasn't interested. I thought she wasn't interested. We both got off at the same stop. I summoned up the courage to talk to her. It was easy and I got the number. She even responded to the text. Many times I feel intimidated by girls who very sexy clothes. I don't why. But your post inspired me.. It has changed my per…
/r/seduction09/08/15 10:49 AM
2

It is cool to see someone in the game at 36. It motivates me. Most guys I have seen at lairs are 22 or 23 yr old guys. It is hard to sarge with them. I find as you get older direct approached are more viable. Keep up the good work. You inspire me.
/r/seduction09/08/15 10:35 AM
1

FR please. This is cool
/r/seduction09/08/15 04:37 AM
1

Good job dude. I am 31.
/r/seduction09/08/15 04:36 AM
2

Agreed
/r/seduction09/08/15 04:26 AM
2

Wow one of the best PUA posts I have ever seen. thanks for taking the time to put this together..
/r/seduction08/08/15 01:02 AM
3

I recommend checking a sub-reddit called r/nofap. It could be a combination of few things - Porn Induced erectile dysfunction.Or it could be also you are very nervous (trust me it happens to all of us). When we try hard, sex becomes a chore and erections become an issues. But when there is natural chemistry- you don't have to try and you are going with the flow.
/r/seduction04/08/15 12:13 AM
5

Lol dude the kid is 11,let him enjoy his childhood. Once he get past high school , that is when such talks would be useful. Let him cherish his childhood.
/r/seduction04/08/15 12:10 AM
1

WHY SO SERIOUS??? It all depends on the context (how you are saying it). You can say anything to a girl and make it funny and flirty. I always talk to girls about BDSM during my 1st dates (I am not in that stuff)and I say it in a funny way , and they open up speaking about sex and relationships..
/r/seduction28/07/15 11:37 PM
1

You are not alone dude... We all can use done help in that department. It develops by practice ..
/r/seduction26/07/15 08:12 PM
6

Next time you are in a similar position play around with her. Tell her "why you asking? Are you already the jealousy type?" And throw it back to her. Use this as a flirting opportunity.
/r/seduction26/07/15 07:30 PM
1

What do you mean by you may get by couch surfing? I am here more and more stories here about this
/r/seduction09/07/15 02:36 AM
2

Dude. What the fuck. That chick has given you all the cues to go talk to her (repeated eye contact, lips,etc.) She is already warmed up. Just go say "Hi".. Don't think too much..
/r/seduction29/06/15 11:16 PM
2

Great idea.
/r/seduction27/06/15 06:58 PM
1

Can you explain more. I make an effort to make eye contact. But I don't usually get a lot of eye contact..
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:01 PM
1

Good advice
/r/seduction26/06/15 09:59 PM
2

Lmao
/r/seduction26/06/15 09:46 PM
1

Good question. I am not sure why 100%
/r/seduction26/06/15 04:22 PM
5

Very good sign. It must your vibe.. People respond well to positive vibe.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:25 PM
1

Damn, that's awesome
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:55 AM
2

Good job man..
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:54 AM
1

Great FR. Thanks for posting
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:30 PM
1

Congrats..
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:29 PM
1

wow.awesome
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:17 AM
1

Wow - the ballsiest of all stories
/r/seduction27/08/14 01:42 AM
1

It is a matter of time.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:19 PM
3

Sounds like you had fun. She asked you to text her. So continue the game.
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:25 PM
2

Great report
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:23 PM
2

In my experience the girls that I have closed are the ones that I didn't wait till the end of the date to kiss. I always (if I have chemistry) go for the kiss in the middle of the date. The sooner you kiss the better. However the key is chemistry. You need to feel attracted. If you just want to kiss a girl for the male ego,then I don't recommend it.
/r/seduction01/08/14 01:25 PM
3

Details please. Tell us about your story, your system, etc. It is impressive. I am sure we all want to do the same.
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:54 PM
1

Wow. Great stuff
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:47 AM
1

aWESOME.
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:23 PM
2

I just created a simple spreadsheet on Microsoft Excel. It is simple rows and columns. Month -- Numbers -- Dates -- KC--FC
/r/seduction20/07/14 04:06 AM
1

Walk or drive to her place. Just ask her "Can I come in?". She will say yes or no. There is a 50% chance of going in. However this is a more gentleman way to do. The other way to do is reach her place, and tell " I need to use the washroom".
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:12 PM
1

You have already setup the plan (movie at your place). That's a sure sign. Its all set. Just do it now. Don't waste time talking and thinking.
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:07 PM
2

Great job. But why did you wait 1 week- she was obviously into you.
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:00 PM
1

Details.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:59 PM
1

Good stuff. One thing I learnt from personal experience is that Girls like it when the guy makes it smooth. Basically they want to resist, and they want the guy to plough through and make her comfortable. What really worked for you is that things started off at your place, she is already comfortable after that. Good strategy.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:58 PM
1

Good report.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:52 PM
0

I use a Game Tracker. I track my number closes, dates, and bangs. I also track the type of women. I have been tracking for 3 yrs. It is amazing how good my progress is. Some days I feel like shit, I feel like I am not progressing in my Game. On those days I open up my tracker and I immediately feel good. It keeps me motivated to keep going. Numerous friends and wings have dropped off and given up, I keep continuing my Journey because it gets better.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:47 PM
1

It depends on what you want. If you are looking for a hookup don't worry. If you are looking to date, then it is a different story. So I don't have the straight-answer. I personally am always honest with girls. Not because I am Jesus or Gandhi. I find it easier to be me, and it is easier to remember. I find chicks are also drawn the the real and honest you.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:42 PM
1

True dude. It is all about taking action. You never know where it may lead.
/r/seduction19/07/14 03:27 PM
2

Thanks
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:32 PM
2

I think it is the endorphins release after exercise. You feel much more relaxed and confident.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:32 PM
1

Good point.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:30 PM
1

PM me bro. I have been sarging in the GTA.
/r/seduction14/07/14 07:54 PM
2

well played. You should make a movie out of this..
/r/seduction10/07/14 02:59 AM
2

Ofcourse man. Go for it..
/r/seduction05/07/14 03:01 AM
1

The journey of a 1000 miles begins with a single step
/r/seduction02/07/14 07:35 PM
2

Awesome post man.
/r/seduction30/06/14 12:22 PM
4

Good one. Me and my wings do this on many occasions. We just talk to every girl, yes we get rejected a lot. But we once reach a level where we don't give a shit. And somewhere towards the end of the night (because we are in an awesome state) we get a number or KC.
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:36 PM
1

Good stuff.
/r/seduction28/06/14 10:01 PM
1

You are the fucking prize. Not them.
/r/seduction28/06/14 07:58 PM
2

Dude - chicks leave things behind at guy' place/ cars. This gives them an excuse to come back to your place. I would initiate contact with her ( don't bring up the bracelet right away), and then setup a date. Don't lead with the missing item. My hunch she wants to see you again. Go for it.
/r/seduction28/06/14 07:56 PM
2

I agree . why the hell would a girl invite you to her place at 2am. You blew it bro.sorry to be blunt.. And remember attraction has an expiry date. If she meets up with you again, go hard or you will never get another chance. In my experience, girls are not the forgiving type. They give you a window and if you don't climb that. It is hard to get another shot. And dude also don't get disheartened, things like this happen when you are starting out. I can't start counting the number of opportunitie…
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:59 PM
1

The Game and seduction is the same for any type of girl. Approach, be cool and take it from there. Online dating and tinder makes it easy to score BBWs. I have had my share of fat chicks ( now I am bored) - but they are amazing in bed.
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:54 PM
1

Check Justin Wayne PUA videos on YouTube. He is black and has got good game. One of mystery's wings name is Matador. He is brown. Race is irrelevant. Game is all that matters.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:21 PM
2

To be honest dude - your problem is you hate failing, I think you are one of those perfectionists. ( based on your note). Thats a big-big no-no if you want to be successful period (not just with women, in life). I am telling you this since you are 21. All successful people embrace failure. They use failure as a catalyst. They don't care. They want to win and so they will keep on failing. And yes take action. Embrace this attitude and you will not only have success with chicks but an awesome life…
/r/seduction27/06/14 05:00 PM
2

Just be open-minded man. Don't listen to the stigma that society sells you. Most of it is bull-shit. Like they say, don't get involved in the workplace ( I personally never get involved because it makes me uncomfortable) however studies have shown that 1 in 4 couples met at work.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:45 PM
1

Ya that's true. Most/all teachers of pick-up will tell you that it is necessary to get a girl to invest in you before doing any number close. This is true. Yes sometimes we get those quick numbers( because there is attraction) but since we have not spent time there is not enough comfort. And she won't reply to your text or may even come out. I don't consider myself an expert of pick-up, I am at an intermediate level. I have been doing this for 3 yrs now. So nowadays I only get the number when I …
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:43 PM
1

Then you have the answer. I am not sure why you posted this question when you know the answer already ..
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:40 PM
3

It is Part of THE GAME. You will get lots of numbers like this, at first pisses you off because you think she was seriously interested. As time goes on, and this happens a lot - you won't worry about this - it is part of the process. Nowadays, I don't ask for numbers, if the girl is not in a rush ,I make plans with them right away to meet later, and then as we leave exchange numbers. Always setup a date ( a solid firm date) and then get the number. I hate playing the text game . it is stupid. I …
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:36 AM
1

Don't ask. Say that once she is back -" we will hangout again". Good job. You bounced her from the restaurant, which is good. To be honest, play the volumes game. Go on many dates with many women, and your skills will improve.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:29 AM
2

Location doesnt matter for what type of girls you want to meet. Relationship type girls come to clubs too. Same goes for online - there is a stigma that online dating is only for casual hook-ups. Yet people get married from online. So the answer is - it does not matter where you meet. All types of girls exist in all types of places At clubs you might find relationship chicks. A buddy of mine met his current girlfriend at a bar and they have been together for 3 Years.
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:54 AM
2

Brilliant and smooth.
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:09 AM
2

Great one.
/r/seduction26/06/14 11:27 PM
1

Then approach man. You never know where things will take you,unless you approach. Always have an open-mind and be curious. Always talk to people especially if they show interest.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:23 PM
5

Excellent field report.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:07 PM
1

It depends where you are in your game. If you are a beginner fuck yeah. If you have tons of girls hovering around you - then you don't have time for a new one- then don't approach.
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:03 PM
10

Simple. Don't . as long as you work together. Workplace shit is crazy and I recommend staying away from. Keep it friendly for now. Workplace is not an ideal place for pickup. Don't shit where you eat. However,When you leave, then play your cards. I have done this before, when I am working at any place- I don't show any indication ( just eye contact and smile) - as soon as I leave I go for the date close. Recently I left a company, this one chick I was chatting very friendly ( I always made stron…
/r/seduction26/06/14 04:41 AM
1

Fitness ( weights, martial arts,etc.) Pickup is a great hobby of mine Reading, attending seminars. I consider travelling a great hobby too.
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:56 AM
1

First off - congrats. You are taking action. 95% of guys would never do Daygame. They would never approach without the help of alcohol. Since you are starting out,you should stop worrying about results and lays. Just focus on how many girls you can talk to..just focus on chatting with girls and getting comfortable. Your current mindset is similar to someone,who wants to start working out and get ripped the same day he stars. It is not humanly possible. The people who get with Game,do not become …
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:53 AM
1

She flaked, she did not show up. I am surprised myself. It felt like a solid close.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:20 PM
1

One of my wings once banged a chick in an air mattress ( one of those things that becomes a bed when you fill them with air). Park, car ,etc. If you have been seeing her for 2 weeks,,don't prolong it. Go for it man. Let us know how it went.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:19 PM
1

Ha ha I like this. :). Will try it when I get a chance, next.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:17 PM
1

Why are you prolonging this? Why think of a 3rd date? If she is very interested, just escalate and go for the close. I personally don't like setting up dates far out, it just makes things awkward. If she is texting you a lot, take this as an opportunity to insert my sexual talk, make the texts fun.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:16 PM
1

Just do it. She has shown interest. I have learnt the hard way that Attraction has an expiry date. Strike when the iron is hot. Don't think too much, just go for it.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:14 PM
2

Great report dude. Whenever I have a logistics issues, I now know that the back seat of my car is a great spot :)
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:26 PM
1

In my experience, it does not matter if you take a girl to dinner or drinks. I have got lays from dates from both strategies. It all depends on your frame. If you are cool about it , she will be cool. The only suggestion I have is (based on personal experience and from FRs on seddit), bounce her to few places. Have dinner in 1 place, then take her somewhere else for dessert, then for drinks to your place. The more places you can take her, the more comfortable she feels. The more comfortable she …
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:13 PM
1

It is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. You are no longer with your ex, so this should not be a problem. Go with the flow. If there is an opportunity go for the close.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:06 PM
3

Great FR.
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:49 AM
1

Don't bring it up. It was a mock trial, it is not like you punched her in the face. If she brings it up, say hey listen that was many years ago, let's forget the past and talk about the present. If you make it a big deal, she will make it a big deal.
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:10 PM
5

Good FR bro. Regarding what she was saying , I have a feeling she was negging you and shit-testing you. Yes there was LMR. Its just part of the process. Girls don't make out with guys they are not attracted to. Maybe she was saying she is not comfortable enough to sleep with you. Yes girls will say stuff to see how tough you are, as a guy you should shrug it off or joke about it. Don't let that get to you ever. Overall you did really good. You took the chick to your bed from a 1st date. Kudos.
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:52 PM
1

Dude, you pulled her to your house. Most of the time, if a girl is in your place she is DTF. That is a major accomplishment. Just some feedback. In the beginning don't worry a lot about stuff, don't get caught up in the PUA jargon - kino,etc. Just practice dating. The more girls you take on a date. The more comfortable you become and better you get at it. You should be happy about this man. Great job.
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:40 PM
2

Its very simple but not easy. Just approach. Approach. Approach. Eventually you reach a point where you realize that AA never goes away, but you will act inspite of that. Everyone has fear, the successful ones act in spite of fear. Just do it.. Keep doing it. I have been doing it for 3plus years, I still have AA. But many times I just act inspite of it.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:43 AM
21

Wow..one of the best FR I have heard. This is very motivating. It shows that anything is possible..don't be afraid to pull the trigger and escalate.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:37 AM
1

All I would say is be a student not a follower. I think each PUA can teach you something. Each having their own specialities. I watch as many of them on YouTube. I have learnt something from all of them.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:26 AM
1

Was there an mutually attraction? Did you feel attracted to her? Based on the story, it felt like initially it was just 2 friends hanging out.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:14 AM
1

Haha. That is amazing social proof. The more girls see that you are sexually active they want you more. Add more pictures you take with girls (of course with their permission)- it will build your value so much.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:08 AM
2

I don't consider that as a flake. She just asked to reschedule with you. You should have just played cool. Simply saying "OK cool" and left it at that.
/r/seduction23/06/14 08:17 PM
7

Congrats dude. Act in inspite of fear. Awesome. The outcome is less important than the fact that you took action. You put yourself in the 5% , the 5% of men who go after what they want. Good job. Keep approaching. Your life will change for the better.
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:47 PM
4

Ask her to add you on Facebook or Instagram. This helps build a lot of comfort. One of the days leading up to the date, you can joke about something that you saw on her profile. I only had 1 girl say no to adding me on Facebook so far. But once I met her for a date, later we added each other. During this time, talk about the other stuff but not about your upcoming date. Just confirm with her on the day of the date. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:39 PM
1

Don't worry about your Daygame and whether it sucks or not .. I learnt this from a buddy of mine. He told me whenever he goes to a club , he does not care how many times he gets rejected. All he cares about is getting 1 solid number of a girl he can date and then close. The problem with me and most guys, are that we are perfectionists. We want every girl's number, and we want no rejection. So it does not matter, how good your Daygame is. All that matters is that you approach. The more you approa…
/r/seduction23/06/14 02:30 PM
1

30
/r/seduction23/06/14 02:28 PM
2

To be honest, I have no idea. Maybe it was my non-neediness that turned her on. I was willing to walk away after Facebook close, and I was not going to follow-up ( I think she sensed that).
/r/seduction23/06/14 02:27 PM
1

Awesome. Sometimes it is just that easy, just chat with them and things with flow.
/r/seduction23/06/14 01:53 AM
1

This makes total sense
/r/seduction23/06/14 12:06 AM
2

Thanks for the tips guys. Now I am more aware. Next time , I won't let another opportunity slip by.
/r/seduction22/06/14 08:52 PM
14

Ok..time for some tough love. What the fuck is wrong with you and your friend? You get a girl who is DTF , she is interested, gives you her number,shares a cab with you. What else do you need to know from the universe? I suggest text/call that friend, meet up with her alone. If you like her, tell how you feel. And take it from there. We guys have conditioned ourselves thinking that Game is all about hunting. And when a girl shows interest directly, we think there is something wrong. Go for it br…
/r/seduction22/06/14 06:19 PM
3

Escalate escalate escalate. You are in another town. So don't give a fuck. Go hardcore. Beast mode.
/r/seduction21/06/14 03:02 AM
1

Time for some tough love. You had a chance to take a girl home and fuck her. She made out with you 3 times, and you went to hang out with others. Why? 1 thing I have learnt from pickup - attraction has an expiry date/time. A girl's attraction towards a man is due to lots of reasons,most of the time it has nothing to do with you. She was feeling horny that night, she gave you an opportunity and you blew it. I am not being mean dude , it has happened to me many times. I missed so many opportunitie…
/r/seduction21/06/14 02:53 AM
1

Fuck them. The question you need to ask yourself. Which path do I choose? Do I choose the normal path like everyone else - a life of mediocre existence. Or a path of evolving and growing as the man you were meant to be? The path of constant improvement. A path that gives you options with women, career and your goals? You make the choice.
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:43 PM
1

You have a car? I know some of my buddies were in the same boat(living with parents), they took the girl to a hotel room. Not all girls will agree, but if you get them horny you will be surprised how many will oblige. Car is always a great option. Or back of a dark alley - lol I was just kidding. Don't do that.
/r/seduction17/06/14 10:55 PM
3

There are lots of things you can do to be aggressive ( some of them might sound obvious, but it is difficult if you haven't done then before). When meeting her for the date. Go for a strong hug, like you have known her for Years. If your date is at the bar, take her and guide her to the seat. Don't sit opposite to her. It is not a job interview. Always sit next to her. Kino right off the bat, escalate. Go for the kiss in the middle of the date ( don't wait till the end). Even if she rejects, she…
/r/seduction17/06/14 07:21 PM
2

My frame is different. I always want sex first, and want it to happen ASAP. First comes sex , then relationship or casual. This frame has helped me get laid many times recently. And don't be afraid to go for the sex (latest 2nd date) even with the girls who bluntly say they want a relationship. It is better to be aggressive and strike out,than to be nonaggressive and not get anything. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction17/06/14 07:02 PM
1

I don't believe Facebook is an attraction tool but rather a tool to build comfort. It is hard to tell if she is attracted to you. Remember she is also a business woman, maybe she is being nice (hired gun) and being nice to you. Sorry for being cynical :). Or she is really attracted to you, which is awesome. Give her your Facebook,chat for a bit more and ask her out again. You definitely did a good thing by stating your intent. Some girls need a lot more comfort than others. Also try inviting her…
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:58 PM
0

The Game by Neil Strauss. Mode one by Alan Roger Currie The way of the superior man by David Deida
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:50 PM
1

That is true. I am putting them on a pedestal. With the average girls, I don't give a shit - sometimes I go for the kiss within 10 minutes of the date , and I always make it clear I want sex. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction17/06/14 05:16 PM
1

Good point. I an going out with her on another date tomorrow. I am going to escalate and make things clear to her. You guys are right, currently it might seem like the interactions are friendly. Now time to step it up. Go for it. Worst case scenario she might say no. Atleast I will have closure.
/r/seduction17/06/14 05:14 PM
1

Good job dude. Always make it a point to talk to the hottest and most beautiful girl you. "If you approach and talk to 1 beautiful girl a day, it will guaranteed change your life" -Sashadaygame. It does not matter what the outcome, there is something that affects us men in a positive way, when we talk to a beautiful girl. Keep it up.
/r/seduction17/06/14 04:19 AM
1

There are so many PUA forums including this one. rsdnation.com, the attractionforums,etc. Therein you can post and maybe even search for wings. I also recommend attending any PUA free events or boot camps, you will find a lot of motivated wings there. It's funny sometimes, you can even meet wings in clubs, bars. It is hard not to see them. These are the guys who are actually doing lots of approaches. Just talk to these guys - many are willing to share their experiences.
/r/seduction15/06/14 01:49 AM
1

Instant date. Go to a coffee shop right away and take a walk with her.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:49 AM
8

Not every guy makes a good wingman. You need to find some guys who are good wings. Good wings push each other and help each other. I have amazing friends, whom I would hangout for dinner and stuff, but never for GAME I have an exclusive group of buddies whom I go out strictly to GAME. Find new WiNGs.
/r/seduction14/06/14 07:52 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:56 PM
2

Lol In most of India, it is not her choice to make. This is not US or UK. As much as women are smart and want to be independent there is a lot of societal pressure.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:02 PM
2

Don't waste time with Indian chicks. There are lots of challenges with logistics and other things. Go after the expats and travellers. I don't know if Tinder works in India. It is a good option.
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:01 PM
5

I recommend you read the book "No more Mr.Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. It will give you some insights into the nice guy paradigm. What you are referring to (the guys in this situation), are so called Naturals. They have a cool fun energy about them which attracts girls. But technically they are not nice guys.
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:55 PM
1

LIMITLESS (even though the premise is bullshit it is amazing to watch Bradley Cooper's transformation). BREAKING BAD.(Walter White's transformation in this show is phenomenal) THE GREY (Liam Neeson - there is so much about alpha dynamics here) 300,Boiler Room, and so on. There are many PUA blogs that talk about movies about man transformation.
/r/seduction11/06/14 12:32 PM
1

Honestly commit yourself to the process. No matter what anyone says. This is going to take time. And few years. Instead of focusing on Alpha, focus on becoming the best possible man you can be. The problem with Alpha-Beta dynamic is that it is comparative. You are comparing your value to other men. Instead just focus on becoming the best possible version of you. Improve everything. Looks,exercise, grooming, work, Game, overcome your fears,etc. Keep pushing, and one day you will reach a level whe…
/r/seduction09/06/14 03:08 AM
1

Take her to your house dude. WTF. If you want to kiss her, do it at your place. Or have sex. Looks like she is into you. There is no written rule that sex only has to happen in the night. Good luck :)
/r/seduction06/06/14 04:00 AM
3

I like the way you handled it. Nothing to be ashamed off. I also love how you ended "Nice to have met you",..lol
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:32 AM
1

I wouldn't worry about this. This is a good sign. This is my interpretation., If I am talking to a girl , and I get a boner - I know I am attracted to her. And it is natural. And this is called chemistry. Whenever I talk to a girl, and I get a boner - my Game is so free-flowing. Eye contact and Game is amazing. So don't be embarrassed. You are just attracted to her. Wouldn't you want that?
/r/seduction30/05/14 12:07 PM
1

Awesome story.
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:46 PM
1

Good job..
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:08 PM
25

Good story dude Thanks for sharing. You are totally right- Don't ask for permission - just take action.
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:07 PM
1

That was good man.Well done.. I have recently started using Tinder, and have not had lots of success with it. How do you initiate a conversation at Tinder?
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:30 AM
1

Girls like attention. They grind with guys because of all the attention they get. A Makeout is a commitment of interest, and girls do not want to give it out right away. Also with their friends around, most girls do not want to make out with strangers. Maybe I am wrong but IMHO that's my theory
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:28 AM
9

Dude. Be proud of yourself. That takes balls and courage. The approach habit is what counts. The more your approach the better your chances. Good for you dude for taking action. Keep it up
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:25 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter