I am good with day game and night game when it comes to approaching. However, when I am in a familiar setting, and I know people there - let's say work or around my non-pua friends I don't do any approaches. I don't know why.

Today was another day.

I was sitting outside a spot I usually go to,just browsing Facebook on my phone. I was waiting for 10 minutes before going for lunch.

I noticed this cutie across from me on another bench. We made eye contact,but it was not an inviting eye contact. She looked pissed or bored.

I thought to myself "Fuck this, I am not approaching here. People know me, what if they see me, she looks young. She does not look happy".

I was about to walk away, when something in me said " It is better to know what happens than to guess what will happen, just go talk to her asshole",

So I stand up and walk to her. I say "hi, how are you?" and sit next to her. She looked scared and moved her body a bit backwards. "You look pissed or bored, what's up?" "Nothing, I am waiting for my friend"

I then say "listen here is the truth, you are cute and I wanted to say hi". She smiled and said " thanks" I asked "How long have you been waiting?". She " almost an hour" I "no wonder you are pissed"

At this point she started laughing and became relaxed.

Then we chatted about what she does. She works and studies. We had a normal chat (nothing sexual) or attractive.

All this time, I had a good relaxed body language, eye contact and smile.

I said " let's add each other on Facebook " she said OK. I took my phone out and gave it to her, she herself sent a friend request. Then she went to my profile and started browsing.

I joked" you are so eager to know about me". She laughed and said that she was just curious and it is a habit. Whenever she sees a new friend on Facebook she just starts browsing, and apologized.

I said " I have to go" and extended my hand. She grabbed my hand and asked how old I was?

Before I could answer, she got a call from her mom. She told me to wait and not go. So I waited for a minute. As soon as the call ended, we resumed talking.

It felt like a switch was turned on for both of us. At first both of us were casually interested, now both of seemed to have triggered an attraction for each other.

Found out that she is 23, works in a bank and also studies accounting. She asks for my number, picks up her phone and dials me making sure I get her number.

I said,"let's meet tonight at 6 at ABC . the ice cream is phenomenal ". She agrees.

Then she gets another call from the friend she was waiting for. She talks to her friend, and her other hand is on my knees and she is gradually stroking it. It was kind of sexual for me. If it was night time, I would have escalated and Made out, but I felt awkward doing it in public.

As the call ended, we confirmed time and location. This time we gave each other a strong hug and I kissed her on the cheek.

I sent her a text saying it was nice to meet her and we will meet later. She confirmed immediately.

Moral of the story 1. Approach approach approach. Don't worry about the outcome. She might not want to talk to you, might have a boyfriend. Accept that rejection could be possible. So what? It is not the end of the world. 2. Go with the flow. Don't push for attraction and don't try too hard. Be willing to walk away. The less you try, the more they seem drawn to you. 3. Setup a date right there. I hate texting and so should you . if the iron is hot, strike. If you can go on an instant date do it , else setup something right away and confirm.

Your thoughts?