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How do you walk the line between being quiet and mysterious opposed to being quiet and secluded?
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:01 AM
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In my head, I'm this smart, funny, cool as fuck guy, the kind of guy that people want to be around. While that may be true, it doesn't happen when I, "James" does shit like this: James’ life was in a rut, the first thing he would do when he woke up in the morning is turn on his computer and browse Reddit and Facebook while playing World of Warcraft. Sometimes he would chat to some of his friends on the internet, but not lately. He used to be doing something with his life. He would go out and mee…
/r/seduction20/08/14 08:46 AM
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Gonna need a FR on that date captain. Great work!
/r/seduction23/06/14 12:56 AM
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This is really amazing, great find. It's what I've been leading towards for the past couple of months now. Every one is on their phones, have headphones in, completely cut off from the outside world. You seem weird if you actually talk to people in the street, whether it's for directions or just to chat. Think back 15 or so years ago, I don't remember it that well because I was 7, but still, it was normal to talk to people, now you're the outcast if you try to communicate with the public. "put y…
/r/seduction03/05/14 11:43 PM
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You're right, I don't know if there was any interest, but I assume there always is. I worked in retail as well and while we do smile at everyone, you can definitely tell the difference between a "retail smile" and genuine interest.
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:27 PM
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Stutterer for roughly 9 years now here. The answer is no, not at all. And if it does, it's only if you let it. If you're accepting of your stutter, and you really don't give a fuck if people care that you stutter, then it's fine. What I do if it's especially bad is just play it off. "Hey l-l-let's go d-d-d-dddd-d... fuck, that's a toughie, let's try this again. Hey let's go dance." This is what I do, and every single one of my friends doesn't care if I stutter, nor has any girl that I've gamed. …
/r/seduction21/03/14 01:22 PM
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Ask yourself "Do I find X fun?" If so, fucking do it. Do things that you find fun and that YOU want to do, purely for self enjoyment, not because you think it will impress people/get you laid.
/r/seduction21/03/14 12:58 AM
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So just assume that her "rejections" are bullshit and have fun with playful answers that ultimately mean we become isolated? All of the examples that you gave were great, but what if her dad WAS actually there to pick her up? do you just assume it's bullshit until she walk away? I especially like the secret adventure thing, it makes you look super fun. If I've learnt anything from this, it's that I need to not hand out K-closes so quickly, it's almost like they lose attraction for that day2 outc…
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:20 AM
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I've never actually thought about it like that before. To me, it was just like "this is going well, the next logical step is to make out" "Oh she's keen for the make out, but logistics don't work, I'll grab her number and set something up for later" Then nothing comes of that. Maybe what I should be doing is do it the other way around? "This is going well, but logistics don't work for tonight, let's set up something for later, I should get her number." Maybe I should start treating these interac…
/r/seduction08/03/14 11:44 PM
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This is solid advice and stuff that I have been following for quite a while now, but I feel that you missed the point of my post. I couldn't give 2 shits if she responds or not. This was just the most recent example of a problem that's happened everytime for the past 6 months or so. They NEVER get back to me, even though they obviously (to me) enjoy being around me during that first interaction. This leads me to believe its something about my game that causes this, which means that it's within m…
/r/seduction08/03/14 10:55 PM
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I try this too, but after 2 times or so and her being boring in responses I cut it. I talk to you for fun, this isn't a fun conversation, I tried to make it fun but you aren't having any of it. I'm going to try and find something else fun.
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:59 PM
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I posted this in another thread, but I thought it applied here too: Powerlifting is similar to this. While it's fucking hard deadlifting double bodyweight (for me anyway) It's all about the mental game before hand, you know you can do it, you've already done it 15-20 times today, you just have to man the fuck up and pick up the damn bar. Yeah, you're nervous, but one of the best feelings in the world to me was when I got my recent Deadlift PR. I felt fucking invincible. Approaching can be the sa…
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:36 PM
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Powerlifting is similar to this, because it's such low volume though, it doesn't facilitate a muscular response to much as a nervous system response. And while it's fucking hard deadlifting double bodyweight (for me anyway) It's all about the mental game before hand, you know you can do it, you've already done it 15-20 times today, you just have to man the fuck up and pick up the damn bar. Yeah, you're nervous, but one of the best feelings in the world to me was when I got my recent Deadlift PR.…
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:34 PM
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To play devils advocate, this has happened to me a couple of times, but it's gone more like this: You: "Sup?" Her: "Not much. Just watching TV." You: "It's Jersey Shore, isn't it?" Her: "Haha" What the fuck do you do then? I've just been leaving the conversation there, more or less, because there is nothing more to add naturally to that. Is there a different way that I can handle this?
/r/seduction08/03/14 01:00 PM
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If the people you're talking about that mock you are considered "friends", you may need new friends mate. Anyone who gives a "friend" shit for things that they do, without being obviously lighthearted joking about it, doesn't deserve to be friends with you. I see a couple of options here, 1) take it in your stride like you do when solo and fuck what they think of you. 2) Call them out on their bullshit. "Hey look man, I know you're trying to be cool and impress people by belittling me, but if yo…
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:29 PM
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This is really good man, I really like it. I'm assuming you recorded this on your phone? If so, what app did you use? Because I'm assuming she used your phone to put her number in, would she not see it's being recorded?
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:34 AM
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Lats attach on the anterior (font) side of the shoulder joint. This means that tight lats (pullups prime mover) can result in the medial rotation (internal rotation) of your arms. This also causes mild kyphosis (thoracic flexion: hunching of the upper back). This is the opposite of what you want in posture. A much better exercise would be supinated deadlifts. The sae as you usually would, but have both your palm facing AWAY from you. external rotation of the arms is associated with THORACIC EXTE…
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:28 AM
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Hehehe I wouldn't use this to open personally. It was an observation based on a previous discussion. But hey, worse case, she blows you off. Who cares!
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:14 AM
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Got any examples of those? I always love a good curve ball line.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:13 AM
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Fuck yeah dude! Good work. Rather than asking "can I kiss you" (I hate the word beta, but I'm going to use it) it sounds beta. What I've done the last couple of times those moments have come up is this. Look into her eyes etc then say "hey can I ask you a question?". No doubt she'll say yes. Wait about 1 second, then just go in for the kiss. I find this shows more confidence than actually asking for a kiss. If she turns away you can always smoothly transition to leaning close to her ear and whis…
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:11 AM
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Oh lord... Yeah there definitely is a line you have to walk. Knowing your audience help too. But hey, now you can calibrate for next time.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:06 AM
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This is exactly right. One of the most important things I've learnt recently is, stick to you guns! Say what you wanted to say and don't back down. Sure, she might think you're weird and it may not work but she'll admire your courage. OR, it could work and she'll admire more than just your courage ;)
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:05 AM
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I highly doubt a bouncer would harass you for trying to make out with a girl in a club. But you are right about the walking away part, it is a small possibility. But really, does it matter? You had a laugh and thought it was funny, if she didn't is that the type of person you want to be around anyway? You're calling the shots in this world man.
/r/seduction18/02/14 08:41 PM
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I actually did this the night before with a girl. She was talking about how she want to work in medicine as a doctor. "Yeah I really love how the body is connected. I think that if-" rest my palm on her cheek and pull her in We start making out and she more or less rams my head into mouth. Not sure if aggressive kissing is the right word, but that's what I'm going with.
/r/seduction18/02/14 08:35 PM
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Holy shit! This is gold. The middle name bit is amazing mate. Definitely going to use that in the future. The rapist thing is great too. You definitely need to be 100% confident to pull it off though, otherwise you'll probably actually look like a rapist. This is where that shit eating grin comes into play.
/r/seduction18/02/14 08:20 PM
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This is actually really interesting. I'm in the outlying data though, (index longer than ring). I did however just get back from a holiday where I did something similar. I was dancing with a girl, we ended up sitting down and chatting and stuff. We got onto the subject of education and occupations. I explained that I'm a Personal Trainer and she said she's doing medicine and wants to be a surgeon. While I was explaining PT, which obviously involves lifting weights, which gives you calluses. I re…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:11 AM
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Conversely, in situations which slightly bothered me, like when I'm being disrespected in a social situation where I should speak up for myself, I would fall victim to not giving a fuck. My indifference made me look like a pushover, and even worse, a "nice guy." It's generally agreed that this will not help you with women or in social situations in general. Wouldn't happen to have any examples of this would you? I feel this happens to me sometimes as well (not being put down by friends, but if o…
/r/seduction15/01/14 10:47 AM
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This reminds me a quote from a pro strongman and really, a mentor of mine, Elliot Hulse: "Successful people do what the have to do whether they feel like it or not" While this may not directly apply for getting laid, it certainly has help me in the past year with my academic, physical and social lives.
/r/seduction04/01/14 10:43 AM
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I came here from the other thread you made. Can I ask what you did/said to the ganster BF? It always interests me to see how to shut down idiots. Like I was clubbing the other night and this speed head was chatting to someone, spun in (literally), grabbed her, spun out and sat down with her. The dude didn't know what to do!
/r/seduction25/09/13 10:06 AM
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But....but the pump....
/r/seduction24/09/13 04:25 AM
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This isn't strictly a seduction thing and I am by no means a PAU. I am however changing myself for the better. In the process of this, I came across a guy, that I have since grown to respect, made a video "Fail First" "Oh, you say you wan't to succeed? Well I say go and fucking fail. Fail hard. Fail fast, scrape your knees and bruise your tender ass" "keep failing my fiend, right to the end. Till the success, it seems you just fell in. the people who left you and you wonder where they been, say …
/r/seduction17/09/13 12:47 PM
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I read somewhere (might have been a thread here) that you should imagine that you are wearing a cape. Because; 1) you're wearing a fucking cape! Show that shit off. 2) you don't want to go down in history as the superhero that slouched with a cape. Another tip is like curveball said is lift. specifically deadlifts, However doing a program like 5x5 or starting strength will also help. Done correctly, deadlifts work just about everything except your pecs, so that's your quads, hamstring, glutes, l…
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:34 AM
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On the flip side, how would you get them when YOU are at work? E.g. checkout / general supermarket stuff
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:24 AM
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I'm a bit late here, but relevant video from a Great person
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:00 AM
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